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Horrible Roommate, What To Do? · Podcast - Big 98.7

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How are your judging wheels? Are they greased? Hang on? Have me
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some WD four new. I think I'm a good Thank God, because we
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are in the middle of the judgment zone right now. Every Tuesday we enter
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it and we get a little judgy and we have a very unique situation today.
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Somebody has been willing to share with and her name is Ashley. She's
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on the phone now, So Ashley tell us what's going on? Basically,
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gosh, how don I start this? My roommate of three years moved out
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at the end of the year, and so I placed an ad to fight
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a new roommate. I ended up choosing my roommate from all the applicants.
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We went out for drinks actually, and she seemed really nice, low key.
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She was really professional, you know, she was serious about her job.
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But since she moved in at the beginning of last month, it's honestly
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been nothing but drama. Like she has this like dead beat boyfriend who she's
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always on the rocks with, right so it's like constant fighting with him.
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She gets drunk multiple time, weak, she's a huge slob. She didn't
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list deadbeat boyfriend on the resume, No, did not. They never want
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to disclose that it's weird. She's like one of those girls like you tell
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her over and over break up with him, like all all the red blacks,
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you know, and she just won't. Is he constantly over? Is
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it one of these boyfriends that's just lounging around the place he's he's not constantly
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there, but he does come over, but it's more of like the constant
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fights on the phone with him. And like she even like it was hers,
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but she had a vase and she like threw it across the room.
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It smashed, and I was just like, oh my god, Like I
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can't live with this type of drama, you know what I mean? Wow,
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So you want her out? Right? So I need to figure out
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a way to get rid of her, you know, like yesterday and like
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stuck because we have this lease agreement, so like I can't just kick her
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kick her out, you know what I mean? Yeah? How does that
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work? Is your lease? Is it like a six months a year situation?
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Would you it's a year? She signed a year lease? Yeah,
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how would you imagine it going? Let's say you did just sit her down
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one day be like, hey, I can't this is too much for me.
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You got to get out. What do you what do you think she
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would do? I she's still unpredictable, that's the thing. Face. No,
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Yeah, I'm really worried about her throwing something at you. Is there
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a way to make her come to the decision on her own? Is what
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I've been thinking. But I just don't know what to do. I feel
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really stuck. Okay, well, we got to get creative here. I
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feel like, so you're in the judgment zone. We're going to open it
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up to people to get their thoughts, their opinions, and hopefully come up
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with a solution that's going to work for you. Okay, Okay, thank
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you so much, terrible roommate, We've all been there. Yeah, and
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if you're in a lease agreement, I don't know much about this because I
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never lived with anybody that's bizarre, never had the roommate situation. But the
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lease has got to be the problem, right, Well, let us hear
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what you think seven on one to two eight h one nine eight seven.
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You can call or you can text us, also comment on our Facebook page.
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The lease is a tough thing. You can't force her out unless you
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have some sort of grounds that you can go to the rental, the landlord,
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or whoever it is. I mean throwing a vase. That's like pretty
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violent. Yeah, that's crazy, Like nobody should have to live with that.
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I don't know. I mean I've been bad roommates. I guess I've
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had a lot of roommates. You've bet none. I've had like forty Well,
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you lived in the temple with how many guys? Twelve? There was
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usually on average there was about twelve people there at a time. Yes,
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I can't imagine. So seven o one two eight oh one ninety eight seven.
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I'll tell you what she should do. She needs to just be direct.
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That's it, super simple. It's the thing you learn when you live
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a little longer. You just don't be you know what I'm saying, don't
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don't handle the heads and all about it. Just tell her get out.
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But what if now the person says no, Then what she's got to make
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the move? I mean, just just end the situation. Life's too short.
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You can't live like that. Yeah, then you maybe come up with
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like an exit plan or something. But I'm with you, you don't know
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until you try, and you might and that's going to make her uncomfortable if
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you say get out of my house. Yeah. From experience, I promise
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nobody's going to just get out. You know. It's not going to go
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that smoothly, but it's a good start. Well, thanks for the call,
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man, you got it. We have some hot comments and we do.
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Carla Chimond and saying legally you cannot kick her out. All you can
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do is talk this out. So this guy's kind of onto something and maybe
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hopefully she'll just want to get out of the lease. Rachel said though,
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that if the boyfriend staying over kind of moved in, that could be a
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violation of the lease, so she could be kicked out, so you can
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always talk to the landlord. That was my first question. Is he one
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of these boyfriends who's just like live in rent free, lounging on the couch
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even when the girlfriend's gone. Sounds like that's not the case, that's just
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it. I mean, if she's not breaking any of the LEAs stuff,
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maybe you just got to fight fire with fire, you know, maybe you
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got to start being a horrible roommate. I hate that feeling, though,
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especially if that's not the kind of person you are. It's much like if
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you live in an apartment building, and like you're having an issue with a
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neighbor or any neighbor. Really you want to go say something, but you
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know there's a pretty good chance they're just gonna get offended and it's only gonna
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get worse. Now you've got yourself like an issue. People don't handle confrontation
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very well. So as soon as you say something to them, they're not
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gonna go, oh, really, oh it was being loud to no idy,
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Okay, I'll stuff same with this roommate. She's not gonna go,
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oh my god, I no idea will be done or I'll just leave.
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Sure. So at the end of the day, man, at the end
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of our judgment zone, what should she do? Final judgment, She's just
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got to keep it real, sit down with her, maybe away from drinks
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and vases. I think we add that as an asterisk and just say this
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isn't working out. Okay, it's not you, it's me. Does that
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work in relationship situation with roommates? My proposal, you get yourself into like
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a thrupple situation. So now you've got two roommates and they're terrible. That's
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all you can do. Fight fire with fire. Trending now here's what you
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need to know. Well, we were locked in and glued to the TV
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last night watching LSU and Iowa. Caitlin Clark and her teammates ended up winning
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their head to the Final four two years in a row. They ended up
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beating LSU ninety four to eighty seven. Close game, kind of going back
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and forth, but at the end of it, just incredible. I loved
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everything about it. Really bummed out though I fell asleep. I wasn't able
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to watch page Bers and Yukon win. But they are going to be taking
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on Io and NOL Friday night in Cleveland, so that's going to be another
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great game. It's just so incredible to me. Just all the people watching
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women's college basketball right now. It needs to be at its peak. Yeah,
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you have never seen anything like I think the men's which go girls,
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I love. I don't know if the numbers would reflect that. Maybe I
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don't know. I guess we'll have to wait and see. But you're all
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in. I know that I am all in. Last night, West Farco
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City commissioners voted three to two to allow people to keep backyard chickens if you're
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in Fargo, Moore Head or horse you're like, yeah, we've been doing
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this for years, but they are going to allow up to six chickens as
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long as residents get an annual permit and you can keep the chickens in a
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coop. You had to make sure they're in there, and also you had
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to notify your neighbors. They did want you to know that the police will
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not be responding to any chicken issues. No, is not their problem.
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It's not their problem. It would have to be taken up with the city
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code enforcement officials. Now, I'll warn you if you're sitting here thinking,
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oh, maybe I'll get chickens now that I live in West Fargo. They
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do smell. There's a certain odor odor you really is, isn't there?
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But is it when you have a ton of chickens, if you just have
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six, is it still stanky? I think yeah, I think so?
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Is it? I don't know, man, We used to it was always
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it was a father's day tradition. My dad would raise these chickens and then
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of course it was our duty, my brother and I and my brother in
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law to go out and butcher them. And it's not something I grew up
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doing. I'm not like, I'm not that guy. Yeah, no,
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it's traumatizing. I'm a city slicking musician, you know, so getting out
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there with a hatchet Oka, and I don't want to get into the details
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of the process, but you know what they say it here's running around like
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a chicken with his head cut off. There's a reason listen to you,
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a city slicking musician. You've been a musician for three minutes. Back in
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the day, you weren't a musician. I'm just saying that's what he's three
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minutes. I've picked up a guitar when I was twenty two years old.
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Okay, I can't what you know what I'm saying. I'm not liking I'm
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not a farming you know, chicken head cutting off. No, it was
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just a real bold statement, musician. How many decades you have to play
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guitar before you're a musician? Ananda, I Ron, sure, Bike,
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you just really threw me. I know you were talking about chickens and stuff,
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but just a city slicking Okay, it was like it was like an
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exaggeration. It was an exaggeration. Hey, my mom lived in Fargo when
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I was growing up, the big city. Okay, I don't know see
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the problem I think it was an accurate depiction of me. Busting me up
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right now if I made some ridiculous claim like that. What I'm saying is,
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when you think of me, and I think you know me decently,
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well, do you think more of the musician y kind of artsy party guy
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versus a guy cutting chickens heads off? You went deer hunting, you did
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some things. I feel like you're a kind of a fine balance between all
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of them. Okay, fine, I'm a balanced in that basket. All
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right? Did you miss it? Yesterday? The Chiefs agreed to a one
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year deal with quarterback Carson Wentz. I missed it. I was a slicking
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being a musician. I was slicking the city. What happened? Carson Wentz
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signed a deal he did with the Chiefs. I think that's a that's great,
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I mean, a great place to be backing up Patrick Mahomes. That's
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all people are talking about. And again, now you got a little Lincoln
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to Taylor Swift. I mean, who knows what could happen? Now?
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Aren't you having dinner with Carson Wentz on Saturday? Going to his AO one
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dinner? I'm not having dinner with him. I mean close table. Is
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it like no idea? Is he going to be out like the head table
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like it's a wedding. I'm not sure it's at a new venue this year,
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so I'm really we're familiar the Sanctuary. Oh yeah, you know,
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speaking of being the city slicking musician, I've actually sold that venue out,
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the Sanctuary with my band. Hey, checkmate, Hopefully Carson is able to
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sell this bad boy out well standards can't. I think he very well made.
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But I'm just saying with tables, there's going to be much smaller capacity
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versus when our standing room only show sold out with seven hundred and fifty people.
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Anything else you want to do here? Bregadocious? Oh god, hey
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you challenge. I did challenge you, and I appreciate it all right.
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Today we are gonna get a little bit of sunshine and then it's rolling over
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to maybe some rain, kind of flories this afternoon high of about forty eight,
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like it Amanda in the morning, and now Amanda stills the seat looks
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see she is just so likable. Jason Kelsey's wife, Kylie. She was
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on the Today Show yesterday talking about a lot of the philanthropy work that she
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does with the Eagle, she really focuses on autism. And of course,
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when she sat down for this interview, when in doubt they're gonna ask you
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about Travis and Taylor, especially these yahoos. Yes, you know we watched
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him in the studio a lot, but you gotta just accept it because would
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they be interviewing you if you weren't, you know what I mean? See
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and I actually will tell you because I watched the entire interview. I was
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shocked that it took all the way to the very end and it was just
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a brief question and it was this, listen, Yeah, Ultimately, if
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Travis happy, we're happy. We are always cheering on Uncle Trav. It's
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such a treat to be able to do that on and off the field.
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But it's been amazing talking about how I mean think about that. You know,
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we we kind of alluded to it when they first started dating. But
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you're they're very much the Kelsey family. Yes they're famous, but they are
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pretty normal, I mean, really a divorced family. She's got you know,
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three kids. If you've ever watched The Kelsey Brothers or just Kelsey on
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Amazon Prime, they're living their life like their house is a disaster. They
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don't care. They're just after the parents, Donna and Kay. Yeah they
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are. Oh that's news to me. Really, Yeah, they divorced long
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ago. But it's just I don't know, Taylor Swift rolls up at your
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house and now you're just like a whole new level of fame. It's crazy.
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It's crazy, all right. I can't believe it. By the way,
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has anybody checked. We haven't had any Taylor and Trap news for about
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a week after they left the Bahamas. Where are they? Are they still
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there? I don't know. Touch People were being mean to him about his
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dad boss. That was the last I heard. Now he was just in
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hiding, Yeah, working out all right. Eminem trolled fans yesterday for April
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Fool's Day with a new album announcement. However, there was an obvious catch.
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If you were, you know, if you're a Pike fan, you
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probably on that level with Eminem. You would notice right away you're a Pike
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fan, Like if you're if you were a fan of Eminem like Pike,
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Oh sure, I'll be honest. I mean the reference they make in this
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April Fool's joke is like I didn't even know that he had really this album
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was like before the Marshall Mathers LP, which was his big first one.
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So anyway, here's what it was anticipated next studio way. It all started
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so mad. It's even more today if you were to watch a video when
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you go what it's pretty obnoxious it is. But yeah, this was released
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back in nineteen ninety six. Yeah, there was no really no songs off
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there that anybody would really know, so it was like subtle enough, but
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it was so stupid. If you watch a little promo video, yeah,
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I mean it's funny, he's a funny guy. But he does actually have
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an album coming out, so that was the whole thing. Yeah, you
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just told me about this last week with what Doctor Dre was on Jamie Kimmel
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and he made the announcement that Eminem's got a new album coming out this year.
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We don't know when and what. Still that's just awesome. Oh yeah,
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he's still pumping him out, pumping out good music. Yeah, I
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really like him. Do you a hot Dike Boom? You guys you grew
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up with Eminem used to have his CDs. I think I'm trying to think,
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did I I feel like I just had him burned? I don't remember
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actually getting in the EMINEMCD, which is crazy fifty cent, yes, but
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I think I think he was just burned on a couple of my sure my
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Slow JAMCD, but my probably my Girl nine out Superman by Eminem, one
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of the great omit What was did he? Was he on with a D?
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Was it D three? D twelve? D twelve? I have that
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single? I remember it being purple. Singles were kind of my thing,
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just embarrassing. You'd look at my clock, You'd be like, oh my
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gosh, she has so many CDs, all of them singles. All of
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them were pretty much singles, all right. Denise Richards remember her daughter Sammy
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Sheen that she shares with Charlie Sheen had jumped on OnlyFans. This was probably
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about eight months ago. Charlie Sheen and Denise Richards were just mortified. They're
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like, oh my gosh, she can't do this. And then mama decided,
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hang on, Sammy, I'm sorry, did you just cash a check
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for a million bucks? And Denise Richards ended up getting on OnlyFans shortly after
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that. She's now been on it for a few months. Guess how much
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money she is making a month on OnlyFans billion dollars a month close two million.
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Oh that's all. No, that's crazy. And Denise Richards, I
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mean she listened. She was a beauty for sure. I don't know what
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she looks like. She's twenty twenty four. He still has that same vibe
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she really does. Yeah, she's beautiful. I think I just don't get
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the only thing. You know, and you hear about these people making so
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much money. So people are paying, and probably people we all know and
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love, but nobody talks about it, you know. I guess I got
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to look through my neighborhood. Anybody got some like new cars or anything,
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or I mean, like one thing to do it? But who's paying the
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subscriptions? I just saw. Well, we were talking about Gypsy Rose jumping
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off of social media and somebody did a fake Gypsy Rose account on I know,
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but it asserted it fifty dollars for content, so just showing like what
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the going rate would even be. Yeah, and guys, this one's for
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the guys. If you're listening. Guys, it's free and pretty much unlimited.
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So what do you do? I can amandine in the morning. Seven.
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I don't want to pry too much into these twins lives, these conjoined
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twins, Abby and Brittany Hensel. Yeah, you know, we've talked about
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him. Recently found out that one of them got married. What one of
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them? Yeah, a very interesting situation. We had some questions about the
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entire situation because, as anyone does, correct me if I'm wrong, they
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both have two, like, there's two of most of everything. Internally,
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they each have a heart, they both control one arm, they both control
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one leg. Obviously they both have their own head, but reproductively there's only
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one. So it's like, okay, so they're married. If they decide
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to have a baby, you'd obviously have to have like consent with the other
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one. I mean, there's just a lot of questions. Fascinating and it
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was fascinating to me. The guy that one of the twins married names Josh
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Bowling. Now, this guy apparently was married as of twenty twenty. They
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got married in twenty twenty one, so he got divorced, and then the
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woman that he got divorced with had a baby months later. Oh really,
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Okay, So now this guy, Josh, has been hit with a paternity
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test to find out if he is the father. Apparently it's down to two
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guys for this lady, so he may or may not have another and he
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already does have one child. Okay, he's gonna find out if he has
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yet another child, and which is fine, but it's just another layer to
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this. I'm just curious like a cat about this guy. And I don't
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want to judge him. I don't want to say he's a freak, you
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know what I mean. I want to believe that he fell in love with
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one of these twins, right, conjoined twins, and it's not some weird,
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fetishy kind of thing. Or is he doing it for fame because they
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are famous? Yeah, I mean they take it out. They definitely try
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not to be. I mean they're teachers, so they get one salary to
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teach at a school in Minneapolis or near Minneapolis in New Brighton. I started
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following them on TikTok because last week they were just like, why is everybody
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hating on us? What's going on? I'm like, I don't think anybody's
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hating on them. I think it's just again, just like anything. You
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might have missed the first chapter when they were on TV, and you might
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be like me, kind of just finding out about him, and you're going
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I have questions because it is again I think fascinating is probably the best word
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to use. So this guy Josh, when he meets one of the well,
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you can't just meet one of them. You gotta meet it unless one's
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sleeping, you know, And that's another question. Can one be taking an
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apple the other one's kind of still awake? I don't know. So he
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meets them together, and I get if you fall in love with one twin,
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but how do you just which one you're falling in love with? Well,
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they're two totally different personalities. I don't it's the same as being just
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siblings. They're just connected. Yeah, it's the craziest thing. And then
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the most horrible thought I had. I was literally sitting at home and just
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like it just hit me and I kind of freaked out. I'm like,
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oh my god, can one of them pass away? Or is it when
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one does? They both do? But I don't think so, because I
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guess it would depend on the situation because if they have different organs, I
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know, the same, it's all the same unit. So but imagine the
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horror of one of them passing away, and then what do you do the
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other ones got them dragging around, you know, just because that would like,
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I can't do they remove it? I know it's a horrible, horrible
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thought, of course, but also again they're just questions because I also envision,
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I mean, if you're married and you know, they decide that they
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do want to have a family, that's just I mean, I'm sure they've
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had many conversations about how they're gonna well, and he can't like rule the
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roost of What if the other one is ready to like fall in love and
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go on relationships. What if she is, you know, she gets to
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two, she's on Tinder and she finds a guy. Do the guys have
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to like get along and know? I mean, this is you're right far
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off. What if one twin, the one who's married, is the real
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like kind of settle down kind of girl, while the other one's like very
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promiscuous and wants to have different gentlemen over every night of the week. Right
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now, as a husband, how do you watch that happen? What if
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one's a night now won't What if the other one, you know, Amanda
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in the morning one I want to have a discussion, not about your entire
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bill at a restaurant, just the tip. Okay, okay. A survey
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was done and I found seventy five percent of people I appreciate thank you time,
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thank you room. Sometimes I think tipping has gotten out of hand,
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and I'm thinking seventy five percent, So who's who is saying no? I
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feel like it's just right, you know. I feel like the tipping situation
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is just perfect. Yeah, it's crazy, it is it is now.
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The people in survey also said they're being tired of ask to tip at restaurant
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chain restaurants now. Not to name any names, but I was appreciative of
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finding out California is setting a new minimum wage for fast food restaurant workers that
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have sixty or more locations. So the big dogs gotchay. We all can
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think of one or two that you go there and you're paying, my god
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like a very high price, and then you're being asked to tip on top
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of it. It's insane to me how much? And gosh, I am
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gonna sound like a real boomer here, but I got my nephew just got
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a job, and I think he is making if I they just told me,
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I want to say, it's like fifteen dollars an hour, which is
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great, plus tips. He's raking in about twenty five dollars an hour and
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his tips are my god, where's he work? Just in general fast food
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restaurants, a lot of places you're getting anywhere between fifteen and twenty dollars an
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hour. Then you're tacking on tips on top of that. It's incredible,
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Like that is incredible to me. Now I get it. If there are
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are still places that are paying you three dollars an hour or whatever, it
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is still a thing, because isn't it In Fargo, I want to say,
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is minimum wage? But I feel like in Minnesota, if you're a
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server, you're getting paid like that ten twelve dollars plus tips, whereas in
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Fargo, I want to say, it's that three four dollars. Yeah,
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that's what it was at least it used to be growing up, Like if
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you were on the Minnesota side, yeah, you would at least get minimum
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wage, which at the time was maybe still seven to twenty five I think,
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And then in North Dakota you could get it, which is just the
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concept alone. I think it just really needs to like be torn down and
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then rebuilt because when along the way did we decide that business owners. And
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I know there are business like restaurants who hit their family owned and they just
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it's their passion. But at the end of the day, a man,
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people are starting businesses to make money, and so why are you not expected
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to have to pay the employees working for you? You know, because three
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dollars an hour, two dollars an hour, that's nothing, you know,
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that's essentially zero. Then you also have to look at it. Inflation has
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hit so hard, so for these businesses to stay in business, they have
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to, you know, jack up the prices. But I don't know there's
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a place, a time and a place for when you should tip. And
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I agree it has gotten out of hand, Like as soon as I get
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anxiety when you put your card in somewhere and it automatically just pops up the
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tip thing because it's you have to like really search for the no thanks yeah,
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and then your ear automatically hitting at least ten, fifteen or twenty five
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percent or adding a custom tip, and you just you just feel like a
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tool sometimes because you're you're being judged as you go through the process. No
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or I don't want to be that person because if I don't think you did
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anything. I shouldn't have to give you even two three bucks. I mean,
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everybody's doing something. But that's the thing too, it's all work,
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whether it's like a specific service, but everyone's doing a job. So does
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every job deserve a tip? We're doing a job? Yeah, should we
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go ask our boss? Nance? I think they're in a meeting right now,
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just be like, hey, you know yesterday like really good show,
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really good show, probably one of the best. Like we're just curious,
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like do you think and they just kind of do a thing where you like
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rub your fingers together, you think, just a little extra like it a
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minute in the morning. Come on, get up on Big seven. Well,
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this is just a worst nightmare come true. You've taken a DNA test,
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correct you? Yeah? Remember my dad gave me one for Christmas a
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few years back. So I still get notifications which I find very interesting.
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Well just wait till you get this notification that this couple received. Selena and
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Joseph keen Law is their last name, and so they've been together for seventeen
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years, oh, married for ten happily together. They got three kids,
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so you know they've done that at least three times. Well, they took
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a DNA test. Oh gosh, see what all the craze was about.
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Maybe they're related to Abraham Lincoln. I mean, you just never know.
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You never know. Selena got the results back and you guessed it. They
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are cousins. Wait what her and her husband Joseph are related? Down the
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line? Okay, so how far like are you talking? Like? Way
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down? Twice removed? Well, she did of a TikTok which has gone
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viral, explaining that their cousins or her cousband she now, okay, see
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that's not even funny. Also, you've created this life, you have healthy
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kids. Yeah, right, that's the big concern that your kids are gonna
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have multiple limbs and everything. So let me ask you before I reveal how
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close they are. If it was you in love with your husband, you've
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already got two kids. How many down the line? First cousin, second
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cousin, third, how many until you draw the line? All right,
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so definitely first cousin out. That's I'm gonna tell your kids. So,
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yep, you're really gonna tell your kids mommy and daddy are no longer together
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if you found your first cousin. But you would know that, right,
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Well, I guess it depends on how close your family is. Not that
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gotta I gotta go third cousin. Yeah, no, force your husband because
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he was your second cousin. Cousband's that was a slip, was what about
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you? I mean, I don't have kids that situation. Yeah, I
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know. I cannot come on. I can't believe you would divorce your husband
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if he was your second cousin. No, they found out how to struggle.
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Okay, so maybe there wouldn't be divorce, but I would struggle with
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any more further relations. What I don't know, because I'm a society who
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makes it weird. I mean, listen, we're all cousins. Probably Okay,
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here I am, I'm going over, moving on over to your side
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here, thank you, thank you. I'm just trying to protect your family.
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What you're willing to throw it away for that? Oh my gosh.
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I mean, no, wonder Nick hasn't wanted to do the DNA ancestry thing.
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Are they gonna say do the d No, we have to know something
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you don't know. They were this coup of Selena and Joseph. Turns out
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they basically have the same ancestor eight generations back, which is stupid. Okay,
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yeah, I know, but people are getting all riled up. Also.
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The whole thing though, is just annoying. I know. I just
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like really wanted to see what you'd be willing to throw your family away from.
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But oh thanks, thanks for putting me on the lives. They all
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want define but don't you that's dumb. I don't think there's anything wrong with
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that. No, of course not. And they have no intentions of splitting
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their family part unlike you. If you found out that you guys were telling
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cousins, you would immediately leave. That was off the record.