
32. Why You Sabotage Everything Good (And How to Finally Stop)
You finally got what you wanted. The relationship is healthy. The opportunity arrived. Everything you've been working toward is happening.
And then you feel it. The urge. To pick a fight. To quit before you're fired. To push them away. To destroy it with your own hands.
Afterwards, you look at the wreckage: "Why do I always do this? Why do I destroy everything good? What is wrong with me?"
Nothing is wrong with you. But something is happening. Your nervous system believes destroying it yourself is safer than waiting for it to be taken. It's called self-sabotage.
This episode reveals why you…
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