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JESS WITH THE MESS: Diddy Apologizes After Video Of Him Assaulting Cassie Surfaces · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: All everybody to seej and be just Hilarius Charlamagne the Guy.
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Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast clubs. Now, if you're just joining us,
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Speaker 1: we're taking your phone calls eight hundred and five eight five,
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Speaker 1: one oh five one. We're talking about the footage of
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Speaker 1: Diddy abusing Cassie and beating Cassie that was released over
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Speaker 1: the weekend and his apology after that, and we just
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Speaker 1: opened up the phone lines to get your thoughts. We've
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Speaker 1: we've heard so many, We've we've a lot of us
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Speaker 1: have read Cassie's lawsuit which was pulled and a lot
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Speaker 1: of this was in it. So we're just pretty much
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Speaker 1: asking what are your thoughts. Let's let's start with you, Jess.
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Speaker 2: I think it's disgusting.
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Speaker 3: I think it's crazy to know, I mean, like to
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Speaker 3: actually see that. I mean we've heard rumors and things
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Speaker 3: like that, you know what I'm saying, But to actually
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Speaker 3: see it, and then for it to be of that
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Speaker 3: magnitude right like in which I still hold that to
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Speaker 3: be light, like to think about behind closed or at home,
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Speaker 3: you know, and then even leading up to her running out,
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Speaker 3: like because she really was like gone, you know what
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Speaker 3: I mean, like she she was trying to get away
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Speaker 3: one sock on like she she was running, you know
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Speaker 3: what I mean.
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Speaker 2: So it's disgusting, and then.
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Speaker 3: I feel for her having to relive that, Yeah, and
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Speaker 3: then other things this is probably like like just even
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Speaker 3: light to her. Like, man, y'all really don't know what
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Speaker 3: I went through, you know, speaking as her, So I
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Speaker 3: feel like I don't believe nothing to say.
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Speaker 2: I just I feel like, yeah, it's definitely time for
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Speaker 2: him to go to jail.
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Speaker 1: I mean, well, he's not gonna go for jail for that, because.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's but this is only the beginning of
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Speaker 3: things that we're about to see, Like there's so many
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Speaker 3: things that's about to unfold. I feel that personally, like
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Speaker 3: this is just one little video that's about to spark
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Speaker 3: it off.
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Speaker 1: And you know what, I agree with you. It was
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Speaker 1: it was disgusting, It was hard to watch, hard to
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Speaker 1: look at. And me having six kid, four daughters, you
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Speaker 1: just think if any man or some put their hands
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Speaker 1: on your daughter like that, what would you want to do?
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Speaker 1: What would you want to happen to them? And it's
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Speaker 1: sad and Diddy is you could see he's going through
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Speaker 1: problems or whatever it may be. But I really feel
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Speaker 1: bad for Cassie. Like you said, this is brought back up.
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Speaker 1: And another reason I feel bad for Castie is because
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Speaker 1: when his lawsuit came out, a lot of people didn't
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Speaker 1: believe her. You know, a lot of people were joking her.
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Speaker 1: A lot of people said it's just a cash grab.
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Speaker 1: A lot of people didn't necessarily come to her defense
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Speaker 1: at that time because you know, we just didn't have
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Speaker 1: all the evidence, of.
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Speaker 2: All the details.
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Speaker 4: People, And that's not her own fault. I mean, I
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Speaker 4: think that's that's your approach shouldn't be the joke her.
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Speaker 4: But your approach doesn't have to be to pick a
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Speaker 4: side in those situations because we don't know, we don't
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Speaker 4: always know. This is this is an allegation, it's an accuzation.
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Speaker 4: And this is what we always say, listen to everybody,
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Speaker 4: but you believe.
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Speaker 1: All proof, believe the facts. This is this video is
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Speaker 1: proof at Harold, hands down proof, and it is just
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Speaker 1: so disgusting. And a lot of people, I say, we're
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Speaker 1: looking at Diddy as a We talked about it early
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Speaker 1: as a superhero. And and that's why I always say
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Speaker 1: a lot a lot of time, the celebrity, you respect
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Speaker 1: their business, respect him, as an artist, but they're human
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Speaker 1: and we don't know what goes on behind closed doors.
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Speaker 1: But it was disgusting. It was heartfelt. I mean not heartfelt,
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Speaker 1: but it hurt my heart watching that. And I watched
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Speaker 1: it with my oldest daughter and I watched it with
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Speaker 1: my wife and we were just sitting there like I
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Speaker 1: can't believe it, like that somebody would do that to
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Speaker 1: somebody that they say they love. Think about it, because
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Speaker 1: she was on the floor, passed out. She looked lifeless
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Speaker 1: and he was kicking her lifeless. It wasn't like she
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Speaker 1: wasn't fighting back. She was just laying there. And that's
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Speaker 1: somebody that somebody says that they love. That's a tough one.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 4: I got a bunch of emotions, but the main emotion
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Speaker 4: I always get when I see a man putting hands
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Speaker 4: on a woman in this way is just disgusting disappointment.
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Speaker 5: Like, you know, yeah, did he need his ass beat?
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Speaker 4: Like I wish Cassie would have had a gun on
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Speaker 4: her and would have shot him right there on the spot.
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Speaker 5: Like that's my initial reaction.
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Speaker 4: That's how I always feel when I see situations like this.
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Speaker 4: And then there's this weird sense of grief that sets
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Speaker 4: in because did he is a hip hop hero. He
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Speaker 4: is an ordinary person who did extraordinary things, you know
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Speaker 4: from hip hop culture. So to sit here and act
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Speaker 4: like this man wasn't a huge part about upbringing. That
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Speaker 4: would just be me lying to myself. So there's this
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Speaker 4: weird sense of grief, like another one of our heroes
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Speaker 4: has ruined their legacy and it's his own fault because
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Speaker 4: of poor choices. And when will people really start doing
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Speaker 4: the work on themselves? Like this man was forty six
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Speaker 4: years old for this happened, was forty eight. He's twenty sixteen,
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Speaker 4: saying I thought I did the math he was forty six.
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Speaker 5: I thought I did forty eight.
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Speaker 2: He thought he was forty six.
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Speaker 5: He was an older man, and I'll be forty six
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Speaker 5: next month.
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Speaker 4: So my whole thing is like, at what point do
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Speaker 4: people really start doing the work on themselves?
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Speaker 5: At what point do people.
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Speaker 4: Start stop lying to themselves? Like he knows all the
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Speaker 4: issues he has. He knows whether it's substance abuse, whether
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Speaker 4: it's I don't whatever he's dealing with, he knows.
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Speaker 5: He knows how he's treating people, he knows what he's
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Speaker 5: doing to people. The thing is he got girls. Yes,
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Speaker 5: you guys got this girl.
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, is this pathetic?
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Speaker 4: Like fort he was forty eight year At what point
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Speaker 4: do you stop lying to yourself and you say, I, I
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Speaker 4: got it, I.
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Speaker 5: Need help, Like I can't keep treating people like that.
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Speaker 1: But that's what bothered me too, Like you know, and
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say it's okay, but you would expect
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Speaker 1: it from a younger individual, somebody has that has not
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Speaker 1: done the work, that has not grown a nineteen twenty
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Speaker 1: twenty one that.
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Speaker 5: This man is forty six man forty I thought he's
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Speaker 5: a billion he's.
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Speaker 4: A billionaire, he got access to all the best everything,
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Speaker 4: all the best therapists, all the best resources, and you
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Speaker 4: still carrying on like this at forty six years old.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's insane to me.
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Speaker 3: That's a sense of power just to be the most
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Speaker 3: powerful person in the world or the industry. Is this
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Speaker 3: something that people love?
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Speaker 5: There? You are the opposite you that broken?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you that broken to where you that broken the
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Speaker 4: way you're projecting all that pain and all that hurt
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Speaker 4: that you're feeling on the other people because for you
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Speaker 4: to be running down a hotel in a hotel with
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Speaker 4: a towel on doing that to doing that to a
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Speaker 4: young lady.
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Speaker 5: Right, you don't give a damn about nothing or no
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Speaker 5: who was out there.
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Speaker 6: It was.
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Speaker 4: Absolutely so imagine what type of level of monster that
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Speaker 4: is right when you you don't care to that extent,
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Speaker 4: you got that kind of money and nobody can tell
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Speaker 4: you anything.
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Speaker 1: Should But like you said, it's it's probably he needs
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Speaker 1: to work on himself, like losing his dad at a
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Speaker 1: young age, honest, but he needs help, like he needs
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Speaker 1: help and the people around him who have seen this.
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Speaker 1: I think in one of the h in the thing
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Speaker 1: that the lawsuit, Cassie was like security had to stop
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Speaker 1: him one time and I'm like.
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Speaker 5: Who are these people around him? Listen that man?
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Speaker 4: That man was forty Sean Combs has had the good
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Speaker 4: sense to accomplish all these great things, so he should
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Speaker 4: have the good sense to go do some great things
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Speaker 4: with himself and figure his own life out. For him
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Speaker 4: to still be doing that at forty six years old,
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Speaker 4: the people, there's no excuse.
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Speaker 5: I don't want to hear about him nothing.
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Speaker 4: I understand every dere's at caused the all trauma with
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Speaker 4: at forty six years old for him to accomplish all
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Speaker 4: the things that he's accomplished. He knew what he was doing. Yeah,
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Speaker 4: he knew what he was doing. And you can't run
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Speaker 4: from yourself. Eventually that party you catches up to you.
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Speaker 1: YEA, have Valerie on the line, Valerie.
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Speaker 7: Good morning, good morning.
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Speaker 6: How are you?
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Speaker 1: How you feel the Valerie?
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Speaker 5: What's your thoughts?
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Speaker 6: My thoughts? You know, I just feel that it is
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Speaker 6: rather disgusting what he did to that young woman. And
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Speaker 6: you know, she's not a girl, she's not a child.
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Speaker 6: But you know, especially looking at the age difference, he's
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Speaker 6: twenty years old and he could have been her dad,
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Speaker 6: and he's got daughter. Then, you know, I just still understand.
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Speaker 6: I don't know if it's that I don't know why
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Speaker 6: it's it that, you know, it's not just our men,
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Speaker 6: but you know, obviously it's not a cultural thing, but
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Speaker 6: speaking where our men a concern. I don't know why
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Speaker 6: they allowed himselves to self destrunk. I don't know if
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Speaker 6: it's that they think they're never going to get caught,
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Speaker 6: or they think that because they reach a certain level
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Speaker 6: of success that their demons are going to just disappear,
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Speaker 6: and that they don't face and fine time to deal
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Speaker 6: with it. I mean, because apparently money is not an
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Speaker 6: issue for him to get the type of help that
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Speaker 6: he needs to deal with his demons. And apparently he
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Speaker 6: knows he's got demons because he knows what he would
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Speaker 6: doing was wrong, so you know, and then then also,
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Speaker 6: you know, men like him were always the first ones
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Speaker 6: to talk about if you do something to mind, you know,
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Speaker 6: you're never going to do nothing to mind. I'm never
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Speaker 6: gonna let nobody do nothing in mind. But then they
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Speaker 6: turn around to do it to somebody else's, so you know,
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Speaker 6: there's just you know, it's the saddest saddest part for
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Speaker 6: me is that young is what she went through. You know,
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Speaker 6: I have family members that have gone women that have
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Speaker 6: gone through that. My mom is actually a survivor of
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Speaker 6: domestic violence.
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Speaker 7: And you know, one of.
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Speaker 6: The worst things do, the worst things I think a
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Speaker 6: man could do, is to sit on and put his
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Speaker 6: foot on a woman, you know, And it's it's not
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Speaker 6: just about the physical abuse. It's just about not only
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Speaker 6: the physical abuse. It's now I'm just gonna degrade you
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Speaker 6: just as a not just as a woman, but just
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Speaker 6: as a human being. It's just what he did was
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Speaker 6: so discussed and I'm disappointed. I am highly above and
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Speaker 6: beyond disappointed in him as a man, as a black man,
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Speaker 6: and as a black man that has reached a certain level,
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Speaker 6: which there is not many of us, our men that
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Speaker 6: have reached his level, right, and to reach that level
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Speaker 6: and to to you know, self destrunt, you know, and
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Speaker 6: to do that to yourself. And then yet again, you know,
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Speaker 6: you know, every culture has this thing. They have their
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Speaker 6: people that do what but you know, like I said,
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Speaker 6: there's not a whole lot of us that reach that status.
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Speaker 6: And you know, just just you know, take a book
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Speaker 6: out of President Obama's you know page. He reached a
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Speaker 6: certain level and he maintained being a good human being.
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Speaker 6: But also I think people need to understand is that
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Speaker 6: once you people tend to think that once you reach
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Speaker 6: a certain status or the celebrity status, that you know,
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Speaker 6: you walk on clouds or you're not human or you know,
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Speaker 6: whatever demons or issues you had that were bruined beforehand,
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Speaker 6: it's just going.
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Speaker 5: To be bad multiplied, that's right, magnified.
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Speaker 6: And multiplied in the world.
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Speaker 7: Can be it now? All right, Charlamagne, I do want
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Speaker 7: to have an opportunity. I can't.
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Speaker 6: I don't want to do it now because I don't
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Speaker 6: want to take away for the Didny situation, in the
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Speaker 6: casting situation, but I want to call back to speak
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Speaker 6: with you about the whole tell of Marjorie Green what
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Speaker 6: you said on Friday. I'm gonna try to get back
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Speaker 6: through a little bit later.
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Speaker 4: Okay, hold on, okay, all right, okay, you know, and
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Speaker 4: that's what she bought up, some very good points and
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Speaker 4: one thing that it made me think about.
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Speaker 5: You can't give Diddy credit for.
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Speaker 4: Being a genius and a mogul on one aspect of
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Speaker 4: his life, but then say he doesn't know any better
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Speaker 4: when it comes to stuff like violence of courards women.
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Speaker 4: That man knows plenty better. Know what he was doing
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Speaker 4: was wrong, and he was still choosing to do it
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Speaker 4: for whatever reason. Maybe because he thought he was just
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Speaker 4: too powerful. Maybe he thought he could get with it.
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Speaker 4: Maybe that's just his nature.
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Speaker 5: I don't know.
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Speaker 4: But you can't give him credit for being a genius,
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Speaker 4: you know, on one aspect, but then say he don't
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Speaker 4: know no better.
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Speaker 5: That man know, he definitely know better.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, taking more of your calls. Eight hundred five eight
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Speaker 1: five one oh five one, let's discuss it's the Breakfast
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Speaker 1: Club Good morning, Mourning. Everybody is DJ Envy jests hilarious, Cheloman.
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Speaker 5: Mourning.
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Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy just hilarious, chelamin the God. We
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Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. If you're just joining us, we're
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Speaker 1: opening up the phone lines talking about Diddy uh and
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Speaker 1: everything that happened with Diddy over the last couple of days.
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Speaker 1: Sort of with you, Jess, And you know what I
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Speaker 1: want to ask you, jes not only did that video
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Speaker 1: came out and the apology, what did you think about
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Speaker 1: the apology?
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Speaker 3: I felt like, you know how, somebody apologized because something
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Speaker 3: came out, because it's like, oh, oh wow, these people
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Speaker 3: and this is for the world to see this of
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Speaker 3: course this circulator, you know what I'm saying. But he
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Speaker 3: felt and probably still feels untouchable, you know what I
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Speaker 3: mean for a long time, and like even paying fifty
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Speaker 3: thousand to have that video erased or whatever, you know
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Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, you don't think that when you're
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Speaker 3: that powerful and you that you know, so self absorbed,
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Speaker 3: you don't think things like this will come back, you know.
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Speaker 3: And and there's no way he I don't know why
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Speaker 3: he thought that, but there's no way that somebody can
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Speaker 3: hold onto something like this, and that can that can
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Speaker 3: be something that you playing with something totally like out
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Speaker 3: of your control.
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like.
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Speaker 1: This thought it was crazy.
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Speaker 5: He didn't say.
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Speaker 2: He didn't say, like.
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Speaker 1: The video was you beating Cassie? How can we didn't
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Speaker 1: say I am sorry?
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Speaker 3: I ask because I don't feel like he regrets what
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Speaker 3: he did. I still feel like it's like nah, And
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Speaker 3: I feel like he may feel like, Yo, that's from
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Speaker 3: so long ago, and that's and I know that he
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Speaker 3: know he's done some worse things and that, like I said,
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Speaker 3: that's why I keep saying that video is just light,
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Speaker 3: like something like so light. They did imagine all the
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Speaker 3: other things he probably did, so I don't I don't
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Speaker 3: think he saw it as like I don't need to apologize, sir.
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Speaker 4: And the an apology was nasty than Daily on Tequila.
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Speaker 4: And let me tell you something else. Not only should
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Speaker 4: he have apologized to Cassie in that video, he should
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Speaker 4: have apologized that all of the general public that he
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Speaker 4: lied to. You sat there and you tried to paint
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Speaker 4: Cassie as a liar for weeks. You're the one who
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Speaker 4: put out to take You wanted some money, yeah, you
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Speaker 4: put out statements saying it was just a witch hunt
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Speaker 4: and it was just the money grab, and you deny
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Speaker 4: everything that's being said. You volunteered that line. So you're
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Speaker 4: gonna do an apology. You gotta apologize to Cassie, then
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Speaker 4: apologize to the general public for lying, and then you know,
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Speaker 4: I don't know, throw yourself at the mercy of the court.
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Speaker 5: But honestly, he shouldn't have did that apology at all.
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Speaker 4: That's why I keep saying, for somebody who's slogan his
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Speaker 4: can't stop, won't stop, somebody need to put him, grab
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Speaker 4: him and say no, it's time to stop, because it
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Speaker 4: has stopped over And then you.
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Speaker 3: Gave her the money you ended up paying, like you
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Speaker 3: ended up settling. So if they were just looking for
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Speaker 3: a pay day, if it was something that you really
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Speaker 3: didn't do, you in the page.
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Speaker 1: But you know, the sad thing is you hear all
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Speaker 1: these other women that's been coming out for months saying yeah,
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Speaker 1: they've been abused and that they've been in altercations, and
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Speaker 1: you know, people always decide what's true and what's not,
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Speaker 1: and you just think, out damn, like that might be him. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: which is sad because like you said he has daughters.
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Speaker 1: Y has beautiful daughters, which is sad.
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Speaker 4: The other complaining less. I'm mistinking it wasn't about him
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Speaker 4: abusing women. It was about him having.
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Speaker 2: Like a trafficking rink or something. It was like other stuff.
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Speaker 1: Was not a little rob but it was a girl.
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Speaker 1: There was another woman that did an interview that said,
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Speaker 1: did he kicked the while she was pregnant? I'll say allegedly, oh, okay, okay, yeah.
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Speaker 3: And then and then one of his other ex girlfriends,
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Speaker 3: I think she sat down with somebody and she was
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Speaker 3: saying that like he was throwing her shoes at her,
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Speaker 3: he would like choke her, and basically she described something
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Speaker 3: similar to what we saw.
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Speaker 2: On the Cassi footage.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: So yeah, we've been hearing it. You know.
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Speaker 1: Let's go to the phone lines. Uh, we got shre
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Speaker 1: Intel on the line. Intel, good morning.
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Speaker 7: I'm disgusted from someone who used to be a huge
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Speaker 7: Diddy fan.
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Speaker 6: I'm disgusted.
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Speaker 1: I wish it wasn't true.
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Speaker 7: But also why they charged Bill Cosby, Why they can't
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Speaker 7: charge him, what.
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Speaker 4: The statute of limitations in California did for Uh? I
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Speaker 4: guess rape and domestic violence.
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Speaker 2: Which is crazy, it's crazy.
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Speaker 7: No, they should charge him. They should charge him.
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Speaker 8: I hope everything else comes.
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Speaker 5: Out on the will. Hello. Who's this?
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Speaker 7: Yo?
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Speaker 5: This like nice? Nice?
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Speaker 1: What's something?
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Speaker 5: Man? Talk to us?
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Speaker 1: What's your thoughts to us?
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Speaker 7: Up? Hey? I want to speak to y'all. Help y'all
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Speaker 7: had a great weekend. Jesse hilarious, challern and God dj Envy. Yeah.
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Speaker 7: I wanted to say, man, first of all, like my
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Speaker 7: pastor said, I pray for him and call the police. Uh.
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Speaker 7: You know, every time I think about this, I think
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Speaker 7: that everybody's a victim, right, and y'all got it right
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Speaker 7: earlier this morning. You know what I'm saying. When people
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Speaker 7: like Huntley are granted the power, you know, it comes
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Speaker 7: responsibility with that power. He got that power like back
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Speaker 7: in ninety two and being young as he was getting
15:57
Speaker 7: that power to be able to influence people men, women,
16:02
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, Young ladies, people that want
16:04
Speaker 7: to be inspired to be artists like him. In this
16:07
Speaker 7: situation where Cassie, she wanted the same thing that she
16:11
Speaker 7: saw him have based on the videos, the lifestyle, so
16:15
Speaker 7: she got involved with him thinking that she was going
16:18
Speaker 7: to be able to get those things that she had
16:21
Speaker 7: and then after a while up doing the island over
16:24
Speaker 7: ten years, I believe they were together. Either one or
16:27
Speaker 7: two things happened. She even aged out of the things
16:31
Speaker 7: that he was into, because she came into it already
16:34
Speaker 7: being young, because she already had a hand start in
16:38
Speaker 7: that lifestyle that he had known that he was able
16:42
Speaker 7: to influence people like her. So when she got into
16:48
Speaker 7: that lifestyle, you know, like I said, either one of
16:50
Speaker 7: two things, she woke up and decided, hey, I can't
16:53
Speaker 7: take this some more. Or he probably said, well, I'm
16:56
Speaker 7: sick of you're putting you to the wolves, and so
16:58
Speaker 7: then now it becomes money thing for her. You know
17:02
Speaker 7: what I'm saying. I needed to be able to be
17:04
Speaker 7: paid for my pain and suffering that I had to
17:07
Speaker 7: go through, you know, because of the promises that you
17:10
Speaker 7: gave me, that I would be able to become this
17:12
Speaker 7: person that I see you having the ability to make
17:15
Speaker 7: Mary and Say and all these other people.
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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying that, my brother, I think
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Speaker 4: I hear what you're saying. You're missing the whole point.
17:23
Speaker 4: If I was beating your ass for however long, you
17:26
Speaker 4: know what I mean, At whatever point she decided to
17:28
Speaker 4: wake up and say enough is enough of she could
17:31
Speaker 4: get out.
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Speaker 5: I don't think she.
17:32
Speaker 4: I don't think she was thinking about no being the
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Speaker 4: next Mary J. Blige at that point when she gets
17:36
Speaker 4: you once she getting her head beat in. You could
17:38
Speaker 4: tell from that video or her trying to leave that
17:40
Speaker 4: hotel room, he was still getting beat in.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's definitely not about music now because to me,
17:45
Speaker 1: in fact, it seems like she was trying to leave
17:47
Speaker 1: but didn't have help to leave. It felt like she
17:49
Speaker 1: was all by herself. And maybe when she met the
17:52
Speaker 1: trainer that was training her, that was her way to
17:54
Speaker 1: get out, But it seemed like she was trying to
17:56
Speaker 1: get out. It seems like she kept getting beat and
17:58
Speaker 1: they kept pulling back in. I don't know, but that's
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Speaker 1: what it seems like. But regardless of the power of
18:03
Speaker 1: what Diddy could have done, that no woman deserves.
18:06
Speaker 5: That's why I don't like nobody that deserves.
18:07
Speaker 4: That's why I don't like when we make this these
18:09
Speaker 4: situations about the individual as opposed to the issue. Domestic
18:13
Speaker 4: violence is the issue correct. Domestic violence has been around
18:16
Speaker 4: since the beginning of time, Like we're talking about.
18:19
Speaker 5: I was reading something a.
18:21
Speaker 4: While ago where it was saying how you know, it
18:23
Speaker 4: was legal to beat your wife up until nineteen twenty.
18:26
Speaker 4: And when it comes to like domestic violence and family violence,
18:28
Speaker 4: that wasn't even looked at as a crime until like
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Speaker 4: the sixties and seventies.
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Speaker 5: So think about that. So this is a societal problem,
18:36
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.
18:37
Speaker 4: This isn't just something that you know, one issue one
18:39
Speaker 4: person has to deal with, or one rich person with power.
18:43
Speaker 5: Poor people beating out out their women too.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, yeah, And we'll take some more calls when we
18:47
Speaker 1: come back. Phone line to let up eight hundred five
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Speaker 1: eighty five, one oh five on. It's the Breakfast Club.
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Speaker 5: Good morning.
18:54
Speaker 1: Morning, everybody is CEJ MZ just Larry Charlama and mcsavy
18:59
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. If he's just joining us. We're
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Speaker 1: talking about Diddy and and all the information that came
19:05
Speaker 1: out in the last couple of days, of course, the
19:07
Speaker 1: footage of Diddy uh domestically abused in Cassie and Diddy's apology,
19:12
Speaker 1: and we're just taking your calls. We have Donna on
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Speaker 1: the line. Donna, good morning, Good morning, how y'all doing,
19:19
Speaker 1: what's your thoughts?
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Speaker 7: My thought?
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Speaker 1: Donna turned down your radio first because we can hear
19:28
Speaker 1: your radio in the background.
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Speaker 8: I did all right, I don't know what's going on
19:32
Speaker 8: in Hollywood that nothing happens in real time. It's always
19:38
Speaker 8: nine years later, ten years later, twenty.
19:40
Speaker 5: Years later, money power, money power cover ups.
19:44
Speaker 4: Why you think these people got prs and crisis management
19:47
Speaker 4: teams and all of that, Like something like that happens,
19:50
Speaker 4: you know, with a Diddy and a Cassie, they're gonna
19:52
Speaker 4: cover that up immediately. It's just it's this new era
19:54
Speaker 4: where there's you know, video of everything everywhere that's messing
19:57
Speaker 4: the game up.
19:58
Speaker 5: That's what that's that problem.
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Speaker 4: These pr people and these crazy management teams. They hate
20:03
Speaker 4: this new era because they can't hide things anymore.
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Speaker 8: And I also want to come in on which all
20:09
Speaker 8: thing about for that and needing help to work on himself.
20:12
Speaker 8: He was broken and all that. Cassie was too. In
20:17
Speaker 8: order to accept that behavior from somebody, we gotta because
20:21
Speaker 8: I went through that and myself, I needed to work
20:25
Speaker 8: on myself to realize why would I accept this from
20:29
Speaker 8: a man? Yeah, because that goes both ways. You have
20:35
Speaker 8: to get out of those situations. You got to look
20:37
Speaker 8: within yourself and ask yourself, why did I accept this
20:40
Speaker 8: behavior from this man? Why did I let him do
20:43
Speaker 8: this for me? Yes, he's a monster, but why did
20:46
Speaker 8: I accept this monster to live up under my bed
20:48
Speaker 8: every night?
20:49
Speaker 3: But this is the thing also, you know what I'm saying,
20:51
Speaker 3: Like when you when because we that's not act like
20:53
Speaker 3: we haven't heard rements of people like dropping like flies
20:56
Speaker 3: when when you try to get out of situations concerning
20:59
Speaker 3: certain people, you know, I.
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Speaker 2: Mean, the girl was scared. It was said that he
21:02
Speaker 2: would beat her up and then send her to other
21:06
Speaker 2: countries to yeah, vacation, hell to heal.
21:09
Speaker 3: Like it's not that easy to get away at times,
21:12
Speaker 3: you know, depending on your abuse or how much power,
21:15
Speaker 3: money and respect they got, you know what I mean,
21:17
Speaker 3: Because like to your point earlier, you were saying, like
21:20
Speaker 3: some people looked at him as a hero or whatever,
21:22
Speaker 3: but the whole time you're a villain behind closed doors
21:25
Speaker 3: and a powerful villain.
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Speaker 5: So that Yeah, she was young by the way she was,
21:31
Speaker 5: but this tape was twenty sixteen. He was forty six.
21:34
Speaker 5: She was twenty nine.
21:35
Speaker 1: Yeah, but hold on, but not only that, right when
21:36
Speaker 1: you read the documents, they said that Diddy's people controlled
21:39
Speaker 1: her life, the same management team, the same accountants, allegedly,
21:44
Speaker 1: the same people that that booked to travel, the same
21:46
Speaker 1: people that got paid her taxes and paid her bills.
21:48
Speaker 5: And you know, it's the same everything.
21:51
Speaker 1: What I'm doing.
21:51
Speaker 2: Can you go down to every call I make, every
21:54
Speaker 2: text I send? What are you talking about? It's not
21:57
Speaker 2: as easy as everybody think it is.
21:59
Speaker 1: All time, we got Valerie on the line, Valerie, good morning,
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Speaker 1: Valerie pick Hello?
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Speaker 5: Who's this?
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Speaker 9: Hi?
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Speaker 8: This is Latitia. How are you guys?
22:13
Speaker 7: Hey?
22:14
Speaker 1: Latitia, good morning? What's your thoughts on?
22:17
Speaker 9: Can't good morning? First off? I just feel like we're
22:20
Speaker 9: giving so much space to DiDio at this point, like
22:23
Speaker 9: cash it. I hate it for her, you know, looking
22:26
Speaker 9: at Diddy and the situation that happened, I really don't
22:29
Speaker 9: believe that he's sorry because if he's sorry, when it
22:32
Speaker 9: came about the beginning, he would have apologized then, right.
22:36
Speaker 9: So the thongs comes from us knowing that, you know
22:40
Speaker 9: what I mean? So is that genuine? But is that authentic?
22:42
Speaker 9: Because no, it's not. You didn't do it, you know
22:46
Speaker 9: what I mean. It's kind of like when a kid
22:47
Speaker 9: steals the people. Now I'm in the candid so if
22:49
Speaker 9: they can get out, they're going to get out and
22:50
Speaker 9: do it. If they get in trouble, then this when
22:52
Speaker 9: they get a whoop on they get home. You know
22:53
Speaker 9: what I'm saying. It's almost like he's turned from obile
22:57
Speaker 9: to monster. It's no longer halftag no is like hashtat
23:01
Speaker 9: mobile to monster at this point, because you're forty six
23:04
Speaker 9: when this video surf it well, when it happened, you
23:07
Speaker 9: are forty six at this point. We can't continue to
23:10
Speaker 9: give someone, even his age, a consistent excuse.
23:16
Speaker 4: But but you know, but even when y'all say that,
23:18
Speaker 4: when y'all say we when y'all say we're giving them greace,
23:21
Speaker 4: Like what is what do we do?
23:23
Speaker 5: What are we supposed to do?
23:26
Speaker 7: Like?
23:26
Speaker 5: What are we the general public supposed to do? Like
23:27
Speaker 5: when you say we giving them great? Like, what do
23:29
Speaker 5: you mean? What does that mean? Like the only thing
23:31
Speaker 5: you could do is call out the behavior and say
23:32
Speaker 5: that is wrong and it's foul.
23:34
Speaker 8: Like what that really is all that we can do?
23:37
Speaker 9: It's more so of the vocal piece behind it. It's
23:40
Speaker 9: really like people in the type of positions standing up
23:43
Speaker 9: and saying that he's wrong. I feel like the only
23:46
Speaker 9: ones that's given their advice or given their response to
23:49
Speaker 9: it are those that are not really in the industry
23:51
Speaker 9: like that because they're scared of the back life. They're
23:54
Speaker 9: scared of what's going to happen to their partnership. You
23:56
Speaker 9: know what I mean? That apology that Diddy did.
23:59
Speaker 6: Is so for sponsorship.
24:02
Speaker 5: That's it.
24:04
Speaker 7: That's it.
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Speaker 9: Feel like he's sorry because if he if he wanted help, Yo,
24:10
Speaker 9: you have money for years and years and years you
24:12
Speaker 9: could have been shut out help. You didn't even cry
24:15
Speaker 9: in your apology video. You could have at least cried.
24:19
Speaker 9: If you're gonna put on a show, then put on
24:21
Speaker 9: the show. Because the apology is exactly what it was.
24:25
Speaker 9: It's legit monster mobile. It's from mobile to monster at
24:29
Speaker 9: this point, because that's what he is.
24:30
Speaker 8: He's are monsters.
24:31
Speaker 9: You have daughters, you know, like you kicked trams. You
24:36
Speaker 9: ever see anyone kick money on the ground or to
24:38
Speaker 9: pick it up?
24:39
Speaker 7: Yeah, someone drop.
24:40
Speaker 9: Something that was priced, you know, priceless on the ground
24:43
Speaker 9: to pick it up.
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Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't even but I wouldn't even want him
24:48
Speaker 3: to cry, like none of that. Like I don't like
24:50
Speaker 3: fake phony apologies, you know what I'm saying, Like, Nah,
24:52
Speaker 3: he did exactly what he should have did. Okay, cool,
24:55
Speaker 3: like apologize like she said, for a sponsorship, so whatever partner,
24:58
Speaker 3: you know, he did that for business.
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Speaker 5: Way, he's an idiot to think he still got business. Yeah,
25:04
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.
25:05
Speaker 2: But it's like his team and.
25:06
Speaker 5: A bunch of idiots to think that they're still a business.
25:08
Speaker 5: There is no business.
25:09
Speaker 7: That is no business.
25:10
Speaker 2: Only see did he cry like we not we? That's
25:12
Speaker 2: for one, that's not something we go and see.
25:14
Speaker 3: Anyway, I feel like you just shouldn't have said nothing,
25:17
Speaker 3: you know if but what he gave us, what he
25:19
Speaker 3: gave us, And it wasn't an apology to anybody, It wasn't.
25:22
Speaker 2: It wasn't to us, It wasn't. It was just because
25:25
Speaker 2: the elite the video got out.
25:27
Speaker 1: Well, we would like to tell anybody that's dealing with
25:29
Speaker 1: domestic violence, if you have friends or family members that's
25:32
Speaker 1: dealing with domestic violence and don't know a way out, Uh,
25:35
Speaker 1: there is always the eight hundred number that they can
25:38
Speaker 1: help you, they can guide you, they can get you
25:40
Speaker 1: in a situation which is a lot safer. And the
25:42
Speaker 1: eight hundred number is one eight hundred seventy nine to
25:44
Speaker 1: nine seven two three three again one eight hundred seven
25:48
Speaker 1: nine nine seven two three three, Or you can text
25:51
Speaker 1: eight eight seven eight eight all right, Uh, I'm just
25:55
Speaker 1: reading some of the stats and there's so many people
25:56
Speaker 1: dealing with them that we never even thinking. They saying,
25:59
Speaker 1: on average, nearly twenty people per minute are physically abused
26:03
Speaker 1: by our intimate partner in the United States. So that's
26:06
Speaker 1: a lot of people that are continually dealing with this.
26:10
Speaker 1: So again, if you are dealing with it, you know,
26:12
Speaker 1: a family member dealing with it, and you're trying to
26:14
Speaker 1: get out and you don't know how, the number is
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Speaker 1: eight hundred seven nine nine seven two three three. All
26:21
Speaker 1: right when we come back, we'll take some more calls
26:23
Speaker 1: next hour. I'm sure we have, just with the mess
26:25
Speaker 1: what we're talking about.
26:26
Speaker 3: Talking about and all these people talking about like grace
26:29
Speaker 3: that you know, people are giving him. These responses are
26:33
Speaker 3: not so gracious that we're going to talk about celebrities
26:35
Speaker 3: that are not giving him grace and they're standing behind
26:38
Speaker 3: Cassie and other women that have been abused as well.
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Speaker 2: So we won't get into that, all right.
26:41
Speaker 1: We'll get into that nextus to Breakfast Club, Good morning,
26:44
Speaker 1: wake that.
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Speaker 5: Ass up in the morning. The Breakfast Club