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Dear Banya: Popping More Questions · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio and
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  Speaker 1: two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 3: As we clop clop.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I too. That's a tone. Yeah, it's a vibe.
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  Speaker 2: So, as we said in Monday's episode, we are doing
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  Speaker 2: a little continuation of Q and A for the proposal.
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  Speaker 4: Quite a deluge of questions.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, wow.
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  Speaker 2: Well, the thing is is that we weren't anticipating doing
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  Speaker 2: a Q and A last week, but you asked the
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  Speaker 2: scrubbing in, so they had very limited time to submit
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  Speaker 2: their questions. So we got to what we could and
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  Speaker 2: then and then we were like, we'll do a part two.
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  Speaker 3: So many good ones here, so many good ones, so
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  Speaker 3: many good ones.
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  Speaker 4: Mark and Easton find out pretty much when the Instagram. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: and then I found out when Sam called me. I
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  Speaker 4: was driving in for the podcast and Sam the producer
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  Speaker 4: called me and told me. Easton saw on Instagram. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I was.
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  Speaker 6: I was recording are you a Charlotte and the other
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  Speaker 6: and said, oh my god, you have to go to
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  Speaker 6: Burbank immediately.
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  Speaker 4: I did.
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  Speaker 3: I Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I It was interesting because when we told we told
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  Speaker 2: like called people, and then that was kind of it.
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  Speaker 2: We were just like stayed off social media and then
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  Speaker 2: we're like, we'll announce it, you know, crying.
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  Speaker 5: Oh did you did you hear crack in her voice?
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  Speaker 3: I didn't.
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  Speaker 1: No, just moving one that really crat.
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  Speaker 3: You'll make me cry.
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  Speaker 4: Well, they didn't be officiating. I think that's an excellent choice.
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  Speaker 3: That's great. Do you feel like I feel like you'd
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  Speaker 3: cry the whole time?
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  Speaker 6: I came it together. I've done it befo for I've
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  Speaker 6: done it two or three times, so I'm a pro.
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  Speaker 3: I need some footage. We're gonna need an audition.
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  Speaker 2: No, actually I've I've That's been interesting because the actual
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  Speaker 2: ceremony feels super far away.
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  Speaker 3: But we were thinking, like thinking, you're going to think
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  Speaker 3: about it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's far You're still gonna like that idea.
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  Speaker 6: Well, I'm here, available and willing should you want it.
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  Speaker 6: And I'm sure there's a lot of people that might.
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  Speaker 2: Be at the wedding regardless of you're if there's a
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  Speaker 2: role or maybe flower girl or something.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, what other names have you been tossing around?
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  Speaker 2: We had a few names we tossed around. Robbie, Yeah, Cigar,
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  Speaker 2: that would be great.
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  Speaker 4: Too.
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  Speaker 2: We tossed around Jordan Rogers. Yeah, we had a few
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  Speaker 2: just like names that we th are out there of
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  Speaker 2: like people who know us and would be able to
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  Speaker 2: make get personable, but also like have the attention of
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  Speaker 2: the room and didn't go too deep into like inside
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  Speaker 2: jokes or anything. Like I really feel like Ryan did
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  Speaker 2: such a great job. It felt very much geared towards job,
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  Speaker 2: but not like inside jokes where everyone's like okay.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't get it right right, So yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: love that idea. Ring bears.
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  Speaker 1: On behalf of my husband who is not here. I
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  Speaker 1: would like to say I think he would do an
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  Speaker 1: amazing job.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well listen, there's a lot of time, so there's.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, if there's someone who can give a good moving speech,
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  Speaker 1: oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 2: Even on the call to them, Robbie is like I
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  Speaker 2: just want to say, oh yeah, and we all are
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  Speaker 2: like sobbing, even him, He's like I'm gonna cry.
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  Speaker 3: But he was just like the most emotional speech.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, what, Well, he did know you guys
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  Speaker 1: were getting engaged, so he had some time where I
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  Speaker 1: was just like crying hysterically saying like and he's like,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to say all I have y'all, you
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  Speaker 1: skipped one that I wanted to get to after calling
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  Speaker 1: Tanya and Robbie, who was next on your list to call.
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  Speaker 2: I don't remember specifically the order, but it was I
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  Speaker 2: called Ali Jojo.
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  Speaker 5: Well, if you don't remember the order, then I mean
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  Speaker 5: it's allid wash. All I know is that was first.
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  Speaker 3: I knew it wouldn't mean as much to anyone else,
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  Speaker 3: but you, who is going.
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  Speaker 4: To be the most into wedding planning. Does one of
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  Speaker 4: you not really care take a back seat and the
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  Speaker 4: decision making? Are you equally interested and excited and invested
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  Speaker 4: in the details, Tanya, that's the correct answer.
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  Speaker 2: I think there will be more into the details, like
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  Speaker 2: the really minute details, I think. But I think we'll
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  Speaker 2: both be prett into it in our own ways, Like
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  Speaker 2: I'll be curious to see where she did mention wanting
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  Speaker 2: to do a choreographed dance and I had.
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  Speaker 3: To shut that down, come on together, and then I go.
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  Speaker 2: But if you want to do if it feels important
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  Speaker 2: for you to do one by yourself, then I have
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  Speaker 2: I also bort you.
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  Speaker 4: How's she doing by herself?
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  Speaker 3: Got some backup dancers? But no, I think we'll both
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  Speaker 3: be pretty involved way.
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  Speaker 2: She's more organized than like a planner about things. So
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  Speaker 2: if anything, I think she'll have to kind of keep
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  Speaker 2: me on track with like the timing and like make delines.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Oh I hated those.
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  Speaker 3: I know, I know.
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  Speaker 5: I just hated reading the contracts.
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  Speaker 3: That was like, didn't Robbie read the contract? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I still had to like look over them and
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  Speaker 1: be like, did you read the contract.
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  Speaker 5: And what do you think about it?
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  Speaker 4: Will you coordinate wedding attire? Of course, it's traditional to
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  Speaker 4: not see the bridal look before the wedding day, but
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  Speaker 4: what if your choice is clash or what if they're identical,
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  Speaker 4: You're gonna have to see each other's looks.
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  Speaker 2: Uh No, We'll probably just have someone who who knows
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  Speaker 2: both of them and can say, like you, you can't
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  Speaker 2: do that too similar. But we have such different style
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  Speaker 2: that I don't see us gravitating towards the same thing.
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  Speaker 4: Tony and Robbie saw each other before their first look. Yes,
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  Speaker 4: where you have a first look, or where you see
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  Speaker 4: each other at the altar for the first time.
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  Speaker 2: I've always been so torn about this because I love
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  Speaker 2: the idea of having the intimate moment together of just
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  Speaker 2: being us seeing each other and.
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  Speaker 3: Like getting to take it in without having an audience watching.
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  Speaker 2: But then there's something about like seeing each other going
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  Speaker 2: down the aisle for the first time and seeing it.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know, because it was so I got
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  Speaker 3: to watch Altz First Look, which I loved.
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  Speaker 1: Popcorn watching Our First Look, you asked us, No, no,
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  Speaker 1: I liked it. But I also think that the other
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  Speaker 1: pro that nobody really talks about is like, I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: nervous at all leading out to my wedding until like
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  Speaker 1: the half hour before the ceremony, when like you know,
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  Speaker 1: everybody is at cocktail hour and everybody is like there
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  Speaker 1: waiting for you. That's when I got really nervous. And
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  Speaker 1: having Robbie like with me there was like very calming.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, so that will be I I could
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  Speaker 3: see us going either way for that.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 4: If Taylor Swift invited to the wedding, She's always invited
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  Speaker 4: this show right now invitation?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, who will walk.
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  Speaker 4: Down the aisle first? Or will you walk down together?
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  Speaker 7: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Good question.
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  Speaker 2: This is interesting because I've I've also seen weddings where
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  Speaker 2: the people the bride and groom are bride and brider
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  Speaker 2: groom and groom walk from each end of the aisle
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  Speaker 2: towards each other, and so they're in the middle of everyone.
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  Speaker 3: Which I think would be really cool.
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  Speaker 2: We might have to come up with something not necessarily
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  Speaker 2: like traditional to see, but we probably both walked down
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  Speaker 2: the aisle like you know how normally the Yeah, Robbie
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  Speaker 2: walked on first. Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, we did it together and it was very Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I'll never forget that moment. It was very special.
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  Speaker 3: I love that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's something to think about.
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  Speaker 4: When my sister married her wife, my sister was in
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  Speaker 4: a more traditional Uh your.
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  Speaker 3: Sister married to a woman.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I never.
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  Speaker 4: Talked about this.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. When Amy married Emily Amy, my sister was in
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  Speaker 4: more of a vest and tie, where Emily was in
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  Speaker 4: more of a traditional wedding dress. Do you see that
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  Speaker 4: kind of a dynamic or no.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think Hayley wants because I asked.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, would you want to be more in
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  Speaker 2: like a like kind of suit look, and she's like, no,
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  Speaker 2: I think I want to be in a dress.
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  Speaker 3: So I mean, we'll see.
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  Speaker 2: She will probably get someone to design something or something
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  Speaker 2: very unique for her, like a hybrid.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I did not know that I'll show you some pictures.
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  Speaker 5: Wow, you know his wife's name is the same name.
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  Speaker 4: Yes. Do they get each other's like Venmo transactions random
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  Speaker 4: sixty bucks on Venmo when you off the text mes Thursdays?
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  Speaker 4: This for you? Yeah, I think so anyway, because you
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  Speaker 4: would think there's want amy moments on Venmo. Right. Oh,
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  Speaker 4: well there's the maid of honor conversation. Okay, we had
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  Speaker 4: the big Becker versus Paulina quiz here and that was fun.
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  Speaker 4: Like it will be a similar competition to be your
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  Speaker 4: maid of honor.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think anyone will feel competitive over it.
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  Speaker 3: Minus Tony, I feel no competition. I don't feel but
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  Speaker 3: I was still.
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  Speaker 5: You could do whatever you wanted.
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  Speaker 2: It's giving lies, it's giving trying to convince herself.
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  Speaker 4: She's above the phrase.
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  Speaker 5: First of all, I've already braced myself for this.
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  Speaker 1: I can show you the d MS of people like
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  Speaker 1: in my family who have said, oh, are you going
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  Speaker 1: to be the matron of honor? And I literally respond
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  Speaker 1: and I said, as many sisters. So I'm gonna assume
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  Speaker 1: that I'm not even in the bridal party.
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  Speaker 5: So I've set the bar.
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  Speaker 3: You're in the bridal party.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you have so many. First of all, you have
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  Speaker 1: so many sisters. Hailey has a sister, and then you
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  Speaker 1: have so many best friends. Is very lengthy, and I
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  Speaker 1: don't see you as someone that's gonna have ten bridesmaids,
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  Speaker 1: So the bar for me is very low.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no, you'll definitely be in the wedding, in
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  Speaker 3: the bridal party.
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  Speaker 2: But I also I was telling Haley that even like
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't I wasn't JoJo's maid of honor, but I
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  Speaker 2: did a lot of the things that a maid of
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  Speaker 2: honor would do, even though like I didn't need the
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  Speaker 2: title to like step up and do the do things
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  Speaker 2: for her, if that makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: And I feel like you'll be that way whether you
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  Speaker 3: have the title or not.
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  Speaker 2: But you're definitely You're You've really so far been a
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  Speaker 2: very helpful If the energy is a little more relaxed
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  Speaker 2: and I'm not stress about like making decisions, yeah, you'd
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  Speaker 2: be an incredible made of honor.
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  Speaker 5: How stressed have I made you the last week?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, you're just always already asking about like wedding
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  Speaker 3: dress shopping and stuff.
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  Speaker 5: Freezy, It's just breezy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just you just like have the zoomies right now.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly. I think I will calm down. You're so right,
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  Speaker 5: I have zoomies.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, by the time that rolls around, you'll be like
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  Speaker 2: two kids in exhausted.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like, I don't I can't take this on.
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  Speaker 5: But really, so you get thoughts.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I feel like I've had to think
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  Speaker 3: about that.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like we've had this question about my hypothetical
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  Speaker 2: made of honor for a very long time. So you're
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  Speaker 2: definitely in the running.
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  Speaker 4: Well, we have to get to some questions about about
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  Speaker 4: engagement photos, about cake, We have to talk about the
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  Speaker 4: wedding first down, so much to talk about when we
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  Speaker 4: come back.
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  Speaker 3: All right, we are.
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  Speaker 6: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Now this is actually funny because the scrubber asks, did
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  Speaker 4: you know before the previous episodes released The Dear Bonya
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  Speaker 4: on July seventh? So we have to let you in
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  Speaker 4: on a secret on that one julye that episode was
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  Speaker 4: pre recorded before you left, before any of this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the fourth of July, I was on my honeymoon.
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  Speaker 1: Beccoes on her trip, so we pre recorded those episodes
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  Speaker 1: before we left.
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  Speaker 4: July seventh, one for sure, because she goes, I could
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  Speaker 4: tell you all were keeping secrets from us. I don't
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  Speaker 4: think we.
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  Speaker 3: Were definitely we're not certainly were not that this is
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  Speaker 3: our baseline. I suppose keeping secret.
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  Speaker 5: Or like giddy for vacation.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like, like, will you be incorporating a Taylor
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  Speaker 7: Swift song into your wedding for the isle song or
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  Speaker 7: maybe a first dance?
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  Speaker 4: Any thoughts on the songs?
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  Speaker 2: You know, Helen, I have very different music tastes, so
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  Speaker 2: I don't know we'll have to there will be some
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  Speaker 2: compromising not compromising, but more so like searching. She was
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  Speaker 2: even thinking she was posting a video and was like,
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  Speaker 2: we need some songs that we just have, like a
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  Speaker 2: playlist of songs that that remind us of our relationship
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  Speaker 2: or that we're both sure.
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  Speaker 4: You know, compromise is fair. I think I got a
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  Speaker 4: Springsteen song into our wedding, and I was pretty excited
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  Speaker 4: about that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, if I can, I'm hoping Taylor Slips will
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  Speaker 2: have some even new music about falling in love with
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  Speaker 2: Travis Kelcey that I.
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  Speaker 3: Can be there. Yeah, an instrumental version.
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  Speaker 5: I love an instrumental.
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  Speaker 4: Version o the string quartet.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Are you doing engagement photos? Whether it be an engagement party?
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  Speaker 4: While I ever stopped crying when I see something about
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  Speaker 4: your engagement. She said, that's very sweet.
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  Speaker 3: That's so sweet.
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  Speaker 2: So it was really thoughtful because Haley had the photographer
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  Speaker 2: there for the proposal photos, and then the next day
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  Speaker 2: we took like kind of engagement photos fresh and then
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  Speaker 2: we're we'll probably do an engagement photo session here in
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  Speaker 2: LA when we're not like sweaty and been the humidity
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  Speaker 2: and maybe have it like styled and you know, makeup
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  Speaker 2: and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: But it's that was really fun.
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  Speaker 2: Haley and I have never taken like professional photos together
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  Speaker 2: outside of a red carpet, so we.
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  Speaker 3: Didn't know how to pose, Like we were having to
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  Speaker 3: look up pines.
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  Speaker 2: How to pose, and especially like when you're trying to
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  Speaker 2: show the ring, you have to put your hand in
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  Speaker 2: really specific ways. And so and our photographer he does
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  Speaker 2: like beautiful photos, but he had never done an engagement shoot.
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  Speaker 3: So we're just like the three Stewes trying to figure
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  Speaker 3: that out. And what was the other question.
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  Speaker 5: About oh engagement party?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I kind of felt like the dinner was like
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  Speaker 2: an engagement party, but maybe we'll do something.
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  Speaker 5: What I thought the same.
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  Speaker 1: That's why, like when I was talking to Haley about
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  Speaker 1: like doing the flowers and stuff like that. Like I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to even do like the most because I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: this is like your engagement party, but I think you'll
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  Speaker 1: have like a proper one, like after you propose, and like, oh.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what. What's an engagement party?
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  Speaker 3: Like what's different from what we did?
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  Speaker 5: I mean nothing, it's just like more people.
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  Speaker 3: Oh oh so a bigger to do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, that would make sense that after I proposed
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  Speaker 2: to her.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, we never had one.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all's like our proposal was kind of like our engagement party.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, but not really not an engagement party. What those
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  Speaker 2: things are?
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  Speaker 5: I thought that's what yours was? I thought so, But
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I'm learning a lot. I'm learning a lot.
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  Speaker 1: You could do whatever you want, Like, if you think
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  Speaker 1: about it, you could have an you could have an
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  Speaker 1: engagement party for you. You could have an engagement party for
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  Speaker 1: when you get proposed to Haley. You can have I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you could have what bridal showers or I mean that
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  Speaker 1: it's endless what you can do. Truly, Yes, you just
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  Speaker 1: get I think you just get tired and overwhelmed. Like
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  Speaker 1: that's specifically, No, I think in general, just like as
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  Speaker 1: a bride, like you get like, yeah, there's so many
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  Speaker 1: things that you're like, there's only so many things I
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  Speaker 1: want to plan, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: Exactly, I'm not much of a planner of those types
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  Speaker 2: of things. So we'll see how I think if once
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  Speaker 2: I propose, I'll have the excitement and stamina to like
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  Speaker 2: do something.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I thought this weekend was my engagement.
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  Speaker 1: Or maybe you can tack on and do something after
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  Speaker 1: you propose to Haley kind of like what she did
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  Speaker 1: for you this dinner, but maybe make that a little
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  Speaker 1: bit bigger and then that could be your engagement party.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: So it's like kind of one job, yes, because you're
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  Speaker 1: already put so much effort into the proposal, right, lop
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: it all in.
• 17:00
  Speaker 5: Right, you know?
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: Okay, good to know reaching out I can help you.
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: And one more and this is a big one. What
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: flavored cake would you want at your wedding?
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: Interesting?
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: Well, Hailey loves coffee cake, like she loves like coffee flavored.
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: Coffee flavored, not like coffee cake, right, I consider coffee flavored.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: So like how she loves the ice cream cake like
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: a coffee ice cream cake.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: It was really hard.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: I was trying to get a coffee cake for her birthday,
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: but we were in the park, so I was like,
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: ice cream will melt. So I found a mocha flavored
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: cake and it was delicious.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: But I don't know.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: Maybe we'll have something hybrid cake like she loves cake,
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: but not I would see us doing more, maybe like
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: a cute little ice cream treat.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: She loves ice cream. I don't know. We'll probably do
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: something oted.
• 17:59
  Speaker 5: And they also want to charge you three thousand dollars
• 18:00
  Speaker 5: for it. I'm like, yeah, I will just.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: Be like, oh, it's a birthday cake too much.
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: Some of these vendors know too much.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: So yeah, that will probably have our own little thing.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: Same with the food. You know, she has her allergy,
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: so yeah, oh don't we all know?
• 18:21
  Speaker 5: We all, don't we all?
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, here's a question from an overwhelmed scrubber. This looks
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: like it's for Tanya specifically. I Becatanya Marconiste and my
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: fiance and now are getting married in September, and we're
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: writing personal life notes to each of our guests, just
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: like Tanya did. My question is how did you go
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: about wording them? We want we want them to be
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: a message from the both of us, since it's our
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: wedding day and we are signing them all from the
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: both of us, but we're struggling with how to phrase them,
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: what to include for people that really only have memories
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: for one of us, et cetera. Did you follow a template?
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: Did you avoid using the word I? Since it's from
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: both of you? Help please any advice on how to
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: go about writing all of our notes. We appreciate it.
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: Signed a scrubber who is very overwhelmed with wedding planning. Lol.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: This is so funny because Robbie had the exact same question.
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: We were doing our card.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: He was like, he like sat down to write the
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: first one and he wrote like I I'm like, babe.
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: It's from the both of us.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Like, it's not, yes, this is your cousin that you know,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: your whole wife and I've known them for five years,
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: but it's we. So it's like, I think you start
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: out the car, you start out the card by like obviously,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: so we kind of divvied them up. I wrote to
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: the people that like I was closer to. He wrote
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: to the people that he was closer to, but they
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: were both from the both of us. So I would
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: start off start off with like the memory of, like,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: if I'm writing to Mark, do you remember what I
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: wrote to you?
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: Not off the top of my head, but I remember
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: the we part of it, right.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: So I would talk about I, like, Mark, how important
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: you've been to me, but also how important and like
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: like how effortlessly it was when you met Robbie and like,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: so it was like a little tiny little snippet of
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: of the me part, but then quickly bringing in your
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: significant other when they met you and just being that
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: support system for the relationship sign it from the two
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: of you.
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: Call of to day.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Did y'all have anyone there where? Y'all both didn't know
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: anyone someone?
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah, No, so I don't.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: I would say that's a key part too.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: Yes, knowing everyone at your wedding is.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: A husband, yes, both of you. Correct.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: We had two people that hadn't met like uh like
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: one of the like uh that didn't meet Robbie because
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: they were more my my friend and they lived far away.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: So I still kind of incorporate him somehow. I don't
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: even I don't remember how I did it, but.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: Just like we're so excited that you're here.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah you have to write.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: We and like, very briefly, that's that's how we that's
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: how we approached it because we did because at first
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I was like, we can both write to everybody, you know,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: and then he quickly was like, no, no, no, it's okay.
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: I can still too.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: My name.
• 21:03
  Speaker 6: At the end, I was fully expecting to get like
• 21:05
  Speaker 6: one two Allison and I, you know, like that individual.
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: He floated that by two.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: He was like, I think we should write in couples
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: and I was like, nice.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, nice, try and then you already got out of
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: this one yea one party.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's every individual person. But actually, and after the
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: fact he was like, you were so right. It was
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: very special having e for each person. Yeah, it was
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: just get your right in writing.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: He would admit that. Let's see, this is from Natalia.
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: She's struggling with the secrecy of w l W, High
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: Scrubbing and fam twenty seven. I have a wl W
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: story similar to Becca's. Raised at a conservative Christian household,
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: on navigating love and secrecy. I still have a faith
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: of my own. I've been in a relationship for almost
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: two years. While I'm out to my friends and publicly.
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: My family except for my sister, doesn't know my mom
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: was where. I've struggled with my identity in the past,
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: but not about my current relationship. My partner and I
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: are planning to move from LA to New York City
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: this fall. Keeping our relationship a secret has been emotionally exhausting,
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: but I feel deeply responsible for protecting my parents from
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: the truth, like coming out would hurt them. I haven't
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: told extended family either, because I don't want to burden
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: them with Keeping the secret from my parents beca How
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: did you cope with the secrecy, Tanya, I'd love your
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: perspective too, being in on the privacy of the relationship
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: as well. To tell you navigated that as a support system.
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: Part of me feels I should wait until we're engaged
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: to come out when it feels more worth it, but
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: the weight of hiding is causing me intense anxiety. I'm
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: working on becoming more financially independent and finding a therapist
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: who specializes in religious trauma and LGBTQ issues. For now,
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: I plan to tell my parents that I'm moving with
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: my friend and leave it to that unless they ask
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: more directly. Thank you, all for sharing your journeys. They've
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: given me hope that things will eventually be okay. Deep down,
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: I still have faith that the worst won't be as
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: bad as I fear. Thank you, Natalia. Ugh.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: This feeling is horrible, And I didn't really have to
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: deal with my family not knowing for too long because
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: someone told told my parents before I had the chance to.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: But in hindsight, I hate how it went down, Like
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: I wish the person had enough respect for me to
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: let it.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: Be mine to tell.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: However, there's a part of me that's grateful that they
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: told because it just got it like done and out
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: of the way and let the like processing begin when
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: it did. And I think that the thing is I
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: had a turning point years in where I was like, oh,
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: I'm so worried about other people hurting because of because
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: of this, And it feels so crazy because you're you're
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: like apologizing for experiencing like love and happiness and like
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: falling in love, and it's so it's so crazy to
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: me that we have to that people have to hide
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: something that should be so joyful as in the effort
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: to not hurt someone else. And I think what you're
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: doing is you're you're hurting yourself by not telling them,
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: And I think it's it's just really affecting you because
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: they don't know anything right now. And I think as
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: soon as you give them the chance to have a
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: reaction that might be better than you think, or maybe
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: it will be bad. It starts the process of reparation.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: So if if you tell them and it doesn't go well,
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: repairing is that the right word?
• 24:34
  Speaker 5: Great word?
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: It starts the healing process. Tells that thank you, because
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: if you tell them and they're able to.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: React in the way that is honest for them, which
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: might be hurtful or it might not be as bad
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: as you think, it gives It starts the process of
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: you being free and them knowing who you truly are,
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: because they don't know a huge part of who you are.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: And I think that's such a loss for parents, and
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: sometimes they realize it, sometimes they don't. And I think
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: for me, I had my sisters who knew, and all
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: my friends knew and people that I loved, and I
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: think when my family found out, it was not easy
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: the whole time, but I had such a strong support
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: system that I felt very loved and I felt like
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: it was so worth it to be with Haley. And
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: I also felt like if I just kept this mine
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: and made it a secret, then they would never fully
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: know who I am, and this feels unfair for them
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: to even have that opportunity, And so if they find
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: out and they don't like it, that's on them. That
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: was kind of my mentality, But I feel like reading this,
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: I feel for you so much, Natalia, and I just
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: want you to know that life is so beautiful and
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: short and you only get one of them, and it's
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: just not worth making yourself small or hiding such an
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: exciting part of your life life to protect someone else.
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: I can't speak to the w WLW side of it,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: but I have had friends who have hid their relationships
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: because of xyz, you know, religion, or they'd been with
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: this person before that broke their heart and they didn't
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: want to tell their family or friends again that they
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: were back together with them. And I just feel like
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: keeping things a secret and dating someone in private is
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: just like it's so hard on your relationship and it's
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: really hard on you.
• 26:30
  Speaker 5: So that would be my advice.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: And it's not a bad it's the thing is is
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: like you're not doing anything bad or wrong, Like you're
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: you fell in love with someone and you're getting to
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: experience love, and it's like you're harboring something that is
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: going to end up.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: It eats at you.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I just hope that you let yourself like
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: go of the guilt of hurting them, because you're not
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: doing anything to hurt them. How they respond is on them.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: And if they want to be in your life, then
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: they're gonna show up for you in the way that
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: you need to be showed up for.
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: They're gonna need time to process it. That might be
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: a day, a week, a month, a year, years, who knows.
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: But they've had a certain plan their whole life and
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: their heads for you. And when you tell them that
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: that's not your plan, that's gonna take some adjustment. Whether
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: it and it doesn't have to come in anything but
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: a place of love, there's gonna be some adjustment to
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: be had there. I think the sooner you start them
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: on that journey, the better, Yes, because who knows how
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: long it's gonna last. Better to get them going on
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: it now. And I also think wait until you're engaged
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: is almost a double whammy on your parents because there's
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: gonna be a part of them that's like, oh, she'll
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: get over it, it's just a phase or whatever. However,
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: they need to cope with it. Whether that's true or not,
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: it's probably not, but they need to do that. That's
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: their coping mechanism. So taking that mechanism away from them
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: immediately I think will be very difficult for them. Yeah,
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: make the journey that much longer.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: And also give them the opportunity to potentially be a
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: part of when you get engaged, Like maybe they'll have
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: a moment where they've processed it, and so when that
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: time comes, they're excited to be a part of that,
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: whereas if you just surprise them with that, they might
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: just be too much all at once. And there's this
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: girl who she came from a super religious background and
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: she's like a TikToker influencer and she did like her.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: She cut her parents out because they just they basically said,
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: we will not support you. She is not allowed in
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: our home. And so she had to set that boundary
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: and had like a whole wedding all this stuff, and
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: her parents weren't there. And then just like last year,
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: they came around and we're like, we want to be
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: in your life, you know, And there was a lot
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: of hurt and conversations that were hard and according to her,
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: but there is hope, even if it takes a really
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: long time. But you have to give them the chance.
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: And they could surprise you.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: And they could surprise you. I hope they do.
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: I hope so too. Maybe they'll love her the same
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: way you do. Yeah, we should take a break, and
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: then we have one more. One of the scrubbers kind
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: of kept track as stuff we've kind of left hanging
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: out there that shocked.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: All right, we'll get to those when we get back.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: All right, we are back with one final email.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: This is from Alexa. I bet it's hard to be
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: Alexa these days, don't you think? That's a name that
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: was really cool for a long long time and then
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: suddenly it was not so cool to be named Alexa. Anyway,
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: she says, love the pot. A few things we need
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: to know about or circle back on. First of all,
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: we need to taste tests of Becca's breakfast burritos. I
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: am still thinking about.
• 29:47
  Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, that would have been fine.
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: I mean, the pie was delicious, but breakfast burritoso had
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: been fine too, you know.
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: I was doing those like every day for a couple
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: I got burnt out on that spot. But I haven't
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: made a breakfast bread on a minute.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: You burn out way too fast. Yes, I got my
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: fried eggs going in a couple of months.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: That new delicacy that no one's ever experienced.
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: Let's see, can you do? Can you have someone on
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: the podcast to do a color theory test on each
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: of you or do one of the TikTok filters. Color
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: theory test determines which season of color looks best on
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: each of you, and we need to know as scrubbers.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: I mean, I would be totally down to do it.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: It's just like, also, I'm just gonna wear sure, but
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: I do see sometimes I see photos of me in
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: certain colors.
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: I'm like, that is not my color.
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: I would be interested to find out what my color is.
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: But I don't know that that's an interesting podcast, right.
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: It's more of a visual experience.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: So maybe we have someone come come in and maybe
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: one day when we launch a video.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: Podcast podcast material.
• 30:58
  Speaker 5: If I'm being honest, I'm just gonna throw that out there.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: Little maybe we'll get them individually and at'll excuse me, a.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: Request for the significant others on the pod including Alison
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: and Amy, and to play a couple of newly wet
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: game or just a trivia game. And we did that
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: once upon a time. Yeah, I gotta tell you my
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: wife has no interest in being uh, having the spotlight
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: on her. She's just not a person that's ever craved
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: the spotlight. Does want to be on the radio, doesn't
• 31:23
  Speaker 4: min be on podcasts, doesn't want to be on video.
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: She's she's good. If you could pick I think it's
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: just a random question she has here. If you could
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: pick just one item or meal for each breakfast, lunch,
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: and dinner for an entire week, what.
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: Would it be easy?
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: I already do this basically.
• 31:42
  Speaker 5: Oh, she's saying one item per.
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: Meal, one item only. For example, eggs for breakfast, club
• 31:47
  Speaker 4: sandwich on wheat for lunch. Oh okay, that's a little different.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: And does anyone have this off the top of your head? Yes,
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: okay for.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: And this is just like barring all whatever, just eating
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: what you want. Breakfast would be three fried eggs with
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Celtic sea salt and black pepper on top.
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: That it's not just an easy, no, it ain't.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: For lunch, it would be a cheeseburger wrapped in lettuce
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: with the side of sweet potato French fries. And for
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: dinner it would be gluten free, so wet.
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: So we are keeping in mind dietary restrictions because you're
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: going gluten free, but we're not keeping in mind like
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: health restrictions. Is that we're saying here.
• 32:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, like I would need a burger every day, but like.
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: Right right right, like yeah, I hear you.
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: There we go, that's mine.
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: Uh sure, I would have a I love a poached
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: egg records out of a couple of le Mark Post
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: eggs over toast makes me very happy. I think it's
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: a childhood thing because my mom used to make those
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: a lot. For lunch, I would have my wife's panini,
• 33:10
  Speaker 4: which is the greatest sandwich I've ever had my whole life.
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: It's really great.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: Maybe you should bring those in and.
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: And for dinner, I love it deep dish pizza man
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: with the sauce on top. It's almost like a it's
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: not it's not like not even a pizza. It's so thick.
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: There's so much going on in there, the pie blayered.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: I love it deep di I cannot find good deep
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: dish pizza out here. It's like a pie it's like
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: a pizza pie with thick. I would get a Chicago
• 33:36
  Speaker 4: style deep dish pizza for dinner, so yummy, deep dish
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  Speaker 4: doesn't do it for me. I'm sorry, you're wrong. I
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  Speaker 4: am really good girl.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I respect a deep dish love.
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  Speaker 6: I guess for breakfast, I too would do fried eggs
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  Speaker 6: with the salt and pepper.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, Crazy Crazy's wild Celtic Sea salt.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 6: I googled Celtic Sea salt and the first thing that
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  Speaker 6: came up is Celtics Salt class action lawsuit.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, so maybe not.
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  Speaker 6: We'll talk about this later.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to freak you out, but maybe check
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  Speaker 4: your lead levels.
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  Speaker 3: Anyway, that's amazing salt member.
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  Speaker 6: And then for lunch, I think I'll do a roast
• 34:20
  Speaker 6: beef sandwich with cheddar cheese, and for dinner a pepperoni
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  Speaker 6: pizza from Round Table Pizza.
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  Speaker 4: I could.
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  Speaker 6: I did eat that every night for a very long time.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sure. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna go pancakes for breakfast.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: You know, I was thinking about buttermilk pancakes.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: And then lunch, I love a good sandwich with like
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: olive oil and vinegarette and like soft.
• 34:47
  Speaker 5: Baguette roll like sub Boy Sandy, sub.
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: Boy Sandy, but like that like soft yead just like
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  Speaker 3: a sub.
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  Speaker 2: Nice little sub sandwich with chips, jalapino kettle chips.
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: And then my dinner, I actually would go Thin Cross pizza. Wow,
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: I love you like New York style pizza.
• 35:08
  Speaker 4: Okay? Is there a specific restaurant or no.
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  Speaker 3: Well I'm the one that I've had.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: They have a Joe's here, which is like yours, but
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  Speaker 2: they have they have it here, so it hits different
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  Speaker 2: when you're in New York at Joe's.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: But it's really good here too.
• 35:23
  Speaker 4: I'm going to New York in a couple of weeks
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: a pizza. Maybe we should. My kids have never been there,
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: so we wanted to make sure we get We showed
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: them New York. We're going to Broadway shows. My daughter,
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: the youngest, is going to be doing a dance intensive
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  Speaker 4: all week there, and my oldest thought I was gonna
• 35:39
  Speaker 4: be doing a musical theater intensive all week there. So
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: they're going to be performing and oh my god, we
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: leave the twenty sixth oh July. Yeah.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: A couple of weeks, Eson sent me a text message
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: with the.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Information what shows are you all going to see.
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: We're going to see and Juliette. We're going to see
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: Death Becomes Her. I want to see Hell's Kitchen. Those
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: are the three we've decided are the buzziest and most exciting.
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: For not what's the Nicole Scherzinger one.
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  Speaker 4: She wanted to for that, didn't she?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 36:09
  Speaker 5: I feel like that one's super buzzy.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: And maybe Happen.
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: It's a little I don't love the classics as much.
• 36:20
  Speaker 4: What's the question? What did you say?
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: I said? My friend does is a maybe happy ending?
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: Which is the Darren Chris one that won.
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: Right right right, maybe happy ending?
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: We can't the one that Charlie Demilio is in.
• 36:35
  Speaker 4: Yes, nice, Yes, I love her.
• 36:38
  Speaker 5: When are you going to New York?
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: I'm not just talk about Mark?
• 36:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we're really excited about it.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: That's fun. I love New York's so fun too.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: Well.
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: One more things. She did request to return to the
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: live shows.
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  Speaker 2: Consistent one yes, if not now never, never, no, no, no,
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