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How Saint Obi D!ed A Broken Man After His Ex-Wife Denied Him Access To His Children · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of Entre.
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  episode. Today's episode, I want to talk
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  about sent to be Nollywood. Actor is actually Nollywood
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  Legend. He's one of the pioneers of
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  Nollywood movies and center of is the lover boys and Tube is in
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  action movie. He's built, his actually built
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  for different kind of role. Beat the king beat, praise.
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  Beads Denzel Washington kind of action movie.
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  He eats the lover boy, he's handsome.
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  So he has been in the industry for we grew up watching
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  centrepiece movie. And if you're one of those
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  people that are, like, Nollywood movies in the early 2000s, you
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  would know send to be. He is, he is that good?
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  Now, since will be has passed on and it's been a long time, he
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  made any Nollywood movie. Gee.
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  That's a big old married and decided to leave the Nollywood
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  scene according to sources. Then his wife was a top
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  telecommunication executive or something like that.
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  So he stopped acting movies according to People by the
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  directive of his wife because she felt as with her position.
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  She does not need to be here in the house band is running around
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  doing all these things kissing people.
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  For instance, I mean century was the lover boy, most of his sin.
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  She was kissing everybody, so according to sources.
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  They said she felt that with her prestigious career and
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  background, she does not need that to kind of, that kind of
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  publicity centobie. Stop acting movies.
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  He was at the peak of his career that point he stopped acting
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  movies and he went back to businesses was running and
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  according to people he was very successful as what he was doing.
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  However, Ever online. Speculation.
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  People are speculating, that scent will be has his marriage
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  is in crisis. He has problems.
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  I remember when a makiki came out to talk about his family
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  issues, people said, send to be, was in the same situation was
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  sent was determined to make his marriage work since stayed back.
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  Now, there was so many speculation about the wife,
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  controlling him about the wife's family controlling him because
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  they felt okay, now that Yes, because before then accessing
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  was his source of income. So when he was made according to
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  sources, to stop accessing his wife took over the financial
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  responsibility, because I mean, when you started business, it
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  doesn't just start making millions.
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  But wife was funding the business or the family at that
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  point. Now, the wise family, we are not
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  happy about it. They felt sent to be was taking
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  advantage of their sister. They started chasing sent to be
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  around. And all those speculations were
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  reported online. Where people felt because sent
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  to be was quiet. And the wife was not saying
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  anything people felt. These are just people enemy of
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  progress. Trying to spoil a very happy
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  marriage. Very happy?
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  Who Now ladies and gentlemen, over the weekend or this Sunday
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  to be precise news broke that sent to be has passed on the
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  reason why people were not aware of it or because it was just
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  like a speculation. The family did not make any
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  official statements. Nobody was talking from his wife
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  or anything nobody was saying anything.
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  Now, everybody was kind of Moaning sent to be because they
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  said, how can somebody that big died or passed on and nobody was
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  saying anything about it? Nobody.
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  Nobody from the family was talking.
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  Nobody from the wife's family was talking like no official
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  statements one of Nollywood top, producers and executive actually
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  releases. Statements talking about like
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  explaining why both the families are not making any statement
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  because there are there was trouble in Paradise, even before
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  he died. According to him, he said that
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  all the speculations regarding his marriage.
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  Sent to his marriage was true, you know, all the people talking
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  about how the wife's family was trying to harass him was true
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  according to him. They got married even during the
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  marriage. No Nollywood execs, get invited.
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  You can imagine sent to be with his career, he was top of his
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  career, that points wasn't a big old Mary with nobody in
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  attendance. According to him, he said people
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  felt that the wife in Being a private person.
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  She doesn't want any Nollywood influence and all that and then
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  sent to be trying to make his marriage walk left that even
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  naming ceremony. Since we did not invite any
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  colleague to the naming ceremony.
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  So according to the producer, the siblings started, giving
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  them hell, especially sent to be and wife was not saying
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  anything. He said though, the was the time
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  he saw sent will be, he had a knife holes in his eyes and
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  since said that the wife's brother actually jumped into the
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  house to stop him. Like and he was telling that
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  marriage. He stayed there until the
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  marriage eventually broke down. He The to the children.
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  Like I don't understand why Nigerians use weaponize kids.
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  They used to drain as a source of like punishments to either of
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  the spouse. Let's save the wife, get the
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  children. Do you cannot see your children,
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  maybe the wife gets the kids because she has in this case or
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  sent to be, she weaponize the children.
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  She was not allowing sin too, busy City to see the children.
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  I don't know why people do these things.
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  If you're married to a anybody and you have children with that
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  person, nobody forced you to have children for that person.
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  Regardless of if that person turned out to be a Madman
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  regardless of what had happened, regardless of what had led to
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  that divorce, you chose that preachers to marry that person,
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  you choose to have your children with that person.
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  So regardless, I don't know why people do these things.
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  If your wife, you have the problem and you eventually
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  divorce and the man had to take custody of the children.
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  And they always refused to woman.
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  So silly children. Now, in sense of this case, she
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  was one who had the money she refused sent to this access to
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  the children. He was depressed.
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  He said having health challenges, health issues, and
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  before, you know, it, he was gone.
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  He literally, he said it literally died crying for his
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  children. Why do people do these things?
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  I don't get it. I use a lot of people coming to
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  compare online. Ah, why would people do like
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  this? In their own family, they are
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  doing the same thing. They are doing the same thing.
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  Are you want out? Why are people like this?
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  Anybody that choose to have children, you chose to marry
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  that person? What are you married?
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  The personal? Not you choose to have, like, I
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  don't understand, we're not the 19th century that you can say,
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  oh, I accidentally have a child. You can relax, then you knew you
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  were pregnant. You knew you had a thing.
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  I don't get it. People should stop weaponizing
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  children, people should stop it at the end of the day.
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  You don't know what how that is going to emotionally affect
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  people and according to sources, this was what effect are sent to
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  be and he never recovered from it because he was not allowed to
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  see his children as this conversation was going on,
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  people started making comparison with eulogy.
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  I mean, you know, this is a gift that keeps giving.
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  Like, I don't know, I don't What the measuring him here, but
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  people started making comparison.
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  According to insiders, they said that, this is exactly what's
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  happened with me energy because of our people were stressing,
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  you'll and all that, and he just decided to step out and that was
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  how he was able to survive. That if sent to be heard on the
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  same thing, we will still be, we still have sent to be, you know,
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  today. I don't even want to To believe
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  that. That is true because I believe
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  that everybody has free will send to be.
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  I don't know, I don't know, because I think different people
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  deal with things differently, people handle stress
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  differently. There are some people who are
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  just easier of speaking out. They, they were internalized,
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  certain things onto that. People don't understand.
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  Mental health, people don't understand.
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  When you have issues and you just, I don't know.
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  I don't even know what to say. We have lost sent to be.
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  It is very sad. It is very sad because this is a
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  talent. He is, I don't even think he's 0
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  to 60 his nose. He's in his baby late 50s and he
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  was still looking. I mean our MD End of the day, we
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  don't know the complete story, but I would say anybody that is
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  getting before you get married to somebody regardless, I want
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  to make a child with a person, just know at the back of your
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  mind that regardless of what's Happening that marriage, the
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  both of you produce children and the both of you should have
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  access to the children, whether the man without the woman,
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  whether you claim now. Not The woman is a mattress and
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  walking on the streets. You know, you slept with her and
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  produce those children, she carry them for nine months, she
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  shouldn't have access to the children.
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  Any case of sense would be yes, the wife had custody of your
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  children because she made more money and then she was denying
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  him access. Why?
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  Because you feel oh, he's not responsible.
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  You made this man. Stop acting.
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  This is why I told people before you get married to anybody,
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  think about, don't think about now, don't think, okay?
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  And whatever is saying, now, I am agreeing to it, think about
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  10 years. Think about 20 years your
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  situation, 10 years, or 20 years ahead.
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  How does that? Would you be happy with that
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  picture? If you're going to be, don't
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  think. Oh, let's just get into it and
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  then see what happens. This, this is where we have
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  problems and then peoples are stressing every other person
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  around. I don't understand people need
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  to just think before you pick a partner before you especially
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  women they want to get married, the man will tell them.
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  Oh you are a banker stop going to work.
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  I don't want my wife to be a banker and then they quit their
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  careers to stay at home. And when their marriage end,
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  they start looking at them like that beats.
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  But this woman was walking before you married her.
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  In the case of sent to be, who was at the top of his game.
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  Making millions. And then he met her because she
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  was a top executive. Oh I don't need my husband to
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  between all those things. Now he lets the career to please
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  you. At the end of the day your
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  family will not even allow him to rest and you couldn't even
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  defend your husband. You could not do it.
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  It is sad or round. It is just it's a situation is
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  sad. End for a legendary actor like
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  seem to be people should just be careful before you leave your
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  car. For a man for your woman for
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  your marriage. Think about it.
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  Think about 10 years from God points.
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  They're looking to the Future looking to the Future.
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