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THE REACTION TIME TUESDAY · BLACK HOT FIRE NETWORK SHOW'S

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  Speaker 2: having a beautiful, wonderful Tuesday morning afternoon.
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  Speaker 4: My name is Joby.
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  Speaker 7: We're go on, amazing people, what are goan? Welcome to
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  Speaker 7: the reaction time, Let's react, let's enjoy, Let's.
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  Speaker 2: Has been traumatized for the last I am I am
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  Speaker 9: Do not I omen like that?
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  Speaker 8: Listen, I guess the witchcraft app But yeah, welcome to
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  Speaker 8: another edition of the Reaction Time.
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  Speaker 9: I hope you react to what your rec acting to
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  Speaker 9: with us.
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  Speaker 8: And yeah, because god damn you all need to know
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  Speaker 2: Let's go with what matches your you know, whatever you
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  Speaker 2: like and all that. That's what I'll say, because that's
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  Speaker 2: actually part of the conversation.
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  Speaker 4: But you're traumatized. True, you'll heal, You'll heal. This show
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  Speaker 4: we ensure you here.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, what are you guys doing now? Is your
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  Speaker 2: week a lot so far? Literally the line of July
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  Speaker 2: it's coming to an end. What hasn't been for you, guys?
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  Speaker 4: Go first?
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  Speaker 7: Mine has been amazing. I can't complain the most, definitely,
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  Speaker 7: And I'm just saying I'm blessed and I'm happy beyond
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  Speaker 7: the bandon serial Camelish.
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  Speaker 3: Alive man as a been an easy month. Not really.
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  Speaker 8: It's been a month that has brought a lot of
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  Speaker 8: changes to my life, some that I didn't expect, but
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  Speaker 8: it's also brought opportunities. So they say the universe is
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  Speaker 8: a double edged sword. It will bless you and curse
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  Speaker 8: you at the same time. So it's all about how
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  Speaker 8: you look at it. So I'm choosing to look at
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  Speaker 8: the blessings and not the lows and the troubles that
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  Speaker 8: I've gone through in that month, because I actually believe
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  Speaker 8: energy matters.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it does.
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  Speaker 2: I remember the course I gave one time, and I
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  Speaker 2: think ever since I read that quotes, I life changed
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  Speaker 2: for the better. I don't know somehow to mentally of
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  Speaker 2: how I'm looking at people, especially like and everything is energy.
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  Speaker 2: Look people saying that, even we're talking about that on
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  Speaker 2: my show, like we have so much energy out chair
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  Speaker 2: that is so untapped, And of course we kept that
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  Speaker 2: away from us, but which also kept us away from understanding.
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  Speaker 2: Also people's energy. That's why you say people can tolerateh
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  Speaker 2: like a whole lot.
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  Speaker 10: I like that.
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  Speaker 2: I like that the moment you start viewing people as energy,
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  Speaker 2: because there's the energy that people come with. There are
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  Speaker 2: energy people present live alone the character like this is
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  Speaker 2: something about them, because there's a character which you can
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  Speaker 2: fake for a while, and there's energy that you can't
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  Speaker 2: just wait, it's just there, it's visible, it's it's you.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's sweet or exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was reading something and it.
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  Speaker 4: Was become smart.
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  Speaker 2: I can't believe that's me.
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  Speaker 3: I can't remember who it was. But this girl was
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  Speaker 3: saying sometimes as.
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  Speaker 8: Ethnic people or as indigenous people, by that we mean
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  Speaker 8: black people because we are the indigenous, we focus so
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  Speaker 8: much on who took what from us, rather than how
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  Speaker 8: we can relearn what they took. Because and when I
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  Speaker 8: say that, you know, frequency can float objects and that's
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  Speaker 8: energy like you can. And that's how ancient temples and
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  Speaker 8: churches and all these whatevers were built. They were built
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  Speaker 8: towards a certain acoustic whatever that was a healing sound.
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  Speaker 8: Hardy so people the reason why people became religious is
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  Speaker 8: because the churches. Oh God, damn. Okay, the churches were
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  Speaker 8: built by Masons. Nowadays you have a new it. These
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  Speaker 8: people understood mathematics on on a natural level, not even
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  Speaker 8: a different level. So mathematics is in nature, but what
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  Speaker 8: we are pursuing right now is unnatural.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 9: That's why we have to start.
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  Speaker 8: Creating nuclear energy, which is we're basically creating little suns.
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  Speaker 8: It's natural, but we can't sustain it because we are
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  Speaker 8: in an environment. But they understood mathematics from a natural
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  Speaker 8: point of view. That's why you see in India you
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  Speaker 8: have churches or temples that key, they vibrate a certain
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  Speaker 8: frequency when you hum or sing or whatever, and those frequencies.
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  Speaker 3: Get towards healing you.
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  Speaker 8: So and that's why you found that most people either
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  Speaker 8: became most cultures always had religion. Okay, because the Masons
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  Speaker 8: understood that to control society, you need to provide things
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  Speaker 8: that society doesn't understand. And fun fact, society still doesn't
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  Speaker 8: understand mathematics.
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  Speaker 3: And that's why they built these.
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  Speaker 8: Centers let me call them centers, temples, churches, whatever, so
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  Speaker 8: that when people had problems and they went there to
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  Speaker 8: pray or to whatever, and they'd always ask people to
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  Speaker 8: pray in hymns or song. Okay, look at your Bible.
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  Speaker 8: They sing before prey. So the song that you're singing
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  Speaker 8: is what heals because the fact the frequencies that come
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  Speaker 8: back to you are healing frequencies.
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  Speaker 4: We have to give us a conversation for another day.
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  Speaker 3: That's true.
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  Speaker 4: But I was just what you're saying.
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  Speaker 8: I was talking about energy and how we as you
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  Speaker 8: say it, we don't really understand it. And most people
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  Speaker 8: just think that when people say I'm manifesting or whatever
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  Speaker 8: or whatever or like aura and whatever. These things exist.
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  Speaker 8: It's just different form of energies that we don't understand
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  Speaker 8: as a society yet. But yeah, welcome to a very positive,
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  Speaker 8: energetic show.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe my Julia has been amazing too.
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  Speaker 2: I can't complain literally, like I said, there's just certain
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  Speaker 2: ways of I've been doing things, and things have just.
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  Speaker 4: Become super easy for me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm less literally stressed about even glowing this month.
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  Speaker 4: More I've been glowing.
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  Speaker 3: No more, I say, more, glowing, more, come on, get
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  Speaker 3: the more.
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  Speaker 9: To thank you.
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  Speaker 2: I appreciate, But you have just been less concerned about
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  Speaker 2: so much that shouldn't bother me, Like and I think
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  Speaker 2: also this month, I want to say my brother, I
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  Speaker 2: found out that frankly, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: A lot have been doing.
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  Speaker 2: It's not really achieved, so which should be stressing me.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm just like, hey, life is just it is
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  Speaker 2: what it is. You know, it is what it is,
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  Speaker 2: and this enough cult too simple, So the stressed things
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  Speaker 2: will work out, because I think one thing I've been
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  Speaker 2: trying to look at is when things when I didn't
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  Speaker 2: have things that I have right now, the mentality I had,
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  Speaker 2: and how bad I really wanted to be working right
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  Speaker 2: now to have the little things I have, and then
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  Speaker 2: I'm like everything worked out to look out. Let's just
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  Speaker 2: see jo be like, we'll actually work out despite maybe
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  Speaker 2: so much time it took. Mean and then again, have
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  Speaker 2: zero regards of nothing. That's the number one rule I
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  Speaker 2: live on. Have zero regrets on anything I do, all
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  Speaker 2: the choices.
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  Speaker 8: On me, like, but do understand time is relative, Like time,
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  Speaker 8: a year and an hour are basically the same thing.
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  Speaker 8: It's just that you view them differently because you exist
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  Speaker 8: in a fixed timeline. Well the body does, your your
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  Speaker 8: conscience really doesn't exist in a fixed timeline.
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  Speaker 2: Talking about energy, I think I'm going to start with
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  Speaker 2: this video you're talking trash about. When I was reviewing it,
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  Speaker 2: this money is talking about having less circle as you
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  Speaker 2: grow older. If you want to be successful, how you
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  Speaker 2: need to have less of a circle. And if it's
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  Speaker 2: a circle, it has to be a circle that is really, really,
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  Speaker 2: really meaningful to you or aligned to probably what you do,
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  Speaker 2: mostly what you do and most of the times to
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  Speaker 2: find out some people who are on the same line
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  Speaker 2: of what you do, but still you want aligne. So
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  Speaker 2: don't force yourself to be there.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe you're meant to be, to.
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  Speaker 2: Grow different, to grow bigger and all that. So I
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  Speaker 2: agree with him because I think we're talking about friendship
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  Speaker 2: yesterday on this show, and I was saying personally, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not a person who it's not like I don't value friendship.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know anyone might take it wrong, but it's
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  Speaker 2: your level of maturity again that comes to you. Don't mindset,
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  Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, it's.
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  Speaker 4: Not even sicking it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't take it personal, you know, I don't really
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  Speaker 2: relationship is like friendship is personal. Don't get me wrong.
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  Speaker 2: Because I was saying there's even heart to break from friendships.
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  Speaker 2: People get hat like, yeah, we've never had a consid
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  Speaker 2: a real, real, real friend that's lost.
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  Speaker 4: How did you feel about that?
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  Speaker 9: Talk about it.
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  Speaker 8: Personally, I've never really been heart broken from losing friends.
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  Speaker 8: But how I looked at it reason why experience? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 8: So my first experience.
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  Speaker 9: Is losing a friend was actually very tragic. It was
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  Speaker 9: a death associated But.
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  Speaker 8: Apart from that, where somebody switches up or you realize something, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Always how I look at it.
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  Speaker 8: Personally, it's always me things being revealed to me that
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  Speaker 8: were happening without me knowing. So it's not that they've changed,
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  Speaker 8: it's that I was naive and I didn't see them
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  Speaker 8: for who they are.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't really get heart broken. I just appreciate
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  Speaker 3: that I know who they are, and.
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  Speaker 8: I don't necessarily decide that you're not my friend anymore.
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  Speaker 8: I just know where the boundaries apply.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 8: Personally, I was saying this, if I ever consider your
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  Speaker 8: friend a lois show up for you me too, no matter,
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  Speaker 8: no matter if I know you're an op SA, I'll
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  Speaker 8: show up for you and support you. The reason is
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  Speaker 8: reason is this, Yeah, yeah, will I. So there's there's
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  Speaker 8: also an extent to how I show up and support you.
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  Speaker 8: It's to the extent that you've we've set up that relationship.
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  Speaker 8: So the reason I'm saying show up is I don't
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  Speaker 8: embody your energy. You're at the oup. I'm not true, Okay,
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  Speaker 8: So you embody that energy. I'll embody what I am.
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  Speaker 8: So when you have a premier, when you have you're
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  Speaker 8: opening a new business, or you need somebody to support
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  Speaker 8: your business, or like by buying something. If I like something,
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  Speaker 8: I'll come out and buy it. I have artists who
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  Speaker 8: used to be friends, right, but they're no longer friends
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  Speaker 8: because I realized, or actors or even business people.
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  Speaker 9: I don't have a negative energy towards you're at all nader.
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  Speaker 10: But what do I do?
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  Speaker 8: I limit association, I limit amount of time we link up,
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  Speaker 8: you get I do the least. But I'll do something
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  Speaker 8: because we cannot really help these people.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's what now makes me different with you,
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  Speaker 2: because I do think now at all, like completely, like
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  Speaker 2: you just yeah to leave Joanna or.
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  Speaker 4: We've met in history.
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  Speaker 2: We can pattern, but it's not a matter I muster
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  Speaker 2: say hi to you, yeah high, but it's not time now.
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  Speaker 2: It raissurably, I won't care even what you're going through.
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  Speaker 2: Trust me, Like I really I feel like I'm really
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  Speaker 2: I was saying yesterday personally, I don't take relationships or
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  Speaker 2: let me tell a relationship friendship to be specific.
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  Speaker 3: That's a relationship.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah you're not in its.
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  Speaker 2: Own level okay, which I don't take it personal like
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  Speaker 2: you owe me nothing, are only nothing.
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  Speaker 4: You can go shitty, I can go shitty. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: No one is perfect at the same time, because friendships
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  Speaker 2: do have trippy you know, moments like and all that
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  Speaker 2: up and down exactly, but not I'm to traffica.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe I'm just like now it's off the boundary.
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  Speaker 2: But let me shows what the guy says literally about success,
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  Speaker 2: which I hope it makes a to you. Maybe you're
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  Speaker 2: asking yourself why are you not successing?
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  Speaker 4: And that happens.
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  Speaker 2: I think a lot to many people when you were young,
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  Speaker 2: like you surrounded with you think you are who you now?
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  Speaker 2: Who you now, who you do Mefica League, But you
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  Speaker 2: look at actually what you're doing. These are the people
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  Speaker 2: you're calling your friends what they're doing.
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  Speaker 9: Grow to.
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  Speaker 6: Care.
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  Speaker 2: I could dress up and a makeup and then will
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  Speaker 2: beat you petition maybe for one to three people and
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  Speaker 2: your conn connections. Not to look we got a picture
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  Speaker 2: when I stand Lipodos acle again, that's what you do
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  Speaker 2: on the circle I was looking at. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if you've seen on TikTok trending story of tests drinking
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  Speaker 2: a test. I don't even know what this talk is,
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  Speaker 2: but women exposing how my day were sex fixed standards,
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  Speaker 2: taking flights any but they're being sponsored by our barber.
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  Speaker 2: And this is a group of girls and won't tell
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  Speaker 2: each other. They do the someone who's succeeded more than you, No,
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  Speaker 2: neverted in my base day for your hundred came and
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  Speaker 2: the first gym split grappy will end and a part
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  Speaker 2: time back in a five k oh look I took
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  Speaker 2: her parents girl or whatever you know. With the up
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  Speaker 2: and all that, at the end of the day, people
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  Speaker 2: are paying rights doing to the life opening businesses. You're
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  Speaker 2: still there as a group of girls, you know. So
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  Speaker 2: when you're looking from what brings black college, what for Yuma?
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  Speaker 2: Like people other people, woman's altitude finding, it's to go
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  Speaker 2: to ballet pallet. So I hope it makes sense and
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  Speaker 2: it makes you understand something.
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  Speaker 11: Your success is a marath.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a zero.
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  Speaker 2: I'm heavy on zero, you know. But you can't have
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  Speaker 2: you can't also succeed alone. You have at least some
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  Speaker 2: few people I think in your life. At the same time,
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  Speaker 2: the people who I believe, I don't know. There's a
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  Speaker 2: wrap battle, I think, no only time the game. The game.
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  Speaker 2: I love that wrap battle, like the way people speaks
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  Speaker 2: words and everything. Like there's a guy who said that
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  Speaker 2: it was wrapping together person saying, I bet your friends get.
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  Speaker 4: Your back, you know.
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  Speaker 2: And it's because even in this system industry, like in
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  Speaker 2: the industry's so many people are friends because you're just
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  Speaker 2: in the industry because in a couple, you know, projects together,
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  Speaker 2: a meeting, couple, eventskada. So you think your friends, you
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  Speaker 2: assume your friends, but do they really get your back?
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  Speaker 2: That's the question, Like, I bet there's someone who signed you.
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  Speaker 2: We're talking about that mayoble, don't even think like you're
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  Speaker 2: sure there's someone who has your back, no matter even
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  Speaker 2: your absence.
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  Speaker 8: You can ask both of you a question, what do
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  Speaker 8: you define is friendship? What what's the definition of friendship?
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  Speaker 2: Loyalty Number one. Friendship comes with loyalty. There's this certain
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  Speaker 2: type of loyalty of just building everything we do. It
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  Speaker 2: has like loyalty trust, loyalty trust.
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  Speaker 4: I believe on those two.
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  Speaker 2: Trust because I think If those two for me are broken,
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  Speaker 2: there's nothing I have with that presence, with that to
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  Speaker 2: continue because you've broken the most important key, which I
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  Speaker 2: can't trust you. You're not loyal, but I mean loyalties
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: even in terms I'm not talking about. You can't have
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: other friends because all types of gingers are friendships of
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: God or no. I'm talking about we have something that
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: is supposed to be going on. Maybe you're lacking behind,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: or you wanna go out of the plan. You're reciprocating.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: There's also reciprocation. The column based the two is a
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: move on the same place as you, Sina Sinna. We
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: planned about this. You know, loyalty. Loyalty comes with a
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: whole lot of package. I can't break it down, but
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: but may think it's those two trust and loyaltyship.
• 20:43
  Speaker 7: I'm definitely I'm gonna go with the loyalty number one.
• 20:47
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna go with the present, not might not be physically,
• 20:53
  Speaker 7: but you're down for me and I'm down for you.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: You know that type of realness and go with that.
• 21:00
  Speaker 7: I'm also gonna go with consistency for me because, like
• 21:04
  Speaker 7: I was saying yesterday, the people haven't seen like in
• 21:08
  Speaker 7: my life for let's say three years. I'm at a
• 21:12
  Speaker 7: few months. But these are the people when I call,
• 21:15
  Speaker 7: I know this person is gonna be down. Sometimes my
• 21:17
  Speaker 7: not to be Maybe it's not finance. Maybe I just
• 21:21
  Speaker 7: see issues of finance. You just want a friend, You
• 21:23
  Speaker 7: just want somebody to talk to. You just want somebody
• 21:25
  Speaker 7: to listen. You just want somebody to ruant to, somebody
• 21:28
  Speaker 7: to share good news, sad news, whatever, So that kind.
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: So for me, it's loyalty.
• 21:33
  Speaker 7: Of course, I'm gonna go with the consistency and I'm
• 21:36
  Speaker 7: gonna go please listen my.
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: R presence also, yeah, and just that my top three values.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: I guess when it took about consistency, what what what
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: do you mean consistency in.
• 21:52
  Speaker 7: Terms of in terms of this person has been there
• 21:54
  Speaker 7: for me sad times I made you my HAPs and downs.
• 21:57
  Speaker 7: I I mean you're to may celebrate when I'm sad,
• 22:02
  Speaker 7: to may celebrate when I'm happy, Like this person is
• 22:05
  Speaker 7: consistent in.
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: My life shows up, That's what I shows up, like when.
• 22:12
  Speaker 7: If it's good or bad, if you're celebrating if it's low,
• 22:15
  Speaker 7: we are together like that type of consistency, and sometimes
• 22:19
  Speaker 7: you might be tested as friends. But this person is
• 22:21
  Speaker 7: always just you know, there and stuff. So that's something
• 22:25
  Speaker 7: I value And that's why I was saying yesterday when
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: as a pattern, I'm luckily when I call this person
• 22:32
  Speaker 7: the change like, the vibe is same, energy is the same,
• 22:37
  Speaker 7: kill like it is the same, and they're ready to
• 22:39
  Speaker 7: write and die for you.
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: So for me that that for me write and die.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: I think I I must have the atom detaching when
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: it comes to friendship, like I can quickly move on
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: and act like you exist, but you don't, you know,
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: because like you're saying, I don't have friends, Yeah, I
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: know for like what you like messe consistency. I have
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: friends who have been really consistent with me. Do we talk, Yes,
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: we talked. They're still there, very much caring about my growth,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: everything I do and all that.
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: I really love that. Do I reciproget that?
• 23:14
  Speaker 10: No?
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: I think for me, they your friends, the friends. Listen,
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: that's what.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: You're talking about.
• 23:24
  Speaker 9: They consider do they consider you're their friends the friends friends?
• 23:33
  Speaker 7: I do consider that my friends, real friend. Like if
• 23:36
  Speaker 7: something happens, like I'm saying, I don't have that emotional.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: Like I have nothing. You owe me nothing, illowe you nothing,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: And there's no do have any expectations from me. I
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: have no expectations from you. I think I learned from
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: being super genuine of a friend. That's why I said
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: I learned from that, and from that I guarded that
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: because I've been a ride or die that.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: Come basted.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Maybe that dinner you need to understand it's like it
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: with you, like I'm there, but you can't figure out
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: you're not the same. For you, You've been really so
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: much much. And that's why I won't do the same mistake. Yes,
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: humans are different, but i'd rather I'd rather be alone,
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: so I'd rather land than really land again.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: And that's and that's why I actually agree and say no.
• 24:23
  Speaker 10: No.
• 24:24
  Speaker 7: From the from the consider, consider, I'm gonna be like,
• 24:27
  Speaker 7: maybe I just could consider. Because there's something called if
• 24:30
  Speaker 7: you want to know your friend, it's reciprocated, Like it
• 24:33
  Speaker 7: is always reciprocated at the common society. The energy is
• 24:37
  Speaker 7: always the same. So sometimes you might do so much
• 24:40
  Speaker 7: for somebody and then we'll call like I need bet
• 24:42
  Speaker 7: anglegle need killer. Now maybe I give so much like
• 24:48
  Speaker 7: because a true because if I really do care about you,
• 24:51
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna reciprocate.
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna give it to you.
• 24:55
  Speaker 10: Show.
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: It's like I think I'm just like.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: Sad.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: I'm not.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: I think I show you personally. I think I know
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: I don't know how to hide ship, so I'll show
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: you I'm not really there even like you'll find some
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: people text like hey he's doing her Thanks thanks, because
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: I was not expecting that. Yeah, we've been friends, we've
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: had that consistency of friendship. But now how many years
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: down below to Johnana and to not grow not from here,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: like to know you based it, Diana Sawa, to show it,
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: because to grow what you do is different from what
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: I do. You know, are you willing to connect me
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: from something different that that can bring me money? I
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: think that's the point of also friendship. I'm looking at
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: people can help you grow also in your areak exactly.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: I can say with the Camelish, there's a time I
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: remember and by let's cook a make that I remember
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: and I was like, not in a bad way, let
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: me rephrase that, like it was such a good energetic
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: person to a miss like you go to a pointment
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: he was getting mad, Cluse I like this this is
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: crazy energy chocolate my bride whom but.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: L a who goes out you need such people in
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: your life.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: I remember that you can't forget. So I'm saying I
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: can sit down with you to create a bogus or
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: is something coming up and then project to make up
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: come up?
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: You link me up.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: That's not that the guy was even telling me that
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: remembering course always.
• 26:33
  Speaker 8: Up to something that is classes at Westairs.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: I was going to say, but keep up.
• 26:45
  Speaker 8: Somebody we were watching Tuesday shot before Life and I
• 26:50
  Speaker 8: told her my friend did that make up? And she's like,
• 26:52
  Speaker 8: she's trying to learn to do her own make up.
• 26:55
  Speaker 8: They all basically have the same skin complexion. So I
• 26:57
  Speaker 8: was like, I can tell her to teach you just
• 27:00
  Speaker 8: trying to start like classes, and she would like, sign
• 27:02
  Speaker 8: me up.
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: So this is becoming seasons.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: It's so proud because I know sometimes also lately especially
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: I've been so much into just doing makeup, and I'm
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: trying new things every single time. So I'm astonished by like,
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: is really.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: Good by the way you don't even look like you're
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: wearing makeup. You know, like your complexion and your makeup
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: they march.
• 27:34
  Speaker 8: And that's something I've noticed that it's very rare for
• 27:36
  Speaker 8: women to do important and very important, but going back
• 27:40
  Speaker 8: to friendship once again, I feel like we should add
• 27:44
  Speaker 8: realness two.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: Whatever you're saying, well in.
• 27:50
  Speaker 8: This maybe in this perspective, I feel like most people
• 27:55
  Speaker 8: don't have friends that are really enough to disagree with them, okay,
• 28:01
  Speaker 8: Like I need to be will enough to tell you so,
• 28:09
  Speaker 8: because most friendships nowadays are basically yes, echo chambers just
• 28:16
  Speaker 8: oh you look amazing, always see my liar.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: I hate that, you know, I hate girls doing that.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: I hate girls groups. I'm just not a gully.
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: And it's not even girls one or more.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: And that's.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: When you talk about friendship because we have so many
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: galley group friendships and it's her babes.
• 28:39
  Speaker 10: Your.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: Go go perfect your friends liner, it's really a caring friend,
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: you know, lip gloss car, don't tell your friend close.
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: Look like the perfect one on the group is you're
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: not a good friend.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: You're not a good friend, like I hate that about
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: That's when the all men or men like my male friends.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: I like male friends like to be connected.
• 29:04
  Speaker 10: Copper.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: No, it's not sexualizing connect Maybe check on what you
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: tell me that problem with Columbia.
• 29:14
  Speaker 9: I don't know.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: You tell me that as long as Jo being connected
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: to something is not okay, with your you know women.
• 29:28
  Speaker 8: And that that that's what I'm saying. We need to
• 29:31
  Speaker 8: bring back the ability to disagree and still be friends.
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: Okay, that's what I.
• 29:39
  Speaker 7: Actually actually see like when I say like consistence in
• 29:42
  Speaker 7: my perspective me like you'll disagree, attack on your opinion,
• 29:50
  Speaker 7: commia to funny.
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: He now.
• 29:54
  Speaker 7: Miscop when they're too fun like any wrong. We disagree,
• 29:58
  Speaker 7: but at the end of the day, they is that
• 30:00
  Speaker 7: friendship with whole. It doesn't actually just cut, doesn't mean
• 30:07
  Speaker 7: checking and and it's it's very true. I've been reading
• 30:09
  Speaker 7: comments and smite. The true friends are the ones that
• 30:11
  Speaker 7: tell you the truth, whether you like it, whether it's bad,
• 30:14
  Speaker 7: whether you're the Queen Gillilea or Nani who career. Because
• 30:18
  Speaker 7: most of the people who just move along you're doing well,
• 30:22
  Speaker 7: and at the end of the day you're not doing
• 30:23
  Speaker 7: really well. You're now on a corner, but they keep
• 30:26
  Speaker 7: on just gussing you. You're doing well, you're doing this,
• 30:28
  Speaker 7: don't worry kill And then most of them then the
• 30:33
  Speaker 7: only lady they're doing better.
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: Literally it's crazy. But let me sure this guy's been
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: very quickly. It's crazy that.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: You've been talking about that.
• 30:40
  Speaker 11: Sorry Number two although I being equal to Jack a
• 30:46
  Speaker 11: man has nothing to do with the religious activities. His
• 30:50
  Speaker 11: issues are combed to do a thing women and even
• 30:55
  Speaker 11: going to get take.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: And then I keep.
• 31:01
  Speaker 8: Repeat that again. Shout out to that man for saying that, Okay,
• 31:06
  Speaker 8: people have attributed very human traits to this creator that
• 31:14
  Speaker 8: they call God. Okay, at your and it's like shout
• 31:20
  Speaker 8: out to Dante a three men army. When you here
• 31:24
  Speaker 8: for the longest time he thought past, you know, because
• 31:32
  Speaker 8: that's how they make it sound like Patia from Kumi.
• 31:39
  Speaker 10: And the Lephant.
• 31:40
  Speaker 9: No, that's why that man.
• 31:42
  Speaker 8: Has a freaking new Carrera or whatever. That's why he's
• 31:48
  Speaker 8: driving the latest range Rover. Okay, it's because yeah, okay,
• 31:57
  Speaker 8: And that's why shout out to that man for saying that.
• 31:58
  Speaker 9: Disassociate your life and religion, because.
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: You know, it's sad sometimes history of copernatrites. And I'm
• 32:05
  Speaker 7: not even against that.
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: It's good.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: I am.
• 32:07
  Speaker 7: I am not even against if that is what you believe, yourn,
• 32:10
  Speaker 7: I'm like to came leish, I'm back in a year.
• 32:14
  Speaker 7: And because they're so introcrinated and understan Anatoma, Bob A
• 32:19
  Speaker 7: hundred Bob who I told you there is a way
• 32:22
  Speaker 7: that the pastor will make you feel. There's a woman
• 32:24
  Speaker 7: who said she took all her savings. I don't know
• 32:26
  Speaker 7: if you remember we were actually talking about that woman,
• 32:29
  Speaker 7: and it's saving exactly past.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: They were doing all the time.
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: I love for Uski and Adelia.
• 32:36
  Speaker 7: Compare all the time person and dissociate A disassociate number
• 32:40
  Speaker 7: of kizaki and she's giving, she's giving, she's giving, and
• 32:44
  Speaker 7: by the time she realized she gave all of it,
• 32:47
  Speaker 7: all her life savings. No liquaductor and a had the job,
• 32:51
  Speaker 7: your paston and serma. So to that extent, I'm telling you.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: During the there was a woman.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: Who gave up Paul and now I remember that she was.
• 33:02
  Speaker 8: She was a flight attendant, creator, job creator, job, gave
• 33:07
  Speaker 8: all her money to that guy Ni and went to
• 33:10
  Speaker 8: die in the forest.
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: So like when when disassociate from religion.
• 33:17
  Speaker 12: People your work success is who a marathity, I'm a zero,
• 33:22
  Speaker 12: anything goes a marathlit and number two ortho Jacko. A
• 33:29
  Speaker 12: man has nothing to do with the religious activities. His
• 33:33
  Speaker 12: issues are compos and your mom fo women, I'm gonna
• 33:37
  Speaker 12: madici and going to take.
• 33:39
  Speaker 13: And then fung machine or clipper and zooma related woman
• 33:46
  Speaker 13: package Africa come as livery a killer ky too. I
• 33:53
  Speaker 13: can be of more freaka whever she clear, yes, because
• 33:57
  Speaker 13: and Africans are not able to think for themselves.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: This is the.
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: Like in me, how you.
• 34:05
  Speaker 10: Imagine that god in your mind?
• 34:06
  Speaker 11: You don't want to live a real life, afraid and
• 34:10
  Speaker 11: then she can designed forty five years?
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: When don't.
• 34:15
  Speaker 11: See when in total, at least when to mother's general
• 34:21
  Speaker 11: my head, it was the imp in total.
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: You did you see that guy that was starting books?
• 34:34
  Speaker 8: No, it was a man that pulled up to his
• 34:37
  Speaker 8: house and I don't know if it's Nigeria, just either
• 34:41
  Speaker 8: Central or West Africa, okay, And he found he's pregnant
• 34:45
  Speaker 8: twice being done by the pastor and they were commercialm candles.
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: I love for persons.
• 34:56
  Speaker 8: She had trouble conceiving, okay, So apparently she went to
• 35:01
  Speaker 8: the pastor and later I actually followed followed up on
• 35:05
  Speaker 8: that story. Later on the child turned out to be
• 35:09
  Speaker 8: the pastor's chairs. The woman didn't have a problem. The
• 35:13
  Speaker 8: man is the one that had an issue.
• 35:16
  Speaker 10: Okay.
• 35:16
  Speaker 8: But when instead of going to the hospital and actually
• 35:21
  Speaker 8: figuring it out what is happening, they decide to go
• 35:24
  Speaker 8: to the pastor. The pastor tells him, don't be a baby,
• 35:28
  Speaker 8: shouldn't need biby the bibi at a name. Okay, And
• 35:32
  Speaker 8: because he's been indoctrinated into a religious mindsetal so, the
• 35:39
  Speaker 8: pastor will pull up to have private prayer sessions with
• 35:43
  Speaker 8: the wife while this man is yeah, so he was
• 35:48
  Speaker 8: literally so when he was caught. This guy used to
• 35:51
  Speaker 8: travel a lot for works.
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: He came home from the pastor.
• 35:58
  Speaker 8: To surprise the pregnant twice okay, found the pasta with
• 36:03
  Speaker 8: his wife in doggy positions.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 36:06
  Speaker 8: And they were all stark naked, like I could have
• 36:09
  Speaker 8: more than evangel And she was there strictly believing that
• 36:13
  Speaker 8: the pastor is doing her favor. And the pastor kid,
• 36:18
  Speaker 8: you know, and this is These are the type of
• 36:20
  Speaker 8: things that imagine being so blinded by faith that you
• 36:27
  Speaker 8: can't see reason.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: And you know how many men probably have raised children
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: that are not theirs.
• 36:32
  Speaker 8: And we don't complain either. Listen, here's the thing. Nothing
• 36:37
  Speaker 8: that can be proven to share a faith. Now, okay,
• 36:41
  Speaker 8: do you have faith in your ability to see? No,
• 36:45
  Speaker 8: you know why, because you can see? Okay, do you
• 36:49
  Speaker 8: have faith in your ability to chew No, it's a fact.
• 36:53
  Speaker 8: You can chew, you can breathe, you can be in
• 36:58
  Speaker 8: charge of your life. At point where somebody asks you
• 37:01
  Speaker 8: to have faith, it's the beginning of a life.
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: Because faith needs you to stop prisoning.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: Drum Drum's creator watch your comments, okay, Like.
• 37:15
  Speaker 9: Faith needs you to stop having common sense.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 37:23
  Speaker 8: Like, so I'm telling you, if you give me ten
• 37:26
  Speaker 8: percent of your salary, Christ will be in your favor.
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: Right do I talk to him?
• 37:35
  Speaker 9: You know?
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: Sadly, No you don't.
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: I don't talk to him, right.
• 37:40
  Speaker 8: And most of these churches used to collect darkers and
• 37:44
  Speaker 8: whatevero to help the needy, Okay, it was it was never.
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: Really about that.
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: That's what I thought. I mean, that's what I thought
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: on orphanage. You want to see. One of.
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: So question is how many churches do you know right
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: now that that man.
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: Could not accountable?
• 38:05
  Speaker 7: Like my home church, they still got treat But I
• 38:08
  Speaker 7: don't think it's the whole thing, because some part your
• 38:13
  Speaker 7: treat commercial and hospital.
• 38:17
  Speaker 8: If your person are tightened that to make up funnies
• 38:20
  Speaker 8: with you too? And why do we still do her
• 38:22
  Speaker 8: rambas church but not but younger type symbio? Can the
• 38:30
  Speaker 8: type money be used for building the church, because that
• 38:34
  Speaker 8: is literally serving the Lord, you know, and it's a
• 38:41
  Speaker 8: very simple concept. But the first the fact that you
• 38:44
  Speaker 8: have faith is what takes common sense out of your brain.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: The first comment to this uh video, someone says, say
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: anything else, but don't touch God's names, God and religion
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: is don't talk about don't talk about God.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: But it didn't people people some questions.
• 39:06
  Speaker 8: Okay, and I've been asking this, I think privately, tell
• 39:11
  Speaker 8: me something good that white people gave us from their
• 39:16
  Speaker 8: stint in Africa, or something good they did for us.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: Name one, what something that white people did for Africa.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: Oh, today I had a video of a white man
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: saying that despite colonizing other African countries, they fail to
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: invade twenty two others. But they benefited materialistically, which is
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: of course through our resources. And oh listen, they said,
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: despite some indigenous communities suffering and dying them, the British
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: colony also lost men and women through malaria. And of
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: course this is so so so sad.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: That's black people.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Don't deserve reperations and there's no generation that requires reparation.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: To answer question is said, he said, they have built schools, hospitals, roads, railways.
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: What else it mind where?
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: I can't remember what else to say, but yeah, a
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: lot of craft.
• 40:15
  Speaker 8: So to answer, that's not the white man said number one,
• 40:19
  Speaker 8: let's debank is of alissamer education.
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: We were actually educated, Okay.
• 40:26
  Speaker 8: What they brought us was memorizing random things that don't
• 40:30
  Speaker 8: really matter.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: Roads we had them.
• 40:33
  Speaker 8: We didn't need to pollute the environment with gasoline to
• 40:37
  Speaker 8: move from monthlace to another.
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: Okay. We just didn't have your version of what development
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: and and whatever looks like. Okay.
• 40:50
  Speaker 8: And I've never as an African colonization never did anything
• 40:55
  Speaker 8: positive for my culture, for my country, for my people.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: It was a subjugation and everything else.
• 41:02
  Speaker 8: So the fact that these people brought you everything bad,
• 41:06
  Speaker 8: What do you think that religion is the one good
• 41:10
  Speaker 8: thing they gave you? Why do you think they actually
• 41:14
  Speaker 8: brought this for your benefit? Because it is not for
• 41:17
  Speaker 8: your betro To bro always trust in God.
• 41:24
  Speaker 9: So you know.
• 41:24
  Speaker 11: Africa Africa's master work.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: Thank you?
• 41:27
  Speaker 12: Nonsense of you know, it's really really good for a miracle,
• 41:31
  Speaker 12: there is a miracle working God that is served.
• 41:33
  Speaker 11: You know he don't serve a miracle working God. We
• 41:37
  Speaker 11: live in real life.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: Why can't you?
• 41:39
  Speaker 11: Why are you living in dreamland.
• 41:41
  Speaker 13: Why can't you just come to the reality people have
• 41:44
  Speaker 13: wasted times? And he is in you know, the sold churches,
• 41:48
  Speaker 13: religious you know circles, trying to imagine that, and it's
• 41:53
  Speaker 13: not like.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: It's instilling the truth. Actually, when talk about generations that
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: have wasted time in churches, oh my god, it's so many.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: My dad is on a good example, trust me, my dad.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: If you don'tant to talk about father Zoo used to
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: want to want to flex about having new suits every Sunday.
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: That's my father and that we have that in the
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: African community.
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: Let's not lie. I'm getting so many big generations.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: Suiting, perculous common home, peculiar Sunday for the kids, for
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: the wife and for himself to if he can afford,
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: if not for himself and for the wife. What good appearance?
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: Now this is the most doing good family, you know.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: And then you're putting a certain sort of hierarchy now
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: on the church. You know, you start giving your partner
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: of the members of the church. So you're not you're
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: you know, you're part of the big maid. You are
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: the people who get water when other people are drinking
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: tap water. The same members of church are drinking tap water,
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: but you passed us. The main officials are drinking good water.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Make that makes sense. So that food these people came
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: to pray. Theyre what you knew. Guys, flex on them.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: Not only that you're collecting money from us like it's
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: so many general, it's a big generation, a number of
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: people who have waited thirty plus forty plus years of
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: their lives in charge.
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: Then it's not them.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: Oh, my kids are actually growing and there's actually in
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: a certain grade of I need more money to provide
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: in school and school is not free.
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: Let's not forget that school is not free.
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: I need to buy school uniform. School bags are expensive.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: I was talking about that. School shoes are expensive. You
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: need to cut your hair, which is also somehow so
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: for some people. For some people can't afford cuting their hair,
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: so then lose razor at home or scissors. Okay, what
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: are we talking about?
• 43:44
  Speaker 8: So in regard topsasam, I had a friend of mine
• 43:49
  Speaker 8: confided in me the other day.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: And it was so sad, so engaging mechanisms.
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I couldn't do this is the and.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: See your leg like MECHANI the past of flying.
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: I told them couldn't do this just is always drunks
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: and all that kind and.
• 44:09
  Speaker 8: When Tuesday design day, so those type of churches, and
• 44:15
  Speaker 8: she got into that church to a point where.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: And it's cooler.
• 44:21
  Speaker 8: So the man and you just up and down. So
• 44:26
  Speaker 8: managed to right because that guy was a farmer and
• 44:29
  Speaker 8: he has to transport me. So when it came that time,
• 44:34
  Speaker 8: because he always paid school fish directly and to a
• 44:39
  Speaker 8: person because he was busy new uniform, yeah only school total.
• 44:48
  Speaker 8: You know, this woman took that entire money and took
• 44:55
  Speaker 8: it to the pasta. And the man it wasn't home
• 45:01
  Speaker 8: for like a whole week, right, so what's try your uniforms?
• 45:08
  Speaker 8: We are too and you know how expensive those things are.
• 45:11
  Speaker 8: The taboo you know, and school fish. The man comes
• 45:15
  Speaker 8: home and rather the wife is.
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: Like a.
• 45:26
  Speaker 8: Younger barricue your school fea kupatia pasta. Like I said,
• 45:34
  Speaker 8: not your person into a mungo now to amaka.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: You get and.
• 45:42
  Speaker 8: He couldn't like fathom and this man is still my
• 45:45
  Speaker 8: this woman you get And this is why we need
• 45:50
  Speaker 8: to disassociate the idea of religion and spirituality cabisa.
• 45:57
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 45:58
  Speaker 8: But as you continue with that video, there's a there's
• 46:02
  Speaker 8: a stint where I actually disagree with this man, but continue.
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: But he's speaking.
• 46:07
  Speaker 11: Facts, so better for their lives one day, But instead
• 46:11
  Speaker 11: things are just growing.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: From bad to worse.
• 46:16
  Speaker 11: Yes, yes, okay, what's a marathiki at the wild work?
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: You are related?
• 46:23
  Speaker 11: You're only later because remember mother had always mean a
• 46:27
  Speaker 11: remember mother?
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: Okay, even talking about you.
• 46:31
  Speaker 8: See, first of all, having too many friends is a
• 46:36
  Speaker 8: mark of lacking intelligence, so check yourself.
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: Number two.
• 46:45
  Speaker 8: I feel like he's wrong about family and anybody that's
• 46:50
  Speaker 8: what they're sold in train of thought and understands that
• 46:56
  Speaker 8: whatever he's saying, he himself is indoctrinated and doesn't even
• 47:00
  Speaker 8: know it. There's something that is we need to reclaim
• 47:06
  Speaker 8: the village, okay, because something that is a side effect
• 47:11
  Speaker 8: of modernization is isolation.
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: Our previous like uncles and grandmothers and whatever.
• 47:23
  Speaker 8: If you go back, you realize they lived within distance
• 47:27
  Speaker 8: of their fellow relatives. Like I get is starting or
• 47:32
  Speaker 8: I'm getting antiochy social REARKI like they had a village
• 47:38
  Speaker 8: and modernization has brought isolation where you don't have a
• 47:43
  Speaker 8: village to depend on, to get advice from, to create
• 47:49
  Speaker 8: strong family ties.
• 47:50
  Speaker 4: Why is that?
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: Because where were.
• 47:55
  Speaker 8: Negro wishing my sha yako okayak And that's that's something
• 48:05
  Speaker 8: that is very abnormal. Actually to want to live away
• 48:10
  Speaker 8: from your king. It is normal to want to stay
• 48:14
  Speaker 8: close to your king. Actually, most normal people do so.
• 48:18
  Speaker 8: And this is a very white thing. Actually African people
• 48:22
  Speaker 8: always value the village. And that's why you see most
• 48:25
  Speaker 8: wealthy people right now, no too like me, my brothers
• 48:31
  Speaker 8: and cousins to t like akakumi badly like ten of us?
• 48:37
  Speaker 8: Right are certain or other camp? Do you know what
• 48:45
  Speaker 8: happens when your courts? Imagine owning an entire court.
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: Right you and your relatives?
• 48:51
  Speaker 8: Anybody that pulls up when you're Juli kani, it's easy
• 48:54
  Speaker 8: to identify.
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: When you.
• 48:59
  Speaker 8: Have kids, it's easy to get a babysitter. Get what
• 49:03
  Speaker 8: you're saying, we need to reclaim. Let me finish that.
• 49:06
  Speaker 8: That is a mentality of disassociation from And I'm not
• 49:11
  Speaker 8: saying they should be your friends, but family is beyond friendship.
• 49:15
  Speaker 7: I don't mean in akhu balkam lessh But one thing
• 49:18
  Speaker 7: I also don't I actually think is im mental, so
• 49:21
  Speaker 7: that I actually it's arguable could not toxic family. There
• 49:26
  Speaker 7: is that one that is so toxic and you can
• 49:29
  Speaker 7: like I can't deal with this. It doesn't mean our
• 49:33
  Speaker 7: relatives or there is no family member that you have
• 49:36
  Speaker 7: that you can count on all your friends. I'm not
• 49:39
  Speaker 7: talking about it. But if there are people who have
• 49:41
  Speaker 7: actually faced like really bad relations with the family now
• 49:44
  Speaker 7: on a part of our own leisure, our your financial children,
• 49:47
  Speaker 7: and they're very okay because you're allowed. Actually if your
• 49:51
  Speaker 7: family messes up with you, because family a pregasia chain
• 49:55
  Speaker 7: and want to get into your mind stressed to want
• 50:00
  Speaker 7: a treat to be by, and you're like, I can't
• 50:02
  Speaker 7: deal with this. And sometimes when you move away from them,
• 50:05
  Speaker 7: because there's also that entitlement that comes to the family,
• 50:08
  Speaker 7: I have to sell it. For example, you're creating the
• 50:11
  Speaker 7: idea of the land could then a congent title. So
• 50:15
  Speaker 7: because I'm family, because your family are supposed to be
• 50:17
  Speaker 7: like this, I haven't seen you in years.
• 50:19
  Speaker 4: We haven't.
• 50:20
  Speaker 7: You haven't been in my life, you haven't done anything positive.
• 50:23
  Speaker 7: You treated me badly as a child. How are we
• 50:26
  Speaker 7: friends or are we relatives? In the name of blood?
• 50:28
  Speaker 7: Sometimes me, I just actually say, at a certain point,
• 50:31
  Speaker 7: and it depends you are at a certain point.
• 50:34
  Speaker 4: You can't create your own family. And sometimes you're also
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: like cut off. It's allowed. You can cut off, so
• 50:43
  Speaker 4: you're allowed.
• 50:44
  Speaker 3: For instance, I consider your family.
• 50:47
  Speaker 8: Are we blood? No, but you know why we are relative. Okay,
• 50:55
  Speaker 8: when way or another, you'll understand me. You'll accept with
• 50:58
  Speaker 8: what I am and Joe.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: Whatever. So friends are actually definedly we choose.
• 51:06
  Speaker 5: What Gambler just said is not even true, not even
• 51:09
  Speaker 5: anciently true.
• 51:10
  Speaker 10: I'm explained by it's not true.
• 51:12
  Speaker 6: What he said is not true. The African well, okay,
• 51:19
  Speaker 6: it's not even true. Africans were the first ones to
• 51:22
  Speaker 6: always go out and explore. War was developed and civilized
• 51:26
  Speaker 6: by Africans. These are why you got a bunch of
• 51:28
  Speaker 6: tribes and bunch of people are Africa. Because they left
• 51:31
  Speaker 6: their group and they formed other groups and they kept building.
• 51:35
  Speaker 6: You never live in the same compound because that destroyed
• 51:38
  Speaker 6: the genetics, because you start have inner breeding, which white people.
• 51:41
  Speaker 6: That's why the genetics all that stuff Africans new. You
• 51:44
  Speaker 6: don't stay together forever. That destroyed the genetics. You mess
• 51:49
  Speaker 6: up your genetic pool. You need a diverse group of
• 51:52
  Speaker 6: people to be a ARAM. So you don't stay in
• 51:55
  Speaker 6: your family clan forever because that makes your moron. You
• 51:58
  Speaker 6: don't develop, you don't expand nobody see the Africans all
• 52:03
  Speaker 6: over the globe because they left the other relationships.
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: They never.
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: Y the bodies people.
• 52:10
  Speaker 6: Now you must to stay in a clan, but that's
• 52:12
  Speaker 6: not that's not African society as creature.
• 52:15
  Speaker 5: Jo Africans always left always.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: I feel like what you mean, what you misunderstood, is
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: what he meanties which are also experienced and grown up
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: in as a family. This is how brothers, sisters never
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: went away from each other like they build among us
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: or within there.
• 52:37
  Speaker 11: And that's not that that's the one.
• 52:38
  Speaker 10: I'm going to stay right along.
• 52:40
  Speaker 6: But then your had that you said that child that
• 52:42
  Speaker 6: didn't want to be a pigeonholes and just being with
• 52:46
  Speaker 6: the family, no wand to.
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: Go out and see what was out there.
• 52:48
  Speaker 6: True, there was no wrong answers, so to say that
• 52:53
  Speaker 6: they had to do it, Madny, I don't think that
• 52:54
  Speaker 6: this came from white.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: That someone who used to call clans. Right, you can
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: talk about clans. We used to have clans. Right, you'll
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: find these like in Comba we call them bar something
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: bar something. When you go I don't even know what
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: it is called, but you'll find this this clan which
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: is a group of family and then look exactly so
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: there is inter marrying.
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: You'll find there someone married from.
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: That clan, and then which the wife is gonna come
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: move to my our house, which I'm a daughter to.
• 53:24
  Speaker 4: Okay, and we become sister in laws.
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: I might get married to another clan which I'm forced
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: to move from my parents' house. It's not like I'm
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: gonna grow up till forty without, you know, having that
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: intern there was intermarried, that is actually does move.
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: I think that's what.
• 53:41
  Speaker 10: Understand about.
• 53:44
  Speaker 6: I told you, I told you job the twenty five
• 53:46
  Speaker 6: the evolution of African people.
• 53:50
  Speaker 10: You have you have relationships within the same clan, the
• 53:53
  Speaker 10: same trick. Your genetics will be fucked up. Now you
• 53:57
  Speaker 10: had no diversity genetics come in there.
• 54:00
  Speaker 9: Yeah, we can do that.
• 54:03
  Speaker 6: I gotta be pretty much tried for you. Genetically, you
• 54:06
  Speaker 6: weaken your people Africa.
• 54:09
  Speaker 8: It's not meaning from this scene, that's not what we're
• 54:16
  Speaker 8: talking about.
• 54:17
  Speaker 4: Kid.
• 54:17
  Speaker 9: You're driving the conversation. You're driving the conversation to a
• 54:20
  Speaker 9: whole other side.
• 54:24
  Speaker 10: Besides this stay in one area.
• 54:26
  Speaker 9: No, not that, that's not that.
• 54:30
  Speaker 10: That wasn't even communal.
• 54:33
  Speaker 9: Of course, that wasn't even part of the conversation.
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: Kid famous, Let's let's go again, family man, Let's do
• 54:41
  Speaker 5: something less.
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: Let's go see.
• 54:43
  Speaker 8: Yeah, that's how we introduced That's how we introduced the
• 54:46
  Speaker 8: world to science and mathematics. I understand what you're saying.
• 54:50
  Speaker 8: I was talking about something else totally. So we've we've created,
• 54:55
  Speaker 8: or we've managed to kill the family set up that
• 55:03
  Speaker 8: helped people raise But you.
• 55:06
  Speaker 6: Know what, we know what camera that's that's that's do
• 55:10
  Speaker 6: their their fake economics. That's that's the that's the economic.
• 55:15
  Speaker 10: System destroyed the family. He said, there's.
• 55:20
  Speaker 6: Persico economics system that's destroyed the family because it makes
• 55:25
  Speaker 6: it now unattainable where you're living in a commune because
• 55:30
  Speaker 6: everybody's that they're chasing the big dollar exactly, big.
• 55:36
  Speaker 5: Modernity. I said, it's their capitalist system.
• 55:39
  Speaker 8: So so what what what we had done is we
• 55:41
  Speaker 8: had all assumed that we understood that, and we had
• 55:44
  Speaker 8: gone to like the repercussions of these things, because we
• 55:49
  Speaker 8: talk about these situations all the time. So you see
• 55:53
  Speaker 8: there's always side effects to people chasing money, people chasing
• 55:57
  Speaker 8: this and that. That's why you find cousins marrying each
• 56:00
  Speaker 8: other because they don't know each other because they've never
• 56:03
  Speaker 8: really been brought together because everybody is everywhere.
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: There is no unity within the extended family, the clans.
• 56:14
  Speaker 8: Because I remember, I'm one of the first things I
• 56:19
  Speaker 8: was taught when Lilianda Cha for the first time was
• 56:23
  Speaker 8: my clan. Because my mom is from this side, my
• 56:28
  Speaker 8: dad is from another clan, and from both.
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: Ends I was educated.
• 56:33
  Speaker 8: Okay, So like from my dad's side to they say
• 56:37
  Speaker 8: a mumuti right, we love meat, and from my mom's side,
• 56:47
  Speaker 8: I am, it's a whole other clan you get and
• 56:51
  Speaker 8: these clans. People knew their clan extensively. That's why there
• 56:56
  Speaker 8: was never a problem of minying within the clan. That's
• 56:58
  Speaker 8: what I'm talking about. We've lost the community, the village. Yes, outside,
• 57:05
  Speaker 8: you'd never marry within your plan. It was always outside
• 57:08
  Speaker 8: the plan. Yeah, So what we've lost today with modernization,
• 57:13
  Speaker 8: with capitalism, with all these agendas that are being driven
• 57:18
  Speaker 8: towards Africa, we've lost the village. That's why you see
• 57:22
  Speaker 8: us right now resorting to white people tendencies come having
• 57:26
  Speaker 8: maids and whatever. It was always your young cousin that
• 57:31
  Speaker 8: took care when twelve, should take care, Help you take
• 57:36
  Speaker 8: care of your kids.
• 57:38
  Speaker 10: Or do this?
• 57:38
  Speaker 8: They mayby Seid like there was always a community around you.
• 57:41
  Speaker 8: That's what they say is raised.
• 57:44
  Speaker 4: Now what is has been broken by modernization.
• 57:49
  Speaker 8: It's not even I don't think it's our parents not modernized,
• 57:53
  Speaker 8: so that culture is.
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: Not worth say.
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: I only say if we look at culture and traditions,
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: if you're not talking about and traditions, which now this
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: brings a topic of culture, right, culture and traditions, literally
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: there are some benefits and disadvantages. We only say, like
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: most of the disadvantages actually fell on women because women
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: were not educated. Women were being raised to become just
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: a woman, Like you're being raised to be a wife,
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: how to take care of your husband, how to be
• 58:22
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: Clearly.
• 58:27
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: So I think what this guy, this guy on the screen,
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: what he was trying to say, and when you talk
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: about family, because that's the same cycle's grown up in
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: and probably even him and is smart enough to realize, hey,
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: this has been the same cycle of As a man,
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: if I guess by the age of thirty, I need
• 58:45
  Speaker 2: to be married, I need to have kids. As a
• 58:47
  Speaker 2: woman by twenty five, if you don't have kids, like
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: you're getting old, you need to get married, Like, what
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: do you mean, you're twenty five and you don't have
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: someone who's interested on you, we're gonna package you are exactly.
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: We even try to get your husband husband for you
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: at the age of twenty five, because you're supposed to
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: be married. Okay, like and this is what's what's talking about.
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: And then you go you go back to the religion,
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: which also comes with all these stupid rules and laws
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: apart from the culture traditions, which combined they walk together.
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: It's talking about, Uh, you don't need to stick on
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: that cycle. I think that's that is what made that cycle.
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: The same way of religious has been telling you pray,
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: pray this, what is why you pray, pray love.
• 59:33
  Speaker 6: And what you say is a digression about the ancient
• 59:37
  Speaker 6: African gods nothing what you said.
• 59:40
  Speaker 10: They didn't respect the women. The women had freedom, the
• 59:43
  Speaker 10: women were.
• 59:43
  Speaker 6: Dogs, lawyers, and then the women on land, the women
• 59:47
  Speaker 6: were hitting.
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: Kingdom.
• 59:50
  Speaker 5: That was never what you say today.
• 59:52
  Speaker 6: So yeah, so it because you married this time, it
• 59:56
  Speaker 6: became more imagine a little ago.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: At the same time to agree with what comely she's saying,
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: there's something you're lost in between now the unity of
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: family were what you're talking about is that we had
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 2: unity of family, like it was easy to solve problems,
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: come and rely on each other, especially rely on family members.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: It was easy to rely be there for each other,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: solve things together. But today this is just that distance
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: because also we're living in a system of black taxes.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna be paid for your ship.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: I refuse personally, I'm not gonna pay for your ships.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: You have your time.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 3: But you know that is because of the poverty. That
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: that was interesting. But don't.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: Put that on, you know, because if now, if we
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: had the unity, you won't start exhausting me like that.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: You know, you won't make it.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: You won't make me feel like it's a black tax, okay,
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: because remember me growing up like the same thing you're saying,
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: I think history, I think I don't know the last
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: week of this week we're talking about where you actually
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: said it were at some points, there's some joke you made.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 2: I think that was a job. But my dad personally
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: used to tell me you finished school, you're gonna pay.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: Back all the penny they say that you know you finished.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 8: School's like, that's that modelization, that's when that's when that's warm,
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 8: that's a product of poverty.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 5: That's the mindset already been destroyed because that your children
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 5: are are you ship?
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 10: That's your job for your education.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 5: They owe you nothing, that's your job.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: They didn't ask you tell your job Exactly. For me,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: I understood that because I remember the main reason of
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: being taken to my dad's house is because it's supposed
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: to provide school, is because you're my father supposed to
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: pay for free. So why am I here and you're
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: telling me I'm gonna pay you back all the mony?
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 8: You know?
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 4: That didn't click a good bell on my head, And
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 4: I was like, hell yeah, I am Yeah, Hell yeah,
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 4: he is right now to help.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 3: Like, what I'm trying to say is.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 8: You see instead of instead of looking at it from
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 8: let's disassociate, okay, we should look at it from a
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 8: point of how do we heal each other? Okay, to
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 8: get back the unity that we lost, to get back
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 8: the africanness that we lost because we If our great
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 8: grandparents were resurrected today, they wouldn't even know how to
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 8: associate with us. They wouldn't even understand society. And that's
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 8: not from a modernization point of view, but from a
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 8: values point of view, we don't.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 6: Okay, what do you say, Okay, your great grandparents, you
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 6: weren't accepted great grandparents because they were your great grandparents.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 9: And and that's exactly what I'm saying.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 8: Like, we had identity, We had identity, we had character,
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 8: we had culture, we had traditions, we had things that
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 8: made us us. Okay, we understood who we were, where
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 8: we came from, and what we wanted to achieve.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 3: But right now we have none.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 9: We are more Westernized than we are African, Okay.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 8: Because our values, our cultures, our religious beliefs aligned more
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 8: with the Westerners.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 9: Than with.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 8: Our own culture and our own beliefs. So and part
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 8: of actually getting our culture and the unity that we
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 8: seek so that we can gain the independence that is
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 8: required starts from a very nuclear point of here, as
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 8: a family, heal each other as a people. Then understand
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 8: that that is the only way that you can gain
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 8: unity and identity. Because when Keith is out here saying
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 8: that our African culture is inferior to every other culture
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 8: because it's subjugated by every listen, let me finish. Let
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 8: me finish, okay what their Okay, let let African.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 6: Culture has become certainly know everybody else's culture.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 10: Everything happened.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 9: So let me let me restructure my words. Let me
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 9: restructure my words, let me.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 5: Finish, Let me let me finish.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 6: You say, I say, the African culture has digressed from
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 6: worst canvas. It's not that years ago, six years ago,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 6: it's completely These.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 8: Are not my opinion, and I agree also also you're right.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 5: And then it became under a soul.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 6: When the Europeans came in, so it was a degraded
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 6: and then it became under assault.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
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  Speaker 4: I don't.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 9: People.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 8: So so you were you you were having a composition
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 8: another some was it Friday with Joby and you were
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 8: talking about how every other culture always be needs African culture, Okay,
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 8: and that's.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 9: The culture the people culture people find.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 6: I said, I said, if your culture does not bring
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 6: you power to your culture, I said, you can see Africans.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: Take their maybe not you. Let me tell them that
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 3: maybe not you.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 6: I'm Africans take their culture from tribal, from the tribe
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 6: up from the country.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 10: They'll say, I'm Ginian.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 6: Oh, they said, coolie, I'm cambell I'm challenging, and Iger
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 6: say I'm Unifo, I'm I'm a houser.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 10: I'm Blani, I'm uh sell.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 11: They'll say Nigeria, they.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 10: Say the culture, that's culture.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 6: Let me look at your culture has not been about power,
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 6: and you get dominated by Chinese, Uans, from the Indians
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 6: everybody else.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 5: The culture is worthless because it doesn't it.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 4: Does not and d you.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 6: Against being dominated that savages and that's the people are savages.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 5: So something's wrong.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 10: With the culture.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 6: And that allow you to be uh that where that
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 6: other people come into Africa because you can't say this
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 6: that fact.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 5: People come into your content and take it away and dominated.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 3: And that's true the culture there.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 9: So let me finish. And this is basically just my
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 9: closing argument.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 8: Right, So as we get dominated as a people by
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 8: other races, okay, the only way to recover from such
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 8: an ordeal or from such a mindset is to we
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 8: discover yourself because the more we bite or the more
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 8: we consume their culture, the more we lose ourselves into
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 8: their culture.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 9: And we need to We need to start.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 8: Figuring out who we are, what we are, and how
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 8: to find ourselves. And the best way to start with
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 8: that is through the nuclears, the nuclear family, extended family
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 8: clans and to normalize.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 3: Healing and forgiveness and that.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 8: Type of thing, and understanding that none of us is perfect,
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 8: that we were all boiling in the soup. We're just
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 8: trying to get out of the pot and find our
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 8: way to freedom.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 3: And the only way we can do that is through.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 8: Understanding and rediscovering ourselves. And we can't do that through disassociation,
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 8: through not knowing where we come from and.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 9: What we do.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 8: We can only attain ourselves and our true freedom the
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 8: minute we go back and understand who we are, what
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 8: we come from, and how to show our culture to
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 8: the world and proud of it. There was a lady
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 8: that was saying, most Africans are actually so ashamed of
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 8: being African, that's why they always keep moving to the diaspora.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 8: And I was like, this is so true, because you'll
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 8: even have somebody lying about the tribe that they come from,
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 8: the country that they're from, or trying to say I'm
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 8: this and this and this, and it's always trying.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 3: To dilute the Africanness within them, not to increase it.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 8: And it's it's something that should be worked on as
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 8: a people, as a race, as a person, like forgiveness,
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 8: forgiveness and happiness is never if I forgive you, it's
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 8: not for you, it's for me.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 9: Okay.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 8: I am just letting go of any sort of negative energy.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 8: I might have to ads because I feel it. You don't, right,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 8: So I forgive you to free myself from all that
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 8: negativity and everything you get. So there comes a time
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 8: when we start we need to start understanding that the
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 8: easiest solution is not always the best. Sometimes you have
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 8: to go through the fire to get to the other side.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 8: Sometimes the potato is not edible, but you gotta make
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 8: fries with it. So what you do, You process it,
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 8: you throw it into the pan or whatever, and you
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 8: make some fries with it. The end product is not
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 8: the same, but it's delicious.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 3: It's amazing.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 9: So go through the fire, get to the other side,
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 9: and you might actually be better than what you.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 3: Were before.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: I asked you money. I didn't come to you yet.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 4: Said it all.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 7: I'm just gonna go with a that says, to be
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 7: yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 7: you something else is the greatest accomplishment. So on your identity,
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 7: on yourself, literally, right, Keith.
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 6: Okay, My final thought is you must unify all your
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 6: good be tribal coaches gotta go because you hate other
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 6: African people.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 10: And I gave a Chinese quote.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 6: Chinese tells you Africans are the dumbest motherfucker's on the planet.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 10: You're hate and it's not me what the Chinese said.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 5: Don't come back to me, gall.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 6: Tell you motherfuckers. Well, now go to the conculion shop
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 6: because he's cocolia.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 10: Don't you come to the Chinese.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 5: Man and by everything he got, And so you're in
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 5: which the Chinese man by.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 6: Bye uh involvers and your other African China use South Africans.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 4: You're the worst.
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 3: You're the worst.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 5: I just got I've got a TikTok ride and people admit.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 8: You are the world.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 6: So you might love learn the love of the Africans first,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 6: So you gotta raise your conscious level because I love
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 6: all average.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 10: You can't bring me to your tribal ship.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 6: I love you as an African because I know you're
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 6: me what you learned that that's when your culture.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 5: Dominates an African culture. That's a tribal ship. The tribal
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 5: ship is worthless and no one gives a shit about it,
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 5: and it does have no power.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 6: But as an African that's where you're polarized, and everybody
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 6: knows that, and that's why everybody tries to make sure
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 6: you never unite as an African.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 5: They don't give a fuck about you being a.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 10: Little yaba add damn howls that they don't give a ship.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 6: They give a ship because you're talking about I'm gonna
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 6: be African first.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 5: That's when everybody said, oh no, we gotta kill you now.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 6: So with that African culture, you got too much an African,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 6: you got something. Everybody's culture within Africa don't look at
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 6: all totally different than mine.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 10: I'm a houser.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 2: It's just it's closing. It's closing remarks only it's just closing.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: But no, it's closing remarks. They're supposed to be short
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: because you've had a whole time of conversation.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 11: I came, I came.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 6: I cann't get as a YouTube YouTube get going in
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 6: and out.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 11: All your.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 10: Ging this conversation.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah we'll live on the network, on the neighbor and
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: right here. But anyway, much love. I mean my closing
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: remarks is personally I can remember. I just remember that
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 2: the last generation I had a family gathering off was
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 2: my great great my great grandmother, actually my great grandmother
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: who died.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 4: In twenty twenty one.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: When I joined Black Hot, I remember, and that was
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: the last time. I think, when my mom was alive
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 2: before her getting cancer, was the last gathering we've ever had.
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 4: I think there was a couple, but I never attended.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: That was after my mom now dying, because when one figure,
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 2: ob is gone, who could.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 4: Make this happen? Like, it's so hard for me so
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: to go there.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: And then I was just living in crisis, and I'm like,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: where am I going there when these people don't even
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: care about what I'm going through? So what you're just saying,
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: it's crazy that I remember that, that we need to
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: bring that back because even in festival seasons like December
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: during Christmas, we used to unite, but nowadays you won't
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: find these people going to the village or people gathering
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: up as family.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 10: White man, not.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 2: Really if you're not looking at that, even not really
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 2: looking at that about it's about food and family.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 5: Were talking about the tribal.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 6: I'm America now I'm talking about we just I'm gonna
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 6: talk about German. We're gonna talk about the tribal ship
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 6: with these morons in Americans. American bro become a travel
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 6: listed and you're about to get this work, you morons.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 4: That's the night.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: I got videos to on that. But much love, family,
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 2: have yourself some beautiful day on that conversation, on that conversation.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 2: But yeah, see you guys on the Africa tradition. It's
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: about to get hated.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 3: Since he.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: Had promised you guys this show on the weekend, but
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 2: he did nothing.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 4: So I want.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 5: It's hard for me to do a show like I
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 5: get ready to stand doing it.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 6: I worked back. Oh wow, come on, I know I'm
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 6: messing all ut.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 4: On the show.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 10: I didn't give a.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 2: How you're working out and still eating the same things.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 10: I know because I'm still because I'm d.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: Was title. He says, it was taking a break from
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 2: the crazy zoomos to come and harass us, you know,
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: while we're right here shout to you. He says, the
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: pastor was dram was quitting, taking a time from his
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: black job. But he was also saying the past the
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: pastor was tearing that us. Oh yeah, you also saying THEO.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 3: And you was blessed to like that. Man wasn't little what.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 10: It was that was the best it.
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 5: Was it was man and I never see what the past?
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: Did you catch some time? Come here? Come on here
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 2: on Thursday. We're always on mivo and on the extreameyard
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 2: on the next ensure it to Thursday. You want to
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 2: miss out a guard but Drama saying, don't be forgive
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: your parents they were learning to well, like, comelets say
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: this is something very important. The forgiveness is for me.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: But do I want your energy? Do I want you around?
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 10: This?
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 5: Just better forgive and listening for you?
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I forget that.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: But yeah, like you said, the forgiveness is for me.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 2: I just don't want the energy around me. And that's
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 2: just cool for me. I don't want to black taxicos
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 2: every time.
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 3: I call that.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 10: Buried.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: The last comment the comeless she's saying. What comelics she's
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 2: saying is that Africans are now afro pins. But much
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 2: love of yourself, A beautiful days you guys all The
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: next one on the on Thursday, same time, same place,
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 2: right here, but remember coming back with the sports from
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: I'm sure you are on YouTube on bachot and to
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: catch up with a conversation in case you're wondering why
• 1:17:02
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• 1:17:08
  Speaker 2: much love of yourselves, a beautiful day.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 4: Love would, don't you