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Top 10 Phrases You Should Hear From a Trustworthy Man · The Cubby and Christine Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Christina has told me we're going to do the trustworthy test.
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  Speaker 1: It's light FM.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning seven oh four, Cubby, Christine and Kristen hanging
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  Speaker 2: out with you. We know you have options. Thank you
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  Speaker 2: for choosing us and appreciate you listening. All right, what
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  Speaker 2: are we doing here?
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  Speaker 1: Well?
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  Speaker 3: These are the top ten phrases you should hear from
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  Speaker 3: a man to know if they're trustworthy. And also like
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  Speaker 3: emotionally mature, like ready for a relationship.
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  Speaker 1: So this is good to hear on a first date.
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  Speaker 3: Mean or no, No, this isn't a relationship, and oh
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  Speaker 3: deep in a relationship. This says if this guy is
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  Speaker 3: going to be worth your time. Yeah, if he's going
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  Speaker 3: to be the long term dude.
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  Speaker 2: So this could apply for me that's been married for
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  Speaker 2: twelve years and whatever, I've been married ten years, can't remember,
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  Speaker 2: or if I've been dating somebody for maybe a month we.
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  Speaker 1: Got No, we got married.
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  Speaker 3: It was not listening right, Well, she might be.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, now I'll tell you what I'm thinking, because we
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  Speaker 2: started dating fourteen years ago this week.
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  Speaker 1: No, it was twelve years ago.
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  Speaker 3: There. If you don't, just quit while you're ahead, So sorry,
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  Speaker 3: you already failed the first I.
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  Speaker 1: Was wrong I don't know. I appreciate you telling me
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  Speaker 1: I'm reading everything that's coming up.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, go ahead, Christy. I think that's part of it,
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  Speaker 3: all right, Coco, are you sorry? Coming?
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  Speaker 1: I am very sorry.
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  Speaker 2: We met in twenty fourteen, got married in twenty fifteen,
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  Speaker 2: but it was it was how long ago?
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  Speaker 1: Was twenty fourteen? Twelve years ago?
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  Speaker 3: Goodness? Twelve years ago, twenty twenty six?
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  Speaker 2: It was all right, so twelve years ago this week
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  Speaker 2: was our first date. But I know that has nothing
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  Speaker 2: to do with it.
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  Speaker 1: You're okay now, yeah, I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, now, okay, I'm sorry, Okay, promise, how can I help?
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead?
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  Speaker 3: There you go. That's the whole thing. But when you
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  Speaker 3: say you need to mean it, sir, You need to
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  Speaker 3: like really be reaching from your heart and wanting to
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  Speaker 3: help us. So, yes, I'm mature man able to say
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. How does that make you feel?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: These are all things that the experts say, Yes, you
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  Speaker 2: should hear from a man yes, and know if they're
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  Speaker 2: trustworthy yes.
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  Speaker 3: And ready for a like I said, long term relationship.
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  Speaker 1: When he says i'm sorry, it's good.
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  Speaker 3: It is not when you just throw it out there, though,
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, like when you mean it. Here's what I
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  Speaker 3: can do, guys offering what you can do?
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  Speaker 1: He has a plan.
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  Speaker 3: I was wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, just admit it.
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  Speaker 3: You can look at it so differently though. You look
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  Speaker 3: at it like, just say I'm sorry and I was
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  Speaker 3: wrong and go to the other room.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna fold this up, this whole thing and put
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  Speaker 2: it in my pocket. I'll probably need it in a
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  Speaker 2: week or two.
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  Speaker 3: It's I don't know. I don't know is one of
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  Speaker 3: the phrases. Yes, And I don't think it's an I
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  Speaker 3: don't know as though I'm blowing you off. I think
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  Speaker 3: it's admitting I don't have all the answers.
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  Speaker 1: But it should be.
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  Speaker 3: Don't you think it should be followed up with a
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  Speaker 3: but I'll I'll help you all.
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  Speaker 1: I feel I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I hear you.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I said it means it needs more.
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  Speaker 1: I feel I don't know. Go ahead.
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  Speaker 3: I hear you.
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  Speaker 1: I hear you.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, Oh I've said that. Like that's me saying I
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  Speaker 2: got the point, all right, I messed up. I hear you,
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  Speaker 2: I hear you.
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  Speaker 3: I love how all of these are defensive for you,
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  Speaker 3: like you know, just just like she's sharing her feelings
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  Speaker 3: and you're like, I hear you. I hear you because
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  Speaker 3: people want to be heard and recognized unseen. I appreciate
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  Speaker 3: you telling me.
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  Speaker 1: Comes in handy. I've said that, does Eric ever say
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  Speaker 1: any of these things to you?
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna test these out on him. I think he does.
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  Speaker 3: I want to make sure I understand.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I say it all the time. I want to
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  Speaker 2: make sure if I'm going to the grocery store, I
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  Speaker 2: get the right stuff.
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  Speaker 3: I just feel like you're constantly in the doghouse. I know,
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  Speaker 3: how can I help? That's huge? Guys? How can I help?
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  Speaker 1: I think my wife one would back me up yes
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  Speaker 1: and say that she knows. I say that, I love that.
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  Speaker 1: How can I help?
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  Speaker 3: I love it? Love it, especially if.
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  Speaker 1: She's busy in the house working.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to be on the couch watching TV, right,
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  Speaker 2: I have to be moving and I have to go.
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  Speaker 1: What do you need help with? I'm here to help.
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  Speaker 3: Can I can I offer a little follow up? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: besides just the blanket? How can I help that? You
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  Speaker 3: offer some things you're able to do? Can I do this?
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  Speaker 3: Can I do that? So it doesn't add to her
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  Speaker 3: list of another task? Like, oh, now I have to
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  Speaker 3: come up with something for you.
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  Speaker 1: So if there's a laundry in the wash, say hey,
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  Speaker 1: let me get that and put in the dryer.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, And I promise, I promise and mean.
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  Speaker 1: It all right, So here we go.
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  Speaker 3: Well to get through these, Yes, the things that you
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  Speaker 3: need to hear from your man.
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  Speaker 2: From your man, I'm sorry. How does that make you feel?
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  Speaker 2: Here's what I can do. I was wrong. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I hear you. I appreciate you telling me. I want
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  Speaker 2: to make sure I understand. How can I help? And
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  Speaker 2: I promise?
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  Speaker 1: What do you think again?
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  Speaker 2: I'm not letting go of this. I use all of
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  Speaker 2: these before five o'clock today.
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  Speaker 3: I think you're going to use them all in the
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  Speaker 3: next ten minutes.