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I attracted The Wrong Patients in My Practice...It's My Fault. · Health, Life & What’s Next

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  manifested, attracted and worked with the one patient in my practice for the past three years.
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  And it is my fault.
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  you are listening.
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  Listening to the prepared patient podcast with Dr.
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  Jennifer GNC, where we discuss what it really takes to heal your body.
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  With the symbol tools we source is a mindset to get you there.
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  I am determined to show you the reality of navigating the medical space as a patient caregiver and loved ones.
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  So you can be empowered and take back the most precious and important asset of your life, which is your health.
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  Let's get ready.
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  Comfortable and get started Hello, healers.
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  Welcome back to the podcast.
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  This episode is going to be completely different than the ones that are usually recorded, because this is not about the patients about me and my partner is what I've been going through.
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  And I decided to record this podcast for multiple, multiple reasons.
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  Reason number one.
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  You as a patient of mine or prospective patients, you've seen the communications taking place internally in my practice, have I have to change my policies, my procedures, we had to really, enforce some boundaries and limitations.
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  We've changed a lot.
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  We've made a lot of changes.
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  So in the past six months, And you probably wondering what's going on with Dr.
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  Jensie, what's going on with the one that's going to NJ.
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  And I felt like I need to really do this.
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  Podcast to get it off my chest to kind of explain to you.
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  How many of us doctors are going through a lot.
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  Of issues, challenges and obstacles in our practice.
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  And we don't feel like we should talk about it, why we don't want to be judged.
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  We don't want to be viewed and seen as week.
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  As a practitioner, as a doctor, patients are looking at us as the scone ones.
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  Like we don't have feelings, we don't have emotions.
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  Everything's going well for us.
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  Which is not true.
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  If you are seeing what's going on in the medical world right now that does a live in the practice that doesn't get him.
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  Major depression and anxiety.
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  I know for me, I suffered with depression anxiety for multiple, multiple, multiple years, because I didn't know that's what it was coming from.
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  a different culture.
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  We are not supposed to talk about our depression and anxiety.
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  We're supposed to go through it and don't get help.
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  So I've worked on that.
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  I'm still having a bit of anxiety.
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  But that's okay.
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  I'm working on that.
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  Anxiety is going to be with us.
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  For ever.
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  We just have to know how to manage it.
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  There are different levels of anxiety.
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  There's different levels of depression.
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  Life is not about happiness.
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  A hundred percent is 50, 50, 50%.
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  Good.
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  And 50% bed.
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  And another reason why I wanted to record this podcast besides, you know, letting you know that doctors are human beings.
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  I know like you.
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  That does that feelings, emotions, and we have challenges and obstacles is to really bring you behind the scenes.
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  If you're looking at this and you're a business owner.
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  You can relate to what I'm going to say.
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  If you're looking at this, you are, you have a type, a personality, and you're passionate about what you do and knew what good for people you want the world.
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  To really see all the possibilities, then you understand what I'm going to talk about, so there are three groups of people.
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  Listening to this group one again, you'll see me as a weakness.
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  You're like, okay, this is not my doctor.
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  She's why she talking about this?
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  Why she verbalized in this issue?
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  They should be kept privately.
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  Your patients are not supposed to know about this.
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  And group number two.
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  You're going to look at this as, okay.
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  She's too long.
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  She is putting this issue out there to help other people to better herself, to better her practice.
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  Therefore, the community is going to receive a happy.
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  Healthy mentally and physically, and also emotionally healthy.
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  Dr.
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  So therefore she'll be there for her patients.
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  And group number three, you're going to look at this interest.
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  George.
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  You're going to judge.
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  You're going to, you know, click off this podcast.
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  You're going to move on with your life for all three groups.
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  I love you.
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  I thank you for your support and understand this is not the podcast for everybody.
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  I am not for everybody.
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  At the end of the day, I am.
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  Passionate about what I do.
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  I love what I do.
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  I believe you can heal your body.
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  Different ways.
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  So therefore I have a different philosophy.
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  I see life differently as they have differently.
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  And I am not for everybody.
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  Now, disclaimer, this is not a podcast to batch my patients, to judge them, to criticize them, to blame them.
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  This is a bad case of me owning, When taking ownership of my responsibilities and how I went about practicing.
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  And because of that, I suffered with depression.
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  I, I know I wasn't practicing In my zone of genius, I felt like I was really in a place of convincing people because I wanted so badly for them to heal themselves for them to see all the things out there, all the options, and for them to make a better decision and also opening up my practice is not a way of me to fix an issue.
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  Medical injustice.
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  That is huge in our world.
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  And I felt like by practicing the way I practice.
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  And by opening my door to all different various type of people.
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  I can do that as well.
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  Well in this corner, NG has been open for the past six years.
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  The formation was done.
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  March.
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  Of 2018.
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  So now at six years, but we've been open for a long time.
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  As a practitioner, as many of you guys know my.
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  History.
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  Of healing, my body, and I helped, you know, family members held the bodies.
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  And I know, I know the healing power of herbs.
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  I know the damaging effect of medications and surgeries.
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  And quick fixes and shortcuts and all of that stuff.
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  And I took it upon myself to practice the unconventional way with that comes a lot of.
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  Difficulties and challenges, which I walk on.
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  Now.
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  Has the title said I attracted the one patients.
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  So this is what happened in my practice.
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  I have love for every body.
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  I love every single human being that walked into my parties.
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  At the same time, because I love them all.
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  I know they can get off the medications if that's what they choose to do, the gas, the bloat, the energy issues can be resolved, because of my love for people, my love for healing, and I love what I do.
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  I love to my core, to my soul being a functional medicine doctor.
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  I love learning about new herbs, new supplements, new ways of filling nobodies.
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  I have years of expertise.
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  I have years of experiences I've help inhaled.
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  So many, many, many, people.
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  In this past six years, and when you know something, you feel like the whole world should know about it.
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  You feel like you should help all the people that are looking for a different solution, a better solution, and they should have options in front of them.
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  Because of that, I went on a journey of really working with anybody.
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  But what I'm realizing, working with everybody.
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  And anybody is not a good thing.
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  Because people will come to me and knowing that I have caring, nature.
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  I can give and giving, giving, people take and take and take.
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  For instance, like this is a previous thing that just happened.
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  We had a patient that reach out to us.
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  We did a consultation.
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  Consultation is$430.
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  The patient was expected to have.
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  Protocol.
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  For$430.
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  My consultations, which is way cheaper than what the insurance is covering right now is$430 for two office visit.
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  So the first office visit, we talk about what's going on.
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  I gave you a lot of scope and then the second office visit, we go over the results.
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  But people expect them because of they pay in money and my services are not covered by insurance.
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  They can have the whole world.
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  They should be having that consultation.
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  The follow-up unlimited access to me.
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  They questions being answered right away.
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  And they get mad.
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  And have my supplements, like a protocol that people pay.
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  Thousands of dollars for, they should also have an included in the$430.
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  So we had an issue where the lady was very upset and decided to, you know, threaten us and going to do this.
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  And under that, and that kind of really opened up my eyes to say, okay, this is not right.
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  Because I am there for my patients that understand.
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  And value my services.
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  I am there for my patients that we really in and ready to take actions into the work.
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  And for the past three years, we've been having a mixture of all the one people in our practice.
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  And because I want for them to heal the bodies, because I feel like since they've seen so many practitioners and I might be one person that could literally have them change their lives.
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  So I go above and beyond and I feel like I'm convincing, I'm begging them.
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  I'm pleading with them.
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  Please take care of your house.
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  Please do this.
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  Please do that.
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  And they take that for.
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  For granted and kind of use our practice.
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  So I created a list of people that have been attracted to my non ideal patient.
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  Again, this is not to bash anyone.
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  Fall in these, characteristics, I'm not batching, I'm not blaming you.
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  Thanking you because, of that, we have made so many changes in our practice.
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  Don't understand this cartel.
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  And you don't believe, agree with them.
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  That's okay.
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  Because I know this podcast can also trigger many people as well, but just like I track this so many.
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  Wrong.
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  None.
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  Ideal patients also have beautiful, beautiful, so crushing wonderful patients in my practice as well.
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  I have couples.
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  I have.
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  Two couples I'm thinking of now they know who they are.
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  Listen to the podcast.
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  I love them.
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  I love my patients.
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  I have a few young ladies in my parties that I love.
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  So I attracted.
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  Wonderful people.
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  And that also attracted.
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  The Wong people.
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  It's a mixture just like life is 50 50.
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  These are the people I've been, working with.
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  They don't believe in natural medicine.
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  Doesn't believe that healing is possible.
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  And they think by taking the medication.
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  It's really helping the symptoms.
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  Now it might be Auntie why, they talking to you?
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  What it's all contained because they want to get off the medications.
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  And the medications are creating side effects, but different symptoms they used to have, for instance, with diabetes.
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  Metformin is creating stomach issues.
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  Glyburide is creating stomach issues.
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  But when they look at the hemoglobin A1C or the glucose, those numbers can be decreased.
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  So they think the medication is helping them.
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  When in fact.
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  Medication is not.
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  So these are the people.
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  So what I do, I am convinced in them.
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  I'm telling them, please, you have to make sure that you get off this medication because that's why your liver is failing.
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  Your kidneys is when.
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  That's why you have so many inflammation.
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  That's why your neck is hurting.
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  Your back is hurting.
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  Your bones are hurting.
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  You need to get off the medication.
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  So on and so forth.
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  And also they are looking for quick fixes, quick fixes is not a thing.
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  If you suffer with any health.
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  Issues or elements four months is gonna take you years to completely restore the function of your body.
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  When you walk with me in three months, six months, we take you to a state from disease to.
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  Wellness, we stabilize your body, but we're not completely healing you in three months.
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  This is not realistic.
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  Again, my fault.
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  I had to explain that to them and I didn't do a good job about that.
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  So I'm taking ownership.
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  I am taking the full responsibility of everything that I'm discussing today.
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  We have lack of agency to make decisions, meaning that they need someone else to make that decision for them.
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  This is going to be huge.
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  The statement right there for many of you, because I know many of you depends on your spouse to give you the permission to spend money on your health.
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  But what you have to understand is when you spend money on new.
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  You are your best investment, your home will be a happier home.
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  Your children will be, we see a happy individual, your spouse.
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  Was he a happy person.
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  We get on this natural heading assessment call, but then you have to go ask your spouse for the money.
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  I want to work with people.
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  They know what they want.
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  Even if they have to check with the spouse to make sure the fund is there.
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  Of course, you need to tell your spouse.
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  Going on, but the final decision is yours.
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  And is your body, your health, as long as you finding the right practitioner and that practitioner is a good fit for you.
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  Just talk to your spouse and say, Hey, I've been suffering the stomach issue for years.
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  I'm thinking to get healthy so that our relationship can grow and flourish.
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  That's another issue, a lot of those, and I'm like, okay.
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  Well, go ahead.
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  Talk to your spouse and then a year from now, you're still suffering.
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  Another, type of people we've been attracting.
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  They are trapping, they stories and circumstances, and they don't want to let go of the past.
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  I understand you've seen so many doctors, you have trauma.
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  You have PTSD.
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  Me too.
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  You know how many times I have to invest masterminds and programs and coaching and I got no results.
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  I learned from that.
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  I move on.
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  I learned to better have discernment to better choose my next coach and to really do my due diligence and work to see if that person is.
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  Best fit for me.
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  I offer it for my patients to talk to any of my patients.
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  Like I have patients that will get on the phone with you and say, Hey, yes, I work with Dr.
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  Jensi.
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  I paid her tons of money and I get a result.
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  That's the work you need to do.
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  Look at your views because of my services are not covered by insurance, so I'm not making this up.
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  When somebody gives you, if you're on Google, Google verifies, it is a true human being.
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  It's not me using a different IP address.
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  They are not ready to let go of the past.
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  They are not realistic with the work that is required.
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  Oh my God.
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  We find ourselves chasing patients right now.
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  They pay money.
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  They are not answering our weekly.
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  Check-ins.
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  They just Mia.
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  We have to chase them.
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  And these are the people that are coming back and say, Hey, I work with you three months ago, life happened I'm back.
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  I still have the stomach issues.
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  I still have this as they have that.
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  I want my money back if you enroll in a program for three four months I'm expecting, that's what you want.
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  That is priority, you're going to show up for yourself and you're going to do the work.
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  Because I'm going to show up for you.
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  I'm putting my self on the line for you.
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  Ruling for you, right?
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  So you should do the same.
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  So they go Mia, it's like they don't trust in themselves.
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  Then a lot of handholding,.
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  I'm giving her the tools I'm giving the new sources, but I can not cook the food for you.
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  So if there's a, an ingredient in one of the recipes that I give you, that doesn't resonate with, you.
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  Change it.
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  If God has given me stomach issues and wants you to believe in yourself so you can make the right decision.
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  Because garlic is not bad for every human being.
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  It is too powerful for you.
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  Trusting that you move the ingredients as causing the stomach issue.
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  Very simple, but people don't believe in themselves.
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  Right.
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  They give the power away.
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  You can do so many things.
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  You don't need approval from anybody else.
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  You just need the right guidance, we source is support, accountability.
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  Somebody that's going to be there for you when you need that person.
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  Not somebody that's going to hold your hands.
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  And then you depend on that person for every single decision-making.
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  They are super inconsistent.
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  They don't show up for themselves.
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  They don't prioritize our services.
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  They cancel last minute, we had a lot of that in the last six months.
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  Specifically with the Ivy vitamin therapy.
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  We'll make the bag and people will call last minute and cancel.
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  You have to be responsible for your actions.
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  So I feel like some, patients do not take out services seriously.
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  They will cancel our services to go see a primary care doctor.
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  That's going to give him a pill or medication.
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  And I don't understand.
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  But yet you come to me for help, To me.
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  That's a disrespect.
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  Don't come to me.
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  If you're not going to value my services.
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  My health because I'm here for you hundred percent so another type of patients we've been attracting, they are so busy.
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  They don't have time to meal prep.
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  They don't have time to grocery shop.
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  They don't have that time to do anything to follow any recommendations.
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  Life happens.
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  Well guess what life would continue to happen.
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  That's how you continue to stay sick.
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  This is true.
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  Again, so many people are going to get triggered in this podcast, and I'm not gonna apologize because this is the truth.
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  We live in a world that is sick people, and it's going to get worse.
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  That does live in medicine.
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  This world that we live in is going to get worse.
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  People going to get sicker and sicker and sicker and sicker.
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  That is why pharmaceutical companies are puking out.
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  It's zillion medications to help those people that are not prioritizing the health.
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  So when we get sick, we ended up in the hospital.
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  What's going to be the priority now.
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  That's when you're fighting for your life.
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  That's when things get so bad, now you have to wheelie create the time.
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  They pay a fee and a typical functional medicine package is$10,000.
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  You paid 4,000, 3,006,000.
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  And I realize sometimes it takes time to heal and that's.
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  Okay.
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  I'm willing to work with my patients to get them to a place.
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  Where they can establish themselves as long as they do in the part.
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  And then let them go.
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  Because our services are not covered by insurance.
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  And it's not just me.
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  It's all holistic integrated functional medicine, if my services was covered by insurance, then I'll be having so many people and we'll have a big impact the world you pay money and you get the result that I promise you, or that we work together.
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  Don't pay a fee and expect all your issues to go away in three, four months.
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  We are faced every day with toxins, viruses, your environment may be toxic.
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  So don't expect miracles.
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  I don't create miracles.
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  They're afraid of taking the supplements.
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  Now, why would I give you something to hurt you?
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  One thing you have to understand.
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  Natural medicine is safer.
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  Then the medications that you're taking right now.
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  Functional medicine is safer than conventional medicine.
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  What is the most common side effects you can get from something I give is detox reaction.
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  That's it.
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  I promise you, there's nothing I'm doing to your body.
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  That's going to kill you.
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  But we live in the wall where we saw afraid every little aches and pains.
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  We have, we, scared.
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  No, let your body do.
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  What it's supposed to do.
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  And just be patient.
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  So much resistance.
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  I have patients right now that are not taking the herbs that I give them because they're afraid.
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  I'm like, what are you afraid about?
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  I'm here.
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  Maybe I didn't do a good job explaining to you.
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  So just tell me that.
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  So, Dr.
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  Jensi, I'm still confused.
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  I don't know what I'm doing.
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  I am an open book.
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  I am here to help you.
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  So do not be afraid.
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  This is the people we've been working with.
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  And I attract them.
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  I let them in my world.
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  This is my fault.
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  I should have.
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  We now have a better, a process of elimination of really getting the right people in my practice, which I don't, because again, I am so in love with healing, the body.
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  I know that's what I'm supposed to do.
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  And it's not as simple as giving you a pill.
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  No, we have to work on the mindset.
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  We have to work on the actions, creating new habits, and I'm here to support you.
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  I'm here on this journey with you.
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  So therefore have a desire to help as many people as possible.
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  I don't need to convince people is it that you want this, or you don't want this there's a lot of confusion is I understand that because sometimes I explain things to people, I think it's coming since, because I've been doing it for years now, and no, it's my first time I'm hearing this.
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  I don't understand it.
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  I need to do a better job explaining to people what that is.
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  Because of my people pleasing, I found myself and I'm having boundaries.
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  I'm afraid if I don't answer them, they're going to get mad.
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  They're going to get upset.
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  I've had a great track record right now of like people loving us, even the people that I have to convince and chase.
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  At the end of the day, since they got resolved.
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  But that was all fell so hard.
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  So challenging.
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  It's draining.
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  So that creates massive anxiety a lack of confidence in me.
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  It's like, what am I doing wrong?
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  How come some people can just come take what they need and do well.
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  Other people's that can have to chase them.
• 18:41
  They always bring in, oh, I pay money for this.
• 18:43
  I pay money for the stupid four.
• 18:44
  Thousand dollars, Healing.
• 18:45
  Nobody's priceless.
• 18:47
  And I understand it's like that the agency, I don't have the money.
• 18:49
  You don't know what I have to do, you know, to make that money.
• 18:51
  I have to work hard.
• 18:52
  Yes.
• 18:52
  I understand.
• 18:53
  You have to work really hard.
• 18:54
  Go to work and have priorities.
• 18:56
  You have children, you have bills, you have responsibilities, but if you don't have your health, you cannot take care of any of that stuff.
• 19:01
  Our services are affordable.
• 19:03
  If you had to work with those gurus, you would have been 15,$20,000.
• 19:07
  And they don't have the support.
• 19:09
  They Canterbury that we do.
• 19:11
  I genuinely love my patients.
• 19:13
  Love what I do.
• 19:14
  I love my practice.
• 19:15
  I can.
• 19:16
  Wait to come to work.
• 19:17
  Because I love what I do.
• 19:19
  And I do it with such passion, such conviction.
• 19:22
  And I'm always here to improve people's health.
• 19:26
  As long as you are showing up for yourself, you're doing what you're supposed to do I would think about my patients in a mindset.
• 19:32
  What are they doing right now?
• 19:33
  Are they taking the pills?
• 19:34
  Is the blood going away?
• 19:35
  Is the fit ticketing?
• 19:36
  And boom.
• 19:36
  And then when I speak to them, like, it's the blood going away?
• 19:39
  Oh yeah.
• 19:40
  It, I scream.
• 19:41
  Oh, I couldn't resist.
• 19:42
  Well, I suppose for the blood to go away.
• 19:44
  This is an issue that many doctors face with, and we don't feel like we can talk about it because we don't want to be judged.
• 19:50
  I said, doctor, we are professionals.
• 19:52
  We have no feelings.
• 19:53
  Wong.
• 19:54
  Lot of doctors are popping pills right now.
• 19:56
  That does a C in 20 patients a day.
• 19:58
  They're that practicing self care.
• 20:00
  They are literally dying.
• 20:01
  They live in medicine.
• 20:03
  Open your eyes.
• 20:04
  That's why you takes three months for a doctor to see you.
• 20:06
  You're on the waiting list for a month.
• 20:08
  I had a patient who came to me.
• 20:09
  Had cancer.
• 20:10
  And then college has told them, okay, it was scheduled for a month from now as a human being, it's like, no, I want to be seen now.
• 20:15
  There's a movement happening in medicine right now.
• 20:17
  And it's going to get worse, not to scale you, just open your eyes.
• 20:21
  Do your research is going to get worse.
• 20:23
  Doctors are tired and exhausted themselves.
• 20:26
  That's the truth.
• 20:27
  Having said that I only want to work with ideal patients.
• 20:31
  Only.
• 20:31
  And we have a process of squinting them.
• 20:34
  And for the past month, I've been telling people I cannot help them.
• 20:37
  I've been literally pushing people away.
• 20:39
  I even told some of my patients that I'm not taking a lot of patients right now.
• 20:44
  So when I sat and I thought about it, I'm like, how are you supposed to help?
• 20:47
  How are you supposed to make a difference?
• 20:48
  If you pushing people away?
• 20:50
  At the end of the day, it's your fault.
• 20:51
  You're attracting the wrong people, You cannot blame these people and I don't.
• 20:54
  It's your fault.
• 20:55
  Right.
• 20:56
  So you are chosen to do this work on this earth.
• 21:00
  You chosen to help people.
• 21:02
  You closing your doors.
• 21:04
  I just wanted to shut the door and just get in the corner and cry.
• 21:07
  Because so many things is happening to us and I couldn't understand.
• 21:10
  I had the right intentions, but people come to me.
• 21:13
  They are in life support.
• 21:14
  And they expect they're going to get a pill and they're going to.
• 21:17
  Be healed.
• 21:18
  Which is very, very well.
• 21:19
  If you ask me.
• 21:20
  And when they come to me that, well, I don't know.
• 21:22
  I'm still having this.
• 21:23
  It's been a week.
• 21:24
  And you've been having this for years.
• 21:26
  So it was so much happening.
• 21:27
  And I had to really do something about it.
• 21:30
  No, I'm taking my power back.
• 21:32
  As a doctor, as a bad-ass practitioner, I know.
• 21:36
  My services.
• 21:37
  Can help.
• 21:38
  So many people.
• 21:39
  I know my treatments.
• 21:41
  Uh, effective.
• 21:41
  I know it's been six years and we have over.
• 21:45
  80.
• 21:45
  But that's more than that because I have 70 Google reviews, but some people just send us, writings because they don't want to have the names and Google.
• 21:52
  So we have so many, so many, we've use.
• 21:54
  So I have a track record of helping people, the right people.
• 21:58
  So maybe saying what at the agency, what is the right people again, to have so many right.
• 22:02
  Patients.
• 22:03
  I want to teach people strategies.
• 22:05
  I want to work on people's mindset.
• 22:07
  I want to help them take massive actions to create massive success.
• 22:11
  That's the people on the walk with these people are resourceful, if I add something on the recipes is giving us stomach issues, they will move it.
• 22:18
  That's what I'm saying by being resourceful.
• 22:19
  They believe in the future self.
• 22:21
  See themselves in the future, not where they are.
• 22:24
  Decision makers, they don't need convincing.
• 22:27
  They are open-minded.
• 22:28
  They are not aiming for average results.
• 22:31
  They see the bigger impact the bigger picture so that's the people I want to work with.
• 22:35
  They want to show up for themselves?
• 22:36
  Ask question, raise their hands.
• 22:38
  They believe the in the possibility of healing.
• 22:41
  My best patients are easy.
• 22:43
  They make my job effortless.
• 22:45
  I will go above and beyond for them.
• 22:48
  I think about them in a positive way.
• 22:51
  have a few, have two couples.
• 22:52
  These people makes my job so easy and they've been with me for years because as they know healing, doesn't take a month, three months here.
• 23:01
  Healing is a continuous process I'm always going to do whatever, what I can do to help them.
• 23:05
  They have me, I feel like they are family.
• 23:08
  And I love them.
• 23:09
  They ask questions.
• 23:10
  They come prepared.
• 23:11
  If something is not working, they don't feel like they are victim.
• 23:14
  Poor me.
• 23:15
  I have a flu poor me.
• 23:16
  I have a cold, well, yes.
• 23:17
  A lot of people have goals right now as, I mean like your health is declining, so happens that you need to continue working on your immune system.
• 23:24
  They believe in what we do.
• 23:25
  They see the work that we are.
• 23:27
  Putting it out there in the world, I want to give them the tools and the resources.
• 23:31
  My expertise.
• 23:32
  This is years of experiences.
• 23:34
  I am not a chicken.
• 23:35
  I've been doing this for years.
• 23:36
  One of the ways that I will list stress is by researching.
• 23:39
  I'm always with search and Arabs.
• 23:41
  I'm always talking to companies.
• 23:43
  I'm always going to, seminars and conferences.
• 23:46
  I'm always learning because it's my job to learn the best thing out there as the world is changing.
• 23:51
  Medicine is changing and take that to you guys.
• 23:54
  To say, view the work, the stress, the anxiety of finding the best.
• 23:59
  In the herbs that could be healing.
• 24:01
  I have to learn about the conventional world, bring that into my functional world.
• 24:05
  That I can better educate my patients.
• 24:07
  They care about themselves.
• 24:09
  World.
• 24:10
  Each other.
• 24:11
  And always willing to do whatever it takes.
• 24:13
  So these are the people that I want to work with.
• 24:16
  So in 2023.
• 24:18
  There'll be no more bacon.
• 24:19
  It's, you know, you want our services or you don't.
• 24:21
  If I'm not the partitioner for you.
• 24:23
  That's okay, too.
• 24:24
  I'm.
• 24:24
  I'm not for everybody.
• 24:25
  I'm a very special person.
• 24:27
  I do things very different.
• 24:29
  It requires a different person to work with us.
• 24:32
  To see results as well.
• 24:34
  So I come to term with that.
• 24:35
  I cannot please everyone.
• 24:37
  I can not work with everyone.
• 24:39
  I don't want to, and I cannot help everyone.
• 24:42
  And I don't want to.
• 24:43
  So having said that we have weekly.
• 24:46
  Putting some strict boundaries and limitations.
• 24:48
  Now.
• 24:49
  I will not be unpracticed better answering people's questions in emails after work hours.
• 24:57
  Moving forward.
• 24:57
  Things might change.
• 24:58
  We only here Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.
• 25:01
  We are often Thursday.
• 25:02
  We hear every other Saturday we have Friday and it's.
• 25:05
  Nine to four 30.
• 25:06
  So if I get a message, if it's not an emergency, I will not answer it.
• 25:10
  There's nothing I do to my patients that are creating mass in distress.
• 25:14
  My services are safe, they're effective.
• 25:17
  And I vet them.
• 25:18
  I use them on myself and my staff and my team and my family before I put them out there.
• 25:23
  That's part of my philosophy.
• 25:25
  We will not be inserting.
• 25:26
  NAFLD my private patients, because I do have a tube.
• 25:29
  Why would patients that's different for them?
• 25:31
  I will continued to check on them.
• 25:33
  Whenever I feel like if I'm thinking about them, I will send them a text.
• 25:36
  I will send them an email, they know who they are.
• 25:38
  I have a few and they choose to work with me on a larger scale.
• 25:42
  They value everything and they are the ones that are not sending museum questions either.
• 25:47
  Patients still gonna have access to us.
• 25:48
  The support is going to be there.
• 25:50
  Of course they, Canterbury is going to be there.
• 25:52
  You will get an answer.
• 25:53
  As soon as possible.
• 25:55
  You still going to get your check-ins and you don't answer after a month, you are moved from the program.
• 26:00
  I will not be chasing people anymore.
• 26:02
  If we give you a lab core script.
• 26:04
  And it's been a month.
• 26:05
  You haven't done the LabCorp scrip.
• 26:07
  You are gone.
• 26:07
  You will not get it with fun and I don't care.
• 26:09
  You can go bash me and give me a pole with you.
• 26:11
  You can do whatever you want.
• 26:12
  I did my part.
• 26:14
  You are gone.
• 26:14
  Going to quickly look at your file.
• 26:16
  If you need to reopen your file, then that's fine.
• 26:18
  Come back, you're going to pay for a follow-up visit.
• 26:20
  And then we're going to open up your phone and see where we are in.
• 26:23
  You know, take it from there.
• 26:24
  What else?
• 26:25
  If you come to me and would they blood work?
• 26:27
  You have to check with wherever you don't have the money and I'm not a good fit for you.
• 26:31
  That's okay.
• 26:32
  We will close your file.
• 26:34
  I'm not going to have open files.
• 26:36
  Something would have happened to you.
• 26:37
  God forbid.
• 26:38
  And then, you know, they find that I'm the last doctor you saw and we saw all this abnormal values on your paper.
• 26:44
  Like people have high.
• 26:45
  Cardiac markers.
• 26:47
  Like you need to do something about that.
• 26:48
  If you see we active boards in a D dimers.
• 26:50
  If these things are high, you need to do something about that.
• 26:53
  That's inflammation.
• 26:54
  That's your heart under stress.
• 26:55
  That's a risk for class in your lungs.
• 26:57
  I'm not going to be responsible if something like that happens to you.
• 27:00
  After we give you a few days to really talk to whoever you need to talk, look at your finances, decide if we're a good fit for you.
• 27:07
  And.
• 27:08
  You say we're not that's.
• 27:09
  Okay.
• 27:10
  What was your place?
• 27:11
  And you take the blood.
• 27:12
  Work.
• 27:12
  To the next practitioner and do what's best for you because at the end of the day, since I am the one who tested you and find all these abnormal values, I am the one to treat you.
• 27:20
  But again, if we're not a good fit, Which is fine for whatever reasons.
• 27:24
  That's fine.
• 27:24
  There's no judgment there.
• 27:25
  Then two major things that we are doing as well.
• 27:27
  We are turning.
• 27:28
  Two of my, programs into groups.
• 27:30
  So we turn in the gut declutter and into groups, which I'll do.
• 27:34
  A podcast about that.
• 27:36
  And also the diabetes reversal process into group.
• 27:40
  And it's going to benefit so many people.
• 27:43
  People are going to have access to me.
• 27:44
  A lot more.
• 27:45
  They used to.
• 27:46
  So these are the changes we are making our practice.
• 27:49
  This was what's been happening.
• 27:50
  To me in my practice.
• 27:51
  I know.
• 27:52
  It's a longer podcast, but I felt like I needed to really talk about it because a lot of doctors I'm in a group with doctors and they complain about this all the time.
• 28:01
  Patients that they can, actions, patients, not pain patients asking for we fund unhappy people and how they feel better about it, because we are, we are human beings.
• 28:11
  We have feelings.
• 28:12
  I feel bad when patients.
• 28:13
  Call me a scam.
• 28:14
  Call me a scan$430.
• 28:16
  Uh, scamp when the insurance is only paying 300 for 15 minutes.
• 28:20
  So high, is that a scam?
• 28:21
  And then when you come to me, I'll give you samples.
• 28:23
  I give you some recommendations.
• 28:25
  We.
• 28:25
  Of course, it's not fair for the patients for me to give you a full program.
• 28:29
  For$430.
• 28:31
  So when you pay$430, you're paying for me to help you identify the word cost.
• 28:36
  Not for me to treat you.
• 28:37
  For you to see that whatever's going on internally in your head.
• 28:41
  Isn't you're not crazy.
• 28:42
  It's also projecting on the paper.
• 28:44
  And the lab work.
• 28:45
  That's what you're paying for.
• 28:46
  So at the end of the day, this is what's happening.
• 28:49
  We have made a lot of changes and we are doing an open house.
• 28:53
  next week.
• 28:54
  I'll do a podcast about that, where I'm inviting all of you guys to show up in this open house, to see what we do, how we can help you, how we help people, what results you can expect in the open house.
• 29:05
  And if we were a good fit for you.
• 29:06
  Because trust me.
• 29:07
  It is going to be complicated now in medicine.
• 29:10
  Is going into the wrong direction.
• 29:12
  It is time for you to really open your eyes and realize.
• 29:16
  It's time to heal.
• 29:17
  With the economy, with the recession, I know there's no money.
• 29:21
  But if you don't have any money to heal your body and you're going to be in the hospital and you're not going to get the proper care.
• 29:26
  Trust me.
• 29:26
  I am betting my life on this.
• 29:28
  It is not going to be good.
• 29:30
  If you find this podcast to be beneficial, please share with other people.
• 29:34
  I am happy.
• 29:35
  And thank you so much for all your support.
• 29:38
  And again, if this podcast triggered you, that's okay.
• 29:40
  I'm very transparent.
• 29:42
  At the end of the day, I'm always going to show you behind the scenes.
• 29:46
  Not only because I feel like if you see it, then you understand what we go through and better.
• 29:50
  Serve you.
• 29:50
  It will help you make a decision I love you.
• 29:53
  I'm excited for the group programs more to come, and I'm excited for our open house to discuss the possibilities of helping you heal your body.
• 30:01
  And I'm just excited for the future.
• 30:03
  I'm really excited for the future.
• 30:04
  This podcast.
• 30:06
  I was a little, not ashamed, but scared.
• 30:09
  To put it out there, because again, I don't want you guys to see me as and that's gone when at the end of the day, I am strong.
• 30:15
  I am powerful.
• 30:16
  I'm courageous.
• 30:17
  And I'm always going to handle any challenges that come my way with grace.
• 30:20
  And I am a work in progress, And I love what I do.
• 30:25
  I am a bad ass.
• 30:27
  Is that, can I say that I'm a bad ass at what I do?
• 30:29
  And I believe I'm the right practitioner for the right patients.
• 30:32
  so that's it.
• 30:33
  Have a good one.
• 30:34
  Bye.
• 30:35
  thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for listening to this episode.
• 30:39
  Do me a favor.
• 30:40
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• 30:44
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• 30:47
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• 30:51
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• 30:56
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• 31:02
  Stay tuned and I'll see you in the next episode.
• 31:04
  Bye-bye.