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WHAT DO YOUR HIPS HAVE TO DO WITH YOUR SUCCESS? · Erotic Spirit Podcast

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SPEAKER_02: If you move your hips, you're a whore.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, what?
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SPEAKER_02: Like, they've the women used to run the world moving their hips.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, legit men bowing down to women moving their hips.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, it is our origin for women to be in leadership through our hips, through our reproductive space.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, that's where our leadership lies is within this reproductive area.
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SPEAKER_01: This podcast discusses sensitive and sexual topics that may be triggering.
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SPEAKER_01: Please understand that I am not a therapist.
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SPEAKER_01: My guests and I are simply sharing from our own journeys and experiences.
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SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the Rotic Spirit Podcast, where sexuality embodiment, spirituality meets.
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SPEAKER_01: And today I'll be interviewing a beautiful, beautiful person and a guest here.
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SPEAKER_01: And we'll get right into that.
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SPEAKER_01: So we have Alora Bigora.
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SPEAKER_01: And Alora here is co-creator of the fastest-growing community of female sparkly entrepreneurs and speakers in Arizona, helping women who usually find themselves in the back of the room become the woman who can lead the room.
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SPEAKER_01: Plus, the most outrageous and thorough fuck identity and somatic coach there is in the industry right now.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh, thank you so much for being here, Queen.
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SPEAKER_01: I love you.
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SPEAKER_01: I just, I'm so excited to see what moves through here.
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SPEAKER_01: And I I'd love to really dive into a lot on in-body leadership, how that looks when we're connecting to the pleasure of our body to our body and how it all relates.
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SPEAKER_01: But I'd love to learn about you and how you got into it and then dive into more about what you do.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Well, I'm so happy to be here, Queen.
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SPEAKER_02: So thank you for this special invitation.
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SPEAKER_02: What a gift to like be able to podcast with amazing friends in life.
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SPEAKER_02: Like that's always chef's kiss, juicy.
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SPEAKER_02: Uh, you know, the embodiment found me.
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SPEAKER_02: I certainly never could have ever imagined that this would be my life today.
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SPEAKER_02: I I loved to hide in the back of the room.
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SPEAKER_02: I loved to hide through academics.
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SPEAKER_02: I loved to hide through credentials.
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SPEAKER_02: And it wasn't until all of that was stripped away.
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SPEAKER_02: And I was on bed rest with my third son and had just left the like most highest achieving like job, career that I could have put myself in and had it lay down for eight and a half more months, queen.
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SPEAKER_02: Wow.
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SPEAKER_02: Um, it all just kind of like started to really find its way through me from that stillness and uh through the pain and the darkness that also unraveled postpartum.
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SPEAKER_02: You know, my my third son certainly came here to teach me what unconditional love was truly about.
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SPEAKER_02: And that meant loving all the darkness and the pain.
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SPEAKER_02: And I think that when we can go into the depths of darkness, that's that's when embodiment comes online.
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SPEAKER_02: That's when we are expressive and expressed because there's not something sitting inside of us holding the density within.
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SPEAKER_02: So this whole entire journey has been incredibly profoundly inspired by the divine feminine within who leads me every day.
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SPEAKER_02: And that's because I intentionally choose to connect with her every morning.
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SPEAKER_02: That's the root of how all this continues to expand in my life, is because no matter where I am in the world, no matter what I'm doing, no matter what my kids are doing, no matter what my husband's doing, no matter what the world is doing, every single morning I'm waking up and I'm touching this greater power within my heart, this greater power within my cells and this feminine body that holds me and I'm activating I'm saying, Hey, I intentionally turn you on today, you know, in the greater power of love.
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SPEAKER_02: And through that embodiment and and embodied leadership has really found me.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: I love that.
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SPEAKER_01: And it my part in creating an embodiment series is to show different perspectives and what they mean to different people.
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SPEAKER_01: And I love, I really resonate with what you say with this darkness inside and being able to shine light on that.
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SPEAKER_01: And embodiment is not shoving away any part of ourselves.
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SPEAKER_01: So I love when you're just like we we see the darkness and we're allowed to then shift it once we see it.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: So I love that.
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SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
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SPEAKER_01: Thank you for for the journey.
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SPEAKER_02: I know another sister gets it when like you're able to also be expressed.
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SPEAKER_02: It's just the clear indicator that oh my gosh, you too have also made friends with the darkness because it only comes online after that.
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SPEAKER_02: Or at least the genuine, yeah, the genuine expression of embodiment comes online with the depth of darkness.
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SPEAKER_02: And yes, I love spotting a sister who knows because you can just immediately see it in her energy and aura and the way she carries herself, you know.
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SPEAKER_00: Yes, makes so exciting.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_00: I love I love that.
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SPEAKER_01: So tell me about what you do.
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SPEAKER_01: I mean, I know what you do, but let's share with everyone.
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SPEAKER_01: Let's dive into all of it.
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SPEAKER_01: I love what I do.
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SPEAKER_02: I can't believe I get paid to do this shit.
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SPEAKER_02: Oh my goodness.
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SPEAKER_02: So I help women build the embodied confidence that they can be a stage queen, a leader, like that they can be expressed in their authentic truth and that it's safe to share their heartlet message.
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SPEAKER_02: I really just have watched a transformation, and it's such a beautiful, like unfolding in this present moment continuation of like all my dreams and desires.
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SPEAKER_02: But essentially, I am I'm creating a really profound community of incredible, sparkly female entrepreneurs in the Arizona area to start who truly know that they're gifts, they're intangible gifts, the gifts that they can't really hold, the services that they you can't really hold with your hands, but rather offer, you know, the a difference in the way that you carry yourself in the world.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm helping those women really position themselves to be visible because especially when you sell the invisible, being visible is the evidence of your invisible like offer to the world.
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SPEAKER_02: And it takes um it takes being in the experience of coming into my presence and like actually being in, and you know this, like invited onto this like stage that I create, this little micro stage that we create for these beautiful entrepreneurs who come to our sparkle parties.
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SPEAKER_02: And we amplify and celebrate women to show them, oh my gosh, it's so safe to get this little micro dose of exposure, visibility, celebration, amplification while you're in your most sparkly expression, being outrageously encouraged to be the most incredible, like genuine form of your entire self.
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SPEAKER_02: Like nothing is off the table.
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SPEAKER_02: It does something to women, and we're just witnessing pa like popcorn all around us, like these sparkly women are just they're getting paid for their gifts and they're they're stepping into the spotlight and saying, I am the woman that can also lead the room and creating this confidence and this authority of like who they really are and what they came to the world to do.
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SPEAKER_02: Yes.
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SPEAKER_02: Teaching them how to market that.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, thank God for my business partner.
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SPEAKER_02: Shout out, Keely, with her marketing expertise.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, she's such a queen.
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SPEAKER_02: I could never do what I'm doing today without her like support.
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SPEAKER_02: Oh, she is so incredible.
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SPEAKER_02: Bringing everybody into our world.
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SPEAKER_02: And then I get to, you know, shimmer and sparkle all over them, you know, and amplify them.
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SPEAKER_01: Yes.
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SPEAKER_02: But yeah, if it wasn't for her, we wouldn't be on our on our 13th sparkle party with over 300 women the last less than six months.
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SPEAKER_01: So just roller coaster of a ride.
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SPEAKER_01: Uh-huh.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh, it is.
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SPEAKER_01: And I and I have experienced a sparkle party, and I've experienced your magic.
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SPEAKER_01: And I have experienced you before then too.
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SPEAKER_01: And I'm just like, what is this about?
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SPEAKER_01: And there's I think it's so beautiful to be in a room of of women that are just doing their best.
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SPEAKER_01: And then there's the amplification, and then, oh, I'm being seen, I'm being witnessed.
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SPEAKER_01: And then by the way, woman around other women, there is just magic that happens when we can really sit back and recognize we're not also in competition.
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SPEAKER_01: There's no such thing as competition.
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SPEAKER_01: That's, you know, in my opinion, maybe judgment in the head or something with me that I'm I'm have an opportunity to look at.
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SPEAKER_01: So to be in a space that's really inviting to, because I could feel that in the containers that you hold, that it is like not about one or the other.
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SPEAKER_01: It's the amplification of all.
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SPEAKER_01: There's so much out there for all of us.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: I think that that's the feminine way.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: I feel like that is embodied leadership.
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SPEAKER_02: It's like there's no scarcity, right?
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SPEAKER_02: There's just abundance, and it's so abundant.
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SPEAKER_02: And like, what are we even competing for?
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SPEAKER_02: Like, all we can do is just like get so excited about all the abundance that there is like everywhere.
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SPEAKER_00: Yes, it is, it is everywhere.
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SPEAKER_02: It is.
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SPEAKER_02: It took me a long time, you know, to really like live in that world, but now I I genuinely feel that way.
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SPEAKER_02: And yeah, and even in the moments when I'm kind of threatened by somebody who does like a very similar thing to me, I'm like, girl, like lean in, baby.
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SPEAKER_02: Here's some medicine.
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SPEAKER_00: Yes, that is it.
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SPEAKER_00: Lean in.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_00: Oh, I love yes, yes.
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SPEAKER_01: Lean in.
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SPEAKER_01: That is like the spicy tip.
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SPEAKER_01: Lean in, not lean back.
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SPEAKER_01: Right.
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SPEAKER_01: Lean in because you see those shadows, and then it's only gonna shine that bigness.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: That's how we continue to gain more of our light by looking into those shadows and giving love to them.
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SPEAKER_02: Yes.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, instead of continuing to, you know, be afraid of them.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: So tell me about sensuality, sexuality, the juices of our juices of our blood.
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SPEAKER_01: What do we like to do?
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SPEAKER_01: We milk it.
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SPEAKER_01: We milk the universe.
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SPEAKER_02: Look at my purple sparkling cow out of mouth.
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SPEAKER_02: Just milk it from this.
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SPEAKER_01: We just we milk it.
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SPEAKER_01: So tell me about sexuality and sensuality, the juices and pleasure and connection in our body and receiving and how all of that relates to our business and how we can amplify that.
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SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
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SPEAKER_02: They better be leaning the fuck in right now if you're still listening.
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SPEAKER_02: Because my goodness, like this is where it gets really good.
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SPEAKER_02: It does.
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SPEAKER_02: Because so many, so many women are just like innocently operating from the neck and above.
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SPEAKER_02: You know, really obeying this very limited space of the stories that we've been told and the, you know, the beliefs in the programs and all the juicy goodness of everything that shaped us to be who we are.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: And we're forgetting about this incredible life force energy within our body, our feminine body.
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SPEAKER_02: Like how when we bring that online, oh my gosh, now all of a sudden, like we are not competing with just predictable outcomes and realities that we can actually like think about, but we're we're tapping in and receiving more of like the quantum field and the infinite possibilities and the actual divine intelligence that creates life without us even needing an instruction manual.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, can I tell you I have grown three penises without an instruction manual?
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SPEAKER_02: Okay.
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SPEAKER_02: Like that's what I this body has done.
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SPEAKER_01: Yes.
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SPEAKER_01: Tell me about that.
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SPEAKER_01: Seriously.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: So I feel like um, you know, so often, and I receiving and sensuality, they all come down to how safe you feel in your body.
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SPEAKER_02: And how safe you feel in your body and in this world is a direct correlation to how much you're able to be seen, how much impact you're able to create, how much you're able to receive.
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SPEAKER_02: Bottom line.
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SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: And so, you know, ultimately, my like greater calling has been to really see that this big aura energy that has like now been just this incredible brand that I get to just completely embody is doing it scared and it's leading through the fear and it's becoming the leader of fear because like that's how we access receiving, like, and that's how it all correlates because girl, unstoppable.
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SPEAKER_02: Like when you're able to step on a stage, even with all the fearful voices within you being like, nobody's gonna like it, nobody's gonna and you're gonna be like, oh my gosh, I see all of you, like I hear all of you, and I love you, and I've got you anyways, and here we go! And create the impact, anyways, and do it in a way that feels good and wear the sexy outfit and flip your hair on stage and fuck so wild, right?
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SPEAKER_02: Like this the limit doesn't exist in the feminine body.
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SPEAKER_02: I feel like it's just absolutely miraculous to what it what it's capable of.
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SPEAKER_02: And um, I just feel like so many women miss you know the opportunity to really tap into it because fear is unfortunately it can really be the driving factor and the authority that we innocently give authority to.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, thank you for that.
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SPEAKER_01: That is such a big message.
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SPEAKER_01: I I feel sometimes people think that the people that are on stages are doing the things that they want to do never have any fear.
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SPEAKER_01: And it's just like you're so cute.
15:36
SPEAKER_01: And uh that's not the case.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's not the case.
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SPEAKER_01: And I love that you share that message, and I I feel that resonates within my body, and I and I share that message too because that's not it.
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SPEAKER_01: I mean, I have it, it it creeps up and it's like, oh, wait, old identity or old voice.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, and so I love that you share that because it it is, I know you have challenges to get scared.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, it is everything.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, that's the only way that you are going to become like the woman who can hold the entirety of your entire like God-given vision.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Is mastering the fact that you do have to do it scared.
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SPEAKER_02: It's not like your life is just the life you want is not gonna come with like every single opportunity to meet your fear.
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SPEAKER_02: Like that's the whole point of life is to master that unreal authority and to like know that you truly have the authority when you understand that love is all that's real.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and love is the only voice that we get to listen to and obey.
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SPEAKER_00: Yes, yeah.
16:44
SPEAKER_00: Oof.
16:44
SPEAKER_00: Drop it like it's hot.
16:46
SPEAKER_00: Drop it like it's hot.
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SPEAKER_02: Meow, meow, meow, meow.
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SPEAKER_00: Yes, yes, yes, yes.
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SPEAKER_01: Ooh, I love it.
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SPEAKER_01: Juices, juices.
16:56
SPEAKER_01: Speaking of juices, juices.
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SPEAKER_02: You want to know about my juices?
17:02
SPEAKER_01: I want to know about some juices, about pleasure.
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SPEAKER_01: Do you have any practices that you do that's like or just a practice you want to share?
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SPEAKER_01: Just something that resonates with pleasure and juices in your body and receive whatever, whatever just kind of comes in for you right now.
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SPEAKER_02: I say that it's all in the hips, baby.
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SPEAKER_02: No, seriously though.
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SPEAKER_02: Because like so many women are just terrified to like truly move their hips, you know?
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SPEAKER_02: And that's where your greatest like next level lies is fucking moving your hips, girl.
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SPEAKER_02: I mean, I say like every day if you can twerk for 20 minutes a day, you're gonna keep the doctor away.
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SPEAKER_02: Oh my god, yes.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, legit, the medicine is is in your hips, it's all in your hips.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, I know that you are probably, you know, oh well, who knows?
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SPEAKER_02: Who knows what you're doing with your practice?
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SPEAKER_02: But I think it can be as simple as one minute in your hips every day.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, yes, yeah, for real.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and so that's what I try to do.
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SPEAKER_02: I I'm pretty, I'm pretty, I'm pretty well versed in it.
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SPEAKER_02: We get it, we get it most often every day.
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SPEAKER_01: I know.
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SPEAKER_01: Actually, we did some twerking before.
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SPEAKER_01: We sure did.
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SPEAKER_02: We sure did.
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SPEAKER_02: It was so good.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's the juices flowing.
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SPEAKER_02: Like it's all sitting in our sacrum, it's all sitting here.
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SPEAKER_02: Like we have to be willing to move it.
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SPEAKER_02: And for women, there's been so much conditioning and so much pressure and lies about like how we get to be expressed in our body, and we've been so shamed, you know.
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SPEAKER_02: It's like if you move your hips, you're a whore.
18:47
SPEAKER_02: Like, what?
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SPEAKER_02: Like, babe, the women used to run the world moving their hips, like legit men bowing down to women moving their hips.
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SPEAKER_02: Like it is our origin for women to be in leadership through our like through our hips, through our reproductive space.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, that's where our leadership lies, is within this reproductive area.
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SPEAKER_02: And girl, I legit have my husband legit after 18 years, okay, legit still bowing down to my ass, but now to the point where he's like serving, he's he does he's not even working, he's serving me.
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SPEAKER_02: That's his full-time job right now, is to serve me and the children and the house, and like that took so much for me to receive, and like so many layers had to be shed, and we're still like in the midst of like, is this really what we're like, is this okay, we're really doing it.
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SPEAKER_02: Oh, this is really terrifying.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, this is really terrifying, yeah.
19:50
SPEAKER_02: But it feels it feels right, like it feels like what we're meant to go back to.
19:57
SPEAKER_02: Like it feels like him serving me allows me to serve this beautiful mission to help women remember who the fuck they are, and it's like that's just the juice girl.
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SPEAKER_02: That is the juice.
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SPEAKER_02: It is the juice.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's a big part with receiving that too.
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SPEAKER_01: I feel like there's a lot of I mean, there's still, I know in a previous long-term relationship I had this mentality of men and making the money and the provider and all that, but they there is a way to provide, they are providing in a different way, and it actually allows this bigness of receiving.
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SPEAKER_01: I love that you share that because that is like to be like, Oh, I'm gonna receive all of that.
20:41
SPEAKER_01: And that flows over into what you do with women to be out there.
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SPEAKER_02: I wouldn't be able to do it without him.
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SPEAKER_02: It's just mind-blowing that you know, I really get to look and see, like, oh my gosh, because of you, like because of my husband, like I get to have the space, you know, to really make these impacts, like these tests with girl, like transformational.
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SPEAKER_02: These women, like this is what I'm meant to be doing, you know, like this is what I'm meant to be doing.
21:16
SPEAKER_02: And like it would not be possible if my husband was working.
21:19
SPEAKER_02: Because like we just don't believe in having, you know, other people raise our kids.
21:24
SPEAKER_02: Like, that's just never really been like I don't know.
21:27
SPEAKER_02: I just I need him.
21:28
SPEAKER_02: Like, I need him.
21:30
SPEAKER_02: So yeah, honestly, like this is very vulnerable, but also very real.
21:35
SPEAKER_02: But you know, this morning we were he was like, Oh, you know, there's this job offer, and da-da-da.
21:39
SPEAKER_02: And he was really having a hard time, and I was just like, I don't want just so like, all right, universe, I'm gonna stay out of the way here.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, lead this conversation to where it's meant to go.
21:54
SPEAKER_02: And truly, like, you know, it was are you gonna go to work or you know, are you gonna continue to believe that?
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SPEAKER_02: That you know what I'm doing is absolute and how we're doing this with you serving me is the way.
22:05
SPEAKER_02: And the next thing I know, I'm in the shower like 10 minutes later, and he brings me a cup of coffee in the shower, and he's like, you know, I'm not I'm not going to that second interview.
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SPEAKER_02: Like this is gonna work.
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SPEAKER_02: I believe in us.
22:17
SPEAKER_02: And I was just like, I'm so thankful, I'm so honored to receive that.
22:21
SPEAKER_02: Like, but it also does take work for me to receive that.
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SPEAKER_02: You know, I'm like, there's I'm like, okay, this means hello, all these other parts that are now scared again, you know.
22:32
SPEAKER_02: Let's make space for you too.
22:35
SPEAKER_01: Let's make space for all of it.
22:37
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
22:38
SPEAKER_01: Thank you for sharing that because that is these are really real conversations and things that people have or and even can argue about.
22:46
SPEAKER_01: And you kind of just, I mean, you do your thing.
22:49
SPEAKER_01: You you breathe through it, right?
22:51
SPEAKER_01: You did all the things that all the tools.
22:54
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
22:57
SPEAKER_01: Thank God for that toolbox, you know.
22:59
SPEAKER_01: Well, so speaking of toolbox, is there like a tool or a tip that is like just so extra spicy?
23:05
SPEAKER_01: Something that that no one would ever think.
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SPEAKER_01: I mean, I the the twerking, which I want to get back into that, but but it's something, yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Oh, goodness, I know I have a good one.
23:16
SPEAKER_02: And what is it gonna be?
23:18
SPEAKER_01: Oh girl, ask me another question.
23:24
SPEAKER_01: Well, so I what I wanted to share was this, I want to dive into this like twerking and moving the body.
23:32
SPEAKER_01: And I think it's so funny because I love to move my body the way it feels good.
23:38
SPEAKER_01: Maybe it felt awkward at first.
23:39
SPEAKER_01: I mean, I always kind of like dancing, but when I started to move into ecstatic dance, I could just feel the movement of that energy and I could feel the sexual energy and just it's just moving through my body and doesn't need to go somewhere.
23:51
SPEAKER_01: I mean, at first I was like, it needs to go somewhere.
23:54
SPEAKER_01: And then I've learned that, oh, it just it's that life force within, that creative juice that just allows that expression to be seen and witnessed.
24:04
SPEAKER_01: And the hips, they do, they do, they hold a lot.
24:09
SPEAKER_01: So I want to double emphasize that.
24:11
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, girl for everyone.
24:14
SPEAKER_01: Cause I I know you I wasn't able to ever attend any of the dance stuff that you did before.
24:19
SPEAKER_02: You missed out, girl.
24:20
SPEAKER_02: You're gonna have to come sometime soon though.
24:22
SPEAKER_01: I did, yeah.
24:23
SPEAKER_01: And I and I really appreciate you like holding space in the community for that way and for women to drop into that.
24:29
SPEAKER_01: So like that is that is it.
24:32
SPEAKER_01: That is the sauce.
24:34
SPEAKER_02: It is the sauce.
24:36
SPEAKER_02: You know, I like to think of it like this because I truly believe that the universe that we we are gonna get deep here.
24:44
SPEAKER_02: I believe that we are God.
24:46
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I believe that because we are the universe and we are God, we're constantly trying to find a way to remember that we are that, that we are the one source.
24:56
SPEAKER_02: And I feel like through the expression of our hips, it's like God remembering itself.
25:04
SPEAKER_02: Every time I and you've described it in a different way of like I can feel the energy, right?
25:10
SPEAKER_02: Like it just circulates through my body, and I like that to me, that's uh that's what creates babies, right?
25:17
SPEAKER_02: Like that's what creates life.
25:19
SPEAKER_02: Like that is like I feel like that's her, you know, like that's that's the elixir of God.
25:27
SPEAKER_02: And when I when I think about moving my hips, I think about like how I'm constantly kind of like playing a game of peekaboo, hide and seek with myself, you know?
25:39
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
25:40
SPEAKER_02: Do I remember who I am today?
25:41
SPEAKER_02: Do I not?
25:41
SPEAKER_02: Do I remember today?
25:42
SPEAKER_02: Do I remember now?
25:43
SPEAKER_02: Oh shit, did I forget?
25:44
SPEAKER_02: And when I move my hips, it's undeniable that I know who I am.
25:48
SPEAKER_02: It's unit's un just unremarkably evident that there is a greater force within me remembering itself through my movement, you know, and through the circulation of that energy.
26:03
SPEAKER_02: So I do it for her, which is essentially for me, which is essentially for all, you know, so just raising the vibes out here.
26:13
SPEAKER_01: Raising the vibes.
26:15
SPEAKER_01: Oh, I love that.
26:16
SPEAKER_01: I love it, I love it.
26:17
SPEAKER_01: And you shared something before about sometimes how women can get into like that that fear of expressing who they are, how they're supposed to look, how they're supposed to act.
26:30
SPEAKER_01: Uh, tell me more about that.
26:31
SPEAKER_01: Maybe even like if you had any journey yourself, or just what you would have to say to a woman who is like, I would love to show up and dress exactly how I want in business, and that just doesn't feel like that's normal.
26:44
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I would say create an alter ego, bitch.
26:50
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's what you gotta do, boo, because like who you are today, she's got a lot of limiting beliefs that she picked up along the way.
26:59
SPEAKER_02: Not her fault.
26:59
SPEAKER_02: We're so it's so innocent, we're so accepting.
27:03
SPEAKER_02: We allow all of it.
27:04
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but to get you to the next level, to be able to show up in business and like be able to receive you've got I say give yourself permission to become an entirely different version of yourself, like fully embody big cat energy, or like I don't know, get creative to like whatever is actually true to you.
27:28
SPEAKER_02: But yeah, like come up with something that's like this is my alter ego, and like this ego gets to take the stage, she gets to post the content, she gets to be invited to the parties, like it's to receive the lover, like whatever it is, and eventually, like you can integrate them, you know, you can integrate the alter ego and who you are today.
27:49
SPEAKER_02: I think that that's a big piece in it, but like to start, I would say create an alter ego.
27:54
SPEAKER_00: Yes, yeah, I like that.
27:57
SPEAKER_01: It's got a lot of power, it does, yes, it does.
28:01
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, and what are your feelings and thoughts and words of wisdom of of sexuality and how that comes through in leadership and embodied leadership and business?
28:13
SPEAKER_02: And yeah, yeah, I I would say that you know you're gonna gain the entire respect of not only the woman in the room, the women, the men too, like the everyone organizes around you when you're in your body because like the most embodied verse, like the whoever is the most embodied person in the room is the magnet.
28:34
SPEAKER_02: Everything is organizing around her, and so it being willing to do the work of like moving your hips every day or plugging into an amazing coach or whatever it is that you need to like get yourself through into a space where embodied leadership is something that feels like I can show up as because in that space, like not only does the entire room rearrange around you, but life, the entire the entire universe rearranges around you, and you don't have to work as hard in that case.
29:08
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, seriously, though, like amazing things just keep on happening, girl, and you're like, oh my like if you could predict it, you're you're still in your head.
29:19
SPEAKER_02: Like you can't predict this shit.
29:20
SPEAKER_01: You can't, you can't, you can't.
29:25
SPEAKER_01: I that is the truth.
29:27
SPEAKER_01: You you literally some of the things that come in when you're just in in your body and the opportunities that can just move in.
29:33
SPEAKER_01: You're like, I did not, I did not see that coming in.
29:37
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, girl, that's how you know it was the magic.
29:39
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
29:40
SPEAKER_01: So I'd love to share like if someone was working with you one-on-one, like, or what what could they expect?
29:47
SPEAKER_01: Like, walk us through that.
29:49
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'll tell you what I did yesterday with my paid queens.
29:52
SPEAKER_02: They were not expecting it, but I loved it.
29:55
SPEAKER_02: Uh I'm like, but you paid me to transform.
29:58
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
30:00
SPEAKER_02: So that's what we're gonna do.
30:02
SPEAKER_02: Yes, yes, yes, yes.
30:04
SPEAKER_02: Um, but you know, I offer them my framework, which is essentially like what I apply in every single situation that I'm like about to take a stage, or that's gonna be a scary moment for me.
30:13
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
30:13
SPEAKER_02: So they they can expect to have something that's constantly repeatable that's gonna provide support for them every single time that they're in a moment of fear.
30:22
SPEAKER_02: But what I did after that, you know, after we talked about, you know, worked on the framework and did live breakthroughs with that, I led them through an embodiment exercise where they truly like envisioned the cage around them and like what built that cage, and you know, how many versions of them are inside of that cage and allowed them to take the posture of what it feels like in the cage, and then take the posture of what it feels like to come out of the cage, and then claim you know, their life now that they're out of the cage.
30:53
SPEAKER_02: And essentially, like what I what women can expect when they say yes to working with me is that we're not just gonna talk, even though the pat we I do have very powerful verbal breakthroughs to offer you.
31:04
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
31:04
SPEAKER_02: Um, what we're really gonna do is get in the body, and you're gonna learn to take the posture and take the shape and express the emotion that's been trapped so that it can move.
31:13
SPEAKER_02: That way you have the space to access more of like the actual authentic leadership that lives within your body.
31:18
SPEAKER_02: Ugh, girl.
31:20
SPEAKER_01: That is juicy.
31:21
SPEAKER_01: So good.
31:22
SPEAKER_02: Yes, so good, girl.
31:23
SPEAKER_02: I didn't even get off that call and they were like, oh my god, this was so fucking transformational.
31:27
SPEAKER_02: Like, what just happened?
31:29
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm like, Yes.
31:31
SPEAKER_02: And honestly, stepping into that yesterday, oh girl, talk about let's go.
31:35
SPEAKER_02: Like, talk about me meeting my own fear.
31:38
SPEAKER_02: I had the biggest knot in my stomach leading up to it.
31:41
SPEAKER_02: I was like, we break it through our own cages right now, like doing this cutting edge.
31:46
SPEAKER_02: You know, I was combining internal family systems, like my IFS work with somatic and identity work, girl, like all leading edge shit, like all just from my own, like, we're gonna make this the most powerful thing ever, you know?
32:01
SPEAKER_02: So I was really happy to be, you know, assured that it was very powerful as well.
32:06
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
32:07
SPEAKER_01: Oh, I can hear it.
32:08
SPEAKER_01: And there are so many new things that jump out at me, and one of the things that kind of keep coming back in is this emotional expression.
32:15
SPEAKER_01: It's getting out of the mind and like, I think this is what's happening.
32:20
SPEAKER_01: And a lot of times that's bypassing what's actually really happening, it's just kind of a distraction.
32:25
SPEAKER_01: So getting into that expression within the body, and I and I love that you're combining all these tools and knowledge, and it is cutting edge.
32:34
SPEAKER_01: It is, this is the way to drop into and actually create the life that I believe, you know, that we want.
32:41
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, and it's just like all the juices are right there.
32:45
SPEAKER_02: Thanks, Queen.
32:46
SPEAKER_02: And it's very juicy.
32:48
SPEAKER_02: I'm I'm incredibly humbled and proud.
32:51
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
32:52
SPEAKER_02: For trusting myself and leading through the fear so that I can't impact, you know.
32:58
SPEAKER_01: I see you, I see you.
32:59
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
33:00
SPEAKER_01: What if you had a message to someone listening now, like just one of the bad things that want to flow through you now?
33:09
SPEAKER_01: What would that be?
33:10
SPEAKER_01: Someone who feels stuck or they're just seeking help and support.
33:16
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, just do it scared.
33:17
SPEAKER_02: That's all that comes through, you know.
33:19
SPEAKER_02: Like you already know what you have to do.
33:21
SPEAKER_02: You're just scared to do it.
33:22
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
33:23
SPEAKER_02: Like it's doing that.
33:24
SPEAKER_02: And if it's if you can't do the big thing, like back it up ten steps and find the tiny thing first.
33:30
SPEAKER_02: But do that tiny thing scared and do the next step scared, and that momentum is gonna unlock and activate the life force within you.
33:39
SPEAKER_02: You're gonna be in a whole different state.
33:42
SPEAKER_00: Yes.
33:42
SPEAKER_02: Very quickly.
33:44
SPEAKER_01: Ugh I love that.
33:46
SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
33:51
SPEAKER_01: So tell everyone that's watching or listening where we can find you.
33:56
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
33:57
SPEAKER_02: Alora, big aura.
34:00
SPEAKER_02: A-L-O-R-A big aura on Instagram.
34:04
SPEAKER_02: That would be the best spot to connect with me.
34:06
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
34:07
SPEAKER_01: Beautiful.
34:08
SPEAKER_01: And you have so many things coming up, so many things that you're doing.
34:12
SPEAKER_01: So anything else that you want to share, any offers or anything that you want to get that message out there too?
34:20
SPEAKER_02: I'm very excited.
34:21
SPEAKER_02: If you do want to be a speaker and the idea of taking the stage at a movie theater with a bunch of really beautiful, sparkly, incredible community to support you while they eat popcorn and watch you tell your story on the big screen.
34:36
SPEAKER_02: That's something that we're rolling out for January, and I'm very excited.
34:40
SPEAKER_02: And I I want I want all the ladies who want the opportunity to know about it.
34:44
SPEAKER_02: So we're inviting you to the premiere and uh yeah, to just take a chance on on yourself that your story is worth it and that we would celebrate the fuck out of you.
34:53
SPEAKER_02: So yes.
34:55
SPEAKER_01: I like that.
34:56
SPEAKER_01: Celebrate the fuck out of you.
34:57
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
34:58
SPEAKER_01: Always the standard.
35:00
SPEAKER_01: Oh, well, it was so great having you on today.
35:04
SPEAKER_01: I I enjoy your energy.
35:08
SPEAKER_01: I enjoy you as a person, and I'm all about really seeing women who are empowering other people, other women to just see themselves.
35:21
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
35:22
SPEAKER_01: So I really appreciate everything that that you do.
35:25
SPEAKER_02: Thank you so much for having me, Queen.
35:28
SPEAKER_02: I love you.
35:29
SPEAKER_02: Thank you for all the work that you're doing in this world to empower women and show them that embodied leadership is the way.
35:34
SPEAKER_01: Like, yeah.
35:36
SPEAKER_01: Yes, yes, yes, yes.
35:37
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
35:38
SPEAKER_01: We got our big crowns on.
35:40
SPEAKER_01: Yes, yes, yes.
35:42
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36:00
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