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Abby's friend's mans could've killed them!!!! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Magic Jadge ninety four nine
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  Speaker 1: And welcome.
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  Speaker 2: To another episode of Scotty and Abby Unfiltered. I am
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  Speaker 2: so excited to hear about Abby's weekend because there are
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  Speaker 2: so many things that I saw go down on your Instagram.
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  Speaker 2: I've tried to be patient in the studio. I didn't
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  Speaker 2: A lot of goodies right there. But with this past weekend,
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  Speaker 2: first off, I just thought about this, so I was
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  Speaker 2: walking in the hallway. You went out to the pool
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  Speaker 2: party again on Sunday.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was kind of a last minute thing because
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  Speaker 3: one of the girls that I interviewed for Bason Bay
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  Speaker 3: Shore was like, oh, are you gonna go to the
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  Speaker 3: pool party? And I was like, well, I wasn't going to,
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  Speaker 3: but like, if you're going, maybe I'll pop down. So
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  Speaker 3: everybody was also at that Saint Peter Cold Plunge event.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's right. There was like a huge health and
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  Speaker 2: wellness event going on.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I knew that I probably wouldn't enjoy going
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  Speaker 3: to that, just because those can sometimes be very like
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  Speaker 3: overwhelming and very like show body, Like I like the
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  Speaker 3: idea of it, but the reality is typically not as fun.
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  Speaker 3: So I was like, Okay, well, instead of going to that,
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  Speaker 3: why don't I just go to the pool party and
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  Speaker 3: then you know all the people that I know will
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  Speaker 3: be there.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So I just solid core class. I brought a friend
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  Speaker 3: there and we just showed up in showed up.
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  Speaker 2: I love that. So this is a friend that you've
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  Speaker 2: recently made or somebody that came into town to visit you.
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  Speaker 3: No, just a recent friend in Tampa.
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  Speaker 2: Nice. Okay. So the Moxie Pool party that looked awesome.
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  Speaker 2: It looked like there was poppin'. But before that, you
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  Speaker 2: I was texting Abby on Friday to make sure she
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  Speaker 2: was alive. You went out to the hard rock.
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  Speaker 3: It was very sweet of you. By the way, when
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  Speaker 3: I got the message, I thought that was very thoughtful.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I was talking to my girlfriend about it. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, I'm I'm worried about Abby. I was giving
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  Speaker 2: her the whole run.
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  Speaker 1: He was worried about Abby because we were talking about
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  Speaker 1: it before.
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  Speaker 2: And I'll let you tell the full story because I
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  Speaker 2: don't know what happened. I don't know how it went,
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  Speaker 2: but we were talking about it. And as soon as
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  Speaker 2: I told my girlfriend about like the concerns that we
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  Speaker 2: talked about in the studio, she was like, yeah, that
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  Speaker 2: was the first thing that I thought of immedia And.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, oh yeah, yeah, Like I for
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  Speaker 3: sure thought we were going to die several times this night.
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  Speaker 2: So good.
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  Speaker 3: Let me give you the context. So I have this
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  Speaker 3: new friend through social media. Her name is Tory, and
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  Speaker 3: we have a lot of fun together. We've done a
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  Speaker 3: couple of things in the last couple of weeks. I
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  Speaker 3: took her to that white Haven event. We went out
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  Speaker 3: afterwards and she was filling me in on her dating
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  Speaker 3: life and Toy's a social goal. So she's always got
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  Speaker 3: a suitor. And she said, my most recent suitor is
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  Speaker 3: this guy that she met on Hinge. It's this guy
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  Speaker 3: in the British Army, but he's Scottish. We'll give him
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  Speaker 3: a fake name, we'll call him Seamus. Yeah, so she
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  Speaker 3: matches with Shame. I think Seamus might be an Irish name.
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  Speaker 3: So she matches with Seamus and she's like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I really really like him. There's a couple of things
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  Speaker 3: I'm worried about, but like he's just really handsome and cool,
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  Speaker 3: and he wants to do a night out next weekend.
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  Speaker 3: But he has this roommate in town or not this
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  Speaker 3: roomatin town. He has this roommate period. And she asked
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  Speaker 3: somebody else to go, and then she asked me and
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  Speaker 3: she said, listen, you're probably not gonna be romantically interested,
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  Speaker 3: but I just want someone to tag team with us,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like sure, like I'll go for the vibes.
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  Speaker 3: And also she said that they wanted to go to
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  Speaker 3: the hard rock casino, and so I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: well now I feel like, as your friend, I'm not
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  Speaker 3: letting you go alone.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I like the hard rock I have no
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  Speaker 2: It's just in a part of Tampa which is sometimes
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  Speaker 2: be a little sketch.
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  Speaker 3: It's just a little sketchy. It's a little out there.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, there's nothing wrong with going to the casino
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  Speaker 3: like it. I mean everyone's in there every one time.
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  Speaker 3: But I will say before I get into the actual story,
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  Speaker 3: the hard rock casino crowd is a very specific crowd.
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  Speaker 2: Real.
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  Speaker 3: You know, when you say photos of like people of Walmart,
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  Speaker 3: there needs to be like a people of the hard
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  Speaker 3: rock Casino.
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  Speaker 2: It's an Instagram page.
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  Speaker 3: Because it's like bachelor parties, Bacherette parties. There's people that
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  Speaker 3: you know, have drone droven out, droven out, driven out
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  Speaker 3: all the way from like I don't know, freakingland.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever, Popka to come on over the hard park like
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  Speaker 2: it is.
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  Speaker 3: It is such a melting pot. There's people that clearly
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  Speaker 3: have money. There's people that clearly don't have money. There
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  Speaker 3: are people that are clearly trying to flex that they
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  Speaker 3: have money, but they don't really have money.
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  Speaker 2: Like it is true.
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  Speaker 3: It's just such an interesting mix. But the funny thing
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  Speaker 3: is the hard rock caf or the hard rock casino
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  Speaker 3: is it's actually a really nice establishment.
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  Speaker 2: Hell yeah, Like they have great food there. I know,
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  Speaker 2: they put on great shows, they do great pool parties.
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  Speaker 2: It's so weird, but yeah, I mean it's that one place.
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  Speaker 2: It's there's only a couple places that are open twenty
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  Speaker 2: four hours. Always go there. It always is a party
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  Speaker 2: that's one of them. But again, what is always interesting
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  Speaker 2: because it's so big, they have to put it in
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  Speaker 2: an area that's just it's not near anything. Like if
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  Speaker 2: you go to the hard rock, you are going out
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  Speaker 2: of your way, I don't care where you live into
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  Speaker 2: Like you were going out of your way to go
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  Speaker 2: to the hard rock. Like that's a commitment, which sounded
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  Speaker 2: weird when Abby was like, yeah, we're going out to
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  Speaker 2: the hard rock. I'm like the hard rock out of everywhere.
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  Speaker 2: And this is like their first date. No, it's not
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  Speaker 2: their first date. I think they've been out four or
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  Speaker 2: five different times. I mean they've had they've been dating
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  Speaker 2: for maybe a month. Oh okay, and she's really into him.
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  Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, Like I will come and
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  Speaker 3: support you as your friend, good for you, and help
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  Speaker 3: you not get human trafficked.
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  Speaker 2: That was the biggest concern because as I started to
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  Speaker 2: think about it, We're like, how long has Abby known
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  Speaker 2: this person? And then you just go you just see
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  Speaker 2: too many documentaries and you hear too many stories are
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, what if this person, well, only talk to
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  Speaker 2: Abby for this amount of time so they could finally
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  Speaker 2: feel comfortable to get her out to the hard rock
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  Speaker 2: and that human trafficker.
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  Speaker 3: I told Torri that too. I was like, listen, I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna be honest with you. It did flash my mind
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  Speaker 3: that maybe you were playing the long game and trying
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  Speaker 3: to human traffick me. But I've met so many of
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  Speaker 3: her friends and I was like, there's just like no way.
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  Speaker 2: It would be way too weak.
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  Speaker 3: This would be the con of the century if she
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  Speaker 3: was trying to get me human trafficked. So anyway, I
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  Speaker 3: meet up with her in Hyde Park or she picks
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  Speaker 3: me up from my house and drives me out to
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  Speaker 3: Hyde Park, which is where these guys are staying, and
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  Speaker 3: it's at a very common apartment complex that like most
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  Speaker 3: people postgrad move to. Oh nice, I don't want to
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  Speaker 3: like just give out where they live. But it's in
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  Speaker 3: Hyde Park. It is a very popular apartment complex. So
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  Speaker 3: we pull in and the first red flag for this
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  Speaker 3: guy was she Seamus for Seamus is. She pulls into
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  Speaker 3: the parking lotch she parks her car and she says,
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna give him a call and have him come
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  Speaker 3: down and get us. I'm like, okay, cool, Like maybe
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  Speaker 3: there's a buzzer or whatever. So she calls up the
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  Speaker 3: guy and immediately he's in full Scottish mode. He's like, no, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: you can't word this guy saying he's just yelling.
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  Speaker 1: He's on the whole, he's on the back bagpipes are
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  Speaker 1: in the background.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, is Outlander plane or is this guy trying
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  Speaker 3: to explain where he's I can't understand a word this
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  Speaker 3: guy is saying. All it sounds is and I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: oh my god. And so she's like, hey, we're down stairs,
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  Speaker 3: can you come get us? And all I can understand
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  Speaker 3: from him, and God, I wish I was good at
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  Speaker 3: accents because I wish I could really I don't have
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  Speaker 3: good sky, I don't have a good Scottish accent. But
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  Speaker 3: basically he says, you've been here before, you know where
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  Speaker 3: it is?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, hell no.
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  Speaker 3: But it's in that fast guy and he's just going on.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, there's music in the background, Like is this
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  Speaker 3: guy a rape? Where is he? So I look at
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  Speaker 3: her and I go, what the fuck is wrong with him?
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  Speaker 3: Like respectfully, like that's you're dating this guy? And he's like,
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  Speaker 3: you've been here before. Just come up? The doors open,
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  Speaker 3: like so weird.
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  Speaker 2: So that is so messed up, Like guys like just
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  Speaker 2: go like this is why ah. I was just talking
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  Speaker 2: about this tangent of like the bare minimum should not
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  Speaker 2: be the standard. No, like just step up, be a man.
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  Speaker 2: But it doesn't sound like we're going down that trail today.
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  Speaker 3: She hangs up and I look at her and I'm
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  Speaker 3: actually speechless, like I'm kind dumbfounded. I'm looking at her.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, that's him. I was like, why would he
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  Speaker 3: speak to you like that? I'm like, you, girl, you
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  Speaker 3: deserve so much more. But like I don't know him.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, is he normally like that? Like is
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  Speaker 3: this that a character? And she she's like, yeah, just
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  Speaker 3: go upstairs. So we go upstairs to his apartment and
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  Speaker 3: we walk in and it is eerily quiet. The lights
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  Speaker 3: are off. It's a very dark apartment. It's millennial gray.
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  Speaker 3: There's like one light on in.
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  Speaker 2: The kitchen, one candle.
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  Speaker 3: I'm look at him like, where are the knives? Where
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  Speaker 3: are the knives put in this kitchen? What the hell?
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  Speaker 3: So we go in and I look at her. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: is this the part where you kill me?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? This is it? This is it. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: imagine in the back of your head the whole worry,
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  Speaker 2: this whole week has been I'm gonna be human trafficked.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, this is happening sooner than I thought.
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  Speaker 2: We're not even gonna get to the hard ruck. That
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  Speaker 2: was just a sham.
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  Speaker 3: And so I look at her. I'm like, is like,
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  Speaker 3: is he here? And she goes, no, No, he's not here.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm like, where is he? Like is he?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 3: What is he gonna lock the doors? He's in the
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  Speaker 3: closet and she's like here, there's wine in the fridge,
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  Speaker 3: Like you know that there is wine in the fridge.
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  Speaker 2: Every bit of this is My eyes twitched. I'm so scared.
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  Speaker 3: So she grabs the two most heinous pub wine glasses
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  Speaker 3: from the from the cabinet and I look at her.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm washing this absolutely. It's one of those short,
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  Speaker 3: stubby pub glasses. But it also has like all different
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  Speaker 3: types of wine listed on it, like it's like a graphic.
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  Speaker 3: It's the graphic tea of wine glasses. It says like
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  Speaker 3: Sharpennay meul back at all these different fonts like conic sands,
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  Speaker 3: Like where did this man get this glass? Anyway, So
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  Speaker 3: she grabs the wine for the fridge and she looks
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  Speaker 3: at it and I don't know what kind of wine
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  Speaker 3: it was, but she goes, this is not what I
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  Speaker 3: asked him to get me.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, girl, it's fine, just pour a glass.
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  Speaker 3: So she pourss a glass and I'm thinking this hysterical,
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  Speaker 3: and I look at her. I'm like, I need to
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  Speaker 3: get footage for the documentary, Like I hope you're okay
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  Speaker 3: with this.
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  Speaker 2: She goes, girl, I'll do what you need to do,
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  Speaker 2: Like I get I need people to have this up
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  Speaker 2: on my Netflix.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, wait, we're in the documentary head So
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  Speaker 3: I start making little TikTok videos because I think it's funny.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, there's like a Teaki sign on the wall
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  Speaker 3: and there's a chessboard, like it's just such a weird,
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  Speaker 3: random boy apartment. So finally we're hanging out and him
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  Speaker 3: and his roommate come in, and of course it's literally
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  Speaker 3: like instantly on and I just look at him and
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  Speaker 3: I go, is that English? And then I look at
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  Speaker 3: his roommate and I go and we get subtitles like
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  Speaker 3: I feel like I'm watching the Worlds. I'm watching Outlander
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  Speaker 3: on two time speed. So his roommate is very sweet.
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  Speaker 3: Roomate's the one I'm getting quot unquote set up with,
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  Speaker 3: but not really set up with, just more of like
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  Speaker 3: we're bots, just here for the vibes the roses here
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  Speaker 3: because like these are the two people in Tampa we know.
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  Speaker 3: And he's English and he's he kind of looks like
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  Speaker 3: a mix between James Cordon and Prince Harry, like just
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  Speaker 3: like blonde like James Cordon, kind of a similar build,
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  Speaker 3: but like has the face of Prince Harry. Prince Harry,
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  Speaker 3: and so he's talking. I'm like, oh my god, this
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  Speaker 3: is so funny, Like why the only men that want
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  Speaker 3: to hang out with me are from the.
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  Speaker 2: UK, that's actually where your soul is supposed to be at.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know what, Why can't American men
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  Speaker 3: want to hang out with me? So anyway, I'm hanging
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  Speaker 3: I'm hanging out with the British guy and my friend
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  Speaker 3: and Seamus are getting in an argument because she's like,
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  Speaker 3: I can't believe you didn't get the wine I asked
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  Speaker 3: for you, which, actually I know sounds really stupid and petty,
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  Speaker 3: but like it's one of those things that when you're
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  Speaker 3: dating somebody new and they do something as flippant as that,
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  Speaker 3: it's a subconscious tell that like, oh, you don't actually
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  Speaker 3: really care about me.
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  Speaker 2: Yep, you know what I mean. It's not this is
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  Speaker 2: already where we're at. We're only one month in. This
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  Speaker 2: is how you treat me. What happens when you get
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  Speaker 2: even more comfortable in six months exactly.
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  Speaker 3: So they're having a little squabble in the kitchen and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, hey, what's a stereotypical Hey, Harry, Hey. So
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  Speaker 3: we're making small talk, and so we're all hanging out.
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  Speaker 3: They're having a Mick Ultra and they're like, Okay, we're
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  Speaker 3: gonna drive to the casino, and I go, okay. So
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  Speaker 3: we get in their car, the government issue car, and
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  Speaker 3: they start driving to the casino, and Seamus is driving
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  Speaker 3: and he's driving so recklessly that I look at my
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  Speaker 3: friend and I'm like, I'm ubering home, like I'm a hundred,
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  Speaker 3: I'm getting I get to I will hang out with
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  Speaker 3: you with the casino, but I will be taking my
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  Speaker 3: own car back, Like I'm so scared he's driving so recklessly.
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  Speaker 3: And I remember I had just seen a TikTok where
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  Speaker 3: an older woman was saying advice that she had given
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  Speaker 3: to her daughter. She said, at some point, you're going
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  Speaker 3: to get in a guy's car and he's going to
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  Speaker 3: try and impress you or freak you out by ribing recklessly.
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  Speaker 3: And in that moment, what you need to do is
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  Speaker 3: you need to not make it fun for him. So
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  Speaker 3: when I was in the car, I'm like I made
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  Speaker 3: a couple of comments where I'm like whoa, Like can
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  Speaker 3: you chill? Like there were a couple of moments where
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  Speaker 3: he like ran across the street and there was a
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  Speaker 3: car coming at us. I'm like, this is literally how
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna die.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god. Not even the trafficking, It's just
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  Speaker 2: a car.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't want to overreact because I don't want
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  Speaker 3: to make it fun for him because I don't know
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  Speaker 3: this guy. Cause it's like it's kind of dawning on
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  Speaker 3: me that we're in this car, and I'm like, I
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  Speaker 3: don't know these people, and I don't necessarily I mean,
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  Speaker 3: I know Tory, but I don't trust Seamus. I actually,
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  Speaker 3: you know, it's so funny. We were kind of making
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  Speaker 3: fun of the room mamate because I remember last week
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  Speaker 3: I was talking about how like, oh, I'm not in
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  Speaker 3: his league and she doesn't want. I was having so
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  Speaker 3: much fun with the English guy. I'm like, he seems
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  Speaker 3: so nice, he seems so responsible, he seems like he's
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  Speaker 3: freaked out to be here too. So I felt very
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  Speaker 3: very buddy buddy with him and my friend. But Seamus
• 12:46
  Speaker 3: is driving like a crazy person. So finally we get
• 12:49
  Speaker 3: to the casino and I just look at my friend
• 12:50
  Speaker 3: to go, oh my god, I'm so scary, And I
• 12:52
  Speaker 3: remember thinking I'm like so relieved to be at the
• 12:55
  Speaker 3: hard rock casino because this is where I feel the
• 12:58
  Speaker 3: most safe, ironic.
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: Out of everywhere so far, it's the hard rock.
• 13:02
  Speaker 3: So we go to this restaurant we all have a
• 13:04
  Speaker 3: bed and we're gabbing and we're talking about like cultural
• 13:06
  Speaker 3: differences between U game America. Blah bla blah blah blam.
• 13:08
  Speaker 3: We're hanging out and one of the funny moments was
• 13:11
  Speaker 3: I was telling them how I only drink Guinness when
• 13:13
  Speaker 3: I go abroad because I feel weird having a Guinness
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: in America. I feel like it's not the same. It's
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: definitely not they don't do it the same way. But
• 13:18
  Speaker 3: what was so funny, like a full circle thing for
• 13:20
  Speaker 3: that was then Seamus was like, Oh, I want to
• 13:22
  Speaker 3: order a Yingling because it's brewed here in Tampa. Oh don't, Like,
• 13:25
  Speaker 3: that's so funny, Like I want to drink your beer
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: when I go to your hometown, but like you're drinking
• 13:30
  Speaker 3: our beer when you're just very funny and like full circle.
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: That's cute.
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: So anyway, we finally go down to the casino, disgusting.
• 13:36
  Speaker 3: It just smells like straight cigar smoke. I'm pretty sure
• 13:38
  Speaker 3: I left with several lung diseases.
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Actually I could see your lung cancer right now, honestly.
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, oh, my lung one really hurts right now,
• 13:44
  Speaker 3: Like did I puncture something? So we go down to
• 13:46
  Speaker 3: the casino and these guys are like sitting down and
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: they're like, so, which ones do you guys want to play?
• 13:51
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I actually don't want to play one.
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: Just get rid of money, like I'll use it on something, yes,
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: the pain.
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: Well yeah maybe, I mean they pay for a drinks,
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: which I was very nice. I was like, thank you.
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: So anyway, they sit down the casino and they go, yeah,
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: we actually really don't gamble.
• 14:06
  Speaker 2: Holy crap, guys, Jesus.
• 14:08
  Speaker 3: Tory and I look at Seamus and Harry and we
• 14:10
  Speaker 3: go why did we come here?
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: Did y'all think? Did they think you all were the gamblers? Yeah?
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: There were, and they're like, we thought we could like
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: bond over being bad at it. I'm like, I don't
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: want to spend hundreds of dollars to lose, you know
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: what I mean? Like that's not fun, Like I'd rather
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: just go to the Irish pub in Hyde Park and
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: like do a card game or something.
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: Yes, way less expensive.
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: And so literally after ten minutes, they go, well, what
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: if we just went home? And I was like, honestly,
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: I would love that. Because it's now around like ten
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: thirty eleven. I'm like, so ready to get the hell
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: out of here, and I'm getting ready to call my uber,
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: and then it dawns on me. I'm like, you know what,
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: I am kind of scared to be at the hard
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: Rock casino by myself because the crowd is a little
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: sus looking. Okay, I'm gonna be I know it's politically incorrect.
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: I'm a little scared being there.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's valid.
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: One.
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of people too. If you've ever been there,
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: you know exactly what have you.
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: Said just a little while.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: That's not the Hard Rocks. It's just the amount of
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: people that.
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: It's like two am at the Walmart. That's how it feels.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want to be there alone.
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just don't want to be there by myself.
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: And so I'm like, I also kind of feel bad
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: because I'm getting the sense that my friend is getting
• 15:10
  Speaker 3: the eck and I also don't want to abandon her.
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: So I'm literally like, God, he me home.
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: I'm like, if you haven't talked in a while, Like,
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: I will.
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: Go to church tomorrow if you if you just get
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: us home safely. So I get in the in the
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: car and I tell Seamus, I said I'm so fucking
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: serious right now if you've if you mess around on
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: the road, I will call the police and guess who
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: drove so safely back? That's right back to Bark.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: Come on now.
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: I was like, I am laying down the law. I'm like,
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: I feel so uncomfortable, so unsafe. So we get back
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: to the apartment and I'm like, Toy, I'm want to leave.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna go yeah, and she goes, honestly, I'll drive
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: you home. And I go oh. I was like, you
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: don't want to stay, and she goes, no, like I'm
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: going to leave, So we leave. And what I essentially
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: got from Toy, I don't think she necessarily said this
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: in so many words, but she I think it's really
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: interesting to see the guy that you're dating through your
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: friend's eyes, Like it's very telling, absolutely where you know
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: you can have feelings because it's fun to have mutual
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: attraction or crush on someone, or what can feel like
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: banter to you is actually just like squabbling. And I
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: think she got the ick because I got the ick
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: because I showed up and I felt unsafe genuinely, like
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: he's just a reckless guy, Like he's young and impressionable
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: and I think just needs to grow up a little bit.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm so uncomfortable being here. I
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: had a good time with my friend and like, you know,
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: it's all for the story, but like, of course, I
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: was like, this is not a good situation. I'm like,
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: I don't want to see this guy we're in And
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I think she kind of felt the same way, like
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: she was like, yeah, I can probably do better than
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: this dude, And I was like, you can.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: And hasn't that happened to so many of us where
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: it's your friends that are the ones that say, I'm
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: gonna just take you aside right now, I'm gonna go
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: ahead and let you know my thoughts.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: Now you don't need to tell him all all the time,
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: Like if your friend doesn't listen when you explain your thoughts,
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: that's gonna be on them. At least you expressed yourself.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: But like that's a huge step into the relationship of
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: if you can't get along with my friends and they
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: don't like you, I almost start looking at you sideways.
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well it's not that we couldn't get along. I
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: just felt like he was being a little bit of
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: a show off, and it was just kind of like, dude,
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: just exist, just be that, just be like Harry just exists.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: Me and Harry were talking about the Cotswalt dude telling
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: me about his knees, and I was like, I'm so wholesome, Harry.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: Who knew you were gonna be like the sweet one
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: out of this.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: He's the good guy.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: He's a good guy. And he's like, I hate Tampa.
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: I can't wait to get back to where I'm normally based.
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: I'm like, where you normally based? And he's like Gibraltar
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, yeah, I'd rather be in
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: Spain too.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, I was like, where the heck is jibral Yeah,
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: but I.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: Guess it's owned by the UK or something like that.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Probably, So is there any okay? First off, Tory is
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: probably going to be like deuces.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: I don't know that she's ever going to see him again,
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: and I don't blame her.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's the right step. Yeah, if it's
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: like a month in, that's it. Go ahead and call
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: it now.
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know how you bounce back from that. It
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: was weird.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that guy, how old was he?
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I whenever I feel like a guy
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: is immature but an adult age, I always think that
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: he's twenty four.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: So that's exactly where my head went to.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and they definitely remember had a conversation about age
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: because she's a couple years older than me, and I
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: think I made a joke about, oh my god, we're
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: so old and she goes, no, we're not, and I
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: was like, oh, how.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: Old are we? Yeah, we're just slightly old. Twenty three,
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: we're mature.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: So if I had to put an age on him,
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: I would say twenty four ish.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: Anything out the hairy guys, there's anytime he comes back,
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: You guys got to.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: Hanging out or no, no, just like friend and vibes,
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: but just like a sweet dude, like a really really
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: good human.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: That's wild. How that just kind of unfolded of this
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: So many dudes we get it wrong. And I did
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: this so many times in my youth of thinking what
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: we thought impressed women, but that actually did the complete opposite. Yeah,
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: of whether it's like I remember in like early maybe
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: college years, where like the thing was you got to
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: be like slightly slightly mean or kind of a dick,
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: and it's like, huh, that's an interesting way to have
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: take on that. Yeah, or driving aggressively is a huge
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: one where it's like, ah, this is gonna be cool.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Not not at all.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: No, what's cool is actually taking care of the women
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: in your back seat.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: Yes, treating everyone like the precious cargo that they are,
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: which is just wild to me. I'm glad you're alive. Same.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: That was literally in my thought process. I saw your
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: story yesterday. When I saw you at the Moxie, I
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: was like, Okay, cool, Abby's alive. Awesome yea. Yeah.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: At that point, I was like, Okay, I'm gonna let
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: everyone know the situation that we're in. It's kind of funny.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: At this point, I have this really funny TikTok that
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: I have to ask Tory if I can post. But
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: it's like POV and I don't know if you've ever
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: seen those tiktoks where it's like editing our night out
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: like a reality show, and it's like scary, And so
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: I just took all these different clips of like us
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: in the apartment and then us at the casino. I'm like, POV,
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: you're third wheeling with your friend and her situationship mm hmm, and.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: It's so typical though, like us dudes were like the
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: same when it comes to our living spaces, like we
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: have what I've now been hearing a lot of because
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: I've been called out on it is boy brain or
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: a boy brain just gets super loud. Like if you
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: walked into my apartment right now, it's just bare bones.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: I got a couch and then a TV is on
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: the ground, and I got this little like makeshift chair
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: like table thing that folds into a table. Bare necessities,
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: no art decor nothing that's making it really sparkle. But
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: in my eyes, I'm like that suckers home. It makes
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: me very comfortable. I'm pretty sure Shamus's place is probably
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: like that, where it's like random thing on the wall,
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: random thing on a table, one thing in the fridge.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: That's it. Yeah, good lord, the right one.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Shamus and Harry like literally it was a government issue department.
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: They're like, yeah, the British Army just has like eight
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: apartments at the same complex and this is where we
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: all live.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: God dang, what did you do on Saturday after that? Though?
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: You go to church?
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: Oh Saturday?
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: You know what?
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: I hung out with one of our coworkers who the
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: new uf grad. Yeah, she asked me for drinks, so
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: she took me to Maru. Maru.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: You go to so many places that I have never
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: been a co work. It's a Tampa vibe, I guess.
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I felt so old because you know,
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: like when you're in your twenties, you're like you kind
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: of mentally associate yourself with any but in your twenties
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: because we all kind of look the same.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: We do.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: But but I was like, oh, I cannot hang like
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: I used to because she's just like a cool like she's.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Cool, she just graduated.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: She she just wagerated, so she's she's got the college
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: grad swag and also like still has the liver of
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: a college person. And I can just tell. She's like
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: sitting across from me and I'm on like my second
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: class of wine and I'm hammered, literally, and she's just
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: like this old fogie.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: She's like a can't hang, she talks a big game,
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: can't hang.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: She's like this girl is so boring, And I'm like, no,
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: I'm so fun, but I'm only fun in certain going
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: out environments. Like the second I sit down is the
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: second I want to go home.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: That's called getting right around thirty because I get sleepy.
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: I'm like, if I'm not dancing, if I'm dancing, I
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: will never go to bed. I will never go to bed.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: If there's a good song on, if there's a good vibe,
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: if my friends are having fun or we're laughing, I
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: will never go home. But the second I sit down
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: is the second I go ooh.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: That's because we've all been up like since the beginning
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: of like the Dawn, and as soon as we sit
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: like I was doing that. We went out a couple
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: different places, but Amander and High to Seminal Heights, exploit
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: there that area on Saturday, and I'm sitting down with
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: my buddy and I'm just like and he like, hit me,
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: He's like, what are you yawning for? I was like,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: I've been up before the sun came up. I'm tired.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: It's ten. I'm out here for the socialization. I want
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: to be home in an hour, I know.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: I was like, why would I sit here when I
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: could sit down on my couch.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: See, I can't wait. And I've talked about this before,
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: but I'm so excited for that chapter of life where
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: just I have friends come over to my place. Yeah,
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: and I got like a nice patio and you can
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: have a drink and a little snack on my outdoor
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: patio bar. Yeah, that's gonna take a lot to get there,
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: but I can't wait for it.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: You'll get there.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: One day on Friday, we went out on a yacht.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: I know, I told you you're always yelling at me
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: for not giving you the invice I had. I always
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: give you the invite, and I did not get the
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: invite for the yacht.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: We will do another yacht day because it's like a
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: new it's the company's been around for a little bit
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: of sunburst yachts. I don't know, but they're like a
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: friend a client of a friend, and so now they're
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: bringing out a couple influencers. It was kind of funny.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: I got on and I was the only dude. I
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: was like, where's all the other dude influencers. I guess
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: there's not that many of us.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: They're kind of are in Tampa. There are a lot
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: of dude influencers.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: There is a dude Bros though, And I don't know,
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: I guess I'm part of like this whole group. Yeah.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: I got on there and I'm like, oh, it's just
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: a bunch of women. There's a bunch of women in
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: their twenties, and so I'm like, this is an interesting vibe.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: But the speaking of the getting like a little too drunk,
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: too quick, Like as soon as we got off the boat.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: The whole plan was to go explore what we had
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: in Tampa because we were staying on Harbor Island, which location,
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: oh my god, that in general went to Sulcy. Got
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: a little bev there that was sul What is a
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: place called so the soul?
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: It is something like that.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: You went there before, So it's called sul It's something Sulcy.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: You get a little sprits. We got a little sprits
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: by the water, sprits.
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: Now now it's going to put Sorcy, Saurcy, Sorcy. I'm like,
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: I'm like that sounds wrong. But it's closed.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, didn't you say when they opened up. It's just
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: founded by like some hot Italiana.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: It's like these two hot Italian twins.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: It's insane. It's like ulous them in the window.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, Like there's and they're always there, which
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: is great. It's I r marketing for them.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: I just I wish I had that kind of bloodlined
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: where it's like Italians have like the greatest facial hair.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Their skin is just flawless.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Garrett Graham from off campus is Italian. It makes so much,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: so is John Logan. But we started exploring all these
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: little pockets of Tampa. Because I'm in San Pete, I
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: don't go over the bridge much. Yeah, but when we
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: were over in Harbor Allen, I was like, let me explore.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: So Sorcy got a bev then walked and wanted to
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: go check out another wine bar. And what we ended
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: up doing, which I haven't done this in so long,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: is we went over to that place Three Brothers, three
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: corners pizza.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm not a big pizza dude.
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: But I loved that place, really enjoyed every single slice.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: Sat there. We just had a couple glasses of wine.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: But this is how I know I'm getting older, because
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: this would never come out of my mouth. Before we
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: were deciding whether to do a white or red wine,
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: we were sipping a lot of sprits and a lot
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: of white wine earlier. And so we got sat down,
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: I was like, let me just try the red wine.
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: I took a sof was like, huh, I'm gonna feel
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: that in the morning. Yeah, I took one sip and
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: I was like, that is a heartburn waiting for tonight
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: and a headache waiting for tomorrow. And I felt so
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: old in that moment because we did literally one drink,
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: a couple slice of pizza, and then went home and
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: literally passed out really immediately. It was supposed to be
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: this night out on the town. Check it out these
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: wine bars.
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: Sleep Why I'll do that to you, Like I don't
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: people always say, oh, there's no difference between the different tipsies.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: I'm like, wine is a sleepy time, sleepy and sad,
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: but like I like it because it's just so easy,
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: Like you can always get wine anywhere.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, nice little sip. I like to just sip. I
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: don't want to get drunk. I just want to sip.
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: Tequila is my even keeled liquor. Vodka turns me into
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: a different person. And then I've never really drinking a
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: lot of gin.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: Oh well, yeah, I've even go into a little bit
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: more like a like a gin and spritzer kind of
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: deal of like give me something light and refreshing. Yeah,
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: but I just like the first time ever I love
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: a red wine and I'm like I think I'm hating
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: that age or I can't do it much.
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: I know it's so sad, but red Wine Pizza is
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: a goaded combo.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: I know when I took the sip and I was like,
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: this is not the time. I knew it was gonna
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: hurt because I was working an event on Saturday. Oh y,
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: and I was like, this is going to be so
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: painful to get up in the morning. And I'm so
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: glad I made that decision. Yeah, And I was like,
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: damn it, I'm getting your thirty. This is the year
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: of thirty. This is the year, and I'm not ready
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: for it.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: You gotta take your vitamins, your electrolytes before you go out.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Try to get the sleep. I think I got four
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: hours that night. Oh but I'm glad the weekend went
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: well for you, and I'm glad you're alive.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: It was good. Is it gonna convince you to move
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: to downtown Tampa?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Honestly, I was looking at the prices for the Harbor
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: Island apartments. Harbor Island is not that bad, That's what
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: I thought too, and what we did, and I love again.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: Another thing you think of when you're getting older, but
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: you don't think of when you're young. I love being
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: able to walk the publics. That was crazy, so stupid simple.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: That's what I've been telling you is it sounds dumb, like, oh,
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: getting to just walk around, it sounds so stupid, But
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: getting to just run errands on foot brings me so
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: much joy.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Honestly, that was one of my favorite things, Like because
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: we were a dog sitting, so we walked our friend's dog,
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: brought it back and walked the publics, had a little snack,
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: had a little wine at the publics there.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: And that's where the Lifetime Fitness is too Harbor Island.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: I know. I walked over because I wanted to just
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: smell the air when opened the door and I was like,
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: that's rich. But I want to get a membership, but
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: they don't have one in Saint Pete, so I will wait.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: But I did plant the seed. And I don't know
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: if my girlfriend picked up on this, but I did it.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: I was like, if you could hypothetically live in any
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: of the luxury apartments in the Tampa Bay area, it
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: could be Saint Pete, Tampa, I don't know, Dunedin. I
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: was like, where would you live? Just to cause I'm
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: gonna be in my place for a while now. Yeah,
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: but just to kind of hear it out, cuz I
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: would be nice for at least one year to live
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: that downtown lifestyle. Yeah, that walking lifestyle and everyone over there.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: I get it now why everyone's hot because you walk
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: or run literally everywhere, and when you see.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: So many hot people constantly that it's you almost feel like,
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: oh my god, if I don't look like that, I'm
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: not keeping up.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: It was crazy. I'm like, you guys are freaking beautiful.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: And then in the morning I've seen like everyone at
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: the pool at the apartment. I was like, I don't know.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Part of my heart was like, oh, that sounds so fun.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Like all the socialization like that only happens. There's like
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: one chapter of life like I'd had it in college.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: I haven't had it all adult. But I'm like, maybe
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: in the next year that might be waiting for me.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Maybe maybe that, or I just do the whole adult
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: thing and get a house. That too boring, Oh, I mean,
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: but a house and a dog.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: You have the rest of your life to have a
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: house and a dog and the whole thing, But you
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: only have a small sliver of time to get to
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: live that independent Denk lifestyle.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Well, then we're going to need to make more money
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: on this podcast day because I want to live it.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: So anyway, thanks to Beatbox.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: Beat Box for sponsor the podcast. The link is in
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: the description. If you want us to send you to Bonnarou,
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: that is going to be ending soon, so make sure
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: to hit up that and we will be back tomorrow. Abby,
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: what is your social media at the Abbi Urphy and
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: mine is at Scott Tavlin And are you sold out
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: for your girls getaway?
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: No, we still have spots. I think we're about halfway full.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: So if you're like, oh my god, is anyone going, Yeah,
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: people are going. So if you sign up, you won't
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: be by yourself.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: You'll be able to see the spots that Abby's talking about.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: I know it's gonna be a good time. Get to
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: see You're gonna get to see every part of the
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: Tampa area. You're gonna see Tampa, you're gonna see downtown
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: Saint Pete and you're gonna see the sandbar at Seintpee Beach.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: Oh that's so cool, I know. So you're getting like
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: the full shtick. Come have a good time, Come hang
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: come have good food, come up good drinks, come listen
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: to good music. And I'm going to put the link
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: in the episode description.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: There it is. We'll be back tomorrow.