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Ay Por Favor: Aging & Raging · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: With Alexi Napola and Marissa Patton and iHeartRadio Podcast.
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Speaker 2: Hi guys, welcome to another episode of I Put Favored.
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Speaker 2: I'm in my house today and Marisol is at her house,
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Speaker 2: so we'll miss each other. But the reason for that
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Speaker 2: is because we got really really busy this last week, right,
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Speaker 2: and Monday's our only day off from filming, so we
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Speaker 2: decided that we were going to do it from our
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Speaker 2: homes today. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Well, it's the return of season seven and we have
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Speaker 1: a week of filming behind us.
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Speaker 2: What do you think? How do you feel about it?
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Speaker 2: I'm feel I'm feeling pretty good. Let me tell you.
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Speaker 2: I was really excited to come back meter a year,
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Speaker 2: you know. I think a year is a really long time,
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Speaker 2: I know, and I think we were already, you know.
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Speaker 2: Of course, some of us are more excited to see
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Speaker 2: some you know, some other people, and some of us
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Speaker 2: are excited to see other people, right, But I think
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Speaker 2: as a group, I think we all were really looking
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Speaker 2: forward to starting filming again. And I liked my first week.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good. It was good. It was really good.
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Speaker 1: It was very busy. You were even busier than me,
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Speaker 1: my god, and I thought I was busy they were
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Speaker 1: you were working like a yeah, yeah, you were all
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Speaker 1: over pretty much.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good. I had a great time and
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Speaker 1: I had a love when I get to film with you.
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Speaker 1: I got to see you twice last week. That was
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Speaker 1: good and I was really happy to see almost everybody. Yeah. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I agree with you. It's going to be a little crazy.
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Speaker 1: We had a crazy start. You know, no show is
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Speaker 1: complete without some chaos.
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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I think that the what's good about
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Speaker 2: taking a little bit of time off and that's starting
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Speaker 2: to film right after your other season gets wrapped up,
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Speaker 2: is the fact that we let our stories develop, you know.
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Speaker 2: And I think that a lot has developed in everyone's lives,
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Speaker 2: you know, last year. So now we're gonna all be
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Speaker 2: sharing it with you.
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Speaker 1: A lot of good stuff developing, Yeah, a lot of
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Speaker 1: good storylines. It's gonna be good. Mm hmm. The news
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Speaker 1: has been quite interesting this week.
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Speaker 2: We need to speak about one particular amount we've been
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Speaker 2: talking about. I think in our podcast previously we're talking
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Speaker 2: about justin Timberlake, and now we're going to be talking
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Speaker 2: about David Girl. So these two guys have been really
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Speaker 2: naughty and then I think they're just trying to take
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Speaker 2: control of the situation and they're creating their own narrative.
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Speaker 2: So let's give you a little update on Justin Timberlake
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Speaker 2: and how he pled guilty and addresses reporters for public apology.
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Speaker 2: Justin Timberlake pleated guilty Friday to a traffic infraction driving
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Speaker 2: while ability impaired to resolve his driving while intoxicated case
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Speaker 2: in the Hamptons. The judge also ordered him to pay
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Speaker 2: a fine, which was ridiculous what he had to pay
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Speaker 2: a five hundred dollars fine and perform community service. Timberlake
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Speaker 2: also agreed to appear in a public servicennouncement about the
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Speaker 2: dangers of drunk driving, which I loved. After the court appointment,
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Speaker 2: he addressed reporters, saying, what I like to say to
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Speaker 2: everyone watching and listening, even if you've had one drink,
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Speaker 2: don't get behind the wheel of a car. There's so
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Speaker 2: many alternatives. Call a friend, take an uber. That's what
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Speaker 2: he should have done. This is a mistake I made,
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Speaker 2: But I'm hoping whoever is watching right now can learn
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Speaker 2: from this mistake, and I know that I certainly have. Okay,
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Speaker 2: so let's start by saying that I like the fact
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Speaker 2: that his willing next to accept responsibility for driving while
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Speaker 2: his ability was repaired by alcohol, and then also holding
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Speaker 2: himself accountable for his misbehavior and for using his platform,
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Speaker 2: most importantly to increase public awareness about the dangers of
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Speaker 2: drunk driving. But with all that being said, you know,
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Speaker 2: I feel that he got away with just a slap
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Speaker 2: on his wrist, right because the charges were DWI, a
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Speaker 2: DWI driving while intoxicated, and then that was dismissed. And
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Speaker 2: although the word impaired is used, it's not a drunk
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Speaker 2: driving offense, so that kind of changes everything.
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Speaker 1: I have a question. Did he do a sobriety test?
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Speaker 1: He did, He did, and he passed it.
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Speaker 2: No, well, he didn't do the breathalyzer, he didn't do theoizer.
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Speaker 1: All right, So of course they dismissed it because they
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Speaker 1: had no proof that he had been drinking. So it
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Speaker 1: was just a trun taking to the story.
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Speaker 2: He said not guilty. Then he had one drink, right,
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Speaker 2: when there's other stories that he had more than one drink,
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Speaker 2: because honestly, he took a stop sign, so he ran
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Speaker 2: a stop sign and he was driving on the opposite
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Speaker 2: side of the road. I mean, for just one drink
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Speaker 2: and you can, you know, I think you should be
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Speaker 2: able to hold it together.
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Speaker 1: It was pretty late in the evening or the early
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Speaker 1: hours of the morning to just have one drink in
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Speaker 1: you yeah, you know, you know what I mean too.
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Speaker 2: He said it was a martini. So there's like different
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Speaker 2: stories and from the beginning he said not guilty. By
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Speaker 2: the way, he had incredible legal representation. He has like
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Speaker 2: the best attorney that Handsey's kind of cases. So his
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Speaker 2: attorney defended him super well. And this is the outcome
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Speaker 2: of the case, you know, which.
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Speaker 1: Obviously going that was going to be the outcome.
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Speaker 2: No, this happened not only to justin dipper Lake. I
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Speaker 2: mean it happens to other people too that have been
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Speaker 2: happen to me. But which part that they let that
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Speaker 2: they let you go with the stop in the in
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Speaker 2: the wrist or what was your what was your case?
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Speaker 1: Both both My husband was driving the car. After my
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Speaker 1: husband at the time was driving the car, he was impaired.
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Speaker 1: He hit a taxi cab. He got out, he took
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Speaker 1: said to the driver, you know, do you want to
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Speaker 1: call the police or should I call the police? The
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Speaker 1: driver called the police. We waited for forty five minutes
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Speaker 1: in front of a hotel on South Beach. People were
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Speaker 1: honking on us, and then we saw on the other
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Speaker 1: side of the road, Oh wow, look there's a lot
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Speaker 1: of police over there. Let's go get them. And I said,
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Speaker 1: jump in the passenger seat because I'm fine, and I'll
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Speaker 1: drive the car over there to get the police so
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Speaker 1: we can go home. It was like thirty degrees that night,
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Speaker 1: and it happened to be my birthday, and I was
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Speaker 1: talking to a friend of mine that worked for a
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Speaker 1: very powerful attorney, and he said, whatever you do, don't
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Speaker 1: take the sobriety test because you'll never get off and
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Speaker 1: it will cost you a lot of money. And so
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Speaker 1: I'm looking at my husband who got out of the car,
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Speaker 1: and I see him doing it. I'm yelling out the window. Stop.
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Speaker 1: And then someone came up to me on a motorcycle
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Speaker 1: and said, please get out of the car because now
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Speaker 1: I was behind the wheel. I didn't take the test,
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Speaker 1: I got off, I got my license back, and I
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Speaker 1: never did that again, never ever again. So that was
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Speaker 1: two thousand Again did what I never drove again? After
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Speaker 1: having any kind of beverages question for you, I have
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Speaker 1: a question for you. So I know that in New York.
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Speaker 2: When you refuse to do the test the breath of lies,
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Speaker 2: they revoke your driver's license for a whole year. You
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Speaker 2: cannot drive. So I'm asking you with your revoked here
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Speaker 2: in Florida, now your.
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Speaker 1: Mind was not. But my husband at the time, his
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Speaker 1: was revoked for a year because he failed the breathalyzer
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Speaker 1: and he took it, but I didn't take it, so
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Speaker 1: it didn't have proof that I was drinking right, So in.
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Speaker 2: His case, he used the breath the breathalyzer thing. So
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Speaker 2: how do you feel about it? Like, what how do
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Speaker 2: you think? Do you think that do you agree with
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Speaker 2: his not sentence because obviously it's not wasn't even a sentence.
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Speaker 2: But you know, I feel even his fine with the judge,
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Speaker 2: you know, find them three hundred to five hundred dollars
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Speaker 2: is ridiculous. Somebody like justin Timberlake can really, you know,
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Speaker 2: use his money for a charity like Mothers against Drunk Drivers,
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Speaker 2: where he should have had to donate more than five
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Speaker 2: hundred dollars, which is ridiculous to me. And to really
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Speaker 2: make a statement, you know how money mothers lose their
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Speaker 2: children or their loved ones, their spouses or everybody's had
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Speaker 2: a family member that has been affected by.
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Speaker 1: This, especially here in Florida. I le say, how many
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Speaker 1: drunk voting accidents are there where We're losing teenagers in
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Speaker 1: high school? It's terrible, right, No, voting is a different, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: but it's a different creating machinery while impaired. It's so dangerous.
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Speaker 1: To your point, agree.
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Speaker 2: But I just think it was like not enough money.
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Speaker 2: And the judge also ordered for him to do community
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Speaker 2: hours twenty to forty community hours for any organization of
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Speaker 2: his choice. But that's nothing. Forty hours of him to.
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Speaker 1: Do clean toilets or is he going to perform I
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Speaker 1: think you should do both.
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Speaker 2: He doesn't have to clean toilets, but what he can
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Speaker 2: do is go and dedicate to an organization that works,
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Speaker 2: you know, with families that have been affected by people
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Speaker 2: like him, that have been driving under the influence, and
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Speaker 2: can talk to young kids. You can go to schools
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Speaker 2: and give speeches. You know. I just don't want it
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Speaker 2: to be that he gave the statement because they kind
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Speaker 2: of made him do it, or I also believe he
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Speaker 2: wanted to do it because you know, he has to
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Speaker 2: be remorse through.
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Speaker 1: Obviously he needed to do this marketing PR his image
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Speaker 1: it was probably.
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Speaker 2: So you think this is sincere, that he really wanted
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Speaker 2: to do this, or you think it's his marketing group
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Speaker 2: and his PR team.
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Speaker 1: I have no idea. I don't know much about him.
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Speaker 1: We know he's cheated a little bit and he's been
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Speaker 1: pulled over for drunk Jard the next guy, But I
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Speaker 1: don't know him. I don't know if he's speaking from
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Speaker 1: his heart. I don't know if this was you know,
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Speaker 1: recommended by his team because you know, he was starting
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Speaker 1: a tour and you know he had to pull back
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Speaker 1: on definitely and his wife.
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Speaker 2: Like this came in a really bad timing obviously. But
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Speaker 2: what I'm trying to say is like I want to
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Speaker 2: see more from him because I think he could really
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Speaker 2: turn this negative into a positive. He's still a young
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Speaker 2: man that a lot of you know, people follow, you know,
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Speaker 2: they love his music, and I feel like he should
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Speaker 2: do more, not only make this statement, you know, the
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Speaker 2: day after he got the reports back, and I think
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Speaker 2: besides the public apology, that he would want to I
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Speaker 2: understand they're they're not making him do it, but I
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Speaker 2: really do hope and wish that he uses his platform
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Speaker 2: so that he can go talk at schools that he
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Speaker 2: can go talk at colleges that he can you know,
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Speaker 2: he has children himself, He has children himself, Like what
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Speaker 2: an example are you studying, you know, for your kids?
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Speaker 2: And again, I really hope that that he does that
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Speaker 2: because I thought that he got just a slap in
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Speaker 2: the wrist, which is okay, it happens to him and
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Speaker 2: too many other people. There's a lot of people walking
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Speaker 2: free that deserved more of a punishment and they didn't
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Speaker 2: get it because of whatever reason that had a good
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Speaker 2: legal team or you know, they got lucky or whatever
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Speaker 2: it may be. But in his case, I really hope
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Speaker 2: that that he's not really just creating this narrative, you know,
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Speaker 2: for his bad behavior, and that he really wants to
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Speaker 2: change his behavior, and he wants to turn this negative
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Speaker 2: into a positive.
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Speaker 1: Like come up with a bit of a discount for
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Speaker 1: you know, people who are boozing too much when you
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Speaker 1: order your uber, something like a fund of some sort,
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Speaker 1: you know, a discount like a like so it encourages
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Speaker 1: people to order a car when they're drinking. Because he's
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Speaker 1: sure certainly could afford an uber, well, he should have
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Speaker 1: had a driver, Like right now, I know that I
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Speaker 1: know that, but you know, he should, you know, get
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Speaker 1: involved with starting an initiative like that, maybe because a
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Speaker 1: five oh one C three and it's something people implement
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Speaker 1: a little discount and encouragement to call a car.
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Speaker 2: And when people are drunk, nobody cares about the discount.
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Speaker 2: You know, theyre obviously have poor judgment and they're not
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Speaker 2: thinking straight. But the fact that there's ubers and there's friends,
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Speaker 2: and he has access to a driver and money's not
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Speaker 2: a problem for him. It was just like poor judgment.
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Speaker 2: And you know, we've all had poor judgment. But the
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Speaker 2: problem is when it affects other people's lives. Yes, it
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Speaker 2: affected him publicly and maybe in his career and what
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Speaker 2: society thinks about and we're judging whatever, but imagine, God forbid,
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Speaker 2: it would have, you know, impacted somebody else's life and
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Speaker 2: their family.
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Speaker 1: Everybody really needs to call a taxi in an uber.
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Speaker 1: We said it last time. It is it's so important
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Speaker 1: that you read.
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Speaker 2: About those cars about in the next couple of years
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Speaker 2: that they're trying to develop cars, that there's an initiative
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Speaker 2: developed cars that have a device inside the car that
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Speaker 2: when you get in, if they could smell your breath
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Speaker 2: and smell alcohol in it, that the car does not
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Speaker 2: turn on and it doesn't function. I mean, I think
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Speaker 2: that's brilliant. I mean, I don't think everybody needs that,
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Speaker 2: because there are a lot of people that do not drink.
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Speaker 1: That's what they put in when you're convicted drinking under
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Speaker 1: the influence, they put a machine like that in your
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Speaker 1: car and you blow in it and your car will
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Speaker 1: not start. They already have those, but they don't put
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Speaker 1: them in every car. Just connected, right.
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Speaker 2: But now they're trying to make it a law. You know, mothers, yes,
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Speaker 2: you know. So you people don't care until it affects you,
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Speaker 2: until it affects you and your family. So that's what
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to say. If I's not going to be
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Speaker 2: ours for everybody.
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Speaker 1: I we were very lucky that it was a TENN
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Speaker 1: in the of a parked car, but that night in
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Speaker 1: jail was the most horrible thing that ever happened to me.
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Speaker 1: And I'm sure as hell never going to do that
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Speaker 1: again ever, you know, put myself in a position like that.
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Speaker 1: I haven't. That was in twenty ten. That was fourteen
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Speaker 1: years ago. I uber everywhere when i know I'm going
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Speaker 1: to have a cocktail to my lunches, to my dinners,
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Speaker 1: Steve and I Uber everywhere. It's been a saving way.
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Speaker 1: And if you and if you do not do that,
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Speaker 1: you're an idiot and you're an asshole. Sorry, it's just
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Speaker 1: there's no excuse to drive like that anymore. It's unacceptable
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Speaker 1: that we have all the tools to not do it.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what those attorneys do anymore.
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Speaker 1: The dui attorneys, they used to be all over the
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Speaker 1: place making a fortune. They must all be out of
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Speaker 1: business because because.
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Speaker 2: They justin Timberlind, God knows what he paid his attorney.
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Speaker 2: Yet he pays a five hundred dollars fine, and you
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Speaker 2: probably paid his attorney, you know, three hundred thousand dollars
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Speaker 2: to represent him. So there's still but it.
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Speaker 1: Hasn't it been a lot. When was the last time
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Speaker 1: you heard someone tell you they got a duy or well, nobody's.
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Speaker 2: Going to tell you that. It's so embarrassing, Like, who's
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Speaker 2: going to tell you the truth?
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Speaker 1: No good friend, like a good friend like or their childes.
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Speaker 2: Are too smart and too rich, and they all have
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Speaker 2: drivers and if not, they take overs like.
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Speaker 1: They don't hear about it because everyone's and the thing.
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Speaker 2: Is that you know, you have more to lose, So
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Speaker 2: that's something you know. We're also older, you know, I think, yeah,
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Speaker 2: so I don't think it's an age thing, but of
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Speaker 2: course I want to think we have better judgment now
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Speaker 2: and things. You know, I think about back in the
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Speaker 2: days when we were growing up that there was no
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Speaker 2: cell phones, there was nothing. We were drinking driving and
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Speaker 2: driving it for Lauderdale and driving back. We were so
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Speaker 2: irresponsible with our lives because we didn't have like awareness
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Speaker 2: and we didn't have information, and we were just young
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Speaker 2: and immature and stupid. But like nowadays, with all the
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Speaker 2: information that we have and all the awareness and even
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Speaker 2: like on social media that you say and me myself,
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Speaker 2: like unfortunately that I was in the hospital with Franky
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Speaker 2: in a rehabilitation center, all the children and young lives.
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Speaker 1: That we're there's a reality right there.
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Speaker 2: When there was. So that's what I'm saying. Like I
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Speaker 2: feel really passionate and strong about this, and like I said,
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Speaker 2: I'm really praying that Justin will do more than that.
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Speaker 2: This is what they made him do. That was like
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Speaker 2: his deal where he just had to make a public apology.
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Speaker 2: At public apology, Justin, you better be listening your alexia.
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Speaker 1: We expect in his heart.
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Speaker 2: I hope in his heart that he really uses his
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Speaker 2: platform because he can be so powerful. Maybe he shouldn't
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Speaker 2: even be the face for like mothers against strong drivers,
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Speaker 2: because honestly, I think that he needs to do more
15:52
Speaker 2: like this is you see, this is what happens when
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Speaker 2: you see something like this, you kind of like give
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Speaker 2: up on the system. Like and it's not that I want,
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Speaker 2: you know, I think this is more powerful than giving
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Speaker 2: him a sentence. I don't. I don't think we A
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Speaker 2: lot of times, I think jail is not a good
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Speaker 2: idea and it's not going to make them, you know,
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Speaker 2: be remorseful, or it's not going to make him, you know,
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Speaker 2: take you know, accountability or do anything. But I just hope,
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Speaker 2: like for himself and his family and he has children,
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Speaker 2: that he does more to help, you know, young adults
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Speaker 2: or even older adults, make the right decision.
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Speaker 1: Food Fighters Day of Girl reveals he cheated on his
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Speaker 1: wife and welcomed a baby outside of his marriage. Yikes.
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Speaker 1: Food Fighters front man has welcomed the child outside of
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Speaker 1: his marriage, and in fighting to regain the trust of
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Speaker 1: his wife, Jordan Blum, and his other children, he posted
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Speaker 1: this message. I've recently become the father of a new
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Speaker 1: baby daughter born outside of my marriage. I plan to
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Speaker 1: be a loving and supportive parent to her. I love
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Speaker 1: my wife and my children. I'm doing everything I can
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Speaker 1: to regain their trust and earn their forgiveness. We're grateful
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Speaker 1: for your consideration toward all of the children involved as
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Speaker 1: we move forward together. Also, Dave Grohl slams a viral
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Speaker 1: Instagram photo claiming to be his love child after the
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Speaker 1: affair and now deleted Instagram account at Valerie Grayston posted
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Speaker 1: a photo of the baby named Roxy Juni Grohl and
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Speaker 1: claimed Roxy's Girl's daughter who he followed out of wedlock
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Speaker 1: after cheating on his wife Jordan Bloom. However, Girl's rep
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Speaker 1: said Wednesday that the viral post is fake and TMZ
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Speaker 1: spoke to the Instagram account and they said, I'm sorry,
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Speaker 1: this was a fake page. We just wanted followers. We're miners.
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Speaker 1: Children did that. They were leading on. They were leading
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Speaker 1: on followers of Dave grol fake account, a fake account
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Speaker 1: with a baby saying it was Dave Girl's baby, and
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Speaker 1: I actually actually saying that he's been by the side,
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Speaker 1: being a great father and a great partner during the birth.
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Speaker 1: I mean, they really went on. I couldn't believe. Miners
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Speaker 1: wrote that it was quite well written, it was shocking.
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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I think the whole the biggest thing
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Speaker 2: here is not even that Instagram thing with gin know
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Speaker 2: how I feel about Instagram, Like this is a perfect example.
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Speaker 2: You can create something completely false and fraud and it's
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Speaker 2: like Frauda. Listen, they can do all this and obviously
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Speaker 2: it was put down, but they could take people right.
18:35
Speaker 2: So the important thing here is the fact that this
18:39
Speaker 2: man cheated on her and fathered a baby outside their marriage.
18:43
Speaker 2: They were married for twenty one years. I didn't read anyone.
18:45
Speaker 2: Maybe you did. Did you find out if what year
18:49
Speaker 2: was it that he did this? Like how old is
18:50
Speaker 2: the baby now? Is this something?
18:52
Speaker 1: I think? I think it's an infant that was just born.
18:56
Speaker 1: You think it was just right now? I think I think,
19:00
Speaker 1: but I can't be one hundred Percenters that I.
19:03
Speaker 2: Read were very like ambivalent. They really didn't say, you
19:06
Speaker 2: know how old the baby was when this happened throughout
19:09
Speaker 2: their marriage. Okay, so I know they've been together for
19:12
Speaker 2: twenty one years. Apparently he was married before and also
19:16
Speaker 2: cheated on his ex wife and Yeah.
19:20
Speaker 1: Listen, athletes and musicians, they're the worst. They're always out
19:24
Speaker 1: there filandering, right, I mean, those.
19:27
Speaker 2: Are the ones we hear about, you know, because obviously
19:29
Speaker 2: they're public people, so that's why we're here talking about them. So,
19:33
Speaker 2: you know, So, first of all, I find it interesting
19:35
Speaker 2: that no article has said one exactly didn't father this baby?
19:40
Speaker 2: Was it now in his relationship and in his marrior
19:43
Speaker 2: or was it in the beginning now that it makes
19:44
Speaker 2: a difference, right, Because for me, I wouldn't make a
19:48
Speaker 2: difference at all. What about for you, how do you
19:50
Speaker 2: feel about if you would find out that why you
19:53
Speaker 2: were married to Steve, you know, he fathers a baby
19:56
Speaker 2: outside of your marriage with him.
19:58
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, you would have to ever see
20:00
Speaker 1: that baby again, because he'd I'd murder him. I would
20:04
Speaker 1: be so upset. I actually had a cousin that had
20:08
Speaker 1: three children and then they found she found out that
20:12
Speaker 1: her husband had a whole other family. They lived in
20:15
Speaker 1: Puerto Rico, a whole other family with another woman, and
20:18
Speaker 1: she stayed with him and he would go back and.
20:20
Speaker 2: Forth about that. Yet the actually, yeah, we're going to
20:24
Speaker 2: talk about that because that's one of the questions that
20:26
Speaker 2: we have so like, what would you do, which is
20:29
Speaker 2: what I'm asking you. You said you would kill him
20:31
Speaker 2: or whatever you're being.
20:32
Speaker 1: I would kill him and I would throw him out,
20:34
Speaker 1: and there's no way I could stay with him. I
20:35
Speaker 1: would be devastated. I wouldn't be able to eat. I'd
20:37
Speaker 1: probably drop one hundred pounds. And I don't know how
20:40
Speaker 1: my cousin did that. And he would go back and
20:43
Speaker 1: forth between that woman's house and my cousin's.
20:48
Speaker 2: Marriage.
20:49
Speaker 1: Wait to hear the rest of the story. My cousin
20:51
Speaker 1: had brain cancer and she would constantly get tumors removed
20:56
Speaker 1: and they would come back, and she put up with
20:58
Speaker 1: that until the day she died. And then when she died,
21:00
Speaker 1: he marry the other woman. Okay, so those women don't
21:02
Speaker 1: exist anymore. Please don't exist out there, because it should
21:06
Speaker 1: not be allowed. It should not exist. But yeah, back
21:09
Speaker 1: in the day, you would hear about stories like that, right,
21:13
Speaker 1: and I think a lot more also, like in the
21:14
Speaker 1: Latino culture, you know, that was also very prevalent, very common.
21:18
Speaker 1: So I understand that, but there's no reason why today
21:23
Speaker 1: even though there are women you know, you see this
21:25
Speaker 1: all the time, you know, where women get cheated on
21:28
Speaker 1: by their husbands or they father children outside their marriage
21:32
Speaker 1: and they forgive their husband. Yeah, you know, you know,
21:36
Speaker 1: we might see it as broken because you know, they
21:38
Speaker 1: obviously broke the trust, you know, and the loyalty, and it.
21:42
Speaker 2: Broke all the But it's tough, you know, I think
21:45
Speaker 2: it's kind of circumstantial too, right, Madi, Like, what did
21:48
Speaker 2: you think, like, for example, you have like or you
21:50
Speaker 2: think you have a good marriage, and then you guys,
21:54
Speaker 2: the guy goes on a trip or something, he's traveling
21:58
Speaker 2: for work. He hooks up with a flight attendant that
22:01
Speaker 2: night and she gets pregnant, and then and then ten years,
22:06
Speaker 2: let's say, Because that's why there's no specifics right now,
22:09
Speaker 2: because he's controlling the narrative, which is I'm trying to
22:11
Speaker 2: tell you, so Dave in this case is controlling his narrative.
22:15
Speaker 2: He gave that public statement, so I get one away.
22:18
Speaker 2: You know, he's such a good guy. He came out clean.
22:22
Speaker 2: He's saying his story. But by the way, he had
22:24
Speaker 2: already retained an attorney. So he retained an attorney, told
22:28
Speaker 2: all the information to the attorney, and so it was
22:31
Speaker 2: all like calculators what I'm saying, where he is again
22:34
Speaker 2: controlling his narrative, and we'll see what time, how much
22:39
Speaker 2: information comes out, because right now we don't know if
22:41
Speaker 2: it was something like, for example, Arnold Schwartzenegger, because there's
22:44
Speaker 2: been a lot of these guys, you know, and would
22:46
Speaker 2: remember that. Yes, so for examplegar like with his housekeeper
22:52
Speaker 2: in his house. And they didn't find this out too
22:54
Speaker 2: many many many years later, and Maria at Shreiber did
22:57
Speaker 2: not forgive them. She filed for divorce. You know, for
23:00
Speaker 2: some women, it's an absolute deal breaker. For me, it
23:04
Speaker 2: would be as for me too, for me too, for
23:06
Speaker 2: me too. So Dad, you couldn't sell me. You could
23:09
Speaker 2: do this, you could do that, but you can for me,
23:11
Speaker 2: that's the ultimate betrayal for me.
23:13
Speaker 1: I think that sometimes women are stuck because they don't
23:17
Speaker 1: have their own money, their own job. They need a
23:20
Speaker 1: roof over the head, and they stay. I know, my
23:23
Speaker 1: cousin was ill, she didn't work, and she just needed someone.
23:27
Speaker 1: She knew him, he was the father of her children,
23:29
Speaker 1: and she knew she was probably not going to make it,
23:32
Speaker 1: and she stayed because she was you know, she didn't
23:35
Speaker 1: have any other recourse.
23:36
Speaker 2: I can see that.
23:36
Speaker 1: I can see that, and I think that that happens
23:40
Speaker 1: to a lot of women. But women they have their
23:42
Speaker 1: own money and do their own things. Strong women like
23:44
Speaker 1: your mother, like you, like me, We're not going to
23:46
Speaker 1: put up with that. I'm sorry, I hit the door.
23:49
Speaker 2: You're out, well, I mean, for me, it's just the
23:51
Speaker 2: ultimate betrayal because and again I think it's very circumstantial.
23:56
Speaker 2: In this case, Dave and his wife have been married
23:59
Speaker 2: for twenty one years. They have three children, So I
24:02
Speaker 2: don't know at what point in time did this happen.
24:05
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know if it happened maybe in
24:07
Speaker 2: their year seven and now he's finding out about it.
24:09
Speaker 2: I don't have the details enough to give my complete
24:13
Speaker 2: opinion on it, because you know, the circumstances do change
24:16
Speaker 2: a lot of things, my friend, I think the circumstances
24:19
Speaker 2: changes a lot of things, and you want to give
24:21
Speaker 2: a guy another chance. For example, sometimes you know, you
24:24
Speaker 2: don't know whether the couple was taking a break or
24:26
Speaker 2: they're on a fight, or you know, when he went
24:28
Speaker 2: on his own. Maybe it's like a draw on a band.
24:31
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe he says she was just you know, a groupie,
24:34
Speaker 1: and she knows that he does that when he's on
24:36
Speaker 1: the road, and she's okay with I don't know, right,
24:39
Speaker 1: we just don't know.
24:41
Speaker 2: So I think to give like a full complete, like
24:44
Speaker 2: my opinion, I would have to have more information because
24:47
Speaker 2: not that it makes it better. I'm not saying it
24:49
Speaker 2: makes it better. I think it's let's make sense get better.
24:55
Speaker 2: But you know that that's going to really change things
24:57
Speaker 2: because it depends on when he did it. I mean
24:59
Speaker 2: he just didn't. Now we're like, great, like why are
25:01
Speaker 2: you doing that? Like if you did it at a
25:03
Speaker 2: time in their marriage, not that again that it's okay,
25:06
Speaker 2: But I think that there's going to be like a
25:08
Speaker 2: lot of things that you have to think about before
25:10
Speaker 2: making that decision. I just think it's funny he's got
25:13
Speaker 2: the attorney before she did. I it was like, what
25:16
Speaker 2: so he hired an attorney?
25:18
Speaker 1: Yeah, well interesting, that's interesting.
25:22
Speaker 2: Again. Maybe you know, here are these men, you know,
25:25
Speaker 2: trying to control their narrative for their bad behavior because
25:28
Speaker 2: we like it or not. Justin's behavior was inappropriate and
25:31
Speaker 2: it was bad behavior, and Dave is also bad behavior.
25:34
Speaker 1: Well, he had to take care of the situation because
25:36
Speaker 1: it was on a fake Instagram account. They were spreading
25:39
Speaker 1: it out there right right, and he needed to get
25:41
Speaker 1: the right information out there and fire it up, because
25:44
Speaker 1: you know, when you let those things go, God forbid,
25:47
Speaker 1: it takes on a life of its own. It becomes
25:50
Speaker 1: far the farthest thing from the truth.
25:52
Speaker 2: I mean, for all we know, they both knew about it.
25:54
Speaker 2: I mean she knew, obviously he did. But I'm saying,
25:56
Speaker 2: for all we know, his wife and his children already
26:00
Speaker 2: knew about it, and it was something that we're trying to,
26:03
Speaker 2: you know, keep away from everyone and have it as
26:05
Speaker 2: a secret. And now this happens. So he had no
26:08
Speaker 2: other choice but to give a public statement, which again
26:10
Speaker 2: is what happens with public figures that sooner or later
26:13
Speaker 2: you have to come out and address the public.
26:16
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's the It's the right thing to do,
26:19
Speaker 1: because you can't let people just assume what happened, because
26:23
Speaker 1: the craziest stories will start running wild and it can
26:26
Speaker 1: destroy a career, it really can. So they both did
26:29
Speaker 1: the right.
26:30
Speaker 2: Thing, right, So do you think that both men have
26:33
Speaker 2: taken their accountability, that both of them have taken accountability
26:36
Speaker 2: for their bad behavior, or like, do you really think
26:39
Speaker 2: it's sincere or do you think like they're trying to
26:42
Speaker 2: control the narrative or even both.
26:44
Speaker 1: They're controlling the narrative. Listen, I don't know them to
26:46
Speaker 1: know if they're sincere or not, but it's definitely a
26:50
Speaker 1: marketing move to control the narrative and tell the story
26:53
Speaker 1: the way they want to tell it and the way
26:55
Speaker 1: that it makes them feel the best. Right, And that's
26:59
Speaker 1: what I would do same.
27:01
Speaker 2: I mean again, I feel like if they would have
27:04
Speaker 2: been sincere, you know, they would have come out. You know,
27:07
Speaker 2: Justin would have said, yes, I was drunk, I drank
27:08
Speaker 2: too much and I did that, and this guy would
27:11
Speaker 2: have said years ago whenever it did happen, you know what,
27:14
Speaker 2: I made a mistake. You know, I had forgot to
27:17
Speaker 2: the woman and I have a baby, right, So so
27:20
Speaker 2: I again, I do believe that this was a way
27:24
Speaker 2: to control.
27:25
Speaker 1: I mean, how do you have an oopsie at your
27:27
Speaker 1: age and your rock star? Come on, man, we don't.
27:29
Speaker 2: Know if it's now. That's what I wanted to find
27:31
Speaker 2: out because now he's fifty five, but it could have
27:33
Speaker 2: been six years ago, it could have been ten years ago.
27:35
Speaker 2: He's been with this with his twenty one years. He's
27:39
Speaker 2: five fifty and his wife is forty eight and they
27:42
Speaker 2: have three children, so they've been together for twenty one
27:44
Speaker 2: years already, So I don't know you know what I mean?
27:47
Speaker 2: You see, And that's why I thought, Like with Maria
27:49
Speaker 2: Shreiber when she all for the worst from Arnold, this
27:53
Speaker 2: had happened so many years ago, and he score it
27:56
Speaker 2: only happened once. That I don't believe I'm assible. Is okay,
28:01
Speaker 2: you know I don't want to give you sex. Okay,
28:03
Speaker 2: I'll just go into the maidroom and you don't have
28:04
Speaker 2: sex with her? Whatever. So I think it did happen
28:07
Speaker 2: more than once. But that's the other thing too. Was
28:09
Speaker 2: it like a one time thing? Was it continuous? I mean?
28:11
Speaker 2: And Maria Shriver and Arnold's case, like the woman lives
28:14
Speaker 2: with him talk about betrayal like in their house and
28:17
Speaker 2: raise their son thinking it wasn't their son?
28:19
Speaker 1: Like to me, that was like, can I tell you
28:21
Speaker 1: a funny story when that broke? They can't. They put
28:26
Speaker 1: on Watch What Happens Live a picture of the mistress
28:29
Speaker 1: that have the baby side by side with my mother,
28:32
Speaker 1: And my mom got so upset and called Andy Cone
28:35
Speaker 1: and said, how dare you? I don't look like that
28:37
Speaker 1: horrible woman?
28:39
Speaker 2: She was? She was she should be a beautiful. She
28:46
Speaker 2: was a very ugly woman. But you see, there goes
28:48
Speaker 2: to show you that men don't care and they always
28:51
Speaker 2: cheat down for.
28:53
Speaker 1: Me, I know, I say it a million times. Yeah.
28:59
Speaker 2: And besides our look at all these men that have
29:01
Speaker 2: been in relationships with women being married or just living
29:05
Speaker 2: together or in a boyfriend girl from relationship that have
29:08
Speaker 2: fathered kids outside their relationship. In Hollywood. There's like a
29:11
Speaker 2: bunch that we can talk about. Tristan Thompson and Eddie Murphy.
29:17
Speaker 1: God, yeah, oh my god. In Murphy I was like
29:19
Speaker 1: eighteen children. Yeah, really good.
29:23
Speaker 2: Eric clapped it. Just so many of them, and you know,
29:26
Speaker 2: I feel like it's like it's okay, you know what
29:29
Speaker 2: I mean. It's like Therman, so like it's okay, you
29:31
Speaker 2: can do that. But it's something that for me would
29:35
Speaker 2: never work because to me, that is the ultimate betrayal.
29:39
Speaker 1: I have to tell you, I was a little worried
29:41
Speaker 1: when my father passed away that some somebody was going
29:44
Speaker 1: to come out of the woodwork from Europe and he
29:46
Speaker 1: had a whole other family because he was never home.
29:50
Speaker 1: He was always in Europe working because you know, he
29:52
Speaker 1: built yachts, and the big yachts are all built in
29:55
Speaker 1: Europe and Asia. And he had a home in Italy
29:58
Speaker 1: and he was gone all the time, and I kept thinking,
30:02
Speaker 1: maybe have any Italian brother or sister. I think they
30:05
Speaker 1: would have come around by now, because he passed to
30:08
Speaker 1: be six and a half years ago.
30:10
Speaker 2: And some people, you know, some kids never get recognized,
30:13
Speaker 2: you know, because their mothers are very proud and they
30:16
Speaker 2: don't really want to or they want to protect the child.
30:19
Speaker 2: They want the child just to be for them. And
30:21
Speaker 2: some women really never come out. We find out about
30:24
Speaker 2: these cases.
30:25
Speaker 1: Nobody. I figured they'd come out for the money.
30:28
Speaker 2: No, my love, But we find out about these cases
30:30
Speaker 2: because it's Hollywood and their actors and athletes and musicians, right,
30:34
Speaker 2: that's what we're talking about them. But you know how
30:36
Speaker 2: many times, unfortunately women get pregnant or fortunately if that's
30:40
Speaker 2: what they want, by these men that are married men
30:44
Speaker 2: or are emotionally unavailable men that don't want to be
30:47
Speaker 2: with them, and they have these children on their own,
30:49
Speaker 2: and the children never know who their father is. So
30:53
Speaker 2: I mean, I think in these cases, all these women
30:55
Speaker 2: want the kids to know who their father is because
30:57
Speaker 2: they're all like pretty bad asses, right.
30:59
Speaker 1: And it's a good paydayout the pay.
31:02
Speaker 2: Day, it's both. It's both for sure, but again, you
31:05
Speaker 2: know these women that do. I'm not saying that it's impossible.
31:08
Speaker 2: I'm just saying that I can't do it because I
31:11
Speaker 2: do know women and I have friends that have forgiven
31:14
Speaker 2: their spouses for cheating and they've been able to move on.
31:19
Speaker 2: And they have even found out about you know, them
31:22
Speaker 2: fothering children outside of their marriage and they have been
31:26
Speaker 2: able to move on. I think it takes an incredible
31:32
Speaker 2: amount of empathy forgiveness.
31:35
Speaker 1: I don't like a really strong blind eye, because that
31:40
Speaker 1: is a hard one to get over.
31:42
Speaker 2: That is a hard way, I agree, Yeah, And they
31:44
Speaker 2: really have to be willing to rebuild the trust. And
31:48
Speaker 2: how do you come back from that right.
31:52
Speaker 1: That? You know that every time there'd be a fight
31:54
Speaker 1: and I would just pull up and we'll throw that
31:56
Speaker 1: put out there, like wow, you had a baby with
31:59
Speaker 1: some else. I mean you know that would come up
32:02
Speaker 1: in every argument and you I just would never be
32:05
Speaker 1: able to let it go.
32:06
Speaker 2: Better not live like.
32:07
Speaker 1: That you had a baby with somebody else. You can't
32:14
Speaker 1: even talk anymore.
32:16
Speaker 2: No, that's that for me is a deal breaker. But
32:18
Speaker 2: you know, for those women or relationships that are taking
32:21
Speaker 2: out there, you know, I respect you. I'm not as
32:25
Speaker 2: you know, as empathetic or forgiving. But then again, people
32:28
Speaker 2: choose I'm not.
32:30
Speaker 1: I'm not judging anybody. I'm just saying I couldn't do it.
32:33
Speaker 2: You know.
32:34
Speaker 1: I wish I could be a little more forgiving and
32:38
Speaker 1: patient with all that sinning. But I just I don't
32:41
Speaker 1: have it in me because I have a certain code
32:44
Speaker 1: of conduct that I, you know, live by and if
32:48
Speaker 1: you're not on the same page with me, then I
32:50
Speaker 1: can't be with you. I just cannot.
33:00
Speaker 2: Let's talk a little bit about sex and sexiness and age. Okay,
33:06
Speaker 2: So Kate Winslet is getting candid about her sex drive.
33:10
Speaker 2: The actor said during a September tenth episode of the
33:13
Speaker 2: How To Fail with Elizabeth Day podcast that her libido
33:16
Speaker 2: got a major boost after undergoing testosterone replacement therapy. A
33:21
Speaker 2: lot of people don't know this, but women have to
33:23
Speaker 2: stosterone in their body. When it runs out like eggs,
33:28
Speaker 2: it's gone and once it's gone, you have to replace it.
33:30
Speaker 2: And that is something that can be done and you'll
33:32
Speaker 2: feel sexy again. I know that. She also opened up
33:37
Speaker 2: about feeling sexy at her age. By the way, how
33:39
Speaker 2: old is she She's only in her forties. We're so conditioned. Yeah,
33:43
Speaker 2: we're so conditioned women in our forties to think, oh well,
33:47
Speaker 2: I'm creeping closer to the end. You think you're going
33:50
Speaker 2: into menopause and you'll stop having sex. Your booths are
33:52
Speaker 2: going to go saggy, and your skin's gonna go creepy,
33:55
Speaker 2: she explained. First of all, First of all, so what
33:59
Speaker 2: And secondly, is just conditioning. I think women as they
34:02
Speaker 2: get older get juicier and sexier and more embedded in
34:05
Speaker 2: the truth of who they are and more powerful, ye
34:09
Speaker 2: more able to walk through the world and careless. And
34:12
Speaker 2: that is an empowering thing. I say to my friends
34:16
Speaker 2: all the time, you look amazing.
34:18
Speaker 1: Wait till she gets to her fifties. She's gonna feel
34:20
Speaker 1: even better.
34:21
Speaker 2: Right in your sixties, She's going to be like, you know,
34:25
Speaker 2: I feel like the biggest you know. I think it
34:27
Speaker 2: has obviously a lot to do right with ourselves, the
34:29
Speaker 2: way we feel inside. And that's what people don't realize, Like,
34:33
Speaker 2: if you feel really good about yourself inside, then it
34:36
Speaker 2: shows in the outside. But it is scary, you know,
34:39
Speaker 2: especially a beautiful woman like Kate Winsley. You know, I
34:42
Speaker 2: feel like beautiful women as we start getting older because
34:47
Speaker 2: I'm going to include ourselves in that because I feel like,
34:50
Speaker 2: you know, all women are beautiful, but I believe that
34:53
Speaker 2: when you're beautiful, as you start getting older, it's I
34:55
Speaker 2: got pressure we have, you know, with society, not only
34:58
Speaker 2: with ourselves, especially business. Yes, and we have to look
35:02
Speaker 2: a certain way. And this woman has been beautiful in
35:04
Speaker 2: her life and she'll continue to be beautiful. But again,
35:08
Speaker 2: if her insides, which are her libido and her sex drive,
35:11
Speaker 2: aren't working, you're gonna kind of like put everything together
35:14
Speaker 2: and feel like a piece of shit. Right. So I
35:18
Speaker 2: love that she's sharing this with people. I love that
35:21
Speaker 2: she's opening up and she's actually she was answering somebody's question.
35:25
Speaker 2: Somebody called in and asked her, like, what would you
35:27
Speaker 2: do this that not? And then that's when she shared
35:30
Speaker 2: that she had struggled, you know, with her sex life
35:32
Speaker 2: and how she made it better.
35:33
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, there's nothing worse than menopause. It is brutal.
35:39
Speaker 1: But I mean she's already going through it because I mean, oh,
35:43
Speaker 1: she says she's in her forties. She didn't talk about menopause,
35:45
Speaker 1: but she says she had low libido, low sex drive,
35:48
Speaker 1: and she told actually this collar they called in that
35:53
Speaker 1: it could be either related to fibroids if you had
35:55
Speaker 1: firework problems. Oh right, so to check that out and
35:59
Speaker 1: then to also check out her sistosterone level. Mm hmmm, yes, yeah.
36:04
Speaker 1: Testosterone is a game changer, a game changer. I started
36:09
Speaker 1: taking it, and you know, because I you know, I
36:12
Speaker 1: went through menopause obviously quite a while ago. And it's true,
36:16
Speaker 1: your libido dumps, you can't sleep, you're tired, you're you're
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Speaker 1: crying for no reason, like you're all your hormones are
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Speaker 1: out of whack. And it was the greatest thing I
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Speaker 1: ever did. I had energy again. I was sleeping, I was,
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Speaker 1: you know, performing like a porn star. You know, I
36:37
Speaker 1: was really getting you know, my life was back on track.
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Speaker 1: It's a wonderful, wonderful thing. And you know, the aging thing.
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Speaker 1: As you get older, you honestly you really start to
36:46
Speaker 1: care less about the little things. And the less you
36:49
Speaker 1: care about the little things, the more powerful and stronger
36:52
Speaker 1: you feel. And you can walk through life just as
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Speaker 1: a very more positive and stronger person. And it all
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Speaker 1: comes together, comes with age and is a wonderful part
37:05
Speaker 1: of helping all of that. I'm all here for it,
37:09
Speaker 1: and I definitely recommend it if you're you know, low,
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Speaker 1: low on libido and energy or going through the change.
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Speaker 2: You know. I love that she said that, and she
37:19
Speaker 2: opened up, you know, about her sex life and she
37:22
Speaker 2: recommended these things. But obviously before getting onto sosterone, you
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Speaker 2: have to do like tests and you know, they say
37:28
Speaker 2: you have core art and blood vessel and you know,
37:32
Speaker 2: liver disease. You know, it's not good for you obviously
37:34
Speaker 2: if you've had breast cancer or.
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Speaker 1: You can't have that varying breast cancer.
37:39
Speaker 2: So it's not like everybody should go out there and say,
37:41
Speaker 2: oh my god, you know, I haven't had sex and
37:43
Speaker 2: like three months I'm going to get ontosterone. It doesn't
37:45
Speaker 2: work like that.
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Speaker 1: You can't get it unless the doctor gives it to
37:48
Speaker 1: you and they're going to give you blood work first. Right.
37:50
Speaker 2: Well, I mean here you can get anything you want,
37:52
Speaker 2: but people are very careless, you know what I mean.
37:59
Speaker 2: And again I believe that people are just like very
38:02
Speaker 2: quick to just go to like the medication to fix
38:05
Speaker 2: the problem. When sometimes if you're not performing and you're
38:09
Speaker 2: not having sex, it's maybe you're going through other things.
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Speaker 2: It's not only because you know your your body is
38:14
Speaker 2: lacking testosterone. In my case, I was. I had my
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Speaker 2: period till my fifties, so almost my mid fifties, I.
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Speaker 1: Know, I was so I hated it. Anytime me told
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Speaker 1: me you had it, I'm like, what, You're still getting it?
38:28
Speaker 1: What's happened you?
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Speaker 2: I loved my period because for me, it was like
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Speaker 2: a sign of youth, Like I loved it, you know
38:33
Speaker 2: how I hated it when I was like a teenager,
38:35
Speaker 2: and then I started loving it as I got older
38:37
Speaker 2: and older because I was like, my friend, that was
38:39
Speaker 2: one of the few you.
38:40
Speaker 1: Know, you bragged about it like it was you want
38:44
Speaker 1: an oscar.
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Speaker 2: But I kind of did because that's remarkable. And by
38:48
Speaker 2: the way, I'm not a testosterone and I and I
38:51
Speaker 2: don't need it, which I can tell.
38:53
Speaker 1: Well, we already know you have an overload of testosterone. Yeah,
38:57
Speaker 1: carry it around for a while.
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Speaker 2: Super And I'm super proud. And I guess that that's
39:01
Speaker 2: why my sex tyfe is so great because I've never honestly,
39:04
Speaker 2: I can't relate, you know, to that. I can't relate
39:06
Speaker 2: to other problems, but not to sex problems. But you know,
39:10
Speaker 2: I love that there's things out there and there's alternatives,
39:14
Speaker 2: you know, for women to be able to feel better
39:16
Speaker 2: about themselves, because you know, I think that's very important,
39:18
Speaker 2: just as I'm so important for a man because the
39:20
Speaker 2: man also needs to check this posturel level. And see,
39:24
Speaker 2: I think it's just as important for a woman. And
39:27
Speaker 2: you know there's things out there, there's creams, there's different things.
39:30
Speaker 2: And then the part about feeling like you said that
39:32
Speaker 2: she feels, you know, the forties and you know your
39:35
Speaker 2: skin does start to change. It's not going to lie
39:38
Speaker 2: like in your fifties. You see, that has to be
39:40
Speaker 2: a little bit more worried obviously, because like what is
39:43
Speaker 2: there for that? Like I don't need the other thing
39:45
Speaker 2: that don't need a testosterol, but I may need. Right,
39:48
Speaker 2: you have to exercise. So that's what I do. Hire
39:52
Speaker 2: the trainer again. I'm going to the gym and training
39:55
Speaker 2: with him, like at least three times a week. And
39:58
Speaker 2: all you can do is take care of your body
40:01
Speaker 2: and you take care of your internal You just connect.
40:05
Speaker 2: It connects and you know you feel good. You know,
40:08
Speaker 2: I think it's so important that you have to be
40:11
Speaker 2: happy while you're aging. You know what I mean. We
40:15
Speaker 2: can't no matter how many surgeries we do. No matter
40:18
Speaker 2: how good we try to look, we are that age
40:21
Speaker 2: and we have to accept it and do the best
40:24
Speaker 2: that we can. So I think the mentally to be accepted.
40:27
Speaker 2: It's kind of like happy aging, Like you're aging, but
40:30
Speaker 2: you're happy and you're empowering because guess what we at
40:33
Speaker 2: least I mean, don't you think you're better at sex
40:35
Speaker 2: now than when you were, like in your twenties.
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Speaker 1: Well, I've learned a lot through the years, you know.
40:40
Speaker 1: It's like going to college for a long time and
40:42
Speaker 1: getting all these degrees. I got all these sex degrees.
40:45
Speaker 1: I got better, for sure, That's what I'm saying.
40:47
Speaker 2: So it's like, okay, well, well they're younger, they might
40:49
Speaker 2: have more libido. But guess what, we know what we
40:52
Speaker 2: want and we you know, and we know how to
40:55
Speaker 2: do it right.
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Speaker 1: I want to put a disclaimer out there about the cremata,
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Speaker 1: the hormone, because I had to switch from that to
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Speaker 1: a pellet. I get a little pellet inserted in the
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Speaker 1: inside the skin of my buttocks, and it's slow, it's
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Speaker 1: slow releasing. It's wonderful because I forget to use stuff.
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Speaker 1: But if you have the cremy, there's a cream with
41:16
Speaker 1: the hormones on it, and if your partner rubs on it,
41:19
Speaker 1: he could grow boobs. So I'm just telling you that
41:22
Speaker 1: you took hair, yeah, but that the hormones get on
41:27
Speaker 1: their skin and then they can get boobies the men. Yeah,
41:31
Speaker 1: So I switched to the Pellett because I don't like
41:33
Speaker 1: a man with boobs.
41:34
Speaker 2: Just where is going to grow in his boots, in
41:37
Speaker 2: his chest.
41:38
Speaker 1: And in their chest? Yes, yes, it's a thing. It's
41:42
Speaker 1: a thing. And you know, when you're laying in bed
41:44
Speaker 1: and you're rubbing legs and sweating and everything starts rubbing
41:47
Speaker 1: off on everybody, they could have boobies and that's not cute.
41:51
Speaker 2: You don't want that, and you don't want that your.
41:54
Speaker 1: Man, and you don't want it.
41:59
Speaker 2: Interesting facts. Yeah, well, I mean you seem to know
42:03
Speaker 2: a lot about the subjects. So whenever I need some
42:06
Speaker 2: of your help, I will reach out to you. I
42:08
Speaker 2: know that I would get that little pellet in my
42:10
Speaker 2: book because that looks like it would hurt.
42:12
Speaker 1: I don't think you're ever gonna have to call me
42:14
Speaker 1: because you don't have your period until you die, I
42:16
Speaker 1: guess anymore. Oh, you fly don't have it.
42:20
Speaker 2: I brought off I lost David. Yeah, I guess from
42:26
Speaker 2: my nerves or whatever.
42:27
Speaker 1: But yeah, I lost a decade ago. You know how
42:31
Speaker 1: I loved decade with you.
42:32
Speaker 2: I was with you at the Hampton It's kind of like,
42:35
Speaker 2: I know when you got this is so funny. It's
42:37
Speaker 2: kind of like when you get your period and you
42:38
Speaker 2: know the day you got it with your best friend.
42:40
Speaker 2: So you lost your period with me in the Hamptons.
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Speaker 1: I know. I kept jumping and shows Aaron swimming pool
42:46
Speaker 1: at two, three, four, five o'clock in the morning because
42:48
Speaker 1: I couldn't sleep and I was sweating.
42:50
Speaker 2: And you so hot my clothes.
42:53
Speaker 1: Yeah, I made you get in the pool and like
42:56
Speaker 1: take off your clothes and skinny dip with me.
42:59
Speaker 2: I was like is row with her? I know company
43:03
Speaker 2: I can't sleep well. But you know what, but you
43:06
Speaker 2: took it very nice. You know you took it well
43:07
Speaker 2: because you know, I feel like some people, like I said,
43:09
Speaker 2: it's all about your mind, like your mind needs to
43:11
Speaker 2: control you know, your your emotions and your feelings. And
43:15
Speaker 2: it is like a shocking thing, you know, to assume.
43:17
Speaker 2: And also because not only is it mentally, it's like
43:19
Speaker 2: your body's also going through these changes. Like you said,
43:22
Speaker 2: you're like, it's super hot, like it was crazy, you
43:24
Speaker 2: couldn't see by night. I mean, it's you a real thing.
43:27
Speaker 1: It's horrible and you at first you don't even know
43:29
Speaker 1: what's going on. And my mom wasn't around when it
43:33
Speaker 1: happened to me, so I couldn't like ask her, And
43:35
Speaker 1: even if she had been, she had had a hysterectomy
43:38
Speaker 1: when she was young, so she really never went through it.
43:42
Speaker 1: So I know what was happening to me because I
43:44
Speaker 1: had no one to talk to me about it. I
43:46
Speaker 1: was just going through this weirdness. It was horrible. I
43:51
Speaker 1: got it bad. But here I am on the other
43:54
Speaker 1: side and I don't have any.
43:57
Speaker 2: Behind You look good, feel good, good, you're performing. I'm performing.
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Speaker 2: I'm kidding it. I love it, my friend. You look amazing,
44:11
Speaker 2: you feel amazing. We have a beautiful life. Yeah, so
44:15
Speaker 2: we're very grateful for all that.
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Speaker 1: God is good. Totally. Well, that was fun.
44:23
Speaker 2: It's always fun talking to you, my friend. Even though
44:25
Speaker 2: I know so much about you, I always find more
44:27
Speaker 2: things out.
44:28
Speaker 1: I've always got a Steve's always like you've got the
44:30
Speaker 1: most twisted stories. You always have a twisted story about everything.
44:34
Speaker 1: I'm like, I've seen a lot. I don't know not much.
44:37
Speaker 1: Jade's me. I got some weird stories of my sleeve
44:40
Speaker 1: all the time.
44:41
Speaker 2: I've got a lot of stories. But for me, I
44:43
Speaker 2: feel like mine are normal. I mean that might be
44:45
Speaker 2: weird to other people.
44:46
Speaker 1: Well, you have you have lived far from a normal life,
44:50
Speaker 1: that's for sure. You've lived a television movie.
44:53
Speaker 2: I guess that I've like normalized it, right, because I'm
44:56
Speaker 2: like I've learned so much, like throughout the process that
44:58
Speaker 2: I've learned to like accept and just you know, learn
45:02
Speaker 2: from it. And for me, it's like all normal. It's
45:05
Speaker 2: like part of the process, Like I'm a working process,
45:08
Speaker 2: Like I had to go through all that to where
45:10
Speaker 2: I am today.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it made you who you are right now. Yeah,
45:14
Speaker 1: and I love you. So that's good. You're pretty, You're
45:17
Speaker 1: pretty awesome.
45:19
Speaker 2: I love you too, my friend. Well, here's the aging.
45:22
Speaker 2: We don't have a cocky because that's what I was
45:24
Speaker 2: going to do.
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Speaker 1: I know, I want. I'm about to scream in my
45:27
Speaker 1: microphone to Steve to bring me on. I'm dry.
45:31
Speaker 2: Yeah. Cheers to happy aging, Cheers to sex, Cheers to
45:36
Speaker 2: not drinking and driving, not drinking, Cheers to not cheating
45:39
Speaker 2: and putting up with the cheaters.
45:41
Speaker 1: Don't put your wiener and another woman if it's not
45:43
Speaker 1: your wife, and if you do so there exactly don't
45:51
Speaker 1: be a dumb dumb right.
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