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Game Episode: No Perfect Answers with Caroline Stanbury · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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  I
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  love
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  the
• 0:01
  journey.
• 0:01
  I
• 0:02
  don't
• 0:02
  want
• 0:02
  to
• 0:02
  get
• 0:02
  to
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  the
• 0:03
  end
• 0:03
  so
• 0:04
  fast.
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  Enjoy
• 0:05
  the
• 0:05
  process.
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  Right
• 0:06
  now,
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  the
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  standard
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  I
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  hold
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  for
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  my
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  life
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  is
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  blank.
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  Extremely
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  high.
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  If
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  it
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  doesn't
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  work
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  for
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  me
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  or
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  it
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  doesn't
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  bring
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  me
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  joy,
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  it's
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  out.
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  Life
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  is
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  too
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  short.
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  Friendships
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  too.
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  It
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  doesn't
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  make
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  sense
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  to
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  carry
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  a
• 0:18
  friendship
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  that
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  is
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  toxic.
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  Especially
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  now.
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  I'm
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  shedding
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  very
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  fast
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  right
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  now,
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  and
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  I'm
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  not
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  that
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  upset
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  about
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  it.
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  The
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  best
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  things
• 0:27
  come.
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  If
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  you
• 0:28
  make
• 0:28
  uncomfortable
• 0:29
  choices
• 0:30
  in
• 0:30
  uncomfortable
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  times.
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  And
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  you
• 0:32
  can
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  be
• 0:32
  a
• 0:32
  little
• 0:33
  scared,
• 0:33
  that's
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  okay.
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  You
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  can
• 0:34
  shit
• 0:35
  your
• 0:35
  pants.
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  Do
• 0:36
  it.
• 0:36
  Leave.
• 0:36
  If
• 0:37
  everyone
• 0:37
  tells
• 0:37
  you,
• 0:37
  don't
• 0:38
  do
• 0:38
  it.
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  Jump.
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  The
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  conversation
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  around
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  aging
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  and
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  beauty
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  is
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  completely
• 0:42
  wrong
• 0:42
  about
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  blank
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  aging
• 0:45
  in
• 0:45
  general.
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  I
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  mean,
• 0:46
  I
• 0:47
  think
• 0:47
  that,
• 0:47
  you
• 0:47
  know,
• 0:47
  it's
• 0:48
  inevitable,
• 0:48
  but
• 0:48
  that's
• 0:49
  what
• 0:49
  they
• 0:49
  say,
• 0:49
  but
• 0:49
  it's
• 0:50
  not
• 0:50
  anymore.
• 0:51
  We
• 0:51
  can
• 0:51
  do
• 0:51
  all
• 0:52
  the
• 0:52
  tools
• 0:52
  and
• 0:52
  all
• 0:53
  the
• 0:53
  things
• 0:53
  that
• 0:53
  we
• 0:53
  want.
• 0:54
  We
• 0:54
  can
• 0:54
  do
• 0:54
  all
• 0:54
  the
• 0:55
  things.
• 1:01
  This
• 1:02
  is
• 1:02
  a
• 1:03
  just
• 1:03
  a
• 1:03
  rapid
• 1:04
  fire.
• 1:04
  Whatever
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  comes
• 1:05
  to
• 1:05
  mind
• 1:06
  first.
• 1:07
  Just
• 1:07
  say
• 1:07
  what's
• 1:07
  on
• 1:08
  your
• 1:08
  mind,
• 1:08
  my
• 1:08
  friend.
• 1:09
  Go
• 1:09
  for
• 1:09
  it.
• 1:10
  The
• 1:10
  biggest
• 1:11
  misconception
• 1:12
  about
• 1:12
  me
• 1:13
  that
• 1:13
  most
• 1:13
  people
• 1:14
  think
• 1:14
  is
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  blank.
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  I'm
• 1:16
  a
• 1:17
  bitch.
• 1:17
  I
• 1:17
  have
• 1:18
  the
• 1:18
  proof.
• 1:18
  You're
• 1:18
  not.
• 1:20
  People
• 1:21
  underestimate
• 1:22
  me
• 1:22
  when
• 1:22
  it
• 1:22
  comes
• 1:22
  to
• 1:23
  blink.
• 1:23
  Everything
• 1:24
  I'm
• 1:24
  building.
• 1:25
  I
• 1:25
  know
• 1:25
  it
• 1:26
  sounds
• 1:26
  exciting.
• 1:26
  And
• 1:26
  a
• 1:27
  house
• 1:27
  in
• 1:27
  Africa,
• 1:27
  too.
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  Well,
• 1:28
  that's
• 1:28
  the
• 1:29
  community
• 1:29
  I'm
• 1:29
  building.
• 1:30
  Yes.
• 1:30
  What
• 1:31
  country
• 1:31
  in
• 1:31
  Africa?
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  Tanzania.
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  Oh,
• 1:33
  wow.
• 1:34
  Amazing.
• 1:35
  The
• 1:36
  conversation
• 1:36
  around
• 1:36
  aging
• 1:37
  and
• 1:37
  beauty
• 1:37
  is
• 1:38
  completely
• 1:38
  wrong
• 1:39
  about
• 1:40
  blank
• 1:41
  aging
• 1:42
  in
• 1:42
  general.
• 1:43
  I
• 1:43
  mean,
• 1:43
  I
• 1:44
  think
• 1:44
  that,
• 1:44
  you
• 1:44
  know,
• 1:44
  it's
• 1:45
  inevitable,
• 1:45
  but
• 1:46
  that's
• 1:46
  what
• 1:46
  they
• 1:46
  say.
• 1:46
  But
• 1:46
  it's
• 1:47
  not
• 1:47
  anymore.
• 1:48
  It's
• 1:48
  not.
• 1:48
  We
• 1:49
  can.
• 1:49
  We
• 1:49
  can
• 1:49
  do
• 1:49
  all
• 1:50
  the
• 1:50
  tools
• 1:50
  and
• 1:50
  all
• 1:50
  the
• 1:51
  things
• 1:51
  that
• 1:51
  we
• 1:51
  want.
• 1:52
  We
• 1:52
  can
• 1:52
  do
• 1:52
  all
• 1:52
  the
• 1:53
  things.
• 1:54
  The
• 1:54
  part
• 1:55
  of
• 1:55
  making
• 1:55
  unconventional
• 1:56
  life
• 1:56
  choices
• 1:57
  that
• 1:57
  people
• 1:58
  don't
• 1:58
  understand
• 1:59
  is
• 2:00
  blank.
• 2:01
  The
• 2:01
  best
• 2:02
  things
• 2:03
  come
• 2:03
  if
• 2:03
  you
• 2:04
  make
• 2:04
  uncomfortable
• 2:05
  choices
• 2:05
  in
• 2:06
  uncomfortable
• 2:07
  times.
• 2:08
  That's
• 2:08
  a
• 2:08
  good
• 2:08
  one.
• 2:08
  And
• 2:09
  you
• 2:09
  can
• 2:09
  be
• 2:09
  a
• 2:09
  little
• 2:09
  scared.
• 2:10
  That's
• 2:10
  okay.
• 2:11
  You
• 2:11
  can
• 2:11
  your
• 2:12
  pants.
• 2:13
  Yeah.
• 2:14
  Full
• 2:15
  blown
• 2:15
  shit
• 2:15
  pants.
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  Full
• 2:16
  blown.
• 2:17
  Do
• 2:17
  it.
• 2:18
  Leap.
• 2:18
  If
• 2:18
  everyone
• 2:19
  tells
• 2:19
  you,
• 2:19
  don't
• 2:19
  do
• 2:20
  it.
• 2:20
  Jump.
• 2:21
  Most
• 2:21
  people
• 2:22
  build
• 2:22
  businesses
• 2:23
  for
• 2:23
  blank,
• 2:24
  but
• 2:24
  I
• 2:24
  build
• 2:25
  mine
• 2:25
  for
• 2:26
  blank.
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  Most
• 2:27
  people
• 2:28
  build
• 2:29
  businesses
• 2:29
  to
• 2:29
  make
• 2:29
  money,
• 2:31
  which
• 2:31
  I
• 2:31
  do
• 2:31
  too,
• 2:32
  but
• 2:32
  I
• 2:32
  also
• 2:32
  build
• 2:33
  mine
• 2:33
  for
• 2:33
  the
• 2:33
  journey.
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  Like,
• 2:34
  I
• 2:35
  love
• 2:35
  the
• 2:36
  journey.
• 2:36
  I
• 2:37
  don't
• 2:37
  want
• 2:37
  to
• 2:37
  get
• 2:37
  to
• 2:37
  the
• 2:38
  end
• 2:38
  so
• 2:38
  fast.
• 2:39
  Enjoy
• 2:40
  the
• 2:40
  process.
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  Okay.
• 2:42
  Okay.
• 2:42
  That's.
• 2:42
  That.
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  That
• 2:43
  seems
• 2:43
  very
• 2:44
  evolved.
• 2:44
  Be
• 2:45
  careful
• 2:45
  what
• 2:45
  you
• 2:45
  wish
• 2:46
  for
• 2:46
  because,
• 2:46
  you
• 2:46
  know,
• 2:47
  with
• 2:47
  businesses,
• 2:48
  you
• 2:49
  want
• 2:49
  to
• 2:49
  get
• 2:49
  bigger
• 2:49
  and
• 2:49
  bigger.
• 2:50
  But
• 2:50
  that's
• 2:51
  not
• 2:51
  the
• 2:51
  fun
• 2:51
  bit
• 2:52
  in
• 2:52
  the
• 2:52
  end.
• 2:52
  The
• 2:52
  fun
• 2:53
  bit
• 2:53
  was
• 2:53
  when
• 2:53
  you
• 2:54
  were
• 2:54
  the
• 2:54
  founder
• 2:55
  and
• 2:55
  the.
• 2:56
  The
• 2:56
  creator
• 2:57
  of
• 2:57
  it
• 2:57
  and
• 2:58
  building
• 2:58
  it
• 2:58
  like
• 2:59
  that.
• 2:59
  And
• 2:59
  then
• 2:59
  when
• 2:59
  it
• 2:59
  gets
• 3:00
  too
• 3:00
  big
• 3:00
  for
• 3:00
  you,
• 3:00
  it
• 3:01
  actually
• 3:02
  takes
• 3:02
  a
• 3:03
  lot
• 3:03
  of
• 3:03
  the
• 3:03
  joy
• 3:03
  from
• 3:03
  a
• 3:04
  business.
• 3:05
  The
• 3:05
  difference
• 3:05
  between
• 3:06
  being
• 3:06
  liked
• 3:07
  and
• 3:07
  being
• 3:07
  respected
• 3:08
  is
• 3:09
  blank.
• 3:10
  I
• 3:10
  think
• 3:11
  your
• 3:12
  Persona,
• 3:12
  what
• 3:13
  you
• 3:13
  put
• 3:15
  out
• 3:15
  there
• 3:15
  for
• 3:15
  people,
• 3:16
  you
• 3:16
  know,
• 3:17
  everybody
• 3:17
  wants
• 3:18
  to
• 3:18
  be
• 3:18
  liked,
• 3:19
  but,
• 3:19
  you
• 3:19
  know,
• 3:20
  everybody
• 3:21
  needs
• 3:21
  to
• 3:21
  be
• 3:22
  respected
• 3:22
  because
• 3:23
  everybody's
• 3:24
  journey
• 3:24
  is
• 3:24
  different
• 3:24
  and
• 3:25
  everybody
• 3:25
  is
• 3:26
  going
• 3:26
  through
• 3:26
  their
• 3:26
  own
• 3:28
  shit.
• 3:28
  Really.
• 3:29
  Was
• 3:30
  there
• 3:30
  a
• 3:30
  shift
• 3:30
  for
• 3:30
  you?
• 3:30
  Were
• 3:31
  you.
• 3:31
  Did
• 3:31
  you
• 3:31
  always
• 3:32
  like
• 3:32
  to
• 3:32
  be
• 3:32
  liked
• 3:32
  and
• 3:33
  then
• 3:33
  respect
• 3:34
  became
• 3:34
  more
• 3:34
  important?
• 3:36
  Well,
• 3:36
  I
• 3:36
  think
• 3:36
  respect
• 3:37
  comes
• 3:37
  when
• 3:37
  you
• 3:38
  start
• 3:38
  to
• 3:38
  do
• 3:38
  things
• 3:38
  that
• 3:39
  people
• 3:39
  don't
• 3:39
  necessarily
• 3:40
  like.
• 3:41
  Right.
• 3:43
  So,
• 3:43
  you
• 3:43
  know,
• 3:44
  to
• 3:44
  gain
• 3:44
  respect,
• 3:45
  you
• 3:45
  have
• 3:45
  to
• 3:45
  do
• 3:46
  things
• 3:46
  that
• 3:46
  other
• 3:46
  people
• 3:47
  wouldn't
• 3:48
  necessarily
• 3:48
  do,
• 3:49
  I
• 3:49
  suppose.
• 3:49
  Yeah,
• 3:50
  you
• 3:50
  have
• 3:50
  to
• 3:50
  chart
• 3:51
  your
• 3:51
  own
• 3:51
  way,
• 3:51
  you
• 3:52
  know.
• 3:52
  Yeah,
• 3:53
  people
• 3:53
  underestimate
• 3:54
  me
• 3:54
  when
• 3:54
  it
• 3:55
  comes
• 3:55
  to
• 3:55
  blank.
• 3:56
  Lots
• 3:57
  of
• 3:57
  things.
• 3:57
  I
• 3:57
  think
• 3:58
  being
• 3:58
  a
• 3:58
  housewife,
• 3:59
  people
• 3:59
  automatically
• 4:00
  dismiss
• 4:01
  anything
• 4:01
  you're
• 4:02
  doing.
• 4:03
  There
• 4:03
  goes
• 4:03
  another
• 4:04
  reality
• 4:04
  star
• 4:05
  who
• 4:05
  thinks
• 4:05
  she,
• 4:05
  you
• 4:06
  know,
• 4:06
  this
• 4:07
  people
• 4:07
  love
• 4:07
  to
• 4:07
  underest,
• 4:08
  underestimate.
• 4:09
  But
• 4:09
  now
• 4:09
  it's
• 4:10
  all
• 4:10
  coming
• 4:10
  to
• 4:10
  fruition.
• 4:11
  I'm,
• 4:11
  you
• 4:11
  know,
• 4:12
  you
• 4:12
  can
• 4:12
  be
• 4:13
  a
• 4:13
  TV
• 4:13
  personality
• 4:14
  and
• 4:14
  do
• 4:15
  multiple
• 4:15
  things
• 4:16
  and
• 4:16
  I
• 4:16
  think,
• 4:17
  you
• 4:17
  know,
• 4:17
  back
• 4:17
  in
• 4:17
  the
• 4:17
  day,
• 4:18
  used
• 4:18
  to
• 4:18
  say,
• 4:18
  jack
• 4:19
  of
• 4:19
  all,
• 4:19
  trade,
• 4:19
  master
• 4:20
  of
• 4:20
  none.
• 4:20
  That
• 4:21
  doesn't
• 4:21
  apply
• 4:21
  anymore.
• 4:22
  I
• 4:22
  think,
• 4:22
  you
• 4:23
  know,
• 4:23
  you
• 4:23
  need
• 4:23
  daps.
• 4:24
  I.
• 4:24
  I
• 4:25
  took
• 4:25
  it
• 4:25
  on
• 4:26
  board.
• 4:26
  You
• 4:26
  need
• 4:26
  to
• 4:26
  have
• 4:26
  at
• 4:26
  least
• 4:27
  seven
• 4:27
  businesses
• 4:28
  today
• 4:29
  to
• 4:30
  make
• 4:30
  you
• 4:30
  money
• 4:31
  because
• 4:31
  things
• 4:32
  change
• 4:32
  on
• 4:32
  the,
• 4:33
  you
• 4:33
  know,
• 4:33
  flip
• 4:34
  of
• 4:34
  a
• 4:34
  coin.
• 4:34
  And
• 4:35
  if
• 4:35
  you're
• 4:35
  not
• 4:36
  ready
• 4:36
  or
• 4:37
  if
• 4:37
  you
• 4:37
  put
• 4:37
  all
• 4:37
  your
• 4:37
  eggs
• 4:38
  in
• 4:38
  one
• 4:38
  basket,
• 4:38
  that
• 4:39
  doesn't
• 4:39
  always
• 4:39
  work
• 4:39
  out.
• 4:40
  Yeah,
• 4:40
  that's
• 4:41
  a
• 4:41
  very
• 4:41
  good
• 4:41
  point,
• 4:41
  actually,
• 4:42
  is
• 4:42
  don't
• 4:42
  put
• 4:42
  your
• 4:42
  eggs
• 4:43
  in
• 4:43
  one
• 4:43
  basket,
• 4:43
  especially
• 4:44
  with
• 4:44
  business,
• 4:44
  because
• 4:45
  you're
• 4:45
  right,
• 4:45
  it
• 4:45
  changes
• 4:46
  the
• 4:47
  market,
• 4:47
  changes,
• 4:48
  like,
• 4:48
  everything.
• 4:49
  So
• 4:49
  life
• 4:49
  is.
• 4:50
  Life
• 4:50
  is
• 4:50
  very
• 4:50
  different.
• 4:50
  When
• 4:51
  we
• 4:51
  were
• 4:51
  growing
• 4:51
  up
• 4:52
  and
• 4:52
  people
• 4:52
  told
• 4:52
  you,
• 4:52
  you
• 4:53
  know,
• 4:53
  become
• 4:53
  a
• 4:53
  lawyer,
• 4:54
  become
• 4:54
  a
• 4:54
  doctor,
• 4:54
  do
• 4:55
  all
• 4:55
  that,
• 4:55
  you
• 4:55
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• 4:56
  you
• 4:56
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• 4:56
  have
• 4:56
  what
• 4:56
  we
• 4:57
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• 4:57
  around
• 4:57
  right
• 4:57
  now
• 4:58
  with
• 4:58
  Chat,
• 4:58
  gbt,
• 4:59
  Claude.
• 4:59
  You
• 4:59
  know,
• 5:00
  AI,
• 5:01
  like,
• 5:01
  all
• 5:01
  of
• 5:02
  these
• 5:02
  things
• 5:02
  will
• 5:02
  come
• 5:03
  obsolete.
• 5:03
  You
• 5:03
  better
• 5:04
  know
• 5:04
  how
• 5:04
  to
• 5:04
  do
• 5:04
  different
• 5:05
  things,
• 5:05
  you
• 5:06
  know,
• 5:06
  like
• 5:06
  really
• 5:06
  different
• 5:07
  things.
• 5:07
  So,
• 5:08
  like,
• 5:08
  I've
• 5:09
  always,
• 5:09
  always
• 5:10
  been
• 5:10
  a
• 5:10
  serial
• 5:11
  entrepreneur.
• 5:11
  I've
• 5:12
  done
• 5:12
  loads
• 5:12
  of
• 5:12
  different
• 5:13
  things.
• 5:13
  But
• 5:13
  if
• 5:13
  you
• 5:13
  know
• 5:14
  numbers
• 5:14
  and
• 5:14
  you
• 5:14
  understand
• 5:15
  the
• 5:15
  business,
• 5:16
  you
• 5:16
  can
• 5:16
  do
• 5:16
  any
• 5:17
  business.
• 5:17
  It
• 5:17
  doesn't
• 5:18
  matter
• 5:18
  if
• 5:18
  you
• 5:18
  are
• 5:19
  building
• 5:19
  a
• 5:19
  bank
• 5:20
  or
• 5:21
  building
• 5:21
  a
• 5:21
  yogurt
• 5:22
  company,
• 5:22
  they're
• 5:23
  the
• 5:23
  same
• 5:23
  bloody
• 5:24
  thing.
• 5:24
  In
• 5:24
  the
• 5:24
  end
• 5:24
  of
• 5:24
  the
• 5:25
  day,
• 5:25
  if
• 5:25
  you,
• 5:26
  when
• 5:26
  you
• 5:26
  get
• 5:26
  down
• 5:26
  to
• 5:26
  the.
• 5:27
  Numbers,
• 5:27
  where
• 5:27
  does
• 5:28
  that
• 5:28
  entrepreneurial
• 5:29
  spirit
• 5:29
  come
• 5:30
  from?
• 5:30
  You?
• 5:30
  Is
• 5:30
  it
• 5:30
  something
• 5:31
  you've
• 5:31
  just
• 5:31
  always.
• 5:32
  Always
• 5:32
  had.
• 5:33
  Yeah,
• 5:34
  always
• 5:34
  at
• 5:34
  school.
• 5:35
  I
• 5:35
  just
• 5:35
  wanted
• 5:35
  to
• 5:35
  know.
• 5:36
  I
• 5:36
  think
• 5:36
  I
• 5:36
  went
• 5:36
  to
• 5:36
  boarding
• 5:37
  school.
• 5:37
  I
• 5:37
  wanted,
• 5:38
  you
• 5:38
  know,
• 5:38
  I
• 5:39
  was
• 5:39
  controlled
• 5:39
  by
• 5:40
  my
• 5:40
  allowance,
• 5:40
  my
• 5:41
  parents,
• 5:41
  my
• 5:41
  teachers.
• 5:42
  And
• 5:43
  I
• 5:43
  thought,
• 5:43
  fuck
• 5:43
  this
• 5:43
  shit.
• 5:44
  I'm
• 5:44
  going
• 5:44
  to
• 5:44
  make
• 5:44
  my
• 5:44
  own
• 5:44
  money
• 5:45
  and
• 5:45
  no
• 5:45
  one's
• 5:45
  ever
• 5:45
  going
• 5:46
  to
• 5:46
  tell
• 5:46
  me
• 5:46
  what
• 5:46
  to
• 5:46
  do
• 5:46
  again.
• 5:46
  And
• 5:47
  it
• 5:47
  was
• 5:47
  as
• 5:47
  simple
• 5:47
  as
• 5:47
  that.
• 5:48
  And
• 5:48
  I
• 5:48
  never
• 5:48
  did.
• 5:49
  Right
• 5:50
  now,
• 5:50
  the
• 5:50
  standard
• 5:50
  I
• 5:50
  hold
• 5:51
  for
• 5:51
  my
• 5:51
  life
• 5:51
  is
• 5:52
  blank.
• 5:53
  Oh,
• 5:53
  I
• 5:53
  have
• 5:53
  so
• 5:53
  many
• 5:54
  boundaries.
• 5:55
  Extremely
• 5:56
  high.
• 5:57
  I
• 5:57
  can
• 5:57
  imagine,
• 5:58
  lady.
• 5:58
  Yes.
• 5:59
  Much
• 6:00
  higher
• 6:00
  than
• 6:00
  I
• 6:00
  think
• 6:00
  I've
• 6:01
  ever
• 6:01
  had
• 6:01
  because
• 6:01
  I
• 6:02
  absolutely
• 6:03
  at
• 6:03
  the
• 6:03
  top
• 6:04
  of
• 6:04
  everything
• 6:05
  right
• 6:06
  now.
• 6:06
  So
• 6:06
  if
• 6:07
  it
• 6:07
  doesn't
• 6:07
  work
• 6:08
  for
• 6:08
  me
• 6:08
  or
• 6:08
  it
• 6:08
  doesn't
• 6:09
  bring
• 6:09
  me
• 6:09
  joy,
• 6:10
  Mary
• 6:10
  Kwondo
• 6:11
  says
• 6:11
  it's
• 6:12
  out.
• 6:12
  Life
• 6:13
  is
• 6:13
  too
• 6:13
  short,
• 6:13
  you
• 6:13
  know,
• 6:14
  Friendships
• 6:14
  too.
• 6:15
  Yeah,
• 6:15
  friendships.
• 6:16
  That's
• 6:16
  a
• 6:16
  thing.
• 6:17
  Especially
• 6:17
  now.
• 6:18
  I
• 6:18
  mean,
• 6:19
  shedding
• 6:20
  the
• 6:20
  baggage.
• 6:21
  It
• 6:21
  doesn't
• 6:21
  make
• 6:22
  sense
• 6:22
  to
• 6:22
  carry
• 6:22
  a
• 6:23
  friendship
• 6:23
  that
• 6:23
  is
• 6:23
  toxic.
• 6:25
  Especially
• 6:25
  now,
• 6:26
  right?
• 6:29
  Oh
• 6:29
  yeah,
• 6:29
  I'm
• 6:30
  shedding.
• 6:30
  Like
• 6:30
  I'm
• 6:31
  shedding
• 6:31
  very
• 6:31
  fast
• 6:32
  right
• 6:33
  now.
• 6:33
  And
• 6:33
  I'm
• 6:33
  not
• 6:34
  that
• 6:34
  upset
• 6:34
  about
• 6:34
  it.
• 6:35
  For
• 6:35
  25
• 6:36
  year
• 6:36
  old
• 6:37
  Caroline,
• 6:37
  what
• 6:37
  advice.
• 6:38
  Would
• 6:38
  you
• 6:38
  give
• 6:38
  her
• 6:39
  not
• 6:39
  to
• 6:39
  take
• 6:39
  life
• 6:39
  so
• 6:40
  seriously?
• 6:40
  To
• 6:41
  slow
• 6:41
  down?
• 6:42
  I
• 6:42
  think
• 6:42
  I
• 6:42
  was
• 6:43
  in
• 6:43
  such
• 6:43
  a
• 6:43
  rush
• 6:43
  to
• 6:44
  grow
• 6:44
  up,
• 6:46
  I
• 6:46
  really
• 6:46
  wanted
• 6:47
  to
• 6:47
  be
• 6:47
  the
• 6:47
  next
• 6:47
  net,
• 6:48
  a
• 6:48
  porter
• 6:48
  and
• 6:49
  to,
• 6:49
  you
• 6:49
  know,
• 6:50
  raise
• 6:50
  all
• 6:50
  that
• 6:50
  money.
• 6:51
  And
• 6:51
  I,
• 6:51
  you
• 6:51
  know,
• 6:52
  took
• 6:52
  on
• 6:53
  all
• 6:53
  these
• 6:54
  staff
• 6:54
  and
• 6:54
  I
• 6:55
  just,
• 6:55
  you
• 6:55
  know,
• 6:55
  I
• 6:56
  was
• 6:56
  running
• 6:56
  around
• 6:56
  like
• 6:57
  a
• 6:57
  lunatic,
• 6:57
  which
• 6:57
  I
• 6:58
  still
• 6:58
  do,
• 6:58
  but
• 6:58
  I
• 6:59
  do
• 6:59
  it
• 6:59
  much
• 6:59
  more,
• 7:00
  as
• 7:00
  you
• 7:00
  said,
• 7:00
  intentionally
• 7:01
  now.
• 7:01
  And
• 7:02
  I'm
• 7:02
  creating
• 7:03
  this
• 7:03
  life
• 7:03
  where
• 7:03
  I
• 7:04
  know
• 7:04
  that,
• 7:04
  you
• 7:04
  know,
• 7:05
  this
• 7:05
  project
• 7:05
  will
• 7:05
  pay
• 7:06
  this
• 7:06
  project
• 7:06
  which
• 7:07
  will
• 7:07
  pay
• 7:07
  for
• 7:07
  the
• 7:07
  rest
• 7:08
  of
• 7:08
  my
• 7:08
  life
• 7:08
  so
• 7:08
  that
• 7:08
  I
• 7:09
  can
• 7:09
  retire
• 7:10
  and
• 7:10
  be
• 7:11
  peaceful
• 7:11
  and
• 7:12
  I,
• 7:12
  instead
• 7:12
  of
• 7:13
  rushing
• 7:13
  around
• 7:13
  all
• 7:13
  the
• 7:14
  time,
• 7:14
  time.
• 7:14
  Now
• 7:14
  I'm
• 7:15
  enjoying
• 7:15
  my
• 7:15
  holidays
• 7:16
  with
• 7:16
  my
• 7:16
  children.
• 7:16
  I'm
• 7:17
  going
• 7:17
  away
• 7:17
  next
• 7:17
  week
• 7:18
  with
• 7:18
  my
• 7:18
  husband.
• 7:18
  I
• 7:19
  will,
• 7:19
  you
• 7:20
  know,
• 7:20
  not
• 7:20
  look
• 7:20
  at
• 7:21
  my
• 7:21
  phone
• 7:21
  all
• 7:21
  day
• 7:21
  and
• 7:22
  I
• 7:22
  will,
• 7:22
  you
• 7:23
  know,
• 7:23
  run
• 7:24
  into
• 7:24
  the
• 7:24
  water
• 7:24
  and
• 7:25
  snog
• 7:25
  him
• 7:26
  for
• 7:26
  hours
• 7:26
  and,
• 7:27
  you
• 7:27
  know,
• 7:27
  have
• 7:28
  the
• 7:28
  most
• 7:28
  magical
• 7:29
  time
• 7:29
  that
• 7:29
  I
• 7:29
  would
• 7:29
  not
• 7:30
  have
• 7:30
  had
• 7:30
  time
• 7:30
  to
• 7:30
  do
• 7:31
  before
• 7:31
  or
• 7:31
  wanted
• 7:31
  to
• 7:32
  do
• 7:32
  before
• 7:32
  because
• 7:32
  I
• 7:32
  was
• 7:33
  just
• 7:33
  so
• 7:34
  in
• 7:34
  love
• 7:34
  with
• 7:34
  making
• 7:35
  money
• 7:35
  and
• 7:35
  like
• 7:36
  building
• 7:36
  what
• 7:36
  I
• 7:36
  was
• 7:37
  building.
• 7:37
  And
• 7:37
  you
• 7:37
  know,
• 7:38
  ultimately
• 7:39
  when
• 7:39
  I
• 7:39
  lost
• 7:39
  my
• 7:39
  business,
• 7:40
  I've
• 7:40
  learned
• 7:41
  that,
• 7:41
  that
• 7:42
  sometimes
• 7:42
  you
• 7:42
  don't
• 7:43
  get
• 7:43
  what
• 7:43
  you
• 7:43
  are.
• 7:44
  You
• 7:44
  know,
• 7:44
  what
• 7:44
  you
• 7:44
  need
• 7:45
  is.
• 7:45
  Right?
• 7:45
  You
• 7:45
  don't
• 7:45
  get
• 7:45
  what
• 7:46
  you
• 7:46
  want.
• 7:46
  You
• 7:46
  get
• 7:46
  what
• 7:46
  you
• 7:46
  need.
• 7:47
  And
• 7:47
  that
• 7:48
  happened
• 7:48
  to
• 7:48
  me,
• 7:48
  I
• 7:49
  believe,
• 7:49
  to
• 7:49
  make
• 7:50
  me
• 7:50
  a
• 7:50
  much
• 7:50
  nicer,
• 7:51
  softer
• 7:51
  human
• 7:51
  and
• 7:52
  to
• 7:52
  realize
• 7:52
  that
• 7:53
  actually
• 7:53
  that
• 7:53
  wasn't
• 7:53
  my
• 7:54
  path.
• 7:54
  I
• 7:54
  don't
• 7:54
  want
• 7:55
  to
• 7:55
  be
• 7:55
  the
• 7:55
  CEO
• 7:56
  of
• 7:56
  a
• 7:56
  hundred
• 7:57
  million
• 7:57
  dollar
• 7:59
  business.
• 7:59
  I
• 7:59
  want
• 8:00
  to
• 8:00
  be
• 8:00
  the
• 8:00
  CEO
• 8:00
  of
• 8:01
  my
• 8:01
  world
• 8:01
  that
• 8:02
  is
• 8:02
  like,
• 8:02
  oh,
• 8:03
  you
• 8:03
  know,
• 8:03
  my
• 8:04
  little
• 8:04
  pink
• 8:04
  golf
• 8:05
  cart,
• 8:05
  my
• 8:05
  husband,
• 8:06
  my
• 8:06
  kids,
• 8:07
  my
• 8:08
  pink
• 8:08
  Bentley
• 8:08
  going
• 8:09
  around
• 8:09
  town
• 8:09
  like
• 8:10
  I
• 8:10
  love
• 8:10
  it.
• 8:10
  That's
• 8:11
  it.
• 8:11
  I'm
• 8:11
  happy.
• 8:12
  Do
• 8:12
  you
• 8:12
  have
• 8:13
  any
• 8:13
  regrets?
• 8:14
  No.
• 8:14
  God,
• 8:14
  no.
• 8:15
  Never
• 8:15
  regret,
• 8:15
  never
• 8:16
  look
• 8:16
  back.
• 8:17
  Once
• 8:17
  it's
• 8:17
  over,
• 8:17
  it's
• 8:18
  over.
• 8:18
  No.
• 8:19
  What
• 8:19
  is
• 8:19
  the
• 8:19
  biggest
• 8:20
  lesson
• 8:20
  you've
• 8:20
  learned
• 8:20
  in
• 8:21
  midlife?
• 8:22
  The
• 8:22
  boundaries
• 8:22
  are
• 8:23
  super
• 8:23
  important.
• 8:23
  Stop
• 8:24
  being
• 8:24
  used
• 8:24
  by
• 8:25
  people.
• 8:26
  I
• 8:26
  think
• 8:26
  has
• 8:26
  been
• 8:27
  a
• 8:27
  big
• 8:27
  one.
• 8:27
  Would
• 8:28
  you
• 8:28
  have
• 8:28
  considered
• 8:28
  yourself
• 8:28
  a
• 8:29
  people
• 8:29
  pleaser
• 8:29
  before?
• 8:30
  Yes.
• 8:31
  Oh,
• 8:32
  yeah,
• 8:33
  many
• 8:33
  times.
• 8:33
  Especially
• 8:34
  because
• 8:34
  everybody,
• 8:35
  you
• 8:36
  know,
• 8:36
  you
• 8:36
  feel
• 8:36
  you
• 8:36
  owe
• 8:37
  it
• 8:37
  to
• 8:37
  people
• 8:38
  to
• 8:38
  be
• 8:38
  extra
• 8:38
  nice
• 8:39
  because
• 8:39
  I
• 8:39
  think,
• 8:39
  you
• 8:40
  know,
• 8:40
  you're
• 8:40
  well
• 8:41
  known
• 8:41
  and
• 8:41
  so
• 8:42
  you
• 8:42
  just
• 8:42
  do
• 8:42
  things
• 8:42
  as
• 8:43
  favors.
• 8:43
  And
• 8:43
  I've
• 8:44
  realized,
• 8:44
  you
• 8:44
  know.
• 8:46
  No.
• 8:46
  Yeah.
• 8:47
  That.
• 8:48
  Thank
• 8:48
  you
• 8:48
  for
• 8:48
  having
• 8:49
  me.