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Episode 22 -The Female Perspective: The Qualities of a High-Value Bull · The Bull Brotherhood

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I guess my nerdy quirk is the, the smell. Like
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I'm, uh, like if you smell good, that's like
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super important to me. Yeah. I always tell guys
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too, I want to comment on the smell thing. I
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want to stop there for a second because you know,
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guys, if you smell clean, that is oftentimes
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enough, but pouring on the cologne, a little
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elevate. So to all the bulls, hot wives, stags,
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and open -minded explorers, we see you. Let's
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go. Ladies and gentlemen, good evening and welcome
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to another invigorating and exciting episode
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of the Bull Brotherhood podcast. I'm one third
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of your podcast team, the impeccable Sigma male
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himself, Brian Morgan, along with the rest of
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the family, the sexy and seductive Siren. Hello.
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And of course, the perpetual students. This is
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my brother from another mother. I call him nephew,
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Socrates. What's good, Charles? What's good,
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everybody? All right, all right. Ladies and gentlemen,
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tonight, I, along with Socrates, we'll be kind
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of taking a little back cuddle tonight. We're
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going to turn it over to the ladies. Siren from
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the Siren of Freedom podcast. You know that podcast
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very, very well. It's hot as fuck right now.
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She's going to interview someone who's very,
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very special. She hails from the great state
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of North Carolina, i .e. Jacksonville, North
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Carolina. And again, I'll turn it over to Siren.
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She'll take it over from here. Hit it, ladies.
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Hello, everyone. Well, this woman is very, very
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special because we refer to her as what she is,
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Brian Morgan's baby girl, Lindsay. How are you,
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Lindsay? I'm doing well. I'm doing good. Good.
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I am so happy that we get to do this episode
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and that Brian and Socrates suggested it. So
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for the audience, we're going to just come from
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a lady's perspective tonight on what makes a
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quality bowl. We both have very different dynamics.
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I'll let Lindsay explain hers in a second. And
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then, of course, we have the dynamic with me
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and Socrates. And just what makes quality bull
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in each of our situations. So, Lindsay, why don't
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you explain for those that are maybe new tonight
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what your dynamic is with you and your husband
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and Brian? Well, my husband and I, we've been
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married for 24 years. And my relationship with
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Brian is we've been together for about, what,
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two and a half years. And so we have kind of
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formed a family together as a throuple. I refer
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to him as my daddy. We do things together. We
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do things separately as far as involving my husband.
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Anytime that Brian comes to town, we like to
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do things as a family, like go out to dinner.
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We've done other things as well. We've gone to...
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sorry, a basketball game in Charlotte together
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as a family. We have other things planned in
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the future. We've got, we're going to go to a
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comedy club in November and even hopefully, you
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know, planning on doing other things like traveling
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abroad together as a family. So the dynamic is
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a throuple. The two men are friends. They do
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not sexually interact, if that makes sense. But
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so I, We'll go off alone with Brian and spend
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quality time with him. And then whenever our
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time is up and I have to return back to home
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to take care of my home business and be here
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where I'm at, then I just kind of resume my position
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with my husband and my family. And is your husband
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ever... Is it like a cuckold dynamic where your
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husband will be in the room when you and Brian
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are playing? And does he take on more of a cuck
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role in that situation? No, not really. Whenever
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we first met and we first did a meet and greet
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and kind of got together. Philip was there. He
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got involved. He was a part of the situation.
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But then since things have evolved over time,
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Philip is just he it's almost well, not almost.
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It is that it's that hot wife type of thing where
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he lets me go. He lets me do what I want to do.
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I come back home. I tell him about the situation.
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Now, on the other end of things, Philip. In his
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dynamic, it's different because I feel like it's
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almost like I live two lives at times because
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he still enjoys going and attending lifestyle
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events, whether it's a house party or whether
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it's like a meet and greet or I have to be there
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as a supportive part. As his wife, let's say,
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go on a date with a couple. But I basically I
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walk into this situation well knowing that. probably
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unfortunately what's you know gonna be in this
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situation it's not for me um but i'm there to
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support him i'm there to be his cheerleader so
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um see a couple weeks ago we went to a house
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party i was there for him as a cheerleader so
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if he finds somebody to play with um then i'm
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there but the majority of times that i go to
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these events i end up having female on female
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play really is my kind of thing there you go
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so I've heard I haven't seen don't really have
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there's not oh yeah there's not it's just not
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my thing as much it's just but I but like I said
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I'm there for him because I want him to continue
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to I want him to be happy I want him to be able
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to do his own thing and be supportive of whenever
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he does have these interactions um he went a
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couple weeks ago over to a female's house and
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played with her while I stayed here and hung
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out at the house yeah so it's more of a dynamic
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is kind of separate yeah you have the throuple
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situation where Brian and Phillip are friends
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and then you're the hot wife baby girl um and
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then there's more of a stag vixen dynamic where
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Phillip goes and and plays on his own as well
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which is what Socrates and I have is a stag vixen
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relationship and then when socrates gets the
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opportunity he is also a married bull so he will
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go and most often at events right now play with
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a couple you know with a cuckold couple um we
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play together separate groups we mostly gravitate
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towards solo play most of the time um and then
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you know we're in as everyone knows an interracial
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relationship as well so lindsey when you think
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of Maybe the top three things that make up a
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quality bowl. What do you think of? So a lot
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of the things that I like, I feel like it's multifaceted.
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That's fine. But yet in a very balanced way.
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It doesn't have to be in numerical order. We're
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just having a conversation about what we as,
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you know, so how many years have you been in
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the lifestyle now? Oh, gosh, I think it's. like
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close to, I want to say five and a half or six
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years. Okay. And I'm at three and a half. So
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as, but I feel like we've done a lot in the three
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and a half years, like our three and a half years
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is some people's 10 years. So, um, as experienced
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women in the lifestyle and having done, you know,
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the Stagg -Vixen dynamic and for you, the, the,
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the daddy baby girl dynamic, um, Just talk to
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me about what impresses you. You can even use
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Brian, for example. What are the things that
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stand out as a quality bull for you? Well, first
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off, I always like to reference the fact of that
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straight out the bag. I mean, the biggest and
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the largest sex organ is between your ears. And
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for me, it's very much of... intelligence like
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the ability to have a conversation um not jumping
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right into like two minutes of a conversation
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with someone and sending dick pics it's about
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you don't like that that happens oh i know it
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happens two minutes that that might be pushing
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it you know that's a little long and even from
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beyond the other side um i've i've even made
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it very clear to my husband like please do not
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send photos of myself to people even if you know
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they requested you have people out there that
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just like to collect photos i swear but um but
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intelligence being able to hold a conversation
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with someone and being able to i'm very very
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attracted to that intelligent part of the brain
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Are you a good person? Do you have the ability
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to expand your mind and talk to me, teach me?
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Are you open to different things? That is, I'm
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so attracted to that. I'm attracted to that intelligent
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part. There's other things too as well. There's,
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I mean, for me, I have my little weird nerdy
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quirks. I mean, I wouldn't even say it's a nerdy
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quirk, but I absolutely love the fact, like a
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well -dressed man, a well -put -together man.
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It's not just like sometimes. I mean, I enjoy
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loving to see somebody that is very in tune with
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how they look. Small details are important to
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them. I guess my nerdy quirk is the smell. Like
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I'm... oh like if you smell good that's like
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super important to me yeah i always tell guys
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too i want to comment on the smell thing i want
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to stop there for a second because you know guys
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if you smell clean that is oftentimes enough
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but pouring on the cologne a little dab will
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do yeah and we i told one guy a play partner
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the second time he came over i said don't wear
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cologne just take a shower And come on, put on
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some deodorant, come on over. Because it's just
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so overpowering sometimes. So it's important
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to smell good. But if you have a regular, it's
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like, don't be afraid to speak up to them of,
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you know, the smell attribute. Because I was
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just sneezing like the whole time. You know,
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there's some colognes that I'm very allergic
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to. you know just a clean smell and you know
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spray it once and walk into it and you're probably
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good like you know you should be able you shouldn't
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be able to smell someone from like five feet
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away it should be in their embrace and that's
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where you can smell like my husband will just
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do just a little bit on his neck and then i'm
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like i do the same thing like you know it's like
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you're trying to Just snort their scent. But
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yeah, I feel you on that scent issue. So yeah,
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it's important. That is, yeah, it's a little
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weird, quirky. But smells are connected to memories.
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And so it's like, you know, if you think about,
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you know, I think about my grandma's, you know,
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apple pie or my mom's certain kind of soup. Things
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like that. We have some very strong memories
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connected to smell. So even if you had a really
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good time with someone and they didn't smell
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good, then all you remember is that smell. You
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know? And that goes for ladies, too. We need
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to make sure that we're smelling fresh and good,
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too. Okay? It's just an important part of the
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play experience on both sides. So continue on.
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Okay. Talk to me more about the well -dressedness
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of a man. Like, what does that look like for
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you? You can look well -dressed, whether it's
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in, you know, shorts and a t -shirt and tennis
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shoes. And then the flip side of it of, you know,
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actually putting on dress clothes, like church
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clothes, things like that. You can look well
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-dressed. either way with the items that you
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put on. It's the fact of putting it together
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and keeping it together and not looking, I hate
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the word, like I'm going to use it, like looking
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like a slob. I don't, I don't want to look over
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and, you know, see a shirt half untucked or see
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your butt crack hanging out or, you know, I want
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to see that you actually care about how you look.
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And regardless, if you think I'm looking, oh,
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I'm looking. i'm always looking i'm always watching
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and i'm i'm very in tuned with the details and
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you know kind of i soak up these different things
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about people um and that's one thing that i absolutely
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i love a very well dressed well taken care of
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hygienic person because that means if they care
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enough about themselves to do that for themselves
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and they want other people to view them in this
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sense that i feel like that they're going to
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take care of me as well if that makes sense but
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yeah it's just so what you're saying too is like
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it doesn't really yeah it doesn't really matter
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if they're wearing an outfit from target or armani
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it matters that they take the time because everybody
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has different budgets right but we can all look
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our best within our budget it's like clean clothes
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um Mm hmm. You know, if you if you spill something
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on yourself, take it and treat the stain and
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put it in the wash, you know. Right. You know,
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just being clean and well groomed, you know,
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doing the best that you can with what you have.
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So, yeah, I don't know how I probably think I
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look like a slob because I'm like a yoga pants,
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messy bun girl, you know. I can look really,
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really good. But it's put together, though. It's
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I mean, it's not like you have a hole in the
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butt cheek or I mean, it's you're still put together.
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It can be comfortable. And that's what I was
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trying to kind of, you know, express is that
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you can be comfortable, whether it's. Oh, Lord,
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ladies, the gray sweatpants. Oh, yes. Just clean
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ones, not with an oil stain right by your crotch.
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OK. Right. But put together where it's whether
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the shirt is tucked in or, you know, I mean,
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it's just you can tell when someone actually
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pays attention to small details about how they
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look and those types of things when it's important
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to that person. I feel like that's very detailed
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oriented, meaning also that that person is very
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detailed oriented and that kind of. rolls into
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another one of the things that i absolutely love
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when it comes to the flip side of things the
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sexual part of stuff for me is someone that's
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detailed oriented that can remember something
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from like 85 interactions ago and then utilize
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that and then hold on to it and be like oh yeah
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well i know this when you move your hips you
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do this right or if my breathing changes or if
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i have a stark look on my face, like, and I can't
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move quite right. You know, you're in the right
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spot. I'm being detailed oriented and observing
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my body. Holy crap. Yeah. Yeah. And that's, that's
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an amazing attribute or like a trait that people
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have. And that blows my mind because I don't
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even, I don't even pay attention to some of those
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things when it comes to myself. But then when
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I hear that someone else has picked up on that
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or they're like, oh yeah, every time I do this,
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you freaking come super hard. And I'm like, what,
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what, what? Yeah, I do. Holy crap. But it's someone
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paying attention to your body language and how
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you react to certain things. There's a few, there's
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a few things too. It's like, that I observe when
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I'm playing with these men too, things that you
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can say, and every man has something, and you
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just have to find it. And just like with women,
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it's more about the touch and what you might
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say at the right time. So that observation leading
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to that place of ecstasy and them getting to
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know your body and what you like, they do not
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have an easy job, especially when you're playing
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with multiple women. over the course of time
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you know it just becomes instinctual so when
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they have that skill of you know learning and
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honing their craft and like you said paying attention
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to the detail it just becomes a package deal
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really whenever you know that someone has paid
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attention to detail you know that they actually
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really care and that's that's why i said you
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know a good bull a person that takes this place
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in people's lives really has to be in tuned.
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It's a difficult job because it takes a lot of
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moving parts to get all this stuff right. And
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you have to be well -versed in not just one,
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but like 85 different things when it comes to
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what women are looking for, what women want.
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And whenever you know that someone is so in tuned
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with detail. and you hear something, it can be
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so small, so minute, like, well, I know that
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when I do this, this makes you like freaking
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explode. But if I do this, it's not like as important.
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But hearing that someone has like taken that
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and compartmentalize that and remembered that
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and then applied it to your situations to improve
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it and enhance it each time that you're together.
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Holy crap. that like it takes it to another level,
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takes it to another level, takes it to another
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level. So that also in like a multifaceted comes
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all the way back circle to the largest sex organ
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is your brain. For a woman, that hits the brain
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so freaking hard to hear those things, to think,
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oh my gosh, this person's very in tune with me.
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They can see that, you know, if I... you know,
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can't catch my breath in this moment, or if I
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have this look on my face and I can't even speak
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in this moment, I'm baffled. They know they've
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got me. Or, you know, these moments, it's just,
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it comes, like I said, full circle to realize
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that I'm being taken care of. Right. And this
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person is very in tune with my needs and very
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in tune with my body. That's huge, huge, huge.
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And it starts back. And that's a massive, that's
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a craft. For sure. And that's what the Bull Brotherhood
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is all about, is honing their craft. And one
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of the foundational things that makes a quality
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bull for me, and probably if you don't have this
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down, you can't ever get to knowing these details
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about me, is the communication. When guys call
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to pay their respect to Socrates, to get the
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guidelines for playing with me. you know one
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of the the first things he says is listen if
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you don't communicate with my wife you know it
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ain't gonna go down for you and that's not his
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rule that's mine like you know when are we we
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got it you know if it's local like when are we
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playing tell me if anything changes for you and
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are you on your way like communicate communicate
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communicate and um because that part piece isn't
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there my pussy's so dry we're not getting to
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any of the did you wear a good outfit did you
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get the details going you know um I get turned
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off real quick when I don't know what's going
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on you know with somebody so yeah um and then
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it's like you know I don't you know I'm kind
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of I'm a person that's on time or five minutes
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late but I always communicate hey I am five minutes
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behind on my day I will be there at this time,
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you know, as soon as I know. So when other people
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don't have that courtesy to keep, you know, you
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don't tell someone you're going to be late when
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you already are. Right. So that communication
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piece and then, you know, and I'm a communicator
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in the moment too. Like when we're, when we're
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in the playtime, when we're in the time of hanging
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out, that's my best time to communicate. I'm
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not a big person to text all day or talk on the
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phone a lot. um in the process but when i get
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into that play time with the guys it's like it's
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very easy for me to just talk and communicate
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and have a good time with them in the moment
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so so so what i've found is um you know bulls
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that can really calibrate to my communication
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level so they know that i need the communication
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of when they're going to be there scheduling
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you know, confirming that day, things like that.
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But a lot of them know, Hey, this woman is very,
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very busy and they don't. So, you know, someone
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will, they'll text, they'll text you, they'll
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text you. And then like 10 minutes later, they're
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like, hello, like you are, you know, just ignoring
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them on purpose because you didn't get right
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back to them. And so I find that, you know, the
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guys that can calibrate to that and just. I just
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kind of go by the rule of, OK, on my text messages.
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OK, I texted last. I will wait for them to initiate
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the next time. You know, I will just wait for
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that because sometimes we just get busy, you
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know, and we don't have time to just do the chitter
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chatter, you know. But and then the guy that
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I had a guy tell me, he said, I noticed that
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you didn't talk as much. He's like, so I just
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pulled back to the same level you were at. And
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he's like, and then when you were more chatty.
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He's like, I chatted it up with you. When you
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sent a picture, then I sent a picture. He's like,
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I just matched your energy in the flow. And then
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this is someone that is like, you know, very,
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very new to the lifestyle and just barely learning
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about what being a bull is. So already just showing
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some natural qualities of calibration there,
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which he can just, you know, use in the future.
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So that's something that impresses me is the
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communication. And then just being able to calibrate
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to the woman's communication. Whereas I tell
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guys there's other women, they want to talk a
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lot and they want to talk every day. I was like,
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you can use your energy, that energy for them.
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And for me, you know, calibrate to calibrate
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to my chattiness or lack of. And then when we
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get into the play moment, I promise I'll talk
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your ear off. That's that's when I'll be. wanted
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to talk of all the things because I don't have
25:41
anything else distracting me and I can just focus
25:44
on that person and that's why more recently I've
25:47
just enjoyed solo play a lot more and had more
25:51
opportunities with it because then I can you
25:54
know because the rest of my life is so busy so
25:57
it's nice to just have that more quiet time to
26:01
just talk to another human being one -on -one
26:04
and get to know them so what else comes to mind
26:07
for you when you think of a quality bull well
26:10
well yeah i mean even spinning off of what you
26:14
just said communication so i mean i one of the
26:17
hottest one of the hottest things that i completely
26:23
absolutely love and enjoy is the mouthpiece the
26:26
mouthpiece if you can talk the talk when we are
26:28
engaging in sexual interaction and you can whether
26:32
it is talking up and you're talking in and straight
26:36
into my kink my thing that i like or in its variety
26:42
it's it's this and and i that kind of like i
26:46
said can you give a more clear example like give
26:50
me an example because if i'm confused men are
26:53
confused so give me a clear example by what you
26:56
mean by that i know you're really excited Yeah.
27:00
So everything that I say is very multifaceted.
27:04
There's different things and different aspects
27:07
to it. So when I say the mouthpiece, the mouthpiece
27:10
is the mouth connected to the brain, connected
27:12
to the details, connected to the dynamic, connected
27:15
to you seeing me and you reading my body language.
27:19
So if you're talking and you're saying something
27:22
and I'm not really responding and I'm just like,
27:24
okay, but when you're talking and saying something.
27:27
And you're looking at me and I'm definitely responding.
27:31
Holy crap, don't stop. Or there's the other piece
27:34
of even with the fantasy play, like talking through
27:39
things, discussing things that maybe you're naughty
27:42
or on the taboo side. That is so amazingly hot.
27:47
If you can meet and match up with your sexual
27:50
equal and you will get. And in my case, a lot
27:59
of times this stark look of, I can't even respond
28:02
if we are engaged sexually and, you know, the
28:06
talk or the story or the conversation is this
28:09
and whatnot, and the details come into play.
28:11
And I'm just, I almost feel breathless. Like
28:14
I'm, I'm stuck in this moment, but I don't want
28:16
it to stop. Right. It's that powerful in that
28:20
moment. I don't want it to stop. And I'm afraid
28:22
that if I respond, it's going to stop. Because
28:25
I'm just here playing it out and listening and
28:29
taking it in. And then I'm getting more and more
28:31
and more turned on every single word, every moment,
28:34
every look, every anything. So do you have the
28:39
ability to tell a hot, sexy, detailed story?
28:43
Or do you have the ability to speak to? a taboo
28:48
or a fetish or something in the moment in that
28:52
heated moment of pleasuring somebody else do
28:55
you have that ability with that mouthpiece to
28:58
and also with your eyeballs and look and observe
29:01
is it something that someone's into is it something
29:04
that they're they're really really it's hitting
29:07
home with them and you're like oh okay well okay
29:10
more i say this oh yeah she's wet oh yeah oh
29:13
yeah you keep moving on with it so that's another
29:16
thing like i said People have to be observant
29:18
when they're doing these things. But the mouthpiece
29:21
is 100 % one of the hottest things because it's
29:24
connected to your brain. It's connected to all
29:26
these things. And the ability, that's like super,
29:29
super hardcore foreplay to talk about different
29:33
things. And what's also amazing about what you're
29:38
expressing is the goal for every woman. And that
29:43
is to just have their mind be freed. Our outside
29:47
lives are so busy. You know, we have so many
29:51
responsibilities. Like you and I are both wives.
29:54
We're both mothers. We both work. We have a lot
29:57
of demands on us. So when we get that time to
30:00
spend with someone one -on -one like that, and
30:05
they have that ability to, through physical pleasure,
30:09
through speaking to us, to take us somewhere
30:13
else that we can, and I don't even want to say
30:17
escape because I love my life, but just to free
30:20
my mind that nothing outside that room matters,
30:23
just where I'm at in that moment. And I don't
30:28
have that with every play partner situation.
30:31
So the ones where I get that, where I look up
30:34
and I'm like, Oh, it's been three hours and we
30:39
are still here. You know, that is, that is something,
30:44
you know, That is a special, not special, but
30:49
a unique situation because not everyone can get
30:53
you there. So what you're describing is part
30:56
of that, just mind freeing experience. And then
31:00
it turns into mind blowing, right? Well, because
31:03
when you release all those responsibilities,
31:06
you release the knocking on the door of, Ma,
31:09
can you do this? Or, hey, what's for dinner?
31:12
Or it releases so much. and everyday life responsibilities
31:17
of everyone relies on me. And now in this moment,
31:22
I have someone that is focused and tuned into
31:28
details and is very, very much driven to make
31:34
this situation about me and to please me. But
31:37
yet, I think from my experience that whenever...
31:42
A bull sees how well and pleased you are, and
31:45
that's what gets them off. Not always in every
31:49
situation, but for them to be able to see what
31:52
they're doing to you and the outcome, to know
31:56
that they're doing that. They're giving you that
31:59
ecstasy. They are, in that moment, providing
32:03
you with something that, and let's just call
32:06
it this, other people cannot provide. That's
32:10
huge. That's a huge connection. It's important
32:12
to a sexual experience. But yeah, the mouthpiece,
32:18
100%. You know, I want to walk in the house to
32:23
my husband fucking the babysitter, right? And
32:26
this is a situation where I'm like, oh my God,
32:28
this is so hot. Can you spin off on that? And
32:31
can you be creative in the moment? and continue
32:35
on with something that's going to be a huge turn
32:37
on for the both of us. Because one, I might be
32:40
turned on, but then as you're looking at me and
32:42
as we're doing stuff, you're going to look at
32:44
me, you're going to assess my body language and
32:47
everything else. It's all going to come back
32:48
full circle. It's all going to play out to be
32:51
the most amazing freaking situation ever. I love
32:54
your enthusiasm for that too. Because that's
32:57
exactly, you know, when I listen to my husband
33:00
and also Brian talk, you know, it is that. That
33:03
feeling of being that pleasure provider, you
33:06
know, like we've spoke about in the past. So
33:08
that's important. And, you know, not every not
33:11
every guy is the role play thing is his thing.
33:15
And there's lots of ways, you know, and things
33:18
that bulls do to to please. So but it's good
33:21
to hear. what you're into and what you want.
33:25
I'm going to speak on a little bit of the more
33:27
casual, but I am more of a woman, like I talked
33:32
about, I don't like to chat a lot. And you're
33:34
like, man, I need that mental connection. I need
33:37
to talk, you know. I don't need as much of that
33:40
often. And I just want to speak out to the ladies
33:45
and to the bulls of like, Lindsay and I are showing
33:48
you kind of two sides of the coin of what, We
33:53
prefer and nothing that anyone prefers is bad
33:57
or wrong. We all prefer different things. We're
34:01
talking about what a quality bull is in general.
34:04
And then what specifically really gets us to
34:08
that point of being like, wow, this is a quality
34:11
bull. So, you know, just understand that really
34:15
communicating and listening are going to be your
34:18
top things when you're. involved with a woman
34:23
whether she has a husband or not um you know
34:28
you want to tune into to what it is that she's
34:32
looking for um you always want to be yourself
34:35
so that's why it's like you know what if you're
34:37
not a good fit for this woman and you're working
34:41
on honing your craft you're learning from other
34:43
bulls from more seasoned bulls um and it's not
34:47
a good fit that's okay there's going to be other
34:49
women that will enjoy you when it comes to the
34:53
personality aspects. But the foundational things
34:56
of communication, listening, respect. I know,
35:00
Lindsay, you know, that it means a lot to you
35:03
that Brian and Phillip are friends, that Brian
35:06
shows a great level of respect for your husband.
35:10
For me, you know, it's a little bit different
35:14
with... with my husband being the married bull
35:17
but it means a lot to me and i require things
35:20
that my husband doesn't even require of the guys
35:23
that i play with you know if they were ever to
35:26
just like you know brush it off or want to address
35:30
him or not want to say hello to him like there's
35:33
a guy the other day that here's the process i
35:35
said you know um i only talked to them a few
35:38
minutes i'm like all right well you know is it
35:39
is it good okay well you got to talk to my husband
35:42
He's going to go over the guidelines with you.
35:44
And there was one guy that was like, well, can
35:48
we do like a three -way call and you can be on
35:50
it with me? And I said, next. Because if they
35:53
can't even pick up the phone man to man and call
35:57
a guy who, and I always tell them, my husband's
35:59
super chill. Yeah. He's a really hot black guy,
36:03
but he's super chill. Like he's not going to
36:07
grill you or like, you know, ask you a bunch
36:10
of crazy questions. He just wants to make sure
36:12
I'm safe, respected, and that you communicate
36:16
with me and that when it's time you lay it down.
36:20
So it's pretty simple with my husband. So, and
36:22
when a guy can't even get on the phone with him,
36:24
I'm just like, meh, you know, that's okay. And
36:28
for us to being in an interracial relationship,
36:31
Women will either get intimidated by me or guys
36:35
will get intimidated by my husband. We just want
36:38
people to show respect to our partners. There's
36:44
a handful of times that he has told me no about
36:48
some guys. He's like, listen, babe, this guy,
36:53
I just have this feeling. And I'll just say,
36:55
okay, no problem. Because you know what? For
36:58
every one he said no to, there's a hundred. that
37:01
I got that that he's like yeah go have a great
37:03
time and same with me you know sometimes I'll
37:06
just get like a vibe about a woman and be like
37:08
okay daddy you do what you want here but I just
37:11
telling you something's off you know so just
37:14
having that communication so you know it's not
37:17
you know if you if people it's not that we're
37:21
intimidating it's that people are intimidated
37:25
do understand the difference and I think I think
37:28
it was Brian that taught me that and um and it's
37:31
just true and it helps helps me in that realm
37:33
of like when you're just asking for respect from
37:37
you know people then if they're intimidated beyond
37:41
that that's that's their deal that's their problem
37:44
you know and um you know I've had different guys
37:48
oh I didn't know you want to play with me I I
37:50
was intimidated by your husband or this that
37:52
or whatever it's like what the heck you know
37:56
he is like the nicest guy and so we try to put
37:59
it out there you know hey ladies I don't bite
38:02
but please just come say hello to me and then
38:05
guess what take my husband by the hand and run
38:07
away Suck his dick and do all kinds of nasty
38:09
shit. Like it's fine. And guys, same thing. Right.
38:15
Yeah. You ain't paying your bills. Um, you know,
38:19
I, I just, I just, I just hit a parked car today.
38:22
Okay. And I called, I called Socrates and I was
38:25
like, thank you for being a husband. That's not,
38:28
does not get mad at me. Does not yell at me when
38:31
I make mistakes. It's like, okay. ladies you're
38:34
not having that with him you know what i mean
38:36
that's our deal right so it doesn't matter so
38:39
yeah you get to have the fun part you know you
38:42
don't have to ever call him and say that you
38:44
uh hit a parked car you just uh might call him
38:48
and say oh hey i was parked in my car and i was
38:51
thinking naughty thoughts about you you know
38:53
whatever and guys guys same thing shake his hand
38:57
Take me by the hand and run off and let's do
39:00
all sorts of nasty things. So the respect factor
39:03
is huge, but that goes definitely both directions.
39:06
So I'm trying to think. Yeah, just that that
39:11
confidence is like. Just don't be afraid of couples
39:16
that are married, you know. whatever their dynamic
39:20
is just go up and ask you know just having that
39:23
confidence to just approach people with a friendly
39:26
manner and if they say no thank you just get
39:29
used to that that's part of the lifestyle um
39:32
i get said no thank you to guys tell me no thank
39:35
you you know and sometimes sometimes couple years
39:40
sometimes couple years later they eventually
39:42
say oh hey You know, and that's okay. Yeah, it's
39:52
okay. It's okay. And just, you know, you don't
39:55
have to tell people, oh, maybe later, whatever.
39:56
Just say, I'm not interested. It's okay. But
39:59
have the confidence that they're not rejecting
40:01
you personally. They're just not interested right
40:04
now. They have their eye on something, you know,
40:07
and it's not personal. So move along to the next
40:11
one and just have that confidence that and keep
40:15
working on your skills. So what else you got,
40:18
girl? I would say I really enjoy a person who's
40:26
genuine. And authentic. Yes, that was the second
40:32
word that was going to come out of my face. Kind
40:34
of go hand in hand, though, for sure. It really
40:38
does. Being genuine and authentic. I mean, showing
40:42
your true self, you know, that's huge. It's hard
40:45
for people to do that because a lot of people
40:48
are very guarded. And I think that they feel
40:53
guarded maybe because they've been burned, maybe
40:55
because they've been treated some sort of a way,
40:57
but especially being a bull. And I talked about
41:03
it before. That was a huge, major attraction
41:08
for me with Brian was the fact of that whenever,
41:13
how's that freaking app or whatever it's called.
41:18
I was on there and I saw that this person was
41:22
on there. He was posting and I look at it and
41:25
I'm like, Brian. Okay. Saw his last name. I'm
41:29
like, wait a second. Is this for real? And that
41:33
was a pretty big deal for me because before,
41:37
most of the people that Phillip and I would engage
41:40
with or talk to, they had some really stupid
41:42
ass names like Dick Slinger 85 and Midnight fucking
41:47
Buttfucker. It was like, what the fuck? I mean,
41:50
stupid ass shit. You're like, okay, I am not
41:54
talking to you. But when I saw... But this person
41:57
legit put their first and last name out there.
42:01
And I was like, hold on. Hold on. And then talking
42:06
to him, messaging him. I'm confused. Did you
42:10
spell Dick Slayer 500 wrong? And it's actually
42:14
spelled Brian. Oh, that is very unique. And it's
42:20
pretty normal to have aliases, but you are right.
42:22
Some of them, I'm just like, it's kind of like
42:25
a junior high email, right? Like sassypantsathotmail
42:29
.com. Yeah. Like, yeah. There's some ridiculous
42:37
shit out there, but I will tell you by far, that's
42:41
the most memorable and amazing. quality and trait
42:45
um that hold close and dear to my heart is the
42:49
fact of seeing um a real name and then messaging
42:54
this person because i'm not well you talk about
42:57
communicating about you know boundaries and i'm
42:59
doing stuff and whatever and i talked about like
43:03
communication in the bed right but my other part
43:06
of my communication is i'm not a huge communicator
43:09
when it comes to trying to vet people or talk
43:11
to people it's just not my thing I don't do that.
43:16
I'm not, as we both have said, our lives are
43:19
so busy. We have families, we have kids, we have
43:22
households, we have animals, we have all these
43:23
things. I've got stuff I need to do. I have people
43:26
that rely on me. I take care of people for a
43:30
living. I'm a nurse. I do this all day long.
43:33
When it comes to me making a meal, I'm the last
43:37
person that eats the meal. 100 % all day long
43:40
for the last 24 freaking years. to see that this
43:45
person is throwing themselves out there and they're
43:49
a real person. And then when I talk to them,
43:51
and I kind of referenced this earlier, it's like,
43:54
not within like the two minutes did I get like
43:56
a dick pic or nothing like, show me your pussy.
43:59
Like, okay. I always say, let the woman just
44:05
send them on her own unless it gets further in,
44:09
right? Like, don't ask. Let me be the one that's
44:13
the naughty girl. Let me be the one that offers
44:15
up the naughty girl stuff. And, and then I can
44:18
sit back or I can be submissive and calm down
44:21
and, and you can say, okay, show me blah, blah,
44:24
blah, because you're going to be good submissive
44:26
slut or whatever. Right. As you form your friendship
44:29
and relationship, whatever that looks like. But
44:32
yeah, if you're a new guy on campus, sit down.
44:39
Once again, one of these terms that I use in
44:42
my household often with my children and my husband,
44:45
call them your cheddies, and just sit back, relax.
44:50
It will happen. Things will happen. It has to
44:53
happen, you know, organically. It just can't
44:56
just be thrown out there and kabam. I was shoving
45:00
these things down your throat and you're going
45:02
to instantly like, Oh my God, we're going to
45:04
go like off and make a connection. Right. I don't
45:06
know what, because this is the discussion. Yeah.
45:10
This is the discussion even among vanilla women
45:12
is when you're just barely talking to someone
45:15
and they send you a dick pic. I mean, I guess
45:19
one of these times I'm just going to mess with
45:21
them and respond this way and say, Oh my God,
45:24
I've never seen anything like that. What's your
45:26
address? I'm coming over right now and jump on
45:29
that. Because is that what they're expecting?
45:31
Like, I don't really know what to say when I
45:34
get those. I'm just like, or I joke and I say,
45:39
I like to meet my dicks in person. Okay, we're
45:44
getting off on the dick thing way so much. I
45:48
want to touch on the authenticity part. you know,
45:54
is being like, you know, there's different volumes
45:57
of your personality. Um, you know, when you have
46:01
to be a little more professional or maybe you
46:05
have to be around family, you know, and you,
46:07
um, but then when you're around your good friends,
46:11
I tell my kids like, listen, we need to be authentic
46:15
and be ourselves everywhere we're at. But there's
46:18
certain places that we might turn the volume
46:20
up or down. But I just value people who are the
46:24
same person regardless of who they're around.
46:27
There are people that I feel like I'm around
46:32
them in one situation and then I'm around them
46:35
in another one. And I don't even know. I don't
46:38
even recognize them. It's totally different.
46:40
So I just value people just like being their
46:43
authentic selves. you know, whatever room they're
46:47
in, but just learning how to, to adjust their
46:50
volume. So I really like what you said there,
46:53
but, um, I think we should let the guys jump
46:55
in here and kind of, um, give their thoughts,
46:58
see if they have any other questions for us and
47:01
then we'll wrap it up. Cause we have already
47:04
talked damn near an hour and we like to keep
47:08
it under here. So, um, okay. So you guys can.
47:14
maybe just one question each socrates and brian
47:17
socrates you want to go first he was rubbing
47:18
his hands like he's getting ready to eat a good
47:20
meal actually i was gonna i was gonna yield the
47:25
floor to hunk because you know this is his girl
47:28
and i'm sure he's got you know things he might
47:32
want to discuss yeah okay go ahead brian what
47:37
do you think of our conversation Great conversation.
47:42
Very good conversation. I think very, very truthful
47:47
from both sides. I'd like to know who Lindsay
47:51
was talking about the whole time. Stop it. You
47:56
know it's you. And from what I know about you
48:00
too, especially the storytelling thing, I was
48:02
like, oh, mm -hmm. Stop it. Okay, let's talk
48:09
about where my right hand is at right now, okay?
48:12
Let's, let's. Yeah, there really isn't a question
48:20
or questions for me to ask. I think she kind
48:24
of summed up, she summed up everything. As far
48:28
as like what I am, at least. I mean, you know,
48:33
she's had other encounters, of course. And I'm
48:36
quite sure that they were all good. But when
48:40
you put it all together, as she says, that's
48:44
what makes a quality bull. And I do pride myself
48:48
on being able to, when I'm in the bedroom, to
48:50
tell a story. I am as kinky as they come. She
48:55
kept saying the word taboo. And we won't go into
48:59
that. But we are very, very, very kinky in the
49:04
taboo realm. And, yes, she's already playing.
49:07
She's carrying a pussy right now. She's carrying
49:12
a pussy right now. You better jump in the car
49:15
and get over there. No, no, no. I don't have
49:20
to. I don't have to. She'll finish herself off.
49:23
She'll come for you right now. But, yeah, she
49:28
pretty much summed it all up. There is no question
49:33
for me to ask. Great job. Great interview on
49:37
both sides. Great interview. Go ahead and take
49:40
it away, nephew. I know damn well you got some
49:42
damn questions. Of course. Okay, you got two
49:46
minutes. Okay. Lindsay, so my first question
49:50
is talking about the mouthpiece part. You did
49:53
a beautiful connection between the brain to the
49:55
mouthpiece and to the mouthpiece to your ears.
49:59
I don't know. Can you do that whole process again?
50:01
What was that breakdown? of why the mouthpiece
50:04
is so important because you made this linear
50:07
connection i thought was beautiful oh yeah um
50:11
so no i was talking about like the mouthpiece
50:13
and being in tuned with like when when you're
50:16
talking to someone whenever you are in that space
50:19
in that moment and you know that you are really
50:23
playing tugging at something that turns somebody
50:26
on you're looking and observing and you're taking
50:30
all that in you're being in tune with those details
50:33
That is the most amazing, the most hottest, the
50:37
most desirable thing for a woman, a hot wife.
50:40
And I love my husband. He's downstairs watching
50:45
the foosball right now as we speak. But you know
50:48
what? You love each other. It is what it is.
50:52
And you're going to be here together for the
50:55
long haul. But when it comes to a bull that has
50:59
and can. finite this fine art of this mouthpiece
51:05
tell me and talk to me and tell me that dirty
51:08
as shit tell me that you have this desire for
51:11
me to be maybe a teacher that stayed after school
51:15
late and you're trouble and you're gonna do this
51:19
and that we're gonna do this and then now you
51:21
know even this conversation of the babysitter
51:24
like oh you walk into the house and you catch
51:27
me you know fucking the babysitter that shit
51:29
is hot as hell oh my god um the ability to hear
51:35
these details and then actually pay attention
51:38
to how the body is responding how the mind is
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even the visual aspect of the eyeballs because
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i have a hard time at times i'm like breathless
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and i can't even speak i'm like and i get asked
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a question and i can't speak and then i get asked
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Why can't you answer? And I just, I look like
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this blank stare of, oh my God, oh my God. And
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if I speak, I'm going to shut this situation
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down and I refuse to now speak. So I'm just,
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I'm in this moment. I'm drawn into this fantasy,
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this moment. Holy effing crap. So you're really
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into the role play. You're really into the role
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play. But it's the mouthpiece. The person is
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in tune with your brain. The person knows what
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you like. The person knows what turns you on.
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This person knows and can look at you and say,
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oh, she's not on the tip of the – over here.
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Let me go over here and do this. It's like, oh,
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yeah, that person knows. Siren, let me answer
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that question. All right. To answer the question,
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she was not into the role play, okay? She was
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not into the role play until a little while ago
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when I introduced it to her while I was fucking
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her. Yeah, I love it. I don't have anyone that
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doesn't. I gave her a scenario while I was fucking
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her, okay? And I just simply told her, I was
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like, there's nothing hotter than it. than a
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beautiful mom. What if I was one of your son's
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friends that came over to the house all the time
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and you're thinking, oh my God, he's the cutest
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thing. He comes over to see my son, but I'm not
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coming over there to see my friend. I'm actually
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coming over there. Why do you think I walk up
53:37
to you while you're over there doing the dishes
53:39
and something that I wrap my arms around you
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and say hello? Hello, Mrs. Baldrige. And I just
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have my arms around you. And I give you just
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the slightest pull up against me while you got
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your little shorts and your top on. Do you see
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what I'm saying? And I stop it right there. But
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yeah. But that is what I'm talking about. grieved
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and hollered and I said, you're making me squirt
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in my face. I'm squirting in my fucking face.
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God damn it. I squirted in my own fucking face.
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You just have to be, you become, the bull becomes
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totally and completely in tuned with his woman,
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with his hot wife. Nothing else matters. He's
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already pleased. Okay, i .e. the pleasure provider.
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He's already pleased. I was pleased from the
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moment she contacted me. I was pleased. Okay,
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so ever since then, I have been delivering something
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different. I always keep on guessing. That's
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something that a husband always says. You never
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fucking know what Brian's going to do. I might
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be dominant. I might be dominant as fuck one
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damn time. And then I might turn around the next
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time and be just as fucking... Making love and
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soft and caressing, et cetera, et cetera. She
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never knows what the fuck she's going to get.
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Never knows. And that's what makes this shit
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exciting. That's what makes the whole part of
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claiming, training, and owning exciting. Okay?
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And if I could. She's fine. She's fine. No need
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to check on her, Brian. You're interrupting.
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All right. Socrates, did that answer your question?
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Socrates? Yes. All right. Any more questions,
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babe? No, ma 'am. You said we only had one each.
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yeah well brian jumped back in there so and we
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don't want well i don't know you know we'd love
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to hear lindsay finish but i think that's all
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the time we have for today so you'll just have
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to get her in person sometime all right brian
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close us out as usual All right, ladies and gentlemen,
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we have had an exciting, a very, very exciting
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discussion tonight with the lovely Siren. And,
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of course, my baby girl, Lindsay, from Jacksonville,
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North Kakalaki. Until we meet again, ladies and
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gentlemen, to all my bull brothers out there,
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I bid you good night. And to all my hot wives,
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unicorns, sexy ladies out there, good morning.
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This is the Sigma Male coming at you, Brian Morgan,
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along with Siren and Socrates. And the lovely
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Lindsay. saying Auf Wiedersehen. Good night,
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y 'all. Bye -bye.