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DLHS Hour 2 | Dad Gives Clothes Not Cash · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: If you were here for the last debacle, never mind.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, a woman asked her baby daddy for money for
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  Speaker 2: school clothes.
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  Speaker 1: He gets the school clothes. He gets upset. Here you
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  Speaker 1: go right here.
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  Speaker 3: What money at, Chris?
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  Speaker 4: What money I got the clothes? You said my son needed.
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  Speaker 3: I said give me the money and I'll.
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  Speaker 4: Go get it.
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  Speaker 2: Now, Despite the way we were waylaid that last segment,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know where that came from. But what do
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  Speaker 2: you think is the proper response? Do you think that
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  Speaker 2: she should be mad or do you think she like what?
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  Speaker 2: Because her getting mad at it lead me to believe.
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  Speaker 3: You don't have to lead to believe because even if
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  Speaker 3: you when you listen to. Them arguing. She let it slip.
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  Speaker 3: She wanted to get her nails done, too, and something
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  Speaker 3: else that I should be able to. But it was
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  Speaker 3: a whole lot going on. He was like, yo, you
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  Speaker 3: asked for clothes. I got you clothes.
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  Speaker 1: What you tripping on? And he could take that to
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  Speaker 1: the judge and say, this counts as.
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  Speaker 4: Money I gave you.
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  Speaker 1: And she was like, you got the receipt? Nah, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't taking the receipt. Like, she just wanted money.
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  Speaker 3: So in this particular case, I understand where you're coming from, Jay.
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what a lime green tampon
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  Speaker 1: has to do with any of this. Well, not that part.
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  Speaker 5: It's the stupidity sometimes of what the men think.
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  Speaker 1: How old is your oldest now?
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  Speaker 4: 18.
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  Speaker 6: 18.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. So clothes are pretty expensive, right? Clothes, yes.
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  Speaker 7: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: So do you think, I thought he did a solid
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  Speaker 2: thing by like, first off, I think that you should
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  Speaker 2: give them the money, Charles, but you shouldn't have to
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  Speaker 2: itemize it this is just here's the money you owe
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  Speaker 2: they shouldn't have to get but when you specifically ask
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  Speaker 2: for money for a thing and it should be for
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  Speaker 2: that thing and you go and do said thing i'm
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  Speaker 2: totally if you get child support nobody should be able
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  Speaker 2: to tell you what to do but if you ask
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  Speaker 2: for a thing for a thing it should be for
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  Speaker 2: that thing.
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  Speaker 1: Oh correct so i feel like he not like a.
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  Speaker 2: Dumb ass then dumb ass conjecture she just did i'm.
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  Speaker 8: Talking about he's winning he's up he actually should get
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  Speaker 8: a cake yeah yeah last time you took your daughter
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  Speaker 8: yeah I need the money.
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  Speaker 1: That part. Why are you bringing that?
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  Speaker 9: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 10: Hold on.
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  Speaker 1: Most men don't even want to go into the mall
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  Speaker 1: with their kids.
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  Speaker 2: We don't need you to attack this brother because he's
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  Speaker 2: absolutely different.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not attacking him.
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Use your blowgun. Do it
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  Speaker 1: like you do.
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  Speaker 5: He's fresh out.
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  Speaker 8: You ain't got a little spam voodoo dog?
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  Speaker 1: He's fresh out. Do it like you would do a hedgehog.
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  Speaker 1: Do it like that. Do it like you would do Pumbaa. No,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like he's up in my estimation. Yes, because
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  Speaker 1: he just... He took.
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  Speaker 8: He took initiative to me and went ahead and got
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  Speaker 8: the clothes. Because like you said, most of us don't
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  Speaker 8: want to go and do that. So the fact that
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  Speaker 8: he said, let me go and do this. And we
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  Speaker 8: don't know the sizes and all that. All we know
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  Speaker 8: is that the man had the money and went to
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  Speaker 8: the store.
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  Speaker 1: And he thwarted her plan. I don't know if I
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  Speaker 1: believe that. She said she wanted to do some other
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  Speaker 1: stuff besides shopping. She said that.
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  Speaker 5: Now that part, I didn't hear.
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  Speaker 1: And it doesn't make a difference. Any of the parts.
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  Speaker 5: Listen, if we go back to my initial statement.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 5: OK, what I said was I'm going to push back
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  Speaker 5: just a little bit here because I understand.
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  Speaker 1: Shut up.
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  Speaker 5: The point I was making was if he went and
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  Speaker 5: bought the clothes, perhaps they didn't fit.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe the shoes were too small. And in that case,
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  Speaker 1: you need the receipt to.
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  Speaker 4: Return those clothes.
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  Speaker 1: Stop it. You're making some stuff up now. If in
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  Speaker 1: fact she was going to use.
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  Speaker 11: I'm not.
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  Speaker 1: She wanted... We don't know that. We do know what
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  Speaker 1: she said. She said, I was hoping to do some other... Well,
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  Speaker 1: now we're talking about I was hoping to do some
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  Speaker 1: other stuff.
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  Speaker 2: She got mad because she was going to use that
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  Speaker 2: money to do something other than she had said.
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  Speaker 5: Which is why I said I'm going to push back
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  Speaker 5: a little bit. I didn't say I totally disagree with you, Hannibal.
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  Speaker 1: What I said was I'm going to push back.
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  Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I'm going to take chick's side
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  Speaker 5: or a dude's side if I believe in what they're saying.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: The great thing about what you've just done for us
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  Speaker 2: is now we have a sponsor of colored tampons.
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  Speaker 1: They sponsor the show.
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  Speaker 5: First of all, I'm showing you stupidity because they're not
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  Speaker 5: called colored and they don't come in colors.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care what they are. I don't care. That
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  Speaker 1: is why you can't shop for the kids. I don't
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  Speaker 1: care what they are.
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  Speaker 2: All I know is you can't wear them when watching Sinners.
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  Speaker 1: I know that. You can't do that.
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  Speaker 2: So the question we ask is, A woman asked her
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  Speaker 2: baby daddy for money for clothes.
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  Speaker 1: He gets the clothes instead of giving her the money. Now,
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  Speaker 1: who do you think is wrong? We're going to the phones.
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  Speaker 10: I've been there, done that.
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  Speaker 7: And I agree with D.L.
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  Speaker 12: Because if something was wrong with the clothes, she would
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  Speaker 12: have said it. She would have mentioned it. Now, in
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  Speaker 12: my situation, my kids... Dad took them with him to
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  Speaker 12: get them some shoes. When he brought them back, the
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  Speaker 12: shoes were three times too big.
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  Speaker 7: I couldn't understand it. But he had.
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  Speaker 12: Them with him. So I can understand what you're.
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  Speaker 7: Saying, too. But, you know, I still agree with DM
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  Speaker 7: more so.
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  Speaker 13: She got different motives. It doesn't matter if you bought
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  Speaker 13: the clothes or not. You wanted the money to do
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  Speaker 13: something else. But you asked for clothes. He got you clothes.
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  Speaker 13: Now they don't fit or the wrong color, wrong size. Okay,
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  Speaker 13: we can go back and fix that. But I think
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  Speaker 13: she had ulterior motives and do something different with it.
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  Speaker 9: That's what I think.
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  Speaker 4: She was right.
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  Speaker 10: A lot of times we do, as women, we want
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  Speaker 10: to buy the clothes ourselves. We know what size and
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  Speaker 10: stuff they wear and all of that. And we want
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  Speaker 10: to pick what we think is right and how we
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  Speaker 10: look on them. So there's nothing wrong with him giving
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  Speaker 10: her the money.
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  Speaker 4: Believe it or not, I'm a dude, and I got.
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  Speaker 9: A son, and I'm going to kind of lean a
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  Speaker 9: little bit towards what Jasmine is saying for one reason,
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  Speaker 9: and I'll explain it.
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  Speaker 7: That's what she probably going to say this, and she
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  Speaker 7: makes a little sense with it.
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  Speaker 9: There's certain things they need that maybe the guys don't,
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  Speaker 9: the bad don't really know, because I had it happen
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  Speaker 9: to my son one day. I bought some stuff, and
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  Speaker 9: it wasn't that she needed money. It's just that she said,
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  Speaker 9: I needed money for this, or I need specific. It
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  Speaker 9: was some specific things he needed, and I bought some clothes.
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  Speaker 9: She didn't get mad, but she said, that's why I
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  Speaker 9: want money. I don't mind you buying clothes. It's just
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  Speaker 9: that I... So certain things he needed. And that's the
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  Speaker 9: only thing I think that she might say, I don't know.
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  Speaker 9: I'm going to go with that.
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  Speaker 14: Well, I believe, you know, that the guy buying the
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  Speaker 14: child clothes is no problem.
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  Speaker 7: That's actually awesome because we found a lot of these
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  Speaker 7: guys don't even want to take care.
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  Speaker 11: Of their kids.
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  Speaker 14: So for her to have a problem.
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  Speaker 11: With him not giving her the money.
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  Speaker 12: It is obvious that she has other plans.
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  Speaker 11: With the money.
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  Speaker 14: Now, in regards to I'm sorry, I can't remember her name,
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  Speaker 14: her comment in regards to him not buying the right
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  Speaker 14: thing or whatever.
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  Speaker 10: It doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 1: Guess what?
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  Speaker 4: You can always.
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  Speaker 12: Return it and get the right thing.
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  Speaker 14: But it's all it's all about him taking the.
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  Speaker 7: Initiative to get his.
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  Speaker 11: Child, you know, some clothes for school or.
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  Speaker 14: Whatever the occasion was him being a dad. So that's
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  Speaker 14: what we, us women need to realize and get to
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  Speaker 14: the point that when there's a man that wants to
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  Speaker 14: be involved in their child's.
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  Speaker 11: Life, don't make it difficult for these guys.
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  Speaker 4: Not all guys are dead beat dead.
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  Speaker 2: So the question we asked, a woman asked her baby
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  Speaker 2: daddy for money for clothes. He gets the clothes, gets
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  Speaker 2: the clothes instead of giving her the money.
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  Speaker 1: She gets upset. Listen to this.
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  Speaker 3: What money at, Chris?
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  Speaker 4: What money?
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  Speaker 10: I got the clothes you said my son needed.
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  Speaker 1: I said give me the money and I'll go get it.
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  Speaker 1: What you mean?
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  Speaker 4: No, that's not how it works.
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  Speaker 1: You said my son needed clothes, so I bought my
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  Speaker 1: son clothes.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not giving you no cash to spend on whatever
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  Speaker 4: you're going to spend on.
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  Speaker 11: I bought my son clothes.
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  Speaker 1: Are you serious right now?
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  Speaker 4: I'm dead serious.
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  Speaker 11: I went to get my son the stuff that he
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  Speaker 11: needed for school, and he.
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  Speaker 7: Got his clothes, or he's going to take it or not.
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  Speaker 1: Now, who do you think is wrong? We're going to
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  Speaker 1: the phones.
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  Speaker 7: Well, for me, it's like this. She got an ulterior motive.
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  Speaker 7: You know, if she want to cash money, she want
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  Speaker 7: to go get some nails done, some hair done, some pedicure,
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  Speaker 7: go kick it with the girl. Instead of saying, okay, baby,
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  Speaker 7: thank you for the clothes for our child or our children. Now,
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  Speaker 7: if she turn around and want the receipt too, then yeah,
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  Speaker 7: you definitely know that's her agenda. He did right, brought
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  Speaker 7: the clothes, point blank there. And she is trifling for
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  Speaker 7: asking for the money. When you ask for money for clothes,
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  Speaker 7: he gave you the clothes without giving you the money.
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  Speaker 7: You saw it. He still fulfilled his responsibility. So kick rocks,
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  Speaker 7: old young tramp, excuse me, young girl.
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  Speaker 11: I think that the man is all right. She's wrong
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  Speaker 11: for being mad that he bought the clothes and not
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  Speaker 11: give her the money. Evidently, he didn't trust her enough
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  Speaker 11: to give her the money to buy the clothes. So
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  Speaker 11: I don't feel the man was wrong. I feel that
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  Speaker 11: the female was wrong. She sounded like a gold digger.
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  Speaker 7: I wouldn't have gave her a jack.
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  Speaker 4: She said my children needed some clothes, right? Why I
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  Speaker 4: got to give her the money? I would have went
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  Speaker 4: and did just what he did. I would have went
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  Speaker 4: and brought the stuff myself because what she wanted to
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  Speaker 4: do was spend the money on her own self and
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  Speaker 4: get them one thing and get her some stuff. I
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  Speaker 4: wouldn't have gave her nothing.
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  Speaker 7: He did right.
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  Speaker 4: And I do agree.
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  Speaker 7: I say hi.
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  Speaker 4: And this Southside Topper.
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  Speaker 10: Well, I think it's okay.
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  Speaker 4: If the father wants to go out and buy the
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  Speaker 4: child's clothes with.
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  Speaker 14: The money, I don't think that's an issue, for real.
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  Speaker 4: Sometimes we can be too difficult.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we need to work with each other instead
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  Speaker 2: of working against one another.
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  Speaker 7: That's how I feel about that.
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  Speaker 6: I've been in a volunteer project for decades now where
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  Speaker 6: we get black children and their fathers out of the
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  Speaker 6: family court system, particularly child support. And this particular thing
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  Speaker 6: that you talked about on the radio today comes up
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  Speaker 6: every single year for one reason or another. If the
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  Speaker 6: father is paying for the things that the money is
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  Speaker 6: being requested for, then there should be no request for
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  Speaker 6: any additional money if the things that are needed are
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  Speaker 6: being paid for by the father.
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  Speaker 4: To the satisfaction.
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  Speaker 6: Of the well-being of the child. And it's shameful. It's
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  Speaker 6: very shameful. And that very thing that that woman was
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  Speaker 6: complaining about is given support in our taxpayer-funded court system,
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  Speaker 6: which means the service that's being paid by the taxpayer's
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  Speaker 6: And the court system, meaning the family courts, is being
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  Speaker 6: disrupted through dishonorable, unethical behavior.
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  Speaker 2: It is time for our feature. Welcome to the stage.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to spotlight some of the funniest comedians. Some
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  Speaker 2: you know, some you do not today. Welcome to the stage, J.C.
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  Speaker 3: Stadler.
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  Speaker 9: My grandma said the only two things in life that
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  Speaker 9: you worry about, whether you're healthy or whether you're sick.
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  Speaker 1: If you're healthy, you ain't got nothing to worry about.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're sick, you got two things.
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  Speaker 13: To worry about.
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  Speaker 8: Whether you're going to get better.
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  Speaker 6: But you're going to get worse.
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  Speaker 9: You get better.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to worry about.
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  Speaker 13: But if you get worse, you got two things to
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  Speaker 13: worry about.
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  Speaker 1: Whether you're going to live or you're going to die.
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  Speaker 1: If you live, you.
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  Speaker 13: Ain't got nothing to worry about.
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  Speaker 4: But if you die, you got two things.
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  Speaker 13: Whether you're going to heaven, whether you're going to hell.
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  Speaker 2: If you go to heaven, you ain't got nothing to
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  Speaker 2: worry about.
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  Speaker 12: But if you go to hell, you got two things.
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  Speaker 4: Original or extra crispy.