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Is Torpedoing a 1st Date to Avoid an Ex at the Restaurant Acceptable? · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: She was going on a first date and the guy
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  Speaker 1: changed it at the last minute because his ex was
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  Speaker 1: at the restaurant they're supposed to go to, and she's wondering,
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  Speaker 1: is that.
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  Speaker 2: A red flag? Anna? Why do you think this could
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  Speaker 2: be a red flag?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? So basically, I just I was on my way
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  Speaker 3: to a date and he let me know, like as
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  Speaker 3: I'm walking into the restaurant that we had to change locations,
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  Speaker 3: and because yeah, exactly exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Why is that a bat on him?
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  Speaker 3: Well? I don't know, Like maybe I'm overthinking it, but
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  Speaker 3: is it a red flag? Like does he why can't
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  Speaker 3: he get along with his ex? Or like why can't
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  Speaker 3: he be in the same room with her?
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  Speaker 1: It's just distracting. It's actually not fair to you or
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  Speaker 1: to the ex, and it's distracting.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So I don't think it's.
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  Speaker 1: A red flag. I really don't think you got to
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  Speaker 1: give this guy a shot. He's probably just trying to
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  Speaker 1: make it comfortable for you. Wouldn't you find it uncomfortable
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  Speaker 1: his ex is in the restaurant?
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  Speaker 3: I mean yeah, but like I don't if it was me,
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  Speaker 3: like I would want people to see me like happy,
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  Speaker 3: like flirting with somebody else.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe games. That's a game.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, how did you find out.
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  Speaker 2: It was his exit? He tell you specifically?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah he did.
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  Speaker 2: Then that's a green flag too, because then he could
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  Speaker 2: have lied about it. He could have just not even
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  Speaker 2: told you. Get this guy in the calendar. Yeah, get
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  Speaker 2: him in the calendar again.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I will makes sense right.
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