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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D SEE Channeled Guidance Relationships Leo Season Special · Inspiring Human Potential

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Welcome, welcome to my lovely ITP community.
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It is another beautiful real seasons channel guidance, and
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it's the day after the peak of our lovely 88 portal and on that
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peak and as we move forward, we have a lot of new content coming
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about because we have moved completely into being a
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community that builds only a sanctuary and so place where
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those of you who are in the enlightment so a group can speak
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and share your experiences, the beautiful ones.
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So while the adoptive children who do and could use a good
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number of years of either personal development or getting
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some basic psychoeducation to become more compassionate as
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they continue to voice their human experiences with limited
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consciousness, not the Purusha Prakriti, not unconditional love
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awareness and not pure energy, we get to do something
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different. So as we move into get, it's
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into learning how to be in a love cycle.
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So anybody who still needs a shame vault, let me spell out to
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you that shame is not a good or bad thing.
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It is the thing that exists. The people who use it against
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each other are called deductive children and they do have
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unresolved trauma. So they use it against each
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other because their language is not one of compassion beyond a
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reason. In fact, they believe that
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compassion focused therapy is stupid because they don't know
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that evil doesn't exist. What exists as a zero month old
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who only has that right brain online for the first seven
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months of their life and essentially from seven months on
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then the left brain starts to come online.
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But really it only starts to develop if I remember correctly
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after the first year of life or three years or something like
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that. So long straight short, you are
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made of your emotions which are going to be your zero year old
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and that's going to be an inner child basically wound until the
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adaptive child. So the person who is the grown
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up eventually starts to grow up and that can happen as a
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teenager. So this sanctuary, it is a place
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where we only talk about humanity as love and we know
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evil doesn't exist. And when we talk about it, we
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know that it is a person that does not have a good
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psychologist or doesn't have a good basic of the mammalian
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heritage that we all have. So they don't know that their
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attachment system is longing for safe haven secure base
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connection. In fact, this is the point.
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They don't know it because their body, even if they do all the
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yoga they want, as long as it does not recognize how to
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maintain a restorative, embodied self experience while
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interacting with people who throw shit at you for loving
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people, it's something that we're going to get to keep
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again, talking about. So I have adapted this word,
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sanctuary, because it is a place that people seek out when they
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recognize that they have a shared experience and that they
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really want to be able to find a safe space to share it.
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So we share about the awesomeness of all human beings.
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And again, when we talk about evil, it does not exist.
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And we will keep talking, as Mystics do, about the fact that
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we have dreams. Oh, we have plenty of them.
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I got plenty of Mystic stories for you.
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So anybody who's new, don't worry, there's the stories
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coming. However, they are in our mind's
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eye and we do know neuroscience explains not only the collective
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consciousness, but there's also the physicist.
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And furthermore, lovely Patrick McNamara, as he points out, when
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people get demonically possessed with the stories, or excuse me,
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the studies, not stories, the stories share that it's a devil
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or evil. These studies show that it's
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actually the brain of a human being trying to reorganize
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itself into a newer, more optimized.
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And really what it is, is during REM sleep, your brain is
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actively trying to get that trauma memory, which is not
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regular memory, because trauma memory doesn't have a time
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stamp, means too much, too soon, too fast, too many emotions.
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Your window of tolerance went overboard and now there's a
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trauma memory. And so while there is
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compassion, of course, for the people who are vindictive and
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enraged at those of us who unconditionally love humanity,
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we understand. They have maladapt the responses
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that is safety behaviors to their unresolved trauma and
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their addictive behaviors are basically venting, shouting and
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pointing fingers and talking about us as if we are evil.
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For being compassionate and knowing that people who are in
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prison or people who have done things, they are in need of a
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good long term journey. That is called personal
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development with a good somatic sensorimotor trauma expert.
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But they need to be the ones who actually actively want to
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recognize their self. And until that heartbreak, gut
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wrench and shame button is there, well, we all know what a
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shame Teflon Bag does on the brain.
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Thank you Russell Colts. It rejects any notion of good.
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So the people who are vindictive, they are from the
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stories of said guru. The people who are in what's
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called resentment and holding a grudge, and they're just fuming
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out of their noses. And right now is when they're
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fuming, because the Lionsgate portal always brings up these
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energies every year. I've picked them up.
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It's like, what's it called a couple of years after the first
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years of like, wow, these people really like what's up with them
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This year? It's a lot easier to identify
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the people from the group of my personal oversole and the people
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that are out there in the world. So you see them, they have a
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leader, all of them. And they're usually also
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building types of groups that say we stand up for.
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But the difference is they only stand up for one or two and not
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for all. So they consider criminals,
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actual people who deserve to be judged instead of gutting
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compassion because they believe in evil.
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Still so again, the I HP community, we do not believe in
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evil, we believe in science. And science shows us that inside
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the human brain is an embodied brain.
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And they have. We have a nervous system and a
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official brain that works a certain way when in sleep.
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It's trying to reallocate from a memory to normal memory to allow
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your brain to optimize itself. Those who optimize move into
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flexible, adaptive, coherent and energized and stable brains.
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So we become integrated brains, integration of the mind.
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I do support people who naturally want to and enjoy
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gravitating towards that. Because again, you believe in
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your own species. It's human beings that we are.
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And so we meet the alien species.
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We won't know anything about it except for what people who
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create stories in mystical land of 4D or I haven't gotten enough
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science, good science stuff yet to share on that note, So back
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to us in our relationships, here's where again you're going
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to find the ability to share your experiences If you ever
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want to come online of how much you love being a person and how
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much you love your relationships and how much you love learning
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how to be yourself. The true self of you is pure
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consciousness and it is Prusha, the word unconsciously loving so
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you with your flaws and imperfections.
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I have flaws and imperfections. No shame vault, no shame cycle,
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no shame. Nothing.
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Because see the people who are okay with our child 0 year old,
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the right brain. We know that we are reactive and
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we handle it because of course we are going to handle those
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heartbreak moments because it's our own heart.
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Why would we ever, in a million years, use our broken heart with
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the very people who will have brought to our attention those
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flaws and imperfections in such a beautiful way?
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So again, the ones who are in a other place, we're going to put
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them to the side. Just remember, when somebody
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takes out revenge on you, spite, gaslighting, manipulation,
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projection in any way, shape or form, they call you evil because
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you're unconditionally loving of humanity.
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Please, just choose that lovely right Silence.
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The Buddhist psychologist, and just any psychologist that is a
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good one, will tell you how to shut your mouth when you are in
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the presence of the transference of an adaptive child.
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To not really bother with even trying to tell them to go to
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psychoeducators. Some will go, some will not.
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Some will believe that their dreams are true and that their
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nightmare dreams excuse me? And they're not dreams.
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Nightmares are true because they've decided to fill their
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head with a lot of not so positive things.
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And so this is where we're going to leave it.
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And we know that there are a lot of areas that we're going to
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work on. And one of them is how to get
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compassion therapy based people in the prison cells with the
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people that need it the most and in all those neighborhoods and
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in a lot more. So we're going to try and learn
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how to use our mouths to share compassion and to know that
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criminals are people and all people are people.
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And that the ones who are living in the dark ages and still want
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the priests from there, basically religious institutions
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who yell burning, you know, hell, whatever that is, We're
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going to leave them alone. As long as they respect the laws
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for now, they're going to be left alone.
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And I'm pretty sure eventually there's going to be a way that
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social conduct gets looked at. That's something that those of
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us who are actually using our words because we care, we're
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going to be OK, we don't mind if they quote UN quote censor us.
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I know some people talk about that as freedom, but we talk
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about something different and it's being grown-ups.
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And since people apparently you know again they really get
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emotional, we look forward to the system creating grown up
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land, even though of course we hope it doesn't come to certain
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you know places. But then again who knows since
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again those groups and their group leaders, they really have
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a way with words and keeping themselves in the not so
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objectiveness of themselves when you are a person who's reactive.
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What people don't understand is that they are always reactive
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until they learn how to differentiate and link.
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So I and you will not think the same.
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And if I am because she loved people and you don't, it's okay
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to tell me that I can't to tell me I've been tainted glasses to
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to do any of this shit. So that's why again, sanctuary
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for those of us who do love it's it's been a long journey and
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it's because of signs that I'm able to say go get a room with
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your religious leaders and cult people and then let the law take
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care of it. Because I have seen it all and
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there's no evil. In fact, as a kid I was like,
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you know, I really think there is not.
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And then I told God, yeah, there's no evil.
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I see the psychology. You you created these people,
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they they're studying the mind. I don't know what the people
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that live the dark ages still live where they are at.
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But OK, so Leo season again. When we pick up on any of those
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people who are upset at enlightenment, at pure
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consciousness, what do we do? We don't do anything.
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We do the right silence and we learn how to use our lovely
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pokety poke. All the love comes out.
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So here's where our lovely said guru as he spells out.
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When you do move into a state where you want to voice that you
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are love and you're helping people and you're doing all
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these amazing things, what's the first Test to see if you're
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loving, and I love this one. Poke, Poke, Poke.
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It's not the Facebook poke. No, it's your loved ones.
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It's your family, let's get to our over soul.
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So my lovely 5D Mystics, you are all full of your lovely over
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soul. And every year, as I was telling
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you, the over soul of ours, which is the entire collective
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of humanity, they go through a lot of burning hell in their
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body and instead of tending to their adaptive child, they
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project their villain, hero story.
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And they're the rescuers. Of course, if they're doing
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something where they say we're helping people, we're going to
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help them against the other people.
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So that's a separation consciousness, verbiage.
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When we say we help people, it means all people.
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So anger doesn't come out when we get poked.
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Love comes out, not the makeup. And we don't do fashion.
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We do the real deal. OK, so the real deal is we are
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always in our prefrontal cortex, that's what we use to learn and
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that's what we have online when we are doing relational skills
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as a wise adult. So all the people that do not
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feel that you're a wise adult yet that means that you have
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knee jerk and that's adaptive child which is fight, fight and
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or fix. This is why.
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Victim. Abuser, rescuer.
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That's an inner child wound that's coming out through the
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adaptive child which has adapted that trauma, that unresolved
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trauma from your charge states, from your infant's childhood
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years to now use it. And then there's also the whole
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part of cognitive dissonance. So you will have been raised by
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people which they will have been your first filter to you and
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society. So they will have told you,
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unless you differentiate yourself, which some of us do
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And we did. I was 3 and I did.
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Differentiation means it's my body, not yours, and you can't
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spank it. And linking means you're my
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mother, but you're not me. Got away from me.
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But that's also where obviously we do get scolded for the things
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that matter. So when that three-year old of
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me got scolded, I went to make my suitcase to leave because I
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had been disobeyed. As I said, do not spank me.
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You can't. So Long story short, thank you,
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Daniel Siegel for letting me know how to explain what
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differentiation and linkages and how a three-year old can do it.
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And I raise my hand. Any of you.
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So this is where I still love my mother to death.
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I didn't say she's toxic, She's mean.
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She did something. No, no.
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And in fact, she's not in any of those cases.
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She's a ideal parent, authoritates it, not
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authoritarian. She didn't make me not feel my
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body, and she's definitely not permissive.
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She was not my best friend, nor is she going to be my ever best
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friend because she's my mother. So she has that role.
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Some of us, we are okay with some roles, and in this case,
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family has a very specific one, and it's called helping us to
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learn how to handle the pokety pokes with love.
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And we love it. Enlightenment.
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So age your people, It's beautiful to be a functional
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adult and use your prefrontal cortex, and the more they poke,
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the more you learn equanimity. So here's where our lovely twin
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flames, no different, soul mates, no different, are over.
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So it's a joyride. What we are getting to do right
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now is to build our own sanctuaries and to move the
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people who are pissy at humanity all the way to their little
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corners. And really, I think they're not
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really going to want to be around as they continue to think
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that their actual shame vault, which is shame, blame, fault,
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and revenge, is justified. This is the blinders of Maya
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land. So they ruminate in Monkey
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brain. They potentially just sit in a
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dull brain as well. It's a mindset.
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And so they're just, you know, procrastinating the hell out of
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time and butterfly. They're all over the place.
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Scattered or busy, busy, busy, busy.
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You also got the one siphon. So they're just honing in on
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breaking shit apart. And just, you know, this is
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where they have a purpose. Every mindset does have a
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purpose. Even though they're in my land
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and the enamored ones with their own night, well, they are the
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ones we want to make sure that people we love know about.
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So what is that not is when you have people who are human
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suffering. Right now we got two groups at
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least. So put to the side the ones who
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think they're fighting for something and leave them to
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their own groups because they're going to be addressed by the
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laws that will make sure that our words get shared with care.
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For example, I did an episode it was on solo Polly.
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It's a very sensitive topic and that is because it's in a
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divisive, divisive part. It's it's not welcomed by all.
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It gained less visibility than other posts that talk about
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enlightenment or mysticism. So here's the thing.
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Social media is going to do its best to ensure that the type of
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content that arrives in front of people's eyes is moderate,
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because we're trying to bring the world together, not separate
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it. And since social media has
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gotten such a bad rap about the whole echo Chamber of shit
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because people like, again, pointing fingers.
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But then again something new doesn't need it's recalibration,
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It's recalibrating. As a marketer entrepreneur, I
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was only bummed out the first time Facebook decided to do the
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whole algorithm shit. And then I got talked by a smart
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human being about how it works with business.
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I'm like, you know what I'd say that makes sense.
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And I do remember learning about the system in my political
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science years and it usually works out fine.
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And Dan, because it's made for the people, by the people, So
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let's just keep on focusing on getting more of those lovely
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enlightenment. So ageing people out there,
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shall we? Human evolution and
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consciousness. It's awesome.
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And we know where we're headed and it's not where 4D thinks
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we're headed. They dream about the days of
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their conspiracy theories coming true.
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It's unfortunate, by the way, 3D4D will see their actual
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stories come to life, Which is why, as I said, put to the side
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all of those who are upset because you compassionately love
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all humanity. And I'm saying it and moving
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them to the side as we speak because I'm practicing this too,
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because they really don't like that.
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We know all 8 plus billion and growing and all for the past are
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pure consciousness people that they live the Maya land like
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they are. This is not our job to get other
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states of consciousness out of that we can't.
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Even if we try. They have the ability to see
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their self, but their third eye is blocked because they're not
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doing any personal growth. They're using their adaptive
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child to say I'm a victim or you're the evil asshole or I'm
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rescuing something. So they're doing filtering of
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the mouth. They're doing a lot of things
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with each other that we don't really tend to participate in
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cuz we don't bullshit people. We do direct communication.
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Now when we get the adaptive child, who wants to say, how
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dare you not stand with me, I'm so sorry, I didn't know.
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I need to be an exact replica of you and those who don't like to
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hear that, we just say, what are you talking about?
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We just have different opinions, that's all.
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And then for those ones that are interested in actually having an
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intellectual conversation, that's beautiful because that's
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where I've had my lovely divine masking friend and I talk very
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well. And even though I am somebody
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stupid in times, according to the way that he gets to simulate
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information, I appreciate his straightforwardness.
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And I'm OK with being stupid because I do see my pink tainted
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glasses. So again, this is where when
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people can notice, there's a space for all of us.
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And we also, by the way, bring together the same notions.
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We want to see humanity move forward in unison, not
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separation. So that's why my lovely divine,
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masculine friend and I, we always come together and we
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laugh together. And I miss my friend because I
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can't speak to them since we're far away from each other, but
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I'm sure they're doing well and I can't wait to hear about their
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stories. And on that note, hopefully the
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Leo season is bringing something really beautiful and passionate.
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And what's the word? Also very full of love and joy.
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And you know, some of you, I already know, you're building
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those beautiful, functional, adult love relationships.
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So let's get into this. I wanted to share a couple of
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things. So when you get poked, you have
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love coming out of every pore. That's awareness, pure
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consciousness, light, unconscious love, and Prakriti
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pure energy. So your optimization is not
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something that is dwindling. If for any reason any of you who
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But just write me. OK now again, we don't have
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shame bolts. The only people who have shame
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bolts are the ones who are not OK with handling their emotions.
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So the people who feel safe to talk within themselves in an
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inner growth manner, they have the safety to talk with us as
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well. This is why we are the HP
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sanctuary for all who are infinite higher human
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consciousness potential, wanting to be experiences and therefore
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moving into your enlightenment. So age group at some point or
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another, and really sooner than later because your heart wants
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to love the rainbow of colors of people.
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You know how to handle your inner self and do what is a talk
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that has the objective notion and knowledge that there's no
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reason to be ashamed of your imperfections.
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We all have them okay. So the only individuals who have
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a challenging time doing this are the people who do not move
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from adaptive child to wise adult, and they don't actually
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tend to their wounded child. So they get into the teenage
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mode and then they're pissy and they stay pissy.
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That's it. Leave it alone.
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So the ones who don't want to move into love, you shouldn't be
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tuning in because you don't want to grow your relationships.
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We create mindful relationships and relational mindfulness means
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you tend to your words with care.
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You tend to work with the tone time again and again and again.
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I'm still working with mine, with my 2 year old and my twin
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and my mother for example. It's been a long journey.
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It's going to keep on being a long journey.
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It's only in fact family. That's why Pokey poke.
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It's really very specific. You don't need to think of all
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humanity if you're a functional adult.
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Excuse me. So love cycle people.
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Those of you who already knew you were your own personal
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agents your entire life, so you are able to always know your
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thoughts and emotions are yours. Not your mother's, not your
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sister's, not your brother's, not any other, any other person.
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So anytime anybody's wanted to tell you what to think or feel,
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you've been like, excuse me, until you don't say anything at
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all and you just recognize it. And that's why my divine,
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masculine friend, he's like, I know you have more opinions than
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what you're speaking. It's because we leave space in
23:25
an effort to choose consistently the right silence.
23:28
And that's again where I said, Are you sure you want to know my
23:31
opinions? Because I'm pretty sure we're
23:33
opposites and I don't think you're going to be interested,
23:36
intellectually speaking. I was wrong.
23:39
They were interested. So there you go.
23:41
The future is full of grace and generosity by those of us who
23:45
expand and come together at all times with the clarity of the
23:51
lovely prefrontal cortex. And that's where we want to
23:55
learn and use relational skills. It's the wise part.
23:58
Let's talk about these amazing relationships, shall we?
24:01
OK, so even if you have the ones who are not just yet their full
24:06
safe haven, secure bases, OK, so they don't know how to
24:08
unconditionally love themselves, they don't know that it's OK to
24:11
be with flaws and imperfections because we got non disciples
24:14
around them by the way. They got those who are in my
24:17
land around them. They're getting to figure it
24:20
out, and that's why you get to do more together than less,
24:26
right? So the people who figure out
24:27
that those who care for them will actually tend to them in a
24:32
way of moderation and with compassionate words, they're
24:36
realizing how to make use of their time.
24:42
So they might have been a bit off and we have on the closing
24:47
of our lovely Lionsgate portal on the 12th.
24:51
Not Leo season, but the Lionsgate portal closes the
24:54
12th. We'll probably have some other
24:56
energies come about but long through short there's a terror
24:59
reading for some of you I'm sure that's going to be applicable.
25:02
So there's at least one human being in your life that might be
25:08
in this middle of where your safe havens and secure bases
25:13
essentially. So they're learning how to be
25:16
able and trust their own heart and they want to build the adult
25:22
relationship that you are providing them or they're
25:24
providing you one of the other one of the two.
25:27
OK. So the prefrontal cortex is
25:30
where you are going to want to be intimate because that's your
25:34
secure attachment part, OK. And with that being said, you do
25:38
not think of needing to filter your words or hide anything.
25:45
So you are your own sanctuary, then you have people like us who
25:49
are your sanctuary, and then you have those individuals who are
25:53
adults and Zen masters is why they're your sanctuary too.
25:56
And with that being said, since we do not have the shame vault,
26:00
but in case you have shame, what happens with this Shame Vault is
26:04
when you're judging your own emotions, if you have social
26:07
emotions. Because see, when you get upset
26:09
about how people that are adaptive children behave, those
26:14
insecure attachment style people, they don't actually know
26:18
how to continue consistently, contingently communicate with
26:21
you. So they use their charge states,
26:24
they use their words and they make shame, blame faults and
26:29
revenge their way of saying you're bad and I'm good or I'm
26:32
bad and you're good. And they do this whole villain
26:35
hero thing or not hero rescue and we don't do any of that.
26:38
So they're they're actually projecting the either
26:42
idealization of the type of parent they want or the negative
26:46
of what they had and what they don't want.
26:49
And so in either cases, those are those likes and dislikes and
26:52
they are building more with their karma if they don't know
26:55
how to speak with words that are of grown-ups.
26:58
OK, So the people who are in that realm, they're in human
27:01
suffering. They are 4D Mystics and also
27:04
just people who believe evil has one and they are going through a
27:09
very rough time. OK, so there's a group of people
27:13
that in this moment, are actually really dealing with
27:16
something major on a serious, serious, serious, serious,
27:20
serious note. And it doesn't matter what it is
27:23
specifically, but they're in an emotional plane of upset.
27:27
The ones who are not expanding, they're in the harsh,
27:33
unforgiving, and that means rigid and chaotic mind.
27:36
Which is why if they're having dreams, which is where my
27:39
Mystics are, unfortunately they're going to stick to that
27:43
unless they either one, get a good therapist and begin a
27:46
serious personal development journey to grow the fuck up.
27:50
And I mean it. I have all the compassion in the
27:52
world. But here's where these people
27:54
They use their dreams, and some of them use it in a way that is
27:58
not really great, and they do harm to individuals who could do
28:02
better. And so here's my other group of
28:04
people, the ones who can do better.
28:07
They have seen the truth behind true mysticism, and they're
28:11
like, OK, these people over here who believe in the devil and
28:15
evil and keep on using these words, and they keep on
28:18
pretending they know yoga because they don't know it.
28:21
They're not unconditionally loving.
28:22
They don't know yoga. As that group points out, love
28:25
means that you love every life, all life, all people, beyond
28:31
opinions and prejudice. So in the Zen tradition story,
28:35
as Zen Master says to those who are circling the compulsive
28:39
thief, you must forgive them. And so if you're circling any
28:43
human being, any group, you're not a Zen master one.
28:47
The Zen master only speaks the word forgive them, as does
28:51
Jesus, and not because of religion. 5D is Christ's
28:54
consciousness. I use words on purpose and I use
28:57
them well, so leave it alone. If you do not uncount, you love,
29:01
go listen to other people. You're only 30 minutes in.
29:04
It's not about religious believing anything.
29:06
It's about the word LOVE, which you can only feel in your body
29:09
if you're in a ventral vegal state.
29:11
If you have integration of the mind, which means you navigate
29:14
your left and right mode together, you know your
29:17
sensations. You can do mind site sensations,
29:20
images, you see the feelings, the thoughts.
29:22
You know how to navigate your own mind with mindfulness
29:25
because that's how you use your prefrontal cortex.
29:29
So you're not doing the inner critic, outer critic, little
29:32
whatever. Those people who do that, this
29:34
is the point they don't recognize.
29:36
Let me stop for a minute, let me check on in with my body, let me
29:42
go and read something. That this I've been meaning to
29:45
share with this legal season. OK, So what happens when people
29:49
do not know how to define and acknowledge that they're in a
29:56
fight flight or fight response? Well, it's easy.
30:01
They're already making statements such as I think that
30:04
you should have done this or you know, because I'm going through
30:09
this, I think that that was really mean, really mean of you
30:13
to use words, really mean of you.
30:15
You should learn how not to do this.
30:18
And so any person who's a basic child who's going to go around
30:21
telling people how to use their words and they don't have to be
30:25
children, children, these are grown-ups who tell other people
30:28
how to speak. And they're they're, they're
30:30
kind of like the word grammar police.
30:32
But even more than just that they're they literally are
30:34
trying to tell you how to compose a sentence because they
30:37
can't just let you express however it is you want.
30:40
It is a fascinating dynamic when you get to play around with
30:44
different types of words and and so long.
30:46
So short though when you're having fun.
30:47
Nobody's stressed. We're just having fun.
30:50
When we begin to get charged, that's when things get personal.
30:53
So we learn how to put that to the side and to keep engaging.
30:58
OK. So if people Orient and they
31:01
detect that there is no physical threat they will keep their mode
31:07
of body and language in East state most people instead they
31:10
get into a fight flight and or dissociative and or agitated.
31:20
So they begin to do the self blame or the blaming others or
31:23
the shame or the confusion, tongue tied, sweating when you
31:26
begin to get upset. OK, so when you're beginning to
31:29
get stressed, and I've seen people do this in conversation,
31:32
they then tune into their little militaristic moment and you can
31:36
see them because now they have begun, began to become that
31:39
adaptive child who is compromised at that point in
31:43
their entire treatment of you. And whatever they're going to
31:46
say, they're using what is a crisis mode, a threat experience
31:51
their brain has not identified. There's no person with a weapon
31:54
in front of me. There's a person with a
31:56
different belief system. So they've gone cognitive, this
31:58
and insomnia. They're going to do confirmation
32:00
bias and their child is all over it, which is why, again, we
32:03
don't really use our words at all in these cases because the
32:07
two year old has the floor and really we know that they've lost
32:11
their peripheral vision because they're looking straight at us.
32:13
They don't even see anything else anymore.
32:16
They're hearing nowhere to be found.
32:18
And therefore the process of decision making, you know, it's
32:21
really not the healthiest and they're going to be reactive and
32:24
they're not going to make good judgment and that is your safety
32:27
behavior, traumatized brain. A lot of people, they don't know
32:30
how to speak because in less than two minutes this is what
32:33
happens to people who actually don't know how to self regulate
32:37
because they don't know that when they're getting agitated
32:40
and they're choosing to use words that say I'm going to
32:42
shame you, blame you, fault you or even say that I can do
32:46
something such as let me hurt you emotionally and let me start
32:51
to poke at you on purpose. So all of these basically our
32:57
nervous system that is in yellow, red.
32:58
So the adults, the Zen masters we know.
33:02
And even as a teenager I knew how to handle myself.
33:05
I just learned how to become more and more compassionate and
33:08
actually get curious about sitting in front of people like
33:10
this and actually getting to know them because they have some
33:15
beautiful opinions that I could never have.
33:18
So I get to know piece of consciousness.
33:20
Pure consciousness loves to meet other pieces of consciousness by
33:23
the way. So again we don't really say, oh
33:25
let me tell you how to say what you think and feel not we're
33:28
curious about what you think and feel.
33:30
Most 2 year olds like to have that platform, which is why they
33:35
will enjoy it unless they want an interaction.
33:37
Then they will ask us and that's where we get to become adults
33:41
together. Once you have recognized that in
33:44
a situation you have no threat, you're able to allow yourself to
33:49
communicate what you're thinking because you have a moment with
33:54
your own inner world and you're breathing and you're exhaling
33:58
and inhaling and you're allowing yourself to know.
34:00
This is not a difficult situation.
34:02
What this is, is an interaction. This is only if you are self
34:06
empowered. So this is only when you have
34:08
true self-confidence, which means you are your own
34:11
sanctuary, your body is means. If people don't like that, you
34:16
can she love humanity. I'm going to use that one.
34:18
Or that. You see beautiful things always.
34:20
It's not your deal. Not my problem.
34:22
It's your problem, not mine. And really, it's not a problem,
34:25
it's a perspective. Excuse me.
34:27
So again, stupid is the line that they will let us use or
34:32
pink tainted glasses. And that's where it's at.
34:34
As for doing more important things though, here's where it's
34:37
very important to note. When you are treated in certain
34:40
ways, the Zen masters do not actually hold account because
34:44
that would mean that we are not a confident human being.
34:49
Some of us are confident for real, not pretend.
34:51
That's why we don't have a shame bolt, because our emotions are
34:55
not something we're ashamed of. So we're not ashamed of feeling
34:57
confident in our body. We're also not ashamed of
35:00
feeling love in our body. What we actually find very
35:03
interesting is the fact that people will want to try and
35:06
shame us about unconditionally loving humanity, about not
35:10
picking sides or taking sides, and about speaking direct
35:13
communications such as that. This one human being who was
35:16
older than I was and I was very surprised they started to get
35:20
pretty much almost irate. I think is the right word as
35:23
they got irate because I was not defending one side or another.
35:27
I was defending all I said, well, I defend the weaker ones
35:31
and I said, well I defend all of them because I will say that
35:34
they're all probably not really doing well.
35:38
And also I would say that you and I are sitting here talking,
35:41
so pretty sure I actually am one of the lucky ones.
35:45
And the only way I'm going to make any difference is if I
35:47
remain in a state of. Let me see how I can figure out
35:51
how to get smart politicians up there to disengage from all of
35:55
what is going on right now with not so many smart politicians
35:59
who are definitely with traits that are self-centered and not
36:03
in a way that is positive. They really need a good somatic
36:06
sense of motor trauma expert, but they need to be the ones to
36:08
see that they are not their pure consciousness.
36:12
They don't think that they're in my land and so are a lot of
36:15
other people who want to pick sides versus recognize that it's
36:18
one globe. So how about that?
36:20
See if one wanted to. This is what 1 does not do.
36:23
When you got an irate person, you just say something very
36:25
straightforward. I think that you and I can agree
36:28
to disagree, and that's about it.
36:30
And that's why compassion is not going to be something very
36:35
beautiful for those who want to pick a side, that's where
36:39
they're Picking a side is not something we do anything with.
36:44
So you give space to those people.
36:46
You give space to yourself out for anyone who actually feels
36:51
that you would want to have a talking it out within yourself.
36:56
OKI want to talk about that one because some of you are closing
36:59
out areas where you were rejected.
37:03
OK, so I'm going to use something that I learned from
37:07
one of my NICABM courses. This is for relationships.
37:10
If you ever do feel that you have been treated in a way that
37:15
you find unfair, this is important.
37:17
Again, we don't need the shame bolt.
37:19
You're you're human, You're a person.
37:20
I'm a person. We will be treated by the
37:23
adaptive children in ways that are completely unnecessarily
37:27
rude beyond a shadow of a doubt. Reason.
37:29
I can raise my hand all the times that I can think back of
37:32
all these people with their transference charging at me
37:36
because of being pure consciousness, pure love.
37:39
And they don't like that. People really don't like that
37:42
You don't pick anyone because that's where a not confident ego
37:47
needs you to pick them. Because the you not picking them
37:50
means they don't belong in your group.
37:52
So now they're like, oh, but I'm not in a safe sanctuary.
37:54
They want boundaries. They want you to circle them and
37:57
keep them and you're not going to do that.
37:59
Says pure consciousness is pure love.
38:01
This mean you do what you want to do.
38:03
I'm going to do what I want to do and that's it.
38:04
This is not. There's no, I'm not going to
38:06
keep you on a string. I'm not going to create some
38:08
little list for you. And actually don't you dare
38:10
create one for me. Differentiate itself.
38:13
Links. We don't do a measurement.
38:16
We don't do merging. Do not get near us.
38:19
If you're trying to do that, we're not going to want you.
38:21
We're going to be like even my body, if you see it right now,
38:24
it's still like get away from me, Get away from me.
38:26
I'm my own person. Leave me alone.
38:28
Feel like independence from thought and emotion, not
38:31
anything else. We can build a community with
38:33
people we we like to be creatives of our own selves,
38:36
even though people don't like it.
38:39
So when you feel that there has been unfair treatment, this is
38:43
the part of where it means you will have felt potentially
38:47
rejected, OK and or potentially accused and or all these
38:52
emotions come about. Don't have necessarily shame,
38:55
but if you do what the therapists say is you put in the
38:58
shame vault and then you have an objective conversation.
39:01
Not venting the venting doesn't do you any good because that's a
39:04
biochemistry of fear and you're ruminating.
39:07
So what you actually do is you set a scale like a regular scale
39:12
and you remember I'm a person and there are other people.
39:15
We have different belief systems.
39:16
We come from different time zones and timelines for real
39:19
because if you're in the functional adult enlightenment
39:22
so age group, then you are good with solo poli.
39:25
Some people really believe we're whores.
39:26
It's OK, they can use that word. It's not an offense to the grown
39:30
up people. We actually understand that.
39:32
Like when people tell me they do believe in evil and they've seen
39:35
the demons or the devils, I'm like OK, look, I do know what
39:38
you're talking about because I'm a Mystic, but what I want to let
39:40
you in on is Patrick McNamara with his neuroscience studies.
39:45
So you can bring practicality to what you're experiencing and
39:47
know. Don't sit with nightmares
39:49
because you might end up doing yourself more harm than good.
39:53
If you don't move into more love in your body, you're inhuman
39:56
suffering. And this is not positive because
39:58
you're actually in a body that has a window of tolerance, that
40:02
is being pushed to the edge. And it means that you are
40:04
creating predictions of the future that are negative, that
40:09
people are evil. They don't have compassion, they
40:11
don't know how to be there for you, They don't know how to do
40:13
anything. You're basically stating that
40:15
you're all alone, but you're in a body that's cringing with
40:18
pain, suffering, and nightmares. That's not good.
40:23
Now here's where most people I've seen them for these years.
40:27
They just distract themselves and that's why they don't grow.
40:30
But they will settle into one of those other soul age groups.
40:33
And usually again we see the movies, they keep on living and
40:37
that's why they don't go to good therapy or they don't even move
40:40
into any type of anything. It's unfortunate, but we'll do
40:45
what we can to share with them how to move into a version of
40:50
themselves that can find actual safety.
40:55
And it's in the psychoeducation chair, because that way they can
40:58
know what they're going through is not to be demonized or not
41:03
normal. And so here's why it's
41:05
important. Also helps them to get out of
41:07
the supernatural, which is not necessary and it does not help,
41:11
especially if they're having nightmares.
41:13
They're learning that the breakdown of the brain works a
41:15
certain way is very helpful. Help people know this.
41:18
Patrick McNamara, He has a book called The Religious Self and
41:21
the video is Demonic Possession and he explains how it's not
41:26
demons, it's actually the brain of a person.
41:29
After so many nightmares, I don't know how many, but a
41:32
series, something breaks and it's that fear receptor.
41:36
So it's more of, I'm going to say, when your brain goes into
41:40
that, the child mode again, it's harsh and unforgiving because it
41:44
goes rigid. And then chaos.
41:46
Chaos would be all those unresolved trauma, the trauma
41:49
memory comes up. So your nervous system is in a
41:51
window of tolerance. This means you are in a light
41:55
flight response and then eventually your body goes into
41:58
dorsal vagal because it needs to rest.
42:00
So it's up and down, up and down.
42:02
And the dorsal vagal is the depression mode.
42:04
And so if people don't learn to self regulate to move into
42:07
ventral vagal be sanctuaries in their bodies, they don't calm
42:11
their body's nervous system. Their mind doesn't learn to
42:15
integrate and doesn't even move into integration because they
42:18
have not made sense of the very difficult challenging
42:22
situations, the images, the sensations, the dreams and to
42:26
relate it to their life. Which is I'm going through a
42:28
shit show right now. It's normal that I have
42:30
nightmares for example, and simplify it.
42:33
Okay. So that's one other side note
42:35
and anybody who needed to hear that this is where it's normal.
42:39
If you're going through a shit show, your REM sleep helps you
42:42
to process trauma, memory and wants to heal itself.
42:45
Your brain, our bodies, our brains, they they work to bring
42:49
ourselves to optimal human version.
42:51
OK, so all on its own, but it's only if you choose love from
42:55
your body. So that's your first sanctuary,
42:57
safe haven. You can she love who you are
43:00
with loves and imperfections and all other people, even the ones
43:03
who get vindictive and mean with you because they don't like that
43:06
you love all people. All people are special.
43:09
ALL. All.
43:11
So no evil. Just people who need a good
43:14
psychologist. If they don't know one, we can
43:17
share with them. So when you do find yourself, if
43:20
right now you're dealing with comeback lines, you're dealing
43:24
with an inner conversation where you felt rejected, OK, where
43:28
somebody basically shared and said and or however it is they
43:32
behave, they said you are piece of shit, I don't like you at
43:35
all. OK?
43:37
And so the first is the knowingness of I reject your
43:41
rejection of me. So being able to, for those of
43:45
you who again feel this way, the love cycle people, we don't feel
43:49
rejected and we actually accept. So our words are different, we
43:53
accept that you and I are different and that's it.
43:57
We accept that we don't like maybe that we can't bring our
43:59
differences together. We accept.
44:02
So we accept. We don't reject anything.
44:04
That's why we're enlightenment. So age.
44:07
But just in case somebody needs the part of, in case you do not
44:10
love all people and you're not yet ready to be in the I accept
44:15
that we're different. You can use the.
44:17
I reject your rejection of me. That's going to keep you in a
44:20
defense mode though, because you just told your body that
44:22
somebody's rejecting you. But again, this is where I'm
44:25
going to leave it for you to be able and understand what I'm
44:28
explaining. Then there is the I will not
44:31
take with me any further this feeling.
44:35
So the situation. And here's where forgiveness as
44:39
spelled out by Daniel Siegel and all these other people and even
44:42
Jesus. It's about you inside choosing
44:46
equanimity and knowing the past is the past.
44:49
But you're choosing a zero in your body, which isn't a
44:54
numbness. It's you understanding with the
44:57
scale of justice that you are a person who has thoughts and
45:00
emotions and another is a person who has thoughts and emotions.
45:02
So you don't need to say anything to close anything out.
45:05
You don't have to take anything anywhere.
45:08
And it's about your own personal ownership if you own your own
45:14
mind, your own emotions and your own body.
45:17
And I am challenged for people that actually are inclined to be
45:20
here. So this is where you accept the
45:23
differences that you and another person are and you do
45:26
differentiation and linkage and you actually empower yourself by
45:29
doing equanimity and moving into your functional adult.
45:33
Now if you need to use those some verbiage, OK.
45:37
So again, if you are processing charge states, this is
45:40
important. So again, I reject your
45:41
rejection of me. I won't take it with me any
45:44
further. I won't take it to bed.
45:45
I won't take this to my relationships.
45:47
I won't take it to the family. I will not take your rejection
45:50
of me anywhere. I refuse it and I reject it.
45:55
And I speak to protect, defend, bring myself into a space of
46:01
it's okay to be me. And so here's where you reject
46:06
the rejection and you say I accept who I am and how I am.
46:11
And that's where your choices and your decisions though if
46:16
inequanimity will lead you to expansion.
46:19
And so unhealthy comeback lines are not really ideal for those
46:25
who are adaptive children. They use them and they if they
46:29
move into adulthood, they will not want to use them.
46:33
So I give you a little bit of this and that just in case we
46:35
got any adaptive children tuning in.
46:38
So again, unhealthy comeback lines are not going to be
46:42
positive because you might stay in your Maya land a lot longer
46:46
than necessary versus just being realistic with you.
46:50
You want to match the feeling that you felt.
46:51
So if you felt that you were told, for example, and really
46:57
OK, the basic feeling is sadness when somebody you love does not
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like who you are, that's it. So that's why it's not a hard
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one. You don't like who I am.
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It's going to be sad. It's heartbreaking.
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I'm over it as soon as I get to be over the fact that a loved
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one doesn't like who I am, as I am very straightforward.
47:17
But the people who need comeback lines, they actually want to
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have this little bit of chit chat.
47:23
The the reality is it's a teenager world, but the anger
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that can arise, you want to validate the emotion, you don't
47:29
want to shame it, you don't want to blame it because then it's
47:31
going to come out again. So This is why I'm sharing with
47:34
you all of this, just in case. It's very important for me to
47:38
ensure you understand that feeling safe to talk within
47:41
yourself and with communities when it comes to anything that
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upsets you, that's what creates a sanctuary.
47:47
And to not shame yourself about the anger, frustration, upset.
47:52
So some people, they have anger. Those of us who are pure and
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always have been, we don't have that.
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We have no way of being angry. We're sad, yes, but no anger.
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So when people that we love are different than us and we're
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different than them, we recognize that we have a shared
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experience. It's called being important to
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ourselves now. It's called being people and
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that it's called being obviously important or not important or
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accepted or not accepted. And it's OK.
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We don't need to have Sanctuary in other people.
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We have our own body and mind to feel safe and to feel secure.
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This is why you are your own self-expression of opinions,
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thoughts, emotions within your own body, which is that
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Sanctuary and you don't actually need others to do it for you.
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Safe Haven Secure base. This is why you're also
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sanctuary for other people if you're as end master.
48:45
If you're not, and you're still needing to do these unhealthy
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comeback lines again, don't shame and realize though that
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the upset does come from a shame defectiveness.
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And that is where you are actually pointing a finger at
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another human being and wanting them to be you.
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And you're not accepting that you're not them and they're not
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you. So you're not differentiating
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which is where. Some people are not driven by
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self agency. And so if you're driven by
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belonging or certainty, it's a little bit harder because your
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body actually wants to belong. And so you only find meaning in
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life if a group belongs to you and you belong to them, that
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this is actually something important for you to know and
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also for those who want certainty.
49:34
So some people, they want to be with people because that's how
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their body feels safe. And remember that to move into
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restore to embodied self requires for you to choose love
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again, again, again, especially when you're getting poked.
49:46
And most people want to do the unhealthy comeback lines to each
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other and that's the adaptive children.
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So when we're in any of our relationships, there is one
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thing on this lovely 2023 that we get to learn, and that's the
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community here, To be in a space of love, not shame.
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And if there's any shame to know, it's normal.
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It's part of our human heritage, those who have it.
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You can move into a body that is aligned with Purusha Prakriti
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only if you are able to get poked and love comes forth to do
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that, you do that inner growth mindset when you are looking at
50:28
things that have been on an unfair scale and instead of
50:32
being your teenage version, you say K Yeah, of course I feel
50:34
it's unfair. Here's my anger.
50:36
Here's my sad Whatever emotions come up, you put him here, you
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don't put him in a shame vault. You don't.
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Or you put shame if you have it in a vault.
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But really, I'm going to say process it.
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Get rid of it. You don't need it.
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What you want to do is be objective and use love and
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compassion and be normal human being.
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Who knows? Of course, if somebody flicks me
50:53
off, I might get pissed. I can learn how not to.
50:56
This is the point you grow up to this day when people tell me how
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to use my mouth. I don't get pissed, but I still
51:03
get charged sometimes. And it's usually only in
51:06
important conversations because it's only going to be with your
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relationships, the ones that you actually actively work with to
51:13
be in a group with, because again, that's actually normal.
51:16
We want to be seen by each other.
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That's because we want to have alignment.
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So when you are in actual mind site, you're able to know who
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you are to mind sift and you're also able to be participant with
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your loved ones. So to be present means that I do
51:36
not apply to you, that you need to think and feel like me.
51:39
I attune to you and I then notice if your nervous system is
51:42
off, I will speak about it with you directly.
51:45
And then if you resonate because you trust, you're going to speak
51:48
back. And this is the relationships
51:50
we're building. So you're only building part
51:52
relationships, basically adult relationships.
51:55
And if you are in any way, shape or form still person who
51:59
actually does harbor resentment for humanity, there's still
52:02
work. It's not anything that I cannot
52:06
support in our episodes, but it's not something that you want
52:09
to bring to your relationship. You want to pause that adaptive
52:13
child and again, you want to clear your mind.
52:15
You want to achieve a state of neutrality, equanimity so that
52:18
you can use your words with the people, Not shame, not blame,
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not fault, and definitely not do a little pokety poke.
52:24
You want to say, hey, you know what, I actually found this
52:28
interesting or I found this hard.
52:30
And the reality is, if you're taking ownership of your life,
52:33
you're not going to say you need to tend to my emotions.
52:36
You're going to simply say with a cheery disposition or a firm
52:40
disposition. You know what?
52:43
We obviously are not going to have an eye to eye thing going
52:46
on here. We obviously have different ways
52:49
of being able to talk about emotions when the shit goes
52:52
down, the fan, it's it's a very straightforward line.
52:55
So people who want to be uplifted right now, they are not
52:58
going to make a big deal out of those of us who are actually in
53:01
the enlightment. So a troop, the 5D person,
53:04
whoever you are, who's a Mystic, you will know what I'm talking
53:06
about because there's a bunch of people that are really just
53:09
sitting in there suffering and pointing a finger at anybody
53:12
who's happy right now. That's what they do.
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Oh my God, how dare you be happy and joyous.
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It's like the one guy who goes in front of the Dalai Lama and
53:19
he says how dare you? And for all this human
53:21
suffering. And I laughed when I heard that
53:24
because I'm like, wow, he should have gotten like, taught how the
53:27
Dalai Lama is because I don't even know who are you.
53:30
I'm stupid. And I know that the Dalai Lama
53:33
is going to smile. You are going there with your
53:35
frustration. And so the Dalai Lama said, I'm
53:38
not smiling at the suffering. I'm smiling despite it.
53:41
And really, anybody who wants to talk about 5D or enlightenment
53:45
should really know Purusha Prati.
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Otherwise, they shouldn't use these words because it's not a
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must to move into your optimal human potential.
53:53
You don't have to become the restorative, embodied self of
53:56
yourself or the integrated brain of yourself.
53:58
You can stay within the adaptive child behavior which is where
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all those groups are. So again, when people come up to
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you with their adaptive child, those who are tuning in, your
54:08
choice is love. If you're still in any way,
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shape or form, thinking evil exists.
54:13
Obviously, again, you didn't hear a word I just said or much,
54:18
much more, but it's okay. I get it.
54:20
There's plenty of groups out there that believe what you
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believe. So you can find them and you
54:25
guys can create a sanctuary together.
54:27
And that's where we're at right now.
54:29
We're trying to bring all people together.
54:31
So the difference is we get to be with relationships and then
54:35
create mindful ones. So relational mindfulness means
54:39
that we know how to handle the knee jerk response of an
54:41
adaptive child. We is who the Enlightenment.
54:44
So age groups and masters that I Channel 4 and I'm guiding and
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supporting to have their wise adult relationships.
54:50
It's beautiful to be the prefrontal cortex of us and to
54:54
use our relational skills to build these most amazing, most
54:59
amazing adult relationships. Because attachment is what we
55:04
love to do when it's secure. And so when we get to support
55:09
each other's dreams and the visions and we get excited for
55:13
all the things we're learning about, and then we get time,
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kind of she love each other and speak and have these
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intellectually beautiful discussions.
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OK, so coming together is not about us having the same
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beliefs, attitudes or emotions. No, no.
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We just know how to conduct ourselves with adults.
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Emotional and loving attitudes. So be curious about yourself.
55:35
Be curious about all your emotions.
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That's conditional, Lila. And if you do that, you won't
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need a shame vault. And if you instead need the
55:43
shame vault for some time, you just put it over there and you
55:45
do. You know the OK here are all the
55:48
emotions, and you keep moving towards neutrality and duality.
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At a certain point, you'll be in complete neutrality.
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That's the advanced place in the Inner Growth program.
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Tune on in back for more. And in the meantime, have a
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wonderful day.