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AI #3: The AI Girlfriend On The Credit Card Statement | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep490 · Morrow Marriage | Disrupting Divorce

• 0:00
  SPEAKER_00: The AI girlfriend on the credit card statement.
• 0:03
  SPEAKER_01: I'm so excited to hear what this is about.
• 0:05
  SPEAKER_00: Meredith.
• 0:06
  SPEAKER_00: The number one relationship hack.
• 0:08
  SPEAKER_00: Answer the question.
• 0:10
  SPEAKER_00: The impact that impacts trust.
• 0:12
  SPEAKER_00: Getting your partner on board.
• 0:14
  SPEAKER_00: The AI girlfriend on the credit card statement.
• 0:17
  SPEAKER_01: I am so excited to hear what this is about.
• 0:19
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Mario March podcast, guys.
• 0:21
  SPEAKER_00: And again, searching Reddit, uh, specifically of marriage and AI.
• 0:24
  SPEAKER_00: And oh my god.
• 0:26
  SPEAKER_00: So they're getting divorced.
• 0:28
  SPEAKER_00: And after the divorce is filed, man, for I think 16 months has, which I'm not even sure that's possible.
• 0:36
  SPEAKER_00: Like I don't think AI was really moving 16 months ago.
• 0:39
  SPEAKER_02: Oh yes, it was.
• 0:40
  SPEAKER_00: Not as to the extent for a girlfriend.
• 0:43
  SPEAKER_00: Like to be loving enough to have an AI girlfriend.
• 0:46
  SPEAKER_00: I don't know what program it was.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't care enough to know the details, but like, nor do I want to talk about it and support it.
• 0:51
  SPEAKER_00: But like weird.
• 0:52
  SPEAKER_00: Guys, we have a bigger problem.
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: If we have people now publicly, and now it's it goes it's going viral, which means it's a big enough trend.
• 1:01
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, there's enough people aware to have this article on Reddit go viral.
• 1:06
  SPEAKER_00: Okay?
• 1:07
  SPEAKER_00: We have a bigger problem.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_00: We used to worry about like uh dating sites.
• 1:12
  SPEAKER_00: We still do.
• 1:13
  SPEAKER_00: We worry about uh video games and people building relationships accidentally playing a game.
• 1:18
  SPEAKER_00: We worry about the Starbucks lineup and the people you see every single day.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_00: We were with the office and the co-workers, but now we have, and this is a man, I'm sure it's probably both, because we talked about a woman in the last episode talking to AI, right?
• 1:32
  SPEAKER_00: But now we have a man, publicly we're talking about this, and people are supporting or fighting, hopefully fighting, who's developed a loving relationship with an AI.
• 1:45
  SPEAKER_00: First of all, I know that there's maybe you don't know this, maybe you need to know this.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_00: There's there's these sex robots that are out now that I think are AI, I don't know.
• 1:54
  SPEAKER_00: But there's some like really weird fucking things going down, okay?
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_00: But now we're talking about developing a relationship with a computer.
• 2:08
  SPEAKER_00: Understanding the last episode, how it's only gonna love you and validate you.
• 2:12
  SPEAKER_00: Shit, I've been putting out reels where I've been I've been like if a narcissist dated Chat GBT, they didn't really go anywhere.
• 2:19
  SPEAKER_00: I thought they'd be kind of funny, but they they didn't.
• 2:21
  SPEAKER_00: But my point was this like you can if you would have heard what happened after I did my narkout on the on the pretend narcout on the AI, it goes back to loving you hard, man.
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_00: Like in other words, crazy people, which you have to be if you have an AI girlfriend or boyfriend, let's get fucking real.
• 2:40
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, but like crazy people or angry people or narcissists, people with chemical imbalances, we're going to start seeing them getting worse because they're supporting bad behavior with a fucking computer.
• 2:56
  SPEAKER_00: We're also gonna see more people getting hurt because of this kind of decision that their spouse is doing on them.
• 3:04
  SPEAKER_00: Think about this.
• 3:04
  SPEAKER_00: This woman's devastated, the rug got pulled out as part of her story.
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, that's kind of what everybody thinks for some fucking reason.
• 3:11
  SPEAKER_00: We've just seen it over and over again, especially men, the rug gets pulled out.
• 3:15
  SPEAKER_00: I didn't think it was that bad.
• 3:17
  SPEAKER_00: But think about that, being at that low in that rock bottom, and then finding out your partner's verbally fucking an AI.
• 3:24
  SPEAKER_02: That's disgusting.
• 3:25
  SPEAKER_00: Like, what in the fuck are people creating?
• 3:27
  SPEAKER_00: This is a bigger problem.
• 3:29
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I don't know if it was legalized in the US, but a guy was at least acquitted for sending pornography to a minor, I think 13 or might have been 15, and was acquitted because he was just telling them how to make porn with AI.
• 3:47
  SPEAKER_00: No jail time.
• 3:48
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my gosh.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_00: What in the flying fuck are we allowing here, people?
• 3:53
  SPEAKER_02: My goodness.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_00: So if you're not paying attention to these kinds of things, I think that you need to.
• 3:57
  SPEAKER_00: Because if we don't understand that these things are fucking with marriage, and this is a brand new version, then you are not going to move your marriage forward.
• 4:08
  SPEAKER_00: Now here's the problem: you will be a victim if your spouse is having an affair with an AI.
• 4:14
  SPEAKER_00: But it is the exact same thing.
• 4:17
  SPEAKER_00: The same disconnection exists in your marriage, whether it's a person or not.
• 4:20
  SPEAKER_00: When we talk about physical versus emotional, it's the exact same thing.
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  SPEAKER_02: Porn versus actual physical affair.
• 4:26
  SPEAKER_00: Correct.
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  SPEAKER_00: Betrayal is the same.
• 4:28
  SPEAKER_02: All a form of the same thing.
• 4:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yes.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_02: Just people want to justify it because they have different boundaries for themselves.
• 4:36
  SPEAKER_00: That's right.
• 4:36
  SPEAKER_00: But now think about some of the last two episodes, some of the things we talked about.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_00: Think about how this wife, the rug got pulled out, finds out about the 16 months or whatever it was of relationship this person is paying for, her husband, or could be ex-husband, and and think about how now they are going to amplify and justify why they're getting a divorce.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, porn, I somebody challenged me recently.
• 5:01
  SPEAKER_00: I remember reading porn was cited on 70% of divorce papers.
• 5:05
  SPEAKER_00: But um, regardless, it's a big number, okay?
• 5:09
  SPEAKER_00: And but now think about this.
• 5:11
  SPEAKER_00: So we take that information when we find this stuff out and we use that to build ourselves up.
• 5:17
  SPEAKER_00: This is the problem I have with it.
• 5:18
  SPEAKER_00: None of that for a second.
• 5:19
  SPEAKER_00: Take a break from everything we've talked about so far.
• 5:21
  SPEAKER_00: What's going to happen in your next relationship?
• 5:23
  SPEAKER_00: You're gonna be insecure, you're gonna be concerned, you're going to talk yourself up and talk about them being so bad, and you're never gonna be a part of your solution.
• 5:32
  SPEAKER_00: And so you're gonna repeat your same patterns.
• 5:34
  SPEAKER_00: Oh no, no, Cass, it's not normal.
• 5:36
  SPEAKER_00: Most people wouldn't fuck around with an AI and have a relationship.
• 5:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you're right.
• 5:40
  SPEAKER_00: Most people wouldn't fuck sheep, but you know what?
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_00: If you look at statistics, it's pretty bad with how many people think about andor make out or love to an animal.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my god.
• 5:50
  SPEAKER_00: Like it's fucking gross.
• 5:51
  SPEAKER_00: It's gross.
• 5:52
  SPEAKER_00: What was the thing with the police like way back years ago you were talking about?
• 5:55
  SPEAKER_02: The story that I told you?
• 5:56
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 5:56
  SPEAKER_02: Oh.
• 5:57
  SPEAKER_02: So I worked for a police officer at one point, um, and she was telling a group of us that they have to do, like, I think it's a lie detector test, and then they do an interview.
• 6:07
  SPEAKER_02: And very early on in the interview, a lot of them admit to having sex with a sheep, for example.
• 6:13
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm pretty sure she said that pretty much like at that point the interview should be over because and then she said that they'll just continue to divulge and the interview will go two hours.
• 6:22
  SPEAKER_02: And she said she wants to just say, dude, your interview was over one hour and 45 minutes ago.
• 6:26
  SPEAKER_02: Like, why did you continue?
• 6:27
  SPEAKER_02: Like, you you are already a no 15 minutes in, and they she said you would be blown away with the things that people tell you in this police interview that don't become police.
• 6:36
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, this is what this is what I'm saying, is I I want you to be really way too common the stuff that they find out.
• 6:41
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, things are far too common.
• 6:42
  SPEAKER_00: It's like I was coaching some guys the other day, uh, and and one of the men was like, really, but but like she's still bringing up my porn from way back when, and blah, blah, blah, blah.
• 6:52
  SPEAKER_00: And she doesn't want me, that's also filtered over to him trying to educate his children, and and and his uh wife is like, I want to I want to protect the innocence of our daughter right now, especially our daughter.
• 7:03
  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, but dude, like you need to continue to lead her in the way that you're thinking right now, because your daughter is being exposed to porn at a very young age.
• 7:11
  SPEAKER_00: Some of you guys don't realize how serious some of these things are.
• 7:14
  SPEAKER_00: And so I'm just telling you this, not because this is anything to do with AI, but because people are doing weird fucking shit because the world is going to shit.
• 7:21
  SPEAKER_00: This weird ass stuff is happening, and if we don't start addressing it in a healthy way, non-judgmental, but more love and help and understanding, all of these people making these kinds of mistakes or finding something they need, like this AI relationship, are all people that were hurt that you would care for if it was a child, but now because they're hurting you, you don't care.
• 7:44
  SPEAKER_00: So stop being a victim.
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_00: Start figuring out how you broke it.
• 7:47
  SPEAKER_00: Stop start start figuring out how you enabled it.
• 7:49
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm not saying that they didn't hurt you.
• 7:52
  SPEAKER_00: I hurt Catherine a lot.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_00: Very, very badly.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_00: But what she's getting known for is the fact that she stopped being a victim, no matter how I hurt her.
• 8:02
  SPEAKER_00: Some of you need to think of it the same way.
• 8:04
  SPEAKER_00: Otherwise, your stupid post wouldn't be going out for the wrong reasons.
• 8:09
  SPEAKER_00: The post about your husband having this to the to the lady, if you ever find this, who posted on Reddit, your post should be going out to finding out how we can help people like that.
• 8:19
  SPEAKER_00: Not trying to fucking make yourself a victim.
• 8:23
  SPEAKER_00: Disgusting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Alright, we'll see you next time.