Latest / Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter / Jennifer Garner says she avoids coverage of herself and ex Ben Affleck. Brooke Shields had the final say on including her sexual assault in her documentary. Her late Majesty called Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s behavior “quite mad.”
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- 0:08Speaker 1: Scable advice spice. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome to the
- 0:15Speaker 1: naught even I'm a hostrup shooter and it's Tuesday, which
- 0:19Speaker 1: means a dear friend. Mister Delane Dixon joins us. Hey,
- 0:23Speaker 1: mistery are you there? I am? How are you today?
- 0:25Speaker 1: The new work it's so chey. Yes, you know, I
- 0:29Speaker 1: love being a blonde. I feel it suits my face
- 0:32Speaker 1: and the tone is right for my skin and so yeah,
- 0:36Speaker 1: and I'm doing the bob now I'm feeling very bobby. Oh.
- 0:39Speaker 1: I like it. Do you change the color with the seasons,
- 0:43Speaker 1: like the warm mariote gets the blonder you seem to get. Yeah,
- 0:46Speaker 1: I do go just the tadbit blinder. I'm not Platinum Bond.
- 0:50Speaker 1: I have done it in the past and it's fabulous,
- 0:52Speaker 1: But I don't think people could handle it on a
- 0:54Speaker 1: day today. Basis they'd be like, girl and I have
- 0:58Speaker 1: a I have a red number. She ready, she just
- 1:00Speaker 1: waited for her. She might go out tonight. She really,
- 1:03Speaker 1: we haven't been out in so long. We have to know.
- 1:06Speaker 1: I'm going to DC on Wednesday, so I know I've
- 1:09Speaker 1: been invited down by Georgetown University. I know to talk
- 1:12Speaker 1: about your book. Yeah, to talk about the book and
- 1:14Speaker 1: PR and well, to be honest, I think I want
- 1:16Speaker 1: to talk about my book and they want me to
- 1:18Speaker 1: talk about PR. The figure out a way to sort
- 1:21Speaker 1: of merge them all together. But maybe we're going to
- 1:23Speaker 1: drink on Friday, Miss Steel, let's jump into the show.
- 1:26Speaker 1: What time is it, my friends, It's time. I love
- 1:30Speaker 1: this story. At the top of the show, said Jennifer Gardner,
- 1:32Speaker 1: who I just adore. She's just the really, really good person.
- 1:36Speaker 1: She is saying that she avoids any press coverage of
- 1:39Speaker 1: herself and her x Ben Affleck. She said, quote, I
- 1:43Speaker 1: really work hard to not see either of us in
- 1:47Speaker 1: the press. She's fifty years old, and she steers clear
- 1:50Speaker 1: of any and all coverage of herself and the man
- 1:53Speaker 1: that she shares her three children with. She said the
- 1:56Speaker 1: following quote, I really work hard not to see either
- 1:59Speaker 1: of us in the press. It doesn't make me feel good,
- 2:03Speaker 1: even if they're writing something nice about one of us. Recently,
- 2:07Speaker 1: Ben shrugged off or the means of him. He sort
- 2:11Speaker 1: of has a resting grumpy phase, and he said that
- 2:14Speaker 1: I am who I am. I like that I am
- 2:16Speaker 1: who I am. However, his ex, Jennifer Gardner would prefer
- 2:21Speaker 1: to just block them out altogether. She said, quote, I
- 2:24Speaker 1: just try to forget that I'm out there in any way.
- 2:28Speaker 1: She tries to forget that she's a celebrity, and she
- 2:31Speaker 1: said that that actually makes a much much happier. She
- 2:34Speaker 1: said the following quote, I don't need to see anyone
- 2:36Speaker 1: in my family made into a meme. It's so interesting, Mystery.
- 2:41Speaker 1: You've become much more comfortable seeing yourself on television listening
- 2:45Speaker 1: to yourself, but for a long time you avoided seeing
- 2:49Speaker 1: yourself on TV. It was a conscious decision. Yeah, I'm
- 2:52Speaker 1: not one to really watch my stuff after I've done it,
- 2:55Speaker 1: I'll peak with one eye. But look, when you go
- 2:58Speaker 1: through a breakup, basically kind of delete their social media,
- 3:02Speaker 1: You erase all their photos, and you kind of just
- 3:05Speaker 1: go on with your life. So can you imagine that's
- 3:07Speaker 1: what normal people do. We close the chapter and she
- 3:09Speaker 1: has to go and look at a magazine or social
- 3:12Speaker 1: media or on TV and see these pictures a of
- 3:15Speaker 1: her ex and then be anything from their past together.
- 3:18Speaker 1: I totally understand where she's coming from. She's like, it's
- 3:21Speaker 1: the past. Yeah, it's it's interesting, she said, Mystery. She
- 3:25Speaker 1: can't even read nice stuff about herself when she does
- 3:28Speaker 1: an interview for Vogue or one of the fancy magazines.
- 3:30Speaker 1: I don't think she actually looks at it, and I
- 3:33Speaker 1: do think that is healthy. But also too, I think
- 3:38Speaker 1: that when you're as famous as she is, and because
- 3:40Speaker 1: of everything with j Loo and her husband, her ex husband,
- 3:43Speaker 1: it's really tricky, she's never going to get away from it.
- 3:46Speaker 1: So part of me wishes, Hey, Jenny, if you're listening
- 3:48Speaker 1: a Lava lavallo, I wish she made peace with it,
- 3:50Speaker 1: because you can't run away from being this famous. Oh no,
- 3:54Speaker 1: you can't run away from it, but you can certainly
- 3:56Speaker 1: choose not to look at things if you don't want to.
- 3:59Speaker 1: I'm sure if there's a fantastic, fabulous photo of herself
- 4:02Speaker 1: out there, she takes a look, and girls, girl, I
- 4:04Speaker 1: look good, and any of those commercials as she's doing
- 4:06Speaker 1: when she gets some paychecks, she probably doesn't mind taking
- 4:09Speaker 1: a look. But I do understand not wanting to have
- 4:12Speaker 1: to relive in rehash your pass over and over again.
- 4:16Speaker 1: We're supposed to move forward, and that's what she wants
- 4:19Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, I get it. I don't like to
- 4:22Speaker 1: dwell on the pass, but I'm aware of it. But
- 4:25Speaker 1: I also find too that when I do television, when
- 4:28Speaker 1: I go on TV or do radio interviews of stuff,
- 4:30Speaker 1: listening to them not right away, but listening to them
- 4:33Speaker 1: within a week really makes me better the next time
- 4:35Speaker 1: I do one. So I listen to mine almost like
- 4:38Speaker 1: a homework, almost like I can be a critique of myself.
- 4:41Speaker 1: I can't ever really be impartial, because it's me, But
- 4:44Speaker 1: if I wait a week, I can be a little
- 4:46Speaker 1: bit more detached from it. This morning, guys on Good
- 4:48Speaker 1: Day New York, that friend Rasanna, she sends her love Ala,
- 4:53Speaker 1: and I taped it. I didn't watch it yet, and
- 4:55Speaker 1: it's on my DVR, and in about a week I
- 4:57Speaker 1: will watch it and be like, oh, I could have
- 4:59Speaker 1: said that better, or that color didn't really work. I
- 5:01Speaker 1: was wearing a bright orange red sweater. It did work.
- 5:04Speaker 1: I looked verbulous. But I will make some notes about myself.
- 5:07Speaker 1: I can be my own harshest critic, but I can
- 5:10Speaker 1: also too, And I think this is the key here.
- 5:12Speaker 1: I can be my own best cheer leader. I cheer
- 5:15Speaker 1: for myself absolutely, And you know what I do. I
- 5:18Speaker 1: wait until somebody says, hey, I saw you on television.
- 5:21Speaker 1: You did fantastic, And then I go watch and with
- 5:23Speaker 1: the idea of going in that somebody else thought I
- 5:26Speaker 1: was fantastic, And any judges that I make on myself
- 5:29Speaker 1: is like you said, to tweak. But if other people
- 5:31Speaker 1: thought I did a great job, I'm happy with that.
- 5:33Speaker 1: And I'm sure Jennifer Garner she can really do no wrong.
- 5:36Speaker 1: She does a movie, people love her, so she doesn't
- 5:39Speaker 1: need to go watch and study herself. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 5:42Speaker 1: now I hear you, mistery, which brings us to our
- 5:44Speaker 1: pole question of the day. Jennifer Garner says that she
- 5:47Speaker 1: avoids coverage of herself, and he Rex ben Affleck, this
- 5:50Speaker 1: is our question. It's a really important, one, really interesting
- 5:53Speaker 1: question today. Do you avoid seeing pictures of yourself? So
- 5:56Speaker 1: obviously we're not, Jennifer Garner, we're not making movies, were
- 5:59Speaker 1: not uncovers a scenes. But when people take pictures of you,
- 6:02Speaker 1: When a friend takes a selfie of you and them
- 6:05Speaker 1: and a group of acquaintances you're out for a drink,
- 6:08Speaker 1: does that picture creep you out? When you look at
- 6:10Speaker 1: pictures of yourself and other people's maybe social media, do
- 6:14Speaker 1: you cringe? Do you know what you look like? Sometimes?
- 6:16Speaker 1: I think when people brush their teeth. They don't look
- 6:19Speaker 1: in the mirror, They look through it. They don't really
- 6:21Speaker 1: look at them themselves. I've made it a happy misty
- 6:24Speaker 1: to really look at myself every day, and I've come
- 6:26Speaker 1: to peace. It didn't change the way I looked, but
- 6:29Speaker 1: it changed the way I thought of myself because I'm
- 6:31Speaker 1: not so cruel anymore. But I've I got to know
- 6:34Speaker 1: my face. That's a good thing. Sometimes they don't look
- 6:37Speaker 1: in the mirror When I'm brushing my teeth. I'm like
- 6:39Speaker 1: waiting time fully awake, and then I'll tickle. Do you
- 6:42Speaker 1: put that fabulous week on? Hey? Go at Twitter page
- 6:46Speaker 1: at naughty nice rab at Facebook page is naughty gassip.
- 6:49Speaker 1: I'm sure to check back tomorrow to hear at your results. Hey, mistery,
- 6:52Speaker 1: where are you working on? Well? You know Lana Wilson,
- 6:55Speaker 1: she's an American filmmaker. She maye Taylor Swift Americana back
- 6:59Speaker 1: in twenty twenty, and she had said she really wasn't
- 7:01Speaker 1: sure if she wanted to do another celebrity documentary. It's
- 7:05Speaker 1: a lot of work. But that's until she had a
- 7:08Speaker 1: conversation one day with Brooke Shields. She actually directed Pretty Baby,
- 7:12Speaker 1: which is on Hulu right now, And she said this
- 7:15Speaker 1: conversation changed her mind because I think girls are still
- 7:19Speaker 1: in this situation where they're taught growing up that the
- 7:22Speaker 1: way you look is the most important thing and your
- 7:27Speaker 1: power comes from your look. Oh. Now, Brook's life was
- 7:31Speaker 1: like holding up a mirror to American society in terms
- 7:35Speaker 1: of what we thought about women and girls and a
- 7:38Speaker 1: different point in time. Now there's some one really sad
- 7:43Speaker 1: and shocking fact that came out of this documentary. Brooke
- 7:46Speaker 1: revealed that she was sexually assaulted in her twenties while
- 7:50Speaker 1: she was trying to revive her career after graduating from
- 7:54Speaker 1: Princeton University. This is a smart, smart woman. So what
- 7:58Speaker 1: Lana had to say was that she had creative control
- 8:02Speaker 1: over the project except that section. She wanted to make
- 8:06Speaker 1: sure that if we use it Brook, if we talk
- 8:08Speaker 1: about your sexual assault, that you are totally comfortable when
- 8:13Speaker 1: it goes out into the world there and you're comfortable
- 8:15Speaker 1: with what's being said. So it was a hard decision,
- 8:19Speaker 1: but this is something that Brooke felt needed to be
- 8:22Speaker 1: out there. What do you think, rom I think that's
- 8:24Speaker 1: really really beautiful of Lana to do that. She won't
- 8:28Speaker 1: sign on to do a documentary. Unless she's in charge.
- 8:30Speaker 1: You can't tell her what to do. If you're going
- 8:32Speaker 1: to try and hire her just to do a love
- 8:34Speaker 1: letter on yourself, she's not interested. She has to have
- 8:38Speaker 1: autonomy to tell the real story. And I think that's
- 8:41Speaker 1: what makes the difference between a really really good documentary
- 8:44Speaker 1: mystery and one that isn't so good. The ones that
- 8:47Speaker 1: have the celebrity as the executive producer, they tend to
- 8:50Speaker 1: cover up all the bad stuff, and I think we
- 8:53Speaker 1: want to see these stars as total human beings, not
- 8:56Speaker 1: just the good I recently saw one on Clive Davis
- 8:59Speaker 1: that he was involved in producing, and it just did
- 9:02Speaker 1: all the highlights of his life, and it was a
- 9:04Speaker 1: bit boring, just all the good stuff, which I think
- 9:06Speaker 1: we'll knew every time Whitney Houston got another number one.
- 9:09Speaker 1: I didn't need to know that. I already knew it.
- 9:11Speaker 1: I wanted all the other stuff in his life that
- 9:14Speaker 1: was much more interesting. And I think Brooke was really
- 9:16Speaker 1: brave here telling everything, and Lana what a class act
- 9:20Speaker 1: to say. You know what, when it comes to this
- 9:23Speaker 1: one topic, When it comes to this very sensitive topic,
- 9:27Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything more more sensitive than sexual assault.
- 9:32Speaker 1: I'm going to let you decide that part. Brook. Thank
- 9:35Speaker 1: you for telling me, thank you for sharing. But whether
- 9:38Speaker 1: or not it makes it into the final documentary, I
- 9:41Speaker 1: want that to be Brook's decision. She said she showed
- 9:44Speaker 1: Brooke a rough draft and it really made sense to
- 9:47Speaker 1: have this in there because it really told not really
- 9:51Speaker 1: just brookes story are, but really the history of America
- 9:54Speaker 1: and the way that we treat young women. It's an amazing,
- 9:58Speaker 1: amazing documentary. Check it out. Hey, there's a new book
- 10:03Speaker 1: out that has a bombshell about her. Late majesty who
- 10:07Speaker 1: called Prince Harry and Megan marcle quite mad so a
- 10:13Speaker 1: royal correspondent. His name is Robert Jobson. He's really good.
- 10:17Speaker 1: His books called The King, and he claims that the
- 10:19Speaker 1: Queen was mystified by Harry and Meghan's behavior. So the
- 10:24Speaker 1: Queen was literally born to serve. Service was her number
- 10:29Speaker 1: one priority. She put the monarchy, the crown, and often
- 10:32Speaker 1: ahead of her own personal fulfillment. She was somebody that
- 10:36Speaker 1: took duty terribly seriously, and she just couldn't understand what
- 10:41Speaker 1: Harry and Meghan were doing. A different era, different set
- 10:45Speaker 1: of values. So the Queen said that she thought Harry
- 10:49Speaker 1: might be consumed by love and it might have clouded
- 10:52Speaker 1: his judgment. The Queen was also let down by the
- 10:56Speaker 1: Sussex's decision to step back, and she thought it was
- 10:59Speaker 1: a miss stoppunity not just for the couple, but also
- 11:02Speaker 1: for the royal family. The Queen had great affection to
- 11:05Speaker 1: her grandson and really wanted him to find peace and happiness,
- 11:09Speaker 1: particularly when he relocated to the USA. But in truth,
- 11:14Speaker 1: they said, the Queen couldn't understand. She was mystified by
- 11:19Speaker 1: the couple's behavior, describing them as quote quite mad, which
- 11:24Speaker 1: is a very British expression. It is it is you know,
- 11:28Speaker 1: I know people are thinking this is shocking, but how
- 11:31Speaker 1: many people in their lives have not gone into the
- 11:33Speaker 1: family business. Okay, my family business is criminal justice. My
- 11:38Speaker 1: sister's a prosecutorum, my mom ran prisons, my grandmother worked
- 11:44Speaker 1: as a nurse in the jail system. And here I
- 11:46Speaker 1: am talking about celebrity gossip and nobody's yelling at me
- 11:50Speaker 1: or calling me quite well. Maybe my family does say
- 11:52Speaker 1: I'm a little cuckoo, but it's okay. It's okay for
- 11:56Speaker 1: people to leave the family business. It's just surprising because
- 11:59Speaker 1: he's a royal but kids do leave, they do and
- 12:04Speaker 1: they go and do their own thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 12:06Speaker 1: it's hard for I think people of a certain generation though,
- 12:10Speaker 1: to grasp that. She was in her nineties, her whole
- 12:13Speaker 1: life had been about that, that monarchy, and she just
- 12:15Speaker 1: couldn't understand, like, why do you not want to be
- 12:18Speaker 1: part of this? Mister? You and I do TV shows,
- 12:21Speaker 1: we do podcasts. We've met friends who just don't want
- 12:23Speaker 1: to do it, and I don't understand them. I've dragged
- 12:26Speaker 1: people into TV shows and I thought I was giving
- 12:30Speaker 1: them this amazing opportunity and I wasn't. I was putting
- 12:33Speaker 1: my values on them. I was hoping that they would
- 12:37Speaker 1: fulfill my dreams, not their owns. And the fact that
- 12:40Speaker 1: they had different dreams to me, it took me a
- 12:43Speaker 1: minute mystery to actually be like, Oh, they don't want this,
- 12:46Speaker 1: I want this. They don't. Absolutely not everybody wants to
- 12:50Speaker 1: do what we do. I have a couple of friends
- 12:52Speaker 1: who this actually it just makes them look they would
- 12:56Speaker 1: never give in front of a camera. Oh I get
- 12:59Speaker 1: you know, a podcast, and that is okay. That's why
- 13:02Speaker 1: we have different careers, we have different opportunities in life,
- 13:05Speaker 1: and if we didn't then you know who would who
- 13:08Speaker 1: would be doctors, who would be lawyers, who would be teachers?
- 13:11Speaker 1: Your path, my friends, find your path? Hey, quickly, before
- 13:14Speaker 1: we get a break, Kelly Ripper is speaking. Guy, it's
- 13:17Speaker 1: about t J Holmes and the ab Row back ABC,
- 13:21Speaker 1: Good Morning America Scandal. What does she have to say? Well,
- 13:24Speaker 1: as we all know, Kelly's husband, Mark Consuelos is joining
- 13:28Speaker 1: her on the show starting on Mondays, so I think
- 13:31Speaker 1: she wanted to just address the fact that they have
- 13:34Speaker 1: a romantic relationship. This might have been kind of cheeky,
- 13:37Speaker 1: she said, right straight into the camera. Mark and I
- 13:40Speaker 1: have taken a vow of chastity while we will be
- 13:44Speaker 1: working together. I know how ABC does not like TV
- 13:48Speaker 1: partners banging on the side, so we promise no banging
- 13:53Speaker 1: on the side for us. So, if you remember TJ
- 13:58Speaker 1: and Amy, they were both their contracts weren't renewed in
- 14:01Speaker 1: January after it was revealed that they had this romantic
- 14:04Speaker 1: relationship going on on the side. But people are confused.
- 14:07Speaker 1: I mean, now ABC has hired Mark and Silos, which
- 14:10Speaker 1: is Kelly's husband. But I think we understand I mean
- 14:14Speaker 1: market different. Yeah, yeah, he's been on the show before.
- 14:17Speaker 1: He stepped in and they're married. We're not. They're married
- 14:21Speaker 1: to one another. Amy and t J were married, just
- 14:23Speaker 1: not to one another. That was exactly It was not
- 14:27Speaker 1: that they were married. The problem. It was that they
- 14:29Speaker 1: weren't married to one another. And then I think the
- 14:31Speaker 1: sort of deception of it and then the other tales
- 14:34Speaker 1: that came out ultimately led to their downfall. I'm looking
- 14:38Speaker 1: forward to seeing Mark and Kelly. I love them when
- 14:40Speaker 1: they host together. I'm really looking forward to tuning in Monday.
- 14:43Speaker 1: I liked Ryan Seacrest. I thought he was great. But
- 14:46Speaker 1: there's something going to be really interesting about this couple that,
- 14:49Speaker 1: you know, go home together, they sleep in the same bed.
- 14:52Speaker 1: They're going to bicker a little bit in the mornings.
- 14:54Speaker 1: Every relationship has ups and dads. We're going to watch
- 14:57Speaker 1: the busine. I'm going to text you m she's not
- 14:59Speaker 1: happy with him. It's gonna be a lot of fun.
- 15:03Speaker 1: And he's you know, very easy on the eyes, so
- 15:06Speaker 1: we're gonna love it. Oh. I interviewed him once and
- 15:09Speaker 1: he's dazzlingly good looking. So good looking. Yeah, he literally
- 15:13Speaker 1: I was like gidder. I know, all these years, you
- 15:16Speaker 1: would think i'd be a professional. I was like a
- 15:18Speaker 1: school girl. Okay, we're gonna take a quick break and
- 15:21Speaker 1: we will be right back. Friend, mister Haynes, let's get
- 15:28Speaker 1: to the polls. D Yesterday we talked about Harry and
- 15:32Speaker 1: Meghan the in stripped of their royal titles. That was
- 15:36Speaker 1: a discussion at the highest levels within the palace. Ultimately,
- 15:40Speaker 1: Prince Charles said, Noah, what do you think should they
- 15:44Speaker 1: lose their royal titles? A big question. Let's have a
- 15:49Speaker 1: look here, what do you think. Sixty percent said yes.
- 15:54Speaker 1: Sixty percent said yes, they should lose their royal titles.
- 15:58Speaker 1: Let's have a look here on our Instagram. Clank Clank
- 16:02Speaker 1: nineteen said hell yes, no work, no titles. Granny Chucky,
- 16:09Speaker 1: I love these names on Instagram said absolutely. Van City
- 16:14Speaker 1: said yes, they should lose their titles. And let's see
- 16:18Speaker 1: what else we have here. The eight one two said yes.
- 16:21Speaker 1: They walked away, so the majority here said yes, mystery,
- 16:24Speaker 1: they should lose their titles. What do you think I mean,
- 16:27Speaker 1: it's just a title. I think what's more important is
- 16:30Speaker 1: that the children get to keep their prince and princess
- 16:33Speaker 1: title because that's by birth. So as long as the kids,
- 16:37Speaker 1: I think at a certain point when you're a parent,
- 16:39Speaker 1: you're like, I can't worry about myself as long as
- 16:41Speaker 1: my children are taking care of And yes, of course,
- 16:44Speaker 1: who wouldn't want an hr H title? But I mean
- 16:47Speaker 1: it's so cute. But they made their beds and you know,
- 16:51Speaker 1: and they're lying made the decision. They'll get a title
- 16:53Speaker 1: from Netflix. Don't forget to vote on the Taste ballge
- 17:00Speaker 1: any nice rob but facebook page is already go say,
- 17:03Speaker 1: let's check back to Marawa to hear your results. And
- 17:06Speaker 1: now it's time for a nisest of the day. Well,
- 17:10Speaker 1: our nicest of the day surprisingly is King Charles. I mean,
- 17:14Speaker 1: for what he takes away, he gives back. So he
- 17:17Speaker 1: has been praised for a more inclusive move to happen
- 17:22Speaker 1: the day before his coronation, calling it's called quite a guesture.
- 17:26Speaker 1: So he will have a house guest the nights before
- 17:29Speaker 1: the coronation, and it's going to be Britain's rabbi from
- 17:33Speaker 1: a mirrorvis. Because of Shabbat, which stipulates certain things like
- 17:37Speaker 1: no work are done, the rabbi and his wife would
- 17:40Speaker 1: have had conflicts with their faith on the actual day
- 17:43Speaker 1: of the coronation, so it would have been challenging for
- 17:46Speaker 1: them to do. So they're going to do it the
- 17:47Speaker 1: night before You're actually the day before before sunset. So's
- 17:53Speaker 1: it's just a wonderful thing that he's being more inclusive
- 17:55Speaker 1: and making sure that everyone is represented in some form
- 17:59Speaker 1: of fact. I love this. The Rabbi can walk from
- 18:02Speaker 1: Clarence House to Westminster Abbey. They're that close and so
- 18:06Speaker 1: just beautiful. And this was Charles's idea. The Rabbi said
- 18:10Speaker 1: that it was the palace that approached them. They've got
- 18:12Speaker 1: a lot of stuff on their schedule putting together this coronation,
- 18:16Speaker 1: but it was so amazing that they thought about this
- 18:19Speaker 1: detail and it really is quite a gesture and nicest
- 18:22Speaker 1: to the day. And now I naughty is the day
- 18:25Speaker 1: Norty naughty. I'm just so sick at the real house was.
- 18:28Speaker 1: I know, we love watching them, but Caroline Manzo is
- 18:31Speaker 1: saying she'll never return to the show. After the Girls
- 18:33Speaker 1: Trip incident, she was asked about if she would ever
- 18:36Speaker 1: go back. She said never, never, never, never never. Then
- 18:39Speaker 1: she was asked if she would go back if the
- 18:41Speaker 1: price was right, and then she changed her mind a
- 18:43Speaker 1: little bit and said if the number was financially irresponsible,
- 18:47Speaker 1: to walk away she would, So I think, Caroline, here
- 18:51Speaker 1: is it a yes? No? Never? Sounds pretty finite to me.
- 18:56Speaker 1: It sounds like you made your decision. But as you know,
- 18:59Speaker 1: if those house as when it comes to money mystery,
- 19:03Speaker 1: you're making those those signs with your fingers, then she'll
- 19:08Speaker 1: be back today. Hey, let's end with a moment of
- 19:10Speaker 1: rob This is really deep, so let's go slowly. Forgiveness
- 19:18Speaker 1: only happens when you stop wishing things were different. So
- 19:24Speaker 1: it's impossible to forgive that friend who has fell out
- 19:28Speaker 1: with you if you wished you were still friends. It's
- 19:32Speaker 1: impossible to forgive that guy that you broke up with
- 19:35Speaker 1: if you wished you were still dating. Until you can
- 19:39Speaker 1: move past that, it's almost impossible to forgive. So instead
- 19:44Speaker 1: of focusing on forgiving somebody, focus on moving past the
- 19:50Speaker 1: life that you visioned for yourself that is no longer
- 19:54Speaker 1: a reality. Complicating That is so deep, mister shooter, and
- 19:59Speaker 1: it's so true. You can't make any changes until you
- 20:02Speaker 1: accept that that part of your life is gone no longer.
- 20:07Speaker 1: It doesn't serve you anymore. And so once you do that,
- 20:10Speaker 1: you can start imagining a bigger picture, and it begins
- 20:13Speaker 1: it becomes so much easier to forgive the people who
- 20:17Speaker 1: you perceived have wrong do. Yeah, so that's the only
- 20:20Speaker 1: way you will ever find true forgiveness. Absolute. That is
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