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Single Moms, Situationships & Summer House Drama · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, It's Lala Kent.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to untraditionally, Lala, Hello, gorgeous, it is La La Kent.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to untraditionally.
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  Speaker 3: Lala go here going already?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going, baby, I have Lindsay Hubbard.
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  Speaker 2: This is crazy, I know because so far you and
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  Speaker 2: I have talked about the two biggest things.
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  Speaker 1: The eye situation.
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  Speaker 2: When like I posted about my eye and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, Lindsay had the same thing. So I
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  Speaker 2: called you in a panic. Yep, you talked me through it.
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  Speaker 1: And then.
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  Speaker 2: Baby daddies, Yeah, baby daddies, how's that going? By the way,
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  Speaker 2: are you allowed.
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  Speaker 3: To say such a great place right now? What tell
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  Speaker 3: me more? We're in a really great place. I feel
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  Speaker 3: like it took a while. Last year was such a
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  Speaker 3: big year. You know. It was my first year becoming
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  Speaker 3: a mom. Like you're finding your footing, you you know.
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  Speaker 3: I went through a breakup a month and a half
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  Speaker 3: after I gave birth. I'm in postpartum era. I'm trying
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  Speaker 3: to breastfeed in palm and like figure out that schedule.
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  Speaker 3: I went through a huge move after ten years in
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  Speaker 3: Grammarcy to downtown New York in a neighborhood I've never
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  Speaker 3: been in, and my apartment needed a lot of repairs.
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  Speaker 3: Then I went straight launched straight into filming for five months,
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  Speaker 3: straight back to back shows Summerhow, straight into in the city.
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  Speaker 3: So like it was just a lot all at once,
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  Speaker 3: and like I can handle it, but it was overwhelming
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  Speaker 3: at times. And you know, there's like I love talking
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  Speaker 3: to you and I love seeing you, like when we
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  Speaker 3: bump into each other at Bravocon, and it's just like
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  Speaker 3: there's a lot to focus on. And so I think,
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  Speaker 3: like now that last year is behind me, and like
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  Speaker 3: we've found our footing as like new parents and a
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  Speaker 3: new dynamic of co parenting, mediation. The whole bit the
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  Speaker 3: lawyers of this is that, yeah, like we're in a
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  Speaker 3: good place.
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  Speaker 2: So you guys broke up when Gemma was only a
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  Speaker 2: month old a month and a half. Yeah, I mean
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  Speaker 2: that because Ocean was seven months old, and that like
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  Speaker 2: threw me for a freaking loop. I mean, how did
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  Speaker 2: you hold that together?
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  Speaker 3: A lot of friends and family it, yeah, and like
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  Speaker 3: and that was right when Summer House Season nine, last
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  Speaker 3: season of Summer House was premiering.
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  Speaker 2: How long had it been since you had broken up
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  Speaker 2: with Carl to when you met this new guy and
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  Speaker 2: had Gemma.
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  Speaker 3: Carl and I broke up at the end of August,
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  Speaker 3: and Gemma baby Daddy and I had started dating in
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  Speaker 3: January of twenty twenty four. Okay, but I had dated
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  Speaker 3: him before, so he was familiar to you. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 3: we had dated three years prior and then like three
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  Speaker 3: or four dates and then didn't like, you know, we
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  Speaker 3: were just on different paths. Wasn't the right time. And
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  Speaker 3: then he reached back out in December of twenty twenty three,
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  Speaker 3: like a few months after Carl and I broke up. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: started dating in January. I was a little busy in
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  Speaker 3: that December. Started dating in January, got pregnant in March,
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  Speaker 3: and was this like a planned no blessing? Of course.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, this is what the universe want totally,
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  Speaker 3: you know, because I never got pregnant with my with Carl.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've I got pregnant with the pullout method, not
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  Speaker 2: with my ex, but their time. Well, yeah, which is
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  Speaker 2: why I was always like, wrap it up, dog, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not taking a chance, I know. But a lot of
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  Speaker 2: my friends they're like, I've never had a noopsie. I'm
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  Speaker 2: all good, like I do the spray and pray or.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever the fuck it is.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, all right, well, God has your back
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  Speaker 2: a lot harder than he had mine because that didn't
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  Speaker 2: happen for me. A lot of difficult decisions back in Utah. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: so you guys, you guys are good. Now, how did
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  Speaker 2: you come to be good? Because like I could never,
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  Speaker 2: I could.
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  Speaker 1: Never, well never do.
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  Speaker 3: You have a very different situation and circumstances and your
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  Speaker 3: ex is has a whole different we'll call it a
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  Speaker 3: rap sheet category things happening. My acces is just very private,
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  Speaker 3: and he learned that he values his privacy more than
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  Speaker 3: he knew. Yeah, until he started dating me and realized
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  Speaker 3: that I was real public.
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  Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean your whole I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: say your whole come up. But the elevation happens with
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  Speaker 2: you being so open and honest about your life.
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  Speaker 3: Right, Well, that's like, that's how, that's how we have
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  Speaker 3: these jobs.
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  Speaker 2: That's what's hard for me is when I go out
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  Speaker 2: and date and when a man says that he loves
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  Speaker 2: my independence and what I've created and I don't need him,
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  Speaker 2: but he wants to be private, I'm like, well, I
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  Speaker 2: have all of these things because I'm not a private person.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, are you dating?
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  Speaker 1: I am dating.
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  Speaker 2: I had this situationship, which was kind of it actually
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  Speaker 2: made me really nervous because it's no longer, but it
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  Speaker 2: made me. It made me realize that I want something
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  Speaker 2: that I I really didn't think I wanted, Oh, which
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  Speaker 2: is like a relationship, Like yeah, like normalcy.
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  Speaker 3: So really wanted a relationship with your situationship.
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  Speaker 2: If he could have shown up the way I needed
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  Speaker 2: him to, then we would be all good. He just
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  Speaker 2: couldn't in the end, and that was fine. So what
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  Speaker 2: I gained from it was like, oh, I have been
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  Speaker 2: like denying myself wanting a man, and like I've got
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  Speaker 2: this and I'll have kids via sperm donor.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, oh, I now know that I could be very.
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  Speaker 2: Open to getting married one day, I could be open
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  Speaker 2: to having a baby with a man one day, which was.
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  Speaker 3: Very not traumatized. Like I feel like still I'm a
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  Speaker 3: little I'm still in like the traumatized mode because like
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  Speaker 3: two x'es ago, he broke up with me two months
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  Speaker 3: before our wedding on camera in a very publicly humiliating way. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: last X, I had a baby with him and then
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  Speaker 3: breaks up with me, you know, a month and a
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  Speaker 3: half after giving birth in the middle of postpartum. So
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  Speaker 3: I'm kind of.
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  Speaker 1: Just like, you know what, You're where I used to be,
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  Speaker 1: and I get all the men. Yeah, no, I get it.
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  Speaker 2: And you also like I, I just had one really
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  Speaker 2: traumatizing relationship that was like good enough for me, Like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't need it twice.
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  Speaker 1: You head back to back.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So how do you go on and be like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: these are the things I want when really the only
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  Speaker 2: person you've been able to count on is yourself, myself.
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  Speaker 3: And then I have my unconditional love with Gemma.
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  Speaker 2: Right, my little writer, dat your little partner. You're figuring
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  Speaker 2: this out together. Yeah, I totally get that. And now
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  Speaker 2: the steaks are super high.
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  Speaker 3: I started, I was like toying around with the idea
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  Speaker 3: of dating okay, on Summerhouse last like last summer this
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  Speaker 3: current season of Summerhouse, I started toying around with it.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, let me go for the sugar daddy,
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  Speaker 3: Oh love this for you, because I've I've always gone
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  Speaker 3: for love, yeah, never for money. And I was like,
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  Speaker 3: let me go for the money, you know, why not,
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  Speaker 3: Let's try something new around here. Didn't work out so well. Well,
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  Speaker 3: well some of my mom. She didn't say this to me,
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  Speaker 3: someone said it to her. But it's just as easy
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  Speaker 3: to love a rich man as it is to love
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  Speaker 3: a poor man. So like you might as well just
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  Speaker 3: like go for the rich man.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no truly, but like like really rich, like I'm
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  Speaker 2: not fucking around.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, private jets, Yeah, I need big Pepe with the Frans,
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  Speaker 3: let's go.
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  Speaker 2: And I've also learned that if they want to get
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  Speaker 2: you a bag or like spoil you.
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  Speaker 1: You need to ask.
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  Speaker 2: If it's like I want to buy you a Birkin
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  Speaker 2: bag and it's twenty five thousand, great, I would love
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  Speaker 2: the Burken bag, but I need twenty five thousand dollars
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  Speaker 2: in cash as well. My rent I pay it, yep,
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  Speaker 2: you My rent is ten grand. I'm going to need
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  Speaker 2: that in cash as well because when you leave, I
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  Speaker 2: can't afford my rent. What the fuck am I supposed
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  Speaker 2: to do with all these bags? I'm gonna need hard
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  Speaker 2: cash as well, or just give me the cash and
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  Speaker 2: don't give me the gift.
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  Speaker 1: You can do just cash, otherwise you're gonna have to
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  Speaker 1: match that shit. That's a smart sugar baby.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, yeah, you should give a lesson. I
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  Speaker 3: should we need like a crash course on being a
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  Speaker 3: sugar baby. I didn't do well at it. I can
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  Speaker 3: tell you that I found a guy with a kayak
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  Speaker 3: and a fishing boat that was like twenty feet. I
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  Speaker 3: was like, no, it's not gonna work for me.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, you did it real wrong.
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  Speaker 3: No. Well, I'm also gonna not gonna find a sugar
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  Speaker 3: daddy in the summerhouse, right, and these are all like
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  Speaker 3: people like these are all like partygoers at the Summerhouse.
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  Speaker 3: So then the fall ahead and I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: this is like ten months after my breakup. I feel
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  Speaker 3: like I've been through like the thick of it. I'm
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  Speaker 3: getting my footing more, like now I can really try
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  Speaker 3: to date. And we started filming In the City when
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  Speaker 3: I was right around the time of like, okay, I'm
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  Speaker 3: ready to date. Yeah, so you're gonna see a lot
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  Speaker 3: of that on this new season of In the City. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So when you go out and date, is it like
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  Speaker 2: you have the mindset of I'm just gonna go out
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  Speaker 2: and have fun and see what I like and don't like,
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  Speaker 2: or are you because we're women and I've noticed this
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  Speaker 2: about myself. Another thing I don't love. But I now
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  Speaker 2: go out and I'm like, I can't just have fun.
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  Speaker 2: I have to like like what what the fuck is up?
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  Speaker 1: What are we doing? Like what are your intentions?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like it's it becomes more serious more quick
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  Speaker 3: because you have to be like you have a family,
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  Speaker 3: so are you able to just fun? So I don't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't have time to go out. Like literally, it's
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  Speaker 3: like I'm in work mode. I'm in mom mode and
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  Speaker 3: like unless someone sets me up, I'm not on the apps.
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  Speaker 3: So someone has to either set me up and like
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  Speaker 3: do the vetting already, or like it's you know, somehow,
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  Speaker 3: in some way, I meet someone like I recently reconnected
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  Speaker 3: with an old fling.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you're really loving to go back to old flings.
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  Speaker 2: Your baby daddy's an old fling. Like what about could
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  Speaker 2: we could Carl be the old could.
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  Speaker 3: You go out at No? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: You like comfortability there? Keep going back.
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  Speaker 3: There's there is a lot of rumors just because we
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  Speaker 3: become friendlier lately, and we're like kind of putting these
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  Speaker 3: positions to like, you know, in public settings like yesterday
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  Speaker 3: at upfronts and we have Carl and I have the
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  Speaker 3: same group of friends like me, Kyle and Carl, you know,
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  Speaker 3: so we're around each other, and so we keep running
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  Speaker 3: into each other at you know these like things. No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: I know, Carl is I think that we we could
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  Speaker 3: get back to a place of friendship. But that's probably you.
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  Speaker 1: Don't you wouldn't consider him a friend right now.
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  Speaker 3: I think we're in a like really friendly place I love,
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  Speaker 3: and I like that. I like where we're at. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I think, what do you call a friend? Someone you
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  Speaker 3: call someone you're like, you know, talking to on more
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  Speaker 3: of a regular basis. Carl and I don't call each
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  Speaker 3: other and we don't talk to each other on a
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  Speaker 3: regular basis, So would you consider that a friend?
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know what a friend is anymore.
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  Speaker 3: We love like labels and statuses and like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: we like to like categorize our relationships with each other
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  Speaker 3: a lot, And I think I think we should just
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  Speaker 3: be okay with where we're at.
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  Speaker 2: Me and girl and long answers all the time and yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like it is what it is. Yeah, do you think
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  Speaker 2: that you've bonded now because of this commanda of it all?
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  Speaker 3: That definitely helped. I think you know, Kyle, Carl and
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  Speaker 3: I are very protective of the show itself, like we
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  Speaker 3: we're the ogs, like we started the show, like we've
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  Speaker 3: been here since the beginning, and when something rocks that
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  Speaker 3: or threatens it, like we're gonna come together and protect it.
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  Speaker 3: And I think, you know, and support each other too,
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  Speaker 3: you know, like I know that, like this was a
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  Speaker 3: big betrayal against Sierra, but it also is very hurtful
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  Speaker 3: for Kyle as well. And like, you know, although Kyle
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  Speaker 3: and I have had like a crazy friendship over ten years,
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  Speaker 3: like he's we got to support and protect him too.
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  Speaker 2: Are you still friends with Amanda? Like what is she
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  Speaker 2: doing in the world now? What is she doing?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know. You know, the reunion
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  Speaker 3: was a wild time and you're so composed.
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  Speaker 1: Can you tease anything? Did you stay like pretty chill?
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  Speaker 3: I will say I got pretty activated. Yeah, but I
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  Speaker 3: also kept my mouth shut when I needed to keep
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  Speaker 3: it shut, and I it was very open when it
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  Speaker 3: needed to be open. I tried to do have a
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  Speaker 3: little balance. That's great.
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  Speaker 1: How old are you thirty nine? You look great, bitch.
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  Speaker 1: Oh thanks, You're welcome.
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  Speaker 2: When you go into film like Summerhouse, or a reunion,
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  Speaker 2: especially this season when it's super fucking heightened, do you
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  Speaker 2: get worried, just like as a mom, how you're going
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  Speaker 2: to come across like knowing And I've never thought about this.
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  Speaker 2: The only reason I'm asking you is because blast me
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  Speaker 2: this all the time when you act out of pocket.
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  Speaker 2: Do you worry that Gema was gonna watch it one
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  Speaker 2: day and like not dig it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I'm there yet.
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  Speaker 1: I mean maybe.
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  Speaker 3: I would worry about that in like a sexual sense,
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  Speaker 3: Like I stopped like hooking up on camera as of
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  Speaker 3: like I don't know, three years ago. Yeah, you guys
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  Speaker 3: don't have that problem because you don't have cameras in
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  Speaker 3: the fucking bedroom.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, that's so strange to me. You just
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  Speaker 1: see like little bare asses all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I started changing in the bathroom. Yeah, and that
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  Speaker 3: was even way before Gema, So I had started like
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  Speaker 3: shifting just because like at that point I was like
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  Speaker 3: engaged to Carl and I was like, out of respect
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  Speaker 3: for him, I should probably like, you know, not be
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  Speaker 3: naked all the time. Yeah, But with Jemma, like I think,
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  Speaker 3: I I don't know, I think I've just like as
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  Speaker 3: maturity finds us, and you and I are very simil
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  Speaker 3: like you get activated and pop off. I get activated
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  Speaker 3: and pop off. It's less about like is she gonna
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  Speaker 3: watch this one day and like, you know, have feelings
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  Speaker 3: and thoughts and opinions, and it's more about like, I think,
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  Speaker 3: as we mature as women, we naturally just like balance
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  Speaker 3: ourselves a little bit more. Don't you feel that way?
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  Speaker 3: Or yeah, you're like still not balanced.
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  Speaker 2: It's very hard because when you've been doing something for
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  Speaker 2: the same way for it since I was born, just
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  Speaker 2: like very black or white, for someone to say, like,
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  Speaker 2: let's find the gray, let's like balance it out, it's
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  Speaker 2: kind of suffocating, and I feel like I'm finally finding yeah,
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  Speaker 2: the gray. But I mean when I was filming vander
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  Speaker 2: Pump Rules and I was very much a mom. I
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  Speaker 2: mean for the first time since I was in my twenties,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, that guy's kind of cute. Let's bring
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  Speaker 2: him back to the house, and they like show me
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  Speaker 2: closing the door and like obviously doing what I do,
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  Speaker 2: which I apparently squirt.
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  Speaker 1: Now, so that's.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, now you just started squirting, Well, I.
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  Speaker 1: Guess a few years ago.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, wait a second, I don't know if I've ever
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  Speaker 3: scored it. Maybe I've just had bad seconds.
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  Speaker 1: Throw your way. Because he'll get it.
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  Speaker 2: He'll get it, he'll get it to happen. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know why that just happened, but yes, I'm mortified. And
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  Speaker 2: I probably should have thought that way well before Ocean
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  Speaker 2: was born. But in a weird way, I'm like, you
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  Speaker 2: know what if one day she decides to watch the show, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like they're gonna look at us and be like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my mom was like a pretty down bitch, Like
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty safe.
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  Speaker 1: This is a judgment free zone.
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  Speaker 3: I just Okay, here's the thing. I I think that
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  Speaker 3: like we we as women naturally are very hard on ourselves.
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  Speaker 3: Like yeah, and it's because the world is hard on us.
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  Speaker 3: I think you have to give yourself a little bit
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  Speaker 3: of grace. Like I guess I'm so activated. I still
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  Speaker 3: get activated, it just looks a little different, you know,
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  Speaker 3: Like even my activation has matured.
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  Speaker 1: It's more refined.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's more like it's more like like I will
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  Speaker 3: cut you with my words real fucking quick, yeah, as
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  Speaker 3: opposed to like raising my voice, do you know what
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  Speaker 3: I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Totally?
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  Speaker 3: So, my activation, like yah, has matured as I have matured.
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  Speaker 2: You guys are on season what ten? So you started
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  Speaker 2: the show season one season one? But I mean how
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  Speaker 2: I mean ten years you're thirty nine now. So you
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  Speaker 2: were like.
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  Speaker 3: I was turning thirty. Yeah, I was turning thirty. My
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  Speaker 3: thirtieth birthday was on season one. Oh wow, Yeah I
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  Speaker 3: threw a holdown.
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: You threw a holdown.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I ever saw season one?
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: What were you like.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: The same, just younger, because.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Thirty anywhere else in America, like where I come from,
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: my friends at the age of thirty have like six
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: kids already, and like it looks very different thirty in
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: New York, it's a baby still. Yeah, so like you're
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: still getting turned up, You're still like hooking up with
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: random Oh of.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Course, right one night stands. I was a hoe in
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: my day and like I had boyfriends, but when I
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: didn't have a boyfriend, I was a savage.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: You were, Yeah, what does savage look like to you? Like,
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: are we talking about thirty year old? Lindsay was yeah,
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: like where you just go out, you get your.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: Hort man, you find the door man, and you're like,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: oh you hit different.
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: It just depends. But I didn't have sex for a
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: year after I gave birth.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: That's like not even that long, is it?
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know how long did it
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: take you?
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: Well, I had not had sex since I conceived my
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: daughter in like July of twenty twenty one. Oh wow,
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: it was a long time. It was a very long time,
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Like it was nothing.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: It was the longest that you've ever gone.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Probably that, yeah, or this last time. It was like
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: twenty twenty two. And then I decided to like conceive
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: via sperm donor, and that was like I didn't really
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: want to be having sex. Lister to imagine, I'm like, no,
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: it hurts or is it a man's you know, like
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: I couldn't take the risk. So that I've gone like
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: many a many year Yeah, both post part of me.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: But yeah, it's it's just not fun on in the city.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Do you show Gema on that show?
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: I see, yeah, so she's on it. Yeah, it took
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: a while, a lot of a lot of conversations.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: I love how we went from not having sex at
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: all to Gemma, are we going to see her?
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: Speaking of sex? This is how you get pregnant?
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: No, but I remember us talking about this and you
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: how do you deal with like the biggest part of
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: your life not being on camera.
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, This in the City is literally a show
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: that shows our next chapter of life. And my next
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: chapter of life is me being a mom. How do
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: you show me being a mom without me being a mom?
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: So what did you say to the baby daddy?
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Though?
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: How did you let him?
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: I mean we just we There was I mean, I'm
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: not gonna get it. There was like months and months
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: and months and months of lawyer conversations.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, because I'm telling you, like when I Ocean
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: was like maybe three months old and he had no
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: problem like parading her around on TV. And in the
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: moment that he was no longer a part of it,
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: she couldn't be a part of it. So this season
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: of The Valley, it's the first time that people have
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: actually seen me like face to face with my child, right,
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: which is my soa yeah.
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: And then they're confused why Ocean's not on and it's like.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Oh, she's like so some more, she's embarrassed. It's like,
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: come on, come, are we.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: In middle school? Also, like here's the thing you have
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: to pick and choose your battles. Like currently as of
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: this present moment, which is one week before In the
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: City premieres. Right, Okay, I do not post Jema on
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: social media at the request of the baby daddy. Okay, okay,
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: Like you don't want me to post her on social media? Fine,
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: and she to be on the show. Yes, she's gonna
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: be on the show, and people are going to see
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: her face. Am I still gonna not post her on
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: social media? Correct? Because you have to pick and choose
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: your battles, right, the older I get it's like, you
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: know what, you don't want me to post her on
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: social media. Fine, but let me go live my life,
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: do my job and do what I've been doing for
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: the last ten years with my baby. And like, just
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: give me that and I'll agree and not have to
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: post her on social media. We're all good.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Do you think that if you guys would have been together,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: he would have been fine with her on socials? No,
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: because he's so private.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even Like he doesn't even and post
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: on socials Like he doesn't. He's in a very different world.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: Like it's like the things that matter to him are
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: very different than the things that we do in our lifestyle.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: And you know what's really hard about this is that
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: when you start dating somebody in theory they can handle
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: what comes with you being in the public eye.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: And then when it.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: Becomes real and they see how crazy exactly what happens,
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: they start to kind of freak out and lose it.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, or or and I don't know this in my
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying this is what happened with me. But
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: it's all fun and games to like fuck the famous
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: chick or the girl who's on TV until oopsie, it's
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: becoming real.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: Well, there's nothing there.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: And again I'm not saying that's what happened with No.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: I think it's more in line with what you just
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: said of like you don't really realize just how public
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: our lifestyles are until you're in it.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Well, and there's just nothing like this.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Bravo bubble is like the craziest fan base. And I
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: don't mean that in like an insulting way. They're just
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: the level of fandom you can't ride.
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: You have the greatest fans on earth, like the stickiest,
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: most loyal, diehard fans. They will ride at fucking done.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: There also bury you in their backyard with one wrong move.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: So just ask me. I know, I'm like, oh, this
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: bitch who had sent me so much.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Love in a matter of moments, wanted to dig a pool,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: bury me in it, and then lay the concrete.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah intense, someone said no, they legitimately. Yeah, Actually there's
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: a dam to fuck up in our world.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: No, do you think that you fucked up?
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Because I did an episode like a little bonus where
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: I was like, I just want to like give advice,
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: not that you guys would listen just for the fantasy.
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: I always love your Honestly, I'm always like looking forwards
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: and talking to you because I'm like, God, I just
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: need to talk to La La again because she like
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: has been through this or she knows like I feel
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: you and I like vibe on the scene frequencies.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: I think, yeah, and when we get together, it's like
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: remember remember.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: Like like now I talk about scoring Baby Daddies film
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: five different TV shows.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: It's my add that kicks in.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: Really much. We're packing it all in.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: Do you think that summer House, like you guys are
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: done with it now? Are they like implementing a new
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: cast or do you know can you even talk to that?
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Can you even speak to it?
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: I mean, I so last year me Kyle and Amanda
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: did two shows and then this year. You know, I
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: I we thought we had a plan and now where
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't say back to the drawing board, like we
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: have a lot of people left, like just because two
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: people mess up. And unfortunately for Wes, like he's only
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: been around for three years, one of those seasons, the
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: only thing he had to talk about was the fact
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: that he couldn't wash his recycling out before he recycled.
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: That was his big storyline for one of those seasons,
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: and then the other two seasons.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Got a lot of storylines. Now, the dick pics that
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: came out.
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: Every day is a new storyline for West.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Can I ask you did he send those two?
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: Probably somebody on Instagram?
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't mean a Wiener shame anybody.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: It needs to be a grooming situation happening.
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: Do you think I looked at it with like one
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: eye open, you know, like zooming in what are we
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: working with here?
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: What is going on?
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: He doesn't seem like the kind of guy who would
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: just fire off dick pics with many of angel.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know it's funny. I I always like West
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: has BD and I totally understand the total picture attraction.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: He's charismatic, he's charming. Yeah, if you are a girl
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: who has any slight insecurity in your life, if he
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: sees you, he makes you feel seen. He validates you.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: He pretends to be like all about female rights rights.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: He talks about sports, He's into sports. He has a
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: lot of friends. He's like, there's a lot Like if
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: you take him as the full package, I can see
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: why women totally attracted to him. And in that situation,
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: if you know, maybe there's whatever size he is, you know,
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: under his fucking pants.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Like you two it, I've some that are grower and
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: not showers and I'm totally marry that's what he is.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: By the way, if this it is not lost on me,
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: but if two men were sitting on a mic talking
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: about a vagina, we would bury them alive, like inappropriate.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: And we're having here, We're like, what's.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: Going on, dude. But my whole point is is like
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: West has bde regardless of the size of his actual deck,
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: and I think that that helps a lot. Like I
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: also he's a girl who cannot handle a big dick
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: like I cannot take big.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: Dicks really, no, not girth like long or just like
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: kind of petite.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: You like petite Dick.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: I just like I'm like Goldielocks. I want something that's
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: like perfect and just right for me, not too big,
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: not too small, just right, you know. Yeah, like I
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: need a Goldilock, Dick. I want to feel like I
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: just went into the circus. What's terrifying? Yeah?
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: No, And then add tattoo is like a face tattoo.
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: I will marry you tomorrow, face tattoo.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: I love a face tattoo like.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: What like a tear drop?
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Any of it? Any of it?
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Any of it.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Rick Ross was on the Today Show today and I'm like,
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: does he have face tattoos? I'm kind of loving Rick Ross?
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Now, No, you should call that guy that was like
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: that got famous who was in jail.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Who was like dated the billionaire. I don't know, yeah,
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: like a billionaire for a sec.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Good for him, I know, call him.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: You should be my wing woman.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: Like when I think I need like a New Yorker
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: some grit because I think I overwhelm. Like I found
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: like a nice little southern boy and I think it
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: was fun.
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: Until it was Now I don't think that him for you?
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: Who's the southern boy?
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: Do we know?
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Him and talk about him.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: Is he on Southern charm?
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: He's on nothing.
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: Okay, So your vibe now is a face tattoo, a
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: big dick from New York in a relationship, not a situationship. Yeah,
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: that's what I solved. It's when you like, I only
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: want to be in a situationship right now, you know what.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: That's where I'm at.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: And I feel like the universe wants that for me too,
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Because anytime I talk to a guy and it starts
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: getting a little bit something like I always do. I
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: could also look with him and be like, this is
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: a you problem, but I'm like, no, the universe is
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: speaking to me. I've got other things on the horizon.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: I think I need to focus on work as well.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: Like situationships, I think you're onto something.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't deal right now. It's too much for me.
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: I like want what I want when I want it
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: right now, and that's very selfish as a relationship, like
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: I can't like I like, if a guy doesn't live here,
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: I'm like, perfect, let's have like a long distance thing.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: We definitely are gonna like hang out and do something
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: because that's my thing. I'm like, you don't live here?
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: That's great. I'll see you like once a month. We'll
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: get giddy about it and then send you on your way.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: I send you on your way. I'm I'm that's you can.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: Be mom and work and do what you need to do.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like I I've always I've also and you're probably
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: like this too. I've always been better as like single
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: Lindsey too, like on TV, like every time I was
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: in a relationship, and like in the history of Summer House,
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: like sometimes I'm in a relationship, sometimes I'm single, sometimes
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: I'm in a relationship, sometimes single. Every time I'm single,
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: I'm just better without a guide dragging me down.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: You can be yourself, yeah, and go and do things
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: that you want to do. I totally I relate to
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: that so much. I've been on my own for so
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: long that when I think about having to like compromise
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: for another person, yeah, it really fucking throws me off.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: I'm really excited to see you as a mom and
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: just you dating on this new show.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: When does in the City air May nineteenth? Yeah, we're
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: talk to insteaded baby all right, putting.
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: In nineteen, So it's the it's the Summerhouse finale, Okay,
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: of season ten, straight intwo in the city.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: I love when they do that.
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: I'm here and then me and Kyle on Watch Happens Live.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I can't fucking wait.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: Whole round up, a lot of Lindsay, A.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: Lot of lindsay. The people are begging for it, by
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: the way.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: You think, I don't think.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: People are gonna lose their shit. I'm so excited for you.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: I love you. Thanks coming on the podcast Let's Say
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: No More. I would love it.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: You guys, Thank you for listening to another episode of
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: Untraditionally La La. I'm gonna catch you on Monday for
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: a bonus again on Wednesday for a regular old episode
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: and reminder that An Unlikely Affair with Myself and Amber
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: Childers airs every Thursday at nine pm.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Bye Bye,