Latest / The Ric and Dan Show / "This isn't cosmetics, It's Science": Dr. Heather Evans and Sharon Gottleib of Tensegrity
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- 0:01(Transcribed by TurboScribe.ai. Go Unlimited to remove this message.) He's Rick Tyler, and he's Dan Cashman, and I'm Dr. Heather Evans, and I'm Sharon Gottlieb
- 0:06of Tensegrity, and we're on the Rick and Dan Show.
- 0:10In Maine, we often hear, you can't get there from here.
- 0:13These are the stories of the risk takers, the trailblazers, those who turn obstacles
- 0:17into opportunities every day and found their way to get there from here, and today, they're
- 0:23on the Rick and Dan Show.
- 0:26Sharon, Dr. Heather.
- 0:28I'm old.
- 0:28It's too late for me, but in the name of everything that's good and holy, can you do something
- 0:32for Dan?
- 0:35Well, it depends.
- 0:36Yeah.
- 0:37It really depends.
- 0:38I don't know how to take that.
- 0:40You both have been in this room for like five minutes before we started talking.
- 0:44You've seen this.
- 0:45You see what you have to work with.
- 0:47But that must be what it's like when someone comes into your business for the first time,
- 0:51if they can be brave enough to step foot through the door.
- 0:55That is definitely one of the major factors, is being brave enough to step through the
- 1:00door, because there's a lot of misconceptions about aesthetic medicine, even to begin with,
- 1:04and wellness medicine.
- 1:05Who's more frightened to step through the door, a man or a woman?
- 1:08A man.
- 1:09Why?
- 1:10Ooh.
- 1:12You thought there were just going to be easy questions now, didn't you?
- 1:15Well, I think that men think that aesthetic medicine and wellness, they're going to walk
- 1:20in and it's going to be super frou-frou and not for them, and they're going to feel out
- 1:24of place.
- 1:25And, you know, it's not mainstream for a man to, at this point in time, feel like that's
- 1:31their home.
- 1:32How would you counter that?
- 1:33If you run into a guy at a chamber after hours and they ask you what you do and they say,
- 1:39I don't know if that's for me.
- 1:40What's your response to that?
- 1:42Well, there's so many things that we do at Tensegrity that I think are not well known
- 1:47around Bangor.
- 1:48And it really, the focus is in wellness.
- 1:51See, already you've got to dispel a myth.
- 1:53You're right.
- 1:53The myth would be that you're all about making people look their best, but it's more than
- 1:58just looks.
- 2:00It's way more.
- 2:00What these ladies do at Tensegrity is amazing.
- 2:04Everything they do revolves all around wellness and health and making yourself feel the best
- 2:10ever.
- 2:11Yes, you're going to look great too, but in order to look great on the outside, you got
- 2:15to feel good on the inside.
- 2:16And that's always been Dr. Evans, first and foremost.
- 2:19Make them feel good on the inside so that we can make them feel good on the outside.
- 2:24You did family medicine prior to this.
- 2:26What got you into this practice of medicine?
- 2:30So I was in family medicine for 20 years and when I got into medicine, it was all about
- 2:36preventative care.
- 2:36I wanted to really help people focus on their health and in family medicine, we had the
- 2:42opportunity to do that, but I also felt like we had to focus a little bit more on disease
- 2:45processes.
- 2:47But as I got further along in my career, I really realized that that is really what
- 2:50I truly, truly wanted to focus on.
- 2:53And so I started by doing some skin health and that was kind of a niche that I was able
- 2:57to kind of take in on my own.
- 2:59So I did a lot of skin health.
- 3:00I did more courses on skin health and that was kind of my first foray into things.
- 3:05I had already been doing health in terms of hormones and all the things that keep us going,
- 3:11but I wanted to do a little bit more niche medicine and getting into aesthetic was kind
- 3:18of that first step for me to the full picture of the whole human body being well.
- 3:25Because it is true.
- 3:26You start from the inside out, but when you feel your best, you look your best.
- 3:30And people, sometimes the first step to feeling best is taking the step forward to look better.
- 3:36See Rick, I feel great and it hasn't translated yet.
- 3:42And you look great.
- 3:44Is it harder to make someone feel good on the inside than to help them look their best
- 3:49on the outside?
- 3:51I think that sometimes that is absolutely true.
- 3:54And again, the follow up with that one syllable killer question, why?
- 3:59A lot of women when they call and men when they call, one of the first things that they
- 4:03talk about is what can you do for me?
- 4:07So when they call us and they ask, what can you do for me?
- 4:09I ask, what do you need?
- 4:12I don't feel good.
- 4:13What doesn't feel good?
- 4:14You know, I'm sluggish, I'm tired.
- 4:16So then we put it together as girls at the front desk, put it together and kind of figure
- 4:21out who they need to see.
- 4:22Do they need to see Dr. Evans for a lab draw to figure out what's really going on with
- 4:26them?
- 4:27Once they have that and Dr. Evans meets with them, learns what's going on with them and
- 4:31has her labs in front of them, it takes off from there.
- 4:35It can start as easy as they're deficient in vitamin B and D or they need some hormone
- 4:41replacement therapy or maybe just some IVs to get them hydrated again.
- 4:45Once we release them to the girls, it takes off.
- 4:49This isn't cosmetics.
- 4:50This is science.
- 4:51It is science.
- 4:52It's absolutely science.
- 4:53And that's why I love it so much.
- 4:56I love what I do because it's all grounded in science.
- 5:00I failed science.
- 5:01I did too.
- 5:02Really?
- 5:03And gym.
- 5:05But here I am.
- 5:07What were you good at?
- 5:09Personal training.
- 5:10And talking.
- 5:11Wait a minute.
- 5:12Stop, rewind, play.
- 5:13I wasn't good at gym, but I'm great at personal training.
- 5:16Isn't that the craziest thing?
- 5:17I'm sorry, can you put that back in the Yahtzee cup and shake it and roll it out for me?
- 5:21I sure can.
- 5:21Listen, when you're in high school, right?
- 5:23And you have a boyfriend and gym class is right before you see your boyfriend.
- 5:27I'm not going to get all sweaty.
- 5:29I failed.
- 5:31Sorry.
- 5:32Doc, what was your strength in school?
- 5:34Oh, I was a nerd.
- 5:35I'll be honest about it.
- 5:37I loved all the sciences.
- 5:39I loved biology.
- 5:40I loved chemistry.
- 5:41I even loved math.
- 5:42I love math.
- 5:43They say when you're good at math, you can be good at science.
- 5:45But I was the exception.
- 5:47I was great at math.
- 5:48Straight A student in math.
- 5:49Failed science.
- 5:51So, Doc, you first.
- 5:52When you were a kiddo, you were the nerd.
- 5:54Did you see yourself doing what you're doing today?
- 5:57No.
- 5:58I'm guessing the answer is no.
- 5:59When did the switch happen?
- 6:02I think I always, no, I won't even say that because my parents were actually kind of shocked
- 6:07when I said that I wanted to go to medical school.
- 6:11I always loved nutrition.
- 6:13We grew up talking about health all the time because my father is super focused in nutrition
- 6:18and health.
- 6:19He's a dentist.
- 6:20I did not want to do dentistry.
- 6:22He didn't want to be in people's mouths.
- 6:23That was not my thing.
- 6:24I knew that.
- 6:25I knew that.
- 6:27But I think once I got into later years in high school, I was like, oh, you know, maybe
- 6:32nutrition is what I want to do.
- 6:34And I thought about it.
- 6:34I'm like, no, no.
- 6:35If I'm going to do something, I'm going to do something all the way.
- 6:38So I'm going to go to medical school.
- 6:39That conversation you had with your parents, was that at the dinner table at the time?
- 6:43Were you in a car?
- 6:44How did that go over?
- 6:46Oh, my mom kind of, I think we were actually, we were at the dinner table and my mom just
- 6:51kind of stopped and just looked at me and then looked at my father.
- 6:56And and then my dad just kind of looked at me and he's like, oh, seriously?
- 7:03OK, all right.
- 7:05And that was kind of it.
- 7:07Meanwhile, in their brains, they're now doing a whole lot of math.
- 7:09Yeah, exactly.
- 7:10Was that a difficult conversation to have?
- 7:12Because I feel like the conversation to say I want to go to medical school is a lot better
- 7:15than saying I'm dropping out of school and I'm going to be a musician or something like
- 7:20that where there's a lot of uncertainty.
- 7:21This feels like a pretty solid path.
- 7:24Yeah, I mean, I think once they could wrap their brains around the fact that it was mostly
- 7:28my mom.
- 7:28My mom was the one that was like, oh, Heather doesn't like gross things.
- 7:34So I don't know if she can deal with blood.
- 7:36I don't know, you know, all the things.
- 7:38And so I think when she wrapped her brain around that, it was it was smooth sailing.
- 7:43If this isn't a path that you discovered until a little bit later when you were a kid, what
- 7:47did you see yourself being?
- 7:51I didn't even know that.
- 7:53I think we're all learning something.
- 7:54Yeah, aren't we?
- 7:56And that is a leap.
- 7:57Can we talk about the name of the business?
- 7:59Yes.
- 8:00And I don't know who wants to take the question.
- 8:03I think we have an idea as to what the name or how the name came to be.
- 8:07But give us the back story.
- 8:08Yeah.
- 8:09So the back story is so I'm an osteopathic physician.
- 8:13And one of the things that osteopaths are taught is cranial osteopathy.
- 8:18And so I had this one professor who.
- 8:21Cranial osteopathy.
- 8:22That was my side side hobby in college, actually.
- 8:26All right.
- 8:26I'm sorry.
- 8:26We interrupt.
- 8:27I apologize.
- 8:28So I had this one instructor.
- 8:29We were doing biodynamics and he had these beautiful images of the cerebral spinal fluid.
- 8:36And he had these tensegrity structures that if you know about tensegrity, they're based
- 8:41in architecture.
- 8:42So it's all about these beautiful, complex structures that are all balanced and beautiful,
- 8:49but they're dynamic and they like a lot of bridges or tensegrity structures.
- 8:53But there's also like the DNA helix itself is a tensegrity structure.
- 8:57So I loved that.
- 8:59I loved all the visuals.
- 9:01I loved that it kind of balances structure and beauty.
- 9:04And when I was thinking about what to name this business when I first started it six
- 9:09years ago, that just kept popping up in my head, popping up in my head.
- 9:12And I actually had a few people close to me say, don't name it that.
- 9:16Nobody knows what that is.
- 9:19Nobody knows what that is.
- 9:20And of course, I ignore them.
- 9:22And I named the business Tensegrity Health and Aesthetics.
- 9:25And how many times a week, Sharon, do you have to explain to someone?
- 9:28Let me tell you something right now.
- 9:31At least five times a week.
- 9:33And what she just said, this what comes out of this mouth does not even sound.
- 9:39Anything like that.
- 9:41I'm like, let's hear your explanation now.
- 9:43Yeah, listen.
- 9:44Yes, it's a beautiful name.
- 9:45Dr. Evans thought of that name herself.
- 9:49And oh, it's just so beautiful.
- 9:52I love it.
- 9:53She's going to be right with you.
- 9:55Have a seat over there.
- 9:56Have a seat.
- 9:58Here's the Wi-Fi password.
- 10:00I thought I was trying to integrity.
- 10:02Yeah, but I was going, what's the 10?
- 10:04And I thought of Bo Derek and a movie.
- 10:08Yeah, that Sharon and I are apparently the only ones in this room.
- 10:12Yes, exactly.
- 10:13With Dudley Moore.
- 10:15Yeah, Ravel's Bolero.
- 10:17Beautiful.
- 10:17Why don't you guys just talk about it?
- 10:18Sharon and I are going to talk about it.
- 10:23So can we talk about Botox?
- 10:25I would love to talk about Botox.
- 10:27Oh, apparently that's a favorite topic.
- 10:29I've never heard anybody say that before, by the way.
- 10:32I love to talk about Botox.
- 10:34I have more than a handful of friends and there's just an open conversation about it.
- 10:39And they're all gals.
- 10:40So bust this myth for us.
- 10:42Only gals use Botox.
- 10:46Have you not heard of Brotox?
- 10:50Again, we're learning a lot today.
- 10:52See, I love talking about Brotox.
- 10:57Absolutely.
- 10:58Men use Botox.
- 10:59Oh, absolutely.
- 11:00Okay, say we walk over to the local grocery store and maybe stand around the produce section for a moment.
- 11:08Oh, look, tomatoes and yams and cucumbers are on sale.
- 11:11And say 10 guys walk by.
- 11:13Out of the 10, how many are doing the Brotox?
- 11:17Two.
- 11:1820%?
- 11:19I would say.
- 11:20That's math right there.
- 11:22I know.
- 11:22That's really good.
- 11:23Really?
- 11:24But men don't talk about it because it's not...
- 11:27No, there's no Brotox talk.
- 11:28There's no Brotox talk.
- 11:30But you know what?
- 11:30There was no women talking.
- 11:32Women were not talking about Botox even five years ago.
- 11:37It was very hush-hush.
- 11:38And now all the women are talking about Botox, even in the gym, right?
- 11:42So I think in a few more years...
- 11:44In New England, we're all a little bit behind the times.
- 11:47I think men are probably talking Botox down in Florida, California, maybe even Massachusetts.
- 11:53But Maine, we're all behind the times when it comes to aesthetic procedures and medicine.
- 11:57And what we'll admit to and what we won't admit to.
- 12:01You mentioned Florida and California.
- 12:03And I feel like, in my mind, and forgive me, I would associate Botox years ago with Los Angeles and kale.
- 12:12I don't know why.
- 12:13But that's sort of where my...
- 12:14Yeah, kale.
- 12:15Okay.
- 12:15Because it was...
- 12:16We're back in the produce style here to talk about kale now.
- 12:19Not yams.
- 12:20I don't know where you came up with yams, by the way.
- 12:22You looked at me when you said yam, too.
- 12:24I don't know what that says about anything.
- 12:25I noticed that as well.
- 12:25Yeah.
- 12:26Thank you.
- 12:26Is it more common here in Maine now than it was 10 years ago?
- 12:30Absolutely.
- 12:30And it's more socially acceptable to talk about it now, right?
- 12:34A hundred percent.
- 12:34How does that help in terms of the business model?
- 12:38Botox is kind of one of the things that brings people through the door now.
- 12:42Honestly, everybody's looking for it.
- 12:43And there are so many places popping up here and there that say, oh, we do Botox.
- 12:48We're doing Botox in a salon.
- 12:49We're doing Botox in a dental office.
- 12:50We're doing Botox everywhere.
- 12:52And so everybody's doing it.
- 12:54It's very accessible.
- 12:56And even, you know, they talk about now baby Botox.
- 13:00So the 20-year-olds are getting preventative Botox now.
- 13:03And we're doing Botox in the masseters for TMJ.
- 13:06And we're doing Botox from aesthetic and medical treatments.
- 13:10I feel like we have several questions that I got to ask about.
- 13:13Well, go ahead.
- 13:13I got to ask about the TMJ piece.
- 13:15Yeah.
- 13:15So we can inject the masseter muscle and weaken that muscle because that's a giant muscle,
- 13:21obviously, in the jaw that helps, well, that makes you clench.
- 13:25And so if we can weaken that muscle, then you can't clench as hard.
- 13:28And so the TMJ joint actually has less pressure on it, less inflammation.
- 13:33Again, this is more science than cosmetology than probably most people thought.
- 13:37I'm also familiar with Botox being used to help with migraines.
- 13:42So migraines a lot of times stem from, again, muscular contraction.
- 13:47Botox goes into the muscle.
- 13:49It's not skin-based.
- 13:51It's Botox.
- 13:52And that's another common misconception is that Botox goes into the skin.
- 13:56No, it goes into muscle.
- 13:57We're really aiming towards muscle.
- 13:58So when we treat the muscles and relax the muscles around the eyebrows, a lot of people start their migraines from between the eyes because there's nerves that come up right above the eyes and eyebrows, some from behind the head.
- 14:11And so when we can relax those muscles, the migraines improve.
- 14:15So when my wife keeps complaining and saying, not tonight, I've got a headache.
- 14:21Call Sharon at the front desk.
- 14:23And when can she get in?
- 14:282000, 2001, it was sudden.
- 14:31Bell's palsy.
- 14:33Yeah.
- 14:33Can you do anything to help someone who has had Bell's palsy?
- 14:37We can help not speed up the healing process, but we can definitely help balance the face because that's exactly what happens.
- 14:45The face looks imbalanced from the palsy.
- 14:47And so we can treat the other side of the face.
- 14:49It's not that the other side of the face is still active, super active with the musculature like normal, but we can actually use Botox to calm those muscles down.
- 14:57I still have people that talk to me about it because I was on channel two at the time and you become suddenly to the poster child for Bell's palsy.
- 15:04And people start coming up to you again at the produce by the way you're buying your.
- 15:08And they say it hit me five years ago.
- 15:11It hit me seven years ago.
- 15:12It hit me 10 years ago and I've never fully recovered.
- 15:15And then you look at them and you're like, yeah, I can see it.
- 15:19Would it be worth a phone call to tensegrity if someone is still dealing with the after effects of Bell's palsy?
- 15:25Yes.
- 15:26Again, talk with Sharon at the front desk.
- 15:28That's right.
- 15:30First, ask about the name of the business.
- 15:32Absolutely.
- 15:33Let me explain what that means.
- 15:35Is there anything you do that can inject a sense of humor into my pal Rick?
- 15:39Ooh, that's just kidding.
- 15:41That's front desk.
- 15:43Do you do laser stuff?
- 15:45We do all the lasers, all the lasers.
- 15:48Now it seems like now Botox, it seems like, okay, I'm going to help rejuvenate, give it a look, flatten it out.
- 15:54What are you doing with the giant lasers?
- 15:57Oh, we can do so.
- 15:58Well, so one of the most I think common things that people call for is laser hair removal.
- 16:02So not a problem here.
- 16:04So what else do you want to talk about?
- 16:08Did you do that on purpose?
- 16:10No.
- 16:11Well, I mean, did you put her up to that, Dan?
- 16:13I did actually.
- 16:14I just texted her and I was like, talk about hair removal.
- 16:19But we can also get rid of all of the brown spots, red spots, the browns from sun exposure over the years.
- 16:25We can lasers help smooth the skin, help with wrinkles.
- 16:28I'm going to show you a spot here that just suddenly started to appear.
- 16:32My hand between the forefinger and the thumb, it just came out of nowhere.
- 16:36And then I found myself repositioning my hand when I was in public about that.
- 16:41But aging is natural.
- 16:43Why can't people just embrace it and be happy to grow older and be happy with the way they look?
- 16:50I think that for aging, it's very individual.
- 16:53And so I think that some people are very happy embracing every little thing that comes their way.
- 16:58And I think that some people don't want to embrace maybe some of the things that are coming their way with age.
- 17:04And I think there's different ways that we can address those things.
- 17:07And maybe on the outside, they say, you know, I don't need a laser.
- 17:11I'm going to embrace all these things that came from the sun exposure on my face because I loved being outside when in the sun when I was a kid.
- 17:18That's fine.
- 17:19But some of the things that you're feeling on the inside, maybe they don't want to deal with.
- 17:22One of the things that we are doing now is hormone replacement therapy.
- 17:26And that is a huge thing that comes with aging.
- 17:30And yes, it's natural.
- 17:32After 30, we start losing our hormones.
- 17:35Every single one of us, men, women, they're just declining.
- 17:38And we feel it.
- 17:40We feel it in our joints.
- 17:41We feel it in our mood.
- 17:42We feel it in our muscles.
- 17:43We feel it everywhere.
- 17:45And for women, it's even more potent.
- 17:47So because we're losing all three of our major hormones and it does damage.
- 17:54It really does, both physical and psychological.
- 17:57You feel like you're going crazy.
- 17:58But men feel it too.
- 18:00You know what?
- 18:00Men, we have men walking through our doors saying that they are miserable.
- 18:05They don't feel themselves.
- 18:07Their wives think that they're jerks.
- 18:08Their co-workers think that they're jerks.
- 18:10They can't interact with their kids anymore.
- 18:13She's not talking about you.
- 18:14She's talking about co-workers.
- 18:15Since this is your audio medium, not a visual, what the listeners need to see, Rick just patted me on the back in a show of concern.
- 18:22I think I understand what you're saying in that guys are defined often by their work and their drive.
- 18:32Do I need to explain that to you, Dan?
- 18:34No, I'm fine.
- 18:35And if I'm wrong, cut me off right now.
- 18:38Nope. Okay. All right.
- 18:39And heaven help you if you get laid off because you are lost, you are untethered, but you can get another job.
- 18:45If you lose your drive as a guy, what do you do?
- 18:50Exactly.
- 18:52And that's one of the major things.
- 18:53Again, I did family medicine for 20 years.
- 18:55I heard this day in and day out from both men and women.
- 19:00They didn't feel themselves.
- 19:01They've lost their drive, both men and women.
- 19:04And then I'd have the husband come in one day and the wife come in the other.
- 19:08And they're both saying, oh yeah.
- 19:11You're literally doing couples therapy.
- 19:14How many times have we saved a marriage now?
- 19:17Doing hormone replacement therapy?
- 19:18I don't want to show off or anything.
- 19:19I don't need to brag.
- 19:22Quite a few.
- 19:23But in all seriousness, I mean, we joke and say, well, we've saved marriages.
- 19:28But it's I think if you really pulled our patience, a hundred percent, we'd get people saying that it has saved their marriage.
- 19:35They thank us when they walk in.
- 19:37Together.
- 19:37Honest to God.
- 19:38It feels like there would be a little bit of a stigma to overcome too for a guy coming in and admitting that that's why he's there.
- 19:46How do you get that information out of somebody?
- 19:48Or is it just literally walking through the door is the first step and they're ready to talk at that point about why they're there?
- 19:53Perhaps sodium pentothal.
- 19:54I think a lot of times.
- 19:57Booze works.
- 19:58I think the major thing is just I don't feel good.
- 20:01I don't feel good.
- 20:02I want to know what's wrong with me.
- 20:04And by doing their lab tests so they don't have to say, hey, I have a low sex drive.
- 20:10Can you see me?
- 20:10That's beside the point, because that's also not the primary thing for testosterone.
- 20:17I know you mentioned that that's one of the primary things for men.
- 20:20But a lot of times it's just that they don't feel good.
- 20:23There's no they're tired all the time.
- 20:26They don't feel they have no motivation to do anything.
- 20:29They've lost their peak.
- 20:30Yeah.
- 20:31Workouts don't mean anything.
- 20:33Sharon, if you say that again, could you not make eye contact with me?
- 20:35I'm so sorry about that.
- 20:36They've lost their peak at the gym.
- 20:38And by they, you mean Rick.
- 20:42There are mass market pills for guys, right?
- 20:45Aren't there?
- 20:46I've heard, but that's not going to change their testosterone levels.
- 20:50It's just going to like going to increase blood flow.
- 20:53Is it snake oil?
- 20:55Which the stuff that comes up in Dan's social media feed doesn't come up in my social media.
- 21:00No.
- 21:01OK.
- 21:02We're going to get in trouble if I hear I'm going to write.
- 21:04I'm going to write down the name of.
- 21:06No, no.
- 21:06Let him let him sue us.
- 21:08No.
- 21:08Publicity is good.
- 21:09I don't like the little blue pill.
- 21:11Well, yes.
- 21:12And I've often seen when I look over at that.
- 21:15OK.
- 21:15OK.
- 21:16There is a clothing design by Kim Kardashian.
- 21:19No, I think there is something else.
- 21:20There is.
- 21:20There is online.
- 21:21These online companies.
- 21:22Yes.
- 21:22There are these online companies that can hear destroy this.
- 21:24So no one gets this.
- 21:25So we don't get sued.
- 21:27And they will send it right and right to your door.
- 21:30They will.
- 21:31Jeepers.
- 21:31And you take a couple of these apparently before you want to giddy up, go and you'll
- 21:36be just sharing.
- 21:36You're shaking your head.
- 21:38No, I don't know.
- 21:39These these online things.
- 21:41I'm who would.
- 21:42Well, maybe there is people out there that enjoy doing the online thing so they don't
- 21:46have to walk into a place.
- 21:47The anonymity, I would say, is a driver.
- 21:50Guys are desperate and insecure.
- 21:52So they would.
- 21:53But you walk into tensegrity.
- 21:55You're literally going to see a doctor.
- 21:56It's private.
- 21:58It's confidential.
- 21:59And you know what you're getting and getting ready to put in your body.
- 22:03So you mentioned that people come to you and say they don't feel good.
- 22:06What is the initiator for them to go beyond their primary care physician to come to your
- 22:11space and say, I don't feel good?
- 22:13And what is that process like when they walk through the door?
- 22:15So I think there is a barrier to care right now.
- 22:19And really, the entire United States and primary care.
- 22:23There's just one.
- 22:25And speaking from a primary care provider and being a primary care provider, it's a
- 22:29barrier that we have 20 minutes max to be with our patients.
- 22:32And we're trying to cover their list of 15 things that they have wrong with them.
- 22:37Figure out what we're going to do with all those 15 things.
- 22:40Plus, we're supposed to talk about their health and what they can do to make
- 22:43themselves better.
- 22:44So I think timing wise, there's just not that time for the conversation.
- 22:48And then the other piece is that I think a lot of primary care providers right now
- 22:52are not taught hormone health or even wellness.
- 22:57And that's a sad thing to say.
- 22:58It really is.
- 22:59But I'll be honest with you.
- 23:00We get very, very little training in nutrition in medical school.
- 23:05We get very, very little training in hormone health in medical school.
- 23:09I actually recently had a few residents rotate through my office with us.
- 23:14And I asked them specifically about women's health.
- 23:17But it's really the same thing for men's health.
- 23:19And I said, how much did you get in hormone health in medical school and
- 23:25residency so far?
- 23:26And they look at me with like these wide open eyes like, I don't know.
- 23:29Uh, I think I saw a slide in a lecture and I'm like, seriously, and this is, this is
- 23:37what, this is who these are our upcoming physicians that are going to be giving us this care.
- 23:42So I think one is providers willing to talk to people about these things and time constraints.
- 23:49Because if you walk into your primary care and you say, I'm tired, I don't feel good,
- 23:53they'll be like, okay, let's do some labs.
- 23:55But they're also limited to a certain extent, or they think they're limited to what your
- 24:00insurance will cover.
- 24:01So that's another limiting factor too.
- 24:04Even a vitamin D level isn't typically covered by insurance.
- 24:06And vitamin D here in Maine, for example, is, we find vitamin D levels that are essentially
- 24:12zero and vitamin D is so important for so many processes in the body.
- 24:16So I could go on forever about that, but.
- 24:18Can I go back to a question?
- 24:19So there are the mass market pills for the guys.
- 24:22Back to that.
- 24:23No, I'm, I get a serious question.
- 24:26Is there anything on the market for women?
- 24:28No.
- 24:29And that's the problem.
- 24:30See, it was a good question after all, Stan.
- 24:32It was a good question.
- 24:33I like that leap.
- 24:35But it's a point.
- 24:36Based on what you're describing, guys, okay, I got an issue and I could, I could hear this
- 24:41talk right now in the gym, in the locker room.
- 24:43Well, just go get this pill and you're going to be just fine.
- 24:46Okay.
- 24:46Well, what if it happens to your spouse?
- 24:47But you know what?
- 24:48Even those little pills aren't treating the root problem.
- 24:51Right.
- 24:52They're just increasing blood flow.
- 24:54So we've already dispelled the myth about what the guys are going through, but there's
- 24:58nothing for women except for now there's HRT?
- 25:01Yes.
- 25:02Yes.
- 25:02And it's huge.
- 25:04It's life changing.
- 25:04Truly life changing.
- 25:05On behalf of all of the men who want to be happily married and dealing with this problem,
- 25:10I can imagine they are thanking you.
- 25:12They are.
- 25:14And then they're coming in because they have to keep up with their wives.
- 25:17So the wives come in feeling like crap.
- 25:19They're scared because their marriage is in trouble because they, you know, they never
- 25:23want to have S-E-X anymore.
- 25:25Am I allowed to say that?
- 25:26I don't think we'll get sued if you say sex.
- 25:28No.
- 25:29They don't want to have sex anymore.
- 25:30Most of our listeners are eight.
- 25:31Okay.
- 25:31Thank God.
- 25:33So, so they're sad.
- 25:35They cry when they come in and, and all of this stuff.
- 25:38And I tell them, I'm like, listen, I'm on the pellets.
- 25:41I'm telling you right now, it's life changing.
- 25:44You're going to be chasing him around.
- 25:46He's going to be so happy.
- 25:47He's going to come in here because he's got to learn how to keep up with you.
- 25:50And that's exactly what happens.
- 25:51I'm sorry.
- 25:52I wear headphones for a living and I've lost some of my hearing.
- 25:55It really sounded like a moment ago you said, quote, I'm on the pellets.
- 26:01Yes, that's me.
- 26:02Hormone replacement pellets.
- 26:04They're pellets?
- 26:05Yes.
- 26:06That's one form.
- 26:06The ones I have are.
- 26:07What'd you say?
- 26:08They're what?
- 26:08One form.
- 26:09Oh, I thought you said fun form.
- 26:11And I was very, well, based on what Sharon's describing, I'm not going to disagree.
- 26:16I know.
- 26:16But it's a whole, whole new encyclopedia of terminology that I did not have access to
- 26:20prior to today's conversation.
- 26:23Life changing.
- 26:24You also do regenerative medicine.
- 26:26Yes.
- 26:26I know something about this because of one of my other jobs and hearing about it and
- 26:30talking about it, where you literally take parts of your body that are getting the job
- 26:35done and extricate it and then put it in other parts of your body that need the help.
- 26:39I mean, that's one way of describing it.
- 26:42Okay.
- 26:42And it works?
- 26:43For different things.
- 26:45Yes.
- 26:45So we can spin down your blood.
- 26:47So what you're talking about is take, well, one of the things we can take your blood,
- 26:50we can spin it down to the platelets, which have all the growth factors in it, and then
- 26:54we can either microneedle it or inject it into things like your skin, your scalp for
- 27:00hairy growth.
- 27:01I'm sorry.
- 27:01Could you go back to that last point you just made?
- 27:05Hairy growth.
- 27:07I went to high school with a guy named Hairy Growth.
- 27:09He was really a sweet guy.
- 27:13Yes.
- 27:13So all of the growth factors can help trigger the stem cells to start working again.
- 27:20So we have stem cells that encircle the follicle, the hair follicle, and if they reawaken, they
- 27:26can help regrow the hair.
- 27:27So that's the premise behind the growth factors.
- 27:31I need to know a couple of things.
- 27:33One-
- 27:33Go on, say.
- 27:34I need to know a whole lot of things.
- 27:36First of all, apparently, my social media algorithms are not what you think they are,
- 27:40so I'm going to have to adjust that.
- 27:41Secondly, this sounds like it's insanely successful and you're doing so many good things for so
- 27:48many people, but I'm sure it was not an easy path to get to where you are today.
- 27:53Yeah.
- 27:53It's been a trip getting to where Tenacity is now.
- 27:57We started in a closet.
- 27:57Yeah.
- 27:58We started very small.
- 28:00And I think some of the obstacles we've gotten to is, number one, a lot of the stuff that
- 28:05we're talking about, even from Botox, injectables, HRT, regenerative medicine, it wasn't, especially
- 28:12in central northern Maine, it just wasn't really a thing.
- 28:15Nobody was really doing it.
- 28:16There might have been one or two people kind of dabbling in it, but it wasn't a big thing.
- 28:21And now you see medical spas, you know, kind of popping up everywhere.
- 28:24So we were kind of one of the first ones, especially in central Maine, to start providing
- 28:29some of this.
- 28:30So even just getting the word out was a big hurdle, explaining to people what all these
- 28:35things are, and even being on the forefront of what we can bring to Maine that will help
- 28:40our community.
- 28:42That's a big thing for me because we may not be the first ones to jump on to some of the
- 28:47crazier things out there in aesthetic and medicine and wellness medicine.
- 28:50There's a lot out there.
- 28:52And Mainers are typically a little bit more, um, how do you?
- 28:56I think the polite word is reserved.
- 28:57Reserved.
- 28:58Yes.
- 28:58That's a great word.
- 29:00So Mainers are reserved.
- 29:01They're not going to jump on the first thing.
- 29:02So that, that's definitely an obstacle that I've come across.
- 29:06But the other thing is that after 20 years of listening to what people, what concerned
- 29:10people and what people want or need to feel better, that, that was a great place to start.
- 29:17I'm very glad that I had that 20 years of primary care medicine.
- 29:20And I still go back to it every single day because it's even reading through the blood
- 29:24work.
- 29:24It just keeps my brain going a million miles an hour.
- 29:27So it's been good.
- 29:28It's been a challenge.
- 29:29Bold question.
- 29:30And don't have Sharon snap me like a dry twig if I ask if I say this wrong.
- 29:34I wonder if in the medical community in reserved Eastern, Central, Northern Maine, there might
- 29:41be some people that would look at what you do and think it's a, it's a, it's vanity.
- 29:45Whereas you've just explained to us, it's not, it's not cosmetology, it's science.
- 29:53It's not beauty.
- 29:54It's making you feel good inside and outside.