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What Do You Do When Things Are Tough? Part 2 · Energy Medicine with Diane Goldner

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Energy Medicine with Diane Goldner. Everything is made
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  of scintillating energy, even you. I'm Diane Goldner, an internationally
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  known healer, intuitive, and author. Join me as we explore
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  the energy and consciousness that creates your reality. I'm here
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  to help you heal and awaken with Energy Medicine. Welcome
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  to Energy Medicine. I'm your host, Diane Goldner, and Julie
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  Hoyle is back with us to continue our conversation about,
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  we're going to explore further, what do you do when
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  things are going, when the going gets tough? Julie, welcome back.
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  We're going to continue. We're just going to jump right
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  back in.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Diane. I can't wait. Let's go.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we've been talking about circumstances changing. But, you know,
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  one of the circumstances, you know, I do a lot
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  of healing with people who have physical challenges. And one
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  of the circumstances that can change is you suddenly don't
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  feel well. Or like, where did that come from? And
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  why is that happening? And, you know, usually it's been
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  happening for a while.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: And you don't really want to pay attention to it.
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  And then your body just... you know, keeps kind of
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  upping the level of the message. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Turning the heat up or whatever you want to put it.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. So, um, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The thing is for a long time, and I know
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  you certainly do, even if I get the slightest headache
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  or backache or whatever it is, I go straight to
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  the condition and say, what are you here to show me? Yes.
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  And I look at it as an invitation to receive
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  a message from the body to pay attention to something
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  that maybe I haven't been noticing or I haven't wanted
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  to resolve or look at. And that's always a good
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  starting point. Obviously, if you need to go to see
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  a doctor or whatever, that's all fine too. But I
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  think if you look at the condition energetically from the
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  very beginning, it seems to soften it or speed up
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  the recovery process somehow, you know, and it has an effect. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. And sometimes you don't even find the right doctor until,
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  or the right medicine. I've seen that both in myself
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  and other people until you do that inner work and
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  follow the inner guidance. It's kind of crazy sometimes the
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  way that works. Yeah. I just want to say, you know,
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  chronic illness, lots of things are a long arc. Yes.
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  And for very complicated reasons. Sometimes... You know, we've been
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  carrying an energy for maybe many incarnations and it's our
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  soul has just decided it's time for you to heal this.
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  And then they read you the riot act.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Or carrying the weight of unresolved trauma.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Or unspoken frustrations from within the family dynamic.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. Now, that is such a big topic because I
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  personally think almost all of us are carrying some of
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  unresolved trauma. I don't know what you think. Do you?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I do.
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  Speaker 1: I do.
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  Speaker 2: I do.
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  Speaker 1: I was kind of surprised to find that I had some,
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  you know what I mean? I don't mean to sound whatever,
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  but it kind of, I originally, I didn't, you know, associate,
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  you know, my migraines or this with unresolved trauma. It took, right,
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  giving myself some space and getting into a really like
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  deep understanding. You know, it's not something that happens overnight.
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  Speaker 2: No, no. It's a process.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes. I think I want to emphasize that it
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  is a process because I think people get so discouraged
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  and think, well, I'm not having any luck. I'm not
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  having any impact. And it's not that you're not having impact.
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  It's that there might be so many different components to
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  whatever you're going through, and it will take time.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes. I mean, look, I can speak to that
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  directly because I started, I was thrown off a horse
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  when I was maybe 14 or 15 and, um, landed
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  on my back. And from that point on started to
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  have problems, you know, backwards phasm. And then things really
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  kicked off in my mid thirties. And I was on,
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  you know, two bulging discs and so on and so forth.
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  I was on bedrest for seven weeks. Um, But that
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  time when I was in my 30s and I had
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  this experience, I started to look at it from the
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  energetic perspective and I was gifted with all kinds of insights.
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  And that had a tremendous effect and that really helped
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  the healing process. And having said that, even though there
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  was a recognition with respect to what this was here,
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  this back condition was here to show me, over the
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  years since, I've still had I've had moments where I've
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  had pain and it usually kicks off where there's been
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  a lot of stress I've been dealing with or I've
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  been having to work really long hours or, you know, whatever.
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  So it's my body's way of saying, hey, don't forget.
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  Pay attention.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I think most of us have like a spot. Yes.
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  And whenever things get a little tougher, that spot, even
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  if you worked on it a lot, you know, what
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  I'd like to say is there's a difference between I
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  can like heal almost anyone's migraine headache, you know, long
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  distance in person, except my own. But it's also different
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  than healing the underlying cause of a migraine headache. And
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  that is a much deeper, more involved process that can
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  take a long time.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, for sure. Yes, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: So I hope that gives people perspective because, you know,
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  a lot of people are dealing with some kind of
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  chronic challenge. whether it's a physical challenge or like losing
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  job after job, that's a chronic, I consider that a
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  chronic challenge of a different sort or not being able
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  to make money or whatever. But, you know, so you'll
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  have these episodic moments. And, you know, in my case,
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  you know, when I first started exploring healing, I didn't
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  even realize I had a chronic problem. I just thought, okay,
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  I get a headache every so often. So, you know,
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  and now I think I'm at the point where I
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  don't really even, I'm just unraveling that final energy pattern,
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  which is amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: So, but it takes a long time to unravel to
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  that level where you're not even dealing with the, you know, symptoms,
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  so to speak, and you're just clearing that energy completely. Yeah.
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  So I just want to say, I think life is
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  a miracle and just everything is so filled with grace.
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  We just, you know, and I just want to impart
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  that to everybody. Like even if you're suffering from something
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  or going through a hard time, it's a form of grace.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And it does help to have a touchstone. you know,
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  either through your path, your faith, your tradition, a prayer,
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  a mantra, a practice, yoga practice, whatever it is, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I could go forward in life without that.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, it does make a huge difference because, again,
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  it helps us get centered and then connect with what
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  is real. And from there, we're able to draw strength
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  and courage and guidance. and be able to take the
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  next step. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for saying that. So, you know, we didn't talk,
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  there's a whole other dimension to this topic. Should we
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  dive into that for a minute?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Because I, you know, I've been asked about this, and
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  I think it's on everybody's mind now. And that is,
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  you know, the world is going through a lot right now.
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  And you pick up the paper, and there's so much suffering.
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  And it can be so heartbreaking, even if you're not
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  personally involved with it. You know, when there's suffering from anyone,
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  it does affect all of us, whether we realize it
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  or not. Just energetically, you know, that field is affected.
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  and um and it's so heartbreaking and also the feeling
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  that maybe you can't do something like every time i
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  read about somebody in iran who's being sentenced to death
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  or is facing hanging i mean you just want to
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  weep and so there's a lot of that going.
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  Speaker 2: On yes for sure yeah one thing I was reflecting
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  on the other day is you know we tend to
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  think and have conversations about what's happening in the world
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  and make statements like it's never been this bad world
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  is crazy and it's getting crazier and all of those
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  things that I think, you know, part of the kind
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  of the illusion around that is that, of course, decades ago,
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  200 years ago or however long ago, there wasn't social media.
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  There wasn't the ability to connect with people across.
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  Speaker 1: There wasn't even TV.
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  Speaker 2: There wasn't TV. So everybody knew about the struggles within
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  their own small community and, of course, in their own lives.
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  They didn't know the kind of the broader aspects of
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  what that suffering looked like. Now it's in everybody's backyard.
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  It's in faces. So all of that said, I'm not
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  saying this to minimize suffering.
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  Speaker 1: No, I agree with you. Not only that, when you
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  think about, you know, there's no period of time where
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  people weren't terrible to each other.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: I think we have to be very careful about what we.
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  Speaker 2: Imbibe You know, it's like if you were going to,
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  I don't know, let's say a fast food restaurant every
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  day and you're eating breakfast, lunch and dinner there, you
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  wouldn't stay very healthy for very long. And the same
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  is true to opening up to, you know, everything that
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  you see online, especially the negative news because negativity sells.
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  So we have to be mindful about what we're taking
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  in and also balance that with our own inner practices
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  our own kind of you know contemplations or whatever we
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  do to again get centered and grounded and from that
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  place we can help we can help shift a mood
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  or an environment a room you know, you can help
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  lift the energy in the room where there's, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Or even just pray for other people or a country or,
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  you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: But when you sink down to the despair, then it's
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  hard to be a force for uplifting other people. Absolutely. Yes. So, yeah,
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  somebody asked me this question recently and I was like, well,
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  I just don't think there's any period of time, you know,
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  I mean, is this worse than World War II or
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  World War I? I mean, that was horrific or the
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  War of the Roses or the, you know, you could
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  just go back and the Roman times, I mean, you know,
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  or what's happening in, you know, the Sudan or what
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  happened in Rwanda. I mean, it's just, you know, the
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  thing that I take from this is that you want
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  to do your practices, you want to stay in as
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  uplifted a state as possible, and you want to be
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  kind and compassionate to others. It doesn't mean not having boundaries,
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  but the thing you can always do. And you can
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  do it thinking, I just want to bring more kindness
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  into the world. I want to, you know, I remember
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  once I was online. This is like a long time ago.
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  It's like a little story, okay? But I've never forgotten it.
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  A little experience, but it was big, very big. So
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  I was online in a store in Manhattan. Maybe it
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  was a deli or something. I think it was a deli.
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  And the guy behind the counter was a little overwhelmed.
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  There was a lot of demand and this and that
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  and customers who were agitated. Maybe there was a long line.
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  And when he was taking the order of the person
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  right in front of me, I realized some of the,
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  you know, things on the counter were disarrayed, like maybe
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  the cards and the toothpicks or something. And I just
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  straightened everything up while I was waiting. Seems like a
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  really small thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And it is a small thing, but I did it
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  with an intention. And he was so grateful because he
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  could feel the intention, which was to bring order, comfort, support.
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  So it doesn't always take a lot to make a
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  difference in another person's life. Right, right.
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  Speaker 2: And the thing that I always try to do, and again,
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  this is a really, really simple example, but whenever I
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  go to the food store, I talk to the checkout staff. Yes.
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  You know, largely women. I'll say, hi, how's it going?
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  How's your day been? What time did you start? When
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  do you finish? Yes, I do that too. No, I
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  can't wait.
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  Speaker 1: To get home. I say, are you at the beginning
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  of your shift or the end?
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Just to make, just to help them feel acknowledged
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  and to say that I really value, you know, them
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  working there and helping me, you know. And, you know,
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  the security guard on the way out, thank you so much.
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  You know, I'll make a joke. In the Bahamas, they
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  sign your checkout slip to make sure that.
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  Speaker 1: You pay for everything. Oh, yes, they haven't stolen anything.
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  They do that at Costco, too. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So, you know, I'll make a joke. I'll say, I'm
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  keeping your signature because when you get famous, I'll be
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  able to sell it. You know, I'll make a joke
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  about something, you know, and we just have a laugh
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  and then I go about my day. But these very,
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  very simple things can really brighten someone's day. And it
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  doesn't cost anything. It doesn't take anything. Yeah, it makes
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  me feel good. I have a laugh with them and then,
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  you know, on I go.
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  Speaker 1: So, and it can seem like this is totally disconnected
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  from all the disorder and violence in the world, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Political violence, whatever you want to call it. But It
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  is an antidote.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: And so we want to do the antidote. Big and small. Prayer,
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  acts of kindness. You can always make a difference.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: And you do have to shield yourself from just getting
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  swept up in it. I swear, I was reading all
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  about Jeffrey Epstein and his victims. Very tragic. I mean, horrifying.
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  But I just, there came a point where I just,
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  I had learned enough and it was traumatizing myself. And
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  I had to stop, you know, dwelling on the worst
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  negative parts of it. It's not that I don't believe
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  in justice in that case or anything, but actually withdrawing
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  from the dark part of it actually can help support
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  the light.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes. And, you know, I think that's really key.
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  The key is to obviously be informed, but then know
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  when to kind of safeguard yourself.
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  Speaker 1: And transmute. Transmute your own darker or, you know, despairing
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  energies into light.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. Yes. From that perspective, then you're able to be
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  a light in the world. You're able to help other people.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. Which is what, you know, setting your intention. It's
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  a simple thing and it goes a long way. So,
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  you know, what is your intention? You know, do you
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  want to be uplifting other people? Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: So, yeah, be a saint. Right? Why not?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, why not? I mean, instead of thinking that's only available.
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  Speaker 1: To other people.
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  Speaker 2: To saints.
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  Speaker 1: To saints.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I always remember there was a quote, and I forget,
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  I think, who was it now? I forget which saint
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  that said it, or a night being that said it,
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  but he said, there's no saint without a past and
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  no sinner without a future.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, isn't that beautiful?
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  Speaker 2: It's so beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. I love that so much. Because, you know,
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  I mean, that says something else, too, which is people
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  get into a thing and they're like, I can't make
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  things better. You know, like either they are carrying so
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  much guilt or shame or so destroyed by something that happened.
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  But you can always bring it to the light and
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  ask for healing. Maybe you can't do it all yourself.
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  I actually think it's impossible to do it all yourself.
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  It's really helpful to do it with other people and
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  the saints and the archangels and things like that. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: I remember now, it was Heideken Baba. That was the name.
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  There's no saint without a past and no sinner without
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  a future. And I just said, wow. It's such a
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  simple message, but it's profound.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and we can all decide that we want to
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  be on the path to sainthood, right?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, why not? What other path would you want
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  to be on?
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Well, it's always amazing to talk to you, Julie.
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  And I hope everyone comes away from this feeling uplifted
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  or guided. And we will be returning soon. And I
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  hope you'll be back soon, too. It's great to have you.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Diane. This has been an absolute joy as always.
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  Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: God bless. And we'll be back next week with Energy Medicine.
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  All my love to all of you. Thank you for listening.
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