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- 0:24Hello and welcome to Talking FACS.
- 0:26What you need to know about family food finance and fitness.
- 0:30I am your host,
- 0:31Mindy McCulley,
- 0:32Family consumer sciences extension specialist for instructional support at the University of Kentucky.
- 0:37I am excited today that my guest is Dr. Paul Norrod,
- 0:41extension specialist for rural health and farm safety.
- 0:44So welcome Paul.
- 0:46Hey Mindy,
- 0:46Glad to be here.
- 0:47How are you today?
- 0:48I I am doing great and I'm so glad that you're here because we're going to talk about a really important topic which is stress and how that affects our brain because I know that our brains are in tune with everything that happens in our body and in our lives and if we don't take care of them then we're gonna feel it in lots of different ways,
- 1:09aren't we?
- 1:10Yeah,
- 1:10absolutely.
- 1:11It's uh it's a very important topic that all Kentuckians experience and uh I think it's a needed topic that to talk about just to help us understand ourselves but help us to understand that,
- 1:25you know,
- 1:25some of the issues we may be experiencing aren't necessarily because we're weak or we're having problems or we're not connected.
- 1:33It can just be a build up of
- 1:35of things that uh we can we can work on to help ourselves and help our community.
- 1:40That's a great segue into.
- 1:42Let's talk about what are some common structures that people experience across the board.
- 1:49Yeah.
- 1:49You know,
- 1:49you think about common stressors and I like to think of stress on a continuum.
- 1:54And so we all have stressors that occur on a daily basis and that can be just from trying to log on to our computer at work,
- 2:06getting out and trying to get in a cold vehicle and get it warmed up.
- 2:09You know,
- 2:10that's a stressor.
- 2:11We can think of stressors that are a little bit more serious I guess,
- 2:16I would say.
- 2:16And we think of illness and things that just uh can take us out of work,
- 2:21take us off the farm that can keep us away from family members.
- 2:25And then we can think of crisis type stressors,
- 2:28events or circumstances that that really are like the piece of concrete on our scale of life,
- 2:36right?
- 2:36It just sort of tips us over the edge or makes things makes life really unmanageable.
- 2:41And so,
- 2:41you know,
- 2:42I think of our our friends and colleagues over in Western Kentucky with the tornado outbreak and just the amount of stress that that cause that's very much a is very much a crisis,
- 2:53right?
- 2:53And then it is inconvenient to have to get up and try to warm up my vehicle and get it de-iced and thawed out ready to drive,
- 3:00but it's not changing my life really,
- 3:02it is stressful trying to get kids through their school activities,
- 3:06that's a stressor and then kids go through their own problems,
- 3:09right?
- 3:09You know,
- 3:10you and I have certain stressful times.
- 3:12So Paul does all stress have to be negative or can there be positive types of stress?
- 3:17That that's a great question and uh you know,
- 3:21not all stress is negative and while we we often think of stress is negative,
- 3:26we we have positive stressors,
- 3:28things that that are good in our life.
- 3:30And so,
- 3:31you know,
- 3:31that could be graduating from high school,
- 3:34it could be purchasing a new piece of farm equipment,
- 3:36going to get a new chainsaw,
- 3:38having our kids get married,
- 3:40having Children,
- 3:41grandchildren getting married,
- 3:43you know,
- 3:44those are getting in uh forming a new long term relationship and those are positive stressors,
- 3:51things that ultimately serve as a source of uh coping and self care and help us out and reduce our stress over the long term.
- 4:00But the thing to remember is when we think about stressors,
- 4:04even some of those positive stressors can have some negative impacts on our brain,
- 4:11especially when they occur in the presence of some long term stress.
- 4:16Alright,
- 4:17so sometimes maybe it's the transition that causes the stress,
- 4:21it's not necessarily the event.
- 4:23That's so stressful.
- 4:24Right?
- 4:24Yeah.
- 4:24And so,
- 4:25you know,
- 4:25if you think if people think of getting into a new relationship or getting married,
- 4:31you know,
- 4:32or buying a house,
- 4:34that transition,
- 4:35you know,
- 4:36going through that process is stressful.
- 4:39But once you're in the relationship,
- 4:41if it's a if it's a positive and healthy relationship when you're in,
- 4:44once you're into the house and settled and and you're sort of moving forward,
- 4:49that stress from that particular circumstance or event,
- 4:52we typically think of it as settling down.
- 4:55Right?
- 4:56And so then what was once stressful actually becomes a source of security or comfort for us?
- 5:02And so that that's where it has that positive effect.
- 5:05Whereas that chronic that negative stress,
- 5:07uh not really a source of security or comfort for.
- 5:12So how does that chronic stress and impact our bodies and how does it affect our brain?
- 5:17Yeah.
- 5:17So,
- 5:18you know,
- 5:18if we think of our brains and our nervous system,
- 5:22no,
- 5:22I can't think of it like an electrical system and so it's full of switching mechanisms,
- 5:29It wants power.
- 5:30And if you think of stress when we have a what we call the perceived stress or say for example,
- 5:37that,
- 5:38you know,
- 5:38one of my Children,
- 5:39my my daughter a couple of years ago,
- 5:41her sister landed on her leg and broke her leg and it was actually displaced.
- 5:46Like you could see the bone that was,
- 5:48that was a stress,
- 5:49like it wasn't out of the skin,
- 5:51but you can see it poking through this,
- 5:52poking,
- 5:53you know,
- 5:53trying to poke out.
- 5:55I'm like,
- 5:55oh my gosh,
- 5:56right,
- 5:57I'm a registered nurse and uh but with your own kid,
- 6:00like I'm like,
- 6:01oh my gosh.
- 6:01And so what that does is it essentially puts our body into survival mode and divert all of the electricity in her brain and basically slipping all the switches.
- 6:13It's turning all the lights on and it's just getting us ready to survive.
- 6:19And uh and and it's so we can we can see everything,
- 6:22we can hear everything we can run.
- 6:25If we need to,
- 6:26we can freeze,
- 6:28we can fight.
- 6:29We've got all the resources we need for our body to survive.
- 6:33Obviously my daughter's broken leg doesn't require me to fight,
- 6:38right,
- 6:38or require me to run.
- 6:40But that doesn't matter.
- 6:42That's how our bodies respond.
- 6:44That's our nervous system response.
- 6:46And so the problem with that is once her legs fixed and she's good,
- 6:51I'm happy.
- 6:52I'm good.
- 6:52My daughter is safe,
- 6:53Right?
- 6:54And uh,
- 6:55I'm,
- 6:55I'm reassured.
- 6:56But if when we build up this chronic stress in our body,
- 7:00what happens is we go through this ongoing activation.
- 7:04It's just like sitting there flipping the light bulb,
- 7:06the light switch on and off,
- 7:08but it's essentially flipping all the light switches on and off,
- 7:11on and off in your house the entire time.
- 7:13Well,
- 7:14if we think of our of our bodies is like the light bulb,
- 7:18the receiver of that energy,
- 7:19it's not gonna hold up,
- 7:20it won't hold up over time,
- 7:22the light bulb's gonna burn out eventually.
- 7:25And so our bodies are gonna burn out eventually.
- 7:28And it's gonna cause us some both short term and long term consequences.
- 7:35I can imagine that that is so true.
- 7:38And so these consequences,
- 7:41what what are they gonna look like?
- 7:42What consequences are going to see?
- 7:44Right?
- 7:45So it's one of these acute phases or as stress is building up and we're not dealing with their stress.
- 7:51What we usually see is uh you know,
- 7:53people feel tense,
- 7:54will fill those,
- 7:55that tension in our shoulders,
- 7:57will fill it in,
- 7:57you know,
- 7:58in our in our head and neck and we may be losing sleep.
- 8:02We may feel more sleepy part of that survival mode.
- 8:05We may feel that we need to withdraw from people and get time alone,
- 8:09may feel that we need some downtime,
- 8:13right?
- 8:13Just some time away may have headaches,
- 8:16right?
- 8:16May grit your teeth at night.
- 8:18There's any number of things.
- 8:19May have muscles,
- 8:20aches and pains in your major muscle groups,
- 8:23like the back,
- 8:24like your back and even in your knees and hips quite frankly.
- 8:28But as that builds up over time.
- 8:30And as it goes on for for a few more weeks,
- 8:34we have what's called a chemical build up in the front part of our brain that that controls our ability to think.
- 8:41And this can occur on a continuum.
- 8:44And so for a really stressful situation,
- 8:47like a hospitalization of loved ones.
- 8:49People may not be able to think and that chemical is called cortisol.
- 8:52And we get what's called red brain and it basically just were chemically unable to think clearly.
- 8:57And so what that manifest as is people may describe it as a fog.
- 9:02And it's like that's what I like to say brain fog.
- 9:05We call it brain fog.
- 9:06So you experience a brain fog.
- 9:08You may find yourself sitting at your desk just staring at a computer screen and realize,
- 9:13wow,
- 9:1410,
- 9:1415 minutes have passed.
- 9:16You may uh not recall what you watched on tv.
- 9:19You may forget what you ate,
- 9:21you know earlier in the week.
- 9:23You may even forget people's names.
- 9:25You may forget appointments.
- 9:26That's a part of the brain fog.
- 9:28And it just really is just trouble thinking is how we describe it.
- 9:33So those are some of the early manifestations,
- 9:36some of the long term manifestations of not dealing with stress that we can see in the body.
- 9:41It can affect your heart.
- 9:42People have heart attacks for stress,
- 9:44Men and women,
- 9:45you can develop high blood pressure,
- 9:47your blood pressure goes up when you're under stress stress.
- 9:50In some studies have also been connected with dementia as well.
- 9:54And so it just has negative consequences in the long term.
- 9:58Especially these these negative stressors that we think about when you you talk about that brain fog.
- 10:04I immediately thought about when I was pregnant and I remember we talked about the mom brain and pregnancy is a long term stressor.
- 10:13And of course that's one of those things that we we did,
- 10:16we just kind of had that probably had that red brain for a long time during pregnancy,
- 10:21and we did have that mom brain that didn't always think,
- 10:24and then,
- 10:24of course,
- 10:25after the baby's born,
- 10:26and you have sleepless nights and those other stressors that you aren't always thinking about,
- 10:32then it made perfect sense to me all of a sudden,
- 10:35and my children are in their twenties now.
- 10:37So that's a great analogy and what that boils down to.
- 10:41It's just hormonal changes and like with pregnancy and pregnant mothers and when they deliver and that postpartum period,
- 10:48You know,
- 10:48there's all these hormonal shifts in our bodies and that happens for men too,
- 10:53when we're under a lot of stress.
- 10:54And as we're going through,
- 10:55as we're aging and hitting our middle age,
- 10:58the middle age in our 40s and 50s,
- 11:00we're all going through,
- 11:02men are going through hormone changes.
- 11:04And so those shifting those hormones when we're under stress are occurring,
- 11:08and again,
- 11:08it's just trying to get the body to survive,
- 11:10and that's okay.
- 11:12But you can't keep flipping the light switch on and off on and off,
- 11:15on and off the light bulb's gonna burn out.
- 11:17And so we want to ultimately,
- 11:18ultimately what we're trying to prevent is our own burnout because if I if you burn out Mindy or I burn out,
- 11:25or the people listening burn out from stress,
- 11:28then,
- 11:28then we can't really,
- 11:29we can't help our communities and family members and the people who are depending on us?
- 11:33Exactly.
- 11:34Exactly.
- 11:36So what are some tangible steps that we can take to help prevent that burnout?
- 11:40Right?
- 11:40And so that's a good question.
- 11:42And uh they're actually very simple steps and and oftentimes we'll write those off.
- 11:47And so obviously I want to make clear there are some stressors in our life that we can't escape that we shouldn't make go away.
- 11:56I was talking with a farm family out in western Kentucky and they were talking about how the tornadoes just destroy their grain bins.
- 12:04We can't make that goal,
- 12:05can't recover,
- 12:06it can't recover the corn grain,
- 12:09it's done.
- 12:10But we got to talk and I was talking with this individual,
- 12:13we're talking about,
- 12:13I was like,
- 12:14what are you all doing?
- 12:15She said,
- 12:16you know,
- 12:16we've spent more time as a family and we really come together.
- 12:19That's a term that we use in rural rural communities and farm cultures come together.
- 12:25That's the thing.
- 12:26So when you feel like you need to pull away,
- 12:28that's ok for the short term.
- 12:30But when you're really starting to feel that brain fog and feel real test,
- 12:34it's time to get together with people that care about you and people that love you.
- 12:39And uh I always like to use this analogy.
- 12:42And so I'm gonna ask you a question mindy when a baby's crying generally,
- 12:46what's one of the first steps we take when,
- 12:48when we we go right to that baby and we pick that baby up and we hug on that baby and we sing to it and say comforting words,
- 12:58hugs,
- 13:00just giving a person a hug for about 20-30 sec.
- 13:03Shuts down that survival response in our body and activates what's called a rest and digest system in my brain and tells us that we're okay,
- 13:13that we're safe.
- 13:14That just a simple 22 2nd,
- 13:1632 2nd hug of a friend or family member can help going hunting or fishing and getting out.
- 13:22That can help listening to music,
- 13:24can help making a plan.
- 13:26I know it's It's difficult when we're in this brain fog to make a plan.
- 13:29And so I like to say I'd like to talk about focus on 24 hours,
- 13:33just can't focus on what's gonna happen two weeks from now.
- 13:37But gosh,
- 13:38I can keep in range and concentrate and try to work towards the next 24 hours.
- 13:44And that's a good way to alleviate some of the stress.
- 13:47You know,
- 13:48just by focusing on a short time period,
- 13:50right?
- 13:51Engaging in self care is another good thing,
- 13:54listening to music.
- 13:55Those are just very simple,
- 13:56tangible steps that we can take and sometimes it's baby steps,
- 14:00right?
- 14:00You don't have to you don't have to take the giant leap.
- 14:03You might have to take that baby step to make it work.
- 14:06Yeah,
- 14:06it's not necessarily planning an entire vacation and trying to get away from a week.
- 14:10It's just that little bitty simple step of calling a friend,
- 14:14sitting down to watch a movie with someone that you know cares about.
- 14:17You texting somebody eating your favorite meal.
- 14:21My goodness!
- 14:22Right?
- 14:23I know I hear it in your voice.
- 14:25You're like,
- 14:25oh man,
- 14:26you're already thinking of that comfort food,
- 14:28right,
- 14:29that is okay.
- 14:30A favorite meal can just help turn down that response and give us a little comfort and act as a buffer to those stressors.
- 14:38I think those are all great suggestions for helping anyone who is dealing with a stressful situation,
- 14:44learn how to move out of that situation and and move on to better times,
- 14:49paul.
- 14:50Thanks so much for taking the time to share with us today.
- 14:52I know that this is important information for anybody no matter where they might be in their situation and I know that you'll come back and share with us again and to our listeners.
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