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Episode #185: Breaking the Ask-Hole Cycle and Taking Action for Inner Growth · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Hey, everybody, welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev. Good evening,
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good evening, good day. How's it going. Good day to those
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who may be listening at any other time, but right now it's evening.
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It's going pretty good. A little crazy right now, but it's very fulfilling,
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so I'm good with it. Yeah. So, and you I understand
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that my schedule has been up full as well with things and activities going on.
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So nice. Yeah, which puts us into Monday. Is this Monday?
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I don't even know day is Monday? Yeah, it's our Monday.
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It's actually it's another day. It's a new moon today too, so huh
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it's a new moon. Yeah, yeah, which is not. And we
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just had the portals eleven eleven on Saturday, which is pretty pretty awesome.
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Was a pretty awesome day. I've been doing a lot more reiki lately,
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so that's pretty awesome. Nice and trusting, so we could go into that
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route, you know there again. You know, I was working on somebody
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and I just took a couple of minutes. Sometimes I feel like I make
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too much of it to do with things to work on someone doing distant energy,
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and I was working on stone recently, and I just was at the
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office in between clients, and then I started writing down to stuff and I
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start questioning things like I'm I'm like, gonna send this person, you know,
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the number eight and it is relative to the age they were at when
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whatever happened in their life there was some turmoil or some things going on,
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and I'm like, I sent it, and I don't hear from this person
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for a long time, and I'm like, I sent it, and I'm
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like already questioning myself. Oh God, I shouldn't have. I probably should
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have said that it's too specific, right, too specific? And what if
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I'm wrong, And then going through all these emotions that go along with that,
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and it was like, fuck it, I don't have I mean,
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I just all I can do is receive the information that I'm getting out putting
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down a piecepaper of the person can receive it and acknowledge that there was something
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that happened around that time frame, or maybe don't remember anything at all,
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doesn't mean that that something didn't happen. But I got the opposite. So
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when I saw this person in person, then they told me she's said that
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she had to kind of go back a little bit and kind of go through
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some things. But she recognized what was going on during that time frame,
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and there was a lot of upheaval in her life and a lot of moving
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and a lot of different things going on. And when you're young like that,
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it's a lot for a kid, or it can be. It doesn't
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mean it always is, but it's like it's a transition leaving from one school
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to go to another school. But so it's like we have this conversation and
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I start hearing all this information, I'm like, Okay, that's my ego.
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The part of me needs to have that confirmation right now, I guess
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in the beginning stages of things, and then getting a message later on,
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even after we had done the reiki session and stuff, and like, I
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can't believe how great I feel, and now I haven't I have an idea
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or right now I know which direction to go in in order to process some
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of this healing that they're doing and stuff like that too. But a client,
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so we've talked before about choosing your client, you know, picking kind
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of creating what your clients look like in a lot of ways, like having
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this idea what they look like. And and because we performed so much better
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with that instead of someone that's And I saw a shirt recently that said something
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about being an asshole instead of being an asshole and wanting all this seriously the
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definition I think there even showed it to me, but I actually it was
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saying I'm thinking, well, you probably should have coined that one, because
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you used to been doing it forever before I was hearing it anybody anywhere else.
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That was the first place I heard it. But you know, and
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it had the whole definition of what an asshole is. So but instead of
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having that type of client, not that there's anything wrong with someone that's asking
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for help and want any things, but not in the place where they're ready
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yet to kind of integrate it into their life and do something more with it.
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They're at the asshole part. I was at the as cool part once
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upon. My process of this journey is it's it's that we want so we
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want so much to change and be happier and have a happier life, but
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we're not always good at integrating the information that we're receiving. And maybe that's
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not necessarily a bad thing. Is maybe that information kind of plotted a seed
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for you, But it wasn't really the seed that you wanted to grow.
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So I mean, there's nothing wrong with that, it's just different information comes
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up for us. But it just helped me kind of like, Yeah,
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I like this. I like being on the doing the reiki. I like
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doing the because I most of the time I would do it from distance.
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It's easier in a lot of ways. But this person and this was a
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process for me too. This person may end up watching this or may not,
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but locks down their emotions in a lot of ways because they learned that
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way from a childhood. So for me to go in doing this was a
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This was a new one for me. For me to pull and someone energy
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and within me and then go through the process. And I'm not getting to
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the area that this person was talking about hurting. It's not like I'm pulling
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me to that area at all. I'm getting drawn to a person's not hydrated,
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you know. I'm being drawn to these basic, these basic things.
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And it's like that's interesting. Now, if someone's if someone's high, if
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someone eats a gummy, if someone's on peoples or anything like that. As
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soon as I pull their energy and I'm fuzzy headed, I'm not getting it's
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it's it's it's kind of all over the place. So it was it was
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interesting, Oh you've noticed that before. And then I'll say something to my
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client and my client will say, oh, well, I had a gummy
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I'm like, well, that explains, because I'm like, your head's really
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fuzzy like it because it's just it's not pure and clear. It's just not
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But I couldn't pick up on it. I mean it's not that I couldn't.
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I just wasn't feeling the energy the pain within me that this person was
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happing, which I could say that that could be a million things that could
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be emotional, that could be you know, I mean, there's just so
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many other things that maybe I'm not I wasn't feeling it. But like I
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said, it was new. This was a new area to kind of play
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with it. At first, I was like, I'm like, dang it,
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I am not getting I'm just not getting anything on this. What is
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wrong with me? You know, thinking something's wrong with me, but recognizing
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there's there's more to the picture because I'm introducing someone else's energy to feel it,
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to feel what they're going through right now. And it wasn't it just
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wasn't coming up. And then and then like she comes in and it's like
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it totally like I couldn't stop the information coming through. There was so much
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information coming through. So it was it was awesome nice. Yeah, as
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far as that, what what immediately came to me when you said that,
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you know, she took a gummy and then everything was fuzzy and I'm not
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being drawn to Was that all the same person? I wasn't drawn No different,
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different different experiences, different people, Okay, because I mean, really
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you can you know, somebody could show up for a reiki session and still
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create a block of not really right, and so then that as a practitioner
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us from receiving information or guidance or you know, tuning in in ways to
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help help them further. So but yeah, I've I've I've worked on somebody
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who uh choked a little before their session and I I I was feeling those
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effects when I start working on them, and I'm like, what in the
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heck? And yeah, once we got done, because I don't when I
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work on on somebody, I typically don't talk because I want them to relax.
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And after when I was done, and I asked them about it.
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Oh, yeah, it is, I could relax. I'm like to the
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audience, it is important that you let your practitioner know some of these things.
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It's true. It's true. Yes, even if you're going to go
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have if you're going to go to someone that's gonna community with your loved ones
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from spirit, if you're gonna go see a psychic medium, it's the same
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thing. And then also being open, like recognizing where you're closed off because
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otherwise you're almost having to pry the person open. But then it's like once
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the person was in my my space, that energy shifted. But yeah,
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to be on it, to be in that. And when I when I
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work on someone because I've been high, but when I work on someone like
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that, I don't Typically that's not how I would would handle someone because I
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don't feel grounded or I'll feel how ungrounded they are, honestly, So that's
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usually a lot of what happens. And it's like even for my breaking sessions,
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I don't know how about about yours, But like when my instructor taught
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us, it could be hands away from the body and the energy or on
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the body matter and sometime like I would even be guided into some of my
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cranial sacral holds because I knew that something needed to be shifted in that space.
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So it's like it's just a free for roll when that happens. It's
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listening to your intuition and whatever, you know, whatever happens next, whatever
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your guide to do next, is how it's been for me. Yeah,
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and I know for you for sure as well with myself. As when you
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come to us for reiki sessions, you're gonna get a whole lot more than
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just an energy session. There's gonna be some dialogue, there's gonna be some
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other areas addressed, emotional, mental, not just physical, spiritual. Like
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I all four of them are a package deal for me and so yes,
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so it's not just oh I want a thirty minute raki session. I don't
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do that anymore. You come for a session, it's going to be an
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hour and a half. Not only do we do the session, also talk
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about the blocks, all four levels mental, emotional, physical, spiritual things.
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I mean, I do a coaching session with them as well. Because
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there's just so much to us, right and not us as amien bev as
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us as humans. And so people were seeking a raiki session or energy shift.
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Yeah, we can do that, but there's more to it. To
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me, that's just my philosophy. There's there's so much more to it,
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and that when you get done with that session, there's things to do after
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the session too, and it's a continuous or or you're going to take the
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role of just being an asshole and and then you're gonna come back with the
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same or similar issues and over and over another. It was so awesome this
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person like even like initially even given out information like hey, this is you
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know, do this work, and she was already doing it, like she
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was doing that work before she even came in for the raki session and said
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that she had already noticed the difference, had already noticed leap because we don't
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recognize how much we hold stuff in our bodies. We just don't recognize it.
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And then it's like you're going into those root chakras or though those lower
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three chakras, which are you know, that's our that those were created in
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the beginning when we first got here in these physical bodies. So as far
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as I know, I mean, I guess that that actually could go a
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million different directions. It could have been something that you had with you when
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you came in. But it's like, I don't know. I just know
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it to be our energy centers in our body, in these physical bodies.
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I don't know about the non physical. So it was just fascinating when you've
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got someone that just so wants to do the work and it's not and that's
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it's just it's amazing because you get to see the growth of this person because
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they're listening and doing those things, and it's like then it's like, you're
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not it's not that we're ever wasting our time, but you feel like that
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that we had value to that, that we gave value to that person.
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And that truth is we're always giving value to someone. It's just where however
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they're ready to utilize that information an now or later, it doesn't really matter.
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And maybe we're just one of the ones that plan to see so they
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can go see a couple more people they hear of the same thing, and
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that's okay. It was it was awesome. That's great to me. The
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reward is witnessing the transformation because not only not only is it what they're doing
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internally, that your actual complexion changes, your eyes change, your physical your
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physical presence changes somebody who is and I can speak to this because I experienced
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it in my own self in my back in the day when I was filled
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with anger and shame and guilt and all the stuff that you just have that
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heaviness. You have, the heaviness in your eyes, the dark circles,
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Your complexion is different, your skin is different, your your your body language
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is heavy. I mean, we all know what a depressed person looks like,
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slunched over, head hanging, closed off, heart, chakras closed off,
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and I mean and then when you're working with somebody and they are doing
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the work. To me again, the reward is seeing that shift and seeing
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them you know, their body comes up with more confidence and your it is
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a free well not free, but it's a bonus when you're doing your inner
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work. The bonus is it affects your skin. It absolutely, one hundred
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percent affects your skin, and you will look years younger because that heaviness is
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being lifted and your eyes will sparkle instead of just being deep and dark.
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Right, So that's the reward to me is watching that whole transformation. I
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mean, I had this one lady who came to me and we worked for
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a little while. She was exactly what I just said. She's very heavy
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in her emotion and just like kind of at the end of a rope.
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And she had these tiny, little blue eyes and you couldn't through the from
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the dark circles. You couldn't really see her eyes because the dark circles were
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so evident, right, And after working with her for a little bit,
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she her eyes were like amazing. They were they were little tiny, They're
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just so tiny, but they were just so bright. And her smile and
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when she walked in the room just totally lit up the room. It was
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so amazing. That transformation was That's what makes it worth it to me to
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keep doing this because you get to watch the ripple. You get to watch
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the ripple effect, honestly, because it came from you and it rippled out
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and it and it touch touched this person, and that person's gonna touch so
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many people, just like you said, just by their vibrancy, just by
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their we we are. We breathe differently when we're when we don't have all
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that stress, that fight or flight, that holding the breath and not taking
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you know, the shallow breathing and not taking the deep breaths. Right,
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it's that we we recognize all that, all that is a factor. And
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of course, when you're not getting the deep breaths, you're not feeling up
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with yourself. With oxygen, you're not getting enough for the body. And
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it's just because you're constantly. People don't even realize how often they're in that
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state, which is probably more often than not. And I like how you
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said that, Yeah, it's part of a It's there's so much layers to
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it for us, and I'm sure there's a lot of people that are out
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there like that as well. Excuse me, I'm clearing up my throat,
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choker, clearing it out right on. That's right, that's right. But
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it's it I recognize how valuable it is. And you just put words to
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everything because it's I can't not discuss everything that's coming up. And it's even
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if I'm working on someone doing a massage, sometimes I'm just like, okay,
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as soon as they roll around, like hey, because now I know
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they're relaxed when they were in that position. They roll over and I'm like,
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well, I've got some things to share with you, and I don't
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know how you're going to respond to but I'm just gonna share with you what
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these are the things that I picked up. And so I do that,
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and I noticed it more with new people. I don't get it with so
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much with maybe maybe uh clients that I've been seeing for a while, and
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I feel like because sometimes they're not they're coming in just for the massage,
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and it's like there's so much more to it. And that's that that information
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has been shared and then nothing's ever they didn't get the memo about you,
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it doesn't go much further. Yeah, because that's just the way it is.
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It's just I mean, there's like you just said, it's part of
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the whole package. It's not something I couldn't. They can come in and
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I can be quiet during their reiki session and I'll remember the things that I
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need to remember because I'll tell spirit. Yeah, and it's just awesome and
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it's and it's awesome each time I'm working on somebody, how I bring in
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different entities, different ascended masters, because it's what the person needs, right,
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it's what the person believes. And you don't even have to know it,
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you just know you just catch yourself like, Okay, well, I'm
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gonna call an Archangel Michael today. Oh I'm gonna call in the Holy Spirit,
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you know what I mean, I'm gonna call it. So it's not
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not always as it like that, oh, Mother Mary's coming in now,
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Jesus is here. But it's not. I don't have always those people that
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I call or those energies come in every single time. So it's another to
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me. It's another fascinating thing about just oh my god. You know,
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when we try so hard to be perfect all the time, we miss out
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on everything. We miss out on everything, because if you're trying to do
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reiki perfectly, then you're not allowing yourself to call in Archangel Michael or Archangel
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Raphael, or Jesus or God or whatever. You're just not allowing anything outside
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of the I've got to do this in a perfect ord this is the way
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it's supposed to be. And that's how I felt. And that's why I'm
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saying this because when I went through training, it's like, how am I
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going to do this? I gonna remember all these holds and I got to
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do this, and it's like and they would say, oh, trust your
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intuition, what the fuck? Like? Trust my intuition. It's like you
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know, I wasn't even tuned into all that. I was just getting tuned
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in and touching crystals and stuff like that and feeling energy that was like that
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was like moving for me. So yeah, so it was just crazy,
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that whole perfection thing when we when we feel like we've got to do everything
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so perfect and we feel like we're being launched, and yeah, I don't
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even care if I'm working on someone and I got my eyes closed. Well,
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if you look up at me and I got my eyes closed, whatever
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you want to think, I don't care because I'm Sometimes I close my eyes
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because I'm receiving information. Sometimes I don't. Yeah, I'm right, I'm
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with you. I My training too is you need to memorize these hand positions.
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And I had to do it on the instructor in order to pass.
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And then and then I took I took that one into certification from a different
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instructor and she's like, here's the here's the manual, here's the hand positions.
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It's important to know them, but trust your intuition. She didn't give
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hardly any attention to the hand positions. And that's the way I teach too,
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Like you sit and practice them on yourself, yourself reiki and let them
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have their book with them and then do the practice of the hand positions with
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their book on somebody else. And then I just tell them, listen,
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you're gonna be guided when you relax, you listen, your intuition's going to
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guide you. You're going to know where to work on them. Energy is
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going to go where it's gonna flow, and you're going to do great.
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So there's not there's not there's not pressure on me from you know, as
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the instructor. I'm like, we know, we know so much now,
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I mean think I you know, I respect that the reiki and the teacher
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of it, and I appreciate it. I and I feel like we've advanced
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further in the understanding energy. Yes, and so I totally I mean I
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kind of have a pattern that I will follow. If somebody's not completely like
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relaxed or like it can't I'm having difficulty tuning into them. Otherwise it's totally
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intuitive guided. I just go wherever I feel like I need to go with
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my hands, and I'm good with that if I sit on there and sit,
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but if I have my hands placed around their head for fifteen twenty minutes.
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Then that's where it's going to be. It's okay, it's okay,
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and that's the awesome thing. And it's like it's not even really true for
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me. It's not even about the raking anymore. Like you said, you
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brought up to it introduced us to energy. It was another doorway for something
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else. That's how I feel about it. And it's like it just open
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enough the way to do things, but not necessary. And it's like I
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even learned, like I when you were saying all this stuff and you don't
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even practice by all the book and all that stuff. I had taken my
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book with me for whatever reason. I had it with me when Jim and
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I had stayed at a hotel in Las Vegas, and for whatever reason,
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I left it sitting on the table there. I never got it back.
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So I never got the book back. Well, now, while we've been
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having this conversation, I realized I was never supposed to have that book because
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I wasn't supposed to. My perfectionist would have kept looking back at the book
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and wanted to do this for this and this for that, and if I
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ever do the symbol, sometimes I might catch myself doing the same symbol over
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and over and over again, and it's because the person needs it. And
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it's like, yeah, again, we can get in our way and start
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questioning these things, and it just goes all the way back to use your
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intuition. You're needing it. This person's needing this energy. And then also,
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I wanted to point out when we're stuck in that perfectionism and I'm working
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on someone, now, I'm using my own energy to try to do something,
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and I'm actually taking away from myself instead of allowing that divine energy that
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raking inergy whatever doctor was sueing, what however you want to do your the
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energy through you. Now it's not just now, it's me trying to be
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perfect and do all this stuff instead of just allowing that flow, which means
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and I would come out of those type of sessions exhausted afterwards, tired,
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not exhausted, but after being after seeing a few so many clients, I'd
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be tired, and it was because I was trying to do everything instead of
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allowing this nice flow to flow through me. And I you know, it's
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one of the things I think about reiki. Somebody says, hey, you
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know, I want to schedule absolutely, because you know what, it's not
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only for them, it's it's a bonus for you too, right, because
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that energy is flowing through you and to them, and so we're both I'm
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like, heck, yeah, I'm about for reiki session, no doubt.
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But that's cool. Well. What I love too about reiki is you know
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you can have like fifty sessions with one person, and every session is going
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to be different. Every single session is going to be different because me as
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the practitioner, I'm in a different space with myself the client. If they
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are doing well, even with the first reiki session, they're gonna have an
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energy shift. Now if they continue to do work on that, the next
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session is going to be even way different than the first, for sure.
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But each time based on life experiences, what happened that day, their mood.
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You know, every session it's like fingerprints. There's not gonna be one
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session the same because you're unpacking so much information. So like you're unpacking the
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suitcase, you're not going to unpack the same stuff out about suitcase every single
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time. We're just over those boxes. You know, those boxes they've been
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had in storage for ever. Forgot about it at the storage unit and then
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you go find the key open the doors. Unit, got all up in
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there. It's time to let go of it. And it's it's awesome,
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it really is. It is. It's an awesome experience. It's just working
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through it. I think I was just having a conversation this morning and that
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we were talking about you know, we don't have to know where all this
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stuff is, where the where the exact moment of all this information showed up
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in your system. You don't have to know that. It's just working through
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it. Because there's been some things that have come forward for me that I
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recognized, oh my gosh, that's where this is this stemmed from. But
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I didn't know it when I was working through the stuff, and that was
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okay. But it's like now it just comes through and it's like it's no
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big deal. It's not nothing to hold on to, it's nothing to know.
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I mean, it's all good to just set yourself free of it.
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Really, So back to the unpacking of things. Yeah, getting rid of
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that clutter in your house, and this is our house. It's to take
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care of that and not have all that stuff in there. Well, Louise
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Hay was coined for saying, in order to clean the house, you got
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to see the dirt. It's like, wow, okay, that's awesome.
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That's awesome, but it's true and sometimes we're not right. Sometimes we don't
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want to see that. Well, it'll be there for when you want to
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look at it. That's the way I look at it. It's okay,
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that's okay. You don't have to look at it right now, but you
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can look at it. You'll at some point you'll probably look at it.
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Maybe you know. Some people don't. And I keep telling people, the
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more that we work on ourselves individually, it's affecting our ancestors, it's affecting
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our children, it's affecting everybody around us, our partners, our our you
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know, peers at work. It's it's always it's affecting everybody just by guys
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doing these things, just by That's what was so amazing. It wasn't like,
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oh look what I did. It was all like, oh my gosh,
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look at the change that's going to happen from all this. That's phenomenal
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because it's such like I always say, the ripple, the butterfly effect,
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however you want to call it, but it's all the little tiny thing.
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You know, you think about the butterfly effect and it's just the wings moving
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and the energy that's coming off of that, so subtle, so tiny that
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you think nobody would notice the difference. And then you hear about past life
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or near death experiences that you know, they talk about those kind of things,
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how all these little things made such a huge difference in another person's life
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and looking at them and smiling like you don't think anything about that, but
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that person was thinking about probably killing themselves that day. So it's like it's
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it's so, it's there's such value and just us working on ourselves and us
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staying in our integrity and us being who were who are we finding that out?
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And then being that person that you want to be, not being restricted
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or controlled by anybody else, just being you because it doesn't matter anymore.
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If we're not in high school anymore, we don't have I'm not for a
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popularity, you know that will wanted to be seen and heard, And it's
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like now it's different, it's and now it's about it's not even about that
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because no matter what, when when we're into our soul, which I've noticed
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is lightly too if I'm looking at you and you're having a not a great
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day, and I'm looking at you, I can look at your soul.
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I don't have to. You know, it's not even just you. What
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if your neighbors grumpy all the time and you see them all the time Below
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that surface, this this suit that we're in is a soul, and it's
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like you can see their soul, you can feel their soul. You don't
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have to fill them on a surface level. And that's something else I'm learning
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as well too. And then we can look at everybody and we appreciate them
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and we love them so much, we really do. I think that's because
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that piece, to me is well, it's connected to that forgiveness process,
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the f word of the healing process, and so many of us, you
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know, are resistant to do that. I'm speaking for myself for sure in
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that one. Yes. And so to help people, students, clients understand
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that we're all. We're all, we're all spirit and body, and we're
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all love and joy. It's the shell, so our physical body and all
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of our programming and experiences, it's contributed to the way we are and how
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we show up in life. So we can see past the shell. So
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if you think about uh, I don't know, like a peanut M and
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M. There's the coating, that's what we see. That's the vibe,
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the color we see. But that's a little crunchy coating. And beyond that
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the chocolate and the nut. Some of us are nutty, I am so.
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But when we see what's inside instead of focusing on the exterior, that
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comes with practice, and it does me. I mean after UH doing a
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forgiveness process and practicing that, the seeing others through that eyes of spirit or
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seeing through seeing their soul, it becomes easier. And even those people that
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are very disgruntled or angry that are doing things we don't agree with, we
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can see past that shell and recognize their spirit in their body and connect there
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and send the love there. It becomes a lot easier. Yeah, you
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can't read a book by its cover. Yeah. Right, And back to
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even we were talking about I think it was the last session that we had
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talked. We had spoke. We were talking about Alex Ferrari's Next Level Soul
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and how he was doing his advertising and how how they were saying that,
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how they're getting people's attention. And then for me, right, a book
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by its cover. Again. I read that and it's like, ah,
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so that's you know. I'm like, I'm not going to listen to this,
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and then I end up listening to something or is it popping on because
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maybe I'm driving and it's like, well, I really need to listen to
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something. Oh okay, I'll just listen to this, and then it turns
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out to be such the best thing I've ever heard. But it's like not
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going by it. It's again not judging it by its cover really because even
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though someone's doing that to get attention for the masses, I'm already past that
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point. I'd rather if it's not reaching me from a positive message that I'm
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usually gonna kind of shun it. I'm not going to pay much attention to
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it. So that's kind of shifted. But it's interesting. It's nice that,
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Hey, if I can shift, anybody can shift. I want to
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tell people because I'm telling you I was not my whole life. It was
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one usually one emotion, and that was anger. I was crying. It's
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just because I got too pissed off and then I was crying. That's all.
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Yeah, So if I can do it, anyone can do it.
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Yeah, it's hilarious. Oh it is now. It wasn't that it is.
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That's true, it's true. You're right, it is now. It
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is now, and it wasn't then. It wasn't even probably two weeks ago.
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But the more that I can get in that space of just not seeing
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a person by their shell and really slowing down, really slowing down, that
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means I can't be all stuck in my craft. And it's like a practice,
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right, that's I'm practicing this on a daily basis. I'm sure it's
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good for me for a million things, because we pick up so much information
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when we slow down, when we don't have an agenda, when we don't
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have judgments, so when we don't have our perfectionism, when we're not doing
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any of those things, we can take in so much more information. And
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you can see a person at their soul level, not from the service level.
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And then all you want to do is just give them love, because
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that's all you feel coming from them. You're not feeling the immediate, the
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what's on the exterior. They want to push, they want to fight,
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they want to ur you, they want to whatever. It's opposite of that,
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it's they want to love. They just want to be loved and then
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you can give them so much love in that space, but we don't know
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that until we can see them past that exterior. And really it doesn't mean
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just so for the audience, doesn't mean you have to associate with this person,
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you have to the phone to text them, you have to hang out
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with them. You can do this from a distance and it's okay. So
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wow, what a great perspective. It's awesome. Thank you so much,
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thank you, thank you. It's just great because even if I was in
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that space tonight, I'm like, I have no idea what we're going to
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talk about. I don't know. It's sad I didn't. I just sat
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here and scribbled a lot. I'm like, okay, because I got on
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the When I first got sat down, I was like, okay, I
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don't know, because this is the end of the day for us, and
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usually I'm like fresher in the morning, right, but we can be fresh
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anytime, and it's the that's what I'm recognizing. But I'm sitting here,
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I'm like, I don't know what we're gonna be talking about today. Spirit
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So I'm like, it's you guys, get to take over the show and
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so they use our experiences. Yeah, so that's awesome. So thank you
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