Latest / Reality with The King / MAR-TELL ME WHO YOU LOVE | LAMH Recap with Claudia, Dustin & Blue
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- 0:39Speaker 2: Oui, oui.
- 0:40Speaker 1: Episode six. Okay. Let's get right into it, y'all. We
- 0:46Speaker 1: are here to discuss the entire episode. But first thing first,
- 0:49Speaker 1: we have to get into Arianne leaving the moment Destiny
- 0:54Speaker 1: walks in. Nell says, Arianne, not you leaving because Destiny
- 1:00Speaker 1: is here. What is going on? This moment even allowed
- 1:06Speaker 1: Tisha and Destiny to even sort of like.
- 1:12Speaker 3: Find their way back. Make amends.
- 1:14Speaker 1: Right, Dustin? So, Dustin, what were your thoughts on this scene?
- 1:19Speaker 3: Sure. I thought that Nell and Letitia Scott were extremely
- 1:24Speaker 3: petty for saying, not you leaving when Destiny coming. Not
- 1:28Speaker 3: Destiny making you leave. There was a progression of. I'm
- 1:32Speaker 3: going to go on and say it. They started off saying, oh, no, Arianne,
- 1:35Speaker 3: don't leave. You really about to take off? And as
- 1:38Speaker 3: Arianne was getting closer and closer to that doorframe, they
- 1:41Speaker 3: went on and went for it. Not destiny making you leave.
- 1:43Speaker 3: Not you leaving when destiny come in. You know, that's
- 1:46Speaker 3: what the conversation was. And I was laughing like, y'all
- 1:48Speaker 3: petty as hell for that. But it was funny and
- 1:51Speaker 3: it was right on time. And Arianne, I expect that
- 1:55Speaker 3: of her. She didn't have anything prepared. She wasn't debrief.
- 1:59Speaker 3: and demartelled before that interaction with Destiny. She was ready
- 2:03Speaker 3: for Letitia Scott. She was ready for Kimmy Scott, but
- 2:07Speaker 3: she wasn't ready for Destiny. She had to go back
- 2:09Speaker 3: and get the download. You know what I'm saying? And
- 2:12Speaker 3: be ready for war. When she went to Kimmy and
- 2:16Speaker 3: Maurice's event later on in the episodes, you could tell
- 2:18Speaker 3: she was better prepared for the engagement.
- 2:22Speaker 1: Well, to lose my, do you agree with Dustin that, um, Ariane,
- 2:27Speaker 1: excuse me, was instead of debrief, he called it get demartelled.
- 2:32Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 2:33Speaker 1: Beholded, if you will.
- 2:34Speaker 2: Beholded.
- 2:35Speaker 4: Well.
- 2:39Speaker 1: What were your thoughts on that? Were you surprised that
- 2:43Speaker 1: that turn of events really made Tisha and Destiny, you know,
- 2:49Speaker 1: at least in this episode, sort of like make amends
- 2:54Speaker 1: in a bit?
- 2:55Speaker 2: No, I wasn't surprised at all because a lot of
- 2:58Speaker 2: times people will say, I love how real you are.
- 3:00Speaker 2: I love how real you are until it's their turn.
- 3:04Speaker 2: And so I'm not surprised that she liked it when
- 3:06Speaker 2: it wasn't her turn. That doesn't surprise me at all.
- 3:09Speaker 2: Because one thing we know about Destiny is she does
- 3:10Speaker 2: not need little cue cards from a strong-backed man in
- 3:14Speaker 2: the South in order to speak her mind. She's also
- 3:17Speaker 2: not trying to get picked. And so she also has autonomy,
- 3:20Speaker 2: so she could think for herself. One of the things
- 3:22Speaker 2: I think that was interesting, number one, somebody in the
- 3:25Speaker 2: shop said to me when we were watching the show, because,
- 3:26Speaker 2: you know, we watch the show every week in the shop, Carlos.
- 3:28Speaker 2: She was like, is that girl still windswept? I said,
- 3:31Speaker 2: her hair is still windswept, right? There seems to be
- 3:35Speaker 2: a copy and paste. It's like, when she does her
- 3:37Speaker 2: hair like that, I'm sorry, nephew, you guys, my own apology.
- 3:39Speaker 2: I think that hair is part of her armor. You
- 3:41Speaker 2: know how Janelle Monáe used to wear a costume? It's like,
- 3:44Speaker 2: whenever she does her hair like that, she's, like, prepared
- 3:46Speaker 2: for battle.
- 3:46Speaker 3: Like Nebuchadnezzar.
- 3:48Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like her magic. It's like the swoop. If
- 3:51Speaker 2: she wants to win us back, maybe a side part
- 3:53Speaker 2: next season. So she came for a battle that she
- 3:57Speaker 2: prepared for and did not know that Ogre was going
- 3:59Speaker 2: to come. One thing that bothers me, though, because, you know,
- 4:00Speaker 2: words mean things. She said it was fake that the
- 4:04Speaker 2: women that had previous problems with Destiny but were still
- 4:09Speaker 2: willing to be cordial to her on camera for a
- 4:13Speaker 2: show that they're all taping together. And yet that's the
- 4:15Speaker 2: entire premise of Carlos bringing you on this season.
- 4:18Speaker 3: Hello.
- 4:19Speaker 2: You and all of Melody's old friends are now gonna
- 4:22Speaker 2: have to be cute with each other for you to
- 4:24Speaker 2: take her spot all these years later on the show.
- 4:26Speaker 2: So you're calling it hypocritical when it's entirely the only
- 4:29Speaker 2: reason why you're even relevant to people like me who
- 4:31Speaker 2: didn't know you existed. So pick which one is it?
- 4:33Speaker 2: Is it hypocritical or is it how you gotta check?
- 4:35Speaker 2: It can't be both. You're mad that Destiny is trying
- 4:39Speaker 2: to just be a realized bitch. And here's the thing
- 4:41Speaker 2: that's so funny to me, too, is what is funny
- 4:44Speaker 2: about that moment with the girls heckling, like Dustin pointed out,
- 4:48Speaker 2: they're scared of Destiny, in my opinion, at first. Not Destiny, of,
- 4:52Speaker 2: what is it, Arianne? Arianne. My brain won't hold on
- 4:54Speaker 2: to it. Arianne. The reason why I think they were
- 4:56Speaker 2: hyped is because they know Destiny's doing it. I only
- 5:00Speaker 2: hold on to things that are relevant or that I respect.
- 5:03Speaker 2: The thing that was happening is they knew Destiny was
- 5:05Speaker 2: the one person who was not scared of having something
- 5:07Speaker 2: to lose. They knew she was the one person who
- 5:10Speaker 2: was going to make you catch the smoke that you
- 5:12Speaker 2: tried to put on them. And they were like, oh,
- 5:14Speaker 2: this is going to be exciting because we're going to
- 5:16Speaker 2: see you get what you deserve while our hands are
- 5:18Speaker 2: still clean. Do I respect it? Not necessarily because one
- 5:21Speaker 2: could say it's a little bit cowardly. But I do
- 5:23Speaker 2: understand and I think it's hilarious. And now that you've
- 5:25Speaker 2: spoken about her child, it's up and it's stuck and
- 5:27Speaker 2: I think you know that and you're nervous. I think
- 5:30Speaker 2: she knows that she pushed the one button that will
- 5:32Speaker 2: make Destiny stop keeping it cute and keep it real instead. So, Arianne, Arianne,
- 5:38Speaker 2: you know, man in the mirror or according to the AI,
- 5:41Speaker 2: you know, we love Mimi, but the AI plotted you
- 5:43Speaker 2: as Mimi. I hope that you watch this season and
- 5:47Speaker 2: this show and realize maybe next season do something different
- 5:50Speaker 2: because not only is this not working for you, God
- 5:53Speaker 2: forbid if you and Martel don't work back, this is
- 5:55Speaker 2: all going to age like spoiled milk when you are
- 5:57Speaker 2: talking about girl power because suddenly you need us again.
- 6:00Speaker 2: But go off though, sis.
- 6:03Speaker 1: Claudia Jordan.
- 6:04Speaker 5: When her and Martel break up, which I do predict
- 6:07Speaker 5: will happen in the next year or two, I feel
- 6:10Speaker 5: like they're going to have struggles after this season, honestly.
- 6:12Speaker 5: Right now, he's loving that he has backup and he's
- 6:15Speaker 5: got his mouthpiece.
- 6:16Speaker 4: She's doing all the dirty work. She's front and center.
- 6:18Speaker 4: He's sitting back loving it.
- 6:19Speaker 5: Because in the past few years, he hasn't felt like
- 6:20Speaker 5: he's had backup.
- 6:21Speaker 4: It's been him against everybody, right? For his own actions.
- 6:25Speaker 5: You could tell he's like, I feel like she makes
- 6:29Speaker 5: him nervous because she's like a little bit of a
- 6:30Speaker 5: loose cannon. I do think that the ladies are letting
- 6:34Speaker 5: Destiny do the hard work, the heavy lifting, which is
- 6:38Speaker 5: a little cowardly. You ladies have every right to take
- 6:42Speaker 5: it to this girl. She talked all this shit about y'all.
- 6:44Speaker 5: There's no reason to handle her with kid gloves. Now,
- 6:47Speaker 5: I understand the first episode, first, second scenes, you know,
- 6:50Speaker 5: where you're like, all right, let's just give it a shot.
- 6:53Speaker 4: But she's more than popped off.
- 6:55Speaker 5: And as far as the dynamic between Arion and Destiny.
- 7:00Speaker 5: I love that Destiny's existence just bothers Arion so much
- 7:07Speaker 5: because she knows deep down inside her man's feelings for
- 7:12Speaker 5: Destiny are a lot stronger than they are for anybody
- 7:14Speaker 5: else there. The way he wanted to go to Destiny,
- 7:18Speaker 5: the way he has spoken so glowingly about Destiny, So
- 7:22Speaker 5: Arion is just finally getting revealed and being able to
- 7:26Speaker 5: come out and play, come outside after how many years?
- 7:30Speaker 5: But he's publicly made it very clear his feelings and
- 7:32Speaker 5: his respect and his love as much as he can
- 7:34Speaker 5: love someone for Destiny.
- 7:37Speaker 4: What is that saying?
- 7:38Speaker 5: The enemy of my enemy is my friend. That's what's
- 7:40Speaker 5: happening here. Tisha and Destiny getting close. Like, you know,
- 7:44Speaker 5: Arion's going to make the girls bond against her because
- 7:46Speaker 5: she's annoying to everyone. It's like the one thing they
- 7:48Speaker 5: can all agree on. She's annoying as hell. I just
- 7:52Speaker 5: am not a fan of arrogant side piece bitches. And
- 7:56Speaker 5: I know you're watching, Arianne. And you can be mad
- 7:59Speaker 5: if you like to. You should be mad. But you
- 8:01Speaker 5: really should be mad at me, Dustin, Blue, or Carlos.
- 8:04Speaker 4: You should be mad at yourself for allowing yourself to
- 8:07Speaker 4: be in. You know those motor vehicles? It's like a motorcycle.
- 8:10Speaker 4: Then they have the little cubby next to it.
- 8:13Speaker 2: Sidecar.
- 8:14Speaker 4: Little person could fit in there. That's what you are
- 8:15Speaker 4: right now.
- 8:16Speaker 5: And you think you deserve to be on the main motorcycle,
- 8:19Speaker 5: and you don't.
- 8:20Speaker 3: You don't.
- 8:20Speaker 4: And not saying it's the end all be.
- 8:22Speaker 5: All the way you started your relationship with Martel, but
- 8:24Speaker 5: the first part of making things right would be to
- 8:27Speaker 5: come in with a little bit of humility and be like,
- 8:28Speaker 5: I messed up.
- 8:29Speaker 4: I am sorry.
- 8:30Speaker 5: I never want to do this to another woman. And
- 8:32Speaker 5: maybe publicly apologize to the people you need to apologize to.
- 8:35Speaker 5: And then because you're coming off so, like, it's like
- 8:37Speaker 5: you do something wrong, you come in arrogant, and then
- 8:39Speaker 5: you expect, you're like perplexed. Why people view me like this?
- 8:43Speaker 5: Why people think about me like this? Because there was
- 8:46Speaker 5: never any redemption. And Martel, you're not helping either. Y'all
- 8:49Speaker 5: both need to do a more humble, come in with
- 8:51Speaker 5: a little more humble. Y'all look too hot to be
- 8:52Speaker 5: in the wrong. And that's why you rubbing everybody the
- 8:55Speaker 5: wrong way.
- 8:55Speaker 4: You're irritating. And side chicks love you. Maybe.
- 8:58Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 8:59Speaker 4: Do side chicks love her? I'm assuming. I don't really
- 9:00Speaker 4: have any side chick friends anymore. I used to. I
- 9:02Speaker 4: got rid of them.
- 9:03Speaker 3: I had two.
- 9:04Speaker 4: You know who you are.
- 9:04Speaker 3: I'd like to add a note also before we move
- 9:07Speaker 3: on from this. It's interesting to see Martel functioning in
- 9:10Speaker 3: the different relationships that we've seen him in, right? He
- 9:13Speaker 3: functioned one way as a husband to his wife. He's
- 9:18Speaker 3: functioning in his current iteration of that coupling with Arianne.
- 9:23Speaker 3: When he was in a relationship with Sharae, he just
- 9:26Speaker 3: moves differently with each woman, right? When he was with Sharae,
- 9:28Speaker 3: Sharae's so cool and composed compared to Arianne, right? He
- 9:34Speaker 3: was the one over there acting a fool, yelling and
- 9:37Speaker 3: screaming on the housewives of Atlanta, getting into it, arguing
- 9:40Speaker 3: on camera, while Sharae's sitting back cool as a cucumber
- 9:42Speaker 3: watching it go down, right? Letting him do the dirty work.
- 9:45Speaker 3: It's interesting that in this relationship, this coupling with Arian,
- 9:50Speaker 3: she's the one acting a fool and he's got the
- 9:53Speaker 3: puppet strings and he's much more dominant. He appears to
- 9:56Speaker 3: be much more dominant in his relationship with Arian than
- 9:59Speaker 3: we've seen him be. and function in as a partner
- 10:01Speaker 3: to two of the last people that we saw him
- 10:04Speaker 3: with publicly. And I just think that's a very interesting contrast, right?
- 10:08Speaker 3: Like he's the one sitting back and letting Arian be
- 10:11Speaker 3: on fire. When Sharae was over there running things, you
- 10:15Speaker 3: know what I'm saying? She was kicking back, picking back
- 10:18Speaker 3: being bull. That was from our West Coast people. And
- 10:22Speaker 3: Martel was over there cutting a damn fool. Remember when
- 10:24Speaker 3: he was arguing with Kenya and going back and forth, cursing,
- 10:28Speaker 3: losing his mind? And it was funny because he was
- 10:31Speaker 3: literally in costume. It was a flapper party. So he
- 10:34Speaker 3: was dressed like he was on fucking Harlem Nights and
- 10:36Speaker 3: really having a serious argument at the same time. It
- 10:39Speaker 3: was hilarious to watch. But it's just interesting to see how,
- 10:42Speaker 3: you know, the shift, depending on what woman he's with,
- 10:47Speaker 3: he morphs into a different type of person. He shows
- 10:50Speaker 3: up differently. And I just think that's fascinating.
- 10:52Speaker 5: I think people that can morph like that don't really
- 10:55Speaker 5: have a lot of character to stand on. If you
- 10:57Speaker 5: change with different people, I can't stand people that like,
- 11:00Speaker 5: have y'all ever had friendships with like a home girl
- 11:02Speaker 5: or your homie?
- 11:03Speaker 4: Like they're one way when y'all kicking it.
- 11:05Speaker 5: And then when certain people come around, like maybe a
- 11:07Speaker 5: group of girls come, they act different.
- 11:08Speaker 2: Or- Shapeshifting, yeah.
- 11:09Speaker 5: I had a girlfriend that was like, As soon as
- 11:11Speaker 5: men came around, she was such a pick-me-around.
- 11:13Speaker 4: I'm like, you wasn't talking like that when they weren't here.
- 11:16Speaker 4: I can't stand people like that.
- 11:18Speaker 5: Be who you are when people are looking, when people
- 11:22Speaker 5: are not looking, when you're with this friend, with that friend.
- 11:24Speaker 4: The shape-shifting is so irritating to my soul.
- 11:27Speaker 2: But Claudia, when straight men do it, though, it's usually
- 11:29Speaker 2: based on respect. That's why I was going to tell
- 11:31Speaker 2: the Dustin. We actually commented about this, about how When
- 11:34Speaker 2: a man respects you, you get one version of him.
- 11:37Speaker 2: And this has happened to me a lot where I'll
- 11:38Speaker 2: be like, so-and-so's a cool dude. And my homegirls will
- 11:41Speaker 2: be like, no, he respects you, Blue. You're getting the
- 11:45Speaker 2: version of him as a straight man. And Claudia can
- 11:46Speaker 2: attest to this. When a straight man respects you and
- 11:49Speaker 2: when he doesn't respect you, it is often night and day.
- 11:52Speaker 2: Their characters can shapeshift based on how they see you
- 11:55Speaker 2: as a woman. You know that old saying, if you
- 11:57Speaker 2: act like a hoe, I'm going to treat you like
- 11:58Speaker 2: a hoe. If you act like a lady, I'm going
- 11:59Speaker 2: to treat you like a lady. I think in the
- 12:01Speaker 2: previous relationships, like Dustin was mentioning, He either respected those
- 12:05Speaker 2: women or felt like they were at least his equals.
- 12:08Speaker 2: And we're seeing what's happened when the power dynamic has shifted.
- 12:11Speaker 2: Because whether it's his ex-wife or even Sharae, he's been,
- 12:15Speaker 2: in my eyes, women who are exceptional or exalted or
- 12:19Speaker 2: seen like he might be lucky to have them. He's
- 12:22Speaker 2: finally in a relationship where she's lucky to have him.
- 12:24Speaker 2: and she's a pick-me on top. So he's like, wait,
- 12:27Speaker 2: I don't have to be the baddie this time. You
- 12:28Speaker 2: can be the mess, and I can be the one
- 12:30Speaker 2: who stands back. I think he's been a bad bitch
- 12:31Speaker 2: his entire life, and he finally with a girl who's
- 12:34Speaker 2: more of a baddie than he is.
- 12:35Speaker 5: He's definitely a bad bitch, and Arianne is not a
- 12:37Speaker 5: bad bitch, but she thinks she is, which is even
- 12:39Speaker 5: more tragic.
- 12:40Speaker 2: Well, when you.
- 12:42Speaker 1: Well, okay, so for the next scene, because... Claudia.
- 12:45Speaker 4: She's going to jump you. She's not going to jump me.
- 12:48Speaker 4: I've been lifting weights. I've been working out, and I have...
- 12:51Speaker 4: That's true.
- 12:52Speaker 2: Claudia, show your guts.
- 12:55Speaker 1: Show your guts, Claudia.
- 12:58Speaker 4: It's really the leg power. I'm going to kick you.
- 13:01Speaker 1: He's going to kick you like a horse, Claudia.
- 13:03Speaker 2: You've never beaten the allegations. Okay.
- 13:05Speaker 4: I'm 53. I'm not going to fight. I will be.
- 13:10Speaker 5: 911?
- 13:12Speaker 2: Having Claudia Jordan tell you you're not a bad bitch
- 13:15Speaker 2: is like soul crushing, Claudia. You're Claudia the Jordan.
- 13:18Speaker 4: But I'm going to say this.
- 13:19Speaker 5: Listen, honestly, as hard as I am on side pieces,
- 13:22Speaker 5: mistresses and all that, and in the men that.
- 13:24Speaker 4: Make them happen, it's not just her. Martel needs some
- 13:26Speaker 4: of the smoke too. If she did these things that
- 13:29Speaker 4: I'm suggesting.
- 13:31Speaker 5: and humbled herself and had changed behavior, I promise I'll
- 13:35Speaker 5: be the first one to give her credit and props
- 13:36Speaker 5: on the show and say, yo, got to give credit
- 13:38Speaker 5: where credit is due.
- 13:39Speaker 3: A hundred percent.
- 13:41Speaker 5: You started off mad, and I've showed this, you started
- 13:43Speaker 5: off mad negative and obnoxious and you turned the page.
- 13:46Speaker 4: I would love to give that kind of commentary.
- 13:48Speaker 3: Look at me and Destiny.
- 13:49Speaker 2: Yes, Destiny's a perfect example. So, Arianne, do what you
- 13:53Speaker 2: always do. Use Destiny as the blueprint.
- 13:55Speaker 3: Yeah, and change for the better. That's a great point, Blue.
- 13:58Speaker 3: Change for the better, like Destiny did.
- 14:00Speaker 1: No, Blue, Blue. Dustin and Destiny had beef beef.
- 14:05Speaker 4: Really?
- 14:05Speaker 2: I had beef beef. I thought it was just on.
- 14:06Speaker 3: The- No, no.
- 14:08Speaker 1: I'm exaggerating.
- 14:10Speaker 3: I was about to say, that's my girl, Dustin.
- 14:12Speaker 1: Look, I'm doing to Dustin what they do to me online.
- 14:16Speaker 3: Destiny was mad because I said that she was- Let's
- 14:19Speaker 3: call it what it is, right? Destiny was mad because
- 14:21Speaker 3: I said that she was hanging off the door at
- 14:24Speaker 3: her Madonna launch, right? Yelling at a former cast member.
- 14:28Speaker 3: And she was, and it probably wasn't the nicest thing
- 14:30Speaker 3: to say, but what I will say, like my sister
- 14:32Speaker 3: Claudia did, is we give props where it's due. And
- 14:36Speaker 3: for the past two seasons, Destiny then got the fuck
- 14:38Speaker 3: down on Love and Marriage Hunter to the point where
- 14:41Speaker 3: she's the star of the show now. And it's just
- 14:43Speaker 3: like we talked about how she looked clinging to that,
- 14:46Speaker 3: hanging off the side of that door like that. yelling
- 14:50Speaker 3: you know we gonna comment about how great of a
- 14:53Speaker 3: fucking cast member really an anchor cast member at this
- 14:57Speaker 3: point she is on Love and Marriage Huntsville she literally
- 15:00Speaker 3: is the star of the show and she deserves all
- 15:01Speaker 3: the praise for that so we gonna give credit where
- 15:04Speaker 3: it's motherfucking due and she looked really really pretty in
- 15:06Speaker 3: her interview with you too can we.
- 15:07Speaker 6: Be honest guys can we put Arianne one little bit
- 15:12Speaker 6: of a something I wanna actually this is gonna sound
- 15:15Speaker 6: like I'm being kind to her maybe she needs to
- 15:16Speaker 6: hear this If you are someone who has been in
- 15:20Speaker 6: the shadows, like the Phantom of the Opera for all
- 15:22Speaker 6: these years, being called Coleslaw and whatever else, and you're.
- 15:25Speaker 2: Not emotionally intelligent enough to go see the lady and
- 15:27Speaker 2: get therapy, imagine the pain she must be to realize
- 15:32Speaker 2: that Destiny is the woman that he loves and respects,
- 15:35Speaker 2: and she's the woman that he could get and control. Like,
- 15:39Speaker 2: that must hurt to think that I'm what he's settled for,
- 15:42Speaker 2: but she's what he admires. And I think that's the
- 15:45Speaker 2: thing that she does not want to admit is, even
- 15:48Speaker 2: though I got the prize, it's a hollow victory because
- 15:50Speaker 2: you're still admiring another woman and respecting another woman more
- 15:53Speaker 2: than me, which, again, I mentioned two weeks ago, is
- 15:56Speaker 2: very much like him and his wife. Like, there's always
- 15:59Speaker 2: a woman who is more respectable, more shiny, more accolades
- 16:02Speaker 2: than me that you have respect for, even though I'm
- 16:05Speaker 2: the one that you will lay with.
- 16:07Speaker 5: And even though a side chick gets with a man
- 16:09Speaker 5: and thinks, oh, I have him now.
- 16:12Speaker 4: One of my exes got with his side chick, right?
- 16:17Speaker 5: We're not the only ones that know you as okay
- 16:19Speaker 5: and willing to go along with being a side chick.
- 16:21Speaker 4: He knows it more than anyone what you were willing
- 16:22Speaker 4: to put up with.
- 16:23Speaker 5: He's had those conversations with his boys, with his family members.
- 16:27Speaker 5: He's thought about it when he's alone, what he can
- 16:29Speaker 5: or cannot get away with because he knows what you
- 16:31Speaker 5: were able to put up with and how.
- 16:33Speaker 4: Much you settled for.
- 16:35Speaker 5: They know that more than, like as much as we
- 16:37Speaker 5: talk about it, what he thinks about you deep down inside.
- 16:40Speaker 5: And you've got to know that. And then when you
- 16:42Speaker 5: see a woman that's like, ex-wife, absolutely not.
- 16:45Speaker 4: I'm out of here. Destiny, nope. And you're not able
- 16:47Speaker 4: to do that, but you've got to feel a way.
- 16:50Speaker 3: And this is when the decisions that you make come
- 16:52Speaker 3: back to bite you in the ass because they're a
- 16:54Speaker 3: direct reflection of what you're willing to, in the words
- 16:57Speaker 3: of Destiny, tolerate, right? This is why Arianne sitting up
- 17:02Speaker 3: on those stools in that room, the white room with
- 17:06Speaker 3: the lady, the random lady that said that she had
- 17:08Speaker 3: engaged sexually with Maurice and Marcel or whatever, that wasn't
- 17:12Speaker 3: a good look. Supporting those antics and saying that she
- 17:15Speaker 3: was a witness to this and she had been in
- 17:17Speaker 3: these rooms and spaces with these men doing inappropriate things
- 17:20Speaker 3: in regards to their marriage vows was concerned. That's never
- 17:24Speaker 3: a good look. I don't know why people think that's
- 17:26Speaker 3: this smoking gun that you were down for all of that.
- 17:30Speaker 3: So that's a direct reflection of you and it's never
- 17:33Speaker 3: a good look. And I just wish that, but there's
- 17:35Speaker 3: a disconnect there with Arianne because even when she's in
- 17:38Speaker 3: scene in conversations like the one that she had with Nell,
- 17:42Speaker 3: the one that she had with Kimmy and Letitia initially,
- 17:45Speaker 3: there is a quick response and she's just not present, right?
- 17:53Speaker 3: Like when she's talking to these people and her antics
- 17:55Speaker 3: are performative, even when she's in one-on-one scenes with Martel,
- 17:59Speaker 3: she's performative. She says his name a certain way, the
- 18:02Speaker 3: cadence with which she speaks, all of these things are,
- 18:05Speaker 3: it's an effect. And so that reflects and usually indicates
- 18:10Speaker 3: a disconnect from someone being fully present, fully receptive to
- 18:14Speaker 3: whatever the conversation is. And it may be, you know,
- 18:17Speaker 3: indicative of a deeper issue. So I don't even know
- 18:21Speaker 3: if she can handle those kind of conversations, to be
- 18:23Speaker 3: honest with you.
- 18:24Speaker 1: Yeah, I do want to bring this up. So the
- 18:26Speaker 1: thing is this, obviously, listen, the name that she has
- 18:32Speaker 1: been called since we knew about her has been side chick, mistress, coast, law, peasant, right?
- 18:38Speaker 1: So I think I covered all this. I think I
- 18:40Speaker 1: covered all the names she's been called. But the question
- 18:43Speaker 1: I do want to ask is, because even when Sylvia,
- 18:47Speaker 1: our new cast member, and I'm going to get into
- 18:49Speaker 1: Sylvia telling Tisha about these rumors and Martel breaking the
- 18:53Speaker 1: fourth wall. But Sylvia told Destiny, and now I think
- 18:58Speaker 1: baby girl is threatened by you. does things change this, right?
- 19:03Speaker 1: Because Claudia mentioned, obviously, her former friends being side chicks
- 19:07Speaker 1: and the way men view side chicks. Her and Blue
- 19:09Speaker 1: talked about that, being females who are friends with men,
- 19:13Speaker 1: who they say respect them. This is Reality with the King,
- 19:18Speaker 1: and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into the show.
- 19:23Speaker 1: Does it make a difference that Arianne is the mother
- 19:30Speaker 1: of his son, right?
- 19:33Speaker 2: What? What kind of difference?
- 19:36Speaker 1: Well, no, no. I think that's the question I'm asking.
- 19:38Speaker 1: So the fact is, because she definitely was somebody... Because
- 19:43Speaker 1: I don't like to give labels. That's me. Because I.
- 19:47Speaker 3: Mm-hmm, mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
- 19:48Speaker 1: Okay, so because she was somebody that had an affair
- 19:50Speaker 1: with a married man, right?
- 19:51Speaker 2: Mistress.
- 19:52Speaker 1: And she had all these labels of mistress, side chick, peasant, coleslaw, right?
- 19:56Speaker 5: Mm-hmm. All right.
- 19:58Speaker 1: Does this... Claudia. Claudia, I'm trying to be serious here.
- 20:06Speaker 1: And I can't.
- 20:07Speaker 6: Um.
- 20:08Speaker 4: Y'all made me drink.
- 20:09Speaker 1: Does the rules change slightly that she is now the
- 20:17Speaker 1: mother of this man's son who is now divorced and
- 20:24Speaker 1: he has selected her to be his girlfriend. And the
- 20:29Speaker 1: reason why I'm asking that is this. I want to
- 20:31Speaker 1: give one more example that I'm going to let y'all
- 20:32Speaker 1: cook that I'm going to hide.
- 20:33Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm chomping at the bit.
- 20:35Speaker 1: No, no, I know.
- 20:35Speaker 2: I'm going to.
- 20:36Speaker 1: Hide in the corner. And again, my job is to
- 20:38Speaker 1: ask the thought provoking question.
- 20:40Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure.
- 20:41Speaker 4: You're doing amazing.
- 20:43Speaker 2: You're doing amazing. Look at Martel.
- 20:44Speaker 1: Now, listen. Now, look. For my audience who may not
- 20:49Speaker 1: have watched it, Alex Earl is a white female influencer
- 20:55Speaker 1: who has a show on Netflix called Earl Meets World.
- 20:58Speaker 1: She's huge. Okay, she's humongous.
- 21:01Speaker 2: She's the blonde Kim Kardashian.
- 21:02Speaker 1: Thank you. So, did you watch her show, Blue?
- 21:06Speaker 2: The whole thing.
- 21:07Speaker 4: Okay.
- 21:07Speaker 3: Upset.
- 21:08Speaker 1: Okay, that's me.
- 21:09Speaker 2: Okay, fine. So, Blue, you know this. You know we
- 21:10Speaker 2: connecting on white girl shit. Yep. Okay, okay. Yeah.
- 21:13Speaker 1: Which I'll call you later. Okay, because we have to
- 21:15Speaker 1: talk about the other show. Okay, anyway, sorry guys, I
- 21:17Speaker 1: got distracted. Okay, so Claudia and Dustin, on this reality show,
- 21:25Speaker 1: Alex Earle's stepmother is on this show because when her
- 21:31Speaker 1: mother was married to her dad, he had an affair
- 21:36Speaker 1: with this woman who was called a sex worker because...
- 21:42Speaker 1: She's the one that was messing around with... What's his name?
- 21:45Speaker 2: Elliot.
- 21:46Speaker 1: Elliot Spitzer.
- 21:47Speaker 2: The infamous call girl with Elliot Spitzer is Alex Earl's
- 21:50Speaker 2: stepmother now. So.
- 21:52Speaker 1: So... He wiped her, and they've been married, and they
- 21:56Speaker 1: have mad kids together. And Alex Earl talked about how
- 22:02Speaker 1: it was tough at the beginning, but what's interesting is
- 22:05Speaker 1: they're all one big happy family now. The mother accepts
- 22:08Speaker 1: that mother. So my point is, is there a world
- 22:11Speaker 1: where people can now look at Arianne as Claudia's parenting herself...
- 22:15Speaker 1: Is there a world where people can look at Arianne
- 22:18Speaker 1: no longer as the side chick, the peasant, coleslaw, the mistress,
- 22:23Speaker 1: because Martell has chosen to be with her courtesy of
- 22:26Speaker 1: him being divorced and they have a kid together?
- 22:28Speaker 2: I'll go after Dustin because you just gave half of
- 22:30Speaker 2: my answer and you're giving that example.
- 22:31Speaker 1: All right, Dustin, go ahead.
- 22:33Speaker 6: No.
- 22:34Speaker 3: And here's why. Here's the difference. Number one, you just
- 22:38Speaker 3: said that that gentleman, Elliot Spitzer, Spitzoner or whatever his
- 22:42Speaker 3: last name was, He married that woman and they had
- 22:46Speaker 3: multiple children and have sustained a relationship.
- 22:49Speaker 2: No, no, no.
- 22:49Speaker 4: So I'm clear.
- 22:50Speaker 1: So I'm clear. She was an alleged sex worker.
- 22:55Speaker 3: That he married, right?
- 22:57Speaker 2: No, no, no. No, no, no. Her next boyfriend was
- 22:59Speaker 2: Alex Earl's father. Her next boyfriend.
- 23:01Speaker 1: Her current husband is Alex Earl.
- 23:03Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 23:03Speaker 3: The other guy married her.
- 23:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 23:05Speaker 3: Okay.
- 23:06Speaker 2: So it's like the Kardashians where the thing happened with
- 23:07Speaker 2: Ray J, but she married Lamar. I mean, not Lamar.
- 23:09Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 23:10Speaker 2: Uh, Kanye. So he's the Kanye.
- 23:14Speaker 3: So they have a different story in this case regarding
- 23:18Speaker 3: Martel and Arianne. Martel never chose her or positioned her
- 23:23Speaker 3: in a way that would generate or garner any respect
- 23:26Speaker 3: from outsiders or onlookers.
- 23:28Speaker 6: Right.
- 23:28Speaker 3: There's been several women coming in and out in between, um,
- 23:32Speaker 3: the current iteration of their relationship and how she was
- 23:35Speaker 3: introduced to the fandom and the audience. the charade of
- 23:40Speaker 3: it all. You know what I'm saying? The downplaying of
- 23:43Speaker 3: the relationship. If anything, Martel's actions have demonstrated a lack
- 23:46Speaker 3: of respect and encouraged a lack of respect for Arianne.
- 23:50Speaker 3: Arianne gets a lot of flack from people, but she
- 23:53Speaker 3: wouldn't be a mistress if Martel wasn't married. So ultimately,
- 23:56Speaker 3: the onus of responsibility here is on him. It's spit
- 24:00Speaker 3: evenly on them, but it's his problem that he created.
- 24:04Speaker 3: He was the person that was married, and he was
- 24:07Speaker 3: the person They continued this inappropriate dealing that has resulted
- 24:11Speaker 3: in them creating a child together. I've never heard either
- 24:15Speaker 3: of them say that they plan to have their child together.
- 24:18Speaker 3: I've heard them both be grateful that they have this kid,
- 24:21Speaker 3: of course. You know, God bless their son, but I've
- 24:24Speaker 3: never heard either one of them describe his creation as
- 24:28Speaker 3: being planned or anything that would reflect a commitment to
- 24:32Speaker 3: Arianne and nurturing and sustaining a relationship with her. So, no!
- 24:37Speaker 3: Their world does not exist because Martel created a world
- 24:40Speaker 3: to contradict that very sentiment. There's nothing that either of
- 24:44Speaker 3: them have shown us or done that is going to
- 24:49Speaker 3: get any of that from me.
- 24:51Speaker 1: And before I tap in blue, just so I'm clear
- 24:54Speaker 1: with what you're saying, you're saying that because Martel never
- 25:00Speaker 1: showed that woman respect to the audience while he was
- 25:03Speaker 1: dealing with her, calling her peasant, that he has created
- 25:06Speaker 1: the environment for other people to disrespect her.
- 25:10Speaker 3: Yes, and he also has demonstrated through his behavior that
- 25:14Speaker 3: it's not respectable. It's not a respectable situation. He has
- 25:19Speaker 3: told us, hey, this is not worthy of you guys'
- 25:22Speaker 3: time and investment of respect because it's not worth mine.
- 25:27Speaker 1: Got it.
- 25:27Speaker 3: So, yes, to answer your question.
- 25:30Speaker 1: Okay, Blue?
- 25:31Speaker 2: I love that we're going in this order because I
- 25:32Speaker 2: feel like we're all building like a Jenga. To me,
- 25:37Speaker 2: it's no for two reasons. Number one, in the Alex
- 25:40Speaker 2: Earl situation, her father did not date other women, run
- 25:46Speaker 2: around with other women. And then finally, when he got
- 25:48Speaker 2: tired and couldn't find nobody else, get her a rental
- 25:50Speaker 2: home for her and the baby while he's still out
- 25:53Speaker 2: living his life. What her father did was he told
- 25:56Speaker 2: the family, this is a woman that I love and
- 25:58Speaker 2: I'm going to do life with her. and she's now
- 26:00Speaker 2: going to be my wife, and we're going to be
- 26:03Speaker 2: living together and building a life together, and therefore, because
- 26:06Speaker 2: I take it seriously, you have to take it seriously.
- 26:09Speaker 2: That's the first half, but to me that's only half though.
- 26:11Speaker 2: The second half is, let's say men do what they
- 26:14Speaker 2: do sometimes where they create a mess and don't want
- 26:15Speaker 2: to clean it up. Even if he had done something
- 26:20Speaker 2: that was disgusting to Dustin's point and said, we don't
- 26:22Speaker 2: want to be respectable, Had she walked in with the
- 26:25Speaker 2: same humility that Alex Earle's stepmother at least purported to
- 26:28Speaker 2: walk in with. The stepmother said, I know that I
- 26:31Speaker 2: am the world's most famous sex girl from a certain era, right?
- 26:35Speaker 2: Like this was like around 2008, 2010-ish when the Kardashians
- 26:38Speaker 2: and all those shows were taking off. I know that
- 26:40Speaker 2: I was before my time when being a side piece
- 26:42Speaker 2: couldn't get you paid quite yet. And I know all
- 26:44Speaker 2: this stuff is happening. I know your mother is crying.
- 26:45Speaker 2: I know you're all devastated. I want peace. I want
- 26:48Speaker 2: to put this family first. She walked in with humility.
- 26:51Speaker 2: She put family first. She did not... I'm taking accountability,
- 26:55Speaker 2: you dumbass bitch. She wasn't doing something where her words
- 26:58Speaker 2: and her actions are not lining up. Every time she
- 27:00Speaker 2: says the word accountability, her neck is rolling. That's not
- 27:02Speaker 2: how accountability works, baby. Communication is 90% non-verbal. Your non-verbals suck.
- 27:06Speaker 2: So because she was saying, not only does this man
- 27:09Speaker 2: want me to be respectable, I myself am truly apologetic.
- 27:13Speaker 2: That means when Alex Earl got mad at this lady,
- 27:15Speaker 2: for those who don't watch the show, she took it.
- 27:19Speaker 2: She said, that's hurtful and I really want to be
- 27:22Speaker 2: a family and my feelings are hurt that you're still
- 27:24Speaker 2: mad at me about things that happened a long time ago.
- 27:26Speaker 2: Can we talk through it? And then the husband came
- 27:28Speaker 2: and said, hey, you hurt my wife. We need to
- 27:30Speaker 2: figure this out. People who are actually sorry move as
- 27:33Speaker 2: if they are actually sorry. Improved behavior while talking shit
- 27:36Speaker 2: is not improved behavior. Because now you've created a.
- 27:38Speaker 1: Whole new problem.
- 27:39Speaker 2: Now you're saying where's accountability and responsibility while having an attitude.
- 27:44Speaker 2: You're saying accountability. I love women who take accountability. Is
- 27:46Speaker 2: the woman who took accountability in the room with us, ma'am? Yeah.
- 27:49Speaker 2: You cannot be egocentric and apologetic simultaneously. Those are diametrically
- 27:54Speaker 2: opposed reality. Arianne, look up diametrically opposed later. Right? That
- 27:59Speaker 2: means they're on opposite sides of reality. So my thing is,
- 28:02Speaker 2: her words and her actions don't line up. And what's really,
- 28:05Speaker 2: really grinding my gears, since you got me in white
- 28:07Speaker 2: people's business, now you got me talking like them, Carlos.
- 28:09Speaker 2: What's really grinding my gears right now is the fact
- 28:13Speaker 2: that I know deep down that had you approached Destiny
- 28:18Speaker 2: and all those other women with the humility that me, Claudia,
- 28:21Speaker 2: and Dustin have been trying to tell you for weeks now,
- 28:24Speaker 2: they would have been pleasantly surprised and found themselves grappling
- 28:27Speaker 2: with true, true forgiveness. Instead, you're creating new problems that
- 28:32Speaker 2: are a problem that already preexisted. Whoever gave you bad advice, Martel,
- 28:37Speaker 2: lied to you. Claudia?
- 28:40Speaker 1: Claudia Jordan?
- 28:42Speaker 4: I think that she has.
- 28:45Speaker 1: Not your favorite clothes, Claudia.
- 28:47Speaker 4: That's a whole new outfit. And that's a sports bra,
- 28:48Speaker 4: just so you know, because I'm going to the gym
- 28:49Speaker 4: after this.
- 28:50Speaker 5: It's not a regular bra. I want y'all to think
- 28:51Speaker 5: I'm being slutty on the show. I would never declassify
- 28:54Speaker 5: the show.
- 28:54Speaker 4: I would never declassify the show.
- 28:56Speaker 5: Anyways, I feel like Martel bringing Arian on the show
- 29:02Speaker 5: was like a Hail Mary, right? Because he was like,
- 29:05Speaker 5: last season, he was just like a man without a country.
- 29:09Speaker 4: He didn't have nobody. He was kind of just chiming in.
- 29:11Speaker 4: I don't know. What was his storyline last year? I
- 29:14Speaker 4: don't even remember, right?
- 29:14Speaker 2: The fact that you can't remember is the answer. I
- 29:16Speaker 2: can't remember.
- 29:17Speaker 5: And now it's like, now that's all we talk about
- 29:20Speaker 5: every week is Martel and Arian, Arian, Arian, Arian. I'm
- 29:23Speaker 5: so sick of it, right? So yeah, she has been
- 29:26Speaker 5: upgraded from side chick to... Public side chick now. But
- 29:31Speaker 5: he's still not moving like she's wifey. But she could, though.
- 29:35Speaker 4: She actually could. I'm thinking there was light at the
- 29:37Speaker 4: end of the tunnel. It was anybody but Martel.
- 29:40Speaker 5: I feel like he is bringing her on for his backup.
- 29:43Speaker 5: I feel like he has her around to irritate his
- 29:46Speaker 5: ex and other people on the show and to have
- 29:49Speaker 5: her drop the bombs about the other cast members and
- 29:51Speaker 5: get his get back because last year he felt like
- 29:53Speaker 5: he was on defense.
- 29:54Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 29:56Speaker 5: I do think that there is– side chicks can evolve
- 29:59Speaker 5: to be wives. I just don't know if it's ever
- 30:01Speaker 5: going to be this couple because it's been 10 years
- 30:04Speaker 5: and he won't even live with you. And, Miss Arianne,
- 30:09Speaker 5: we all are allowed to make a mistake.
- 30:11Speaker 4: We all can say we were fooled by a man.
- 30:13Speaker 4: We can be gaslit.
- 30:14Speaker 5: But this is your second situation from the world on
- 30:17Speaker 5: the streets. Wasn't your first kid someone else's man as well?
- 30:20Speaker 1: Allegedly, yes.
- 30:21Speaker 4: Allegedly?
- 30:21Speaker 5: And weren't there some baby ghosts probably in the process
- 30:23Speaker 5: as well?
- 30:25Speaker 2: Allegedly, yep.
- 30:25Speaker 4: This the one that, right?
- 30:28Speaker 3: I don't know nothing about none of that.
- 30:30Speaker 2: I've heard the allegedly rumors that this might be her
- 30:33Speaker 2: second time at the Side Piece Rodeo, but this time
- 30:36Speaker 2: she got her a show with Carlos.
- 30:38Speaker 1: Not that second time.
- 30:41Speaker 2: Second time's the charm.
- 30:43Speaker 1: All right, let's move on to Sylvia. So, Sylvia is
- 30:49Speaker 1: a new addition to Love and Marriage Huntsville. So, Maurice
- 30:53Speaker 1: Scott threw an event along with the photographer... What's his, his, his,
- 31:02Speaker 1: his L's? Nell? Not Mr.
- 31:05Speaker 3: He was, he did the art at Black, right?
- 31:07Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something L.
- 31:09Speaker 1: My bad, bro. My apologies. It'll come to me in
- 31:12Speaker 1: a second. So Sylvia, as you all know, she was
- 31:16Speaker 1: rumored to be one of the 20 women's, hey Miss Wanda,
- 31:21Speaker 1: one of the 20 women's that Martel, not Martel.
- 31:25Speaker 2: It's not 20 women's though.
- 31:26Speaker 4: Oh, look at how that rolled off your tongue.
- 31:31Speaker 1: So Marceau allegedly was having an affair with this woman, Sylvia.
- 31:40Speaker 1: Sylvia and Marceau go way back. Sylvia told Destiny that
- 31:47Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to Tisha about it, but Marcel
- 31:50Speaker 1: said she's good, she don't care. So, this is the
- 31:53Speaker 1: first time that Sylvia is in the same room with Tisha,
- 31:56Speaker 1: Marcel's wife. Okay? So, she followed Destiny's advice and brought
- 32:01Speaker 1: up the fact that, hey, just so you know, I
- 32:04Speaker 1: was the woman that people were saying was having an
- 32:08Speaker 1: affair with your husband. And I did talk to him
- 32:13Speaker 1: about it, and he said, you don't mind, but I
- 32:16Speaker 1: don't want to be around you and have things be
- 32:18Speaker 1: weird because none of it is true. Marceau said he
- 32:23Speaker 1: forgot all about that conversation even happening. And then Martella
- 32:27Speaker 1: did in the camera saying he did not believe it.
- 32:30Speaker 1: So Claudia, starting with you, did Sylvia do the right
- 32:35Speaker 1: thing by telling Tisha, They're in the same room. Hey,
- 32:40Speaker 1: I'm the girl that the blogs was saying was having
- 32:43Speaker 1: a affair with your man. I wanted to talk to
- 32:46Speaker 1: you about it years ago, but your husband told me
- 32:49Speaker 1: I didn't have to because you didn't care.
- 32:52Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 32:53Speaker 5: That's how you do it. Like a grown ass woman.
- 32:55Speaker 5: You go straight to the woman in front of people.
- 32:57Speaker 5: It's not sneaky. I mean, she could, the only other
- 32:59Speaker 5: way that could have been great also is if she
- 33:00Speaker 5: would have called her one-on-one without the audience. But we
- 33:03Speaker 5: do want to say this is a TV show and
- 33:04Speaker 5: this makes sense. She did that and put herself out there,
- 33:08Speaker 5: showed vulnerability, wasn't arrogant about it.
- 33:11Speaker 4: And guess what? The group instantly embraced her. So it
- 33:14Speaker 4: shows right there.
- 33:14Speaker 5: They could have side-eyed her and be like, but they
- 33:17Speaker 5: were like, okay, because it's hard to put that out there.
- 33:19Speaker 5: Because you know just by bringing it up, people are
- 33:21Speaker 5: going to already be looking at you like, okay, whatever.
- 33:24Speaker 4: But she put it out there. And guess what?
- 33:26Speaker 5: I guarantee you this won't be something that drags on
- 33:28Speaker 5: for two, three, four, five outings and episodes because she
- 33:31Speaker 5: addressed it right away. That's how old girl, they remember
- 33:34Speaker 5: the very first episode old girl came on, Arianne? It
- 33:38Speaker 5: was just out the gate on 10. Sylvie didn't do that.
- 33:41Speaker 5: And look at how she's being received now. I feel
- 33:44Speaker 5: like you ripped the band-aid off at the very beginning.
- 33:47Speaker 5: This is your introduction. You never get a second chance
- 33:49Speaker 5: to make a first impression. So she came in there,
- 33:52Speaker 5: took a kind of, hey, it is what it is.
- 33:53Speaker 5: I'm not going to run from it. When you run
- 33:55Speaker 5: from it, you look like you have something to hide.
- 33:57Speaker 5: When you put it on front street, it's like, yeah,
- 33:58Speaker 5: let's talk about it. And yes, I did want to
- 34:00Speaker 5: tell the story and talk to you, wifey. But your
- 34:03Speaker 5: husband told me not to. She put it all out there.
- 34:05Speaker 5: I have respect for that.
- 34:07Speaker 2: I do. Blue? I agree a thousand percent. And can
- 34:13Speaker 2: we all... Also be honest. When you are someone who
- 34:16Speaker 2: was part of something infamous, but you don't have a
- 34:18Speaker 2: face that is a celebrity, you also want people to
- 34:21Speaker 2: know your relevance. Because a perfect example, I was watching
- 34:24Speaker 2: a video and I saw this white girl dancing and
- 34:26Speaker 2: she was dancing like, go to Marcus. It was like
- 34:27Speaker 2: really amazing. And then the very next day or so,
- 34:31Speaker 2: she went on TikTok and made a video like, no,
- 34:32Speaker 2: I'm the little white girl from the Missy Elliott video.
- 34:35Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my God, you're a legend, right?
- 34:37Speaker 2: The context suddenly makes you go from a regular person
- 34:41Speaker 2: to being like, oh my God. I think that was
- 34:43Speaker 2: her thing. She was like, oh no, I've actually been
- 34:45Speaker 2: mentioned before and I kind of am part of this.
- 34:47Speaker 2: You know what I mean? So you're simultaneously being a
- 34:49Speaker 2: realized bitch, but also showing your relevance and giving us
- 34:52Speaker 2: a reason to like you. Like, oh, you're right, you're right.
- 34:54Speaker 2: And that familiarity automatically makes the people who are watching
- 34:58Speaker 2: kind of lean towards you. I think it worked twofold.
- 35:01Speaker 2: One was for the sake of her integrity, but the
- 35:04Speaker 2: other was to also show her relevance and that she
- 35:06Speaker 2: actually was a part of the show before she was
- 35:08Speaker 2: a part of the show. So I think it was
- 35:09Speaker 2: actually brilliant strategically and ethically. I like her a lot.
- 35:13Speaker 2: And I remember thinking to myself, you have a side
- 35:15Speaker 2: piece that's confirmed and a side piece that's implied. And
- 35:18Speaker 2: why is it the one that's implied who knows how
- 35:19Speaker 2: to do it correctly? Are you not embarrassed? So yeah,
- 35:24Speaker 2: I love her. I love her.
- 35:25Speaker 5: I think Coleslaw's in the chat with a fake name.
- 35:28Speaker 2: Oh, I hope you're okay, babe.
- 35:29Speaker 1: Hey, girl. Me? We're all Destiny.
- 35:33Speaker 2: We're all going to wear We Are Destiny t-shirts.
- 35:35Speaker 1: Not with you guys. Dustin Ross, first of all, Dustin,
- 35:40Speaker 1: obviously you are a day one at Huntsville. I first
- 35:42Speaker 1: want to hear your thoughts about Sylvia. It's still early.
- 35:45Speaker 1: It's still early. But I'm always curious your thoughts on
- 35:47Speaker 1: new people. Give me your thoughts on Sylvia and then
- 35:50Speaker 1: share your thoughts on the scene.
- 35:51Speaker 3: I think Sylvia, I can do it all in one.
- 35:53Speaker 3: I think Sylvia is formidable. I think Sylvia is ready
- 35:57Speaker 3: to play the game. She had no problem accepting the
- 36:00Speaker 3: moniker of I'm the mystery mistress. You know what I'm saying?
- 36:04Speaker 3: And she's playing with that, speaking coyly about it and
- 36:08Speaker 3: saying things like, yeah, that was me. No, it's not true.
- 36:10Speaker 3: That was me. She's answering the question or whatever. I
- 36:14Speaker 3: think that's interesting. I don't think she's going to run
- 36:16Speaker 3: from anything because she's not going to sweat her hair out.
- 36:20Speaker 3: Sylvia's pixie been laid since she walked up. And her
- 36:24Speaker 3: entrance scene was good. Shout out to y'all, Carlos. That
- 36:28Speaker 3: scene of her walking into that booth with Destiny when
- 36:31Speaker 3: she had on the oatmeal color off-the-shoulder number or whatever.
- 36:36Speaker 3: She's a beautiful woman. She's a makeup artist. Professional makeup artist.
- 36:41Speaker 3: So you know she's always going to have that intact
- 36:44Speaker 3: and done the right way. She is willing to play
- 36:47Speaker 3: the game. She's got a man that's willing to show
- 36:49Speaker 3: up with her in scene and he It seems to
- 36:51Speaker 3: be enjoying his experience as part of the cast, too.
- 36:54Speaker 3: So that means that he's willing to contribute. There is
- 36:57Speaker 3: a thirst level there that I think is healthy. You
- 37:00Speaker 3: know what I'm saying? On behalf of both her and Lou,
- 37:02Speaker 3: I enjoyed it. I thought that that scene was a
- 37:04Speaker 3: perfect example of her kind of showing her savvy in
- 37:09Speaker 3: the reality reality television personality space. So bring on more.
- 37:13Speaker 3: I'm interested to see what she working with.
- 37:16Speaker 1: Oh, and they give you a lot. Stay tuned. They
- 37:20Speaker 1: have a lot going on outside of being a part
- 37:22Speaker 1: of the clique. We have to get into... This has
- 37:25Speaker 1: been the most talked about scene all season. A lot
- 37:28Speaker 1: of people have said this was the best scene of
- 37:32Speaker 1: the show. History, which I'm like, you guys are hilarious.
- 37:37Speaker 1: We have to get into Destiny versus Ariana and how
- 37:40Speaker 1: Martel came in to.
- 37:44Speaker 1: Stop it from getting further than what it was so
- 37:48Speaker 1: destiny and arion had this one-on-one exchange where destiny really
- 37:54Speaker 1: laid down the foundation of what it means to be
- 37:58Speaker 1: tolerated and tolerable she said you tolerated his ex-wife you
- 38:03Speaker 1: tolerated being called a peasant you tolerated um you know
- 38:10Speaker 1: Being somebody that he hasn't chosen. Like, all these things.
- 38:13Speaker 1: She said, you're a very tolerable person. You tolerated the
- 38:16Speaker 1: fact that he moved you across the street, whatever. And
- 38:20Speaker 1: then Arianne did say, what are you talking about? You
- 38:27Speaker 1: tried to put your son in Maverick schools. Just so
- 38:30Speaker 1: you all know, Maverick is the son she shares with Martell.
- 38:34Speaker 1: Darion said, you tried to put your son in Maverick school,
- 38:37Speaker 1: and he did not get in. Destiny said, hold on, bitch.
- 38:41Speaker 1: Don't talk about my son. Bled her arm that Kimmy had.
- 38:46Speaker 1: And within that exchange, Martel immediately beelined from talking to
- 38:51Speaker 1: the guys and tried to hold down physically Destiny from
- 38:58Speaker 1: going further. I want to stop there before we move
- 39:01Speaker 1: on to the rest of the stuff, but that very
- 39:04Speaker 1: moment a lot of people took that one gesture that
- 39:08Speaker 1: Martel saw his girlfriend and his best friend in it
- 39:12Speaker 1: and he beeline to his best friend they said that
- 39:16Speaker 1: was disrespectful and then it was obvious he cares more
- 39:19Speaker 1: about destiny than Arion blue did you get the same
- 39:24Speaker 1: feeling and what does that say about a man consciously
- 39:27Speaker 1: who does something.
- 39:28Speaker 2: Like that so there's a thing that they do, a
- 39:30Speaker 2: study where they'll have two children on either side of
- 39:33Speaker 2: their parent and whoever the parent looks at them at
- 39:36Speaker 2: first is the favorite. I feel, yeah, it's like a
- 39:39Speaker 2: whole trend on TikTok and on the internet. And then
- 39:42Speaker 2: whoever the parent doesn't look at, the child will storm
- 39:44Speaker 2: off angry.
- 39:45Speaker 1: He chose.
- 39:45Speaker 2: He chose. He confirmed what we all, including Arianne and Destiny,
- 39:50Speaker 2: already know. And even in that picture y'all had in
- 39:53Speaker 2: the middle, where it's Destiny and Martel and Arianne, He
- 39:57Speaker 2: wanted to go to Arianne, and then remember, she's not
- 40:00Speaker 2: the one who's giving me coochie, and I can't control her,
- 40:02Speaker 2: so I got to go with this one. I don't
- 40:04Speaker 2: think he chose in that moment. I think he chose,
- 40:06Speaker 2: to your point, nonverbally about who he ran to. When
- 40:09Speaker 2: the verbal thing happened, when she was like, Martel, come here,
- 40:12Speaker 2: and you would have thought, well, Arianne should be happy
- 40:13Speaker 2: because she said, come here, and he didn't come. He
- 40:16Speaker 2: did not come because you're his favorite. It's because he
- 40:19Speaker 2: doesn't want to hear your mouth because he'd have to
- 40:20Speaker 2: go home with you. And so it's almost like every
- 40:23Speaker 2: time he picks Arianne, it's because she's a nuisance and
- 40:26Speaker 2: he wants to be able to sleep that night. Every
- 40:28Speaker 2: time he picks Destiny, it's because he actually cares about
- 40:30Speaker 2: her and is looking out for her. That's why a
- 40:32Speaker 2: couple of beats later, great editing, when she says, she's
- 40:36Speaker 2: not mad that I want him. She's mad that he
- 40:37Speaker 2: loves me.
- 40:39Speaker 4: She ate with that.
- 40:40Speaker 2: When I tell you, you can put that on a loop.
- 40:43Speaker 4: She ate.
- 40:43Speaker 1: Say that one more time, Blue.
- 40:46Speaker 2: She's not mad because she thinks I want him. She's
- 40:48Speaker 2: mad because she knows he loves me.
- 40:50Speaker 3: Who said that?
- 40:51Speaker 4: I heard that. That had to hurt. That hurt me,
- 40:54Speaker 4: and I don't even know either one of these girls.
- 40:59Speaker 2: Arianne, you know, we've all been a little tough on
- 41:01Speaker 2: you because you earned it. So it's not like we're
- 41:02Speaker 2: picking on you. We're just reflecting what you put out there.
- 41:05Speaker 2: Even I hurt for you in that moment because the
- 41:07Speaker 2: truth of it is what made it a bar. Not
- 41:09Speaker 2: the language or the words. It's the truth behind it
- 41:11Speaker 2: and the fact that everybody in that space who could
- 41:13Speaker 2: hear the sound of Destiny's voice, including Carlos, but he
- 41:15Speaker 2: can't say it, understood that it was true.
- 41:18Speaker 3: Were you there, Carlos?
- 41:20Speaker 2: Wait, Dustin, don't imply it.
- 41:22Speaker 3: Were you there?
- 41:23Speaker 5: Okay?
- 41:23Speaker 2: The truth of it resonated.
- 41:26Speaker 5: Well, I'm going to pick on her because what the
- 41:28Speaker 5: hell did Destiny's kid getting in or not getting in
- 41:31Speaker 5: that school have to do with the argument?
- 41:33Speaker 4: You was being a bitch in that moment. That was
- 41:35Speaker 4: not cute at all.
- 41:36Speaker 5: You can read her down about her looks, her actions,
- 41:39Speaker 5: or how she is a doormat for Martel. But do
- 41:43Speaker 5: not bring up... No one's kid need to be brought
- 41:46Speaker 5: up in those arguments. Those are little kids, too, that
- 41:48Speaker 5: have done nothing wrong. And I would say the same
- 41:51Speaker 5: thing if someone made a comment about Martel... And Arianne's kid,
- 41:56Speaker 5: that was not cute.
- 41:58Speaker 4: You showed no control. She's just erratic. And I think
- 42:02Speaker 4: she should make Martel very nervous because, I don't know.
- 42:05Speaker 2: He's nervous. Claudia's already nervous. Remember that scene in the
- 42:08Speaker 2: gym where she kept on trying to imply that he
- 42:10Speaker 2: groomed her and he bucked on her a little bit?
- 42:12Speaker 2: I think he's already starting to see that she's trying
- 42:15Speaker 2: to create a backstory that if they do separate, that
- 42:19Speaker 2: she can demonize him and he can smell it in
- 42:21Speaker 2: the air. He's like, what do you mean? What do
- 42:23Speaker 2: you mean? It was consensual. Like, when a man starts
- 42:25Speaker 2: reiterating on camera that it was consensual, what are you
- 42:28Speaker 2: trying to say? He's starting to get a whiff of
- 42:30Speaker 2: what you're trying to put down and it's not cool.
- 42:32Speaker 4: You know, when.
- 42:35Speaker 4: Carl Lewis try to sing the national anthem. Did y'all
- 42:38Speaker 4: ever see that?
- 42:39Speaker 5: And there's one part where he misses the note and
- 42:41Speaker 5: he goes, uh-oh. He knew in that moment he had
- 42:45Speaker 5: messed up.
- 42:46Speaker 4: That's Marcel right now. He knew he messed up by going, uh-oh.
- 42:52Speaker 2: Was I not a young girl that you came after? Now,
- 42:54Speaker 2: hold on. Wait a minute now. Hold on. Wait a minute.
- 42:58Speaker 4: She been quiet. Not quiet. She hasn't been quiet. She
- 43:01Speaker 4: been loud, but Yeah, she got a platform now, Martel.
- 43:04Speaker 4: You done messed up.
- 43:05Speaker 2: That's the moment, Carlos. Mark my words. I can smell
- 43:08Speaker 2: these moments. That's the moment when his brain said, ah, damn. Uh-oh.
- 43:11Speaker 3: So what's the question?
- 43:12Speaker 7: So Dustin, did you feel like Martel going to hold
- 43:21Speaker 7: Destiny back from Arion, did that solidify to you that
- 43:26Speaker 7: he has shown all of us who he definitely cares
- 43:30Speaker 7: about the most?
- 43:31Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 43:32Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
- 43:33Speaker 3: He's known Destiny longer, first of all. Number two, he
- 43:36Speaker 3: has complete control over Arianne and everything going on with her.
- 43:39Speaker 3: She's completely subordinate to him. If, when the season happens,
- 43:45Speaker 3: now that Arianne is a part of the cast, after
- 43:47Speaker 3: her and Martel break up enough where they're willing to
- 43:50Speaker 3: film separately of each other, right, and single on the
- 43:53Speaker 3: same season, if Arianne pulls up to this cast with
- 43:56Speaker 3: another man, like a new man, Martel ain't gonna be
- 43:58Speaker 3: able to handle that emotionally.
- 43:59Speaker 5: Oh, Lord.
- 44:00Speaker 3: If Martel pulls up to this cast with another woman,
- 44:04Speaker 3: Arianne's not going to be able to handle it. And
- 44:05Speaker 3: that's when we're going to get the real fireworks. So,
- 44:10Speaker 3: you know, yeah, that's my answer.
- 44:13Speaker 4: Carlos, would you keep her on if they break up?
- 44:15Speaker 1: I am not discussing anything.
- 44:18Speaker 4: Hell yeah.
- 44:21Speaker 1: I am, look, in the words of Andy Cohen, I
- 44:23Speaker 1: am focused on this season and everything.
- 44:27Speaker 6: Oh.
- 44:28Speaker 2: Ask Claudia to come.
- 44:29Speaker 1: Back to her post.
- 44:30Speaker 3: Do they break up at the end of the season?
- 44:33Speaker 1: What was the question?
- 44:34Speaker 3: Do Ariana and Martel break up?
- 44:37Speaker 4: I can see that.
- 44:37Speaker 1: You want to hear a funny story?
- 44:39Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 44:40Speaker 1: We're still filming. So anyway, let's move on.
- 44:45Speaker 3: Okay, wait, wait, because this is the time.
- 44:46Speaker 1: Who knows what's going to happen after Monday Night Live?
- 44:48Speaker 2: So, Ariana, just go fix this.
- 44:49Speaker 6: You can fix this.
- 44:50Speaker 3: You said that something happened last week between Destiny and
- 44:55Speaker 3: Letitia filming the show in your interview with Destiny. What
- 45:00Speaker 3: can you tell us about what took place? How serious
- 45:04Speaker 3: is going to, how seriously is going to impact their relationship?
- 45:08Speaker 3: You got to give us some real people that watched
- 45:10Speaker 3: that interview and watched the show. We've been holding on
- 45:13Speaker 3: to that ever since we heard Destiny say, I heard you.
- 45:15Speaker 2: And Destiny talk about it.
- 45:17Speaker 3: So what's up, Carlos? Give us something about that situation.
- 45:21Speaker 3: Tell us something it was related to. Tell us who
- 45:23Speaker 3: won the argument. You got to tell us, Carlos.
- 45:27Speaker 1: What's the question, Dustin?
- 45:28Speaker 3: What can you tell us about that moment? Nigga, you
- 45:31Speaker 3: have to tell us something.
- 45:32Speaker 5: Not nigga, you have to tell us something.
- 45:37Speaker 2: Cut the shit, Carlos.
- 45:40Speaker 1: Claudia, she's more telling me. I feel like Ariana.
- 45:43Speaker 2: Right.
- 45:43Speaker 4: My man, my man, my man.
- 45:45Speaker 2: We thought about this show as a tribute to Carlos King.
- 45:50Speaker 4: We started the show as a tribute, giving Carlos so
- 45:52Speaker 4: much respect. Now it's nigga, you better tell us something.
- 45:54Speaker 2: Nigga, you better tell us what the hell I want
- 45:56Speaker 2: to know.
- 45:56Speaker 3: What was that arguing about, Carlos? What happened? What did Destiny...
- 46:00Speaker 3: What can you tell us about what Destiny said to Letitia?
- 46:03Speaker 3: What can you tell us about what Letitia said to
- 46:05Speaker 3: Destiny to prompt that? You got to give us a
- 46:08Speaker 3: slice of that pie, Carlos. You have to. Tell us something.
- 46:13Speaker 3: You know we... Ain't no way in hell we weren't going.
- 46:15Speaker 2: To ask you that.
- 46:16Speaker 1: All I will say is.
- 46:17Speaker 3: Yes.
- 46:18Speaker 5: Uh-huh.
- 46:19Speaker 3: And I know stay tuned shit. No, no, no.
- 46:23Speaker 4: Get him, Dustin.
- 46:24Speaker 1: The only thing I'll say is what led the situation
- 46:30Speaker 1: between Destiny and Tisha is started with Destiny and Marcel.
- 46:36Speaker 1: And I'll leave it at that.
- 46:38Speaker 2: Oh.
- 46:39Speaker 3: Okay. All right.
- 46:41Speaker 1: Are you satisfied now?
- 46:42Speaker 3: Yes, thank you.
- 46:43Speaker 1: Stay tuned. Love and match, Huntsville, every Saturday, 8 o'clock,
- 46:45Speaker 1: 7 central at all. Okay, before we move on to
- 46:48Speaker 1: get to Potomac, I got to ask y'all this about
- 46:51Speaker 1: the end. So, here we are. Destiny comes back in, Claudia,
- 46:57Speaker 1: blue and dusted. And she says, Martel, come here.
- 47:01Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
- 47:02Speaker 1: And Martel motions to come here. She's like, yes, mama.
- 47:06Speaker 1: And Ariat said, you better not go over there.
- 47:08Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
- 47:09Speaker 1: And Destiny said, come here. Arianne said, you better not.
- 47:13Speaker 1: And Miss Nell said, well, damn, just.
- 47:14Speaker 2: Let him go.
- 47:15Speaker 1: I mean, come on now.
- 47:16Speaker 4: You got to go over there.
- 47:18Speaker 2: Come on, Arianne.
- 47:20Speaker 4: That's his friend.
- 47:21Speaker 1: And she said, no, she's been too disrespectful tonight.
- 47:24Speaker 3: And Marcel said, ooh.
- 47:26Speaker 1: Claudia. Carl Lewis Jordan.
- 47:31Speaker 4: Uh-oh.
- 47:33Speaker 1: Uh-oh. Horseface Claudia, sound effect Chris. Claudia Jordan, starting with you.
- 47:51Speaker 1: That moment with Deathly Sand, come here, and Martel was
- 47:55Speaker 1: literally in the middle of of deciding does he stay
- 47:58Speaker 1: with his girl or does he go after his friend?
- 48:02Speaker 1: Before you give me your answer, I do want to
- 48:04Speaker 1: ask y'all this. So remember this question, y'all. And I'm
- 48:08Speaker 1: not making this up. There are people in the comments.
- 48:12Speaker 1: I promise y'all I'm not making this up. Who felt
- 48:16Speaker 1: that Destiny was wrong and that Destiny had no right
- 48:20Speaker 1: to put Martel in that situation because at the end
- 48:24Speaker 1: of the day, Arion is his lady. And there are
- 48:28Speaker 1: some people who did feel like Destiny was doing too much.
- 48:33Speaker 1: She was.
- 48:34Speaker 5: And that's why I loved it. Because it couldn't have
- 48:36Speaker 5: happened to a better person. Now, if Arion was behaving
- 48:40Speaker 5: like she should be behaving and not being a jerk
- 48:43Speaker 5: and being a little more humble, we'd be like, yo,
- 48:44Speaker 5: you dead ass wrong for that. But because we are
- 48:47Speaker 5: basing it by how stank she's been, it's like, okay.
- 48:51Speaker 5: It's almost like when OJ Simpson got off of Murder...
- 48:54Speaker 5: Like when he got acquitted, we were like, oh, well,
- 48:57Speaker 5: because there was so much police brutality happened in L.A.
- 48:59Speaker 4: We knew we was like, I mean, you.
- 49:01Speaker 5: Know, the justice system is at work. But we all
- 49:04Speaker 5: was like, whatever. It's kind of like that. I know
- 49:06Speaker 5: that's a little bit of reach, but I've been drinking.
- 49:08Speaker 3: I'm just saying.
- 49:10Speaker 2: It is.
- 49:10Speaker 4: It's like we.
- 49:11Speaker 5: Know it's wrong, but we were OK with it because
- 49:14Speaker 5: the history.
- 49:17Speaker 1: Claudia is digging in the time capsule. She said, if
- 49:21Speaker 1: it must have fit, you must have quit.
- 49:24Speaker 4: If the swoop doesn't fit, you must have quit. Okay.
- 49:27Speaker 2: So anyways.
- 49:29Speaker 4: Because... She said O.J.
- 49:31Speaker 2: Simpson. My God. Why do you enjoy it until you're
- 49:34Speaker 2: not a bad bitch and then compare you to O.J.? Yes,
- 49:35Speaker 2: I did. Go have a drink.
- 49:37Speaker 4: I went to 1995. It's like when you know it's wrong,
- 49:43Speaker 4: but because of the.
- 49:45Speaker 2: I don't think... I actually don't think it's... Okay. Can
- 49:47Speaker 2: I speak for Tauruses? Because you know I be decoding
- 49:49Speaker 2: whenever y'all get confused and it's a Taurus involved and
- 49:51Speaker 2: then later it gets confirmed.
- 49:52Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, because Destiny's a Taurus. Yes, go ahead.
- 49:56Speaker 2: As a Taurus... If you know bulls and just, you know, nature,
- 50:00Speaker 2: bulls graze, you have to come after a bull for
- 50:03Speaker 2: them to even acknowledge you. You got to wave something
- 50:05Speaker 2: right in its face and get it to turn up nerves.
- 50:07Speaker 2: We like to graze in our corner. Destiny has been
- 50:09Speaker 2: minding her business for 50 days and 50 nights. She
- 50:14Speaker 2: knew this bitch was upset with her because she said
- 50:17Speaker 2: this bitch one time three years ago and the girl
- 50:19Speaker 2: ran with it, whatever, right? When she talked about her child, right?
- 50:23Speaker 2: She's like, I don't even talk to that girl and
- 50:25Speaker 2: I would not get on the phone with this bitch, right?
- 50:27Speaker 2: That one comment, for some reason, is worse than sleeping
- 50:29Speaker 2: with somebody's man and then making a baby, but that's fine.
- 50:32Speaker 2: We all have our own different calculators. The math's not
- 50:34Speaker 2: adding up for me, though. When she was outside, her
- 50:36Speaker 2: child was mentioned. Because everybody has a trick. Remember I
- 50:39Speaker 2: told you in several episodes, I can keep it cute,
- 50:41Speaker 2: but there's a button that y'all can press where a
- 50:43Speaker 2: whole other blue will come out, right? I told you guys,
- 50:46Speaker 2: many during our debates, I said, oh, the button got pushed.
- 50:48Speaker 2: Somebody got to die now. Destiny went outside so as
- 50:51Speaker 2: not to go to jail and then said, the gloves
- 50:54Speaker 2: are off.
- 50:55Speaker 3: Three times.
- 50:56Speaker 2: Talked about my child. The gloves are off. She announced
- 50:59Speaker 2: the button had been pushed and then went inside and
- 51:02Speaker 2: did the first shade of showing what that looks like. No, ho,
- 51:05Speaker 2: you earned this. I don't think it's disrespectful. I think
- 51:07Speaker 2: it's cause and effect. I think it's cause and effect.
- 51:10Speaker 2: If you talk about my child, you don't get to
- 51:11Speaker 2: tell me I'm doing the most or I'm doing too much. Nah, bitch,
- 51:15Speaker 2: you talked about my kid. Not only did you talk
- 51:17Speaker 2: about my kid, you talked about my kid disparagingly as
- 51:19Speaker 2: if my kid inferring, because words mean things, that my
- 51:22Speaker 2: kid was inferior to your love child. And I'm saying
- 51:25Speaker 2: this as a love child myself. Right? So, respectfully, ho,
- 51:29Speaker 2: now it's up and it's stuck. I don't think it
- 51:32Speaker 2: was too much. I think it was a consequence. Say
- 51:34Speaker 2: it with me, boys and girl. Consequences.
- 51:36Speaker 3: Can you imagine if Destiny would have walked back into
- 51:38Speaker 3: that room and just kissed Martel in the mouth?
- 51:41Speaker 2: I would have been aroused. I would have been sexually aroused.
- 51:45Speaker 5: I think Martel was aroused how Destiny was calling him.
- 51:47Speaker 2: I was about to say that. His dick jumped a
- 51:49Speaker 2: little bit.
- 51:49Speaker 4: I think his dick got hard.
- 51:51Speaker 2: Claudia, as a woman, he was aroused by that. When
- 51:54Speaker 2: she called him, he did the... You know how when
- 51:56Speaker 2: men play Little Spoon, Claudia... Boys, listen to this for
- 51:58Speaker 2: a second. So you know how when straight men are
- 52:00Speaker 2: Little Spoon and they touch the little booty because they're
- 52:02Speaker 2: excited because you big spoon behind them?
- 52:04Speaker 4: And I get up on that ass.
- 52:06Speaker 2: Same. It felt like in that moment he was Little
- 52:09Speaker 2: Spoon and his little dick jumped.
- 52:10Speaker 4: Reach around.
- 52:13Speaker 2: Destiny big spooned him and he tooted his booty. And
- 52:16Speaker 2: Ariana said, right in front of me in my salad,
- 52:17Speaker 2: excuse me, I'm right here. Like she had to remind
- 52:20Speaker 2: him that she was even in the room.
- 52:22Speaker 5: He wanted to go so bad that he said, you
- 52:25Speaker 5: can come with me.
- 52:26Speaker 4: You can come with me? Right, right. She calling.
- 52:29Speaker 3: No, he was aroused. And again, yes, it was petty
- 52:33Speaker 3: for Destiny to summon him like that. But Ariana is
- 52:37Speaker 3: the one who made it immature when she said, you
- 52:40Speaker 3: better not fucking play with me and made it a challenge.
- 52:43Speaker 3: Like if you go over there to her, it's a thing.
- 52:45Speaker 3: Most people would have handled it with a little bit
- 52:48Speaker 3: more dignity, but we talk about Arianne and Martel. So
- 52:51Speaker 3: what tank are you really working with? And I just
- 52:55Speaker 3: also think that Martel, Arianne doesn't move in a way
- 53:00Speaker 3: that is really sexy to me. You know what I'm saying?
- 53:03Speaker 3: Even when it comes to like being with your, your,
- 53:05Speaker 3: your dude, I need to stop saying niggas so much.
- 53:07Speaker 3: When it comes to like, when you with your dude,
- 53:09Speaker 3: even if you get in an argument with somebody, you
- 53:11Speaker 3: do it sexy. You know what I'm saying? If Arianne
- 53:14Speaker 3: would have sat in that room, because Destiny made no mistakes.
- 53:16Speaker 3: Destiny rolled Arianne like some dice on that table. She
- 53:20Speaker 3: shook Arianne in her hand and threw her on that
- 53:22Speaker 3: table and rolled her, right? Won the argument. Arianne starts
- 53:27Speaker 3: losing control. She takes a really low blow and says
- 53:30Speaker 3: that Destiny's son couldn't get into school, alleging that he
- 53:34Speaker 3: was not, he didn't qualify. He wasn't eligible to get
- 53:37Speaker 3: in the school right which is a shot because it's
- 53:40Speaker 3: trying to say that you y'all know what she's trying
- 53:42Speaker 3: to say yeah so destiny lost control the opportunity was
- 53:46Speaker 3: there for ariana to look good be in the cut
- 53:48Speaker 3: and say witty funny things without a lot of yelling
- 53:52Speaker 3: and really like have the the composure that would have
- 53:55Speaker 3: won the next um segment of the argument but she
- 53:58Speaker 3: didn't do that she's so hell-bent on wanting to fight
- 54:00Speaker 3: with destiny that's why she picked that random um statement
- 54:04Speaker 3: about talking to the bitch in three years or whatever.
- 54:07Speaker 3: And it's now holding onto that years later. She ain't
- 54:09Speaker 3: never liked Destiny. It has nothing to do with that statement.
- 54:12Speaker 3: She thinks Martell wants to fuck her or has fucked her.
- 54:16Speaker 3: And so that's enough right there. That's all she needs
- 54:18Speaker 3: to feel and think for her to never want peace
- 54:21Speaker 3: with Destiny. She's going to fight with her to the
- 54:24Speaker 3: bitter end. So that's where I'm at with it.
- 54:26Speaker 2: I have a question for Carlos real quick before we
- 54:28Speaker 2: leave this. Destiny, because I'm channeling my Taurus rage right now.
- 54:32Speaker 2: Destiny made it up and stuck. off of the first
- 54:35Speaker 2: comment she heard. Is there ever a point where Destiny
- 54:38Speaker 2: finds out that this young lady actually mentioned her son
- 54:42Speaker 2: in previous episodes when she wasn't around talking about she
- 54:45Speaker 2: couldn't pay for his chicken fingers and Martel had to...
- 54:48Speaker 2: Does Destiny find out that this is actually the second
- 54:50Speaker 2: offense and not the first?
- 54:52Speaker 1: She talked about the chicken fingers, yes.
- 54:55Speaker 2: Oh, I can't wait for that episode.
- 55:00Speaker 1: Without giving too much away.
- 55:01Speaker 3: You can tell us yes. You can just say yes.
- 55:03Speaker 2: It's just us. It's just the three of us.
- 55:05Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Destiny, Ariana, Martel, have a sit down.
- 55:11Speaker 3: Okay, so yes. Okay, good.
- 55:13Speaker 2: All right.
- 55:13Speaker 1: And I can't wait for you guys to watch that
- 55:15Speaker 1: every Saturday at 8 o'clock Central on the Oprah Winfrey Network.
- 55:19Speaker 1: So listen, Raindrops, I want to thank you all for
- 55:23Speaker 1: the massive amount of TikToks. The viewership is increasingly... He's
- 55:29Speaker 1: so happy.
- 55:29Speaker 2: Look at his face.
- 55:30Speaker 1: He's making money. It's no, it's no.
- 55:31Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 55:31Speaker 3: Applause, Chris.
- 55:32Speaker 1: Chris, thank you. Okay, I'll say this. I'll say this.
- 55:40Speaker 1: I'll say this. I obviously love this show. But one
- 55:45Speaker 1: thing about me, I'm honest. I haven't had this much
- 55:48Speaker 1: fun recapping Huntsville in a minute. And I will say
- 55:54Speaker 1: this season of Love and Marriage Huntsville, this is how
- 55:57Speaker 1: I feel. I do feel like it's the best reality
- 56:00Speaker 1: show of the year because it's so real. It's real
- 56:05Speaker 1: life moments. These are real conversations, real situations that happen
- 56:10Speaker 1: that are so extraordinary in the sense of These are
- 56:13Speaker 1: things you hear about on the 11 o'clock news, right?
- 56:15Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 56:15Speaker 1: The idea that we're able to talk about this kind
- 56:17Speaker 1: of stuff and shout out to my entire cast. I
- 56:20Speaker 1: am having a blast recapping this season because to me,
- 56:27Speaker 1: it's back to what Huntsville was, which was a show
- 56:32Speaker 1: that really touched on these subject matters.
- 56:36Speaker 3: Yes.
- 56:36Speaker 1: That was sort of taboo. And this cast is doing
- 56:41Speaker 1: a stellar job at that. And so are the three
- 56:44Speaker 1: of you.
- 56:44Speaker 5: Carlos, I just want to add something real quick before
- 56:46Speaker 5: we move on. And I will be one sentence with it.
- 56:49Speaker 5: Shout out to OJ Simpson. Also, we gave Arianne a
- 56:54Speaker 5: lot of smoke for that comment. But she probably got
- 56:57Speaker 5: it from pillow talking with Martel, who's telling the business
- 57:00Speaker 5: of her friend's son. And that's where he needs to
- 57:03Speaker 5: get smoke because she didn't just pull that out the air.
- 57:05Speaker 5: That Martel probably ran back and told his good friend's
- 57:10Speaker 5: business and you was dead ass wrong for that. And
- 57:11Speaker 5: I think she's getting a lot of smoke in this episode.
- 57:14Speaker 5: And I don't think Martel, whatever, is getting enough.
- 57:17Speaker 3: Okay.
- 57:18Speaker 2: Great point.
- 57:18Speaker 3: That's the curling irons, right?
- 57:21Speaker 2: It is.
- 57:21Speaker 1: Thank you guys for that. And listen, the ratings, I
- 57:29Speaker 1: think they're coming out this week. Let's just say double.
- 57:34Speaker 1: So anyway.
- 57:35Speaker 3: Ah, talk your shit.
- 57:37Speaker 5: Yes, you can get your girl some glam next season.
- 57:39Speaker 1: Yay.
- 57:40Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
- 57:42Speaker 1: How dare you? Oh, my gosh. I'm not watching. How
- 57:47Speaker 1: dare you? This is trash.
- 57:50Speaker 2: You feel so vindicated. He won't say it, y'all, but
- 57:53Speaker 2: he feels vindicated.
- 57:54Speaker 1: It goes to show you that, listen, I will always
- 57:57Speaker 1: say this. Men lie, women lie, but those numbers don't.
- 58:01Speaker 1: So anyways, check out Local Listings, Love and Marriage Huntsville
- 58:04Speaker 1: every Saturday, 8 o'clock, 7 central on the Open Whipping Network.
- 58:08Speaker 1: And serious shout out to my entire cast this season,
- 58:12Speaker 1: in addition to the crew as well, because there is
- 58:16Speaker 1: no I in team. And I know I'm the face
- 58:18Speaker 1: of the production, but let's be clear. I have a
- 58:21Speaker 1: robust crew of producers and camera ops and all those
- 58:25Speaker 1: people who deserve attention. as much as I get the
- 58:29Speaker 1: credit for the success. So shout out to my entire
- 58:33Speaker 1: team of showrunners, Marcus, Janelle, Andrew, and Nisa, and.
- 58:38Speaker 3: The rest of the- Yeah, y'all doing y'all damn thing,
- 58:40Speaker 3: for real.
- 58:41Speaker 1: A fabulous job, darling.
- 58:43Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 58:47Speaker 1: Reality with the King is executive produced by me, Carlos King,
- 58:52Speaker 1: produced by Jamie Schaefer in partnership with the Black Effect
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- 58:59Speaker 1: channel at thecarlosking underscore. I'm also dropping tons of exclusive
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