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- 0:00Well, good morning, and thank you guys so much. Another just joyful morning to sing together, to recount all these wonderful truths.
- 0:09! And I'd invite you to open up to Matthew chapter 18. So we're going to continue. This is our third week in the summer parable series.
- 0:17And thank you to the other elders who have been serving us tremendously. As you make your way over to Matthew chapter 18,
- 0:25I wanted to bring kind of a sober illustration for us this morning, but one that I think is effective in introducing what we'll be discussing.
- 0:36So by way of introducing the text, there was a courtroom scene that you probably saw if you were paying attention to the news about five years ago.
- 0:48This courtroom scene was one that caught many news outlets' attention, and I'm not going to get into all the details of everything involved in the case,
- 0:58but there was a woman who was convicted of murder, and she had fatally shot a man.
- 1:05And in her testimony, she said that she thought that this man was an intruder in her apartment.
- 1:11But the very unfortunate thing was she had actually gone to the fourth floor.
- 1:16She had bypassed her third floor apartment building, and of course, this guy was unexpecting the door to open up.
- 1:24And she shot this man, and he fatally died, and this was about five years ago.
- 1:29So very, very sad events that took place.
- 1:35But what caught the attention of the news outlets was not really just that this had happened,
- 1:41but particularly that there was a victim impact statement that was made by the younger brother of the man who had been killed.
- 1:52And a victim impact statement, if you don't know, that generally happens when a verdict is announced,
- 1:58and then the family can come up and say how this has caused an effect on the suffering party.
- 2:06So this is what he said.
- 2:07He said, if you truly, he was saying this to the lady, of course,
- 2:11if you truly are sorry, I can speak for myself.
- 2:14I forgive.
- 2:15And I know if you go to God and ask him, he will forgive you.
- 2:19And I don't think anyone can say it.
- 2:21Again, I'm speaking for myself, but I love you just like anyone else.
- 2:26And I'm not going to say that I hope you rot and die just like my brother did,
- 2:32but I presently want what is best for you.
- 2:36And I wasn't going to even say this in front of my family or in front of anyone,
- 2:41but I don't even want you to go to jail.
- 2:45I want the best for you because I know that's exactly what my brother would want you to do.
- 2:54And the best would be to give your life to Christ.
- 2:59I'm not going to say anything else.
- 3:02I think giving your life to Christ would be the best thing that my brother would want you to do.
- 3:09Again, I love you as a person and I don't wish anything bad on you.
- 3:14And then he said, I don't know if this is possible, but can I give her a hug?
- 3:19Please, please.
- 3:22Now, this is one of the most striking pictures of human forgiveness that has ever been captured on at least modern TV.
- 3:30And I don't know the state of this brother.
- 3:33Of course, I've never met him.
- 3:34But by all accounts, this appears to be a man who has been touched within him by the redemption,
- 3:42the forgiveness that he's received by Christ.
- 3:45And beyond the profound amazement that this act is worthy of,
- 3:51I actually bring this up to draw attention to the types of responses that I saw happening
- 3:58in some of the comments of the videos that were online.
- 4:01Now, there's only two categories.
- 4:04The first is profound amazement.
- 4:07Those who saw this act as astonishingly commendable and beautiful.
- 4:12But the other category was those who reacted in very strong anger.
- 4:20People saw this act as a desecration of what they came to expect as real justice.
- 4:28And while it's very easy for us to critique this latter response,
- 4:32there's actually a lot of sound or not sound, but logical reasoning in the way that they're thinking through this.
- 4:38They see the heinous nature of the crime.
- 4:42And because of how bad that crime was,
- 4:45they expect for justice to come quickly, to come with force without any delay.
- 4:53And while we can understand that type of perspective,
- 4:58what's missing in that perspective is recognizing that everybody in that courtroom believes in justice.
- 5:05It didn't matter if you were an atheist or an agnostic or a Christian.
- 5:11Everybody believes in justice, especially when something like that happens.
- 5:17Now, if pressed, I am very certain.
- 5:21It can be an interesting question to ask.
- 5:23Of course, I probably never will.
- 5:25But I bet you that that brother probably said,
- 5:28you know what, I have never believed in the need for justice as strongly as I have until an event like that took place.
- 5:38And I think that that is true.
- 5:41We often don't experience stuff like that.
- 5:43But when hard things happen, when justice is called for,
- 5:47there's really a dividing line question with how we're going to respond.
- 5:53And the question is this, especially as Christians,
- 5:57we are called to put into action our belief of whether or not what Jesus did on the cross
- 6:04was sufficient as a means of justice to hold out forgiveness for offenders.
- 6:12Is it a strong enough basis for me and for you when we encounter sin,
- 6:16and we surely will, you have this week?
- 6:18Is it enough for us to look to Jesus and say that Jesus' act of justifying sinners,
- 6:26those who would one day put their faith in Christ,
- 6:30is that sufficient as a means in and of itself?
- 6:34Because we are always responding with our system of justice.
- 6:40Is Jesus sufficient, or is human justice,
- 6:44what is called for when tragedy happens?
- 6:47We're going to read chapter 18, and we'll pick up in verse 21,
- 6:54and we'll read through the end of the chapter.
- 6:56And you guys apologize for being a little sniffly this morning.
- 7:04Okay, the text reads this way.
- 7:07Then Peter came up and said to him,
- 7:09Lord, how often will my brother sin against me and I forgive him?
- 7:14As many as seven times.
- 7:16Jesus said to him,
- 7:17I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.
- 7:22Therefore, the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king
- 7:24who wished to settle accounts with his servants.
- 7:29When he began to settle,
- 7:30one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.
- 7:33And since he could not pay,
- 7:35his master ordered him to be sold with his wife and children
- 7:40and all that he had in payment to be made.
- 7:43So the servant fell on his knees,
- 7:45imploring him,
- 7:46Have patience with me,
- 7:48and I will pay you everything.
- 7:49And out of pity for him,
- 7:51the master of that servant released him
- 7:53and forgave him the debt.
- 7:54But when that same servant went out,
- 7:58he found one of his fellow servants
- 7:59who owed him a hundred denarii.
- 8:02And seizing him,
- 8:03he began to choke him,
- 8:04saying,
- 8:05Pay what you owe.
- 8:07So his fellow servant fell down
- 8:09and pleaded with him,
- 8:10Have patience with me,
- 8:12and I will pay you.
- 8:15He refused and went and put him in prison
- 8:17until he should pay the debt.
- 8:19And when his fellow servant saw
- 8:21what had taken place,
- 8:22they were greatly distressed.
- 8:24And they went and they reported
- 8:26to their master all that had taken place.
- 8:29Then his master summoned him
- 8:32and said to him,
- 8:33You wicked servant,
- 8:35I forgave you all that debt
- 8:37because you pleaded with me.
- 8:39And should not you have had mercy
- 8:41on your fellow servant
- 8:43as I had mercy on you?
- 8:46And in anger,
- 8:47his master delivered him to the jailers
- 8:50until he should pay all his debt.
- 8:52So also my heavenly father
- 8:55will do to every one of you
- 8:58if you do not forgive
- 8:59your brother from your heart.
- 9:03Well, our outline this morning,
- 9:05if you are a note taker,
- 9:06is going to come in three primary points.
- 9:10The first of which is
- 9:12forgiveness withheld.
- 9:14The second is forgiveness resisted.
- 9:18And the third is unforgiveness exposed.
- 9:21So our first point this morning
- 9:23is forgiveness withheld.
- 9:25And our primary example
- 9:27from our text is the disciple Peter.
- 9:31Now, you guys are familiar with Peter,
- 9:33or I would expect most of you are.
- 9:35Peter's resume is one that is
- 9:37one that leaves us with the impression
- 9:41that he should be very thankful
- 9:43in general to the Lord,
- 9:45very humble in his heart.
- 9:46Listen to just a couple things.
- 9:48So Peter was called out
- 9:49as a fisherman by Jesus.
- 9:51In Matthew chapter 16,
- 9:53though, we are reminded
- 9:55of some of the things
- 9:56that Peter struggled with.
- 9:58So Jesus had said
- 9:59he was going to be going to the cross,
- 10:02that he was preparing himself.
- 10:04And Peter tried to dissuade
- 10:06Jesus from doing this.
- 10:07And Jesus rebukes him strongly.
- 10:11In Matthew chapter 14,
- 10:13a couple of chapters earlier,
- 10:14even more well-known story,
- 10:17Jesus calls Peter out onto the water
- 10:19and Peter tries to come
- 10:21and he loses sight of the Lord.
- 10:23He's distracted.
- 10:25And what happens is his faith,
- 10:27his lack of faith is exposed
- 10:29and he begins struggling.
- 10:34And then later in the book of Matthew,
- 10:37Matthew chapter 26, I believe,
- 10:39we find the account of Peter
- 10:41who is told by Jesus
- 10:44that he's going to betray Jesus
- 10:46in the days leading up
- 10:47to his crucifixion.
- 10:48And that's exactly what happens.
- 10:50Not one time,
- 10:51not two times,
- 10:52but on three different times,
- 10:55Peter denies the Lord.
- 10:59Now, again,
- 11:00I bring this up
- 11:01because Peter is a man
- 11:03upon hearing the words
- 11:04that Jesus is saying.
- 11:06And I'll give you
- 11:06some of that context
- 11:07in the verses
- 11:08that precede what we read.
- 11:10But Peter should be a guy
- 11:11who is very grateful,
- 11:14very aware
- 11:15of all this grace
- 11:16that belongs to him
- 11:17that has changed his life
- 11:19and brought him
- 11:20into a brand new reality
- 11:22of being a disciple of Christ.
- 11:25The context of our passage
- 11:27is one that you are likely familiar with.
- 11:30We generally refer to this
- 11:32as the stages of church discipline, right?
- 11:35So right before our text,
- 11:37Jesus walks through
- 11:38the different stages
- 11:39that happen
- 11:40when somebody is entangled,
- 11:42ensnared by sin.
- 11:44Generally, one person goes
- 11:46and pursues the unbeliever.
- 11:48And if that is not successful,
- 11:50a smaller group goes.
- 11:52And then lastly,
- 11:53the whole church
- 11:54is called to give accountability
- 11:55to the one
- 11:56who is stuck in sin
- 11:58for the aim of restoring
- 12:00that struggling person
- 12:02to repentance.
- 12:03But if you look with me
- 12:06at verse 21,
- 12:08Peter does not have any humility.
- 12:10He actually responds to Jesus
- 12:12with a hint of self-satisfaction,
- 12:15perhaps thinking
- 12:16that he will maybe even win
- 12:17some congratulatory approval
- 12:20from Jesus
- 12:21for what he's about to say.
- 12:23You see,
- 12:24it was well known
- 12:25in the rabbinic tradition
- 12:26of the day
- 12:27that extending forgiveness
- 12:28ought to happen
- 12:29three different times.
- 12:31and Peter thinks
- 12:33he's going to come
- 12:35and impress Jesus
- 12:36by more than doubling
- 12:38that amount.
- 12:39That's why he says
- 12:40seven times.
- 12:42Peter is very bold
- 12:44in his personality.
- 12:45Listen to these words.
- 12:47It says,
- 12:47Peter came up
- 12:48and said to him,
- 12:49Lord,
- 12:49how often will my brother
- 12:51sin against me
- 12:52and I forgive him?
- 12:53As many as seven times?
- 12:57It's this important question
- 12:59that sets the stage
- 13:00for the rest of the parable
- 13:01that Jesus is going to unpack.
- 13:05Jesus doesn't see this
- 13:06just as a regular question,
- 13:08but this question
- 13:09brings Jesus
- 13:10to tell this story.
- 13:12There's a weight to it.
- 13:13There's something
- 13:13that needs to be corrected
- 13:15in the way that Peter
- 13:16is speaking of this situation,
- 13:19how he's responding
- 13:20to the Lord's words.
- 13:23The how many times question
- 13:25demonstrates that Peter
- 13:27actually has a framework
- 13:29that's already existing
- 13:31which he needs to apply
- 13:33as it relates to those
- 13:35who offend him,
- 13:36that sin against him.
- 13:37He's purposed.
- 13:39He's measured.
- 13:40And he is trying
- 13:40to think through
- 13:41what are the occasions
- 13:42by which I can apply
- 13:44the rules of justice,
- 13:46his rules of justice.
- 13:48And when are the times
- 13:49that I'm called
- 13:50to apply these teachings,
- 13:52these words of Jesus
- 13:54that seem to lean
- 13:56into mercy and forgiveness?
- 13:59Peter has probably heard
- 14:01often some of the familiar things
- 14:05that Jesus has said
- 14:07about forgiveness, right?
- 14:09He has heard that Jesus
- 14:11has said,
- 14:12this is how you should pray.
- 14:14Father, forgive our debts
- 14:15as we forgive those
- 14:18who sin against us.
- 14:20As the layers
- 14:23of Peter's question
- 14:25are peeled back,
- 14:27we begin to see
- 14:28that what's happening
- 14:30in Peter's heart
- 14:31is not just inquiry.
- 14:33He's not just interested
- 14:34in something.
- 14:36He's making a statement.
- 14:38He's coming to grips
- 14:40with how do I actually feel
- 14:42about things
- 14:43when stuff is hard
- 14:45in my life?
- 14:46What am I called to do
- 14:48when it's very uncomfortable
- 14:49for me to keep going on
- 14:51and extending grace
- 14:53when it feels like
- 14:54justice needs to be applied?
- 14:58See, it might be,
- 15:00we don't know this,
- 15:01but it could be that Peter
- 15:02has somebody in mind.
- 15:04You might even be thinking
- 15:06of someone in mind
- 15:07that their ways of sinning
- 15:08against you
- 15:09are particularly hard for you.
- 15:12There's often a repetitious cycle
- 15:14that happens
- 15:15when we're with people closely.
- 15:17they sin against us
- 15:19and maybe they ask
- 15:21for forgiveness
- 15:22and then we grant it.
- 15:24But when it happens again
- 15:26and again
- 15:28and again,
- 15:30then we start to question
- 15:32what other things
- 15:34need to happen
- 15:36to make this situation change.
- 15:39The same sort of results
- 15:40from me
- 15:41are getting these same responses
- 15:44and that doesn't seem right.
- 15:46But beyond Peter's question,
- 15:51beyond just the impatience,
- 15:52what Peter's actually doing here
- 15:54is he is showing us
- 15:56what Jesus is showing us,
- 15:58that he's actually struggling
- 16:00to put his faith
- 16:01and his trust
- 16:02in Jesus himself.
- 16:06Peter is no mathematician.
- 16:08He's not interested in numbers.
- 16:11He is actually troubled
- 16:12with this idea
- 16:14that he may be called
- 16:15to endure significant pain
- 16:17so that others
- 16:18can receive the offer
- 16:20of forgiveness.
- 16:22He might be thinking,
- 16:24how many times
- 16:25are you asking me
- 16:26to do this?
- 16:28Do you want me to trust you
- 16:30that enduring offenses
- 16:31is what brings about
- 16:33the unfolding of your plan?
- 16:35Are we called
- 16:37to give an indefinite
- 16:38free pass
- 16:39on people
- 16:40who don't even understand
- 16:42the pain
- 16:43that they have brought
- 16:43into our life?
- 16:45You see,
- 16:45Peter's question
- 16:46is not innocent.
- 16:48Neither are our questions
- 16:50that we ask
- 16:51innocent
- 16:52at times like this.
- 16:55Now,
- 16:56with all of these parables
- 16:58and all of God's Word,
- 17:002 Timothy 3
- 17:00reminds us
- 17:01that all of Scripture
- 17:03is for
- 17:04the correction
- 17:05of our hearts.
- 17:09The piercing
- 17:09and the dividing
- 17:10of our souls,
- 17:12our inward desires.
- 17:13That's what this parable
- 17:15in all of God's Word
- 17:16is meant to do.
- 17:17So this parable,
- 17:19this story,
- 17:20is not only about Peter.
- 17:21This is a reality
- 17:23that exists
- 17:24in your heart
- 17:26and in my heart.
- 17:28There are many questions
- 17:30that my heart asks
- 17:31when I've got five kids
- 17:33and a big family.
- 17:34We stand against each other
- 17:36all the time
- 17:36as I'm sure you do
- 17:39and these questions
- 17:39come up regularly.
- 17:42Will this person
- 17:44ever understand?
- 17:46Will he change course?
- 17:48Will things look different
- 17:49if I perhaps respond
- 17:51with the silent treatment
- 17:53or maybe just a mini episode
- 17:56of my anger?
- 17:58Will he figure out
- 17:59how much inconvenience
- 18:00this is bringing
- 18:01into my life?
- 18:02See, all of these questions
- 18:04that we ask
- 18:05remind us
- 18:07that we have
- 18:08a resistance
- 18:09to the Lordship
- 18:10of Christ.
- 18:12So Jesus responds
- 18:14to Peter
- 18:14in verse 22
- 18:16and he paves the way
- 18:18for the course
- 18:19correction
- 18:20for Peter
- 18:21and for us
- 18:22and the disciples
- 18:23and Jesus says
- 18:24to him,
- 18:25I do not say
- 18:26to you
- 18:26seven times
- 18:28but 77
- 18:29times.
- 18:32Now clearly
- 18:33Jesus is not
- 18:34ascribing
- 18:35a numeric limit
- 18:37to the amount
- 18:38of times
- 18:38that we're to have
- 18:39a heart of forgiveness.
- 18:41He's not saying
- 18:42in any measure
- 18:43Peter,
- 18:44make your threshold
- 18:45larger
- 18:45and then all
- 18:46will be well.
- 18:48No,
- 18:48he's doing
- 18:49the exact opposite.
- 18:52The number 77
- 18:53is intended
- 18:54to communicate
- 18:55that counting
- 18:58is completely
- 19:00out of the question.
- 19:03Counting of sins
- 19:04implies
- 19:05that there is
- 19:05a limit
- 19:06on the sacrifice
- 19:07that Jesus
- 19:08was preparing
- 19:09himself
- 19:10to endure.
- 19:12Jesus has
- 19:13completely
- 19:14done away
- 19:15with all
- 19:16types of counting
- 19:17as it relates
- 19:18to our sins.
- 19:192 Corinthians 5
- 19:21and verse 19
- 19:22says,
- 19:23in Christ
- 19:24God was
- 19:25reconciling
- 19:26the world
- 19:27to himself
- 19:28not counting
- 19:30their trespasses
- 19:31against him.
- 19:33We sang a song
- 19:34that said the same
- 19:35thing.
- 19:35What a beautiful
- 19:36song.
- 19:37His mercy is more.
- 19:39God doesn't
- 19:40count the sins
- 19:40we commit
- 19:42against his
- 19:43infinite worth
- 19:44and glory
- 19:44when we put
- 19:45our faith
- 19:46in Christ.
- 19:47How ought
- 19:48I to resist
- 19:49counting the
- 19:50sins of
- 19:51others
- 19:52when it just
- 19:53brings some
- 19:53inconvenience
- 19:54to my life?
- 19:56So the parable
- 19:57continues
- 19:58to show us
- 19:59the reason
- 20:00that the heart
- 20:01resists
- 20:02forgiving.
- 20:03That's our
- 20:04second point.
- 20:05Forgiveness
- 20:06resisted.
- 20:07Excuse me.
- 20:10So resistance
- 20:12to forgiving
- 20:12others occurs
- 20:13because we
- 20:15have resisted
- 20:16the master's
- 20:17forgiveness
- 20:18offered to
- 20:19us.
- 20:21Let's look
- 20:21at verse
- 20:2223.
- 20:23Therefore,
- 20:24the kingdom
- 20:25of heaven
- 20:25may be
- 20:26compared
- 20:26to a
- 20:27king
- 20:27who wished
- 20:28to settle
- 20:28accounts
- 20:29with his
- 20:29servants.
- 20:30When he
- 20:31began to
- 20:32settle,
- 20:33one was
- 20:34brought to
- 20:34him who
- 20:35owed him
- 20:35ten thousand
- 20:37talents.
- 20:38and since
- 20:39he could
- 20:40not pay,
- 20:41his master
- 20:42ordered him
- 20:43to be
- 20:43sold with
- 20:44his wife
- 20:45and his
- 20:45children and
- 20:46all that he
- 20:47had in
- 20:48payment was
- 20:49to be
- 20:49made.
- 20:51Since he
- 20:51could not
- 20:52pay,
- 20:53his master
- 20:53ordered him
- 20:54to be sold
- 20:55with his
- 20:55wife and
- 20:57children and
- 20:58all that he
- 20:58had in
- 20:59payment to
- 21:00be made.
- 21:01See,
- 21:02the resistance
- 21:02of the
- 21:03servant to
- 21:04forgive others
- 21:05is correlated
- 21:06with how
- 21:07he views
- 21:08his debts
- 21:09to his
- 21:09master.
- 21:11You may
- 21:11have heard
- 21:12before of
- 21:12this ten
- 21:14thousand
- 21:15talent number.
- 21:16This number
- 21:17represents not
- 21:19just a day's
- 21:20wages,
- 21:20and it's not
- 21:21a year's
- 21:22wages,
- 21:22but it's
- 21:22actually the
- 21:23wages of
- 21:23a servant,
- 21:24which is
- 21:25who this
- 21:25man was,
- 21:26and it
- 21:26would have
- 21:27cost 20
- 21:28years of
- 21:29his life
- 21:29without
- 21:30interest to
- 21:31pay back
- 21:32his master.
- 21:34To help
- 21:34even illustrate
- 21:35this,
- 21:35number
- 21:36further,
- 21:37if you
- 21:37remember
- 21:37King
- 21:38David,
- 21:39he donated
- 21:407,000 talents,
- 21:42or he gave
- 21:427,000 talents
- 21:43of silver,
- 21:44and 3,000 talents
- 21:46of gold,
- 21:47totaling 10,000
- 21:48talents for
- 21:49the construction
- 21:50of the temple.
- 21:51And this
- 21:52servant has
- 21:53racked up
- 21:54that amount
- 21:56of debt
- 21:56against his
- 21:57master.
- 21:59This is a
- 21:59quantity of
- 22:00debt that
- 22:01is a
- 22:03picture for
- 22:04us to show
- 22:04just how
- 22:05desperate a
- 22:06position this
- 22:07servant was
- 22:08in.
- 22:09He could
- 22:09not dig
- 22:10himself out
- 22:11of this
- 22:12debt if he
- 22:13had 10
- 22:13years,
- 22:14or 100
- 22:15years,
- 22:15or 10,000
- 22:17years.
- 22:18And the
- 22:18same is
- 22:19true for
- 22:20every one
- 22:21of us,
- 22:21every one
- 22:22of us
- 22:22who
- 22:22miscalculates
- 22:24the debt
- 22:24that we
- 22:25are under
- 22:26without
- 22:27Christ to
- 22:28God for
- 22:29all the
- 22:30ways that,
- 22:31as an
- 22:31image bearer
- 22:32of God,
- 22:32we have
- 22:32failed to
- 22:33honor him
- 22:34and to
- 22:34glorify him,
- 22:35to steward
- 22:36what he
- 22:36has given
- 22:37to us,
- 22:38all the
- 22:39worth that
- 22:40he is
- 22:41so entitled
- 22:44to.
- 22:45We are
- 22:47those who
- 22:47should be
- 22:50cautious about
- 22:51how we view
- 22:52the debt that
- 22:53we were under
- 22:54towards the
- 22:55Lord.
- 22:55Now look at
- 22:56verse 26.
- 22:57Notice the
- 22:58absurdity of
- 22:59what this
- 23:00servant says
- 23:01next.
- 23:02So the
- 23:03servant fell
- 23:04on his
- 23:04knees,
- 23:05imploring him,
- 23:06have patience
- 23:07with me,
- 23:08and I will
- 23:09pay you
- 23:10everything.
- 23:12So it's
- 23:13the one who
- 23:14failed every
- 23:15account of
- 23:16his stewarding
- 23:17responsibility.
- 23:18Everything that
- 23:19he mismanaged
- 23:21and he failed
- 23:22to use
- 23:22appropriately,
- 23:23he promises
- 23:24to bring back
- 23:25the lost
- 23:26value to
- 23:27restore
- 23:27everything
- 23:28that he
- 23:28was wasted.
- 23:31He's like
- 23:31the child
- 23:32who takes
- 23:33his dad's
- 23:34prized
- 23:34childhood
- 23:35possession
- 23:35and he
- 23:36breaks it
- 23:37and then
- 23:37what does
- 23:38he do?
- 23:38He looks
- 23:39for the
- 23:39things in
- 23:40his room,
- 23:40the Elmer's
- 23:41glue,
- 23:41the Plato
- 23:42and promises
- 23:43to put
- 23:43things back
- 23:44together.
- 23:45It is
- 23:45utterly
- 23:46impossible
- 23:47to repay
- 23:48the Lord.
- 23:50Incorrectly
- 23:51assessing
- 23:52our debt
- 23:53and our
- 23:53ability to
- 23:54pay it
- 23:54back is
- 23:55an
- 23:55eternally
- 23:56horrific
- 23:57mistake
- 23:58to make.
- 23:59Only
- 24:00mercy can
- 24:01be applied
- 24:01to in
- 24:02relationship
- 24:03to what
- 24:04belongs to
- 24:05God and
- 24:05the debt
- 24:06that we
- 24:06are under.
- 24:08So the
- 24:09error and
- 24:09miscalculating
- 24:10debt always
- 24:11leads to a
- 24:12mishandling of
- 24:14how we treat
- 24:14the debts
- 24:15of others,
- 24:17especially those
- 24:18who sin
- 24:18against us.
- 24:19Verse 28
- 24:20says,
- 24:21when the
- 24:21same
- 24:22servant
- 24:22went out,
- 24:24he found
- 24:25one of
- 24:25his fellow
- 24:25servants
- 24:26who owed
- 24:26him a
- 24:27hundred
- 24:27denarii
- 24:28and seizing
- 24:29him,
- 24:29he began
- 24:30to choke
- 24:30him saying,
- 24:32pay what
- 24:32you owe.
- 24:34So his
- 24:35servant fell
- 24:35down and
- 24:36pleaded with
- 24:37him,
- 24:37have patience
- 24:38with me
- 24:39and I
- 24:40will pay
- 24:40you.
- 24:41He refused
- 24:42and went
- 24:43and put him
- 24:44in prison
- 24:45until he
- 24:46should pay
- 24:46the debt.
- 24:47Now this
- 24:48is incredibly
- 24:49instructive
- 24:50for us.
- 24:52When my
- 24:53heart is
- 24:53aware of
- 24:54all the
- 24:55grace that
- 24:56God has
- 24:56given me,
- 24:57when my
- 24:57heart is
- 24:58postured
- 24:58appropriately
- 24:59to remember
- 25:00that I've
- 25:00been adopted
- 25:01as a son
- 25:02of the
- 25:03King of
- 25:03Kings,
- 25:04when I
- 25:04remember
- 25:05the path
- 25:06that I
- 25:06was on
- 25:07and the
- 25:08one that
- 25:08the Lord
- 25:08has now
- 25:09set me
- 25:09on,
- 25:10then it's
- 25:11much easier
- 25:12to be able
- 25:13to forgive
- 25:14somebody.
- 25:16But so
- 25:16often when
- 25:17I am
- 25:17sinned
- 25:18against,
- 25:19I would
- 25:19imagine the
- 25:20same is
- 25:20true for
- 25:21every one
- 25:21of us
- 25:22in this
- 25:22room.
- 25:22I feel
- 25:23the urge
- 25:23for a
- 25:24very quick
- 25:25course
- 25:25correction
- 25:26for the
- 25:26one that
- 25:27has inconvenienced
- 25:28me,
- 25:28so I
- 25:29can become
- 25:30angry
- 25:30quickly,
- 25:31grumbling
- 25:32and complaining,
- 25:34restricting
- 25:34forgiveness
- 25:35until a
- 25:36certain set
- 25:36of deeds
- 25:38are done
- 25:39that appease
- 25:40me.
- 25:42And what
- 25:42we do
- 25:43every time
- 25:43we do
- 25:44this is
- 25:45we paint
- 25:45a picture,
- 25:46and this
- 25:47is a
- 25:47picture for
- 25:48the people
- 25:48who need
- 25:49grace the
- 25:50most,
- 25:50the people
- 25:51that need
- 25:51to be
- 25:51restored in
- 25:52their hearts
- 25:53to the
- 25:54Lord who
- 25:54sent his
- 25:55son for
- 25:56them.
- 25:56And the
- 25:57picture is
- 25:57the same
- 25:58picture,
- 25:58it's pay
- 25:59what you
- 26:00owe.
- 26:01How can
- 26:02I tell
- 26:03others to
- 26:04pay what
- 26:05they owe
- 26:05when I have
- 26:06paid nothing
- 26:07for the cost
- 26:09of redeeming
- 26:09my own
- 26:10soul?
- 26:12And we
- 26:12require nobody
- 26:13to pay
- 26:14what only
- 26:15Christ's
- 26:16blood was
- 26:16sufficient to
- 26:17pay for.
- 26:19See,
- 26:20the parable
- 26:21makes it
- 26:21very clear
- 26:23that there
- 26:24are eternal
- 26:24consequences
- 26:25and dangers
- 26:26for maintaining
- 26:27a heart
- 26:29that lacks
- 26:30forgiveness.
- 26:31We could
- 26:31spend a
- 26:32good amount
- 26:33of time,
- 26:33but just
- 26:34a couple
- 26:34passages
- 26:35for our
- 26:36attention.
- 26:37Matthew
- 26:38chapter 6
- 26:38says,
- 26:40verse 12
- 26:40says,
- 26:41forgive us
- 26:41our sins
- 26:42as we
- 26:43forgive our
- 26:44debtors.
- 26:45Notice the
- 26:45logical
- 26:46connection
- 26:47between
- 26:48forgiving
- 26:48and being
- 26:50forgiven.
- 26:51Two verses
- 26:52later,
- 26:53verse 14,
- 26:54for if you
- 26:55forgive others
- 26:55their trespasses,
- 26:57your heavenly
- 26:57father will
- 26:58also forgive
- 26:59you.
- 27:00But if you
- 27:01do not
- 27:01forgive others
- 27:02their trespasses,
- 27:03neither will
- 27:04your father
- 27:04forgive your
- 27:06trespasses.
- 27:08And back
- 27:08to our
- 27:09text,
- 27:09the response
- 27:10of the
- 27:11master
- 27:11is striking.
- 27:14Verse 34
- 27:15says,
- 27:16and in
- 27:16anger his
- 27:17master
- 27:18delivered him
- 27:19to the
- 27:20jailers
- 27:21until he
- 27:22should pay
- 27:22his debt.
- 27:25The word
- 27:25jailer here
- 27:26is also
- 27:27translated in
- 27:28other Greek
- 27:29literature of
- 27:30that time
- 27:30as a
- 27:31torturer.
- 27:32This is not
- 27:33a picture of
- 27:34a jail with
- 27:35modern conveniences.
- 27:36This is a
- 27:37place where
- 27:38this man
- 27:39will be
- 27:39delivered
- 27:40for justice
- 27:41to be
- 27:42appropriately
- 27:43applied.
- 27:45So Matthew
- 27:4618.35
- 27:48says,
- 27:49my heavenly
- 27:50father will
- 27:51also do to
- 27:52every one of
- 27:53you if you
- 27:54do not
- 27:55forgive your
- 27:55brother from
- 27:57your heart.
- 27:59And notice
- 27:59how severe
- 28:01these warnings
- 28:02are without
- 28:03the external
- 28:04evidence of
- 28:05forgiveness
- 28:06applied to
- 28:07others,
- 28:07one is
- 28:08called to
- 28:09question the
- 28:10legitimacy of
- 28:11our gospel
- 28:12profession and
- 28:14allegiance.
- 28:15The practice
- 28:16of forgiveness
- 28:17then is a
- 28:18meter which
- 28:19all proclaiming
- 28:20Christians are
- 28:21called to give
- 28:22appropriate
- 28:23attention to.
- 28:25And while no
- 28:25actions, no
- 28:26amount of
- 28:27forgiveness that
- 28:27we ever extend
- 28:28to others could
- 28:29position us
- 28:30rightly before
- 28:31the Lord,
- 28:32nonetheless,
- 28:33the Lord makes
- 28:33it clear.
- 28:34If there is a
- 28:34lack of
- 28:35forgiveness in
- 28:36our heart,
- 28:37then we may
- 28:39be in danger.
- 28:41Many who have
- 28:42false professions
- 28:43of faith will
- 28:44need to look at
- 28:45their ongoing
- 28:45struggle to
- 28:47forgive others
- 28:48to find
- 28:48themselves as
- 28:49the subjects
- 28:50of these grave
- 28:52and dire
- 28:53warnings.
- 28:55So our last
- 28:56point this
- 28:56morning is
- 28:58exposing
- 28:58unforgiveness
- 29:00within.
- 29:00sin.
- 29:02We cannot
- 29:03read such
- 29:04a sobering
- 29:05parable
- 29:05without
- 29:06self-reflection,
- 29:07right?
- 29:08Without doing
- 29:09the sort of
- 29:10self-examination
- 29:11that Jesus is
- 29:12calling us to.
- 29:14Perhaps you're
- 29:14not characterized
- 29:15by regular
- 29:17lack of
- 29:18forgiveness.
- 29:19Maybe it just
- 29:20comes up from
- 29:21time to time.
- 29:22Or maybe this
- 29:24morning you're in
- 29:24the camp and
- 29:25you are thinking
- 29:27yourself to be
- 29:28somebody who
- 29:29regularly struggles
- 29:30with objecting
- 29:32to acts of
- 29:34forgiveness.
- 29:36Well, what are
- 29:37we to do in
- 29:38light of this
- 29:38parable?
- 29:38How are we to
- 29:39examine our
- 29:41hearts?
- 29:41How are we to
- 29:42see which ways
- 29:43this parable is
- 29:44meant to be
- 29:46understood and
- 29:47assessed and
- 29:47repented of if
- 29:48necessary?
- 29:50I'm going to
- 29:51give you two
- 29:51things to look
- 29:52for within the
- 29:54parable.
- 29:55The first one
- 29:56question is this.
- 29:57It's a question.
- 29:58Are there
- 29:58observable changes
- 30:00in you and
- 30:02me in the way
- 30:03that we respond
- 30:04to the sin of
- 30:05others in light
- 30:07of what Jesus
- 30:08has done for us
- 30:09in the gospel?
- 30:11This is really
- 30:12the great thrust
- 30:13of our text.
- 30:15The great cost
- 30:16that the master
- 30:16absorbed is
- 30:17intended to
- 30:18produce change,
- 30:20real change,
- 30:21in the heart
- 30:22of the servant.
- 30:24And yet no
- 30:25change can be
- 30:26observed.
- 30:27Tragically,
- 30:28this reveals
- 30:29the depravity
- 30:31of our hearts.
- 30:32This is the
- 30:33basis on which
- 30:34the master
- 30:35calls out the
- 30:36servant by
- 30:36saying,
- 30:37you wicked
- 30:38servant.
- 30:40See, the
- 30:41effectual love
- 30:43of Christ is
- 30:44always intended
- 30:45to produce
- 30:46change by
- 30:47those who
- 30:48were once
- 30:49indebted to
- 30:50the king of
- 30:51kings.
- 30:52For this
- 30:53reason, we
- 30:54are to humbly
- 30:55assess our
- 30:56relationships
- 30:57with others.
- 30:59This is a
- 31:00hard thing to
- 31:01do, but what
- 31:02may be warranted
- 31:04from this text
- 31:04is to think
- 31:05about the
- 31:06people that
- 31:07maybe sin
- 31:08against you
- 31:08the most.
- 31:09It could be
- 31:10your brother
- 31:12or your sister
- 31:13kids.
- 31:13It could be
- 31:14your parents.
- 31:15It could be
- 31:16your roommates,
- 31:17your spouse,
- 31:18your employer.
- 31:19anger.
- 31:21There are so
- 31:22many categories.
- 31:23What we are
- 31:24called to do
- 31:25is to go to
- 31:26them and to
- 31:26ask them,
- 31:27hey, when you
- 31:28have sinned
- 31:28against me,
- 31:30as you think
- 31:31about my
- 31:31response,
- 31:32do you see
- 31:33within me a
- 31:35hope and a
- 31:36desire for you
- 31:38to be restored,
- 31:39to be in right
- 31:40relationship,
- 31:41to experience the
- 31:42grace of Jesus
- 31:43and him alone?
- 31:45Or are you
- 31:47receiving from
- 31:48me anger
- 31:48for me
- 31:50and expectation
- 31:50that I be
- 31:51pleased,
- 31:52that my
- 31:52respect be
- 31:53honored?
- 31:55See, it's a
- 31:56very humbling
- 31:57thing for us
- 31:58to do, but
- 31:59often the
- 32:00people that
- 32:01we are
- 32:02with, that
- 32:03those people
- 32:03ought to feel
- 32:04Christ and
- 32:05his work
- 32:06within us
- 32:07when we
- 32:07respond to
- 32:08their sin.
- 32:10Ephesians
- 32:11chapter 4
- 32:12verse 32
- 32:12says,
- 32:14be kind to
- 32:14one another.
- 32:15tenderhearted
- 32:17and forgiving
- 32:18one another
- 32:18just as
- 32:20God in
- 32:21Christ forgave
- 32:22you.
- 32:24The second
- 32:25thing that
- 32:26we can do
- 32:26and look for
- 32:27in this
- 32:27parable is
- 32:28another very
- 32:30important question
- 32:31and I saw
- 32:32this for the
- 32:32first time
- 32:33studying this
- 32:34week.
- 32:36Here's the
- 32:36question,
- 32:37does God's
- 32:37forgiving of
- 32:38my sin
- 32:39result in
- 32:40an increasing
- 32:41joy in
- 32:42him?
- 32:44Now,
- 32:44part of
- 32:45the devastation
- 32:46of the
- 32:47unmerciful
- 32:47servant is
- 32:49that the
- 32:49master's
- 32:49treatment
- 32:50towards him
- 32:51should have
- 32:52resulted in
- 32:53great
- 32:53enthused
- 32:55joy in
- 32:56the master
- 32:57himself.
- 32:58But you
- 32:59notice that
- 32:59the servant
- 33:00only views
- 33:01what happened
- 33:02to him as
- 33:03a transaction.
- 33:04As soon as
- 33:05it happens,
- 33:06he moves on
- 33:07and he's
- 33:07off and
- 33:08running and
- 33:09nothing has
- 33:10changed.
- 33:11changed.
- 33:12There's a
- 33:13striking
- 33:13similarity if
- 33:14you think
- 33:14of the
- 33:15picture that's
- 33:16given in the
- 33:17book of
- 33:17Luke of
- 33:18the ten
- 33:18lepers,
- 33:19right,
- 33:19who are
- 33:19healed by
- 33:20Jesus.
- 33:21What happens
- 33:22to those
- 33:23lepers?
- 33:24Well,
- 33:24nine of
- 33:25them,
- 33:26nine go
- 33:27away and
- 33:28only one
- 33:29comes back.
- 33:30That one
- 33:31was so
- 33:31affected
- 33:32deeply
- 33:33within his
- 33:34heart that
- 33:35he came
- 33:35back praising
- 33:36God and
- 33:37with a
- 33:37loud voice
- 33:38he fell
- 33:39on his
- 33:41face at
- 33:41Jesus'
- 33:42feet giving
- 33:43him thanks.
- 33:45Have you
- 33:46found yourself
- 33:47responding to
- 33:49God's love
- 33:50with a
- 33:51similar type
- 33:52of thankfulness?
- 33:54If you're
- 33:54struggling to
- 33:55forgive others,
- 33:57could it be
- 33:57that this
- 33:58type of
- 33:59thankfulness is
- 34:00lacking within
- 34:01your heart?
- 34:03Could it be
- 34:04that you have
- 34:04separated what
- 34:06Jesus has
- 34:07offered from
- 34:08Jesus himself
- 34:09and only
- 34:10taken what
- 34:10he offers
- 34:12and viewed
- 34:13it in
- 34:13transactional
- 34:14forms but
- 34:15forgot that
- 34:16Jesus intends
- 34:17to call you
- 34:18to himself
- 34:19to be
- 34:19enjoyed?
- 34:21John Piper
- 34:22has a very
- 34:23helpful book
- 34:24that discusses
- 34:25this theme.
- 34:26Perhaps you've
- 34:26read it.
- 34:27It's called
- 34:27God is the
- 34:28Gospel.
- 34:28Let me
- 34:29just read
- 34:30a quick
- 34:30excerpt.
- 34:32It says
- 34:32there are
- 34:32ten thousand
- 34:34gifts that
- 34:34flames
- 34:35the news
- 34:36that he
- 34:37has purchased
- 34:37by his
- 34:38death
- 34:39ten thousand
- 34:40blessings
- 34:41for his
- 34:42bride.
- 34:44But none
- 34:45of these
- 34:45gifts will
- 34:46lead to
- 34:47final joy
- 34:47if they
- 34:48have not
- 34:49first
- 34:49led
- 34:50to God.
- 34:53And not
- 34:53one
- 34:54Gospel
- 34:54blessing
- 34:55will be
- 34:55enjoyed
- 34:56by anyone
- 34:57for whom
- 34:58the Gospel's
- 34:59greatest gift
- 35:00is not
- 35:01the Lord
- 35:02himself.
- 35:03see we
- 35:05are forgiven
- 35:06so that
- 35:07we may
- 35:08enjoy
- 35:09the Lord.
- 35:11First
- 35:11Peter 3
- 35:12says for
- 35:14Christ also
- 35:15suffered once
- 35:16for sin
- 35:17the righteous
- 35:18for the
- 35:18unrighteous
- 35:19so that
- 35:21he might
- 35:22bring us
- 35:23to his
- 35:24father
- 35:25to God.
- 35:26What an
- 35:27amazing gift
- 35:28that we can
- 35:29come not
- 35:30being
- 35:31fearfully
- 35:31reminded
- 35:32of our
- 35:32debts
- 35:33but we
- 35:33can be
- 35:33welcomed
- 35:34because
- 35:35Jesus
- 35:35has
- 35:36expensed
- 35:36the payment
- 35:37of our
- 35:38sin
- 35:38when he
- 35:39died
- 35:40on the
- 35:40cross.
- 35:42Lastly
- 35:43as we
- 35:43move
- 35:44towards
- 35:44our
- 35:44conclusion
- 35:45and consider
- 35:46the application
- 35:47that this
- 35:48text calls
- 35:49for
- 35:49there are
- 35:50several
- 35:50categories
- 35:51of people
- 35:51that the
- 35:52Lord
- 35:52brought
- 35:53to mind
- 35:53this week
- 35:54and I'm
- 35:54hopeful
- 35:55that it
- 35:56may help
- 35:56to serve
- 35:57these people
- 35:58in particular
- 35:59because forgiveness
- 36:01often finds
- 36:02itself into
- 36:02very difficult
- 36:04situations.
- 36:06Sometimes the
- 36:07type of sin
- 36:08that we are
- 36:09called to
- 36:09endure is
- 36:10so serious
- 36:11that you
- 36:11feel the
- 36:12impact of
- 36:13it for
- 36:13years or
- 36:14even decades
- 36:15after it
- 36:17has occurred.
- 36:18You can't
- 36:19always easily
- 36:20forget it
- 36:21or dismiss
- 36:22this sin
- 36:23that happened
- 36:24to you
- 36:24from your
- 36:24mind and
- 36:25you wonder
- 36:26what does
- 36:26forgiveness
- 36:27look like
- 36:28in this
- 36:29type of
- 36:29situation?
- 36:30What am I
- 36:30to do?
- 36:31How can I
- 36:31be faithful
- 36:32to honor
- 36:34the Lord?
- 36:35The second
- 36:36category is
- 36:37people that
- 36:38maybe have
- 36:39wronged you
- 36:40and they
- 36:40have no
- 36:41understanding
- 36:42of the
- 36:43forgiveness
- 36:43that they
- 36:44need.
- 36:45Maybe they're
- 36:45denying
- 36:46that they
- 36:47actually hurt
- 36:47you in
- 36:48the first
- 36:49place.
- 36:49Maybe they
- 36:49have no
- 36:51idea.
- 36:52Maybe they're
- 36:52unbelievers
- 36:53and forgiveness
- 36:54is not in
- 36:55their vocabulary
- 36:56what do
- 36:57we do?
- 36:59Well, as
- 37:00one of your
- 37:01pastors, I
- 37:01first want to
- 37:03encourage you
- 37:03that we
- 37:04know and
- 37:05we recognize
- 37:06just how
- 37:06hard it
- 37:08is in
- 37:08these
- 37:09situations
- 37:10to forgive
- 37:11others.
- 37:12We know
- 37:12it can be
- 37:13tremendously
- 37:14difficult to
- 37:15love and
- 37:15to find
- 37:16appropriate
- 37:16boundaries
- 37:17for what
- 37:18relationship
- 37:19looks like
- 37:20after great
- 37:22sin has
- 37:22happened.
- 37:23So just
- 37:25a few
- 37:26clarifying
- 37:26remarks
- 37:27that I
- 37:28hope are
- 37:28helpful.
- 37:30Forgiveness
- 37:30is not a
- 37:32restoration
- 37:33of trust.
- 37:35Forgiveness
- 37:35doesn't always
- 37:36mean that
- 37:37trust is
- 37:38rightfully
- 37:38restored just
- 37:39because you
- 37:40have forgiven
- 37:40somebody.
- 37:41Trust within
- 37:42relationships
- 37:42is based
- 37:44upon standards
- 37:45which allow
- 37:45for a
- 37:46relationship
- 37:46to flourish.
- 37:48And as
- 37:48Christians,
- 37:49the best
- 37:50relational
- 37:51harmony
- 37:52that happens
- 37:53is when
- 37:53we're
- 37:54walking
- 37:54in
- 37:55obedience
- 37:56and
- 37:56faithfulness
- 37:57before
- 37:57the Lord.
- 37:59See,
- 37:59many have
- 38:00lost this
- 38:01trust within
- 38:01relationships
- 38:02because they
- 38:03have either
- 38:04drifted from
- 38:05the Lord
- 38:05or they
- 38:06never were
- 38:07disciples
- 38:08after all.
- 38:10And while
- 38:11we long
- 38:11for these
- 38:12relationships
- 38:12to have
- 38:13this really
- 38:14deep and
- 38:15meaningful
- 38:15trust,
- 38:16oftentimes
- 38:16it is
- 38:17absent
- 38:17and we
- 38:19should not
- 38:19be assuming
- 38:20that we
- 38:21are called
- 38:21to act
- 38:22as if
- 38:23it's there.
- 38:24That's a
- 38:25hard thing
- 38:26to think
- 38:27about,
- 38:27but it
- 38:28is not
- 38:28good for
- 38:29us to
- 38:29trust people
- 38:30that are
- 38:31not able
- 38:32to be
- 38:32trusted
- 38:32and the
- 38:33Lord
- 38:33doesn't
- 38:33call us
- 38:34to that.
- 38:36The second
- 38:37is forgiveness
- 38:38is not
- 38:39pretending
- 38:39that consequences
- 38:40don't exist
- 38:42and that
- 38:43things should
- 38:43always go
- 38:44back to
- 38:45the way
- 38:45that they
- 38:45used to
- 38:46be
- 38:46after
- 38:47somebody
- 38:47has been
- 38:48forgiven.
- 38:49Now,
- 38:50very similar
- 38:50to our
- 38:50previous
- 38:51point,
- 38:51but let's
- 38:52be clear
- 38:53here,
- 38:54consequences
- 38:54for sin
- 38:55are sometimes
- 38:56very necessary.
- 38:58They're
- 38:59helpful,
- 39:00they're wise
- 39:00to apply
- 39:01with discernment
- 39:02to your
- 39:03situation.
- 39:05This may
- 39:06mean that
- 39:06it's good
- 39:07to place
- 39:09restrictions
- 39:09on relationships
- 39:10so that
- 39:11sinful
- 39:12patterns
- 39:12and tendencies
- 39:14are not
- 39:15allowed to
- 39:16continue.
- 39:16You can
- 39:17have a
- 39:18heart of
- 39:18forgiveness
- 39:19and still
- 39:20honor Christ
- 39:21by changing
- 39:22some of the
- 39:23relational
- 39:24boundaries
- 39:24that should
- 39:25be there
- 39:26as you
- 39:27move forward.
- 39:30And thirdly,
- 39:31a specific
- 39:32word for
- 39:33those who
- 39:33are in
- 39:34situations
- 39:34where forgiveness
- 39:35is not
- 39:36sought by
- 39:37the person
- 39:37who has
- 39:38sinned.
- 39:38These are
- 39:38so hard.
- 39:41We can
- 39:41often get
- 39:42very confused
- 39:44and think
- 39:45that we
- 39:45can't
- 39:45fulfill
- 39:46what Jesus
- 39:46is calling
- 39:47us to
- 39:47because it
- 39:48feels like
- 39:49it's a
- 39:49two-party
- 39:50act when
- 39:51forgiveness
- 39:52is there.
- 39:52Somebody
- 39:53asks for
- 39:53forgiveness
- 39:54and then I
- 39:55give it.
- 39:56That's not
- 39:57actually quite
- 39:58the case.
- 39:59In some
- 40:00situations,
- 40:01we can
- 40:01try to
- 40:02show someone
- 40:03how they've
- 40:03sinned
- 40:04against the
- 40:04Lord,
- 40:04but we
- 40:05cannot
- 40:05control
- 40:06how they
- 40:07respond.
- 40:08and we're
- 40:09helped in
- 40:10this way
- 40:11by looking
- 40:12at Jesus
- 40:13and what
- 40:14he did
- 40:14in the
- 40:15book of
- 40:15Luke
- 40:16chapter 23.
- 40:18This is
- 40:18what he
- 40:19says to
- 40:19those who
- 40:20were clearly
- 40:21not seeking
- 40:22the forgiveness
- 40:22of him.
- 40:25In fact,
- 40:25they were
- 40:26furthering their
- 40:27sinful rebellion
- 40:28and that is
- 40:29when Jesus
- 40:29said these
- 40:30words.
- 40:31Jesus
- 40:32said,
- 40:33Father,
- 40:34forgive them
- 40:35for they
- 40:35know not
- 40:37what they
- 40:37do.
- 40:38So we
- 40:40can view
- 40:40the punishment
- 40:42of Christ
- 40:43is completely
- 40:44sufficient for
- 40:46them.
- 40:46We can
- 40:47trust that
- 40:48the Lord
- 40:48alone is
- 40:49able to
- 40:50make the
- 40:50gospel
- 40:51effective
- 40:52in the
- 40:53heart of
- 40:53the one
- 40:54who has
- 40:54sinned
- 40:55against us.
- 40:57It could
- 40:58be that the
- 40:59Lord uses
- 41:00your picture
- 41:01that you
- 41:02paint,
- 41:02your picture
- 41:03of forgiveness
- 41:04and long
- 41:05suffering,
- 41:06your loving
- 41:07response that
- 41:07is patient
- 41:08not three
- 41:09times or
- 41:10four times
- 41:11but indefinitely
- 41:12to show a
- 41:13window into
- 41:14the loving
- 41:15and gracious
- 41:16forgiveness that
- 41:17the Lord
- 41:18offers to all
- 41:19who would put
- 41:20their faith in
- 41:20him.
- 41:22See,
- 41:23what forgiveness
- 41:23is,
- 41:24is forgiveness
- 41:25is a desire
- 41:27within our
- 41:27hearts to see
- 41:29the ultimate
- 41:29good of
- 41:30people who
- 41:31have sinned
- 41:31against us,
- 41:32to see that
- 41:33their sins
- 41:35are not
- 41:36a reason
- 41:37to justify
- 41:38the way
- 41:38that we
- 41:38respond,
- 41:39but their
- 41:40sin are a
- 41:41reason why
- 41:41they need
- 41:42Jesus all
- 41:43the more.
- 41:46And it's a
- 41:46hard thing
- 41:47to do,
- 41:48but we
- 41:48believe,
- 41:49just like the
- 41:50opening
- 41:50illustration,
- 41:52that the
- 41:53death of
- 41:53Christ is
- 41:54completely
- 41:55sufficient
- 41:55for the
- 41:57small sins
- 41:57and for the
- 41:58large sins
- 41:59that the
- 42:00Lord may
- 42:00call us
- 42:01to endure.
- 42:03Now,
- 42:04very last
- 42:05encouragement
- 42:05before we
- 42:07close,
- 42:07if you are
- 42:08struggling to
- 42:09forgive the
- 42:10sins of
- 42:11others,
- 42:11if you have
- 42:12a hard time
- 42:13knowing how
- 42:13to apply
- 42:14and feel
- 42:15yourself
- 42:16regularly
- 42:16giving way
- 42:18to anger,
- 42:19maybe there
- 42:20was a
- 42:20life-changing
- 42:21event that
- 42:22happened to
- 42:22you many,
- 42:23many years
- 42:24ago,
- 42:24and this
- 42:24is weighing
- 42:25on your
- 42:26heart,
- 42:27or maybe
- 42:27you just
- 42:28struggle with
- 42:28your children
- 42:30or a
- 42:31close friend
- 42:32how to
- 42:32forgive them
- 42:33in practice,
- 42:34let me give
- 42:34you this
- 42:35encouragement.
- 42:37I would
- 42:38encourage you
- 42:38to take a
- 42:39look this
- 42:40week at
- 42:40Psalm
- 42:41chapter 32,
- 42:43and when
- 42:43you read
- 42:44through this,
- 42:45you can
- 42:45pray thinking
- 42:46about the
- 42:48person that
- 42:48may be
- 42:49sinning against
- 42:50you regularly,
- 42:52the one that's
- 42:52hard to
- 42:53forgive,
- 42:54and as you
- 42:55pray and
- 42:55posture your
- 42:56heart,
- 42:57remembering
- 42:57what God
- 42:58has done
- 42:58for you,
- 42:59the Lord
- 42:59by His
- 43:00Spirit,
- 43:00can allow
- 43:01your heart
- 43:02to change,
- 43:03and to
- 43:04remember that
- 43:05Christ and
- 43:06His death
- 43:06is completely
- 43:08sufficient.
- 43:09So you
- 43:10can just
- 43:10listen to
- 43:12a couple
- 43:12verses.
- 43:13Verse 1
- 43:14and 2
- 43:15of Psalm
- 43:1632,
- 43:17Blessed is
- 43:17the one
- 43:18whose
- 43:18transgression
- 43:20is forgiven,
- 43:21whose sin
- 43:22is covered.
- 43:24Blessed is
- 43:25the man
- 43:25against whom
- 43:26the Lord
- 43:27counts no
- 43:29iniquity,
- 43:30and whose
- 43:31spirit
- 43:31there is
- 43:32no deceit.
- 43:34Verse 5,
- 43:35I acknowledge
- 43:36my sin
- 43:37to you,
- 43:37and I
- 43:38did not
- 43:38cover my
- 43:39iniquity.
- 43:40I said I
- 43:41will confess
- 43:42my transgression
- 43:43to the Lord,
- 43:44and you
- 43:45forgave the
- 43:47iniquity of
- 43:47my heart.
- 43:49Verse 10,
- 43:50Many are
- 43:51the sorrows
- 43:52of the wicked,
- 43:53but steadfast
- 43:54love surrounds
- 43:56the one
- 43:57who trusts
- 43:58in the
- 43:59Lord.
- 44:00So be
- 44:01glad
- 44:02in the
- 44:02Lord,
- 44:03and rejoice,
- 44:04O righteous,
- 44:05and shout
- 44:06for joy,
- 44:08all you
- 44:09upright
- 44:10in heart.
- 44:12Please join
- 44:13me in prayer.