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- 0:00Speaker 1: Dirty Little Secret.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Nick's one or two point nine.
- 0:06Speaker 3: Good morning, it's failing a kid, Candice Lopez, producer, pooh,
- 0:09Speaker 3: all right, Dirty Little Secret is on right now now.
- 0:11Speaker 3: If you have a secret eight three three seven eight
- 0:13Speaker 3: seven one o two nine, bring it to us.
- 0:16Speaker 2: Uh.
- 0:16Speaker 3: We say it's a non judgment zone. Of course, we
- 0:18Speaker 3: might talk about the issue, but we're not gonna judge
- 0:20Speaker 3: it too hard. But you gotta be honest with us, open,
- 0:23Speaker 3: and you know, just confess. It'll make you feel better.
- 0:25Speaker 3: Now you have one. So what's going on?
- 0:27Speaker 4: Okay, let's see where do I start. My boyfriend and
- 0:31Speaker 4: I have been together for about seven months now, and
- 0:36Speaker 4: it was something that I got pretty serious pretty quickly.
- 0:41Speaker 4: So we decided to move in together. And we've we've
- 0:44Speaker 4: only just been living together for about two weeks that
- 0:49Speaker 4: I'm already starting to wonder if I did something that's
- 0:52Speaker 4: really stupid.
- 0:53Speaker 3: Oh wow, so you just moved in with them. So
- 0:55Speaker 3: you've been together for about seven months. You just moved
- 0:58Speaker 3: in together. What did you do that was stupid? Now
- 1:01Speaker 3: I'm concerned.
- 1:03Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I started cleaning and I saw one of
- 1:06Speaker 4: his old phones in the back of the drawer, and
- 1:11Speaker 4: I don't really honestly know what came over me. I
- 1:15Speaker 4: don't know whether it was like curiosity or insecurity or both,
- 1:19Speaker 4: or but I charged it, you know, it's just to
- 1:22Speaker 4: see if it was working. And the screen lit up
- 1:27Speaker 4: and my heart started racing, and I thought, okay, it
- 1:30Speaker 4: was just uh. I tried its current path code and
- 1:34Speaker 4: it actually unlocked it.
- 1:39Speaker 5: I should have stopped, but I didn't. I.
- 1:42Speaker 2: Oh god, right, what did you find a picture?
- 1:46Speaker 4: So?
- 1:47Speaker 5: Okay, I'm scrolling through the text the old texts, and
- 1:50Speaker 5: I find some from his X. Okay, it's like, yeah,
- 1:57Speaker 5: they were from like months ago, but she was talking
- 1:59Speaker 5: about she missed him and that she she sort of
- 2:02Speaker 5: wished that things had worked out. And I just felt
- 2:05Speaker 5: my stomach completely drop out.
- 2:09Speaker 3: You were together when these texts happened. Yeah, well, which
- 2:13Speaker 3: is not good. What did he What did he say back?
- 2:17Speaker 4: So this is the thing. He didn't actually ever reply
- 2:20Speaker 4: to her, like not one Oh wow?
- 2:23Speaker 3: Yeah no, does that make you feel better? I don't
- 2:26Speaker 3: know if that makes I mean, I guess it's yeah,
- 2:28Speaker 3: he's not saying miss you too or whine. Okay, so
- 2:32Speaker 3: how did that make you feel? You you see these texts?
- 2:34Speaker 3: Did you say anything to him or you haven't yet.
- 2:37Speaker 4: Well, I mean I should have felt relieved, right, but
- 2:40Speaker 4: like he didn't. He didn't say anything, so I thort
- 2:43Speaker 4: it just felt sick, I mean ignored her. And that
- 2:46Speaker 4: meant he saw the text, he read it, and he
- 2:49Speaker 4: didn't say anything to me. He didn't say anything like,
- 2:52Speaker 4: oh hey, my extray stub. But I don't know I
- 2:56Speaker 4: shut it down.
- 2:56Speaker 6: He didn't say anything at all, And now I can't
- 2:59Speaker 6: stop thinking about it, about her words, about his silence.
- 3:02Speaker 6: I just I don't know it helped me out here
- 3:06Speaker 6: plenty really wants to tell him.
- 3:08Speaker 2: Yeah, well here.
- 3:09Speaker 3: My first though was, so you didn't tell her that, Hey, sorry,
- 3:13Speaker 3: this is inappropriate. I and I have someone new that
- 3:16Speaker 3: I'm with now, and I don't feel comfortable.
- 3:18Speaker 2: With this, you know, wouldn't. I mean, I don't know
- 3:20Speaker 2: how to handle.
- 3:21Speaker 1: This depends on how they broke up, because sometimes just
- 3:24Speaker 1: like not even acknowledging them is like a win exactly, And.
- 3:27Speaker 7: Why would you? Yeah, if he didn't say nothing, why
- 3:30Speaker 7: is he Why should he feel guilty?
- 3:31Speaker 2: He shouldn't she feel guilty?
- 3:33Speaker 3: But if you're with somebody new, you broke it off,
- 3:36Speaker 3: you're getting serious with somebody new to the point you're
- 3:38Speaker 3: about to move At this point, they're getting ready to
- 3:40Speaker 3: move in together.
- 3:40Speaker 1: Right, But would you really tell them, Hey, my ex
- 3:42Speaker 1: texted me.
- 3:43Speaker 2: No, Yeah, no, I've done it before.
- 3:46Speaker 7: Well that's dumb.
- 3:47Speaker 2: I wouldn't tell her honest or transparent? Transparent? How's it?
- 3:51Speaker 7: You're already admitting to something. What if the girl's insecure? Like,
- 3:56Speaker 7: this girl's insecure. She shouldn't even went through.
- 3:58Speaker 2: His phone, Like, why are you going to phone? You're
- 4:01Speaker 2: gonna charge it? First of all, you've never went through
- 4:03Speaker 2: a phone. We've all been there, we've all done it.
- 4:05Speaker 2: You've done it.
- 4:06Speaker 7: I understand that. But she took the time to charge
- 4:08Speaker 7: up an old phone in a drawer. That means he
- 4:12Speaker 7: already had doubts about old boy.
- 4:13Speaker 3: Well, that might be the case of you. And I'm
- 4:15Speaker 3: not saying that you should have went through his phone.
- 4:17Speaker 3: By the way, I'm not saying that. What are you
- 4:19Speaker 3: gonna do?
- 4:20Speaker 7: I went through your old phone and I saw you
- 4:22Speaker 7: didn't respond to your eggs?
- 4:23Speaker 2: Why not? Yeah you do? And then his shoes.
- 4:27Speaker 7: Yeah, she's gonna look cuckoo, and I'm gonna.
- 4:29Speaker 2: Be that's the risk you take.
- 4:30Speaker 3: I'd rather listen all I'm saying, is I've been in
- 4:33Speaker 3: many relationships in the past.
- 4:37Speaker 2: What are you laughing at? No, I'm agreeing with you.
- 4:41Speaker 2: I'm sorry man, he's being rude.
- 4:44Speaker 3: No, but I'm saying I've learned the hard way that
- 4:46Speaker 3: sometimes it's not worth lying because the truth, I feel
- 4:49Speaker 3: like always comes out.
- 4:50Speaker 1: But like, if you never intend to talk to this
- 4:52Speaker 1: woman again, y'all are broken up like that that is
- 4:55Speaker 1: so far done.
- 4:56Speaker 2: So Candice, let me ask you this.
- 4:58Speaker 3: You would if you're with this guy you're about to
- 4:59Speaker 3: move been with him, Yeah, and I forget that she
- 5:02Speaker 3: looked through the phone. Whatever, right, say your new boyfriend,
- 5:05Speaker 3: this guy who you're about to get serious with, if
- 5:07Speaker 3: you're moving in your series his ex text him, I
- 5:10Speaker 3: miss you. I wish it would have worked out. Would
- 5:12Speaker 3: you rather him not say anything? Would you rather him
- 5:15Speaker 3: say listen, I'm wish somebody knew. I really kind of
- 5:18Speaker 3: I would appreciate if you don't text me this you don't.
- 5:20Speaker 1: Know the context and he's told her that multiple times
- 5:23Speaker 1: and she the block her.
- 5:25Speaker 2: Then do something. I'm just thinking through you not be
- 5:28Speaker 2: happy a few times? Is bet to just say nothing
- 5:31Speaker 2: at all? Like this song says just a what song?
- 5:34Speaker 2: I don't know in their song like.
- 5:35Speaker 1: That else.
- 5:38Speaker 2: You say it be anyway?
- 5:46Speaker 3: So first of all, you're old pro. Second of all,
- 5:51Speaker 3: are you are you gonna tell him? Do you feel
- 5:54Speaker 3: like you or you are you just gonna let it go?
- 5:57Speaker 4: I don't know what I didn't text because if I
- 6:00Speaker 4: had pected for I don't do that anything right. I
- 6:05Speaker 4: didn't want to admit it. But I can't unsee this
- 6:09Speaker 4: right now.
- 6:10Speaker 5: Every time he picks up his phone, I'm.
- 6:12Speaker 4: Sort of wondering, what else do I not know? Yeah?
- 6:16Speaker 4: Eating me? Well?
- 6:17Speaker 2: Are you you are? You are a little bit insecure.
- 6:20Speaker 4: I mean, I think everybody is in a new relationship,
- 6:23Speaker 4: right like maybe especially they like the person.
- 6:27Speaker 2: Let us know what happens, and if you do tell them,
- 6:29Speaker 2: we'd love to hear about it.
- 6:30Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I will absolutely let you know.
- 6:34Speaker 6: Yeah, thank you so much.
- 6:35Speaker 2: Okay, you're welcome. That was a tough one, dirty little secret.