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Intentionally Designed: Ditching the Lies, Walking in Freedom, and Living as God’s Daughter with Hannah Castiaux! · Anchored by the Sword

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  Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Anchor by the
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  Sword podcast. I pray that today's episode will
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  leave you encouraged and also challenged in your faith.
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  And I pray that you would take the stories that are talked
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  about here today and share them with other people.
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  Thank you so much for joining me and enjoy today's episode.
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  Hey guys, welcome to this episode, the Anchor by the Store
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  podcast. I am excited to introduce you
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  guys to a new friend. This is Hannah Castillo.
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  I was on her podcast and now she's on mine and she is coming
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  today to talk about her book Intentionally Designed and also
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  just talk about her freedom story, life and all of the
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  things. So, Hannah, thank you for coming
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  on today. Thank you so much for having me.
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  I'm so excited to be here, Gina. Absolutely.
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  Can you tell my listeners a little bit about yourself?
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  Yeah, so I'm located in the Sierra Nevada foothills of
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  California. My husband and I just recently
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  moved out here. He accepted a role as a youth
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  pastor, so we are a ministry family.
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  I am obsessed with watermelon. I joke, but I am also serious
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  that I know all the tricks to pick out the best one because
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  watermelon is my favorite fruit and I'm always wearing pink and
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  orange. It's kind of my thing.
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  But yeah, I grew up in a Christian family, but didn't
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  really have what you'd call like a relationship with Jesus
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  probably until I was truly in 8th grade.
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  Like I accepted him when I was about 5:00.
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  But I really kind of went on this journey of actually getting
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  to know him, and it's changed my life forever.
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  And so now I can't help myself but talk about it.
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  So he's so good, yeah. Absolutely.
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  Amen. So let's dive a little bit
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  deeper into your freedom story. Yeah, so it was in 4th grade and
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  I was turning 10. It was my birthday.
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  And at that point in my life, there was like this innocence in
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  my brain where I'd never had thoughts about myself that were
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  really necessarily even negative.
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  Like, you know, as a kid, you're disciplined and your parents are
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  teaching you, oh, you shouldn't do that.
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  Don't touch this. But it was never something that
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  had affected me in a way where all of a sudden I thought, oh,
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  like, I'm like constantly thinking about what everybody
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  else is thinking of me. But on that day, on my birthday,
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  I had a girl who came up to me on the playground and instead of
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  her telling me happy birthday, she told me I was chubby.
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  And that started a vicious cycle in my life of people pleasing.
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  All of a sudden I cared about what everybody thought of me.
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  And it was this trap that I just felt like I could never get out
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  of. And I lived in this trap for
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  years of my life. I struggled with food.
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  I struggled with exercise. I made my body a slave instead
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  of actually realizing how God designed us in the garden, how
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  he designed all this food for us, how he designed us for
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  movement and work and all these things.
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  And so I start seeing it very negatively.
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  And unfortunately, like I honestly did struggle with some
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  eating disorders growing up as well.
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  But I remember at a certain point I was chatting with my
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  mentor and she was like, who told you that you're chubby or
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  who told you you had to live this way?
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  Because I felt like she was one of the only people I could share
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  with because I felt so much shame about it.
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  And when she said that to me, I was like whoa, like where did
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  this come from? Then Fast forward till I was
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  about 18, I had way stronger relationship with the Lord.
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  I heard another message where I was at the school YWAM and
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  speaker Troy Sherman said, who told you that?
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  And it was part of his message teaching to us.
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  And, you know, the lady, my mentor had said it to me years
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  ago, but I didn't really. I was like, oh, that's a good
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  point. But I didn't feel comfortable
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  really reliving the moment, you know, And so I went back and
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  prayed and said, God, can you show me like where this started?
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  Like who told me this? And the like memory came back
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  because I think one thing the enemy tries to do is he tries to
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  steal your memory because he wants to distort it and he wants
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  you to it just be stuck in your brain.
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  But if we actually can figure out where it comes from, then we
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  can snip it at the root, you know?
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  And so that was like a very big journey for me.
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  So the thing was I would became a people pleaser very quickly,
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  but I also tied with people pleasing felt like I had to
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  achieve my worth from people. I had to win their approval.
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  And I'm not someone who has a natural woo like those people.
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  I'm like, God bless you, everybody loves you.
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  I feel like I have to work so hard for somebody to like me and
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  I had to unlearn that the Lord just loves me for me.
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  That even though there are good works to be done, even though
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  there are things to do, places to go, people to me, all the
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  things. I am a daughter and that was the
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  most freeing thing is when I truly learned this is who God
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  says that I am, nothing more, nothing less.
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  And walking from that place because I was so exhausted and I
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  literally my brain would just spiral.
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  My brain would make up stories in my head of what people think
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  of me because I couldn't actually trust people because I
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  felt like, oh, people don't actually love me or maybe God
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  doesn't actually love me. It was like this whole thing.
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  And so that is like a little snapshot of part of my freedom
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  story. But yeah, it was it was a long
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  journey. It wasn't just like, boom.
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  But I wish when I was younger, I would have actually asked myself
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  that question because I could have saved myself from years of
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  doing that. But I didn't.
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  And this is my story. And I don't know.
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  And I'm free now. And so that's what matters.
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  Amen. Absolutely.
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  So how many years did you struggle?
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  Oh, at least 18, but really my early 20s still, I had at least
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  named it in my early, like when I turned 18, I had named it.
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  But then by the time I was probably like freshly married, I
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  was walking through some stuff and I had to really go like, oh,
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  not everybody is like manipulative.
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  Yeah. Like I can actually trust
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  people. And so that was probably like
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  232425 S yeah, like majority of my life.
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  I know I had trouble for a long time trusting other females,
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  like having girlfriends, you know, like I was always friends
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  with the guys and I could handle guys.
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  I was like, yeah, they're just idiots.
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  I got this. Like, they're fine.
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  They, they don't want to start up.
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  No drama with me. They're trying to prevent me
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  from just starting drama. Like girls were not that way,
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  especially middle school and high school, middle school
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  especially. But then I had a friend we had,
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  we ended up having a falling out, which I didn't know we were
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  having a falling out. And yeah, it was not a fun time.
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  And then now I have this core group of women that I don't know
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  what I'd do without. And it took me a while to
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  realize like, I can just be mean with them.
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  I don't have to front. I don't have to act like
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  anything like, and I don't have to be leery of them, like
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  question their motives for wanting to be friends with me.
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  It's like they don't, you know, besides my time and everything,
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  you ain't got like a financial gain or nothing by being friends
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  with me. Like it's just by being friends.
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  And that was something that took me a long time to get over.
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  Yeah. So yeah, absolutely I can relate
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  with you. And I know there's other people
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  out there who could feel the same way because middle school
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  is not not a great place. I'm mentoring 6th grade girls
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  right now and when I talk with them I'm just like, Oh my gosh,
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  guys. Like it'll all be OK eventually.
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  But I had surgery. I told you that the when I did
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  our interview together and I just talked with the girls this
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  past Thursday before we're interviewing and I said, oh,
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  something that makes me happy. And the girl said us.
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  And I was like, actually you would be surprised.
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  But yes, I was like, I look forward to hanging out with you
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  guys every week for a little bit of time.
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  And I said even when I said if you guys wouldn't have been out
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  of school with a snow day the week after my surgery, I would
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  have been on FaceTime with you guys just so I could be there.
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  And, you know, they all kind of had these smiles on their faces
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  because that's one thing I committed to.
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  When I said I would do this mentorship, I was like, I will
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  be there. Yeah.
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  Unless literally I was under anesthesia, I would be there
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  every other time with these girls and I was like, I will be
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  consistent. So I was like because they
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  didn't do that stuff when we were kids.
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  And I really wish they would have.
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  I wish they would have those programs 30-40 years ago.
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  I wish they would have. Those programs, yeah, my
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  favorite time of the week is being with our youth students, a
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  youth group, because they just need someone.
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  They need someone that's not their parent.
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  Who says I'm for you, like, and I love you and I care about you
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  and I'm willing to be honest with you.
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  I'm willing to listen to you because I feel like right now
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  part of the generation is like, they just don't feel heard.
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  Like they want to feel heard. And so you can go, hey, I'm
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  going to listen and then I'm going to help you point you to
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  Jesus and all those things. And so.
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  Yeah, that's the only that's the problem with the mentoring.
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  Like, I can't outwardly say, like point everybody to Jesus,
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  but I can encourage and I can encourage faith.
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  I can, you know, encourage them to look to faith.
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  I can, you know, all this kind of stuff.
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  I can ask them about it but it's like I can't start preaching.
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  Yeah. So because I'm not in a
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  Christian School, so you just kind of feel out where you can
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  and where you can't. And you know, God opens doors
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  And when the girls had AI love Jesus sweatshirt on and I said I
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  love your sweatshirt. Thanks.
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  So you know little. Things.
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  Yeah, exactly. So what Bible verse or verses
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  have kept you anchored over the years?
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  Well, my favorite is in Second Corinthians 12/9 and it says,
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  but my grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made
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  perfect in weakness. Because for a long time, I
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  thought my insecurities and I thought what people said about
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  me disqualified me. I thought that I had an eating
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  disorder disqualified me. I thought that I made past
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  mistakes that disqualified me. And instead, I saw that God's
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  grace is sufficient not just to save me from my sin, but to
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  carry me and to help me keep going if I depend on Him.
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  And I think a lot of us see it as liability, but really it's
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  the location God wants to show up in our lives.
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  And so for me, I went, OK, God, can we look back on that moment
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  where, where were you in those moments when I was struggling,
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  you know, and actually being willing for him to show you
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  where he was. And it's scary sometimes because
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  you have to almost relive those moments.
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  But I see it now where I go, if I have a moment where like, yes,
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  I can preach about identity and walking as children of God, and
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  I can still have struggles here and there or have a day where
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  you're just like, man, I just feel insecure all of a sudden.
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  I can go, God, you know, this is what I'm feeling right now.
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  I need you to show up in this spot of my life and I'm going to
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  choose to trust you over what I'm feeling.
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  I'm going to choose to trust you over the situation, the
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  circumstance. And can you just help me?
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  Like, I think we often want to be independent and strong and
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  all these things that we preach to women all the time.
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  And God, it's like, Hey, I actually created you to need me
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  and and you can't like rely on other things to give you life,
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  to give you strength that aren't him.
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  And so yeah, I've been really like Second Corinthians 12/9 is
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  mine. And sometimes I have to also
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  guard my heart with it at 1st and not push limits because I am
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  somebody who's just, I'm a go getter.
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  And so I have to be like, OK, I know that God can show up and do
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  this and like I believe in him so much.
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  Sometimes I push myself a little too much and I have to go, OK,
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  is this what you're asking me to do though?
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  And so yeah, that's my verse that helps me all the time.
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  It's so easy, especially being a recovering people pleaser and a
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  recovering perfectionist or recovering, you know, whatever
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  term you want to use. It can be so easy to fall back
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  into those patterns. Yeah, if we're not focused on
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  the right thing. Yeah, for sure, for sure.
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  It's so easy. Like all it takes is like any,
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  like as someone who's a go getter, all it takes is my
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  adrenaline going up, like being like excited about something and
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  I'm like visionary. I'm like, OK, let's make all the
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  steps. Yep.
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  And let's get there. And you know, like people used
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  to joke and say not really joke, but kind of that I'm like a well
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  oiled machine. Like I could just go, go, go.
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  And so for the first time in my life, I'm really like stopping
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  and being more still and trusting God and going like I
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  put in the work and now my work there is done.
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  Now tell me what you want me to do now.
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  And so, but I have to, I have to go.
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  God didn't create me to be a well oiled machine.
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  He created me to. Be a daughter.
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  Yeah. Well, that's good.
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  You know, and so I have to go, OK, God, like, but he's so
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  gentle, right? He's not like he's not just
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  Hannah. Stop.
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  Sometimes it's like, OK, I keep getting sick, maybe I need to
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  stop. Like it's one of those things
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  where he actually lets you use your brain a little bit and and
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  your relationship with him to go, yeah, maybe this is how
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  you're leading me. And sometimes we might get it
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  wrong, but he's gracious enough to like, reroute us and show us
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  the path. And.
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  But I think some of us are so like almost rigid of like, oh,
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  well, if I do this wrong, right? And it's like, no, because none
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  of us are ever going to reach perfection.
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  Like we are all being transformed and will look more
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  and more like Jesus, but none of us will be Jesus.
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  None of us are going to look exactly like him or we would
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  have no need for him. And so it's like putting myself
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  in my place and letting God be in his place and going.
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  But we're A-Team and we're working together and I love you
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  and you love me, OK? Like, please show me what to do.
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  I'll let you lead because it's really easy for me to just be
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  like, here we go. I'll do it.
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  I got this 100%. I was having a conversation with
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  one of my best friends earlier who's also on my ministry team,
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  and we both have ADHD brains. And so we're talking about how
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  other people can take advantage of us because we've got so many
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  plates going at the same time that we can take on the job of
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  like 3 different people because that's just the way our brains
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  are. And then all of a sudden it's
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  like, no, God help me to stop that.
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  And, you know, focus on the one thing at a time.
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  One thing, one thing. That's so good.
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  And not 16. Yeah, that's a word.
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  Because that's going to set somebody free.
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  That's going to set me free because I'm like, oh, I can help
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  everybody with everything. And then we don't always have
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  good boundaries because we're like, not actually doing what
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  God asked us to do because we're helping everybody else do their
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  thing. Because yeah, when you said the
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  juggling the plates, like that's my life sometimes where I'm
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  like, OK, I got this and I will not let them drop.
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  I will not. And then you're like, when's the
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  point? It's going to drop?
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  And I hope I don't drop too. Right, right.
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  But yeah, that's really good. Yeah, even in ministry, like I
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  have a team, they're all my they're all my best friends.
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  They're like my ride or dies. But it's still difficult to, I'm
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  AI can do delegation as a nurse. Like I could delegate all
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  things, but when it's like the ministry stuff, it gets a little
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  harder because you're like, you've got so many things
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  boggling in your brain of like, what can do what can do what can
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  do, what can do that then sometimes it's hard to translate
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  from your brain to your mouth. Yep.
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  Because you don't always know how to say what you need.
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  Plus then the recovering people pleaser side is like, but I
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  don't want anybody else to have to do anything.
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  They've already got too much going on.
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  Yep. And it's like, wait a minute,
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  they volunteered, so you've got to let that go.
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  Yep. That's so good.
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  Yeah, that's so good. So your book, let's go ahead and
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  talk about intentionally designed because we're kind of
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  talking about we're on the lines of talking about how God designs
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  us. So let's talk about your book
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  and it's called Ditching the Lies and the Labels and Living
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  Free in Christ. So let's talk.
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  Yeah, So a lot of people would say, oh, yeah, I know my
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  identity is a child of God. But we don't live like it.
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  We are living for approval. We are trying to be perfect.
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  We are at war with what we're supposed to do, who we're
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  supposed to be, everything. The world is telling us
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  everything, even good things that people tell us who we are.
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  Example, I am a wife and I'm a mom.
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  I'm a podcast host, I'm an author.
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  All those things. Guess what?
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  A circumstance could change and any of those things could be
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  taken away from me. Yeah, my husband could die.
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  We don't want him to die, but he could die.
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  I could lose a child. I could die.
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  I could have my book taken off Amazon.
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  I could stop my podcast. All of that is temporary things.
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  They're conditional things due to situations.
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  Are they a part of my life? Yes.
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  Do they shape part of my life? Absolutely.
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  But my identity is a child of God because my identity doesn't
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  change. And there's a lot of young women
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  specifically, but also older women that are struggling with
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  who am I supposed to be? The world is telling me I should
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  go do this. They're telling me my career is
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  who I am. They're telling me my
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  accomplishments are who I am. They tell me if I have a degree,
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  I'm more qualified. But in the Kingdom, it's not
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  always that way. It's an upside down Kingdom.
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  And so I wrote this book because it starts with belonging.
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  It starts with belonging to the Lord and having a deeper
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  realization of that, but also looking at, OK, are there lies
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  in my life? Are there labels, even good
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  ones, examples like I just shared of a wife, a mom,
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  whatever. Am I living into that that that
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  is my identity, or am I living just as a loved daughter of God
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  and what he says because if what he said.
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  In the Bible is true. Then when he said it is finished
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  on the cross, that also meant every single thing that he wrote
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  about you in the word of God was true and is true and will be
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  true. And so many women are so
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  exhausted because they're trying to walk towards their identity.
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  They're like, I just have to become.
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  I have to become become, become the next Proverbs 31 woman,
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  Ruth, yada, yada, yada. And I'm going, you're not Ruth
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  and you're not the Proverbs 31 woman.
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  OK, those things can be good things.
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  They can and have good character traits.
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  I'm not saying any of that. But you are meant to be your
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  name, child, daughter of God, or if you're a guy listening, a son
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  of God. OK, like it is simply that.
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  And when we live loved as kids, then we approach the Father
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  differently and we live out our life differently and we walk
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  into Our Calling secure. And this is who I am.
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  So what I do, I'm going to work hard at it because also in the
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  beginning, God did create us to work.
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  There was a garden before there was the fall.
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  We had to cultivate. We're still called to cultivate.
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  We are given gifts, we are given rest.
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  Like there's all these things. And so I see so many people
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  struggle with all of these things.
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  And so I was like, well, let's go back to the garden.
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  Let's like make this super simple.
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  So many people have read Genesis, but I'm going to read
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  it. I think I've read the book of
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  Genesis like the first six chapters, like a deep dive on
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  that probably like 50 times just in the last couple of years
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  because I'm like, what else can I get out of this story is that
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  Eve is the perfect example. She was already created in the
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  image of God and the enemy tricked her.
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  If you reach and take this fruit, it's not going to kill
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  you. It's going to make you more like
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  God. But she was already made in the
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  image of God. That is the closest to looking
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  like God you can be is that you're made in his image.
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  And she got to actually walk alongside him in the garden with
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  so many of U.S. trade spending time with the Lord for trying to
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  act and look like him by reaching for something else.
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  And I was like, Oh my gosh, this is the first performance.
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  This is the first part of shame. This is the first part of
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  hiding. And then what she does is she
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  has her husband eat it with her. And then they put on fig leaves
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  and they hid. They put on something because
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  God said everything in the garden that it was good.
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  OK, I think they put on fig leaves because it looked good.
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  It hid them. And so many of us are doing the
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  same thing when we feel shame of our sin, of our mistakes.
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  We messed up, we didn't do it perfectly.
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  Whatever it is, we go, how can I mask up?
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  How can I? You know, I'll start serving
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  more, I'll pray for people more. And it can be even good things
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  God calls us to do. But are we doing it to cover up
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  our own sin or are we doing it because we're trying to hide?
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  Like what is it that we're doing?
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  And so I noticed that. And then here's the really cool
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  thing, OK, the story of Jesus, I love him, He's amazing.
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  There is a story in the gospel where he curses A fig tree.
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  And my theory, this could be wrong, but my theory for part of
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  why he curses the fig tree is because it was the fig leaves
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  that they put on to hide. And God was Jesus is constantly
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  reversing the curse. He's constantly going back to
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  what happened to curse. Let me restore this
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  relationship. Let me restore.
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  Let me restore. And so sometimes I go, I wonder
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  if it was a fig. I wonder if that was the fruit
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  because I always joke it's the apple.
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  Yeah, maybe it was a fig because the fig leaf was right there to
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  put on. I don't know.
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  But never thought of that that way.
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  Yeah, and like, I'm not saying it was the fig that they ate,
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  right? They did put on fig leaves and
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  we know that, and we know that he cursed A fig tree, but I
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  think he's trying to reverse the curse.
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  Well, it's the same with Peter. You know, when Peter denies him
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  three times and then Jesus asks him three times, do you love me
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  after he's resurrected? And you know, seeing seeing that
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  come to fulfillment and that erase what he had already done,
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  because I don't know about you, but I can find myself being
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  Peter multiple times. So for like, I don't know, I
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  think he's the one I can relate to the most because one minute,
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  Oh, I will walk out on the water.
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  I believe you got, I believe you got.
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  And the next minute, do you see what's happening?
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  Here. Do you think that's a good idea?
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  Right. Are you sure?
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  Yep, like do I believe? You at this moment.
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  Like, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I think, I think that's such
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  a good alignment. I don't know if it is either.
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  I mean, that's maybe a list of the questions that we'll ask God
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  when we see him someday. My husband, I was just talking
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  about that. I think the list is long.
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  Yep. We may not even care though when
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  we get there, so who knows? So in this book, what section
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  was one of your favorite sections to write?
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  That's a really good question. I often say chapter 2 because it
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  was The Who told you that like we talked about earlier, but the
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  other chapter that I, I feel like there's so many I loved
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  writing. So I'm going to say two.
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  OK, I loved talking about the cultivation chapter because God
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  made this garden. It wasn't finished.
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  Garden wasn't finished. There was still work to be done
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  and we see garden imagery all throughout the Bible.
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  And so it's in the beginning. It's also where he goes before
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  he is crucified, and it's also where we see him.
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  There's in the Gospel they miss, they like, they see Jesus.
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  They don't think it's Jesus. They think he's a gardener just
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  after his resurrection. He's just there gardening.
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  I think it's just so awesome. But there's so much garden
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  imagery. And so I love to talk about that
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  chapter of cultivation, of talking a lot about like
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  stewardship and discipline and all these kinds of things.
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  And like, if we think of our life as what is the garden in
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  front of me, I'm entrusted to cultivate, And that looks
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  different. And there are seasons of gardens
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  right there, spring and summer where it's maybe blooming, fall,
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  things die away. Winter, there's the snowfall,
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  they die off, but there's a lot of water getting down beneath
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  the surface that's going to help it come back again.
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  And so it's like that visual of his resurrection of garden
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  imagery. I loved writing about that one.
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  And I'm not really a green thumb gal.
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  I, I grew a watermelon the size of the golf ball.
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  So we're hoping I can do better. And then the other chapter I
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  loved writing is Chapter 11. And it's a lot about the story
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  of Esther. And so many people have heard
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  that story, like you were creative for such a time as
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  this. We know that, but a lot of us
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  look at that word and we just think it's only empowerment.
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  But I actually see it as a rebuke that it was like, Esther,
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  you were created for such a time as this.
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  You need to go do this or literally everybody's going to
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  die. Like you need to go before the
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  king. And so it was one of those
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  things where I was just like, OK, this is actually kind of a
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  rebuke. And some of us also need to
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  like, I don't like telling people like get it together, but
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  also like kind of get it together and like, what is it
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  that you are called to do in this time?
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  And you need to do it because there are people who still have
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  not heard of Jesus around our world.
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  There are people who need the hope and the story that you
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  have. And it might be a unique way
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  that you do it, but there are people's lives on the line that
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  need to know the Lord. And so let's go, you know,
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  buckle up. Let's go.
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  So that was the other chapter that I was just like, I remember
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  just reading that and I was like, I think I have to put a
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  chapter about Esther. And then I like reread it and
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  studied it. And I was like, whoa, OK, hold
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  on. Well, yeah, and that's the
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  thing. I love the book of Esther.
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  And around the time I started going to the church that I'm
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  going to now, they were actually on a series on Esther.
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  OK. And you know, when you start, I
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  mean, everybody wants to go to chapter 4, verse 14 and repeat
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  that verse and repeat that first because it works really well for
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  a cup or whatever it's on. But when you actually look at
• 28:48
  the context and see what was going on and see that what
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  Esther was actually doing, what she was involved in, like it is
• 28:57
  not for the people who think that the Bible is something
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  pretty and you tie it up like it, it's harsh.
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  Like, you know, she was actually in a harem.
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  Like, you know, God, God had her there to eventually get to the
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  king and be the one to save the Jewish people.
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  But in the meantime, she had to do some things that most of us
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  would go, Nope. Like who wants to be a part of
• 29:24
  that? Right.
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  Yeah, so you just, you just never know.
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  And you know, I'm not telling everybody to go out and join a
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  harem but or anything like that, but you just never know where
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  God's got you and what he's got planned for you at that moment
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  when he calls you out. And I've never actually thought
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  of it as a rebuked style before. Like, I mean, her cousin was
• 29:45
  calling her out and up, but I never really thought of it as a
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  rebuke type. And it can be seen that way
• 29:51
  definitely. But some of us need that.
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  Like we get scared of rebuke. We think that's only what we do
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  to the enemy, right? But there's also times, you
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  know, the Bible is also to rebuke us.
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  And I think that's part of why God had that chapter in the
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  Bible. Is he or that book in the Bible.
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  But specifically in that part, said that way is some of us need
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  that rebuke of, hey, you were creative for this time.
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  Like #1 God made you and decided when you would come on this
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  earth, right? And there you are here literally
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  for that time. But also like what the culture
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  is going to be facing all those things.
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  And that means your voice also matters.
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  And it doesn't mean everybody's called to a microphone, a stage,
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  a platform, whatever. But like, what is it right in
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  front of you? Go back to the cultivation.
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  What are you called to cultivate?
• 30:45
  Are you showing up and doing it? Are you expecting every
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  everybody else to do it or are you seeing all these other
• 30:50
  people doing it? And so now you're playing the
• 30:52
  comparison game. Guess what, We're all on the
• 30:54
  same team. We are all on the same team in
• 30:56
  the Kingdom of God. So guess what, we can go, hey,
• 30:59
  do you know how many other people have written books about
• 31:02
  identity? I could have never written this
• 31:04
  book, but you know what? God had a slightly different
• 31:07
  part with my story to write for it.
• 31:09
  And guess what? All these books complement one
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  another because they're pointing people to the Lord.
• 31:14
  We should be praising God for that instead of going, Oh my
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  gosh, like nobody's going to read my book.
• 31:19
  Nobody's going to listen to this podcast.
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  Nobody's going to show up and do what God asked you to do because
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  He told you to do it. That's why we do it.
• 31:27
  We don't do it because for the affirmation, we don't do it
• 31:31
  because no one else is doing it and we need to fill a void.
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  You just need to be obedient what God has asked you to do.
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  Amen. Amen.
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  I'm preaching. I love it.
• 31:41
  I love it because it's so, it's so true.
• 31:44
  It's so true. Like literally just do the next
• 31:48
  thing that you're called to do. Like even with the podcast, I
• 31:51
  wasn't sure I wanted to even do 1.
• 31:53
  I was like, who's going to want to listen to me talk?
• 31:55
  I'm in North Canton, OH, like I'm in a little closet.
• 31:59
  Like, and then it's just, you know, being able to come at
• 32:05
  things maybe a little differently, maybe give people a
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  little bit of a diff different thing.
• 32:09
  But the whole justification for everything I do is so somebody,
• 32:14
  whoever's listening, will not feel alone.
• 32:17
  Yep. And if one person doesn't feel
• 32:19
  alone that day because of that episode, then I'm doing exactly
• 32:22
  what I'm supposed to do. So good.
• 32:24
  And same with you. Like if one person is affected
• 32:27
  by what you say on one episode, then you are doing what you're
• 32:30
  supposed to do. Yep, totally.
• 32:33
  And the. Comparison thing.
• 32:34
  The comparison thing, I mean, it can be a deadly thing.
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  Oh yeah. Not put in perspective.
• 32:39
  Literally in the beginning, Cain and Abel, Yep, they compared the
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  offering that they gave to the Lord and literally killed his
• 32:50
  brother over it because he and I'm like, that's comparison
• 32:54
  people. Yep.
• 32:56
  And everyone's like, oh, I just thought it was jealousy.
• 32:58
  I'm like, well, they can be hand in hand, but that is comparing
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  that, oh, you were like praised for your offering that you gave.
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  It kills comparison and kills. That's why that's the verses I
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  always share when I'm like, no, it's true, OK.
• 33:14
  It is sensitive. Yeah.
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  So, Hannah, I have loved getting to talk with you again.
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  This time, you know, this side of it.
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  So where can people find you and where can they get your book?
• 33:27
  Yes, so you can find me on Hannah Castillo official or
• 33:32
  God's glory in your story on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, all
• 33:36
  those places. And I also have my book
• 33:39
  available on Amazon, Books-a-million, walmart.com and
• 33:44
  Barnes and Noble. Or you can get it on my site
• 33:46
  www.godsglorynewstory.com. Awesome.
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  I will put links to all of that in the show notes.
• 33:53
  And thank you again so much Hannah for coming on.
• 33:55
  This whole episode has been so encouraging and you guys go
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  follow Hannah. Go get yourself a copy of
• 34:02
  Intentionally Designed and I will talk to you next episode.
• 34:06
  Thank you so much for joining me for this episode, The Anchor by
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  the Sore podcast. I pray that the story that you
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  heard today will encourage your faith, challenge your faith, and
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  also help you as you walk in your daily life.
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  If this episode has done that, please feel free to leave a five
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  that others can find it and grow as well.
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  Have a blessed week and I'll talk to you next episode.