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Vibe Sesh #33: Game God Goldie | “I Like Who Likes Me” · Vibe Sesh Podcast

• 0:03
  SPEAKER_03: How are you, son?
• 0:04
  SPEAKER_03: Hey, hey.
• 0:06
  SPEAKER_03: I got you, bro.
• 0:06
  SPEAKER_03: I got you.
• 0:07
  SPEAKER_03: Get to my nervous system.
• 0:08
  SPEAKER_03: You got me.
• 0:09
  SPEAKER_03: Come on.
• 0:12
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, vibes right here, bro.
• 0:13
  SPEAKER_03: You got it?
• 0:13
  SPEAKER_03: You got it?
• 0:14
  SPEAKER_03: You good?
• 0:15
  SPEAKER_03: How you feeling?
• 0:16
  SPEAKER_03: We're Gucci.
• 0:18
  SPEAKER_03: How do you like my grandfather glasses, bro?
• 0:21
  SPEAKER_02: Bro, I love the fit, bro.
• 0:23
  SPEAKER_02: I was fucking dying.
• 0:24
  SPEAKER_02: The moment my screen just had you on, you're dancing.
• 0:26
  SPEAKER_02: Damn!
• 0:27
  SPEAKER_03: I gotta, bro, I gotta do like the, I gotta do the God Game Goldie, dude, you know?
• 0:33
  SPEAKER_03: I can't even get his name right, bro.
• 0:35
  SPEAKER_03: It's too long, bro.
• 0:38
  SPEAKER_03: And dude, you were like bringing the sunglasses.
• 0:41
  SPEAKER_03: That was brilliant, bro.
• 0:42
  SPEAKER_03: We gotta do crazy shit like this.
• 0:44
  SPEAKER_03: Look at our numbers, dude.
• 0:45
  SPEAKER_03: Numbers.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_01: Mmm.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_01: Mmm.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_01: Mmm.
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_03: How are
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_02: you feeling?
• 0:56
  SPEAKER_02: I'm feeling awesome, dude.
• 0:59
  SPEAKER_02: Damn, bro.
• 1:01
  SPEAKER_02: I'm feeling good.
• 1:02
  SPEAKER_02: I was hoping you would see that, you know what I'm saying?
• 1:07
  SPEAKER_02: It's kind of hard.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_03: We got to ask him, how do you leave your sunglasses on the whole time?
• 1:12
  SPEAKER_03: Does he go to sleep in them?
• 1:14
  SPEAKER_03: I know, right?
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, it's too much.
• 1:16
  SPEAKER_03: I can't.
• 1:17
  SPEAKER_03: I don't have the same energy.
• 1:22
  SPEAKER_03: Oh my God.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_03: All right, let's see what's going on.
• 1:25
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, Cisco, we got some.
• 1:27
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, Benoit.
• 1:28
  SPEAKER_03: Come on up, Benoit.
• 1:29
  SPEAKER_03: Benoit.
• 1:30
  SPEAKER_03: Hopefully he has some sunglasses.
• 1:32
  SPEAKER_03: Hopefully he has some sunglasses.
• 1:35
  SPEAKER_03: Let's go.
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_03: This is pre-gaming.
• 1:39
  SPEAKER_03: Pre-gaming, guys.
• 1:44
  SPEAKER_01: There we go.
• 1:48
  SPEAKER_01: I got
• 1:52
  SPEAKER_03: these giant ones because I got to put it over my thing, bro, sometimes.
• 2:02
  SPEAKER_03: Ben, what's going on, brother?
• 2:04
  SPEAKER_01: What's up, guys?
• 2:06
  SPEAKER_01: Not much.
• 2:07
  SPEAKER_01: Just chilling.
• 2:10
  SPEAKER_03: And this is your third Vibe sesh, brother.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_03: How you feeling?
• 2:14
  SPEAKER_01: I feel great.
• 2:16
  SPEAKER_01: I feel good.
• 2:16
  SPEAKER_01: I feel good.
• 2:18
  SPEAKER_01: Feel good.
• 2:18
  SPEAKER_01: A little tired, but possibly hungover.
• 2:20
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm not sure.
• 2:22
  SPEAKER_01: Damn.
• 2:23
  SPEAKER_03: How many glasses, dude?
• 2:25
  SPEAKER_03: You said three glasses tops, you said.
• 2:28
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I didn't have just one yesterday.
• 2:30
  SPEAKER_01: That's why.
• 2:31
  SPEAKER_01: You didn't have just one?
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_01: I didn't have just wine.
• 2:35
  SPEAKER_01: Oh!
• 2:38
  SPEAKER_03: Last night was a good night, baby.
• 2:40
  SPEAKER_03: Baby, what's going on last night?
• 2:42
  SPEAKER_03: Tell me about how you party, bro.
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_03: I want to know how Benoit, the guy with the second life.
• 2:47
  SPEAKER_03: You had your first life.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_03: This is his book, guys.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_03: It's about his first life.
• 2:50
  SPEAKER_03: And Benoit is on his second life.
• 2:53
  SPEAKER_03: And I want to know, what does that look like?
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_03: A night out.
• 2:56
  SPEAKER_03: It's Monday, right?
• 2:58
  SPEAKER_03: It's Tuesday.
• 3:01
  SPEAKER_03: Wow.
• 3:01
  SPEAKER_03: He's partying on a Tuesday, brother.
• 3:03
  SPEAKER_03: So tell us about it.
• 3:05
  SPEAKER_01: I was home by 10.47.
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_01: That was my night.
• 3:09
  SPEAKER_01: But it was fun.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_01: Earl always sleeps early.
• 3:11
  SPEAKER_03: He gets to bed on time, bro.
• 3:13
  SPEAKER_03: He's disciplined
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  SPEAKER_03: with his party.
• 3:15
  SPEAKER_03: This is like the high level right here.
• 3:19
  SPEAKER_03: I can't wait for it to meet Game God, bro.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I'm curious what will happen tonight.
• 3:29
  SPEAKER_01: It's going to be fun.
• 3:30
  SPEAKER_01: But to answer your question, I just enjoy my morning so much.
• 3:37
  SPEAKER_01: And I like waking up with the sun and it's just,
• 3:40
  SPEAKER_01: you know,
• 3:41
  SPEAKER_01: a little moment of peace and starting the day with as much peace as I can
• 3:46
  SPEAKER_01: and tranquility just sets up the day for the same same kind of vibe.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_01: So forward to that more than staying up late.
• 3:53
  SPEAKER_01: No good decisions happen after midnight anyway.
• 3:59
  SPEAKER_03: Damn, that's a nice life right there.
• 4:01
  SPEAKER_03: So much tranquility and peace, dude.
• 4:03
  SPEAKER_03: How do you achieve that in the morning?
• 4:05
  SPEAKER_03: You're just sitting around, enjoying, being present.
• 4:09
  SPEAKER_03: What does that mean?
• 4:10
  SPEAKER_03: That's it, right?
• 4:11
  SPEAKER_01: I told you, just wake up and do nothing.
• 4:15
  SPEAKER_01: That's it.
• 4:15
  SPEAKER_01: That's the secret.
• 4:16
  SPEAKER_01: Do nothing.
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  SPEAKER_01: No education about yourself, about the world.
• 4:21
  SPEAKER_01: Just sit, be present.
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  SPEAKER_01: Look at the sun, be happy.
• 4:25
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 4:25
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not even trying anything and just I really had to do nothing.
• 4:31
  SPEAKER_01: Can't explain it better than that.
• 4:33
  SPEAKER_02: Tired of that at some point or no?
• 4:36
  SPEAKER_02: Tired of peace, bro?
• 4:38
  SPEAKER_02: Who gets tired of peace, bro?
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_02: No, nothing, you know?
• 4:41
  SPEAKER_02: At some point, it may trigger your want to do something again, no?
• 4:45
  SPEAKER_01: No, so what happens is the brain's still working,
• 4:49
  SPEAKER_01: but at the same time,
• 4:50
  SPEAKER_01: since I do it shortly after waking up, you're still in this transition phase, right?
• 4:56
  SPEAKER_01: And so I just want I want whatever happens in my brain to happen naturally
• 5:02
  SPEAKER_01: without external stimuli.
• 5:04
  SPEAKER_01: And so usually the brain starts working, you know, it kind of settles in.
• 5:12
  SPEAKER_01: But whatever comes, comes from me or from the insect.
• 5:15
  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't come from my phone or other people or just,
• 5:18
  SPEAKER_01: you know, just so whatever shows up, shows up.
• 5:21
  SPEAKER_01: And usually what happens after about 10 to 20 minutes,
• 5:26
  SPEAKER_01: I, um, Ideas start connecting, different things that I was thinking about.
• 5:31
  SPEAKER_01: And usually I start writing after that because I have these dots that connect in
• 5:36
  SPEAKER_01: the morning when I do nothing, which is surprising.
• 5:40
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not thinking about something,
• 5:41
  SPEAKER_01: but all of a sudden I'm going to connect the podcast that I saw with something
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  SPEAKER_01: that I started writing two weeks ago.
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_03: And then I'm like,
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_01: oh, perfect.
• 5:47
  SPEAKER_01: And then I start writing.
• 5:48
  SPEAKER_01: It just sets me up to,
• 5:51
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know,
• 5:52
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just trusting myself,
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  SPEAKER_01: trusting the flow, trusting everything that comes out naturally.
• 5:56
  SPEAKER_01: And it seems to be working well, so I just continue to do that.
• 5:59
  SPEAKER_01: I look forward to it.
• 6:00
  SPEAKER_03: See, but when you're at that piece, Cisco, you got the clarity, bro.
• 6:05
  SPEAKER_03: And in clarity, you make better decisions, bitch.
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 6:10
  SPEAKER_02: And it seems like you're after,
• 6:11
  SPEAKER_02: obviously, quality over just quantity of just push, push, push, push.
• 6:15
  SPEAKER_02: And you're allowing it.
• 6:17
  SPEAKER_02: Because it's probably a 10x idea, like, when it finally hits.
• 6:22
  SPEAKER_01: The thing is, I do much less in volume, but the quantity is so much, it's just better overall.
• 6:31
  SPEAKER_01: And so it's a net positive, like by far.
• 6:37
  SPEAKER_01: Anything I do with one could be a lot more profound and efficient and interesting,
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  SPEAKER_01: at least for me.
• 6:44
  SPEAKER_01: And so it works.
• 6:46
  SPEAKER_03: All right, guys, I think GameGoldie, everybody in gear, bro.
• 6:49
  SPEAKER_03: GameGoldie's here.
• 6:54
  SPEAKER_03: Sorry, God.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, let me invite this bad man up.
• 6:58
  SPEAKER_03: Let's invite Batty.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, no, dude, I can't get his name wrong.
• 7:02
  SPEAKER_03: I don't know if it's Game Got Batty or Game Got Goldy or, bro, I'm confused, bro.
• 7:07
  SPEAKER_00: Yo, yo, yo, what's the deal?
• 7:09
  SPEAKER_00: What's going on with it?
• 7:10
  SPEAKER_03: What's going on, baby?
• 7:12
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all funny shit.
• 7:14
  SPEAKER_03: Come on, bro.
• 7:15
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, because today we're going to talk about what is performance and what is real, brother.
• 7:21
  SPEAKER_00: Let's get to it, let's get to it.
• 7:23
  SPEAKER_03: Let's get to it, baby.
• 7:27
  SPEAKER_03: It's an honor to have you, bro.
• 7:30
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, I appreciate you, man.
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_00: I'll be seeing your content, man.
• 7:32
  SPEAKER_00: You be saying some real shit, man.
• 7:33
  SPEAKER_00: You be real deep with it, you know what I'm saying?
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, you started following me.
• 7:38
  SPEAKER_03: You know how we met?
• 7:39
  SPEAKER_03: You started following me, and then Cisco's a fan of yours.
• 7:42
  SPEAKER_03: He's liking your videos,
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_03: and so the algorithm started showing me your videos,
• 7:47
  SPEAKER_03: and I was like, oh, this is cool.
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_03: Isn't the algorithms beautiful?
• 7:53
  SPEAKER_03: You're a tech guy, right?
• 7:58
  SPEAKER_00: What'd you say?
• 8:00
  SPEAKER_00: No, what do you think?
• 8:02
  SPEAKER_00: What'd you say?
• 8:04
  SPEAKER_02: How about the algorithms?
• 8:06
  SPEAKER_00: You said about the algorithm?
• 8:09
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 8:09
  SPEAKER_02: Connecting each other, like the serendipity of finding each other.
• 8:13
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah.
• 8:13
  SPEAKER_00: You know it always happens like that.
• 8:15
  SPEAKER_00: You know that algorithm is something else, ain't it?
• 8:20
  SPEAKER_03: That's something else.
• 8:22
  SPEAKER_03: Cisco, why don't you introduce yourself and then Benoit.
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_03: But Cisco, tell him about because you have the most experience with young Goldie.
• 8:30
  SPEAKER_03: But wait a minute, you don't like young Goldie, right?
• 8:32
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, nah, I couldn't change the name.
• 8:34
  SPEAKER_00: I couldn't change my name.
• 8:35
  SPEAKER_03: Game guy I go to, you know, he's young.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_03: Maybe just GGG.
• 8:39
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, yeah,
• 8:40
  SPEAKER_03: Triple G,
• 8:40
  SPEAKER_03: that's what they call me,
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_03: Triple G. Triple G, Triple G, I'm gonna call him Triple G, baby.
• 8:45
  SPEAKER_03: But anyway, Cisco, tell him about what you know and why you were excited to have him here.
• 8:49
  SPEAKER_03: You were very, very excited.
• 8:51
  SPEAKER_03: You came in prepared, finally, bro.
• 8:53
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, see, all it takes is like the right incentive.
• 8:56
  SPEAKER_03: We've been doing Vibe Sessions together more than 100 times.
• 9:01
  SPEAKER_03: Game God,
• 9:02
  SPEAKER_03: Triple G.
• 9:03
  SPEAKER_03: And this is the first time he actually prepared,
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_03: like actually looked at videos and this and that.
• 9:08
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, yeah.
• 9:10
  SPEAKER_03: Come on.
• 9:10
  SPEAKER_00: Come on with it then.
• 9:12
  SPEAKER_00: Let's go.
• 9:13
  SPEAKER_03: Go, Cisco.
• 9:14
  SPEAKER_03: Go.
• 9:14
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I've been a co-host on this Vibe Seth show for just over a year.
• 9:19
  SPEAKER_02: So we've just been facilitating these conversations with special guests
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_02: and open dialogue with people come up and speak.
• 9:25
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know if Benoit wants to introduce himself as well.
• 9:30
  SPEAKER_01: I don't have much to say.
• 9:31
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just a guy trying to hang out with cool people so I can feel more cool myself.
• 9:39
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, Triple G, this guy, he was a special guest as well.
• 9:44
  SPEAKER_03: And now we've become real good friends.
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_03: But he's like an author.
• 9:47
  SPEAKER_03: He has all these ideas about reinvention, which we're going to talk about.
• 9:52
  SPEAKER_03: You reinvented yourself.
• 9:53
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm saying?
• 9:54
  SPEAKER_03: And so, you know, there's a lot of like cool vibes here, bro.
• 9:58
  SPEAKER_03: Like all ages are represented.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_03: The 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, baby.
• 10:05
  SPEAKER_01: Damn.
• 10:07
  SPEAKER_01: Who's in the 40s?
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_01: What?
• 10:11
  SPEAKER_01: Who's in his 40s?
• 10:13
  SPEAKER_01: You, bro.
• 10:14
  SPEAKER_01: Not yet.
• 10:15
  SPEAKER_03: Not yet, bro.
• 10:17
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, you're in your 40s, no?
• 10:19
  SPEAKER_03: A couple months ago.
• 10:22
  SPEAKER_03: He's holding on to that couple of months, bro.
• 10:26
  SPEAKER_03: Hey, so...
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_03: Triple G. So, man, where do we go with this, Cisco?
• 10:33
  SPEAKER_03: Because I want to ask my first question and then you go to your next question, all right?
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_03: Come on.
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_03: All right.
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_03: So, Triple G. Man,
• 10:41
  SPEAKER_03: so I noticed that you were talking about Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger, bro.
• 10:46
  SPEAKER_03: Did I?
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_00: I've been saying a lot of shit.
• 10:49
  SPEAKER_00: I've been saying a lot of shit.
• 10:50
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I got Charlie Munger booked, you know?
• 10:52
  SPEAKER_03: Damn!
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, you never talk about that.
• 10:55
  SPEAKER_03: I'm curious because I was a finance guy.
• 10:58
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm saying?
• 10:59
  SPEAKER_03: So I feel like there's some kind of synchronicity thing going, dude, maybe I'll be your mentor.
• 11:03
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm saying?
• 11:04
  SPEAKER_03: Your next level.
• 11:04
  SPEAKER_03: Maybe.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_03: Maybe.
• 11:06
  SPEAKER_03: If I have to.
• 11:07
  SPEAKER_03: No, but you know what I'm saying?
• 11:09
  SPEAKER_03: Like I'm in the finance,
• 11:10
  SPEAKER_03: Warren Buffett, Charlie Munger, and then you were talking about private equity.
• 11:13
  SPEAKER_03: You
• 11:17
  SPEAKER_00: know, I did a couple of mentorships for the private equity.
• 11:19
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I didn't try to dabble in a whole lot of things.
• 11:22
  SPEAKER_00: When it comes to Charlie Munger and Warren Buffett, you know, I like their wisdom about life.
• 11:26
  SPEAKER_00: You know, their frameworks.
• 11:28
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I really, you know, learned from them about is their frameworks about life.
• 11:33
  SPEAKER_00: To me, that's a game.
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_00: That's real game.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_00: So, you know, people talk about a game, this, that, and the third.
• 11:37
  SPEAKER_00: But when you listen to Charlie Munger,
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_00: you look at their frameworks about life and their mental models.
• 11:41
  SPEAKER_00: That's what's game to me.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_00: Damn, bro.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_03: So tell us about like a mental model.
• 11:47
  SPEAKER_03: Just choose one that really, damn, dude.
• 11:50
  SPEAKER_03: So how long have you been reading these guys and staying up to date with these guys?
• 11:54
  SPEAKER_03: Long time?
• 11:55
  SPEAKER_00: I've been reading, you know, for a long time.
• 11:57
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to give you a mental model.
• 11:59
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to give you mine.
• 11:59
  SPEAKER_00: And one of my mental models, one of my frameworks, if you know, you know, I like who like me.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_00: That is a mental framework.
• 12:06
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, you need to trademark that shit.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, I did.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, I did.
• 12:09
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I did for sure.
• 12:11
  SPEAKER_00: I did for sure.
• 12:12
  SPEAKER_00: That's one of the mental models.
• 12:14
  SPEAKER_00: I say that's the foundation for everything.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_00: I like who like me and that shit go deep.
• 12:17
  SPEAKER_00: That's esoteric.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_00: I like who like me.
• 12:19
  SPEAKER_00: You only pulling and dealing with people who see the value in you,
• 12:24
  SPEAKER_00: which shows that you have self-respect and self-love.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_00: And most dudes out here, what are they doing?
• 12:28
  SPEAKER_00: They chasing a woman that don't want them,
• 12:29
  SPEAKER_00: denying a woman that do want them, which shows lack of self-love.
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_00: And that's the crux of everybody's problem in a relationship.
• 12:37
  SPEAKER_03: You think that's a lack of self-love?
• 12:39
  SPEAKER_03: Tell me more about that.
• 12:42
  SPEAKER_00: How can you love yourself but deny the person that likes you and chase the person
• 12:48
  SPEAKER_00: who denies you, right?
• 12:49
  SPEAKER_00: That's a little bit of self-hate.
• 12:51
  SPEAKER_00: You don't have self-love if you keep trying to deal with women who don't really want
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_00: to deal with you.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_00: You deal with a woman who disrespects you,
• 12:58
  SPEAKER_00: who talks to you crazy, who doesn't really like you like that, right?
• 13:01
  SPEAKER_00: So I say it all the time.
• 13:03
  SPEAKER_00: I say these dudes out here, they're masochists.
• 13:05
  SPEAKER_00: They like abuse.
• 13:06
  SPEAKER_00: They love to deal with the woman who doesn't like them and the women
• 13:09
  SPEAKER_00: who do like them, they don't like.
• 13:14
  SPEAKER_00: Why don't we like the ones that like us?
• 13:16
  SPEAKER_00: What's going on there, man?
• 13:17
  SPEAKER_00: I just said it.
• 13:19
  SPEAKER_00: Lack of self-love.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_00: I tell these dudes all the time, I say, man, something in childhood.
• 13:23
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know if your mother didn't love you.
• 13:25
  SPEAKER_00: I grew up in a very loving family.
• 13:27
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 13:28
  SPEAKER_00: My mother loved me.
• 13:29
  SPEAKER_00: She overly loved me.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_00: So therefore,
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_00: I don't look for love in other people in other places because I feel it These people
• 13:34
  SPEAKER_00: who don't feel it within themselves,
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_00: they feel like they need to find it in all of these ways and all of these places.
• 13:39
  SPEAKER_00: So I can't say exactly why,
• 13:41
  SPEAKER_00: because it still baffles me to this day,
• 13:43
  SPEAKER_00: but I see it on a regular basis and dudes understand they problem.
• 13:47
  SPEAKER_00: They say, man, I just don't like the one who liked me.
• 13:50
  SPEAKER_00: And for me, I can't not like the person who liked me.
• 13:53
  SPEAKER_00: I get turned on to a woman who
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_03: liked me.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_03: That was your uncle's, tell us the club story because that was a pivotal moment for you, bro.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_03: Changed my life.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, changed your life.
• 14:05
  SPEAKER_03: But here's the thing that's crazy.
• 14:06
  SPEAKER_03: You're saying like, so was there a period for you, Triple G, where you had lack of self-love?
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_03: Because you said your mother loved you.
• 14:16
  SPEAKER_03: So you're saying you always
• 14:16
  SPEAKER_00: felt loved
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_03: then.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_03: You never felt like
• 14:19
  SPEAKER_00: I never had the issues most of these guys had,
• 14:22
  SPEAKER_00: but I still had that realization.
• 14:23
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to tell the story.
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_00: When I was 16 years old, my uncle used to take me to the club.
• 14:26
  SPEAKER_00: Shout out to Fleazy, right?
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: And we was in the club, and this changed my life for the rest of my life.
• 14:31
  SPEAKER_00: And the reason I feel like I have a better life than most people is because
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_00: of this lesson that I learned.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_00: Young, light-skinned, light, bright, everything right, my type.
• 14:39
  SPEAKER_00: You know, she on the dance floor, she dancing, she playing with me, she teasing with me.
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_00: I go over there, she playing with me, and my uncle put his hand on my shoulder.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_00: He said, hey, listen,
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_00: stop looking at that girl that you won't and start looking at
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_00: that funny looking girl in the corner that's looking at you.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_03: He said funny looking girl.
• 14:52
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, he did.
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_03: He did.
• 14:54
  SPEAKER_00: He did.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_00: He did.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_00: Hold on.
• 14:56
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm going to circle back to that part.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_00: Let me circle back to that part because that's important.
• 15:00
  SPEAKER_00: He told me, he said, listen, that girl right there on the desk, she going to give you a problem.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_00: That girl over there, she going to do everything for you.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_00: She going to make your life good.
• 15:07
  SPEAKER_00: That girl going to make your life hell.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_00: And when I, it rewired my mind to look for the woman who's looking for me.
• 15:13
  SPEAKER_00: And I say,
• 15:13
  SPEAKER_00: he said that funny looking girl,
• 15:15
  SPEAKER_00: because it might not be the one that looks the way you want her to look,
• 15:18
  SPEAKER_00: but she could be everything you want her to be.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_00: And so he just really changed my mindset of why do I want something that look good
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_00: that ain't good to me when you could find something that is good to you
• 15:26
  SPEAKER_00: and that's more valuable anyway.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_00: And then, you know, we can take it deeper than that in the principles of the game.
• 15:31
  SPEAKER_00: Hey man, put a wig on a pig.
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_00: Hey man, most of these women, you wash that makeup off they face.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_00: You take them extensions out.
• 15:37
  SPEAKER_00: You know, most women are regular.
• 15:39
  SPEAKER_00: So if you just find the woman who really likes you, right?
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_00: She really likes you.
• 15:43
  SPEAKER_00: She really want to do for you.
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_00: She really all about you.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_00: Hey man, you go put them extras on that one.
• 15:49
  SPEAKER_03: Hey, so it's not settling them because today's culture, they're like, I don't want to settle.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_03: But it almost sounds like it's a sophisticated way of saying you should settle to your level.
• 16:00
  SPEAKER_03: No?
• 16:01
  SPEAKER_00: Or is that a distinction there?
• 16:03
  SPEAKER_00: It depends what you value.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_00: You say you're telling me it's settling getting a woman who may not be the perfect look for me.
• 16:11
  SPEAKER_00: But I think you're settling when you're dealing with a woman
• 16:13
  SPEAKER_00: who quote unquote beautiful, but she give your life hell.
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_00: She's not a good person.
• 16:17
  SPEAKER_00: She's sneaking around doing this, doing that.
• 16:19
  SPEAKER_00: So it depends what you value.
• 16:21
  SPEAKER_00: And most people want that beautiful woman.
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_00: Why?
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_00: You will have this beautiful woman who gives you hell at home.
• 16:26
  SPEAKER_00: Why?
• 16:26
  SPEAKER_00: Because you need validation from other men.
• 16:30
  SPEAKER_00: Damn.
• 16:30
  SPEAKER_00: Damn.
• 16:44
  SPEAKER_00: I don't need validation from nobody.
• 16:46
  SPEAKER_00: I tell people all the time, man, I had this fight.
• 16:48
  SPEAKER_00: I had this fat white bitch when I was like 19 years old, put me in a Jaguar.
• 16:51
  SPEAKER_00: I was outside with my arm around her.
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man,
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_00: y'all wouldn't deal with her,
• 16:55
  SPEAKER_00: but she put me in a Jaguar at 19 years old,
• 16:57
  SPEAKER_00: paid cash for it, give me thousands of dollars a day.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_00: You get what I'm saying?
• 17:00
  SPEAKER_00: And I was okay to put my arm around her because I care what it is to me,
• 17:04
  SPEAKER_00: not what it looked like.
• 17:05
  SPEAKER_00: These dudes,
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_00: they care so much about the validation from other men that they'll deal with
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_00: a woman who's no good to them just because it looks good.
• 17:17
  SPEAKER_02: That's that Stockholm Syndrome.
• 17:18
  SPEAKER_02: You were talking about that.
• 17:19
  SPEAKER_02: Go ahead.
• 17:20
  SPEAKER_02: Say it again.
• 17:21
  SPEAKER_02: The Stockholm Syndrome.
• 17:22
  SPEAKER_00: Stockholm Syndrome.
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah, man.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_00: These men deal with women who mentally abuse them and they have fell in love with their captors.
• 17:34
  SPEAKER_00: Stockholm Syndrome.
• 17:35
  SPEAKER_00: They have fell in love with the person who abuses them.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_00: And it's a mental illness.
• 17:44
  SPEAKER_03: That is going down right now.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_00: But when we see it, though, we can all agree.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_00: We've seen this.
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_00: We've seen this.
• 17:51
  SPEAKER_00: Dudes deal with these women who mentally abuse them.
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_00: Hot, cold, hot, cold.
• 17:54
  SPEAKER_00: Don't really like them.
• 17:56
  SPEAKER_00: You know, give them a problem.
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_00: Ups, downs, highs, lows.
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_00: And they continue to deal with this woman who is abusing them.
• 18:02
  SPEAKER_00: And they love it.
• 18:04
  SPEAKER_03: They love it because of the stock tone syndrome.
• 18:07
  SPEAKER_03: They love it.
• 18:09
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, man, I can't figure it out, but I just understand it just is what it is.
• 18:16
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why I try to,
• 18:17
  SPEAKER_00: I'm so heavy on the I like you like me,
• 18:19
  SPEAKER_00: to reprogram yourself, to reprogram yourself, to love the person who loves you.
• 18:25
  SPEAKER_00: See the world differently.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_00: I can't find a woman beautiful if she don't like me.
• 18:28
  SPEAKER_00: I can walk next to Beyonce or any beautiful woman that you think.
• 18:32
  SPEAKER_00: If I say hello and she don't got the right energy for me, I don't even like you no more.
• 18:35
  SPEAKER_00: I can't even like a woman who don't like me.
• 18:37
  SPEAKER_00: These dudes love a woman that don't like them.
• 18:41
  SPEAKER_02: Now, did you learn that from your uncle or who gave you that mental model I like who likes me?
• 18:50
  SPEAKER_00: I got it originally from my uncle, right?
• 18:53
  SPEAKER_00: Because the woman that, you know, that club story, that was just the crux.
• 18:57
  SPEAKER_00: That was the beginning of it.
• 18:58
  SPEAKER_00: But I really started to see it was the women that really liked me that did the most
• 19:02
  SPEAKER_00: for my life, that changed my life.
• 19:04
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm just wired differently.
• 19:06
  SPEAKER_00: So when I see a woman,
• 19:08
  SPEAKER_00: I don't see her nothing past how much she liked me and what she gonna do for me.
• 19:11
  SPEAKER_00: That's the value she brings to me.
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_00: And that's what they, you know, that's what they say in the game, right?
• 19:17
  SPEAKER_00: You know?
• 19:18
  SPEAKER_00: A good looker don't mean she a good hooker.
• 19:20
  SPEAKER_00: You get what I'm saying?
• 19:21
  SPEAKER_00: Pretty is what pretty does.
• 19:22
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 19:23
  SPEAKER_00: Those are mental models from the game.
• 19:25
  SPEAKER_00: A good looker don't make a good hooker.
• 19:27
  SPEAKER_00: Pretty is what pretty does.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_00: And what does that mean?
• 19:30
  SPEAKER_00: It don't matter how pretty you are.
• 19:31
  SPEAKER_00: What are you doing for me?
• 19:33
  SPEAKER_00: Pretty is what pretty does.
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_00: It's what you're doing and how you're coming.
• 19:37
  SPEAKER_00: That's what matters.
• 19:39
  SPEAKER_00: So that's a mental model from the game.
• 19:42
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 19:43
  SPEAKER_00: Bro, what's the game?
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_03: Let's get the definition of the game.
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_03: What is the game?
• 19:47
  SPEAKER_03: What is the game too?
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_03: Is it like relationships or the whole game?
• 19:51
  SPEAKER_03: What game are we talking about here?
• 19:53
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so when I'm talking about the game,
• 19:56
  SPEAKER_00: so I came up around a lifestyle of,
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_00: you know, men having women, going out there, getting some money from them.
• 20:03
  SPEAKER_00: So when I say the game, that's what I mean.
• 20:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like the lifestyle, that's what we call it.
• 20:07
  SPEAKER_00: The pimp lifestyle you mean?
• 20:09
  SPEAKER_00: Ah, man, I ain't never been no pimp, man.
• 20:10
  SPEAKER_00: Don't put the words in my mouth.
• 20:15
  SPEAKER_00: I've seen it up close though.
• 20:16
  SPEAKER_00: I've seen it.
• 20:17
  SPEAKER_00: Pimps, players, max pet lifestyle.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I've been around it.
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_00: I've been around it.
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_00: So that's the lifestyle I'm talking about, which is the complete opposite of the regular world.
• 20:27
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 20:28
  SPEAKER_00: So I saw things completely different.
• 20:33
  SPEAKER_02: And what's like the square and the tricks?
• 20:37
  SPEAKER_02: We got to learn these terms.
• 20:38
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, yeah.
• 20:39
  SPEAKER_03: The square, the hip square, the tricks.
• 20:42
  SPEAKER_01: Okay, okay, okay, I'll go
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_00: into it.
• 20:46
  SPEAKER_00: So, as far as the square goes,
• 20:49
  SPEAKER_00: when it comes to that lifestyle, if you ain't having no hoes, you're square.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: You ask anybody in that lifestyle, they think- Yeah.
• 21:01
  SPEAKER_00: Anybody that's not in a lifestyle having holes,
• 21:03
  SPEAKER_00: they say you're a square, you know, but that's not the down.
• 21:06
  SPEAKER_00: You feel what I'm saying?
• 21:07
  SPEAKER_00: In a hip square.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_00: A hip square is, hey, man, I done been around the game.
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_00: I done seen things.
• 21:12
  SPEAKER_00: I'm up on game, but I'm not actively participating in the lifestyle.
• 21:16
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm a hip square.
• 21:18
  SPEAKER_00: Now, we go into it, you know, the pimp, the Mac, the player.
• 21:22
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to tell you what Jimmy Starr told me, man.
• 21:24
  SPEAKER_00: Rest in peace, man.
• 21:25
  SPEAKER_00: This is one of my mentors back in the day.
• 21:27
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all should go get his book, man.
• 21:30
  SPEAKER_00: He had major game, major game.
• 21:32
  SPEAKER_00: 30, 40-year player.
• 21:33
  SPEAKER_00: He told me, he said, a Mac is a polished pimp.
• 21:37
  SPEAKER_00: You know, he said, a pimp know how to do one thing.
• 21:40
  SPEAKER_00: Pimp on holes.
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_00: A Mac, he would say, A pimp got three or four holes in the strip club.
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac owned the strip club.
• 21:48
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac has businesses.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac, everybody want to be the pimp, but the pimp is like the lowest rung on the totem pole.
• 21:57
  SPEAKER_00: You need to elevate to more things.
• 21:59
  SPEAKER_00: You could only get so rich being a pimp.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: That's why pimps go broke.
• 22:02
  SPEAKER_00: Why?
• 22:03
  SPEAKER_00: Because they only know how to get money out of holes.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac got businesses.
• 22:07
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac is doing this.
• 22:08
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac is owning clubs.
• 22:09
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac don't put rules on himself.
• 22:13
  SPEAKER_00: The pimp lives in a box.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_00: He has rules of what he can and can't do.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac do what he want to do.
• 22:18
  SPEAKER_00: However he got to get it, he going to get it.
• 22:20
  SPEAKER_00: So that's the difference between a pimp and a Mac.
• 22:23
  SPEAKER_00: And, you know,
• 22:24
  SPEAKER_00: depending on who you ask,
• 22:25
  SPEAKER_00: they'll tell you something different because if you a pimp,
• 22:27
  SPEAKER_00: niggas going to say, ah, no, the pimp is a better one.
• 22:29
  SPEAKER_00: I tell the people all the time,
• 22:30
  SPEAKER_00: if you ever seen the movie, the movie called The Mac, it's not called The Pimp.
• 22:34
  SPEAKER_00: The Mac is the highest on the totem pole.
• 22:38
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, the white boys be the Macs.
• 22:40
  SPEAKER_03: There's a movie called The Mac?
• 22:41
  SPEAKER_03: There's a movie called The Mac?
• 22:43
  SPEAKER_03: You ain't never seen the movie The Mac?
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_03: No, bro.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, shit, I haven't seen the movie.
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_03: That's crazy.
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, you gotta go check it out.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_03: Okay, okay.
• 22:50
  SPEAKER_03: It's about like a pimp and stuff and the Mac is the boss.
• 22:53
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
• 22:54
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, let's go back to your dude.
• 22:57
  SPEAKER_03: So I didn't know you because your dad died early, right?
• 23:00
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
• 23:01
  SPEAKER_03: But I didn't know you had like an amazing mother, bro.
• 23:04
  SPEAKER_03: That is so weird, bro.
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_00: And you know,
• 23:06
  SPEAKER_00: it's funny because people hear how I talk and they be like, he must hate his mother.
• 23:10
  SPEAKER_00: No, I love my mother.
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_00: We talk all the time.
• 23:13
  SPEAKER_00: So they would think that I hated my
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_03: mother or something.
• 23:15
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 23:17
  SPEAKER_03: But now I'm thinking about it.
• 23:18
  SPEAKER_03: It's so ridiculous for me to think that.
• 23:20
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm saying?
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_03: Damn, bro.
• 23:24
  SPEAKER_03: Wow.
• 23:25
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
• 23:27
  SPEAKER_03: Benoit, you're kind of quiet.
• 23:28
  SPEAKER_03: What's up, Benoit?
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just listening to you guys.
• 23:34
  SPEAKER_01: I like listening more than I like talking.
• 23:37
  SPEAKER_01: And I agree with the overall message and especially what you were saying
• 23:40
  SPEAKER_01: about self-love and stuff and how men act.
• 23:47
  SPEAKER_01: It makes a lot of sense when you consider that everything we want
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_01: as human beings is just an excuse for an emotion we're trying to feel.
• 23:55
  SPEAKER_01: So whatever we're lacking, we think we look for things.
• 24:00
  SPEAKER_01: It's not really the thing that we're looking for.
• 24:02
  SPEAKER_01: It's the emotion that it brings us.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_00: Come on.
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, what?
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_00: That's NLP, right?
• 24:07
  SPEAKER_00: It ain't never the thing.
• 24:08
  SPEAKER_00: It's the feeling that you allow yourself to have when you get that thing,
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_00: but you can have that feeling without having that thing.
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_00: So you think that you need this thing to feel a certain way,
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_00: not knowing you're giving yourself that feeling when you get that thing.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_00: So you don't even need that thing to feel like that if you just allow yourself
• 24:24
  SPEAKER_00: to feel like that.
• 24:25
  SPEAKER_01: Yep.
• 24:25
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, exactly.
• 24:27
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 24:28
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, and then it's not necessarily available immediately.
• 24:32
  SPEAKER_01: Because sometimes you have a lot of work to do.
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_01: It's hard to love yourself if you don't understand yourself.
• 24:38
  SPEAKER_01: You need to understand yourself to then really understand yourself to accept yourself.
• 24:44
  SPEAKER_01: And once you've accepted who you are in its entirety, then you can love yourself.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_01: Once you love yourself, then you're open to love yourself.
• 24:49
  SPEAKER_00: Tell me this.
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_00: How do people get to know themselves?
• 24:55
  SPEAKER_01: Let's go.
• 24:56
  SPEAKER_01: The way I've done this was through writing.
• 25:02
  SPEAKER_01: Many, many ways,
• 25:02
  SPEAKER_01: but just spending a lot of time with me and just thinking of my thinking
• 25:07
  SPEAKER_01: and understanding my patterns and understanding why things trigger me and
• 25:12
  SPEAKER_01: where they came from and what was the thing underneath
• 25:16
  SPEAKER_01: the thing I thought I was chasing.
• 25:18
  SPEAKER_01: I used to chase money.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_01: That was the most important thing for me.
• 25:20
  SPEAKER_01: I just wanted security.
• 25:21
  SPEAKER_01: I wanted to feel like I mattered.
• 25:23
  SPEAKER_01: I wanted to feel like I was important.
• 25:26
  SPEAKER_01: I've always struggled with keeping relationships and I got bored because The thing,
• 25:31
  SPEAKER_01: I wasn't chasing a stable relationship.
• 25:33
  SPEAKER_01: I was just chasing what the status of the relationship meant to me.
• 25:38
  SPEAKER_01: And so I would always be all in at the beginning.
• 25:41
  SPEAKER_01: And it was almost like an addiction or a drug.
• 25:43
  SPEAKER_01: I would love bomb, right?
• 25:46
  SPEAKER_03: And then at some point,
• 25:47
  SPEAKER_01: I'm like...
• 25:48
  SPEAKER_01: At some point,
• 25:48
  SPEAKER_01: the thing you lose... Because the thing you're chasing is an illusion.
• 25:53
  SPEAKER_01: It's within.
• 25:55
  SPEAKER_01: And since I still didn't know how to love myself, then you get...
• 26:00
  SPEAKER_01: You get to somewhere and you're like, boy, this is not what I wanted.
• 26:02
  SPEAKER_01: And so you get bored with the relationship and you have to switch it.
• 26:06
  SPEAKER_01: And this can go on forever until you actually do the work.
• 26:09
  SPEAKER_01: And so, yeah,
• 26:12
  SPEAKER_01: the way I did this was through writing because writing
• 26:15
  SPEAKER_01: for me really slows down my brain.
• 26:17
  SPEAKER_01: It's impossible to write as fast as you think.
• 26:20
  SPEAKER_01: And so we're just slowing down and our whole process of removal of the beliefs and
• 26:26
  SPEAKER_01: the stories that we tell ourselves and And ultimately,
• 26:28
  SPEAKER_01: a much better understanding of yourself.
• 26:31
  SPEAKER_01: That's how I did.
• 26:33
  SPEAKER_00: That's deep.
• 26:34
  SPEAKER_00: You get into the real crux of your issues.
• 26:36
  SPEAKER_00: What is the real reason that I'm chasing this?
• 26:38
  SPEAKER_00: Man, that's deep.
• 26:40
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, well,
• 26:40
  SPEAKER_01: because once you understand the underlying pattern of anything in life,
• 26:44
  SPEAKER_01: whether that's yourself or other people,
• 26:48
  SPEAKER_01: you don't have to solve individual problems anymore.
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_01: If you fix the underlying thing that branches out,
• 26:54
  SPEAKER_01: You fix that, all the problems just disappear on their own.
• 26:57
  SPEAKER_01: And they're super efficient to do, right?
• 26:59
  SPEAKER_00: Damn.
• 27:00
  SPEAKER_00: That's 100%.
• 27:00
  SPEAKER_00: Bro, this is fire, man.
• 27:03
  SPEAKER_03: I'm so happy you guys are meeting each other.
• 27:06
  SPEAKER_03: What is going on right now, guys?
• 27:08
  SPEAKER_03: He was like, I don't really talk.
• 27:11
  SPEAKER_03: Manuel was like, I'm shy, I don't really talk.
• 27:14
  SPEAKER_03: Boom, bro.
• 27:15
  SPEAKER_03: Triple G, Goldie, so what about you?
• 27:19
  SPEAKER_03: He said, through writing, I'm noticing a pattern.
• 27:21
  SPEAKER_03: I know what my answer is, but Triple G, you go first.
• 27:24
  SPEAKER_03: How do you get to know yourself?
• 27:26
  SPEAKER_03: What did you do?
• 27:27
  SPEAKER_03: Because you reinvented yourself.
• 27:29
  SPEAKER_03: You clearly did the work.
• 27:30
  SPEAKER_03: What did you do on a fundamental first principles level?
• 27:35
  SPEAKER_00: Man, to get to know myself, man,
• 27:37
  SPEAKER_00: you know, see,
• 27:38
  SPEAKER_00: you know,
• 27:38
  SPEAKER_00: and they say,
• 27:39
  SPEAKER_00: you know,
• 27:39
  SPEAKER_00: in a lifestyle,
• 27:40
  SPEAKER_00: it's a lonely game, man,
• 27:41
  SPEAKER_00: because you got your bras and when your bras is out doing what they doing,
• 27:43
  SPEAKER_00: you by yourself.
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_00: So I have a lot of time to spend by myself.
• 27:48
  SPEAKER_00: So therefore, I was able to get to know myself because I was able to spend time with myself.
• 27:53
  SPEAKER_00: I don't have no regular job, you know, so I'm really just spending time with myself all day.
• 27:58
  SPEAKER_00: So I would think about what I'm thinking about.
• 28:00
  SPEAKER_00: Like he said,
• 28:01
  SPEAKER_00: when I have an issue,
• 28:02
  SPEAKER_00: I'm thinking, well,
• 28:03
  SPEAKER_00: why do I feel And what's the underpinning reason is,
• 28:06
  SPEAKER_00: and I can really dig through it because I have the time to do it.
• 28:09
  SPEAKER_00: And I feel like most people will never get to know themselves because they're
• 28:11
  SPEAKER_00: so busy running here,
• 28:12
  SPEAKER_00: running there, going to work, dealing with this, dealing with that.
• 28:14
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like you need to have time with yourself.
• 28:17
  SPEAKER_00: And I meditate and I have times and periods where I just sit and I'll put a timer
• 28:21
  SPEAKER_00: on just to think about what I'm thinking about.
• 28:22
  SPEAKER_00: Most people never do that.
• 28:23
  SPEAKER_00: So they never get to know themselves.
• 28:25
  SPEAKER_00: And I feel like the lifestyle I was in has blessed me to have that time to sit
• 28:29
  SPEAKER_00: for hours and hours, for years and years to really think about who I am.
• 28:35
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, that was the pattern, right?
• 28:37
  SPEAKER_03: He exactly answered how I thought he was going to answer.
• 28:39
  SPEAKER_03: Cisco, what's the pattern between our three answers?
• 28:45
  SPEAKER_02: Sorry, you just caught me.
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_03: Dude,
• 28:49
  SPEAKER_02: the pattern is...
• 28:50
  SPEAKER_02: It's sitting with yourself and giving yourself that space.
• 28:54
  SPEAKER_02: Isolation, baby.
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_02: Isolation.
• 28:58
  SPEAKER_02: Isolation.
• 28:59
  SPEAKER_03: It could be years, baby.
• 29:00
  SPEAKER_03: For me, it was like eight years, bro, just sitting and reading and thinking and thinking.
• 29:05
  SPEAKER_03: And today I realize, Benoit, I was doing the same thing.
• 29:09
  SPEAKER_03: Maybe I didn't love myself.
• 29:10
  SPEAKER_03: I was love bombing.
• 29:11
  SPEAKER_03: You know,
• 29:11
  SPEAKER_03: when I was on Wall Street and just spending money and getting the hot chicks,
• 29:16
  SPEAKER_03: you know, like I didn't realize that meant that I was not loving myself, bro.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, man.
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_01: God, this is Yeah, I think isolation, I would even call it selective isolation, right?
• 29:27
  SPEAKER_01: Because there's isolation that you don't choose,
• 29:29
  SPEAKER_01: but once you choose it,
• 29:31
  SPEAKER_01: it's, you know, it's something that you're going to do for you.
• 29:34
  SPEAKER_01: And just like you,
• 29:35
  SPEAKER_01: you understand the world once you understand yourself,
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_01: because like history doesn't, doesn't repeat itself.
• 29:41
  SPEAKER_01: Human behavior does.
• 29:43
  SPEAKER_01: And so we're all pretty much working with the same patterns,
• 29:46
  SPEAKER_01: the same, like we have the same things going on.
• 29:49
  SPEAKER_01: So once you understand yourself, You realize that everything's a mirror anyways.
• 29:53
  SPEAKER_01: And so what you're able to see in yourself,
• 29:55
  SPEAKER_01: you're able to see in others, and life becomes so much easier.
• 29:57
  SPEAKER_01: But on every level,
• 29:58
  SPEAKER_01: whether you're trying to get better at sales or dating or business,
• 30:02
  SPEAKER_01: it just applies to everything.
• 30:04
  SPEAKER_01: It's a wonderful thing.
• 30:05
  SPEAKER_01: And it does come with the necessity to start enjoying spending time with yourself.
• 30:12
  SPEAKER_01: Most of the time, people don't do it because they're afraid of what will surface.
• 30:18
  SPEAKER_00: Oh man, I say it all the time.
• 30:20
  SPEAKER_00: That's why people are in bad relationships.
• 30:22
  SPEAKER_00: They would rather be in a bad relationship than be at peace by themselves because
• 30:25
  SPEAKER_00: that peace is uncomfortable because when they're with themselves,
• 30:27
  SPEAKER_00: all of those things are surfacing that you're trying to repress.
• 30:30
  SPEAKER_00: So let me go get with that woman and hang out with that woman or these friends
• 30:33
  SPEAKER_00: who ain't really my friend so I can distract myself from who I am,
• 30:37
  SPEAKER_00: who I've been trying to run from.
• 30:39
  SPEAKER_00: It is uncomfortable.
• 30:40
  SPEAKER_00: Hey man, I tell people in my group all the time, I say, hey man, just sit down for 10 minutes.
• 30:44
  SPEAKER_00: Don't touch your phone, don't touch nothing.
• 30:45
  SPEAKER_00: You're going to start to squirming like a dope fiend.
• 30:47
  SPEAKER_00: Why?
• 30:48
  SPEAKER_00: Because it's so uncomfortable because you've been repressing all of these things for so long.
• 30:52
  SPEAKER_00: That's why I feel like meditation is one of the best practices for anybody to have.
• 30:56
  SPEAKER_00: To really let these uncomfortable things arise.
• 31:01
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, you can't get to the bottom of things until they arise.
• 31:03
  SPEAKER_00: But you're trying to put it off.
• 31:05
  SPEAKER_00: You're trying to smoke weed.
• 31:06
  SPEAKER_00: You're trying to drink alcohol because you're trying to not think about these things.
• 31:10
  SPEAKER_00: But if you think about these things, you get to the bottom of them.
• 31:12
  SPEAKER_00: You can change your life.
• 31:15
  SPEAKER_03: What do you think, Cisco?
• 31:18
  SPEAKER_02: Well, how much what's the ratio then
• 31:23
  SPEAKER_02: of like you discovering yourself versus you creating yourself?
• 31:29
  SPEAKER_02: How would you balance that discovering yourself versus creating yourself?
• 31:33
  SPEAKER_02: Discovering yourself versus creating yourself, Triple G.
• 31:37
  SPEAKER_00: Man, I don't know.
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_00: That's a hard question.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_00: Those seem like two sides of the same coin.
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_00: I don't understand the difference.
• 31:44
  SPEAKER_00: You break it down to me.
• 31:45
  SPEAKER_00: What's the difference?
• 31:45
  SPEAKER_00: Break it down.
• 31:46
  SPEAKER_00: You were saying like,
• 31:48
  SPEAKER_02: as you're meditating, you are allowing these things to come up and explore them.
• 31:54
  SPEAKER_02: But there's also that idea where you can just throw that away and put something new
• 31:58
  SPEAKER_02: that you want in place of it.
• 32:01
  SPEAKER_02: So you're saying like you're calling versus not?
• 32:03
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe like a self-image of yours.
• 32:05
  SPEAKER_02: Like,
• 32:07
  SPEAKER_02: I'm a loser.
• 32:08
  SPEAKER_02: Why do I think that?
• 32:09
  SPEAKER_02: Or just discard it completely and put in I'm a winner.
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 32:15
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, man, you know, I can't really say because I don't have negative self-talk.
• 32:22
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 32:23
  SPEAKER_03: You have no negative self-talk?
• 32:25
  SPEAKER_03: Maybe.
• 32:25
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, of course, I must have.
• 32:28
  SPEAKER_00: I just lied to myself and act like I don't.
• 32:30
  SPEAKER_00: You're lying to yourself, baby.
• 32:32
  SPEAKER_00: But let me tell you.
• 32:35
  SPEAKER_00: I read this book called Conscious Auto-Suggestion.
• 32:38
  SPEAKER_00: You know?
• 32:38
  SPEAKER_00: So I always am in the mindset of anytime that I have any negative thoughts,
• 32:43
  SPEAKER_00: I automatically have auto-suggestions of positive affirmations that I play
• 32:47
  SPEAKER_00: in my head over and over and over anytime I even think negative.
• 32:51
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, does that work?
• 32:52
  SPEAKER_03: Does that work?
• 32:53
  SPEAKER_03: I heard that.
• 32:54
  SPEAKER_03: And I was thinking of doing that.
• 32:55
  SPEAKER_03: It does take a little energy, you know, because you think negative.
• 32:58
  SPEAKER_00: Emily, cool, cool or something like that.
• 33:00
  SPEAKER_00: Constance auto-suggested.
• 33:01
  SPEAKER_00: It's a great book.
• 33:03
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, I'm going to get that book.
• 33:05
  SPEAKER_00: Make some videos on it, yeah.
• 33:08
  SPEAKER_01: There's an easy way to start having these negative thoughts have less effect on you.
• 33:15
  SPEAKER_01: It's just to give them a name.
• 33:18
  SPEAKER_01: Let's say I would call them Bruno, because Bruno is fucking annoying.
• 33:21
  SPEAKER_01: So every time I have an annoying sound, I'm like, shut the fuck up, Bruno.
• 33:24
  SPEAKER_01: Like, really?
• 33:26
  SPEAKER_01: And it just creates that initial separation.
• 33:33
  SPEAKER_00: Give me an example, like some negative self-talk that you put a name on.
• 33:40
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, go ahead, Benoit.
• 33:41
  SPEAKER_03: In your real life, give us a real life scenario.
• 33:44
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, and you can call it Bruno just for entertainment purposes.
• 33:47
  SPEAKER_01: Sorry, what was the question?
• 33:48
  SPEAKER_01: A real life scenario for what?
• 33:49
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, just, okay.
• 33:50
  SPEAKER_01: Let's say I,
• 33:51
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know,
• 33:52
  SPEAKER_01: I'm about to film a video and I started saying, well, this video is going to flop.
• 33:56
  SPEAKER_01: People are not going to think I'm serious.
• 33:59
  SPEAKER_01: I don't have the authority in this space and And once I have the awareness of that,
• 34:03
  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, well, shut up, Bruno.
• 34:05
  SPEAKER_01: What the fuck do you know about that?
• 34:07
  SPEAKER_01: Like, let me try.
• 34:09
  SPEAKER_01: You just talk to it.
• 34:10
  SPEAKER_01: You give it a...
• 34:11
  SPEAKER_01: Shut the fuck up.
• 34:12
  SPEAKER_00: Damn.
• 34:13
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 34:14
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, you know what I do sometimes?
• 34:18
  SPEAKER_00: I'll look myself in the mirror and I'll be like, man, stop acting like a little bitch.
• 34:21
  SPEAKER_00: That's sometimes what I got.
• 34:22
  SPEAKER_00: Stop acting like a little bitch.
• 34:24
  SPEAKER_00: That's that noise.
• 34:25
  SPEAKER_00: That's that insecurity.
• 34:26
  SPEAKER_00: Man, stop acting like a little bitch.
• 34:27
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, I ain't no bitch.
• 34:28
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm going to do what I need to do.
• 34:30
  SPEAKER_00: You know, that works for me.
• 34:33
  SPEAKER_03: It's the same idea, baby.
• 34:36
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
• 34:37
  SPEAKER_03: And it's like the whole idea, you know, the separation of emotion and identifying with it.
• 34:44
  SPEAKER_03: It's so Zen.
• 34:45
  SPEAKER_03: It's so ancient, right?
• 34:46
  SPEAKER_03: Like we talk about like drinking tea with anger, drinking tea with sadness.
• 34:53
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm saying?
• 34:55
  SPEAKER_03: You're not fighting it.
• 34:55
  SPEAKER_03: You're drinking tea.
• 34:56
  SPEAKER_03: You're with it.
• 34:57
  SPEAKER_03: You're with it.
• 34:57
  SPEAKER_03: You're feeling it.
• 34:59
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm saying?
• 35:02
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, good.
• 35:02
  SPEAKER_01: It's thinking about your own thinking and having the awareness to recognize
• 35:08
  SPEAKER_01: that there are several things going on and you have a lot more control over it.
• 35:14
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 35:15
  SPEAKER_01: And there's a bunch of different ways to handle that.
• 35:19
  SPEAKER_03: Isn't it crazy that we have to trick our brain because it's always talking to us negative, bro?
• 35:24
  SPEAKER_03: Like, why do you have to play these games, bro?
• 35:27
  SPEAKER_03: Triple G, tell us.
• 35:28
  SPEAKER_03: They're trying our mind.
• 35:30
  SPEAKER_03: Well, I guess he's telling us, right?
• 35:31
  SPEAKER_03: With a positive affirmation.
• 35:33
  SPEAKER_03: He's figured out.
• 35:35
  SPEAKER_03: Why is that the default?
• 35:37
  SPEAKER_03: I know why.
• 35:38
  SPEAKER_03: Evolutionary, we're trying to survive, but...
• 35:41
  SPEAKER_03: Damn, we got to play all these games to brainwash our brains, not to be negative.
• 35:46
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, that's what it is, to brainwash yourself.
• 35:54
  SPEAKER_02: And you were always like that?
• 35:55
  SPEAKER_02: Like, you never had...
• 35:56
  SPEAKER_02: I was curious, do you think that came from your upbringing with your mother loving you so much?
• 36:01
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
• 36:03
  SPEAKER_00: What exactly?
• 36:04
  SPEAKER_02: Like, your paradigm was always positive.
• 36:07
  SPEAKER_00: And that comes from the game because people in the game, they're so fucking arrogant.
• 36:12
  SPEAKER_00: They think they the best.
• 36:13
  SPEAKER_00: They think they better than everybody.
• 36:15
  SPEAKER_00: They think they better than the square world.
• 36:16
  SPEAKER_00: So I just adopted this ideology and find out it's actually a very positive thing.
• 36:21
  SPEAKER_00: You think you're the greatest.
• 36:23
  SPEAKER_00: You don't need validation from anybody else because you think you're better than everybody else.
• 36:26
  SPEAKER_00: So when you have that upbringing, when you have that type of ideology, that's just your mindset.
• 36:31
  SPEAKER_00: And I didn't realize how blessed I was.
• 36:33
  SPEAKER_00: My uncle used to tell me, man, I had a busted two-door Mitsubishi.
• 36:37
  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
• 37:00
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, what?
• 37:02
  SPEAKER_03: Role models are so important.
• 37:04
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, you know what's so interesting about you, bro?
• 37:06
  SPEAKER_03: You talk so much about mentors, mentors, mentors.
• 37:10
  SPEAKER_03: And then your biggest life advice you said on the show was,
• 37:14
  SPEAKER_03: To choose the right mentor with discernment.
• 37:19
  SPEAKER_00: Discernment of who you listen to is the most important thing you can ever do in your life.
• 37:23
  SPEAKER_00: And I got that from a mentor because if you listen to the wrong person,
• 37:26
  SPEAKER_00: you can go down the wrong path for 10, 15 years.
• 37:29
  SPEAKER_00: And a lot of people are listening to the wrong people.
• 37:31
  SPEAKER_00: You listen to anybody who talking, you're not investigating who they are.
• 37:35
  SPEAKER_00: What they're doing and their results.
• 37:37
  SPEAKER_00: He would always say, a motherfucker got to have receipts.
• 37:40
  SPEAKER_00: If you're going to listen to somebody,
• 37:41
  SPEAKER_00: make sure you see their receipts before you listen to them.
• 37:44
  SPEAKER_00: Especially in this day and age with social media.
• 37:47
  SPEAKER_00: People are listening to people about life advice and you don't know who they are
• 37:51
  SPEAKER_00: from a can of paint.
• 37:52
  SPEAKER_00: You don't know their receipts.
• 37:54
  SPEAKER_00: They might be living in their mama basement.
• 37:55
  SPEAKER_00: You wouldn't know.
• 37:56
  SPEAKER_00: But these people are listening to them.
• 37:59
  SPEAKER_00: Who you listen to and you will fuck your life off listening to the wrong person.
• 38:03
  SPEAKER_00: You know, so yeah.
• 38:05
  SPEAKER_00: Bam!
• 38:06
  SPEAKER_02: You said from the old school game?
• 38:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, bro, because you're a millennial.
• 38:31
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, you morphed it.
• 38:32
  SPEAKER_03: You got like this.
• 38:33
  SPEAKER_03: You're the bridge.
• 38:35
  SPEAKER_03: You're the bridge, bro.
• 38:36
  SPEAKER_00: I tell people all the time, yeah,
• 38:37
  SPEAKER_00: I'm one of the first ones who done bridged it from the game to bringing it
• 38:42
  SPEAKER_00: to social media, squaring it up and making it palatable to everybody, right?
• 38:47
  SPEAKER_00: You either got these niggas out here talking super pimpin'
• 38:49
  SPEAKER_00: or you got motherfuckin' I ain't gonna say no name,
• 38:51
  SPEAKER_00: but then you got the People online.
• 38:54
  SPEAKER_00: I'm bridging the gap from the real,
• 38:56
  SPEAKER_00: but I'm still giving it in ways that's palatable to the squares and relatable to
• 39:01
  SPEAKER_00: a regular relationship.
• 39:03
  SPEAKER_00: What I can say I did different is, man, I understand things change and things evolve.
• 39:09
  SPEAKER_00: Things change and things evolve.
• 39:10
  SPEAKER_03: Content.
• 39:11
  SPEAKER_03: Like content.
• 39:11
  SPEAKER_03: You said you were embarrassed.
• 39:13
  SPEAKER_03: You were cringed by other people making content.
• 39:15
  SPEAKER_03: But you fucking adapted, bro.
• 39:17
  SPEAKER_03: You fucking adapted.
• 39:17
  SPEAKER_00: I was the guy who said, oh, I ain't never going to be online.
• 39:21
  SPEAKER_00: We YouTubers, they're weird.
• 39:23
  SPEAKER_00: And I had to evolve and go and understand, hey, this is the new way.
• 39:29
  SPEAKER_00: You have to get, you know, so yeah, it's all about changing, evolving, adapting.
• 39:34
  SPEAKER_00: And yeah, man,
• 39:35
  SPEAKER_00: you know,
• 39:36
  SPEAKER_00: so I'm one of the first ones Taking what I take from that game
• 39:41
  SPEAKER_00: and making it palatable to everybody and giving everybody something they can grasp
• 39:47
  SPEAKER_00: from it.
• 39:47
  SPEAKER_03: Damn, to the masses, baby.
• 39:49
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, to the masses.
• 39:51
  SPEAKER_03: To the masses.
• 39:52
  SPEAKER_00: Man, because the principles transcend.
• 39:55
  SPEAKER_00: I came up seeing a completely different lifestyle so I can bridge the gap.
• 40:13
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, let's talk.
• 40:14
  SPEAKER_03: I'm sorry.
• 40:14
  SPEAKER_03: Do you guys have any questions, Cisco?
• 40:16
  SPEAKER_03: Ben?
• 40:16
  SPEAKER_02: No, I was just going to say too many Disney movies because he talks
• 40:19
  SPEAKER_03: about like...
• 40:20
  SPEAKER_02: Let's go.
• 40:21
  SPEAKER_02: He's going to go to Disney movie, baby.
• 40:24
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, let's talk about that.
• 40:25
  SPEAKER_03: Let's talk about Disney because, you know, I saw that too.
• 40:28
  SPEAKER_03: And what's interesting is I always thought that like girls were more influenced by Disney.
• 40:33
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, man.
• 40:33
  SPEAKER_00: I say these dudes, they've been watching the same movies.
• 40:37
  SPEAKER_03: I know, but I thought I was immune.
• 40:39
  SPEAKER_03: I was like, yeah, I'm just, I'm the cool, handsome dude.
• 40:42
  SPEAKER_03: And I'm taking care of the princess and I'm rich and handsome.
• 40:47
  SPEAKER_03: But I didn't get to like,
• 40:48
  SPEAKER_03: but you're saying something different that we also,
• 40:50
  SPEAKER_03: but then when I think about some of my relationships, bro, it's all Disney, bro.
• 40:54
  SPEAKER_03: You're trying to fit this mold.
• 40:56
  SPEAKER_00: You're trying to fit this mold of something that you've seen.
• 40:59
  SPEAKER_00: If it's subconsciously, you don't, you don't, you're not even doing a conscious.
• 41:02
  SPEAKER_00: You're trying to fit the mold of something you saw on TV on these movies.
• 41:05
  SPEAKER_00: And that's not even reality.
• 41:06
  SPEAKER_00: That's not how you eat.
• 41:07
  SPEAKER_00: That's not even how life works.
• 41:09
  SPEAKER_00: And how can you be successful in life if you're running off the wrong programming?
• 41:12
  SPEAKER_00: You're running off of something that's not real, never been real.
• 41:16
  SPEAKER_00: So that's why these dudes,
• 41:17
  SPEAKER_00: they're trying to make a woman be something she's never been, only in movies.
• 41:21
  SPEAKER_00: They don't know who women really are.
• 41:22
  SPEAKER_00: And these women will play that role.
• 41:24
  SPEAKER_00: So you don't even know what you're dealing with.
• 41:27
  SPEAKER_00: So therefore, how can you deal with it effectively?
• 41:31
  Hmm.
• 41:33
  SPEAKER_02: I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
• 41:34
  SPEAKER_00: Let me ask y'all, do you think most men actually understand who these women are?
• 41:40
  SPEAKER_00: For real?
• 41:41
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, no.
• 41:42
  SPEAKER_00: No, they don't.
• 41:43
  SPEAKER_00: No, they don't.
• 41:44
  SPEAKER_00: Man, I lived in Vegas for over 10 years.
• 41:46
  SPEAKER_00: I had friends that worked at bachelorette parties, all of this.
• 41:49
  SPEAKER_00: It would be women flying in every weekend with their boyfriend,
• 41:53
  SPEAKER_00: with their husband,
• 41:54
  SPEAKER_00: coming to hang out,
• 41:55
  SPEAKER_00: coming to do this, at the bachelor party sucking dick, doing this, doing that.
• 41:58
  SPEAKER_00: But nobody thinks that's their woman.
• 42:01
  SPEAKER_00: Nobody thinks that's their wife.
• 42:03
  SPEAKER_00: So who are these women?
• 42:06
  SPEAKER_00: They just don't understand who women are.
• 42:08
  SPEAKER_00: And because you don't understand how women are, you don't know how to deal with them.
• 42:12
  SPEAKER_03: That is scary that you're with this human being and you don't know exactly what she is.
• 42:17
  SPEAKER_00: You have no idea who she is.
• 42:20
  SPEAKER_00: And then, you know what dude do?
• 42:24
  SPEAKER_00: The reason she'll never tell you who she is because you're too judgmental.
• 42:28
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, I had hoes.
• 42:30
  SPEAKER_00: They'll tell you the worst about them.
• 42:31
  SPEAKER_00: They can take their hair off, their wig off.
• 42:33
  SPEAKER_00: So therefore, I can know her more because she understands I'm not going to judge her.
• 42:37
  SPEAKER_00: She gets a boyfriend though.
• 42:39
  SPEAKER_00: She's going to lie to that man about who she is because he's going to judge her.
• 42:43
  SPEAKER_00: I tell these dudes all the time,
• 42:44
  SPEAKER_00: man, stop judging your woman and you ain't never going to know who she is.
• 42:47
  SPEAKER_00: Let her tell you about things and don't judge her about things.
• 42:50
  SPEAKER_00: Then you might know who she is.
• 42:51
  SPEAKER_00: But everybody wants this woman to be something that she's never been
• 42:54
  SPEAKER_00: that society tries to force her into being.
• 42:57
  SPEAKER_00: You know?
• 42:57
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going too deep, though.
• 42:59
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going too deep, though.
• 43:00
  SPEAKER_03: Come on, though.
• 43:00
  SPEAKER_03: You got to give us more deep, bro.
• 43:02
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, this is amazing, bro.
• 43:04
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, but like, stop judging.
• 43:06
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, this is such a... Stop judging.
• 43:10
  SPEAKER_03: Shouldn't that be for everybody?
• 43:11
  SPEAKER_03: Don't judge anybody to see their true self, bro.
• 43:14
  SPEAKER_03: It's not just men and women, right?
• 43:16
  SPEAKER_03: Like you said, okay, somebody said... Yeah, 100%.
• 43:18
  SPEAKER_03: Mm-hmm.
• 43:18
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you keep judging her, then she's not going to tell you.
• 43:21
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, she sees that you're judgmental.
• 43:23
  SPEAKER_00: She sees that you want to hold her in this perfect picture.
• 43:26
  SPEAKER_00: That's not a woman ever.
• 43:27
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 43:28
  SPEAKER_00: She might have had a train around on her in high school.
• 43:30
  SPEAKER_00: She might have been the girl second dick in the bathroom in high school.
• 43:32
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, that might be your woman.
• 43:34
  SPEAKER_00: Let her tell you who she was, and then you can know your woman.
• 43:38
  SPEAKER_00: Most of these guys are with women.
• 43:40
  SPEAKER_00: They do not know they're women because you're too judgmental.
• 43:42
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, baby, tell me about you.
• 43:44
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to judge you.
• 43:45
  SPEAKER_00: Then guess what?
• 43:45
  SPEAKER_00: She's going to tell you everything.
• 43:48
  SPEAKER_03: Damn, bro.
• 43:49
  SPEAKER_03: But then what happens if you're with a girl, right?
• 43:52
  SPEAKER_03: And you're like,
• 43:52
  SPEAKER_03: you use this technique and then the girl tells you like,
• 43:55
  SPEAKER_03: she sucked a million dicks and this and that,
• 43:57
  SPEAKER_03: and you're just controlling yourself, but you want to be with her.
• 44:01
  SPEAKER_03: You want to be with her,
• 44:02
  SPEAKER_03: but now you can't deal with this knowledge that you acquired because of this,
• 44:06
  SPEAKER_03: because this really happened to me.
• 44:09
  SPEAKER_00: Listen, I'm going to tell you like this, right?
• 44:12
  SPEAKER_00: And I get it.
• 44:13
  SPEAKER_00: If this tell you too much, you'd be like, okay, that's not a woman that I can deal with.
• 44:16
  SPEAKER_00: But at the same time,
• 44:18
  SPEAKER_00: when you come from the lifestyle that I come from and you see women
• 44:22
  SPEAKER_00: in their true nature, you understand that sex is so big to squares.
• 44:29
  SPEAKER_00: These women don't give,
• 44:30
  SPEAKER_00: the same way you think, oh, women think sex holds sex in such high esteem.
• 44:34
  SPEAKER_00: That's because they be lying to you.
• 44:35
  SPEAKER_00: They don't.
• 44:36
  SPEAKER_00: I be out with women all the time.
• 44:39
  SPEAKER_00: They feel about sex the way we feel about sex.
• 44:41
  SPEAKER_00: They just lie because that's what society has told them.
• 44:44
  SPEAKER_00: So when you take so much weight off of that shit, that don't matter.
• 44:49
  SPEAKER_00: But most dudes can't do it.
• 44:50
  SPEAKER_00: Most dudes cannot fathom these things.
• 44:54
  SPEAKER_00: But when you can, then you have a real relationship with that woman.
• 44:57
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 44:57
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man,
• 44:58
  SPEAKER_00: when you got you a hoe, man,
• 44:59
  SPEAKER_00: and you know she done went out there and she did two turns,
• 45:01
  SPEAKER_00: four, five tricks tonight.
• 45:02
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man,
• 45:03
  SPEAKER_00: that don't mean nothing to her,
• 45:03
  SPEAKER_00: though, because she coming and bringing the money back to you.
• 45:05
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 45:06
  SPEAKER_00: Then you understand how they disassociate with sex.
• 45:09
  SPEAKER_00: These women just lie about it.
• 45:11
  SPEAKER_00: You know?
• 45:14
  SPEAKER_02: What do you think about those guys that, like, only want a virgin or something?
• 45:18
  SPEAKER_02: Like, what's going on there, dude?
• 45:20
  SPEAKER_02: When people say stuff like that.
• 45:23
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to tell you like this.
• 45:27
  SPEAKER_00: A man who'll be like, oh, I only want a woman who's a virgin.
• 45:29
  SPEAKER_00: Why does that matter so much to me?
• 45:32
  SPEAKER_00: Tell me this.
• 45:34
  SPEAKER_00: Why does her being a virgin matter to me?
• 45:37
  SPEAKER_00: She can still be a terrible person.
• 45:38
  SPEAKER_00: She can still not like me a lot.
• 45:40
  SPEAKER_00: I'm putting so much weight on sex.
• 45:43
  SPEAKER_00: You're putting so much weight on sex instead of who that woman is.
• 45:46
  SPEAKER_00: Now, of course, you don't want a woman to be super ran through, but guess what?
• 45:50
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, I done had some prostitutes before, man.
• 45:52
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, the best woman I ever had in my life.
• 45:54
  SPEAKER_00: Lie, steal, kill, go to jail for me.
• 45:56
  SPEAKER_00: The realest woman I ever had.
• 45:58
  SPEAKER_00: The sex thing didn't even make a difference to me.
• 46:00
  SPEAKER_00: So what would you rather want?
• 46:01
  SPEAKER_00: A woman who's a terrible person,
• 46:02
  SPEAKER_00: but she's a quote unquote virgin or a woman who's a good person and she got
• 46:06
  SPEAKER_00: a whole bunch of bodies.
• 46:07
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I'm not saying choose a woman because of course you can see the studies.
• 46:11
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe a woman who has more bodies, It's going to be different.
• 46:13
  SPEAKER_00: But at the end of the day, it's all about who that woman is.
• 46:16
  SPEAKER_00: And the sex don't matter that much.
• 46:19
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, sex don't matter
• 46:20
  SPEAKER_03: that much, man.
• 46:21
  SPEAKER_00: It don't.
• 46:22
  SPEAKER_00: That's some square shit.
• 46:24
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm going to tell you this too.
• 46:26
  SPEAKER_00: Why does a woman's fidelity matter so much to most men?
• 46:28
  SPEAKER_00: Because you ain't getting nothing else out the deal.
• 46:31
  SPEAKER_00: The only thing these dudes have to hold on to from their woman is their fidelity
• 46:35
  SPEAKER_00: because you're not required from her.
• 46:37
  SPEAKER_00: You're not getting nothing from her.
• 46:38
  SPEAKER_00: She's not doing nothing good for you.
• 46:40
  SPEAKER_00: If a woman is really coming in with it,
• 46:42
  SPEAKER_00: she overachieving for you,
• 46:43
  SPEAKER_00: she being good to you,
• 46:44
  SPEAKER_00: she doing everything you like and nothing you don't,
• 46:46
  SPEAKER_00: then that fidelity is so little.
• 46:48
  SPEAKER_00: It's only because that's the only thing these dudes have
• 46:50
  SPEAKER_00: because they don't require nothing from these women that is so big to them.
• 46:56
  SPEAKER_00: They just don't live a reality, man.
• 46:58
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 46:58
  SPEAKER_03: But yo, Triple G,
• 46:59
  SPEAKER_03: I was just wondering, like, do you, like,
• 47:02
  SPEAKER_03: if you wanted to,
• 47:02
  SPEAKER_03: could you get, like, sugar mommies and, like, get them to
• 47:06
  SPEAKER_00: pay everything for you?
• 47:09
  SPEAKER_00: I could, but I'm gonna tell you like this, just like in the game, though, it's a job.
• 47:12
  SPEAKER_00: For me, you know,
• 47:13
  SPEAKER_00: I got to the point where I'm like,
• 47:14
  SPEAKER_00: yeah, even when you have a home, man, really, it's still a job.
• 47:17
  SPEAKER_00: So to me...
• 47:19
  SPEAKER_00: My life has always been I want to be free.
• 47:22
  SPEAKER_00: So I would rather be able to do what I want,
• 47:24
  SPEAKER_00: what I want,
• 47:25
  SPEAKER_00: how I want,
• 47:25
  SPEAKER_00: and deal with the women that I want to deal with,
• 47:27
  SPEAKER_00: not the ones that's going to bring me something, because that's a freer life for me.
• 47:30
  SPEAKER_00: I know a lot of dudes still doing it.
• 47:31
  SPEAKER_00: And to me, I'll be like, nigga be having three, four holes and, you know, getting money.
• 47:35
  SPEAKER_00: I'll be like, man, that don't impress me.
• 47:36
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, I'm free.
• 47:37
  SPEAKER_00: I can deal with the women that I like, don't deal with the women I don't like.
• 47:40
  SPEAKER_00: And as soon as she don't,
• 47:41
  SPEAKER_00: as soon as she do something I don't like, I ain't got to deal with it no more.
• 47:44
  SPEAKER_00: To me, that's worth more than any money because that's freedom.
• 47:47
  SPEAKER_01: Bam.
• 47:49
  SPEAKER_02: Then what?
• 47:50
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 47:50
  SPEAKER_02: I was just going to say,
• 47:52
  SPEAKER_02: you also talked about them also being stepping stones and not to expect them
• 47:58
  SPEAKER_02: in your life forever.
• 47:59
  SPEAKER_03: All the women are stepping stones?
• 48:01
  SPEAKER_03: Every woman in your life?
• 48:02
  SPEAKER_02: Well, maybe not all, but...
• 48:04
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, man, I say it like this.
• 48:07
  SPEAKER_00: You know, that woman is a stepping stone, right, man?
• 48:09
  SPEAKER_00: Just like these women use men.
• 48:11
  SPEAKER_00: She's with a man right now.
• 48:12
  SPEAKER_00: She knows, oh, he's not marriage material.
• 48:13
  SPEAKER_00: He's just in the meantime, in between time.
• 48:16
  SPEAKER_00: We have to start using the women the same way.
• 48:18
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, put it in your mind.
• 48:18
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, this bra, she riding.
• 48:20
  SPEAKER_00: She got poor character here.
• 48:21
  SPEAKER_00: She got poor character there.
• 48:22
  SPEAKER_00: But in the meantime,
• 48:24
  SPEAKER_00: in between time,
• 48:24
  SPEAKER_00: I can use this woman to get to the next woman,
• 48:27
  SPEAKER_00: to get to the next woman and have that understanding.
• 48:29
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, sometimes you're going to be with a woman.
• 48:31
  SPEAKER_00: You know, this ain't long term.
• 48:32
  SPEAKER_00: But guess what?
• 48:33
  SPEAKER_00: She's good for what she's good for in this moment until I get to that next level.
• 48:40
  SPEAKER_01: Wow.
• 48:41
  SPEAKER_01: Benoit,
• 48:41
  SPEAKER_01: go ahead, Benoit.
• 48:43
  SPEAKER_01: No, not much to say.
• 48:44
  SPEAKER_01: No, I was actually going to jump off.
• 48:45
  SPEAKER_01: So I was waiting for the opportunity to do so and say thank you for the invite.
• 48:53
  SPEAKER_01: This was great.
• 48:54
  SPEAKER_01: Nice to meet you.
• 48:56
  SPEAKER_01: And enjoy the rest of the live guide.
• 48:59
  SPEAKER_03: All right, Benoit.
• 49:00
  SPEAKER_01: See you.
• 49:02
  SPEAKER_03: Damn.
• 49:03
  SPEAKER_03: But Triple G, tell us about...
• 49:05
  SPEAKER_03: Vegas, man.
• 49:06
  SPEAKER_03: Take us to that moment in Vegas.
• 49:08
  SPEAKER_03: And you said that was,
• 49:09
  SPEAKER_03: take us to your lowest point because we're all about like reinvention here
• 49:13
  SPEAKER_03: and what you were going through.
• 49:14
  SPEAKER_03: You said something.
• 49:15
  SPEAKER_03: Let's talk about it.
• 49:16
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
• 49:16
  SPEAKER_03: You kind of like,
• 49:17
  SPEAKER_03: you know,
• 49:17
  SPEAKER_03: obviously you don't want to say some details,
• 49:20
  SPEAKER_03: but like what happened that got you to your lowest point and you prayed to God,
• 49:23
  SPEAKER_03: like to walk us through that story.
• 49:25
  SPEAKER_00: Man, so, you know, like I said, man, I went to Vegas, man.
• 49:28
  SPEAKER_00: I had about $1,500 in my pocket and I was sleeping in my car
• 49:32
  SPEAKER_00: and I was getting showered and dressed.
• 49:34
  SPEAKER_00: At the time, it was called Park MGM.
• 49:37
  SPEAKER_00: It changed the name to it now.
• 49:38
  SPEAKER_00: And that's what I did.
• 49:39
  SPEAKER_00: I said, man,
• 49:40
  SPEAKER_00: I would rather be here in Vegas trying to make it than be in my hometown in
• 49:44
  SPEAKER_00: the same situation.
• 49:45
  SPEAKER_00: And I went to Vegas and I was sleeping in my car in a parking garage.
• 49:49
  SPEAKER_00: See, back then, now, you go to a parking garage and you got to pay to get in.
• 49:52
  SPEAKER_00: Back then, you could just go to any parking garage and any casino.
• 49:55
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 49:56
  SPEAKER_00: Different time.
• 49:57
  SPEAKER_00: Different time.
• 49:59
  SPEAKER_00: And it was a time that I went to Vegas with my uncle years before.
• 50:04
  SPEAKER_00: And I remember... You were with your uncle?
• 50:06
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 50:08
  SPEAKER_00: Y'all, man, crazy times.
• 50:10
  SPEAKER_00: And I can remember us staying at the hotel and I can remember going to the gym
• 50:14
  SPEAKER_00: and I was like, all they make you do is like, just write your room number down.
• 50:17
  SPEAKER_00: So I remembered that.
• 50:18
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm like, okay, then that's where I would go.
• 50:20
  SPEAKER_00: And I would iron my clothes and I would listen to motivational music.
• 50:24
  SPEAKER_00: I would go to the gym.
• 50:25
  SPEAKER_00: I would put on my affirmations,
• 50:28
  SPEAKER_00: get on the treadmill,
• 50:29
  SPEAKER_00: work out, iron my clothes, and then get out for the day saying I'm going to win.
• 50:34
  SPEAKER_00: And that was my lowest point.
• 50:36
  SPEAKER_00: But soon after that, I came up.
• 50:37
  SPEAKER_00: And soon after that, man, I was having multiple condos, Jaguar, Range Rover, Rolls Royce.
• 50:45
  SPEAKER_00: And I came up.
• 50:46
  SPEAKER_00: But it was all because I reinvented myself.
• 50:49
  SPEAKER_00: I said, man, I could stay in my hometown.
• 50:51
  SPEAKER_00: But I want to do something different and I want to be something different.
• 50:54
  SPEAKER_00: So I did it.
• 50:55
  SPEAKER_00: You know, most people, they're not willing to do it, but I did.
• 51:00
  SPEAKER_03: What do you think caused you to reinvent yourself, bro?
• 51:03
  SPEAKER_03: Because a lot of people get stuck, man, from fear and this and that.
• 51:06
  SPEAKER_03: What was the catalyst?
• 51:08
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, the catalyst to get you to that.
• 51:10
  SPEAKER_03: Because you reinvented yourself many times.
• 51:12
  SPEAKER_03: Many times.
• 51:14
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 51:14
  SPEAKER_03: But what's the catalyst?
• 51:15
  SPEAKER_03: How do you get to that?
• 51:18
  SPEAKER_00: I tell people all the time, man, reading books will really change your mind.
• 51:21
  SPEAKER_00: So it was all these things that I've been reading in these books.
• 51:23
  SPEAKER_00: Think and Grow Rich, first book I ever read when I went to jail.
• 51:26
  SPEAKER_00: And it always talked about that burning desire.
• 51:27
  SPEAKER_00: I had a burning desire.
• 51:29
  SPEAKER_00: I had a burning desire.
• 51:30
  SPEAKER_00: Like people ask me like, well, how do you change your life?
• 51:32
  SPEAKER_00: Should I do this, do that?
• 51:33
  SPEAKER_00: I said, man, I don't care how much discipline you got.
• 51:35
  SPEAKER_00: The only thing that kept me going, I had a burning desire for more.
• 51:39
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted more.
• 51:40
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted the rose horses.
• 51:41
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to be high rise.
• 51:42
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted the bad bitches.
• 51:43
  SPEAKER_00: I wanted it so bad that anything else To me, was so inconsequential.
• 51:49
  SPEAKER_00: Sleeping in my car was inconsequential.
• 51:51
  SPEAKER_00: I will do whatever to have what I want.
• 51:52
  SPEAKER_00: That's why I tell people all the time, you need to try to develop a burning desire.
• 51:56
  SPEAKER_00: That is the only thing that has got me to where I'm going.
• 51:59
  SPEAKER_00: Not the discipline, not nothing.
• 52:01
  SPEAKER_00: I want it so bad.
• 52:02
  SPEAKER_00: When you get butterflies in your stomach,
• 52:03
  SPEAKER_00: when you see the mansion,
• 52:04
  SPEAKER_00: when you see the rose forest, I had that about what I wanted in life.
• 52:08
  SPEAKER_00: So therefore,
• 52:09
  SPEAKER_00: sleeping in my car,
• 52:10
  SPEAKER_00: in the garage,
• 52:11
  SPEAKER_00: there was nothing to me because I was so focused on what I wanted so bad.
• 52:15
  SPEAKER_00: Bro, so you know Jocko, right?
• 52:17
  SPEAKER_03: The Navy SEALs guy?
• 52:19
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 52:19
  SPEAKER_03: And he talks about like discipline, right?
• 52:21
  SPEAKER_03: Like you gotta have discipline.
• 52:22
  SPEAKER_03: Like, but I don't agree with that.
• 52:24
  SPEAKER_03: I agree more with you, bro.
• 52:26
  SPEAKER_03: Like you gotta have that desire, bro.
• 52:28
  SPEAKER_03: And then the discipline comes naturally.
• 52:31
  SPEAKER_03: I think you can, his way, like for some people might be forcing that discipline, right?
• 52:36
  SPEAKER_03: But like in Chinese, there's like a, it's called the Wu Wei, right?
• 52:40
  SPEAKER_03: And they talk about this, just going with the flow, right?
• 52:43
  SPEAKER_03: Like no resistance and stuff.
• 52:45
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I mean?
• 52:46
  SPEAKER_03: So, yeah, yeah.
• 52:47
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I mean, I tell people that all the time.
• 52:49
  SPEAKER_00: I'll be like, hey, man,
• 52:51
  SPEAKER_00: if you had the discipline,
• 52:52
  SPEAKER_00: you wouldn't even have this question because you would stick to a goal,
• 52:55
  SPEAKER_00: stick with it, and you'd be successful.
• 52:57
  SPEAKER_00: So, obviously, you don't got it like that.
• 52:58
  SPEAKER_00: Now, of course, you want to develop some discipline if you can.
• 53:02
  SPEAKER_00: But at the end of the day, I'm a lazy motherfucker.
• 53:04
  SPEAKER_00: I tell people I'm lazy.
• 53:06
  SPEAKER_00: The only thing that keeps me going is the fact that I want what I want so bad.
• 53:10
  SPEAKER_00: And, you know, it's a thing.
• 53:10
  SPEAKER_00: It's called dream building.
• 53:11
  SPEAKER_00: I dream build.
• 53:13
  SPEAKER_00: I'm always going to the houses over here.
• 53:15
  SPEAKER_00: So I overlook a Venetian Island where all the hundred million dollars.
• 53:18
  SPEAKER_00: I always go over there with my son.
• 53:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm always imagining.
• 53:20
  SPEAKER_00: I'm always looking at the cars.
• 53:22
  SPEAKER_00: I'm always on YouTube, looking at things.
• 53:23
  SPEAKER_00: I'm always dream building to give me that feeling,
• 53:26
  SPEAKER_00: to give me that desire because without that, man, you won't stop doing anything.
• 53:32
  SPEAKER_03: Bro.
• 53:33
  SPEAKER_03: So when you're dream building,
• 53:34
  SPEAKER_03: aside from the material things,
• 53:37
  SPEAKER_03: tell me what that dream building What's the next level for you?
• 53:42
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, the dream build, it's mostly material.
• 53:44
  SPEAKER_00: But at the end of the day,
• 53:45
  SPEAKER_00: like I said, one of my things has always been, man, I just want to be free.
• 53:48
  SPEAKER_00: I want to do what I want, when I want, how I want, with who I want and nobody I want.
• 53:51
  SPEAKER_03: No, bro, I feel like you're going to impact a lot of people with your message, bro.
• 53:55
  SPEAKER_03: Why is that not part of your dream build, bro?
• 53:57
  SPEAKER_03: Why is that not part of your dream build?
• 53:59
  SPEAKER_03: Impacting people, just growing.
• 54:02
  SPEAKER_00: That's a part of it.
• 54:04
  SPEAKER_00: But you know what?
• 54:05
  SPEAKER_00: You know why?
• 54:05
  SPEAKER_03: Because impacting people...
• 54:08
  SPEAKER_00: Impacting people came on such a fluke.
• 54:10
  SPEAKER_00: That's why I feel like it just must have been meant because I've never in
• 54:13
  SPEAKER_00: a million years would have thought I'd be online.
• 54:15
  SPEAKER_00: But people tell me every day, oh, you changed my life with this message.
• 54:18
  SPEAKER_00: I never tried to do it.
• 54:20
  SPEAKER_00: It just fell into my lap.
• 54:22
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, that is crazy.
• 54:24
  SPEAKER_03: It fell into his lap.
• 54:25
  SPEAKER_03: Fell into my lap.
• 54:26
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, you're not that comfortable with that.
• 54:29
  SPEAKER_03: That's interesting.
• 54:30
  SPEAKER_03: Vibe Samurai, read right here.
• 54:32
  SPEAKER_03: Triple G's not comfortable with the love he's getting, all the change and transformation.
• 54:37
  SPEAKER_03: Just implementing, bro.
• 54:39
  SPEAKER_03: That's interesting.
• 54:40
  SPEAKER_03: Self-love, baby.
• 54:41
  SPEAKER_03: Self-love.
• 54:42
  SPEAKER_03: You deserve, bro,
• 54:43
  SPEAKER_03: you deserve every fucking people and followers that are fucking falling in love
• 54:50
  SPEAKER_03: with you, baby.
• 54:50
  SPEAKER_03: Because you're talking real, baby.
• 54:52
  SPEAKER_03: You're talking real.
• 54:53
  SPEAKER_03: And the world needs real.
• 54:57
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, man.
• 54:57
  SPEAKER_00: I tell people, I tell you, man, I cut my own checks.
• 54:59
  SPEAKER_00: So I say things that, that's why people love me.
• 55:01
  SPEAKER_00: Because I'm saying what a lot of people think, but they can't say.
• 55:03
  SPEAKER_00: I say, man, I cut my own checks.
• 55:05
  SPEAKER_00: I can say what I want to say.
• 55:10
  SPEAKER_03: Damn.
• 55:10
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, so what happened?
• 55:12
  SPEAKER_03: You said in Vegas,
• 55:14
  SPEAKER_03: you said you had the gated house,
• 55:15
  SPEAKER_03: the condos, the rolls, the four to six women, but you were miserable.
• 55:21
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, how does that feel, being miserable at the fucking top?
• 55:25
  SPEAKER_03: Because most of us don't reach that top top, but how does it feel?
• 55:29
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 55:31
  SPEAKER_00: But you know, you say the top.
• 55:34
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, outside looking in,
• 55:36
  SPEAKER_00: you'll stay at the top, but when you're there, you realize that's not the top.
• 55:38
  SPEAKER_00: Where I am now, we're at the top.
• 55:40
  SPEAKER_00: Impacting people,
• 55:40
  SPEAKER_00: living how I want to live,
• 55:41
  SPEAKER_00: having my son live with me,
• 55:43
  SPEAKER_00: dealing with the people I want to and nobody I don't,
• 55:45
  SPEAKER_00: making money from helping individuals.
• 55:47
  SPEAKER_00: To me, now I'm at the top.
• 55:49
  SPEAKER_00: That wasn't the top.
• 55:50
  SPEAKER_00: It was chaos and confusion, man.
• 55:51
  SPEAKER_00: And that type of lifestyle, man,
• 55:52
  SPEAKER_00: when you're having a woman like that,
• 55:53
  SPEAKER_00: bitch going to jail every day,
• 55:55
  SPEAKER_00: this going on, that going on, drama here, drama there.
• 55:58
  SPEAKER_00: It just wasn't, it just didn't feel good.
• 56:00
  SPEAKER_00: So it's like...
• 56:01
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like everybody should get to that point in life.
• 56:03
  SPEAKER_00: You realize, man, having money don't matter if you ain't got the peace.
• 56:07
  SPEAKER_00: You know,
• 56:07
  SPEAKER_00: that's what really peace,
• 56:09
  SPEAKER_00: tranquility, you know, knowing yourself, doing what you want to do.
• 56:12
  SPEAKER_00: That's really that's where the riches are.
• 56:14
  SPEAKER_00: And, you know, motherfuckers love to say that.
• 56:16
  SPEAKER_00: Motherfuckers love to say that.
• 56:17
  SPEAKER_00: It sounds so cliche, but do it, though, and you'll find out real quick.
• 56:21
  SPEAKER_00: You know,
• 56:21
  SPEAKER_00: you can have a way better life with less money if you're doing it on your terms,
• 56:24
  SPEAKER_00: how you want to do it,
• 56:25
  SPEAKER_00: because just having money don't matter if your life is chaos and confusion.
• 56:31
  SPEAKER_00: So what does peace look like now?
• 56:34
  SPEAKER_00: Damn, yeah.
• 56:35
  SPEAKER_00: I want to see what peace
• 56:36
  SPEAKER_03: looks like now.
• 56:37
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, well, you know, it's not even so much.
• 56:39
  SPEAKER_00: I ain't going to say peace so much,
• 56:41
  SPEAKER_00: but it's being able to do what you want, when you want, how you want.
• 56:43
  SPEAKER_00: It's about being, I can, I can, I can.
• 56:47
  SPEAKER_00: Stretch in the ways that I want to stretch.
• 56:50
  SPEAKER_00: I can learn the things I want to learn.
• 56:51
  SPEAKER_00: I can deal with the people that I want to deal with.
• 56:53
  SPEAKER_00: I don't have to deal with somebody just because they're giving me something.
• 56:56
  SPEAKER_00: I can pick and choose the people around me.
• 56:58
  SPEAKER_00: So to me,
• 56:59
  SPEAKER_00: that's ultimate peace,
• 57:00
  SPEAKER_00: you know,
• 57:01
  SPEAKER_00: to be able to do what you want,
• 57:02
  SPEAKER_00: when you want, how you want, with who you want and nobody you don't, you know.
• 57:07
  SPEAKER_00: Cause a lot of people they live in a life, they got to do, they got to do what they told.
• 57:11
  SPEAKER_00: They got to deal with who they want to deal with.
• 57:12
  SPEAKER_00: A lot of women,
• 57:13
  SPEAKER_00: they deal with men that they got to deal with,
• 57:14
  SPEAKER_00: don't even like, but he's cutting a check on his lifestyle.
• 57:17
  SPEAKER_00: That's not peace to me.
• 57:21
  SPEAKER_02: What, what aspects of freedom do you think you're still going after?
• 57:24
  SPEAKER_02: Cause I feel like you're, you're pretty peak already.
• 57:26
  SPEAKER_00: Damn.
• 57:28
  SPEAKER_00: Oh man, you know,
• 57:29
  SPEAKER_00: no matter where you get it,
• 57:30
  SPEAKER_00: every time you get to the top of the mountain, there's always another one.
• 57:32
  SPEAKER_00: You're right.
• 57:33
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, what's that next one, bro?
• 57:34
  SPEAKER_03: Let's dream build live.
• 57:36
  SPEAKER_03: Let's dream build live, baby.
• 57:38
  SPEAKER_03: What are we going next?
• 57:39
  SPEAKER_03: Where are we going next, brother?
• 57:42
  SPEAKER_00: It's always about stress, right?
• 57:44
  SPEAKER_00: I feel like what is happiness?
• 57:45
  SPEAKER_00: Happiness is chasing a worthy idea.
• 57:53
  SPEAKER_00: So as long as I can continue to grow,
• 57:57
  SPEAKER_00: push myself, get uncomfortable, I feel like that's where I find happiness.
• 58:00
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm always trying to find the next thing.
• 58:02
  SPEAKER_00: I'm always trying to find where can I stretch myself where it's
• 58:05
  SPEAKER_00: a little uncomfortable,
• 58:06
  SPEAKER_00: where it might not work, but if it does work, I'm going to feel good.
• 58:09
  SPEAKER_00: That's where I'm at right now.
• 58:10
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, this is Nirvana right here.
• 58:12
  SPEAKER_03: Enlighten, man.
• 58:13
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, you're in a state of play, bro.
• 58:15
  SPEAKER_03: This is what I tell everybody.
• 58:17
  SPEAKER_03: The end game is play.
• 58:21
  SPEAKER_03: You're playing, bro.
• 58:23
  SPEAKER_03: You're just having fun.
• 58:24
  SPEAKER_03: Give me a little stress.
• 58:25
  SPEAKER_03: Get this challenge.
• 58:27
  SPEAKER_03: Let me try this thing.
• 58:28
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody trying to get somewhere not knowing you always going to be right here.
• 58:32
  SPEAKER_00: It's like you always trying to get there,
• 58:34
  SPEAKER_00: but I've always realized my entire life When I had nothing,
• 58:37
  SPEAKER_00: when I had something,
• 58:38
  SPEAKER_00: when it was good times,
• 58:39
  SPEAKER_00: when it was bad times, I always look back and say, oh, that was a good time.
• 58:42
  SPEAKER_00: So what I said is, you know what?
• 58:44
  SPEAKER_00: Let me stop having nostalgia about the past.
• 58:47
  SPEAKER_00: I know I'm going to have nostalgia about today.
• 58:50
  SPEAKER_00: So let me just enjoy today because that's what life's about.
• 58:53
  SPEAKER_00: No matter where you get to, what you do, eventually you're going to look back on them times.
• 58:58
  SPEAKER_00: So now I just say, you know what?
• 58:59
  SPEAKER_00: Let me enjoy right now.
• 59:00
  SPEAKER_00: Good times, bad times.
• 59:02
  SPEAKER_00: Let me find something good in it.
• 59:03
  SPEAKER_00: And that's how you enjoy life.
• 59:05
  SPEAKER_03: Damn, bro, we gotta change your name today to Game Buddha, bro.
• 59:11
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, you're Game Buddha now, bro.
• 59:13
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, after today, you leveling up, brother.
• 59:17
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, this is, dude,
• 59:19
  SPEAKER_03: everything that you're talking about,
• 59:20
  SPEAKER_03: it's like heavy on Buddhism and Zen and Eastern philosophy.
• 59:25
  SPEAKER_03: Tell me about that.
• 59:26
  SPEAKER_03: Did you like read books about that too?
• 59:28
  SPEAKER_03: I did.
• 59:29
  SPEAKER_00: I did not.
• 59:29
  SPEAKER_00: You know, you know, it's funny though.
• 59:30
  SPEAKER_00: I did have a whole one time.
• 59:31
  SPEAKER_00: She had a Buddha book that she always had.
• 59:33
  SPEAKER_00: I never read it though, but I always remember she always had it with her.
• 59:36
  SPEAKER_00: I never read it though.
• 59:37
  SPEAKER_00: But you know,
• 59:42
  SPEAKER_03: Did you know, though,
• 59:43
  SPEAKER_03: that like everything that you're saying,
• 59:45
  SPEAKER_03: you're basically saying just be fully present.
• 59:48
  SPEAKER_03: You know, there's no past, no future.
• 59:49
  SPEAKER_03: It's just a now basically.
• 59:52
  SPEAKER_03: And it's right in front of our eyes, right?
• 59:54
  SPEAKER_03: Triple G is right there.
• 59:56
  SPEAKER_03: But people are chasing this and chasing that.
• 59:59
  SPEAKER_03: It's right in front of your eyes.
• 1:00:01
  SPEAKER_00: Listen, that's deep because that's real.
• 1:00:03
  SPEAKER_00: You keep chasing and chasing and chasing, man.
• 1:00:06
  SPEAKER_00: And, you know, I don't got a hundred million dollars, but I done had enough to see it.
• 1:00:10
  SPEAKER_00: Don't matter what you get, you still here.
• 1:00:13
  SPEAKER_00: It's like, so you just have to be and enjoy whatever it is.
• 1:00:17
  SPEAKER_00: And then you will have a great life.
• 1:00:19
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:00:20
  SPEAKER_00: I tell people all the time, just be able to be okay, just being okay.
• 1:00:25
  SPEAKER_00: And then you'll be good.
• 1:00:26
  SPEAKER_02: Damn.
• 1:00:29
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, wait, so right now what's happening to you?
• 1:00:32
  SPEAKER_03: Because tell us more about like how,
• 1:00:34
  SPEAKER_03: so when did you start on YouTube and how fast has this been this growth and you're
• 1:00:38
  SPEAKER_03: on Underbelly, which is a 7 million, you know, TV
• 1:00:41
  SPEAKER_00: series and
• 1:00:42
  SPEAKER_03: you're blowing up.
• 1:00:44
  SPEAKER_00: I've been online now about three years,
• 1:00:47
  SPEAKER_00: about two years seriously on YouTube for like a year and a half.
• 1:00:51
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it went pretty quick for me.
• 1:00:52
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I started out doing, you know, just, I'm trying to change my life.
• 1:00:56
  SPEAKER_00: I'm running from this case.
• 1:00:57
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, all right, I'm going to just change my life.
• 1:00:59
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to get in shape.
• 1:01:00
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I got cut.
• 1:01:01
  SPEAKER_00: And then, you know, I'm like, man, let me get on this workout program.
• 1:01:05
  SPEAKER_00: I got on this workout program.
• 1:01:06
  SPEAKER_00: Dude was like, hey, man, I start posting.
• 1:01:09
  SPEAKER_00: You got Jack, bro.
• 1:01:10
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:01:11
  SPEAKER_00: He was like, man, you still do coaching.
• 1:01:12
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, all right.
• 1:01:13
  SPEAKER_00: I went to his house.
• 1:01:14
  SPEAKER_00: He was in San Diego.
• 1:01:15
  SPEAKER_00: Man, he had like a compound, koi fish, all types.
• 1:01:18
  SPEAKER_00: I said, man, this is what you're doing off of content?
• 1:01:21
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, all right, bet.
• 1:01:22
  SPEAKER_00: I'm all right.
• 1:01:23
  SPEAKER_00: I'm into this.
• 1:01:24
  SPEAKER_00: And then I started doing that, doing the fitness content, the motivational speaking.
• 1:01:27
  SPEAKER_00: Then I just started dropping game about, you know, just the things I do in life.
• 1:01:30
  SPEAKER_00: People gravitated towards that.
• 1:01:32
  SPEAKER_00: And ever since then, you know, it's been up.
• 1:01:34
  SPEAKER_03: Damn, when did you start talking about the game?
• 1:01:36
  SPEAKER_03: That's so interesting.
• 1:01:37
  SPEAKER_03: We've had so many content creators on Vibe Sesh, and it's the same story, bro.
• 1:01:41
  SPEAKER_03: All of us have tried different things, different genres.
• 1:01:44
  SPEAKER_03: One girl was saying she tried t-shirts,
• 1:01:47
  SPEAKER_03: then she talked about olives, and then she talked about salmon.
• 1:01:52
  SPEAKER_03: Hey, the life of an entrepreneur,
• 1:01:53
  SPEAKER_03: you're going to
• 1:01:54
  SPEAKER_00: try a whole bunch of things until something works.
• 1:01:58
  SPEAKER_00: Bro, when did this game thing start taking off though?
• 1:02:00
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe like two years ago.
• 1:02:02
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I just started, you know, the story I told you about my uncle.
• 1:02:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like I'm telling you, my uncle said this and people really gravitated towards it.
• 1:02:08
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm like, oh, y'all like this is what I, this is easy for me.
• 1:02:12
  SPEAKER_00: I can talk about this all day and people just gravitate towards that.
• 1:02:15
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, all right, well, I guess this is a thing now.
• 1:02:18
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, when did you start getting that signal?
• 1:02:20
  SPEAKER_03: Like you weren't online at that point, right?
• 1:02:22
  SPEAKER_03: So like,
• 1:02:23
  SPEAKER_03: that's really interesting because I always tell people,
• 1:02:25
  SPEAKER_03: you gotta listen to those signals, right?
• 1:02:28
  SPEAKER_03: And your signal was when you would tell that story,
• 1:02:30
  SPEAKER_03: all these people would be like, yo, blah, blah.
• 1:02:33
  SPEAKER_03: And then there would be, but how was that happening if you weren't online?
• 1:02:36
  SPEAKER_03: You mean you were just- No,
• 1:02:37
  SPEAKER_00: no, I was online, but I was doing the fitness motivational talk thing.
• 1:02:43
  SPEAKER_00: And then one day I'll get on my story and I'll talk about this thing that happened
• 1:02:45
  SPEAKER_00: with my uncle when I was coming up and Then I got the information,
• 1:02:49
  SPEAKER_00: oh, that's what y'all like?
• 1:02:50
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 1:02:51
  SPEAKER_00: I got a million stories like that.
• 1:02:53
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why I just kept going with that.
• 1:02:57
  SPEAKER_02: And then when did you create those like products and then the brotherhood?
• 1:03:00
  SPEAKER_02: Like how soon after you talking about it?
• 1:03:04
  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
• 1:03:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like it was a long time before I did that.
• 1:03:06
  SPEAKER_00: And it was actually a chick I was with,
• 1:03:08
  SPEAKER_00: you know, she kept on saying like, you know, I'm always talking about books.
• 1:03:10
  SPEAKER_00: Like I read a lot.
• 1:03:11
  SPEAKER_00: You know what?
• 1:03:12
  SPEAKER_00: She like, you need to, you need to come out with a book list.
• 1:03:15
  SPEAKER_00: She just keep, I'm like, stop talking to me about that shit.
• 1:03:17
  SPEAKER_00: And one day I'm like, all right, all right, I'm gonna do it.
• 1:03:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna do it.
• 1:03:20
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna come out.
• 1:03:20
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna tell these people my book list.
• 1:03:22
  SPEAKER_00: And I made the book list and, uh, I went out for a walk with my son.
• 1:03:26
  SPEAKER_00: I came back.
• 1:03:26
  SPEAKER_00: It was like $400.
• 1:03:28
  SPEAKER_00: You know, it's all from $1,500 sales about people buying my book.
• 1:03:30
  SPEAKER_00: I said, oh, shit, they really buy shit online.
• 1:03:33
  SPEAKER_00: And then from there, now I'm giving the game.
• 1:03:36
  SPEAKER_00: I'm making courses.
• 1:03:37
  SPEAKER_00: So that's how that started.
• 1:03:42
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm kind of curious.
• 1:03:44
  SPEAKER_02: I'm curious about how the Brotherhood kind of works because it's like a weekly call.
• 1:03:48
  SPEAKER_02: And then like, so is it just course material?
• 1:03:51
  SPEAKER_02: People talk?
• 1:03:53
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
• 1:03:54
  SPEAKER_00: So, so, so in the brotherhood, it's really like a fellowship.
• 1:03:57
  SPEAKER_00: I tell people all the time, man, that's what men is missing these days.
• 1:03:59
  SPEAKER_00: They miss the fellowship.
• 1:04:00
  SPEAKER_00: They missing that brotherhood.
• 1:04:02
  SPEAKER_00: They missing, because the world is going to tell you everything wrong.
• 1:04:05
  SPEAKER_00: The world is going to tell you happy wife, happy life.
• 1:04:07
  SPEAKER_00: The world, your mom is She's going to tell you, oh, well, buy her flowers.
• 1:04:10
  SPEAKER_00: So it's like when I came up, I am who I am because it was a fellowship.
• 1:04:15
  SPEAKER_00: People go to church, but you got to fellowship with other Christians.
• 1:04:18
  SPEAKER_00: You got to fellowship with other men on the same type of time you are.
• 1:04:21
  SPEAKER_00: So that's what we do every week.
• 1:04:23
  SPEAKER_00: We go live.
• 1:04:24
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, whatever problems you going through,
• 1:04:26
  SPEAKER_00: whatever you got going through with your woman, we get on there.
• 1:04:29
  SPEAKER_00: I'll chop it up.
• 1:04:30
  SPEAKER_00: I answer questions.
• 1:04:31
  SPEAKER_00: And then daily,
• 1:04:32
  SPEAKER_00: on a day-to-day,
• 1:04:33
  SPEAKER_00: whatever I'm going through,
• 1:04:34
  SPEAKER_00: whatever one of my clients might be going through, I'm dropping game.
• 1:04:37
  SPEAKER_00: Like big game, heavy game.
• 1:04:39
  SPEAKER_00: You just need that.
• 1:04:40
  SPEAKER_00: People need that because you can think you somebody.
• 1:04:43
  SPEAKER_00: Then your woman is going to break you down.
• 1:04:45
  SPEAKER_00: You're going to get to questioning yourself.
• 1:04:47
  SPEAKER_00: Your woman is going to be on your ass,
• 1:04:49
  SPEAKER_00: on your bumper,
• 1:04:49
  SPEAKER_00: and you're going to start to think you're crazy until you come and fellowship with
• 1:04:52
  SPEAKER_00: the brotherhood.
• 1:04:53
  SPEAKER_00: And you're going to realize, no, I'm not crazy.
• 1:04:55
  SPEAKER_00: She's crazy, but you need that support.
• 1:04:56
  SPEAKER_00: So that's really what it's about.
• 1:04:59
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:05:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's just going to eat you alive.
• 1:05:03
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 1:05:04
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, the bra gonna work you down.
• 1:05:06
  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna make you feel crazy.
• 1:05:07
  SPEAKER_00: Like, you gonna feel like you crazy.
• 1:05:08
  SPEAKER_00: Nah, she crazy, but you got to have a brotherhood.
• 1:05:11
  SPEAKER_00: If I didn't have that coming up,
• 1:05:12
  SPEAKER_00: if I didn't have my uncles, if I didn't have other players, we would fellowship.
• 1:05:15
  SPEAKER_00: You have to.
• 1:05:17
  SPEAKER_00: You have to.
• 1:05:17
  SPEAKER_03: Because the bra gonna work you down.
• 1:05:20
  SPEAKER_03: But did you feel that was the vibe when you were growing up?
• 1:05:22
  SPEAKER_03: We're brothers?
• 1:05:23
  SPEAKER_03: Like, all your uncles and,
• 1:05:25
  SPEAKER_03: you know, the people that you... Did they feel like a brotherhood kind of thing?
• 1:05:29
  SPEAKER_03: Or you're just...
• 1:05:31
  SPEAKER_00: Back then, I didn't see it like that.
• 1:05:34
  SPEAKER_00: But now looking back and I say, man, that was invaluable.
• 1:05:38
  SPEAKER_00: Invaluable to have people around you to boost you up.
• 1:05:40
  SPEAKER_00: To say you a king, you a god, you this, you that.
• 1:05:43
  SPEAKER_00: You need that.
• 1:05:44
  SPEAKER_00: And men these days, they don't have it.
• 1:05:46
  SPEAKER_00: They don't have it.
• 1:05:49
  SPEAKER_01: Getting that positive affirmation, bro.
• 1:05:52
  SPEAKER_03: Damn.
• 1:05:53
  SPEAKER_03: Because my love language, bro, is words of affirmation, baby.
• 1:05:56
  SPEAKER_03: And I feel like I have not gotten enough.
• 1:05:58
  SPEAKER_03: So I might have to join this community right here, maybe.
• 1:06:03
  SPEAKER_03: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:06:05
  SPEAKER_02: And speaking of that, I'm curious, like, what's the range of generations in the brotherhood?
• 1:06:09
  SPEAKER_02: Like, boomers, Gen X, millennial, Gen Z.
• 1:06:12
  SPEAKER_02: Like, what's the range?
• 1:06:12
  SPEAKER_03: What's your audience, bro?
• 1:06:15
  SPEAKER_03: Like, what's your audience?
• 1:06:16
  SPEAKER_03: Like, younger, our day...
• 1:06:18
  SPEAKER_00: It ranges, man.
• 1:06:20
  SPEAKER_00: I got dudes in there that's 50 plus years old.
• 1:06:22
  SPEAKER_00: I got some dudes in there that's 16, 17.
• 1:06:24
  SPEAKER_00: I think like the general age, probably like from 20 to 30.
• 1:06:28
  SPEAKER_00: But it's all ranges.
• 1:06:29
  SPEAKER_00: Why?
• 1:06:29
  SPEAKER_00: Because everybody needs this information.
• 1:06:31
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody needs to know they're not crazy.
• 1:06:32
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody needs to know, hey, man, I like you like me.
• 1:06:34
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody needs to know, hey, man, stop dealing with that rod and rod.
• 1:06:37
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes you need to know, hey, man, that bro don't like you like that.
• 1:06:40
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, if she don't like you like that, man, you got to move on and get you another one.
• 1:06:43
  SPEAKER_00: So it's just...
• 1:06:44
  SPEAKER_00: I'm just giving them them daily reminders.
• 1:06:45
  SPEAKER_00: So it's all age ranges.
• 1:06:47
  SPEAKER_00: You know, it's a lot of dudes that come to me.
• 1:06:48
  SPEAKER_00: They're like, man, you like my younger OG.
• 1:06:51
  SPEAKER_00: They older than me, you know, but they like, man, I didn't get this information.
• 1:06:54
  SPEAKER_00: So, you know, the game is universal.
• 1:06:59
  SPEAKER_02: Are the problems amongst generations consistent or do they have their own unique challenges?
• 1:07:07
  SPEAKER_00: They're consistent.
• 1:07:08
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody is having the same problems.
• 1:07:10
  SPEAKER_00: They dealing with a woman who acting crazy.
• 1:07:11
  SPEAKER_00: They dealing with a woman that don't really like them.
• 1:07:13
  SPEAKER_00: They chose wrong.
• 1:07:14
  SPEAKER_00: They chose a woman that they wanted instead of one that wanted them.
• 1:07:17
  SPEAKER_00: They letting the broad get away with this, that, and the third.
• 1:07:19
  SPEAKER_00: Why?
• 1:07:19
  SPEAKER_00: Because they haven't recognized self-love.
• 1:07:21
  SPEAKER_00: They don't want to be by themselves.
• 1:07:22
  SPEAKER_00: They would rather deal with a woman that they don't like that look good than a woman
• 1:07:25
  SPEAKER_00: who liked them that may not be...
• 1:07:28
  SPEAKER_00: Up to par in their minds.
• 1:07:29
  SPEAKER_00: So everybody is having the same issues and that's why we all relate.
• 1:07:33
  SPEAKER_00: And everybody knows they issue.
• 1:07:35
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody knows they wrong.
• 1:07:36
  SPEAKER_00: Everybody knows they need to change.
• 1:07:37
  SPEAKER_00: They just need a reminder.
• 1:07:40
  SPEAKER_03: You think like when you were coming up from the game versus now,
• 1:07:44
  SPEAKER_03: because it's been like 20 years for you,
• 1:07:47
  SPEAKER_03: basically, since you started learning stuff from your uncle.
• 1:07:50
  SPEAKER_03: You feel like something has changed with the internet,
• 1:07:53
  SPEAKER_03: with the algorithms, OnlyFans and all kinds of crazy shit.
• 1:07:57
  SPEAKER_03: You think something's changed or it's the same human problems or no difference?
• 1:08:02
  SPEAKER_03: What do you think?
• 1:08:03
  SPEAKER_00: As far as what?
• 1:08:04
  SPEAKER_00: Female nature?
• 1:08:08
  SPEAKER_00: You'd like female,
• 1:08:09
  SPEAKER_03: male relationships.
• 1:08:11
  SPEAKER_00: The only thing that I could say is women have been more comfortable to be themselves.
• 1:08:14
  SPEAKER_00: They would like to say, oh, women have changed.
• 1:08:17
  SPEAKER_00: No, women are just actually being able to be who they've always been.
• 1:08:21
  SPEAKER_00: And it's encouraging.
• 1:08:22
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:08:23
  SPEAKER_00: But that's what I see.
• 1:08:24
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah.
• 1:08:25
  SPEAKER_00: These women are just being able to be okay with who they've always been,
• 1:08:28
  SPEAKER_00: but had to hide who they were.
• 1:08:30
  SPEAKER_03: Damn!
• 1:08:32
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, so when you look at, like,
• 1:08:34
  SPEAKER_03: women's, like,
• 1:08:35
  SPEAKER_03: what are some legitimate complaints about women when they talk about men nowadays?
• 1:08:39
  SPEAKER_03: Like, what do the women get right about men nowadays when they complain about dating?
• 1:08:44
  SPEAKER_00: When women talk about men, what is legitimate about what they're talking about?
• 1:08:50
  SPEAKER_03: Let's go!
• 1:08:50
  SPEAKER_03: Let's go!
• 1:08:51
  Oh, my God!
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  Samurai question, baby!
• 1:08:54
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, that is a
• 1:08:58
  SPEAKER_00: That's really hard.
• 1:08:59
  SPEAKER_00: And maybe I'm biased.
• 1:09:01
  SPEAKER_00: It's hard.
• 1:09:01
  SPEAKER_00: And maybe I'm biased because I feel like they don't have anything legitimate
• 1:09:07
  SPEAKER_00: that they're saying about men these days.
• 1:09:10
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 1:09:11
  SPEAKER_00: Because they are the problem.
• 1:09:12
  SPEAKER_00: Us as men, we can find women.
• 1:09:15
  SPEAKER_00: We can find relationships.
• 1:09:17
  SPEAKER_00: These women can't.
• 1:09:18
  SPEAKER_00: How is it?
• 1:09:20
  SPEAKER_00: When men are so thirsty for sex that these women still can't find a relationship.
• 1:09:24
  SPEAKER_00: They are the problem.
• 1:09:26
  SPEAKER_00: They have expectations that can't be met because it's not based in reality.
• 1:09:31
  SPEAKER_00: Because they're watching Instagram.
• 1:09:32
  SPEAKER_00: They're watching this celebrity.
• 1:09:34
  SPEAKER_00: They think that there's something that they're not.
• 1:09:36
  SPEAKER_00: As a man, we know where we at.
• 1:09:38
  SPEAKER_00: We know where we are.
• 1:09:39
  SPEAKER_00: We know how we look.
• 1:09:40
  SPEAKER_03: No, we want the hot girl, though, still on the Instagram.
• 1:09:44
  SPEAKER_00: But at least we are understanding where we are and what it's going to take to get it.
• 1:09:49
  SPEAKER_00: These women do not understand where they are and expect something they can't get and
• 1:09:54
  SPEAKER_00: then get mad at me.
• 1:09:55
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, fuck me.
• 1:09:56
  SPEAKER_00: At least as a man, we'll say, okay, let me get my money up.
• 1:09:58
  SPEAKER_00: Let me do this.
• 1:09:59
  SPEAKER_00: Let me do that.
• 1:10:00
  SPEAKER_00: Let me do this.
• 1:10:01
  SPEAKER_00: A woman will say, oh, it's men's fault.
• 1:10:03
  SPEAKER_00: She won't have that introspection to say, well, maybe I need to fix this and fix that.
• 1:10:07
  SPEAKER_00: So most of these women, I'm telling you, and I meet them all the time.
• 1:10:10
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, listen, there's no way that you're not the problem.
• 1:10:13
  SPEAKER_00: You're the problem.
• 1:10:15
  SPEAKER_00: You are the problem.
• 1:10:18
  SPEAKER_03: How do they accept that?
• 1:10:19
  SPEAKER_03: Do some of them listen?
• 1:10:20
  SPEAKER_03: They don't.
• 1:10:21
  SPEAKER_00: You know what they do?
• 1:10:24
  SPEAKER_00: They don't accept it.
• 1:10:25
  SPEAKER_00: They coax with the fact of, fuck men, men ain't shit, and that's why I'm single.
• 1:10:30
  SPEAKER_00: That's what they do.
• 1:10:31
  SPEAKER_00: Dude, this
• 1:10:32
  SPEAKER_03: is what I'm saying.
• 1:10:33
  SPEAKER_03: I feel like that's a difference, man.
• 1:10:34
  SPEAKER_03: I'm older than you,
• 1:10:35
  SPEAKER_03: and I feel like,
• 1:10:37
  SPEAKER_03: I don't know if it's social media magnifying or amplifying this,
• 1:10:40
  SPEAKER_03: but I feel like there's a gender war going on.
• 1:10:42
  SPEAKER_03: Like, we didn't talk about gender wars back then.
• 1:10:45
  SPEAKER_03: Maybe there was some shit, but it wasn't like to disintention.
• 1:10:48
  SPEAKER_00: I do feel like it's the algorithm, and they're pushing the division of many.
• 1:10:53
  SPEAKER_00: I do believe that.
• 1:10:54
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm a part of the problem.
• 1:10:56
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm a part of the problem.
• 1:10:57
  SPEAKER_00: But...
• 1:10:59
  SPEAKER_00: Because guess what?
• 1:11:00
  SPEAKER_00: That's what they push.
• 1:11:02
  SPEAKER_00: They know what to push.
• 1:11:03
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, if you're going to push it, that's what y'all want to hear.
• 1:11:05
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to give it to you.
• 1:11:07
  SPEAKER_03: But it is a part of the problem.
• 1:11:09
  SPEAKER_03: Because let me tell you this, right?
• 1:11:10
  SPEAKER_00: I say all the time, like, I talk about these women My women are great.
• 1:11:16
  SPEAKER_00: My women don't act like this.
• 1:11:17
  SPEAKER_00: I find great women all the time.
• 1:11:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm talking about you guys as women, but that's what you want to push.
• 1:11:22
  SPEAKER_00: But in reality, I tell people all the time, I find great women all the time.
• 1:11:26
  SPEAKER_00: I find women who are generous.
• 1:11:27
  SPEAKER_00: I find women who are good people.
• 1:11:29
  SPEAKER_00: I find those type of women all the time.
• 1:11:30
  SPEAKER_03: I'm just talking about what y'all be talking about.
• 1:11:33
  SPEAKER_03: You find good women who treats you well and this and that,
• 1:11:37
  SPEAKER_03: but they're
• 1:11:37
  SPEAKER_00: okay with you sleeping with many different women?
• 1:11:40
  SPEAKER_00: They're cool.
• 1:11:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:11:41
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, it's one of these things.
• 1:11:43
  SPEAKER_00: It's like, okay, because I keep everything up front.
• 1:11:46
  SPEAKER_00: Do you want me?
• 1:11:48
  SPEAKER_00: And this is some game right here, right?
• 1:11:49
  SPEAKER_00: You tell the woman, hey, baby, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen.
• 1:11:54
  SPEAKER_00: I can tell you that I'm going to just be with you.
• 1:11:57
  SPEAKER_00: Like every last man that you ever had said and what they do, they violated your trust.
• 1:12:02
  SPEAKER_00: So baby, I'm not going to do that to you.
• 1:12:05
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to give you a choice.
• 1:12:06
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to deal with other women, but I love you though.
• 1:12:09
  SPEAKER_00: And you have the choice to say you can accept that or not.
• 1:12:13
  SPEAKER_00: And you know what happens?
• 1:12:15
  SPEAKER_00: They might be like, uh, at first.
• 1:12:17
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 1:12:17
  SPEAKER_00: Then they go and they go fuck with some other dude and he cheats on her.
• 1:12:21
  SPEAKER_00: You know what she says?
• 1:12:22
  SPEAKER_00: Damn, that was the only man that actually gave me an option.
• 1:12:24
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, every other man that you had cheated on you, didn't he?
• 1:12:27
  SPEAKER_00: He lied to you, right?
• 1:12:28
  SPEAKER_00: Baby, I ain't gonna do that to you.
• 1:12:29
  SPEAKER_00: They can't not respect it.
• 1:12:31
  SPEAKER_00: And then when they go and fuck with somebody else and that nigga cheat on her, she mad as hell.
• 1:12:37
  SPEAKER_00: She like, well, let me just go fuck with the nigga who gonna tell me about it.
• 1:12:40
  SPEAKER_00: It's never failed.
• 1:12:41
  SPEAKER_00: It's never failed me.
• 1:12:42
  SPEAKER_00: That is fucking brilliant, bro.
• 1:12:44
  SPEAKER_03: No, but it's just like so honest.
• 1:12:46
  SPEAKER_03: That's the funny thing.
• 1:12:47
  SPEAKER_03: It's like the truthful, honest thing to do.
• 1:12:50
  SPEAKER_03: I want to fuck other women.
• 1:12:52
  SPEAKER_03: Let's do it.
• 1:12:52
  SPEAKER_03: Whereas the other guy is lying to you.
• 1:12:55
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, it's that simple.
• 1:12:58
  SPEAKER_00: Another thing that makes it work with me is because I've been having women my whole life.
• 1:13:04
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not no thirsty ass motherfucking, you know, weirdo, super into sex.
• 1:13:11
  SPEAKER_00: I need it.
• 1:13:12
  SPEAKER_00: So the women don't see me like that.
• 1:13:14
  SPEAKER_00: She see a smooth dude.
• 1:13:15
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not one of these dudes who ain't never had sex in their life, so he's so thirsty.
• 1:13:19
  SPEAKER_00: So when she see me and she fuck with me, it's a different vibe.
• 1:13:23
  SPEAKER_00: I'm telling you that I'm going to deal with other women when I want to.
• 1:13:26
  SPEAKER_00: But I ain't even pressed on it.
• 1:13:28
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not even pressed on it.
• 1:13:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, if it happened, it happened.
• 1:13:30
  SPEAKER_00: I'll meet a bitch.
• 1:13:31
  SPEAKER_00: I'll meet a bitch.
• 1:13:31
  SPEAKER_00: But it ain't like I'm one of those guys who's just so thirsty to have a bitch.
• 1:13:35
  SPEAKER_00: So it's just a different energy that the woman feels.
• 1:13:38
  SPEAKER_00: I've never had it not work.
• 1:13:39
  SPEAKER_00: I've had women who said, I would never.
• 1:13:41
  SPEAKER_00: Two-parent house are old.
• 1:13:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'll never deal with a man who has other women.
• 1:13:45
  SPEAKER_00: And she deal with me, though.
• 1:13:46
  SPEAKER_00: You know?
• 1:13:48
  SPEAKER_00: Why are so many men dishonest
• 1:13:50
  SPEAKER_02: about stuff like that?
• 1:13:52
  SPEAKER_00: Because that's what you see.
• 1:13:55
  SPEAKER_00: That's what you see your dad do.
• 1:13:56
  SPEAKER_00: That's what you see your uncle do.
• 1:13:57
  SPEAKER_00: That's what you see on movies.
• 1:14:00
  SPEAKER_00: That's how you've been taught.
• 1:14:02
  SPEAKER_00: If you'd have been taught like the people in my group,
• 1:14:04
  SPEAKER_00: people in my group on a regular basis be like, damn, I've been lying my whole life.
• 1:14:07
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't know that if I gave the woman a choice, most of the time they accepted.
• 1:14:11
  SPEAKER_00: If a woman want to deal with you,
• 1:14:13
  SPEAKER_00: And the only way she could deal with you is knowing she's dealing with other women.
• 1:14:16
  SPEAKER_00: She's going to deal with you.
• 1:14:17
  SPEAKER_00: You know,
• 1:14:18
  SPEAKER_00: and most of these dudes have never tried
• 1:14:19
  SPEAKER_00: because they've never heard this information.
• 1:14:21
  SPEAKER_00: And they try to be like, damn, I've been lying my whole life for no reason.
• 1:14:26
  SPEAKER_03: Goldie, so the guys that you came up with that was learning the game,
• 1:14:30
  SPEAKER_03: like when you do you have do you still have buddies and you can see how they did
• 1:14:34
  SPEAKER_03: in their lives?
• 1:14:35
  SPEAKER_03: Are they as good as you like reaching this?
• 1:14:37
  SPEAKER_03: No, they didn't learn the lesson, baby.
• 1:14:41
  SPEAKER_02: They didn't learn square millionaires, right?
• 1:14:44
  SPEAKER_02: He knows more square millionaires.
• 1:14:47
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah, man.
• 1:14:48
  SPEAKER_00: I say it all the time.
• 1:14:49
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to teach you some things, but man, it's very small.
• 1:14:55
  SPEAKER_00: It's very low level.
• 1:14:56
  SPEAKER_00: And it's something you need to graduate from.
• 1:14:58
  SPEAKER_00: And most of them don't graduate from it.
• 1:15:00
  SPEAKER_00: They just try to master that low level thing.
• 1:15:02
  SPEAKER_00: But me, I was different because I was reading books.
• 1:15:07
  SPEAKER_00: When my host was out working, man, I'm reading books.
• 1:15:09
  SPEAKER_00: I'm reading Charlie Munger.
• 1:15:10
  SPEAKER_00: I'm reading this.
• 1:15:11
  SPEAKER_00: I'm reading that.
• 1:15:11
  SPEAKER_00: So I always had a bigger vision.
• 1:15:14
  SPEAKER_00: They don't have that.
• 1:15:15
  SPEAKER_00: They master what they master.
• 1:15:17
  SPEAKER_03: Do you think that's natural?
• 1:15:19
  SPEAKER_03: You were born with it?
• 1:15:20
  SPEAKER_03: Or you learned that?
• 1:15:21
  SPEAKER_03: Or it's a combination of both?
• 1:15:23
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, because you had that.
• 1:15:25
  SPEAKER_03: And that is like a superpower.
• 1:15:27
  SPEAKER_00: You had this natural... Man, you know...
• 1:15:32
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
• 1:15:32
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe it was in my soul.
• 1:15:33
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I mean?
• 1:15:34
  SPEAKER_00: I was destined for this and didn't even know it.
• 1:15:36
  SPEAKER_00: But nah, you know, I tell people all the time, man, them books changed my life.
• 1:15:40
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I go cross country with my host, man, from nine hours.
• 1:15:43
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I tell them, I was shut the fuck up.
• 1:15:44
  SPEAKER_00: We listened to audio books the whole time.
• 1:15:46
  SPEAKER_00: Damn, the whole time.
• 1:15:50
  SPEAKER_00: From LA to Arizona to Utah.
• 1:15:53
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, be quiet.
• 1:15:54
  SPEAKER_00: I'm listening to this audio book.
• 1:15:55
  SPEAKER_00: I'm listening to this course.
• 1:15:56
  SPEAKER_00: Back then, you could download Torrance.
• 1:15:57
  SPEAKER_00: So I like download Torrance and get courses and stuff for free.
• 1:16:00
  SPEAKER_03: No way.
• 1:16:01
  SPEAKER_00: Dude, this is the craziest story.
• 1:16:03
  SPEAKER_03: Goldie, so of all the hoes you impacted,
• 1:16:07
  SPEAKER_03: tell me like the biggest success stories of a hoe you impacted positively.
• 1:16:11
  SPEAKER_03: Because you were like talking a lot.
• 1:16:12
  SPEAKER_03: All of them.
• 1:16:13
  SPEAKER_00: All of them.
• 1:16:13
  SPEAKER_00: You know why?
• 1:16:14
  SPEAKER_00: Because I always put into them what I was doing.
• 1:16:17
  SPEAKER_00: My personal development, they was reading books.
• 1:16:19
  SPEAKER_00: They was reading as a man thinking.
• 1:16:22
  SPEAKER_00: They was coming to the gym with me.
• 1:16:23
  SPEAKER_00: I was trying to make sure they wasn't on drugs and not drinking.
• 1:16:27
  SPEAKER_00: That's why most dudes,
• 1:16:28
  SPEAKER_00: you begin to this level,
• 1:16:30
  SPEAKER_00: females are going to come out and say something bad about you.
• 1:16:32
  SPEAKER_00: I impacted every woman's life that I ever had in a positive way.
• 1:16:35
  SPEAKER_00: Even this day, they'd be like, I wish you were still around.
• 1:16:38
  SPEAKER_00: You made me better.
• 1:16:39
  SPEAKER_00: You made me work out.
• 1:16:41
  SPEAKER_00: You made me read these books.
• 1:16:42
  SPEAKER_00: All Always gave every woman that I was with the same fundamentals that I have myself.
• 1:16:48
  SPEAKER_00: And that was reading, that was personal development.
• 1:16:49
  SPEAKER_00: So all of these women was better.
• 1:16:51
  SPEAKER_00: And there's some women, I can't tell them now.
• 1:16:53
  SPEAKER_00: They said, come and live out here.
• 1:16:54
  SPEAKER_00: And they're doing really, really well for theyself.
• 1:16:56
  SPEAKER_00: And it's all off the foundation of the things I taught them.
• 1:17:02
  SPEAKER_00: I'd love to know some of your favorite books, if anything.
• 1:17:07
  SPEAKER_00: As a Man Thinking is one of my favorite books.
• 1:17:10
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I reread that on a regular basis.
• 1:17:13
  SPEAKER_00: As a Man Thinking?
• 1:17:14
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know that one.
• 1:17:16
  SPEAKER_03: As a Man Thinking?
• 1:17:18
  SPEAKER_03: I gotta watch Mac.
• 1:17:19
  SPEAKER_03: What?
• 1:17:21
  SPEAKER_00: You telling me, as enlightened as you are, you never read As a Man Thinking.
• 1:17:27
  SPEAKER_03: I'm gonna be more enlightened now, baby.
• 1:17:29
  SPEAKER_00: That's crazy.
• 1:17:30
  SPEAKER_00: That's the eye in the background.
• 1:17:32
  SPEAKER_00: As a man thinking, man, you could probably read that book in an hour.
• 1:17:35
  SPEAKER_00: It just talks about how your world is a reflection of your thoughts.
• 1:17:39
  SPEAKER_00: And it really just has you have the relation that your life is always a reflection
• 1:17:44
  SPEAKER_00: of how you think.
• 1:17:44
  SPEAKER_00: And so think about what you're thinking about and how you're thinking about it.
• 1:17:47
  SPEAKER_00: One of my favorite books.
• 1:17:49
  SPEAKER_00: In all of my down times in life,
• 1:17:51
  SPEAKER_00: that's one of the books I always go back to because it always gives me
• 1:17:53
  SPEAKER_00: the remembrance of, hey, listen, I create my reality.
• 1:17:56
  SPEAKER_00: It's how I'm thinking is going to project onto this world.
• 1:18:00
  SPEAKER_00: Thinking Row Rich, that was a great one.
• 1:18:02
  SPEAKER_00: You know,
• 1:18:02
  SPEAKER_00: one of the first books I read when I went to jail that really changed everything
• 1:18:05
  SPEAKER_00: for me,
• 1:18:06
  SPEAKER_00: you know,
• 1:18:06
  SPEAKER_00: as far as giving me that, you know, burning desire, understanding of burning desire.
• 1:18:11
  SPEAKER_00: And one of the quotes in that book that I live with to this day is,
• 1:18:15
  SPEAKER_00: Even in the most negative situation,
• 1:18:17
  SPEAKER_00: there's an equal or greater positive if you're willing to look for the seed of it.
• 1:18:20
  SPEAKER_00: And that I brought with me in my life and has been so invaluable to me,
• 1:18:24
  SPEAKER_00: knowing no matter what happens, there is an equal or greater positive.
• 1:18:28
  SPEAKER_00: And when you think like that in a negative situation, man, it will change your life.
• 1:18:33
  SPEAKER_00: Those are like my top two.
• 1:18:34
  SPEAKER_03: Damn.
• 1:18:39
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, Cisco, we got to wrap up soon, but do you have any questions?
• 1:18:42
  SPEAKER_03: I got a couple, but I want to make sure you...
• 1:18:46
  SPEAKER_03: Let me look through my
• 1:18:46
  SPEAKER_02: bullet points.
• 1:18:48
  SPEAKER_03: I got a question though.
• 1:18:51
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, so like what you were talking about love, right?
• 1:18:55
  SPEAKER_03: So you were saying love is basically there's only one real love.
• 1:18:59
  SPEAKER_03: It's like the love that a mother has for a child.
• 1:19:03
  SPEAKER_03: Is that the only love?
• 1:19:04
  SPEAKER_03: Because right now you also said that you tell the girls that you love them, bro.
• 1:19:09
  SPEAKER_03: So when you say I love them, are you really mean?
• 1:19:12
  SPEAKER_00: I tell them What they think it is, I know it ain't true love.
• 1:19:16
  SPEAKER_00: My love is, hey baby, I care about you.
• 1:19:18
  SPEAKER_00: I care about you.
• 1:19:20
  SPEAKER_00: I care about your well-being.
• 1:19:21
  SPEAKER_00: Is it that universal?
• 1:19:22
  SPEAKER_00: Because if we talk about love, what is love?
• 1:19:24
  SPEAKER_00: Love is the universal, almighty.
• 1:19:27
  SPEAKER_00: It's one thing.
• 1:19:28
  SPEAKER_00: We can't fracture it into five, ten different things.
• 1:19:31
  SPEAKER_00: Love is either love or it's not.
• 1:19:33
  SPEAKER_00: And can we say that that is what most men have for women and women have for men?
• 1:19:36
  SPEAKER_00: No, they don't.
• 1:19:37
  SPEAKER_00: But just don't mean I can't tell them.
• 1:19:39
  SPEAKER_00: Bitch, I lie to you.
• 1:19:40
  SPEAKER_00: You lie to me.
• 1:19:40
  SPEAKER_00: It is what it is.
• 1:19:41
  SPEAKER_00: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:19:44
  SPEAKER_00: But you know what, though?
• 1:19:45
  SPEAKER_00: My love is more pure than hers.
• 1:19:47
  SPEAKER_00: Because she don't love me when she don't like me no more.
• 1:19:50
  SPEAKER_00: Even if she deal with another man, hey, baby, I love you.
• 1:19:53
  SPEAKER_00: I care about you.
• 1:19:54
  SPEAKER_00: If you call me and you needed something, I might help you out because I actually love you.
• 1:19:59
  SPEAKER_00: The bitch don't never love me for real.
• 1:20:01
  SPEAKER_00: I love her, though, so it's different.
• 1:20:03
  SPEAKER_00: You get what I'm saying?
• 1:20:05
  SPEAKER_00: Damn.
• 1:20:06
  SPEAKER_00: But how are you able to do that?
• 1:20:07
  SPEAKER_00: Just because you have that higher level of awareness?
• 1:20:10
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, listen, this is how I think.
• 1:20:12
  SPEAKER_00: I'm way higher evolved consciously than these hoes.
• 1:20:18
  SPEAKER_00: What can I expect?
• 1:20:20
  SPEAKER_00: She is on an elementary level of consciousness.
• 1:20:23
  SPEAKER_00: So, okay, I'm a little bit more righteous than her.
• 1:20:25
  SPEAKER_00: You know, yeah, I love her.
• 1:20:26
  SPEAKER_00: She don't really love me.
• 1:20:28
  SPEAKER_00: And I can be okay with that.
• 1:20:29
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, baby.
• 1:20:32
  SPEAKER_03: Two paradoxes, baby.
• 1:20:33
  SPEAKER_03: I love this guy, dude.
• 1:20:35
  SPEAKER_03: He's a dialectical thinker and he can hold two paradoxes.
• 1:20:38
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, man, she say she love me.
• 1:20:40
  SPEAKER_00: I say I love her and I know my love realer than hers, but I know she don't know no better.
• 1:20:44
  SPEAKER_00: But what can I say?
• 1:20:45
  SPEAKER_00: I'm more involved in her.
• 1:20:46
  SPEAKER_03: Man, this is like the truth, bro.
• 1:20:47
  SPEAKER_03: Like people are at different levels of consciousness.
• 1:20:50
  SPEAKER_03: I don't know what to say.
• 1:20:50
  SPEAKER_03: I don't know what to say.
• 1:20:51
  SPEAKER_03: That's the truth, right?
• 1:20:52
  SPEAKER_03: Damn.
• 1:20:54
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, man.
• 1:20:56
  SPEAKER_02: What do you think, Cisco?
• 1:20:58
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I guess my question is a little on the topic of love,
• 1:21:01
  SPEAKER_02: but I want to ask how has having a son changed your parents?
• 1:21:07
  SPEAKER_03: And being the father that you didn't have, bro.
• 1:21:09
  SPEAKER_03: There's the before and after, of course.
• 1:21:12
  SPEAKER_00: We're approaching the beautiful end here.
• 1:21:14
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, man, you know what?
• 1:21:15
  SPEAKER_00: They say it's like the biggest growth I've ever had in my life.
• 1:21:21
  SPEAKER_00: It came from my son.
• 1:21:22
  SPEAKER_00: Like, you know, one of the hardest things.
• 1:21:24
  SPEAKER_00: Not even just having him having a baby mother and having to deal with all the drama
• 1:21:29
  SPEAKER_00: and things that come with that.
• 1:21:30
  SPEAKER_00: You know, it's really...
• 1:21:33
  SPEAKER_00: It's really groovy,
• 1:21:35
  SPEAKER_00: you know,
• 1:21:36
  SPEAKER_00: for lack of a better word,
• 1:21:37
  SPEAKER_00: you know, but everything that's hard, man, it gives you something.
• 1:21:40
  SPEAKER_00: So I always try to bring something out of it.
• 1:21:42
  SPEAKER_00: And, you know, if I didn't have a son, man, I'd probably be in prison right now, man.
• 1:21:45
  SPEAKER_00: I used to say stupid shit when I was younger.
• 1:21:47
  SPEAKER_00: I go to prison for five, six years.
• 1:21:49
  SPEAKER_00: I used to say stupid shit like that.
• 1:21:50
  SPEAKER_00: I had a son, like, he relies on me.
• 1:21:52
  SPEAKER_00: So it's certain things that I would never do because I know this person relies
• 1:21:56
  SPEAKER_00: on me, which kept me safe rather if I didn't have him.
• 1:22:00
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, it's a beautiful thing.
• 1:22:03
  SPEAKER_00: Anything that tests you,
• 1:22:05
  SPEAKER_00: anything that makes you have to contemplate,
• 1:22:07
  SPEAKER_00: anything that makes you have to sit down and, you know, it's growing you in a way.
• 1:22:12
  SPEAKER_00: So, you know, I love it.
• 1:22:14
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, I love,
• 1:22:15
  SPEAKER_03: I think I saw this,
• 1:22:16
  SPEAKER_03: where you're watching something with your son and then you pause the thing
• 1:22:21
  SPEAKER_03: and ask him what he thought of the thing, of the movie or whatever.
• 1:22:25
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, because I see it all the time.
• 1:22:28
  SPEAKER_03: We're being programmed
• 1:22:31
  SPEAKER_00: by everything we see.
• 1:22:32
  SPEAKER_00: These Netflix specials,
• 1:22:35
  SPEAKER_00: do you not think that they're not intentionally putting things in there
• 1:22:38
  SPEAKER_00: to how they want you to think?
• 1:22:42
  SPEAKER_00: Don't let that just pass through your subconscious and now you accept that.
• 1:22:46
  SPEAKER_00: We need to unpack that.
• 1:22:47
  SPEAKER_00: I don't agree with that.
• 1:22:48
  SPEAKER_00: Do you agree with that?
• 1:22:49
  SPEAKER_00: Learn to think like that.
• 1:22:50
  SPEAKER_00: Even I got to give them books to read.
• 1:22:51
  SPEAKER_00: I say, just because you're reading something, you need to think for yourself.
• 1:22:55
  SPEAKER_00: Do you agree with what you're reading or do you not?
• 1:22:57
  SPEAKER_00: Don't just read it.
• 1:23:01
  SPEAKER_00: That's just another man who's putting his thoughts on paper.
• 1:23:05
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't mean he's correct.
• 1:23:06
  SPEAKER_00: So you always have to think for yourself.
• 1:23:07
  SPEAKER_00: And so that's what I always try to tell my son about anything.
• 1:23:10
  SPEAKER_03: Damn, bro, we're gonna have Super God Goldie.
• 1:23:13
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, this is Super God Goldie.
• 1:23:15
  SPEAKER_00: He's like... Hey, man, I'm gonna change my name.
• 1:23:18
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna change my name.
• 1:23:19
  SPEAKER_00: Super God Goldie.
• 1:23:20
  SPEAKER_00: I'd like to ring that.
• 1:23:21
  SPEAKER_03: No, I'm saying your son, bro.
• 1:23:23
  SPEAKER_03: You're passing on that knowledge, bro.
• 1:23:27
  SPEAKER_03: You understand?
• 1:23:27
  SPEAKER_03: You understand?
• 1:23:29
  SPEAKER_03: Like, he has all the advantages, you know, from... Yeah, man, you know what?
• 1:23:35
  SPEAKER_00: So it ain't that easy.
• 1:23:37
  SPEAKER_00: You would think that your kids would take in everything about you.
• 1:23:40
  SPEAKER_00: It don't work like that though.
• 1:23:42
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know how this
• 1:23:44
  SPEAKER_03: shit gonna work out.
• 1:23:45
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, it's like this.
• 1:23:46
  SPEAKER_03: I have a buddy of mine and he loves reading, right?
• 1:23:49
  SPEAKER_03: He's a huge reader, but his daughter, who's like three or four, she doesn't like reading.
• 1:23:54
  SPEAKER_03: So he's like doing everything he can to try to get her to read.
• 1:23:58
  SPEAKER_03: And he's like got bookshelves and he's bought like,
• 1:24:01
  SPEAKER_03: because one day I was talking to him on video.
• 1:24:02
  SPEAKER_03: I was like, why do you have so many books all of a sudden?
• 1:24:05
  SPEAKER_03: He was like, because I want to kind of leave this impression on the little girl.
• 1:24:10
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, there's books.
• 1:24:11
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, daddy likes reading books.
• 1:24:12
  SPEAKER_03: Wow.
• 1:24:12
  SPEAKER_03: Why does he have so many books and influence her to read books?
• 1:24:17
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, that's a beautiful thing.
• 1:24:22
  SPEAKER_03: Cisco, what about our final question for,
• 1:24:25
  SPEAKER_03: I'm very curious about our final question for Mr. Goldie.
• 1:24:30
  SPEAKER_02: So at the end,
• 1:24:31
  SPEAKER_02: we like to ask this question to each of our special guests and it is called
• 1:24:36
  SPEAKER_02: the eternal loop.
• 1:24:37
  SPEAKER_02: So let's make the assumption you're going to have an experience.
• 1:24:42
  SPEAKER_02: It could be a moment or it can be longer.
• 1:24:44
  SPEAKER_02: And this is something you're going to replay for the rest of eternity.
• 1:24:48
  SPEAKER_02: And it's a loop where you make the assumption you're going to be happy.
• 1:24:51
  SPEAKER_02: You're going to love it.
• 1:24:52
  SPEAKER_02: You never get sick and tired of it.
• 1:24:54
  SPEAKER_02: What would be your eternal loop?
• 1:24:58
  SPEAKER_00: An eternal loop.
• 1:25:00
  SPEAKER_00: I got my replay for eternity.
• 1:25:02
  SPEAKER_03: And you're going to be happy.
• 1:25:03
  SPEAKER_03: You don't know you're in this loop,
• 1:25:05
  SPEAKER_03: but you got to choose one, one where you're in on this eternal loop forever.
• 1:25:10
  SPEAKER_03: You're going to experience this moment or experience for the rest of your life, Mr. Goldie.
• 1:25:15
  SPEAKER_03: What you got?
• 1:25:17
  SPEAKER_03: Pick your time.
• 1:25:18
  SPEAKER_03: That's a crazy question.
• 1:25:20
  SPEAKER_03: Damn.
• 1:25:25
  SPEAKER_03: You want some examples from previous guests?
• 1:25:29
  SPEAKER_03: No, no, no, no, no.
• 1:25:30
  SPEAKER_03: I already know.
• 1:25:32
  SPEAKER_03: I already know what I would.
• 1:25:33
  SPEAKER_00: If I had to pick something,
• 1:25:35
  SPEAKER_00: I would pick being at my beach house with my family and all of my sisters,
• 1:25:41
  SPEAKER_00: my brothers, my nieces, my nephews, my son.
• 1:25:44
  SPEAKER_00: My mother, my step, that's what I would have an eternal loop on.
• 1:25:50
  SPEAKER_02: Amazing.
• 1:25:53
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:25:54
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, you are so interesting, bro.
• 1:25:56
  SPEAKER_03: You're a family
• 1:25:56
  SPEAKER_03: guy at the end of it all.
• 1:25:58
  SPEAKER_03: You're a family guy, that's the point.
• 1:26:00
  SPEAKER_03: Hey, listen, listen, listen.
• 1:26:01
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like a fixed Rubens Cube.
• 1:26:03
  SPEAKER_00: Hey, listen, I got so much depth in me.
• 1:26:05
  SPEAKER_00: People are surprised.
• 1:26:07
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, because there's only one thing.
• 1:26:08
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like a...
• 1:26:09
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like a million things.
• 1:26:10
  SPEAKER_00: Like I'm so deep in so many different ways.
• 1:26:13
  SPEAKER_03: You can wear so many different fucking things, bro.
• 1:26:16
  SPEAKER_03: Like I see you in like different videos and the underbelly.
• 1:26:19
  SPEAKER_03: Dude, you are a fucking powerhouse, bro.
• 1:26:22
  SPEAKER_03: I'm so happy to meet you, bro.
• 1:26:23
  SPEAKER_00: Listen, and you'll be dropping some major game.
• 1:26:27
  SPEAKER_00: I'll be watching your stuff.
• 1:26:29
  SPEAKER_00: I'll be trying to tell you, I'll be stealing some of your shit too.
• 1:26:32
  SPEAKER_00: I'll be dropping your shit.
• 1:26:33
  SPEAKER_03: I'm going to steal your shit tomorrow.
• 1:26:35
  SPEAKER_03: You're going to see like five videos about the ideas from this video, baby.
• 1:26:42
  SPEAKER_03: Cisco, final words.
• 1:26:43
  SPEAKER_03: Let's get this man home.
• 1:26:45
  SPEAKER_03: No, I mean, I appreciate
• 1:26:47
  SPEAKER_02: it, man.
• 1:26:47
  SPEAKER_02: This was... Hey,
• 1:26:48
  SPEAKER_02: man, I appreciate y'all, man.
• 1:26:50
  SPEAKER_02: I appreciate it.
• 1:26:53
  SPEAKER_02: Like, men need to hear this shit and don't stop.
• 1:27:00
  SPEAKER_00: Keep it going.
• 1:27:00
  SPEAKER_03: Keep it going.
• 1:27:02
  SPEAKER_03: I know you like the money and stuff.
• 1:27:04
  SPEAKER_03: So we're going to make $100 million, $200 million.
• 1:27:05
  SPEAKER_03: We're going to do private equity deals, this, that.
• 1:27:08
  SPEAKER_03: We're going to take your media company private, bro.
• 1:27:11
  SPEAKER_03: Bro, but I'm serious, bro.
• 1:27:12
  SPEAKER_03: Like the impact that you're making, focus on the impact, bro.
• 1:27:15
  SPEAKER_00: The money comes after the impact, bro.
• 1:27:18
  SPEAKER_00: Keep going, bro.
• 1:27:19
  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to keep going for sure.
• 1:27:20
  SPEAKER_00: I appreciate y'all for sure.
• 1:27:22
  SPEAKER_03: Thank you, sir.
• 1:27:23
  SPEAKER_03: All right, sis.
• 1:27:24
  SPEAKER_03: Good night, everybody.
• 1:27:25
  SPEAKER_03: Peace.
• 1:27:26
  SPEAKER_00: Yo.