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Designer Dater · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: Alrighty you guys ready, we're going to Southington for second
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  Speaker 1: date update. Maggie's on the line. Hey Maggie, Hi, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Welcome to second date Update. I
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  Speaker 1: hope we can help you out. Obviously, you went on
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  Speaker 1: a great first date. Tell us about it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so we went on a great first date. We
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  Speaker 2: did meet on Tinder, which can always be kind of dangerous,
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  Speaker 2: but he took me out to dinner. We had a
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  Speaker 2: really good time. We had like so much in common,
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  Speaker 2: and there was a lot of flirting. So I am
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  Speaker 2: I know, hence why I was shocked that I got ghosted.
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  Speaker 3: Did you reach out to him after the date at all?
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  Speaker 2: So? Yeah, I texted him a couple of times, and
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  Speaker 2: then I called and left him a message like thanking
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  Speaker 2: him and suggested that we go out together again. And
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  Speaker 2: it's just been over a week and he never responded.
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  Speaker 3: Hmm okay, and there was obvious flirting.
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  Speaker 2: You're telling me, oh yeah, good time.
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  Speaker 4: Hi.
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  Speaker 5: Are there any parking lot activities after the date? If
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  Speaker 5: you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: What wouldn't you like to know?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So I guess that's a yes, Jeff.
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  Speaker 2: There was a little bit of parking lot activity.
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  Speaker 1: All right, all right, see there was Okay, Well then
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  Speaker 1: I misread that one, Maggie.
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  Speaker 3: I have no idea if you have a little parking
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  Speaker 3: lot love.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, maybe it was too much for him, But
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  Speaker 1: I think what we're gonna do is call up Cole
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  Speaker 1: and we're gonna ask him to be honest and tell
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  Speaker 1: us about the data. Are you ready to find out
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  Speaker 1: why you're getting ghosted?
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  Speaker 2: I am ready. Let's do it.
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  Speaker 3: She says.
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  Speaker 1: It was only a moderate amount of like heavy petting.
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  Speaker 6: In the I mean, aren't you supposed to leave him
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  Speaker 6: want more?
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  Speaker 3: I feel like moderate is a lot moderate.
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  Speaker 1: The moderate amount is a lot like moderate. Exactly. Hi
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  Speaker 1: is Cole there?
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  Speaker 3: Hey Cole, it's Courtney.
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  Speaker 5: It's Walmart Jeff.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, Cole, it's Savannah.
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  Speaker 3: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on
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  Speaker 3: the radio.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Well, you run something called.
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  Speaker 3: Second Date up.
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  Speaker 1: If somebody goes on a first date and they get
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  Speaker 1: ghosted after that, they call us and we try to
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  Speaker 1: get answers.
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  Speaker 3: So you're on second Date update this morning.
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  Speaker 4: All right, well, good morning, good good morning.
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  Speaker 3: He all right, let me refresh your memory, Cole.
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  Speaker 1: Maggie called us, said you guys met on tinder went
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  Speaker 1: out for a great date. I guess you guys had
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  Speaker 1: a lot in common. You went to a restaurant. She
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  Speaker 1: said there was a lot of flirting.
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  Speaker 5: Some heavy petting in the parking lot too.
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  Speaker 1: She said it was a moderate amount of things happening
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  Speaker 1: in the parking lot, and to me, moderate is a lot.
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  Speaker 6: But whatever, I'll talk about that later.
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  Speaker 1: So, Cole, you're ghosting her. She's reached out to you
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  Speaker 1: for a second date. Do you want to tell us
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  Speaker 1: was it? Was it too much action for you in
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  Speaker 1: the parking lot or why are you ghosting her?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah? It was kind of weird, to be honest, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: Right when we got to the restaurant, I I put
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  Speaker 4: her person on the ground and she flipped out. It
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  Speaker 4: was kind of weird.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So you mean, like, so when she
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  Speaker 1: walks into the restaurant on you hold her purse, did
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  Speaker 1: you pull out the chair or something or what?
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  Speaker 3: I don't get it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I don't want to put the person
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  Speaker 4: on the table, so I put the purse on the ground.
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  Speaker 4: And when I put on the ground, it was it
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  Speaker 4: was like mayhem. I mean, she was she was rude
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  Speaker 4: and she she snapped at me just because I guess
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  Speaker 4: I put the purse on the ground. I was just
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  Speaker 4: trying to, uh, just trying, I guess, trying to be
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  Speaker 4: a gentleman. But she has the waitress to bring another
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  Speaker 4: chair over, which I was kind of confused about. But
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  Speaker 4: the chair was for the purse.
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  Speaker 7: Oh wait, okay, col let me ask you a question.
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  Speaker 7: You might not know the answer to this, but was
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  Speaker 7: this a designer purse by any chance?
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  Speaker 4: I mean it had a big, a big C on it,
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  Speaker 4: so maybe I guess.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, so can we bring her away?
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  Speaker 3: Can I just ask quick before we bring Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I think Savannah does Cole, is this the only reason
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  Speaker 1: you're ghosting hers?
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  Speaker 3: Because she freaked out because you put her purse on
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  Speaker 3: the floor? You didn't?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, definitely was it was a little It
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  Speaker 4: was a little design to be honest, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Before we bring her on, Savannah, do you want to
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  Speaker 1: tell them what you think the possible why she freaked
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  Speaker 1: out or not?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: So I think what happened was when you have a
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  Speaker 7: designer bag, you have to treat them with love and
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  Speaker 7: with care because they're very expensive, and so when you
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  Speaker 7: put a two thousand dollars person on the floor.
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  Speaker 6: It's very you know, disrespectful.
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  Speaker 7: To the person that you know worked hard and made
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  Speaker 7: the money to afford that person.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I mean, in Cole's defense, I can't tell
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  Speaker 5: a TJ Max purse, you know, from a channel purse
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  Speaker 5: or whatever it's called.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, first of all, it's it's Chanel.
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  Speaker 7: But then additionally there's some people like Courtney who think
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  Speaker 7: it's bad luck to put a person on the floor.
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  Speaker 1: Gotch, I don't have a designer bag. I just don't
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  Speaker 1: put it on the Can we bring her in and
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  Speaker 1: see if that Maggie, are you there?
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  Speaker 2: I am here. Thank you Savannah for defending my honor.
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  Speaker 6: Is it a designer for guys? What I'm here for?
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  Speaker 3: Is it a designer bag?
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  Speaker 2: It is a Chanel bag. I'm sorry, I remember that
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  Speaker 2: I snapped. I just I did work hard to afford that.
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  Speaker 2: So I really was like triggered by going on the ground.
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  Speaker 2: But I will not do it again.
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  Speaker 1: Might I?
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  Speaker 7: Might I make a suggestion? Oh boy, no, it's it's
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  Speaker 7: actually really good suggestion.
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  Speaker 6: So I have this thing. I bought it on Amazon.
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  Speaker 6: It's like a purse holder.
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  Speaker 7: It's like a hook, so you put it to the
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  Speaker 7: top of the table and then you can actually hang
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  Speaker 7: your bag on it. This way you don't have to
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  Speaker 7: ask for a share, and it doesn't have to go
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  Speaker 7: on the floor, and I keep it in my nice bags.
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  Speaker 6: So this way we don't have this Issuhow.
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  Speaker 2: Actually that's a great suggestion, right.
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  Speaker 3: You know, Maggie, Savannah will send you the link for that.
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  Speaker 5: But so are you?
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  Speaker 1: Are you officially apologizing to Cole for snapping at him?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I am sorry for snapping at you.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry for not knowing. But you know, next time, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: next time I see the big sea on it, I
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  Speaker 4: know not to put it on the ground.
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  Speaker 3: Does that mean there's.
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  Speaker 2: Go see we both learned.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, since he says next time, here's what I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna do. I'm gonna offer to pick up the tab
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  Speaker 1: for the second date if you both agree to go.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe don't bring a designer handbag with you for the
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  Speaker 1: second date, And.
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  Speaker 6: So we'll just get the purse hook and see how
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  Speaker 6: it goes.
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  Speaker 3: You guys want to a second date and we'll pick
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  Speaker 3: up the tab.
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  Speaker 2: I would love to.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, let's do it.