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Game Time: Red Flags & Green Lights: Navigating Midlife Dating Games with Renee Rouleau · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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  Foreign.
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  You
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  know,
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  it
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  would
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  not
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  be
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  the
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  iconic
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  midlife
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  if
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  we
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  did
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  not
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  play
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  a
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  game.
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  Exactly.
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  We
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  love
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  games.
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  Are
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  you
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  ready
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  for
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  another
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  game?
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  Yes.
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  I've
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  got
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  a
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  fun
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  one,
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  lady.
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  This
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  one.
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  This
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  one
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  is
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  called
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  Red
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  Flag,
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  Green
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  light.
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  So.
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  Okay,
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  we
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  love
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  that.
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  Yes.
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  We're
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  gonna.
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  We're
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  gonna.
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  I'm
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  gonna
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  describe
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  a
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  man,
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  like,
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  some
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  tendencies
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  or
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  something
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  he
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  does,
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  and
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  you
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  say
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  if
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  it's
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  a.
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  Or
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  a
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  green
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  light
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  for
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  potential
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  midlife
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  dating
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  situations.
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  Okay.
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  Okay.
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  He's
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  never
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  been
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  married.
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  Green.
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  Green
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  light.
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  Okay.
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  So,
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  like,
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  if
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  he's,
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  let's
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  say
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  50,
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  55
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  and
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  never
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  been
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  married,
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  that's
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  okay,
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  right?
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  Let's.
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  Let's
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  not.
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  Let's
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  not
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  make
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  assumptions
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  here.
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  Okay.
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  Okay.
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  Good
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  call.
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  Some
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  people
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  are
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  late
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  bloomers.
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  That's
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  true.
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  That's
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  true.
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  And
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  that's
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  okay.
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  And
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  that's
• 0:55
  okay.
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  That's
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  okay.
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  That's
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  absolutely
• 0:57
  okay.
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  Okay.
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  He's
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  in
• 1:00
  his
• 1:00
  50s
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  and
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  he
• 1:02
  lives
• 1:02
  with
• 1:02
  his
• 1:02
  mom.
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  That
• 1:04
  would
• 1:04
  be
• 1:05
  a
• 1:05
  red
• 1:05
  flag.
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  Yeah.
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  Yeah.
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  You're
• 1:08
  like.
• 1:08
  And
• 1:09
  in
• 1:09
  the
• 1:09
  basement,
• 1:10
  too.
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  Like.
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  I
• 1:11
  know,
• 1:11
  right?
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  But.
• 1:12
  But
• 1:12
  I
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  mean.
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  I
• 1:13
  mean,
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  except,
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  I
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  mean,
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  is
• 1:15
  she
• 1:15
  elderly?
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  He's
• 1:17
  a
• 1:17
  caretaker
• 1:18
  for
• 1:18
  her.
• 1:19
  You
• 1:19
  know,
• 1:20
  depends
• 1:20
  on
• 1:20
  the
• 1:20
  situation.
• 1:21
  But
• 1:22
  in
• 1:22
  general,
• 1:23
  I
• 1:23
  think
• 1:23
  most
• 1:23
  women
• 1:24
  would
• 1:24
  like
• 1:24
  an
• 1:24
  independent.
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  A
• 1:25
  man
• 1:25
  that
• 1:26
  lives
• 1:27
  independently.
• 1:27
  Yes.
• 1:28
  You
• 1:28
  know,
• 1:28
  or
• 1:28
  not
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  with
• 1:29
  his
• 1:29
  mom.
• 1:29
  Exactly.
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  He
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  asks
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  you
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  for
• 1:33
  your
• 1:33
  Venmo
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  in
• 1:34
  the
• 1:34
  first
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  week.
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  I
• 1:37
  think
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  that's
• 1:38
  a
• 1:38
  green
• 1:38
  light.
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  Is
• 1:39
  he
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  sending
• 1:40
  me,
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  like,
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  is
• 1:42
  he
• 1:42
  reimbursing
• 1:43
  me
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  for
• 1:43
  half
• 1:43
  the
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  meal
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  I
• 1:44
  paid
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  or.
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  Could
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  be.
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  I
• 1:46
  don't
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  know.
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  Yeah,
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  I
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  don't.
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  I
• 1:49
  don't.
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  I
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  don't
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  know.
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  I
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  haven't
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  had
• 1:51
  many
• 1:51
  Venmo
• 1:52
  experiences,
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  so
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  I
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  don't
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  know.
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  What's
• 1:53
  there
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  an
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  ulterior
• 1:54
  motive
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  there?
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  That's.
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  No.
• 1:56
  That's
• 1:56
  a
• 1:56
  good
• 1:56
  question.
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  Yeah,
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  I
• 1:57
  mean,
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  I
• 1:58
  mean,
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  maybe.
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  Maybe
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  a
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  true
• 1:59
  gentleman
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  would
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  all
• 2:00
  of
• 2:00
  a
• 2:00
  sudden
• 2:00
  Venmo
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  me
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  because
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  he's
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  like,
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  hey,
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  let
• 2:03
  me
• 2:03
  take
• 2:03
  care
• 2:03
  of
• 2:04
  that
• 2:04
  Uber
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  that
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  you.
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  That
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  you
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  took.
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  I'd
• 2:07
  like
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  to
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  cover
• 2:07
  that
• 2:07
  cost.
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  Or.
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  I
• 2:08
  don't
• 2:09
  know.
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  As
• 2:10
  long
• 2:10
  as
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  he's
• 2:11
  sending
• 2:11
  payment
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  and
• 2:12
  not
• 2:12
  payment
• 2:12
  requests.
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  Oh,
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  okay.
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  Oh,
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  so
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  sending
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  a
• 2:16
  Venmo
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  means
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  he's
• 2:17
  asking
• 2:17
  for
• 2:17
  money?
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  Yeah.
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  Oh,
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  okay.
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  Sorry.
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  I
• 2:20
  thought
• 2:20
  it
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  just
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  meant,
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  like,
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  share
• 2:21
  your
• 2:21
  Venmo.
• 2:22
  I
• 2:22
  don't
• 2:22
  know.
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  Okay,
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  so
• 2:23
  yeah.
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  Yes,
• 2:24
  that
• 2:24
  would
• 2:24
  be
• 2:25
  a
• 2:25
  red
• 2:25
  flag.
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  Yes.
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  His
• 2:27
  ex,
• 2:28
  who's
• 2:28
  a
• 2:29
  girl,
• 2:29
  is
• 2:30
  still
• 2:30
  his
• 2:30
  best
• 2:30
  friend.
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  His
• 2:33
  ex,
• 2:33
  who
• 2:33
  is
• 2:33
  a
• 2:33
  girl,
• 2:34
  is
• 2:34
  still
• 2:34
  his
• 2:34
  best
• 2:34
  friend.
• 2:35
  Green
• 2:35
  light.
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  I
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  have
• 2:36
  no
• 2:36
  issues
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  with
• 2:37
  that.
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  Okay,
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  so
• 2:38
  there's
• 2:39
  no
• 2:39
  jealousy?
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  No.
• 2:40
  I
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  mean,
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  I'M
• 2:41
  I
• 2:42
  think
• 2:42
  it's,
• 2:43
  you
• 2:43
  know,
• 2:43
  it's
• 2:43
  important
• 2:43
  to
• 2:44
  understand
• 2:44
  the
• 2:45
  state
• 2:45
  of
• 2:45
  the
• 2:45
  relationship
• 2:45
  and
• 2:46
  what
• 2:46
  it
• 2:46
  is.
• 2:46
  But
• 2:47
  I
• 2:48
  think,
• 2:48
  you
• 2:48
  know,
• 2:49
  in
• 2:49
  this
• 2:49
  life,
• 2:50
  you
• 2:50
  know,
• 2:50
  there's
• 2:51
  very
• 2:51
  few
• 2:51
  people
• 2:52
  that
• 2:52
  we
• 2:52
  have
• 2:53
  true,
• 2:53
  close
• 2:54
  connections
• 2:54
  with,
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  and
• 2:55
  if.
• 2:55
  If
• 2:56
  they're
• 2:56
  great
• 2:56
  friends
• 2:57
  and.
• 2:57
  And
• 2:58
  it
• 2:58
  has.
• 2:59
  It's
• 2:59
  clear
• 2:59
  that
• 3:00
  there's
• 3:00
  not
• 3:00
  something
• 3:00
  to
• 3:01
  it.
• 3:01
  I'm
• 3:01
  going
• 3:01
  to
• 3:02
  give
• 3:02
  the
• 3:02
  benefit
• 3:02
  of
• 3:02
  the
• 3:03
  doubt.
• 3:03
  Okay.
• 3:04
  He
• 3:04
  has
• 3:05
  no
• 3:05
  social
• 3:06
  media
• 3:06
  footprint
• 3:07
  or
• 3:07
  presence
• 3:08
  at
• 3:08
  all.
• 3:10
  Green
• 3:10
  light.
• 3:11
  Oh,
• 3:11
  okay,
• 3:12
  so
• 3:12
  that
• 3:13
  would
• 3:13
  not
• 3:13
  scare
• 3:13
  you
• 3:13
  off?
• 3:15
  No,
• 3:15
  I
• 3:15
  mean,
• 3:15
  I
• 3:16
  think.
• 3:16
  I
• 3:17
  mean,
• 3:17
  some
• 3:17
  people
• 3:17
  are
• 3:17
  private
• 3:18
  people.
• 3:18
  You
• 3:19
  know,
• 3:19
  my
• 3:19
  late
• 3:20
  husband,
• 3:20
  he
• 3:20
  had
• 3:20
  a
• 3:20
  little
• 3:20
  social
• 3:21
  media
• 3:21
  presence,
• 3:21
  but
• 3:23
  my
• 3:23
  husband
• 3:23
  didn't
• 3:24
  trust
• 3:24
  anybody
• 3:25
  and
• 3:26
  he
• 3:26
  didn't
• 3:27
  like
• 3:28
  himself
• 3:28
  out
• 3:28
  there,
• 3:29
  and
• 3:30
  he
• 3:30
  just
• 3:31
  liked
• 3:31
  privacy.
• 3:31
  And
• 3:31
  the
• 3:32
  reality
• 3:32
  is
• 3:33
  I,
• 3:33
  you
• 3:34
  know,
• 3:34
  I
• 3:34
  kind
• 3:35
  of
• 3:35
  can't
• 3:35
  be
• 3:35
  that
• 3:35
  private
• 3:36
  because,
• 3:37
  you
• 3:38
  know,
• 3:38
  my
• 3:38
  name
• 3:39
  is
• 3:39
  my
• 3:39
  brand
• 3:40
  and,
• 3:40
  you
• 3:40
  know,
• 3:40
  I
• 3:41
  have
• 3:41
  to
• 3:41
  have
• 3:41
  a
• 3:41
  presence.
• 3:41
  But
• 3:42
  I
• 3:42
  am
• 3:42
  far
• 3:43
  more
• 3:43
  private
• 3:43
  now
• 3:44
  than
• 3:45
  I
• 3:45
  ever
• 3:45
  have
• 3:45
  been
• 3:46
  because.
• 3:46
  And,
• 3:47
  like,
• 3:47
  I
• 3:47
  don't
• 3:48
  post
• 3:49
  my
• 3:49
  love
• 3:49
  life.
• 3:49
  I
• 3:50
  haven't
• 3:50
  posted
• 3:50
  any
• 3:51
  pictures
• 3:51
  of
• 3:51
  my
• 3:51
  relationship
• 3:52
  with
• 3:52
  my
• 3:52
  boyfriend
• 3:53
  at
• 3:53
  all
• 3:54
  because
• 3:54
  there's
• 3:55
  power
• 3:55
  and
• 3:55
  privacy.
• 3:56
  So
• 3:57
  I
• 3:57
  think
• 3:57
  that
• 3:57
  we've
• 3:57
  all
• 3:58
  gotten
• 3:58
  kind
• 3:58
  of
• 3:58
  used
• 3:58
  to
• 3:59
  that.
• 3:59
  You
• 3:59
  have
• 3:59
  to,
• 4:00
  you
• 4:00
  know,
• 4:00
  have
• 4:00
  a
• 4:00
  presence
• 4:01
  online.
• 4:01
  But
• 4:02
  now,
• 4:02
  I
• 4:03
  mean,
• 4:03
  are
• 4:03
  they
• 4:04
  on
• 4:04
  LinkedIn?
• 4:04
  Are
• 4:04
  they
• 4:05
  somewhere?
• 4:06
  I
• 4:06
  don't
• 4:06
  know.
• 4:08
  It
• 4:08
  just.
• 4:08
  It
• 4:08
  depends
• 4:08
  on
• 4:09
  what
• 4:09
  they
• 4:09
  do
• 4:09
  for
• 4:09
  the
• 4:09
  living.
• 4:09
  A
• 4:10
  living
• 4:10
  as
• 4:10
  well.
• 4:11
  That
• 4:11
  brings
• 4:11
  me
• 4:11
  to
• 4:11
  my
• 4:11
  next
• 4:12
  one.
• 4:12
  He's
• 4:13
  charming,
• 4:13
  but
• 4:14
  vague
• 4:14
  about
• 4:15
  his
• 4:15
  job.
• 4:17
  I
• 4:17
  would
• 4:17
  say
• 4:18
  that
• 4:18
  is
• 4:19
  a
• 4:19
  red
• 4:19
  flag.
• 4:20
  Okay,
• 4:21
  so
• 4:21
  you'd
• 4:21
  say
• 4:22
  hold
• 4:22
  off
• 4:22
  on
• 4:22
  that
• 4:22
  one
• 4:23
  maybe.
• 4:23
  And
• 4:24
  when
• 4:24
  in
• 4:24
  doubt,
• 4:24
  hire
• 4:24
  a
• 4:25
  private
• 4:25
  investigator.
• 4:26
  I
• 4:26
  mean,
• 4:26
  this
• 4:26
  is
• 4:27
  the
• 4:27
  thing,
• 4:27
  too.
• 4:27
  Like,
• 4:28
  I
• 4:28
  don't,
• 4:29
  you
• 4:29
  know,
• 4:29
  I
• 4:30
  mean,
• 4:30
  just.
• 4:31
  Ladies,
• 4:31
  you
• 4:31
  have
• 4:31
  that
• 4:31
  in
• 4:32
  your
• 4:32
  back
• 4:32
  pocket,
• 4:32
  you
• 4:33
  know,
• 4:33
  like,
• 4:33
  especially
• 4:33
  if
• 4:34
  you've
• 4:34
  been
• 4:34
  dating
• 4:34
  someone
• 4:34
  for
• 4:35
  a
• 4:35
  while
• 4:35
  or
• 4:35
  something.
• 4:36
  Like,
• 4:37
  I
• 4:37
  mean,
• 4:37
  you
• 4:38
  hate
• 4:38
  to
• 4:38
  do
• 4:38
  that,
• 4:38
  but,
• 4:39
  I
• 4:39
  mean,
• 4:39
  if
• 4:39
  you
• 4:39
  really
• 4:40
  want
• 4:40
  to
• 4:40
  know
• 4:40
  and
• 4:41
  you
• 4:41
  don't
• 4:41
  have
• 4:41
  time
• 4:41
  to
• 4:42
  waste,
• 4:43
  hire
• 4:43
  a
• 4:44
  PI
• 4:44
  if
• 4:44
  you
• 4:44
  really
• 4:45
  want
• 4:45
  to.
• 4:46
  Yeah,
• 4:46
  good
• 4:46
  point,
• 4:47
  Good
• 4:47
  point.
• 4:48
  I
• 4:49
  mean,
• 4:50
  they'll
• 4:50
  find
• 4:50
  everything
• 4:50
  on
• 4:51
  someone.
• 4:51
  Trust
• 4:51
  me,
• 4:51
  they're
• 4:52
  good
• 4:52
  at
• 4:52
  their
• 4:52
  job.
• 4:52
  Real
• 4:52
  quick.
• 4:55
  Okay,
• 4:56
  he
• 4:56
  is
• 4:57
  15
• 4:57
  years
• 4:57
  younger
• 4:58
  than
• 4:58
  you.
• 5:01
  Green
• 5:02
  light.
• 5:03
  Green
• 5:03
  light.
• 5:03
  Whatever
• 5:03
  works.
• 5:04
  Whatever
• 5:04
  works.
• 5:05
  Okay.
• 5:06
  He
• 5:07
  refuses
• 5:07
  to
• 5:07
  take
• 5:08
  selfies
• 5:08
  with
• 5:09
  you.
• 5:10
  He
• 5:10
  refuses
• 5:12
  or,
• 5:12
  like,
• 5:13
  be
• 5:13
  in
• 5:13
  pictures
• 5:13
  with
• 5:14
  you?
• 5:15
  Well,
• 5:15
  I
• 5:15
  mean,
• 5:16
  I
• 5:16
  don't
• 5:16
  post
• 5:17
  pictures
• 5:17
  of
• 5:17
  me
• 5:17
  and
• 5:17
  my
• 5:18
  boyfriend,
• 5:18
  but
• 5:18
  we
• 5:19
  take
• 5:19
  selfies.
• 5:20
  Do
• 5:20
  you
• 5:20
  mean
• 5:20
  taking
• 5:21
  selfies
• 5:21
  and
• 5:21
  posting
• 5:22
  it
• 5:22
  and
• 5:22
  sharing
• 5:22
  it?
• 5:24
  Well,
• 5:24
  then
• 5:24
  it's
• 5:25
  a
• 5:25
  green
• 5:25
  light
• 5:25
  because
• 5:25
  some
• 5:26
  people
• 5:26
  are
• 5:26
  private,
• 5:26
  you
• 5:27
  know,
• 5:27
  I
• 5:27
  mean,
• 5:28
  I
• 5:28
  And
• 5:29
  I
• 5:29
  just,
• 5:29
  I
• 5:30
  think
• 5:30
  that
• 5:30
  again,
• 5:31
  there's
• 5:31
  power
• 5:31
  and
• 5:32
  privacy.
• 5:32
  So
• 5:33
  I
• 5:33
  don't,
• 5:33
  I
• 5:33
  mean,
• 5:34
  I
• 5:34
  have
• 5:34
  to
• 5:34
  understand
• 5:34
  the
• 5:34
  context
• 5:35
  of
• 5:35
  it.
• 5:37
  But
• 5:37
  also
• 5:37
  some
• 5:38
  people,
• 5:38
  which
• 5:38
  I
• 5:38
  love,
• 5:40
  like,
• 5:41
  some
• 5:41
  people
• 5:41
  are
• 5:42
  very
• 5:42
  conscious
• 5:43
  of
• 5:43
  when
• 5:43
  they're
• 5:44
  out
• 5:44
  with
• 5:44
  people
• 5:45
  to
• 5:45
  not
• 5:45
  be
• 5:46
  on
• 5:46
  their
• 5:46
  phones.
• 5:47
  Right.
• 5:48
  And
• 5:48
  like,
• 5:48
  why
• 5:49
  do
• 5:49
  we
• 5:49
  need
• 5:49
  to
• 5:49
  have
• 5:49
  a
• 5:49
  picture
• 5:50
  of
• 5:50
  every
• 5:50
  occasion?
• 5:52
  Like,
• 5:53
  we
• 5:53
  don't.
• 5:53
  Like,
• 5:53
  how
• 5:54
  about
• 5:54
  we
• 5:54
  just
• 5:54
  put
• 5:54
  our
• 5:54
  phones
• 5:55
  away
• 5:55
  and
• 5:55
  we'd
• 5:55
  be
• 5:55
  present?
• 5:56
  So
• 5:56
  I
• 5:56
  think
• 5:56
  it
• 5:56
  just
• 5:57
  depends
• 5:57
  on
• 5:57
  the
• 5:57
  context
• 5:58
  of
• 5:58
  what
• 5:58
  that
• 5:59
  is.
• 6:02
  Yeah,
• 6:03
  so
• 6:03
  it's
• 6:03
  kind
• 6:03
  of
• 6:04
  depends.
• 6:05
  But
• 6:05
  I
• 6:05
  think,
• 6:06
  but
• 6:06
  I
• 6:06
  think,
• 6:08
  I
• 6:08
  think
• 6:08
  we
• 6:08
  need
• 6:09
  to
• 6:09
  be
• 6:09
  taking
• 6:09
  less
• 6:09
  selfies,
• 6:10
  basically
• 6:11
  what
• 6:11
  it
• 6:11
  is,
• 6:11
  Right.
• 6:12
  We
• 6:12
  don't
• 6:12
  need
• 6:12
  to
• 6:12
  take
• 6:13
  selfies
• 6:13
  and
• 6:13
  have
• 6:13
  to
• 6:13
  document
• 6:14
  every
• 6:14
  moment.
• 6:16
  I
• 6:16
  think
• 6:17
  sometimes
• 6:18
  just
• 6:18
  being
• 6:18
  present
• 6:18
  and
• 6:19
  not
• 6:19
  having
• 6:19
  our
• 6:19
  cameras
• 6:20
  and
• 6:20
  phones
• 6:20
  out
• 6:21
  is
• 6:21
  nice
• 6:21
  too.
• 6:22
  Yeah.
• 6:23
  He
• 6:24
  only
• 6:24
  text,
• 6:25
  never
• 6:25
  calls.
• 6:27
  Well,
• 6:27
  I
• 6:27
  think,
• 6:28
  I
• 6:28
  think
• 6:28
  it
• 6:28
  just,
• 6:28
  I
• 6:29
  mean,
• 6:29
  I'll
• 6:30
  say
• 6:30
  a
• 6:30
  green
• 6:30
  light
• 6:31
  only
• 6:31
  because
• 6:33
  we
• 6:34
  can't
• 6:34
  always
• 6:34
  assume
• 6:36
  that
• 6:36
  people
• 6:36
  are
• 6:36
  doing
• 6:37
  something
• 6:37
  nefarious.
• 6:38
  Right.
• 6:39
  So
• 6:40
  we,
• 6:41
  it's
• 6:42
  like
• 6:43
  listen
• 6:44
  to
• 6:44
  what
• 6:44
  they're
• 6:44
  saying,
• 6:45
  I
• 6:45
  guess.
• 6:45
  I
• 6:46
  mean,
• 6:46
  some
• 6:46
  people.
• 6:47
  Now
• 6:47
  I'm
• 6:47
  in
• 6:47
  a
• 6:47
  long
• 6:47
  distance
• 6:48
  relationship.
• 6:49
  He
• 6:49
  happens
• 6:49
  to
• 6:49
  like,
• 6:50
  you
• 6:51
  know,
• 6:51
  he
• 6:52
  enjoys
• 6:52
  talking
• 6:52
  on
• 6:52
  the
• 6:53
  phone.
• 6:54
  My
• 6:54
  husband
• 6:55
  hated
• 6:55
  talking
• 6:55
  on
• 6:56
  the
• 6:56
  phone.
• 6:56
  Now
• 6:57
  we
• 6:57
  live
• 6:57
  together,
• 6:57
  so
• 6:57
  that's
• 6:58
  a
• 6:58
  different
• 6:58
  story.
• 6:58
  But
• 6:58
  I
• 6:59
  could
• 6:59
  never
• 6:59
  be
• 6:59
  in
• 6:59
  a
• 6:59
  long
• 6:59
  distance
• 7:00
  relationship
• 7:00
  with
• 7:01
  my
• 7:01
  late
• 7:02
  husband
• 7:02
  because
• 7:02
  it
• 7:03
  never
• 7:03
  would
• 7:03
  have
• 7:03
  worked
• 7:03
  because
• 7:03
  he
• 7:04
  didn't
• 7:04
  like
• 7:04
  to
• 7:04
  talk
• 7:04
  on
• 7:04
  the
• 7:04
  phone.
• 7:05
  And
• 7:05
  that's
• 7:06
  okay.
• 7:06
  He
• 7:06
  didn't
• 7:06
  like
• 7:06
  to
• 7:07
  talk
• 7:07
  on
• 7:07
  the
• 7:07
  phone.
• 7:08
  That
• 7:08
  just
• 7:08
  wasn't
• 7:08
  right
• 7:09
  for
• 7:09
  me.
• 7:09
  And
• 7:09
  especially
• 7:10
  doing
• 7:10
  long
• 7:10
  distance,
• 7:11
  right?
• 7:12
  So
• 7:12
  I
• 7:12
  just
• 7:12
  think,
• 7:13
  I
• 7:13
  think
• 7:14
  especially,
• 7:14
  you
• 7:14
  know,
• 7:14
  as
• 7:15
  I
• 7:15
  said,
• 7:15
  we
• 7:15
  need
• 7:15
  to
• 7:15
  understand
• 7:16
  what
• 7:16
  men,
• 7:17
  what
• 7:17
  men's
• 7:18
  needs
• 7:18
  are.
• 7:18
  Women,
• 7:19
  we
• 7:19
  love
• 7:19
  to
• 7:19
  talk.
• 7:20
  Men
• 7:20
  don't,
• 7:21
  they
• 7:22
  don't
• 7:22
  like
• 7:22
  to
• 7:22
  talk
• 7:22
  on
• 7:22
  the
• 7:23
  phone.
• 7:23
  They're
• 7:23
  not
• 7:24
  talkers.
• 7:24
  They're
• 7:25
  just
• 7:25
  not.
• 7:26
  And
• 7:26
  so
• 7:27
  again,
• 7:28
  you
• 7:28
  have
• 7:28
  to
• 7:29
  decide,
• 7:29
  like,
• 7:30
  am
• 7:30
  I
• 7:30
  okay
• 7:31
  with
• 7:31
  somebody
• 7:31
  who's
• 7:31
  not
• 7:32
  a
• 7:32
  big
• 7:32
  talker?
• 7:33
  If
• 7:33
  that's
• 7:33
  not
• 7:33
  right
• 7:33
  for
• 7:34
  you,
• 7:34
  then
• 7:34
  go
• 7:34
  find
• 7:34
  somebody
• 7:35
  else
• 7:35
  who
• 7:35
  does
• 7:35
  like
• 7:35
  to
• 7:35
  talk
• 7:36
  on
• 7:36
  the
• 7:36
  phone.
• 7:37
  But
• 7:37
  again,
• 7:38
  we
• 7:38
  have
• 7:38
  to
• 7:38
  understand
• 7:39
  that
• 7:39
  men
• 7:39
  are
• 7:40
  from
• 7:40
  Mars,
• 7:41
  women
• 7:41
  are
• 7:41
  from
• 7:41
  Venus.
• 7:42
  We're
• 7:42
  wired
• 7:42
  differently.
• 7:43
  And
• 7:43
  that's
• 7:43
  okay.
• 7:44
  It
• 7:44
  doesn't
• 7:44
  make
• 7:45
  someone
• 7:46
  bad.
• 7:46
  It's
• 7:47
  just
• 7:47
  you
• 7:47
  have
• 7:47
  to
• 7:47
  decide.
• 7:47
  Does
• 7:48
  that
• 7:48
  work
• 7:48
  for
• 7:48
  you?
• 7:48
  Yeah,
• 7:49
  absolutely.
• 7:50
  He
• 7:51
  wants
• 7:51
  to
• 7:51
  split
• 7:51
  the
• 7:52
  dinner
• 7:52
  bill.
• 7:52
  Exactly.
• 7:53
  Like
• 7:54
  to
• 7:54
  the
• 7:54
  penny.
• 7:56
  To
• 7:56
  the
• 7:56
  penny?
• 7:57
  Yeah,
• 7:57
  like,
• 7:58
  you
• 7:58
  know,
• 7:58
  52.36
• 8:01
  or
• 8:01
  something.
• 8:01
  Like
• 8:02
  to
• 8:02
  the
• 8:02
  penny.
• 8:03
  Okay,
• 8:03
  so
• 8:04
  I
• 8:04
  will,
• 8:05
  for
• 8:05
  me,
• 8:06
  I
• 8:06
  don't
• 8:06
  like
• 8:07
  anyone
• 8:07
  who's
• 8:07
  anal
• 8:08
  and
• 8:08
  that
• 8:08
  sounds
• 8:08
  like
• 8:08
  it's
• 8:09
  anal.
• 8:09
  So.
• 8:10
  But
• 8:10
  guess
• 8:10
  what?
• 8:11
  Some.
• 8:11
  Some
• 8:11
  women
• 8:12
  are
• 8:12
  anal.
• 8:12
  Some
• 8:12
  men
• 8:13
  are,
• 8:13
  you
• 8:13
  know,
• 8:14
  anal.
• 8:14
  So
• 8:15
  if
• 8:15
  they're.
• 8:16
  If
• 8:16
  that's
• 8:16
  their
• 8:16
  little
• 8:17
  thing
• 8:17
  that's
• 8:17
  important
• 8:17
  to
• 8:18
  them,
• 8:18
  then
• 8:19
  great,
• 8:19
  if
• 8:20
  that
• 8:20
  works
• 8:20
  for
• 8:20
  you.
• 8:20
  But
• 8:21
  you
• 8:21
  know
• 8:21
  that.
• 8:21
  That
• 8:22
  wouldn't
• 8:22
  be
• 8:22
  for
• 8:22
  me.
• 8:22
  But
• 8:23
  that
• 8:23
  doesn't
• 8:23
  mean
• 8:23
  it's
• 8:23
  wrong.
• 8:24
  What
• 8:24
  about
• 8:24
  if
• 8:25
  he
• 8:25
  wants
• 8:25
  to
• 8:25
  split
• 8:25
  the
• 8:25
  bill
• 8:26
  on
• 8:26
  the
• 8:26
  first
• 8:26
  date?
• 8:27
  Like
• 8:27
  dinner
• 8:28
  bill?
• 8:30
  I
• 8:30
  think
• 8:31
  that's
• 8:31
  fair.
• 8:32
  I
• 8:32
  think
• 8:32
  that's
• 8:33
  fair.
• 8:33
  I
• 8:33
  mean.
• 8:34
  I
• 8:35
  mean,
• 8:35
  also,
• 8:35
  I'm
• 8:35
  an
• 8:35
  independent
• 8:36
  woman,
• 8:36
  so
• 8:36
  I'm
• 8:37
  kind
• 8:37
  of
• 8:37
  okay
• 8:37
  like
• 8:37
  that.
• 8:38
  But,
• 8:38
  I
• 8:39
  mean,
• 8:39
  it
• 8:39
  depends
• 8:39
  on
• 8:40
  the
• 8:40
  context,
• 8:40
  right?
• 8:40
  If
• 8:41
  a
• 8:41
  guy
• 8:41
  pursued
• 8:41
  you
• 8:42
  and
• 8:42
  he's
• 8:42
  taking
• 8:42
  you
• 8:43
  out,
• 8:43
  then
• 8:43
  of
• 8:43
  course
• 8:43
  he
• 8:43
  should
• 8:44
  pay.
• 8:44
  But
• 8:44
  if.
• 8:44
  If
• 8:45
  somebody's
• 8:45
  like,
• 8:47
  I
• 8:47
  don't
• 8:47
  know,
• 8:47
  if
• 8:47
  a
• 8:47
  friend's
• 8:48
  just
• 8:48
  kind
• 8:48
  of
• 8:48
  setting.
• 8:49
  Setting
• 8:49
  you
• 8:49
  guys
• 8:50
  up,
• 8:50
  it's
• 8:50
  like,
• 8:50
  hey,
• 8:51
  I
• 8:51
  think
• 8:51
  you
• 8:51
  guys
• 8:51
  should
• 8:51
  date.
• 8:52
  But,
• 8:52
  like,
• 8:52
  neither
• 8:53
  one
• 8:53
  really
• 8:53
  pursued
• 8:53
  the
• 8:54
  other
• 8:54
  one,
• 8:54
  and
• 8:54
  you
• 8:55
  kind
• 8:55
  of.
• 8:55
  Someone
• 8:55
  set
• 8:56
  you
• 8:56
  up.
• 8:56
  Then
• 8:56
  it's
• 8:57
  like,
• 8:58
  you
• 8:58
  know,
• 8:58
  we
• 8:58
  don't
• 8:58
  know
• 8:58
  if
• 8:58
  this
• 8:58
  is
• 8:59
  going
• 8:59
  to
• 8:59
  be
• 8:59
  a
• 8:59
  love
• 8:59
  connection.
• 9:00
  I'm
• 9:00
  just
• 9:00
  trusting
• 9:00
  this
• 9:00
  friend
• 9:01
  that
• 9:01
  put
• 9:01
  me
• 9:01
  on
• 9:01
  this
• 9:01
  blind
• 9:02
  date.
• 9:02
  So
• 9:02
  in
• 9:02
  that
• 9:02
  case,
• 9:03
  it's
• 9:03
  like,
• 9:04
  yeah,
• 9:04
  we
• 9:04
  may
• 9:04
  be.
• 9:05
  We're
• 9:05
  just
• 9:05
  kind
• 9:05
  of
• 9:05
  getting
• 9:06
  together
• 9:06
  because
• 9:06
  we're
• 9:07
  doing
• 9:07
  it
• 9:07
  as
• 9:07
  a
• 9:07
  favor
• 9:08
  for
• 9:08
  our
• 9:08
  friend
• 9:08
  because
• 9:08
  they
• 9:09
  think
• 9:09
  we
• 9:09
  should
• 9:09
  meet,
• 9:10
  but
• 9:10
  it
• 9:10
  doesn't
• 9:10
  mean
• 9:11
  that
• 9:11
  it's
• 9:12
  going
• 9:12
  to
• 9:12
  be
• 9:12
  a
• 9:12
  romantic,
• 9:13
  you
• 9:13
  know,
• 9:13
  connection.
• 9:14
  So
• 9:15
  I
• 9:15
  think
• 9:15
  if
• 9:15
  that.
• 9:15
  In
• 9:16
  that
• 9:16
  scenario,
• 9:17
  then
• 9:17
  it's
• 9:17
  like,
• 9:17
  no,
• 9:17
  we.
• 9:18
  We
• 9:18
  split
• 9:18
  it.
• 9:18
  Okay,
• 9:19
  that's
• 9:19
  a
• 9:19
  good
• 9:19
  point.
• 9:20
  Yeah.
• 9:20
  If
• 9:20
  you're
• 9:20
  not
• 9:21
  being.
• 9:21
  If
• 9:21
  one
• 9:21
  isn't
• 9:22
  chasing
• 9:22
  the
• 9:22
  other
• 9:23
  sort
• 9:23
  of
• 9:23
  a
• 9:23
  thing.
• 9:23
  Exactly.
• 9:24
  Yeah.
• 9:24
  Yeah,
• 9:25
  that's
• 9:25
  fair.
• 9:26
  He
• 9:27
  tells
• 9:27
  you
• 9:27
  he
• 9:27
  loves
• 9:28
  you
• 9:28
  on
• 9:28
  week
• 9:28
  two.
• 9:31
  Well,
• 9:34
  yeah,
• 9:34
  I
• 9:35
  would
• 9:35
  say
• 9:35
  that's
• 9:36
  a
• 9:37
  red
• 9:37
  flag.
• 9:37
  That's.
• 9:38
  That's
• 9:38
  a
• 9:38
  little
• 9:38
  much.
• 9:39
  Especially
• 9:39
  because
• 9:39
  men,
• 9:40
  notoriously,
• 9:42
  they
• 9:42
  don't
• 9:42
  hand
• 9:42
  that
• 9:43
  out.
• 9:43
  They
• 9:43
  don't
• 9:43
  hand
• 9:43
  I
• 9:44
  love
• 9:44
  you
• 9:44
  out
• 9:44
  like
• 9:44
  trick
• 9:45
  or
• 9:45
  treat
• 9:45
  candy.
• 9:46
  Right.
• 9:46
  So
• 9:47
  they
• 9:47
  hand
• 9:48
  it
• 9:48
  out
• 9:48
  when
• 9:48
  it's
• 9:48
  really
• 9:49
  meaningful.
• 9:50
  So
• 9:50
  if
• 9:50
  he's
• 9:51
  saying
• 9:51
  that
• 9:52
  too
• 9:52
  quickly,
• 9:52
  that.
• 9:53
  That.
• 9:54
  That
• 9:55
  wouldn't
• 9:55
  be
• 9:55
  right
• 9:55
  for
• 9:55
  me.
• 9:56
  Yeah,
• 9:56
  that
• 9:56
  would
• 9:57
  feel
• 9:57
  a
• 9:57
  little
• 9:57
  weird.
• 9:58
  A
• 9:58
  little
• 9:58
  off.
• 9:59
  Yes.
• 9:59
  Well,
• 10:00
  Renee,
• 10:01
  you
• 10:01
  have
• 10:01
  passed
• 10:02
  the
• 10:02
  test
• 10:03
  with
• 10:03
  flying
• 10:04
  colors.
• 10:05
  I
• 10:06
  know.
• 10:06
  I
• 10:06
  wish
• 10:06
  everything
• 10:06
  was
• 10:06
  so
• 10:07
  black
• 10:07
  and
• 10:07
  white,
• 10:07
  but
• 10:08
  in
• 10:08
  humans,
• 10:09
  everything
• 10:09
  is
• 10:09
  just
• 10:10
  not
• 10:10
  so
• 10:10
  black
• 10:11
  and
• 10:11
  white.
• 10:11
  And
• 10:11
  as
• 10:12
  you
• 10:12
  can
• 10:12
  probably
• 10:12
  tell,
• 10:13
  I
• 10:13
  give
• 10:13
  people
• 10:13
  the
• 10:14
  benefit
• 10:14
  of
• 10:14
  the
• 10:14
  doubt,
• 10:14
  because
• 10:15
  inherently,
• 10:16
  humans
• 10:17
  are
• 10:17
  good
• 10:17
  people.
• 10:17
  You
• 10:18
  know,
• 10:18
  there's
• 10:18
  always
• 10:18
  going
• 10:18
  to
• 10:19
  be
• 10:19
  a
• 10:19
  small
• 10:19
  percentage
• 10:20
  that
• 10:21
  are
• 10:21
  not.
• 10:22
  But
• 10:23
  by
• 10:23
  and
• 10:23
  large,
• 10:23
  I
• 10:24
  think
• 10:24
  we
• 10:24
  all.
• 10:25
  I
• 10:25
  Know,
• 10:25
  we
• 10:26
  all
• 10:26
  want
• 10:26
  the
• 10:26
  same
• 10:26
  things
• 10:27
  in
• 10:27
  this
• 10:27
  life.
• 10:27
  We
• 10:27
  want
• 10:28
  to
• 10:28
  be
• 10:28
  happy.
• 10:28
  We
• 10:29
  want
• 10:29
  to
• 10:29
  be
• 10:29
  loved.
• 10:30
  We
• 10:30
  want
• 10:30
  to,
• 10:30
  you
• 10:31
  know,
• 10:31
  we
• 10:31
  want
• 10:32
  to
• 10:32
  love
• 10:32
  and
• 10:32
  be
• 10:32
  loved.
• 10:33
  We
• 10:33
  want
• 10:33
  to
• 10:33
  be
• 10:33
  accepted
• 10:34
  for
• 10:34
  who
• 10:34
  we
• 10:34
  are.
• 10:35
  Um,
• 10:36
  you
• 10:36
  know,
• 10:37
  we
• 10:37
  want
• 10:37
  to
• 10:37
  be
• 10:37
  able
• 10:38
  to
• 10:38
  put
• 10:38
  a
• 10:38
  roof
• 10:38
  over
• 10:39
  our
• 10:39
  head.
• 10:39
  We
• 10:39
  all
• 10:39
  have
• 10:39
  the
• 10:40
  same
• 10:40
  fundamental
• 10:40
  needs,
• 10:41
  both
• 10:41
  men
• 10:42
  and
• 10:42
  women.
• 10:42
  You
• 10:42
  know,
• 10:42
  there's
• 10:43
  no.
• 10:43
  There's
• 10:44
  no
• 10:44
  bad
• 10:44
  guy.
• 10:45
  You
• 10:45
  know,
• 10:45
  there's.
• 10:46
  You
• 10:46
  know,
• 10:46
  there's
• 10:46
  good
• 10:47
  guys.
• 10:47
  There's
• 10:47
  plenty
• 10:48
  of
• 10:48
  them.
• 10:48
  And
• 10:49
  my
• 10:49
  wish
• 10:50
  is
• 10:50
  that
• 10:50
  women
• 10:52
  just
• 10:53
  give
• 10:53
  men
• 10:54
  a
• 10:54
  little
• 10:54
  more
• 10:54
  grace
• 10:54
  and
• 10:55
  just
• 10:55
  accept
• 10:55
  that
• 10:55
  they're
• 10:56
  not
• 10:56
  like
• 10:56
  us.
• 10:56
  They're
• 10:57
  not
• 10:57
  like
• 10:57
  us.
• 10:57
  They
• 10:58
  never
• 10:58
  will
• 10:58
  be
• 10:58
  like
• 10:59
  us.
• 10:59
  And,
• 11:00
  you
• 11:00
  know,
• 11:01
  and
• 11:01
  we
• 11:01
  need
• 11:01
  to.
• 11:01
  Accept
• 11:02
  that
• 11:02
  they
• 11:02
  have
• 11:02
  their
• 11:03
  own
• 11:03
  factory
• 11:03
  settings.
• 11:04
  I
• 11:04
  mean,
• 11:04
  totally
• 11:05
  different.
• 11:07
  Yeah,
• 11:08
  Right.
• 11:08
  And
• 11:08
  not
• 11:09
  to
• 11:09
  say
• 11:09
  we
• 11:09
  can't
• 11:09
  change
• 11:09
  those.
• 11:10
  I
• 11:10
  mean,
• 11:10
  not
• 11:10
  change
• 11:11
  them,
• 11:11
  but,
• 11:11
  you
• 11:11
  know,
• 11:11
  you
• 11:12
  can
• 11:12
  kind
• 11:12
  of
• 11:12
  like.
• 11:13
  Like
• 11:13
  you
• 11:13
  were
• 11:14
  saying
• 11:14
  earlier,
• 11:14
  tell
• 11:15
  them
• 11:15
  what
• 11:15
  you
• 11:15
  love
• 11:16
  and
• 11:16
  what
• 11:16
  you
• 11:16
  like
• 11:17
  and,
• 11:17
  you
• 11:17
  know,
• 11:17
  the
• 11:18
  things
• 11:18
  that
• 11:18
  you
• 11:18
  want,
• 11:18
  because
• 11:19
  they're
• 11:19
  also
• 11:19
  not
• 11:19
  mind
• 11:20
  readers,
• 11:20
  you
• 11:20
  know,
• 11:20
  so
• 11:21
  you
• 11:21
  kind
• 11:21
  of.
• 11:21
  Exactly.
• 11:22
  Right.
• 11:22
  And
• 11:23
  at
• 11:23
  a
• 11:23
  certain
• 11:23
  point,
• 11:24
  if
• 11:24
  you're
• 11:24
  sharing
• 11:24
  what
• 11:25
  you
• 11:25
  need
• 11:26
  and
• 11:27
  they're
• 11:27
  not
• 11:27
  able
• 11:27
  to
• 11:28
  meet
• 11:28
  that,
• 11:29
  then
• 11:29
  he's
• 11:29
  not
• 11:30
  the
• 11:30
  right
• 11:30
  one
• 11:30
  for
• 11:30
  you.
• 11:31
  So
• 11:31
  you
• 11:32
  can't
• 11:32
  get
• 11:32
  mad
• 11:32
  at
• 11:33
  him
• 11:33
  because,
• 11:33
  oh,
• 11:34
  he
• 11:35
  needed
• 11:35
  to
• 11:35
  be
• 11:35
  this,
• 11:36
  that,
• 11:36
  and
• 11:36
  the
• 11:36
  other
• 11:36
  thing.
• 11:37
  Some
• 11:37
  people
• 11:37
  aren't
• 11:37
  able
• 11:38
  to
• 11:38
  do
• 11:38
  that
• 11:38
  for
• 11:38
  you.
• 11:39
  Right.
• 11:39
  And
• 11:39
  that's
• 11:40
  okay.
• 11:40
  And
• 11:41
  that's
• 11:41
  up
• 11:41
  to
• 11:41
  you.
• 11:42
  Just
• 11:42
  at
• 11:42
  some
• 11:42
  point,
• 11:43
  say,
• 11:43
  this
• 11:44
  is
• 11:44
  no
• 11:44
  longer
• 11:44
  right
• 11:44
  for
• 11:45
  me.
• 11:45
  I've
• 11:45
  expressed
• 11:46
  my
• 11:46
  needs.
• 11:46
  I've
• 11:47
  said
• 11:47
  what's
• 11:47
  important,
• 11:48
  and
• 11:48
  he's
• 11:48
  not
• 11:48
  able
• 11:49
  to
• 11:49
  do
• 11:49
  that
• 11:49
  for
• 11:49
  me.
• 11:50
  But
• 11:50
  there'll
• 11:51
  be
• 11:51
  someone
• 11:51
  out
• 11:51
  there
• 11:52
  that
• 11:52
  would
• 11:52
  be
• 11:52
  open
• 11:52
  to
• 11:53
  that.
• 11:54
  And
• 11:55
  so
• 11:56
  it's
• 11:56
  not,
• 11:57
  you
• 11:57
  know,
• 11:58
  yelling
• 11:59
  at
• 11:59
  each
• 11:59
  other
• 11:59
  and
• 12:00
  thinking
• 12:00
  that,
• 12:00
  you
• 12:01
  know,
• 12:01
  people
• 12:01
  are
• 12:01
  awful.
• 12:02
  It's
• 12:02
  just
• 12:02
  like,
• 12:02
  this
• 12:02
  wasn't
• 12:03
  a
• 12:03
  fit.
• 12:03
  It
• 12:04
  wasn't
• 12:04
  a
• 12:04
  fit.
• 12:04
  It
• 12:04
  wasn't
• 12:04
  a
• 12:04
  fit.
• 12:05
  And
• 12:05
  no
• 12:05
  hard
• 12:06
  feelings,
• 12:06
  like,
• 12:06
  just
• 12:06
  move
• 12:07
  on
• 12:07
  and
• 12:07
  go
• 12:07
  on
• 12:08
  with
• 12:08
  your
• 12:08
  life.
• 12:08
  Right,
• 12:09
  Right.
• 12:10
  Yeah.
• 12:10
  Because
• 12:10
  trust
• 12:11
  me,
• 12:11
  we're
• 12:11
  not
• 12:11
  the
• 12:11
  fit
• 12:11
  for
• 12:12
  everyone
• 12:12
  either.
• 12:12
  You
• 12:12
  know,
• 12:13
  I
• 12:13
  mean,
• 12:13
  I
• 12:13
  know
• 12:13
  we
• 12:13
  act
• 12:14
  like
• 12:14
  we're
• 12:14
  all
• 12:15
  high
• 12:15
  and
• 12:15
  mighty,
• 12:15
  but
• 12:16
  we're
• 12:16
  not
• 12:17
  the
• 12:17
  fit
• 12:17
  for
• 12:17
  everyone
• 12:17
  either,
• 12:18
  too.
• 12:18
  It's
• 12:19
  true.
• 12:19
  It's
• 12:19
  true.
• 12:20
  It's.
• 12:20
  It's.
• 12:20
  You
• 12:20
  know,
• 12:21
  it
• 12:21
  goes
• 12:21
  both
• 12:21
  ways,
• 12:22
  right?
• 12:22
  It
• 12:23
  goes
• 12:23
  both
• 12:23
  ways.
• 12:24
  Absolutely.