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Dirty Little Secret: f your best friend asked you to cover for her—knowing it could lead to cheating—what would you do? · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 3: Good morning, How are you?
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  Speaker 2: Hi?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning?
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  Speaker 2: What's going on?
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  Speaker 1: So?
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  Speaker 2: What's what do you gotta confess? I'm nervous me too.
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  Speaker 1: So I've been best friends with this girl since high school.
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  Speaker 1: I won't say her name, but for years, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the kind of friends. We've seen each other ugly cry,
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  Speaker 1: had some fights like forgiving each other, you know, laugh
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  Speaker 1: over things no one else would understand. Very close. But
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  Speaker 1: the situation is just like very weird to me. So
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  Speaker 1: she sent me a message yesterday that was basically like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: if my husband asked, can you just say we're going
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  Speaker 1: out for a girls' night on Friday? And at first
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  Speaker 1: I was like sure, like whatever we've done, you know,
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  Speaker 1: little like cover up stories for each other, harmless things
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  Speaker 1: in the past, like you know, surprise parties or spotties
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  Speaker 1: or whatever. Right, and then and then she was like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm actually going to meet up with my ex. He's
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  Speaker 1: in town for a few days and I need closure.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I know.
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  Speaker 1: I know, and my stomach just dropped. Also, this is
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  Speaker 1: her husband, not like a boyfriend.
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  Speaker 2: S you know, this is real. This is with commitments
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  Speaker 2: and marriage exactly, And.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I just don't feel like you don't lie for cheaters.
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  Speaker 1: But then the other side of me is like, she's
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  Speaker 1: your friend, Like she's been through hell, so just for
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  Speaker 1: contact her husband she did on her last year. Oh
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  Speaker 1: and I remember, yeah, I mean all the nights she
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  Speaker 1: called me like crying, so she'd never be able to
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  Speaker 1: trust anyone again. Like I was so mad at him
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  Speaker 1: for what he did to her, and I still am. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: But like now she wants to meet her ex, like
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  Speaker 1: the one she broke up with before she even met
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  Speaker 1: her husband, And she's like, it's not about cheating, it's
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  Speaker 1: about closure. And I'm just like not sure what being
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  Speaker 1: a good friend really means in this situation.
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  Speaker 2: She's saying it's not okay.
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  Speaker 3: So she's saying that she's not gonna cheat, well just
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  Speaker 3: meeting up with him.
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  Speaker 2: Someone argue cheating.
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  Speaker 1: She's saying, yeah, And I get like her husband like
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  Speaker 1: really screwed up. But what I mean protecting her from
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  Speaker 1: a mistake or like telling her the truth? Like she
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  Speaker 1: just doesn't want to hear like I just don't feel
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  Speaker 1: right lying to her husband. But I also, you know,
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  Speaker 1: don't want to lose her trust.
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  Speaker 3: I don't blame you if you don't want to cover
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  Speaker 3: for her, you know, alibi, be her alibi. I don't
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  Speaker 3: blame you, and I wouldn't, right, what.
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  Speaker 1: Are the odds he's actually gonna ask true? You know,
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  Speaker 1: maybe I know has nothing to do with.
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  Speaker 3: You, but you know, as a good friend, and I
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  Speaker 3: think you sound like you have, you know, a good
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  Speaker 3: heart and you want to do the right thing. But
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  Speaker 3: I I feel like it's totally normal for you to
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  Speaker 3: speak up and be like, hey, I wouldn't do this
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  Speaker 3: if I were you, Right, I don't think there's anything
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  Speaker 3: wrong with saying that, you know, saying no, think about
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  Speaker 3: this before you do it, because you're opening up just
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  Speaker 3: a can of worms that I don't know if you'll
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  Speaker 3: be able to close, right.
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  Speaker 1: Like, what's the point I just don't get what the
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  Speaker 1: point of?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, why do you need closure if it's an ex
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  Speaker 2: for so long? You're married? Married?
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  Speaker 3: Now?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, what is there? What do you need closure for?
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  Speaker 2: Shoot him a text for closure?
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  Speaker 3: No, I want to do that to me, there's no
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  Speaker 3: reason to be even in contact right within, that's just
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  Speaker 3: me and just if you right, even if exactly, even
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  Speaker 3: if it's nothing that happens per se like physical, it's
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  Speaker 3: still to me cheating. If you meet up with an
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  Speaker 3: X and you're a married woman, Yeah, is that that's
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  Speaker 3: more than micro cheating?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to get involved, right.
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  Speaker 2: I mean she doesn't want him to know for a reason,
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  Speaker 2: one hundred percent right.
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  Speaker 3: And it's weird just to be so nonchalant about it, like, Hey,
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  Speaker 3: if my husband calls, can you just lie to his face? No?
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  Speaker 2: I can't put me in mix. Like, I don't think
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  Speaker 2: it's fair. You said you don't want to lose her trust.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think it's fair for her to put you
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  Speaker 3: in a position like this, and then you have to
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  Speaker 3: worry about trust. She's already breaking trust with the most
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  Speaker 3: important person in her life and that's her husband, so
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  Speaker 3: trust doesn't matter to her. That's my my thing, So
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  Speaker 3: I would do what you want to do and not
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  Speaker 3: worry so much about her feelings.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I appreciate that.
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  Speaker 3: Doesn't mean you have to tell her husband, but you
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  Speaker 3: also don't have to be a part of it, right,
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  Speaker 3: that's true.
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  Speaker 2: Good luck.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry you're dealing with this, and you know, I
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  Speaker 3: hope it turns out to where she says, you know what,
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  Speaker 3: You're right. I don't know what I was thinking. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not going down that road, but we'll see. Let us
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  Speaker 3: know if you have an update soon.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, thank you so much.