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SHOULD YOU FORGIVE HIM ? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables, But because you didn't get it
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  Speaker 1: makes it a lot harder because it's that what if, what.
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  Speaker 2: If I tried it and was the best juiciest.
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  Speaker 3: This is what I think is happening, right, So what
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  Speaker 3: you just did is exactly what's happening. Is because you
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  Speaker 3: never experienced it, you're building this man up to something
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  Speaker 3: that's probably not going to even like he probably isn't
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  Speaker 3: even near the expectations of what you're building him up
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  Speaker 3: to be. And it's valid that you're building him up
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  Speaker 3: to that, like you're fantasizing over it, because this dick
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  Speaker 3: was huge and he took a long time to come.
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  Speaker 2: When you get my hand with the head. But the Relatables.
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  Speaker 3: Podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy, and
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  Speaker 3: my partner cried Oddie, usually mummy.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't know if we've ever said this. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like some people would not this, but Oddie Conrad Clark,
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  Speaker 2: Oh the full name, that's Otdi's middle name. Jake Mitchell
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  Speaker 2: Craig Mitchew.
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  Speaker 3: Quick backstory and my middle name for any new people here.
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  Speaker 3: And if you've forgotten, my mum went into labor. She
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  Speaker 3: was on the Central Coast. My dad was in work,
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  Speaker 3: so at work in Sydney hour and a half drive.
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  Speaker 3: I was a very late labor, two weeks late, so
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  Speaker 3: the label was forty five minutes.
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  Speaker 2: So I was born before when I got there. So
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  Speaker 2: they come in.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know why they do this to a drugged
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  Speaker 3: up like mother who's just given birth, but they say,
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  Speaker 3: what do you want to name your kid? So she
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  Speaker 3: spells Jake. She wants it to be Jake Mitchell Craig.
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  Speaker 3: It's Jake m I T H A L. Craig, And
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  Speaker 3: so I got I was like ten when the first
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  Speaker 3: time someone goes, that's such a weird way to spell
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  Speaker 3: your name, Like, is that Mitchellllen? I was like no,
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  Speaker 3: my mom SAIDs Mitchell. It's like she spelled your name wrong.
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  Speaker 3: That's crazy, and I look it up. She spelt it
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  Speaker 3: so fucking.
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  Speaker 2: She confirmed the story. Yeah, she's confirmed the story. And
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  Speaker 2: I've asked her what she was like, I just thought
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  Speaker 2: I spell it right. I was like, that's insane, that's insane,
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  Speaker 2: because I was gonna say, like, sure, your dad picked
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  Speaker 2: up on it, Like what's this in? Like, yeah, change it.
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  Speaker 2: We've been like the first month. I also actually I've
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  Speaker 2: asked my dad as well, like, what was going on there?
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  Speaker 2: Do you not double check something out there? Make sure
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  Speaker 2: you're you have to sign it. You have to sign
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  Speaker 2: my versitidiate. Your dad's that non chalant that he was
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  Speaker 2: probably like, yeah, he'll be ok yeah. He probably said
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  Speaker 2: is that right? And she goes yeah, and he was
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  Speaker 2: like okay, ah.
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  Speaker 1: But Jake, to start the episode off, I have a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of a quick question. Okay, how was driving
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  Speaker 1: Fran to recording?
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  Speaker 2: You know what's so funny is now you doing that
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  Speaker 2: has made me not want to accept it because I
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  Speaker 2: was gonna say, looks like the badies want the card
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  Speaker 2: of me named Fran.
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  Speaker 3: All right, and I turnswer your question. It was good,
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  Speaker 3: It's been great, and I enjoy driving her. I'm pissed
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  Speaker 3: that her name's Fran. I'm not gonna lie I wanted
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  Speaker 3: to Violet some one girl so bad? Well, and what
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  Speaker 3: the fuck happened?
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  Speaker 2: Bad? Is what's going on with you?
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  Speaker 1: I think you dug yourself a little bit of a
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  Speaker 1: hole because I pulled on the heart strings. So Jake
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  Speaker 1: got a new car and last episode we named it.
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  Speaker 1: I said Fran and Jake said violent and the problem
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  Speaker 1: with your one is the name Violet Sorongeale is kind
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  Speaker 1: of fitting for a poor GT.
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  Speaker 3: It's valid, valid, it's valid, it's vs vs V.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't believe it. I was reading these comments and
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking.
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  Speaker 3: I fully said in the episode audio, I'll even let
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  Speaker 3: you give the sub story as to why you want
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  Speaker 3: it to be named that name, because I'm so confident
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  Speaker 3: that the baddies will rally behind fourth.
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  Speaker 1: But the timing is wrong because Fourth Wing hasn't came
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  Speaker 1: out yet. So I was gonna say, let's let it
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  Speaker 1: brew for another week or two.
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  Speaker 2: True, we can give it some time and see if the.
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  Speaker 1: Fourth Wing baddies congregate to the main episode and they
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  Speaker 1: all come in and support you.
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  Speaker 2: Because it is your car as of right now. Her
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  Speaker 2: name is France. But how can we let her choose
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  Speaker 2: the car? How can we let her choose? What's a
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  Speaker 2: way that you can let the car choose between Fran
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  Speaker 2: and violent.
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like you get like two names and close
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  Speaker 1: your eyes.
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  Speaker 2: Which way the card? I just don't even I don't
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  Speaker 2: even know I mean to do it.
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  Speaker 3: Some baddies, if you have any ideas of how we
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  Speaker 3: can somehow get the car to cheers.
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  Speaker 2: Then I'll do anything to change it anyway. Talking about driving. Actually, so.
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  Speaker 3: Today is actually a Wednesday for us, right, We would
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  Speaker 3: normally be recording this on a Monday, but on Monday
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  Speaker 3: when we got to the studio there was people chopping
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  Speaker 3: down trees for hours, so we wrote that day off.
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  Speaker 2: But so I have a story for everyone.
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  Speaker 3: I just had to preface this to like I'm about
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  Speaker 3: to say, a couple of days ago when I drove here.
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  Speaker 2: So I was diagnosed with celiac.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, you may be the only one that's
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  Speaker 4: understanding what's about abe.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe Okay, So I was diagnosed with here like a
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  Speaker 2: couple of weeks ago, and actually literally tomorrow I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to see a specialist to get a camera up. My
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  Speaker 2: boutet is that tomorrow. No, I'm not getting the camera,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm going to see her to like talk to her,
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  Speaker 2: and then she's probably gonna book me in for one
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  Speaker 2: down my stomach and one up my bum so hopefully
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  Speaker 2: they use different cameras, get hopefully get two up there
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  Speaker 2: if you really want. Okay, I mean, hey, I will
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  Speaker 2: say to her while I'm asleep, you may as well
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  Speaker 2: do it twice, just to be sure please. But so
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  Speaker 2: I was doning with Celiac and from my doctor and
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  Speaker 2: then I'll get like he's just very sure, so he said,
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  Speaker 2: eat Celiacs, I eat gluten free. So I have been,
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  Speaker 2: and it's been doing good. And then like for the
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  Speaker 2: couple of weeks.
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  Speaker 3: That I've been eating strictly gluten free beforehand, I was
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  Speaker 3: having the stomach issues and I was eating low food MAT,
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  Speaker 3: which I I've been talking about. And so the reason
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  Speaker 3: I did low form MAP, which is because like a
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  Speaker 3: fucking the toileting, like I just the irregular bower movements
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  Speaker 3: and just like how urgent it was was just getting
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  Speaker 3: to me. So I went straight from low for MAP
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  Speaker 3: to just gluten free. So I added back like garlic.
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  Speaker 2: And shit and stuff. So I don't know if it's
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  Speaker 2: affecting me or not. It's been good.
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  Speaker 3: Then I have days where it's a bit iffy, but
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  Speaker 3: you know, And so Monday morning, I take a shit
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  Speaker 3: when I wake up right, and I always wake up
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  Speaker 3: with enough time to like take a shit, and I
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  Speaker 3: all good, did like maybe a quarter of what a
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  Speaker 3: normal size shit would be, okay, And then I get
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  Speaker 3: to it when I'm about to get out the door,
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  Speaker 3: and I was thinking, like, I definitely haven't, like I've
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  Speaker 3: got more in me, but I don't need to go,
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  Speaker 3: So like, you know, obviously I don't need to go.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to force it out. So I hop
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  Speaker 2: in the car and I'm driving, and it's thirty minutes
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  Speaker 2: from my place to the freeway and I'm driving, and
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  Speaker 2: then it just like comes hard and fast like it
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  Speaker 2: used to, and I thought, shit, what the fuck did
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  Speaker 2: I eat? I was so pissed off.
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  Speaker 3: And then like the anxiety of remembering what it was
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  Speaker 3: like for it coming hard and fast made it worse.
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  Speaker 3: And so then I'm like busting. I pull into a
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  Speaker 3: service station and take shit, Oh all right, you made it,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like sick, Okay, let's go. And then
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  Speaker 3: leave a service station, and I'm kind of again feeling
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  Speaker 3: the feeling of like why.
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  Speaker 2: Do I feel like there's still some in me? I
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  Speaker 2: was like, you know what it is? What it is.
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  Speaker 3: I know there's a couple stops in the freeway that
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  Speaker 3: it's fine, like I if I have to go, I
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  Speaker 3: have to go, I'll stop like places to be, I'll
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  Speaker 3: start stop at one of the rest stops. And so
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  Speaker 3: I'm driving and I'm feeling okay, and then I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: it's sort of go. I go past the rest stop
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  Speaker 3: and I make this like decision not to go, and
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  Speaker 3: then as soon as I go past the rest stop,
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  Speaker 3: it's the last one from now until basically here, like
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  Speaker 3: the next toilet is here at the studio, and it's
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  Speaker 3: like maybe forty minutes, and so it's coming and I'm like, fuck,
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  Speaker 3: holy shit it and it starts like proper be that
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  Speaker 3: gurgly stomach thing where and I'm like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 3: Like I'm having the thoughts of I'm gonna have to
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  Speaker 3: pull over on the freeway and do it in front
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  Speaker 3: of all these cars, like squat in front of all
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  Speaker 3: these cars, like I refuse to do it in my pants,
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  Speaker 3: And so I put my cruise control there that I
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  Speaker 3: have it, I stick that shit up to like one twenty.
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  Speaker 3: I don't ever really usually go at one ten, one twenty,
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like weaving in the aile of.
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  Speaker 2: Traffic, and I'm thinking like, okay, okay, what is the
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  Speaker 2: best option here? What am I doing? What am I doing?
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  Speaker 3: And I wasn't getting off at my normal stop. I
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  Speaker 3: was going past to take my car to the mechanic. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: so I was getting off at a different freeway stop.
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  Speaker 3: So I go past the normal one Gosford. I go past,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like, fuck, it.
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  Speaker 2: Gets really really really bad, and so I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I'm making a decision. I was gonna pull over on
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  Speaker 2: the side of the freeway take a shit in front
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  Speaker 2: of everyone. But I see an exit. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: where it goes, like Cowgar or something. It's called like Cowguart.
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  Speaker 2: Never been on this random one.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, pull off and then I'm pull off and then
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  Speaker 3: my maps on my Apple car plane now that I
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  Speaker 3: have it, lucky, I pull off and it's like a
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  Speaker 3: colomber up the road is like this walk about Wildlife Park, right,
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  Speaker 3: So it's not the normal one.
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  Speaker 2: It's just like a different walk about Wildlife Park. And
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  Speaker 2: I was like, sick. Hopefully it's open. Hopefully it does
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  Speaker 2: a toilet drive up closed, but no one's there. I
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  Speaker 2: guess what's around bushes. Yeah, so I pull in. And
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  Speaker 2: then the day before all right, the day before this,
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  Speaker 2: I cleaned out the gets and there was a roll
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  Speaker 2: of toilet paper and I was like, I'll just take
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  Speaker 2: this inside. And then I thought, you know what what
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  Speaker 2: if I just randomly need toilet paper in my new car.
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  Speaker 3: Put it in my new car, so I have toilet paper.
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  Speaker 3: So I go on into the bush, all right, I
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  Speaker 3: take a shit.
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  Speaker 2: I wipe. As i'm wiping, I.
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  Speaker 3: Hear a car pulling up all right, and I was like, fuck,
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  Speaker 3: I just start scramble wiping. As I'm walking out of
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  Speaker 3: the bush, a car pulls up to this gate to
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  Speaker 3: unlock it to go into the world wipe, walk about
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  Speaker 3: park or whatever. He kind of glances at me like
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  Speaker 3: he doesn't know what's going on, and he probably thinks
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  Speaker 3: like this guy had to piss or shit whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Who knows. I wasn't worried about that. So I get
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  Speaker 2: in the car and I'm like, fuck it, let's just
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  Speaker 2: get out of here. I pull out, go oh, this
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  Speaker 2: is the fuck bitottie. I pull out, I like, look
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  Speaker 2: at the guy and go past. And then as I'm
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  Speaker 2: driving out, there's a lady waiting for someone. And I
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  Speaker 2: didn't see her as I went in, so she won
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  Speaker 2: one hundred percent nos that I just pulled in to
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  Speaker 2: take a shit. And as I drive out, she's looking at.
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  Speaker 3: Me like this, oh really, And I was like she
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  Speaker 3: was like blending into the bushes and I just went
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  Speaker 3: and took a ship when she.
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  Speaker 2: Was there, What was the distance between where you were
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  Speaker 2: shitting at her?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe like twenty yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. In my head, I was thinking like one hundred
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  Speaker 2: or two hundred, and I was like twenty meters.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's probably like this guy doesn't give a single fuck.
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  Speaker 3: No, I didn't see her in my waiting because I
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  Speaker 3: was so focused. It was like a weird little car park.
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  Speaker 3: But and I just thought like, oh God, my Lord
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  Speaker 3: and Savior. I can't believe I found this place.
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  Speaker 2: And I kind of what it was nice to shit
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  Speaker 2: in the bushy. I haven't done it since we can.
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  Speaker 2: It's a good feeling.
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  Speaker 1: You kind of manifest the problems though by putting the
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  Speaker 1: toilet paper in your.
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  Speaker 2: Car, and I also solved the issue. But I feel
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  Speaker 2: like it told your body that we can do this.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, I was like, fuck, when you gotta go,
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  Speaker 2: you gotta go.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, Okay, I hate I hate talking about poo
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  Speaker 3: for any longer than we need to, but it is fine.
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  Speaker 3: I said this to bestie Beth yesterday, right, and she said,
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  Speaker 3: I need to ask you this, and I wasn't going to,
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  Speaker 3: but it just fits.
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  Speaker 2: We got onto the conversation somehow. I can't remember how,
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  Speaker 2: but men have hairy bumbs, okay, And so I was
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  Speaker 2: saying to Beth, I might've just randomly, because we're super
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  Speaker 2: comfortable each other, just started talking about it. I was like, oh, yeah, So,
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  Speaker 2: how's like sometimes because men have such harry bums, like
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  Speaker 2: the hair down there, it gets a bit knotted sometimes,
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  Speaker 2: you know, which is kind of like you expect it dingleberries.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and like dingle berries like create some knots, right,
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  Speaker 3: And so I said, how's probably like five times in
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  Speaker 3: my life this has happened. Is I start taking a
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  Speaker 3: ship and there's a knot but it's between hairs on
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  Speaker 3: opposite sides of my cheeks?
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  Speaker 2: Five times? I reckon, Like five times in my life
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  Speaker 2: this has happened. It's happened to me. She said, I
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  Speaker 2: need to ask you, She said, Jake, I don't think
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  Speaker 2: that's a normal experience. You need to ask God. It's happened.
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  Speaker 1: I reckon like once, okay, And I thought like it
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  Speaker 1: felt like my undies were stuck to my ears still.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, you did you find out by
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  Speaker 2: taking a ship? I think I sat down. I hadn't
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  Speaker 2: like tried to take the shit.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And then I was like and it felt like
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  Speaker 1: my undies were still stuck to my like pants, and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, what's going on here?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I said, what happens is natural? Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, good,
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad that's happened to you, because she said, I
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  Speaker 2: don't think that's a normal man experience, and I think
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  Speaker 2: it is because you find fail. I find out the
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  Speaker 2: hard way.
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  Speaker 3: I start shitting and I realized there's a nott there
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  Speaker 3: and I think, damn, this cleanup is going to be fucked.
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  Speaker 2: I need to have a shower. And then the annoying
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  Speaker 2: thing is when like it doesn't the knot doesn't come
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  Speaker 2: out from the pooh and when you wipe, you have
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  Speaker 2: to pull the knot out and it hurts. It hurts
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  Speaker 2: so much.
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  Speaker 1: So I also don't want to fucking think about your
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  Speaker 1: ass crack because you're like a very hairy.
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  Speaker 2: Man's pretty hairy, Like my bum's not a hairy, but
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  Speaker 2: in the crack it is. On that note, moving on, alright,
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  Speaker 2: bad is up?
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  Speaker 1: Next is I g question of the week, and the
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  Speaker 1: question being what's something you'll forgive once but never twice?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we're going to say whether or not
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  Speaker 3: it was worth forgiving them once as well.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, vallad to forgive them once?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I guess there's a lot of empathetic people
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  Speaker 1: in the world. Yeah, a lot of people can look
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  Speaker 1: over so and things meybe not so much. But let
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  Speaker 1: me start. What's something you forgive once but never twice
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  Speaker 1: leaving the toilet seat up?
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  Speaker 3: Ah, I think it's valid to forgive once. I also
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to be I hope this doesn't come
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  Speaker 3: across the toxic. I also think it's valid to forgive
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  Speaker 3: it multiple times, mum, because you gotta think about it
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  Speaker 3: this way. Also, this is coming from a man that
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  Speaker 3: puts toward seat down every.
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  Speaker 2: Time, right, Yeah, of course, so genuinely.
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  Speaker 3: And here's the thing is, it's actually not I have
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  Speaker 3: to admit it's not for Beth. It just just so
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  Speaker 3: happens to be lucky that it also feels like it's
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  Speaker 3: for Beth. But the reason I put the toilet set
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  Speaker 3: down is because when you flush a toilet, particles go everywhere.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to know my toothbrush.
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  Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say you never know
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  Speaker 1: when you're like waiting for a couple of seconds, you
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  Speaker 1: need those seconds when you've got to sit down and
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  Speaker 1: shit the poop particles.
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  Speaker 2: I always close it.
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  Speaker 3: But you have to think about this, like people have habits,
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  Speaker 3: right not to give excuses, but kind of to give excuses.
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  Speaker 3: Most men leave the toilet seed up every single time
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  Speaker 3: they go to the toilet. Now, habits can be broken,
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  Speaker 3: but I think forgiving them more than once is fair.
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  Speaker 2: I would give three strikes, and you're out for that one, okay,
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  Speaker 2: and then like what's the out, as in like we're done,
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  Speaker 2: get the fuck out of my house, Like we're done.
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  Speaker 1: Look, there's not a deal breaker, but yeah, it can't
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  Speaker 1: be a deal breaker. Also, I think it took me
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  Speaker 1: a while to get the muscle memory to do it
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: because also I don't do it at my house because
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: I don't want to it.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: So you still probably don't have it. Do it in cases,
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: but your house the only person that use that basmas exactly. Yeah,
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: but the casses you remember to do it. So when
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: you live together, do you think you remember.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: To do it? Yeah? Okay, someone else is like, there
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: where's my house? I'm like I don't care.
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: Okay, what's something you'll forgive once but never twice? A
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: bad outfit.
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: Ooh, I feel like that's a bit mean. I think
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: that's pretty mean. Yeah, what's wrong? Help them?
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, give a few tips, like he obviously thought, Oh,
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: some men don't care. Though, I was gonna say, like
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: if I put an outfit on and it looked like
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: shit and like you didn't give me more than two chances,
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: I actually tried.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: I feel like that's mean.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: But like some some men has put on like footy shorts,
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: some slides and tea and.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: I think that I think this is mean. I think
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: that's mean too.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: What's something you'll forgive once but never twice? Not making
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: me come first?
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: Whoa? Okay, look, I'm going to say valid, but I'm
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: also going to say not easy to do?
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I think it's definitely a challenging
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: thing to do. Can I have a quick question for
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: another one? Have you found the clip yet?
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: Just? Yes? No? No? Yes? No, yes, oh yes yes.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: I've always known where the clip, I've always known the clares.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: Everyone's getting mad at me in the comments talking about
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: it out of me lessons and stuff. Right, I'm not stupid.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: What's something you'll forgive once but never twice? Cheating first
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: time is a mistake. Second is a choice, but even
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: once is if he if he.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: Not valid at all. If you've been cheated on, don't
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: you dare take that man or woman back? That would
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: be my advice, Like, if you want to make a
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: choice and take them back, I'm not gonna judge you,
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: But if you were asking me for advice, I would say,
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: don't take them back. Yeah, I don't know. I'm a
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: pretty judgmental guy. I cannot judge that. Ah.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: Here's the thing I think I would also, Like, So
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: you got cheated on, but you wanted to forgive them.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: I think I would judge you because like, there's no
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: way I couldn't because I can't see myself forgiving that.
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: But then at the same time, I wouldn't be like,
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: we're not friends anymore.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: True.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: This might sound harsh, but so say you've been cheated
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: on and you forgive them and then there's shoes in
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: the relationship. At what point are you the problem?
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: It's a good question. I think that obviously for a
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: while there will be trust issues. But I think that
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: if someone gets cheated on and they've chosen to forgive
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: the person, then that means that you don't forfeit the
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: opportunity to bring it up. But you don't just get
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: to bring it up all the time. True, it's kind
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: of like if you do forgive, it's back to even
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: playing grounds.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you chose to forgive, unless you want to say
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: I personally think you can't come. To be fair, you've
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: got to say this is what you've got to say.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: I'll take that. If you really want to be with them,
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: I'll take you back. But you're not forgiven.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: So then you have free range to just bring it
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: up whenever you want. Maybe that's so, then way to
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: So then it's now back on the cheetah to be like, okay,
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: do I want to be with someone that's okay to
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: take me back?
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: But they're not going to forgive me. Is this going
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: to buy me?
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: So now every time you bring it up, you've basically
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: said I'm going to bring it up, and they're like,
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: if they stay with you, and that's their choice.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: He says something like, I don't know, can you bring
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: the bins in? Babe?
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: No?
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: You cheated? Yeah, no, you cheated. That's good, all right.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: What's what's something you'll forgive once but never twice? A
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: wet fart come on. To be fair, it's pretty valid.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: How were we talking though, like barley wet like stomach stomach?
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: Were I?
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Actually I can like a smelly fart's worse. Oh you
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: mean like dead skunk vibes. I would prefer a smelly
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: fat than a wet one.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: You're backon what's not my asshole? Though?
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: What do you mean like like, if you did one
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: and you had, I prefer you to do a wet one.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, for your sake, I thought we were talking about ourselves. Ourselves. Yeah,
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: I would preferred to a singing yeah, but like because.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: I would forgive you for or a wet one, but
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: a stinking dude, like I think I would if it
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: was coming from someone else, say you, I would prefer
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: you to.
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: Do a stinky one than a wet one, because if
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: you do a wet one, I would just be like,
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: this guy's gross.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Like this guy he doesn't have control, you know, he
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: doesn't have control.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: There we control. We both did wine in Bali went farts.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah. It took a while for me to trust
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: him again, even though I didn't feel sick at all.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Something was like, because I've gone to Bali every single year,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: something about this year the food was just extra dangerous
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: to the tummy.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: Yah. It was interesting. Like the year prior, I wasn't
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: bad at all.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: You did get sick ones no, and I like, my
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: stomach wasn't it obviously had a little bit of like
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: bubbly wobblies.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: But this time it was just a lot. Yeah, it
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: was a lot.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: I like, I didn't get sick at all in Bali,
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: but I definitely just the whole time, my stomach was
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: just fucking Yeah.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: I went to the doctor and told her about Bali
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: and she's like, she's like, it's well, you don't go
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: to Bali.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I was like, fuck off, what are you talking about it? Doctor? Yea,
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: because we can't proud of me for to.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: Go to bars like you cause this to yourself. And
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I was like, fucking hell what He's like, you shouldn't
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: go to Bali And I was like, all right, well,
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: fucking you're not.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Getting my service again.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Just cry okay, what's something you'll forgive once but never twice?
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: Ignoring my clit? What ignoring your clip? Yeah? What are
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: you ignoring it? What's it talking to you? Ignoring it?
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Choosing to just not do anything to it? Yeah?
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: Hey, man, I mean if you like just say to him,
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: fucking touch that clip, Like, I mean what most.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: Men most men will be like, yeah, but where is it? Hey?
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: Like, here's the thing, if if, if we've spent our
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: whole life in our body, Like, at what point do
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: we get a little bit of forgiveness for not knowing
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: where the clid is because we haven't spent a second
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: in your body?
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah? I think it's the effort of try. And everybody's
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: bodies are different.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Some people have big clits and big areas of stimulation,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: some very small and maybe.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: Invisible clitter from my experience, but at least trying. All Right,
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: what's something you'll forgive once but never twice? Asking what's
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: wrong after causing what's wrong? Kind of sick? I feel
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: that one's pretty valid. Yeah, I actually kind of valid
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: not to give forgive it twice.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: I can understand forgiving it once and being like, Okay,
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: see what's going on here? I saw someone wrote something
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: in here. I didn't write it down because it wasn't
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: actually an answer. But someone said most things can be
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: forgiven once, with the exception of some things. But so
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: most things can be forgiven once, but when it happens twice.
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: It's usually a pattern. It shows they haven't learned or
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: they don't care about. Yeah what it did to you?
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Interesting, what's something you'll forgive once but never twice. I
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: feel like this is the most valid one, him using
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: my expensive shampoo.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: Oi. There is a thing on the internet at the
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: moment about men using their girlfriends or partner's expensive shampoo,
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: and I have just discovered as to why they get
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: so angry about it. Because Beth just bought a new
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: shampoo and I swear she needs to get alone out
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: for that shit. How much we talk it the Shampoogie
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: buys is so expensive, like three hundred bucks.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: No, but like I think it's you know, in like
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: the hundred you know for some shampoo and conditioner. I
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: think it gets more expensive, But like for how much
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: my shampoo costs compared to how much she spends, that's insane.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: I spent thirty to get like a really good moisturizing
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: one because my hair went really dry.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: Like fuck, this is breaking, I think.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought that was a lot because I normally
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: buy the tender or one, but I needed one to
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: like rejuvenate my hair.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: I've looked at Cassy's ones and thought like this is
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: a dangerous game. Also, I've got so much power women's shampoo.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: So men's shampoo is like super simple branding for I
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: guess some simple minds, I guess.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: And women's shampoo is like heaps of It's like, that's
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: what I got. I didn't even know what line is
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: the brand to name? When I'm looking at best shampoo,
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: I don't even know which, Like, what's the actual brand called?
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: I have no idea. This is just a paragraph on
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: the fuck.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: It's just chemicals, and most girls hairs aren't all natural.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Got to keep those like colors looking the way they're
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: meant to go.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Why is women's shampoo so much expensive?
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: I think because of the amount of work they get
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: done to the hair to maintain that. There's a lot
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: more chemicals in it, I assume.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Also shampoo, pretty sure, that's just a scam. You meant
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: only like wash your hair like once a fortnight.
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: Apparently you're meant to not do it at all. What's
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: something you forgive once but never twice? Eating my leftovers
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: I've waited for all day.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Not forgive that, ever, I wouldn't forgive that once before
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: my brother was vegetarian and vegan. He used to eat
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: all the food in the fridge and I used to
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: hate it.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Really.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: See, here's the thing, like, when it's family on family,
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: you can just be disrespectful.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: What are they going to do a brother for eating
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: some food? So you know you can get away with
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: about giving him a couple knuckle sandwiches. That's sure, you're hungry.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: I got a couple sandwiches writing.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: This one's good. What's something you forget? What's something you
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: forgive once but never twice? Underestorating me?
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: Wait, let me do it again. What's something you forgive
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: once but never twice? Underestorating? Why can I say that word?
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: Underestimating me? Leave it all in, leave it all? How
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: I say that under underestimating I actually think fair. I
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: think that's a massive good one at a job. Yeah,
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: I understate me again. I feel like I want to
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: say that to someone one day. You know what, undrest
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: meate me again. Yeah, I'm not gonna say that.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: They're going to underestimate me. I'm going to deliver. They're
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: going to say, wow, you did a good job, and
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna say undress make me again?
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: A couple of knuckle sandwiches. I just mumbled my way through.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Oh, I got a story about this. What's something you'll
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: forgive once but never twice? Calling me by another name?
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: You're forgiving that? Oh no, I vaguely know this story.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: So after my first girlfriend, there was only a short period.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: I moved on relatively quickly, right, And it was like
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: a month or two in to my new relationship. I
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: think like there was a chance we had just started
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: like officially dating, and I just just like was talking
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: and I don't I don't even really remember the scenario,
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: but I just fucking said my ex girlfriend's name.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: I just caught her, my ex girlfriend, Like, what were
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: you doing? I think we were just in.
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: My room, just like kind of mucking around, you know,
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: like play wrestling or something.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: She was like play wrestling mateau was there. We won't
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: having sex. We won't having sex.
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: I would I would fully admit that we won't having
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: sex at that point in time. I wasn't very vocal
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: during sex, so there was no chance I could have
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: even done it.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: But I accidentally, just like.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: Mid conbo while we're doing something, like my mind must
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: have been occupied, I just like called a myx girlfriend's
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: name and I was like, fuck, I literally just like
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: hand up.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't even know what to do
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: right now. I was like, I'm so sorry. She was fine,
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: like we end up dating for years after two years
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: or something after that, but she was rattled fair and.
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: To be honest, fair, it is a sense of muscle memory. Yeah,
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: it's like a muscle everything. Beth has actually called me
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: her ex boyfriends name at start of our relationship.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: Really, it's way wait, I've got this subconscious mind.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Subconscious mind, not the unconscious mind, guys, no, because you
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: would be sleep.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: And when she did it, it was like because I
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: had done it, and I know, I like understood how
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: easy it was for me to slip up. I actually
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: didn't care at all. Beth cared more than me. I
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: feel like that makes sense. She cared a lot more
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: than me. I was like, it actually is so fine
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: because you kind of feel like you're hurt. Yeah, in
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: this scenario, true, she thought you me And I was like,
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: and I told her the story of me doing it, Okay,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: sex would be way worse. Okay, sex, Dad, you can't
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: forgive that one. Yeah, I don't think you can. I
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: personally think you can forgive other scenarios once. Yeah, yeah,
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I can see that after the story. I agree. I agree.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: What's something you'll forgive once but never twice? His bank
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: card declining? Come on, what if you just forgotten to
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: transfer his funds? What if he more prepared? What if
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: he's waiting for a capital injection from someone?
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: We found out about capital injections. Jake's mentioned it a
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: few times. It's quite a nice thing.
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: Thistal injection is the coolest way to say I just
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: need some money.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if any batties want to capitally inject the podcast
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: with Patreon, feel free.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: You can.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: Signing up to Patreon for five dollars a month or
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: I think it's like, what is it like seventeen cents
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: a day or.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: Something like that? Something crazy? Do we also have a
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: massive announcement? Oh yeah, talking about capital injections. Talking about
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: capital injections on Patreon.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: For the past since it's started two and a half years,
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: three years three, Patreon has been five dollars five aud
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: and with the cost of living crisis by the end
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: of the year, starting next year, we will be increasing
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: that price.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: But baddies, don't worry.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: If you're already a Patreon member, And if you get
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: in before the end of the year, your subscription price
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: of five dollars aud will never change.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: No, yeah, so at the end of the year up
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: but a little bit, probably up to like two dollars.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: It won't be much.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: But but if you get in before the end of
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: the year, your subscription price will not change. And all
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: the bays who are in there currently to reiterate, nothing's
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: changing for you, guys.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: So you're cheering.
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: What's something you will forgive once but never twice?
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: Skid marks? They are quite disgusting. I have been forgiven
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: like ten times. Just give up.
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: You like to leave a floating nugget. Okay, here is
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: the thing about me. We always talk about Pooh.
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: Today's it should be called the pool episode.
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: I okay, I can. I'll admit when I forget to flush.
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: But so the most annoying thing to me is when
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: Beth sends me a photo of a little floating nugget
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: in the toilet. Because I'm just such a big man
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: who takes such monstrous turds. I just I need, I need,
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: I need a more powerful, powerful, flush fucking setting, all right, That's.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: Just the way it is. It is what it don't
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: send it to me, all right, or all you're doing
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: is complimenting me, all right? Also, what do you want
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: me to do about it? I'm not there anymore. You
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: should you should just reply deal with it. I'd be
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: like I should say, yeah, whoever invented the flush settings underestimated? Yeah?
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: Oh again, that's good. Okay. What's something you forgive once
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: but never twice? Not paying you on time? Oh? I
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: like that one.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: I actually like that too. It's very annoying when someone
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: knows your money. I feel like I've been too forgiving
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: with that one.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: I'm pretty good at like anything under a hundred. I
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: won't ask for anything over one hundred I will ask
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: for But my something that annoys me so much, and
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: I think it's like very telling for what type of
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: person you are is if you owe someone money and
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: they have.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: To ask you for it. Yeah, it's crazy. Heah, Like
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: that's so.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: Rude, especially when we use the party and do things
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: that are involved with partying. Some people would owe you
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: money on the basis of not having the money and
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: do the action and then you'd have to wait like
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: two or three weeks till they get paid. I'm like, mate,
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: don't fucking agree to this if you don't have the money.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: It's silly. Yeah, it's it is actually so silly.
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: Anyway, I'm done. I actually had one more, and I
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: think it was, Oh, you might like this one. What's
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: something you'll learn if you give once but never twice?
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: Shit, dick? Oh will were you forgiving that once? Or
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: it maybe be fair? You thought it was going to
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: be good and then it ended up. It's just the
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: nerves you forgive him, you go bad.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Fuck.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: You couldn't hear I reckon. That's the biggest insult of
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: a ship, dick.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, men's men's egos are too sensitive to hear that.
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: If you hate a man, say that to him, you've
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: got shit, dick. Yeah, we've said that so often, just
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: like you're short and it's small.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: Break him. Okay, baddie.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: I would like to welcome everyone back to Week seven
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: of Things that Aren't Just for boys.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Week seven. Let's go all right? Number one putting up
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: the outdoor Christmas lights.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Wait, thinking about actually my whole childhood. I gotta give
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: it to my mum inside and also outside Christmas lights.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: She really made Christmas special for me and the whole family.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: She did everything pulled out all stops.
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: I fucking I'm not gonna lie my younger siblings. The
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: good thing about having the younger siblings was Christmas being
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: special still, and then your parents are like treating you
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: as they're treating them as if you five, and.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: You're special for them. But I'm like, it's still special
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: for me, and now that's gone one day old enough
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: now for it to be gone.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: One downside of being the youngest is Christmas gets like
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: less special because you have an older sibling, Like you're
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: the last one.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, alright, do you think of what I'm thinking? I
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: think I Energy drinks facts, bro, facts. We've said it
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: once and we'll say it again. I feel like we
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: say it all the time. What's with the marketing? What's
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: with like the cans of energy drinks these days? They're
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: like just mean, they're just kind of mean looking, dude,
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: They're just they're like made for men. So I mean, yeah,
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: I don't even know what's in half of them things anyway.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty wild a that's why Marissa created perfect
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: ted healthy energy drinks, Like she didn't even have us guys.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: In mind when making them, and they actually slap props
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: to Marissa. She's bloody. What's it called when there's a
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: market that's like changing the game. Yeah, she's like changing
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: the game or solving an issue. There's like solving issue
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: or she's disrupting the market. Yeah. I was like, yeah, no,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: I love them. And they're powered by Marcher and they're
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: all natural ingredients too. They're actually they slap dude. What's
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: your favorite flavor? Raspberry? I really like this juicy peach.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: I also like the experience of say that you need
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: to like it's fizzy, but you need to kind of
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: give it a little shake, like a tiny one is
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: to get some stuff flow in there. It feels naughty,
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: shaken a fizzy drink?
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Naughty? And where do you getting from? Coles? Coles? You
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: know I'm a Coles man. Yes you are all right, baddies.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Time for dilemmas.
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: This is a segment where we like to help you out.
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: If you would like to submit mine, it will be
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: in the link in the description. Okay, title, I keep
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: thinking of my ex's dick.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: Dick can't be thinking about that.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: I am a fellow baddie in a happy two and
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: a half year relationship. I am absolutely in love with
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: this boy and keep falling in love over and over again.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: Our sex life is pretty nice. Okay to explain your
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: sex life is pretty nice.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: That made shit. I'm sorry. Oh he's got shit, dick.
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: I get all the attention during floor for play and
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: am able to come most of the time, but if
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: we have sex after foreplay, it only lasts max one minute.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Relatable. I think sex is considerably important and intimate part
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: of a relationship, and I'm generally happy with our sex
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: life if you don't count the actual penetration that is
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: the sex anyway. But my boyfriend also doesn't have the
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: biggest one, if you know what I mean. We know
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: what you mean.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: Obviously you know you said he doesn't like Okay, I
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: like actually fla.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: I was in a six month relationship about one year
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: prior to this one where we never went as far
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: as penetration sex but just like hands, oral, et cetera,
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: and he had a big one and also took a
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: long time to come.
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: My dilemma is so weird, and I hope you guys
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: can help me reflect on these thoughts. For a few
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: weeks now, I have these reoccurring thoughts about how the
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: sex would be with my ex and if I'm missing out,
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: why do I have these thoughts when I'm in the
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: happiest place I could imagine with my current boyfriend.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, interesting dilemma.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: So you're in a very happy relationship, sex life is
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: pretty nice aka pretty shit, and so then you're thinking
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: about this X that you had who you never actually
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: had sex with, but you did a lot of other
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: stuff and his dick was huge and it always took
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: him a long time to come when you were like
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: given head and hand jobs and shit, So you're thinking, like,
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: what would the sex have been like? Girl, I think
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: for the situation relatable.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: I think what makes this a lot harder is because
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: she didn't get to experience it.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: She keeps thinking about it.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and obviously he's gonna last longer if you get
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: just give him him blowies and handies.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: But there's no comparison to penetration with that. No, I
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: would agree with.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: That, m but because I think if you had sex
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: with him, you would probably also be unimpressed with his
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: performance anyway. But because you didn't get it makes it a
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: lot hargh, because it's like what if what.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: If I tried it and it was the best juiciest
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: fucking penis I've had him.
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: This is what I think is happening, right, So what
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: you just did is exactly what's happening. Is because you
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: never experienced it, you're building this man up to something
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: that's probably not going to even like he probably isn't
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: even near the expectations of what you're building him up
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: to be. And it's valid that you're building him up
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: to that, like you're fantasizing over it because it's dick
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: was usually he took a long time to come when
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: you get a mandrel in the.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Head, but he's probably not wouldn't live up to that. No, no,
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: at all.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: But we have to ask the question do you think
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: she should try it? And what that question is is
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: do you think this is showing that she isn't ready
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with this guy.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: With a bad performing penis or it doesn't mean anything.
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: It's just hard that you would feel so shallow to
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: break up with someone because the sex life is bad.
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: Like I don't want to put words in the about
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: his mouth, but to me, it sounds as though she's
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: trying to convince herself that her sex life is good
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: when it's not.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's completely valid reason the breakup of someone.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: If I was having hit sex for two years and
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: like I was gasolining myself being like yeah, but like
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: she gives good hand jobs, I'll be like.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: I thought this is a good.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: So okay, I think there's a couple of things that
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: can happen here right now. It's not about the size
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: of the tool, it's about how you use it, I hope. Yeah,
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: all right, So I think we need to have a
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: little chat.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: With your boyfriend. We you and me. Yeah, fuck it,
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: get him on. We could talk to him.
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: It might be easier, Like we have zero emotion in
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: this scenario, so like, if you want him to come on,
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: we'll chat to him. But if you want a chat
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: to him, like, I think that first of all, you
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: need to go to chemist warehouse if you're from Australia
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: and you've been in all coals now and buy this.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: Cream called the Edge. The Edge gives him the edge.
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I've used it before when I
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: was having a little bit of early on set ejaculation
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: with the past releaseh when I was a little bit inexperience.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that shit worked.
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: I don't even know what it did. It just like
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: gave me confidence. I think it was like placebo. I
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: think you can definitely talk through this. And are we
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: looking at this all wrong because a lot of people
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: say sex isn't everything in a relationship and he's perfect otherwise.
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: I think it's like people say that just so they
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: don't sound shallow, but sex is huge. Like I'm okay
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: if let's say, you know, sex isn't too frequent, but
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: at least when it's happening, it's good.
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: I like that more.
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like I would prefer less frequent but really good
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: then frequent and shit because.
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: Like thinking about your future, is it going to get
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: to a point where you're like, oh fuck, like there's
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: no point of having sex, it's just shit.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, what's gonna happen is the sex is gonna
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: be shit, And because you know it's shit every.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: Time, you're never going to be in the mood and
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: then you're never gonna have sex. But also so yeah,
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: edging cream makes him last longer. Like you said, it's
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: how you use it, not how big it is, but
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: is always going to be small. Can I guess you
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: just have to ask yourself. Can you accept that?
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: Heavy, and then it just sucks that he's a nice guy,
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: like there always to be nice, to be a nice guy,
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: and unfortunately like you have a small doodle, sucks.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: I actually we got sent a bunch that we work
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: with love honey quite frequently, really like them plugged. We
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: got sent uh what's it called an advan kanda. There's
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: a bunch of things in it at home, crazy hats
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: in there. Anyway, there was a cock ing in there
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: and cocking so it actually so you put it. I
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: did it after sex is like a joke. We had
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: all the ship like there and goes around your cock.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: Weird experience, but it stopped. It keeps the blood flow there,
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: so your.
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: Penis looks a bit bigger and chunkier. So it's a
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: bit of a placebo a little bit.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: But it makes you last long or two because like
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: once your heart all your blood's and your cock obviously
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: ring around it.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: It's quite restricting.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: And then then you get numb when you like if
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: something tights on, like your hands, stuff gets numbed, so
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: you can last long.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So it keeps it and it kind makes you
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: dick look a bit like bulgeous, like all the blood
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: stays there, maybe it gets a bit more swollen. Yeah,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: so blood can come in, but maybe pull the cockring
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: and it's quite it's quite a niche little thing that
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: isn't too scary to bring it to the bedroom.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Chuck the cockring on quickly, like it's kind of hot.
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: It's like putting a condom on. Yeah, if you tried it,
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: not the sex I did it after.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: It was a weird experience because like initially like you
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: got to get it over you because it's.
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, as well as like the funniest thing
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: to me is like, all right, I can't picture you
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: having sex, but I can picture you after the fact, right,
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: being all kind of like satisfied and shit, and then
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: getting up cleaning yourself off and like you're still hard,
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: and then you notice the advent count and you're like, oh,
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: remember that cockering, and then you kind of like you're
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: like giggling cockering.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: It was a little bit scary first because it's like
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: a tid elastic band and it's chunky, and then you
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: like wrap around your cock and like pull everything. Yeah,
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: it's like a big elastic band. It's just the black
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: things Like it's like that and just stretches. It's like
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: an elastic band basically all it is. You probably use
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: an elastic band.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: Ary if you want to cheap rops, just get a
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: fucking real one.
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: But I think you should talk to him and say,
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: like I would like the sex to.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: Be a bit longer.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And also yeah, I think it just comes down
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: to communication, Like Tom's.
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: Maybe better as well, Like you could say, start it
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: with make it a compliment sandwich. All right, oral amazing
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: sex could use some work, but at least you make
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: me come from the oral compliment sandwich. Yeah, he's only
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: going to hear the bad thing, but he's going to
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: feel not as bad because you've said two compliments.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: These type of conversations always come with timing, so they
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: don't do it like right after sex, and don't do
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: it right before. Yeah, like in like a neutraloah, like
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: you just watching TV and oh, compause it, but can
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: we have a chat? Can we ever check in and
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: then have it there so he has time to process
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: because you don't want to kill his ego. Like just
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: after you've had sex and you're unsatisfied and you're like,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: well you kind of shit it.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: Sex.
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: It's very difficult, like because his ego is going to
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: get damaged either way, but he.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Knows he's lasting a minute. Yeah yeah. Also, I'm trying
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: that that's he doing about it, but I can tell
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: her what he's going to say. He's like, look at
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: your button. You're just so fucking sex.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: Okay, my dilemma missing the signs. So here's my dilemma.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: I'm a thirty seven year old woman and I've been
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: casually seeing a twenty six year old guy for about
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: three months now. When we met, I was thirty six.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: We see each other once a week, and honestly, it's
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: not just the hook up and leave situation. Yes, the
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: sex is amazing, but we also cuddle sometimes longer than
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: the actual sex.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: Oh that's not very long.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, like most men could cut off
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: for ten minutes, and it's longer than the actual set.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: And we talk. We've told each other we like each other.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: We've agreed we're not seeing other people, and if that changes,
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: will be honest, because I told him i'd stop seeing
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: him if he did. He does these sweet things like
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: ask me to clean his brows, sends me photos of
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: his office, brings me popcorn and chocolate when I'm on
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: my period on my period, and even bought me Empire
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: of the Dawn on my Kindle for my birthday. When
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: he was injured. When he injured his foot from football,
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: I spent a lot of time in his place instead
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: of him just coming to mind proof that I do
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: things for him too.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Oh, we didn't need to prove. So here's the thing.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: We've only gone out together once, and that was a
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: random Sunday walk to the park during summertime. Other than that,
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: we've only ever met at my place. So despite all
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: the nice gestures, it just feels like a casual vibe
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: to me. The most boyfriend girlfriend thing we've ever done
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: is watch Crazy Stupid Love Together.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: Two weeks ago, he texted me asking if I was
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: still happy with our casual setup. My first thought, Oh, no,
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: he feels pressured and wants out. I don't pressure him.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: I let him be.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: But because it was a text and I was deep
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: into my spicy kindle book, I just replied, Yeah, why
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: do you ask? He said he was just checking, and
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I replied, if you ever feel different, we can talk
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: about it.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: No stress.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: He said, Glad We're on the same page. The next day,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: I told my friends and they said I was dumb.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: That was him wanting to change things. Now I feel
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: like I've missed my chance to talk about it again
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: because I've been so comfortable with this setup. It's my
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: way of protecting myself. I never want to ask a
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: guy to be my boyfriend or get stuck in a situationship,
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: so I don't want to initiate the talk. But he's
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: so wonderful. So did I miss my shot? Should I
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: bring it up or just let it be?
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: Damn? I think just fucking like, next time he's at
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: your house and you're at his place, and you should say,
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: like I'm thinking, like as a man, you could tell
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: him exactly what you've told us right when you send
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: me that message. You could say like I was having
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: these little thoughts about how we've never been out in
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: public together and stuff, and then when you sent me
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: that message, I thought, like you know, I was. You
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: could say like I was deep in my smart book
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: and like, you know, well.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: Do we agree with the girl's conclusion that that was
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: him asking h if we can trans.
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: See that's the thing is, like I think that you
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: need to say to him, like this is what's happened.
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: And then when I said like, yeah, you know, like
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: why do you ask? And you know Glabyn on the sampage,
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: you know, everyone talked about this, talk about it. And
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: then you could say like I told my girlfriends about
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: it and they said that they think it was you
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: trying to change things and make it a bit more serious.
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: And then I think that's when you can say like,
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: I actually do want that, and then to be completely
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: honest with you, it sounds like you need to have
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: the chat whether or not you're going to be serious.
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: So I think it's a good way to bring it up.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: I like that a lot.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: And also don't succumb to being like if he goes yeah,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: I want that too, and then just and then you
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: both agree on okay, we're going to be serious.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: I think you should put your foot down and be like, yeah,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: but I want to be asked. I want to be
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: asked properly. Don't be like, oh, do you want to
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: change how the situation is ask me to be your girlfriend.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: It's hard, isn't that men are very but.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: Also as her I can understand that she wouldn't want
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: to say that, but for this situation, you're kind of
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: like taking one step back and now you don't want
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: to take two steps forward. So I think you should
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: say that because you know, I hate when like a
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: lot of people did it when they were younger. I
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: think you did too, and like people just be like, oh, yeah,
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: we like each other, we're together, right, Yeah, Like I
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: really think that gesture means so much to a woman
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: but also the dude, and it should be it's sounded
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: like a sign that he's not being a bit anymore.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can admit when I was younger, I was
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: like afraid to like in my head, I thought that
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: that would mean a lot, And I'm like, you know,
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: asking you a girl to be your girlfriend does mean
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: a lot. When I was younger, I think I went
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: through a time where I just was like convincing myself
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: that it was just not cool to do when I
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: I definitely would. I think that is a nice gesture,
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: And I mean I've asked. I asked Beth when I
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: was with Beth.
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: But like, thinking back, I'm thinking, like, it's fucking it's
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: not that hard to do.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: I remember when I was younger having this same or
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: similar mindset, And you gaslight yourself because you don't have
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: the tools to do it.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: If you don't have the tools to do it, I
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: don't think you deserved to be in a relationship. Yeah,
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: It's like weird, it's a ball of confusion. The thing
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: about it, though, is, let's like, what I just said
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: then is okay? Almost an excuse I guess you could say.
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: So. It's like, you know, do you.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: At what point do you think, Oh, this guy's not
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: right for me, even though he does all these nice things,
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: Like do you have to bring up the fact you
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: don't go outdoors together? Do you have to bring up
• 49:22
  Speaker 3: the fact he hasn't asked you to be his girlfriend,
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: You have to bring up the fact that you don't
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: go on dates and stuff like if he I'm not
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: a big like I don't like that if he wanted
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: to he would. I'm more of like, if he knows
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: you want it, he should, But at the same time, like,
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: if he wants that, then he also would. It's very
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: very I think it's a valid thing to say, but
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: it's also like putting too much pressure on it, and
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: putting too much pressure on you because if he wanted to,
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: he would. Is the same thing as saying like I'm
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: not good enough or else he would, whereas that's not
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: the case. So I think I wouldn't actually know how
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: to give good advice on how to tackle that. Like
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: if he wanted to he would situation, that'd be something
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: I'd be very interested to hear a very good take on,
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: because I don't think I have a strong opinion on it.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: I agree, And circling back to the Baddie, I think
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: what Jake said that this start is the right thing
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, in a sense of just because of
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: what you said, just circle back with him and be like, hey,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: let's just talk through this again. I've had a bit
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: of time to process it, and I want to clear
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: the air and say everything, like I like you. I
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: think if you're thinking about taking this more seriously, I'd
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: be really open to that. But you've got to ask
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: me if you.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: Want to do that. Yeah, something like that. I like that.
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: Should we do an id question of like, what's your
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: thoughts on if he wanted to be would, You're going
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: to get a lot.
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: Of good answers. I like that. I think that's a
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: very open to interpretation type sentence. So yeah, that's the
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: kind of I think. I like that.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: Al Right, baddies, it's time for the comments. If you
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: want to get your comment read, just simply leave it
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: on the episode you're listening to.
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: Mary L.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: D said Sarah, I got teary also car named fran
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: I think the personality is better for a car than
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: Violet Sorongael.
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: She is too bold, bad dude. Violet Sorong girls more
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: of like a Lambeau Porsche like you were saying, Yeah,
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: she's a bit. I'll save it obscuring, small and quick.
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like that type of via, like a little those
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: mass of the sports cars don't know what they're called.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: One of the guts. Yeah, no, not the cats. Okay,
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: I got YouTube. I got fion Lee Lee fifteen ninety.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: She said, new car, some celebratory emojis, and she said,
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: also recording outside the studio is a nice change in scenery.
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: You should do it more often. So she she watched
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: the video to be fair, So baddies want that, Yeah
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: for the video apps? Do you want to do more
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: out of out of studio stuff? What could we do?
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of stuff we could do exactly.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna say, baddies, everyone's commenting either Sarah
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: or Chelsea. So the Baddest Baddie Crown will be announced
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: probably next week.
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I got one more hashtag scratch that badge.
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: Hashtag scratch that bad that's taking the world by storm.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: Everybody hashtag scratch that badge.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: It's time for one of you to sign off the episodes.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: I think, actually, I don't want to judge too quickly,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: but I think we're going to call a man, Thomas Thomas.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: Hi Thomas, it's Audion Jake from the Relatables podcast.
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: How's it going? Oh? Good, that's good. What are you
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: up to? Man?
• 52:52
  Speaker 5: I'm working now.
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: What do you do for work?
• 52:56
  Speaker 5: Work at the Wooly distribution Center?
• 53:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: Is it a good job? It's alright, that's black bro.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Let's go. Well, we wanted to get you to sign
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: off the episode for us. Yeah, you got anything loaded up?
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: You can give some advice.
• 53:14
  Speaker 5: Risks up and down like a little message. Right, yeh wait,
• 53:18
  Speaker 5: let me hold you up. Sorry, just walked outside.
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah we can hear the win. It's just so bad.
• 53:31
  Speaker 5: Oh well, I'm actually suggs.
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: We're glad, we're excited.
• 53:39
  Speaker 5: Okay, So I read this down last night. I was like,
• 53:42
  Speaker 5: I don't know, just a little song I was thinking about. Right,
• 53:46
  Speaker 5: So everything in life comes to an end. Death is
• 53:49
  Speaker 5: an inevitable but love is the best distraction. Love your neighbor,
• 53:55
  Speaker 5: love yourself, even at the cost of your own pride
• 53:58
  Speaker 5: and shame, because you will always love the fact that
• 54:01
  Speaker 5: you tried, Thomas.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: You knew we were going to call you Thomas. That
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: was that was great. That was a fuk you. Yeah,
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: that was quite like philosophical. That was very philosophical.
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much, Thomas, and also thank you
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: for being one of our male baddies.
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: Mate.
• 54:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I wanted to ask if you've ever done like
• 54:25
  Speaker 5: a male baddie.
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: Signing off the episode, I don't think.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: We have no, I said to Jacob Camp. I don't
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: think we've ever called a man before.
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: I think.
• 54:34
  Speaker 5: When I did, I was like, I hope I'm the
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: first one.
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: Well, thank you man, and enjoyed the rest of your day.
• 54:40
  Speaker 5: Yes, boy, I have a good one.
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: But oh, legend. So it's just like funny because it's
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: a change. Yeah, you don't ever hear and he seems
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: like a nice guy. Yeah, a legend. Go Thomas, I
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: think a little bit less. Yeah, it's gone. I think
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: it's gone, Like eight percent. Well bad is that's it
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: for today. You know we love you. Stay bad.