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The Biggest Lesson I've Learned from Being a Professional Matchmaker! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  So I think the biggest lesson I've learned from being a
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  matchmaker is that when a guy is really, really into you, you
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  don't have to demand anything from him.
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  You don't have to ask him to come pick you up.
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  You don't have to ask him, you know, to show up.
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  You don't have to ask him to make plans.
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  I can tell you from seeing this behind the scenes that when a
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  man is truly, truly into you, all right, he will make it very
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  obvious. You never have to wonder.
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  He wants to make your life easier, and you should be making
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  his life easier too. Absolutely OK.
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  Because if you don't, if you just take take, take and you're
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  not giving, that's not sustainable.
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  Honey, he won't stick around for very long.
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  But if he's truly into you, you never have to guess.
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  You never have to wonder, You never have to try to make the
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  plans, or you never have to watch videos on how to get his
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  attention or how to send that text to make him interested.
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  There is no way you can make him more interested.
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  If he's not interested in you, that's nothing you can do.
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  There's nothing. There's nothing's going to turn
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  it around all right. You have to be you.
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  You can try to be more gracious, more feminine, more appreciative
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  when he does things and never be demanding or act entitled or or
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  push for answers. Because you may push for
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  answers, you may get answers, but there's never going to be
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  the truth. So demanding anything from him
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  will never, never, never work. All right, so you be you and let
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  him be him just the way he would be, so that then you know who he
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  really is. Is he really into you or not?
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  You got to let him do the work in order to know how invested he
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  is in you. OK?
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  Does that make sense? I hope it helps.