Latest / Motivational Podcast / NEVER GIVE UP – Keep Going, No Matter the Odds
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- 0:01Speaker 1: It was hard when just over three years ago in
- 0:05Speaker 1: the Panopscot building in Detroit, Michigan, where I was operating
- 0:09Speaker 1: my business, and I fell on some hard times.
- 0:13Speaker 2: It was hard coming into.
- 0:15Speaker 1: The lobby and the security said, excus me, mister Brown,
- 0:17Speaker 1: can we see you for a moment, And I said yes,
- 0:20Speaker 1: and I walked up to the counter and he gave
- 0:22Speaker 1: me an envelope and he said, would you mind reading
- 0:25Speaker 1: it here? And I opened the envelope and the envelope
- 0:28Speaker 1: was from management that said, this is an office tower,
- 0:33Speaker 1: it's not a hotel.
- 0:35Speaker 2: Please do not sleep in your office.
- 0:40Speaker 1: And I said, excuse me, sir, I said, I just
- 0:42Speaker 1: worked long hours and creating my business. I'm an entrepreneur,
- 0:47Speaker 1: and right now things are bad for me, for they're
- 0:49Speaker 1: not going to be this way always. I'm not trying
- 0:53Speaker 1: to make this my home. And it was hard coming
- 0:56Speaker 1: through the lobby. And sometimes they would laugh at the
- 0:59Speaker 1: guy talking about becoming successful, and look at it, he's
- 1:02Speaker 1: bathing in the bathroom upstairs on the twenty first floor.
- 1:07Speaker 2: He sleeps on the floor, him.
- 1:09Speaker 1: And two other dreamers up there, look at him. It
- 1:13Speaker 1: was hard ladies and gentlemen coming to speak to people
- 1:17Speaker 1: and I was facing financial difficulties in my own life.
- 1:21Speaker 1: I was behind on my bills and my dreams, and
- 1:23Speaker 1: I'm saying to them, you can live your dream. It
- 1:26Speaker 1: was hard, ladies and gentlemen. It was very difficult to
- 1:30Speaker 1: pick myself up each day believing that I could do it.
- 1:33Speaker 1: There were times that I doubted myself and to God,
- 1:37Speaker 1: why is this happening to me.
- 1:39Speaker 2: I'm just trying to take care of my children and
- 1:40Speaker 2: my mother.
- 1:41Speaker 1: I'm not trying to steal a rock from anybody.
- 1:45Speaker 2: Why did this have to happen to me? It was
- 1:48Speaker 2: rough when I lost my job and I could not
- 1:52Speaker 2: find the job.
- 1:53Speaker 1: It was humiliating, an embarrassing borrowing money and then I
- 1:58Speaker 1: couldn't pay the money back when I told them I would.
- 2:04Speaker 2: That's wrong. How people look at you, how they respond
- 2:09Speaker 2: to you.
- 2:11Speaker 3: It's very hard.
- 2:15Speaker 2: Here's what I discovered that happens to your life.
- 2:17Speaker 1: That you will go through things, and while you're going
- 2:20Speaker 1: through them, you can't understand why it's happening to you.
- 2:24Speaker 1: But after you go through it, you get back and
- 2:26Speaker 1: you look at it and you say, oh, now I.
- 2:29Speaker 2: Understand why I needed that lesson. Then I saw that.
- 2:32Speaker 1: That was preparing me for bigger and better things. See,
- 2:37Speaker 1: most people want it easy. See easy come easy, what easy?
- 2:41Speaker 4: Go?
- 2:43Speaker 2: Learning those things that you don't like to do, But
- 2:47Speaker 2: you know that.
- 2:48Speaker 1: In order for you to get where you want to go, this.
- 2:50Speaker 2: Is one of the hoops that you have to flip through.
- 2:53Speaker 1: And I'm saying to you, whatever you gotta do, do
- 2:56Speaker 1: it because if you don't, life is gonna whoop you
- 2:59Speaker 1: and tell you, sir, how do you hang in there
- 3:02Speaker 1: during the hard, difficult times?
- 3:04Speaker 2: Lest you must have faith.
- 3:08Speaker 1: You've got to believe in yourself. You've got to believe
- 3:11Speaker 1: in your abilities. You've got to believe in your service,
- 3:14Speaker 1: your company, your ideas. Unquestionably, you've got to have faith.
- 3:20Speaker 2: And that faith gives.
- 3:22Speaker 1: You patience that is not going to happen as quickly
- 3:25Speaker 1: as you want it to happen.
- 3:27Speaker 2: A lot of things are going to happen that will
- 3:29Speaker 2: catch you off God, and.
- 3:30Speaker 1: So therefore you've got to deal with and handle it
- 3:33Speaker 1: as it comes. And not only that, but that faith
- 3:38Speaker 1: and patience drives you into action.
- 3:41Speaker 2: You've got to keep.
- 3:42Speaker 1: Moving by continuing to push forward, by continuing to run
- 3:47Speaker 1: toward my dream. At one day I would have my
- 3:52Speaker 1: own talk show. It's a long shot, ladies and gentlemen
- 3:56Speaker 1: from Liberty Center and abandoned building on.
- 3:58Speaker 2: A floor, annoying my mother or father. It's a long shot.
- 4:03Speaker 1: Being here with you today in this dome in Atlanta.
- 4:06Speaker 1: It's a long shot. My mother used to say, birds
- 4:09Speaker 1: of a feather flock together. You run around with losers,
- 4:12Speaker 1: you will end up for loser. It's necessary that you.
- 4:15Speaker 2: Get the losers out of your life. If you want
- 4:18Speaker 2: to live your dream.
- 4:19Speaker 1: Ask yourself the question the people in my life right
- 4:22Speaker 1: now are they contributing to my growth and development?
- 4:26Speaker 2: Are they making me a better person?
- 4:28Speaker 1: Is it making me stretch mentally and emotionally and spiritually?
- 4:31Speaker 2: Is it getting the best out of me? See, this
- 4:34Speaker 2: is the only life you've got.
- 4:36Speaker 1: That you get the energy drainers out of your life.
- 4:39Speaker 1: People who don't want anything, people who are not striving,
- 4:42Speaker 1: people who are not challenging themselves, people who aren't growing,
- 4:45Speaker 1: people who have stopped dreaming. It's necessary that you align
- 4:49Speaker 1: yourself with people and attract people into your business who
- 4:53Speaker 1: are hungry, people who are unstoppable and unreasonable, people who
- 4:58Speaker 1: are refusing.
- 4:58Speaker 2: To leave life just as it is, and who want more.
- 5:02Speaker 1: See ladies, and gentlemen, if you don't use your talents,
- 5:05Speaker 1: if you don't use this power, this force that you
- 5:08Speaker 1: have within you, you're gonna lose it. I travel a
- 5:10Speaker 1: lot speaking around the country, and I was out of
- 5:12Speaker 1: Detroit for round two months. I came back to the airport,
- 5:16Speaker 1: went in a parking lot, put my key, indignition, turney key.
- 5:18Speaker 1: Can anybody tell me what happened? Can you tell me
- 5:22Speaker 1: why the car did not get started? The battery was dead?
- 5:25Speaker 1: Why was it dead? I had not been using it.
- 5:29Speaker 1: Repeat out to me.
- 5:30Speaker 2: Please. If you don't use it, you lose it.
- 5:35Speaker 1: If you have the ability to play an instrument, the
- 5:37Speaker 1: world's greatest says that if I miss a week of practice,
- 5:41Speaker 1: I know it enough. I miss two weeks. The critics
- 5:43Speaker 1: know it enough, I miss three weeks. My audience knows it.
- 5:47Speaker 1: If you have the ability to draw well, and if
- 5:50Speaker 1: you don't use that talent, eventually you're gonna lose it.
- 5:53Speaker 2: If I don't speak often.
- 5:55Speaker 1: And I one time, at one point in my life,
- 5:58Speaker 1: I miss speaking for a round six months, and when
- 6:00Speaker 1: I came up before an audience, I was rusty.
- 6:03Speaker 2: I could not get my thoughts together.
- 6:05Speaker 1: I could not have the power of the kind of
- 6:07Speaker 1: confidence that I need in order to make it happen.
- 6:10Speaker 2: So whatever you.
- 6:11Speaker 1: Want to do, whatever idea that you have, the longer
- 6:14Speaker 1: that you're sitting on that idea, you either creating or
- 6:17Speaker 1: you are disintegrating.
- 6:20Speaker 2: If you're not using it, your skills are diminishing every
- 6:25Speaker 2: day too. I was on a television program the other day.
- 6:28Speaker 1: Lady called in and she said, there's something I like
- 6:31Speaker 1: to ask you, and I said, what is it. She said, well,
- 6:33Speaker 1: I have this thing I want to do, but I've
- 6:36Speaker 1: been unemployed.
- 6:37Speaker 2: I lost my job for two years. I haven't been
- 6:39Speaker 2: able to find a job.
- 6:40Speaker 1: I don't have the money and I don't have the contacts,
- 6:43Speaker 1: and I really don't know what to do. I said,
- 6:44Speaker 1: excuse me, I said, the fact that you don't have
- 6:47Speaker 1: the money and the contact really is not the issue.
- 6:49Speaker 1: I said, what's the real issue? She said, what do
- 6:52Speaker 1: you mean? I said, what's stopping you from doing what
- 6:54Speaker 1: you want to do?
- 6:56Speaker 2: She said, well, I don't know. I said, but if
- 6:58Speaker 2: you did know, what would your answer be?
- 7:00Speaker 1: She said, well, I think maybe I'm afraid. I said,
- 7:05Speaker 1: what are you afraid of? Maybe I might fail. See
- 7:11Speaker 1: a lot of people allow fear to stop them from
- 7:14Speaker 1: living their dream.
- 7:15Speaker 2: Answer your calling.
- 7:17Speaker 1: Whatever you're called to do. Don't count yourself out. Don't
- 7:21Speaker 1: say I can't do that. You're bombarded with negative stuff
- 7:24Speaker 1: every day that beats you down, and you will find
- 7:28Speaker 1: yourself unconsciously engaged in self destructive behavior.
- 7:31Speaker 2: If you don't program.
- 7:32Speaker 1: Yourself, life will program you. It's got to be your passion.
- 7:38Speaker 1: You gotta love it. Ladies and gentlemen, you gotta love it.
- 7:42Speaker 1: It's got to be what you are supposed to do.
- 7:45Speaker 1: You want to sing it, even though they want to
- 7:47Speaker 1: invite you a Carnegie Hall.
- 7:49Speaker 2: You gonna sing to anybody that listen to you, include
- 7:51Speaker 2: singing to yourself. I used to talk to my plants
- 7:54Speaker 2: when nobody else would listen to me.
- 7:56Speaker 5: Foster.
- 7:57Speaker 2: You supposed to build something. You're supposed to create something.
- 8:00Speaker 1: You know how to do it, learn, do whatever's required.
- 8:04Speaker 1: Just God there, it's possible. You can get what you are.
- 8:08Speaker 1: It's necessary you want it. You got to go into action.
- 8:10Speaker 1: You got to be willing to experiment. You've got to
- 8:12Speaker 1: be willing to fail and to succeed. You've got to
- 8:15Speaker 1: be willing to form and develop new relationships.
- 8:18Speaker 2: It's you. It's on you. You got to make that happen.
- 8:19Speaker 2: Nobody's going to bring it to you on a civil
- 8:21Speaker 2: platter and say here's your dream, manifested. No, it's hard. Yes,
- 8:25Speaker 2: it's hard.
- 8:26Speaker 1: It's difficult, yes, right, and it's worth it.
- 8:31Speaker 2: It's difficult. It's challenging for kids right now, and.
- 8:34Speaker 1: It's going to be take some easy, simple methods to
- 8:38Speaker 1: help bring them out of this madness.
- 8:40Speaker 2: Let's look at where we want to go.
- 8:41Speaker 1: What is it that we want to produce, What is
- 8:43Speaker 1: it that we want to create for our young people?
- 8:46Speaker 2: What kind of world are they going to be in?
- 8:49Speaker 2: And as we think about.
- 8:50Speaker 6: That, as we begin to use our collective will.
- 8:53Speaker 1: And genius and resources, it's possible that we can create
- 8:57Speaker 1: an educational system that not only test their minds.
- 9:01Speaker 2: With information and facts and figures, but we'll teach.
- 9:04Speaker 1: Them how to think and be creative, and what does
- 9:06Speaker 1: it mean to be a human.
- 9:07Speaker 2: Being and to value human life? And how do you
- 9:09Speaker 2: make relationships work?
- 9:11Speaker 1: How do you bounce back from adversity. It's possible that
- 9:14Speaker 1: we can give them a curriculum that will give their
- 9:16Speaker 1: lives a sense of purpose and direction and meaning and
- 9:19Speaker 1: teach them how to begin to know and.
- 9:22Speaker 2: Operate on a higher level of being where.
- 9:25Speaker 1: They become assets to our society rather than liabilities.
- 9:28Speaker 2: What if we leave here with.
- 9:30Speaker 1: That kind of consciousness that it's possible, as opposed to
- 9:33Speaker 1: saying we.
- 9:34Speaker 2: Have to write this generation off, that it's possible that
- 9:36Speaker 2: we were born for.
- 9:37Speaker 7: Such a time as this, and that maybe someone here
- 9:41Speaker 7: has the idea of a method or some plan of
- 9:43Speaker 7: action or an approach that can resolve many of the
- 9:47Speaker 7: problems that we're facing with young people today.
- 9:50Speaker 1: Whatever we have to do to save our children, it's
- 9:54Speaker 1: worth it that that brings me to the final step
- 10:04Speaker 1: that it's necessary for.
- 10:06Speaker 2: Us to begin to look.
- 10:07Speaker 1: At the future, know that it's possible that we can
- 10:10Speaker 1: have our dream.
- 10:11Speaker 2: Yes it is. Other people have done it, then we
- 10:14Speaker 2: can do it.
- 10:15Speaker 1: We fail a lot of times, we're a lot of
- 10:16Speaker 1: other folks there, and eventually they came back and.
- 10:19Speaker 2: They succeed it. So it's possible we can have what
- 10:21Speaker 2: we want, and we know that we want to get it.
- 10:23Speaker 2: It's necessary that we allow ourselves with people that think
- 10:28Speaker 2: like we do. It's necessary we get.
- 10:30Speaker 1: Negative do nothing people out of our lives. It's necessary
- 10:33Speaker 1: we never stop learning and growing and developing ourselves. It's
- 10:36Speaker 1: necessary that we never give up. We know that it's you,
- 10:39Speaker 1: it's me, it's being responsible for our stuff and deciding
- 10:43Speaker 1: that we are going to keep on keeping on, that
- 10:45Speaker 1: we're going to find a way to win or find
- 10:47Speaker 1: a way to make it happen. And we know it's hard.
- 10:49Speaker 2: It's not going to be a picnic.
- 10:51Speaker 1: And we've all had experiences where we were working on.
- 10:55Speaker 2: Something and we knew it was possible, and we.
- 10:58Speaker 1: Did those things that were necessary bring it into reality.
- 11:01Speaker 2: We took the responsibility to make it happen.
- 11:04Speaker 5: Other people couldn't see it.
- 11:05Speaker 2: A lot of people didn't believe it.
- 11:06Speaker 1: You were attacked, you were criticized, people were opposing you,
- 11:10Speaker 1: but you kept on doing it. It was hard, it
- 11:14Speaker 1: was rough, it was difficult, but to you, it was
- 11:16Speaker 1: worth it, and eventually you got to a level you know, can't.
- 11:21Speaker 2: None you stop me. No, I'm on the move.
- 11:24Speaker 1: Don't stop running to watch your dream.
- 11:32Speaker 4: Accept the gate, Smile at the pain, Embrace the pain.
- 11:37Speaker 4: Pain is the gate keeper of destiny. Pay is there
- 11:40Speaker 4: to ask you one simple question. Do you really want
- 11:44Speaker 4: to achieve your goals or are you.
- 11:47Speaker 3: Just a talk?
- 11:48Speaker 8: Enjoy your life, find things to smile about, be curious, read, watch,
- 11:53Speaker 8: you know, expose yourself to as many different ideas as
- 11:56Speaker 8: you can, because something's going to click at some point.
- 11:58Speaker 9: Society taught us pain is bad. No pain is very good.
- 12:01Speaker 9: Pain is fuel. When you're engaging in the vice is
- 12:04Speaker 9: what you're doing is you're sitting in a tub of pain.
- 12:07Speaker 9: Imagine the pain is water and you're just sitting in it.
- 12:09Speaker 9: Expect poison from the standing water. What you want to
- 12:13Speaker 9: do is you want to mobilize your pain. You want
- 12:15Speaker 9: to take pain and transform it into fuel to push
- 12:19Speaker 9: you forward, to become the higher and better version of yourself.
- 12:24Speaker 10: And you have a dream. That dream will always be tested.
- 12:27Speaker 10: The pressure in your life right now has a purpose.
- 12:31Speaker 10: It's not crushing you. It's pushing what's on the inside
- 12:34Speaker 10: of you out. It shows you who you really are.
- 12:39Speaker 6: I don't want nothing from you but for you the
- 12:41Speaker 6: leader's room and know what you want?
- 12:43Speaker 2: What do you want to drive? How do you want
- 12:45Speaker 2: to live?
- 12:46Speaker 6: Stop just waking up like an accident.
- 12:48Speaker 3: What do you want?
- 12:50Speaker 6: And then once you find out what you want, spend
- 12:52Speaker 6: the rest of your natural life waking up and going
- 12:56Speaker 6: after it.
- 12:56Speaker 2: There's no excuse but.
- 12:58Speaker 6: Not living up to the fuel fullest potential. I'm going
- 13:00Speaker 6: to do everything in my power, every single day. I'm
- 13:05Speaker 6: going to do everything in my power to become a victor.
- 13:08Speaker 2: And not a victim.
- 13:09Speaker 6: I can't explain it, but you better feel me. Winners
- 13:12Speaker 6: win and lose as loop. There is no greater pain
- 13:17Speaker 6: than that of regret. Nothing can kill your soul more.
- 13:22Speaker 11: Than the feeling of regret. Never be afraid to take
- 13:27Speaker 11: a risk in life. Never be afraid to take a
- 13:30Speaker 11: risk going after what you really want.
- 13:34Speaker 5: It's hard, but it's worth fighting.
- 13:38Speaker 1: It is worth believing, it's worth mustering yourself up, standing.
- 13:42Speaker 5: Up inside yourself.
- 13:43Speaker 1: It's worth fighting relentlessly, never giving up.
- 13:47Speaker 12: I love the sun, but things don't grow because of
- 13:51Speaker 12: the sun. You have to have some rain, and you've
- 13:54Speaker 12: gotta stop looking at rain in your life.
- 13:56Speaker 2: It's something bad.
- 13:58Speaker 12: My greatest moments didn't comes from my greatest moments. My
- 14:02Speaker 12: greatest moments came from my greatest defeats, because it was
- 14:06Speaker 12: doing my defeat that I had to find.
- 14:09Speaker 2: A way to get back up.
- 14:12Speaker 13: When you quit, your mind says we're done, so it
- 14:14Speaker 13: doesn't expand there's no expansion when you quit. When you
- 14:18Speaker 13: say you this sucks, I'm drowning. I'm miserable, I'm suffering.
- 14:24Speaker 13: I'm broken, but I'm not going anywhere. What happens to
- 14:27Speaker 13: your mind, it says he's not leaving. So we gotta expand,
- 14:33Speaker 13: we gotta grow, We gotta figure.
- 14:36Speaker 5: This fucking thing out.
- 14:38Speaker 13: So then these compartments in your brain they have to work.
- 14:42Speaker 13: And then you start to engage parts of your mind
- 14:44Speaker 13: that you're never engaged before.
- 14:46Speaker 5: When you're in suffering.
- 14:47Speaker 13: Mode and you say I'm not going to quit, you're
- 14:49Speaker 13: forcing your brain now to operate on a level it's
- 14:53Speaker 13: not used to.
- 14:54Speaker 2: What you're going through right now.
- 14:56Speaker 10: We'll pass this pain your feeling was, but the pride
- 15:02Speaker 10: of knowing you gave it your all.
- 15:04Speaker 3: We'll stick with you forever.
- 15:06Speaker 2: Plush through the pain. I know it hurts, I know.
- 15:10Speaker 3: You feel me.
- 15:15Speaker 14: David was dealing with anxiety. He said, I'm overwhelmed with trouble.
- 15:21Speaker 14: My enemies are making loud threats. My heart is anxious,
- 15:25Speaker 14: with so much fear and trembling, I can't stop shaking.
- 15:29Speaker 14: That's some serious anxiety.
- 15:31Speaker 15: Now.
- 15:32Speaker 3: David was a warrior.
- 15:33Speaker 2: He had defeated.
- 15:34Speaker 14: Goliath, conquered cities, led the Israelites into great victories. But
- 15:39Speaker 14: now he's overwhelmed, so anxious that he can't move forward.
- 15:44Speaker 14: Dealing with anxiety doesn't mean that you're weak, you don't
- 15:48Speaker 14: have enough faith.
- 15:49Speaker 2: You must have done something wrong.
- 15:51Speaker 14: The enemy wouldn't be trying to stop you if he
- 15:54Speaker 14: didn't know there was a calling on your life. He
- 15:57Speaker 14: knows there's greatness in you, that you're on the verge
- 16:01Speaker 14: of seeing a new level.
- 16:04Speaker 2: If you play it safe, you're gonna exist.
- 16:10Speaker 3: You only get to live when you take risk.
- 16:14Speaker 16: Ain't no living in safety.
- 16:17Speaker 2: You can't be the man if you're on jump.
- 16:21Speaker 17: You can't be top dog unless you unless you fight
- 16:24Speaker 17: the other dawn. Ain't nobody finna give you the championship.
- 16:28Speaker 17: You don't win the title without coming to the fight.
- 16:30Speaker 17: You're gonna win the fight without training.
- 16:33Speaker 16: Why would you not go for it? Why would you
- 16:37Speaker 16: not take a chance. All of you have a gift.
- 16:41Speaker 16: You just got a quick WoT in your gift to
- 16:43Speaker 16: be somebody else's guilt. Identify your own gift, because you.
- 16:48Speaker 2: Already have it.
- 16:49Speaker 3: Here's the way you identify your guilt.
- 16:51Speaker 16: Your gift is the thing that you do the absolute
- 16:54Speaker 16: best with the least amount of effort. That is your
- 16:57Speaker 16: God given guilt. If I was you, I would do
- 17:00Speaker 16: that giftful. You mess around the lead as well, because
- 17:02Speaker 16: your gift will make morve for you. You'll be the
- 17:05Speaker 16: happiest you've ever been, and you'll make the most money
- 17:08Speaker 16: you ever made.
- 17:08Speaker 2: I dare you to try it. That's a promise God made.
- 17:13Speaker 5: Well.
- 17:13Speaker 18: You should be afraid of taking risks and pursuing something meaningful,
- 17:17Speaker 18: but you should be more afraid of staying where you
- 17:19Speaker 18: are if it's making you miserable. It's like the first
- 17:22Speaker 18: thing you want to do is dispense with the idea
- 17:24Speaker 18: that you get to have any permanent security outside of
- 17:29Speaker 18: your ability to contend and adapt. It's the same issue
- 17:32Speaker 18: with children. It's like you're paying a price by sitting
- 17:36Speaker 18: there being miserable. And you might say, well, the devil
- 17:38Speaker 18: I know is better than the one I don't. It's like,
- 17:40Speaker 18: don't be so sure of that. The clock is ticking,
- 17:44Speaker 18: and if you're miserable in your job now and you
- 17:46Speaker 18: change nothing in five years, you'll be much more miserable
- 17:48Speaker 18: and you'll be a lot Older.
- 17:51Speaker 3: People get up every day. It's the same thing.
- 17:55Speaker 12: Tell them something they're going to change their life one day,
- 17:57Speaker 12: and they never do.
- 18:00Speaker 5: I'm gonna change mine.
- 18:03Speaker 2: Make your move before you're ready.
- 18:05Speaker 1: We're instructed in life to walk by faith and not
- 18:08Speaker 1: by sight.
- 18:09Speaker 3: See, you want.
- 18:10Speaker 1: To really begin to stretch yourself.
- 18:12Speaker 2: You want to become a risk taker. You want to
- 18:14Speaker 2: raise the bar on yourself. Most people won't do that.
- 18:16Speaker 19: See, most people engage in low life living, low risk living.
- 18:22Speaker 19: This God said, if you're not willing to risk, you
- 18:24Speaker 19: cannot grow. And if you cannot grow, you cannot become
- 18:27Speaker 19: your best. And if you cannot become your best.
- 18:29Speaker 3: You can't be happy.
- 18:31Speaker 1: And if you can't be happy, then.
- 18:33Speaker 2: What else is there?
- 18:35Speaker 5: What would you do if you weren't afraid?
- 18:37Speaker 20: I love thinking about that when I'm thinking about big
- 18:39Speaker 20: life decisions, like what would I do if I weren't afraid?
- 18:42Speaker 20: And it's usually like the big one, the bigger thing
- 18:45Speaker 20: that I really want to do, but I'm afraid to
- 18:47Speaker 20: do it.
- 18:47Speaker 5: It's like that's what I should do? Like what would
- 18:49Speaker 5: I do if I weren't afraid? And what would I
- 18:51Speaker 5: do if I knew I couldn't fail?
- 18:53Speaker 1: I like what Helen Keller said, life is short and unpredictable.
- 18:56Speaker 1: Eat the dessert first, And so you want to begin
- 18:59Speaker 1: to take some chance to begin to.
- 19:00Speaker 19: Challenge yourself and make it okay to feel and learn
- 19:03Speaker 19: from your failures.
- 19:05Speaker 21: Imagine when you're older and your grandkids say to you, Grandad,
- 19:08Speaker 21: tell me about what it was like when you were young,
- 19:10Speaker 21: and you say, I didn't really do much, to be honest,
- 19:13Speaker 21: because I was worried about.
- 19:14Speaker 5: What other people would think of me.
- 19:15Speaker 21: I never took my shirt off because I hate the
- 19:17Speaker 21: way I looked. I didn't start that business because I
- 19:19Speaker 21: was scared.
- 19:19Speaker 3: It might fail.
- 19:20Speaker 21: Just think about how silly that would sound. You only
- 19:23Speaker 21: get one go around at this thing. Blink and you'll
- 19:25Speaker 21: miss it. Crack of the whip, and then you're gone.
- 19:28Speaker 21: So make it worth it.
- 19:29Speaker 22: Your destiny is in the fire. If you run from
- 19:32Speaker 22: the fire, you're gonna run from your destinies. Your destiny
- 19:36Speaker 22: is in the problems. Your destiny is in the store.
- 19:40Speaker 22: Your destiny is.
- 19:41Speaker 3: In the fight. You're not a victim.
- 19:43Speaker 5: You were a victor, and only thing stands between your success.
- 19:45Speaker 5: The anything stands when you're doing what you know.
- 19:47Speaker 6: You've been calling you the only thing and you nobody.
- 19:50Speaker 5: Can't stop you.
- 19:51Speaker 3: You're the only person I can stop you. So stop
- 19:53Speaker 3: talking like a victim, Stop thinking like a victim. Stop
- 19:56Speaker 3: acting like a victim and walk into your destiny.
- 19:59Speaker 1: Walk into don't allow your emotions to control you.
- 20:03Speaker 23: We are emotional, but when you want to begin to
- 20:05Speaker 23: discipline your emotion?
- 20:08Speaker 24: Who are you when no one is watching? Are you
- 20:12Speaker 24: the one who's up before everybody else? Are you up
- 20:14Speaker 24: at midnight one am? Grinding, putting in miles, putting in
- 20:19Speaker 24: those extra reps, putting in that blood, sweat and tears,
- 20:22Speaker 24: working on your craft, working to get better, because it's
- 20:25Speaker 24: what we do when no one is watching that separates
- 20:29Speaker 24: the best from the rest.
- 20:32Speaker 25: You cannot be great if you cannot operate in chaos.
- 20:35Speaker 5: That's your life.
- 20:36Speaker 25: Because if you can operate in chaos, the world becomes Disneyland.
- 20:41Speaker 25: Problems become scratches. I can lose my car, somebody can
- 20:46Speaker 25: blow it up. I'm gonna go have some solution with
- 20:48Speaker 25: my wife and think about the solutions, not the problem.
- 20:51Speaker 25: Many people focus on the problem and not solutions.
- 20:57Speaker 16: You will never succeed more than you fail. That's not
- 20:59Speaker 16: how it works. You know why, because failure is a
- 21:04Speaker 16: wonderful teacher. It's the only way to learn. You have
- 21:08Speaker 16: to fail. Failure is a part of the process to
- 21:11Speaker 16: become successful. I tell people this all the time. Michael
- 21:14Speaker 16: Jordan the greatest basketball player in the world. He took
- 21:16Speaker 16: nine hundred and forty six game winning shots nine hundred
- 21:21Speaker 16: and forty six times since he was in high school.
- 21:23Speaker 16: The ball has been in his hand to take the
- 21:26Speaker 16: game winning shot with no time on the clock. He
- 21:29Speaker 16: has only made one hundred and forty six it oers.
- 21:33Speaker 16: He has missed over seven hundred times, but he has
- 21:36Speaker 16: made one hundred and forty six. You know what they
- 21:40Speaker 16: write about when you make it? They write about when
- 21:44Speaker 16: you make it. So guess what when you get through
- 21:47Speaker 16: fail and fail and fail and failing, all you gotta
- 21:50Speaker 16: do is make one.
- 21:52Speaker 26: Don't take today off, not today, wait until tomorrow.
- 21:59Speaker 3: Don't give it.
- 22:00Speaker 27: In to the immediate gratification that is whispering in your ear.
- 22:07Speaker 27: Shut that down, Do not listen to that little voice. Instead,
- 22:12Speaker 27: go through the motions, lift the weights.
- 22:18Speaker 2: Yes you're tired. Yes your mind is saying give up.
- 22:21Speaker 2: Yes it's saying quit.
- 22:22Speaker 28: But you cannot quit because you realize you have not
- 22:25Speaker 28: reached the goal yet.
- 22:26Speaker 2: You have come too far to quit in the process.
- 22:29Speaker 2: You have invested too much to quit. Now you have
- 22:32Speaker 2: lost too much to quit now.
- 22:34Speaker 28: Don't cry about it, don't whine about it, get a
- 22:36Speaker 28: reward for your pain.
- 22:38Speaker 29: You don't for one minute that you won't me.
- 22:41Speaker 5: You got me twisted.
- 22:43Speaker 28: I am not phenomenally skilled, but phenomenally will I will
- 22:48Speaker 28: not give up.
- 22:49Speaker 2: I will not for wonder, I will not quit.
- 22:52Speaker 3: You start training and training, train like this. This is
- 22:55Speaker 3: your life, not a game.
- 22:56Speaker 30: Like this, Your life like this, the last opportunity, the
- 22:59Speaker 30: only opportunity. Give it everything you got, and if you fail,
- 23:03Speaker 30: you can at least do what come on.
- 23:05Speaker 5: You can say what you try.
- 23:07Speaker 6: But if you don't go out there and give one
- 23:08Speaker 6: hundred and twenty percent, you're not a man. A man
- 23:11Speaker 6: don't always put forth effort and accomplish his goals. As men,
- 23:14Speaker 6: we fail too, we don't always do everything perfect. But
- 23:17Speaker 6: if you're a real man, you try. I'm talking to you.
- 23:20Speaker 6: You're going through a storm right now, and I want
- 23:22Speaker 6: you to know. Whatever you're going through right now, if
- 23:24Speaker 6: you can just muster up enough strip, then hold on
- 23:27Speaker 6: and hold out.
- 23:28Speaker 2: If you do not quit, if you do not give up,
- 23:30Speaker 2: it's coming baby.
- 23:31Speaker 3: Hold on.
- 23:32Speaker 12: I don't care how long we take you to finished school.
- 23:34Speaker 12: Hold On, I don't care how long he takes you
- 23:36Speaker 12: to pass that bar.
- 23:37Speaker 29: Example, you keep going, You'll keep starting, You'll keep writing,
- 23:41Speaker 29: you'll keep singing, you'll keep rapping, you'll keep boxing, you'll
- 23:45Speaker 29: keep biting, you'll keep tribbling.
- 23:47Speaker 2: You just keep on keeping off.
- 23:49Speaker 28: And if you persevere, If you persevere, I'm telling you,
- 23:53Speaker 28: trouble don't last always.
- 23:55Speaker 2: Every storm that's come, it will pass.
- 23:58Speaker 28: You can't wait for nobody else to fix. You can't
- 24:00Speaker 28: wait for nobody else to mature. You can't wait for
- 24:03Speaker 28: nobody else to get to that part in their life.
- 24:05Speaker 28: When they come, you can't wait. I got great things
- 24:08Speaker 28: in store for you. All I'm asking you to do
- 24:10Speaker 28: is let this go so I can give you everything
- 24:12Speaker 28: you've ever won, So I can put you why you
- 24:14Speaker 28: always want be, So I can put you why George
- 24:17Speaker 28: or dang you to be sound.
- 24:19Speaker 2: I gave you a gift.
- 24:20Speaker 5: I can't. I can't, but I can't wait. Like you play,
- 24:22Speaker 5: humans play, I don't play.
- 24:25Speaker 31: Once you shut your mind down to the possibility that
- 24:27Speaker 31: it could be achieved, it's no way can happen.
- 24:29Speaker 5: If you're in a fight, you have to attack it.
- 24:32Speaker 5: You have to keep attacking.
- 24:35Speaker 32: The enemy has to know he is not going to
- 24:38Speaker 32: give up.
- 24:38Speaker 5: He must break the soul whatever the fuck is in
- 24:40Speaker 5: front of him.
- 24:42Speaker 33: Devise ways to break a soul, of a human being,
- 24:46Speaker 33: of the object, of whatever's in front of you.
- 24:49Speaker 3: If you keep on attacking.
- 24:50Speaker 33: Something, nothing wants to stand in front of anything.
- 24:54Speaker 34: Don't quit. You've come so far already. Look back at
- 24:57Speaker 34: the beginning. See how much ground you've covered. It wasn't easy, right,
- 25:01Speaker 34: but you did it. Every step you took brought you here.
- 25:04Speaker 34: Don't stop now, not when you've proven to yourself how
- 25:07Speaker 34: strong you are. Remember that growth happens one step at
- 25:10Speaker 34: a time. Your journey is not over, it's just getting
- 25:14Speaker 34: tougher because you're moving closer to something great. Quitting might
- 25:17Speaker 34: feel like an option. Don't give up on the progress
- 25:20Speaker 34: you've made. You're closer than you think to the breakthrough
- 25:24Speaker 34: you're waiting for. Keep pushing. The hardest climbs often lead
- 25:28Speaker 34: to the best views. Now repeat after me first. Will
- 25:31Speaker 34: not quit first?
- 25:32Speaker 30: Will What happens when you're Bazil and you're not being pushed,
- 25:36Speaker 30: you're not being proud of, you're not giving it a reward,
- 25:38Speaker 30: nobody's encouraging you. What happens when you are Gazel and
- 25:42Speaker 30: the lion's not chasing anymore.
- 25:43Speaker 2: You stop running.
- 25:45Speaker 28: What happens when you were a lion, When you were.
- 25:47Speaker 5: A lion, it does not make a difference.
- 25:50Speaker 29: You realize that if your family is going to eat, that,
- 25:53Speaker 29: if that of lions is to survive, then you gotta
- 25:57Speaker 29: go huts.
- 25:58Speaker 35: Every champions, every king has sheltered, every winner has sheltered,
- 26:06Speaker 35: every soldier has sheltered, Every victorious person has feltered.
- 26:13Speaker 5: To urge to flip. I will never quit, because if
- 26:19Speaker 5: you quit, you.
- 26:20Speaker 2: May still be alive walking around on this earth.
- 26:22Speaker 9: You're done.
- 26:23Speaker 5: I will never quit.
- 26:24Speaker 36: I will persevere, and I will thrive on adversity. My
- 26:27Speaker 36: team expects me to be physically harder and mentally stronger
- 26:31Speaker 36: than our opponents.
- 26:34Speaker 5: I hold myself to that standard.
- 26:36Speaker 36: I will be physically harder and mentally stronger than anything that.
- 26:41Speaker 5: Comes against me.
- 26:42Speaker 36: My family, my business, my brothers, my sisters, my team.
- 26:47Speaker 36: I will be the one that is physically harder and
- 26:50Speaker 36: mentally stronger, and I will work to maintain that position.
- 26:55Speaker 26: While you're over there watching me and talking about me,
- 26:59Speaker 26: I'm working.
- 27:00Speaker 3: I'm working hard. I'm taking things to the next level.
- 27:02Speaker 5: You keep gossiping, I'll keep working. You keep talking smack,
- 27:06Speaker 5: I'll keep working.
- 27:07Speaker 3: Could you keep chattering about things?
- 27:09Speaker 5: I'll keep working.
- 27:11Speaker 26: You put in the work and no one else is
- 27:13Speaker 26: willing to do because most people in the world are lazy.
- 27:16Speaker 5: It is hard, and that is why you.
- 27:19Speaker 26: Will achieve things that other people will never achieve.
- 27:23Speaker 23: You've got to build a bullet proof level of self
- 27:26Speaker 23: confidence that will never hold you back from reaching your
- 27:29Speaker 23: full potential ever again. And of course you'll have haters.
- 27:33Speaker 23: People will try to kill your dreams. Anyone building something
- 27:36Speaker 23: always does, but it's your job to shut them all
- 27:39Speaker 23: up with your results. The best revenge in life is
- 27:44Speaker 23: massive success.
- 27:51Speaker 37: Every time I failed, I move closer to the goal.
- 27:55Speaker 2: You see, if you.
- 27:56Speaker 37: Knew how to do it now, you'd be going sideways.
- 28:00Speaker 37: When you're going after a goal, you're going ahead. And
- 28:03Speaker 37: because you're going where you've never been, you're going to
- 28:05Speaker 37: make mistakes. You don't know it all. You have perfection
- 28:09Speaker 37: within you, and the objective of life is to bring
- 28:12Speaker 37: that perfection.
- 28:13Speaker 2: To the surface.
- 28:14Speaker 37: Well, you're going to make a lot of mistakes bringing
- 28:17Speaker 37: that to the surface. Those mistakes are steps.
- 28:21Speaker 2: To where you're going.
- 28:23Speaker 37: But if you think that you're going to enjoy great success.
- 28:26Speaker 37: There's just one win after another. You're kidding yourself. It
- 28:30Speaker 37: just doesn't happen. I don't even know anyone that's pulled
- 28:32Speaker 37: that kind of a deal off. If they did, they
- 28:35Speaker 37: were cheating or lying.
- 28:36Speaker 38: Don't waste your life. Set your goals high. Quit thinking
- 28:40Speaker 38: about what's wrong, Start thinking what's right. Love a little more,
- 28:44Speaker 38: hate a little less. You have no idea what you're
- 28:47Speaker 38: capable of doing. Make up your mind today, you're going
- 28:49Speaker 38: to figure it out.
- 28:50Speaker 26: You've lived a life dominated by doubt and fear. How
- 28:54Speaker 26: do you step into bravery? Step take the step step
- 29:01Speaker 26: aggressively towards your fear, and that that step towards your
- 29:08Speaker 26: fear is the step in the bravery.
- 29:12Speaker 5: Do you ever wake up and you're saying, I don't
- 29:14Speaker 5: want to do it today.
- 29:15Speaker 39: I fight against that, you know it's it's the big
- 29:18Speaker 39: challenge is when you're not willing to do something, but
- 29:22Speaker 39: you have to do it. This is the main point.
- 29:25Speaker 39: This is why I say our mind it's a box
- 29:28Speaker 39: of surprises, and you have to challenge yourself to be consistent.
- 29:35Speaker 39: I repeat sometimes it's hard. It's what many people say.
- 29:40Speaker 39: You like to go to the gym every day, of
- 29:42Speaker 39: course not. It's not true. Nobody likes to go to
- 29:45Speaker 39: the gym every day, but you have to do it.
- 29:48Speaker 40: Let me tell you a secret, no one does when
- 29:51Speaker 40: they begin. Ideas don't come out fully formed. They only
- 29:56Speaker 40: become clear as you work on that. You just have
- 29:59Speaker 40: to get started.
- 30:01Speaker 41: My biggest fear in life is if there is a
- 30:03Speaker 41: final resting place in this world and there's a final
- 30:06Speaker 41: judgment and you talk to something much bigger than you.
- 30:09Speaker 41: I don't want to sit down and have a conversation
- 30:11Speaker 41: with someone that says you're in heaven.
- 30:14Speaker 5: This is what you shouldn't been on earth.
- 30:16Speaker 41: I want God to be up there right now as
- 30:18Speaker 41: we're speaking, writing stuff down, saying, my God, he exceeded
- 30:21Speaker 41: even mine.
- 30:22Speaker 5: That's how I live my life.
- 30:23Speaker 3: I now know that there is no cap on this
- 30:26Speaker 3: human mind.
- 30:26Speaker 5: There's a go cap recap it ourselves.
- 30:30Speaker 42: So showing up, taking diver the best shape of your life,
- 30:33Speaker 42: what that does is opens up all your fucking options.
- 30:36Speaker 5: People don't know how to turn their minds on. People
- 30:39Speaker 5: don't know about this boats and laws. Why I say it?
- 30:41Speaker 42: Why start yelling. I'm trying to activate selfie, I'm trying
- 30:45Speaker 42: to activate passion. What hover the dog, the savage.
- 30:50Speaker 2: That motherfuckers fall asleep.
- 30:53Speaker 42: When I show up mom in the great shape, I
- 30:55Speaker 42: can wake that savage beast up.
- 30:58Speaker 2: You gotta learn yourself, know how to wake yourself up.
- 31:02Speaker 2: But if you will show up the.
- 31:04Speaker 42: Mesship, your money, your mind is worthless to you.
- 31:07Speaker 2: So You're savage is fucking dead.
- 31:10Speaker 5: Stay hard, this is what you do.
- 31:12Speaker 2: You are built for this.
- 31:14Speaker 28: You will just please that your day coming, that the
- 31:19Speaker 28: sacrifices you are making today.
- 31:21Speaker 5: They gonna pay off. But if you do not believe,
- 31:24Speaker 5: it ain't gonna happen.
- 31:25Speaker 6: Keep fighting in the midst of the struggle, keep fighting,
- 31:29Speaker 6: keep thinking positive.
- 31:30Speaker 3: You only lose when you quit.
- 31:33Speaker 5: It's a dog fights.
- 31:35Speaker 2: It's hard.
- 31:36Speaker 6: When I've made up in my mind that I will
- 31:38Speaker 6: get a reward for the pain that I go through,
- 31:41Speaker 6: I will not shot in the middle of the process.
- 31:43Speaker 43: I will not be defeated. I will not be destroyed.
- 31:46Speaker 43: I will take everything that happens in my life and
- 31:49Speaker 43: I will allow to pay it to push me the greatest.
- 31:52Speaker 43: You will not break me, you will not shot me.
- 31:56Speaker 43: The only way I lose is if I quit and
- 31:59Speaker 43: you can't defeed me.
- 32:03Speaker 44: My grassro background, we don't back down from anyone, and
- 32:06Speaker 44: that's what got me in trouble. I don't play games,
- 32:09Speaker 44: I don't kiss anyone. And I'm a real man, and
- 32:12Speaker 44: that's why. That's regardless of being a fight anything. I'm
- 32:14Speaker 44: a man, and that's why I want to be a man.
- 32:16Speaker 44: And if I die, I want to die man. I
- 32:18Speaker 44: don't want to die poodle in the street like they
- 32:21Speaker 44: chiat mot fighters and fighters get abused by these guys
- 32:24Speaker 44: and they talk to these guys, and fighters still talk
- 32:26Speaker 44: to these guys like nothing happened.
- 32:28Speaker 2: Next time for my abuse me, I'm gonna do something
- 32:30Speaker 2: very bad to.
- 32:33Speaker 5: I'll do it or die. See that's powerful.
- 32:37Speaker 45: That could be the day to turn.
- 32:38Speaker 3: Your life earth.
- 32:39Speaker 45: The world has a strange way of stepping aside. When
- 32:41Speaker 45: somebody says I'll do it or die, the man says.
- 32:45Speaker 5: I will climb the mountain.
- 32:47Speaker 45: They've told me it's too high, it's too far, it's
- 32:49Speaker 45: too rocky, it's too difficult, it's never been done before.
- 32:52Speaker 5: But it's my mountain.
- 32:53Speaker 45: I will climb it. Pretty soon. You'll see me waving
- 32:56Speaker 45: from the top or dead on the side, because I
- 33:00Speaker 45: coming back.
- 33:02Speaker 41: What I am when I step on that court is
- 33:04Speaker 41: I've become that I am.
- 33:07Speaker 46: I am that kill with snave, stone cold man.
- 33:12Speaker 47: Every morning, when you get up, say over and over
- 33:14Speaker 47: to yourself, do it now, do it now?
- 33:17Speaker 3: Do it now?
- 33:18Speaker 5: I do it now? Do it now.
- 33:19Speaker 47: Whenever you have this tendency to procrastinate, program your subconscious
- 33:23Speaker 47: mind with this automatic condition command do it now, do
- 33:26Speaker 47: it now?
- 33:27Speaker 3: Do it now. The key to overcoming.
- 33:29Speaker 47: Procrastination is to develop a sense of urgency. Be the
- 33:32Speaker 47: kind of person who gets things done quickly. Be the
- 33:34Speaker 47: kind of person who launches fast on a task.
- 33:37Speaker 1: Put yourself in a position where you can't retreat, where
- 33:41Speaker 1: it's do.
- 33:42Speaker 2: Or die, sink or swim.
- 33:45Speaker 5: Here's what you find out.
- 33:47Speaker 2: You develop incredible swimming skills. Do you find.
- 33:50Speaker 1: Yourself struggling unlike you've ever seen before. Through the inspiration
- 33:54Speaker 1: of desperation, you'll become more.
- 33:56Speaker 2: Creative than ever before.
- 33:58Speaker 6: And when you get to the point where all you
- 34:01Speaker 6: want to do is be successful as bad as you want.
- 34:04Speaker 5: To breathe, then you'll be successful.
- 34:06Speaker 6: And I'm here to tell you number one that most
- 34:08Speaker 6: of you say you want to be successful, but you
- 34:10Speaker 6: don't want it bad.
- 34:11Speaker 3: You just kind of want it.
- 34:13Speaker 5: You don't want it bad.
- 34:14Speaker 2: Than you want to party.
- 34:15Speaker 6: You don't want it as much as you want to
- 34:17Speaker 6: be cool. Most of you don't want success as much
- 34:19Speaker 6: as you want to sleep. Some of you love sleep
- 34:22Speaker 6: more than you love success. And I'm here to tell
- 34:24Speaker 6: you today, if you're going to be successful, you gotta
- 34:28Speaker 6: be willing to give up sleep.
- 34:30Speaker 2: I know what darkness looks like.
- 34:32Speaker 31: I know what it feels like to be alone with
- 34:35Speaker 31: no motivation, no drive, no passion.
- 34:38Speaker 2: But if you are able to get up every morning, have.
- 34:41Speaker 3: No passion, no.
- 34:43Speaker 1: Drive, no motivation, is still.
- 34:46Speaker 31: Get up with that kind of fire, you will be
- 34:48Speaker 31: successful in life.
- 34:50Speaker 5: I guarantee tell you that.
- 34:51Speaker 48: Let leaker people complain that the world isn't fair. You
- 34:55Speaker 48: are the leader of your life. Choose the hard past,
- 34:58Speaker 48: the path of responsibility, hard work and sacrifice, the path
- 35:02Speaker 48: of discipline, humility and ownership that ultimately reads the freedom.
- 35:07Speaker 48: Make discipline part of your daily life, and your daily life.
- 35:11Speaker 5: Will get better.
- 35:15Speaker 8: There's not a person on my team in sixteen years
- 35:18Speaker 8: that has consistently beat me to the ball every play,
- 35:24Speaker 8: then again then to do a talent. It's got everything
- 35:28Speaker 8: to do with effort.
- 35:31Speaker 39: I think.
- 35:31Speaker 49: Continue to have the belief in myself and not letting
- 35:34Speaker 49: that veer off. Since I was young, since I've been
- 35:37Speaker 49: told from my teachers that I would never amount to nothing,
- 35:39Speaker 49: the bullying or the things that you face, the adversity
- 35:42Speaker 49: you face, the discrimination, continuing to march on ahead towards
- 35:48Speaker 49: your dream and never lose inside. Now, I think that's
- 35:52Speaker 49: definitely for sure. The most difficult thing is keeping your
- 35:55Speaker 49: goal and your eyes set on that and not being distracted,
- 36:00Speaker 49: not giving up. I think the easiest thing in life
- 36:03Speaker 49: is to give up on whatever you know, whatever you're
- 36:06Speaker 49: focused on, or whatever you're hopeful for. The hardest thing
- 36:09Speaker 49: is to continue to keep going. But we have to,
- 36:12Speaker 49: like we have to continue to hold on.
- 36:15Speaker 39: Effort, dedication, work hard, because the talent is not enough anymore.
- 36:20Speaker 39: And if you don't dedicated hundred percent, you're not going
- 36:23Speaker 39: to reach the level that you want.
- 36:26Speaker 5: For example, you arrive home, you.
- 36:28Speaker 39: Have the lunch, you do it, a quick nap, and
- 36:31Speaker 39: you wake up, you play with your keys well, and
- 36:34Speaker 39: I have to go to the gym at least thirty
- 36:37Speaker 39: forty minutes. But this will make the difference in the
- 36:40Speaker 39: end of the day. You understand, if you not do it.
- 36:42Speaker 5: That work, you miss one the next day.
- 36:45Speaker 39: If you it's two sessions as you lost and I
- 36:48Speaker 39: know an the end of the day in the hand,
- 36:49Speaker 39: they're going to make a huge difference.
- 36:52Speaker 26: Know why you are doing what you are doing, and
- 36:56Speaker 26: then get out there every day and win those small, tactical,
- 37:02Speaker 26: short term battles so you can win the strategic long
- 37:06Speaker 26: term victory that puts you where you want to be.
- 37:10Speaker 26: And it's not gonna be easy. The fight, the daily fight,
- 37:15Speaker 26: is a challenge. You will not always want to do
- 37:19Speaker 26: what you need to do. You will not always feel
- 37:22Speaker 26: like doing something you need to do. You may not
- 37:25Speaker 26: want to fight that battle, but you need to.
- 37:28Speaker 3: You need to.
- 37:29Speaker 26: You need to know your strategic goals and you need
- 37:32Speaker 26: to know why they are important. And then you need
- 37:35Speaker 26: to get up, get out of your damn bed, get
- 37:38Speaker 26: off your phone, get out of the soft and dedictive
- 37:42Speaker 26: comfort zone.
- 37:44Speaker 6: There's a certain level you can't get to when you
- 37:46Speaker 6: keep compromising. You can't get to the next level because,
- 37:49Speaker 6: ay time somebody draws something in front of your fights,
- 37:51Speaker 6: you give up.
- 37:52Speaker 2: Don't you know you more attractive when.
- 37:54Speaker 28: You can say no, when they know you got value.
- 37:58Speaker 3: You think you're just gonna change the game.
- 37:59Speaker 2: You just go change the rules.
- 38:00Speaker 3: It don't work like that. There's a standards of greatness
- 38:03Speaker 3: and his levels to this.
- 38:05Speaker 50: Stunt complaining about the results you didn't get from the
- 38:08Speaker 50: work you didn't put in. The only way to become
- 38:10Speaker 50: most successful than most people is to be willing to
- 38:12Speaker 50: do something most people aren't willing to do.
- 38:15Speaker 51: Getting up at four o'clock in the morning every day
- 38:17Speaker 51: before anybody else and grounding my thought process as in
- 38:21Speaker 51: the no one will outwork me. No what I love
- 38:24Speaker 51: and I respect you guys, motherfuckers won't run pay all
- 38:27Speaker 51: starts with this two hands, putting another work.
- 38:30Speaker 52: It's got you, brother, hunt twenty mile a week, two
- 38:32Speaker 52: thousand pulled off, four thousand push ups, and Hunters are
- 38:35Speaker 52: reptive gym.
- 38:36Speaker 2: I hear it on the come.
- 38:37Speaker 32: Goddess has a great mess right, don't want end up
- 38:39Speaker 32: like them?
- 38:39Speaker 2: This funny's all fucked up. You're not afraid of hell
- 38:41Speaker 2: of the fucked up, but you're.
- 38:42Speaker 28: Afraid of the fucking effort.
- 38:43Speaker 2: See who's yours dead?
- 38:45Speaker 6: Is this?
- 38:45Speaker 2: We're all being tested and that road to success is.
- 38:48Speaker 1: A puffy as fucking road.
- 38:49Speaker 53: Ass fucking potholes, rails, deep doors, and shit. Yeah, a
- 38:53Speaker 53: lot of you're gonna die but nicely preserved bottom.
- 38:56Speaker 2: No plates, no paddies, no bruises.
- 38:59Speaker 28: No, you don't have to falce yourself or motivate yourself
- 39:03Speaker 28: to think negatively, to be depressed, to beat yourself up
- 39:07Speaker 28: over the head. Your mind is on automatic. It will
- 39:10Speaker 28: do that by itself. But if you want to begin
- 39:12Speaker 28: to move into your own personal greatness, if you want
- 39:15Speaker 28: to begin to really enjoy a healthy, successful, healthy life,
- 39:19Speaker 28: you've got to be willing to go against the tide.
- 39:21Speaker 2: You've got to be willing.
- 39:22Speaker 28: To harnish your will and say, in spite of this,
- 39:26Speaker 28: I'm in control here. I'm not gonna let this give
- 39:28Speaker 28: me down. I'm not gonna let this destroy me.
- 39:35Speaker 5: You're actually tougher than you think.
- 39:37Speaker 18: You never knew that, and maybe you didn't want to
- 39:39Speaker 18: take on the responsibility because you know, people play a
- 39:43Speaker 18: role in their own demise, so to speak. When you
- 39:45Speaker 18: had opportunity to go out and explore or withdraw because
- 39:49Speaker 18: you were afraid, you chose to withdraw because you were afraid.
- 39:52Speaker 5: So it's not only that you were overprotected.
- 39:54Speaker 18: Often it's that you were willing to take advantage of
- 39:57Speaker 18: the fact that you were overprotected and run back there
- 40:00Speaker 18: whenever you have the opportunity.
- 40:02Speaker 53: How you gain mental toughness, how you become a person
- 40:05Speaker 53: you want to be, is constantly facing the things that
- 40:08Speaker 53: you don't want to face. If you constantly run away
- 40:11Speaker 53: from things that you don't want to face.
- 40:13Speaker 3: How is the growth.
- 40:16Speaker 50: Trying to think your way out of overthinking is like
- 40:18Speaker 50: trying to sniff your way out of a cocaine addiction.
- 40:20Speaker 50: And you can't really change the mind with the mind.
- 40:23Speaker 50: You have to change you with the body first. So
- 40:25Speaker 50: going for a walk will do way more for your
- 40:27Speaker 50: mood than sitting and thinking about and vacillating about whatever's
- 40:30Speaker 50: dealing with you. If I had the choice between a
- 40:32Speaker 50: good night's sleep or a hard training session, I would
- 40:35Speaker 50: go to the gym because the difference in my mood
- 40:37Speaker 50: before and after the gym is way more than before
- 40:39Speaker 50: and after a night's sleep. So I don't disagree the
- 40:42Speaker 50: two works sympatico together, But for me, if you do
- 40:45Speaker 50: not have a physical practice of some kind and you're
- 40:48Speaker 50: struggling with mental health, you need to look at the
- 40:50Speaker 50: physical side before you look at the mental side. That
- 40:52Speaker 50: is the foundation, that's the raw materials of what your
- 40:56Speaker 50: mentality is going to grow out on.
- 40:57Speaker 54: It's also very beneficial to be able to tolerate a
- 41:00Speaker 54: lot of stress.
- 41:01Speaker 5: And still think clearly. And that's because again, stress is inevitable.
- 41:05Speaker 54: There are going to be times in which stress is
- 41:07Speaker 54: going to hit and we need to maintain clarity of
- 41:09Speaker 54: thought in order to make good decisions, perform well on exams.
- 41:12Speaker 5: Say the right thing, not say the wrong thing, et cetera.
- 41:15Speaker 54: There's a tool from physiology that allows us to do that,
- 41:17Speaker 54: and this is a tool that you use not in
- 41:19Speaker 54: the moments of stress, but away from stress, in which
- 41:22Speaker 54: you can train up or enhance your stress threshold to
- 41:25Speaker 54: become more gritty and resilient, basically increase your mental toughness.
- 41:29Speaker 5: It involves what it's called cyclic hyperventilation. What you're going
- 41:32Speaker 5: to do is you're going.
- 41:32Speaker 54: To take twenty five deep inhales and twenty five exales,
- 41:36Speaker 54: and of course you're not going to do twenty five
- 41:37Speaker 54: inhales and then twenty five exhales. You're going to inhale
- 41:40Speaker 54: and exhale twenty five times, which will definitely increase the
- 41:44Speaker 54: amount of adrenaline epinephrine in your brain embody.
- 41:47Speaker 55: The guys who are able to be biggest champions and
- 41:50Speaker 55: the ones that are struggling to.
- 41:52Speaker 9: Get to the highest level is.
- 41:53Speaker 55: The ability to not stay in those emotions for too long.
- 41:57Speaker 55: So as soon as I experience itnowledge I maybe you know,
- 42:01Speaker 55: burst a scream on the court or whatever happens, But
- 42:04Speaker 55: then I'm able to bounce back and resep.
- 42:07Speaker 2: Why you get mentally tough, It's a lifestyle.
- 42:10Speaker 32: Instead of hitting that it's Noos button in the fucking
- 42:12Speaker 32: morning and not making your.
- 42:13Speaker 28: Bed and not cleaning your house, you don't hit this
- 42:16Speaker 28: newse button.
- 42:16Speaker 2: You get up. You don't want to go run, you
- 42:18Speaker 2: go run. You don't want to go swim, you go swim.
- 42:21Speaker 2: You want to make your veg you make your bed.
- 42:22Speaker 5: You don't want to clean your house, You clean your house.
- 42:24Speaker 2: You don't want to study, get study.
- 42:26Speaker 32: That's how you start to talis your mind. It's gonna suck,
- 42:29Speaker 32: it's not gonna be fun. Do something that sucks every
- 42:32Speaker 32: single day of your life.
- 42:33Speaker 5: That's how you grow.
- 42:34Speaker 46: If somebody wants to get more mentally strong, do some
- 42:37Speaker 46: hard things. Wake up early in the morning, go do
- 42:39Speaker 46: a workout, do things that you have to push mentally through.
- 42:42Speaker 46: And if you do those things and you continue to
- 42:44Speaker 46: do those things, you'll get mentally stronger. The scary thing
- 42:47Speaker 46: is when you give up, when you don't push, when
- 42:50Speaker 46: you stay in bed, when you eat.
- 42:52Speaker 5: The doughnut, you're getting mentally weaker.
- 42:55Speaker 46: So develop the muscles, develop that brain power to push
- 42:59Speaker 46: through when things kind of suck.
- 43:00Speaker 2: When they suck, go do them anyways.
- 43:02Speaker 6: Everybody's looking for mental toughness, every after everybody in the
- 43:05Speaker 6: world is looking for mental toughness.
- 43:07Speaker 31: The only way you gain mental toughness is to do
- 43:09Speaker 31: things you're not happy doing.
- 43:11Speaker 5: If you continue doing things that you're.
- 43:13Speaker 56: Satisfied and to make you happy, you're not getting stronger.
- 43:15Speaker 3: You're thing where you're at. Either you're getting better, you're
- 43:17Speaker 3: getting worse. You're not staying the same.
- 43:19Speaker 6: I decide my future because I decide.
- 43:22Speaker 3: What I do now.
- 43:23Speaker 57: No other person can decign my faith, but I can't.
- 43:26Speaker 3: I can because I control my mind.
- 43:29Speaker 57: My mental strength is like no other, and that is
- 43:32Speaker 57: why I will succeed. Not because everything will fall in
- 43:35Speaker 57: my lap, but because whatever comes my way, I will
- 43:39Speaker 57: make the most up.
- 43:40Speaker 2: Sometimes it's not pretty. Sometimes I don't feel like it.
- 43:44Speaker 5: Sometimes it all.
- 43:45Speaker 2: Seems so far out of reach. Sometimes others doubt me.
- 43:49Speaker 57: But always I bet myself. I always show my mental strength.
- 43:58Speaker 3: There's a statement in the New Testament.
- 44:00Speaker 18: It's called the Matthew principle, and the economists use it
- 44:02Speaker 18: to describe how the economy in the world works. To
- 44:04Speaker 18: those who have everything, more will be given. From those
- 44:06Speaker 18: who have nothing, everything will be taken. It's like, what's
- 44:09Speaker 18: very pessimistic in some sense because it means that as
- 44:11Speaker 18: you start to fail, you fail more and more rapidly.
- 44:14Speaker 18: But it also means that as you start to succeed,
- 44:16Speaker 18: you succeed more and more rapidly. And so you take
- 44:19Speaker 18: an incremental step and well, now you could lift fifty
- 44:23Speaker 18: five pounds instead of fifty two point five pounds.
- 44:26Speaker 2: To think, well, what the hell is that.
- 44:27Speaker 18: It's like it's one step on a very long journey,
- 44:30Speaker 18: and it starts to compound on you. So a small
- 44:33Speaker 18: step today means puts you in a position to take
- 44:35Speaker 18: a slightly bigger step to the next day, and then
- 44:38Speaker 18: that puts you in a position to take a slightly
- 44:40Speaker 18: bigger step the next day, and you do that for
- 44:42Speaker 18: two or three years.
- 44:42Speaker 5: Man, you're starting to stride.
- 44:44Speaker 20: Well, I had made the decision that I would either
- 44:46Speaker 20: die or I would succeed. If anyone who's going through
- 44:49Speaker 20: it right now. The refrain, the repeated message that I
- 44:52Speaker 20: had to myself over and over again, was I cannot
- 44:54Speaker 20: lose if I do not quit, And so if I
- 44:56Speaker 20: could just have that, then it meant that. It was like,
- 44:57Speaker 20: this tiny little thing is like.
- 44:59Speaker 5: If I don't quit, I didn't lose.
- 45:01Speaker 20: It just means I still get to play, moving one
- 45:03Speaker 20: foot at another, one phone cofter another, one sales appointment
- 45:06Speaker 20: after another. I knew that if I did that long enough,
- 45:08Speaker 20: eventually it would turn around.
- 45:10Speaker 5: I got tired of losing.
- 45:11Speaker 2: I got tired of coming up sharp. I got tired.
- 45:14Speaker 6: I got tired of eating out of trash cans.
- 45:17Speaker 2: I got tired.
- 45:19Speaker 6: I'm watching everybody else graduate. I got tired of seeing
- 45:22Speaker 6: people why first class, I gotta go.
- 45:24Speaker 2: All the way to the back.
- 45:25Speaker 3: I got tired. I hated as much as you ate it.
- 45:29Speaker 3: But the problem is I wanted more than you want it.
- 45:31Speaker 6: I got tired of giving seventy or eighty percent and
- 45:34Speaker 6: not living the way.
- 45:35Speaker 3: I wanted to live.
- 45:36Speaker 6: I see other people winning, and I'm not winning, and
- 45:39Speaker 6: I want to.
- 45:39Speaker 2: Be a winner, and I'm tired. And I got tired, y'all,
- 45:42Speaker 2: so I did something about it. I woke up every
- 45:45Speaker 2: day and start running.
- 45:46Speaker 5: I was tired.
- 45:47Speaker 58: I can't lose, because losing is something that is designed
- 45:51Speaker 58: for people that quit and for people that fail.
- 45:53Speaker 5: I don't fail.
- 45:54Speaker 3: I learned.
- 45:55Speaker 58: I revaluate, I analyze, I cross examined, I find to
- 46:00Speaker 58: I refine my craft.
- 46:02Speaker 5: It's this, never ever give up. There'll be times in
- 46:06Speaker 5: your life you'll want to quit, You'll.
- 46:08Speaker 2: Want to go home.
- 46:09Speaker 3: I've seen so many.
- 46:11Speaker 5: Brilliant people they gave up in life.
- 46:14Speaker 14: They were totally brilliant, they were top of that class,
- 46:17Speaker 14: they were the best students, they were the best of everything.
- 46:19Speaker 2: They gave up.
- 46:20Speaker 54: I've seen others who really didn't have that talent or
- 46:23Speaker 54: that ability, and they're among the most successful.
- 46:26Speaker 42: People today in the world because they never quit and
- 46:29Speaker 42: they never gave up.
- 46:31Speaker 31: So trying to teach myself how to fail right, and
- 46:34Speaker 31: what that means is when I failed, I can't spend
- 46:37Speaker 31: much time in that fail zone.
- 46:39Speaker 2: I have to be able to.
- 46:40Speaker 33: Get up and get out to the next day just
- 46:42Speaker 33: as fast because my goals to be a Navy seal.
- 46:45Speaker 33: I don't have time to stay here and go be
- 46:48Speaker 33: back myself for weeks and months and years because I'll.
- 46:51Speaker 5: Lose that time. The only place to go from failure
- 46:54Speaker 5: is to win. You have to achieve failure.
- 46:57Speaker 3: You have to take it that far.
- 46:59Speaker 5: Nobody wants to go that far. It's too scary. You
- 47:02Speaker 5: know something, I got news for it. That's where winning is.
- 47:05Speaker 1: But you're still looking at your grief, reviewing it every
- 47:08Speaker 1: day and say to yourself, inch, not over until I win.
- 47:13Speaker 2: Whose I don't lose. I win. I win. Than's my job,
- 47:19Speaker 2: That's what I do.
- 47:22Speaker 52: It was hard to be an entrepreneur, hard to build
- 47:24Speaker 52: a business, try and build a brand, and it was
- 47:27Speaker 52: a struggle. But one day someone encouraged me to good
- 47:30Speaker 52: reading positive books. And I read The Power Positive Thinking,
- 47:34Speaker 52: and I read Think and Grow Rich, and I read
- 47:37Speaker 52: Rich Dad, Poor Dad. I read one book at Positive
- 47:40Speaker 52: Thinking book after Another's Greatest Salesman in the World by Augmentino,
- 47:44Speaker 52: richest man in Babylon. I just started a reading campaign
- 47:47Speaker 52: and my business started to change when I started reading,
- 47:50Speaker 52: and things started happening. When I go to seminars, I
- 47:53Speaker 52: started going to investing in going to seminars, paying the money.
- 47:56Speaker 52: I couldn't afford to spend it, but I couldn't afford
- 47:58Speaker 52: not to send fitted, so I spent money and can't
- 48:00Speaker 52: to seminize. That's why I encourage it. And I'm to
- 48:02Speaker 52: applaud all of you for taking time out of your
- 48:04Speaker 52: business to come here because it makes a difference.
- 48:06Speaker 2: And that bridge from being broken.
- 48:09Speaker 52: Busted and discussed and started building, and I started building
- 48:12Speaker 52: this bridge to success.
- 48:14Speaker 59: The journey about life and understanding what the truth process
- 48:18Speaker 59: is in life is understanding that you have to go
- 48:21Speaker 59: through certain circumstances to get to a certain level in
- 48:24Speaker 59: your life.
- 48:25Speaker 3: Now, many people do not have the patience.
- 48:27Speaker 59: To go through this process, but you have to have
- 48:30Speaker 59: the ability to trust the process instead of rushing the process.
- 48:34Speaker 3: How much patience do you really have on your journey now,
- 48:37Speaker 3: I'm not going to lie to you. We all go
- 48:39Speaker 3: through these changes where.
- 48:40Speaker 59: We want that now, we want that right now, we
- 48:43Speaker 59: need it at that moment.
- 48:44Speaker 3: Maybe you have to pay a bill, Maybe you need that.
- 48:46Speaker 59: Job that you've been working for so long trying to
- 48:49Speaker 59: get it, but yet it hasn't happened yet. Maybe you
- 48:52Speaker 59: worked so hard in your life and everyone rejected you
- 48:55Speaker 59: and you.
- 48:56Speaker 2: Felt that you didn't have what it took to get
- 48:59Speaker 2: to the level.
- 48:59Speaker 3: That you want in your life.
- 49:01Speaker 2: This is the process that I'm talking about.
- 49:03Speaker 60: The journey you're embarking on here at this not an
- 49:05Speaker 60: easy path. It's not for the ill hearted or the
- 49:07Speaker 60: week needs journeys for the strong people. And before you
- 49:10Speaker 60: embark on this journey mentally, you have to prepare yourself
- 49:12Speaker 60: for no one's going to get worse before it gets better.
- 49:15Speaker 60: Every transformation always gets worse before it gets better.
- 49:18Speaker 3: It's supposed to be that way.
- 49:20Speaker 61: How long does it take to learn to ride a bicycle?
- 49:22Speaker 5: No one knows, you know.
- 49:24Speaker 62: It's impossible to guess. But it's a process. And if
- 49:26Speaker 62: you follow the process, and you follow the regime and
- 49:29Speaker 62: you have a little discipline, one hundred percent, you'll get
- 49:32Speaker 62: into shape, but no one knows when. And business is
- 49:36Speaker 62: the same, right, which is, if you follow the.
- 49:39Speaker 61: Process, there's a few things that are pretty stable and
- 49:42Speaker 61: you go through the motions.
- 49:44Speaker 62: Sometimes it's quicker and sometimes it's slower, but don't worry
- 49:46Speaker 62: if it's not meeting arbitrary goals. The trends, the trend
- 49:50Speaker 62: data is much more important than the absolute targets. If
- 49:54Speaker 62: you're trending in the right direction, be happy, regardless whether
- 49:57Speaker 62: you hit the goal or not.
- 49:58Speaker 2: It's a process.
- 49:59Speaker 5: And I think business we have to remember.
- 50:01Speaker 61: For as much talent and you know, you know, beauty
- 50:06Speaker 61: that there is and creativity that there is in building
- 50:09Speaker 61: a business, some of it's some of its discipline and rigor.
- 50:11Speaker 63: You're going to become ill or sick or destitute. Things
- 50:14Speaker 63: are going to happen you have no control over. And
- 50:17Speaker 63: the only way that you can prepare yourself for unchosen
- 50:19Speaker 63: suffering is the chosen suffering right. You can elect to
- 50:23Speaker 63: put yourself into a position to become a stronger alloy
- 50:26Speaker 63: of whatever the mental is that you're made of, and
- 50:28Speaker 63: by purposefully choosing difficult things, you will army yourself against
- 50:32Speaker 63: that situation. It's still going to suck, but think about
- 50:36Speaker 63: how much more Frenchile you would be if you hadn't
- 50:38Speaker 63: overcome on with this stuff.
- 50:40Speaker 15: The third thing that I think is very important is
- 50:43Speaker 15: to enjoy the journey, not the destination. A lot of
- 50:47Speaker 15: us delay our happiness. When I get to this level,
- 50:49Speaker 15: when I get my degree, when I get the kids,
- 50:51Speaker 15: when I get married, I'm going to be happy. Enjoy
- 50:53Speaker 15: the journey, Enjoy the whole step, the whole process, every
- 50:57Speaker 15: day that you get up to describe for whatever it is,
- 50:59Speaker 15: you're after you know I'm a goaloriate. You don't celebrate
- 51:02Speaker 15: when you get to the finish line. Celebrate all along
- 51:05Speaker 15: the way, Celebrate all along the way.
- 51:07Speaker 5: We all think about quittin.
- 51:08Speaker 31: It's taught it's hard to process information during pain because
- 51:13Speaker 31: that pain takes over.
- 51:15Speaker 2: And you can't think rationally.
- 51:18Speaker 5: You're thinking about fight or flight, save yourself.
- 51:21Speaker 31: That's not a rational thought. It's not a thought that's
- 51:24Speaker 31: going to get you through hard times. Most people feel
- 51:28Speaker 31: that one second. In that one second, I start thinking logically,
- 51:32Speaker 31: I calm my brain down because your brains.
- 51:34Speaker 2: Wants to get out.
- 51:35Speaker 56: It's about gaining control of your mind, putting things back
- 51:38Speaker 56: in the proper perspective, and then saying I really do
- 51:42Speaker 56: want to be here, and I'm going to have a
- 51:43Speaker 56: bunch of these one seconds, and I have to learn
- 51:46Speaker 56: to control these because if I fail one of these
- 51:49Speaker 56: one seconds, I would not be a seal, I would
- 51:51Speaker 56: not be a doctor, I will not be a lawyer,
- 51:52Speaker 56: I will not be whatever the fuck it is. It's
- 51:54Speaker 56: all about your mind tastes control of you.
- 51:57Speaker 64: You have to say you, I'm sorry if maybe this
- 52:00Speaker 64: is getting to you a little.
- 52:01Speaker 5: Late, but what are you worrying about.
- 52:04Speaker 64: What are you so stressed out about?
- 52:05Speaker 3: Life is too short.
- 52:06Speaker 5: Stop worrying.
- 52:07Speaker 64: It's okay. Everything is supposed to be this way. You're
- 52:10Speaker 64: supposed to feel this. It's part of the process. Life
- 52:13Speaker 64: is supposed to be a journey. Is it noth This
- 52:15Speaker 64: is part of it. Take it, absorb it. It's all
- 52:17Speaker 64: part of the process. Trust the process, my friend. Trust
- 52:19Speaker 64: me when I say this. Trust the process. It's so important.
- 52:22Speaker 64: Build your character and love yourself even when it's hard.
- 52:24Speaker 5: I love you.
- 52:25Speaker 3: Stay up, Stay up.