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- Blake Holman: Welcome to Lead with Clarity. This is a space for leaders who want to grow without losing themselves in the process. Each episode is a short reflection on leadership, influence, and the inner work that shapes how we show up for others. It's not hype, not noise, just clear thinking for the journey of leading well. Today's episode is entitled, Profit from the Miss, How Smart Leaders Turn Setbacks into Strategy. Here we go. There's a particular kind of pain that comes with failure. Not just the sting of the outcome, but the weight of wondering whether you're the kind of person who learns from it or the kind who just keeps moving without really examining what happened. Dale Carnegie gave us something simpler, deceptively simple. He said, the successful man will profit from his mistakes and try again in a different way. 12 words. And most of us nod when we read them or hear them, of course, try again differently. Got it. Here's what I've seen in boardrooms and coaching sessions and postmortems that happen far too late. The trying again part is usually fine. It's the differently part that gets skipped. We are creatures of habit, especially under pressure. When something fails, our first instinct is not to redesign our approach, it's to re-execute it harder. More effort, more intensity, same strategy, and we dress it up as perseverance. That is not what Dale Carnegie meant. He was talking about intelligent iteration. the kind of adaptation that requires you to actually stop, look at what happened, and ask the harder question, what assumption did I hold that turned out to be wrong? Not just what action failed. The action is usually downstream from a belief, maybe a market assumption or a people assumption or an assumption about timing, maybe even about your own capabilities. That's where the real learning lives. The common misread here is that most people treat failure as a performance issue. They failed because they didn't try hard enough, they didn't execute well enough, they didn't push far enough, and those are all real. And the correction is oftentimes more of the same. But Carnegie's not talking about effort. He's talking about approach, strategy, design. The leader who profits from a mistake is not the one who grits their teeth harder. It's the one who gets genuinely curious about what they got wrong at the level of thinking, not just doing. So reframe it this way. Failure is data. Expensive data sometimes. Think about the Amazon Fire Phone. Anyway, uncomfortable data, almost always, but data nonetheless. The question isn't whether you failed. Every serious leader has. The question is whether you extracted the lesson with enough precision to actually change course or whether you just changed your mood and went back in. Back on the Amazon Fire Phone, while that was a big failure for Amazon, it did give us Amazon Alexa. which has been a very, very creative product to the Amazon brand. Anyway, there's a practice here. It doesn't require a lot of time. After any significant miss, ask yourself three things. What did I believe that turned out not to be true? What would I need to believe differently to approach this problem again? And what's the smallest possible test I could run to verify my new assumption before I go all in? That last question matters more than most leaders give it credit for. We want to move fast. We want to recover publicly and loudly and with visible momentum. But the quieter, more deliberate recalibration is what separates leaders who grow from leaders who cycle through the same hard lessons for decades. Carry this forward. The next time something doesn't go the way you planned, resist the immediate urge to double down or move on. Sit with it just long enough to ask what it revealed. Not about your effort, but about your thinking. Carnegie was not celebrating failure. He was celebrating the leaders who refused to let it go to waste. Profit from your mistakes, not as a platitude, but as a practice. The most durable leaders are not the ones who failed the least. They're the ones who extracted the most from every failure they had. It's not a consolation. That is a competitive advantage.