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CAN A MAN CHANGE FOR LOVE ? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.
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  Speaker 2: What did you try and change about him his self confidence?
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  Speaker 2: I did, but a little too much.
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  Speaker 1: No one can win when you try and change your mate.
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  Speaker 1: No one. What a good girl. This newfound power, This
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  Speaker 1: newfound power.
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  Speaker 2: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself J. Craig aka
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  Speaker 2: Daddy and my partner in crime, Addie Clark aka Mummy.
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  Speaker 1: That's it baby, Welcome back everybody, Thanks for tuning in
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  Speaker 1: once again. You are the baddies all right? Quickly?
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  Speaker 2: A week ago, a week or so ago, we spoke
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  Speaker 2: about like phone addiction and just identity and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: If you spoke about identity came on a phone addiction.
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  Speaker 2: We got a nice message from Klara Jansen.
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  Speaker 1: Was it about this?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? She said, Hey, Mommy and Daddy just listen to
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  Speaker 2: your recent podcast on Spotify where you talk about phone addiction,
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  Speaker 2: and I just wanted to weigh in. I'm currently studying psychology.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not an expert, and we've been studying addiction, including
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  Speaker 2: phone addiction. Any type of addiction, whether it's drugs or
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  Speaker 2: using your phone, changes the structure of your brain and
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  Speaker 2: how your brain works. Your brain has gotten so used
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  Speaker 2: to quickly getting dopamine from using your phone, and so
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  Speaker 2: your brain constantly goes back to your phone since it
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  Speaker 2: knows that it can get a quick and easy dopamine rush.
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  Speaker 2: It isn't necessarily because you lack discipline, but your brain
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  Speaker 2: is naturally wired to seek the things that make you
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  Speaker 2: feel good. This is connected to our brain wanting to
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  Speaker 2: keep us alive. But that's a whole other story. This
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  Speaker 2: is a very simple way to describe it, and there
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  Speaker 2: is so much more to it. But with all of this,
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  Speaker 2: I just wanted to tell you not to feel bad
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  Speaker 2: for using your phone. It is an addiction like any other.
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  Speaker 2: If you want to change this, you're going to have
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  Speaker 2: to slowly start using your phone less. And it is
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  Speaker 2: going to be tough in the beginning, as you will
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  Speaker 2: naturally be drawn to the dopamine from using it, but
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  Speaker 2: over time you'll begin to find it easier. Hope this
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  Speaker 2: explanation makes sense, and please note that I am nowhere
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  Speaker 2: near an expert in psychology, simply a girl with psychology interests.
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  Speaker 1: That's so relatable, especially for me at the moment, A
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  Speaker 1: little inside, I've been getting terrible brain fog.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it says she said that the brain structure because
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  Speaker 2: it says it changes your brain structure, but it's not
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  Speaker 2: permanent because their brains are forever changing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. And I've been trying to implement a lot
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  Speaker 1: of things to get my life a bit better. Stop
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  Speaker 1: drinking caffeine. And the last thing I'm going to do
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  Speaker 1: is get off my phone. It's one of the steps.
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  Speaker 1: And I started this morning. Funny you said that, like,
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  Speaker 1: I just woke up to my alarm, turned it off,
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  Speaker 1: and then I went outside and just tried to get
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  Speaker 1: some sun and just breathe for the ten minutes of
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  Speaker 1: the day without because I normally I go on socials
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  Speaker 1: and check what happened overnight. Yeah, which is toxic.
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  Speaker 2: I went on TikTok, Yeah, literally, and it's the whatever
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  Speaker 2: whatever the lights are in an led lights are in
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  Speaker 2: a phone just straight in your eyes.
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  Speaker 1: I'm awakening.
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  Speaker 2: It makes you not want to get out of bed.
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  Speaker 2: You want to stay in bed and stay on your phone.
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  Speaker 2: You're going to pull yourself out of bed. So I
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  Speaker 2: think that's very, very relatable.
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, hopefully some people listening like, yeah, I'll get
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  Speaker 1: off my phone now, hopefully. Yeah. That was the What's
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  Speaker 1: our IG question this week? Today's IG Question of the
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  Speaker 1: week is what did you think you could change about
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  Speaker 1: a man?
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  Speaker 2: What did you think you could change about him?
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  Speaker 1: And everyone these responses we've never had normally, so on Instagram,
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  Speaker 1: you feel in the little ask ask us a question thing,
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  Speaker 1: and we got to scroll a little bit. Takes his
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  Speaker 1: fifteen minutes to get the best answers these ones. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: not much scrolling happened, But we're doing this twice. Everyone's
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  Speaker 1: trying to change something about their man. There's definitely more
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  Speaker 1: answers down there. I don't want to go first.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, what did you try to change about him?
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  Speaker 2: Thought I could change him from eating his snot after
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  Speaker 2: he picked it, and she couldn't. Apparently not man setting
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  Speaker 2: his ways. That is one of the only things that
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  Speaker 2: makes me very noomal.
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  Speaker 1: I think I got one of them that many girls
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  Speaker 1: are trying to change their boys hygiene. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: some boys are out there doing some dirty things. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like the feeling of being on hygiene neither, even
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  Speaker 1: when I just smell a little bit, I'm like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: so disgusting. What did you try to change about a man?
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  Speaker 1: His ability to communicate? Sorry to hear.
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  Speaker 2: It sounds like it didn't work. We all need help
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  Speaker 2: in that aspect.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, what did you try and change about him? His friends? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: That hit hard for a couple. That's a heavy one man.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we all know.
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  Speaker 2: There's a lot of excuses out there where it's like
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  Speaker 2: if he just wasn't friends with that group.
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  Speaker 1: He would be if he's such a good guy, that's
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  Speaker 1: who he is. But that's who he is. What did
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  Speaker 1: you try to change about him his manners? Oh? You
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  Speaker 1: trying to make him better? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, ship sounds like again, Sorry, it didn't worry.
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  Speaker 1: I think this is going to be a bit of
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  Speaker 1: an eye opener that, like, you can't change many things
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  Speaker 1: about guys. No, I feel like it's hard to change
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  Speaker 1: stuff about everyone exactly. Yeah, good point. What did you
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  Speaker 1: try and change about him to be better? In bed?
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  Speaker 1: He would have appreciated the effort.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I hope you appreciate the effort of him trying.
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  Speaker 2: I hope you appreciate his effort in trying.
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  Speaker 1: Hopefully, it's just not there for everyone, their drug habit,
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  Speaker 1: damn everyone. Yeah, I hope I hope you helped him.
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  Speaker 1: Hopefully it was just recreational on weekends.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, hopefully, Just hope it was just recreational. What
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  Speaker 2: did you try and change about him? His will to
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  Speaker 2: plan dates?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: That many girls are trying to do that, like when
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  Speaker 1: you're going to take it on a date, always trying
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  Speaker 1: to hint they're planning a seed yo and no. And
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  Speaker 1: for some reason, every guy when they do try, when
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  Speaker 1: they try and when they get given a hint from
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  Speaker 1: their girlfriend, they try to almost defend themselves because they
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  Speaker 1: don't want to think that they're not doing enough and
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  Speaker 1: mitigate the heat that hey, maybe you're not doing enough.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah you will.
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  Speaker 2: Lose so mate, Yeah, someone else will take her on dates.
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  Speaker 2: There's a better guy just around the corner.
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  Speaker 1: Someone else will buy her flowers. Some guys over here, right,
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  Speaker 1: poems every morning? A poem guy, all right, just a
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  Speaker 1: poem guy. What did you try to change about him
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  Speaker 1: closing his mouth when he ate? My girlfriend's currently trying
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  Speaker 1: to change that about me, and I am so sorry.
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  Speaker 1: It's subconscious, No way that's changing. I'm just getting the
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  Speaker 1: food down. Yeah. The other day she's like, she.
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  Speaker 2: Never does this, but she will sit at the table
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  Speaker 2: and she goes, Jake, can you please chow with your
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  Speaker 2: mouth closed or I'm going to have to leave?
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, are you serious? Just like fucking
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's rude. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, come on, I'm just eating. Yeah, when you're
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  Speaker 1: in your safe place at home, you should be able
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  Speaker 1: to eat with you. Yeah. I just did eat with
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  Speaker 1: the dog on the ground out of a bowl.
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  Speaker 2: What did you try and change about him? Him not
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  Speaker 2: wanting a relationship? And then she added a clown emoji underneath.
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  Speaker 1: I could change it. He'll want me one day if
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  Speaker 1: I feel around. Eventually, you'll eventually ask me, what's the
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  Speaker 1: longest you reckon? I sit? Relationship has laughter? Yees, there's
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  Speaker 1: no way we have. We've had dilemmas where it says years.
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  Speaker 1: We've been talking for three years. Jesus Christ. All right.
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  Speaker 1: Although your girlfriend didn't send this in, I think this
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  Speaker 1: one's for you. What did you try and change about him?
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  Speaker 1: Stop fighting in public? You're worse than me. You keep
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  Speaker 1: sending me fighting beams, and you far more than I do.
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  Speaker 1: Don't take me down with you, man. I just threw
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  Speaker 1: you under the bus, and you fucking brought me back
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  Speaker 1: down with you. Literally, you've been long under the bar.
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  Speaker 2: Fucking now fight on the bus? Mate, who doesn't what
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  Speaker 2: did you try and change about him getting him to
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  Speaker 2: put the toilet seat back down?
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  Speaker 1: I'm good now, I'm good now. I guess who sent
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  Speaker 1: that in? Not my girlfriend? Yes, she didn't. I was
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  Speaker 1: gonna say, I've been really good lately. Think about the germss.
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  Speaker 1: I think someone common on that. So in the past episode,
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  Speaker 1: Jake said, what did you say? You said that the
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  Speaker 1: germs they go two meters every direction when you flush,
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  Speaker 1: and then you said something about like not washing your
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  Speaker 1: body or something.
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  Speaker 4: Like that that I don't. I don't wash my hands
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  Speaker 4: after I h you don't wash your hands after your fiss,
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  Speaker 4: but you're concerned about the splash of the fucking toilet
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  Speaker 4: when you're flushing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, that's so contradictory of yourself. What
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  Speaker 1: do you try and change about him? His kissing ability? Oh? Fuck,
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't want it. I wouldn't. If you're kissing doesn't match,
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  Speaker 1: it's never gonna match. Exactly like I was gonna say,
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  Speaker 1: woll do you want to change that? Like you just
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  Speaker 1: put in the hard yards of some terrible kissing. That's insane.
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  Speaker 1: If it doesn't match, you're not a match. Everyone listenings
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  Speaker 1: had like a bad kissing. What's why doesn't this work?
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  Speaker 1: You're trying to force it? Yeah, you're like moving your
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  Speaker 1: head here or something, and you're like, what's why isn't
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  Speaker 1: this work? Not how I imagine tongue so deep down
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  Speaker 1: my throat? Why are our teeth clashing? Why am I?
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  Speaker 1: Why are you licking my teeth? You like? What's going
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  Speaker 1: on here?
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  Speaker 2: What did you try and change about him? His eight
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  Speaker 2: year old underwear with holes in them. Never, the lucky
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  Speaker 2: undies will never leave never. They have a place in
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  Speaker 2: my heart. Those are the sex undies. Okay, every time
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  Speaker 2: he wears them, he gets lucky. So it's just unfortunate
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  Speaker 2: that you see them. They're loose, so they're easy to
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  Speaker 2: come down. What did you try and change about him?
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  Speaker 2: I thought I could change him from saying three not free.
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  Speaker 1: That would piss me off. Holy shit.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my girlfriend last night on the phone, she said
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  Speaker 2: she wanted to say she bought something, but she said
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  Speaker 2: I brought something, and everyone knows I fucking hate that.
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  Speaker 1: But I didn't say anything. I was just like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: on the phone you left.
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  Speaker 2: My blood was boiling and nearly hung off AA. But
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  Speaker 2: I didn't want to say anyth because she would have
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  Speaker 2: been like, just shut up. Yeah, fucking hell. What did
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  Speaker 2: you try and change about him? His self confidence? I did,
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  Speaker 2: but a little too much.
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  Speaker 1: No one can win when you try and change your mate,
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  Speaker 1: no one. What a good girl like this newfound power,
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  Speaker 1: this newfound power. What did you try and change about him?
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  Speaker 1: Goes off that a little bit his cheating tendencies. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: so you knew he was a cheater in the past.
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  Speaker 1: Gave him the benefit of the doubt and he did
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  Speaker 1: it to you.
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  Speaker 2: We talk about that, we have.
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  Speaker 1: We've spoken about it.
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  Speaker 2: How it's like, Look, it's pretty rude, it's pretty bad
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  Speaker 2: to not give him the benefit of the doubt, but
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  Speaker 2: also kind of a you don't have to.
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  Speaker 1: Wance a cheatter always a cheata boxing.
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  Speaker 2: But what did you try and change about him that
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  Speaker 2: he would regret ghosting me?
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  Speaker 1: He still hasn't reached out. She tries to take the
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  Speaker 1: moral high ground. Try She just like, oh, here he'll
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  Speaker 1: come crying back. He's playing the long game. Three years. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she's playing the long long game, my last one. What
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  Speaker 1: did he try and change about him? His side? Chick,
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  Speaker 1: little chicken emerge after it. She's already made knows he's
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  Speaker 1: got a side and she's like, nah, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: go get rid of this. This is a challenge accepted
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  Speaker 1: situation to get rid of her. Holy shit. Let's end
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  Speaker 1: it there they We're good.
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  Speaker 2: Alrighty guys, thanks for tuning into this episode. Enjoy the
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  Speaker 2: rest of the episode. If you're on a hot girl walk,
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  Speaker 2: don't forget post on your story tagus let us know
• 11:38
  Speaker 2: you're on your hot girl walk and enjoy enjoy it.
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: Alrighty guys, welcome back to our Tinder finding love for
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: our Maddie the Baddie. This is the third and final parts.
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  Speaker 2: If you missed the first two, what are you doing?
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: If you missed the what do you go back and
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  Speaker 2: listen to say? You're going to fall in love fall
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  Speaker 2: in love with mads who were here with again.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to fall in love with Maddie. First off,
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  Speaker 1: welcome Maddie back. How are you good? Yes? How'd you
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  Speaker 1: go this week?
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  Speaker 5: We found one more?
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  Speaker 2: We found another one on window Yeah, and then I
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  Speaker 2: got to say, yeah, I got it.
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  Speaker 1: I just got to point it out.
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  Speaker 2: We clearly are seeing Brad over it.
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  Speaker 1: Buzz. We've got to give to give everyone a chance. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: we do. We're open to well, we open were opened
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  Speaker 1: a little bit. We're a little bit. Do I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I'm going to try and be a closed book today?
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  Speaker 5: It was like forty five degrees.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to be like a real guy today
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  Speaker 2: and just be like feelings a real dad, real dad, Yeah, protective,
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  Speaker 2: don't touch my daughter this that you know better not
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  Speaker 2: be taller than me.
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  Speaker 1: Let's see, we're going to do the handshake again.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, so then you could rate eat today head last handshake.
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  Speaker 2: I really I'm saying ten out of ten from Brad
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  Speaker 2: on the hand out of ten.
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  Speaker 1: It's a good handshake. Brad was good.
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  Speaker 3: That good.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, we'll Brad. Let's jump in the date number two.
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  Speaker 1: Let's do it, okay, Matt, And the pressure is on
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  Speaker 1: because this is the final date and the final date
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  Speaker 1: on the podcast. So at the end of this we're
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  Speaker 1: going to ask you to pick between Brad, which we're
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: rooting for, and the second date, who are about to introduce.
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  Speaker 1: So the pressure's on.
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  Speaker 5: They like me, pick me back?
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  Speaker 1: What's not the like? Alright, the big reveal. Daniel has
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  Speaker 1: entered the studio, So welcome Daniel, thank you for coming
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  Speaker 1: on the potty Maddie. Maddy, you got to introduce us
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  Speaker 1: to your date.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, so this is mummy.
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  Speaker 2: And this is daddy, Daddy, mummy father over here.
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  Speaker 1: I got to test out your handshake. I've been training
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  Speaker 1: for this. That was good. That was a good way.
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  Speaker 2: Look in the eyes, firm. I'm going to go seven
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  Speaker 2: of ten. I was thinking, like aid, seven, seven is still.
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  Speaker 1: Pretty good, pretty hard. Seven is pretty hard good. But Daniel,
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  Speaker 1: we just want to get to know you a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: Tell us a bit about yourself. Firstly, what do you
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  Speaker 1: do for work? So, still a full.
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  Speaker 6: Time student, but I'm working casually in retail at Lulu
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  Speaker 6: lul Lemon.
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  Speaker 1: This good.
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  Speaker 2: The timing on that, I didn't even know. Discounts stuff
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  Speaker 2: over there. I don't know what I'm allowed to say,
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  Speaker 2: but like crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm seeing this on TikTok discount Do you guys get
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: like really good discounts? Okay, you said you said you're
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: studying what are you studying?
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  Speaker 6: Law?
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  Speaker 1: And commerce? Law and commerce? Deep into it.
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  Speaker 6: I was doing psychology first and then switch it over
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  Speaker 6: and now I'm like, man, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot of work. Yeah, but it's what you
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: want to do. Cool man with a passion. Have you
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: got an accent? Yeah? So born in California. I Maddie's.
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  Speaker 5: Mom's Americans. She was born in Cali.
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  Speaker 1: Santa Barbara, Okay, I'm trying to say I'm moving.
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  Speaker 3: I was.
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  Speaker 1: I have no idea what anything you but you've got
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  Speaker 1: Santa Barbara, San Jose, s A N s A N.
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  Speaker 5: In Boston at the moment.
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  Speaker 1: Oh cool, yeah, not gonna you really hear the accident.
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  Speaker 1: This is looking really good. We'll have a look at
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  Speaker 1: your Tinder profile.
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  Speaker 2: Stop it, daddy of fruit suited with the mate.
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  Speaker 1: Still good. We still know who it is. Smart, sophisticated,
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  Speaker 1: looks very lawyer esque.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, lovely or snow where's this hat?
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: That was? Whistler? Whistler?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, sick first time snowboarding though, I'm like, I'm so trash.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a Canadian citizen over him? Yeah you used have
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: short hair? I did? How was that? Which beatter? That was? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: That was like a couple of years ago, a couple
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  Speaker 1: of years No, No, I know, I know, I know.
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  Speaker 1: Why not. He looks good. We've got to give it
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  Speaker 1: to a his first part. It looks like him right
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  Speaker 1: now this day. You hold me, I think you can
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  Speaker 1: show you can rock along and short hair.
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  Speaker 6: Oh what happened? So that that was copper Natsio. Actually
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  Speaker 6: I got a text from producer Fanilla. She said that
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  Speaker 6: there was other dates that Maddy was going on, and
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  Speaker 6: I was like, I need imy drops straight to the emergency.
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  Speaker 1: When you said when you said attacked, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: just for reference to photos him looking like he's at
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  Speaker 1: the hospital.
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  Speaker 2: With his mouth he's yeah, definitely just had some surgery
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: or something. And what's here we go, Let's go get
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: the rest of it.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: About me?
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Shakespeare once said live life love, and I really felt that.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Anyways, just here to find a wife. Lol.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: I like that.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: I like that about me. Photo verified. It's late. You're
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: already on top of that, already on top of it.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: That's interesting. Brunch, sushi, pig roast, street food, ramen. You
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: like food. A bit of.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Roast is a little you're a little you're a little
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: bit of food a little unhinged.
• 17:16
  Speaker 5: But I just it's it's like sushi, rubbed pig road.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah. What I was thinking is like, look a range
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: range but like this food, right, everyone likes food.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I figure I like food. I need food to exist, sustenance.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You know you did say
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: you are? You are not a food? You're shockingly good
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: with words.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: How do you like?
• 17:39
  Speaker 5: I should step out in? It's really good?
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, up next, Daniel, we have a couple of rapid
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: fire questions. It's probably just going to get to know
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: you a little bit better, and you don't have time
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: to think, so the answers should just come out first.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: That comes question one. Where would you take Maddie on
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: the first date?
• 17:55
  Speaker 6: Probably some word so I'm more like laid back. I
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: like to probably someone to get to know you. A
• 17:59
  Speaker 6: chill thing. I'm thinking probably I think a picnic of
• 18:03
  Speaker 6: an eastern suburbs somewhere nice. She's bored.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: Maybe wine.
• 18:07
  Speaker 6: I know nothing about wine though, so you guys.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Where you like? She doesn't? All right, you've got goon
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: and nothing else. Question two? How tall are you? I'm
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: six to two officially, If that's okase six two?
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Over here, claims six three. Let's do a little
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: back to back.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: Say, let's let's be back to your claiming sixty three.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: Let's do this thing.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Let's go, you guys, we're going to see if he's
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: six three over here.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I might actually have to stand up. I have to
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: stand up and wait, No, he's about this much taller
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: than you.
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: But that's not an inch?
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Is that? No?
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: That's not one two three four the metric system. So
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: I reckon you actually are maybe like an a half
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: in the tall and it.
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: Just think you're six two point five.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: Firstly, first, I'm six three d. You know it's crazy?
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: What's from? Actually six? Stressing we'll get.
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: Fag night, just rounding up.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Okay, next question this topic mate, Okay, So Maddie's got
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: a dog. Would you dog sit Maddie's dog? What dog?
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter, yes, but.
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: Clearly matters what it's cute?
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: Cute?
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Yes, you spoke to a joy before and you're okay, Okay,
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: those questions are good. I'm going to hand you some
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: white boards, gonna play another game. This game is red flag,
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: green flag. So what we'll do is we will ask
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: you a question whether or not it's a red flag
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: green flag. You're right your answer, don't let each other
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: see it, and then flip write it nice and big
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: for the camera.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Okay. First, one red flag, green.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Flag when her ex looks after her dog when she
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: goes away.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: All right, ready, flip two red flags compatible. That's good, good,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: start off to a good starts actual there, you know.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: What I mean?
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Not really what's that word mean? I didn't go to university.
• 20:22
  Speaker 6: I mean if they're like super close.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: But then it's like hold on, yeah, and Maddie's defense,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: he says, it's the doggy daycare. It's cheap. It's cheaper
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: than taking a dog, like you're going to.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: Wait for a few weeks.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: It's free. So now it's a red flag and you're
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: abusing them. Okay, okay, next question, red flag, green flag.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: Pretend you're all dating a girl. It's raining on a
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: night out. A guy offers your girlfriend an umbrella and
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: she goes under it. Maddie, this isn't funny, all right,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: it's serious. We're getting the bottom of stuff here, Maddie.
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: It's funny question.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's we got Daniel's ready. Okay, three to one
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: go flag. We got a green and a red red once.
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: Here's my point of view. If he was to hold
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: his umbrella around for another woman, that's.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Fair, I will say.
• 21:18
  Speaker 6: I will say, I think given that you think it's
• 21:20
  Speaker 6: a red flag, no, I think it's a red flag.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Because you think it's a red flag, then there's like
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: you know there's something's something sus going on. Okay, we
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: like it, we like it. Okay, will you willing to
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: change his mind? Last red flag? Green flag? This is
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: probably an old classic on the relatables channel. Okay, okay,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: that's a girl best friend.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Well in your all instance, she has a boy best friend.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Yet in her since you have a girl best friend?
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: M three two one red and.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Green with a question mark, just one contextual again compatible
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: green question mark? Why where.
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: You can't just put a question market?
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean.
• 22:12
  Speaker 6: Because to me, to me, it's like neutral, you know
• 22:14
  Speaker 6: what I mean?
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: I can go on that can get red.
• 22:16
  Speaker 6: Yeah, just that fact alone, the context.
• 22:23
  Speaker 5: We could go to UNI with everything we've like.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Literally I've been the Union now, okay, cool, So that
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: was that was kind of like.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: It was one out of three one and a half,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: one and a half one. Yeah, we just a little
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: taste date, little teaser. Thank you very much for coming on.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: We appreciate it and actually actually taught us a few
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: things to.
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: We said, we don't need to go to UNI.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: My vocabulary has broadened. Big word, big word. It's aura.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: It's something I don't know what it is.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Okay, Mads. This concludes the three part series Finding Love
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: on Tinder. So, firstly, thank you very much for coming
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: on the podcast. We appreciate we appreciate that. I hope
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: you enjoyed the experience.
• 23:14
  Speaker 5: It was really fun.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: But we have a couple of questions to finish off. Okay,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: question number one, how do you rate the date with Daniel?
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: Like a seven?
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Seven with Daniel? Cool? And about Brad and to recap
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: what was Bradson wasn't he? We had an agree and
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: we were all.
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: Well, now what do you guys think of Daniel?
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I did like Daniel. I like Brad too. We got
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: two very good applicants.
• 23:37
  Speaker 5: I think they're very different.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: Daniel had some very like a lot of ground to
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: make up.
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: He did great head.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, great head start. Brad did and then I kind
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: of liked you. Brad was nervous. That's cute. Yeah, yeah,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: I see.
• 23:54
  Speaker 5: I think that's almost why I think it was just
• 23:56
  Speaker 5: like that one point.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.
• 23:59
  Speaker 5: Daniel just seemed to in his element.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: He did seem and he was good with his words.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: He really me spinning a couple of times. I use
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: those big words around me because I don't know what
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: they mean. You've sold Daddy, already. Yeah, but I'm going
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: to I'll say I'm going to go seven as well. Yeah,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: but overall, what's yours for Daniel, I'm going to say
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: I reckon the same eight eight.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: Okay, So okay, that's a little spanner in the world.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: All right, So but overall, Mad, you have to decide.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: So you've got to pick between Daniel and Brad.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: Here we go. We're gonna let you do it. Here
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: you go. She's got she's got a whiteboard in front
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: of her. She's going to tick one of the names,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: Brad or Daniel. Okay, and this is too. This is
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: for a second date. So you tick the person you
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: want to go on a second date with.
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: Wait, I'm not marrying them on the next episode is that.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: You can do what you want me to go. He's
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: got to ask me first, okay, but we'll see how
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: we go. Alrighty you ready big big reveal?
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: H Bright, we went with the sweet one.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: Well, that concludes our Tinder love story. I hope you're
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: happy with everything, Mad, Yes.
• 25:24
  Speaker 5: Well, clearly your advice worked on reading the Tinder profile
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: and getting verified, so.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I'm glad it helped give you guys it updates. I'm glad. Well,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: I'm glad we met Broud as well.
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: You guys an updates.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll be in touch, we'll be.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: Thanks everyone for coming along on this journey over the
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: last three weeks to help Maddie find love through Tinder,
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: and thanks to Tinder for helping us out and getting
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Maddie as two dates, soon to be a second so,
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: soon to be married, soon to be all right, up next,
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: Jake dreads this same I genuinely hate this segment, but
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: we got some feedback that people like it apparently, so,
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: so guys, it's time to play make them say where
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: we phone someone and it's actually on his turn. Yes,
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: so he's gonna call a friend and we gotta I
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: gotta give him a word to try and make our
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: friends say it.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: So we're gonna have a normal conversation. I hate this
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: normal conversation. And then what word are going to try
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: and make our friends say? Weekend? Weekend? Okay? I feel
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: like I don't want it to be too hard.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, fuck this that's kind of hard because it's like, oh,
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: I don't know how to make them say this.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Okay, see it's stressed. Well, I know you've done it. Once,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: but it's terress. What's my into? Like the conversation? I
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: don't know, man, we're calling our friend Ben. I'm hoping
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: he's like having lunch at work. It I'm just going
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: in cold, have no plan. I don't know how you
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: do this so confidently, let's do it?
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: What are you calling me for?
• 27:02
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: What's going on? Man? I was just are you working?
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: I'm got a minute while? What's up?
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: It sounded to aggressive when you're picked.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: Up because he's trying to get a rope in the tree.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: That's right. I just want cool about tours birthday?
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah?
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Are you? Are you getting up too much? Coming up
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: on after work on Friday?
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: No?
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: No, you know? What about what about the following few days?
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: What are you doing?
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: What about the following few days? What are you doing?
• 27:32
  Speaker 5: Nahr man, I don't want to hang out time because
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: he stinks constantly.
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: Stinky?
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: As what's is it the Queen's birthday or something? On
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Monday this week? Is it a what's it called a
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: long thing?
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: Queen? Now?
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: No? King? What's is it a thing? What's it called?
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: The queen? King's birthday?
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: On Monday?
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: The King and the King and the Queen con have
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: my birthday.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: No, but like you know what I mean, now we
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: get a public holiday.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, is it one of them?
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: I thought I thought it was because then we could
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: like drink and like be hung over whatever.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we do have yeah, Ja.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Mark, that was good man. Oh that was so good.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I'm not good at it. That's a success.
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: We don't have to do another one to No, we're
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: gotta take turns.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Success. I reckon we do you sss do another one?
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: I reckon we this week? Next week, I'll do it.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: I swear I'll do it next week. Success. I didn't
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: know where I was going with that. All right, we'll
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: do We'll do it next week's success. Guys, that was
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: good man, that was really good. You're on the spot
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: and you're like, is it a long weekend? This weekend?
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: It is? And you know what, I've got to give
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: it to you.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: Because the rule is obviously we're not allowed to say
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: the word we want them to say. And so your
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: approach started off for like, I was like, oh, fuck,
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: he's trying.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: But then I was I saw him. I was like,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: you're gonna get him say long weekend. Oh, you're way
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: too good at the Holy Ship let's go come back
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: next week because Jake's going to call a friend. He sucks.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: So I'm already stressed, stressful. You're on the spot, you're
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: like and you don't know what you're talking about either. No,
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: that was good. Fuck.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: Alrighty guys, thanks for listening. That's the end of the episode.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: Tune in on Wednesday. We're going to talk about what
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: do we got? First up, I'm excited for this one.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: I'm coming an artist and releasing my first song, but
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: he's releasing his first ever song.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: And then we've got boy logic, boy Logic, and then
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: finishing with a dilemma. A young seventeen year old is
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: trying to figure out whether or not she's de Lulu or.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: Not, and we're obviously going to help her out. Please
• 30:15
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• 30:18
  Speaker 2: Got all the got everything over there, three different levels
• 30:21
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• 30:23
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• 30:27
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• 30:27
  Speaker 1: We're building a community and we love you all. Thanks batties.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: See ya