Latest / Seer Sessions / Awareness: Your New Reality | Seer Sessions #214
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- 0:01Hey, everyone. It's Gina you're listening to
- 0:04See your sessions today. I thought I would just check in,
- 0:07let you know what I've been thinking about, what I've been
- 0:09up to and where we're going for the rest of the year.
- 0:12I've got it all planned out. And if you engage, we are going
- 0:17to expand your awareness. OK, Speaking of expanding your
- 0:21awareness, I'm going to start with a little update.
- 0:23But in this update, I'm going to start with noticing the benefits
- 0:29of expanding my awareness. So I think that we can think of
- 0:34expanding awareness in a million different ways.
- 0:36But here, this is how I'm experiencing it.
- 0:40And this is how I'm experiencing, I guess the
- 0:43benefits of it. I don't know, It can be kind of
- 0:47nebulous, like out there, hard to understand.
- 0:50So expanding awareness, here's what I've noticed recently.
- 0:53So a couple nights ago, I was going to bed and I was literally
- 0:59like pulling up my fluffy comforter, laying back on my
- 1:04perfectly plump pillow. And I just was struck with this
- 1:09thought of when I'm out on the trail, I'm going to be so
- 1:15homesick for this bed. And I know that people talk
- 1:20about, you know, not getting attached to things and things
- 1:24don't bring you happiness. Yes.
- 1:27And my things really do bring me happiness.
- 1:31Like, I love my things. Like I cherish my things.
- 1:37I take care of my things. I buy just the right things for
- 1:41me. And so I enjoy them.
- 1:44And to be struck with this kind of gross, homesick feeling.
- 1:49And it was like, I'm going to miss this so much when I'm on
- 1:52the trail. I don't want to feel that way.
- 1:55Like, why would I feel that way? I'm not on the trail.
- 1:58I don't have to be on the trail. Like no one's making me be out
- 2:00there. And The thing is, is that I've
- 2:04been thinking about 2026 and just what I want to do.
- 2:08And I want to do some big physical endurance efforts.
- 2:13And one of them is so big and it's on a trail that I have been
- 2:20wanting to hike for 20 years, over 20 years since college.
- 2:27And it's going to require a lot of physical strength and
- 2:30endurance. It's going to require a lot of
- 2:34mental strength. I know that my mental state is
- 2:38going to be the most brutal thing about it.
- 2:40I'm going to miss my dogs so much.
- 2:43I'm going to miss these babies so much and it's like I have a
- 2:47fear of heights. I've come a long way in that
- 2:50fear, but it's still a factor, especially on a hike like this.
- 2:54So there's a lot mentally that I'll be dealing with and
- 2:57preparing for like leading up to it and I'll be talking about it.
- 3:02But knowing that, you know, I've, I'm even more so, you
- 3:06know, that's just another part of my journey of always trying
- 3:08to learn and grow, expand my awareness, understand
- 3:11consciousness, all that stuff. You know what, what it means for
- 3:13me in my life, not necessarily capital T truth everywhere.
- 3:18And so in this moment, I'm in my bed and I'm struck with this
- 3:23feeling of like, oh, just dread, like homesickness.
- 3:27And normally that's just where I'm at.
- 3:30Like I just feel that. And I'm like, this is something
- 3:33I'm going to have to deal with. This whole thing is going to be
- 3:35mentally really, really difficult.
- 3:37So this is something I'm also going to have to deal with.
- 3:40And it was like, all right, that's expanded awareness.
- 3:43Like knowing that that's something I do and being able to
- 3:47be like, OK, how am I going to get through that?
- 3:50How am I going to lead myself through that?
- 3:52That that's expanding your awareness for sure.
- 3:54But in that moment in my bed, my awareness was totally expanded
- 3:59or I saw that my awareness had been expanded and it was like
- 4:04this thought immediately came in.
- 4:06So I had that homesick feeling, that dread feeling of like, oh,
- 4:09I'm Nemesis so much when I'm on the trail and that and it was
- 4:13immediately followed by a thought that was like, you don't
- 4:16have to feel that. And it was just like, Oh yeah, I
- 4:22don't like, yes, it's true. Yes, I'm going to miss my bed.
- 4:27Yes, I'm going to miss these dogs.
- 4:29But I don't have to think about it.
- 4:31I don't have to spend a lot of time thinking about it.
- 4:34I mean, I don't think there's any right answer for me.
- 4:37My practice would be I'm going to think about it enough so I
- 4:41spend more time with them and I like prepare myself mentally for
- 4:45it. But just wallowing in it with no
- 4:49point, I'm not going to do that. I'm going to think about
- 4:53something else. I'm going to think about the
- 4:55reasons why I'm doing this hike. I'm going to think about the
- 4:57work I'm doing. I'm going to think about the
- 4:59next podcast episode. I'm going to think about my
- 5:02dogs. I'm going to think about
- 5:03anything besides that. So it was this feeling that came
- 5:08in homesick dread and then immediately thought of like, you
- 5:12don't have to think about that. So yeah, it's true, but don't
- 5:15think about it. Why would you think about it if
- 5:18you're going to do it anyway? It's just brutalizing yourself
- 5:22emotionally. And I'm like, shit.
- 5:27And then this thought came in and don't think about it now.
- 5:30Don't think about it leaning up to it and don't think about it
- 5:34when you're on the trail if you miss them.
- 5:36I do this meditation with with my dogs.
- 5:39I just try to feel their energy, like I can feel them beside me
- 5:45without physically feeling them beside me.
- 5:48And so I do that because someday they're not going to be here.
- 5:52Hopefully I live, you know, 50 more years.
- 5:54They won't. And so it's a way for me to
- 5:58connect to them after they pass away.
- 6:00But when I go on a long trip, it's also a way for me to
- 6:02connect with them. And I talked to them and I tell
- 6:05them what I'm doing and I say, can you go in your heart and
- 6:08feel me and know that I'm always there.
- 6:11So we have this thing that we do, but outside of that, like,
- 6:15why would I think about it? Why would I wallow in that?
- 6:19It just doesn't make sense. And so my thought also expanded
- 6:24because like I said, looking toward this trip and being like,
- 6:28OK, am I going to be able to do this?
- 6:30Like, how am I going to prepare myself to get through this?
- 6:33Because high chances that I'm going to quit, you know, like so
- 6:39high. And I just don't want to quit.
- 6:42I don't want to quit. I don't want to quit.
- 6:45I want to be that bad bitch at the end of this hike.
- 6:50That's why I'm starting this hike.
- 6:52And so it's really important to me.
- 6:53Like I have started so many physical efforts and endeavors
- 6:57and been OK with quitting early. This one, No, I don't want to.
- 7:01So I'm being super prepared. So it was that thought like in
- 7:04bed, don't think about this. And then it was like, and don't
- 7:07think about this on the trail because it might not seem like a
- 7:10big deal. Like, oh, OK, so you're not
- 7:12thinking about it, but you still miss them.
- 7:14No, I only miss them when I'm thinking about it.
- 7:16I only miss them when I'm feeling bad, when I'm thinking
- 7:20about it, and so can I even think about them and feel
- 7:23something good instead. And again, it may not seem like
- 7:27a big deal, but guess what? That annihilates me on the
- 7:32trail, thinking of shit that I miss so bad and focusing on
- 7:36that, and then kind of like rallying around that.
- 7:39That is the slope to quitting for me.
- 7:42It really is. And so, yeah, it's true, but you
- 7:45don't have to think about it. It's tiny, but that's the kind
- 7:48of shit that shifts for me. And then it's like my whole life
- 7:52changes. Or like a whole other
- 7:54perspective opens up, or a whole other perspective and then
- 7:59opportunities in that perspective opens up.
- 8:01It's pretty cool. So that is my most recent like
- 8:08understanding of how my awareness is changing or my
- 8:13consciousness is expanding. My awareness is expanding.
- 8:17OK, So what I have coming up for us for the rest of the year, we
- 8:21are going to be playing in that trance space so much and I'm
- 8:25really excited for you. Who will you be at the end of
- 8:29this year if you take these journeys and expand your
- 8:32awareness? OK, so in that trance space, as
- 8:37you've listened to, you've heard me talk, you've seen sessions
- 8:40about it, you've maybe even taken your own hypnotic
- 8:42journeys. But we can go into this hypnotic
- 8:45trance, into this transcendental state.
- 8:47It's the Theta brain wave state. It's where you're so relaxed
- 8:51you're almost drifting off to sleep.
- 8:53We can go there and we can access our souls memories, so
- 8:58memories from other lifetimes. We can experience those
- 9:01lifetimes, parts of those lifetimes that can create shifts
- 9:05in US, creating new perspectives which will change you instantly.
- 9:09We can go into that transcendental state and we can
- 9:12also like access our inner soul, that inner guidance, our souls,
- 9:18wisdom for insights to our life, answers to big questions and new
- 9:24perspectives on how we can move forward in our life.
- 9:27Now, there are so many ways to get to that transcendental
- 9:30state. You've heard me say it before.
- 9:31You can use plant medicine. You can use your breath.
- 9:34You can use drumming, rhythmic movement, chanting, prayer,
- 9:38meditation, there's all kinds of ways to get there.
- 9:41I like to use hypnosis because that's what works the best for
- 9:44me personally and that's how I work with clients as well.
- 9:49So hypnosis, the way I've learned about it, because I'm
- 9:52coming from a hypnosis background, relaxing our mind
- 9:56and our body. So our conscious mind kind of
- 10:00moves to the side slightly in our subconscious mind is more
- 10:03open, we have more access to the subtleties around us and within
- 10:08us. And so, so the idea is, is that
- 10:11our subconscious mind holds every memory of everything
- 10:15that's ever happened to us. And so in that hypnotic state,
- 10:18we can access those memories. And if you're someone who
- 10:22believes in reincarnation or more than one life, then that
- 10:25would be how you're accessing those memories as well.
- 10:28But because we're in that subconscious mind, that
- 10:30subconscious mind holds our deep beliefs, values and perspectives
- 10:35kind of the filter in how we make sense of the world.
- 10:40And a lot of times these filters, these adaptations, they
- 10:44were really formed when we were, for the most part, even younger
- 10:47than seven years old. So it's not crazy that we get to
- 10:51be in our 30s, in our 40s, older, sometimes younger, that
- 10:56we create a life and pretty soon we realize, like the way we're
- 11:01acting is not the way we want to be acting in our life.
- 11:04But it's hard to change those things.
- 11:06And those can be those deeply held like programs, responses,
- 11:12perspectives on the world, beliefs, beliefs in the world,
- 11:15beliefs in who you are. And so when we run up into that,
- 11:19that's when we go to hypnosis, or that's when my clients go to
- 11:22hypnosis. That's when I go to hypnosis.
- 11:24And we go into that subconscious mind to try to understand those
- 11:28tendencies, rewire those tendencies, particularly with
- 11:34hypnotic suggestion, but also through these experiences,
- 11:37gaining new perspectives and just wisdom on your life.
- 11:40And then also experiencing heightened high frequency
- 11:44emotions like peace, Lovejoy, gratitude.
- 11:48That's another way that we can shift and change that
- 11:51subconscious mind. And so to do that work, we do it
- 11:54in the subconscious mind. And the cool thing about that is
- 11:58it just does it. You've just kind of rewired your
- 12:01software. It just does it.
- 12:03It's not a thing anymore. When we can really understand
- 12:07these changes that we're making in these subtle realms, in this
- 12:11transcendental state in our subconscious mind, we can kind
- 12:16of accelerate those changes or make those changes even more
- 12:20abundant, even more impactful when we're more consciously
- 12:23aware of what we're actually doing.
- 12:26So with that, I will be sharing all kinds of hypnotic journeys
- 12:30with you until the end of the year, like I said.
- 12:32And in tomorrow's episode, I'm going to tell you all about the
- 12:36anatomy of a hypnotic journey, the way I put them together
- 12:39based on the three different types of hypnotic journeys that
- 12:43I specialize in. So every single week is going to
- 12:45have a theme. I'm going to tell you those
- 12:47themes in a little bit. And each theme week, each theme
- 12:51each week, we're going to journey to another lifetime to
- 12:55explore a facet within that theme so you can gain new
- 12:59perspectives and have instant change in your life after that
- 13:03hypnotic journey. And then the second hypnotic
- 13:06journey within that same theme each week is a journey to your
- 13:10higher self, your higher self, your inner wisdom, your soul's
- 13:15wisdom, however you want to think of it.
- 13:16We're going to journey there so you can get answers to
- 13:19questions, all things that might help you gain new insights,
- 13:23create new habits, new understandings for you to take
- 13:26your next step forward. And then the third and final
- 13:29hypnotic journey for each week within that same theme is going
- 13:33to be a directive hypnotic journey.
- 13:36That's where you're going to be going through a hypnotic
- 13:39induction and then getting the positive affirmations planted
- 13:42into your subconscious mind. And then we'll gently bring you
- 13:46back. And that third journey actually
- 13:48would be great for you to turn on as you're going to bed at
- 13:51night and just fall asleep to that.
- 13:54And I recommend you do it every night for a month.
- 13:57You're going to see changes. It's going to be wild.
- 13:59It's wild to do that because you're engaging in it every day
- 14:04for a month, but it's such subconscious changes that you
- 14:08almost don't notice it's changing until you get to the
- 14:11end of the day. And it's like, I would be
- 14:13turning on my hypnotic script so I could fall asleep to it, and
- 14:17it would be like, oh, yeah, I was in this situation today.
- 14:21It usually gives me anxiety and it didn't.
- 14:24It's like it's kind of a nice reminder.
- 14:26So just engaging in hypnosis every single day for a month is
- 14:30kind of a journey in and of itself.
- 14:32Yeah. So each week, all three of those
- 14:34journeys will be yours. OK, so I'm going to pull up, I'm
- 14:40going to pull up some of these hypnotic journeys that we got
- 14:42coming up. So this starts next week.
- 14:45So the theme for next week is from anxious to curious.
- 14:49So really transforming that energy.
- 14:51If you're someone with a lot of anxious energy, like you know,
- 14:55I'm not a doctor. So keep taking your meds, do
- 14:58what you got to do, take care of yourself.
- 15:00But it is a mentality. And I am someone who struggles
- 15:03from anxiety for sure. And so for me, this has been
- 15:07really helpful in easing my anxiety and really channeling
- 15:10that energy. But sometimes we can just think
- 15:13of any time we have a lot of energy in our body that feels
- 15:16uncomfortable, I like to think of how am I going to use this to
- 15:21become who I'm becoming? You know, how can I use this
- 15:24transform this energy within me into action, essentially.
- 15:28So you're going to have a chance to do that with your own
- 15:30anxiety. And you know, even if you aren't
- 15:32someone who says you have anxiety, if you're someone who
- 15:36even experiences just like dread malaise, like you can kind of go
- 15:42in there with an open mind and you're going to get what you
- 15:44need, you know, specific to whatever it is, wherever you're
- 15:47at in your life. The week after that, we're
- 15:50focusing on optimism and discernment.
- 15:53So how can you stay optimistic and stay discerning?
- 15:58And I think intuition is the way.
- 16:01Maybe you maybe it'll be a different answer for you, but
- 16:04you're going to go on these hypnotic journeys to another
- 16:06lifetime to understand more about that for you.
- 16:10Optimism, discernment. Sometimes it's, it's almost like
- 16:14we feel, I sometimes feel, if I'm positive, does that make me
- 16:18like naive? Does that make me an easy
- 16:20target? And so I think it's great to be
- 16:24both optimistic and very discerning understanding, you
- 16:27know, what is for you, what is not for you.
- 16:29And then after those two weeks, it's going to get juicy.
- 16:33OK, so we, I have been on such a journey and same with some of my
- 16:39clients and a lot of them don't even know each other and don't
- 16:42even know that other people are going through it besides, I
- 16:44guess what I tell them. But so many people, myself
- 16:47included, It's like this push to bring your physical body into
- 16:51your spiritual practice. What does that even mean?
- 16:55And it means something a little bit different to everyone.
- 16:57And I would imagine it means something not only different to
- 17:00everybody, but probably different to each one of us,
- 17:04like at different times in our life.
- 17:06So we're really exploring that relationship with the body.
- 17:09The first theme is enjoy being in your body.
- 17:12How can you enjoy being in your body more?
- 17:15What does that look like for you?
- 17:16So again, you'll get the three hypnotic journeys within that
- 17:19theme, helping you get clear, super clear on that.
- 17:23We're going to be talking about nourishing your body.
- 17:25Like what does that mean? And I think of nourishment.
- 17:28A lot of times when people hear that, they just think of food.
- 17:31I like to zoom out and I think of it as consumption.
- 17:34So media, food, other people's attitudes and problems, you
- 17:40know, just like, what are you consuming?
- 17:43We have to understand the subtle energies in our life and the way
- 17:48these energies are moving. It's not just what we're putting
- 17:51in our mouth, it's what we're putting in our brain, in our
- 17:54minds, in our emotions, in our heart.
- 17:57So you can think that widely or not, it's totally up to you, but
- 18:02you'll be going on three hypnotic journeys if you want
- 18:05to, to really understand, like what does it mean to have a
- 18:08nourished body and what does it mean for you to nourish your
- 18:13body? And what people get when I ask
- 18:16those questions, so many of my clients have been getting like,
- 18:19yes, of course, like sometimes there's some food adjustments to
- 18:22be made and people will kind of dig into that.
- 18:25But really a lot of times it has to do with the thoughts.
- 18:28Like the thoughts were chewing on essentially and the things
- 18:32that we're consuming that promote those thoughts that we
- 18:36chew on that are not good for the relationship with our body,
- 18:40for the energy in our body. And we often don't think of
- 18:43thoughts as consuming energy, but they do.
- 18:47I mean, if you've ever been in a situation for me personally, I
- 18:51really notice it when I'm pushing myself, like in a
- 18:53physical effort, like the draining of my mentality, Like
- 18:58if I just shift to the positive, sometimes it seems like the most
- 19:02difficult thing to do. Sometimes it seems like I'm
- 19:05almost lying to myself. But if I can shift the feelings
- 19:08in my heart, genuinely my thoughts lead the way.
- 19:12I have way more energy when I'm done.
- 19:14And I used to live my life in such a negative state and I know
- 19:19that's why I had like so little energy.
- 19:22I always thought it was this food or that thing.
- 19:25And now I look back on it and it was like I was just leaking
- 19:28energy, just given energy to sources that would not give it
- 19:34back and just leaking energy through my own negative thoughts
- 19:39like it Pay attention to that. So zoom out if you want a lot
- 19:44going on with the body, that's one way.
- 19:46Think about nourishing your body.
- 19:48You're going to be able to get way more information on that.
- 19:52And then the next week, the next theme is about clear
- 19:56communication with your body. Some say aches and pains are the
- 20:01way our body talks to us. And I agree, you know, sometimes
- 20:05it's, it's hard to figure that out, but it, I think it is the
- 20:08way. And if we agree with that, then
- 20:12why not get attuned to the subtleties so we can feel when
- 20:16our body is off just a little and then know what that is?
- 20:20Because we're attuned to our body in the subtleties so we can
- 20:23get some help before things are an emergency.
- 20:26And it's in that prevention vein for sure.
- 20:29But no matter what, being able to really be tuned into the
- 20:32subtleties of your body, it's not only about physical health,
- 20:36but it's also about our body is really tied to our intuition as
- 20:40well. Our instincts, how we understand
- 20:43things without knowing them logically.
- 20:45We feel these things in our body.
- 20:47So to have that friendship, that allyship, that being an advocate
- 20:53for your body, even working with your body, seeing your body as a
- 20:56partner in doing this life, it's like, why not number one?
- 21:00It is like you can't get away from it and why not befriend it
- 21:06and feel better in it? So you're going to have a chance
- 21:09to explore all of that. We're going to also be talking
- 21:13about in that is like loving who you are, seeing who you are,
- 21:19unlocking your full potential. So those are like two different
- 21:22weeks. I'm not entirely sure how I'll
- 21:24line them up or how I'll title them, but it's really that
- 21:28transition. It's like see and know who you
- 21:32are, love who you are, unlock that potential.
- 21:36The week after that, we're talking about accessing your
- 21:38creativity, flowing with your creativity, understanding your
- 21:43creativity. And this is true whether you're
- 21:45someone who's like a creative person and you're feeling
- 21:49creatively blocked. That would be a good time to use
- 21:51those, even if you feel like you're not a creative person.
- 21:57That makes me want you to do those journeys even more.
- 21:59You're a human, you have access to creativity, it is yours.
- 22:03It feels good to flow with it. So let's learn all about it.
- 22:07That's what that week is about. Again, you'll have those 3
- 22:09hypnotic journeys to do it. And then of course, it's me.
- 22:13So I want you to dig around, understand your intuition.
- 22:17That's a theme. One week, understand your
- 22:20intuition. And it'll be so interesting to
- 22:22me what you get in the sense of like understanding your
- 22:25intuition and what your body's telling you and and then
- 22:29communicating with your body and like, what are the overlaps
- 22:32there in those hypnotic journeys?
- 22:35You guys, I'm so excited for you.
- 22:38Where are you going to be at the end of the year?
- 22:39We're all going to be so evolved.
- 22:41OK, so here's the thing we did the one on anxiety.
- 22:44Here's the other thing, depression, yes, take your
- 22:47medicine, listen to your doctor, all that stuff and explore
- 22:53yourself, check in with yourself.
- 22:55So there's a week where it's going to be about understanding
- 22:58your depression. Now this would be if you're
- 23:01someone who just gets low every once in a while, that's normal.
- 23:04You know, it's good to dig in if you want during those times and
- 23:07be like, what's going on here? And it's good if you have
- 23:11depression. I'm not saying this is going to
- 23:13cure you, but you're never going to be worse off by being
- 23:17introspective and understanding yourself.
- 23:21I have been on and off antidepressants I3 times in my
- 23:25adult life and the more I get to know myself, the more I
- 23:29understand myself, the more I can make decisions in life,
- 23:32decisions that I truly want. That lifted my depression more
- 23:38than anything, more than any medication, any of that.
- 23:41But I needed medication at those times.
- 23:43So take care of yourself and be your own advocate.
- 23:48Work to understand who you are, how you tick.
- 23:51Change your life in a way that would make you feel happy to
- 23:54live. I was always so depressed
- 23:58because I was trying to fit in the society box.
- 24:00Like get your corporate job, buy a house, get married, check the
- 24:05boxes. And that doesn't work for me.
- 24:07I am way too weird and eccentric and then out there for that.
- 24:11Like that lifestyle makes me depressed and that's why I was
- 24:16depressed. But to get to know myself and to
- 24:19trust myself and have the confidence to, like, live a life
- 24:23that's, you know, maybe a little left of center, but really
- 24:27lights me up. Nothing lifted my depression
- 24:31like that. So just keep that in mind and
- 24:34take care of yourself and listen to your doctor.
- 24:37You know, it's a balance. OK, Then we have effortless
- 24:41gratitude. Yes, sometimes when I am out on
- 24:46a trail or on a road trip, I am just overcome with gratitude.
- 24:50And it's spontaneous and I've kind of trained myself along
- 24:53that way, like I was intentional about it at some point along my
- 24:56journey, but a lot of times it's just spontaneous now.
- 25:00And I feel so grateful for that. And I just think we can do this.
- 25:06Like you don't have to hike, like I hike to do that.
- 25:10You don't have to go on road trips like I do do do that.
- 25:12You don't even have to travel to do it.
- 25:14You've made decisions in your life and some of them were
- 25:17really, really good decisions. So how can you feel like
- 25:20spontaneously just gratitude when you're engaged with that
- 25:26part of your life? Yes, gratitude journals and
- 25:29stuff like, I think those are great.
- 25:30It's a good way to train your mind.
- 25:33But what are we training for with that, right?
- 25:36Like, I want to train so I can do this spontaneously.
- 25:39I don't want to only feel gratitude when I'm like, get the
- 25:42notebook and the pen and sit down and OK, yeah, I guess I'm
- 25:46grateful for that. I guess I'm grateful for that.
- 25:48You know, that's not really how it goes for me, but it can feel
- 25:51like that sometimes. So it's like, how can we
- 25:54progress to just feeling gratitude and not having to,
- 25:57like, conjure it so much, I guess, or like, write about it
- 26:03or make such a thing about it? Can I just be this?
- 26:06Why do I have to make such a thing about it?
- 26:08So that's why I brought that up. Effortless gratitude.
- 26:11I want more in my life. So I'm sharing it with you.
- 26:13I hope you want it. One week on simply taking
- 26:16action, like understanding how you take action, why you take
- 26:20action. Do you want to change that?
- 26:22What action should you take next?
- 26:24Perfect, perfect, perfect. If you're feeling stuck or if
- 26:28you're feeling like revved up, motivated and you're like, I
- 26:31just don't know what the best choice is, go to that theme.
- 26:34Go to that week, get some clarity.
- 26:37Oh, and then we have from victim to creator.
- 26:41That's one week. I never really identified with
- 26:43the victim mentality, but there's always been this part of
- 26:47me that holds me back, doesn't trust myself, is a real shit
- 26:53talker, big self critic. And I released a lot of that in
- 26:582024. And in that, even though I don't
- 27:02really, I didn't feel like I had a victim mentality, in
- 27:05hindsight, I can see that's what it was.
- 27:09Even though I wasn't like, oh, I've been victimized and I'm
- 27:11carrying that as my identity, I've still had a victim
- 27:14mentality in the sense of like, I just thought I wasn't shit.
- 27:18I always had something to prove. I was not good enough in my own
- 27:21mind. I was always criticizing myself,
- 27:24just really, really hard and nasty to myself.
- 27:27And that's a victim mentality. Essentially, I'm like
- 27:30victimizing myself. And so no matter how you see
- 27:35that, if you feel like there's a part of you that just can't get
- 27:38over something or feel stuck or is playing small, like making
- 27:43that shift to really embodying this, this like I am the creator
- 27:48of my life. So it's it's not hope something
- 27:51happens, it's make it happen. You want that job, it doesn't
- 27:54exist, Go ask for it. Go find 10 other people who you
- 27:58could ask for it. Create the job, sell someone on
- 28:01it. Like what?
- 28:03What else are we going to do on this planet right now?
- 28:06And I, it sounds so simple, but I never thought like that.
- 28:10It was just kind of like, well, I'll try, but I'll try next time
- 28:13or I'll try or yeah, this is good.
- 28:17I mean, it's, it's not exactly what I thought it would be, but
- 28:19it's it's good enough, you know, just kind of like hanging out.
- 28:23And I always had this vision of myself that I was someone who
- 28:25liked change and took action. But after all the mind expanding
- 28:30things I did last year, I really see I had such a victim
- 28:33mentality, or at least that's how I see it in hindsight.
- 28:37It's like an easy way to talk about it.
- 28:39So with that in mind, you're going to be out of victim
- 28:42mentality. You're going to be creating your
- 28:44GD life and you're going to get so much clarity on your next
- 28:49steps. We have a week where we're
- 28:51getting lessons from difficult times.
- 28:53So maybe there's like, I don't know, I hope I'm the only one.
- 28:56I hope you hear this and you don't identify with it, but in
- 28:58the off chance you do, I'll share it.
- 29:00So what about those times where, like, you have this memory of an
- 29:04encounter with someone or an interaction with someone or an
- 29:08argument with someone? That's usually my problem.
- 29:11And you just think about it and you just really regret it.
- 29:15It's almost just hot searing pain to think about it.
- 29:18It's so awful, so gross. If you have something like that
- 29:22and you're fed up enough with it that you have the courage to
- 29:25like bring it to that hypnotic journey, one of the hypnotic
- 29:29journeys or all of them that week, you definitely should.
- 29:32When we are able to take something like that, that's so
- 29:37like searing hot, painful, and we allow it into our mind
- 29:42gently, not pushing yourself beyond your limits, like allow
- 29:45it into your mind gently. Our subconscious mind takes it
- 29:49and it's like, what is the little gem here?
- 29:52What is the little nugget of wisdom that I can pull out?
- 29:56You can see a new perspective. You can take a learning from it.
- 30:00You can feel responsibility for it in a way that you go, Yep,
- 30:05and I'm taking care of it and it boosts yourself trust and it
- 30:08releases some of that heaviness, resentment, regret, whatever it
- 30:12is. So even though that's kind of
- 30:14like you gross heavy, I don't want to do those hypnotic
- 30:17journeys. If and when you ever have
- 30:20something like that come into your life, like bring that to
- 30:23that week, Just be gentle with yourself.
- 30:26You know, I'm gentle with you. Be gentle with yourself.
- 30:29Go into that hypnotic journey and just see what you can find
- 30:32out. All right, And then we'll close
- 30:34out the year with purpose. Purpose, purpose, purpose.
- 30:40Everyone's so interested in their life purpose, right?
- 30:44You know why? Because we came here with a
- 30:46purpose, that's why. And when we are more and more in
- 30:50touch with ourselves, the magic in this world, our sixth sense,
- 30:55we can start to feel this idea of like, I want more.
- 31:00And I think it's like more purpose, more drive, more
- 31:03intention. And what a great way to end this
- 31:07year and start the next year with purpose in mind.
- 31:10Purpose for the next year, purpose for your life if you
- 31:13want it, purpose for one area of your life.
- 31:16So that's how we'll close out the year.
- 31:18I'm having so much fun creating the hypnotic suggestions, the
- 31:23journeys, the angles within the themes each week.
- 31:27So I'm really excited to release them and have you go on these
- 31:31journeys and like expand your awareness from the comfort of
- 31:36your own home. You can even do it as you drift
- 31:39off to sleep at night. I mean, multitask while you're
- 31:41drifting off to sleep. Does it get any better?
- 31:43All right, everybody, that's our episode for today.
- 31:47If you want to learn more about my work, go to searsessions.com.