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The Animal's Voice - Why Does Her Rescue Dog Still React ?, With Denise Sanchez & Harper · The Animals Voice

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[SPEAKER_02]: I have never acted like you do for a living, but I just thought that what I do is completely forget about myself and my own ego when I work as a telepath and some sort of a translator, like energy translator and completely remove myself.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Do you see that similarity to your work that you have to remove your ego?
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[SPEAKER_02]: You can't be in the part you're playing or is different.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Um, it is similar in that there is a lot of things that like let's say there's a character breakdown and I don't relate to or like there's circumstances that I would never do with this person is doing, right?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I recognize myself insensitive and queen and shock and traumatized, literally to a T.
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[SPEAKER_03]: That is absolutely something I think she would check off, especially going back a little bit earlier when you had said She checks in with us and she kind of does this That is how our introduction was with her and with anybody that comes into our home and I never expected that someone would hit me
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm asking her, did someone hit you?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And she says, yes.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But I owe them my world, I owe them my life because they took me in and because they protect me and because they understand me.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And they provide me with all the most luxurious food, the most luxurious bed, the most luxurious life.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I know that, hmm.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I need to be good, and I know that I need to behave around them so they will never leave my side ever, or replace me.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Go.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So it's a misunderstanding in her world that she's trying to be so protective for you to keep her.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Sorry.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Have you, had you suspected that?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Did any sense you have a reaction or?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Um...
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[SPEAKER_02]: I'm sorry.
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[SPEAKER_02]: No, it's okay.
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[SPEAKER_01]: They comfort us.
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[SPEAKER_01]: They protect us, they change us.
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[SPEAKER_01]: But what if they could also speak to us?
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[SPEAKER_01]: Welcome to the Animal's Voice, hosted by Ditte Young, internationally renowned animal communicator, telepath, licensed therapist, intuitive coach, and best-selling author.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Each week you'll hear extraordinary stories of connection, healing, love, loss, and transformation through the eyes of the animals who share our lives, stories that challenge what we think we know, stories that open our hearts, stories that remind us we may never have been as separate as we believed, because every animal has a voice, and every voice deserves to be heard.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Welcome to the Animal's Voice.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Today I have a very special guest in my studio and it is the actor Denise Sanchez.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Maybe you have seen Denise in series such as NCIS or Bosch Legacy and she's featured in an upcoming film Laura Louise.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Denise is also the proud owner of a girl called Harper and today it is my privilege to become the voice of her dog Harper.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Stay tuned.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Welcome to the animal's voice.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Today my special guest is Denise Sanchez.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Hi and welcome Denise.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Hi.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Thank you for having me.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I have been looking forward to this for quite a while.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Me too.
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[SPEAKER_03]: How did you find me?
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[SPEAKER_03]: The telepathy tapes.
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[SPEAKER_03]: That was my first introduction to you and I immediately.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I went over to your Instagram and I just ate everything off because it's definitely been something that I've been curious about with my own pets growing up.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And just everything that you're capable of doing, it's definitely in the realm of things that I've always been curious about since I was a little girl.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And can you tell the listeners and whoever watches the show a little bit about your life, what do you do for a living, where do you live, not your address, but where do you live in the world?
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[SPEAKER_03]: Sure, well currently I live in Los Angeles, California, but I'm originally from Windsor, Connecticut.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I'm the East Coast girl.
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[SPEAKER_03]: First generation proved in American, so I grew up Catholic, but there's a big part of my family that believes in different things.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Let's just put it that way.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So it's why we've been curious curiosity of mine, but yeah, growing up, humble beginnings, Connecticut, always curious about telepathy and anything metaphysical.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Life bought me to New York where I started my acting modeling career and eventually I landed here in California And I have been here a whopping 14 years and every time I keep thinking it's like only ten years And then I look at my Facebook my Facebook reminds me like no, you have been here 14 years So yeah, I began acting and I've been getting some traction in the last few years.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I'm
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[SPEAKER_03]: got off a series called Bosch Legacy on Amazon and I've been working diligently in this crazy career that is acting and all of it's a wonderful ups and downs, but here I stand.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But you are featured in a upcoming movie or is that a series called Vora Louise who's not out there?
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[SPEAKER_03]: It's a movie.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, we actually shot it almost a year ago.
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[SPEAKER_03]: It's, hmm, how do I put it?
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[SPEAKER_03]: It's a murder crime mystery where I played detective.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I think that's all I'm allowed to say.
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[SPEAKER_03]: But yeah, so it's supposed to be, we're gonna do the theater runs here at the beginning of January.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So yeah, look out for the, I'm really excited.
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[SPEAKER_03]: It was, we shot it in Dixie.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Chicago and Dixen, and it was a great experience.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I learned a lot.
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[SPEAKER_03]: It was my first indie feature.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So, lots of learn there.
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[SPEAKER_03]: It's definitely different from coming off of a series.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So, learned a lot made a lot of good friends, and I'm excited for everyone to see it, because it should be good.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I've seen a couple of edit, rough edit cuts,
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[SPEAKER_00]: If this is the animal's voice, with Ditte Young.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I have never acted like you do for a living but I just thought that what I do is completely forget about myself and my own ego when I work as a telepath and some sort of a translator like energy translator and completely remove myself.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Do you see that similarity to your work that you have to remove your ego?
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[SPEAKER_02]: You can't be in the part you're playing or is different.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Um, it is similar in that there is a lot of things that like let's say there's a character breakdown and I don't relate to or like there's circumstances that I would never do with this person is doing right there is a level of like You have to always treat the character that you're reading for like how do I and how do I make myself understand is there's a big abandonment of self in that way to just be like what's coming
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[SPEAKER_03]: What's coming to me?
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[SPEAKER_03]: What why would this person do that?
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[SPEAKER_03]: And so, you know, meditation helps a lot with that because, you know, so often You read this and immediately there's judgment.
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[SPEAKER_03]: You think you know, okay, and you're reading but once you hit meditation and I do a lot of meditation when I have my work I just like what what is this that's what am I missing?
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[SPEAKER_03]: What am I missing with this?
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[SPEAKER_03]: I'll go to sleep with it I'll do like my nightly prayer like what am I missing with this and so a lot of it is
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[SPEAKER_03]: Realizing what you Denise brings to the character that will make it unique, but also letting it go.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Because you also have to bring in the filtration of the character breakdown.
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[SPEAKER_03]: You know, what did the producers, writers, directors want from that?
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[SPEAKER_03]: So it's a kind of like a ping-ponging, you know?
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[SPEAKER_03]: But there is a self-abandonment there that you have to kind of just let go.
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[SPEAKER_02]: What do you think spirituality is to you being a spiritual person?
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[SPEAKER_03]: Oh, that's great.
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[SPEAKER_03]: That's a great question.
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[SPEAKER_03]: It's about truly seeing the beauty and things that you don't understand curiosity.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Because when you're curious, you get to understand things differently.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And when you understand things differently, that maybe doesn't come from your perspective.
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[SPEAKER_03]: It's connection.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And when you get to the root of that, is like, what is it that makes them them?
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[SPEAKER_03]: And how can I connect to them to either get what I want or to understand better?
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[SPEAKER_03]: So finding the beauty in everything big and small, it's like this,
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[SPEAKER_03]: Sometimes you meet people or animals that there's this just connection that you feel like you've known them you don't know how you don't know why
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[SPEAKER_03]: And I come to realize that maybe in this lifetime, I may not get that answer, but it's somewhere out there.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And in some way, because of this connection that I have, whether it's this legend.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And sometimes I feel like I sound so crazy because I'm like, to I believe in different timelines so I believe in past lives, right?
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[SPEAKER_03]: So it gets a little convoluted, but all I know is that when there is that connection,
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[SPEAKER_03]: that feeling, that empathy, that willingness to understand whether you agree or not, that spirituality, because you're just trying to be one.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You have had a lifelong fascination with spirituality and metaphysics.
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[SPEAKER_02]: When did that begin for you and your life or do you think you were actually born a spiritual person?
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[SPEAKER_03]: I think I was born a spiritual person.
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[SPEAKER_03]: But I will say that it's interesting, right?
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[SPEAKER_03]: So I'm who the American, the majority of my family is still in Peru.
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[SPEAKER_03]: My family, the immigrated here to the United States Catholic Roman Catholic.
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[SPEAKER_03]: We practiced, we went to the church.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And it resonated with me, but since a little girl, I would always feel things like I'd be playing in my room and I would feel
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[SPEAKER_03]: energies that would come in and I would turn but I would never see anything and it was almost like oh my god and I would explain it to my mom and my dad and they'd like we need to go to church.
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[SPEAKER_03]: It's you know blah blah blah all right.
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[SPEAKER_03]: What's interesting though is when I would take vacation trips to Peru
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[SPEAKER_03]: Yes, I had family that were Catholic, but my family that mostly lived in rural parts.
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[SPEAKER_03]: They had these amazing stories about sky people.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And there was this ghost that lived in my house for 30 years.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And it would leave me pen or whatever.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And I'd be like,
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[SPEAKER_03]: So there was like the American very like prey to a way she needs therapy or South American where they very much like took it in and they were like tell me more.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And later I realized I think my mom because we were in the US she was a little concerned about my integration into school going back and saying you guys.
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[SPEAKER_03]: You know, like my family for who talks about sky people.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And there's a ghost that hunts the town.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And she, I think now looking back, she was like, it was more just, it was so fantastical, the way that you would experience and explain things that it scared her as a mother.
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[SPEAKER_03]: But also she was like, you were in school.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So I wanted you to assimilate, you know.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So there was a level of protection, but now that we've obviously, she's older and I'm older, I'll tell her things and she's so much more receptive to it.
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[SPEAKER_03]: and I'm always like this, but I was younger, I thought I was going crazy, I thought I was going crazy.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So yeah, it's been a lifelong thing because it wasn't necessarily encouraged with my immediate family here, but when I would go to South America, they were all about it.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So it was just this quest of like anything I could get my hands on.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Books, news articles, stories, um,
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[SPEAKER_03]: anything and now with podcasts like yours and telepathy tapes, all the things that we're so able to get a hold of.
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[SPEAKER_03]: It's been like, like this whole world of life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This is the animal's voice with Ditte young.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And you know what, it's such a vulnerable topic because it seems so compartmentalized, either your religious or your spiritual person, right?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I think it can go hand in hand and oftentimes when I debate that and it's vulnerable.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So I do have respect for people who are believing in one religion or another, but what do we call it when we speak to God?
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[SPEAKER_02]: What do we call it when we receive messages from heaven?
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[SPEAKER_02]: It's the same thing, it's telepathy.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So tell me about your everyday life.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You live with a husband or a spouse partner.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I was born here at Quest.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Your husband, Eric, and you have a doggy?
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[SPEAKER_03]: I do, I have two, well, I have two, and my cat.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So Harbor and Kaya, my husband is Eric.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Harbor and Kaya, my two gendos, and I have my senior cat, Mr. Biggs.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Um, and yeah, so we, you know, day to day, my husband works and I auditioned like crazy.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I've been very fortunate that it's been picking up or an episodic season.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So I've been very busy and commercially and.
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[SPEAKER_03]: just getting out there in Mother Nature and just trying to like enjoy as much as I can right now.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And it's great as much as I can.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So yeah, just keeping busy, you know, trying to network here and there, you know, keep the dreamers.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Did he tell me, um, when it comes to Harper, if you could hear Harper's thoughts, what would be the most interesting thing to hear?
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[SPEAKER_00]: This is the animal's voice with Ditte Young.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Where's she?
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[SPEAKER_03]: There's a lot of mystery about where she came from.
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[SPEAKER_03]: One, and two, she's got a couple of things with her that are a little unexplainable.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And I think if we got to the root of that, we got to the root of what her history was.
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[SPEAKER_03]: We could address her current state.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Right?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Are you ready to do some telepathy?
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[SPEAKER_02]: When I practice telepathy or animal communication, it is not that harbor sess something to me.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't hear a long sentence in my mind, but what she can do is send snippets.
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[SPEAKER_02]: of visual images to me, and then I have to grab a visual, you know, it's like creating probably a movie, like one scene at a time, and I have to grab one image and ask her over and over, what is this, what is this combined with, what is the emotion behind this image, and then create a sense and a meaning out of that, okay?
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[SPEAKER_02]: She feels very intimidated by me to begin with when I look her to intensely into the eyes.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So I remove my sight from away from her and I'm sending her my intentions and my intentions are I'm a good person, I'm just an animal communicator sitting here in Copenhagen, Denmark.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I just want to get to know you better and in the second I and I tell her I'm sitting here with Denise Maybe we call her your mom and then the second I sent her that thought she stars wiggling her tail I become extremely comfortable in the second I mentioned you and That I am not
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[SPEAKER_02]: to intense in the first meeting with her.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So she wants to get to know me better and she wants to come up to me first.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It can't be the other way around.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Does this track?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yes, absolutely.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Can you recognize that behavior?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yes, okay.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I ask her, why is that Harper?
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[SPEAKER_02]: I suspect that you are not gonna be kind to me.
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[SPEAKER_02]: She says, and she does like this.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Almost like I was about to hit her, and I'm telling her, look at me.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Do you feel that I would hit you or,
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[SPEAKER_02]: be bad in any way and she says but I know but I assume I never trust anyone without asking my parents is this okay are they good enough like seeking for your acknowledgments first.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm asking her, so when you have that acknowledgement from Denise or Eric, do you feel more comfortable or safe?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And she says, yes, in many endeavors, in general, not in all situations.
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[SPEAKER_02]: All right.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I show her six personality profiles.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I've made, I have them in books, and online lessons, and I ask her, do you recognize yourself in some of these profiles I've made?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I recognize myself insensitive and queen and shock and traumatized.
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[SPEAKER_02]: She says, so that is three at a six, and you're nodding your head.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Is that because, yes, literally to a T.
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[SPEAKER_03]: That is absolutely something I think she would check off, especially going back a little bit earlier when you had said she checks in with us and she kind of does this, that is how our introduction was with her and with anybody that comes into our home, she does not trust.
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[SPEAKER_03]: and it takes her a while.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Certain things she's checks in with us and she'll but when it's anybody know it's and we just yeah when when since we've gotten her we've given her the royal treatment like literally like when we anything she wants and so it's we we try to expose her to a lot and she doesn't and in a way she's very adventurous because she likes to be outdoors but she doesn't
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[SPEAKER_03]: She doesn't bite people, but she is very aware, like always dodging people, and that's why I bought up the question before about like her past because, you know, I, I, I wanted to feel safe, but I also know that we're doing everything we can to make herself and still she is.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, kind of like she's always waiting for someone to hit her.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I'm like, yeah, and like nobody's going to do that to you, you know?
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[SPEAKER_02]: It feels like I have a bus in my head or a fly flying inside of my brain right now and I get confused.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I hear noises.
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[SPEAKER_02]: This is me getting more and more confused, more and more amped up.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm asking Harper, what is this?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And she says it's the world outside.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It is
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[SPEAKER_02]: Everything is a stressor.
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[SPEAKER_02]: The car is a stressor.
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[SPEAKER_02]: The bike is a stressor.
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[SPEAKER_02]: The runner is a stressor.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You know, the plane in the in the sky is a stressor.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I take in everything, but I don't know what to do about these stimulants.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So I just keep them inside of myself.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Like I implode.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't explode.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I keep it inside of myself.
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[SPEAKER_02]: How can we help you better to let off steam or find
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[SPEAKER_02]: a solution so that it is not within you, but you can let it out.
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[SPEAKER_02]: to communicate to me that my parents, he calls you parents, that my parents communicate to me that it has nothing to do with me because I always assume everything has something to do with me which means she would in her senses and her mind she would hear a car outside and think
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[SPEAKER_02]: What do I do with the car?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Or, oh, that's, you know, the FedEx Express guy.
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[SPEAKER_02]: What do I do now?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Which means, with other words, she becomes insecure about her own role and part in the meeting with the environment.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Interesting.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_02]: What is interesting to you here?
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[SPEAKER_03]: Even, like,
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[SPEAKER_03]: everything is a stimulant to her um and nothing can but go by our windows or or anything and it's almost like we yeah we literally what you said we don't know what to do with her she looks very anxious and um when you say like she doesn't know her role and I guess I don't really ever think that she's looking for a role like
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[SPEAKER_03]: So does she need a job with that?
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[SPEAKER_02]: It's like how would I, like, wait, no, I think it's a matter of when I pick up on what she says here and of course I ask Harper.
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[SPEAKER_02]: She says, but what am I supposed to do about the car should I chase it?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Should I ignore it?
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[SPEAKER_02]: With other words, she needs the command of, there's a car, sit Harper.
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[SPEAKER_02]: There's a squirrel, hunted harbor, or there's a ball, you go chase it harbor, so just, she needs the commands in any situations to better understand.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yes, mom and dad, I can do that and then I'm a good girl.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Otherwise, I get confused.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Again, the simulations aburred a squirrel of this, and she's in a different while, it was just like we didn't know what to do with the least.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And we got her hardest because we didn't want to choke her out, you know, so it was, it was a lot and, you know, um, so.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Okay, yes, I understand that, you know, it's interesting that breed, specifically gendos, they are known to be, they're very smart, and they pick up on tricks quickly, but they're not, they don't listen to command very well.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So it's funny, one of the stories about gendos is that they try to make it the new German shepherd because they're very agile, they love to run hunt, but they won't listen to command.
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[SPEAKER_03]: admittedly when we were trying to train her first certain things she wouldn't listen to us.
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[SPEAKER_03]: So we just kind of were like, uh, you know.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, but you know what, when I ask her about this, because this is interesting to me, meeting so many different dogs and so many animals, because I ask Harbor, is that true that you don't listen to commands?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And she says, of course, I do, but keep them coming.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You can't give me one command and then expect.
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[SPEAKER_02]: that I will be patient, if I don't have the duration of how long is this command for, as an example, sit down and then she'll say for how long, for five minutes, then two minutes later, then what?
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[SPEAKER_02]: Three minutes back, left, sit, sit, sit.
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[SPEAKER_02]: With other words, commands, commands, commands, like an ADHD child or a little toddler saying, are we there yet?
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[SPEAKER_02]: No, are we there yet?
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[SPEAKER_02]: No, are we there?
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[SPEAKER_02]: as opposed to saying we're driving the car honey and we're driving the 30 minutes.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Are we there yet?
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[SPEAKER_02]: We have 15 minutes left honey.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Are we there yet?
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[SPEAKER_02]: We have 5 minutes left honey.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Does this make sense?
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[SPEAKER_02]: So several commands coming at her, okay?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And then she'll listen, but it's because she's that fast, that clever, so she'll respond and then what back to you.
23:43
[SPEAKER_02]: And if you are not giving her the answer, she's taking off.
23:47
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, literally, she's taking off.
23:50
[SPEAKER_02]: Right, like then I will go on my own adventure, you know, this as more to do with my shock and trauma in the meeting with others, I'm gonna, you know, duck and or lower my myself here to avoid.
24:07
[SPEAKER_02]: being abused, and I'm asking her, is that sensitivity, and she says, yes and no, because I get pretty sad right now and emotional when she tells me this, she says, I am just genuinely a good girl.
24:22
[SPEAKER_02]: I just want to connect with people, I want to sniff them, I want to explore who is in there, who is behind those clothing or that skin of yours, I want to connect
24:35
[SPEAKER_02]: with you as a soul.
24:37
[SPEAKER_02]: And I never expected that someone would hit me.
24:42
[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm asking her, did someone hit you?
24:45
[SPEAKER_02]: And she says, yes.
24:48
[SPEAKER_02]: And right now, this is a shock and trauma.
24:51
[SPEAKER_02]: She shows me that she's on a chain or a leash, a chained leash, and she shows me that several people have...
25:02
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know if this is a bomb fire, and the next image she sends me is a man.
25:12
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know if this is a stick or a bottle or what this is because it's blurry in front of me, but it's literally like hitting her, you know, go get down, get down, and that's why I
25:32
[SPEAKER_02]: get up from a chair fast, above her, or guests like coming from a chair very fast in front of her because she will react to that.
25:43
[SPEAKER_03]: Okay.
25:43
[SPEAKER_02]: Have you seen she's reactive when people move?
25:47
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, yeah, with Eric and I, she's more relaxed, even then if we get up a little fast, she just kind of sits up, but never like aggressive when we do have either a pet sitter or a family in friends that come first thing is she's barking she'll look me dry contact bark and it takes us about 20 minutes to get her to calm down and if they sit, she's eyes on.
26:10
[SPEAKER_03]: you know, and she's like looking at them.
26:12
[SPEAKER_03]: You know, she'll just like sit from a corner, we'll look at them.
26:14
[SPEAKER_03]: And if they get up, she'll get up and start barking again.
26:17
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm a huge guardian when it comes to my parents.
26:21
[SPEAKER_02]: And I am telling as the animal communicator, but Harper may be your parents are the guardian of you and not the other way around.
26:30
[SPEAKER_02]: Have you ever considered that?
26:32
[SPEAKER_02]: And she says, and again, it makes me emotional.
26:36
[SPEAKER_02]: But I owe them my world, I owe them my life because they took me in and because they protect me and because they understand me and they provide me with all the most luxurious food, the most luxurious bed, the most luxurious life.
26:53
[SPEAKER_02]: I know that I need to be good and I know that I need to behave around them so they will never leave my side ever or replace me.
27:07
[SPEAKER_02]: So it's a misunderstanding in her world that she's trying to be so protective for you to keep her.
27:19
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
27:22
[SPEAKER_02]: Sorry.
27:26
[SPEAKER_02]: Have you had you suspected that?
27:28
[SPEAKER_02]: Did any sense you have a reaction or?
27:33
[SPEAKER_02]: Um.
27:36
[SPEAKER_03]: I'm sorry, no, it's okay, she um, so um, we have her daughter with us and they've grown up together and um, her daughter is a completely different personality.
27:58
[SPEAKER_03]: just likes people.
28:01
[SPEAKER_03]: A little protective after she's gotten older, but just the sweetest, but there's times where her daughter, Kaia, will be a little naughty, will take like a treat from the table or do something wild.
28:15
[SPEAKER_03]: She's got puppy energy even though they're around the same age.
28:17
[SPEAKER_03]: And Harper will, um,
28:22
[SPEAKER_03]: If she knows Kaya is doing something naughty, I always say to Eric, my husband, she'll almost come and rectify her, Kaia, like, almost like telling her to calm down.
28:34
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
28:35
[SPEAKER_03]: And I jokingly, I'm not even kidding you.
28:37
[SPEAKER_03]: I would always say, like, man, like, she's telling her daughter like, Kaya, calm down, they're gonna kick us out if you keep doing that.
28:46
[SPEAKER_03]: Literally, I say that to Eric all the time.
28:49
[SPEAKER_03]: I go,
28:51
[SPEAKER_03]: She, it's like she's trying to get tired of behave her best.
28:54
[SPEAKER_03]: And I promise you, I'll say, she just wants to keep, she wants to keep things steady so that we don't kick her out.
29:00
[SPEAKER_03]: And I'm like, we're not gonna, you know, we kept her baby.
29:03
[SPEAKER_03]: You know, like, we love you.
29:05
[SPEAKER_03]: And it's always this thing where she's trying to correct her bias behavior.
29:09
[SPEAKER_00]: This is the animal's voice with Ditte young.
29:15
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I would always be like,
29:20
[SPEAKER_03]: Chia is, you know, well be here, well be here, well be here, and I always just get this feeling like she's trying to prove to us like I can If she's well with my things well, then we can stay and I'm like, you're always here Yeah, so I can make her that promise.
29:36
[SPEAKER_02]: This is your forever home.
29:38
[SPEAKER_02]: Okay, just a second Harper.
29:40
[SPEAKER_02]: You don't have to.
29:41
[SPEAKER_02]: This is your forever home You don't have to overdo it
29:48
[SPEAKER_02]: She becomes very relieved.
29:51
[SPEAKER_02]: She gets more light around the heart center right now, and I ask her, but I'm pretty sure that your parents have already told you this numerous of times.
30:00
[SPEAKER_02]: Why is it different to you that I am the one telling it to you, and she says,
30:06
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't know.
30:07
[SPEAKER_02]: I think it's because you're an outsider and because you're not invested in our family.
30:15
[SPEAKER_02]: So it almost feels like because I'm objective and I put objective energy into the conversation and not being emotional about all I'm so sorry when I delivered this to her.
30:29
[SPEAKER_02]: She says,
30:30
[SPEAKER_02]: fact.
30:31
[SPEAKER_02]: It's a fact.
30:32
[SPEAKER_02]: All right, I believe you.
30:34
[SPEAKER_02]: And I'm asking Harbor, is that another way of giving you commands easier or more easily or telling you informations, more easily if it is non-biased, non-emotional, but more objective?
30:53
[SPEAKER_02]: And she says, yes, because when you have emotions,
30:59
[SPEAKER_02]: I tap into the emotions and then I over-step that boundary and become the guardian then I over-exaggerated but if you could stay neutral and just completely objective and say sit
31:14
[SPEAKER_02]: It's a car.
31:16
[SPEAKER_02]: So people are getting to the kitchen like I don't give a, I'm sorry, you know, I will lower my arousal, but in the second you're looking at me and anticipating, oh, oh, will she get up?
31:29
[SPEAKER_02]: I will get up.
31:30
[SPEAKER_02]: That makes sense.
31:31
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
31:31
[SPEAKER_02]: because you had that connect that all Eric is also extremely connected, you know, but you of course are extremely extremely connected with me, all right.
31:41
[SPEAKER_02]: I ask her, do you have any messages to Denise?
31:45
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm sitting with right now.
31:47
[SPEAKER_02]: I need you here as often as possible.
31:51
[SPEAKER_02]: It's not going to cut it with dog sitters.
31:54
[SPEAKER_02]: I enjoy that other people that I'm comfortable with around me and they are looking after us, of course.
32:01
[SPEAKER_02]: But believe me when I say, I'm a one-on-one person, one-on-one soul, one-on-one dog.
32:07
[SPEAKER_02]: You know, I don't connect easily with other people.
32:11
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't trust them 100%.
32:12
[SPEAKER_02]: That would take 10 years before I did so.
32:16
[SPEAKER_02]: So it's important to me that you are here as often as possible, and when you can't be around me, mom, just wherever you are in a hotel, on a plane, in a different city, connect with me till telepathically
32:33
[SPEAKER_02]: Visual, do the visualization of my head and my eyes, and just think I will be home in three days from now, harbor, relax, and literally Denise, I think if you had a camera on her or a doc sitter, they would see the changes on her face when you would be telepathic with her, because she understands.
32:57
[SPEAKER_02]: I am very, very, very touched by this right now, because the connection you have with Harper is more than a dog, a rescue dog, and a mom.
33:07
[SPEAKER_02]: This is family, this is soulmate contract, you would take a life for Harper.
33:14
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
33:15
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
33:17
[SPEAKER_03]: Oh, you know how you were saying earlier, she's more one-on-one and she wants you to be home a lot, it's again.
33:28
[SPEAKER_03]: Wow, um, I spend a lot of time as an actor, you know, I'm home a lot doing auditions from self-tape or like my husband's the one that's mostly either out on the road or going to the office.
33:39
[SPEAKER_03]: So I spend a lot of time at home, but when I go to the gym or I go to in person auditions or whatever, I have this sense of like guilt, even though I can spend seven hours a day with them,
33:55
[SPEAKER_03]: I the one task or the couple of tasks that I have throughout the day.
33:58
[SPEAKER_03]: I'm rushing to get home because I know That she needs me.
34:03
[SPEAKER_03]: I can't explain it and my husband's always like, you know go out and have coffee with your friends like you don't always have to rush home And I'm like I can't explain it It is like a gravitational pole that I need to be home whether we're caught on the couch or she's in another room Although she follows me in every room
34:20
[SPEAKER_03]: So that's interesting, because I'm like, how much more time?
34:22
[SPEAKER_03]: But I guess she wants more time.
34:24
[SPEAKER_03]: But with Dogs, it is, again, it's just a huge anxiety, because I know she's very particular with people.
34:31
[SPEAKER_03]: And as much as we try to keep the same constant Dog sitter, sometimes you're not available, or we try to bring family and friends in.
34:39
[SPEAKER_03]: even if they've seen the same person over and over, it doesn't matter.
34:43
[SPEAKER_03]: She will still bark at them for 20 minutes and the level of anxiety that I get, like my husband and I just went away for his birthday a couple of last week and we've only gone for literally 24 hours.
34:56
[SPEAKER_03]: We went to Malibu for the night and I was just
35:01
[SPEAKER_03]: Like, I could feel that she was not well.
35:04
[SPEAKER_03]: And, you know, eventually the dog sitter was like, she's fine, you know, he was sending me pictures.
35:08
[SPEAKER_03]: We also have cameras on them because we're a helicopter pet person when you just see what they're doing at every second.
35:14
[SPEAKER_03]: And she eventually settled in, but it was just that like knowing that, like you said, like, what, and that's my cat.
35:22
[SPEAKER_03]: That was the one on one that she needs is like literally she I feel it I feel that she needs me here and my husband doesn't get why I'm always driving home White-knuffling it like I just need to be with her
35:34
[SPEAKER_02]: You know, do you think it's a possibility for you to stay telepathically connected with our, and just give her the advice of, or, you know, the duration of time.
35:44
[SPEAKER_02]: I will be home in three hours, but right now I have to focus.
35:48
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, so when I, when I leave, I've started doing this since I got introduced to you and watching all the stuff that you've done and with telepathy tapes and all the things that I've been listening to when I leave.
35:59
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, I'll be like, okay Harper, I'm gonna go to the gym.
36:01
[SPEAKER_03]: I'll be back in an hour max and I'll try to lock eyes with her And then I'll leave them.
36:06
[SPEAKER_03]: I'll try to let it go, but I've been very diligent about like even I always let her smell things She's very curious.
36:12
[SPEAKER_03]: I was like, I eat something she's curious.
36:14
[SPEAKER_03]: She wants to know I'll put it to her nose like smell it as you can have it But this is my so I'm constantly now even more like it.
36:21
[SPEAKER_03]: I thought I was communicated them with affection But now I'm literally talking to them
36:26
[SPEAKER_03]: You know, I will tell her, I'm leaving, I'll be back.
36:29
[SPEAKER_03]: But I haven't done it where I'm at a distance yet.
36:32
[SPEAKER_02]: All right, because she's a very intelligent dog, because she eats whatever is required or she needs, which means she would lick it, but not necessarily swallow everything.
36:46
[SPEAKER_02]: And it's not that she's a picky eater, but she's a selective eater, based from what she actually needs.
36:55
[SPEAKER_03]: Oh, yeah, I'm sorry, I'm laughing, I'm laughing because yeah, it has been a journey.
37:05
[SPEAKER_03]: She, uh,
37:07
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, we're now on home.
37:08
[SPEAKER_03]: We try to cook home cooked meals, but she like will give her a portion.
37:12
[SPEAKER_03]: She's more of a nibbler.
37:13
[SPEAKER_03]: She'll come.
37:14
[SPEAKER_03]: She's a grazer.
37:15
[SPEAKER_03]: Only eats when she wants, but she'll get sick of it very quickly.
37:19
[SPEAKER_03]: So we have to alternate when we cook for her.
37:22
[SPEAKER_03]: Like, which she has in the morning.
37:24
[SPEAKER_03]: She doesn't.
37:24
[SPEAKER_03]: She won't eat again in the evening.
37:27
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, so we'll change like the different grain or the different protein.
37:31
[SPEAKER_03]: It's, yeah, it's, it's a, it's a huge hassle, right?
37:36
[SPEAKER_02]: But it tells us a lot, they've been talking about helicopter parents, you know, but I think it's smart.
37:44
[SPEAKER_02]: I think it's intelligent and I've seen this with other animals.
37:48
[SPEAKER_02]: Just you know,
37:49
[SPEAKER_02]: I would recommend you to give her one thing in the morning a different thing in the evening and switch the next morning.
37:57
[SPEAKER_02]: A third thing and number four in the evening, switch again.
38:01
[SPEAKER_02]: So it goes from a variety of grains, fiber, protein, omega, grains, fiber, protein, omega, you know.
38:11
[SPEAKER_03]: There's short periods where we were like on and off cooking because sometimes it just gets to be a lot.
38:15
[SPEAKER_03]: So she was like on cable.
38:17
[SPEAKER_03]: We got her like open farm like this really nice.
38:20
[SPEAKER_03]: And then like these and so we would have to like we had like five different we have like these these are organic ones that it's like basically rotisserie chicken and a can.
38:28
[SPEAKER_03]: It's really good for them.
38:29
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, but we would open one and then we would put kibble in it.
38:33
[SPEAKER_03]: We would have to change it to like a tune like a sardine The neck is she just if you cannot give it to her twice and it's almost like if you try to
38:40
[SPEAKER_03]: be like okay I gave it to her in the evening she'll forget about it in the morning if you give her the same thing you gave her in the evening and the morning she will sniff it look at you and like walk away you have any questions when it comes to health concerns um i do she i don't know how to okay so i guess this is more like mental health for her um she is on a low dose of
39:08
[SPEAKER_03]: My husband and I because she's can be very anxious.
39:12
[SPEAKER_03]: She has separation anxiety and she'll bite through wires or shoes when we're gone.
39:19
[SPEAKER_03]: She'll like destroy things and so she's been on it for
39:24
[SPEAKER_03]: I was like three years, it got really bad when we started taking her daughter places.
39:31
[SPEAKER_03]: And I think that created a lot of anxiety having her daughter come with us.
39:35
[SPEAKER_03]: And we're just debating on whether to keep her on or off of it.
39:40
[SPEAKER_03]: It changes her personality pretty drastically.
39:43
[SPEAKER_03]: She's more mellow, but she's still a little way, you know.
39:46
[SPEAKER_03]: But she's still, she's a lot more mellow.
39:47
[SPEAKER_03]: There was like a few days, like a week where we took her off of it, just to kind of see what it was when she was back to being really.
39:54
[SPEAKER_03]: Like like you said, you know, um, and I just don't know that I love her being on it for so long.
40:02
[SPEAKER_03]: You know, I tend to be a little bit more homeopathic with them, but I also don't want to
40:12
[SPEAKER_03]: to keep on it.
40:14
[SPEAKER_00]: This is the animal's voice with Ditte Young.
40:18
[SPEAKER_02]: Again, I always have a huge respect for not being the veterinarian here when I touch these topics, right?
40:24
[SPEAKER_02]: I don't want to be law-suited here in the US, but to be honest, when I ask her, so we have prozac how is that working out?
40:32
[SPEAKER_02]: She says, it's not working out because I am still, I still have the bus inside of myself.
40:37
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm still confused, I still have all these emotions, but it's numbing my system so that I can't react.
40:44
[SPEAKER_02]: It's almost like sedating me, right?
40:48
[SPEAKER_02]: Um, and I ask her what homeopathy be better for you, and she says, uh, yeah, but you need a very high dosage homeopathy to balance this.
40:59
[SPEAKER_02]: And she says, um, what will help me out is more communication and stability.
41:05
[SPEAKER_02]: Stability in general is, you know, when you're just home with us, my reaction decreases.
41:16
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, no, yes and no, I mean, she's still pretty reactive even when she's on Prozac, but when she was off of it, it was worse.
41:25
[SPEAKER_03]: I mean, she still is very reactive.
41:27
[SPEAKER_03]: Like she'll react to almost anything that walks by her door in the front lawn or for walking or she's still But she's not as bad, but it's still there.
41:34
[SPEAKER_03]: I mean, it's like I think the doctor said what does hire and we were just like, no, we don't we don't want to do that.
41:40
[SPEAKER_03]: Like this is enough
41:42
[SPEAKER_02]: But in these, I wouldn't recommend you to take it from her, you know, because it's going to be too drastic, but you could lower the dosage and increase homeopathy and communicate even better with her telepathically, which means you need to be one step ahead of her all the time.
42:02
[SPEAKER_02]: an example to be very specific.
42:04
[SPEAKER_02]: I would tell her even though she's not as reactive with you in Eric, I would still inform her now I'm getting out from my chair and then get out from your chair.
42:14
[SPEAKER_02]: Sit down five minutes.
42:16
[SPEAKER_02]: Now I'm going to the bathroom, sit down five minutes.
42:20
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm going to the bathroom and then because in those sentences you'll give her everything she has just asked for throughout
42:29
[SPEAKER_02]: What is my task?
42:30
[SPEAKER_02]: What am I supposed to do?
42:32
[SPEAKER_02]: More commands, commands, commands, and the leadership of you stepping over the queen and telling her, I am your parent, another way around.
42:42
[SPEAKER_02]: It is nothing to do with you.
42:44
[SPEAKER_02]: I have to separate myself from you, which will also end in the long run, help her out with the separation anxiety.
42:53
[SPEAKER_02]: Can you see how one sentence and one,
42:56
[SPEAKER_02]: different way of training her, could, could be helpful in many situations in her life?
43:03
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, that makes sense.
43:04
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, all right, all right, great.
43:06
[SPEAKER_02]: Do you have any last questions for Harper?
43:11
[SPEAKER_03]: Nene, what does that mean to her?
43:14
[SPEAKER_03]: She's still communicating with him, she's seeing him.
43:18
[SPEAKER_02]: is that a name, she says, I see everything that you don't see as humanity, because I experience everything, again, I take in all these informations.
43:34
[SPEAKER_02]: I ask her, what do you pick up from the name Nene, when I say this out loud, and she gets extremely calm, extremely serene, and she becomes calm because Nene's energy is like,
43:56
[SPEAKER_02]: Oh, how can I explain this to you?
43:59
[SPEAKER_02]: If we were a tribe, Nene would be the king of the tribe.
44:04
[SPEAKER_02]: He would be the leader of a tribe, without being dominant or too self-centered but a true king's energy would be calm.
44:17
[SPEAKER_02]: peaceful, embraceful, and everyone would search for niness, attention, and love, and affection, because the energy would be so loving.
44:27
[SPEAKER_02]: Who, who was Nene?
44:30
[SPEAKER_03]: Uh, Nene was another fluffy baby that we had, um, and they had a really good, really loving, um,
44:42
[SPEAKER_03]: relationship.
44:43
[SPEAKER_03]: It was, it was really beautiful to see, um, and he's not with us anymore.
44:49
[SPEAKER_02]: But did you see the, the king in, in that, personality?
44:57
[SPEAKER_03]: Ish, he was very, yeah, I guess you could say, yeah, I guess he was very regal.
45:02
[SPEAKER_03]: Like he did, he was just kind of like, you know, okay, I'm all about modding him like right now, but like, yeah, he's just,
45:10
[SPEAKER_03]: It just would walk into a room all elegant and just sit there and just be very calm.
45:16
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I guess literally what you're saying.
45:18
[SPEAKER_03]: So you know sometimes sometimes you have to talk it out with yourself to be like, oh yeah.
45:22
[SPEAKER_02]: Right.
45:24
[SPEAKER_02]: That mellow, you know, that I feel so relaxed, there's a show constable, even though it's a baby.
45:32
[SPEAKER_02]: It doesn't matter.
45:33
[SPEAKER_02]: It's a personality.
45:35
[SPEAKER_02]: It's a personality.
45:36
[SPEAKER_02]: All right.
45:37
[SPEAKER_02]: Denise, I will say goodbye to Harper and then go back to you for feedback, so just a second, Harper.
45:44
[SPEAKER_02]: Thank you so much for communicating with me.
45:46
[SPEAKER_02]: It has been amazing that you wanted to connect me even though you were a bit reluctant and a bit skeptic, but I want to tell you that I'm very proud that you did.
45:57
[SPEAKER_02]: on Harper says it wasn't that bad.
46:00
[SPEAKER_02]: So this is like kind of trusting, kind of trusting in other people because and I ask her what was trustworthy about this and she says what you say is what you do, which is also
46:15
[SPEAKER_02]: Affirming to the advice I gave you, I will get up from the chair, sit down, et cetera, et cetera, because in the second you start doing that more and more often, you become more predictable, and eventually other people, guests, dog sitters, will copy that.
46:36
[SPEAKER_02]: And then we can create a more predictable world around Harbor.
46:41
[SPEAKER_03]: not it.
46:42
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
46:42
[SPEAKER_03]: Okay.
46:43
[SPEAKER_03]: Right.
46:44
[SPEAKER_02]: What do you think about the session Denise?
46:48
[SPEAKER_03]: Oh, it was really eye-opening.
46:50
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, just the way that you were describing her without even me saying anything to a tea.
46:58
[SPEAKER_03]: Um,
47:00
[SPEAKER_03]: yeah, it was very insightful.
47:02
[SPEAKER_03]: I was really curious about her past because, you know, I just I needed to understand her behaviors.
47:10
[SPEAKER_03]: And so even though I didn't, I don't know her past as a mystery to my husband and I, we have no idea.
47:15
[SPEAKER_03]: We literally, she was rescued off the street here in Los Angeles.
47:20
[SPEAKER_03]: I think she might have been like, she was under a year.
47:25
[SPEAKER_03]: And my, my husband's friend found her and couldn't keep her because he had too many dogs and he was like, you guys want a dog and he's just showed up with her on a leash and she was a dirty matted dirty, but we took her in and then we found out she was pregnant under an under a year old.
47:40
[SPEAKER_03]: She was pregnant so we kept her baby, but so much of her, she spent the majority of her life with us.
47:46
[SPEAKER_03]: And so we didn't understand like, why are you cowering like we've never showed you that?
47:52
[SPEAKER_03]: I can't confirm what you said about the motorcycle and being on a chain.
47:56
[SPEAKER_03]: I don't doubt it, and it's very possible because just the way that she is, she hates men.
48:02
[SPEAKER_03]: The only man that she likes is my husband, you know?
48:05
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, and we always try to get a female doctor for that's not always possible.
48:10
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, and whenever we do get a male sitter, it's hell.
48:13
[SPEAKER_03]: Like, it is literally hell.
48:14
[SPEAKER_03]: She will not.
48:15
[SPEAKER_03]: She gives them hell.
48:17
[SPEAKER_03]: She is just not having.
48:20
[SPEAKER_03]: Um, so that was very insightful.
48:22
[SPEAKER_03]: It was very insightful.
48:23
[SPEAKER_03]: The whole, you know, tell her what you're going to do and
48:27
[SPEAKER_03]: The command is very important as an owner.
48:30
[SPEAKER_03]: I definitely need to step up with that because it's always something intuitively that I know that she needed.
48:35
[SPEAKER_03]: Below happens you forget you're just tired of reiterating sometimes you're just running out the door.
48:41
[SPEAKER_03]: But if it means that it's going to be helpful for her now that I have that information, I'm tentosed down, I'm going to do it.
48:49
[SPEAKER_03]: Because again, I kind of knew that she needed that intuitively, I've been doing that.
48:56
[SPEAKER_03]: But life, you know, I reinforcement is not necessarily where strong as to.
49:00
[SPEAKER_03]: I'll be good at it for like a month and then life happens and I forget, you know.
49:04
[SPEAKER_02]: That's wonderful.
49:05
[SPEAKER_02]: And I think, uh, eventually, uh, when I work, I'm a licensed therapist as well.
49:11
[SPEAKER_02]: And when I work with shock and trauma,
49:13
[SPEAKER_02]: And we are up against air quote up against the hyper vigilant souls in general to a fallback at it's going to take a while and it's going to take a lot of predictions in in the life of Harper over and over and over again.
49:28
[SPEAKER_02]: And when you can see the result of your work keep doing it.
49:33
[SPEAKER_02]: Don't stop because then you're going to re-trigger and re-traumatize her and then you can start all over again.
49:39
[SPEAKER_02]: So if it works keep doing the good work
49:43
[SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, definitely.
49:45
[SPEAKER_03]: That's something also to keep in mind because you know, I do a lot of self tapes in my studio here at home and sometimes you have to get loud because it's like a dramatic scene where you're playing a cop and you have to scream and she just turns into a shell and I try to like put like um ambient music for her in the other room.
50:04
[SPEAKER_03]: So like so that she won't hear it, but she will always run back in and just be waiting at the door just like so upset and I am going to have to figure out how I can get her out of the house so she doesn't hear that because it makes me so sad.
50:17
[SPEAKER_02]: Or, or mentally prepare her today, I'm doing an audition, I will scream, I will put ambient music on, give me 20 minutes, and I'll get out of the room again, and it is me, and I'm okay.
50:33
[SPEAKER_02]: I'm by myself, I'm not being attacked or anything, you know.
50:37
[SPEAKER_02]: So that's you understand.
50:39
[SPEAKER_02]: Oh, this is what my mom told me is going to go down, now it's going down.
50:44
[SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
50:45
[SPEAKER_02]: What was your experience with me as an animal communicator and being part of the animal's voice?
50:52
[SPEAKER_02]: It has been such a privilege to talk to you.
50:54
[SPEAKER_03]: I couldn't have had for asked for a better experience.
51:00
[SPEAKER_03]: I have so much more insight on Harper.
51:02
[SPEAKER_03]: It gives me relief.
51:04
[SPEAKER_03]: It gives me the tools that I need to move
51:14
[SPEAKER_03]: For me, really, um, my intuition, like you definitely shot a bigger and brighter light on certain aspects that I knew about my connection with Harper, but it just reinforced that like, I've had my finger on the poles.
51:32
[SPEAKER_03]: I just,
51:34
[SPEAKER_03]: You've helped me in that way to be like, just listen to your intuition.
51:38
[SPEAKER_03]: You're communicating literally with her all the time.
51:41
[SPEAKER_03]: And she's talking to you.
51:43
[SPEAKER_03]: And you definitely gave me insights to things that I'm not sensitive to, that now I'm aware of.
51:48
[SPEAKER_03]: And it's helpful.
51:49
[SPEAKER_02]: I mean, that's what it means the world to me.
51:54
[SPEAKER_00]: This is the animal's voice with Ditte Young.
51:57
[SPEAKER_02]: So nice to meet you, Denise.
51:59
[SPEAKER_02]: And maybe I'll see you.
52:00
[SPEAKER_02]: Say hi to Eric.
52:01
[SPEAKER_03]: I will.
52:02
[SPEAKER_03]: Okay, thank you.
52:04
[SPEAKER_00]: This is the animal's voice with Ditte Young.