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ADVICE FOR YOUR YOUNGER SELF!! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables, risk.
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  Speaker 5: feel like you've got those people in your life and
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  Speaker 5: of it, just let go because otherwise you're going to
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  Speaker 5: be stuck in that people pleasing giving person all the
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  Speaker 5: time and not allowing people in your life to give
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  Speaker 5: the energy back that you use out.
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  Speaker 6: If that makes sense. I love that one.
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  Speaker 6: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka
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  Speaker 6: I'm thinking I might start saying my podcaster in crime.
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  Speaker 6: Well we always say my partner in crime, my podcaster
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  Speaker 6: in crime.
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  Speaker 1: I kind of like that very on theme.
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  Speaker 6: Something like that my podcast something we'll think of something.
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  Speaker 6: But today, guys, we have a kind of special episode.
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  Speaker 6: It is a little bit a very wholesome. This is
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  Speaker 6: going to be a special wholesome. We really got the idea,
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  Speaker 6: so I already got the idea actually from a couple
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  Speaker 6: episodes ago we had because we call people at the
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  Speaker 6: end to sign off, but the listener, Beth, she gave
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  Speaker 6: just like really good advice. Yeah, And so we thought,
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  Speaker 6: let's do an episode where we get all quite a
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  Speaker 6: few of the baddies to send in their like name, number, age, right,
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  Speaker 6: and then we said, the reason that they like signing
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  Speaker 6: up is because we're gonna call them for an episode
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  Speaker 6: and they're gonna we're gonna ask them for like advice
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  Speaker 6: that they would give to their self when they were twenty,
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  Speaker 6: or like their younger self if they're only twenty at
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  Speaker 6: the moment, and just see what everyone's got, because everyone's
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  Speaker 6: got a different pearl here and there.
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  Speaker 1: I like this for a couple of reasons. Actually, One
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  Speaker 1: because we get to talk to the baddies, which is
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  Speaker 1: very good plug if you want to join in in
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  Speaker 1: any of these things in the future. It's on the
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  Speaker 1: Facebook group yep Relatables Batties Unite. But two also, when
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  Speaker 1: we first started this podcast, I thought it was going
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  Speaker 1: to be so cool to create this audience but also
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  Speaker 1: give back to them in a way, because it's kind
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  Speaker 1: of rare when you can give someone a voice to
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  Speaker 1: thousands of people. So the people were calling their advice
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  Speaker 1: is going to impact more than just one two people
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  Speaker 1: in a conversation, which I think is such a cool concept.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, well, we would think we think because of the
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  Speaker 6: question that we're going to be asking everyone, we should
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  Speaker 6: start off quickly with advice that we would give to
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  Speaker 6: our twenty year olds.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like there's some pressure on us to give
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  Speaker 1: some good advice. Yeah wait is there?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah? It should we thought of people that would give
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  Speaker 6: really great advice.
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  Speaker 1: I think we need to take that away, and like
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  Speaker 1: every advice is individualized, Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Because I'm thinking about my twenty year old self.
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  Speaker 1: Like someone's advice might just be like, save you money,
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  Speaker 1: which is good advice. That's a good that's good advice. Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Ye see if someone wants their twenty five year OLDLF,
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  Speaker 6: if someone's their twenty year old self to have.
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  Speaker 1: Saved money, to be fair, I wish I did. Yeah exactly. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but okay, what is your advice you would give your
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  Speaker 1: twenty year old self?
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  Speaker 6: Jake, shit, Okay, I reckon. So I'm happy that I
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  Speaker 6: I finished my apprenticeship and everything. What's my twenty four you?
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  Speaker 6: I'm the advice I will give myself is like as
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  Speaker 6: of when I was twenty, right, Yeah, I would say, like,
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  Speaker 6: really feel the feelings you're feeling, because I know what
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  Speaker 6: I was feeling at the time, and like back yourself
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  Speaker 6: and go with your gut. Don't just do something because
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  Speaker 6: you think it's right. Do it because it's right for you.
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  Speaker 6: Do it because that's how you're feeling. Yeah, because when
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  Speaker 6: I was twenty, I was really like it was it
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  Speaker 6: was just a massive Oh man, I don't want to
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  Speaker 6: finish this apprenticeship. I don't want to fuck it. I
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  Speaker 6: hate what I'm doing. There was so much. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 6: think just more confidence in.
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  Speaker 1: The decisions, doing things for you how you feel, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because that's what you want to do.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah. Maybe the best advice I would say actually is
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  Speaker 6: start the podcast now started at twenty, Please please start.
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  Speaker 1: At a twenty I'm happy about journey. That would be
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  Speaker 1: sick that magically it would be.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, i'd say back myself like I didn't, Yeah I had,
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  Speaker 6: I had didn't feel pressure from anyone.
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  Speaker 1: But it's funny how much maturing really does. Yeah help. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you don't think of when you're twenty, but you're like
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  Speaker 1: you're like, no, I know everything about now Yeah, maturing
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  Speaker 1: and going through life really does wonders, doesn't it?
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  Speaker 6: One hundred percent? Have you got any what advice would
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  Speaker 6: you give to twenty year old Bodie A.
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  Speaker 1: Few things floating around in the brain.
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  Speaker 6: There's so much you could give. Yeah, yeah, what's your favorite?
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  Speaker 1: My favorite one right now, which is sort of reoccurring,
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  Speaker 1: what would I tell myself in my twenties? The world
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  Speaker 1: gives back the amount of effort you put in, So, like,
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  Speaker 1: I think a big misconception in life is that doing
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  Speaker 1: something that is stereotypically good in society's eyes, but doing
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  Speaker 1: that because that's told what you're meant to do, but
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  Speaker 1: putting in a minimalist way, like not putting in a
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  Speaker 1: lot of effort isn't very good in my eyes. And
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  Speaker 1: I think rather putting a lot of effort into something
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  Speaker 1: you loved that stereotypically isn't that good, is such a
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  Speaker 1: better avenue to go through in life because you enjoy
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  Speaker 1: things a lot more, and like life will give back
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  Speaker 1: because you're putting so much in rather than just doing
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  Speaker 1: something because that's what you're told to do, sort of
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  Speaker 1: along the same lines as yours.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, shit, fux, that's a good one. Wow, God, there's
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  Speaker 6: got to be more. I actually think another one that
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  Speaker 6: I would want to give myself, maybe my younger self, right,
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  Speaker 6: is you were right when you thought it was manipulation, controversy,
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  Speaker 6: You were when you thought it goes goes to trust
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  Speaker 6: your gut. You were right when you thought it was
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  Speaker 6: a manipulation. You did have a bit of a that
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  Speaker 6: would go back to younger than twenty. That would be
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  Speaker 6: for my late sixteen, all of seventeen year old self.
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  Speaker 1: You did have a tough way of figuring out what
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  Speaker 1: love is like. Yeah, a bit of a tricky journey.
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  Speaker 6: Didn't you give me some advice mate? That ain't love?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like your best advice would be break up?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you've thought about it so
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  Speaker 6: much as do it. Actually, the best bit of advice
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  Speaker 6: would be for my eighteen year old self, don't get
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  Speaker 6: back together with her, don't have sex of her, don't
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  Speaker 6: get back together with the trust me you don't want
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  Speaker 6: to know.
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  Speaker 1: Your best advice would be don't message your in the
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  Speaker 1: first place.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, blocker, no contract were oute.
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  Speaker 1: Oh but we're starting in a very special way today,
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  Speaker 1: j can't.
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  Speaker 2: We we are?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, we're actually gonna the first caller we're going to
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  Speaker 6: have is the first person calling. He's going to be
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  Speaker 6: my dad, because I don't know, I think he might
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  Speaker 6: hit us with a pearler. So I've called he he's
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  Speaker 6: had a four warning warning. Yeah, I called him beforehand,
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  Speaker 6: and the question the advice he's doing is. I said, like,
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  Speaker 6: what's advice you, now, at fifty two, would give your
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  Speaker 6: twenty five year old self.
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  Speaker 1: I think this one's good too, because he's the only
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  Speaker 1: person over fifty we're calling.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, so he was a bit like and fair enough too.
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  Speaker 6: He's probably like, oh she's I was okay, you got
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  Speaker 6: ten minutes. He was like, oh, okay, imagine comes and
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  Speaker 6: spits a bar.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah hopefully. I mean you're like Brett, who, Yeah, who
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  Speaker 1: is that?
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  Speaker 6: So we've told yeah, I.
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  Speaker 1: Mean, I'm I'm I'm intrigued. Let's give him a ring.
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  Speaker 6: Ah, Hello, Dad, is that you?
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  Speaker 1: It's crazy.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't kind of even call you or anything.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy, Brett, there's a garden. Good, very good. Uh.
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  Speaker 6: So we've told everyone that you've had forewarning of what
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  Speaker 6: the question would be, so we don't know what your
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  Speaker 6: advice to your twenty five year old self is going
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  Speaker 6: to be though, but we're very intrigued. Have you thought
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  Speaker 6: of something?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: I have.
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  Speaker 6: So what advice would you give you twenty five year
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  Speaker 6: old self? As a fifty two year old man, what
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  Speaker 6: advice would you give your twenty five year old self?
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  Speaker 8: Oh? I thought about a few things. I think definitely
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  Speaker 8: start hair transplant therapy.
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  Speaker 1: Is this advice for Jay?
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  Speaker 6: This is advice for me?
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  Speaker 8: Have a look at the family tree.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, that's all we need.
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  Speaker 8: I did think of one thing, honestly, Yeah, I reckon.
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  Speaker 8: The best advice would be to myself and on twenty
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  Speaker 8: five is just don't take life too seriously.
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  Speaker 6: Oh I like that.
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 6: That's a good one.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks, that's actually really good, Thank you very much.
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  Speaker 8: Sometimes it's not real easy to do.
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  Speaker 6: No, no, I mean it's to be fair like I mean,
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  Speaker 6: how seriously do you reckon? You have taken it because
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  Speaker 6: you're not like a very high guy.
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  Speaker 5: No I'm not.
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  Speaker 8: But I reckon too seriously at times I do think. Yeah,
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  Speaker 8: I mean, you know, you just you just see what
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  Speaker 8: you do.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, it's easy to get caught up in the
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  Speaker 1: hustle and bustle, isn't it.
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  Speaker 8: Absolutely Yeah, I.
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  Speaker 6: Didn't like it. Well, thank you very much.
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  Speaker 8: Too easy, and have a good day.
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  Speaker 6: I'll see you at the end of this month.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, you will not worried.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday for the other day.
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  Speaker 8: But to sorry, I'm trying to go Gold Coast traffic
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  Speaker 8: and I'm still that way around.
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  Speaker 1: Fair enough, Thank you, sell you guys. Bye.
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  Speaker 6: That's fun. He didn't see it. He didn't hear his
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  Speaker 6: happy birthday. That's so funny. That was actually good advice.
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  Speaker 1: I like that. I like the theme of what the
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  Speaker 1: episode is going to be.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, don't take yourself too seriously. Yeah, I think that's
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  Speaker 6: good for us too. Like I was trying to it's
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  Speaker 6: kind of hard, like over the phone. It's probably like
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  Speaker 6: easier that you and I maybe like kind of dissected
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  Speaker 6: a bit, right. I was trying to think about, like
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  Speaker 6: what it would really mean because I was trying to
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  Speaker 6: apply it to how how we are.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's like our job is very cool and we're
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  Speaker 1: very appreciative of that, although we do let the little
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  Speaker 1: business side of things well I do anyone. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know about you, what i't want to talk for you
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  Speaker 1: like sometimes get in the way and it gets a
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  Speaker 1: little bit stressful. But like honestly, if we just took
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  Speaker 1: a little step back and like, yeah, well, like it's
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  Speaker 1: just gonna work itself out. Like the difference between what
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing right now and if I didn't care, like really,
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  Speaker 1: isn't that big?
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  Speaker 6: No, Yeah, it's kind of like, again, what's another way
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  Speaker 6: to say? It's kind of so don't take everything, like,
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  Speaker 6: don't take life so seriously? Is it kind of like
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  Speaker 6: a way of saying, don't sweat the small things, Like, yeah, reckon,
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  Speaker 6: it's because some people obviously sweat the small things. You
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  Speaker 6: don't want to say like, oh you shouldn't because maybe
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  Speaker 6: I don't know how they're feeling.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I think we're pretty cruisy, like we aren't too much.
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  Speaker 6: But even like when we did Shits and Gigs the
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  Speaker 6: podcast studio that we hired, a great looking studio, final
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  Speaker 6: product was amazing, but the customer service we have spoken
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  Speaker 6: about to this day terrible. With our manager. Yeah, we
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  Speaker 6: have spoken about it via WhatsApp chat group at least
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  Speaker 6: three times a week to this Yeah, and I mean, look,
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  Speaker 6: I stand by everything we've said, but again, it's kind
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  Speaker 6: of like I guess it's over.
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  Speaker 1: I guess and it worked. If it all works out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: don't sweat the small stuff. But it's so hard. Like
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  Speaker 1: when we're in it, sort of your emotions takeover and
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  Speaker 1: we're like this is so shit, Like, oh, that's bullshit.
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  Speaker 1: They didn't remember that. So it's sort of like I
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  Speaker 1: guess taking a step away and being like does it
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  Speaker 1: really matter? No? No, No, it's all going to work out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're just going to play with the cards your dell mate.
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  Speaker 1: We're starting off with a bit of a bang up.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah shit, Okay, who's next? Who's next? Okay? Ready, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 6: we'll go. We've got Amity.
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  Speaker 1: Amity. That's a cool name.
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  Speaker 9: Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, is that Amity?
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  Speaker 7: Yes it is.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to say a big thank you for
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  Speaker 1: picking up first ring. Firstly, this is Jake and Odi
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  Speaker 1: from the Relatables podcast. How you going here? You going?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: Good.
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  Speaker 1: We have a couple of questions we would like to
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  Speaker 1: ask you, if that's all right? Yeah. First one is
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  Speaker 1: are we all right to ask your age?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I'm twenty twenty. Okay, okay, this one is interesting. We
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  Speaker 1: would love to ask what's some advice you would give
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  Speaker 1: your younger self.
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  Speaker 2: Don't get too deep into the fields and just let
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  Speaker 2: shit happens because at the end of the day, everything
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  Speaker 2: happens for a reason, and people aren't going to change just.
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  Speaker 3: Because you make your old mail or something.
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  Speaker 6: Oh drop, that was so good at the end.
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  Speaker 1: It's apite a bit of a bar the end. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: twenty two.
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  Speaker 6: That is very very it's twenty years old as well.
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  Speaker 1: That's way better than I would have given. I think
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people would love to hear that. Like,
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  Speaker 1: drama feels good when you're trying to like cause it,
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  Speaker 1: but it really doesn't get anything out.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah in the moment, but like it's just not worth it.
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  Speaker 1: Couldn't agree, but it just creates just.
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  Speaker 2: Like so much bullshit people just don't need.
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  Speaker 5: And it doesn't change.
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  Speaker 9: It doesn't change what's going to happen at the end
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  Speaker 9: of the day. I suppose.
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  Speaker 6: Oh that's a good point.
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  Speaker 1: Actually it doesn't change the outcome does very good point.
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  Speaker 6: So yeah, that's that's a good one. Thank you very much, Amity.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, so you later have a good day.
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  Speaker 6: By Oh shit, man, that was good.
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  Speaker 1: I'm loving this episode. This is interesting. This is very interesting.
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  Speaker 1: Let's dissect it.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, wait the mic drop at the.
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  Speaker 1: End though, Yeah, the drama. Oh just let it happen,
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  Speaker 1: like it's not get caught up in the field. It's
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  Speaker 1: sort of like it's hard to hear, but it's like
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  Speaker 1: it's not that deep.
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  Speaker 6: True, some things, some things are that deep, yes, but
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  Speaker 6: some things genuinely just are not that deep.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely a time and a place
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  Speaker 1: to deep it. But yeah, most of the time, as
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  Speaker 1: little as like I don't know, maybe.
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  Speaker 6: Something doesn't go right at a restaurant, like there's so
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  Speaker 6: many people in this world that would be more than
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  Speaker 6: happy or fucking cause a scene, yeah, waiter, or what else.
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm thinking, like taking myself back to high school,
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  Speaker 1: seeing something from like a third's point of view, like
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  Speaker 1: a third person POV. You saw a lot of girl
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  Speaker 1: groups have drama.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, that was a bit kind of a common theme
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  Speaker 6: at our school. Yeah, I think that's relatable.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of girl groups do these things and someone
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  Speaker 1: retaliates because something bad has happened to them, and fair enough,
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  Speaker 1: it's made you feel a certain way. But the older
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  Speaker 1: we get, I'm trying to interpret what she was saying.
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like, just that person's done that for a reason,
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  Speaker 1: move on, like you don't have to continue the drama
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  Speaker 1: and make it go on and on and on.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like causing a scene out of something someone
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  Speaker 6: has done to you isn't going to change what they did.
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  Speaker 1: To you exactly.
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  Speaker 6: You know. It's it's a lot easier and a lot
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  Speaker 6: a lot less energy consuming to just Oh.
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  Speaker 1: There's a good case of advice that I'll give my
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  Speaker 1: younger self, protect your peace or protect your energy. Facts, bro.
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  Speaker 1: It took me a while to realize where all my
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  Speaker 1: energy was going. And I was getting to the end
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  Speaker 1: of the day.
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  Speaker 6: My god, I'm exhausted.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, facts, And I was trying to please all these
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  Speaker 1: people I didn't need to please, and I was doing
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  Speaker 1: all these things I didn't do, like and I stopped
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  Speaker 1: like prioritizing other people's feelings.
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  Speaker 6: That kind of sounds to be a little selfish. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I think there's a time and a place to be selfish.
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  Speaker 6: I agree. Okay, we'll go. We've got Alex.
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  Speaker 2: Hello.
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  Speaker 6: Hello, is this Alex?
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  Speaker 3: Yes speaking Alex.
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  Speaker 6: This is Jake and Addie from the relator. Was how
• 16:00
  Speaker 6: you going well? How are you doing really well?
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: We got your your.
• 16:06
  Speaker 6: Name and number from the submissions that are you put
• 16:08
  Speaker 6: in the Facebook group? Yes, and so I think what
• 16:14
  Speaker 6: was the we've got a question for you.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: Is it all right if we asked your age first?
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: Yes, that's fine.
• 16:21
  Speaker 9: How Alex Tue.
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: Thirty three, Well, firstly, thank you for submitting, and we
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: have a question for you. Yes, we would like to
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: ask some advice you would tell yourself in your twenties
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: or your younger self.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: Advice I would tell my younger self. I think it
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: would be just to not care so much about what
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: other people think.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good one.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, it really impacts I think how you then
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: do things in your life, Like you kind of, you know,
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: follow their passway or something like that. But if you
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: just kind of don't give a crap about it, What age.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: Do you create that you sort of start to figure
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: that out.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: I'd probably say, like, honestly myself mid to late twenties,
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: but I wish I worked it out sort of early
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: to mid twenties.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: Fair enough.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, that's a good developmental phase in life.
• 17:24
  Speaker 6: It's like a super relatable one. Though everyone cares what
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: everyone thinks when you're younger, Hey, they.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: Do, and I think, yeah, we need to stop caring
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: so much about it.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: I feel like you have more freedom and more fun
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: and you start being yourself and you stop caring.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely one hundred percent.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: We thank you so much.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: No, you're very welcome. Thank you for calling. I forgot
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: you guys. I forgot you. Guys were calling and I'm like,
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: I reckon, this is them. I was like, I'm in
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: a study day with work and I'm like, oh, I'm
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: just going to excuse myself for a second and walk out.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: I'm like, don't normally answer private calls, but that's fine.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: Appreciate a work.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Oh that was good.
• 18:09
  Speaker 6: Don't care for people think.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: I feel like we're really trying to implement that. That's funny.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: You said the other day. Was it on Patreon or
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: normal episode where the comments sort of affected you? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: that's Patreon.
• 18:19
  Speaker 6: I think it was Patreon, I believe.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And you're like, really dying and it only affected
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: you for a couple of minutes, but you're like, it
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: almost ruined your whole day.
• 18:26
  Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I could have lucky.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: It was at the end of the day. I was
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: about to go to bed. I slept it off. Oh man.
• 18:32
  Speaker 6: But yeah, not caring what people think, it's I find
• 18:35
  Speaker 6: I'm trying to think like there's so many even like
• 18:41
  Speaker 6: when when people are young, they have way less of
• 18:44
  Speaker 6: a filter. Yes, I feel like when you're young you
• 18:47
  Speaker 6: have less empathy because you haven't really discovered what empathy
• 18:49
  Speaker 6: is yet, right, true. And as little as like someone
• 18:56
  Speaker 6: buying a pair of shoes that they thought they liked
• 18:58
  Speaker 6: and then wearing them to school and then someone's like,
• 19:02
  Speaker 6: nice choice, like those are fucking shit.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: No, you said that to me the other day, and
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: then on what on my Nike? Would stand by it?
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: I stand by it? Yeah, my tens I bought.
• 19:14
  Speaker 6: But here's a thing. I know what you're saying is
• 19:17
  Speaker 6: the advice is you shouldn't care what I say.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you also take it one step further. You
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: shouldn't say anything.
• 19:24
  Speaker 6: No, true, I shouldn't say anything. I shouldn't care. I
• 19:27
  Speaker 6: shouldn't care. To be fair, I mean, if you wore
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: I'm not going to fucking in public. I'm not gonna
• 19:31
  Speaker 6: be like, OHI what the fuck in front of each
• 19:33
  Speaker 6: of people. But it's just like you really I don't
• 19:38
  Speaker 6: know little things. But then it's like if that happened
• 19:41
  Speaker 6: when you were younger, or if it happened to me
• 19:44
  Speaker 6: when I was younger, like I wouldn't never wear those
• 19:45
  Speaker 6: shoes again, probably even when I'm thirty.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it takes a lot to come out of your
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: shell and start like expressing yourself. Like me, for example,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: I wear quite bright and colorful clothes, which during school,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: when a couple of years out of I didn't do
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: because I always like that and I knew I liked that,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: but that wasn't normal, so instead I would just wear
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: what like every other boy wore. Simple thing is that
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: now I'm wearing color and I really like I like
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: on the gym and a bright pink shirt and a
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: pink hat. I wear my gold t ns there. Mate, Like,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: that sounds like such a neat but it sounds like
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: it's so true though. I think that's really good advice
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: and the sooner you can implement that and hearing that
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: from other it's so good to hear advice from like
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: your dad, for example. But even when I hear advice
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: from my parents, I'm like, hey, whatever, dad, Yeah, it's
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: just like, because they're like so much older, you just
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: like sort of take it and don't really take it
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: in I'm not saying it's bad advice by any means.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's what every kid does. But hearing
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: it from people who are of similar age, I think
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: is a really useful tool because I don't know something
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: about that dynamic makes the information, even though it's not
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: more valuable, seem more valuable. You know what I'm saying.
• 20:52
  Speaker 6: I think it's it's more when it comes from certain people,
• 20:55
  Speaker 6: it's more valuable.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, if you gave me a piece of advice
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: and my dad's gave me the insame piece advice, I
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: would listen to you more fair. Yeah. Fair. I find
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: like in certain things, like if it's something with life experience,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: you would listen to the elderly, like I was giving
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: like fashion advice.
• 21:10
  Speaker 6: Y yeah, but like the best bit of advice my
• 21:13
  Speaker 6: dad ever gave me, and for some reason I didn't.
• 21:15
  Speaker 6: I think he kind of just gave it as like
• 21:16
  Speaker 6: a throwaway thing. Remember he gave me was like a
• 21:20
  Speaker 6: throwaway thing, and he was just like he was just like, yeah,
• 21:24
  Speaker 6: if you like to be the happiest in life, you
• 21:27
  Speaker 6: just figure out what you love and try and make
• 21:29
  Speaker 6: money doing that. I was like, oh, unintentionally, I've done
• 21:33
  Speaker 6: that subconsciously.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, isn't that funny?
• 21:36
  Speaker 6: I reckon of advice you gave me.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: You hear that, and you're like, yeah, man, Dad.
• 21:41
  Speaker 6: At the time, I was like, that's ship advice. Yes,
• 21:44
  Speaker 6: I was like, genuinely, that's fucking terrible advice because act
• 21:46
  Speaker 6: like I'm not gonna make like there's I'm not good
• 21:50
  Speaker 6: enough to be a professional athlete. I like riding my bike,
• 21:55
  Speaker 6: but I don't want to be a mountain bike rider.
• 21:57
  Speaker 6: I liked it. What.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, what do you mean when you're a kid?
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Advice sort of sounds cliche or unrealistic because you're like whatever.
• 22:04
  Speaker 6: It does grow into it. Advice is most cliche thing ever.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, who should we?
• 22:10
  Speaker 6: We will go next, We'll go let's call someone else. Okay,
• 22:12
  Speaker 6: we got Chloe. This is Jake and Oddy from the Relatables.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: How are you no? Why swell.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: The How how are you going?
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: Oh good? We're just finished up finishing up her work?
• 22:32
  Speaker 6: So nice?
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Nice?
• 22:34
  Speaker 6: Well, yeah, we would like to ask you a couple
• 22:36
  Speaker 6: of questions.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: If that's okay, Yeah, that's that's fine.
• 22:39
  Speaker 6: First one, are we all right to ask your age?
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 22:43
  Speaker 6: How old are you?
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: I'm twenty three.
• 22:45
  Speaker 6: Twenty three okay. Next question is what is some advice
• 22:49
  Speaker 6: that you would give to your twenty year old self
• 22:52
  Speaker 6: or maybe younger self.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Hmm, take your time, no rush.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Probably that risk is temporary and regret it is forever.
• 23:11
  Speaker 7: Also take the risk.
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: Oh did you come up there on the spot?
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: That was a bar too?
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: Why that?
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: I can't believe you guys are calling me.
• 23:28
  Speaker 6: I'm happy we did under pressure.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: It did good.
• 23:31
  Speaker 6: It was a great one. What would you?
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: Uh?
• 23:35
  Speaker 6: Wow, I'm just thinking what time for risks are you
• 23:37
  Speaker 6: going to start taking?
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: Or what risk have you taken at twenty three already?
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Do you think.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: I opened a business with my dad? Yeah, like coroner,
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: like co owners of the business.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Oh what's your business? If you don't mind just asking?
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: Ah?
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: Sorry, we're in like a shopping center and we do
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: like through cafe thought part thing.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Oh where is it? Give it a shower in Ballarat? Yep?
• 24:03
  Speaker 6: Yeah from Ballarat?
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Oh really yeah?
• 24:08
  Speaker 6: There you go and it's in wat shopping center.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: Stop player, awesome, there you go.
• 24:13
  Speaker 6: Everybody go find it.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Well thanks for so much that No, thank you.
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: Keep killing it, Chloe, wo killing it you guys, thank you,
• 24:24
  Speaker 6: thank you having.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: Today by you two bye? Wait that was Oi.
• 24:29
  Speaker 6: When she was saying it, I was like it was
• 24:32
  Speaker 6: like being nice, and I was like, wait, I'm not
• 24:35
  Speaker 6: sure how I feel about this.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Say it again.
• 24:37
  Speaker 6: Risk is temporary, Okay, risk is temporary, Regret is forever,
• 24:43
  Speaker 6: So take the risk.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I feel like that should be like a tattoo or
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: something that was so sick. Honestly, I can relate to
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: that in so many different ways as well, like honestly, oh,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: I'm talking away. That's a fucking sick one. Thinking about
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: myself at twenty and all the things I want to
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: do and I didn't do it, and I sort of regret,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: like you said at the start, like starting the podcast,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: even though we didn't have the idea we were written
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: on starting earlier, like every single person take the risks. Yeah.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: I might have been twenty at the time.
• 25:13
  Speaker 6: Actually it would have been. It's probably I could go
• 25:15
  Speaker 6: check my Instagram. The video is probably still up. But
• 25:18
  Speaker 6: I remember for my birthday when I for my twenty
• 25:20
  Speaker 6: year old birthday, I got my I wanted a camera.
• 25:23
  Speaker 6: I remember this and I was like, the fuck, wouldn't
• 25:26
  Speaker 6: it be sick like to just make videos?
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 25:28
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't just be fucking actic. I made one video.
• 25:32
  Speaker 6: I might have made two videos, but yeah, my girlfriend
• 25:37
  Speaker 6: at the time. I just remember like going out one
• 25:39
  Speaker 6: AVO to a party. We got drunk and I was
• 25:43
  Speaker 6: like getting to a point where the relationship was getting
• 25:45
  Speaker 6: like back end and we used to fight when we
• 25:49
  Speaker 6: were drunk a bit, and yeah, I don't know. She
• 25:53
  Speaker 6: just was like, you're changing.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I remember this is a video thing.
• 25:57
  Speaker 6: I was like, it's fine.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: I was like, I like it changing.
• 26:00
  Speaker 6: I was like, I want to try.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: It's like, has that bad?
• 26:02
  Speaker 6: And at the time I didn't realize I was growing.
• 26:07
  Speaker 6: I was like, well, maybe I'm changing, And so I
• 26:09
  Speaker 6: stopped making I stopped doing it, and like, I guess
• 26:12
  Speaker 6: if I really wanted to do it, I would have
• 26:13
  Speaker 6: kept doing it. But yeah, it was just like, yeah,
• 26:16
  Speaker 6: so I kind of wish maybe And again fear of
• 26:19
  Speaker 6: what people think.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: Hmm. It comes back to that. And also like it's
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: hard to realize what barriers you will face when you
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: take the risk, but it's sort of like staying true
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: to what you want to do and who you want
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: to be. Whereas like your barrier was your girlfriend, Like
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: it's not her fault, you didn't do it, it was just
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: a barrier that popped up, But like in hindsight, you
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: knew what you wanted, and if you could have told
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: yourself just tapped you on the shoulder and been like,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: just keep going, yeah, just do it, Just keep doing it.
• 26:48
  Speaker 6: Those ideas that you've got. One time, Jack and I
• 26:51
  Speaker 6: actually filmed a video that I never edited or posted,
• 26:54
  Speaker 6: and I'd say that the footage is long gone in
• 26:57
  Speaker 6: existence somewhere and terrible idea. The video is definitely shit,
• 27:03
  Speaker 6: but it just makes me think, like, imagine, if like you,
• 27:05
  Speaker 6: just because that's where you start, you stick to it, right, Yeah,
• 27:09
  Speaker 6: it's like, it's funny.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Another piece of advice they are coming
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: to me now that I'll tell my younger self is
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: you're going to be bad at something when you try
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: something new, and that's okay.
• 27:20
  Speaker 6: Oh my god, no one is an expert on the
• 27:22
  Speaker 6: first fucking try.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: The hardest thing about we obviously bring it back to
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: social media because we did this podcast, But the hardest
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: thing about doing anything new, especially on social media is
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: because you're open to so many eyes, is there's the
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: assumption that you have to be a pro at it
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: straight away, where in reality, imagine if you tried to
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: ride a bike for the first time at like twenty
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: and you just like fell over, you'd be like, well,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: that's normal, I've never done it before. But for some
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: reason on social media, when you post a video and
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: it doesn't go viral, you're like that was disheartening, wasn't it.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah that again, Yeah, yeah, that way. It's the same
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: thing riding vike. Yeah, but I bet you'd get up
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: from falling over on the bike. Try again, try again
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: after a couple of months, six months, give you a
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: fucking pro mate.
• 28:06
  Speaker 6: But yes, risk is temporary, regret last forever, So take
• 28:10
  Speaker 6: the risk is crazy?
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: The baddie coming with some heat.
• 28:12
  Speaker 6: That okay. Next we have Olivia Helene.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Hello Olivia, it's Audi and Jake from the laateds podcast.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: How are you going good?
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: Thank you? How are you?
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: We're very very good. Firstly, we want to say thank
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: you for picking up. Do you mind if we ask
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: your age?
• 28:28
  Speaker 6: Yes?
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Twenty six, twenty six six perfect And today's theme of
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: the episode is giving your twenty year old self some
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: advice or your younger self if that suits better. Could
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: we please pose that question to you? You can, oh god,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: take your time to no rush.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: Don't sweat the small stuff.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: Don't sweat this. There you go. When do you reckon
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: you start to implement that a little bit more.
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: The older you got, umm, probably the last year and
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: a half, two years.
• 29:01
  Speaker 6: I'd say, yeah, yeah, fair enough.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough. Well that's some great advice. Thank you
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: very much.
• 29:07
  Speaker 6: Thank you, have a good day. Okay. Next we have Lotus.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Oh another cool name.
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: Unique, Hello, missus, Socius. Hello is so Lotus? Sorry you
• 29:26
  Speaker 6: caught us off guard there. You answered that very properly.
• 29:27
  Speaker 6: This is jaking andy from the relatables. How are you?
• 29:30
  Speaker 9: No, it's not, it is.
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: You're the first person to answer with their name. Each
• 29:35
  Speaker 6: time some of everyone says hello, and we'll be like, oh, Lotus,
• 29:37
  Speaker 6: is that you go?
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: How are you going?
• 29:46
  Speaker 9: I'm really well?
• 29:47
  Speaker 8: How are you doing?
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Really really good?
• 29:50
  Speaker 6: We would like to ask you a couple of questions
• 29:52
  Speaker 6: if that's okay, oh so, first one is is it
• 29:56
  Speaker 6: all right if we ask how old you are?
• 29:59
  Speaker 9: Yes?
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: Oh shit?
• 30:01
  Speaker 9: How old am I? Twenty four?
• 30:03
  Speaker 6: Twenty four? Next question is, yep, what is some advice
• 30:08
  Speaker 6: that you would give your twenty year old self or
• 30:11
  Speaker 6: maybe your younger self?
• 30:13
  Speaker 9: Oh my god, am I love to swear?
• 30:14
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 30:17
  Speaker 9: The motto is fuck it, just do it.
• 30:20
  Speaker 6: Honestly.
• 30:20
  Speaker 9: I can get yourself. Just go for it?
• 30:26
  Speaker 6: Have you? Have you implemented that at twenty four?
• 30:31
  Speaker 9: Yes, that's this year's what I'll just fuck it and
• 30:34
  Speaker 9: go for it.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: What sort of things are you doing this year? If
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: you don't mind us asking?
• 30:38
  Speaker 9: I am starting my own social media marketing agency. Yeah
• 30:47
  Speaker 9: I know, but happening. And then I just moved back
• 30:51
  Speaker 9: from the Goldie back to the Hunter Valley to save
• 30:54
  Speaker 9: to then move to my dream city.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: Oh where do you dream city?
• 30:59
  Speaker 9: It's so gross?
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: But pers Oh, Per's supposed to be beautiful up.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: And coming up there?
• 31:06
  Speaker 7: It's up and common it.
• 31:08
  Speaker 6: So are you going to start the your agency now?
• 31:11
  Speaker 6: Are you waiting till you get to Perth?
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: I am no.
• 31:15
  Speaker 9: It's going live on the twentieth of this month. It's
• 31:18
  Speaker 9: called Solace Socials and it's a hospitality based agency.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Very cool.
• 31:25
  Speaker 6: So what are we going to as a hospitality Will
• 31:26
  Speaker 6: you go to like hospitality venues and asked to run
• 31:30
  Speaker 6: their socials? Is that how it works?
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Pretty well.
• 31:33
  Speaker 9: So I live in the Hunter Valley and I pretty
• 31:36
  Speaker 9: well worked in the lot. So it's the wineries for
• 31:39
  Speaker 9: a few years and I love wine and food and whatnot,
• 31:42
  Speaker 9: So I've got a few contacts already, but just need
• 31:45
  Speaker 9: a branch out.
• 31:46
  Speaker 6: That's awesome. Actually, I I when I was a carpenter apprentice,
• 31:50
  Speaker 6: I worked at per Colbyn at A one. Yeah. Yeah,
• 31:55
  Speaker 6: I was working for a company that built a winery
• 31:57
  Speaker 6: and I was working winery.
• 31:59
  Speaker 9: Oh crap, Oh my god, don't come to you with
• 32:01
  Speaker 9: half a story.
• 32:05
  Speaker 6: It's it's called Oh it's like just like the whole
• 32:11
  Speaker 6: winery is made of like really nice hardwood.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Every winery.
• 32:16
  Speaker 9: Yeah, that's all of them. Oh my god, I live
• 32:20
  Speaker 9: in per COLBN.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: No, I have to know what this is.
• 32:23
  Speaker 6: I actually could tell you if you give me two seconds.
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: I have.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: I got a question to ask why Jay figures that out?
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: Is what sort of hurdles have you encountered starting your
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: or before starting your social media management company?
• 32:36
  Speaker 9: Probably myself, self criticism and comparing myself to all the
• 32:41
  Speaker 9: other social media marketing managers in the business, I guess
• 32:44
  Speaker 9: because it's just one of those careers that everyone is
• 32:49
  Speaker 9: doing at the moment, but everyone is so different. So
• 32:51
  Speaker 9: I think you just need to remember that of your
• 32:53
  Speaker 9: your own person, you have your own taste, and go
• 32:56
  Speaker 9: along with that.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: Definitely, I love that advice is your unique cell is
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: like what people are going to love about your business.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: I think Jake's got it too.
• 33:04
  Speaker 6: I got it. Okay, it's called broken wood.
• 33:07
  Speaker 5: No it's not.
• 33:08
  Speaker 9: I literally lived down the road way.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: I worked on that. Let's go.
• 33:14
  Speaker 9: That would have been a bazillion years ago.
• 33:16
  Speaker 6: Yeah, no, it was. It was a long long time ago.
• 33:19
  Speaker 6: I would have been Oh man, I must have been eighteen,
• 33:22
  Speaker 6: a child, I know, crazy.
• 33:24
  Speaker 9: And you got from the coast pay yees to Mumbo jumbosh.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we've yeah ten minutes.
• 33:34
  Speaker 9: My dad opened that back in the day with his
• 33:38
  Speaker 9: old shepherd princes show.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Well, so it's in your blood to run a good business.
• 33:44
  Speaker 6: Yeah, Mumbo's are still going, yeah, yeah, it's it.
• 33:48
  Speaker 9: No, No, there you go.
• 33:49
  Speaker 6: What a small world that is.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: So thank you very much.
• 33:52
  Speaker 6: Letters.
• 33:53
  Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, you're so welcome.
• 33:55
  Speaker 6: Have a lovely day.
• 33:56
  Speaker 9: Thank you, have a great day. I'll listen to you
• 33:59
  Speaker 9: guys soon like you.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, that was sick. That was good advice. Oh wow,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: small world.
• 34:05
  Speaker 6: I can't believe that.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: She was so cool.
• 34:08
  Speaker 6: That was a lotus cool name, cool girl. That was sick.
• 34:11
  Speaker 6: Just do it, just do fuck it, just do it. Literally,
• 34:15
  Speaker 6: when I was looking for that thing, I didn't hear.
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: Her answer for the hurdles she run into. It was
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: it was herself just like self confidence.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and comparison to other companies doing the same thing,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: which is so relatable. Comparing yourself to other people in
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: the industry the.
• 34:29
  Speaker 6: Hardest thing about You're right, comparing yourself to people in
• 34:31
  Speaker 6: the industry that have been doing it for so much
• 34:33
  Speaker 6: longer than you. You're like, wait, I feel behind, but
• 34:36
  Speaker 6: you've just started. Yeah, yeah, you're obviously going to be
• 34:39
  Speaker 6: there behind.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: I didn't want to like give her advice just then,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: but like, thinking about it now, I was like, what
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: made us good is we sort of had our own
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: trajectory and we kept being ourselves. We didn't try and
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: be someone when not or like we took certain parts
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: of different podcasts, but we kept our core what makes
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: up Jake and Oddie, which I think is a really
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: good tip.
• 35:05
  Speaker 6: It's like, don't try and be another company.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a lot of you see a lot
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: of fashion companies, like clothing brands is the easiest example,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: come out of the woodworks. They've got a good quality product,
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: but then they try and copy another brand that's being successful.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: You're like, man, like I can already buy it if
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: I want to, Why would I buy it from you? Yeah,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: that's an easy example.
• 35:22
  Speaker 6: It's a good point.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: Just be a very good point yourself. And yeah, I
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: got confidence in Lotus. Yes, so do I. I mean
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: I'm excited to see I like cash.
• 35:30
  Speaker 6: You go over with the plug. Yeah, hopefully people go
• 35:31
  Speaker 6: look it up and.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, imagine imagine someone's like, oh I heard from the
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: Relatables podcast and they go sick.
• 35:40
  Speaker 6: I need to piss so bad. Okay, guys, Next up
• 35:44
  Speaker 6: we have Amelia.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, is that Amelia?
• 35:49
  Speaker 9: It is?
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's Audie and Jake from the Relatables podcast. How
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: are you going?
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, how are you guys?
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: We are doing terrific, actually doing very well.
• 35:58
  Speaker 6: We're very happy you picked up. Yes, no, I'm surprised.
• 36:01
  Speaker 5: I was like, I didn't even think it was going
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: to happen. So now I'm very grateful.
• 36:05
  Speaker 6: Oh that's good.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: We're glad. We have a couple of questions, if you
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: don't mind us asking, go for.
• 36:12
  Speaker 5: It, guys, and I ext it first the way.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: The first one is, if you don't mind us asking,
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: how old are you?
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: I'm thirty two, thirty two?
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: Okay, this could be some good advice. I don't want
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: to put any I don't want to put any pressure on.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: What's some advice you would give your twenty year old
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: self if you could tap yourself on the shoulder and
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: be like, hey, listen.
• 36:33
  Speaker 5: To me, Well, how much time have we got?
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: We've got all the time? Lot, Yeah, we can go
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: through it all. You can get more than one. Yeah, Okay.
• 36:44
  Speaker 5: I love a couple And I think it's like I
• 36:47
  Speaker 5: constantly reflect on myself and always look at my younger
• 36:50
  Speaker 5: self and what would I tell myself? But I think
• 36:53
  Speaker 5: one of the things is I have eighty h d
• 36:56
  Speaker 5: in autism, and I think at the time I didn't
• 36:59
  Speaker 5: know when I was younger, But to tell myself, like, hey,
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: it's a superpower and it can be a strength of
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: your so just go with it and don't let anyone
• 37:07
  Speaker 5: kind of kinder in your strength. That would probably be
• 37:10
  Speaker 5: the first one that you know, which.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: I absolutely love that and sort of relate to it
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: a little bit. I definitely, yeah, but when I struggle
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: to read as well a lot, and like I sort
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: of leaned into it because I think in a.
• 37:20
  Speaker 5: Different way one hundred percent. So everyone's got different levels
• 37:25
  Speaker 5: of it, but it's like, hey, it's a positive thing.
• 37:27
  Speaker 5: It's not something to be like negatively. Oh you know,
• 37:31
  Speaker 5: that's probably the first one. And I was actually watching
• 37:35
  Speaker 5: this podcast for the day, but I thought it was
• 37:38
  Speaker 5: really interesting. It's talking about like expiring friendships, and I
• 37:43
  Speaker 5: think you know when you feel like you've got those
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: people in your life where you're like, oh, I just
• 37:47
  Speaker 5: know I need to let.
• 37:47
  Speaker 7: Go of it.
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: Just let go, because otherwise you're going to be stuck
• 37:51
  Speaker 5: in that people pleasing giving person all the time and
• 37:56
  Speaker 5: not allowing people in your life to give energy back
• 37:59
  Speaker 5: to you use out, If that makes sense.
• 38:01
  Speaker 6: I love that one.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: That is amazing advice inspiring friendships. I've never thought of
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: it like that too, neither.
• 38:09
  Speaker 6: I've always kind of been like, if you struggle to
• 38:11
  Speaker 6: accept that you are growing apart, like you're growing in
• 38:14
  Speaker 6: different ways and stuff, and.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Wow, it affects you more than you know when they
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: start they start.
• 38:20
  Speaker 8: To take it.
• 38:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and you can apply it to like work, relationships, family,
• 38:25
  Speaker 5: everything too. But I was like, wow, that's so interesting
• 38:28
  Speaker 5: because I'm very like, you've got to let people go.
• 38:30
  Speaker 5: They're not for you, they're not for you. But the times,
• 38:33
  Speaker 5: the times up.
• 38:35
  Speaker 6: Wow, that's a great one. Thank you so much. Have
• 38:37
  Speaker 6: you got any more?
• 38:39
  Speaker 5: But I can think of I think maybe just probably
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: one other thing is like just remember to be still
• 38:46
  Speaker 5: and be present because we're so used to like being
• 38:50
  Speaker 5: on the go and moving and trying to get to
• 38:53
  Speaker 5: the next steps that we forget to smell the flowers
• 38:55
  Speaker 5: or in the sunshine, or just like you miss a
• 38:59
  Speaker 5: lot of really important things if you don't just sit
• 39:02
  Speaker 5: still and just take a breath, like why, it's still
• 39:05
  Speaker 5: going to be there, but there's no rush to get
• 39:06
  Speaker 5: to the next thing. You know.
• 39:08
  Speaker 6: Wait, that's a good point. That is, Oh yeah, life
• 39:11
  Speaker 6: is going to be actual, life is going to be there.
• 39:14
  Speaker 6: That's such a good point.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people want need to hear that, Hey,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: we get so caught up in the hustle and bustle
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: when you're just like the next thing, the next thing,
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: the next thing, when yeah, you just need to sit
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: down and have your lunch, eat your food and just
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: smell the roses.
• 39:25
  Speaker 6: Like you said, yeah, pretty much.
• 39:27
  Speaker 5: But that's kind of things that I would tell myself.
• 39:33
  Speaker 6: When now that you are thirty two, sorry I have
• 39:37
  Speaker 6: your age next to me. Now that you are thirty,
• 39:42
  Speaker 6: do you live by, like did it take you a
• 39:44
  Speaker 6: while to figure out those things? Like is it a
• 39:47
  Speaker 6: recent or was it more maybe like mid twenties, you
• 39:49
  Speaker 6: figured it out and you wish you could give your
• 39:51
  Speaker 6: younger self that advice.
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: Or I think it was probably I don't know something
• 39:55
  Speaker 5: that the number twenty seven in my life was like
• 39:57
  Speaker 5: a big turning point for me. I think I just
• 39:59
  Speaker 5: got speak of being stuck and I was like, what
• 40:02
  Speaker 5: can I do to change and break all these patterns
• 40:04
  Speaker 5: and get out of the life that I was living.
• 40:06
  Speaker 5: And it's just like I want to go there that
• 40:08
  Speaker 5: I need to work on myself. And I think it
• 40:11
  Speaker 5: was just like you know, you start as a woman,
• 40:13
  Speaker 5: you start to be like, oh, I've got to get married,
• 40:15
  Speaker 5: have kids, and I'm not big at either, but you
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: start thinking about all those things and you're like, where
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: can I start. So it's just like taking that moment
• 40:24
  Speaker 5: to understand yourself a bit more connect with yourself and
• 40:26
  Speaker 5: just making sure that everything you're doing now is in
• 40:29
  Speaker 5: alignment with the person that you're becoming and your values
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: and things like that.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: Oh god, this is great, Well that's great. It kind
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: of makes me look forward to like how much will
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: grow when we get older.
• 40:39
  Speaker 6: I know, yeah, I feel like, yeah, I can't then
• 40:42
  Speaker 6: when I was twenty, I can't see myself being twenty five,
• 40:44
  Speaker 6: And then when you're twenty five, obviously it's like you think, oh,
• 40:46
  Speaker 6: what am I going to be like when I'm thirty?
• 40:47
  Speaker 6: And I'm thinking, am I going to be different?
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: But I bet I will.
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you're start starving when you're thirty. You really do
• 40:54
  Speaker 5: like life is just like your twenties are for learning
• 40:57
  Speaker 5: and lessons and making mistakes. And you said you are
• 40:59
  Speaker 5: just having.
• 41:00
  Speaker 6: Oh well, I'm glad you're having fun.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah that was being some great advice.
• 41:06
  Speaker 5: Yeah, well, thank you for calling and then asking me
• 41:08
  Speaker 5: those questions.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: I loved it, Thank you very much.
• 41:10
  Speaker 9: Anything else?
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: What else do we want to know? Maybe?
• 41:14
  Speaker 6: Like, what do I want to know about being thirty?
• 41:24
  Speaker 6: What does it feel like when you go from twenty
• 41:25
  Speaker 6: nine to thirty? Any different?
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll leave it on that.
• 41:28
  Speaker 5: I think it's just more like a society thing. It's
• 41:31
  Speaker 5: like a big thing. But I think it's just like
• 41:33
  Speaker 5: exciting because you're letting go of everything that no longer
• 41:36
  Speaker 5: serves you and just ready to like take that next step.
• 41:39
  Speaker 5: And I think it's just more sure of yourself as
• 41:41
  Speaker 5: a person, so every decision moving for you're like, yeah,
• 41:44
  Speaker 5: it's for.
• 41:44
  Speaker 6: Me, damn you are if you are way wiser than that.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: I don't like to don't. I don't like to pick favorites.
• 41:52
  Speaker 6: But we even called my dad on this, and.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: I like your advice. Thanks very much for coming on.
• 42:07
  Speaker 5: You're welcome, guys, thanks for calling.
• 42:08
  Speaker 6: Have a great day.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Amelia is a legend. Wow, she was wise.
• 42:16
  Speaker 6: Yeah, thirty two gets your hate.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what that kind of felt like. It
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: kind of felt like, let's give like a Star Wars analogy. Right,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: She's like Yoda and we're like Luke Skywalker. And what's
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: another Obie? Is that one? No's he's older but you
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: see him young? Yeah yeah, yeah Obi one Kenobian. She's
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: just like, come in with all the superpowers that she's learnt,
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: and we just like, wow, yeah, we're we need more.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know what this called. The end. That was great.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I find it's really good.
• 42:48
  Speaker 6: I do find like the ADHD and stuff interesting because
• 42:54
  Speaker 6: it almost I feel like it still does kind of
• 42:56
  Speaker 6: have I don't want to say negative stick around it,
• 43:00
  Speaker 6: but people will still like I feel as though, maybe
• 43:05
  Speaker 6: apologize for their ADHD. You know, like they'll do a
• 43:09
  Speaker 6: bunch of stuff and then someone will be like, oh,
• 43:11
  Speaker 6: well well and they'll be like, oh sorry my ADHD.
• 43:12
  Speaker 6: It's like I feel like I feel bad they feel
• 43:14
  Speaker 6: they need to apologize for it. I think that's yeah,
• 43:17
  Speaker 6: think of it more of like a superher and like
• 43:19
  Speaker 6: fucking keep up.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly how I keep up. Yeah, I
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: really like that. I wish I asked if she got
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: diagnosed too, Yeah, because I feel like that's a bit
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: of a hard like heard or you come across, come across.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: It's like, am I actually like do I actually have ADHD?
• 43:35
  Speaker 6: Do I actually have this lexia?
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: Or am I just being like you feel like you
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: don't owe yourself the question of getting diagnosed.
• 43:40
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I assume, like I think maybe because she said
• 43:43
  Speaker 6: ADHD autism, maybe she has been diagnosed. But yeah, superpower
• 43:48
  Speaker 6: that shit up.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like everyone's like different and have superpowers in different ways.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: It's just like figuring out how to use what you've
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: been given, the cards you've been dealt, which aren't always even,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: but you just figure out how to use them.
• 43:59
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's really hard to accept when someone you haven't
• 44:02
  Speaker 6: been dealt like the same cards as someone else.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so I know one of our friends. He
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: has a learning disability. He's diagnosed too, And my god,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: is he like one of the best like fall drive
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: car drivers I've ever made.
• 44:14
  Speaker 6: The thing he loves, yes, yeah, the thing that he
• 44:16
  Speaker 6: loves he's really good at.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's really like dove into that because it's
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: a skill that uses his cognitive skills and made him
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: doing anything.
• 44:23
  Speaker 6: Like that, trusting with my life. Oh one hundred cents. Yeah, yeah,
• 44:26
  Speaker 6: yea yeah, yeah, wow, yeah, I never thought of that.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Wow. Do you have one more or not?
• 44:30
  Speaker 6: All right? No, we got last one? Is Brook? Hello
• 44:33
  Speaker 6: Brook speaking Hello Brook. This is Jake and Oddy from
• 44:35
  Speaker 6: the Relatables.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: How are you good?
• 44:37
  Speaker 6: How are you doing really well?
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: Were?
• 44:40
  Speaker 6: I got a couple of questions for you? If that's
• 44:42
  Speaker 6: all right? Yeah?
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: Sure?
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: Is it okay? If I ask how old you are?
• 44:47
  Speaker 7: I'm twenty five?
• 44:48
  Speaker 6: Twenty five okay, Brook. We would like to know what
• 44:53
  Speaker 6: is the what a bit of advice that you would
• 44:56
  Speaker 6: give to your twenty year old self or your your
• 44:59
  Speaker 6: youngest self.
• 45:02
  Speaker 7: I think the main thing would be just to hang
• 45:06
  Speaker 7: in there and everything's gonna be okay. Like I got
• 45:10
  Speaker 7: a lot of that advice when I was younger and
• 45:14
  Speaker 7: I didn't believe it, and now I'm sitting here and I'm.
• 45:19
  Speaker 9: Truth.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good to hear everything is always going to
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: be all right. It's hard to hear at the time
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: when you're going through something that.
• 45:26
  Speaker 6: Like I've definitely heard that advice. When I was like
• 45:29
  Speaker 6: going through something, I remember just being like, yeah, but
• 45:31
  Speaker 6: that's it's like, that's the worst bit of advice give
• 45:33
  Speaker 6: someone going through something. But then when you get through
• 45:35
  Speaker 6: it and you're like, oh, yeah, it was sweet, you're
• 45:37
  Speaker 6: kind of like it's actually the best bit of advice.
• 45:39
  Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly. You think it's ship and that nobody understands,
• 45:43
  Speaker 7: but then looking back, it's like, well I was I
• 45:46
  Speaker 7: was wrong.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's good that you can admit when you're wrong. Dude.
• 45:50
  Speaker 6: Yeah, very true, very true. Well, thank you so much, Brooke,
• 45:53
  Speaker 6: Thank you and have a lovely afternoon you too, see us.
• 46:00
  Speaker 7: Good.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: That is good.
• 46:00
  Speaker 6: Good way to end it. I reckon, theyre no, that's
• 46:02
  Speaker 6: a good bit of advice.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Man. This episode was like cool to hear everyone's different
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: perspectives and journeys they've gone on through life, all about it.
• 46:10
  Speaker 6: Have good advice.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't get over Amelia. How good.
• 46:13
  Speaker 6: I wait, no, Amelia and Lotusue was good to Lotus
• 46:18
  Speaker 6: was good too. I mean, I'll give props to Dad.
• 46:21
  Speaker 6: I appreciate I.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: They're all good, They're all, they are all very I
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: don't want a single one out. I mean, hey, Amelia,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: it was really I guess, like what you can take
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: away is I think that last one was a really
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: good way to end it, because she's just like there
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: is light at the end of the tunnel when you
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: are going through something bad and you never want to
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: hear it, but you can get through anything. And life
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: is a journey, a unique journey that no one else
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: is going on and no one else is going to
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: go through the same one you do. And the more
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: you can be in the present moment and sit back
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: and relax and realize that everything isn't as fast paced
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: and as serious as you make it. Life is there
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: to be enjoyed. Do certain like sense. Yeah it's easy
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: to say that then actually do it, but yeah, you
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: start to realize it was good to see the different
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: like mindsets of someone from twenty all the way to
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: your dad's fifty five. Yeah, and like thirty seems like
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: quite a sweet spot if you ask me to be fair, Yeah,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: it seems like a good age.
• 47:16
  Speaker 6: I'm fucking keen, mate, I'm very keen, but now you're right.
• 47:20
  Speaker 6: It's I've been. I just lately, I've been trying to
• 47:26
  Speaker 6: appreciate a lot more what was lowered down a lot more.
• 47:31
  Speaker 6: Like the last couple of nights, I've had the time
• 47:33
  Speaker 6: to watch like three episodes of the Netflix thing. I'm
• 47:37
  Speaker 6: watching and letting myself do it like six pm right,
• 47:42
  Speaker 6: like start watching it, and I'm usually like I look
• 47:45
  Speaker 6: at like six pm, like six pm scenes like early
• 47:47
  Speaker 6: to start. I could edit a bit to start, yeah,
• 47:49
  Speaker 6: do something binging a shot, Yeah. And I'm like, everything
• 47:53
  Speaker 6: I wrote down that I wanted to get done today
• 47:54
  Speaker 6: I did. So It's like, why would I add more
• 47:56
  Speaker 6: to it when I can just do that tomorrow. Doesn't
• 47:58
  Speaker 6: have to be done today. It can be done tomorrow
• 48:00
  Speaker 6: exactly like enjoy the show for a couple of hours.
• 48:03
  Speaker 6: It is enjoy it, stop and smell the roses. That's
• 48:07
  Speaker 6: the That's one mass. I think one massive thing is
• 48:09
  Speaker 6: don't let all the fucking like societal norms of people
• 48:12
  Speaker 6: being like you could be reach in a month if
• 48:16
  Speaker 6: you tried like all that stupid, annoying shit.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: I feel like another piece of really good advice is
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: like money isn't everything. Yeah, true, Like growing up, especially
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: when we're younger, we think like, once I have the job,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: once I start earning a good income, once I start
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: making good money, I'll be happy. Then once I have
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: a house, I'll be happy then. But it's like taking
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: a step back and making a journey that is happy
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: the whole time. True.
• 48:39
  Speaker 6: Yeah, Like I'm I feel very lucky. I'm trying to think,
• 48:43
  Speaker 6: like what would let's say, like a million dollars in
• 48:47
  Speaker 6: my bank account, Like what would that do for me
• 48:49
  Speaker 6: right now? Because I don't think I'd changed my lifestyle.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: No, we're in a lucky position. I probably wouldn't budget
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: with groceries, yeah, little stuff. I'd always put ninety eight
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: in my car, probably get a new car. Let's be real.
• 49:02
  Speaker 6: But it's like all those things aren't gonna make you happy. Like,
• 49:04
  Speaker 6: if you think about it, you buy a new car,
• 49:06
  Speaker 6: right when you go pick it up, you're like, this
• 49:07
  Speaker 6: is fucking sick. You drive it home, you get out,
• 49:09
  Speaker 6: and you just go back in the same house you
• 49:10
  Speaker 6: fucking left. Yeah, and you go back and sleep in
• 49:13
  Speaker 6: the same bed, and it's like you're not changed as
• 49:15
  Speaker 6: a person. You just never have a car that you
• 49:17
  Speaker 6: drive for me to be that's different and it's nice,
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: Like it's kind of like those are kind of like
• 49:22
  Speaker 6: the fruits of it. I guess. Just enjoy the Yeah,
• 49:25
  Speaker 6: don't make them think that you're gonna it's not gonna
• 49:27
  Speaker 6: make you happy.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And I also think like when you're stopping and
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: smelling the roses, Like, although that piece of advice where
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: friends are expiring, that was really good too, But I
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: was thinking about like everyone has like one or two
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: people in their life that really really matter, parents, girlfriends, boyfriends, dogs,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: and like really enjoying these experiences with them, I think
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: is good advice. And I'm trying to get better at
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: that where like taking a step back and just going
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: for a walk with them, Yeah, and like enjoying the
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: hour long conversation with the person that.
• 50:03
  Speaker 6: I love, Yeah, trying to switch off from fun.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I love this person I'm with right now
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: in whichever context it is, and like just switching off
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: and being like, fuck, is this good to be here
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: with you? Just talk like appreciate that. Yeah.
• 50:15
  Speaker 6: When I go to Queensland in the next in two weeks.
• 50:18
  Speaker 6: I really want to try and just like all because
• 50:22
  Speaker 6: you're going to BALI like pre recording, I want to
• 50:25
  Speaker 6: try and get I don't know if I'll get all
• 50:28
  Speaker 6: the work done. Then I need to get done for
• 50:29
  Speaker 6: the whole like ten days you're gone, but for like
• 50:31
  Speaker 6: the four days I'm in Queensland, I want to make
• 50:33
  Speaker 6: it so I'm not doing any work and just really
• 50:36
  Speaker 6: like be with it. Yeah, because like Beth has the
• 50:38
  Speaker 6: time off work, my parents they don't work, and then yeah,
• 50:43
  Speaker 6: I think it'll just be it'd be nice not to
• 50:44
  Speaker 6: be like, oh, so it's been like three hours in
• 50:46
  Speaker 6: the morning doing this.
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly. And we're lucky enough to be in
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: a position where we can make that work. Yeah. Yeah,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: it's been a long day to recording, not making excuses
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: a second episode, but thank you. What I wanted to
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: say was, if you like this episode, please leave a comment,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: because we can do more. It is a lot more
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: work on the back end organizing all the baddies. But
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: if you guys like it, please leave a comment where
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: you like which piece of advice or anything like that,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: and they'll be a good indication If you want to
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: see more of this, Yeah, because I think that was
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: a really good, insightful episode, and I really like hearing
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: other people's advice. I love talking to you, man, but
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: like also getting other people's perspective. At the end of
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: the day, we're only two brains. The more brains we
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: can add together, the more advice and a better sense
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: of belonging you can get here. Because I feel like
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: that episode was so relatable.
• 51:37
  Speaker 6: Let's be honest with kind of just one brain.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, one point, Like, let's give us like one
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: point three. Yeah, you think of a number between one
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: and ten. Okay, ready, three to one, seven? Maybe one
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: point back to one?
• 51:52
  Speaker 6: Right, Stay bad everyone.
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  Speaker 1: By Hardy Lato