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All In The Family with Teresa Giudice · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, it is La La Cant Welcome back to
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  Speaker 1: the Give Them Laala podcast. I'm so excited because I
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  Speaker 1: have a freaking icon on.
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  Speaker 2: The pod today, Teresa Judaices. Do you still go by
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  Speaker 2: Judas too?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Yes I do.
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  Speaker 2: Well, welcome to my pod. Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so excited to be on on your podcast. Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: So a lot of people said they wrote in questions
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  Speaker 1: which I'll ask you on the bonus, but some people
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  Speaker 1: were like, how did you guys become good after what
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  Speaker 1: you said? X, Y and Z. And I'm like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you're a very I call you a gangster, Teresa, because
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  Speaker 1: not many women could go through what you've gone through
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  Speaker 1: and truly come out on top.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm not just saying that.
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  Speaker 1: I've had these conversations with people, whether I'm sitting in
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  Speaker 1: front of you or behind your back, no mic, no camera.
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  Speaker 1: I really really admire the person that you are, and
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  Speaker 1: I think watching your girls the true testament to who
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  Speaker 1: you are as a person. So I want to first
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  Speaker 1: say thank you for hearing me out when I when
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  Speaker 1: I wrote you that DM, I say things and they
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  Speaker 1: come across in a way that that was never my intent,
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  Speaker 1: and I feel like you and I bonded over that
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  Speaker 1: DM and you were so gracious and kind, so I
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  Speaker 1: just wanted to say thank you for Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: No, and then I mean, I think and then we
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  Speaker 3: have we use the same hairdresser, Lena, like she yes, Lena, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And then and then I think Lena said, I think,
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  Speaker 3: you know, you maybe misunderstood Teresa or whatever. She's like,
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  Speaker 3: I think you guys would get along. And then so
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  Speaker 3: I'm glad you listened to her. And yeah, I mean, listen.
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  Speaker 3: We all have our perception like when we you know,
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  Speaker 3: when we see someone, we think the person's this way,
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  Speaker 3: but they're really not that way, or you hear things
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  Speaker 3: from other people, or maybe if you watched the show,
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  Speaker 3: then you think of, oh, that person's this way. But
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  Speaker 3: I always say never Judge always like, open up the book,
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  Speaker 3: read the book first, get to know the person, and
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  Speaker 3: then your decision, you know.
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  Speaker 1: So yes, there was a comment that someone had written
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  Speaker 1: in and they said, I would like to know because
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  Speaker 1: you know, for the outside world, they feel that they
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  Speaker 1: know you the ins and outs, Like it's almost like
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  Speaker 1: they think you're a robot who you only come to
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  Speaker 1: when a camera turns on and then you don't exist
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  Speaker 1: after that, Right, you're here strictly to entertain. They were wondering,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you're one way on Housewives and then a
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  Speaker 1: different way on House of Villains, which, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: people are loving House of Villains this season, so congratulations
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  Speaker 1: on that.
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  Speaker 2: What do you what do you.
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  Speaker 1: Attribute that to? Would you say it's production? Do you
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  Speaker 1: think it's your around a different group of people? Maybe
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  Speaker 1: a combo?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, obviously if they watch season one and
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  Speaker 3: season two, I think if everybody, you know, somebody made
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  Speaker 3: a good point. This is what they said to me.
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  Speaker 3: If everybody would watch Housewives, like all of the seasons
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  Speaker 3: currently and this time, like because now, don't forget I've
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  Speaker 3: been on TV seventeen years now. Yeah, so if everybody
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  Speaker 3: would watch the show now and watch it really about
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  Speaker 3: what actually happened. I mean, I did season one, Season two,
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  Speaker 3: it's Teresa from House of Villains. Then you get season
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  Speaker 3: three that all of a sudden, my family comes on
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  Speaker 3: the show like Lalla behind my back, like this was
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  Speaker 3: my first cousin and my sister in law married to
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  Speaker 3: my brother that I was getting along with that that
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  Speaker 3: at the time, listen my and then I think my
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  Speaker 3: brother had me listener's ear, like, I can't believe your
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  Speaker 3: sister's on a TV show, not putting us on it,
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  Speaker 3: and it's like it wasn't about them, it was about me.
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  Speaker 3: It was like that was my job at the time,
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  Speaker 3: and she kept being in my brother's ear, like saying,
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  Speaker 3: your sister's not putting us on TV. It wasn't about
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  Speaker 3: my family, and I never wanted it to be about
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  Speaker 3: my family. I you know, it was like it was
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  Speaker 3: about the man and Larita's family, like you know, it's
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  Speaker 3: like two sisters and a sister in law. Never in
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  Speaker 3: a million years, like if my brother and Melissa were
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  Speaker 3: on that show first, I would have never done what
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  Speaker 3: they did to me, Like I would have never gotten
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  Speaker 3: the show and like trushed our family the way they did,
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  Speaker 3: because now we don't speak anymore. And it's not because
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  Speaker 3: you know, people like look at it and obviously I
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  Speaker 3: don't even know. Once they came on the show, I
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  Speaker 3: stop watching it because if I would have watched it,
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  Speaker 3: the wars that would have happened in our family. I
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  Speaker 3: think Bravo should thank you for not watching it, because
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  Speaker 3: if I would have watched it, we would have never continued.
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  Speaker 3: So it was like better I didn't watch it because
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  Speaker 3: if I would have watched it, we would have never
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  Speaker 3: continued it. Like what happened now? Like we're not speaking,
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  Speaker 3: like that's it, it's done. Look we're on and now
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  Speaker 3: we're on pause.
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  Speaker 1: How do you feel about being on pause? Has it
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  Speaker 1: been a nice break?
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  Speaker 2: Well?
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  Speaker 3: We needed a change because obviously it couldn't continue the
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  Speaker 3: way it was going. And the reason why I'm different
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  Speaker 3: is because everyone's always coming for Teresa Judice. That that's
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  Speaker 3: why I'm always on the defense trying to defend myself
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  Speaker 3: because everyone's always trying to hurt me and now the
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  Speaker 3: person I love.
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  Speaker 1: That would be extremely hard, and I haven't. I haven't
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  Speaker 1: gone through. I mean, I've been through my fair share
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  Speaker 1: on reality TV. But I think Teresa, from my perspective,
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  Speaker 1: you are truly a household name now. And I think
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  Speaker 1: when people come onto the show and it's your house,
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  Speaker 1: they think if they try to dethrone you, it can
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  Speaker 1: then become their house. And if they come for you,
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  Speaker 1: they they they have a chance in their mind of
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  Speaker 1: making it their own house. But I think they also
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  Speaker 1: they're written about you know, people people like attention, whether
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  Speaker 1: it's negative or positive, and you're the key to the attention.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly, and everybody knows that. So you comfort Terisa.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody knows that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you comfort Terisa. You get a storyline and listen,
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  Speaker 3: I have no like I'm still standing, you know, That's
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  Speaker 3: that was my my second memoir is standing strong, like so, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: everyone tries to dethrone me, and like they keep trying,
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  Speaker 3: but thank god, I'm still standing. So and like, obviously
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  Speaker 3: they played the game all wrong because now we are
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  Speaker 3: on pause and it's gotten really dirty and disgusting, and
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  Speaker 3: you know, so you know, I'm glad. Look, I'm sure
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  Speaker 3: they're kicking themselves for you know what they did. You know,
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  Speaker 3: Margaret's speaking to someone from Louis past, even my brother.
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  Speaker 3: It's like they it's like crazy. If you would know,
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  Speaker 3: actually the things that really happened, your mind would spin. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you know.
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  Speaker 1: And and I'm not gonna share your your story, but
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  Speaker 1: I have heard from other people who you know, no
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  Speaker 1: one has ever shared exactly, but they've said similar things
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  Speaker 1: to that, like if you only knew, And I'm just wondering,
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  Speaker 1: is there any version if if Melissa and Joe came
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  Speaker 1: to you and took accountability, would there ever be a
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  Speaker 1: gray that you guys could meet in and have at
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  Speaker 1: least be okay with each other. You know, you don't
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  Speaker 1: need to be spending holidays.
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  Speaker 2: That ship has sailed.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, la la, because it's been over
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  Speaker 3: ten years and come on, it's like been so long.
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  Speaker 3: It's like like I just feel at peace now without
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  Speaker 3: them in my life. And it's like, listen, I'd rather
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  Speaker 3: forgive a stranger, because a stranger they're not your family.
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  Speaker 3: But when your own family fucks you so hard that
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  Speaker 3: you're like there's like no coming back from that. And
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  Speaker 3: it's like, I didn't think that my brother would do
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  Speaker 3: what he did to me, Like and it's like, here,
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  Speaker 3: I am so happy I meet this guy that he knew.
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  Speaker 3: I was so happy when I met Louie. And it's
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  Speaker 3: like and then I didn't even he was the one
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  Speaker 3: that introduced them on the show. I didn't even want
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  Speaker 3: to introduce Louis. I was trying to keep them on
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  Speaker 3: a on a down low, you know, just right. I
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  Speaker 3: didn't know my brother was going to do the same
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  Speaker 3: thing that he did with my ex to do the
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  Speaker 3: same day with Louie. Like I did not expect that.
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  Speaker 3: I even told Louis watched the show because I wanted
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  Speaker 3: Louis so smart and I wanted him to be aware
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  Speaker 3: of like what my look what my brother did in
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  Speaker 3: the past. So I wanted him to watch the show.
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  Speaker 3: And but Louis didn't. I mean, he said he watched
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  Speaker 3: a little bit of it, but he said he wanted
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  Speaker 3: to give my brother the benefit of the doubt, and
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  Speaker 3: he really didn't go into it like that. He didn't
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  Speaker 3: want to have any any perception or anything.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that's a guy thing to do, because
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  Speaker 1: I would do the same thing, like I would just say,
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  Speaker 1: that's a show.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to give him the benefit.
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  Speaker 3: And he did because he was my brother, you know,
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  Speaker 3: he's like, that's your brother. He's like, I didn't want
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  Speaker 3: to do that, and I'm like, but and because I
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  Speaker 3: see how Louis is with his sisters, he's not like that.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm like, my brother's not like you. I see
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  Speaker 3: the difference, Like Louise and the way he is with
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  Speaker 3: his sisters is not the way my brother is with me.
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  Speaker 1: So and it's can I ask you, do you think
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  Speaker 1: that if your parents were were still here that it
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  Speaker 1: would have gotten this bad? Or do you think that
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  Speaker 1: they would have been able to fix it and intervene.
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  Speaker 3: No, I mean I think if my parents were still here,
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  Speaker 3: like I know my dad would have loved Louis. They
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  Speaker 3: would have loved they would have adored Louie, like because
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  Speaker 3: you know, he always says he wishes he would have
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  Speaker 3: met my parents and I and I know my dad.
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  Speaker 3: I mean maybe my brothers would have kept his mouth
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  Speaker 3: shut and and not have done anything like that he did.
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  Speaker 3: And yeah, I think because you know, I think I
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  Speaker 3: don't know who knows I don't. I mean, look, he
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  Speaker 3: ruined his own son's christening. He started screaming at his
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  Speaker 3: son's christening. I mean that was like a shocker to us,
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  Speaker 3: to our whole family when he Yeah, I went up
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  Speaker 3: to him and I said congratulations, and then he's they
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  Speaker 3: like he told me to get out of his face.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, what, Like why do you invite me?
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  Speaker 2: Then?
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  Speaker 3: So you did that for camera? You did that, Like
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  Speaker 3: why did you invite me?
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  Speaker 1: Then you know, well that I mean that that would
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  Speaker 1: make sense. We get Teresa there, it's one hundred percent
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  Speaker 1: being covered if you know everyone knows.
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  Speaker 3: But imagine that's your brother, Like like I said.
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  Speaker 1: Well that, by the way, I can't imagine Teresa, because
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  Speaker 1: I think of me and Easton, my brother, who is
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  Speaker 1: obviously sitting down here, and I'm like, I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: always wonder how it can get so bad, because I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure you didn't think it would ever be like this
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  Speaker 1: when you're like kicking it with your brother.
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  Speaker 2: You're single, he's single, you know.
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  Speaker 3: Together, of course we were so close. Everybody was like
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  Speaker 3: jealous of a relationship, how close we were, and then
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  Speaker 3: that's why so when like when I found out they
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  Speaker 3: were going to be on the show, was like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: what am I gonna do? Like, I mean, I wish
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  Speaker 3: they would have told me, because la la, I get
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  Speaker 3: phone calls like right now, I guess they're casting house
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  Speaker 3: They're looking for other housewives in Jersey, right, I'm getting
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  Speaker 3: phone calls like as we speak, like I just got
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  Speaker 3: to you know, they just reach out to me, like
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  Speaker 3: my own friends or even people that I don't even know,
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  Speaker 3: so well, let me know that casting is reaching out
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  Speaker 3: to them. And I'm like, oh when they ask, when
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  Speaker 3: they tell me, I'm like, good, look, my own family
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  Speaker 3: members didn't even tell me. So then when I got
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  Speaker 3: the phone call, I was like, all right, what am
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  Speaker 3: I going to do? And then imagine the first day
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  Speaker 3: of filming that happened at the christening, and I was just.
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  Speaker 2: Like, I truly can't even imagine.
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  Speaker 1: And you know what it's gonna it's going to take
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  Speaker 1: a lot to take you down. You've been through a
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  Speaker 1: lot of shit, like you're a fucking badass.
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  Speaker 3: And and I want to go at one more thing
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  Speaker 3: why I'm a badass because I walk with my head
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  Speaker 3: up hot, you know, like look like how my father
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  Speaker 3: always said, walk, go with your head up high. You
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  Speaker 3: have nothing to have, nothing to be ashamed of, because
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  Speaker 3: of course not. That's why I kind of resent my ex.
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  Speaker 3: Because my ex made the mistake. He's the one that
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  Speaker 3: didn't file taxes. And I signed one closing document for
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  Speaker 3: a home that he was flipping. And I should have
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  Speaker 3: never signed that closing document, like if I did not
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  Speaker 3: sign that day, and you know it was it was legit.
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  Speaker 3: It was in a lawyer's office. I was buying a home,
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  Speaker 3: but he was flipping the homes. Just by signing that one,
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  Speaker 3: you know, those documents for that one house, I went
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  Speaker 3: to jail. So I walk with my head up very
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  Speaker 3: proud and high, because I know I'm not a criminal.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know you're out me try to commit a
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  Speaker 3: crime like I signed a you know, a closing.
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  Speaker 1: You were you were a woman who trusted her husband
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  Speaker 1: at the time, and there are millions of women who
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  Speaker 1: do that every single day.
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  Speaker 3: I know. If I wasn't on TV, I would have
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  Speaker 3: never went to jail. But because I.
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  Speaker 2: Was, they wanted to make an example out of you.
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  Speaker 3: And that's why I do walk with my head up.
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  Speaker 3: And that's what's sad, because like people judge me and like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, even girls on the show they called me criminal.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, oh please, Like even like Mark, it's like please,
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  Speaker 3: Like I like laugh at them because it's like what
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  Speaker 3: you give is what you get. And I know I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I know I'm not a criminal, you know, so if
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  Speaker 3: anybody's trying to call me that, it's like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like what a lot of people say, don't spit like
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  Speaker 3: it comes back to you right or like don't like
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  Speaker 3: I don't know that's saying what's still saying?
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  Speaker 2: I don't either, But I.
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  Speaker 4: Exactly a lot of us have watched you with Juicy Joke,
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  Speaker 4: where you.
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  Speaker 1: Are able to have conversations with him, you're able to
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  Speaker 1: co parent. How did you how did you remove yourself
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  Speaker 1: from the equation for your kids because you know, I
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  Speaker 1: find that I assume that would be extremely difficult.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and La La, I take care of everything, like
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  Speaker 3: I do everything like and thank god let me. Louis
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  Speaker 3: amazing too. And I mean, but you know, because Joe
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  Speaker 3: doesn't make the money they like, and he's in behind,
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  Speaker 3: so that's where he lives. And so I take care
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  Speaker 3: of everything. I mean, the kids have a small you know,
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  Speaker 3: you know, a small amount of money that Joe gives them,
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  Speaker 3: But I paid for colleges everything. It's all on me,
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  Speaker 3: so and I mean, trust me, I do it for
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  Speaker 3: my kids, you know, like I keep the peace for them.
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  Speaker 3: But I always tell them, like please, don't want to
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  Speaker 3: make the same mistake I did. Whoever you marry, ask
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  Speaker 3: a lot of questions. Don't be like me and don't
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  Speaker 3: sign papers like you know, I mean, unless you know
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  Speaker 3: your husband's like one hundred percent legit is doing the
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  Speaker 3: right thing. You know. It's like even till today, I'll
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  Speaker 3: ask you know, I'll say to Joe and La La,
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  Speaker 3: I asked him for a year straight. Because I didn't
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  Speaker 3: sign the papers right away, they chased me for a year.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody else signed on the dotted line. I took almost
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  Speaker 3: a year to sign the contract because I didn't know
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  Speaker 3: what I was getting myself into. So it's not like
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  Speaker 3: so it's not like I signed the papers like right
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  Speaker 3: away because I was like, what is this? I didn't know?
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  Speaker 3: And then that's sometimes me and Joe we fight about it.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, he's like, you're stupid show. He blames me
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  Speaker 3: still till today. You don't understand.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, this stupid show catapulted me and yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: my universe of being able to provide.
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  Speaker 3: And then I'm like, first of all, the stupid show.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I asked you, like, is everything legit? Is
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  Speaker 3: everything good with you? Like you know, because if you know,
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  Speaker 3: if you're not filing taxes, you don't ask why are
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  Speaker 3: you gonna tell me you want to take the show?
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  Speaker 3: Like I can't write. I just can't, like please, when
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  Speaker 3: I think about the stuff, I just can't. So it's
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  Speaker 3: not my fault. It's like it was his fault, and
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  Speaker 3: like he he did it to himself, you know, and
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  Speaker 3: he had a partner that you know, I wanted to
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  Speaker 3: screw him. See that's what happens too, you know, And
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  Speaker 3: like I think his partner made a you know, maybe
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  Speaker 3: called the government or the partner that the government went
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  Speaker 3: after his partner and then he rated. I think his
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  Speaker 3: partner ratted me out because really he had a partner
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  Speaker 3: and a lot of these properties and his partner didn't
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  Speaker 3: go to jail. And his partner, oh, he rolled over
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  Speaker 3: and they sing like canaries when there's a chance that
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  Speaker 3: they get him. Owned a lot, you know, he had,
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  Speaker 3: he had a partner that he owned a lot of
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  Speaker 3: properties with that his partner should have went to jail too,
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  Speaker 3: and he did it, and I think his partner rated said, oh,
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: Teresa signed and I was on TV. So to them,
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: that would make such a great thing for TV. Oh
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: of course, yeah, and like.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: And as a viewer, it definitely did. But it was heartbreaking.
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: I've watched your show from the beginning and everything from
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: you know, the homemade sauce and and your dad asking
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: if one of the women was menstruating because the sauce
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: would spoil.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Do you still make the sauce every year?
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: I used to make it with my parents and then
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: it's a lot of work. It's so yeah, it's a
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: lot of work. Oh, my kids still make it with
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: my ex mother in law.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes me very Yeah.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: So I'm high. And then of course you know she's
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: sweet and she gives me some jars too. Yeah, she'll
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: send some jars or g o by giah when you're
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: made three hundred jars, so I still have like, oh
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: my god, they don't go bad. They last.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so they only spoil if the person making them
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: is on their.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Parade, right, correct, Yeah, I love that.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: When as we're going into the holiday, are there any
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: because your family is obviously growing, your kids are older.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: It's which we just talked about this tree.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: It's wild to me that we like watched your children
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: from the time. I mean one of them, was it
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: Audriana that you gave birth to?
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's on the show kee now.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Yes, it's crazy to me because I now know how
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: how most viewers feel where it's like I know them,
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Like I could roll up on Gia today and we
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: would be best friends because like I know her, And
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: then I have to check myself and be like, no,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: bet you watched her on TV.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: She doesn't know who you are. You're an insane person.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Do you have any regrets putting your children on on television?
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: No? You know, I because is doing phenomenal. She's she's
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: doing great. She's going to be on that show with
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: the Bravo kids. Did you hear that about that?
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Wait?
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: Tell me, I live under a rock, So tell me.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I think I heard something. It's like kids of Bravo
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: that are doing a show.
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: A lot of like yeah, so it's you know, I
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: don't want to give too much away because I don't know,
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: you know, because you know, Bravo likes they like it,
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: but they did announce it. There's a show coming out.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: There's you know, there's a few Bravo celebrities, Bravo children.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: And then and they are celebrities.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well that's what I'm trying to say, the
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: right the right burd page. So yeah, Bravo. You know,
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: it's like whoever's on Bravo the children like some Bravo guests,
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: not guests, Bravo celebrities.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, saying it, Yeah, the like the kids, the celebrity
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: children of celebrity Bravo.
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean there's yeah. So I don't want to
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: sick because every time I say, they're like, don't say it.
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: They're like Bravo has to say. But I think Bravo's
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: did announce it already that it's coming out.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: Well, I think that's how I heard about it was
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: through bras.
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: Okay, so you did hear about it, okay, Yeah, so yes, yeah,
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: shows coming out and they didn't announce when it's coming out,
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: but you know early next year, and ok I'm excited
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: about it. Yeah, so's I mean, you know what it
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: was out there that you know, people took video of
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: so certain people were on it, like for instance, it's
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: my daughter. They were filmed from fans.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Like it made its way to TMZ. Meredith and Mark
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: Carson Brooks is on.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: It, Kim Zosiak's daughter Arianna, And I'm going to stop
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: at there, you know. So you guys, the show is
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: going to be lay and there's more, but I'm going
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: to stop at there because I don't know who, you know,
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: if they know who else. So, but that was you know,
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: that footage was out there, you know, on social media
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: because because I remember I was filming and they took
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: video of us, and that was out there.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: You know, it's really hard to keep things under wraps
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: these days because there's the fandom, the level of fandom
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: that the Bravo universe brings in.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: I mean even you walking into.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: House Civilains, every single person that was a part of
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: that cast knew they knew you, because again, you are
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: a household name. Did you walk in the House and
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: House of Villains and know every single person?
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: Like, were you familiar with them?
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: I didn't know. I didn't know. I don't think except
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: for Larsa obviously when she came off. Obviously, I'm trying
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: to think. I didn't know anyone. I didn't know this.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Did you know Did you know New York?
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: No? I didn't know New York either. No, I didn't know.
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: I feel bad. I didn't know anyone. I never watched
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: Love and Hip Hop, you know, I've Yeah, I didn't
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: know anyone. I'm trying to think. No, I didn't know
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: Candy Muse. I didn't know anyone. But like I loved everyone.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: Everyone was great.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Did you leave with friendships? Oh?
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: Yes, I got along with everyone.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: You're easy to get over.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: Even New York said sorry to me, and then I
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: was just like, really, oh guy, Yeah, I was.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Like, oh guys, well, I remember New York was on
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: I think Flavor Flavor something.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: She she really made a name for herself and I
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I love loving hip hop, so of course I knew
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Safari because you know, he likes to put his ding
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: dong everywhere and it gets them into trouble.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: I know, we got along really great. I love Safari
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: because we got We liked for coats together, you know,
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: like the Fox for coats. Yeah, he walked in and
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I love your coat. He's like,
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: I love your coat. You know, yes, I were on
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: point with the fashion, so we had we got. I
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: got along, I have to say with everyone, you know.
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: And I mean, of course, when Tiffany came from me,
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: I was like what I was like, I thought that
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: was like I just laughed at her. And then she
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: apologized to Louie at the premiere party, which I was happy,
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, poor Louis. He always like everyone's always
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: coming for Louie. And it's like, because I guess they
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: have nothing on me, so I guess they're trying to
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: hurt me instead. And I guess they know to hurt me,
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: it's of course hurt someone that you know she loves,
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: Of course, that's like he's just taking hits for his wife,
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: hits for his wife.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: Hair.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: I know, did you ever did you always want You know,
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I'm the type where I always thought I was going
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: to have boys only because a psychic told me that
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I was going to have all boys. So it did
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: come as a shock when I'm here with two girls,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: and it did all something psychic.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: A bad psychic.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Multiple. I'm like, our psychic's real. I don't know. Did
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: you ever want a boy? You're such a fantastic girl, mom.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, I did want a boy because I just wanted to.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I used to always say to Joe, I want to
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: see what a boy looks like. You know, you know,
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: you know I did want a boy. But now I
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: have two step sons.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: That's what I was going to ask you, is it
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: is it difficult stepping in as like I don't want
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: to say mother figure because they're old?
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: How old? I mean?
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: We have Louis. We call him Little Lois because you know,
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: you know, his father's Louie too, so we call him
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: little Lowie. So Louis Is he just turned twenty one.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: We just celebrated his twenty first birthday this past weekend
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: in Vegas. Oh had so much fun. Let Dom Dollar.
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: We saw John Summit and Calvin Harris and in Las Vegas.
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: We had the best time.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: I just think it would be so fucking wild to
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: like have a totally normal life. You're like kicking it
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: with your dad and all of this sudden Teresa Judas
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: is now your stepmom.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like it would be fucking wild. You couldn't even
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: wish for.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, we get along so good. And he like,
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: I know, he always tells me he loves me. He
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: writes me the nicest cards and and and he's the
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: sweetest like boy, I mean young man. He is like
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: I like, he's I adore him. He's like, I couldn't
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: ask for a better step son.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: I'm so happy you would have been.
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: I feel like I see you cheering at like little
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: league games?
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: You who would have been the best mom. I feel
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: like like I would have been, like, that's my mom
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: cheering for me over there. She did that with her girl.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, now she's notinning a Michigan football games,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: which I'm so jealous.
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah. When I first met him, he was playing soccer
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: and he played for He was a senior so when
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: I first yeah, so I watched I watched his games. Yeah,
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: he was really good.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: And how many who of the kids are still in
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: the house.
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: Well, little Louis lives here, Gia lives here, okay, and
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: Gabriella just got home. She's at the University of Michigan,
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: and Milania is at the University of Tampa and she's
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: not coming home for thanksgiv and she's going she's in
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: the Bahamas with her dad, so okay, Yeah, she's spending
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: Thanksgiving with him. So he only has one and I
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: have the rest. And Adriana lives here and she's fifteen.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: And then I mean that Louis has another son, Nicholas,
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: that's twenty three GA's age, and he has autism and
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: he lives with his mom. And we see him every
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: other weekend or you know, if he's busy, you know,
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: or every other you know, like we try to do
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: every other weekend or every every two weekends. It depends
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: are on our schedules because we're really you know, he's busy,
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: he has things going on, We have things going on.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: But like he loves coming here. He loves the girls.
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: They get along so good.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: And yeah, it's like a party house. It's like like
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: that was my dream growing up. I always hated the
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: fact that there were only two of us because my
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: half brother, who I only call my brother, I don't
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: throw the half in, but he's he's fifteen years older,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: so he had his own thing going on. And I
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: always wanted just like a house full of kids or
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I guess grown adult children, and I wonder, like, what
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: is Christmas going to look like at your house now?
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Because you have older kids, they you know, the parents
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: are not together, so they got to bop around. What
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: is your what is the tradition that you're going to
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: try to keep?
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: Well, I to Christmas Eve, so the kids are always
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Christmas Eve and then we stay, you know, we eat dinner,
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: have dessert, and then twelve o'clock we open gifts. So
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: they stay with me the whole Christmas Eve. So we
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: start eating like I would say, I don't know, like
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: we start a little early, like we start having appetizer
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: maybe like seven, and then maybe eat dinner around eight
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: or nine like that, you know, and then we just
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: hang around talk, you know, play music, and then that's
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: it and then have dessert and then twelve o'clock we
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: open gifts and that's it. And then the next day,
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: Christmas Day, we bed and the kids, like he goes
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: to her boyfriends, they go see they all they're very
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: close to Joe's family, So all the girls go see
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: Joe's family and little Louis. I'm sure Christmas Day he
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: goes to you know, he's going to go see his mom.
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah like that.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: I do you guys draw names? I know this is
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: a silly question. Do you draw names? Because since there's
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: like five hundred of you, does each person or do
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: you guys go all all week?
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: You see, we still buy gifts for all of us.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: But and the girls they pick out of a hat,
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: because there's eleven girls on Joe's side, like we have
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: four girls. Joe's sister has four girls, and Joe's brother
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: has three girls. So there's eleven girls.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: Any boys in the midst by oh my god, it's
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: just like my dream.
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: So they dream pick out of a name, and they
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: buy one gift for each other, and there's like, you know,
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: take of whatever over one hundred, get out a limit
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: or whatever like that. So that's what they do, which
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: is good because I like you. I used to buy.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: I had to buy for all the kids. It was
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: like a lot.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: You know, No, that is a lot, and it gets
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: expensive and I don't care if you're freaking balling, you're
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: also taking you You're taking my time away where I
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: have to. Like, I'm not big on gifts, Teresa, Like,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: I don't care if I receive them.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: I'm the worst at giving them.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: I'm the same way. It's just a lot, Like it's
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: a lot of work for one day. You know, it's
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: just a lot of work, you know.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: I like the day.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I love that you guys vege during the day and
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: just enjoy each other, because that, for me is what
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: it's what it's all about.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: And I also don't like the cooking part.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Which is why I I dismiss myself every time. Are
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: you cooking for the family or are you having a
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: catered Thanksgiving?
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: We're gonna I'm gonna We're gonna cook. Louis and I
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: are gonna cook together, and then Christmas.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: Eve.
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: I used to cook with my parents. It's just too
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: much with cooking all the fish. I'm not you know,
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: I don't like cooking all the fish.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: What fish?
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: What we the seven fishes? Do you ever hear the
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: seven fishes? Okay? So I just we just Italians eat
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: all fish, like fry calamari, I like shrimp abiada. This
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: is what I do. I ordered, I ordered the food,
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: so like, yeah, now I order from a great Italian restaurant,
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: and I, you know, whatever we feel like even like
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: like or Chilian sea bass or bronzino. So it's like
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: we're big on fish and like, but Louis doesn't like fish,
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: so I get he. He just likes shrimp and okay, shrimp.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: He likes fry calamari, but he doesn't like the sea bass,
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: and I like, so I'll get him either like a
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: like a meat or a chicken.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: So like, is Louis Italian?
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: He's Spanish? Hispanic?
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: What's his last name?
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: Rue Ellis? Okay, his mom is Dominican and his father
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: is half Mexican half Puerto Rican.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you guys have that combination with the
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Italian is like all the culture in the world.
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: And I'm so and I love my Hispanic husband.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I do.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: Like he's very spicy, yes, I like, yeah.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: So yeah, remind what was like the point in time
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: where you were like, this person's gonna be my husband?
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Like what about him just changed it all? I mean
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: he's the most psych When.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: I first met him, he just was such a gentleman,
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: just really sweet, like, you know, like I met him.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: We're walking literally walking, you know, walking by I was
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: with my two girlfriends. He's packing up his house, his
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: shore house. He's first time at the shore. He was
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: leaving the shore and that was it. And then I
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: was pointing at his car and I go, he think
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: I thought I waved, so he waved back, and my
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: married friends like, I'm gonna go talk to him. So
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: my ma, because I was with me and my other
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: friend was single and my and then I had a
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: married friend. So my married friends like, I'm going to
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: go talk to him. So she went to go talk
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: to him, and she yes.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Always count on the marriage and I have nothing to live.
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: And then she was like start. And then her husband's like, oh, Dane,
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: I want to go talk to him. I'm like yeah,
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: but it was just she obviously did it for me.
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: You know, it's called a wing woman, exactly, a wing woman.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: So like she went to go talk to him, and
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: then I sit to my other friend. I'm like, well,
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: let's go, like we can't leave her by herself. Let's
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: just go say his And we went to go say
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: hamick and then we all introduced ourselves. We shook hands
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: or whatever, and that was it. And then yeah, I mean,
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: that was it. And then we walked we left, and
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: then he came driving up in his car and when
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: his son was there when I met him, and and
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: then I guess his son said, Daddy, did you know
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: who that was? And he didn't know at first. Yeah,
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: so louis like, that's Teresa. So then he came rolling
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: driving up to us, because then we said bye and
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: we left, and I don't even remember his son there
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: la because I guess I was like a little nervous,
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: you know, and he yeah, he was handsome and he
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: was handed, and I was just like but then also
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: he comes driving up to us as we're walking and
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: he's like, my son wanted to know why didn't ask
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: for your number, Teresa? And then like and that's and
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: then I got embarrassed. I got because his son and
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: his girlfriend were in the vack seat, and I was
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: like and I was like, I got embarrassed. So I
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: was like, well, before we left, he gave me his
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: business card, so I said, well, I have your business card,
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: I'll text you. And then because he gave me one,
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: and he gave Dana one, the married friend, because he
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: only had only had two of them ons and then
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: he left and then I and then after that, my
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: girlfriend took my phone Dana and she texted him and.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: I love Dana.
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: So she was a good wing woman. Yeah, and then
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: that was it.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Wait, and then we talked if I come, if I
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: come out your way, can we bring Dana out and
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: she can be my wing woman? So, because twenty twenty five, Teresa,
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: it's freaking on.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: I know I'm gonna get all.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: You wouldn't have a problem, trust you're.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: You're so kind.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: I want to know, because Jersey is on pause, if
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: you could put together Jersey casts with with Ogi's, who
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: would you pluck and put back into the mix for
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: the next season of Jersey?
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: I think, well, I think it would be obviously me,
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: Jennifer Aiden, Dolores, Jackie Goldschneider. Really yeah, oh we're good. Yeah. Listen,
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: she said sorry to me. I already knew she was talking,
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: you know, I already knew she was doing what she
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: was doing. I already knew it because right because I
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: hurt her. So I get it. See see Lala, If
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: I if I throw the first punch and you come
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: from me, I get it. Girl, I'm like, all right,
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: my hands are up. You're right. I came for you first.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. So I knew that Jackie was her hands
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: were dirty somehow, I already knew. And Okay, with Margaret,
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: like she came to my wedding and I thought she
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: was my friend, and she was in that whole thing
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: the whole time too, and it's like, really, you're supposed
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: to be my friend. Why are you doing that? You know?
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: So that's why with Mark and even my sister in
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: law she tries to play clean too. It's like they
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: were all in it, you know, and I already knew.
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: So it's like that's why it's just so funny to me.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: Do you still talk to Danielle stop?
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: No? No, because you know what I tried with her
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: and she's just like all over the place, you know,
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: it's just like little ko. Yeah, I just can't know more.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: I'm like done with that. Yeah, she just yeah, it's
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: just she's like wishy washedy, like a yo yo. It's
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: like I can't you know. It's just like I don't
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: know if if like everything she's been through, I don't know.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: It's just I can't.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: It's like yeah, and I get that.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: I feel like you've reached a point in your life
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: where you have peace and there are moments and I
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: and I've had this as well where people say, would
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: you ever make up with so and so? And it's
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: like you kind of have to look at your life
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: and go, do I feel peace right now?
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: Yes? So what would be the point?
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: I mean, you don't even see if you really watched
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: my show. Remember when I pushed Andy Cohen, did you
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: ever guess it was like, Okay, she said to me
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: that I didn't go see my nephew when he was
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: born in the hospital.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: Trea, I have watched every single you know where she
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: got that from?
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: Do you know where Danielle got that from?
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Melissa tweeted her right, Messa called hering each other?
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be very hurtful.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: I did not know that. Like see, this is how
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: clueless I was back then, because I never thought that
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: my sister in law would do that, Like so here
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: I am was so mad at Danielle. Meanwhile, it did
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: never dawned on me that Melissa and her were emailing
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: each other, and that's where Danielle got that from. Like
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: I never am I'm telling you, I would have took
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: a bullet that day and be like, no way did
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: my sister in law do Like I didn't believe it.
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: I really blamed. I thought Danielle was coming for me
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: just to and then to find out that my sister
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: in law told her that. That's why she said that.
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: And and Danielle never said that on the show, right,
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: she told me that personally, she never outed my sister
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: in law. You know what she said to me because
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: I never wanted you in her to fight because of me.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, we were on a TV show. You
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: should have just said the truth, you know what I mean.
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: I was like exactly while she came from me and
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: said stuff that I said, Meanwhile, you the person that
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: really did all that to you that really hurt you,
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: and you never outed her, you know, like they were
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: emailing the whole time. I guess because she didn't want
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: to look like the bad person because they're like they
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: were doing it, you know off camera. You know, I
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: don't have right, I can't tell you.
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: You never know which way.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, the level of stamina you have to have
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: to continue this shit when cameras are down. When cameras
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: go down, I go live a good fucking life.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: No, I know, well, I mean that was happening before,
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: that was happening before my sister in law even came on.
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: You know, That's what That's how, That's what got her
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: on because then Bravo saw how angry I got when
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: she mentioned my nephew, and they're like, oh my god,
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: this is gonna make great TV.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: And then the body checking of Andy Cohen, the strength
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: on you, betch is fucking next level. I mean, you
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: freaking it was like he was like a little hackey sack,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: like you could have punted his ass to fucking where
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: did you film? Were you in Jersey when you film that?
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: His ass would have been all the way to Los Angeles.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: I was shook. I mean that in the table flipping.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: I know, I used to be crazy. I used to
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: be like I would go from zero to one hundred
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: so quick. Yeah, I really would like I relate. I
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: relate down now, which I'm so glad I have.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: You know, it's exhausting when newbies come on because you're
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: like the og of iconic moments from the Andy Cohen too,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: the table flipping, just like who you are? You show
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: up and you have these like effortless iconic moments when
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: people come on, do you watch other housewives or do
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: you stir clear?
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, now that like I have more time, I do
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: like when I have time, Like right now, I'm watching
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: so like City, I'm watching I'm so good, like a
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: little bit of Potomac. Yeah whatever, Potomac is so good.
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: I watched you do you you know?
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, I'm I'm a heavy hitter when it comes
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: to all of the housewives. But like I'll go back
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: and watch og rony og Jersey.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: But do you watch newbies?
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: Come on and you're like, girl, you've clearly watched too
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: much Housewives. You are really trying to have that moment
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: and it's not hitting because it's not authentic, Like you
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: can tell that this you're trying to be you're trying
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: to create the moment.
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yeah, that's been on our season like this year.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Ooh, can you tell me what moment that sticks out
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: in your mind?
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: On me?
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: Come on, we're in twenty twenty, We're in twenty twenty five. Now,
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: we'll no twenty twenty four and we're going I mean,
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: you can't put your hands on anyone, you know, No,
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: Like I'm just you just can't or you shouldn't get
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: into someone's personal space, Like you can't get into someone's
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: face so close and expect someone not to do because
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, if somebody got into my face that close, too,
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: I think I would push them. And I always like,
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: if somebody talks so close to me, I move back.
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: I do move that because I don't, like, I don't
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: want to smell your breath. Sorry, oh my god, I
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: don't want to smell your breath. Like we should have
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: a lot of distance between us and speak that way.
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: I don't want don't don't get so close into my face.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: And that's what I love about Dolores.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: She's like, oh yeah, if if someone got that closed,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: I'd fucking hit them.
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like you can't, like yeah, like if you feel
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: like you're being like like you know, like your your
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: space is being invaded. Yeah, I mean I don't like that.
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: Like you can't like scream and spit into someone's face
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: as you're talking to that, I'm like, you can't do that.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: You know, have a normal it's called housewives. Yeah, have
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: a normal conversation, like you know, like keep distance between us,
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: not don't get into somebody's face.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Like that, you know, right, My last question before we
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: sign off when season one happened and you you know,
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: and when I say just, I don't mean that in
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: a derogatory or demeaning way. But you were you were
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: a mom and you were a wife. Did you ever
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: in a million years think that this was going to
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: catapult you into such fame?
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: No?
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: No, what were your hopes and dreams did you?
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: Do? You have like hopes and dreams of other things
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: besides housewives and mom?
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: I mean I did the show because I wanted to.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: Just I was like bored doing the same thing every
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: single day. So I'm like, God, this will be fun.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: Like they're just gonna, you know, do They're gonna film
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: us what we're actually doing, you know. And it's because
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: sometimes in mom life, like if you're doing the same
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: thing like you, like you I work out every day,
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: so like you stay in your workout clothes, but like filming,
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: it's like you get more dressed up. So to me
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: was like fun, you know, getting more dressed up. But no,
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: I didn't think it was going to ever become what
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: it was never you know, it's absolutely insane to me. Well,
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: just like you, I'm sure when you started, you didn't
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: think the same, right, did you think it was gonna
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: be well?
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: I think that's I think that's the difference between Housewives
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: back when you first started and with the show that
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I was on, because our show was based on a
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: group of people working at a restaurant who we.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Were really hoping for a big break.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: When we weren't working at the restaurant, we were going
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: on auditions.
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: We moved to LA with a purpose.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: So for me, it was like I certainly didn't think
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: that this was going to be the end all be all.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: I never thought i'd be on reality TV. But when
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: you started Housewives, it was just unknown.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was very new.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: I think you guys were what the second or third
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: Housewives franchise to exist.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: I think New York was on an oat and Orange
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: County and it was us. So like I really didn't
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: even and I didn't even watch the other show, so
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: I didn't know to even and I didn't even go
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: watch it before I signed the contract because I was
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: so busy with the three kids, so I didn't even,
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: Like I didn't watch any TV like always Barney, you
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: know Elmo, Dora, that's on my TV. That's what I
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: used to watch, so I never watched any TV. Yeah,
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: and then by the time I then at that time
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: when I went to bed, I would like pass out.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: I'm sure that's how you are now, right.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: Oh if pure exhaustion, And I too only get ready
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: for a camera unless it's my own podcast.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: And then I look like this every single.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Day because I'm just I'm doing well to not be
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: covered and spit up at this point, now, I know
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: that to me is a win. I had the best
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: time with you on the pod. I'm so excited to
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: do yours. What do you have going on? Is how
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: the Villains wrapped? What are what are we doing?
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: What are we on?
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: Hows the Villains still is still going? So yes, okay,
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: you know that's every Thursday night at ten pm. But yeah,
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: it's still going. I think it's gonna be on a
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: few more.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: Weeks, so state love it.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: And then what else do I have going on? That's it?
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm you know, I'm doing appearances. You know here,
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: I've been doing drag shows, which I've never been to
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: a drag show before, and I love it, have so
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: much fun. You're good. Yeah, And then I have a
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: lip collection that just came out. I collaborated with Christian Audet.
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: So okay, like Teresa's.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: I've been seeing this on your on your Instagram.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: So it's a lipsa so it's like three three lipstick colors.
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: It's called best One's Best, so it's like a red.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: And then there's I Do it's like a Newdy beige.
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: And then there's three six, three six, three sixty five,
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: like three hundred, like you wear three hundred and sixty
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: five days. It's like a mauve nude.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: And then I have the slip gloss called love bomb.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: Oh oh, I love that name.
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: So yeah, so did you see like you see all
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: of the names like love bomb, like three sixty You
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: know that movie three sixty five, three hundred and sixty
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: five days, Yes, yes, so yes, I'm obsessed with that movie.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: I love that movie. So three hundreds.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: I love how you named it.
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: It's like a lipstick that you were three hundred and
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: sixty five days love bomb, and it's about like, you know,
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: like I want to put the love out there because
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: I wish, like I I want everybody to have like
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: the love that me and Louie have. So it's like
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: I want to, you know, like I want.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: You to find We'll send that my way. That's what
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: I want it.
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so like the I do and then what else?
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: And what's the other one? I do? Love it best?
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: So I picked get kissed. Okay, like kiss means Spanish.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you so much for being on
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: the Give Them Lalla podcast.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: Tree. You really are man, Thank you.
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: This is so much fun. We gotta do we gotta
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: do it more often.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, please, I would love it and I'm gonna come
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: when I like my mommy brother.
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: I love that you do with your brother.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: We keep it in the pod, always stay closed.
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: I love that. That makes me really happy.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: Well he's never getting a wife. That's what I've learned
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: from from this. You know what I've learned from this
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: podcast episode is no new fronts.
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: The only thing is I know when new blood comes in,
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: that's when that's when things change. But you know you
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: have to tell whoever on both your sides. Listen, my sibling.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: Can you please make it work with my sibling?
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: Please?
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: Don't you know? Take you know? Is it all used to?
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: And our other our older brother who's forty eight, but
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: he's got an amazing wife.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: And we're all very that's nice.
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: See that's the thing you don't want to like. You know,
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: you have each other, so you want you want to
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: keep that family. You know, it's exact because I only
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: have one brother and now I'm like, I feel like
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: i'm and I lost my parents, so I feel like
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: I'm an orphan. But it's okay because I have my
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: four daughters, and I have my you know, husband, and
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: I have my stepson. So I'm blessed. I'm really blessed.
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: I love that word blessed. That is the word that
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: I live and die by. So thank you so much again, Teresa,
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: and thank you guys for listening to another episode of
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: the Give Them La La Podcast.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: I hope that you stay blessed.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: I hope that it's just love, love, love, and I
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: will catch you next week.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: I love that