Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / Johnjay and Rich Present: SECOND DATE UPDATE
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- 0:00Speaker 1: All right, we're getting ready for second ate update. Cold,
- 0:02Speaker 1: good morning. What's going on in your dating world? How
- 0:04Speaker 1: can we help you?
- 0:06Speaker 2: Oh? I had a really good time with this girl
- 0:08Speaker 2: on a date. You know, we went dinner, drinks, dancing,
- 0:12Speaker 2: We even got a hotel room after the date.
- 0:15Speaker 3: It was so good.
- 0:16Speaker 2: And now I'm hearing nothing.
- 0:18Speaker 3: You got a hotel room. You got a hotel room?
- 0:21Speaker 3: Is that you?
- 0:21Speaker 2: There was nudity, There was nudity, and she won't call
- 0:25Speaker 2: you back.
- 0:26Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna deeve deeve. We're gonna deep dive
- 0:31Speaker 3: into it. That's a deep dive, deep die. Second date
- 0:34Speaker 3: update starts next with John Jane Rich.
- 0:37Speaker 4: What's up if.
- 0:42Speaker 1: John Jane Rich? Time for second date Update. You meet
- 0:45Speaker 1: somebody you got on a date and you have a
- 0:47Speaker 1: great time. He thinks there's gonna be a second date,
- 0:49Speaker 1: but there isn't. So you come to us. We're gonna
- 0:52Speaker 1: troubleshoot your date, find out where things gone wrong.
- 0:54Speaker 2: Cold, good morning, Good morning guys.
- 0:57Speaker 3: What's your story?
- 0:57Speaker 2: Cole? I've been spiraling ever since I had this amazing
- 1:03Speaker 2: date with this girl. Her name's Brie. And I'm not
- 1:08Speaker 2: even exaggering when I say the other date was unreal.
- 1:10Speaker 2: I mean, we were laughing all night, we bar hopped,
- 1:13Speaker 2: we were dancing, like everything just felt effortless, just easy
- 1:19Speaker 2: in a way that it normally doesn't for me. And
- 1:23Speaker 2: I usually am an overthinker. So when I know that
- 1:25Speaker 2: things are just kind of smooth, I know that things
- 1:28Speaker 2: are really kind of clicking. And so we ended up
- 1:32Speaker 2: getting a room and having a lovely time, and the
- 1:37Speaker 2: next morning was even better. We had like breakfast in bed,
- 1:39Speaker 2: we were cuddling, she'd still have my pancakes, which I
- 1:42Speaker 2: thought was adorable, and I just left thinking we were
- 1:46Speaker 2: absolutely going to see each other again. And it's been
- 1:49Speaker 2: a week and a half and I've heard radio silence,
- 1:52Speaker 2: So of course I'm like, we're playing everything I did.
- 1:55Speaker 2: Whether it's snoring, did I say something stupid? I just
- 1:59Speaker 2: I don't know. It was in my morning breath. I
- 2:02Speaker 2: have no idea what is going on, and it's driving
- 2:04Speaker 2: me crazy.
- 2:05Speaker 3: Man. That's a tough.
- 2:06Speaker 5: One, I know, because especially you have like the whole
- 2:08Speaker 5: morning after and it was like a pleasant experience and
- 2:11Speaker 5: not a walk of shame.
- 2:12Speaker 3: Could she be a hooker?
- 2:13Speaker 2: Totally? No, I know.
- 2:16Speaker 5: I'm like, you got a room, like suggestion like.
- 2:20Speaker 3: Sprew of the moment.
- 2:21Speaker 5: Let's get a hotel room now, Like, let's go back
- 2:23Speaker 5: to one of our houses.
- 2:25Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we just were indulging a little on the
- 2:27Speaker 2: date and decided it would be a safer and a
- 2:31Speaker 2: romantic way to kind of not be driving.
- 2:34Speaker 3: Okay, so were you like joy?
- 2:36Speaker 4: Were you eating it like a restaurant that is attached
- 2:39Speaker 4: to a hotel, because that seems like a lot more involved,
- 2:43Speaker 4: Like we're going to do it. Then let's go back
- 2:44Speaker 4: to my place to hang out.
- 2:46Speaker 1: No, let's say you're at this place right down here,
- 2:48Speaker 1: which has got great restaurants, great hotel, and you hit
- 2:50Speaker 1: it off and your passionate and things are gone.
- 2:52Speaker 3: Let's get a hotel right here right now. I have
- 2:55Speaker 3: a friend that does that.
- 2:57Speaker 2: Well, we ended up we ended up bar hopping, so well,
- 3:00Speaker 2: one of the bars ended up being in a hotel.
- 3:03Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that masse, which is where.
- 3:05Speaker 2: The idea kind of came and like, well we could
- 3:08Speaker 2: go pick this upstairs, and I like it kind of fun.
- 3:12Speaker 2: It was spontaneous. I've never done that before, but it
- 3:15Speaker 2: was actually kind of a clutch move. It was it
- 3:18Speaker 2: was great.
- 3:18Speaker 4: Well, could it be that you're no good at making
- 3:20Speaker 4: love and that's the problem.
- 3:21Speaker 3: Why is that always your respond?
- 3:24Speaker 5: Did you always that they are.
- 3:26Speaker 4: Bad at love?
- 3:28Speaker 2: I hope not. But that's why I'm calling you to
- 3:32Speaker 2: find out what what happened?
- 3:34Speaker 3: Well, we'll call her, We'll find out for you. Man.
- 3:37Speaker 1: You know it's funny, is like I see like you're
- 3:39Speaker 1: all passionate. Let's just get to be making out the
- 3:40Speaker 1: bar or whatever. Let's get a room. Then you go
- 3:42Speaker 1: to the lobby like can we get a room for
- 3:44Speaker 1: the night? Police and they're like, do you have a reservation?
- 3:47Speaker 1: You're like, I don't, but I just like a room
- 3:48Speaker 1: for the night, okay? And then kind have a credit card?
- 3:51Speaker 1: Do you fill out everything? And then you're like do
- 3:52Speaker 1: you want.
- 3:52Speaker 3: To leave some money for incidentals? And would you like it?
- 3:55Speaker 3: Would you like to be joining a membership? By that time,
- 3:57Speaker 3: like remember, it is all like, oh my god, I
- 4:02Speaker 3: forget it. It's gone in the car in the parking lot.
- 4:06Speaker 3: All right, Cole, we'll call brief for you. All right?
- 4:07Speaker 1: Second date update? Could you use next? With John, Jay
- 4:09Speaker 1: and Rich. We are in the middle of Second Date
- 4:13Speaker 1: Update Cole and Brie.
- 4:15Speaker 4: Fall brings new love the season blossom for Cole in
- 4:19Speaker 4: Brie is they laughed through dinner and then decided to
- 4:23Speaker 4: take it to a hotel room. But Cole claims he
- 4:27Speaker 4: had a magic night. Brie is ghosting him. Could he
- 4:30Speaker 4: be terrible at love making? I think he is and
- 4:34Speaker 4: that is why she's ghosting it. But we'll find out,
- 4:36Speaker 4: all right, col that's a little recap. That's pretty much it.
- 4:39Speaker 3: Step for it. Richie did leave out that she ate
- 4:41Speaker 3: half his pancakes.
- 4:42Speaker 1: Oh yes, maybe he made a cute little comment about
- 4:44Speaker 1: that and she's like, screw you man. All right, we're
- 4:47Speaker 1: gonna get pre on the phone and find out why
- 4:48Speaker 1: she's blowing you off.
- 4:49Speaker 3: Whoa are you ready?
- 4:50Speaker 5: All right?
- 4:51Speaker 3: Hold on, here we go.
- 5:10Speaker 4: Hello, Hi, is breather there?
- 5:13Speaker 5: Uh yeah, this is her.
- 5:15Speaker 3: Hey Bree, my name is Peyton.
- 5:17Speaker 5: I'm with John Jaye rich and we just wanted to
- 5:18Speaker 5: talk to you on the radio really quickly if you
- 5:20Speaker 5: got some time this morning. Uh sure.
- 5:27Speaker 1: So we're talking to this guy about a great date
- 5:31Speaker 1: that he went on.
- 5:31Speaker 3: He was fantastic the date.
- 5:32Speaker 1: I mean, like the way he described the date and
- 5:34Speaker 1: the way the date ended seemed like a home run.
- 5:37Speaker 1: You were the date, by the way, and how he
- 5:40Speaker 1: told us about bar hopping, the great dinner, great conversation.
- 5:42Speaker 1: You guys got a hotel room, you spent the night,
- 5:44Speaker 1: you woke up and had breakfast, you cuddled, and he
- 5:47Speaker 1: says you're blowing him off, and we were like why.
- 5:50Speaker 1: So we don't understand why, because you ended up spend
- 5:52Speaker 1: the night with him at a hotel, so you must
- 5:53Speaker 1: have liked him. So we thought we would call you
- 5:56Speaker 1: and if you wouldn't mind telling us your thoughts, your
- 5:58Speaker 1: point of view on coal and why you are blowing
- 6:01Speaker 1: him off, or maybe you're not blowing him off, but
- 6:03Speaker 1: just we can give him some peace.
- 6:05Speaker 5: Oh uh okay, Yeah, Cole was great. I had a
- 6:11Speaker 5: lot of fun on the date. He's super easy to
- 6:15Speaker 5: talk to, and yeah, I had a lot of fun.
- 6:19Speaker 5: I don't know, we laughed a lot. The sex was great.
- 6:25Speaker 5: It was just one of those things that you know.
- 6:26Speaker 5: I got home and reality kicks in and I'm I
- 6:30Speaker 5: hope he doesn't like touch. I don't know, God, it
- 6:33Speaker 5: sounds like a caught feelings or something. I just I
- 6:39Speaker 5: don't know. I don't know. I can't really see myself
- 6:41Speaker 5: with him. I don't really see myself with anyone right now.
- 6:45Speaker 5: To be totally honest.
- 6:48Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, hold on, what do you mean this
- 6:51Speaker 2: is like some sort of fantasy thing right now?
- 6:55Speaker 5: Cole yello?
- 7:01Speaker 3: What wait?
- 7:02Speaker 5: What is this? Hold on? Sorry?
- 7:05Speaker 3: What this is called? Second update?
- 7:07Speaker 1: Cole called us because you wanted to know why you're
- 7:09Speaker 1: blowing him off and we totally find out.
- 7:12Speaker 5: Oh and he's on the Okay. Uh, I'm sorry. I
- 7:16Speaker 5: didn't understand that. I am I okay, I'm so sorry.
- 7:25Speaker 3: Cool.
- 7:26Speaker 5: I wasn't like trying to be mean or anything. I'm
- 7:28Speaker 5: just I don't I don't know if you heard anything
- 7:31Speaker 5: that I said, but like, I just don't. I don't
- 7:35Speaker 5: really know what I want right now. And it wasn't
- 7:37Speaker 5: anything personal. And I did have a really nice time
- 7:40Speaker 5: with you.
- 7:42Speaker 2: But the whole day, in the morning, the breakfast, in bed,
- 7:46Speaker 2: the cuddling, it meant nothing like yourn into me at all.
- 7:51Speaker 5: No, that's not true, and I was ay you that night.
- 7:54Speaker 5: It's just I thought sounds horrible. I'm I'm in a
- 7:58Speaker 5: I'm in a weird place, and I'm not ready to
- 8:02Speaker 5: date anyone seriously, which I told you that, and I
- 8:07Speaker 5: just I kind of just thought it was like a
- 8:09Speaker 5: one night thing. I didn't I didn't expect you to
- 8:12Speaker 5: you know, catch feelings.
- 8:15Speaker 2: So I mean I didn't catch feelings. I just I
- 8:19Speaker 2: definitely had a connection like you made feel like we did, I.
- 8:24Speaker 5: Know, I know. Well, sorry, I mean I did say
- 8:27Speaker 5: that I didn't. You know, I'm sorry. I feel really bad.
- 8:32Speaker 5: I just you know, I'm not looking to date anyone.
- 8:34Speaker 3: So it was just a fun day night.
- 8:36Speaker 1: It was a rate you needed, like to be touched
- 8:38Speaker 1: and loved and have a little that that kind of
- 8:40Speaker 1: connection with the human being you had it. That's that's
- 8:43Speaker 1: enough to get you over till the next time, right, Yeah.
- 8:47Speaker 5: Well everyone needs that, you know. I felt like I
- 8:50Speaker 5: was pretty upfront with where I was.
- 8:54Speaker 3: Well, he likes you.
- 8:57Speaker 2: I I guess I feel like a little confused because
- 9:01Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, it feels like we were
- 9:04Speaker 2: on the same page the whole night, and I left
- 9:07Speaker 2: feeling my clad nine and.
- 9:09Speaker 4: Well, it sounds like she was in the moment what
- 9:11Speaker 4: you want. She just doesn't want anymore moments like that.
- 9:15Speaker 5: Yeah, no, you're great. It has nothing to do with you.
- 9:18Speaker 5: I just don't I'm not in a place where I
- 9:20Speaker 5: want to have a serious relationship. And I you know,
- 9:25Speaker 5: especially now talking to you, I feel like that's where
- 9:27Speaker 5: this where you want this to head. And that's just
- 9:32Speaker 5: that's just not I'm just not interested in that right now.
- 9:35Speaker 5: And I'm sorry. And I did have a great time with.
- 9:38Speaker 2: You, and.
- 9:41Speaker 5: Don't love that you put me on blasts on the radio,
- 9:44Speaker 5: to be honest.
- 9:44Speaker 1: But how about this, What if what if he reaches
- 9:47Speaker 1: out to you a couple of weeks when you need
- 9:50Speaker 1: needs more attention?
- 9:52Speaker 5: Uh?
- 9:54Speaker 3: I mean you said the sex was great, So I
- 9:56Speaker 3: would think every once in a.
- 9:56Speaker 1: While, we need to when you need a little, when
- 9:59Speaker 1: you need some effecttion, you give him a call.
- 10:00Speaker 2: Not a bad idea if he's down, I don't know.
- 10:03Speaker 2: Maybe see keeping the door open. Is that what you're saying.
- 10:06Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying, all right, you guys, you
- 10:11Speaker 1: guys think all right? Well thank you both, going yes,
- 10:17Speaker 1: there you go, all right, thank you both. That's second
- 10:22Speaker 1: D update John Jay and Rich