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- 0:00Well, hello, hello, and welcome to another episode of the Red
- 0:02Couch Theology Podcast. This week we went short for you
- 0:07because it just felt appropriate to stop on the subject of joy
- 0:10that Alex was talking about, because Jesus seems to
- 0:14prioritize joy even in the midst of a situation that's so
- 0:18embarrassing in the text that he he preached about.
- 0:23But it seems like Jesus also wants to prioritize joy for his
- 0:27people when things are crazy in our world.
- 0:31And that's where we ended the episode.
- 0:32Today we talked about some Bible nerd stuff and why John does
- 0:37such a masterful job of highlighting joy, ironically by
- 0:41not paying attention to it too closely.
- 0:44Let's dive right in and see how Joy might offer us hope in the
- 0:48crazy. It's 11.
- 0:53Hello everyone, we're out of focus.
- 0:57You. Know I was so worried about my
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- 1:15I, I, I love that there's like half a percent of people that
- 1:18know what you're talking. About what are?
- 1:20What are? What are the chances?
- 1:22What are the chances that any of our podcast letter listeners
- 1:26know what an A10 mini is? We.
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- 1:55You can't. Like you have to.
- 1:56This is the honor system. This is honor system.
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- 2:02exactly what was going on. I love it.
- 2:05We want to know who you are so that you can produce our show.
- 2:12Well, as you go off to to do technical wizardry, I have got
- 2:19to witness technical wizardry. Ever since I walked through the
- 2:23room, you have been saving the podcast, putting it on your big
- 2:27shoulders once again and carrying us through.
- 2:31Well, I told Alex, now I can't use my Stream deck to run the
- 2:35show. Do you know what a stream deck
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- 2:43in the Stone Age. I have to push buttons on my
- 2:46laptop. Not even just the end button
- 2:50that you always have to find, but.
- 2:52What is this, the Stone Age? I don't even know.
- 2:56All right, so youth now you're like, did I sign on to a
- 2:59theology podcast or a tech podcast?
- 3:01I'm so confused. I have a a very maybe risky
- 3:14question to ask. You're not risky.
- 3:15That's not the right word. You'll see what I mean.
- 3:18You know, I, like a magician is never supposed to show their the
- 3:22trick. I'm going to ask you to show
- 3:25your tricks. My tricks.
- 3:27Your tricks so and you could just say no, I want to keep it a
- 3:32secret because I want to pull the wool over the congregation's
- 3:35eyes for a little bit longer. That's fine, that's your
- 3:38prerogative. But here's the question.
- 3:42On Sunday, you told the story and you read, sort of told and
- 3:46helped the congregation sort of feel the significance of the
- 3:53Cana wedding. APS Story.
- 3:59And it's like such a familiar story.
- 4:00So for those who've been in church their whole lives, I'm
- 4:04one of them. You're one of them.
- 4:06I talked too about this in the week prior.
- 4:10Yeah, I talked about it with the Daily team.
- 4:14I have heard this passage a trillion times, and somehow you
- 4:18made me feel the significance of the story.
- 4:22How'd you do it? Tell us your tricks.
- 4:24I don't know, it must just be. That's not a theology question,
- 4:31but it's it's like maybe here's the the more pastoral question
- 4:37you can answer. How do you take a text that
- 4:38you've lived with your whole life and re introduce it to your
- 4:42own soul? How'd you do it this week?
- 4:46And maybe you can fill us in on what was going on and for those
- 4:48who missed. Yeah, so, so the, the, the, the,
- 4:52the Jesus cane a text is interesting, Like it's very
- 4:57familiar, not just because you've been in church all your
- 5:00life, but if you've paid attention at a wedding in a
- 5:03church, chances are you heard this text referenced at least
- 5:08like the the Common Book of of Prayer or Yeah, I think it's the
- 5:13comic book of prayer. Basically a lot of liturgy from
- 5:19lots of denominations begins the wedding liturgy with this idea
- 5:26that Jesus himself honored a Jesus himself attended a wedding
- 5:33at Cana in Galilee and honored it with a sign or a miracle.
- 5:38Turning water into wine. So, so it's, it's like
- 5:41referenced as this significant thing, even even just the
- 5:44language, like the idiom like turning water into wine, like
- 5:48we, we get that. Like it's got that.
- 5:51Like a song. Maybe wine?
- 5:53Yeah, exactly. It's inside joke, sorry.
- 5:56It's it's got that, it's got that familiarity to it.
- 6:02So, so that that's maybe part of the problem, like Dallas Willard
- 6:08said, familiarity breeds unfamiliarity.
- 6:12The, the more you know, actually, the less it can mean.
- 6:15Like if I ask you to say the word umbrella the first time,
- 6:18you say you have a picture of an umbrella in your, in your mind.
- 6:23But if I say, say, do you say it 20 times or 50 times, slowly,
- 6:28somewhere in that process the image detaches from the word and
- 6:31you actually start to think that actually umbrellas are a really
- 6:34weird word, like umbrella, umbrella, umbrella what?
- 6:41What is Umbrella like? Just sounds these weird sounds.
- 6:46Yeah. And, and so by the time you get
- 6:47to 20 or 50, like you're no longer thinking about an
- 6:51umbrella. You're actually detached a whole
- 6:53bunch of things somewhere internally.
- 6:55So, so that that's like a known problem.
- 6:58People used to say familiarity breeds contempt.
- 7:02Actually, no. It just breeds unfamiliarity.
- 7:07And then you get a text like this that actually works on a
- 7:11whole bunch of layers. So, so I think then actually the
- 7:16only thing you can do is kind of present the different layers,
- 7:21knowing that in all probability, just because of how we work as
- 7:26humans, we've probably just become comfortable in our
- 7:30familiarity saying, yeah, this is probably what the text is
- 7:33about and we've just left it there.
- 7:35Maybe we've associated with someone in the text, but we've
- 7:39just kind of taken it as it's been talked about.
- 7:43And so so the beautiful thing about this text is you can
- 7:45actually ask like, what does it mean?
- 7:49And, and, and I always think that what does it mean?
- 7:51Question is a really good one, especially in John's Gospel.
- 7:54Like it's not enough to know just what Jesus did, but lots of
- 7:57the time, like in the text we'll get to this week, Jesus
- 8:00categorically is doing stuff. And even John's like we didn't
- 8:04get this until after his death and resurrection.
- 8:06There's nothing in the it's actually the flaw in the like
- 8:10the the historical critical approach.
- 8:14What do you mean when you just go and look and say what?
- 8:17What did it mean to the earliest audience?
- 8:19Yeah, well, well, actually, a lot of the time we stuff Jesus
- 8:22did it meant nothing to them or it meant something completely
- 8:25different to what it came to mean to them after his death and
- 8:27resurrection. You actually need additional
- 8:31information to get what it means.
- 8:35So, so if that's all you do is all, if all you do is say what
- 8:38did his first disciples think? Well, well, they were completely
- 8:42confused. They were as confused as you.
- 8:44I have. There's not enough detail in the
- 8:47text to get us there. You actually need to be able to
- 8:51look at things like resurrection or even death and crucifixion to
- 8:57be able to say, oh, that's what it means.
- 8:59You need someone like Paul to write about it and say, oh,
- 9:01that's what it means because we just don't get it because
- 9:07there's not, yeah, not enough detail in the text.
- 9:09So. So you got all these different
- 9:11layers going on with what Jesus does, and then you've got this
- 9:15like question that comes up over and over again that that
- 9:17actually is asked. The reason I love this is
- 9:19actually the the question everybody asks at the Day of
- 9:23Pentecost. They have like 3 questions and
- 9:28the last one is what do all these things mean?
- 9:30And I think it's just such a good central question to bring
- 9:34to a text. Yeah.
- 9:35And so when you look at the the wedding in Cana on the surface,
- 9:44is it just like social embarrassment?
- 9:48Is Jesus just so concerned with the the the the the shame, the
- 9:54embarrassment that this young couple will feel that that he
- 9:58acts like is that it because that that's the base level
- 10:02miracle that provides wine for a couple that will never know
- 10:06where it came from. Actually, it's just surprised
- 10:08them and come out of nowhere and will maybe never attach it to
- 10:12Jesus. Is it about Jesus and Mary?
- 10:16Is it about prayer? Is it about asking for what you
- 10:21need and then trusting the you know, the the God will act and
- 10:27what Mary knows about soteriology and and the the
- 10:33person of Christ at this point is, you know, is questionable.
- 10:36But but is it just about that, that dialogue between a faithful
- 10:40follower and and and and and Jesus, in which case it's an
- 10:47encouraging story for us to take away.
- 10:50I like, I actually do think her advice to do whatever he tells
- 10:55you to do is maybe one of the most practical pieces of wisdom
- 10:59in the new. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 11:00So it's like, so like like a passing statement in the in the
- 11:06text. And it's like, just imagine if
- 11:07all Christians just did that. Yeah, and actually and actually
- 11:12will be where we get nudged in John chapter 5, which I think
- 11:15actually you're teaching them maybe where where Jesus says I
- 11:20only do what I see my father doing, which raises all sorts of
- 11:26questions for this moment as to like, how is Jesus dialoguing
- 11:32with his father at this point? Are they between them willing to
- 11:35move a ministry that had a intended starting point, which
- 11:39actually it's probably really easy to believe was supposed to
- 11:42be the temple moment in the next section.
- 11:46Like this is supposed to be a nothing private moment before
- 11:50this thing. And then now suddenly this thing
- 11:52becomes the thing that kicks everything off.
- 11:57But but but so you know, you've got like it's about the couple.
- 11:59Now you've got it's about Mary. And and then John just throws it
- 12:05all like throws us for a loop at the end when he says no, This is
- 12:09actually a sign. It's not about primarily, at
- 12:13least for John, about the miracle, all the conversation
- 12:17with Mary, but it's primarily that it means something about.
- 12:21Jesus and about his glory, Yeah. And then and then he like, of
- 12:25course, like, where's Waldo? He hides all these like little
- 12:30subtle Nuggets into into the story that that make you start
- 12:34to say, well, what is it a sign of?
- 12:36And you're like, oh man, like, oh, there's a tie to this Old
- 12:39Testament regulated like purity law thing and like, and then
- 12:43wine has is loaded and it's just like the gift that keeps on
- 12:47giving. It's a multi faceted.
- 12:50Text, yeah. And so then, then you just have
- 12:51to figure out what can you get into 35 minutes?
- 12:55And that, that that's, you know, that's the, the fun challenge of
- 12:58preaching, I think, because I, I think preaching is like early
- 13:02on, you know, and, and obviously, admittedly, most
- 13:08people that would listen to a podcast like this aren't
- 13:10preachers, I expect. But early on, I think I really
- 13:14thought preaching was about finding enough to say in like 35
- 13:22minutes. So you'd write sermons, but I
- 13:24don't think there's enough stuff here.
- 13:25So you just add in another biblical story or you'd add in A
- 13:30and then you, you realize as you get older, it's it's kind of
- 13:34like my professor said to me when I was writing APHD thesis,
- 13:38which was 100,000 words. He kind of gently took me aside
- 13:42and said, Alex, if you can't write 200,000, you're not ready
- 13:46to write. Like your writing process is
- 13:50taking 200,000 words you could write and narrowing it down to
- 13:54100,000 words that are actually needed and actually matter.
- 13:59And, and now I think of sermons like that.
- 14:01I think any of us that preach regularly could easily have
- 14:05written 3 sermons. I mean, I mean, even you just
- 14:08think of those 3 theories about what this passage.
- 14:10Could be about yeah. And then next this coming
- 14:12Sunday's text is the like same way.
- 14:16It's like unbelievable. This is why John is like for
- 14:19Bible nerds is like so fun because he is so multi
- 14:24dimensional, similar to the Book of Revelation.
- 14:29Go figure. John has a brand, yeah.
- 14:34John, does the does have a brand?
- 14:38Were they written similar time? No.
- 14:41Revelation probably would have been a little bit later, right?
- 14:43That I mean they're within a few years of each other, yeah.
- 14:46So they're not they're. Not so like this is a guy who's
- 14:48just like meditated deeply on his life of walking with this
- 14:58amazing person and God, Jesus, and just painstakingly assembled
- 15:06these like rich multi dimensional texts that just can
- 15:13never be plumbed. They're just so, so profound.
- 15:15So, so I do think he uniquely is more willing to, I think the
- 15:19synoptic writers as all the first 3, Matthew, Mark and Luke
- 15:24as a whole are wired to say this is what happened in Jesus
- 15:28ministry. We got to the end, we were kind
- 15:30of completely wrong about what he was doing.
- 15:33And now we believe in what he's doing and we're doing it like,
- 15:37like there's, there's, it's, it's fairly simple.
- 15:39It's it's, it's either records of his teaching or it's records
- 15:44of dialogue. And it's honest.
- 15:47But it's honest to the point of saying, yeah, we got this wrong
- 15:50or this person got this wrong. But John is so much more willing
- 15:55to go back and say this happened.
- 15:59This is what we thought this individual part of what Jesus
- 16:02did meant and this is what we realized later or I realized
- 16:06later. So we're so much willing to take
- 16:08individual stories and and re examine the individual story as
- 16:12opposed to the whole like macro of Jesus ministry.
- 16:17So so he and this is one of those stories like, you know,
- 16:21where he's he's looking back retrospectively and he's like,
- 16:24Oh no, this was a sign about something.
- 16:26And who knows, maybe like like like.
- 16:29I always think it's really interesting that John only
- 16:31mentions wine twice and chooses not to mention it at the at the
- 16:36table at the communion. Yeah, but does.
- 16:40You know, he just says dip it into the the dish instead of the
- 16:44wine. And then he does mention it at
- 16:46the cross. Yeah.
- 16:49He doesn't mention Jesus talking about new wine and old wineskins
- 16:54in Yeah, like that's in the synoptics.
- 16:58But he does have this story which seems to nudge in that
- 17:00direction. Like the new wine here is, you
- 17:04know, in, in, in I think in that parable he may or that that
- 17:08pericope in in the synoptics, he says something like, but the old
- 17:12is better, people say. And of course in this story, the
- 17:17new wine that is created is the best 1.
- 17:21So. So it's like, yeah.
- 17:22Yeah, it's so like I think it's it's fun.
- 17:27The book of John is fun because it's just exceptional literature
- 17:34that's multi dimensional and grounded in this exceptional
- 17:38person of Christ. It's so it reminds me of one of
- 17:42your old friends and one of my fast becoming friends, Frederick
- 17:47Beekner in in the writing. Like, I was listening to one of
- 17:52his books this morning while I was playing disc golf and, you
- 17:59know, there's the stuff he's saying.
- 18:02And then like, I'm also zooming back in my mind thinking like,
- 18:06how did he pull that off? Literarily where he'll say
- 18:11something in a way. So like the one that jumped out
- 18:15at me today is he told a story to establish a, the idea that
- 18:25sometimes the only thing you can sort of do, he's talking, tells
- 18:30a story about his brother and how his brother was dying and
- 18:35and they were started talking about heaven.
- 18:38And his brother just said, uh huh.
- 18:40Yeah. And he tells that story to sort
- 18:46of without saying it explicitly, that sometimes the only thing
- 18:49you can do is like moan almost in agreement because it's too
- 18:55big to wrap your mind around. And then he springboards like 3
- 18:59or 4 chapters later into a story about him talking about heaven
- 19:04with his four year old and how his four year old says when I
- 19:08get to heaven, I want to follow you everywhere you go.
- 19:10And he goes, uh huh, yes. And so you like, he deposits
- 19:16this like idea here that then like blossoms into this gorgeous
- 19:21moment later in a story. And you're like, did he plan
- 19:24that? Was it Like, I'm writing this
- 19:27story so this would happen? Or is it just like so raw, good
- 19:31at writing that it just happens naturally?
- 19:33And like, this is how John feels where you're like, oh man, so
- 19:38rich. How does he pull this off?
- 19:39Yeah, and, and, and, and sometimes that early story
- 19:44simply is to set up the second story.
- 19:47And, and there's something for people, I think as they listen
- 19:51or read to get something a second time to have it like
- 19:56thrown back to them. And like, suddenly you, you
- 20:00experience it in new ways because you've you've saddened
- 20:03it for a moment and then you're invited back into it with all of
- 20:06the information you gathered the first time.
- 20:10And that's what gives you some of those aha moments.
- 20:13I think yeah. And so then like, so I'm in this
- 20:16class on, you know, discipleship formation stuff right now in the
- 20:20in seminary. And they reference like a
- 20:23framework of, of transformation that NT Wright put put out where
- 20:29he says the the virtuous circle, which is different spheres of
- 20:35transformative elements, scripture stories, community
- 20:41practices and examples of this are the spheres that NT Wright
- 20:46defines in one particular book about these are the things that
- 20:49transform people, right. And so then last night for my
- 20:54homework assignment, we had to say, what's, what's one of these
- 20:58fears that you've seen really powerfully in your life?
- 21:01What's 1 That's weak and the one that caught me off guard that I
- 21:06ended up saying is more powerful and it this you've even seen me
- 21:11in this space in the last two years is stories, because I'd
- 21:15never given my soul to fiction before.
- 21:20Really good fiction, mind you, but that's part of what an NTS
- 21:24writes getting at is that there's or like with the stories
- 21:31element is that sometime you can say things with a story without
- 21:36saying them that you could never state with explicit
- 21:41communication. And then interestingly,
- 21:45scripture's on this list. But scripture actually does that
- 21:49a lot more than we think. We we would like to think that
- 21:51Scripture's this a little bit more excite encyclopedia book.
- 21:56But but in reality, it's one of those books that you have to
- 22:01read and reread and reread and reread and reread for a
- 22:04lifetime. Basically be let the text become
- 22:06an old friend. And then on the 400th time
- 22:10encountering a passage or a story, it it wakes up to you in
- 22:15a new way and you notice a thing that you never noticed because
- 22:19your soul wasn't ready for it. Yes, it's it's so good and and
- 22:23it's the reason that things stories like the Lord of the
- 22:28Rings and like the Chronicles of.
- 22:30Narnia. Work so well because they take
- 22:32some of the over familiarity of scripture that doesn't have
- 22:38space or even is too respectful to talk in detail about some of
- 22:42the things the practicalities of of stories like death and
- 22:46resurrection or specifically death, crucifixion.
- 22:51And it expands on them. It opens them up and and so
- 22:55suddenly you've had this like very familiar story juxtapose
- 22:59juxtaposed in story format. So it is a story, but it's not
- 23:03in story format. It's in historical format.
- 23:07And then suddenly there's this story element that opens up with
- 23:10different characters that get said alongside it.
- 23:14And suddenly like, oh man, that that suddenly I feel that So
- 23:19interestingly, you can read like one of the gospel writers
- 23:25accounts of Jesus death and resurrection.
- 23:28And because of familiarity, you're like, yeah, that really
- 23:33means something that's really important.
- 23:36And then you can read CS Lewis's Death and resurrection of Aslan
- 23:42and and you feel something dramatic.
- 23:44And what you're not feeling is Aslan.
- 23:48Yeah, you know, that's, that's just a character.
- 23:50You're actually feeling that because of the the Jesus.
- 23:54Because of Jesus, because it's a yeah.
- 23:57So something I talked about when we were in the Revelation series
- 23:59is this idea of mimesis or mimetic stories, which are
- 24:05stories that have the power to shape cultures and societies
- 24:10through time. And this is what NT Wright's
- 24:13talking about. This is what we're talking
- 24:15about. It's that sometimes, or what
- 24:18John does so well is he's really good at writing mimetic stories.
- 24:24And we're saying mimetic is like a meme.
- 24:30It's this thing that like is memorable.
- 24:33It hooks in your mind. It's a story.
- 24:35Whatever. It doesn't mean it's false.
- 24:37It's just told in such a way that it has so many tentacles
- 24:41that it just like sits with you and it almost like eats at you
- 24:46from the inside out until it transforms you.
- 24:49And that's what the Book of John tends to do.
- 24:51So all right, nerd moment over. I hope.
- 24:56No, maybe not. I maybe, I don't hope so.
- 25:01You actually then just laid out for us in this particular text
- 25:05multiple potential interpretations you and hinted
- 25:09at a few more. The three you, you identified 3
- 25:12primary ones. Which ones did you go with or
- 25:16which one did you choose for Sunday?
- 25:19Well, actually did all three of them.
- 25:21You did all three, Yeah. And that and.
- 25:22That was a very leading question.
- 25:24Leading witness, yeah. And I felt like it could work
- 25:28and and part of the tension is like when you're then writing
- 25:32something that's going to interact with a community,
- 25:34especially when you pastor, because you tend to know it
- 25:37more. You're kind of asking what's
- 25:40going to resonate in this season.
- 25:43So, so I think that to me, even though the, the bride and groom
- 25:49element to the story and the experience of shame instead of
- 25:56joy, like like I, I think I had a, a slide up that said
- 26:00something like, you know, the potential for a day of joy to
- 26:04turn into a life of shame. I think that actually for many
- 26:09people resonates in the story like for whatever reason, they
- 26:14are experiencing perhaps a month, a year period of life
- 26:22where it feels like joy has been stolen.
- 26:26And potentially or even like where, where that story for this
- 26:30couple would go where, where they're like in, in the time
- 26:38frame that you could potentially see happening where no, no one's
- 26:45feeling sorry for them anymore, but the shame is still very
- 26:48real. So you, I mean, you extrapolate
- 26:50the story out for the couple. Like suddenly there's no wine.
- 26:54The party ends on day whatever 4.
- 26:56Instead of seven. 7 And and then like there's the the few people
- 27:02that come around them are like, oh, I'm just so sorry.
- 27:05This just must be so hard. Like, yeah, you know, we love
- 27:09you, OK, But But there's also this awareness that in the next
- 27:13wedding, everyone's talking about and remembering what?
- 27:16Happened, yeah, at their. Wedding, OH.
- 27:18I hope this wedding is better than the last.
- 27:20Yeah, exactly. Yeah, yeah.
- 27:23This couple's really blessed, unlike the couple from last
- 27:26week. When you think of it in Jewish
- 27:27terms, the sympathy dies away pretty quick.
- 27:32Yeah, the memory lives on a lot longer.
- 27:35And I think we see that happen in lives of people that we care
- 27:38about, like the the the those people that have found
- 27:44themselves in the midst of an illness and everyone really
- 27:49cared for a certain period. But now you're kind of left
- 27:52holding it with a load of questions yourself.
- 27:55You lose a loved one. And at the funeral, everyone
- 27:58gathers and supports. It's, it's why I often think
- 28:02that the worst day when someone passes away isn't the funeral,
- 28:06it's the day after the funeral for those that are really close
- 28:09to the person, because the funeral is full of sympathies
- 28:13and promises of like care. And, but, but the day after the
- 28:18funeral, everyone goes home and they go back about their own
- 28:21lives and, and they forget like we're, we're just, yeah, we're
- 28:26just busy people that go back to busy things.
- 28:29And so when you extrapolate that across a community that always
- 28:36has in the midst of it, a community the size of South
- 28:39people that are experiencing heartache, sorrow, a surprising
- 28:46lack of joy in their lives, the idea that Jesus distinctly cares
- 28:50about joy versus shame and he's on the side of joy restoring it
- 28:57actually seems to matter. And then you continue on and,
- 29:02and start to think about the, the prayer idea.
- 29:05And, and then you start to think about all the people that you
- 29:07know in the community that have been desperately praying for
- 29:10something. You know, we have multiple
- 29:14people right now praying for some wonderful sick people in
- 29:17our community longing to see healing.
- 29:21We have people praying for, you know, a young Iranian guy,
- 29:25Medad, who is in prison right now.
- 29:27And so many of us have been praying for God to release him,
- 29:31as, you know, someone who has fallen in love with Jesus and
- 29:35wants to continue to serve him. And so when you've been praying
- 29:40for a long time, like actually the encouragement of a story
- 29:43like Mary's in this moment is, yeah, continue to pray and
- 29:48continue to do whatever Jesus tells you to do.
- 29:52So and then you get to the sign story And and that's harder to
- 29:58find out why it matters. Does that make sense?
- 30:01Like it's like, like, what do you do with that?
- 30:05Like, well, this story's there that so you so you can believe.
- 30:11Like in some ways it's it's harder to to give people
- 30:16something to do on the other end of the the sermon or give them
- 30:21something that matters with that story.
- 30:24So while it's the one that chances the sexual thing, I
- 30:29actually spent the whole week saying I'm not sure what to do
- 30:32with that. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 30:34I'm not sure where that goes for people.
- 30:38And so if that, like we've talked before about my friend
- 30:41who works for Joel Osteen, who told me that like Joel has this
- 30:46central question that he brings, like to a passage, which is how
- 30:52does it bring hope to the people I'm pastoring?
- 30:56Yeah, I think the sign story has hope.
- 31:00And we got there in the end. And it's tied to that communion
- 31:03table. Yep.
- 31:05And hopefully encompasses those other elements around prayer and
- 31:09around, you know, the lack of joy and pulls them all together.
- 31:15But it feels like it really needs the other two stories that
- 31:19come first to work. And maybe that's just why John's
- 31:21a genius, because he, he, he, he seems to invite all of those
- 31:27stories. Yeah.
- 31:29Yep, and it sometimes it takes well, which is why we like
- 31:35everything we just talked about, like the mimesis, the the the
- 31:39scripture, becoming an old friend that like you live with
- 31:42for long enough and then start to notice new things because you
- 31:45live with it long, all these things.
- 31:47That's that's kind of how it works.
- 31:49Like we might pass one by. You see this story, you might
- 31:51pass the same story and you see this other nuance.
- 31:54And then before you know it, he and then you're reading an Old
- 31:57Testament passage and you run across a purity law.
- 32:01And then you suddenly your mind jumps forward like, oh, like the
- 32:03purification. Jars.
- 32:06From Cana and you jump over there and you're like, oh, John,
- 32:10look at you. I not nugget in there for me.
- 32:14But interestingly, the story doesn't work emotionally if
- 32:19there's no need. Like if Jesus just turns water
- 32:23into wine at a wedding because he can do it, say, there's
- 32:26plenty of wine still. They've got like, wine for the
- 32:30whole thing. And Jesus, yeah, I'm just going
- 32:31to do it just as a sign. It doesn't work anymore, not on
- 32:36the same level. You know, it's a, it becomes
- 32:40like a, a parlor trick or it loses all the sense of human
- 32:45like personal engagement. The story works for us because
- 32:51there's a young couple who are in the midst of something really
- 32:55embarrassing. And Jesus not only meets them at
- 32:59the point of their need, but also gives a sign to something
- 33:04much bigger than that as well. So it's it's just very
- 33:07interesting to me how that that that the human element makes it
- 33:12like Mary's interaction makes it those, those, those bring the
- 33:15story alive because it allows us to put ourselves in the couple's
- 33:20situation or Mary's situation. And the sign is, is like the
- 33:24cherry on the top of the smooth the, the sundae, I guess.
- 33:27Yeah, just. So, so good.
- 33:30Sorry. Here we are midweek it ish
- 33:35little bit later in the week. What if there was one thing?
- 33:39So you you did all three, man. That's yeah, that's the point,
- 33:42but. If there was one thing that you
- 33:45just more like pastorally for our community that you're just
- 33:51really hoping lingers with someone, what would that be?
- 33:58I, I mean, I, I, I felt concretely and pastorally, the
- 34:03joy element is just, is just a beautiful gift.
- 34:08Like to know that Jesus brings joy is joy.
- 34:18That joy doesn't always come in the way you hope it does.
- 34:21I mean, that's the, the, the struggle that you, you have to
- 34:25acknowledge. Like Paul will talk about how
- 34:31about how joy actually surprisingly comes through
- 34:33suffering. So, so I think that's like when
- 34:37you get to again, like learning from what comes later and
- 34:40applying it to this text. I think then that's where you
- 34:44need that big overarching story of like, you may not experience
- 34:49this miracle in the midst of it, but somewhere what Jesus does
- 34:54here points to this big story of death and resurrection and a new
- 34:59thing that God is doing where all of those old like cares and
- 35:04worries will one day be wiped away and, and, and in a broken
- 35:09world. I mean, you think about like
- 35:10what we've experienced as a country this week or even just
- 35:14in Denver, like the, the, the, the shooting the murderer, like
- 35:20Charlie Kerr yesterday, the, the shooting in Boulder at the
- 35:25school. Like there's all these stories,
- 35:30a young Ukrainian girl on a train going back to the shooting
- 35:35of some demo, a couple of Democratic politicians a couple
- 35:40of months before. We're in a tight spot.
- 35:43I think as a country, like I don't think this is an easy
- 35:45season for anybody. And there's all sorts of
- 35:48questions around where does this all go?
- 35:50And when you live in moments like that, I think it's really
- 35:54hard to hold on to, to joy and, and to know it's important.
- 36:02And, and, and it is important when when Paul talks about the
- 36:06gifts of the spirit, it's love. And then when does he go?
- 36:09It's joy, it's peace. And so when you live in these
- 36:12moments that feel like all of that is in question, actually to
- 36:19know that that in this story, Jesus cares for a young couple
- 36:23in the midst of a of a home personal story just like that.
- 36:29And then this miracle happens. But it's all pointing towards
- 36:33what He's going to do for all of humanity one day.
- 36:40I think it allows us to orientate ourselves in His good
- 36:46Kingdom still to come, and to hold on.
- 36:49To hold on to Lovejoy, peace, patience, kindness and all the
- 36:58rest. Because it's easy to in the
- 37:02midst of everything going on at the moment, start the question,
- 37:05where does, where does all this go without, without, without
- 37:08Jesus? I'm not sure that we, we have
- 37:11much of A future like it. Like I, I think without that,
- 37:16that story, the, the, the story that makes sense is like one day
- 37:24some species from another planet coming and finding all the
- 37:27remnants of a human community that wiped itself out or
- 37:30something like that. Like it's, you know, I don't see
- 37:33where the story goes outside of the good story that Jesus
- 37:39presents in in this, this moment of this moment of hope.
- 37:52Yeah. It's hard.
- 37:53Wow. Well, I don't know why, I just
- 37:59feel like that's it for today. It's a little shorter than
- 38:03usual. Some of you might be like praise
- 38:05the Lord, but we didn't get any specific questions today to.
- 38:11Address but I also think it's just like, I mean, I, I felt
- 38:15like a heaviness this week. So I think a a moment of prayer
- 38:19is definitely a good, yeah, a good thing to orientate
- 38:23ourselves and our community around what Jesus has done and
- 38:28he's doing. Yeah, let's do it.
- 38:33Jesus, you know each circumstance of every person who
- 38:36listens, every person at South and beyond in the midst of
- 38:43personal stories that maybe the joy is gone and and we're not
- 38:48sure where it comes back. Maybe there's a heaviness
- 38:53personally. Maybe you feel you resonate with
- 39:00this couple in this story who are facing a life of shame and
- 39:06embarrassment in a small community, not knowing what
- 39:10comes next. Yeah, for each person that needs
- 39:15joy, pray that you would meet them at the point of their need.
- 39:20For those of us that are praying deeply, like passionately.
- 39:24For individuals that need new stories, for a nation that's
- 39:29wrestling with so many things at the moment that feels on the
- 39:32brink of something, that feels like this is spiritual thing
- 39:36going on, give us courage to keep praying.
- 39:43Remind us of your good story that even in the midst of hard
- 39:48things is continuing to emerge, continuing to take shape, that
- 39:56you have done this beautiful thing.
- 39:59Your death and resurrection has changed everything.
- 40:03And God, we long for your coming.
- 40:04You're appearing. You're making all things new.
- 40:11Amen. Amen.
- 40:14Thank you all for tuning in and we will see you next week.
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