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- 0:26Speaker 1: In spe.
- 2:06Speaker 2: I a braend.
- 2:09Speaker 3: Queene one the sweet.
- 2:20Speaker 4: Sweet sweete.
- 2:24Speaker 5: Oh no.
- 2:29Speaker 3: It wasn't the sweet, sweet, sweetest sweet.
- 2:50Speaker 2: Good morning, and well, good evening, and welcome to Believe
- 2:54Speaker 2: in the Journey podcast where I have my very very
- 2:57Speaker 2: special guest, my mommy over here. So prepared to laugh
- 3:03Speaker 2: and just maybe even shed a tear with this lady
- 3:06Speaker 2: because you never know what she's going to say. But
- 3:09Speaker 2: as always, I thank you for tuning in, and as always,
- 3:12Speaker 2: we have to go to God in prayer. So once
- 3:15Speaker 2: I do that, I'll make a brief little introduction about
- 3:18Speaker 2: this lady that I know who birthed me.
- 3:24Speaker 3: So Jesu.
- 3:28Speaker 2: Twenty four hours. Well, let's go to God in prayer.
- 3:32Speaker 2: Dear Lord, thank you for bringing us together as you do. Also, well,
- 3:36Speaker 2: this is a day that we have never seen before
- 3:38Speaker 2: and a day that will never come again. I thank
- 3:40Speaker 2: you for this opportunity to be here with my mommy,
- 3:43Speaker 2: and I hope that she behaves, but you know her
- 3:47Speaker 2: better than we do, so I thank you and your
- 3:50Speaker 2: precious name Jesus amen Wien. All right, mommy, you want
- 3:57Speaker 2: to give an introduction of yourself?
- 4:06Speaker 3: Thank you?
- 4:09Speaker 2: Yeah, just prepare for the unexpected with this lady, because
- 4:14Speaker 2: you know she's a goofball. If you haven't watched any
- 4:17Speaker 2: of our tiktoks together or our snapchats, then you've missed
- 4:21Speaker 2: out on some stuff. Everything they had everything on that moment. Well,
- 4:27Speaker 2: that's good. I'm glad you got it.
- 4:29Speaker 3: I started nothing.
- 4:32Speaker 2: Okay. Well, I'm gonna let you be quiet for just
- 4:35Speaker 2: a minute. As y'all may have heard her say that
- 4:37Speaker 2: she was in labor with me for about twenty four
- 4:40Speaker 2: hours because I was really stubborn. My birthday is October
- 4:45Speaker 2: the twenty ninth, so it's close to Halloween. So she
- 4:49Speaker 2: says that's part of the reason why I'm a little stubborn.
- 4:54Speaker 3: But it ain't my fault.
- 4:57Speaker 2: I get it. Honestly, three days.
- 5:03Speaker 3: What what I mean?
- 5:05Speaker 2: That ain't our fault? Mama. She's gonna include everybody. Okay, Mommy,
- 5:16Speaker 2: I got some questions for you. Well, why you keep
- 5:20Speaker 2: trying to eat over there and go on the other side. See, y'all,
- 5:25Speaker 2: this is this is what's gonna happen throughout this this
- 5:29Speaker 2: interview with my mama. She's very difficult. You're not difficult.
- 5:34Speaker 3: You're not.
- 5:38Speaker 2: Okay, y'all, listen, I'm gonna tell y'all. Before we even
- 5:43Speaker 2: decided to record and make this this video, I told
- 5:50Speaker 2: my mommy. I said, mommy, listen, I need you to
- 5:53Speaker 2: be on your best behavior. Okay, and I'm gonna tell
- 5:56Speaker 2: you exactly what my mommy said. She said, I won't
- 6:01Speaker 2: make no promises, but know that ship happens. That's what
- 6:04Speaker 2: she told me.
- 6:06Speaker 3: That wasn't play.
- 6:08Speaker 2: Okay, Well that's fine, mama, Oh it get uh any
- 6:14Speaker 2: stories you want to tell? Oh?
- 6:17Speaker 3: Yeah, about the word telepathic?
- 6:19Speaker 2: Okay, that's for your show we talk about for this
- 6:21Speaker 2: one today for you, yeah, with me today.
- 6:24Speaker 6: But what we're gonna talk about? You sneaky? She told
- 6:30Speaker 6: me she was a year old.
- 6:32Speaker 4: She said, I did myself the man well actually representing
- 6:38Speaker 4: I feed myself. Well, I mean, what do you do
- 6:42Speaker 4: with what to tell you to do yourself myself?
- 6:47Speaker 2: I mean, but you raised me that way?
- 6:49Speaker 3: Be independent?
- 6:50Speaker 2: Yeah? So how how how is that? Being mad?
- 6:54Speaker 3: It was the shock of today?
- 7:00Speaker 2: Okay? Well, out of all of your four children, which
- 7:06Speaker 2: one is the most stubborn?
- 7:08Speaker 3: All y'all ain't no damn differing and needn't want now?
- 7:12Speaker 2: Okay, all of us are stubborn? Okay, what we get
- 7:18Speaker 2: that from?
- 7:19Speaker 4: I don't know it's into tree. But I'm not stubborn.
- 7:23Speaker 4: You might, okay, but black my mind set on something
- 7:27Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do. I'm not gonna do it, okay.
- 7:29Speaker 4: So that that's where we get that from you. Okay, then,
- 7:32Speaker 4: but it's how you get that too.
- 7:36Speaker 2: But it's your fault that we stubborn.
- 7:39Speaker 4: Now you've got your all well doing no no, no,
- 7:42Speaker 4: you can't sit up around No no, I'm not switching it.
- 7:46Speaker 2: That's what you said. So that's what you said. So okay,
- 7:53Speaker 2: name a time that me and that got on your
- 8:00Speaker 2: nerves really bad?
- 8:03Speaker 4: Uh huh, whoa, whoa?
- 8:10Speaker 3: What quite a for minutes?
- 8:13Speaker 2: We wasn't that bad.
- 8:14Speaker 4: Wait a minute, because they got Oh I remember that
- 8:18Speaker 4: they come come from flying the kitchen and.
- 8:20Speaker 2: Then I remember to today. Yeah, I remember that.
- 8:25Speaker 3: Okay. Then you shoo the knight of school and he
- 8:28Speaker 3: told it on it.
- 8:29Speaker 2: I didn't tell on him. The boy who he took
- 8:32Speaker 2: the knife to school on told on him. I was
- 8:34Speaker 2: trying to help. I had to tell you that he
- 8:37Speaker 2: was suspended. That's what I had to tell you, because
- 8:40Speaker 2: he wasn't gonna tell you. You know, every time he
- 8:42Speaker 2: got in trouble or something, he gets sick and start
- 8:45Speaker 2: throwing up. That's how he was because he ain't want
- 8:48Speaker 2: to get in trouble. And I told you was the
- 8:53Speaker 2: boy that was bullying him, and you went up there
- 8:55Speaker 2: to the school and he got He got to go
- 8:57Speaker 2: back to school that same day though, so he really
- 9:00Speaker 2: was suspected.
- 9:05Speaker 3: But I told her I would take his head and
- 9:08Speaker 3: his mama and all this stuff.
- 9:10Speaker 2: See, Mama, you can't be threatening.
- 9:13Speaker 3: She suldn't.
- 9:16Speaker 2: My god. Okay, well you got a point there.
- 9:19Speaker 3: I was in the house.
- 9:21Speaker 4: Yeah, she come around and Callton was the biggest one
- 9:24Speaker 4: of my houses and gonna threatening somebody I didn't street.
- 9:29Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, so you wasn't having no boughts to that.
- 9:32Speaker 3: You get around the.
- 9:33Speaker 2: Car, Okay, it was mom. Do you remember.
- 9:39Speaker 3: I got him usual? I got him now?
- 9:41Speaker 2: No, no, no, You remember when you had about three
- 9:44Speaker 2: packs of secrets and I hit him.
- 9:46Speaker 3: I said, they found him.
- 9:47Speaker 2: You would.
- 9:50Speaker 3: You know where I hit him?
- 9:51Speaker 1: It?
- 9:52Speaker 2: You remember when you bought me that blender set that
- 9:54Speaker 2: I had. It was on just had a blender mixer
- 9:58Speaker 2: and all of that stuff, and I was only allowed
- 10:01Speaker 2: to take it out on the weekends. It was in
- 10:03Speaker 2: the top of my clouds. We lived on Carpenter Avenue.
- 10:07Speaker 2: That's where I hit him at You took everything else
- 10:10Speaker 2: out of the closet except for that box, and they
- 10:12Speaker 2: was in that box I did. I don't know who
- 10:22Speaker 2: found him, but that's what they was. That's why I
- 10:25Speaker 2: hit him because I wanted you to stop smoking. You
- 10:28Speaker 2: were so mad at me. But you didn't find them cigarettes.
- 10:32Speaker 2: You that back and you know I hear his cigarette. No,
- 10:45Speaker 2: I had went and got there step stool off the
- 10:48Speaker 2: kitchen and put them up there in that closet. So
- 10:52Speaker 2: some I.
- 10:55Speaker 3: Surely did cleaned up the house. That's sick a cigaret.
- 11:00Speaker 2: Uh huh. You didn't get them though, they had a
- 11:03Speaker 2: good time with Tim you did so.
- 11:09Speaker 3: Right now?
- 11:10Speaker 2: Yeah, it's charging well, you can't call her right now
- 11:13Speaker 2: tell her about No, you didn't need them cigarettes though.
- 11:21Speaker 3: Mama, it's for you, said yeah, because.
- 11:25Speaker 2: They was not good for you. I still believe they're
- 11:28Speaker 2: not good for you. But yeah, yeah, I still believe
- 11:32Speaker 2: they're not good for you.
- 11:34Speaker 3: So my nerves they good for me?
- 11:39Speaker 2: Don't what what do the cigarettes do for you? And
- 11:47Speaker 2: it gives you your wool s eye.
- 11:50Speaker 3: All that too?
- 11:51Speaker 2: Okay? Ma, you played softball and then fix me. It
- 11:58Speaker 2: didn't affect you. You ain't have no trouble breathing on
- 12:01Speaker 2: anything like that. How many years did you play softball?
- 12:05Speaker 3: Oh?
- 12:06Speaker 4: I started without thirteen first championships about fifteen.
- 12:14Speaker 3: I was sixteen. I don't round about twenty thirty years.
- 12:20Speaker 2: You enjoyed that, of course they did.
- 12:23Speaker 3: I got mad because they stopped me playing.
- 12:25Speaker 2: How they stop you from playing?
- 12:28Speaker 4: Other people didn't playing from this way, and that we
- 12:30Speaker 4: stopped stopping going to the world too. Hold a killo
- 12:34Speaker 4: stuff from different people in this That mmmle didn't tell
- 12:39Speaker 4: me a lot of stuff. Aund you were a tomboy
- 12:42Speaker 4: that too?
- 12:44Speaker 3: Inst a tree?
- 12:45Speaker 2: What were you doing in a tree?
- 12:47Speaker 3: Try to get.
- 12:49Speaker 2: Trying to get what.
- 12:51Speaker 3: Some missto kiss with the mistletoe? You're gonna put it
- 12:56Speaker 3: out now you're coming down the street. You said, I said,
- 13:01Speaker 3: what you doing? And I ain't doing that? He turned
- 13:04Speaker 3: it back. He was down the hill. Ain't nobody down
- 13:07Speaker 3: there about playing football today? We just got a school
- 13:10Speaker 3: for all.
- 13:13Speaker 2: Thanksgiving holiday and you climbing a tree to get some mistletoe.
- 13:17Speaker 3: I couldn't make it.
- 13:19Speaker 2: So you fell out. What was the tree at oh Man?
- 13:24Speaker 2: That's a big tree. Mom?
- 13:26Speaker 3: That was the tree I got almom got the to.
- 13:30Speaker 7: Do the ground.
- 13:30Speaker 3: You said, ready left, No, I'm need to get away
- 13:34Speaker 3: from it.
- 13:34Speaker 1: You can do for me.
- 13:40Speaker 2: Well, listen, I think you cursed me with that because no, no,
- 13:48Speaker 2: just being a tomboy. And because you know, y'all used
- 13:53Speaker 2: to tell me all the time stop riding my bike
- 13:55Speaker 2: so fast coming down the hill to go into the
- 13:58Speaker 2: driveway my house. But I did, like y'all kept telling
- 14:05Speaker 2: me to stop doing that because I was gonna get
- 14:08Speaker 2: hurt because I was always come in the driveway too fast.
- 14:13Speaker 2: Well I did one day and I flipped off front
- 14:17Speaker 2: of the bike and hit the tree and landed in
- 14:21Speaker 2: the yard. I fell in the yard. I scraped up
- 14:28Speaker 2: my elbow and my back. I built my saw me
- 14:33Speaker 2: and you know what she said, she came. Look, she
- 14:37Speaker 2: came out the door house. She said, I told you,
- 14:42Speaker 2: dumbas to stop doing that. You was gonna get hurt.
- 14:45Speaker 2: She said it. I ain't giving you no damn band aid,
- 14:47Speaker 2: so get you as. Yeah, and I didn't get one
- 14:54Speaker 2: that day, but I just fixed.
- 14:58Speaker 3: Yeah, I cut my finger.
- 15:02Speaker 2: Okay, Well y'all would give me a band aid.
- 15:04Speaker 3: Though I broke long time ago.
- 15:06Speaker 2: That wasn't right, Mama, that wasn't right.
- 15:11Speaker 3: You're not bleeding.
- 15:13Speaker 2: Because the bendet covers up the cut. That's why I
- 15:16Speaker 2: need But it's not.
- 15:17Speaker 3: That's it there.
- 15:19Speaker 2: Okay, No, Why wouldn't you buy me no more skates
- 15:23Speaker 2: after the third pair?
- 15:25Speaker 3: You didn't need?
- 15:26Speaker 2: The man? Why you know what you told me? After
- 15:29Speaker 2: that third pair you bought me? You told me you
- 15:32Speaker 2: said you ain't getting no more because you don't know
- 15:34Speaker 2: how to take care of nothing. You always ruining the skates.
- 15:37Speaker 2: I said, But Mama, I skate in the streets, so
- 15:39Speaker 2: they're gonna have way in town. She said, well you
- 15:43Speaker 2: you said what it's gonna wear, and tell your ass
- 15:45Speaker 2: because I ain't buying you no more, so you might
- 15:47Speaker 2: as well.
- 15:48Speaker 3: You know what did you?
- 15:50Speaker 5: I did?
- 15:51Speaker 3: Let me see, I see you.
- 15:53Speaker 2: I had pink one too, and then I had a
- 15:55Speaker 2: black pair and.
- 15:56Speaker 6: You had them them. Ok you take them apart, make skateboard.
- 16:02Speaker 3: Second down.
- 16:04Speaker 2: But you told me I can't get no more.
- 16:08Speaker 3: Why when you got older you hear about yourself.
- 16:12Speaker 2: It wasn't right. You were supposed to buy my skates.
- 16:14Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah you yeah, yeah, you pas Okay, that's
- 16:24Speaker 2: gonna be my birthday.
- 16:26Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe Christmas.
- 16:28Speaker 2: It might be Christmas. Okay, Oh they're gonna be blue?
- 16:30Speaker 3: Can they be blue?
- 16:34Speaker 2: How do you know? I might go out there and
- 16:35Speaker 2: bust my butt, but I'm gonna go. You know you
- 16:38Speaker 2: want to see that. People, What has been your greatest
- 16:49Speaker 2: achievement this far?
- 16:55Speaker 3: Passing the ball, passing the bar?
- 16:58Speaker 2: Okay, well look at you.
- 17:01Speaker 3: I cheat it. I tried my damn to cheat. Why
- 17:07Speaker 3: was your cheat?
- 17:08Speaker 2: You know you're small?
- 17:09Speaker 3: You know what you know when they told me, you
- 17:10Speaker 3: know when.
- 17:10Speaker 4: They told me and say, I'm real testing you, and
- 17:13Speaker 4: you took get in the essay at last more hand.
- 17:20Speaker 4: And then I said, you're gonna teest you proternity you
- 17:26Speaker 4: already inspired, and well you get a whole the evidence
- 17:31Speaker 4: of little really kidding this one anyway, and they playing
- 17:34Speaker 4: this way and that way and this way that way
- 17:35Speaker 4: because I'm trying.
- 17:36Speaker 3: To cheat, to flaunt cheat tola.
- 17:41Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm really, I really am trying to
- 17:43Speaker 4: cheat myself and to flunk it because because what they
- 17:47Speaker 4: were doing, they were trying to manipulate me, because they
- 17:51Speaker 4: are who they are. Iier television and all ready people
- 17:55Speaker 4: don't want to talk about it. But I don't care anyway,
- 17:59Speaker 4: and okay, and I did that.
- 18:02Speaker 3: It's just stuff.
- 18:03Speaker 4: This started meaning from June two thousand six. I take
- 18:10Speaker 4: the last exam two thousans.
- 18:16Speaker 3: Sixteen, what's up?
- 18:26Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you?
- 18:30Speaker 3: And the last one I did was Donald Trump that
- 18:33Speaker 3: what got me doubted?
- 18:35Speaker 2: Oh so you had a hand in that, of course
- 18:38Speaker 2: I did.
- 18:40Speaker 1: He did, cussed me out.
- 18:42Speaker 3: He did what he said to you. See, I'll go magazine.
- 18:46Speaker 4: I got aug I've got part in the awful a
- 18:49Speaker 4: little magazine, right, and so they got ten readings like
- 18:56Speaker 4: the onebody become come to your office to the excuse me,
- 19:00Speaker 4: you're not top to them in your office?
- 19:04Speaker 3: Ten reasons I put Donald Trump everyone, it's all document. Okay,
- 19:12Speaker 3: he called me a bad shot something.
- 19:15Speaker 2: Well you are black and you are short.
- 19:18Speaker 3: Yeah, but that they boat didn't call me that he did.
- 19:21Speaker 2: He didn't have to say that.
- 19:22Speaker 3: Now I'm gonna say that I got him slammeder though.
- 19:25Speaker 2: But I mean, but you're short and black.
- 19:28Speaker 3: But he said something else okay that you didn't like. Okay,
- 19:32Speaker 3: they got it, and they got it, like I guess
- 19:34Speaker 3: something else for.
- 19:37Speaker 4: Well, people that talking about Bruce Lady Michelle Obama Michelle
- 19:45Speaker 4: excuse me. I heard a rumor that Miss Michelle Obama
- 19:52Speaker 4: used myself kitty number.
- 19:53Speaker 2: Well, I don't think she's doing my mama.
- 19:56Speaker 3: Did you keep saying that?
- 19:57Speaker 2: But let me let me ask you another question. We're
- 20:00Speaker 2: gonna talk about something else.
- 20:03Speaker 3: For anywhere.
- 20:06Speaker 2: I don't got nothing to do with them. I don't
- 20:08Speaker 2: know nothing about them. And joke, No, I don't think
- 20:12Speaker 2: it's a joke. But we're gonna talk about something else.
- 20:14Speaker 2: You were telling me the other day when we were
- 20:15Speaker 2: outside about y'all stage and the walkout when you were
- 20:19Speaker 2: in high school. Well, tell me about it.
- 20:25Speaker 4: First of all, we got when I got this high school,
- 20:30Speaker 4: I said, I already knew what they had to have
- 20:33Speaker 4: to graduate.
- 20:35Speaker 3: I'm gonna just for see, uh, I gotta go.
- 20:43Speaker 2: Well, what happened with the protests and stuff?
- 20:47Speaker 3: It was walked out?
- 20:49Speaker 2: Y'all walked out of school playing playing. Okay, Well tell
- 20:54Speaker 2: me about this playing.
- 20:55Speaker 4: Y'all had to walk This was the seniors. Y'all started
- 21:00Speaker 4: from classes seventy five.
- 21:02Speaker 2: Okay.
- 21:03Speaker 4: They always say, even there be a black on a
- 21:06Speaker 4: black homecoming queen. Okay, y'all never have the sea, never
- 21:10Speaker 4: have that.
- 21:13Speaker 2: And y'all had to prove a point.
- 21:15Speaker 4: Oh, we pulled up punt and then it was like
- 21:18Speaker 4: only five hundred blacks. Only five hundred people were black
- 21:25Speaker 4: and the minister was white, had umbers, mama dog, doctors,
- 21:32Speaker 4: doctors and all.
- 21:33Speaker 3: Us students all got is crazy stuff. So at last
- 21:39Speaker 3: day it's been talking about the series. Were yid.
- 21:47Speaker 4: Just seventy five, seventy six, seventy seven? Who walked out
- 21:51Speaker 4: of seventy six?
- 21:52Speaker 5: Well, I mean.
- 21:55Speaker 2: Y'all had a whole bunch of students that decide that,
- 22:00Speaker 2: y'all it was it was plain it was playing. But
- 22:04Speaker 2: who who initiated? Did you initiate to walk out? Because
- 22:08Speaker 2: it seem like hell head, That's what I'm trying to
- 22:13Speaker 2: get to. How did you have a hand in a
- 22:16Speaker 2: walk out in seventy six in high school?
- 22:19Speaker 4: Because when you say you like the boy with the
- 22:23Speaker 4: tuiller said, y'all here, you don't know why you're walking
- 22:26Speaker 4: out anyway, that's why walking out because we don't.
- 22:28Speaker 6: Know why we're gonna walk down, and we're gonna walk
- 22:29Speaker 6: out because we don't know where going walking out For us,
- 22:33Speaker 6: that's why we were walking out, because we're gonna find
- 22:34Speaker 6: out why we're walking out.
- 22:35Speaker 3: No, that's not when we're walking out. Now, we don't
- 22:38Speaker 3: know we're gonna walk out any way.
- 22:39Speaker 8: Now, you didn't have a reason to walk out, but
- 22:43Speaker 8: you don't walk out anyway, clear head white man there,
- 22:49Speaker 8: you gonna walk walk anyway.
- 22:51Speaker 2: And find a reason out when as you walking out
- 22:54Speaker 2: the door, you'll know okay, okay, at the same week
- 22:57Speaker 2: we walked out. Oh lord, okay, Mom, I'm gonna ask
- 23:01Speaker 2: you this. Do you remember when that chased me around
- 23:04Speaker 2: with the dead snake skin? Oh?
- 23:06Speaker 3: Yeah, we got here, get it, but you know what? Yeah,
- 23:10Speaker 3: and you had uh box on top of it.
- 23:14Speaker 2: M I'm like, boy, you don't put that down there,
- 23:18Speaker 2: down there sitting the stuff above?
- 23:20Speaker 3: What's well with you?
- 23:22Speaker 2: Lord?
- 23:22Speaker 3: Help boy? Put it back?
- 23:25Speaker 2: He chased me around for a good twenty minutes. They'll
- 23:28Speaker 2: put the.
- 23:30Speaker 3: Boy, I call it put this but yeah, yeah, boy,
- 23:36Speaker 3: put it. I ain't got naws.
- 23:39Speaker 2: Sure you no brick? No, but put what brick?
- 23:42Speaker 1: Now?
- 23:42Speaker 2: Hold on like we got with switches.
- 23:45Speaker 3: Ain't had it swing you know you wasn't getting it? No,
- 23:54Speaker 3: all them boss our ball in the babble the lost.
- 24:00Speaker 3: I need one right, you don't want that Mommy got Mama, Mama.
- 24:13Speaker 2: Because I you know, I'm still terrified of snakes. I
- 24:16Speaker 2: don't I don't do them. They're not my friends, and
- 24:18Speaker 2: I don't try to get acquainted with them.
- 24:21Speaker 4: So, and you know what, the snake, I don't got it.
- 24:25Speaker 4: I don't got I've got to get the snake. But
- 24:28Speaker 4: you're gonna get the snake for school. But I mean
- 24:32Speaker 4: what you're gonna do with the snake. You're gonna keep
- 24:33Speaker 4: it as a pack.
- 24:34Speaker 3: No, I take the skin, uh huh, and see what
- 24:37Speaker 3: snake it is.
- 24:38Speaker 2: Oh, so you was gonna study the skin put it
- 24:41Speaker 2: in school, but it's pregnant to see.
- 24:43Speaker 3: I was out of school in so No, that's okay.
- 24:47Speaker 3: I don't want to.
- 24:49Speaker 2: Now, you got all this long hair. When I was
- 24:53Speaker 2: doing your hair yesterday, you you burnt me with the
- 25:00Speaker 2: comb on my knee and you said, what did you
- 25:03Speaker 2: tell me? You say? You said it was my fault
- 25:05Speaker 2: because my head was long. Up.
- 25:11Speaker 3: The whole head up, I be, but you following the comb.
- 25:16Speaker 2: I was sitting on the floor indian side.
- 25:19Speaker 4: I put you back in the chair and I was
- 25:21Speaker 4: sitting in front of you. I said, the whole head up.
- 25:24Speaker 4: You keep following the cowboy, and.
- 25:28Speaker 2: That's why you ain't that burn, and then I went
- 25:32Speaker 2: outside to ride my bike because you told me to
- 25:34Speaker 2: put some toothpaste on it. You told me to put
- 25:39Speaker 2: the toothpaste.
- 25:41Speaker 3: Yeah, did white hot I mean water on for like
- 25:45Speaker 3: five minutes.
- 25:46Speaker 2: And I literally rode my bike all day. And I
- 25:51Speaker 2: got fussed because I didn't come in the house when
- 25:53Speaker 2: the street lights came on, because my lad was still
- 25:57Speaker 2: burning because you told me put that.
- 26:00Speaker 5: So now I tried to get it out right, I.
- 26:05Speaker 4: Can put you in the un tub and it's the
- 26:07Speaker 4: wall right on it for five minutes and you will
- 26:10Speaker 4: never built burn.
- 26:12Speaker 3: Well that's first day.
- 26:14Speaker 2: From I rolled my bike all day until probably nine o'clock.
- 26:22Speaker 2: The rad She'd be like, look, you told me, you said,
- 26:25Speaker 2: come on, get off that bike. You got to come
- 26:26Speaker 2: in the house. You gotta take a bath. I said,
- 26:28Speaker 2: Oh my leg burning, it ain't stop, so I'm not
- 26:31Speaker 2: coming enough. Mm hmmm, I can leave what you doing.
- 26:36Speaker 3: I burnt my arm right there, uh huh, but it
- 26:38Speaker 3: moved up here.
- 26:40Speaker 2: Oh well, are you drawing a herd on your arm? Well,
- 26:46Speaker 2: that's what it looked like it.
- 26:49Speaker 3: I mean, I've been watching it now that I had moved.
- 26:51Speaker 2: Oh were you a trouble maker? Kids?
- 26:58Speaker 3: Huh to myself, to your so.
- 27:03Speaker 2: M you you never started any trouble, not after no, ma'am, No, ma'am.
- 27:09Speaker 2: I I kind of find that hard to believe. No,
- 27:12Speaker 2: because when I was starting, no, you just said I
- 27:15Speaker 2: would never graduate. So I stay, well, okay, I take
- 27:18Speaker 2: all academic classes. Said if I felt about plumped down
- 27:21Speaker 2: just failed. Then I took after them clans classes until
- 27:28Speaker 2: I never graduated. Again, I'm just taking tight and I didn't.
- 27:32Speaker 3: I don't need this. I still graduated.
- 27:37Speaker 4: Why would you think when I gladerate, I'm camping down.
- 27:42Speaker 4: I turned I graduate any dam I turned to camping
- 27:47Speaker 4: down back end because I know, so I break in
- 27:49Speaker 4: the house they were stealing, so that didn't get the
- 27:52Speaker 4: instilled that no more. It's still my class, right, but
- 28:01Speaker 4: they didn't.
- 28:02Speaker 2: Still, well, you know it's thieves everywhere. But Mama, I
- 28:05Speaker 2: want to I want to tell you something. You know,
- 28:09Speaker 2: I ain't had a lot of accomplishments in life, but
- 28:12Speaker 2: some of the ones that I have had, like my
- 28:15Speaker 2: high school graduation, I'm gonna tell you.
- 28:17Speaker 3: You saw one little child well I had.
- 28:21Speaker 2: You know, I was a little upset because I expected
- 28:23Speaker 2: a lot of people to be there to support me
- 28:26Speaker 2: and the ones that I thought that would be there,
- 28:29Speaker 2: they wouldn't. And you know what you showed up that night.
- 28:32Speaker 2: I told you I was with a card and some
- 28:35Speaker 2: flowers like you. You found me in the parking lot. Oh,
- 28:40Speaker 2: what's you're telling up over? You found me in the
- 28:44Speaker 2: parking lot. You was like here, I got kicked out
- 28:46Speaker 2: because I was yelling your name when you crossed the stage,
- 28:49Speaker 2: because you know they wasn't leying you do that at
- 28:51Speaker 2: the time. You can, I know they did, but we
- 28:55Speaker 2: couldn't do it because we was in the auditorium. So
- 28:59Speaker 2: you said, I got.
- 29:03Speaker 4: Got you killed out before we got it because I
- 29:05Speaker 4: went down the Bible blowers and gave me some of
- 29:07Speaker 4: my money and I got the call twenty dollars.
- 29:11Speaker 2: In Now you gave me fifty dollars.
- 29:13Speaker 3: Mama, I don't know, chat.
- 29:14Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm telling you gave me a whole
- 29:16Speaker 2: fifty dollars. I was excited about that, damn talking me.
- 29:20Speaker 2: You must love me that day.
- 29:22Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 29:22Speaker 2: I was.
- 29:26Speaker 5: You love me.
- 29:28Speaker 3: I give you my patchriock Bible because I kept my
- 29:32Speaker 3: money over there.
- 29:33Speaker 2: Yeah, you gave me fifty dollars that day. And then
- 29:36Speaker 2: you know the other time, like I was pregnant with Nate,
- 29:39Speaker 2: you showed up. I had called over to Bigmons and
- 29:43Speaker 2: was talking to her uh huh and Atholle, and they
- 29:50Speaker 2: had told you the doctor put me on bed risks. Yeah. Yeah,
- 29:55Speaker 2: you came right on over the You know what. The
- 29:57Speaker 2: funniest part about that, that whole pregnant see was with
- 30:00Speaker 2: you and the doctor was letting me go home from
- 30:03Speaker 2: the hospital, and they were telling you and me how
- 30:07Speaker 2: they were gonna have to change the sight on my
- 30:10Speaker 2: leg every four days and you were gonna have to
- 30:14Speaker 2: stick me yes, and you just over there agreeing and said, oh,
- 30:18Speaker 2: we got it, it's no problem.
- 30:20Speaker 4: You know.
- 30:20Speaker 2: Yeah you did. But as soon as it came to that,
- 30:25Speaker 2: you went and smoked. You went it cleaned off the
- 30:27Speaker 2: front patio, the back patio, and still didn't coming. Now.
- 30:31Speaker 2: You said you had to get your nerves together. I said, Mama,
- 30:34Speaker 2: I don't took the old one out. It's time to
- 30:36Speaker 2: place the other one.
- 30:37Speaker 5: Okay, he said, okay, here, I call mama. You never came.
- 30:42Speaker 2: We had to get the lady across.
- 30:43Speaker 5: The hall to do it.
- 30:45Speaker 3: I told her.
- 30:47Speaker 5: You told the doctor. You say, though, ask you know
- 30:55Speaker 5: what to do that, you.
- 30:57Speaker 3: Know what, Like she said, if I could have practiced.
- 31:01Speaker 2: I gave you an orange to practice on.
- 31:04Speaker 5: You said, that ain't the same thing.
- 31:07Speaker 4: I know, get your leg like that.
- 31:10Speaker 3: It was the same thing.
- 31:11Speaker 5: Yeah, you just just.
- 31:15Speaker 2: After that first one, you said, don't ask me to
- 31:17Speaker 2: do that no more.
- 31:18Speaker 3: And I didn't. I didn't know how to do it.
- 31:21Speaker 2: I had to because you and Brad wasn't gonna do it.
- 31:29Speaker 3: Strong.
- 31:33Speaker 2: Oh, Nate, Yeah, you started feeding him table for real early.
- 31:39Speaker 2: But then the other time was right when right after
- 31:42Speaker 2: I had him. That was the very first time I
- 31:44Speaker 2: had to have a bobs because I found a lung
- 31:48Speaker 2: and I called her hair and told her and she
- 31:51Speaker 2: told you. You called me you and say.
- 31:54Speaker 3: What's wrong with your booby?
- 31:56Speaker 2: I said, well, Mama, it's got a lump in it.
- 31:59Speaker 2: And they they said they're gonna have to do a vibs.
- 32:02Speaker 2: You said, well, if I give me a ride after,
- 32:05Speaker 2: I'm gonna be out there so I can look. I said, Mama,
- 32:07Speaker 2: you're gonna what you're gonna do, I'm gonna see what
- 32:09Speaker 2: the luve looks.
- 32:13Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I want to sure.
- 32:20Speaker 2: Hand.
- 32:22Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you did come, you did.
- 32:26Speaker 2: Feel the lumb You what you said, you said, I
- 32:29Speaker 2: don't know what that is. Yeah, you're gonna have to
- 32:31Speaker 2: go ahead. You said, yeah, they're gonna have to go
- 32:39Speaker 2: ahead and look at that, because.
- 32:43Speaker 5: That's what you said.
- 32:44Speaker 2: So I went and had him look at it, and
- 32:47Speaker 2: it turned out it was fine. It was just a
- 32:50Speaker 2: block melt up from breastfeeding.
- 32:52Speaker 5: And so you know, we was good.
- 32:54Speaker 2: But one of the things I want, yeah, blind melt up.
- 33:02Speaker 2: But you know, one things that I've learned over these
- 33:05Speaker 2: past couple of months about you and myself indeed, is
- 33:10Speaker 2: that you are a tremendously strong woman. And in situations
- 33:17Speaker 2: that you've faced over life and anything that you've ever
- 33:20Speaker 2: been through, with you kicking me out when you've got
- 33:24Speaker 2: to cry and all of that, you taught me how
- 33:27Speaker 2: to cry in silence with nobody around. But you've also
- 33:32Speaker 2: taught me how to be strong within and just looking
- 33:36Speaker 2: at everything that you've encountered in life, you have truly
- 33:43Speaker 2: inspired me in so many different ways. And I just
- 33:46Speaker 2: wanted to let you know how much I love you
- 33:48Speaker 2: and I thank you. Uh huh, yeah, it's it's it's
- 34:06Speaker 2: got both of us. But well lord, yeah, but you
- 34:15Speaker 2: can't cry in private right now, So you just gotta
- 34:19Speaker 2: let that one go. But I just wanted you to
- 34:21Speaker 2: know that because you've taught me so much, and you've
- 34:25Speaker 2: shown me so much, and you showed me what true
- 34:28Speaker 2: strength is. And I could not ask for a better mom,
- 34:33Speaker 2: a better friend, a better goofy partner, because yes, definitely so.
- 34:42Speaker 2: I admire you and everything that that you have taught
- 34:48Speaker 2: me without realizing you did, and I wanted to make
- 34:52Speaker 2: sure that I was.
- 34:57Speaker 3: Something something. If I didn't, it's like I was doing something.
- 35:02Speaker 2: Well, you you have and you've truly shown me what
- 35:05Speaker 2: true strength is. And I thank you for that.
- 35:09Speaker 3: You Mamma.
- 35:13Speaker 4: The two thousand, two thousand fourteen, and you said I
- 35:17Speaker 4: just gotta jail, yes, and I'm taking somebody.
- 35:23Speaker 7: Yeah, and somebody was like your daughter say no she
- 35:27Speaker 7: did that was aga and get my augument, Obama, excuse me,
- 35:35Speaker 7: I mean ugu with help.
- 35:37Speaker 4: I missed my daughter and missing with you. I got
- 35:40Speaker 4: miss I missed my two mobs. I just met my
- 35:44Speaker 4: I just missed my being missing with you, and you
- 35:48Speaker 4: ain't got nampeter your damn like I did.
- 35:54Speaker 3: What she was broke?
- 35:56Speaker 2: Well, why would you argue with somebody like that?
- 35:59Speaker 5: No, you just said.
- 36:01Speaker 2: Anyway, I thank you for being part of my podcast.
- 36:05Speaker 2: This is a very special moment for me. Thank you so,
- 36:08Speaker 2: I thank you. You're gonna be my guest again one day? Yes? Okay, well,
- 36:13Speaker 2: we know that you have a show coming up on
- 36:16Speaker 2: the twenty third. You excited about that? Yeah, there was.
- 36:22Speaker 3: Psychiatrist.
- 36:23Speaker 2: Okay, well, I thank you guys for tuning in. Please
- 36:30Speaker 2: tune in every second Sunday and fourth Thursday of each
- 36:35Speaker 2: and every month to believe in the Journey podcast. This
- 36:38Speaker 2: has been a truly special moment for me and I
- 36:41Speaker 2: thank you guys for tuning in. I look forward to
- 36:44Speaker 2: seeing you on the twenty seventh of this month. Tune
- 36:47Speaker 2: in where my special guests will be a Tanya Barnes
- 36:51Speaker 2: and we will talk about the balancing of life. But
- 36:54Speaker 2: as always, as I close out each and every show,
- 36:57Speaker 2: I want you to know that God Will wants you
- 37:00Speaker 2: to be obedient to what He's called you to do,
- 37:03Speaker 2: so that means minding your business and staying out of
- 37:06Speaker 2: his I love you until next time.
- 37:10Speaker 5: I defin