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Lauren's messy work situation and our advice · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: It's what's up, boring?
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  Speaker 2: Hey, good morning guys.
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  Speaker 3: How are you good?
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  Speaker 2: How are you?
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  Speaker 1: I understand you need some advice, Yes I do.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm driving to work right now, and today's the
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  Speaker 2: day whether I get it written up on a final
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  Speaker 2: or I get told I'm doing well. Here's here's a fitch. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I work in sales and we have one on one
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  Speaker 2: every month, and if you don't get you know, I
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  Speaker 2: have a certain percentage of it, you get written up.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't. I haven't hit my goals within the past
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  Speaker 2: couple of months, but no one really has. If I've
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  Speaker 2: maybe two people out of twenty. But I feel like
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  Speaker 2: they're trying to fast shack me out of the door.
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  Speaker 2: Two weeks ago, I somehow I did something in my
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  Speaker 2: brain and I'm now getting harder, making more sales than
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  Speaker 2: even a top hitters. So if I come in today
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  Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, you're on track to ninety eight
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  Speaker 2: percent or ninety nine percent, and they still write me up,
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  Speaker 2: I know why. And it's because the guy that highly
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  Speaker 2: my boss, was talking to me for weeks before he
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  Speaker 2: hired me in a way I'm married man should not
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  Speaker 2: talk to someone. And when I got hired on and started.
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  Speaker 2: My first day, I found out he was married with
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  Speaker 2: two kids. So I feel like he's trying to bashack
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  Speaker 2: me out at the door. So I'm just wondering, what
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  Speaker 2: advice do you have for me?
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  Speaker 1: Boo? But that's a lot. Well, how long you been there?
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  Speaker 2: Six months?
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  Speaker 1: Okay? And how was he? Uh like, what did he
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  Speaker 1: say to you? What are the words he said to
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  Speaker 1: you that made it that it was inappropriate?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, texting me late at night, dirty things?
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow?
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  Speaker 1: And you responded how well?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I was into him at first, and then oh,
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  Speaker 2: then he became my boss and so I got to
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  Speaker 2: step back, and then I found out he was married,
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  Speaker 2: and then I definitely.
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  Speaker 1: But so now you're a liability for his personal life.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I'm feeling like. But if I wouldn't, maybe
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  Speaker 2: it's the non performing as well as he wanted me to.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm this and he's like, okay, would you didn't
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  Speaker 1: know that he was else before he was your boss
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  Speaker 1: and you know he was married? Did you did you
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  Speaker 1: actually hook up with him?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: But did you how did you respond to him as
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  Speaker 1: far as did you send him nudes or something inappropriate?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? Oh? Wow. So wait, have you ever like made
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  Speaker 2: comments to him like maybe he thinks you would tell
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  Speaker 2: his wife no. When we had my last one on one,
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  Speaker 2: I kind of snapped at him because I was in
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  Speaker 2: my one on one and I had walked out and
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  Speaker 2: I had like a notification on my phone and I
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  Speaker 2: saw that my dog was choking off plastic, and so
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  Speaker 2: I went in there to act to go home. I'll
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  Speaker 2: come my bag. I gotta go check on my dog.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, I would prefer you stay, and I said
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  Speaker 2: my dogs were important than any job that I have.
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  Speaker 2: I'm leaving. Tried to make me sit down and like,
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  Speaker 2: did your dog make it? Yeah, she's fine. She tore
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  Speaker 2: her all her bottom of her kindle up anyway. So
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  Speaker 2: if they break me up, should I just be like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: like you fire me, I'm your wife.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, Yeah, do you really want to? You're
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  Speaker 1: probably fine.
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  Speaker 3: I would just kind of wait and see how it
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  Speaker 3: goes today, because you may be building it up because
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  Speaker 3: of all your history. I mean, you said you're killing
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  Speaker 3: it right now, right so the media, you know, if
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  Speaker 3: you can just keep it as professional as possible, I
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  Speaker 3: know it's probably still super uncomfortable, but I think you
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  Speaker 3: did the right thing by cutting it off and you
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  Speaker 3: found out you was your boss.
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  Speaker 2: Oh for sure, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I would kind of wait and see how it knows today.
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  Speaker 1: That drama let us know. But also real quick when
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  Speaker 1: when you found out, when you got the promotion or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it stopped right like, there's no more. He
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  Speaker 1: knows that you're not into it, so he's not sort
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  Speaker 1: so he's kept it professional for six four or five months.
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  Speaker 1: He's kept a professional okay, And there's probably a work thing.
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  Speaker 1: It's probably a yeah, let us know what happens. Interesting
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  Speaker 1: interesting situation you're in more. Thanks for calling us, will
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  Speaker 1: I love you, Love you too. Thanks