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Happy Pride: Love, Acceptance, Advocacy For LGBTQ · Skirts Up!

• 0:10
  If
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  you
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  got
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  a
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  problem?
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  Lottie's
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  got
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  the
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  answer?
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  She
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  won't
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  sugarcoat
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  them?
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  Cause
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  it's
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  Lottie
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  and
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  Lottie
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  don't
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  lie?
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  Cause
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  it's
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  Lottie
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  and
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  Lottie
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  don't
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  lie.
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  Welcome.
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  Welcome
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  to
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  Lottie
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  Don't
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  Lie.
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  It's
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  Samantha
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  and
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  Melissa,
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  and
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  we
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  are
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  here
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  to
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  share
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  some
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  experiences
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  of
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  our
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  own
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  before
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  we
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  start
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  off
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  with
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  our
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  awesome
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  episode
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  with
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  Michelle
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  and
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  her
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  daughter.
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  And
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  I'm
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  really
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  excited
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  because
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  Sam
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  won't
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  tell
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  me
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  what
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  her
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  fail
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  is.
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  Yeah,
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  it's.
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  It's
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  pretty
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  good.
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  Yeah.
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  Every
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  time.
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  Courtney
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  will
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  probably
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  never
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  let
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  me
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  live
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  this
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  down,
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  so.
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  You
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  already
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  know
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  it's
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  good,
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  right?
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  Yeah.
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  You
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  know
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  those,
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  like,
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  funny
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  things
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  of,
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  like,
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  what
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  I
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  ordered
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  versus
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  what
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  I
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  got?
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  Oh,
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  yeah.
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  And
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  like,
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  somebody
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  will
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  order
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  a
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  rug
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  and
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  then
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  it's
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  like
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  a
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  little
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  tiny,
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  like
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  2
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  inch
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  long
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  rug
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  because
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  they
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  didn't
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  read
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  the
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  description.
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  Yeah.
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  So
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  there's
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  this
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  beautiful,
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  beautiful
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  dress
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  that's
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  like.
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  And
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  I.
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  I
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  will
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  try
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  to
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  remember
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  to
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  post
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  photos
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  of
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  it.
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  There's
• 1:20
  this
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  beautiful
• 1:21
  dress
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  that,
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  like
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  an
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  ad
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  on
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  Facebook
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  caught
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  my
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  attention
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  and
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  I
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  just
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  fell
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  in
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  love
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  with
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  it.
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  And
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  it's
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  like
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  the
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  spaghetti
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  strap
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  top,
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  like,
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  V
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  neck,
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  and
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  it's
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  like,
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  looks
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  like
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  quilted
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  things.
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  Like,
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  it
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  looks
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  like
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  a
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  rag
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  quilt
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  that
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  it's
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  made
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  out
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  of.
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  So
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  like
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  a
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  bunch
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  of
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  random
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  patches
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  and
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  I
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  don't
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  know,
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  it,
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  you
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  know,
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  looks
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  miscombobulated.
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  Oh,
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  yeah.
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  see
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  post
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  a
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  picture.
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  I
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  definitely
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  will.
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  Now.
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  What
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  I
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  got
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  made
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  me
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  so
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  sad
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  because
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  what
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  I
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  got
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  was
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  a
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  freaking,
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  like,
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  mumu
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  made
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  out
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  of
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  like
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  a
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  pillowcase.
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  When
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  the
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  pixelated
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  image
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  of
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  the
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  dress
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  that
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  I
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  wanted,
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  like,
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  ironed
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  on
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  to
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  it.
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  No.
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  Yeah.
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  You're
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  kidding
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  me.
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  Like,
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  there
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  was
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  literally
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  a
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  dress
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  with
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  a
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  little
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  iron
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  on.
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  Patch.
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  Yes.
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  On
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  a
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  dress.
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  Like,
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  like,
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  it
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  literally
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  is
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  the
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  image.
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  So,
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  like,
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  you
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  know,
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  straps
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  in
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  V
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  and
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  then
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  like
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  an
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  crappy
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  image
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  of
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  like,
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  what
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  the
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  dress
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  is
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  supposed
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  to
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  look
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  like
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  just
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  kind
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  of
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  pasted
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  onto
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  it.
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  Okay.
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  That's
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  hilarious.
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  Did
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  you.
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  I'm
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  dying.
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  Do
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  you
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  have
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  a
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  picture
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  of
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  the
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  dress
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  when
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  you
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  got
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  it?
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  I.
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  Purdue.
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  Yeah,
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  I
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  have
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  it
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  before.
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  And
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  you
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  know
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  what
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  I
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  thought
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  I
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  was
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  getting.
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  And
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  yeah,
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  you
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  have
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  the
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  after,
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  right?
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  Yes,
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  I
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  have
• 2:35
  it.
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  Yeah.
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  Okay,
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  good.
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  I
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  guess
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  it's
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  good.
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  And
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  then
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  she
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  was
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  like,
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  well,
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  where'd
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  you
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  get
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  it
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  from?
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  And
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  I
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  told
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  her
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  what
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  address
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  or,
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  you
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  know,
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  like,
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  what
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  website
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  I
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  got
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  it
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  from.
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  And
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  it.
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  I.
• 2:47
  I'll
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  have
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  to
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  put
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  that
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  on
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  so
• 2:49
  you
• 2:49
  guys
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  don't
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  do
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  that
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  too.
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  And
• 2:52
  she
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  like,
• 2:52
  pulled
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  she's
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  so
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  good
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  at
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  stalking
• 2:54
  things.
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  And
• 2:55
  she
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  just
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  real
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  quick
• 2:56
  pulled
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  up
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  the
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  website.
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  She
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  goes,
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  you
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  realize
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  that,
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  like,
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  this
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  is
• 2:59
  common.
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  Like,
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  this
• 3:00
  website
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  is
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  a
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  Don't
• 3:01
  buy
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  from.
• 3:02
  Like,
• 3:02
  they're
• 3:02
  bad.
• 3:03
  And
• 3:04
  I
• 3:04
  was
• 3:04
  like,
• 3:04
  oh,
• 3:04
  shit.
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  No,
• 3:05
  I
• 3:05
  didn't
• 3:05
  know
• 3:05
  that
• 3:05
  it
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  was
• 3:06
  a
• 3:06
  Facebook
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  ad.
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  So
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  I
• 3:06
  thought
• 3:07
  it
• 3:07
  was,
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  you
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  know,
• 3:08
  good.
• 3:11
  No,
• 3:12
  no.
• 3:12
  Anybody
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  can
• 3:13
  do
• 3:13
  a
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  Facebook
• 3:14
  ad.
• 3:15
  Yeah,
• 3:16
  there's
• 3:17
  that.
• 3:17
  That's
• 3:17
  hilarious.
• 3:18
  I
• 3:18
  will
• 3:19
  show
• 3:19
  you
• 3:19
  all
• 3:19
  the
• 3:19
  beautiful
• 3:19
  dress
• 3:20
  and
• 3:20
  the
• 3:21
  mumu
• 3:21
  that
• 3:21
  I
• 3:21
  got.
• 3:22
  And
• 3:22
  the
• 3:22
  success
• 3:22
  that
• 3:23
  came
• 3:23
  out
• 3:23
  of
• 3:23
  that
• 3:23
  fail.
• 3:25
  Learning
• 3:25
  not
• 3:25
  to
• 3:25
  just
• 3:25
  buy
• 3:26
  shit
• 3:26
  off
• 3:26
  of
• 3:26
  Facebook.
• 3:29
  Yes.
• 3:29
  There
• 3:29
  you
• 3:30
  go.
• 3:31
  I
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  just
• 3:32
  want
• 3:32
  to
• 3:32
  make
• 3:32
  sure
• 3:32
  this
• 3:33
  isn't
• 3:33
  going
• 3:33
  to
• 3:33
  happen
• 3:33
  again.
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  Got
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  it.
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  Very
• 3:36
  sad.
• 3:37
  You're
• 3:37
  like,
• 3:37
  I.
• 3:37
  Yeah,
• 3:38
  you're
• 3:38
  like,
• 3:38
  I.
• 3:38
  Also
• 3:39
  want
• 3:39
  to
• 3:39
  make
• 3:39
  sure.
• 3:43
  I
• 3:43
  want
• 3:44
  to
• 3:44
  be
• 3:44
  sad,
• 3:44
  but
• 3:44
  I
• 3:44
  also
• 3:45
  can't
• 3:45
  help
• 3:45
  but
• 3:45
  laugh
• 3:46
  because
• 3:46
  it's
• 3:46
  hilarious.
• 3:47
  Oh,
• 3:47
  yeah,
• 3:47
  she.
• 3:49
  She
• 3:49
  laughed.
• 3:50
  Good
• 3:50
  at
• 3:50
  that
• 3:50
  one.
• 3:52
  That's
• 3:52
  funny.
• 3:53
  What
• 3:54
  do
• 3:54
  you
• 3:54
  got?
• 3:54
  So
• 3:55
  my
• 3:55
  fail
• 3:56
  is
• 3:56
  more
• 3:57
  of
• 3:57
  an
• 3:58
  experience
• 3:59
  that
• 3:59
  I
• 3:59
  had.
• 4:00
  Since
• 4:00
  it's
• 4:00
  Pride
• 4:00
  Month,
• 4:01
  I'm
• 4:01
  just
• 4:01
  going
• 4:01
  to
• 4:01
  share
• 4:01
  it.
• 4:02
  That
• 4:02
  it
• 4:03
  kind
• 4:03
  of
• 4:03
  actually
• 4:03
  made
• 4:03
  me
• 4:04
  a
• 4:04
  little
• 4:04
  mad.
• 4:05
  But
• 4:05
  I
• 4:05
  was
• 4:05
  proud
• 4:06
  of
• 4:06
  myself,
• 4:06
  I
• 4:06
  think,
• 4:07
  for
• 4:07
  how
• 4:07
  I
• 4:07
  handled
• 4:08
  it.
• 4:08
  Because
• 4:09
  in
• 4:09
  the
• 4:09
  past,
• 4:09
  I
• 4:09
  might
• 4:09
  have.
• 4:10
  I
• 4:10
  don't
• 4:10
  know.
• 4:11
  So
• 4:11
  we're
• 4:12
  in
• 4:12
  the
• 4:12
  shop
• 4:12
  and
• 4:13
  there's
• 4:14
  a
• 4:14
  lot
• 4:14
  of
• 4:14
  very.
• 4:15
  I
• 4:16
  want
• 4:16
  to
• 4:16
  just
• 4:16
  say,
• 4:16
  like,
• 4:16
  not
• 4:17
  politically
• 4:17
  minded,
• 4:18
  conservative,
• 4:19
  but
• 4:19
  just
• 4:19
  like,
• 4:20
  like,
• 4:20
  nor,
• 4:21
  like,
• 4:21
  like
• 4:22
  conservative
• 4:22
  women.
• 4:23
  Like,
• 4:23
  just
• 4:24
  that
• 4:24
  shop
• 4:24
  at
• 4:25
  the
• 4:25
  shop.
• 4:26
  I
• 4:26
  don't
• 4:26
  mean
• 4:26
  politically.
• 4:27
  I
• 4:27
  just
• 4:27
  mean
• 4:28
  as
• 4:28
  humans.
• 4:29
  I
• 4:29
  was
• 4:29
  showing
• 4:30
  somebody
• 4:30
  this
• 4:30
  fabric
• 4:31
  that's
• 4:31
  actually
• 4:31
  children's
• 4:32
  fabric,
• 4:32
  and
• 4:32
  it
• 4:32
  has
• 4:33
  rainbows
• 4:33
  and
• 4:33
  clouds.
• 4:34
  Clouds
• 4:34
  and
• 4:34
  sunshines
• 4:35
  on
• 4:35
  it.
• 4:36
  And
• 4:36
  the
• 4:37
  woman
• 4:37
  said
• 4:38
  to
• 4:38
  me,
• 4:38
  it
• 4:39
  was
• 4:39
  like
• 4:39
  a
• 4:39
  straight
• 4:40
  face
• 4:40
  and
• 4:41
  said,
• 4:41
  is
• 4:41
  this
• 4:41
  for
• 4:41
  the
• 4:41
  gays?
• 4:42
  And
• 4:43
  I
• 4:43
  was
• 4:43
  like,
• 4:44
  I
• 4:45
  got
• 4:45
  so
• 4:45
  offended.
• 4:47
  And
• 4:48
  I
• 4:48
  looked
• 4:49
  at
• 4:49
  her
• 4:49
  and
• 4:50
  I.
• 4:51
  I'm.
• 4:52
  I
• 4:52
  said.
• 4:53
  And
• 4:53
  I
• 4:53
  knew
• 4:53
  she
• 4:53
  wanted
• 4:54
  me
• 4:54
  to
• 4:54
  say
• 4:54
  no
• 4:55
  or.
• 4:55
  And
• 4:56
  I,
• 4:56
  like,
• 4:56
  I
• 4:56
  just
• 4:56
  looked
• 4:56
  at
• 4:57
  her
• 4:57
  and
• 4:57
  pretended
• 4:57
  I
• 4:57
  didn't
• 4:57
  know
• 4:57
  what
• 4:58
  she
• 4:58
  was
• 4:58
  talking
• 4:58
  about
• 4:59
  because,
• 4:59
  like,
• 4:59
  why
• 5:00
  would
• 5:00
  you
• 5:00
  have
• 5:00
  a
• 5:00
  problem
• 5:00
  with
• 5:01
  that?
• 5:01
  And
• 5:01
  so
• 5:01
  I
• 5:01
  just
• 5:01
  looked
• 5:02
  at
• 5:02
  her
• 5:02
  and
• 5:02
  said,
• 5:03
  oh,
• 5:03
  it
• 5:03
  can
• 5:03
  be,
• 5:03
  if
• 5:04
  that's
• 5:04
  what
• 5:04
  you
• 5:04
  want
• 5:04
  it
• 5:05
  to
• 5:05
  be.
• 5:07
  Oh,
• 5:07
  my
• 5:07
  goodness.
• 5:08
  I'm
• 5:08
  just
• 5:08
  like,
• 5:09
  what?
• 5:10
  I
• 5:10
  just,
• 5:10
  like,
• 5:11
  this
• 5:11
  is
• 5:11
  a.
• 5:11
  For
• 5:11
  one,
• 5:12
  it's
• 5:12
  a
• 5:12
  children's
• 5:12
  fabric.
• 5:13
  And
• 5:13
  for
• 5:14
  two,
• 5:14
  what's
• 5:15
  wrong
• 5:15
  if
• 5:15
  it
• 5:15
  is?
• 5:16
  So
• 5:16
  what
• 5:16
  if
• 5:17
  it
• 5:17
  is?
• 5:17
  And
• 5:17
  so
• 5:17
  I
• 5:18
  just
• 5:18
  said,
• 5:18
  oh,
• 5:18
  well,
• 5:18
  is
• 5:19
  that
• 5:19
  what
• 5:19
  you'd
• 5:19
  like?
• 5:19
  It
• 5:20
  can
• 5:20
  be
• 5:20
  if
• 5:20
  you
• 5:20
  want.
• 5:21
  And
• 5:21
  I
• 5:22
  knew
• 5:22
  that.
• 5:22
  What
• 5:22
  was
• 5:23
  her
• 5:23
  response?
• 5:24
  It
• 5:25
  was,
• 5:25
  oh,
• 5:25
  my
• 5:25
  gosh,
• 5:26
  no.
• 5:26
  And
• 5:26
  I
• 5:26
  Was
• 5:26
  like,
• 5:27
  well,
• 5:28
  I.
• 5:29
  I
• 5:29
  said,
• 5:29
  well,
• 5:30
  I
• 5:30
  actually
• 5:30
  have
• 5:30
  a
• 5:30
  lot
• 5:30
  of
• 5:30
  people
• 5:31
  in
• 5:31
  my
• 5:31
  life
• 5:31
  that
• 5:31
  I'm
• 5:31
  very
• 5:32
  close
• 5:32
  to
• 5:33
  that
• 5:34
  do
• 5:34
  identify
• 5:35
  that
• 5:35
  way,
• 5:35
  and
• 5:36
  I
• 5:36
  don't
• 5:36
  see
• 5:36
  a
• 5:37
  problem
• 5:37
  with
• 5:37
  it.
• 5:38
  And
• 5:38
  she
• 5:38
  was
• 5:38
  just,
• 5:38
  like,
• 5:39
  suddenly
• 5:39
  trying
• 5:39
  to
• 5:39
  backpedal,
• 5:40
  and
• 5:41
  I'm
• 5:41
  glad
• 5:42
  I
• 5:42
  made
• 5:42
  her
• 5:42
  freaking
• 5:42
  uncomfortable.
• 5:43
  I
• 5:43
  made
• 5:43
  her
• 5:44
  very
• 5:44
  uncomfortable
• 5:44
  on
• 5:45
  purpose,
• 5:45
  and
• 5:45
  I'm
• 5:46
  proud
• 5:46
  of
• 5:46
  it
• 5:46
  because
• 5:47
  I'm
• 5:48
  so
• 5:48
  over,
• 5:49
  like,
• 5:49
  trying
• 5:50
  to
• 5:50
  play
• 5:50
  nice
• 5:50
  and
• 5:51
  pander
• 5:51
  to
• 5:51
  people
• 5:51
  because
• 5:51
  I
• 5:52
  want
• 5:52
  to
• 5:52
  make
• 5:52
  sure
• 5:52
  they
• 5:52
  shop
• 5:52
  and
• 5:53
  give
• 5:53
  me
• 5:53
  business
• 5:53
  still.
• 5:53
  And
• 5:54
  it's
• 5:54
  like,
• 5:55
  yes,
• 5:55
  we
• 5:55
  need
• 5:55
  business,
• 5:56
  but
• 5:56
  we
• 5:56
  also
• 5:56
  need
• 5:57
  good
• 5:57
  people
• 5:57
  in
• 5:57
  the
• 5:57
  shop.
• 5:59
  And
• 5:59
  so
• 6:00
  I
• 6:00
  know
• 6:00
  she'll
• 6:00
  come
• 6:00
  back,
• 6:01
  but
• 6:02
  I
• 6:02
  still.
• 6:02
  Yeah.
• 6:03
  Anyway,
• 6:04
  it
• 6:04
  was
• 6:04
  just
• 6:04
  an
• 6:04
  experience
• 6:05
  I
• 6:05
  had,
• 6:05
  and
• 6:05
  I.
• 6:06
  It
• 6:06
  made
• 6:06
  me
• 6:06
  sad.
• 6:08
  Thank
• 6:08
  you.
• 6:08
  But,
• 6:09
  yeah,
• 6:10
  I
• 6:10
  think
• 6:10
  I
• 6:11
  am
• 6:11
  a
• 6:11
  little
• 6:11
  too.
• 6:13
  Yeah,
• 6:13
  it
• 6:13
  does.
• 6:13
  It's
• 6:14
  uncomfortable.
• 6:15
  It
• 6:16
  is
• 6:16
  uncomfortable
• 6:17
  for
• 6:17
  you.
• 6:18
  Yeah,
• 6:19
  that's
• 6:20
  all.
• 6:20
  I
• 6:20
  just
• 6:20
  wanted
• 6:21
  to
• 6:21
  kind
• 6:21
  of
• 6:21
  say,
• 6:22
  I
• 6:23
  know
• 6:23
  we
• 6:23
  all
• 6:23
  handle
• 6:23
  things
• 6:24
  our
• 6:24
  own
• 6:24
  way,
• 6:24
  but
• 6:24
  this
• 6:25
  time
• 6:26
  I
• 6:26
  was.
• 6:26
  I
• 6:27
  kind
• 6:27
  of
• 6:27
  was
• 6:27
  okay.
• 6:28
  I.
• 6:28
  That
• 6:29
  I.
• 6:29
  I
• 6:30
  kind
• 6:30
  of
• 6:30
  had
• 6:31
  that
• 6:31
  uncomfortableness.
• 6:32
  Let.
• 6:32
  Let
• 6:32
  it
• 6:32
  just
• 6:33
  sit
• 6:33
  there
• 6:33
  and.
• 6:34
  Yeah,
• 6:35
  so
• 6:35
  it
• 6:35
  was
• 6:35
  sad.
• 6:35
  It's
• 6:36
  kind
• 6:36
  of
• 6:36
  a
• 6:36
  sad
• 6:37
  fail,
• 6:37
  but
• 6:37
  also,
• 6:39
  I
• 6:39
  don't
• 6:39
  know,
• 6:40
  we
• 6:40
  all
• 6:40
  have
• 6:40
  to
• 6:41
  stand
• 6:41
  up
• 6:41
  for
• 6:41
  things
• 6:41
  in
• 6:41
  our
• 6:41
  own
• 6:42
  way,
• 6:42
  I
• 6:42
  guess.
• 6:42
  Or
• 6:43
  is
• 6:43
  it
• 6:43
  like
• 6:44
  a
• 6:45
  badass
• 6:45
  fail?
• 6:46
  Because
• 6:48
  I'm
• 6:48
  sorry.
• 6:49
  Like,
• 6:49
  that's
• 6:50
  not.
• 6:52
  I
• 6:52
  hope
• 6:53
  so.
• 6:53
  I
• 6:53
  hope
• 6:53
  so.
• 6:53
  It's
• 6:54
  the
• 6:54
  least
• 6:54
  of
• 6:54
  the
• 6:55
  least
• 6:55
  I
• 6:55
  could
• 6:55
  do.
• 6:55
  I
• 6:55
  feel
• 6:56
  like
• 6:56
  there's
• 6:56
  too
• 6:56
  many
• 6:56
  years
• 6:57
  that
• 6:57
  have
• 6:58
  just
• 6:58
  kind
• 6:58
  of,
• 6:58
  like,
• 6:59
  not
• 6:59
  wanted
• 6:59
  that
• 6:59
  confrontation
• 7:00
  and
• 7:00
  probably
• 7:00
  didn't
• 7:01
  stand
• 7:01
  up
• 7:01
  like
• 7:01
  I
• 7:01
  should
• 7:02
  have
• 7:02
  for
• 7:02
  people,
• 7:03
  but
• 7:04
  I'm.
• 7:05
  I'm
• 7:05
  not
• 7:05
  anymore.
• 7:06
  So.
• 7:07
  Yeah.
• 7:07
  Yeah.
• 7:08
  And
• 7:08
  it's.
• 7:09
  It's
• 7:09
  hard,
• 7:09
  but.
• 7:10
  And
• 7:10
  it's
• 7:10
  not
• 7:10
  saying.
• 7:11
  I'm
• 7:11
  not
• 7:11
  saying
• 7:11
  anyone
• 7:12
  should
• 7:13
  handle
• 7:13
  things
• 7:13
  a
• 7:14
  very,
• 7:14
  like,
• 7:14
  the
• 7:14
  way
• 7:14
  I
• 7:15
  did
• 7:15
  or
• 7:15
  that
• 7:15
  it
• 7:16
  was
• 7:16
  the
• 7:16
  right
• 7:16
  way,
• 7:16
  but
• 7:16
  for
• 7:16
  me,
• 7:17
  it
• 7:17
  was,
• 7:17
  and
• 7:18
  I'm
• 7:18
  feeling
• 7:18
  good
• 7:18
  about
• 7:19
  it.
• 7:20
  I
• 7:20
  like
• 7:20
  that.
• 7:22
  No,
• 7:22
  that's.
• 7:24
  Well,
• 7:24
  I'm
• 7:24
  not
• 7:24
  gonna
• 7:24
  make
• 7:25
  this
• 7:25
  about
• 7:25
  me,
• 7:25
  so
• 7:25
  never
• 7:26
  mind.
• 7:26
  But,
• 7:31
  well.
• 7:32
  Well,
• 7:32
  now
• 7:33
  you
• 7:33
  have
• 7:33
  to
• 7:33
  say.
• 7:38
  Only.
• 7:38
  If
• 7:38
  you
• 7:38
  want
• 7:39
  to.
• 7:39
  No,
• 7:39
  I.
• 7:40
  I
• 7:40
  appreciate
• 7:41
  that
• 7:41
  story.
• 7:41
  I
• 7:42
  think
• 7:42
  that,
• 7:43
  you
• 7:43
  know,
• 7:44
  may
• 7:44
  come
• 7:44
  surprise,
• 7:45
  surprise
• 7:46
  that
• 7:46
  I
• 7:46
  am
• 7:47
  be.
• 7:47
  I,
• 7:48
  you
• 7:48
  know,
• 7:49
  voiced
• 7:50
  that
• 7:50
  I
• 7:50
  am
• 7:50
  very
• 7:50
  bi
• 7:51
  now.
• 7:52
  Yeah.
• 7:53
  Yeah.
• 7:53
  Well,
• 7:53
  to
• 7:53
  say
• 7:54
  that.
• 7:54
  And,
• 7:54
  like,
• 7:54
  I
• 7:54
  think
• 7:55
  if
• 7:55
  someone,
• 7:55
  like,
• 7:55
  would
• 7:56
  have
• 7:56
  said
• 7:56
  that
• 7:56
  to
• 7:56
  me,
• 7:57
  like,
• 7:57
  yeah,
• 7:58
  I'm
• 7:58
  not
• 7:58
  gonna
• 7:58
  go
• 7:58
  out
• 7:59
  and
• 7:59
  buy,
• 7:59
  like.
• 7:59
  I
• 7:59
  mean,
• 8:00
  I
• 8:00
  don't,
• 8:00
  like,
• 8:01
  showcase
• 8:02
  my
• 8:02
  pride
• 8:02
  stuff,
• 8:03
  like,
• 8:03
  all
• 8:03
  over,
• 8:03
  you
• 8:04
  know,
• 8:04
  or
• 8:04
  anywhere
• 8:04
  we
• 8:04
  go,
• 8:05
  but
• 8:05
  it's
• 8:06
  like,
• 8:07
  I
• 8:07
  would
• 8:07
  get
• 8:07
  really
• 8:07
  uncomfortable
• 8:08
  if
• 8:08
  someone
• 8:09
  was
• 8:09
  like,
• 8:09
  you
• 8:10
  know,
• 8:10
  talking
• 8:11
  bad
• 8:11
  about,
• 8:11
  like,
• 8:12
  my
• 8:12
  lifestyle
• 8:12
  choices
• 8:13
  and
• 8:14
  that.
• 8:14
  Like,
• 8:14
  I
• 8:14
  just
• 8:15
  quiet
• 8:15
  because
• 8:15
  I'm
• 8:16
  like.
• 8:16
  I
• 8:16
  don't
• 8:16
  know
• 8:16
  what
• 8:16
  to
• 8:16
  say.
• 8:18
  Yeah.
• 8:18
  Because
• 8:18
  people
• 8:19
  have
• 8:19
  a
• 8:19
  tendency
• 8:19
  to
• 8:20
  assume
• 8:20
  that
• 8:20
  you
• 8:20
  just
• 8:20
  think
• 8:21
  and
• 8:21
  behave
• 8:21
  and
• 8:22
  act
• 8:22
  the
• 8:22
  way
• 8:22
  that
• 8:22
  they
• 8:23
  do.
• 8:23
  So,
• 8:24
  like,
• 8:24
  I
• 8:24
  have
• 8:24
  a
• 8:24
  lot
• 8:24
  of
• 8:24
  people
• 8:25
  that'll
• 8:25
  come
• 8:25
  into
• 8:25
  the
• 8:26
  shop
• 8:26
  and
• 8:26
  they
• 8:26
  just
• 8:26
  assume
• 8:27
  that.
• 8:27
  And
• 8:27
  they'll
• 8:27
  say
• 8:27
  things
• 8:28
  like
• 8:28
  that
• 8:28
  and
• 8:28
  assume
• 8:28
  that
• 8:28
  I'm
• 8:29
  just
• 8:29
  agreeing
• 8:29
  with
• 8:29
  them.
• 8:30
  And
• 8:30
  it's
• 8:30
  like,
• 8:30
  I
• 8:31
  don't
• 8:31
  want
• 8:31
  to
• 8:31
  be
• 8:31
  quiet
• 8:31
  anymore.
• 8:32
  And
• 8:32
  it's
• 8:32
  gonna
• 8:32
  be.
• 8:32
  It
• 8:32
  would
• 8:33
  be
• 8:33
  hard
• 8:33
  if.
• 8:33
  Yeah,
• 8:34
  that
• 8:34
  makes
• 8:34
  sense,
• 8:34
  Sam.
• 8:35
  Because
• 8:35
  it's
• 8:36
  like,
• 8:36
  wait,
• 8:36
  you're
• 8:37
  talking
• 8:37
  about
• 8:37
  me?
• 8:38
  To
• 8:38
  me?
• 8:38
  Yeah,
• 8:39
  Well,
• 8:39
  I
• 8:39
  try
• 8:39
  to.
• 8:40
  I
• 8:40
  think
• 8:40
  that
• 8:40
  I
• 8:40
  probably
• 8:41
  just
• 8:41
  still
• 8:41
  would
• 8:41
  have
• 8:41
  been
• 8:41
  silent
• 8:42
  because
• 8:42
  it's
• 8:43
  so
• 8:43
  uncomfortable.
• 8:44
  It
• 8:45
  is
• 8:45
  uncomfortable.
• 8:46
  It
• 8:46
  was.
• 8:47
  It
• 8:47
  was.
• 8:48
  But
• 8:49
  we
• 8:49
  just
• 8:49
  gotta
• 8:49
  do
• 8:50
  the
• 8:51
  best
• 8:51
  we
• 8:51
  can.
• 8:51
  That's
• 8:51
  all
• 8:51
  I
• 8:52
  can
• 8:52
  say.
• 8:53
  Well,
• 8:54
  I
• 8:54
  love
• 8:54
  you.
• 8:55
  And
• 8:55
  I
• 8:55
  love
• 8:56
  you.
• 8:58
  Thank
• 8:58
  you.
• 8:59
  And
• 8:59
  before
• 8:59
  we
• 9:00
  get
• 9:00
  into
• 9:00
  our
• 9:01
  episode
• 9:02
  with
• 9:02
  Michelle,
• 9:03
  which
• 9:03
  is
• 9:04
  one
• 9:04
  of
• 9:04
  your
• 9:04
  best
• 9:04
  friends
• 9:05
  that
• 9:05
  also
• 9:05
  works
• 9:06
  with
• 9:06
  you
• 9:06
  in
• 9:06
  the
• 9:06
  shop,
• 9:07
  I
• 9:07
  want
• 9:07
  to
• 9:07
  remind
• 9:08
  everyone
• 9:08
  of
• 9:08
  the
• 9:08
  boudoir
• 9:09
  studio,
• 9:10
  One
• 9:10
  Soul,
• 9:10
  that
• 9:10
  we've
• 9:10
  been
• 9:11
  working
• 9:11
  with
• 9:12
  and
• 9:12
  talking
• 9:12
  with
• 9:13
  a
• 9:13
  lot.
• 9:14
  We
• 9:14
  both
• 9:14
  had
• 9:14
  such
• 9:15
  an
• 9:15
  amazing
• 9:15
  time
• 9:16
  getting
• 9:16
  to
• 9:16
  know
• 9:16
  them
• 9:16
  in
• 9:17
  and
• 9:17
  out
• 9:17
  of
• 9:17
  the
• 9:17
  studio.
• 9:18
  And
• 9:19
  just
• 9:19
  again,
• 9:20
  to
• 9:20
  remind
• 9:20
  you,
• 9:21
  we
• 9:21
  want
• 9:21
  you
• 9:22
  to
• 9:22
  experience
• 9:22
  that,
• 9:22
  too.
• 9:23
  And
• 9:23
  so
• 9:23
  we
• 9:23
  have
• 9:23
  a
• 9:24
  link
• 9:24
  in
• 9:24
  our
• 9:24
  bio
• 9:25
  where
• 9:25
  you
• 9:25
  guys
• 9:25
  can
• 9:25
  click
• 9:26
  and
• 9:26
  have
• 9:27
  a
• 9:27
  free
• 9:27
  consultation
• 9:28
  with
• 9:28
  them
• 9:28
  and
• 9:28
  get
• 9:28
  a
• 9:29
  special
• 9:29
  rate
• 9:30
  for
• 9:30
  your
• 9:30
  own
• 9:31
  session.
• 9:31
  And
• 9:32
  you
• 9:32
  will
• 9:32
  love
• 9:32
  them.
• 9:32
  Just
• 9:33
  go
• 9:33
  into
• 9:33
  the
• 9:33
  studio.
• 9:33
  It's
• 9:34
  beautiful.
• 9:34
  It's
• 9:34
  so
• 9:34
  welcoming.
• 9:35
  They're
• 9:35
  welcoming.
• 9:36
  And
• 9:37
  you'll
• 9:37
  fall
• 9:37
  in
• 9:37
  love,
• 9:37
  too,
• 9:37
  and
• 9:38
  have
• 9:38
  a
• 9:38
  great
• 9:38
  time.
• 9:39
  Yeah.
• 9:39
  And
• 9:39
  actually,
• 9:39
  would
• 9:40
  this
• 9:40
  be
• 9:40
  a
• 9:40
  good
• 9:40
  time
• 9:41
  to
• 9:41
  share?
• 9:41
  Like,
• 9:41
  hey,
• 9:42
  come
• 9:42
  on
• 9:42
  out
• 9:42
  and
• 9:43
  visit
• 9:43
  us
• 9:43
  for
• 9:44
  wine
• 9:44
  and
• 9:46
  such.
• 9:46
  We
• 9:47
  are.
• 9:47
  We
• 9:47
  have
• 9:47
  a
• 9:48
  wine
• 9:48
  night
• 9:49
  on
• 9:49
  Thursday,
• 9:50
  Friday
• 9:50
  the
• 9:51
  27th.
• 9:52
  And
• 9:53
  we
• 9:53
  would
• 9:53
  love
• 9:53
  anyone.
• 9:54
  Wait,
• 9:54
  you
• 9:54
  said
• 9:55
  Thursday.
• 9:55
  Friday
• 9:56
  is
• 9:56
  Friday,
• 9:56
  right?
• 9:57
  Friday.
• 9:57
  What
• 9:57
  did
• 9:58
  I
• 9:58
  say?
• 9:58
  Okay,
• 9:59
  it
• 10:00
  was
• 10:00
  Friday
• 10:01
  the
• 10:01
  27th.
• 10:02
  Oh,
• 10:02
  yeah.
• 10:02
  You
• 10:02
  said
• 10:03
  Thursday,
• 10:04
  Friday
• 10:04
  the
• 10:04
  27th.
• 10:05
  And
• 10:05
  I
• 10:06
  was
• 10:06
  like,
• 10:06
  wait,
• 10:06
  to
• 10:07
  be
• 10:07
  clear,
• 10:07
  Friday
• 10:08
  the
• 10:08
  27th,
• 10:09
  we're
• 10:09
  going
• 10:09
  to
• 10:10
  be
• 10:10
  at
• 10:10
  the
• 10:10
  One
• 10:10
  Soul
• 10:11
  Boudoir
• 10:11
  Studio
• 10:12
  having
• 10:12
  a
• 10:13
  wine
• 10:13
  and
• 10:13
  cheese
• 10:13
  night
• 10:14
  and
• 10:14
  just
• 10:14
  letting
• 10:14
  people,
• 10:15
  like,
• 10:15
  get
• 10:15
  to
• 10:15
  see
• 10:15
  the
• 10:16
  studio
• 10:16
  and
• 10:16
  kind
• 10:16
  of,
• 10:17
  like,
• 10:17
  know
• 10:17
  what
• 10:17
  it's
• 10:17
  about.
• 10:18
  And
• 10:19
  it's
• 10:19
  not
• 10:19
  like
• 10:20
  you
• 10:20
  have
• 10:20
  to.
• 10:20
  Oh,
• 10:20
  I'm
• 10:21
  going.
• 10:21
  I
• 10:21
  have
• 10:21
  to.
• 10:21
  Oh,
• 10:22
  yeah.
• 10:22
  There's
• 10:22
  no
• 10:22
  pressure.
• 10:22
  There's
• 10:23
  going
• 10:23
  to
• 10:23
  be
• 10:24
  not
• 10:24
  a
• 10:24
  sale.
• 10:25
  This
• 10:25
  is
• 10:25
  hanging
• 10:26
  out
• 10:26
  like
• 10:27
  a
• 10:27
  little
• 10:27
  beautiful
• 10:27
  place
• 10:28
  with
• 10:29
  awesome
• 10:29
  people.
• 10:29
  Yeah.
• 10:30
  And
• 10:30
  you
• 10:31
  guys
• 10:31
  should
• 10:31
  definitely
• 10:32
  try
• 10:32
  to
• 10:32
  make
• 10:32
  it.
• 10:32
  If
• 10:33
  you
• 10:33
  can
• 10:33
  wait.
• 10:33
  What
• 10:34
  did
• 10:34
  you
• 10:34
  say,
• 10:34
  Sam?
• 10:34
  I
• 10:34
  accidentally.
• 10:35
  I
• 10:36
  don't
• 10:36
  remember
• 10:36
  what
• 10:36
  I
• 10:37
  said.
• 10:37
  I
• 10:37
  just
• 10:37
  talk.
• 10:41
  You
• 10:42
  guys,
• 10:42
  we're
• 10:42
  a
• 10:42
  mess.
• 10:42
  We
• 10:43
  should
• 10:43
  probably
• 10:43
  let
• 10:43
  you
• 10:43
  get
• 10:44
  some
• 10:44
  shell.
• 10:44
  Yeah.
• 10:46
  So
• 10:47
  enjoy.
• 10:57
  So
• 10:57
  we
• 10:57
  have
• 10:57
  with
• 10:57
  us
• 10:58
  today
• 10:58
  one
• 10:58
  of
• 10:59
  the.
• 10:59
  My
• 10:59
  favorite
• 11:00
  people.
• 11:00
  Her
• 11:00
  name
• 11:00
  is
• 11:01
  Michelle.
• 11:02
  She
• 11:02
  actually
• 11:02
  works
• 11:03
  with
• 11:03
  me
• 11:03
  in
• 11:03
  the
• 11:03
  shop
• 11:04
  here.
• 11:04
  This
• 11:04
  is
• 11:04
  Melissa.
• 11:05
  But
• 11:05
  I
• 11:05
  think
• 11:06
  you
• 11:06
  guys
• 11:06
  know
• 11:06
  our
• 11:06
  voices
• 11:06
  by
• 11:06
  now,
• 11:07
  right?
• 11:07
  Obviously.
• 11:11
  So,
• 11:12
  anyway,
• 11:12
  she
• 11:12
  works
• 11:13
  with
• 11:13
  me
• 11:13
  in
• 11:13
  the
• 11:13
  shop.
• 11:13
  She
• 11:13
  keeps
• 11:14
  me,
• 11:15
  as
• 11:15
  you
• 11:15
  guys
• 11:15
  have
• 11:16
  probably
• 11:16
  already
• 11:16
  know,
• 11:17
  I'm
• 11:17
  super
• 11:17
  add.
• 11:18
  She
• 11:18
  keeps
• 11:18
  me
• 11:18
  straight.
• 11:19
  She
• 11:19
  has
• 11:20
  been
• 11:20
  in
• 11:21
  her
• 11:21
  past.
• 11:21
  She
• 11:21
  has
• 11:22
  had
• 11:22
  many
• 11:22
  careers.
• 11:23
  She
• 11:23
  has
• 11:23
  been
• 11:24
  a
• 11:25
  mom,
• 11:26
  band
• 11:26
  mom
• 11:27
  extraordinaire.
• 11:29
  She
• 11:29
  has
• 11:29
  been.
• 11:30
  She
• 11:30
  worked
• 11:30
  at
• 11:30
  a
• 11:30
  dance
• 11:31
  school.
• 11:31
  She
• 11:31
  worked
• 11:32
  in
• 11:32
  a
• 11:32
  bank.
• 11:32
  She
• 11:33
  does
• 11:33
  finance.
• 11:34
  She
• 11:34
  has
• 11:34
  so
• 11:35
  many
• 11:35
  capabilities.
• 11:36
  But
• 11:36
  that's
• 11:36
  not
• 11:36
  even
• 11:36
  why
• 11:36
  we're
• 11:37
  here.
• 11:37
  You
• 11:37
  do
• 11:37
  have
• 11:37
  credentials.
• 11:38
  She
• 11:39
  does,
• 11:39
  actually.
• 11:39
  I
• 11:39
  can
• 11:39
  even
• 11:40
  pump
• 11:40
  gas.
• 11:40
  I
• 11:40
  worked
• 11:40
  at
• 11:41
  a
• 11:41
  gas
• 11:41
  station.
• 11:43
  Is
• 11:43
  that
• 11:43
  still
• 11:44
  a
• 11:44
  thing?
• 11:44
  Oh,
• 11:45
  it
• 11:45
  is.
• 11:45
  We
• 11:45
  went
• 11:46
  to
• 11:46
  a
• 11:46
  gas
• 11:46
  station
• 11:46
  and
• 11:46
  someone
• 11:47
  came
• 11:47
  out
• 11:47
  and
• 11:47
  pumped
• 11:47
  our
• 11:47
  gas.
• 11:48
  In
• 11:48
  New
• 11:48
  Jersey?
• 11:49
  No,
• 11:50
  but.
• 11:51
  But
• 11:51
  no,
• 11:52
  it
• 11:52
  was
• 11:52
  cool.
• 11:53
  In
• 11:53
  New
• 11:53
  Jersey
• 11:53
  they
• 11:54
  don't
• 11:54
  let
• 11:54
  you
• 11:54
  pump
• 11:54
  your
• 11:54
  own
• 11:54
  gas.
• 11:55
  Oh,
• 11:55
  yeah.
• 11:56
  Still,
• 11:56
  that's
• 11:56
  the
• 11:57
  only
• 11:57
  state
• 11:57
  left,
• 11:57
  Right?
• 11:58
  Well,
• 11:58
  that's
• 11:58
  nice.
• 11:59
  Does
• 11:59
  Washington.
• 12:00
  I
• 12:00
  don't
• 12:00
  know.
• 12:00
  There
• 12:01
  might
• 12:01
  be.
• 12:01
  When
• 12:01
  I
• 12:01
  was
• 12:02
  young,
• 12:02
  I
• 12:02
  want
• 12:02
  to
• 12:03
  say
• 12:03
  Washington
• 12:04
  was
• 12:04
  still
• 12:05
  doing
• 12:05
  that,
• 12:05
  but.
• 12:06
  I
• 12:06
  don't
• 12:06
  know
• 12:07
  Jersey
• 12:07
  for
• 12:07
  sure.
• 12:08
  That's
• 12:09
  cool.
• 12:09
  They
• 12:09
  get
• 12:09
  offended.
• 12:10
  It's
• 12:10
  funny.
• 12:11
  We
• 12:11
  met
• 12:12
  one
• 12:12
  of
• 12:12
  the
• 12:13
  handy
• 12:13
  Quilter
• 12:13
  educators
• 12:14
  that
• 12:14
  came
• 12:14
  to
• 12:14
  the
• 12:15
  shop
• 12:15
  and
• 12:15
  helped
• 12:16
  us
• 12:16
  with
• 12:16
  our
• 12:16
  expo
• 12:16
  this
• 12:17
  last
• 12:17
  time,
• 12:17
  Michelle.
• 12:18
  She's.
• 12:19
  Lee
• 12:19
  is
• 12:19
  from
• 12:20
  New
• 12:20
  Jersey,
• 12:21
  and
• 12:21
  she
• 12:21
  was
• 12:21
  joking
• 12:22
  and
• 12:22
  being
• 12:22
  like,
• 12:22
  how
• 12:22
  would
• 12:23
  I
• 12:23
  know?
• 12:23
  I'm
• 12:23
  from
• 12:23
  New
• 12:24
  Jersey.
• 12:24
  I
• 12:24
  don't
• 12:25
  even
• 12:25
  know
• 12:25
  how
• 12:25
  to
• 12:25
  pump
• 12:25
  gas.
• 12:26
  Oh,
• 12:27
  my
• 12:27
  God.
• 12:27
  And
• 12:27
  no
• 12:27
  one
• 12:27
  would
• 12:28
  know
• 12:28
  if
• 12:28
  they
• 12:28
  didn't
• 12:28
  know.
• 12:29
  Yeah.
• 12:29
  How
• 12:30
  would
• 12:30
  you
• 12:30
  know?
• 12:32
  So
• 12:33
  funny.
• 12:33
  You
• 12:33
  just
• 12:34
  sit
• 12:34
  there
• 12:34
  in
• 12:34
  the
• 12:34
  car
• 12:34
  waiting
• 12:35
  for
• 12:35
  somebody
• 12:35
  to
• 12:35
  show
• 12:35
  up.
• 12:36
  So
• 12:36
  funny.
• 12:36
  She
• 12:36
  said
• 12:37
  she
• 12:37
  does
• 12:37
  that
• 12:37
  sometimes.
• 12:38
  An
• 12:38
  accident
• 12:39
  in
• 12:39
  the
• 12:39
  beginning
• 12:39
  because
• 12:39
  she's
• 12:40
  now
• 12:40
  she
• 12:40
  travels
• 12:40
  as
• 12:41
  an
• 12:41
  educator.
• 12:42
  And
• 12:42
  she
• 12:42
  said
• 12:42
  that,
• 12:43
  like,
• 12:43
  sometimes
• 12:43
  she
• 12:43
  gets
• 12:44
  new
• 12:44
  places
• 12:44
  and
• 12:44
  she'd
• 12:45
  forget,
• 12:45
  wait.
• 12:46
  And
• 12:46
  now
• 12:46
  she
• 12:47
  also
• 12:47
  said
• 12:48
  she
• 12:48
  would
• 12:48
  pull
• 12:48
  in,
• 12:49
  she
• 12:49
  would
• 12:49
  get
• 12:49
  out
• 12:49
  of
• 12:49
  her
• 12:50
  car
• 12:50
  and
• 12:50
  look
• 12:50
  on
• 12:51
  which
• 12:51
  side
• 12:51
  the
• 12:51
  gas
• 12:51
  tank
• 12:52
  was
• 12:52
  on
• 12:52
  and
• 12:52
  then
• 12:52
  get
• 12:52
  back
• 12:53
  in
• 12:53
  her
• 12:53
  car.
• 12:53
  Simon
• 12:54
  just
• 12:54
  taught
• 12:54
  me.
• 12:55
  No,
• 12:55
  that's
• 12:55
  what
• 12:56
  Lee
• 12:56
  just
• 12:56
  learned.
• 12:57
  Simon
• 12:57
  just
• 12:57
  taught
• 12:58
  me
• 12:58
  that.
• 12:58
  Your
• 12:58
  car
• 12:58
  tells
• 12:59
  you
• 12:59
  what
• 12:59
  side
• 12:59
  it's
• 12:59
  on.
• 12:59
  Yeah.
• 13:00
  So
• 13:00
  she
• 13:01
  was
• 13:01
  telling
• 13:01
  us
• 13:01
  this
• 13:02
  really
• 13:02
  funny
• 13:02
  story
• 13:02
  and
• 13:03
  hoping
• 13:03
  we
• 13:03
  wouldn't
• 13:03
  know,
• 13:04
  but
• 13:04
  we
• 13:04
  were
• 13:04
  like,
• 13:04
  yeah.
• 13:05
  She's
• 13:05
  like,
• 13:05
  you
• 13:06
  knew
• 13:06
  that.
• 13:07
  I
• 13:07
  didn't.
• 13:08
  It's
• 13:08
  Fine.
• 13:08
  I
• 13:08
  didn't.
• 13:09
  Okay.
• 13:09
  She
• 13:09
  is
• 13:09
  fine.
• 13:10
  Yes.
• 13:10
  She's
• 13:10
  so
• 13:11
  funny,
• 13:11
  though.
• 13:11
  She.
• 13:12
  Okay.
• 13:12
  Yeah.
• 13:12
  See,
• 13:12
  if
• 13:13
  you
• 13:13
  don't
• 13:13
  know,
• 13:13
  you
• 13:13
  don't
• 13:13
  know.
• 13:14
  Yeah,
• 13:15
  but
• 13:15
  if
• 13:15
  I
• 13:15
  would
• 13:15
  have
• 13:16
  heard
• 13:16
  someone
• 13:16
  say
• 13:17
  how,
• 13:17
  like,
• 13:17
  how
• 13:18
  would
• 13:18
  I
• 13:18
  know
• 13:18
  how
• 13:19
  to
• 13:19
  pump
• 13:19
  gas?
• 13:19
  I'm
• 13:19
  from
• 13:20
  Jersey.
• 13:20
  I
• 13:20
  would
• 13:20
  have
• 13:20
  been
• 13:21
  like,
• 13:21
  are
• 13:21
  they
• 13:22
  rich
• 13:22
  or
• 13:22
  something,
• 13:22
  Like,
• 13:23
  I
• 13:23
  wouldn't
• 13:23
  have
• 13:23
  known
• 13:23
  that.
• 13:24
  You
• 13:24
  don't
• 13:24
  write
• 13:25
  gas
• 13:25
  if
• 13:26
  you
• 13:26
  don't.
• 13:26
  Know,
• 13:26
  you
• 13:26
  don't
• 13:26
  know.
• 13:27
  That
• 13:27
  is
• 13:27
  the
• 13:27
  common
• 13:28
  theme
• 13:28
  of
• 13:28
  this
• 13:29
  episode,
• 13:29
  I
• 13:29
  guess.
• 13:30
  Oh,
• 13:30
  yeah.
• 13:30
  It's
• 13:31
  gonna
• 13:31
  go
• 13:31
  right
• 13:31
  in.
• 13:31
  It
• 13:32
  is.
• 13:32
  I
• 13:32
  think
• 13:32
  so.
• 13:33
  Because
• 13:33
  Michelle's
• 13:34
  gonna
• 13:34
  talk
• 13:34
  to
• 13:34
  us
• 13:35
  about
• 13:36
  not
• 13:36
  knowing
• 13:37
  some
• 13:37
  things
• 13:38
  and
• 13:38
  then
• 13:38
  finding
• 13:38
  them
• 13:38
  out.
• 13:39
  As
• 13:39
  a
• 13:39
  parent.
• 13:39
  As
• 13:40
  a
• 13:40
  parent,
• 13:40
  you
• 13:40
  don't
• 13:41
  know
• 13:41
  things
• 13:41
  until
• 13:41
  you
• 13:42
  know
• 13:42
  things.
• 13:42
  Because
• 13:42
  there
• 13:43
  is
• 13:43
  no
• 13:43
  handbook
• 13:43
  that
• 13:44
  says
• 13:44
  this
• 13:44
  is
• 13:44
  how
• 13:44
  you
• 13:44
  parent
• 13:45
  and
• 13:45
  this
• 13:45
  is
• 13:45
  the
• 13:46
  right
• 13:46
  way
• 13:46
  and
• 13:47
  how
• 13:47
  you're
• 13:47
  going
• 13:47
  to
• 13:47
  survive.
• 13:48
  It's
• 13:48
  every
• 13:48
  kid's
• 13:48
  different
• 13:49
  and
• 13:49
  how
• 13:50
  you
• 13:50
  handle
• 13:50
  each
• 13:50
  kid.
• 13:51
  Even
• 13:51
  if
• 13:51
  you
• 13:51
  have
• 13:51
  five
• 13:51
  kids,
• 13:52
  you
• 13:52
  have
• 13:52
  to
• 13:52
  parent
• 13:52
  them
• 13:52
  differently,
• 13:53
  and
• 13:53
  they're
• 13:53
  going
• 13:53
  to
• 13:54
  throw
• 13:54
  something
• 13:54
  new
• 13:54
  at
• 13:54
  you
• 13:55
  that
• 13:55
  you
• 13:55
  haven't
• 13:55
  experienced
• 13:56
  yet.
• 13:56
  Right.
• 13:56
  Michelle
• 13:57
  has
• 13:57
  a
• 13:57
  story
• 13:58
  that
• 13:58
  we
• 13:59
  thought
• 13:59
  would
• 13:59
  be
• 13:59
  interesting
• 14:00
  to
• 14:01
  kind
• 14:01
  of
• 14:01
  ask
• 14:01
  questions
• 14:02
  and
• 14:02
  pick
• 14:02
  her
• 14:03
  brains
• 14:03
  on
• 14:03
  how
• 14:04
  she
• 14:04
  was
• 14:04
  able
• 14:04
  to
• 14:05
  parent
• 14:05
  that
• 14:05
  and
• 14:06
  that
• 14:06
  situation.
• 14:06
  Because
• 14:07
  we
• 14:07
  do
• 14:07
  have
• 14:07
  a
• 14:07
  friend.
• 14:10
  Yeah,
• 14:10
  no,
• 14:10
  you're
• 14:10
  fine.
• 14:10
  You're
• 14:11
  fine.
• 14:11
  You're
• 14:11
  going
• 14:11
  about
• 14:11
  it
• 14:12
  perfectly.
• 14:12
  I
• 14:12
  was
• 14:12
  just.
• 14:13
  I
• 14:13
  was
• 14:13
  just
• 14:13
  going
• 14:13
  to
• 14:14
  say
• 14:14
  about
• 14:14
  what
• 14:14
  you
• 14:14
  were
• 14:14
  about
• 14:14
  to
• 14:14
  say.
• 14:15
  We
• 14:15
  actually
• 14:16
  had
• 14:16
  in
• 14:16
  a
• 14:16
  past
• 14:16
  episode.
• 14:17
  Do
• 14:17
  you
• 14:18
  guys
• 14:18
  remember
• 14:18
  talking
• 14:18
  to
• 14:19
  Yellow
• 14:19
  in
• 14:19
  our
• 14:19
  very
• 14:19
  first
• 14:20
  season?
• 14:21
  And
• 14:21
  she
• 14:21
  was
• 14:21
  talking
• 14:22
  about
• 14:22
  coming
• 14:22
  out
• 14:23
  in
• 14:23
  this
• 14:23
  world,
• 14:24
  and
• 14:24
  she
• 14:24
  came
• 14:25
  out
• 14:25
  to
• 14:25
  her
• 14:25
  parents
• 14:26
  and
• 14:26
  they
• 14:26
  had
• 14:26
  a
• 14:26
  really
• 14:26
  difficult
• 14:27
  time
• 14:27
  with
• 14:27
  it.
• 14:28
  And
• 14:29
  she
• 14:29
  just
• 14:30
  had
• 14:30
  a
• 14:30
  different.
• 14:31
  She
• 14:32
  had
• 14:32
  a
• 14:32
  totally
• 14:32
  different
• 14:33
  perspective,
• 14:34
  I
• 14:34
  think,
• 14:35
  than
• 14:35
  a
• 14:35
  lot
• 14:35
  of
• 14:36
  people
• 14:36
  who
• 14:36
  had
• 14:36
  to
• 14:36
  come
• 14:37
  out
• 14:37
  in
• 14:37
  the
• 14:37
  past
• 14:38
  to
• 14:38
  their
• 14:38
  parents.
• 14:38
  And
• 14:38
  she
• 14:39
  was
• 14:39
  just
• 14:39
  like,
• 14:39
  you
• 14:39
  know,
• 14:40
  they're.
• 14:40
  They
• 14:41
  love
• 14:41
  you,
• 14:41
  but
• 14:42
  they
• 14:42
  also
• 14:42
  had
• 14:42
  built
• 14:42
  in
• 14:43
  their
• 14:43
  mind,
• 14:43
  like,
• 14:43
  a
• 14:43
  life
• 14:43
  that
• 14:44
  they
• 14:44
  thought
• 14:44
  you
• 14:44
  were
• 14:44
  going
• 14:44
  to
• 14:45
  live.
• 14:45
  And
• 14:46
  so
• 14:46
  they
• 14:47
  just
• 14:47
  have
• 14:47
  to,
• 14:47
  like,
• 14:48
  kind
• 14:48
  of
• 14:48
  get
• 14:48
  used
• 14:48
  to
• 14:49
  the
• 14:49
  new.
• 14:49
  New.
• 14:50
  Right.
• 14:50
  Absolutely.
• 14:51
  That's
• 14:51
  the
• 14:52
  perfect
• 14:52
  way
• 14:52
  that
• 14:52
  you're
• 14:52
  explaining
• 14:53
  it.
• 14:53
  It
• 14:53
  was,
• 14:54
  I
• 14:54
  think,
• 14:54
  her.
• 14:55
  I
• 14:55
  think
• 14:55
  if
• 14:56
  I
• 14:56
  remember
• 14:56
  correctly,
• 14:56
  her
• 14:57
  exact
• 14:57
  words
• 14:57
  were,
• 14:57
  they
• 14:58
  have
• 14:58
  to
• 14:58
  go
• 14:58
  through
• 14:59
  a
• 14:59
  morning
• 14:59
  of
• 14:59
  the
• 14:59
  life
• 14:59
  that
• 15:00
  they
• 15:00
  expected
• 15:00
  and
• 15:01
  thought
• 15:01
  you
• 15:01
  were
• 15:02
  going
• 15:02
  to
• 15:02
  have.
• 15:02
  And,
• 15:03
  you
• 15:03
  know,
• 15:04
  you
• 15:04
  have
• 15:04
  to
• 15:05
  give
• 15:05
  them
• 15:05
  time.
• 15:05
  And
• 15:06
  I
• 15:06
  thought.
• 15:06
  We
• 15:06
  thought
• 15:06
  that
• 15:07
  that
• 15:07
  was
• 15:07
  interesting
• 15:07
  because
• 15:09
  you
• 15:09
  do
• 15:09
  hear
• 15:10
  like,
• 15:10
  oh,
• 15:10
  I
• 15:11
  came
• 15:11
  out
• 15:11
  and
• 15:11
  my
• 15:11
  parents
• 15:12
  weren't
• 15:12
  okay
• 15:12
  with
• 15:13
  it,
• 15:13
  and,
• 15:13
  you
• 15:14
  know,
• 15:14
  they
• 15:14
  kicked
• 15:14
  me
• 15:14
  out
• 15:14
  or
• 15:15
  whatever.
• 15:15
  And
• 15:15
  it's
• 15:15
  like
• 15:15
  really
• 15:16
  dramatic.
• 15:16
  And
• 15:16
  that,
• 15:17
  unfortunately,
• 15:17
  is
• 15:18
  the
• 15:18
  story
• 15:18
  that
• 15:19
  a
• 15:19
  lot
• 15:19
  of
• 15:20
  people
• 15:21
  coming
• 15:21
  out
• 15:22
  do
• 15:22
  have
• 15:22
  to
• 15:23
  go
• 15:23
  through.
• 15:24
  But
• 15:24
  it
• 15:25
  was
• 15:25
  eye
• 15:25
  opening
• 15:26
  to
• 15:26
  hear.
• 15:27
  You
• 15:27
  know,
• 15:27
  maybe
• 15:28
  that
• 15:28
  was
• 15:28
  my
• 15:29
  story
• 15:29
  and
• 15:29
  had
• 15:29
  to
• 15:29
  go
• 15:30
  through
• 15:30
  something
• 15:30
  along
• 15:30
  those
• 15:31
  lines.
• 15:31
  But
• 15:31
  at
• 15:31
  the
• 15:32
  same
• 15:32
  time,
• 15:32
  I'm
• 15:32
  able
• 15:33
  to
• 15:33
  recognize
• 15:33
  that
• 15:34
  they
• 15:34
  are
• 15:35
  struggling,
• 15:35
  too.
• 15:36
  Right.
• 15:37
  So
• 15:38
  Michelle
• 15:38
  actually
• 15:38
  is
• 15:39
  going
• 15:39
  to
• 15:39
  share
• 15:39
  her
• 15:39
  story
• 15:39
  with
• 15:40
  us.
• 15:40
  Hi.
• 15:41
  Skirts
• 15:41
  up,
• 15:41
  squad.
• 15:43
  We
• 15:44
  have
• 15:44
  someone
• 15:44
  out
• 15:45
  there.
• 15:47
  Okay.
• 15:47
  I
• 15:48
  am
• 15:48
  gonna
• 15:48
  say.
• 15:49
  I
• 15:49
  think
• 15:50
  I'm
• 15:50
  like,
• 15:50
  90.999.
• 15:52
  Sure.
• 15:52
  Michelle's
• 15:53
  our
• 15:53
  biggest
• 15:53
  fan.
• 15:53
  Yes.
• 15:56
  You,
• 15:56
  man.
• 15:57
  I
• 15:57
  do,
• 15:58
  yes.
• 15:58
  What's
• 15:59
  in
• 15:59
  the
• 15:59
  favorite?
• 16:00
  I
• 16:00
  would.
• 16:01
  Should
• 16:01
  we
• 16:02
  mention
• 16:02
  it?
• 16:02
  But
• 16:03
  Melissa.
• 16:05
  Well,
• 16:05
  no.
• 16:06
  Yes.
• 16:08
  Yes.
• 16:08
  It
• 16:09
  wasn't
• 16:09
  me
• 16:09
  that
• 16:09
  brought
• 16:09
  her
• 16:10
  name
• 16:10
  up
• 16:10
  today.
• 16:10
  It
• 16:11
  was
• 16:11
  me.
• 16:11
  I'm
• 16:11
  sorry.
• 16:13
  But
• 16:14
  I
• 16:14
  love
• 16:14
  the.
• 16:14
  The
• 16:15
  whole
• 16:15
  idea
• 16:15
  of
• 16:16
  the
• 16:16
  baby
• 16:17
  therapists
• 16:18
  and
• 16:19
  that
• 16:19
  people
• 16:19
  who
• 16:19
  may
• 16:19
  not
• 16:20
  have
• 16:20
  a
• 16:20
  lot
• 16:20
  of
• 16:20
  money
• 16:20
  because
• 16:21
  it.
• 16:21
  It
• 16:21
  takes
• 16:22
  money
• 16:22
  and.
• 16:22
  And
• 16:22
  you.
• 16:23
  It's.
• 16:23
  It
• 16:24
  takes
• 16:24
  more
• 16:24
  than
• 16:24
  money,
• 16:24
  but
• 16:25
  it
• 16:25
  takes
• 16:25
  money
• 16:26
  to
• 16:26
  get
• 16:26
  therapy
• 16:27
  and
• 16:27
  that
• 16:27
  there
• 16:27
  is
• 16:27
  therapy
• 16:28
  out
• 16:28
  there,
• 16:28
  hopefully
• 16:29
  for
• 16:29
  everybody.
• 16:30
  And
• 16:30
  not
• 16:30
  every
• 16:30
  therapist
• 16:31
  works
• 16:31
  because
• 16:32
  we
• 16:32
  went
• 16:32
  through
• 16:32
  that
• 16:32
  with
• 16:33
  Emily
• 16:33
  in
• 16:33
  high
• 16:33
  school,
• 16:33
  that
• 16:34
  she
• 16:34
  had
• 16:35
  this
• 16:35
  older
• 16:36
  lady,
• 16:36
  and.
• 16:37
  And
• 16:37
  it
• 16:37
  just.
• 16:38
  There
• 16:38
  was
• 16:38
  just
• 16:38
  no
• 16:38
  way
• 16:39
  this
• 16:39
  lady
• 16:39
  was
• 16:39
  going
• 16:39
  to
• 16:40
  be
• 16:40
  at
• 16:40
  all.
• 16:41
  I'm
• 16:41
  so
• 16:41
  glad
• 16:42
  that
• 16:42
  you
• 16:42
  said
• 16:42
  that.
• 16:42
  Yeah,
• 16:43
  me
• 16:43
  too.
• 16:43
  Because
• 16:44
  you're
• 16:44
  not
• 16:44
  the
• 16:45
  only
• 16:45
  one
• 16:46
  that
• 16:46
  has
• 16:46
  said
• 16:46
  that
• 16:47
  episode
• 16:47
  because
• 16:48
  it
• 16:49
  pinpointed
• 16:49
  how
• 16:50
  even
• 16:50
  if
• 16:50
  it's
• 16:50
  a
• 16:51
  baby
• 16:51
  therapist,
• 16:51
  you
• 16:51
  can
• 16:52
  get
• 16:52
  help.
• 16:52
  And
• 16:52
  so
• 16:53
  I
• 16:53
  kind
• 16:53
  of
• 16:53
  forget
• 16:54
  sometimes
• 16:54
  that,
• 16:54
  like,
• 16:55
  that
• 16:55
  was
• 16:55
  a
• 16:55
  really
• 16:56
  helpful
• 16:57
  episode.
• 16:57
  It
• 16:58
  was,
• 16:58
  too.
• 16:59
  So.
• 17:00
  So,
• 17:01
  yeah.
• 17:01
  Okay.
• 17:01
  Wow.
• 17:02
  So
• 17:02
  Emily
• 17:02
  was
• 17:03
  in
• 17:03
  therapy
• 17:03
  too,
• 17:04
  in
• 17:04
  high
• 17:04
  school.
• 17:04
  Have
• 17:05
  you
• 17:05
  ever
• 17:05
  actually,
• 17:05
  just
• 17:06
  out
• 17:06
  of
• 17:06
  curiosity.
• 17:06
  No,
• 17:06
  I
• 17:06
  am
• 17:06
  not.
• 17:07
  Okay.
• 17:07
  What
• 17:08
  was.
• 17:08
  Can
• 17:08
  I
• 17:09
  ask
• 17:09
  what
• 17:09
  that
• 17:09
  was
• 17:09
  for?
• 17:10
  It
• 17:10
  was
• 17:10
  actually
• 17:12
  something
• 17:12
  she
• 17:12
  said
• 17:13
  at
• 17:13
  school,
• 17:14
  and
• 17:14
  that
• 17:15
  triggered
• 17:15
  then
• 17:16
  the.
• 17:16
  The
• 17:16
  counselor.
• 17:18
  And
• 17:19
  so
• 17:19
  it
• 17:19
  was.
• 17:20
  And
• 17:20
  it
• 17:20
  was
• 17:20
  funny
• 17:20
  because
• 17:21
  we.
• 17:21
  We
• 17:21
  got
• 17:21
  forced
• 17:22
  into
• 17:22
  the
• 17:22
  therapy
• 17:22
  because
• 17:23
  I
• 17:23
  didn't
• 17:23
  know.
• 17:24
  But
• 17:24
  then
• 17:24
  I.
• 17:25
  I
• 17:25
  definitely
• 17:25
  advocated
• 17:26
  against
• 17:26
  the
• 17:27
  lady
• 17:27
  she
• 17:27
  didn't
• 17:28
  like
• 17:28
  because
• 17:28
  that
• 17:28
  wasn't
• 17:28
  going
• 17:29
  to
• 17:29
  work.
• 17:29
  It
• 17:29
  wasn't
• 17:29
  going
• 17:29
  to
• 17:29
  be
• 17:29
  the
• 17:30
  thing.
• 17:30
  And
• 17:31
  we
• 17:31
  got
• 17:31
  her
• 17:31
  somebody
• 17:31
  that
• 17:31
  she
• 17:32
  did
• 17:32
  like.
• 17:32
  That
• 17:32
  she
• 17:33
  did
• 17:33
  like,
• 17:34
  but
• 17:34
  she
• 17:35
  was
• 17:35
  cutting
• 17:36
  and
• 17:37
  so
• 17:37
  hard.
• 17:38
  Yeah,
• 17:38
  for
• 17:38
  sure.
• 17:39
  All
• 17:39
  my
• 17:39
  friends.
• 17:39
  That.
• 17:40
  That
• 17:40
  was
• 17:40
  my
• 17:40
  friend
• 17:41
  group.
• 17:41
  Yeah.
• 17:42
  Once
• 17:42
  the
• 17:42
  school
• 17:43
  finds
• 17:43
  out,
• 17:43
  you
• 17:43
  kind
• 17:43
  of
• 17:43
  don't
• 17:44
  have
• 17:44
  an
• 17:44
  option.
• 17:44
  Right.
• 17:45
  Yeah.
• 17:45
  But
• 17:46
  then
• 17:46
  she
• 17:46
  almost
• 17:46
  got
• 17:46
  in
• 17:47
  trouble
• 17:47
  because
• 17:47
  of
• 17:47
  all
• 17:48
  the
• 17:48
  therapy
• 17:48
  that
• 17:49
  was
• 17:49
  happening.
• 17:50
  Then
• 17:50
  we
• 17:50
  were
• 17:51
  like,
• 17:51
  in
• 17:51
  this
• 17:52
  window
• 17:52
  of
• 17:52
  you've
• 17:53
  missed
• 17:53
  too
• 17:53
  much
• 17:54
  school.
• 17:55
  Even
• 17:55
  though
• 17:55
  they
• 17:56
  forced
• 17:56
  the
• 17:56
  therapy,
• 17:57
  it
• 17:57
  was
• 17:57
  like
• 17:57
  this
• 17:57
  whole
• 17:57
  thing.
• 17:58
  Yeah.
• 17:58
  No.
• 17:59
  Yeah.
• 18:00
  So
• 18:00
  it's
• 18:00
  like
• 18:01
  she
• 18:01
  couldn't
• 18:01
  miss
• 18:01
  any
• 18:01
  more.
• 18:02
  School.
• 18:02
  It
• 18:02
  was
• 18:03
  like,
• 18:03
  it
• 18:03
  became
• 18:03
  this
• 18:04
  whole.
• 18:05
  Oh,
• 18:06
  that's
• 18:06
  an
• 18:06
  issue
• 18:07
  to
• 18:07
  me.
• 18:07
  Yeah.
• 18:08
  Yeah.
• 18:09
  Because,
• 18:09
  like,
• 18:09
  they
• 18:10
  want
• 18:10
  her
• 18:10
  to
• 18:10
  be
• 18:11
  her
• 18:11
  most
• 18:11
  healthy
• 18:12
  self.
• 18:12
  So
• 18:12
  they
• 18:12
  pretend.
• 18:13
  Right.
• 18:14
  They
• 18:14
  try
• 18:14
  to
• 18:15
  advocate
• 18:15
  or
• 18:15
  pretend
• 18:16
  they're
• 18:16
  advocating
• 18:16
  for
• 18:17
  her,
• 18:17
  but
• 18:17
  then
• 18:17
  as
• 18:17
  soon
• 18:18
  as
• 18:18
  she's,
• 18:18
  like,
• 18:18
  taking
• 18:18
  the
• 18:19
  steps
• 18:19
  to
• 18:19
  be
• 18:19
  healthy.
• 18:21
  Yeah.
• 18:22
  They're
• 18:22
  like,
• 18:22
  oh,
• 18:22
  you're
• 18:23
  missing
• 18:23
  school.
• 18:23
  And
• 18:23
  that's
• 18:23
  probably.
• 18:24
  What
• 18:24
  about
• 18:24
  the
• 18:25
  parent.
• 18:25
  Because.
• 18:26
  Yeah,
• 18:26
  because
• 18:27
  you've
• 18:27
  got.
• 18:27
  The
• 18:28
  parent
• 18:28
  has
• 18:28
  to
• 18:28
  make
• 18:28
  sure
• 18:29
  you
• 18:29
  go
• 18:29
  to
• 18:29
  school.
• 18:29
  You
• 18:30
  get
• 18:30
  in
• 18:30
  trouble,
• 18:30
  and
• 18:30
  then
• 18:30
  you
• 18:31
  get
• 18:31
  in
• 18:31
  trouble,
• 18:32
  so.
• 18:32
  Oh,
• 18:32
  you're
• 18:33
  right.
• 18:33
  You
• 18:33
  get,
• 18:33
  like,
• 18:34
  12
• 18:34
  days,
• 18:34
  and
• 18:34
  then
• 18:35
  it's
• 18:35
  like,
• 18:35
  if
• 18:35
  they
• 18:35
  miss
• 18:36
  anymore,
• 18:36
  then
• 18:36
  you
• 18:37
  get
• 18:37
  reported,
• 18:37
  and
• 18:37
  then.
• 18:39
  Yeah,
• 18:39
  I
• 18:39
  thought
• 18:40
  you
• 18:40
  were
• 18:40
  saying
• 18:40
  you
• 18:40
  get
• 18:40
  12
• 18:41
  days
• 18:41
  of
• 18:41
  prison.
• 18:44
  12
• 18:44
  absences
• 18:45
  that
• 18:45
  are
• 18:46
  unexcited.
• 18:46
  Used,
• 18:47
  I
• 18:47
  believe.
• 18:47
  Gotcha.
• 18:48
  But
• 18:48
  these
• 18:48
  were
• 18:49
  excused.
• 18:49
  Like,
• 18:49
  they.
• 18:50
  We
• 18:50
  had.
• 18:50
  They.
• 18:50
  We
• 18:51
  had
• 18:51
  the.
• 18:51
  All
• 18:51
  the
• 18:52
  stuff,
• 18:52
  but
• 18:52
  still,
• 18:53
  she
• 18:53
  needed
• 18:54
  to
• 18:54
  also.
• 18:55
  That's
• 18:55
  frustrating.
• 18:56
  Yeah.
• 18:57
  That
• 18:57
  was
• 18:57
  her
• 18:57
  freshman
• 18:57
  year,
• 18:58
  and
• 18:58
  then
• 18:58
  we
• 18:58
  moved
• 18:59
  to
• 18:59
  Georgia.
• 18:59
  Baby.
• 19:00
  Yes,
• 19:00
  you.
• 19:00
  Yeah.
• 19:01
  Okay,
• 19:01
  so
• 19:02
  tell
• 19:02
  us
• 19:02
  a
• 19:02
  little
• 19:02
  bit
• 19:02
  about
• 19:02
  yourself.
• 19:03
  If
• 19:03
  you
• 19:03
  just
• 19:04
  kind
• 19:04
  of
• 19:04
  a
• 19:04
  little
• 19:04
  history
• 19:04
  and.
• 19:05
  Okay.
• 19:05
  We
• 19:06
  were
• 19:06
  from
• 19:06
  Ohio,
• 19:07
  and
• 19:08
  we
• 19:08
  were
• 19:08
  in
• 19:08
  Columbus,
• 19:09
  Ohio,
• 19:09
  and
• 19:10
  she
• 19:10
  was
• 19:11
  at.
• 19:11
  She
• 19:11
  was
• 19:11
  actually,
• 19:12
  when
• 19:12
  she
• 19:13
  came
• 19:13
  out,
• 19:13
  she
• 19:13
  was
• 19:13
  in
• 19:13
  eighth
• 19:14
  grade,
• 19:14
  but
• 19:15
  she
• 19:15
  was
• 19:15
  in
• 19:15
  the
• 19:15
  high
• 19:15
  school
• 19:16
  band,
• 19:16
  so
• 19:16
  we
• 19:16
  were
• 19:16
  on
• 19:16
  a
• 19:17
  high
• 19:17
  school
• 19:17
  band
• 19:17
  trip.
• 19:18
  Okay.
• 19:19
  Because
• 19:19
  you
• 19:19
  could
• 19:19
  do
• 19:20
  that
• 19:20
  in
• 19:20
  Ohio.
• 19:20
  You
• 19:21
  could.
• 19:21
  You
• 19:21
  could
• 19:21
  do
• 19:22
  the
• 19:22
  high
• 19:22
  school
• 19:22
  classes
• 19:23
  early,
• 19:24
  which
• 19:25
  I
• 19:25
  don't
• 19:25
  think
• 19:25
  you
• 19:25
  can
• 19:25
  do
• 19:26
  that
• 19:26
  here.
• 19:26
  What
• 19:26
  do
• 19:26
  you
• 19:27
  mean?
• 19:27
  Like,
• 19:28
  she
• 19:28
  could.
• 19:28
  She
• 19:28
  already
• 19:28
  was
• 19:29
  taking
• 19:29
  algebra
• 19:30
  and
• 19:30
  Spanish
• 19:31
  and
• 19:31
  band
• 19:32
  in
• 19:32
  high
• 19:32
  school,
• 19:33
  even
• 19:33
  though.
• 19:33
  Because
• 19:33
  they
• 19:33
  were
• 19:34
  connected,
• 19:34
  the
• 19:35
  schools
• 19:35
  are
• 19:35
  kind
• 19:36
  of
• 19:36
  across
• 19:36
  the
• 19:36
  street.
• 19:37
  Oh,
• 19:37
  got
• 19:37
  you.
• 19:38
  So
• 19:38
  she
• 19:38
  could
• 19:38
  take.
• 19:39
  She
• 19:39
  had
• 19:39
  some
• 19:39
  classes
• 19:40
  going
• 19:40
  into
• 19:40
  high
• 19:41
  school
• 19:41
  before
• 19:41
  she
• 19:41
  even
• 19:42
  got
• 19:42
  into.
• 19:42
  Kind
• 19:42
  of
• 19:42
  like
• 19:43
  kids
• 19:43
  taking
• 19:44
  AP
• 19:44
  classes
• 19:45
  and
• 19:45
  going,
• 19:45
  like,
• 19:45
  college.
• 19:46
  College.
• 19:46
  Yeah.
• 19:47
  But
• 19:47
  she
• 19:47
  did
• 19:47
  it
• 19:47
  in
• 19:48
  junior
• 19:48
  and
• 19:48
  high.
• 19:49
  Yeah.
• 19:50
  Yeah.
• 19:50
  She's
• 19:50
  so
• 19:51
  smart,
• 19:51
  too.
• 19:51
  Yeah.
• 19:52
  Yeah.
• 19:52
  She's
• 19:53
  a
• 19:53
  smart
• 19:53
  girl.
• 19:54
  Yeah.
• 19:55
  Yeah.
• 19:55
  So.
• 19:56
  So.
• 19:56
  And
• 19:56
  I
• 19:57
  found
• 19:57
  out
• 19:57
  on
• 19:57
  a
• 19:57
  band
• 19:58
  trip.
• 19:58
  We
• 19:58
  were
• 19:58
  in
• 19:59
  New
• 19:59
  York
• 19:59
  City
• 19:59
  on
• 20:00
  this
• 20:00
  band
• 20:00
  trip,
• 20:01
  and
• 20:01
  I
• 20:01
  get
• 20:01
  a
• 20:01
  text.
• 20:02
  Mom,
• 20:03
  I'm
• 20:03
  gay.
• 20:04
  And
• 20:04
  I'm
• 20:04
  at
• 20:04
  the
• 20:04
  front
• 20:05
  of
• 20:05
  the
• 20:05
  bus,
• 20:05
  and
• 20:05
  she's
• 20:05
  in
• 20:05
  the
• 20:06
  back
• 20:06
  of
• 20:06
  the
• 20:06
  bus.
• 20:06
  Right.
• 20:07
  And
• 20:07
  so
• 20:08
  we
• 20:08
  wait.
• 20:08
  Did
• 20:09
  a
• 20:09
  friend,
• 20:09
  like,
• 20:09
  dare
• 20:09
  her
• 20:10
  to
• 20:10
  say
• 20:10
  it
• 20:10
  or.
• 20:10
  Well,
• 20:11
  that's
• 20:11
  what
• 20:11
  I.
• 20:11
  So
• 20:11
  I
• 20:12
  peek
• 20:12
  up,
• 20:12
  and
• 20:12
  I'm
• 20:12
  like,
• 20:14
  does
• 20:14
  somebody
• 20:14
  have
• 20:14
  her
• 20:15
  phone?
• 20:15
  Like,
• 20:15
  are
• 20:15
  they.
• 20:16
  Because
• 20:16
  she's
• 20:16
  in
• 20:16
  eighth
• 20:16
  grade
• 20:17
  with
• 20:18
  these
• 20:18
  high
• 20:18
  schoolers.
• 20:19
  So
• 20:19
  I
• 20:19
  was
• 20:19
  like,
• 20:19
  did
• 20:19
  they
• 20:20
  take
• 20:20
  her
• 20:20
  phone?
• 20:20
  Are
• 20:21
  they
• 20:21
  teasing
• 20:21
  her?
• 20:22
  Because
• 20:22
  I
• 20:22
  did.
• 20:22
  I
• 20:22
  had
• 20:23
  no
• 20:23
  clue.
• 20:24
  Oh,
• 20:25
  was
• 20:25
  she
• 20:25
  at
• 20:25
  all?
• 20:25
  Bullied.
• 20:26
  At
• 20:26
  all.
• 20:26
  And
• 20:26
  you
• 20:27
  thought
• 20:27
  that
• 20:27
  was
• 20:27
  where
• 20:28
  you
• 20:28
  went
• 20:28
  to,
• 20:28
  or
• 20:28
  you
• 20:28
  just
• 20:28
  kind
• 20:29
  of.
• 20:29
  I
• 20:29
  just
• 20:29
  was
• 20:30
  not
• 20:30
  expecting
• 20:30
  that.
• 20:31
  Right.
• 20:32
  So
• 20:32
  I
• 20:32
  was
• 20:32
  like,
• 20:33
  well,
• 20:33
  maybe
• 20:33
  they've
• 20:33
  got
• 20:34
  her
• 20:34
  phone
• 20:34
  and
• 20:34
  they're
• 20:34
  just
• 20:34
  teasing
• 20:35
  her
• 20:35
  and
• 20:35
  she's
• 20:35
  the
• 20:35
  baby
• 20:36
  of
• 20:36
  the.
• 20:36
  Okay.
• 20:37
  On
• 20:37
  the.
• 20:37
  There
• 20:37
  were
• 20:38
  other
• 20:38
  8th
• 20:38
  graders
• 20:38
  that
• 20:39
  she
• 20:39
  wasn't
• 20:39
  the
• 20:39
  only
• 20:39
  one.
• 20:40
  But
• 20:41
  not
• 20:41
  very
• 20:41
  many.
• 20:42
  But
• 20:42
  still,
• 20:42
  you
• 20:42
  still
• 20:43
  think,
• 20:43
  well,
• 20:43
  these
• 20:44
  are
• 20:44
  high
• 20:44
  schoolers,
• 20:44
  so
• 20:45
  maybe
• 20:45
  I
• 20:45
  should
• 20:46
  look.
• 20:46
  And
• 20:47
  no,
• 20:47
  there
• 20:48
  was
• 20:48
  totally
• 20:48
  calm
• 20:49
  back
• 20:49
  there,
• 20:49
  like
• 20:49
  they
• 20:49
  were
• 20:50
  all
• 20:50
  sleeping
• 20:50
  or
• 20:50
  whatever.
• 20:51
  And
• 20:51
  I'm
• 20:52
  like,
• 20:52
  oh.
• 20:53
  So
• 20:53
  I'm
• 20:53
  like,
• 20:53
  okay,
• 20:54
  okay.
• 20:54
  They
• 20:55
  trusted
• 20:55
  you.
• 20:56
  Yeah,
• 20:56
  totally.
• 20:56
  Right.
• 20:57
  And
• 20:57
  it
• 20:58
  could,
• 20:58
  though,
• 20:59
  as.
• 21:00
  I
• 21:00
  don't
• 21:00
  know.
• 21:01
  I
• 21:01
  guess
• 21:01
  I
• 21:01
  should
• 21:02
  ask
• 21:02
  in
• 21:02
  a
• 21:02
  minute,
• 21:03
  like,
• 21:03
  maybe
• 21:03
  what
• 21:04
  your
• 21:04
  relationship
• 21:05
  was
• 21:05
  like
• 21:05
  together
• 21:06
  if
• 21:06
  it
• 21:06
  was
• 21:06
  like
• 21:06
  really
• 21:06
  close
• 21:07
  and
• 21:07
  really,
• 21:07
  really
• 21:07
  open.
• 21:08
  But
• 21:09
  in
• 21:09
  my
• 21:09
  mind,
• 21:09
  I
• 21:09
  could
• 21:10
  see
• 21:10
  that
• 21:10
  being.
• 21:10
  She
• 21:10
  can't
• 21:11
  overreact
• 21:12
  right
• 21:12
  now.
• 21:13
  We're
• 21:13
  on
• 21:13
  a
• 21:13
  bus.
• 21:14
  Right.
• 21:14
  We're
• 21:14
  on
• 21:14
  a
• 21:14
  bus.
• 21:15
  This
• 21:15
  public.
• 21:17
  She
• 21:17
  can't
• 21:17
  freak
• 21:17
  out
• 21:18
  on
• 21:18
  me.
• 21:19
  But
• 21:19
  I
• 21:19
  think
• 21:20
  it
• 21:20
  also.
• 21:20
  Because
• 21:21
  I
• 21:21
  was
• 21:22
  the
• 21:22
  opposite.
• 21:22
  Where
• 21:23
  we
• 21:23
  were,
• 21:25
  I
• 21:26
  was
• 21:27
  very
• 21:27
  LGBT
• 21:28
  friendly.
• 21:30
  High
• 21:30
  school.
• 21:30
  Yeah.
• 21:31
  The
• 21:31
  high
• 21:31
  school,
• 21:31
  the
• 21:31
  city.
• 21:34
  And
• 21:34
  you've.
• 21:34
  So
• 21:34
  I
• 21:35
  think
• 21:35
  it
• 21:35
  also.
• 21:35
  This
• 21:36
  trip
• 21:36
  and
• 21:36
  being
• 21:37
  around
• 21:37
  these
• 21:37
  high
• 21:37
  schoolers,
• 21:38
  who
• 21:38
  several
• 21:38
  of
• 21:39
  them
• 21:39
  were
• 21:39
  also
• 21:39
  in
• 21:40
  the
• 21:40
  community,
• 21:40
  I
• 21:41
  think
• 21:41
  it
• 21:41
  just
• 21:41
  gave
• 21:41
  her
• 21:41
  the
• 21:42
  courage
• 21:42
  too.
• 21:42
  Okay.
• 21:43
  Or
• 21:43
  maybe
• 21:43
  the
• 21:44
  knowledge
• 21:44
  or
• 21:45
  whatever.
• 21:45
  It
• 21:46
  helped
• 21:46
  her
• 21:46
  to.
• 21:48
  Yeah.
• 21:48
  Say
• 21:48
  something.
• 21:49
  Wow.
• 21:50
  Because
• 21:50
  at
• 21:50
  first
• 21:50
  I've.
• 21:51
  Your.
• 21:51
  Your
• 21:51
  first
• 21:51
  reaction
• 21:52
  is
• 21:52
  like,
• 21:52
  well,
• 21:52
  you're
• 21:53
  only
• 21:53
  in
• 21:53
  eighth
• 21:53
  grade.
• 21:54
  Like,
• 21:54
  you're
• 21:54
  still
• 21:55
  a
• 21:55
  baby.
• 21:55
  Do
• 21:56
  you
• 21:56
  know
• 21:56
  what
• 21:57
  you
• 21:57
  want?
• 21:57
  Yeah,
• 21:58
  because,
• 21:58
  you
• 21:58
  know.
• 21:59
  But
• 21:59
  I
• 21:59
  know
• 21:59
  that
• 21:59
  people
• 22:00
  know
• 22:00
  way
• 22:00
  early.
• 22:01
  Yeah.
• 22:01
  I
• 22:02
  mean,
• 22:02
  you
• 22:02
  know,
• 22:02
  people.
• 22:02
  Kids
• 22:03
  in
• 22:03
  8th
• 22:03
  grade
• 22:03
  are
• 22:04
  dating
• 22:04
  straightly.
• 22:05
  Yeah.
• 22:06
  Right.
• 22:06
  And.
• 22:07
  Yeah.
• 22:07
  See,
• 22:07
  I
• 22:07
  didn't
• 22:07
  think
• 22:07
  of
• 22:08
  that
• 22:08
  that
• 22:08
  way.
• 22:08
  I
• 22:08
  don't
• 22:09
  think
• 22:09
  of
• 22:09
  them.
• 22:09
  It's
• 22:09
  so
• 22:09
  interesting
• 22:10
  because
• 22:10
  you're
• 22:11
  right.
• 22:11
  Like
• 22:11
  now
• 22:12
  I
• 22:12
  came.
• 22:12
  I
• 22:12
  don't
• 22:12
  know.
• 22:13
  Were
• 22:13
  you
• 22:13
  guys
• 22:13
  pretty.
• 22:13
  I
• 22:14
  was
• 22:14
  pretty
• 22:14
  sheltered.
• 22:15
  I
• 22:15
  wasn't
• 22:15
  even
• 22:16
  allowed
• 22:16
  to,
• 22:16
  like,
• 22:16
  even
• 22:16
  think
• 22:17
  about
• 22:17
  dating
• 22:17
  until
• 22:17
  I
• 22:18
  was
• 22:18
  six.
• 22:18
  Boyfriends
• 22:19
  in
• 22:19
  eighth
• 22:19
  grade.
• 22:19
  We'd
• 22:20
  go
• 22:20
  to
• 22:20
  the
• 22:20
  mall
• 22:20
  and,
• 22:21
  you
• 22:21
  know,
• 22:21
  mom
• 22:21
  would
• 22:21
  be
• 22:22
  in
• 22:22
  one
• 22:22
  side
• 22:22
  of
• 22:22
  the
• 22:22
  mall
• 22:22
  and
• 22:23
  we
• 22:23
  get
• 22:23
  to
• 22:23
  hold
• 22:23
  hands
• 22:24
  and
• 22:24
  go
• 22:25
  perusing.
• 22:26
  Well,
• 22:26
  she
• 22:27
  was
• 22:27
  so
• 22:27
  busy
• 22:27
  with
• 22:28
  her
• 22:28
  band
• 22:28
  and
• 22:29
  dancing
• 22:30
  and.
• 22:30
  Well,
• 22:30
  no
• 22:31
  way.
• 22:31
  She
• 22:31
  wasn't
• 22:31
  dancing
• 22:32
  anymore.
• 22:33
  But
• 22:33
  it
• 22:33
  just
• 22:33
  seemed
• 22:33
  like
• 22:33
  she
• 22:34
  was
• 22:34
  so
• 22:34
  busy.
• 22:34
  There
• 22:35
  wasn't.
• 22:35
  There
• 22:35
  were
• 22:35
  the
• 22:36
  school
• 22:36
  dances,
• 22:37
  but
• 22:37
  then
• 22:37
  you've
• 22:37
  kind
• 22:38
  of.
• 22:38
  If
• 22:38
  you
• 22:38
  were
• 22:38
  a
• 22:38
  chaperone,
• 22:39
  they
• 22:39
  were
• 22:39
  on
• 22:39
  a
• 22:39
  separate
• 22:40
  sides
• 22:40
  of
• 22:40
  the
• 22:40
  room
• 22:41
  sometimes.
• 22:43
  So
• 22:43
  I
• 22:44
  just
• 22:44
  wasn't
• 22:44
  even
• 22:44
  thinking
• 22:45
  of
• 22:45
  the
• 22:45
  dating
• 22:45
  scene.
• 22:46
  She's
• 22:47
  a
• 22:47
  Baby.
• 22:47
  But
• 22:47
  to
• 22:48
  answer
• 22:48
  your
• 22:48
  question,
• 22:48
  Sam,
• 22:50
  I
• 22:50
  was
• 22:50
  like,
• 22:51
  I
• 22:51
  was
• 22:51
  a
• 22:51
  stay
• 22:52
  at
• 22:52
  home
• 22:52
  mom.
• 22:53
  Although
• 22:53
  I
• 22:53
  worked,
• 22:54
  like,
• 22:54
  I
• 22:55
  worked
• 22:55
  at
• 22:55
  her
• 22:55
  preschool.
• 22:55
  When
• 22:56
  she
• 22:56
  went
• 22:56
  to
• 22:56
  preschool,
• 22:56
  I
• 22:56
  worked
• 22:57
  at
• 22:57
  her
• 22:57
  preschool.
• 22:57
  And
• 22:58
  when
• 22:58
  she
• 22:58
  went
• 22:58
  to
• 22:59
  elementary,
• 23:00
  I
• 23:00
  worked
• 23:00
  at
• 23:01
  her
• 23:01
  elementary.
• 23:02
  That
• 23:02
  was
• 23:02
  my
• 23:02
  mom's
• 23:02
  dream.
• 23:03
  She
• 23:03
  wanted
• 23:03
  to
• 23:03
  work
• 23:03
  in
• 23:03
  my
• 23:04
  school,
• 23:04
  that
• 23:04
  she
• 23:05
  could
• 23:05
  be
• 23:05
  still
• 23:05
  with
• 23:06
  me.
• 23:06
  Yeah.
• 23:07
  So
• 23:07
  I
• 23:07
  totally
• 23:07
  like
• 23:08
  that.
• 23:08
  And
• 23:08
  then.
• 23:09
  And
• 23:09
  then
• 23:09
  I
• 23:09
  was
• 23:09
  at
• 23:09
  her
• 23:09
  dance
• 23:10
  studio,
• 23:10
  so.
• 23:11
  So
• 23:11
  I
• 23:11
  was
• 23:12
  totally,
• 23:12
  like,
• 23:12
  available
• 23:13
  to
• 23:13
  drive
• 23:13
  her
• 23:13
  around,
• 23:15
  encourage
• 23:15
  all
• 23:15
  of
• 23:15
  her
• 23:16
  things.
• 23:17
  And.
• 23:17
  And
• 23:17
  then
• 23:17
  in
• 23:18
  middle
• 23:18
  school,
• 23:19
  you
• 23:19
  kind
• 23:19
  of
• 23:19
  have
• 23:19
  to
• 23:19
  step
• 23:19
  back.
• 23:20
  So
• 23:20
  I
• 23:20
  worked
• 23:20
  at
• 23:20
  the
• 23:20
  Light.
• 23:21
  I
• 23:21
  just
• 23:21
  volunteered
• 23:21
  at
• 23:22
  the
• 23:22
  library
• 23:23
  one
• 23:23
  day
• 23:23
  a
• 23:23
  week.
• 23:23
  And
• 23:24
  that's
• 23:24
  when
• 23:24
  I
• 23:24
  then
• 23:24
  got
• 23:25
  the
• 23:25
  bank
• 23:25
  job.
• 23:26
  Was
• 23:26
  when
• 23:27
  she
• 23:27
  was
• 23:27
  in.
• 23:28
  Actually
• 23:28
  was
• 23:29
  in
• 23:29
  high
• 23:29
  school.
• 23:29
  But
• 23:30
  middle
• 23:30
  school
• 23:30
  kind
• 23:30
  of
• 23:31
  starts
• 23:31
  to
• 23:31
  wean
• 23:31
  you
• 23:32
  from
• 23:33
  your
• 23:33
  kids
• 23:33
  a
• 23:33
  little
• 23:34
  bit.
• 23:35
  The
• 23:35
  parent,
• 23:35
  the
• 23:35
  teachers
• 23:36
  don't
• 23:36
  want
• 23:36
  the
• 23:36
  help
• 23:37
  that
• 23:37
  the.
• 23:37
  That
• 23:38
  the
• 23:38
  elementary
• 23:38
  school
• 23:39
  teachers
• 23:39
  did.
• 23:40
  Yeah.
• 23:40
  They're
• 23:40
  kind
• 23:40
  of
• 23:40
  like,
• 23:41
  I
• 23:41
  got
• 23:41
  this.
• 23:42
  Yeah.
• 23:42
  Was
• 23:42
  the
• 23:43
  elementary
• 23:43
  school,
• 23:44
  like,
• 23:45
  was
• 23:46
  she
• 23:46
  at
• 23:46
  an
• 23:46
  age
• 23:47
  in
• 23:47
  elementary
• 23:48
  school
• 23:48
  where
• 23:48
  she
• 23:48
  started
• 23:49
  to
• 23:49
  like,
• 23:50
  mom,
• 23:50
  you're
• 23:51
  too
• 23:51
  close
• 23:51
  to
• 23:51
  me,
• 23:52
  like,
• 23:52
  go
• 23:52
  to
• 23:52
  your
• 23:52
  classroom
• 23:53
  or
• 23:53
  whatever?
• 23:54
  She
• 23:54
  actually.
• 23:55
  I
• 23:55
  won,
• 23:56
  it's
• 23:56
  called
• 23:56
  a
• 23:56
  gem
• 23:57
  award,
• 23:58
  which
• 23:58
  was
• 23:58
  for
• 23:59
  volunteering
• 23:59
  for
• 23:59
  the
• 23:59
  school.
• 24:00
  I
• 24:00
  got.
• 24:00
  I
• 24:00
  got
• 24:00
  nominated
• 24:01
  by
• 24:01
  two
• 24:01
  people,
• 24:02
  and
• 24:02
  one
• 24:02
  of
• 24:02
  them
• 24:02
  was
• 24:03
  Emily,
• 24:04
  which
• 24:04
  is
• 24:05
  flooring,
• 24:06
  because
• 24:06
  you
• 24:07
  don't
• 24:07
  know
• 24:07
  until
• 24:08
  after.
• 24:08
  How
• 24:09
  old
• 24:09
  was
• 24:09
  she?
• 24:10
  Fourth
• 24:11
  or
• 24:11
  fifth
• 24:11
  grade.
• 24:11
  That's
• 24:12
  so
• 24:13
  right.
• 24:13
  So
• 24:13
  she
• 24:13
  had
• 24:13
  to
• 24:14
  write
• 24:14
  up
• 24:14
  a
• 24:14
  page.
• 24:14
  She
• 24:14
  didn't
• 24:15
  even
• 24:15
  do
• 24:15
  her
• 24:15
  homework,
• 24:16
  and
• 24:17
  she
• 24:17
  had
• 24:17
  to
• 24:17
  write
• 24:17
  up
• 24:18
  a
• 24:18
  paper
• 24:18
  as
• 24:18
  to
• 24:19
  why
• 24:19
  I
• 24:19
  deserved
• 24:20
  it
• 24:20
  and
• 24:21
  all
• 24:21
  this
• 24:21
  stuff.
• 24:21
  So,
• 24:22
  yeah,
• 24:22
  that
• 24:22
  was.
• 24:23
  But
• 24:23
  your
• 24:24
  heart
• 24:24
  just
• 24:24
  exploded.
• 24:25
  Yeah.
• 24:25
  So
• 24:25
  she
• 24:26
  has
• 24:26
  always
• 24:26
  appreciated
• 24:27
  all
• 24:28
  the
• 24:28
  work
• 24:28
  you
• 24:28
  put
• 24:28
  in.
• 24:28
  It's
• 24:29
  never
• 24:29
  been
• 24:30
  like,
• 24:30
  did
• 24:30
  you
• 24:31
  go
• 24:31
  through
• 24:31
  this
• 24:31
  stage
• 24:32
  of,
• 24:32
  like,
• 24:33
  teen
• 24:33
  stage
• 24:33
  of
• 24:34
  I
• 24:34
  hate
• 24:35
  mom,
• 24:35
  I'm
• 24:35
  doing
• 24:35
  everything
• 24:36
  wrong?
• 24:36
  Yeah,
• 24:36
  absolutely.
• 24:37
  Yeah,
• 24:37
  absolutely.
• 24:38
  High
• 24:38
  school
• 24:38
  was
• 24:39
  rough.
• 24:39
  Oh,
• 24:40
  my
• 24:40
  God.
• 24:40
  High
• 24:40
  school
• 24:40
  was
• 24:40
  so
• 24:41
  rough
• 24:41
  because
• 24:41
  I
• 24:42
  would,
• 24:42
  like,
• 24:42
  the
• 24:43
  demands
• 24:44
  and
• 24:44
  the.
• 24:44
  She
• 24:44
  could
• 24:44
  come
• 24:45
  home
• 24:45
  and
• 24:45
  she'd
• 24:45
  be
• 24:46
  like,
• 24:46
  slam
• 24:47
  the
• 24:47
  door.
• 24:47
  Go
• 24:47
  up
• 24:47
  to
• 24:47
  a
• 24:48
  room
• 24:48
  and
• 24:48
  never
• 24:48
  talk
• 24:48
  to
• 24:48
  you.
• 24:49
  Or
• 24:49
  come
• 24:50
  and
• 24:50
  sit
• 24:50
  on
• 24:50
  the
• 24:50
  couch
• 24:51
  and
• 24:51
  talk
• 24:51
  to
• 24:51
  you.
• 24:51
  You
• 24:51
  just
• 24:51
  never
• 24:52
  knew
• 24:52
  what
• 24:52
  you
• 24:52
  were
• 24:52
  getting,
• 24:52
  what
• 24:53
  was
• 24:53
  going
• 24:53
  to
• 24:53
  walk
• 24:53
  through
• 24:54
  that
• 24:54
  door.
• 24:54
  And
• 24:54
  you
• 24:55
  couldn't
• 24:55
  ask.
• 24:56
  That's
• 24:57
  true.
• 24:57
  If
• 24:57
  my
• 24:58
  parents
• 24:58
  had
• 24:58
  tried
• 24:58
  to
• 24:58
  be
• 24:59
  like,
• 24:59
  what
• 24:59
  are
• 24:59
  we
• 24:59
  getting
• 25:00
  today?
• 25:00
  I
• 25:00
  would
• 25:00
  have
• 25:00
  been
• 25:00
  like,
• 25:01
  yeah,
• 25:02
  now
• 25:02
  it's
• 25:02
  a
• 25:02
  door.
• 25:03
  Yeah,
• 25:04
  exactly.
• 25:05
  And
• 25:05
  if
• 25:06
  the
• 25:06
  door
• 25:06
  slams,
• 25:06
  you're
• 25:07
  like,
• 25:07
  well,
• 25:07
  it
• 25:07
  must
• 25:07
  have
• 25:07
  been
• 25:08
  a
• 25:08
  bad
• 25:08
  day.
• 25:08
  But
• 25:08
  you
• 25:09
  obviously,
• 25:10
  you
• 25:10
  don't
• 25:10
  want
• 25:10
  to
• 25:10
  talk
• 25:10
  about
• 25:10
  it.
• 25:10
  Yeah.
• 25:11
  So
• 25:11
  you
• 25:12
  Kind
• 25:12
  of
• 25:12
  have
• 25:12
  that
• 25:12
  whole,
• 25:13
  oh,
• 25:13
  boy.
• 25:14
  So,
• 25:14
  yeah,
• 25:15
  so
• 25:15
  I'd
• 25:16
  say
• 25:16
  I.
• 25:16
  And
• 25:16
  then,
• 25:17
  you
• 25:17
  know,
• 25:17
  back
• 25:18
  to
• 25:18
  the,
• 25:18
  you
• 25:18
  know,
• 25:18
  I
• 25:18
  was
• 25:19
  just
• 25:19
  like,
• 25:19
  okay,
• 25:19
  cool.
• 25:20
  You
• 25:20
  know,
• 25:20
  that's.
• 25:20
  But
• 25:20
  you.
• 25:21
  I
• 25:21
  was.
• 25:22
  It
• 25:22
  made
• 25:22
  me
• 25:23
  sad
• 25:23
  as
• 25:23
  far
• 25:23
  as,
• 25:23
  like
• 25:24
  a
• 25:24
  parent,
• 25:24
  because
• 25:24
  I
• 25:24
  thought,
• 25:25
  oh,
• 25:25
  your
• 25:25
  life
• 25:25
  just
• 25:25
  got
• 25:26
  harder.
• 25:27
  I
• 25:27
  felt
• 25:27
  like,
• 25:28
  wow,
• 25:29
  because
• 25:29
  it's
• 25:29
  hard.
• 25:29
  Life's
• 25:30
  hard
• 25:30
  enough.
• 25:30
  Right?
• 25:31
  You're
• 25:31
  right.
• 25:31
  And
• 25:31
  then
• 25:32
  if
• 25:32
  you
• 25:32
  put
• 25:32
  this
• 25:33
  element
• 25:33
  that's
• 25:33
  not
• 25:34
  always
• 25:34
  accepted
• 25:35
  and
• 25:35
  not
• 25:35
  always,
• 25:36
  you
• 25:36
  just
• 25:36
  felt
• 25:37
  like
• 25:37
  it
• 25:37
  just
• 25:37
  made.
• 25:37
  Life
• 25:38
  harder
• 25:38
  and
• 25:39
  actually
• 25:39
  usually
• 25:40
  not
• 25:40
  accepted.
• 25:41
  Especially,
• 25:42
  I
• 25:42
  was
• 25:42
  gonna
• 25:43
  say
• 25:43
  when
• 25:43
  I
• 25:43
  was
• 25:43
  young,
• 25:43
  but
• 25:44
  maybe,
• 25:44
  you
• 25:44
  know,
• 25:44
  Emily's
• 25:45
  still.
• 25:45
  What?
• 25:45
  She's
• 25:46
  24.
• 25:46
  6.
• 25:47
  24.
• 25:48
  Oh,
• 25:48
  yeah,
• 25:49
  she's
• 25:49
  24.
• 25:50
  No,
• 25:51
  she's.
• 25:52
  She's
• 25:53
  27.
• 25:54
  She's
• 25:55
  27.
• 25:55
  Michelle's
• 25:56
  like,
• 25:56
  I
• 25:56
  was
• 25:56
  gonna
• 25:56
  be
• 25:57
  younger
• 25:57
  for
• 25:57
  a
• 25:57
  second.
• 25:57
  I
• 25:57
  was.
• 25:58
  I
• 25:58
  was
• 25:58
  enjoying
• 25:59
  it.
• 26:00
  Oh,
• 26:00
  I
• 26:00
  see
• 26:00
  that
• 26:01
  selfishness.
• 26:02
  Yes,
• 26:05
  please.
• 26:06
  No,
• 26:07
  she's
• 26:07
  just
• 26:07
  18.
• 26:08
  What
• 26:08
  are
• 26:08
  you
• 26:08
  talking
• 26:08
  about?
• 26:09
  She's
• 26:09
  a
• 26:09
  baby.
• 26:11
  Because
• 26:11
  I
• 26:12
  was
• 26:12
  thinking.
• 26:12
  I
• 26:13
  mean,
• 26:13
  when
• 26:13
  I
• 26:13
  was
• 26:14
  young,
• 26:14
  it
• 26:14
  was
• 26:14
  not
• 26:14
  accepted.
• 26:15
  We
• 26:15
  had
• 26:16
  Matthew.
• 26:17
  Oh,
• 26:17
  I'm
• 26:17
  so
• 26:17
  embarrassed
• 26:18
  that
• 26:18
  I
• 26:18
  forgot
• 26:18
  his
• 26:18
  last
• 26:19
  name
• 26:19
  because
• 26:19
  it
• 26:19
  should
• 26:19
  never
• 26:19
  have
• 26:20
  been
• 26:20
  forgotten,
• 26:20
  but
• 26:21
  obviously
• 26:23
  tortured
• 26:24
  and
• 26:24
  beaten
• 26:25
  for
• 26:25
  his
• 26:25
  identity
• 26:26
  in
• 26:26
  the
• 26:26
  90s.
• 26:27
  And
• 26:28
  I
• 26:28
  remember
• 26:28
  that
• 26:28
  happening.
• 26:29
  And
• 26:29
  like,
• 26:30
  so
• 26:31
  I
• 26:31
  guess
• 26:31
  she's
• 26:31
  more
• 26:31
  in
• 26:31
  the
• 26:32
  2000s,
• 26:32
  but
• 26:32
  still
• 26:34
  it's.
• 26:35
  It's
• 26:35
  not
• 26:35
  accepted.
• 26:36
  But
• 26:36
  any.
• 26:36
  Anytime,
• 26:37
  any
• 26:37
  of
• 26:37
  her
• 26:38
  friends
• 26:38
  who
• 26:38
  have
• 26:38
  super
• 26:39
  religious
• 26:40
  parents,
• 26:41
  they
• 26:42
  can
• 26:42
  get
• 26:42
  kicked
• 26:43
  out.
• 26:43
  They
• 26:43
  can
• 26:43
  get.
• 26:44
  And
• 26:45
  it's
• 26:45
  just
• 26:45
  sad
• 26:45
  because
• 26:45
  you're.
• 26:46
  You're
• 26:47
  trying
• 26:47
  to
• 26:47
  be
• 26:47
  who
• 26:47
  you
• 26:47
  are,
• 26:48
  and
• 26:49
  these
• 26:49
  are
• 26:49
  the
• 26:49
  people
• 26:50
  who
• 26:50
  you
• 26:50
  love
• 26:50
  and
• 26:51
  want
• 26:51
  to,
• 26:51
  you
• 26:52
  know,
• 26:52
  who
• 26:52
  are
• 26:52
  your
• 26:52
  family.
• 26:53
  Yeah.
• 26:53
  And
• 26:54
  now
• 26:54
  all
• 26:54
  of
• 26:54
  a
• 26:54
  sudden,
• 26:55
  you
• 26:55
  mean
• 26:55
  nothing
• 26:55
  to
• 26:56
  them.
• 26:56
  I
• 26:56
  don't.
• 26:56
  I
• 26:56
  don't
• 26:57
  understand
• 26:57
  that.
• 26:57
  I
• 26:57
  could
• 26:58
  have
• 26:58
  never.
• 26:59
  I
• 26:59
  don't
• 26:59
  either,
• 27:00
  understand.
• 27:00
  Done
• 27:01
  that
• 27:01
  to
• 27:01
  her.
• 27:02
  Right.
• 27:03
  You
• 27:03
  know,
• 27:03
  so.
• 27:04
  And
• 27:04
  that
• 27:04
  makes
• 27:04
  life
• 27:05
  even
• 27:05
  harder
• 27:05
  if
• 27:05
  you
• 27:06
  don't
• 27:06
  have
• 27:06
  your
• 27:06
  family
• 27:06
  to
• 27:07
  back
• 27:08
  and
• 27:08
  everything.
• 27:09
  So.
• 27:09
  So
• 27:10
  you're
• 27:10
  sad
• 27:10
  about
• 27:11
  the
• 27:11
  struggles
• 27:12
  that
• 27:12
  you
• 27:12
  already
• 27:13
  see.
• 27:13
  Yeah.
• 27:14
  How
• 27:14
  long
• 27:14
  did
• 27:14
  it
• 27:15
  take
• 27:15
  until
• 27:16
  you're
• 27:16
  able
• 27:16
  to,
• 27:17
  like,
• 27:17
  verbally
• 27:17
  address
• 27:18
  it
• 27:18
  with
• 27:18
  her?
• 27:19
  Because
• 27:19
  you're
• 27:19
  trapped
• 27:19
  on
• 27:19
  a
• 27:20
  school
• 27:20
  bus.
• 27:20
  Oh,
• 27:20
  yeah.
• 27:20
  So
• 27:20
  did
• 27:21
  you
• 27:21
  text
• 27:21
  her
• 27:21
  right
• 27:21
  away?
• 27:21
  Like,
• 27:22
  I
• 27:22
  wanted
• 27:22
  to
• 27:22
  know
• 27:22
  that
• 27:22
  too?
• 27:23
  Yeah,
• 27:23
  I
• 27:23
  said.
• 27:23
  I
• 27:23
  said,
• 27:24
  oh,
• 27:24
  cool.
• 27:26
  Cause,
• 27:26
  you
• 27:26
  know.
• 27:27
  Yeah.
• 27:27
  I
• 27:27
  always.
• 27:27
  I
• 27:27
  always
• 27:28
  say
• 27:28
  every
• 27:28
  day
• 27:28
  she's
• 27:28
  cool.
• 27:29
  She
• 27:29
  says
• 27:29
  cool
• 27:30
  beans.
• 27:33
  I
• 27:33
  got
• 27:33
  her
• 27:33
  a
• 27:33
  sticker
• 27:34
  that
• 27:34
  says
• 27:34
  cool
• 27:34
  beans.
• 27:34
  Yeah.
• 27:35
  How
• 27:35
  that
• 27:35
  is.
• 27:36
  So,
• 27:36
  yeah,
• 27:36
  that's
• 27:37
  my.
• 27:37
  Yeah.
• 27:37
  And.
• 27:38
  And
• 27:38
  then
• 27:39
  for
• 27:39
  the
• 27:39
  rest
• 27:39
  of
• 27:39
  the
• 27:40
  trip,
• 27:40
  she
• 27:40
  actually
• 27:41
  sat
• 27:41
  with
• 27:41
  me
• 27:42
  on
• 27:42
  the
• 27:43
  bus
• 27:43
  because
• 27:43
  I
• 27:44
  didn't
• 27:44
  come
• 27:45
  back
• 27:45
  as
• 27:45
  negative.
• 27:46
  And.
• 27:47
  And
• 27:47
  she's.
• 27:47
  And
• 27:48
  I
• 27:48
  think
• 27:48
  she'd
• 27:48
  also
• 27:48
  texted,
• 27:49
  will
• 27:49
  you
• 27:49
  tell
• 27:49
  dad?
• 27:49
  And
• 27:50
  I
• 27:50
  said,
• 27:50
  yeah,
• 27:50
  I'll
• 27:50
  tell
• 27:50
  Dad.
• 27:50
  Like,
• 27:51
  you
• 27:51
  know,
• 27:51
  no
• 27:51
  big
• 27:51
  deal.
• 27:52
  How
• 27:53
  dad
• 27:53
  now,
• 27:55
  surely.
• 27:56
  Yes.
• 27:57
  Yeah.
• 27:58
  He
• 27:58
  traveled
• 27:59
  a
• 27:59
  lot,
• 28:00
  so,
• 28:00
  yes,
• 28:00
  they're
• 28:00
  close.
• 28:01
  And
• 28:01
  he
• 28:01
  adores
• 28:02
  the
• 28:02
  Bajeebi's
• 28:03
  advert.
• 28:04
  I've
• 28:04
  actually
• 28:04
  seen
• 28:05
  him
• 28:05
  with
• 28:05
  her.
• 28:05
  Yeah.
• 28:06
  Yeah,
• 28:06
  he
• 28:06
  does
• 28:06
  pretty
• 28:07
  great.
• 28:08
  But
• 28:08
  he
• 28:09
  did
• 28:09
  travel
• 28:09
  all
• 28:09
  the
• 28:09
  time,
• 28:10
  so
• 28:10
  I
• 28:10
  wouldn't
• 28:10
  say
• 28:11
  on
• 28:11
  the
• 28:11
  same
• 28:12
  level
• 28:12
  because
• 28:12
  I
• 28:13
  was
• 28:13
  the
• 28:13
  one
• 28:13
  in
• 28:14
  the
• 28:14
  mud
• 28:14
  doing
• 28:14
  all
• 28:15
  this
• 28:15
  stuff.
• 28:15
  And
• 28:16
  he
• 28:16
  was.
• 28:17
  He
• 28:17
  spent
• 28:17
  at
• 28:17
  least
• 28:18
  two
• 28:18
  weeks
• 28:19
  every
• 28:19
  month
• 28:19
  in
• 28:20
  Portland,
• 28:20
  Oregon.
• 28:21
  We
• 28:21
  would
• 28:22
  even
• 28:22
  tease,
• 28:22
  like,
• 28:23
  on
• 28:23
  a
• 28:23
  holiday,
• 28:23
  we'd
• 28:24
  say,
• 28:24
  oh,
• 28:25
  we.
• 28:25
  Because,
• 28:25
  like,
• 28:25
  he
• 28:26
  had
• 28:26
  a
• 28:26
  second
• 28:26
  family.
• 28:26
  And
• 28:26
  we'd
• 28:27
  say,
• 28:27
  oh,
• 28:27
  we
• 28:27
  won.
• 28:28
  We
• 28:28
  wouldn't.
• 28:29
  Oh,
• 28:31
  you
• 28:31
  know,
• 28:31
  but
• 28:32
  it
• 28:32
  was
• 28:32
  just
• 28:32
  weird.
• 28:33
  So.
• 28:33
  Yeah.
• 28:33
  And
• 28:33
  he's
• 28:33
  from
• 28:34
  Indiana,
• 28:34
  so
• 28:34
  it's
• 28:34
  very
• 28:36
  conservative
• 28:37
  Indiana
• 28:37
  in
• 28:38
  general.
• 28:38
  Not
• 28:38
  all
• 28:38
  Indiana
• 28:39
  people
• 28:39
  are.
• 28:40
  But
• 28:40
  it
• 28:40
  was
• 28:41
  a
• 28:41
  thing,
• 28:41
  like,
• 28:41
  I
• 28:41
  had
• 28:41
  to
• 28:42
  tell
• 28:42
  him.
• 28:42
  And
• 28:42
  then
• 28:42
  he,
• 28:42
  you
• 28:43
  know,
• 28:43
  of
• 28:43
  course,
• 28:43
  she
• 28:43
  was
• 28:43
  in
• 28:43
  eighth
• 28:44
  grade,
• 28:44
  like
• 28:44
  I
• 28:44
  said.
• 28:45
  And
• 28:45
  then
• 28:45
  he's
• 28:46
  like,
• 28:46
  well,
• 28:46
  what
• 28:46
  does
• 28:46
  she
• 28:46
  know?
• 28:47
  You
• 28:47
  know,
• 28:48
  that
• 28:48
  kind
• 28:48
  of
• 28:48
  stuff.
• 28:48
  I'm
• 28:49
  like,
• 28:49
  well,
• 28:49
  you're
• 28:49
  gonna
• 28:49
  accept
• 28:50
  it
• 28:50
  and
• 28:50
  you're
• 28:50
  gonna,
• 28:51
  you
• 28:51
  know.
• 28:51
  Oh,
• 28:51
  you
• 28:52
  just
• 28:52
  said,
• 28:52
  hey,
• 28:53
  this
• 28:53
  is
• 28:53
  how
• 28:53
  it
• 28:53
  is.
• 28:54
  You're
• 28:54
  not
• 28:54
  gonna
• 28:55
  approach
• 28:55
  her.
• 28:55
  And.
• 28:56
  Yeah,
• 28:57
  and
• 28:57
  I
• 28:57
  was
• 28:57
  ready
• 28:58
  for
• 28:58
  that
• 28:58
  with
• 28:58
  all
• 28:58
  the
• 28:59
  family,
• 28:59
  like,
• 28:59
  even
• 28:59
  the
• 28:59
  grandparents.
• 29:00
  And
• 29:00
  it
• 29:01
  was
• 29:01
  immediately
• 29:02
  shocking
• 29:02
  how.
• 29:03
  Yeah.
• 29:03
  How.
• 29:04
  Well,
• 29:04
  they
• 29:04
  accepted.
• 29:05
  Yeah.
• 29:06
  Well,
• 29:06
  they
• 29:06
  accepted
• 29:07
  her.
• 29:07
  Really?
• 29:08
  Yeah.
• 29:09
  Because
• 29:09
  I
• 29:09
  think.
• 29:09
  I
• 29:09
  don't
• 29:10
  know
• 29:10
  if
• 29:10
  they
• 29:10
  knew
• 29:10
  or
• 29:11
  if
• 29:11
  you
• 29:11
  just.
• 29:12
  Once
• 29:12
  you
• 29:12
  get.
• 29:12
  Sometimes
• 29:13
  with.
• 29:13
  Not
• 29:13
  with
• 29:14
  all
• 29:14
  families,
• 29:14
  but
• 29:14
  sometimes
• 29:15
  when
• 29:15
  you
• 29:15
  get
• 29:15
  that,
• 29:16
  you
• 29:16
  just
• 29:16
  are
• 29:16
  like,
• 29:18
  you
• 29:18
  know,
• 29:19
  this
• 29:19
  is
• 29:19
  my
• 29:19
  granddaughter.
• 29:20
  I
• 29:20
  have
• 29:20
  loved
• 29:20
  her
• 29:21
  this
• 29:21
  whole
• 29:21
  time.
• 29:22
  I'm
• 29:22
  just
• 29:23
  gonna.
• 29:23
  Yeah.
• 29:24
  Still
• 29:24
  love
• 29:24
  her.
• 29:25
  And.
• 29:25
  And
• 29:25
  they've
• 29:26
  been
• 29:26
  very
• 29:26
  accepting.
• 29:26
  Oh,
• 29:27
  that's
• 29:27
  so
• 29:27
  beautiful.
• 29:28
  Yeah.
• 29:29
  And
• 29:29
  they're
• 29:29
  pretty
• 29:29
  conservative.
• 29:30
  Yeah.
• 29:31
  Yeah.
• 29:31
  They're
• 29:31
  from
• 29:32
  Indiana.
• 29:32
  If
• 29:32
  my
• 29:32
  dad,
• 29:33
  who's
• 29:33
  from
• 29:33
  Ohio.
• 29:34
  Yeah.
• 29:34
  Yeah.
• 29:36
  Just
• 29:36
  because
• 29:36
  you
• 29:36
  think
• 29:36
  old
• 29:37
  school,
• 29:37
  you
• 29:37
  know,
• 29:37
  he's
• 29:38
  20
• 29:38
  years
• 29:38
  older
• 29:38
  than
• 29:38
  me,
• 29:39
  and
• 29:39
  you
• 29:39
  just
• 29:40
  think,
• 29:41
  you
• 29:41
  know,
• 29:41
  his
• 29:41
  life.
• 29:42
  Hopefully
• 29:42
  life
• 29:43
  is
• 29:43
  getting
• 29:43
  better
• 29:43
  and
• 29:44
  easier
• 29:44
  and
• 29:44
  it's
• 29:45
  getting
• 29:45
  more
• 29:45
  accepted,
• 29:46
  but
• 29:46
  back
• 29:46
  in
• 29:47
  way.
• 29:47
  Right.
• 29:47
  It
• 29:48
  wasn't
• 29:49
  right.
• 29:50
  So
• 29:50
  what
• 29:50
  made
• 29:51
  you
• 29:51
  feel
• 29:52
  like,
• 29:53
  this
• 29:53
  is
• 29:53
  okay?
• 29:54
  It's
• 29:54
  fine.
• 29:55
  Like,
• 29:55
  what
• 29:56
  made
• 29:56
  you
• 29:56
  not
• 29:56
  bat
• 29:56
  an
• 29:56
  eye?
• 29:57
  Like,
• 29:58
  if
• 29:58
  you
• 29:58
  grew
• 29:59
  up
• 29:59
  in
• 29:59
  a
• 29:59
  conservative
• 30:00
  home,
• 30:00
  like,
• 30:00
  what
• 30:00
  would
• 30:01
  have
• 30:01
  made.
• 30:01
  Oh,
• 30:01
  I
• 30:01
  didn't.
• 30:02
  You
• 30:03
  did
• 30:03
  not.
• 30:03
  Oh,
• 30:03
  no,
• 30:04
  I'm
• 30:04
  sorry.
• 30:04
  Oh,
• 30:04
  I
• 30:04
  thought
• 30:05
  you
• 30:05
  were
• 30:05
  saying
• 30:05
  your
• 30:05
  dad
• 30:05
  was
• 30:06
  conservative.
• 30:06
  Well,
• 30:07
  you
• 30:07
  know,
• 30:07
  he's,
• 30:07
  you
• 30:07
  know.
• 30:08
  No,
• 30:09
  Ohio's
• 30:09
  Not
• 30:10
  Ohio's
• 30:10
  much.
• 30:10
  Yeah.
• 30:11
  Like
• 30:12
  I
• 30:12
  say
• 30:12
  in
• 30:12
  Columbus,
• 30:13
  it
• 30:13
  was.
• 30:13
  It
• 30:13
  was
• 30:13
  just
• 30:14
  there.
• 30:14
  So
• 30:14
  I
• 30:14
  had
• 30:14
  already.
• 30:15
  I
• 30:15
  had
• 30:15
  friends
• 30:16
  that
• 30:17
  were.
• 30:18
  Her
• 30:18
  preschool
• 30:19
  she
• 30:20
  went
• 30:20
  to,
• 30:20
  they
• 30:21
  had
• 30:21
  a
• 30:21
  lesbian.
• 30:22
  It
• 30:22
  was
• 30:22
  a
• 30:23
  Montessori
• 30:23
  school.
• 30:23
  And
• 30:24
  there
• 30:24
  was
• 30:24
  lesbian
• 30:25
  couple
• 30:25
  that
• 30:25
  were
• 30:25
  doing
• 30:26
  the
• 30:26
  preschool,
• 30:26
  the
• 30:26
  three
• 30:27
  to.
• 30:27
  Or
• 30:28
  three
• 30:28
  to
• 30:28
  six
• 30:29
  age
• 30:30
  group.
• 30:30
  So
• 30:31
  I
• 30:31
  was
• 30:31
  very
• 30:31
  much
• 30:31
  around
• 30:32
  it
• 30:33
  more.
• 30:33
  And
• 30:33
  so,
• 30:34
  yeah,
• 30:34
  I
• 30:34
  guess
• 30:34
  I
• 30:34
  had.
• 30:35
  I
• 30:35
  guess
• 30:35
  I
• 30:36
  had
• 30:36
  the
• 30:36
  precursor
• 30:36
  in
• 30:37
  life
• 30:37
  to
• 30:37
  be
• 30:37
  like,
• 30:38
  oh,
• 30:38
  okay,
• 30:39
  and
• 30:39
  just
• 30:40
  continue
• 30:40
  on.
• 30:41
  Yeah,
• 30:41
  I.
• 30:42
  I
• 30:43
  was.
• 30:44
  My
• 30:44
  best
• 30:44
  friend
• 30:45
  when
• 30:45
  I
• 30:45
  was,
• 30:45
  like,
• 30:45
  youngest.
• 30:46
  Like,
• 30:46
  my
• 30:46
  first
• 30:46
  friend,
• 30:47
  her.
• 30:47
  She
• 30:48
  had
• 30:48
  two
• 30:48
  moms.
• 30:49
  And
• 30:50
  I
• 30:50
  remember
• 30:51
  not
• 30:51
  even
• 30:52
  thinking
• 30:52
  anything
• 30:52
  of
• 30:52
  it.
• 30:53
  Like,
• 30:53
  I
• 30:53
  was
• 30:53
  like,
• 30:53
  oh,
• 30:53
  cool.
• 30:54
  Like,
• 30:54
  this
• 30:54
  is
• 30:54
  awesome.
• 30:54
  And,
• 30:55
  like,
• 30:55
  never
• 30:55
  thinking
• 30:55
  anything
• 30:56
  of
• 30:56
  it.
• 30:56
  But
• 30:56
  then
• 30:57
  one
• 30:57
  of
• 30:58
  my
• 30:58
  parents
• 30:58
  is
• 31:00
  just,
• 31:01
  you
• 31:01
  know,
• 31:01
  not
• 31:01
  a
• 31:02
  great
• 31:02
  human.
• 31:03
  And
• 31:03
  so
• 31:03
  I
• 31:03
  would
• 31:04
  hear,
• 31:04
  like,
• 31:04
  all
• 31:04
  this
• 31:04
  negativity
• 31:05
  about
• 31:05
  it.
• 31:06
  And
• 31:06
  as
• 31:06
  a
• 31:06
  kid,
• 31:07
  you
• 31:07
  get,
• 31:07
  like,
• 31:07
  really
• 31:07
  confused.
• 31:09
  And
• 31:10
  I
• 31:10
  just
• 31:10
  remember
• 31:10
  thinking,
• 31:11
  like,
• 31:12
  why
• 31:12
  is
• 31:12
  it
• 31:13
  weird?
• 31:15
  Like,
• 31:15
  there's
• 31:16
  still
• 31:16
  two
• 31:16
  parents.
• 31:16
  You're
• 31:17
  like,
• 31:17
  I
• 31:17
  don't
• 31:17
  know.
• 31:17
  I
• 31:17
  think
• 31:17
  I
• 31:18
  found
• 31:18
  it
• 31:18
  more
• 31:18
  weird
• 31:18
  when
• 31:19
  a,
• 31:19
  you
• 31:19
  know,
• 31:19
  a
• 31:20
  friend
• 31:20
  was
• 31:20
  like,
• 31:20
  oh,
• 31:20
  my
• 31:20
  parents
• 31:21
  got
• 31:21
  divorced,
• 31:21
  so
• 31:21
  I'm
• 31:22
  just
• 31:22
  with
• 31:22
  my
• 31:22
  dad
• 31:22
  or
• 31:22
  something.
• 31:23
  Then
• 31:23
  I'd
• 31:23
  be
• 31:23
  like,
• 31:24
  whoa,
• 31:24
  that's
• 31:25
  weird.
• 31:25
  But,
• 31:26
  like,
• 31:26
  to
• 31:26
  hear
• 31:26
  two
• 31:27
  moms
• 31:27
  or
• 31:27
  I
• 31:27
  have
• 31:28
  two
• 31:28
  dads
• 31:28
  or
• 31:28
  something,
• 31:28
  I
• 31:28
  was
• 31:29
  like,
• 31:29
  oh,
• 31:29
  two
• 31:29
  parents.
• 31:29
  That
• 31:30
  makes
• 31:30
  sense.
• 31:33
  Yeah.
• 31:34
  So
• 31:35
  I
• 31:35
  didn't
• 31:35
  want
• 31:35
  to
• 31:35
  put,
• 31:35
  like,
• 31:35
  a
• 31:36
  negative
• 31:36
  slant
• 31:37
  on
• 31:37
  the
• 31:37
  family.
• 31:38
  So
• 31:38
  that's
• 31:38
  not
• 31:38
  what
• 31:38
  I'm
• 31:39
  trying
• 31:39
  to
• 31:39
  do
• 31:39
  with
• 31:39
  this
• 31:39
  question.
• 31:40
  But
• 31:40
  I
• 31:41
  do
• 31:41
  wonder,
• 31:42
  because
• 31:42
  growing
• 31:43
  up
• 31:43
  in
• 31:44
  the
• 31:44
  place
• 31:44
  and
• 31:45
  the.
• 31:45
  Where
• 31:45
  I
• 31:46
  grew
• 31:46
  up,
• 31:46
  it
• 31:46
  was
• 31:47
  very
• 31:47
  much
• 31:48
  this
• 31:48
  idea
• 31:48
  of
• 31:49
  love
• 31:49
  the
• 31:50
  sinner,
• 31:50
  hate
• 31:50
  the
• 31:51
  sin.
• 31:51
  And
• 31:51
  it's
• 31:51
  like,
• 31:52
  that
• 31:52
  is
• 31:52
  not
• 31:52
  acceptance.
• 31:53
  That's
• 31:53
  not
• 31:53
  acceptance.
• 31:54
  Right.
• 31:55
  So
• 31:55
  I'm
• 31:55
  wondering
• 31:55
  if
• 31:56
  there
• 31:56
  was
• 31:56
  any
• 31:56
  of
• 31:56
  this.
• 31:56
  So,
• 31:57
  like,
• 31:57
  in
• 31:57
  the.
• 31:58
  With
• 31:58
  the
• 31:58
  family
• 31:58
  and
• 31:58
  Emily
• 31:59
  and
• 31:59
  the
• 31:59
  grandparents,
• 32:01
  how
• 32:01
  would
• 32:01
  you
• 32:01
  say
• 32:02
  it
• 32:02
  was,
• 32:02
  like,
• 32:02
  true?
• 32:02
  Would
• 32:03
  you
• 32:03
  say
• 32:03
  it
• 32:03
  was
• 32:03
  true,
• 32:04
  true,
• 32:04
  true,
• 32:04
  deep
• 32:05
  acceptance?
• 32:05
  Or
• 32:05
  was
• 32:06
  it
• 32:06
  more
• 32:06
  like,
• 32:07
  I
• 32:07
  accept
• 32:08
  you
• 32:08
  and
• 32:08
  I
• 32:08
  love
• 32:08
  you,
• 32:09
  I
• 32:09
  do
• 32:09
  hope
• 32:10
  that
• 32:10
  you.
• 32:11
  I
• 32:11
  hope
• 32:11
  to
• 32:11
  come
• 32:12
  to
• 32:12
  your
• 32:12
  senses.
• 32:13
  You
• 32:13
  know
• 32:13
  what
• 32:13
  I
• 32:13
  mean?
• 32:13
  Right.
• 32:14
  I
• 32:15
  would
• 32:15
  say
• 32:15
  I
• 32:15
  had
• 32:16
  a
• 32:16
  friend,
• 32:16
  actually,
• 32:16
  that
• 32:17
  I
• 32:17
  walked
• 32:17
  with
• 32:17
  every
• 32:17
  day
• 32:18
  in
• 32:18
  the
• 32:18
  mornings.
• 32:19
  And
• 32:19
  she.
• 32:20
  She
• 32:20
  was.
• 32:21
  She
• 32:21
  tried
• 32:21
  to
• 32:22
  say,
• 32:22
  you
• 32:23
  know,
• 32:23
  emily
• 32:23
  needs
• 32:23
  to
• 32:23
  see
• 32:24
  our
• 32:24
  youth
• 32:24
  minister.
• 32:25
  And
• 32:25
  I'm
• 32:26
  like,
• 32:26
  no,
• 32:27
  that's
• 32:27
  not.
• 32:28
  That's
• 32:28
  not
• 32:29
  gonna
• 32:29
  happen.
• 32:29
  And
• 32:29
  she's
• 32:30
  not
• 32:30
  gonna
• 32:30
  see
• 32:30
  her
• 32:30
  youth
• 32:30
  minister.
• 32:32
  But
• 32:32
  the
• 32:32
  family,
• 32:33
  they
• 32:33
  probably
• 32:34
  were
• 32:34
  hesitant,
• 32:35
  and
• 32:35
  they
• 32:35
  probably
• 32:35
  maybe
• 32:36
  hoped
• 32:37
  that
• 32:38
  it
• 32:39
  would
• 32:39
  be.
• 32:39
  She
• 32:39
  would
• 32:39
  be
• 32:39
  wrong.
• 32:40
  Right.
• 32:41
  But
• 32:42
  they
• 32:42
  never
• 32:42
  ever,
• 32:43
  like,
• 32:44
  really
• 32:44
  verbalized
• 32:45
  it
• 32:45
  or
• 32:45
  made
• 32:45
  a
• 32:46
  thing
• 32:46
  about
• 32:46
  it.
• 32:46
  That's
• 32:47
  good.
• 32:47
  At
• 32:47
  least
• 32:48
  they
• 32:48
  let
• 32:49
  her
• 32:49
  know.
• 32:49
  Yeah.
• 32:50
  And
• 32:50
  they
• 32:50
  could
• 32:50
  have
• 32:50
  known
• 32:50
  I'm
• 32:51
  pretty
• 32:51
  strong.
• 32:52
  It's
• 32:52
  even
• 32:52
  in
• 32:53
  Indiana.
• 32:53
  They
• 32:53
  probably.
• 32:54
  I
• 32:54
  think
• 32:54
  they
• 32:54
  were
• 32:54
  like,
• 32:55
  wow,
• 32:55
  what
• 32:55
  are
• 32:55
  we
• 32:55
  getting?
• 32:55
  Okay,
• 32:56
  so
• 32:56
  wait.
• 32:56
  What
• 32:56
  you
• 32:57
  guys
• 32:57
  don't
• 32:57
  know
• 32:57
  is
• 32:57
  Michelle
• 32:58
  Is
• 32:58
  what,
• 32:58
  4
• 32:58
  foot
• 32:59
  11?
• 32:59
  Yeah.
• 33:00
  410.
• 33:01
  410.
• 33:01
  Okay.
• 33:02
  Sorry.
• 33:02
  No,
• 33:02
  hey,
• 33:03
  give
• 33:03
  it
• 33:03
  to
• 33:03
  me.
• 33:04
  Take
• 33:05
  the
• 33:05
  lynch.
• 33:05
  And
• 33:06
  she
• 33:07
  is
• 33:07
  tough.
• 33:08
  Yeah.
• 33:09
  Like,
• 33:09
  she.
• 33:10
  She'll.
• 33:10
  You
• 33:10
  stand
• 33:11
  up.
• 33:11
  Yeah.
• 33:12
  For
• 33:12
  people.
• 33:12
  Like,
• 33:13
  I
• 33:13
  feel
• 33:13
  like
• 33:13
  you
• 33:14
  protect
• 33:14
  me
• 33:15
  a
• 33:15
  lot
• 33:15
  of
• 33:15
  the
• 33:15
  times.
• 33:16
  Oh,
• 33:16
  yeah.
• 33:16
  Well,
• 33:17
  right.
• 33:17
  Yeah.
• 33:20
  If
• 33:20
  it's
• 33:21
  wrong,
• 33:21
  it's
• 33:21
  wrong.
• 33:22
  I
• 33:22
  like
• 33:23
  that.
• 33:24
  You
• 33:24
  will
• 33:24
  not.
• 33:24
  You
• 33:25
  will
• 33:25
  not
• 33:25
  step
• 33:25
  on
• 33:25
  my
• 33:25
  friend.
• 33:26
  She's
• 33:26
  so
• 33:26
  accepting
• 33:27
  of
• 33:27
  everything.
• 33:27
  She
• 33:28
  gives
• 33:28
  her
• 33:28
  an
• 33:28
  extra
• 33:29
  inch
• 33:29
  and
• 33:29
  she's
• 33:29
  like,
• 33:29
  yeah,
• 33:30
  you
• 33:30
  give
• 33:30
  her
• 33:31
  an.
• 33:31
  Extra
• 33:32
  year
• 33:33
  on
• 33:33
  her
• 33:33
  life.
• 33:33
  Yeah.
• 33:34
  You
• 33:35
  stand
• 33:35
  up
• 33:35
  for
• 33:35
  me.
• 33:35
  Yeah,
• 33:36
  yeah,
• 33:36
  I
• 33:36
  do
• 33:36
  do
• 33:36
  that.
• 33:38
  You're
• 33:38
  not
• 33:38
  taking
• 33:39
  our
• 33:39
  electric.
• 33:40
  That's
• 33:40
  right.
• 33:41
  We
• 33:41
  had
• 33:41
  that
• 33:41
  happen.
• 33:43
  She
• 33:43
  does.
• 33:43
  She
• 33:44
  tells
• 33:44
  people
• 33:44
  what's
• 33:45
  up.
• 33:45
  And
• 33:45
  so
• 33:46
  like,
• 33:46
  I'm
• 33:46
  putting
• 33:47
  that
• 33:47
  in
• 33:47
  my
• 33:47
  phone.
• 33:49
  Ask
• 33:49
  Michelle
• 33:50
  to
• 33:50
  help
• 33:50
  me
• 33:50
  out.
• 33:50
  For
• 33:51
  sure.
• 33:51
  Yeah,
• 33:51
  for
• 33:52
  sure.
• 33:52
  And
• 33:52
  so
• 33:53
  like.
• 33:53
  Yeah,
• 33:53
  there
• 33:53
  probably
• 33:54
  could
• 33:54
  have
• 33:54
  been
• 33:54
  an
• 33:54
  element
• 33:55
  of
• 33:55
  that.
• 33:55
  But
• 33:55
  it's
• 33:55
  nice
• 33:56
  to
• 33:56
  know
• 33:56
  that
• 33:56
  they.
• 33:57
  Regardless,
• 33:58
  I
• 33:58
  guess.
• 33:58
  Yeah.
• 33:59
  They
• 34:00
  never
• 34:00
  made
• 34:00
  her
• 34:00
  feel,
• 34:01
  like,
• 34:02
  different
• 34:02
  or
• 34:03
  that,
• 34:03
  you
• 34:03
  know,
• 34:03
  that
• 34:03
  she
• 34:04
  wasn't
• 34:04
  accepted,
• 34:05
  which
• 34:05
  was
• 34:05
  good.
• 34:06
  Very
• 34:06
  good.
• 34:06
  Yeah,
• 34:07
  yeah,
• 34:07
  yeah.
• 34:07
  Because
• 34:07
  a
• 34:08
  lot
• 34:08
  of
• 34:08
  people
• 34:08
  don't
• 34:08
  get
• 34:08
  that.
• 34:08
  Too
• 34:09
  many
• 34:09
  people
• 34:09
  don't.
• 34:10
  That's.
• 34:10
  It's
• 34:10
  just
• 34:10
  sad.
• 34:11
  So
• 34:11
  you
• 34:11
  mentioned
• 34:12
  that
• 34:13
  there
• 34:13
  was
• 34:13
  the
• 34:13
  incident
• 34:14
  where
• 34:14
  the
• 34:15
  school
• 34:15
  found
• 34:15
  out
• 34:16
  about
• 34:16
  cutting
• 34:17
  and
• 34:17
  then
• 34:18
  mandated
• 34:19
  therapy.
• 34:20
  Is
• 34:20
  this
• 34:20
  before
• 34:21
  this
• 34:21
  text
• 34:22
  or
• 34:22
  after?
• 34:23
  Oh,
• 34:24
  it
• 34:24
  would
• 34:24
  have
• 34:25
  been
• 34:25
  after
• 34:25
  because
• 34:25
  it
• 34:25
  was
• 34:25
  in
• 34:26
  high
• 34:26
  school.
• 34:27
  So
• 34:27
  I
• 34:27
  think
• 34:27
  she
• 34:27
  had
• 34:28
  a.
• 34:28
  A.
• 34:29
  I
• 34:29
  don't
• 34:30
  know
• 34:30
  what
• 34:30
  caused
• 34:30
  it.
• 34:31
  And
• 34:31
  I.
• 34:31
  And
• 34:31
  I
• 34:32
  don't
• 34:32
  know,
• 34:32
  just
• 34:32
  to
• 34:33
  clarify,
• 34:33
  because
• 34:34
  this
• 34:34
  is
• 34:34
  a
• 34:35
  little
• 34:35
  confusing
• 34:35
  for
• 34:35
  me.
• 34:36
  8th
• 34:36
  grade
• 34:36
  in
• 34:37
  the
• 34:37
  schools
• 34:37
  in
• 34:38
  Georgia,
• 34:38
  in
• 34:39
  the
• 34:39
  south
• 34:39
  is
• 34:40
  high
• 34:40
  school.
• 34:41
  But
• 34:41
  from
• 34:42
  hearing
• 34:43
  the
• 34:43
  ages
• 34:44
  that
• 34:44
  you're
• 34:44
  talking
• 34:44
  about
• 34:45
  high
• 34:45
  school,
• 34:45
  middle
• 34:46
  school,
• 34:46
  it
• 34:46
  sounds
• 34:46
  like
• 34:46
  the
• 34:47
  grades
• 34:47
  are
• 34:47
  a
• 34:47
  little
• 34:47
  different.
• 34:48
  Well,
• 34:48
  no,
• 34:49
  eighth
• 34:49
  grade
• 34:49
  is
• 34:49
  junior
• 34:50
  high,
• 34:50
  but
• 34:51
  you
• 34:51
  can
• 34:51
  take
• 34:51
  high
• 34:51
  school
• 34:52
  classes.
• 34:52
  Oh,
• 34:52
  yeah.
• 34:53
  I
• 34:53
  don't
• 34:53
  think
• 34:53
  we're
• 34:54
  broken
• 34:54
  up
• 34:54
  like
• 34:54
  that.
• 34:54
  Right.
• 34:55
  No,
• 34:55
  I.
• 34:55
  I
• 34:56
  didn't
• 34:56
  get
• 34:56
  that
• 34:56
  impression.
• 34:58
  Wait,
• 34:58
  No,
• 34:58
  I
• 34:58
  am
• 34:59
  wrong.
• 34:59
  I'm
• 34:59
  wrong.
• 35:00
  You're
• 35:00
  right.
• 35:00
  Yeah.
• 35:01
  You're
• 35:01
  right.
• 35:01
  Okay.
• 35:03
  Yeah,
• 35:03
  I
• 35:03
  know.
• 35:04
  She
• 35:04
  always
• 35:04
  does
• 35:05
  that
• 35:05
  to
• 35:05
  me
• 35:05
  too.
• 35:05
  And
• 35:06
  I'm
• 35:06
  like,
• 35:06
  damn
• 35:06
  it.
• 35:07
  Damn
• 35:07
  it.
• 35:08
  I
• 35:08
  was
• 35:08
  confused.
• 35:09
  You
• 35:09
  know,
• 35:10
  Been
• 35:10
  out
• 35:10
  of
• 35:10
  school
• 35:10
  a
• 35:11
  long
• 35:11
  time.
• 35:11
  Okay,
• 35:11
  sorry.
• 35:12
  Yeah.
• 35:12
  Yes.
• 35:13
  So
• 35:15
  in
• 35:15
  eighth
• 35:15
  grade
• 35:16
  is
• 35:18
  when
• 35:18
  she
• 35:19
  texts
• 35:19
  you,
• 35:19
  and
• 35:20
  then
• 35:20
  high
• 35:21
  school
• 35:21
  is.
• 35:22
  When
• 35:22
  the
• 35:22
  incidents
• 35:23
  when
• 35:23
  she
• 35:23
  started
• 35:24
  cutting,
• 35:24
  or
• 35:24
  at
• 35:24
  least
• 35:25
  when
• 35:25
  they
• 35:25
  found
• 35:25
  out
• 35:26
  about
• 35:27
  the
• 35:27
  cutting.
• 35:28
  Right.
• 35:28
  And
• 35:28
  you
• 35:28
  had
• 35:29
  not
• 35:29
  known.
• 35:29
  No,
• 35:30
  I
• 35:30
  didn't
• 35:30
  know.
• 35:31
  I
• 35:31
  didn't
• 35:31
  have
• 35:31
  a
• 35:31
  clue.
• 35:32
  And
• 35:32
  then
• 35:32
  the.
• 35:32
  The
• 35:33
  old
• 35:33
  therapist
• 35:33
  I
• 35:34
  was
• 35:34
  talking
• 35:34
  about,
• 35:35
  she
• 35:35
  was
• 35:35
  like,
• 35:35
  you
• 35:35
  need
• 35:36
  to
• 35:36
  remove
• 35:36
  all
• 35:36
  the
• 35:36
  knives
• 35:36
  in
• 35:37
  the
• 35:37
  house.
• 35:37
  And
• 35:37
  I
• 35:37
  was
• 35:37
  like,
• 35:38
  well,
• 35:38
  that
• 35:38
  seems
• 35:39
  extreme,
• 35:40
  because.
• 35:41
  I
• 35:41
  don't
• 35:42
  know.
• 35:42
  It
• 35:42
  just.
• 35:42
  It
• 35:43
  sounded
• 35:43
  wrong
• 35:43
  the
• 35:44
  way
• 35:44
  she
• 35:44
  said
• 35:44
  it.
• 35:45
  Yeah.
• 35:45
  Like.
• 35:47
  And
• 35:47
  I
• 35:48
  just.
• 35:48
  I
• 35:48
  don't
• 35:48
  know.
• 35:48
  I
• 35:49
  just.
• 35:49
  Yeah,
• 35:49
  you
• 35:50
  had
• 35:50
  feelings
• 35:50
  already,
• 35:51
  too.
• 35:51
  Like,
• 35:51
  Emily
• 35:52
  doesn't
• 35:52
  like
• 35:52
  her.
• 35:53
  That
• 35:53
  also
• 35:54
  seems
• 35:54
  a
• 35:54
  little
• 35:54
  extra.
• 35:55
  So
• 35:55
  how
• 35:56
  did
• 35:56
  you
• 35:56
  find
• 35:56
  somebody
• 35:57
  that
• 35:57
  was.
• 35:57
  Same
• 35:57
  therapy,
• 35:58
  same,
• 35:58
  like,
• 35:59
  practice.
• 35:59
  Okay.
• 36:00
  Yeah.
• 36:00
  Oh,
• 36:00
  then
• 36:00
  that's
• 36:01
  very.
• 36:01
  Yeah.
• 36:01
  And
• 36:01
  I
• 36:02
  just
• 36:02
  asked
• 36:02
  for
• 36:02
  a
• 36:02
  new
• 36:02
  one.
• 36:02
  I
• 36:02
  said,
• 36:03
  we
• 36:03
  need
• 36:03
  to
• 36:03
  try
• 36:03
  a
• 36:03
  new
• 36:03
  one.
• 36:04
  And
• 36:04
  so
• 36:04
  we
• 36:05
  did.
• 36:05
  I'm
• 36:05
  so
• 36:05
  proud
• 36:06
  of
• 36:06
  you.
• 36:06
  Yeah.
• 36:07
  Because
• 36:07
  it's
• 36:07
  really
• 36:07
  hard
• 36:08
  to
• 36:08
  advocate
• 36:08
  for
• 36:09
  yourself.
• 36:09
  And
• 36:09
  as
• 36:09
  a
• 36:09
  teen,
• 36:10
  your
• 36:10
  parents,
• 36:11
  for
• 36:11
  sure
• 36:11
  need
• 36:12
  to
• 36:12
  be
• 36:12
  advocating
• 36:12
  for
• 36:12
  you.
• 36:13
  Yeah.
• 36:13
  Not.
• 36:13
  But
• 36:13
  not
• 36:14
  always.
• 36:14
  Do
• 36:14
  they?
• 36:16
  Or
• 36:17
  in
• 36:17
  the
• 36:17
  right
• 36:17
  way.
• 36:18
  Yeah,
• 36:18
  I
• 36:18
  think
• 36:18
  that.
• 36:19
  I
• 36:20
  know.
• 36:20
  Right
• 36:20
  way.
• 36:20
  Yes.
• 36:21
  Yeah.
• 36:21
  That.
• 36:21
  Yeah.
• 36:22
  You
• 36:22
  know
• 36:22
  what
• 36:22
  I
• 36:22
  mean?
• 36:22
  Yes.
• 36:23
  I
• 36:24
  probably
• 36:24
  should
• 36:24
  take
• 36:24
  that
• 36:24
  back.
• 36:25
  I
• 36:25
  do
• 36:25
  think
• 36:25
  most
• 36:25
  parents
• 36:26
  are
• 36:26
  trying
• 36:26
  to
• 36:27
  try
• 36:27
  everything
• 36:27
  that
• 36:27
  they
• 36:28
  can
• 36:28
  because
• 36:28
  they
• 36:28
  love
• 36:29
  their
• 36:29
  children.
• 36:29
  Just
• 36:30
  sometimes
• 36:30
  it's
• 36:31
  not
• 36:31
  always
• 36:32
  what
• 36:32
  they
• 36:32
  need.
• 36:33
  The
• 36:33
  right
• 36:33
  way.
• 36:33
  Yeah.
• 36:34
  Yeah.
• 36:34
  Okay.
• 36:35
  So
• 36:36
  the
• 36:36
  cutting
• 36:36
  is
• 36:36
  in
• 36:37
  high
• 36:37
  school.
• 36:37
  This
• 36:37
  is
• 36:37
  after
• 36:38
  she's
• 36:38
  come
• 36:38
  out.
• 36:40
  Did
• 36:40
  you
• 36:40
  ever
• 36:41
  learn
• 36:41
  one?
• 36:42
  Because
• 36:43
  I
• 36:43
  was
• 36:43
  around
• 36:43
  that,
• 36:43
  like,
• 36:44
  all
• 36:44
  my
• 36:44
  friends
• 36:44
  literally
• 36:45
  were.
• 36:45
  And
• 36:45
  actually
• 36:45
  they
• 36:46
  all
• 36:46
  got
• 36:46
  suspended.
• 36:47
  I
• 36:47
  did
• 36:47
  not.
• 36:47
  I
• 36:47
  was
• 36:48
  not
• 36:48
  a
• 36:48
  part
• 36:48
  of
• 36:48
  that,
• 36:49
  but
• 36:49
  they
• 36:49
  actually
• 36:49
  ended
• 36:50
  up
• 36:50
  all
• 36:50
  getting
• 36:50
  suspended
• 36:51
  for
• 36:51
  it
• 36:51
  because
• 36:51
  they
• 36:52
  were
• 36:52
  doing
• 36:52
  that
• 36:53
  and
• 36:53
  then
• 36:54
  taking,
• 36:56
  like,
• 36:56
  ibuprofen
• 36:57
  or
• 36:57
  something
• 36:57
  also
• 36:58
  at
• 36:58
  school
• 36:58
  for
• 36:58
  it.
• 36:59
  And
• 37:00
  I
• 37:00
  don't
• 37:01
  understand
• 37:01
  the
• 37:02
  suspense.
• 37:02
  I
• 37:02
  feel
• 37:02
  like
• 37:03
  they.
• 37:03
  They
• 37:03
  all
• 37:03
  got
• 37:03
  suspended,
• 37:04
  and
• 37:04
  then
• 37:04
  because
• 37:04
  all
• 37:05
  their
• 37:05
  parents
• 37:05
  worked,
• 37:06
  my
• 37:06
  mom
• 37:07
  ended
• 37:07
  up
• 37:07
  having
• 37:08
  to
• 37:08
  watch
• 37:08
  all
• 37:08
  of
• 37:08
  them.
• 37:09
  And
• 37:09
  they
• 37:09
  had
• 37:09
  to.
• 37:10
  They
• 37:10
  had
• 37:10
  all
• 37:10
  of
• 37:10
  their
• 37:10
  school
• 37:11
  work
• 37:11
  at
• 37:11
  home,
• 37:12
  and.
• 37:13
  And
• 37:13
  then
• 37:14
  my
• 37:14
  mom
• 37:14
  gave
• 37:14
  all
• 37:15
  of
• 37:15
  them,
• 37:15
  like,
• 37:15
  strict
• 37:16
  chores.
• 37:16
  Like,
• 37:17
  hey,
• 37:17
  have
• 37:17
  you
• 37:18
  ever
• 37:18
  changed
• 37:18
  a
• 37:18
  shower
• 37:18
  curtain
• 37:19
  before?
• 37:19
  And
• 37:19
  they're
• 37:20
  like,
• 37:20
  no.
• 37:20
  She
• 37:20
  goes,
• 37:21
  good.
• 37:21
  I
• 37:21
  have
• 37:22
  three
• 37:22
  showers.
• 37:24
  Like,
• 37:24
  how
• 37:25
  did
• 37:25
  your
• 37:25
  mom
• 37:25
  get
• 37:25
  so
• 37:26
  lucky?
• 37:26
  She
• 37:26
  got
• 37:26
  her
• 37:27
  own
• 37:27
  little
• 37:27
  work.
• 37:28
  Yeah.
• 37:29
  My
• 37:29
  friend,
• 37:29
  one
• 37:29
  of
• 37:30
  my
• 37:30
  friends
• 37:30
  is
• 37:30
  still,
• 37:30
  like,
• 37:31
  traumatized.
• 37:31
  She
• 37:31
  goes,
• 37:32
  like,
• 37:32
  anytime
• 37:32
  she
• 37:33
  still,
• 37:33
  like,
• 37:33
  sees
• 37:34
  my
• 37:34
  mom,
• 37:34
  she
• 37:34
  goes,
• 37:35
  I'm
• 37:35
  not
• 37:36
  touching
• 37:36
  your
• 37:36
  shower.
• 37:38
  She
• 37:38
  goes,
• 37:39
  that's
• 37:39
  fine.
• 37:39
  That's
• 37:39
  fine.
• 37:40
  But,
• 37:42
  yeah,
• 37:42
  but
• 37:43
  I
• 37:43
  saw
• 37:43
  how,
• 37:44
  like,
• 37:44
  their
• 37:44
  moms
• 37:45
  felt
• 37:45
  and
• 37:46
  how
• 37:46
  it
• 37:46
  was,
• 37:46
  like,
• 37:46
  in
• 37:47
  their
• 37:47
  house
• 37:47
  after
• 37:47
  all
• 37:48
  that,
• 37:49
  and
• 37:50
  you
• 37:51
  could
• 37:51
  tell
• 37:51
  that
• 37:51
  they.
• 37:52
  That's
• 37:52
  very
• 37:52
  alarming
• 37:53
  for
• 37:53
  them.
• 37:53
  And
• 37:53
  they
• 37:53
  all
• 37:54
  reacted
• 37:54
  differently.
• 37:55
  And
• 37:55
  how
• 37:55
  they
• 37:55
  handled
• 37:55
  it.
• 37:56
  One
• 37:56
  of
• 37:56
  them
• 37:56
  did
• 37:56
  remove
• 37:57
  bathroom
• 37:58
  doors.
• 37:58
  Bedroom
• 37:58
  doors.
• 37:59
  Whoa.
• 38:00
  All
• 38:00
  privacy.
• 38:01
  It
• 38:01
  was
• 38:01
  a
• 38:02
  privilege
• 38:02
  and
• 38:02
  was
• 38:02
  all
• 38:03
  removed.
• 38:03
  So
• 38:04
  extreme.
• 38:05
  Like,
• 38:06
  how
• 38:07
  did
• 38:08
  that
• 38:08
  feel
• 38:08
  for
• 38:08
  you?
• 38:08
  And
• 38:09
  did
• 38:09
  you
• 38:09
  ever
• 38:09
  get
• 38:09
  kind
• 38:10
  of
• 38:10
  answers
• 38:10
  of
• 38:11
  what
• 38:11
  brought
• 38:12
  that
• 38:12
  on?
• 38:12
  Oh,
• 38:13
  yeah.
• 38:13
  And
• 38:13
  did
• 38:13
  you
• 38:13
  know
• 38:14
  other
• 38:14
  parents
• 38:14
  that
• 38:15
  were
• 38:15
  dealing
• 38:15
  with
• 38:15
  this?
• 38:16
  Oh,
• 38:16
  not
• 38:16
  really
• 38:17
  other
• 38:17
  children,
• 38:17
  but
• 38:18
  it
• 38:18
  seemed
• 38:18
  like
• 38:18
  it
• 38:19
  was.
• 38:19
  And
• 38:20
  this
• 38:20
  probably
• 38:21
  sounds
• 38:21
  really
• 38:21
  weird,
• 38:22
  but
• 38:22
  it
• 38:23
  seemed
• 38:23
  really
• 38:23
  in
• 38:23
  at
• 38:24
  the
• 38:24
  time,
• 38:24
  too.
• 38:25
  But
• 38:25
  I
• 38:26
  don't
• 38:26
  know
• 38:26
  other
• 38:26
  parents
• 38:27
  that
• 38:27
  were,
• 38:27
  like,
• 38:28
  no
• 38:28
  other
• 38:28
  parents
• 38:28
  were
• 38:28
  talking
• 38:29
  about.
• 38:29
  No,
• 38:29
  you're
• 38:29
  not
• 38:30
  wrong,
• 38:30
  because
• 38:30
  she's
• 38:31
  only,
• 38:31
  what,
• 38:31
  three
• 38:31
  years
• 38:31
  younger
• 38:31
  than
• 38:32
  me?
• 38:32
  So,
• 38:32
  yeah,
• 38:33
  that's
• 38:33
  about.
• 38:33
  Yeah,
• 38:34
  but
• 38:35
  I
• 38:35
  don't.
• 38:35
  I
• 38:35
  don't
• 38:35
  think
• 38:36
  it
• 38:36
  had
• 38:36
  to
• 38:36
  do
• 38:36
  with
• 38:36
  being
• 38:37
  a
• 38:37
  lesbian
• 38:38
  as
• 38:38
  much
• 38:38
  as
• 38:40
  she
• 38:40
  did
• 38:40
  have
• 38:40
  a
• 38:40
  breakup.
• 38:41
  So
• 38:42
  maybe
• 38:42
  that.
• 38:43
  And
• 38:44
  I.
• 38:45
  I
• 38:45
  don't
• 38:45
  know,
• 38:45
  you
• 38:46
  know,
• 38:46
  I
• 38:46
  guess
• 38:46
  I
• 38:46
  don't
• 38:47
  really
• 38:47
  know
• 38:48
  why.
• 38:49
  Why
• 38:49
  she
• 38:49
  started
• 38:50
  cutting,
• 38:50
  you
• 38:51
  know,
• 38:51
  And
• 38:51
  I
• 38:51
  didn't
• 38:52
  understand
• 38:52
  it
• 38:53
  because,
• 38:53
  like,
• 38:54
  I'll
• 38:54
  eat
• 38:54
  chocolate
• 38:55
  all
• 38:55
  day
• 38:55
  long,
• 38:55
  but
• 38:56
  yet
• 38:56
  I
• 38:56
  don't
• 38:56
  understand.
• 38:57
  Which
• 38:57
  is
• 38:58
  not
• 38:59
  helping
• 38:59
  your
• 38:59
  body.
• 39:00
  Right.
• 39:00
  But
• 39:00
  yet
• 39:01
  the
• 39:02
  whole
• 39:02
  cutting
• 39:03
  just
• 39:04
  really.
• 39:04
  Was
• 39:05
  hard
• 39:05
  to
• 39:06
  know.
• 39:06
  Yeah,
• 39:06
  I
• 39:06
  know
• 39:06
  what
• 39:06
  you
• 39:07
  mean.
• 39:07
  Yeah.
• 39:07
  You're
• 39:08
  like,
• 39:08
  yeah,
• 39:08
  I'm
• 39:09
  hurting
• 39:09
  myself
• 39:09
  in
• 39:10
  other
• 39:10
  ways.
• 39:10
  Right.
• 39:10
  By
• 39:11
  being
• 39:11
  unhealthy.
• 39:12
  But
• 39:12
  I
• 39:12
  still
• 39:13
  don't
• 39:13
  understand
• 39:13
  why.
• 39:14
  So
• 39:14
  I
• 39:14
  actually
• 39:15
  have
• 39:15
  some
• 39:15
  insight
• 39:16
  on
• 39:16
  that
• 39:16
  because
• 39:16
  I
• 39:16
  have.
• 39:17
  Have.
• 39:18
  I've
• 39:18
  been
• 39:18
  there.
• 39:19
  So
• 39:19
  I'll
• 39:20
  just
• 39:20
  share
• 39:20
  this
• 39:20
  if
• 39:20
  you
• 39:21
  don't
• 39:21
  mind,
• 39:21
  but
• 39:22
  I
• 39:22
  had
• 39:22
  a
• 39:22
  miscarriage,
• 39:23
  and
• 39:23
  it
• 39:24
  was
• 39:24
  really
• 39:24
  traumatic.
• 39:25
  And
• 39:27
  I
• 39:27
  will
• 39:27
  probably
• 39:27
  share
• 39:28
  the
• 39:28
  story
• 39:28
  at
• 39:28
  some
• 39:28
  point.
• 39:29
  That
• 39:29
  being
• 39:30
  said,
• 39:30
  when
• 39:30
  Mother's
• 39:30
  Day
• 39:31
  rolled
• 39:31
  around
• 39:31
  the
• 39:31
  next
• 39:31
  year,
• 39:32
  and
• 39:33
  at
• 39:33
  the
• 39:34
  time
• 39:34
  my
• 39:35
  husband
• 39:35
  was
• 39:36
  traveling
• 39:37
  and
• 39:37
  I
• 39:37
  was
• 39:37
  alone,
• 39:38
  I
• 39:39
  was
• 39:39
  deeply,
• 39:40
  deeply
• 39:41
  hurting,
• 39:42
  and
• 39:42
  I.
• 39:43
  I
• 39:43
  cut
• 39:44
  myself.
• 39:44
  And
• 39:44
  I.
• 39:45
  I
• 39:46
  don't
• 39:46
  know
• 39:46
  how
• 39:46
  to
• 39:46
  explain
• 39:47
  it
• 39:47
  other
• 39:47
  than
• 39:47
  to
• 39:48
  say
• 39:48
  I
• 39:48
  just
• 39:48
  wanted
• 39:49
  to
• 39:49
  lose
• 39:49
  the
• 39:49
  blood
• 39:50
  that
• 39:50
  I
• 39:50
  should
• 39:50
  have
• 39:50
  lost
• 39:50
  during
• 39:50
  childbirth.
• 39:52
  And
• 39:53
  so,
• 39:53
  like,
• 39:54
  sometimes
• 39:54
  you
• 39:54
  just
• 39:54
  think
• 39:55
  you
• 39:55
  have
• 39:55
  to
• 39:55
  punish
• 39:55
  yourself.
• 39:56
  Do
• 39:57
  you
• 39:57
  think
• 39:57
  it
• 39:57
  was
• 39:57
  that
• 39:58
  or
• 39:58
  that
• 39:58
  you're
• 39:58
  hurting
• 39:59
  so
• 39:59
  bad
• 39:59
  that
• 40:00
  might
• 40:00
  as
• 40:00
  well
• 40:00
  make
• 40:00
  something
• 40:01
  hurt
• 40:01
  worse?
• 40:02
  Nope.
• 40:02
  No,
• 40:03
  no,
• 40:04
  it
• 40:04
  was
• 40:04
  just.
• 40:05
  I
• 40:06
  just.
• 40:06
  I
• 40:06
  just
• 40:07
  want
• 40:07
  to
• 40:07
  bleed.
• 40:08
  I
• 40:08
  just
• 40:08
  want
• 40:09
  to
• 40:10
  hurt
• 40:10
  all
• 40:10
  the
• 40:11
  way.
• 40:11
  I
• 40:11
  don't
• 40:11
  know
• 40:11
  how
• 40:12
  to
• 40:12
  explain
• 40:12
  it.
• 40:13
  I
• 40:13
  really
• 40:14
  don't.
• 40:14
  And
• 40:14
  I
• 40:14
  wish
• 40:15
  I
• 40:15
  could,
• 40:15
  because
• 40:15
  then
• 40:16
  maybe
• 40:16
  more
• 40:16
  people
• 40:17
  could
• 40:17
  understand
• 40:17
  and
• 40:18
  have
• 40:18
  empathy
• 40:18
  for
• 40:18
  those
• 40:18
  who
• 40:18
  are
• 40:19
  doing
• 40:19
  it,
• 40:20
  because
• 40:20
  it's
• 40:21
  not
• 40:21
  like
• 40:21
  you're
• 40:21
  just
• 40:22
  wanting
• 40:22
  to.
• 40:24
  I
• 40:24
  don't
• 40:24
  know.
• 40:25
  It's.
• 40:25
  It's
• 40:25
  a
• 40:25
  true
• 40:26
  therapy.
• 40:26
  It's
• 40:26
  a
• 40:26
  true
• 40:27
  release
• 40:27
  of
• 40:27
  pain.
• 40:28
  It's
• 40:28
  a
• 40:28
  true,
• 40:28
  like,
• 40:29
  therapeutic,
• 40:29
  weird
• 40:30
  thing.
• 40:30
  And
• 40:30
  I'm
• 40:30
  not
• 40:30
  Endorsing
• 40:31
  it
• 40:32
  by
• 40:32
  any
• 40:32
  means
• 40:33
  because
• 40:33
  it
• 40:33
  is
• 40:33
  very
• 40:33
  unhealthy.
• 40:35
  But
• 40:35
  it's
• 40:35
  a
• 40:36
  way
• 40:36
  to.
• 40:38
  It's
• 40:38
  a
• 40:38
  way
• 40:38
  of
• 40:38
  release.
• 40:39
  Kind
• 40:39
  of
• 40:39
  like
• 40:39
  yawning
• 40:40
  when
• 40:40
  you're
• 40:40
  tired,
• 40:41
  but
• 40:41
  very
• 40:42
  extreme.
• 40:44
  But
• 40:44
  anyway,
• 40:44
  I
• 40:45
  didn't
• 40:45
  mean
• 40:45
  to
• 40:45
  take
• 40:45
  it
• 40:45
  away
• 40:46
  from
• 40:46
  Emily,
• 40:46
  but
• 40:47
  I
• 40:47
  did
• 40:47
  think
• 40:47
  that
• 40:47
  it
• 40:48
  was
• 40:48
  something
• 40:48
  kind
• 40:48
  of
• 40:48
  important.
• 40:49
  Yeah.
• 40:49
  Yeah,
• 40:49
  it's
• 40:50
  relevant.
• 40:50
  Yeah.
• 40:51
  And
• 40:51
  I
• 40:51
  don't
• 40:51
  think
• 40:52
  her
• 40:52
  being
• 40:52
  gay
• 40:52
  was
• 40:53
  it.
• 40:53
  She
• 40:53
  seemed,
• 40:53
  like,
• 40:54
  gay
• 40:54
  and
• 40:54
  proud.
• 40:55
  Like,
• 40:56
  she
• 40:56
  was
• 40:56
  telling
• 40:56
  everybody.
• 40:57
  Oh,
• 40:58
  yeah.
• 40:58
  And
• 40:59
  she.
• 41:01
  Yeah,
• 41:01
  she
• 41:01
  was.
• 41:02
  She
• 41:02
  was.
• 41:02
  Just
• 41:02
  seemed
• 41:03
  so
• 41:03
  proud.
• 41:03
  And
• 41:04
  it
• 41:04
  wasn't
• 41:04
  like,
• 41:05
  we
• 41:05
  can't
• 41:05
  go
• 41:05
  tell
• 41:06
  Grandma
• 41:06
  or
• 41:06
  we
• 41:06
  can't
• 41:07
  go
• 41:07
  tell
• 41:07
  this
• 41:07
  person.
• 41:08
  And
• 41:08
  even
• 41:09
  when
• 41:09
  we
• 41:09
  were
• 41:09
  moving
• 41:10
  to
• 41:10
  Georgia,
• 41:10
  which
• 41:10
  was
• 41:11
  after
• 41:11
  her
• 41:11
  freshman
• 41:12
  year
• 41:12
  because
• 41:12
  my
• 41:13
  husband
• 41:13
  got
• 41:13
  transferred,
• 41:14
  we
• 41:14
  were
• 41:14
  like,
• 41:15
  now,
• 41:15
  this
• 41:16
  is
• 41:16
  the
• 41:16
  South.
• 41:18
  You're
• 41:18
  going
• 41:18
  to
• 41:18
  this
• 41:19
  school.
• 41:19
  You're
• 41:19
  brand
• 41:19
  new
• 41:20
  at
• 41:20
  this
• 41:20
  school.
• 41:20
  Yeah,
• 41:20
  we
• 41:21
  were.
• 41:21
  And
• 41:22
  we're
• 41:22
  like,
• 41:22
  just.
• 41:23
  Just
• 41:23
  get
• 41:23
  a
• 41:24
  feel
• 41:24
  for
• 41:24
  it.
• 41:25
  And
• 41:25
  she's
• 41:25
  like,
• 41:25
  nope.
• 41:27
  Oh,
• 41:27
  no.
• 41:28
  You
• 41:28
  know,
• 41:28
  like,
• 41:28
  you'll
• 41:28
  accept
• 41:29
  me
• 41:29
  or
• 41:29
  you
• 41:29
  won't.
• 41:29
  And
• 41:30
  we're
• 41:30
  just
• 41:30
  like,
• 41:30
  oh.
• 41:31
  You
• 41:32
  know.
• 41:32
  Because
• 41:32
  you
• 41:32
  don't
• 41:32
  want
• 41:32
  her
• 41:33
  to
• 41:33
  get
• 41:33
  hurt.
• 41:33
  Right?
• 41:34
  You
• 41:34
  know?
• 41:34
  But,
• 41:35
  yeah,
• 41:36
  and
• 41:36
  she
• 41:36
  was
• 41:36
  fine.
• 41:36
  And
• 41:37
  it's
• 41:37
  like
• 41:37
  one
• 41:37
  of
• 41:37
  those,
• 41:38
  like,
• 41:38
  oh,
• 41:38
  you're
• 41:38
  gonna
• 41:38
  stick
• 41:39
  to
• 41:39
  your
• 41:39
  guns.
• 41:39
  Okay,
• 41:40
  I
• 41:40
  gotta
• 41:40
  get
• 41:40
  my
• 41:40
  punching
• 41:41
  gloves
• 41:41
  on.
• 41:43
  Be
• 41:43
  the
• 41:43
  mama
• 41:44
  bear.
• 41:44
  Exactly.
• 41:45
  Come.
• 41:45
  I'm
• 41:45
  ready.
• 41:46
  I'll
• 41:47
  get
• 41:47
  ready.
• 41:49
  Just
• 41:49
  like,
• 41:49
  she
• 41:49
  did
• 41:50
  a
• 41:50
  report
• 41:50
  about
• 41:51
  Jimmy
• 41:51
  Carter
• 41:52
  here.
• 41:53
  It
• 41:53
  wasn't
• 41:54
  a
• 41:54
  flattering
• 41:54
  one
• 41:55
  because
• 41:56
  he
• 41:56
  was
• 41:56
  better
• 41:56
  after
• 41:57
  than
• 41:57
  during
• 41:57
  or
• 41:58
  whatever.
• 41:58
  Whatever
• 41:58
  you
• 41:58
  think.
• 41:59
  But
• 41:59
  we're
• 42:00
  just
• 42:00
  like,
• 42:00
  know
• 42:00
  your
• 42:01
  audience.
• 42:01
  Like,
• 42:02
  what
• 42:03
  are
• 42:03
  you
• 42:03
  doing?
• 42:03
  Out
• 42:03
  of
• 42:03
  all
• 42:03
  the
• 42:04
  presidents
• 42:04
  you
• 42:04
  want
• 42:04
  to
• 42:05
  dish
• 42:05
  on
• 42:05
  do,
• 42:06
  why
• 42:06
  him?
• 42:07
  He's
• 42:08
  from
• 42:08
  here.
• 42:09
  You
• 42:09
  know,
• 42:10
  so,
• 42:10
  you
• 42:10
  know,
• 42:10
  you
• 42:10
  try,
• 42:11
  but
• 42:11
  they
• 42:11
  don't
• 42:11
  care.
• 42:12
  They
• 42:12
  don't
• 42:12
  listen.
• 42:13
  Oh,
• 42:13
  that
• 42:13
  is
• 42:13
  so
• 42:13
  funny.
• 42:14
  So
• 42:14
  she's
• 42:14
  always
• 42:14
  been
• 42:15
  against
• 42:15
  the
• 42:15
  grain,
• 42:15
  and
• 42:15
  I
• 42:15
  don't
• 42:16
  care.
• 42:16
  Yeah,
• 42:16
  exactly.
• 42:17
  Oh,
• 42:18
  I
• 42:18
  love
• 42:18
  that.
• 42:18
  Yeah.
• 42:19
  So.
• 42:19
  And
• 42:19
  we're
• 42:20
  close
• 42:20
  now
• 42:20
  to
• 42:20
  this
• 42:20
  day,
• 42:21
  so
• 42:22
  very
• 42:22
  close.
• 42:22
  Yeah.
• 42:22
  It's
• 42:23
  really
• 42:23
  cute
• 42:23
  to
• 42:23
  watch
• 42:23
  you
• 42:23
  guys.
• 42:24
  Yeah,
• 42:25
  I
• 42:25
  actually
• 42:26
  just.
• 42:26
  Okay,
• 42:27
  so
• 42:27
  yesterday
• 42:27
  we
• 42:27
  were.
• 42:28
  I
• 42:28
  had
• 42:28
  a
• 42:28
  friend
• 42:29
  here
• 42:29
  at
• 42:29
  the
• 42:30
  shop,
• 42:30
  and
• 42:30
  we're
• 42:30
  recording
• 42:31
  at
• 42:31
  the
• 42:31
  shop,
• 42:31
  just
• 42:31
  so
• 42:32
  everybody
• 42:32
  knows.
• 42:32
  But
• 42:33
  today
• 42:34
  she
• 42:34
  was
• 42:34
  flipping
• 42:35
  through
• 42:35
  our
• 42:37
  olive.
• 42:37
  Yes.
• 42:38
  She
• 42:39
  was
• 42:39
  flipping
• 42:39
  through
• 42:39
  all
• 42:40
  of
• 42:40
  the
• 42:40
  designs
• 42:40
  that
• 42:40
  we
• 42:41
  can
• 42:41
  quilt
• 42:41
  onto
• 42:41
  a
• 42:41
  quilt.
• 42:42
  And
• 42:42
  she
• 42:42
  saw
• 42:42
  these
• 42:42
  crazy
• 42:43
  bananas.
• 42:44
  She's
• 42:44
  like,
• 42:45
  that's
• 42:45
  hilarious.
• 42:46
  Has
• 42:46
  anybody
• 42:47
  ever
• 42:47
  used
• 42:47
  that?
• 42:47
  And
• 42:48
  I
• 42:48
  said,
• 42:48
  yes,
• 42:48
  as
• 42:49
  a
• 42:49
  matter
• 42:49
  of
• 42:49
  fact,
• 42:49
  Emily
• 42:50
  moved
• 42:50
  to
• 42:51
  la,
• 42:51
  and
• 42:52
  she
• 42:52
  called
• 42:52
  her
• 42:52
  mom
• 42:52
  and
• 42:53
  said,
• 42:53
  I
• 42:53
  have
• 42:53
  a
• 42:53
  quilting
• 42:54
  emergency.
• 42:55
  And
• 42:55
  Michelle
• 42:56
  said,
• 42:56
  okay.
• 42:57
  What?
• 42:57
  But
• 42:58
  also,
• 42:58
  there's
• 42:58
  no
• 42:58
  such
• 42:58
  thing
• 42:59
  as
• 42:59
  a
• 42:59
  quilting
• 42:59
  emergency.
• 43:02
  And
• 43:02
  she
• 43:02
  said,
• 43:02
  I
• 43:02
  bought
• 43:03
  sheets
• 43:03
  with
• 43:03
  bananas
• 43:04
  on
• 43:04
  them
• 43:04
  and
• 43:04
  I
• 43:04
  need
• 43:05
  a
• 43:05
  quilt
• 43:05
  with
• 43:05
  bananas.
• 43:06
  Oh,
• 43:06
  she
• 43:06
  did?
• 43:07
  Yeah.
• 43:08
  But,
• 43:08
  yeah,
• 43:08
  it's
• 43:08
  really
• 43:09
  cute
• 43:09
  to
• 43:09
  like,
• 43:09
  you
• 43:09
  guys
• 43:10
  are
• 43:10
  very
• 43:10
  close.
• 43:10
  Yeah.
• 43:11
  And
• 43:12
  I
• 43:13
  love.
• 43:13
  Which
• 43:14
  is
• 43:14
  awesome.
• 43:15
  Yeah.
• 43:16
  How
• 43:16
  you
• 43:17
  did
• 43:17
  say
• 43:18
  that
• 43:18
  there
• 43:18
  was
• 43:18
  the
• 43:20
  teen
• 43:20
  transition
• 43:21
  of
• 43:21
  mom
• 43:21
  can't
• 43:22
  do
• 43:22
  anything.
• 43:22
  Right.
• 43:22
  How
• 43:23
  did
• 43:23
  you
• 43:24
  transition
• 43:24
  out
• 43:24
  of
• 43:24
  that
• 43:25
  stage?
• 43:26
  College.
• 43:27
  Just
• 43:27
  distance.
• 43:28
  Yeah.
• 43:28
  Yeah.
• 43:29
  She
• 43:29
  went
• 43:29
  to
• 43:29
  Middle
• 43:30
  Tennessee
• 43:30
  State.
• 43:31
  Okay.
• 43:31
  For
• 43:31
  sound
• 43:32
  and.
• 43:32
  Yeah.
• 43:33
  So
• 43:33
  college
• 43:34
  definitely
• 43:34
  helps
• 43:35
  put
• 43:35
  that
• 43:35
  distance.
• 43:36
  I've
• 43:37
  heard
• 43:37
  people
• 43:37
  say
• 43:38
  things
• 43:38
  like,
• 43:38
  oh,
• 43:38
  yeah,
• 43:39
  it
• 43:39
  gets
• 43:39
  you
• 43:39
  ready
• 43:40
  that.
• 43:41
  It
• 43:41
  gets
• 43:41
  you
• 43:41
  ready
• 43:41
  to.
• 43:42
  For
• 43:42
  them
• 43:42
  to
• 43:42
  leave.
• 43:43
  If
• 43:43
  you
• 43:43
  were
• 43:43
  still
• 43:44
  like
• 43:44
  this,
• 43:45
  you'd
• 43:45
  be
• 43:45
  like,
• 43:45
  you
• 43:46
  can't
• 43:46
  go
• 43:46
  anywhere.
• 43:47
  I
• 43:47
  was
• 43:47
  already
• 43:47
  bad
• 43:48
  enough
• 43:48
  because
• 43:48
  I.
• 43:49
  She
• 43:49
  wanted
• 43:49
  to
• 43:49
  go
• 43:49
  to
• 43:49
  California,
• 43:51
  which
• 43:51
  is
• 43:51
  ironic
• 43:52
  because
• 43:52
  now
• 43:52
  she
• 43:53
  is
• 43:53
  there.
• 43:53
  Yeah.
• 43:54
  And
• 43:54
  I
• 43:54
  gave
• 43:54
  her
• 43:55
  a
• 43:55
  little
• 43:55
  square
• 43:56
  of
• 43:56
  where
• 43:56
  she
• 43:56
  could
• 43:57
  go.
• 43:59
  Just
• 44:00
  because.
• 44:00
  I
• 44:00
  mean,
• 44:00
  like,
• 44:01
  it's
• 44:01
  like,
• 44:01
  no,
• 44:02
  if
• 44:02
  you
• 44:02
  have
• 44:02
  problems
• 44:02
  in
• 44:03
  California,
• 44:03
  that's
• 44:04
  a
• 44:04
  flight.
• 44:04
  That's
• 44:05
  a.
• 44:05
  That's
• 44:05
  two
• 44:06
  days
• 44:06
  drive.
• 44:06
  Yeah.
• 44:07
  I
• 44:07
  said,
• 44:07
  if
• 44:07
  you
• 44:08
  have
• 44:08
  problems
• 44:08
  in
• 44:08
  Tennessee,
• 44:09
  that's.
• 44:10
  I
• 44:10
  can
• 44:10
  get
• 44:10
  there.
• 44:10
  Yeah.
• 44:11
  You
• 44:11
  know.
• 44:11
  Yeah.
• 44:11
  You
• 44:12
  don't
• 44:12
  have
• 44:12
  to
• 44:12
  go
• 44:12
  to
• 44:12
  school
• 44:12
  in
• 44:13
  Georgia.
• 44:13
  But
• 44:14
  my
• 44:14
  mom
• 44:15
  was
• 44:15
  like,
• 44:16
  even
• 44:16
  South
• 44:16
  Carolina.
• 44:17
  One
• 44:17
  of
• 44:17
  us
• 44:17
  being
• 44:17
  in
• 44:17
  South
• 44:17
  Carolina,
• 44:18
  when
• 44:18
  her
• 44:18
  here,
• 44:19
  she
• 44:19
  was
• 44:19
  like,
• 44:19
  no.
• 44:21
  Yeah.
• 44:21
  Right.
• 44:22
  So,
• 44:23
  yeah,
• 44:23
  I
• 44:23
  gave
• 44:23
  her
• 44:23
  a
• 44:23
  little.
• 44:24
  Oh,
• 44:24
  that's
• 44:24
  awesome.
• 44:25
  And
• 44:25
  now
• 44:25
  she's
• 44:25
  in
• 44:26
  California,
• 44:27
  which
• 44:27
  she's
• 44:27
  dying
• 44:28
  to
• 44:28
  do.
• 44:28
  Ever,
• 44:29
  ever
• 44:29
  offer
• 44:29
  all
• 44:30
  that's
• 44:30
  going
• 44:30
  to.
• 44:30
  Feel
• 44:30
  good
• 44:30
  because
• 44:31
  that
• 44:31
  was
• 44:31
  her
• 44:31
  dream
• 44:32
  goal.
• 44:32
  Yeah.
• 44:33
  So
• 44:33
  in
• 44:33
  a
• 44:34
  way,
• 44:34
  can
• 44:34
  we
• 44:34
  share.
• 44:35
  What
• 44:35
  she
• 44:35
  had
• 44:36
  credits
• 44:36
  on?
• 44:37
  Because
• 44:37
  it's
• 44:38
  already
• 44:38
  out.
• 44:38
  Didn't
• 44:39
  she
• 44:39
  have
• 44:39
  credits
• 44:39
  on
• 44:39
  like,
• 44:40
  the
• 44:40
  Pokemon?
• 44:40
  Oh,
• 44:40
  poke.
• 44:41
  Yeah,
• 44:41
  she
• 44:41
  used
• 44:41
  to
• 44:41
  work
• 44:41
  on
• 44:42
  Pokemon.
• 44:42
  Yeah.
• 44:42
  Dubbing.
• 44:43
  Helping
• 44:43
  dub
• 44:43
  on
• 44:44
  Pokemon.
• 44:44
  Oh,
• 44:45
  nice.
• 44:45
  She's
• 44:45
  very
• 44:45
  smart
• 44:46
  and
• 44:47
  fancy
• 44:47
  out
• 44:47
  there.
• 44:48
  I
• 44:48
  was
• 44:48
  wondering,
• 44:49
  did
• 44:50
  it
• 44:50
  happen?
• 44:51
  Did
• 44:51
  it
• 44:51
  change
• 44:52
  anything
• 44:52
  for
• 44:52
  you,
• 44:53
  like
• 44:53
  your
• 44:53
  world
• 44:53
  views,
• 44:54
  having
• 44:54
  a
• 44:54
  daughter
• 44:54
  come
• 44:55
  out
• 44:55
  or
• 44:56
  a
• 44:56
  child?
• 44:57
  I
• 44:58
  guess
• 44:58
  not.
• 44:58
  Because
• 44:59
  like
• 44:59
  I
• 44:59
  say,
• 45:01
  with
• 45:01
  her
• 45:01
  preschool,
• 45:02
  the
• 45:02
  Montessori
• 45:03
  preschool,
• 45:04
  I
• 45:04
  had
• 45:04
  so
• 45:05
  many
• 45:05
  friends,
• 45:06
  Friend.
• 45:06
  Friends
• 45:07
  that
• 45:08
  were
• 45:08
  in
• 45:09
  that
• 45:09
  community
• 45:09
  that
• 45:10
  I
• 45:10
  guess
• 45:10
  it's
• 45:11
  just
• 45:11
  when
• 45:12
  you
• 45:12
  know
• 45:12
  people
• 45:13
  and
• 45:13
  you
• 45:14
  are
• 45:14
  friends
• 45:15
  with
• 45:15
  people,
• 45:16
  you
• 45:17
  attract
• 45:17
  the
• 45:17
  same.
• 45:17
  Yeah.
• 45:18
  I'm
• 45:18
  so
• 45:18
  glad
• 45:19
  you
• 45:19
  said
• 45:19
  that
• 45:19
  because
• 45:20
  I
• 45:21
  think
• 45:21
  one
• 45:21
  of
• 45:21
  the
• 45:21
  biggest
• 45:22
  things
• 45:22
  that
• 45:22
  can
• 45:23
  happen
• 45:23
  in
• 45:24
  our
• 45:24
  communities
• 45:24
  is
• 45:25
  that
• 45:25
  not
• 45:25
  enough
• 45:26
  diversity.
• 45:27
  And
• 45:27
  when
• 45:27
  you
• 45:27
  pull
• 45:28
  in
• 45:28
  more
• 45:28
  and
• 45:28
  different
• 45:28
  types
• 45:29
  of
• 45:29
  people,
• 45:30
  you're
• 45:31
  so
• 45:31
  much
• 45:31
  less
• 45:31
  likely
• 45:32
  to
• 45:32
  just
• 45:32
  say,
• 45:33
  oh,
• 45:33
  I
• 45:34
  don't
• 45:34
  like
• 45:34
  that
• 45:34
  kind
• 45:34
  of
• 45:35
  person,
• 45:35
  because
• 45:36
  that
• 45:36
  kind
• 45:36
  of
• 45:36
  person
• 45:37
  is
• 45:37
  right
• 45:37
  next
• 45:37
  to
• 45:37
  you
• 45:37
  and
• 45:38
  they're
• 45:38
  your
• 45:38
  friend.
• 45:39
  Right.
• 45:39
  And
• 45:40
  so,
• 45:40
  like,
• 45:40
  the
• 45:40
  more
• 45:41
  you
• 45:41
  can
• 45:41
  get
• 45:41
  a
• 45:41
  group
• 45:42
  of
• 45:42
  people
• 45:42
  that
• 45:42
  don't
• 45:43
  think
• 45:43
  like
• 45:43
  you,
• 45:44
  the
• 45:44
  more
• 45:44
  you
• 45:44
  can
• 45:45
  have
• 45:45
  empathy
• 45:45
  for
• 45:45
  them.
• 45:46
  And
• 45:46
  I
• 45:46
  just
• 45:46
  think
• 45:46
  that
• 45:47
  is
• 45:47
  a
• 45:47
  really
• 45:47
  important
• 45:48
  thing
• 45:48
  to
• 45:48
  help
• 45:49
  the
• 45:49
  world
• 45:49
  keep
• 45:50
  going
• 45:50
  around.
• 45:50
  Yeah.
• 45:51
  And
• 45:52
  it
• 45:52
  makes
• 45:52
  me
• 45:52
  think
• 45:53
  that,
• 45:53
  well,
• 45:54
  I
• 45:54
  don't
• 45:54
  have
• 45:54
  children,
• 45:54
  but
• 45:55
  if
• 45:55
  I
• 45:55
  ever
• 45:55
  did,
• 45:56
  I
• 45:56
  think,
• 45:56
  yeah,
• 45:57
  I
• 45:57
  want
• 45:57
  to
• 45:57
  try
• 45:57
  to
• 45:57
  get
• 45:57
  to
• 45:57
  a
• 45:58
  very
• 45:58
  diverse,
• 45:58
  like,
• 46:00
  place
• 46:00
  and
• 46:01
  raise
• 46:01
  them
• 46:01
  where
• 46:01
  they
• 46:01
  can
• 46:02
  meet
• 46:02
  a
• 46:02
  lot
• 46:02
  of
• 46:02
  different
• 46:02
  kinds
• 46:03
  of
• 46:03
  people
• 46:03
  and
• 46:03
  just
• 46:03
  have
• 46:03
  that
• 46:04
  acceptance.
• 46:04
  Because,
• 46:05
  like
• 46:05
  you
• 46:06
  said,
• 46:06
  that
• 46:06
  primed
• 46:07
  you,
• 46:08
  it
• 46:08
  sounds
• 46:09
  like.
• 46:09
  Yeah,
• 46:09
  it
• 46:09
  really
• 46:10
  did.
• 46:10
  Did
• 46:11
  you
• 46:11
  see
• 46:11
  the
• 46:12
  ugly
• 46:12
  of
• 46:12
  the
• 46:13
  world
• 46:13
  that
• 46:13
  you
• 46:13
  were
• 46:13
  expecting
• 46:14
  at
• 46:14
  first?
• 46:16
  Oh,
• 46:17
  that's
• 46:18
  a
• 46:18
  good
• 46:18
  question.
• 46:18
  Because
• 46:19
  that
• 46:19
  is
• 46:19
  a
• 46:19
  good
• 46:19
  question.
• 46:20
  Right?
• 46:20
  Because.
• 46:20
  Yeah,
• 46:21
  that
• 46:21
  was
• 46:21
  a
• 46:21
  big
• 46:21
  worry.
• 46:22
  Um,
• 46:24
  probably
• 46:25
  not
• 46:25
  just
• 46:25
  because.
• 46:27
  Because
• 46:27
  of
• 46:27
  how
• 46:28
  out
• 46:28
  and
• 46:28
  proud
• 46:28
  she
• 46:29
  was.
• 46:30
  I've
• 46:31
  seen
• 46:31
  it
• 46:31
  a
• 46:31
  little,
• 46:32
  and
• 46:32
  I've
• 46:32
  definitely
• 46:33
  seen
• 46:33
  it.
• 46:33
  Seen
• 46:34
  it
• 46:34
  through
• 46:34
  her
• 46:34
  friends
• 46:35
  who
• 46:36
  all
• 46:37
  of
• 46:37
  a
• 46:37
  sudden
• 46:37
  are
• 46:37
  homeless
• 46:38
  or.
• 46:39
  Oh,
• 46:39
  boy.
• 46:39
  And
• 46:40
  I
• 46:41
  know
• 46:41
  like
• 46:41
  one.
• 46:41
  One
• 46:42
  boy
• 46:42
  was
• 46:42
  going
• 46:42
  through
• 46:43
  it
• 46:43
  and
• 46:44
  then
• 46:44
  he
• 46:44
  got
• 46:44
  kicked
• 46:45
  out
• 46:45
  and
• 46:45
  then
• 46:45
  he.
• 46:46
  He
• 46:46
  went
• 46:46
  back
• 46:46
  home
• 46:46
  and
• 46:47
  he
• 46:47
  said
• 46:47
  he
• 46:47
  was
• 46:47
  cured.
• 46:48
  Aww.
• 46:49
  Which
• 46:49
  wasn't
• 46:49
  true,
• 46:51
  but
• 46:51
  yet
• 46:51
  that
• 46:52
  he
• 46:52
  had
• 46:52
  a
• 46:53
  home
• 46:53
  then.
• 46:53
  Oh,
• 46:54
  you
• 46:54
  know,
• 46:54
  he.
• 46:55
  He.
• 46:55
  Yeah,
• 46:56
  that
• 46:56
  is
• 46:56
  sad.
• 46:57
  And
• 46:57
  then
• 46:58
  maybe
• 46:58
  once
• 46:58
  he
• 46:58
  got
• 46:59
  older,
• 46:59
  you
• 46:59
  know,
• 47:00
  he.
• 47:00
  Hopefully
• 47:00
  he
• 47:00
  came
• 47:01
  back
• 47:01
  out
• 47:01
  and.
• 47:01
  Or
• 47:02
  could
• 47:02
  come
• 47:02
  back
• 47:02
  out,
• 47:02
  but.
• 47:04
  Because
• 47:05
  that
• 47:05
  was
• 47:05
  one
• 47:05
  of
• 47:05
  the.
• 47:06
  That
• 47:07
  was
• 47:07
  like
• 47:07
  a
• 47:07
  banned
• 47:07
  person.
• 47:08
  So
• 47:08
  I
• 47:08
  don't.
• 47:08
  I
• 47:09
  don't
• 47:09
  know
• 47:09
  what's
• 47:09
  happened,
• 47:10
  but
• 47:10
  yeah,
• 47:11
  so
• 47:11
  I've.
• 47:11
  I've
• 47:12
  seen
• 47:12
  it
• 47:12
  a
• 47:12
  little.
• 47:13
  And
• 47:13
  she
• 47:13
  said,
• 47:14
  she
• 47:14
  says,
• 47:14
  you
• 47:15
  know,
• 47:15
  when
• 47:15
  her
• 47:16
  and
• 47:16
  her
• 47:16
  roommate,
• 47:17
  they.
• 47:17
  She's
• 47:18
  lesbian
• 47:18
  too,
• 47:19
  but
• 47:19
  she
• 47:19
  wasn't.
• 47:20
  She
• 47:20
  didn't
• 47:20
  know.
• 47:21
  I
• 47:21
  should
• 47:21
  say.
• 47:23
  In
• 47:23
  college,
• 47:24
  when
• 47:24
  they
• 47:25
  would
• 47:25
  be
• 47:25
  out
• 47:25
  together,
• 47:26
  people
• 47:26
  would
• 47:27
  look
• 47:27
  at
• 47:27
  them
• 47:27
  like
• 47:27
  they
• 47:27
  were
• 47:28
  unicorns
• 47:28
  and
• 47:28
  go,
• 47:29
  oh,
• 47:29
  look
• 47:29
  at
• 47:29
  the
• 47:29
  lesbian
• 47:30
  couple.
• 47:31
  You
• 47:32
  know?
• 47:33
  You
• 47:33
  know,
• 47:33
  so
• 47:33
  you
• 47:33
  can
• 47:34
  get
• 47:34
  that,
• 47:34
  like.
• 47:34
  And
• 47:35
  so
• 47:35
  she
• 47:35
  goes.
• 47:36
  Sometimes
• 47:36
  you
• 47:36
  feel
• 47:36
  like
• 47:37
  an
• 47:37
  exhibited
• 47:37
  at
• 47:37
  a
• 47:37
  zoo
• 47:38
  because,
• 47:40
  you
• 47:40
  know,
• 47:41
  actually
• 47:41
  I'm.
• 47:42
  That's
• 47:42
  another
• 47:42
  thing.
• 47:42
  I
• 47:43
  was
• 47:43
  kind
• 47:43
  of
• 47:43
  like
• 47:44
  hesitant
• 47:44
  to
• 47:45
  ask
• 47:45
  you
• 47:45
  to
• 47:45
  come
• 47:45
  talk
• 47:46
  because
• 47:46
  I
• 47:46
  do
• 47:46
  feel
• 47:47
  like
• 47:47
  sometimes
• 47:47
  when
• 47:48
  you.
• 47:49
  We
• 47:49
  want
• 47:49
  to
• 47:49
  have
• 47:49
  conversations
• 47:50
  about
• 47:50
  all
• 47:50
  kinds
• 47:50
  of
• 47:50
  things,
• 47:51
  but
• 47:51
  I
• 47:52
  never
• 47:52
  want.
• 47:53
  Yeah.
• 47:53
  But
• 47:53
  I
• 47:54
  never
• 47:54
  want
• 47:54
  anyone
• 47:54
  to
• 47:54
  feel
• 47:54
  like,
• 47:54
  oh,
• 47:55
  I'm
• 47:55
  suddenly.
• 47:55
  I'm
• 47:55
  not
• 47:56
  this.
• 47:56
  They're
• 47:57
  looking
• 47:57
  at
• 47:57
  me
• 47:57
  like
• 47:57
  I'm
• 47:58
  a
• 47:58
  spokesperson
• 47:58
  for
• 47:58
  all
• 47:59
  of
• 47:59
  this.
• 47:59
  Yeah.
• 47:59
  And
• 48:00
  that's
• 48:00
  not
• 48:00
  at
• 48:00
  all.
• 48:01
  This
• 48:01
  is
• 48:02
  one
• 48:02
  experience,
• 48:03
  one
• 48:04
  side
• 48:04
  of
• 48:04
  the
• 48:04
  story.
• 48:05
  Like.
• 48:05
  Yeah,
• 48:06
  it's
• 48:06
  not.
• 48:06
  And
• 48:06
  we
• 48:07
  know
• 48:07
  it
• 48:07
  can
• 48:07
  go
• 48:07
  in
• 48:07
  many
• 48:08
  different
• 48:08
  ways.
• 48:08
  And
• 48:08
  so
• 48:09
  I'm
• 48:09
  glad
• 48:09
  that
• 48:09
  you
• 48:09
  Said
• 48:09
  that
• 48:10
  because,
• 48:10
  like,
• 48:10
  it's
• 48:10
  really
• 48:11
  easy
• 48:11
  to
• 48:11
  kind
• 48:11
  of
• 48:11
  make
• 48:12
  somebody
• 48:12
  an
• 48:12
  exhibit.
• 48:13
  Yeah.
• 48:13
  And
• 48:13
  then
• 48:14
  act
• 48:14
  like.
• 48:15
  No,
• 48:15
  I
• 48:15
  would.
• 48:15
  I
• 48:16
  would
• 48:16
  love
• 48:17
  to
• 48:17
  hear.
• 48:17
  There's
• 48:18
  someone
• 48:18
  in
• 48:18
  my
• 48:18
  in
• 48:19
  on
• 48:19
  mind
• 48:20
  that
• 48:20
  would
• 48:21
  be
• 48:21
  really
• 48:21
  interesting
• 48:22
  to
• 48:22
  hear
• 48:22
  their
• 48:23
  specific
• 48:24
  side
• 48:24
  of
• 48:25
  what
• 48:25
  it
• 48:25
  was
• 48:25
  like
• 48:25
  to
• 48:25
  come
• 48:26
  out
• 48:26
  because
• 48:27
  it's
• 48:27
  an
• 48:28
  even
• 48:28
  further
• 48:29
  back
• 48:29
  generation
• 48:30
  and
• 48:31
  it
• 48:31
  was
• 48:31
  not
• 48:31
  easy.
• 48:32
  So
• 48:33
  different.
• 48:34
  Yeah.
• 48:34
  Like
• 48:34
  in
• 48:34
  the
• 48:34
  80s,
• 48:35
  you
• 48:35
  didn't
• 48:35
  talk
• 48:35
  about
• 48:35
  it.
• 48:36
  Yeah.
• 48:37
  Yeah.
• 48:37
  I
• 48:38
  mean,
• 48:38
  and
• 48:38
  the
• 48:38
  90s
• 48:39
  was.
• 48:39
  And
• 48:39
  you
• 48:39
  call
• 48:40
  people
• 48:40
  names
• 48:40
  about
• 48:40
  it.
• 48:41
  But
• 48:41
  it
• 48:41
  was
• 48:41
  very
• 48:41
  dangerous.
• 48:42
  Yeah.
• 48:42
  I
• 48:42
  mean,
• 48:43
  they.
• 48:43
  You
• 48:43
  weren't
• 48:43
  even
• 48:44
  allowed
• 48:44
  to
• 48:44
  get
• 48:44
  married
• 48:45
  until
• 48:45
  I
• 48:45
  was
• 48:46
  already
• 48:46
  out
• 48:46
  of
• 48:46
  high
• 48:46
  school,
• 48:47
  if
• 48:47
  I
• 48:47
  remember
• 48:47
  correctly.
• 48:48
  Wait,
• 48:48
  what?
• 48:49
  Like,
• 48:49
  you
• 48:49
  weren't
• 48:49
  even.
• 48:50
  Oh,
• 48:51
  yeah.
• 48:51
  Able
• 48:51
  to
• 48:51
  get
• 48:52
  married
• 48:52
  until
• 48:52
  I
• 48:52
  was
• 48:52
  already
• 48:53
  graduated
• 48:53
  from
• 48:53
  high
• 48:53
  school.
• 48:54
  So
• 48:54
  it's
• 48:54
  like.
• 48:55
  Oh,
• 48:55
  gay
• 48:55
  couples.
• 48:56
  Yeah.
• 48:56
  Yeah,
• 48:56
  sorry.
• 48:57
  Okay.
• 48:57
  And
• 48:58
  not
• 48:58
  even
• 48:58
  in
• 48:58
  every
• 48:58
  state.
• 49:00
  So
• 49:01
  it.
• 49:01
  It
• 49:01
  really.
• 49:02
  I
• 49:02
  don't
• 49:02
  know
• 49:02
  if
• 49:03
  it.
• 49:04
  It's
• 49:04
  taken
• 49:04
  a
• 49:05
  long
• 49:05
  time
• 49:05
  for
• 49:05
  it
• 49:05
  to
• 49:05
  be
• 49:06
  even
• 49:07
  something
• 49:07
  thought
• 49:07
  of
• 49:07
  or.
• 49:08
  Accepted
• 49:09
  as
• 49:10
  much
• 49:10
  as
• 49:10
  it
• 49:10
  is.
• 49:11
  Yeah.
• 49:12
  But
• 49:12
  we
• 49:12
  still
• 49:12
  have
• 49:12
  a
• 49:12
  long
• 49:12
  way
• 49:12
  to
• 49:13
  go.
• 49:13
  But
• 49:13
  it's
• 49:14
  just
• 49:14
  making
• 49:14
  me
• 49:14
  think
• 49:14
  of,
• 49:14
  like.
• 49:15
  Oh,
• 49:15
  yeah.
• 49:15
  There's
• 49:16
  like
• 49:16
  a
• 49:16
  hundred
• 49:17
  different
• 49:17
  ways
• 49:17
  that
• 49:18
  this
• 49:18
  could
• 49:18
  have.
• 49:18
  You
• 49:18
  could
• 49:18
  have
• 49:19
  felt.
• 49:19
  You
• 49:19
  could
• 49:19
  have
• 49:19
  experienced.
• 49:20
  She
• 49:21
  could
• 49:21
  have
• 49:21
  felt
• 49:21
  like
• 49:22
  there's
• 49:22
  so
• 49:22
  many
• 49:23
  different
• 49:23
  possibilities
• 49:24
  that,
• 49:24
  like,
• 49:25
  yours
• 49:25
  is
• 49:25
  probably
• 49:26
  your
• 49:27
  perspective
• 49:27
  and
• 49:28
  how
• 49:28
  it
• 49:29
  was
• 49:29
  for
• 49:29
  you.
• 49:29
  And
• 49:29
  your
• 49:30
  daughter
• 49:30
  is
• 49:31
  the
• 49:33
  perfect,
• 49:34
  like,
• 49:35
  ideal.
• 49:36
  Yeah.
• 49:36
  What
• 49:36
  you
• 49:36
  would
• 49:37
  hope
• 49:37
  and
• 49:37
  want.
• 49:38
  Yeah.
• 49:38
  If
• 49:38
  it
• 49:38
  were
• 49:39
  you.
• 49:39
  For
• 49:39
  everybody.
• 49:40
  Yeah.
• 49:40
  Yeah.
• 49:41
  So
• 49:42
  did
• 49:42
  she
• 49:42
  have
• 49:43
  any.
• 49:43
  Well,
• 49:43
  no.
• 49:43
  You
• 49:44
  said
• 49:44
  she
• 49:44
  was
• 49:44
  out
• 49:44
  and
• 49:44
  proud.
• 49:45
  I
• 49:45
  wanted
• 49:45
  to
• 49:45
  say.
• 49:46
  I
• 49:46
  thought
• 49:46
  that
• 49:47
  you
• 49:47
  had
• 49:47
  said
• 49:47
  before
• 49:48
  that
• 49:48
  there
• 49:49
  was
• 49:49
  people
• 49:50
  who
• 49:50
  rejected
• 49:50
  her
• 49:51
  and
• 49:51
  you
• 49:51
  had
• 49:51
  to
• 49:51
  kind
• 49:51
  of
• 49:51
  drop
• 49:52
  as
• 49:52
  friends
• 49:52
  along
• 49:52
  the
• 49:53
  way.
• 49:54
  Oh,
• 49:54
  sure.
• 49:54
  I
• 49:54
  mean,
• 49:55
  like
• 49:55
  I
• 49:55
  say,
• 49:55
  my
• 49:55
  friend
• 49:56
  that
• 49:56
  I
• 49:56
  walked
• 49:56
  with
• 49:56
  all
• 49:57
  the
• 49:57
  time
• 49:57
  thought
• 49:57
  she
• 49:58
  could
• 49:58
  save
• 49:58
  her
• 49:58
  by
• 49:59
  sending
• 49:59
  her
• 49:59
  to
• 49:59
  the
• 49:59
  youth
• 50:00
  minister.
• 50:01
  It's
• 50:01
  just
• 50:01
  like.
• 50:02
  It's
• 50:02
  not
• 50:03
  a
• 50:03
  choice.
• 50:04
  Nobody
• 50:04
  makes
• 50:04
  the
• 50:04
  choice.
• 50:05
  And
• 50:06
  I've
• 50:06
  had.
• 50:06
  I
• 50:06
  do
• 50:06
  have
• 50:07
  friends
• 50:07
  who
• 50:07
  are
• 50:07
  more
• 50:07
  radical
• 50:08
  about
• 50:08
  their
• 50:09
  lgbt
• 50:10
  where
• 50:11
  if
• 50:11
  you
• 50:12
  aren't
• 50:12
  going
• 50:12
  to
• 50:12
  get
• 50:12
  it
• 50:12
  right,
• 50:13
  they're
• 50:13
  not
• 50:14
  going
• 50:14
  to
• 50:14
  talk
• 50:14
  to
• 50:14
  you
• 50:14
  anymore.
• 50:14
  I'm.
• 50:15
  I'm
• 50:15
  a.
• 50:15
  Less
• 50:15
  like
• 50:16
  that.
• 50:16
  Like
• 50:16
  pronouns.
• 50:17
  Yeah.
• 50:17
  Yeah.
• 50:18
  Pronouns
• 50:18
  are
• 50:18
  a
• 50:19
  good
• 50:19
  one.
• 50:19
  Or
• 50:19
  just
• 50:20
  even
• 50:20
  acceptance.
• 50:21
  Like,
• 50:21
  I.
• 50:22
  I
• 50:22
  told
• 50:22
  her,
• 50:23
  no,
• 50:23
  my
• 50:23
  friend.
• 50:24
  I
• 50:24
  said,
• 50:24
  no,
• 50:25
  I'm
• 50:25
  not
• 50:25
  sending
• 50:26
  her
• 50:26
  to
• 50:26
  your
• 50:26
  youth
• 50:27
  minister.
• 50:28
  But
• 50:28
  I
• 50:28
  didn't
• 50:28
  unfriend
• 50:29
  her.
• 50:30
  Okay.
• 50:31
  Because
• 50:32
  I,
• 50:33
  you
• 50:33
  know,
• 50:33
  I
• 50:33
  feel
• 50:33
  like
• 50:34
  people.
• 50:35
  Sometimes
• 50:36
  you
• 50:36
  need
• 50:36
  it
• 50:37
  to
• 50:37
  be
• 50:37
  in
• 50:37
  your
• 50:37
  family
• 50:38
  to
• 50:38
  even
• 50:38
  understand
• 50:38
  that
• 50:39
  you
• 50:39
  could
• 50:39
  be
• 50:39
  accepting.
• 50:40
  Yeah.
• 50:40
  Sometimes
• 50:41
  you're.
• 50:41
  You're
• 50:42
  not
• 50:42
  accepting
• 50:43
  because
• 50:43
  you've
• 50:43
  never
• 50:44
  had
• 50:44
  to.
• 50:45
  You've
• 50:45
  never
• 50:45
  had
• 50:46
  somebody
• 50:46
  you
• 50:46
  love.
• 50:47
  Yeah.
• 50:48
  Say,
• 50:48
  you
• 50:49
  know,
• 50:49
  say,
• 50:49
  hey,
• 50:49
  I'm.
• 50:50
  I'm
• 50:50
  this
• 50:50
  way
• 50:51
  or
• 50:51
  whatever.
• 50:52
  And
• 50:52
  I
• 50:52
  think,
• 50:53
  I
• 50:53
  think
• 50:53
  people,
• 50:54
  if
• 50:54
  you,
• 50:55
  once
• 50:55
  you
• 50:55
  experience
• 50:56
  it,
• 50:56
  hopefully,
• 50:57
  I
• 50:58
  mean,
• 50:58
  obviously
• 50:58
  there
• 50:59
  are
• 50:59
  people
• 50:59
  that
• 50:59
  have
• 50:59
  their
• 51:00
  religious
• 51:00
  beliefs
• 51:01
  that
• 51:01
  do
• 51:01
  not,
• 51:01
  no
• 51:02
  matter
• 51:02
  what
• 51:02
  they.
• 51:03
  They
• 51:03
  feel
• 51:03
  like
• 51:04
  that's
• 51:04
  a
• 51:04
  sin
• 51:04
  comes
• 51:05
  first.
• 51:05
  It's
• 51:05
  so
• 51:05
  sad.
• 51:06
  Yeah.
• 51:07
  People.
• 51:07
  And,
• 51:08
  and
• 51:08
  love
• 51:08
  should
• 51:08
  always
• 51:09
  come
• 51:09
  first,
• 51:09
  but.
• 51:10
  Yeah,
• 51:10
  for
• 51:10
  sure.
• 51:11
  But
• 51:12
  just
• 51:12
  now
• 51:13
  what
• 51:13
  I
• 51:13
  heard
• 51:14
  is
• 51:14
  that,
• 51:15
  you
• 51:16
  know,
• 51:16
  no
• 51:16
  one's
• 51:17
  had
• 51:18
  to
• 51:18
  be
• 51:18
  put
• 51:18
  in
• 51:19
  the
• 51:19
  situation
• 51:20
  where
• 51:20
  you
• 51:20
  have
• 51:20
  to
• 51:21
  not
• 51:21
  have
• 51:21
  to,
• 51:21
  but
• 51:22
  you
• 51:22
  should.
• 51:23
  You
• 51:23
  want
• 51:23
  to
• 51:23
  ex.
• 51:23
  You
• 51:24
  know,
• 51:24
  accept
• 51:24
  your.
• 51:25
  Your
• 51:25
  family
• 51:25
  because
• 51:26
  it's
• 51:26
  family.
• 51:27
  But
• 51:27
  that
• 51:28
  was
• 51:28
  the
• 51:29
  first
• 51:29
  time
• 51:29
  that
• 51:29
  you
• 51:30
  also
• 51:30
  encountered
• 51:31
  that
• 51:31
  too.
• 51:31
  And
• 51:31
  you
• 51:31
  were
• 51:32
  just
• 51:32
  immediately
• 51:32
  like,
• 51:33
  oh,
• 51:33
  I
• 51:33
  got
• 51:33
  you.
• 51:33
  Yeah.
• 51:34
  Yeah.
• 51:34
  And
• 51:34
  so.
• 51:35
  But
• 51:35
  it
• 51:35
  wasn't.
• 51:36
  That
• 51:37
  comes
• 51:37
  back
• 51:37
  to
• 51:37
  the
• 51:38
  whole
• 51:38
  thing
• 51:38
  of
• 51:38
  diversity.
• 51:39
  And
• 51:39
  she
• 51:39
  had
• 51:40
  surrounded
• 51:40
  herself
• 51:40
  with
• 51:41
  different
• 51:41
  types
• 51:41
  of
• 51:41
  people
• 51:42
  in
• 51:42
  her.
• 51:42
  Oh,
• 51:43
  that's
• 51:43
  like,
• 51:43
  that's
• 51:43
  right.
• 51:44
  Okay.
• 51:44
  Right.
• 51:45
  So
• 51:45
  I
• 51:45
  think
• 51:46
  it's
• 51:46
  interesting
• 51:47
  when
• 51:47
  you're
• 51:47
  saying,
• 51:48
  let's
• 51:48
  not
• 51:49
  cut
• 51:49
  them
• 51:49
  out
• 51:49
  of
• 51:49
  our
• 51:50
  lives.
• 51:50
  And
• 51:50
  yes,
• 51:51
  there
• 51:51
  are
• 51:51
  times
• 51:51
  when
• 51:51
  the
• 51:52
  only
• 51:52
  healthy
• 51:53
  thing
• 51:53
  to
• 51:53
  do
• 51:53
  is
• 51:53
  to
• 51:53
  cut
• 51:54
  someone
• 51:54
  out
• 51:54
  of
• 51:54
  their
• 51:54
  life.
• 51:55
  So
• 51:55
  I
• 51:56
  am
• 51:56
  not
• 51:56
  saying
• 51:57
  last
• 51:57
  resort.
• 51:58
  Yes.
• 51:58
  You
• 51:58
  guys
• 51:59
  know
• 51:59
  that
• 51:59
  I'm
• 52:00
  not
• 52:00
  a
• 52:00
  black
• 52:00
  and
• 52:00
  white
• 52:01
  person.
• 52:01
  I
• 52:01
  know
• 52:01
  there's
• 52:02
  reasons
• 52:02
  and
• 52:02
  times
• 52:02
  you
• 52:02
  do
• 52:03
  some
• 52:03
  things,
• 52:04
  but
• 52:05
  if
• 52:05
  you
• 52:05
  can,
• 52:05
  like,
• 52:06
  try
• 52:06
  to
• 52:06
  keep
• 52:07
  these
• 52:07
  people
• 52:07
  in
• 52:07
  your
• 52:08
  life
• 52:08
  and
• 52:09
  show
• 52:09
  them
• 52:09
  how
• 52:10
  love
• 52:10
  could
• 52:10
  be
• 52:11
  is
• 52:11
  what
• 52:11
  I.
• 52:12
  That's
• 52:12
  the
• 52:12
  ideal.
• 52:12
  Right.
• 52:13
  We
• 52:13
  help
• 52:13
  them
• 52:13
  grow.
• 52:14
  We
• 52:14
  hope.
• 52:14
  Yeah.
• 52:16
  I
• 52:16
  do
• 52:16
  think
• 52:16
  that's.
• 52:18
  Yeah.
• 52:19
  But
• 52:19
  it
• 52:19
  doesn't
• 52:19
  always
• 52:19
  work
• 52:20
  that
• 52:20
  way.
• 52:20
  I
• 52:20
  know.
• 52:20
  Yeah,
• 52:21
  that
• 52:21
  makes
• 52:22
  sense.
• 52:22
  It's
• 52:23
  interesting.
• 52:23
  It's.
• 52:23
  It's
• 52:24
  very.
• 52:24
  Life
• 52:24
  is
• 52:25
  so
• 52:25
  weird.
• 52:25
  And
• 52:25
  it's
• 52:26
  like,
• 52:26
  you
• 52:27
  wish
• 52:27
  you
• 52:27
  could
• 52:27
  be
• 52:27
  like,
• 52:27
  yeah,
• 52:28
  these
• 52:28
  are
• 52:28
  the
• 52:28
  rules.
• 52:29
  But
• 52:29
  there
• 52:29
  are
• 52:29
  no
• 52:30
  rules
• 52:30
  because
• 52:31
  everyone
• 52:31
  is
• 52:31
  so
• 52:32
  different.
• 52:32
  Yeah.
• 52:32
  And
• 52:33
  like,
• 52:33
  maybe,
• 52:33
  like
• 52:34
  we
• 52:34
  said,
• 52:34
  maybe
• 52:34
  you
• 52:35
  keep
• 52:35
  that
• 52:35
  walking
• 52:36
  partner
• 52:36
  friend
• 52:37
  in
• 52:37
  your
• 52:37
  life
• 52:37
  and
• 52:38
  let
• 52:38
  me
• 52:39
  see
• 52:39
  the
• 52:39
  love
• 52:39
  that
• 52:40
  you
• 52:40
  have
• 52:40
  for
• 52:40
  your
• 52:40
  daughter.
• 52:41
  But
• 52:41
  then
• 52:41
  maybe
• 52:41
  you
• 52:42
  might
• 52:42
  have
• 52:42
  to
• 52:42
  the
• 52:43
  next
• 52:43
  person
• 52:43
  be
• 52:43
  like,
• 52:44
  oh,
• 52:44
  no,
• 52:44
  you're
• 52:45
  toxic.
• 52:45
  Yeah.
• 52:46
  But
• 52:46
  then
• 52:46
  also,
• 52:48
  you
• 52:48
  know,
• 52:49
  the
• 52:49
  other
• 52:49
  perspective
• 52:50
  is
• 52:51
  her
• 52:51
  daughter.
• 52:52
  So
• 52:52
  what
• 52:52
  if
• 52:53
  she
• 52:54
  knows
• 52:54
  that
• 52:55
  your
• 52:55
  friend
• 52:56
  that
• 52:56
  you're
• 52:56
  close
• 52:57
  friends
• 52:57
  with
• 52:57
  spend,
• 52:58
  you
• 52:58
  know,
• 52:59
  every
• 52:59
  day
• 52:59
  or
• 52:59
  whatever
• 53:00
  with.
• 53:00
  Yeah,
• 53:01
  that's
• 53:01
  true.
• 53:01
  Has
• 53:02
  disdain
• 53:02
  towards
• 53:02
  her
• 53:02
  for
• 53:03
  her
• 53:03
  choices.
• 53:04
  What
• 53:04
  does
• 53:04
  that
• 53:04
  say
• 53:05
  to
• 53:05
  your
• 53:05
  daughter
• 53:05
  if
• 53:06
  you're
• 53:06
  like,
• 53:07
  just
• 53:07
  ignore
• 53:08
  her.
• 53:08
  It
• 53:08
  is
• 53:08
  what
• 53:08
  it
• 53:09
  is.
• 53:09
  Yeah,
• 53:09
  we
• 53:10
  laughed
• 53:10
  about
• 53:10
  it
• 53:10
  kind,
• 53:11
  you
• 53:11
  know,
• 53:11
  because
• 53:12
  obviously
• 53:12
  I
• 53:12
  wasn't
• 53:13
  going
• 53:13
  to
• 53:13
  send
• 53:13
  her
• 53:13
  to
• 53:13
  the
• 53:13
  youth
• 53:14
  ministry.
• 53:14
  And
• 53:15
  so
• 53:15
  we
• 53:15
  Kind
• 53:15
  of
• 53:15
  laughed
• 53:16
  about
• 53:16
  it,
• 53:16
  like,
• 53:17
  to
• 53:18
  see
• 53:18
  if
• 53:18
  you
• 53:19
  would.
• 53:19
  Have
• 53:19
  remained
• 53:19
  friends
• 53:19
  with
• 53:20
  your
• 53:20
  friend
• 53:20
  or,
• 53:21
  you
• 53:21
  know,
• 53:21
  that
• 53:21
  close,
• 53:22
  then
• 53:22
  maybe
• 53:22
  Emily
• 53:23
  would
• 53:24
  have
• 53:24
  felt
• 53:25
  like,
• 53:25
  oh,
• 53:25
  you
• 53:26
  don't
• 53:26
  have
• 53:26
  my
• 53:26
  back.
• 53:27
  Like,
• 53:27
  would
• 53:27
  she
• 53:27
  have
• 53:28
  felt
• 53:28
  protected?
• 53:29
  Right.
• 53:29
  I
• 53:29
  think
• 53:30
  she
• 53:30
  was
• 53:30
  freaking
• 53:30
  rules,
• 53:31
  though.
• 53:31
  Right.
• 53:31
  Right.
• 53:32
  Because
• 53:33
  Emily.
• 53:34
  Maybe
• 53:34
  another
• 53:34
  child
• 53:35
  would
• 53:35
  have.
• 53:35
  Right.
• 53:35
  Maybe
• 53:36
  another
• 53:36
  child.
• 53:36
  I
• 53:36
  think
• 53:36
  you're
• 53:37
  right,
• 53:37
  though.
• 53:37
  Yeah.
• 53:38
  Yes.
• 53:38
  I
• 53:39
  guess
• 53:39
  what
• 53:39
  we
• 53:39
  are
• 53:40
  learning
• 53:40
  is
• 53:40
  that
• 53:41
  it
• 53:41
  didn't
• 53:41
  matter
• 53:41
  to
• 53:41
  her
• 53:42
  what.
• 53:43
  Anyone
• 53:43
  said,
• 53:44
  but
• 53:44
  it
• 53:45
  could.
• 53:45
  Another
• 53:45
  child,
• 53:46
  it
• 53:46
  could
• 53:46
  have,
• 53:47
  you
• 53:47
  know,
• 53:47
  shut
• 53:47
  them
• 53:48
  down
• 53:48
  and
• 53:48
  been
• 53:48
  like,
• 53:48
  oh,
• 53:48
  mom
• 53:49
  doesn't
• 53:49
  have
• 53:50
  my
• 53:50
  back.
• 53:50
  So.
• 53:51
  But
• 53:51
  it
• 53:51
  was
• 53:51
  her
• 53:51
  best
• 53:52
  friend's
• 53:52
  mom,
• 53:53
  so
• 53:53
  I
• 53:54
  think
• 53:54
  she
• 53:54
  was
• 53:55
  just
• 53:55
  like,
• 53:55
  oh,
• 53:56
  you
• 53:56
  know,
• 53:56
  oh,
• 53:57
  please.
• 53:57
  She.
• 53:57
  Do
• 53:57
  she.
• 53:58
  Oh,
• 53:58
  Sandra.
• 53:59
  Yeah,
• 53:59
  yeah.
• 53:59
  Oh,
• 54:00
  Sandra.
• 54:00
  Oh,
• 54:01
  classic
• 54:01
  Sandra.
• 54:02
  Is
• 54:03
  that
• 54:03
  right?
• 54:03
  I
• 54:03
  don't
• 54:04
  know.
• 54:05
  We
• 54:05
  just.
• 54:05
  We
• 54:05
  just.
• 54:05
  We
• 54:06
  used
• 54:06
  it
• 54:06
  a
• 54:06
  fake
• 54:07
  name.
• 54:08
  I
• 54:08
  was
• 54:08
  like,
• 54:08
  wait
• 54:08
  a
• 54:08
  second,
• 54:09
  am
• 54:09
  I
• 54:09
  cutting
• 54:09
  this?
• 54:09
  No,
• 54:10
  it's
• 54:10
  a
• 54:11
  fake
• 54:11
  name.
• 54:12
  It's
• 54:12
  just
• 54:12
  classic
• 54:13
  Sandra.
• 54:14
  Oh,
• 54:14
  my
• 54:14
  God.
• 54:14
  I
• 54:14
  literally,
• 54:15
  like,
• 54:15
  started
• 54:15
  like,
• 54:16
  oh,
• 54:16
  shit,
• 54:16
  do
• 54:16
  I
• 54:16
  have
• 54:16
  to
• 54:16
  cut
• 54:16
  this?
• 54:17
  I
• 54:17
  got
• 54:17
  a,
• 54:17
  like,
• 54:17
  mental
• 54:18
  note.
• 54:20
  No,
• 54:20
  it's
• 54:20
  a
• 54:20
  fake
• 54:21
  name.
• 54:24
  I.
• 54:25
  This,
• 54:26
  again,
• 54:26
  is
• 54:26
  the
• 54:26
  perfect
• 54:27
  example
• 54:27
  of
• 54:28
  how
• 54:28
  it
• 54:29
  could
• 54:30
  and
• 54:30
  really
• 54:30
  should
• 54:31
  go
• 54:32
  for
• 54:32
  anyone
• 54:33
  who
• 54:33
  is
• 54:33
  faced
• 54:34
  with
• 54:35
  like,
• 54:35
  yeah,
• 54:35
  this
• 54:36
  is
• 54:36
  me,
• 54:36
  and
• 54:37
  you're
• 54:37
  going
• 54:37
  to
• 54:38
  accept
• 54:38
  me.
• 54:38
  And
• 54:38
  if
• 54:38
  you
• 54:38
  don't,
• 54:39
  then
• 54:39
  I
• 54:39
  don't.
• 54:40
  I
• 54:41
  don't
• 54:41
  care.
• 54:42
  Yeah,
• 54:43
  but
• 54:44
  like
• 54:44
  we
• 54:45
  said
• 54:45
  again,
• 54:45
  that's
• 54:46
  not
• 54:46
  even
• 54:47
  probably
• 54:47
  a
• 54:48
  fraction
• 54:48
  of
• 54:49
  what
• 54:49
  most
• 54:49
  people
• 54:49
  experience.
• 54:50
  Yeah.
• 54:50
  And
• 54:51
  I
• 54:51
  do
• 54:51
  think
• 54:51
  and
• 54:52
  believe
• 54:52
  there's
• 54:52
  also
• 54:53
  that
• 54:53
  same
• 54:53
  person
• 54:54
  who's
• 54:54
  just
• 54:54
  in
• 54:55
  a
• 54:55
  different
• 54:55
  place
• 54:57
  who
• 54:57
  could
• 54:58
  say
• 54:58
  I'm.
• 54:58
  I
• 54:59
  am
• 54:59
  who
• 54:59
  I
• 54:59
  am,
• 55:00
  accept
• 55:00
  me,
• 55:00
  and
• 55:01
  then
• 55:01
  still
• 55:01
  get
• 55:01
  persecuted.
• 55:02
  So
• 55:03
  there's
• 55:04
  so
• 55:04
  many
• 55:04
  different
• 55:05
  perspectives
• 55:06
  that
• 55:06
  I
• 55:06
  would
• 55:06
  love
• 55:06
  to,
• 55:06
  like,
• 55:07
  talk
• 55:07
  to.
• 55:07
  Like,
• 55:10
  it
• 55:10
  would
• 55:10
  be
• 55:11
  challenging,
• 55:12
  but
• 55:13
  it
• 55:13
  would
• 55:13
  be
• 55:13
  interesting
• 55:14
  to
• 55:14
  also
• 55:14
  talk
• 55:14
  to
• 55:15
  someone
• 55:15
  who
• 55:15
  is
• 55:15
  super
• 55:16
  conservative
• 55:16
  and,
• 55:17
  you
• 55:17
  know,
• 55:17
  did
• 55:18
  not
• 55:18
  accept
• 55:19
  their
• 55:19
  child
• 55:20
  once
• 55:20
  this
• 55:20
  happened
• 55:21
  to
• 55:21
  try
• 55:22
  and
• 55:22
  see
• 55:23
  if
• 55:23
  we
• 55:23
  can
• 55:23
  figure
• 55:24
  out,
• 55:24
  like,
• 55:24
  what.
• 55:25
  What
• 55:25
  is
• 55:26
  it?
• 55:26
  Is
• 55:26
  it
• 55:26
  a
• 55:26
  childhood?
• 55:27
  Is
• 55:27
  it
• 55:27
  really
• 55:27
  religion?
• 55:28
  Like,
• 55:28
  what
• 55:28
  is
• 55:28
  it
• 55:29
  that
• 55:29
  makes
• 55:29
  this
• 55:29
  so
• 55:31
  interesting?
• 55:31
  So
• 55:32
  I
• 55:32
  do
• 55:32
  have
• 55:32
  a
• 55:32
  good
• 55:32
  friend
• 55:33
  and
• 55:33
  maybe
• 55:33
  she'll
• 55:34
  talk
• 55:34
  about
• 55:34
  it
• 55:34
  at
• 55:34
  some
• 55:35
  point,
• 55:35
  but
• 55:35
  I
• 55:35
  don't
• 55:35
  want
• 55:36
  to.
• 55:36
  Yeah,
• 55:37
  but
• 55:37
  she.
• 55:38
  When
• 55:38
  her
• 55:39
  daughter
• 55:39
  came
• 55:40
  out,
• 55:41
  I
• 55:42
  remember
• 55:42
  her
• 55:43
  daughter
• 55:43
  crying
• 55:44
  and
• 55:44
  begging
• 55:44
  her,
• 55:45
  like,
• 55:45
  hey,
• 55:46
  if
• 55:46
  you
• 55:47
  vote
• 55:48
  politic,
• 55:48
  like,
• 55:49
  in
• 55:49
  the
• 55:49
  political
• 55:49
  thing
• 55:49
  for
• 55:50
  this
• 55:50
  person,
• 55:51
  I'm
• 55:51
  going
• 55:52
  to
• 55:52
  feel
• 55:52
  completely
• 55:52
  betrayed.
• 55:53
  And
• 55:53
  I've
• 55:53
  never
• 55:53
  felt
• 55:54
  betrayed
• 55:54
  by
• 55:54
  you
• 55:54
  before.
• 55:55
  And
• 55:55
  that
• 55:55
  was
• 55:55
  the
• 55:56
  thing
• 55:56
  that
• 55:56
  kind
• 55:56
  of
• 55:56
  made
• 55:57
  her
• 55:58
  think,
• 56:00
  what
• 56:00
  am
• 56:00
  I
• 56:00
  voting
• 56:01
  for?
• 56:01
  And
• 56:02
  actually,
• 56:02
  I
• 56:02
  don't.
• 56:03
  I
• 56:03
  wouldn't
• 56:04
  say
• 56:04
  I
• 56:04
  don't
• 56:04
  Know
• 56:04
  where
• 56:04
  she
• 56:05
  is
• 56:05
  100%
• 56:06
  these
• 56:07
  days?
• 56:07
  Well,
• 56:07
  I
• 56:07
  know
• 56:08
  she's
• 56:08
  not
• 56:08
  conservative,
• 56:09
  so
• 56:09
  actually
• 56:09
  yes,
• 56:10
  I
• 56:10
  do
• 56:10
  know.
• 56:11
  But
• 56:11
  she
• 56:12
  was
• 56:12
  able
• 56:12
  to
• 56:12
  slowly
• 56:13
  kind
• 56:13
  of
• 56:13
  start
• 56:13
  looking
• 56:13
  at
• 56:14
  things
• 56:14
  and
• 56:14
  saying,
• 56:17
  what
• 56:17
  am
• 56:17
  I
• 56:17
  voting
• 56:18
  for?
• 56:18
  And
• 56:18
  it
• 56:19
  did
• 56:19
  change
• 56:19
  her
• 56:19
  perspective.
• 56:21
  But
• 56:21
  she
• 56:21
  didn't.
• 56:22
  Because
• 56:23
  she
• 56:23
  didn't.
• 56:23
  But
• 56:24
  yeah,
• 56:24
  but
• 56:24
  there
• 56:24
  are
• 56:24
  people
• 56:25
  who
• 56:25
  do
• 56:26
  abandon
• 56:26
  their
• 56:26
  children
• 56:27
  and
• 56:27
  there's
• 56:27
  conservatives
• 56:28
  who
• 56:28
  don't.
• 56:30
  So
• 56:30
  it's
• 56:30
  very
• 56:31
  interesting.
• 56:33
  Yeah.
• 56:36
  Sam
• 56:36
  said.
• 56:36
  Yeah.
• 56:37
  I
• 56:37
  look
• 56:37
  at
• 56:37
  you
• 56:38
  and
• 56:38
  I
• 56:38
  say.
• 56:38
  That
• 56:38
  though,
• 56:38
  because
• 56:39
  I
• 56:40
  feel
• 56:40
  like
• 56:41
  another
• 56:41
  perspective
• 56:42
  is
• 56:42
  that
• 56:42
  sometimes
• 56:43
  I
• 56:43
  do
• 56:43
  feel
• 56:44
  like
• 56:45
  when
• 56:47
  an
• 56:48
  individual
• 56:50
  like
• 56:50
  that
• 56:51
  says,
• 56:51
  you
• 56:51
  know,
• 56:52
  if
• 56:52
  you
• 56:54
  do
• 56:54
  this
• 56:54
  or
• 56:55
  don't
• 56:55
  do
• 56:55
  this,
• 56:56
  like
• 56:57
  I'm
• 56:57
  going
• 56:57
  to
• 56:57
  feel
• 56:57
  abandoned
• 56:58
  and
• 56:58
  not
• 56:58
  respected
• 56:58
  by
• 56:59
  you.
• 57:00
  Sometimes
• 57:01
  the
• 57:01
  way
• 57:02
  I
• 57:02
  see
• 57:02
  that
• 57:02
  it
• 57:02
  comes
• 57:03
  off
• 57:03
  as
• 57:03
  bullying.
• 57:04
  Like
• 57:04
  you
• 57:04
  will
• 57:05
  understand
• 57:05
  and
• 57:05
  see
• 57:06
  my
• 57:06
  point
• 57:06
  or
• 57:06
  we're
• 57:07
  not,
• 57:07
  not
• 57:08
  going
• 57:08
  to
• 57:08
  have
• 57:08
  a
• 57:08
  relationship.
• 57:09
  And
• 57:09
  I
• 57:09
  have
• 57:09
  a
• 57:09
  hard
• 57:10
  time
• 57:10
  with
• 57:10
  that
• 57:10
  kind
• 57:11
  of
• 57:11
  cut
• 57:11
  and
• 57:11
  dry
• 57:12
  fair,
• 57:12
  like.
• 57:12
  Right.
• 57:13
  So
• 57:13
  coming
• 57:14
  from
• 57:14
  like
• 57:14
  a
• 57:14
  14
• 57:15
  year
• 57:15
  old
• 57:16
  who
• 57:16
  was
• 57:17
  just,
• 57:18
  and
• 57:18
  it
• 57:18
  was
• 57:18
  no
• 57:18
  ultimate,
• 57:19
  you
• 57:19
  know,
• 57:19
  I
• 57:19
  mean,
• 57:20
  and.
• 57:20
  You'Re,
• 57:20
  you
• 57:20
  don't
• 57:20
  have
• 57:21
  to
• 57:21
  like
• 57:22
  this,
• 57:22
  you
• 57:22
  know,
• 57:22
  it
• 57:22
  could
• 57:23
  be
• 57:24
  that
• 57:24
  way.
• 57:24
  But
• 57:24
  there's
• 57:25
  an
• 57:25
  adult
• 57:25
  though,
• 57:26
  you
• 57:26
  know.
• 57:26
  There'S,
• 57:26
  there's
• 57:26
  adults
• 57:27
  who
• 57:27
  are
• 57:27
  like,
• 57:28
  if
• 57:28
  you
• 57:28
  don't
• 57:30
  vote
• 57:30
  this
• 57:30
  way,
• 57:31
  I
• 57:32
  will
• 57:32
  not
• 57:32
  be
• 57:33
  talking
• 57:33
  to
• 57:33
  you
• 57:33
  anymore,
• 57:34
  mom.
• 57:34
  Because.
• 57:34
  Right.
• 57:35
  I
• 57:35
  will
• 57:35
  feel
• 57:35
  disrespected
• 57:36
  and
• 57:36
  I
• 57:37
  feel
• 57:37
  like
• 57:37
  that
• 57:37
  is
• 57:38
  a
• 57:38
  form,
• 57:38
  like
• 57:38
  if
• 57:38
  you
• 57:39
  had
• 57:39
  such
• 57:39
  a
• 57:39
  good
• 57:40
  relationship
• 57:41
  but
• 57:41
  then
• 57:41
  just
• 57:41
  something
• 57:42
  over
• 57:43
  a
• 57:43
  difference
• 57:43
  of
• 57:44
  a
• 57:44
  vote
• 57:44
  which
• 57:45
  I,
• 57:45
  I,
• 57:45
  I
• 57:45
  hear
• 57:45
  you.
• 57:46
  The
• 57:46
  votes
• 57:46
  are
• 57:46
  a
• 57:47
  big
• 57:47
  deal.
• 57:47
  Like,
• 57:47
  I
• 57:48
  get
• 57:48
  that
• 57:48
  but
• 57:48
  that
• 57:49
  sounds
• 57:49
  like
• 57:49
  bullying
• 57:50
  to
• 57:50
  me.
• 57:50
  Like
• 57:50
  if
• 57:50
  you
• 57:51
  don't
• 57:51
  do
• 57:51
  this,
• 57:52
  I
• 57:52
  will
• 57:52
  not
• 57:52
  talk
• 57:53
  to
• 57:53
  you
• 57:53
  ever
• 57:53
  again.
• 57:54
  And
• 57:54
  I,
• 57:55
  that's
• 57:55
  not
• 57:55
  what
• 57:55
  she
• 57:56
  said
• 57:56
  though.
• 57:56
  Yeah,
• 57:57
  that
• 57:57
  does
• 57:57
  happen.
• 57:57
  It
• 57:58
  does
• 57:58
  happen.
• 57:58
  That's
• 57:59
  the
• 57:59
  only
• 57:59
  way
• 57:59
  I
• 57:59
  looked
• 57:59
  at
• 58:00
  you.
• 58:00
  I
• 58:00
  was
• 58:00
  like,
• 58:00
  well,
• 58:00
  the
• 58:01
  other
• 58:01
  side
• 58:02
  is.
• 58:02
  But
• 58:02
  yeah,
• 58:03
  not
• 58:03
  saying
• 58:03
  it,
• 58:03
  it's,
• 58:04
  you
• 58:04
  know,
• 58:04
  that
• 58:05
  person.
• 58:05
  But,
• 58:06
  but
• 58:06
  it
• 58:06
  was
• 58:07
  interesting
• 58:07
  to
• 58:08
  like
• 58:08
  have
• 58:09
  her
• 58:09
  be
• 58:09
  like
• 58:09
  mom
• 58:10
  and
• 58:11
  then
• 58:11
  like,
• 58:12
  I
• 58:12
  don't
• 58:12
  understand,
• 58:13
  I
• 58:13
  don't
• 58:13
  understand
• 58:14
  how
• 58:15
  you
• 58:15
  can
• 58:16
  vote
• 58:16
  for
• 58:16
  somebody
• 58:17
  that
• 58:17
  wants
• 58:17
  to
• 58:17
  hurt
• 58:17
  me.
• 58:18
  I
• 58:18
  think
• 58:18
  that
• 58:18
  that
• 58:18
  is
• 58:18
  really
• 58:18
  brave
• 58:19
  though
• 58:19
  of
• 58:19
  a
• 58:19
  teenager
• 58:20
  to
• 58:20
  be
• 58:20
  able
• 58:21
  to
• 58:21
  have
• 58:22
  like
• 58:23
  they
• 58:23
  had,
• 58:24
  they
• 58:24
  had.
• 58:24
  Such
• 58:25
  a
• 58:25
  good
• 58:25
  place.
• 58:27
  This
• 58:27
  is
• 58:28
  how
• 58:28
  I
• 58:28
  see
• 58:28
  it.
• 58:28
  It
• 58:29
  was
• 58:29
  big
• 58:29
  of
• 58:29
  the
• 58:29
  mom
• 58:30
  too
• 58:30
  to
• 58:30
  be
• 58:30
  able
• 58:31
  to
• 58:31
  say,
• 58:31
  oh,
• 58:32
  I'll
• 58:32
  hear
• 58:32
  you
• 58:32
  out,
• 58:32
  let
• 58:32
  me
• 58:32
  look,
• 58:33
  let
• 58:33
  me
• 58:33
  think.
• 58:34
  And
• 58:34
  I
• 58:34
  think
• 58:35
  it
• 58:35
  took,
• 58:35
  it
• 58:35
  was
• 58:35
  over
• 58:35
  a
• 58:36
  course
• 58:36
  of
• 58:36
  a
• 58:36
  few
• 58:36
  years.
• 58:36
  Not
• 58:37
  wrong.
• 58:37
  Right.
• 58:38
  That
• 58:38
  is
• 58:38
  really
• 58:38
  impressive
• 58:39
  on
• 58:39
  both
• 58:39
  sides
• 58:39
  to
• 58:40
  be
• 58:40
  able
• 58:40
  to
• 58:40
  say
• 58:40
  like,
• 58:41
  have
• 58:41
  that
• 58:42
  mutual
• 58:42
  respect
• 58:42
  Of.
• 58:43
  Okay,
• 58:44
  I
• 58:44
  will
• 58:44
  hear
• 58:44
  you
• 58:44
  out.
• 58:45
  You're
• 58:45
  gonna
• 58:45
  hear
• 58:45
  me
• 58:46
  out.
• 58:46
  And
• 58:46
  then
• 58:47
  being
• 58:47
  able
• 58:47
  to.
• 58:48
  Yeah.
• 58:49
  And
• 58:49
  I
• 58:49
  will
• 58:49
  say
• 58:50
  that
• 58:51
  I
• 58:52
  want
• 58:52
  to
• 58:52
  say
• 58:52
  this
• 58:52
  person's
• 58:53
  dad
• 58:54
  did
• 58:54
  not
• 58:55
  change.
• 58:56
  He
• 58:56
  has
• 58:56
  changed
• 58:57
  since,
• 58:57
  I
• 58:58
  would
• 58:58
  say,
• 58:58
  just
• 58:58
  because
• 58:58
  of
• 58:59
  his
• 58:59
  own,
• 59:00
  you
• 59:00
  know,
• 59:00
  but
• 59:00
  it.
• 59:01
  She.
• 59:01
  She.
• 59:02
  She
• 59:02
  had
• 59:02
  them
• 59:02
  looking
• 59:03
  at
• 59:03
  their
• 59:03
  lives
• 59:03
  and
• 59:04
  why
• 59:04
  they
• 59:04
  were
• 59:04
  voting
• 59:04
  the
• 59:05
  way
• 59:05
  they
• 59:05
  were
• 59:05
  voting,
• 59:06
  and
• 59:06
  it
• 59:06
  was
• 59:07
  just
• 59:07
  interesting.
• 59:07
  And
• 59:08
  I'm
• 59:08
  not
• 59:08
  saying
• 59:08
  that
• 59:08
  all
• 59:08
  conservatives
• 59:09
  need
• 59:09
  to
• 59:09
  change
• 59:10
  to
• 59:10
  accept
• 59:10
  their
• 59:10
  kids.
• 59:11
  That's
• 59:11
  not
• 59:11
  at
• 59:11
  all
• 59:11
  what
• 59:11
  I'm
• 59:12
  saying.
• 59:12
  But
• 59:13
  it's
• 59:13
  interesting.
• 59:15
  It
• 59:15
  comes
• 59:15
  down
• 59:16
  to
• 59:16
  respect,
• 59:17
  but
• 59:18
  there's
• 59:18
  a
• 59:18
  reason
• 59:19
  that
• 59:19
  everyone
• 59:19
  feels
• 59:19
  and
• 59:20
  believes
• 59:20
  so
• 59:20
  strongly.
• 59:21
  Highly
• 59:21
  do.
• 59:22
  So
• 59:22
  I
• 59:22
  guess
• 59:22
  my
• 59:23
  curiosity
• 59:23
  comes
• 59:24
  into
• 59:24
  picking
• 59:25
  everyone's
• 59:26
  brains
• 59:27
  on,
• 59:27
  like,
• 59:27
  well,
• 59:28
  where
• 59:28
  did
• 59:28
  that
• 59:28
  come
• 59:28
  from?
• 59:29
  Like,
• 59:29
  I'm
• 59:30
  a
• 59:30
  therapist
• 59:30
  or
• 59:31
  something.
• 59:31
  Right.
• 59:32
  What
• 59:32
  happened
• 59:33
  to
• 59:33
  you?
• 59:34
  It's
• 59:35
  interesting.
• 59:36
  It
• 59:36
  really
• 59:36
  is,
• 59:36
  because
• 59:37
  it's
• 59:37
  like,
• 59:37
  we
• 59:37
  want
• 59:37
  to.
• 59:38
  Like,
• 59:38
  if
• 59:38
  we
• 59:38
  could
• 59:38
  understand
• 59:38
  each
• 59:39
  other's
• 59:39
  motives.
• 59:39
  Right.
• 59:40
  Yeah.
• 59:40
  Then
• 59:41
  maybe
• 59:41
  we
• 59:41
  wouldn't
• 59:42
  have.
• 59:42
  And
• 59:43
  again,
• 59:43
  I.
• 59:44
  I
• 59:44
  feel
• 59:44
  like
• 59:44
  it
• 59:45
  just
• 59:45
  all
• 59:45
  comes
• 59:45
  down
• 59:45
  to
• 59:46
  the
• 59:46
  same
• 59:46
  thing.
• 59:46
  On
• 59:46
  this
• 59:46
  whole
• 59:47
  episode,
• 59:47
  I'm
• 59:47
  like,
• 59:47
  I
• 59:48
  found
• 59:48
  the
• 59:48
  theme,
• 59:49
  like,
• 59:50
  diversity.
• 59:51
  Like,
• 59:51
  if
• 59:51
  we
• 59:51
  can
• 59:51
  just
• 59:52
  keep
• 59:52
  surrounding
• 59:53
  ourselves
• 59:53
  with
• 59:53
  different
• 59:53
  types
• 59:54
  of
• 59:54
  people,
• 59:55
  we
• 59:55
  can
• 59:55
  start
• 59:55
  learning
• 59:55
  motives
• 59:56
  and
• 59:56
  just
• 59:57
  understanding
• 59:57
  a
• 59:57
  little
• 59:57
  bit
• 59:57
  about
• 59:58
  why
• 59:58
  people
• 59:58
  do
• 59:58
  what
• 59:58
  they
• 59:58
  do.
• 59:59
  Yeah.
• 1:00:00
  Just
• 1:00:00
  seeing
• 1:00:00
  a
• 1:00:01
  bigger
• 1:00:01
  picture
• 1:00:01
  that
• 1:00:02
  instead
• 1:00:02
  of.
• 1:00:02
  That's
• 1:00:02
  a
• 1:00:03
  narrow
• 1:00:04
  picture
• 1:00:05
  that
• 1:00:05
  you
• 1:00:05
  have.
• 1:00:05
  Yeah.
• 1:00:06
  The
• 1:00:06
  diversity
• 1:00:07
  helps
• 1:00:07
  you
• 1:00:07
  see
• 1:00:07
  bigger.
• 1:00:08
  A
• 1:00:08
  bigger
• 1:00:08
  world.
• 1:00:09
  Yeah.
• 1:00:10
  And
• 1:00:11
  like
• 1:00:11
  you
• 1:00:12
  said,
• 1:00:12
  have
• 1:00:12
  mutual
• 1:00:12
  respect
• 1:00:12
  for
• 1:00:13
  each
• 1:00:13
  other.
• 1:00:13
  Yeah.
• 1:00:14
  More
• 1:00:14
  food
• 1:00:15
  for
• 1:00:15
  thought,
• 1:00:15
  per
• 1:00:15
  usual.
• 1:00:16
  So
• 1:00:16
  I'll
• 1:00:17
  be
• 1:00:17
  thinking,
• 1:00:18
  and
• 1:00:19
  I'm
• 1:00:19
  sure
• 1:00:19
  we'll
• 1:00:19
  have
• 1:00:19
  more
• 1:00:20
  conversations
• 1:00:20
  on.
• 1:00:21
  On
• 1:00:21
  this,
• 1:00:22
  because
• 1:00:23
  I.
• 1:00:23
  There
• 1:00:23
  are
• 1:00:24
  more
• 1:00:24
  things
• 1:00:24
  to
• 1:00:24
  be
• 1:00:24
  curious
• 1:00:25
  about.
• 1:00:25
  There
• 1:00:26
  are.
• 1:00:27
  So
• 1:00:27
  thank
• 1:00:27
  you
• 1:00:27
  for
• 1:00:28
  sharing
• 1:00:28
  that.
• 1:00:28
  Thanks
• 1:00:29
  for
• 1:00:29
  having
• 1:00:29
  me.
• 1:00:29
  Michelle,
• 1:00:30
  I
• 1:00:30
  know
• 1:00:31
  you've
• 1:00:31
  been
• 1:00:31
  waiting
• 1:00:31
  forever
• 1:00:32
  to
• 1:00:32
  be
• 1:00:32
  on.
• 1:00:32
  I
• 1:00:33
  know.
• 1:00:33
  She
• 1:00:33
  literally
• 1:00:34
  has
• 1:00:34
  been,
• 1:00:34
  like,
• 1:00:35
  from
• 1:00:35
  the
• 1:00:35
  first
• 1:00:36
  episode
• 1:00:36
  when
• 1:00:36
  no
• 1:00:36
  one
• 1:00:37
  knew
• 1:00:37
  who
• 1:00:37
  we
• 1:00:37
  were,
• 1:00:38
  she
• 1:00:38
  would
• 1:00:38
  listen
• 1:00:38
  to
• 1:00:39
  everything.
• 1:00:39
  People
• 1:00:40
  know
• 1:00:40
  who
• 1:00:40
  we
• 1:00:40
  are.
• 1:00:41
  I
• 1:00:41
  couldn't
• 1:00:42
  wait
• 1:00:42
  for
• 1:00:42
  the
• 1:00:42
  episode
• 1:00:43
  to
• 1:00:43
  drop.
• 1:00:44
  I
• 1:00:44
  couldn't
• 1:00:44
  wait
• 1:00:45
  for
• 1:00:45
  the
• 1:00:45
  episode
• 1:00:45
  to
• 1:00:45
  drop.
• 1:00:46
  Like,
• 1:00:46
  so
• 1:00:46
  cute.
• 1:00:47
  Come
• 1:00:47
  into
• 1:00:47
  work.
• 1:00:48
  Should
• 1:00:48
  be
• 1:00:48
  like,
• 1:00:48
  oh,
• 1:00:49
  my
• 1:00:49
  gosh,
• 1:00:49
  I
• 1:00:50
  have
• 1:00:50
  opinions.
• 1:00:50
  Yes,
• 1:00:51
  I
• 1:00:51
  have
• 1:00:51
  opinions.
• 1:00:54
  I
• 1:00:54
  do,
• 1:00:54
  too.
• 1:00:54
  I
• 1:00:55
  do,
• 1:00:55
  too.
• 1:00:55
  I'm
• 1:00:55
  so.
• 1:00:55
  We're
• 1:00:56
  so
• 1:00:56
  lucky.
• 1:00:56
  Yeah.
• 1:00:57
  Yeah.
• 1:00:58
  So
• 1:00:58
  thank
• 1:00:58
  you
• 1:00:58
  for
• 1:00:59
  joining
• 1:00:59
  us.
• 1:01:00
  Thank
• 1:01:00
  you
• 1:01:00
  for
• 1:01:00
  sharing
• 1:01:01
  some
• 1:01:01
  difficult
• 1:01:03
  and
• 1:01:04
  not
• 1:01:04
  so
• 1:01:04
  difficult.
• 1:01:04
  It's
• 1:01:05
  not
• 1:01:05
  difficult.
• 1:01:05
  She's
• 1:01:06
  proud
• 1:01:06
  of
• 1:01:06
  it.
• 1:01:06
  Her
• 1:01:06
  daughter's
• 1:01:06
  proud
• 1:01:07
  of
• 1:01:07
  it.
• 1:01:08
  This
• 1:01:08
  is
• 1:01:08
  not
• 1:01:08
  difficult.
• 1:01:09
  Yeah.
• 1:01:10
  But
• 1:01:10
  a.
• 1:01:10
  A
• 1:01:11
  perspective.
• 1:01:11
  Yes,
• 1:01:12
  we
• 1:01:12
  do
• 1:01:12
  appreciate
• 1:01:12
  it.
• 1:01:15
  So.
• 1:01:15
  All
• 1:01:15
  right,
• 1:01:16
  now
• 1:01:16
  we're
• 1:01:16
  being
• 1:01:16
  awkward.
• 1:01:16
  Bye.
• 1:01:19
  Did
• 1:01:19
  you
• 1:01:20
  like
• 1:01:20
  the
• 1:01:20
  episode
• 1:01:20
  that
• 1:01:20
  you
• 1:01:21
  heard
• 1:01:21
  today?
• 1:01:22
  Great.
• 1:01:22
  Share
• 1:01:23
  it
• 1:01:23
  with
• 1:01:23
  a
• 1:01:23
  friend.
• 1:01:23
  And
• 1:01:24
  don't
• 1:01:24
  forget
• 1:01:25
  to
• 1:01:25
  rate
• 1:01:25
  and
• 1:01:26
  review.