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Step Out of Your Comfort Zone: Make a Bold Change Today · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: And the best advice I can give you is if
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  Speaker 1: I can do it, you can do it. No matter
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  Speaker 1: where you are, where you come from, color doesn't matter,
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  Speaker 1: religion doesn't matter, where you grew up doesn't matter. Circumstances
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  Speaker 1: don't matter. I'm telling you, if you'll make the promise
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  Speaker 1: of the future clear for yourself, the things you want,
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  Speaker 1: the places you want to go, the things you want
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  Speaker 1: to have, the person you want to become, the skills
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  Speaker 1: you want, the homes you want, the future you want,
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  Speaker 1: the friends you want, all of the values of life
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  Speaker 1: that you could possibly want. If you'll make that clear,
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  Speaker 1: make those lists and be serious about it. I promise
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  Speaker 1: you it's an easy price to pay. Anybody can pay it.
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  Speaker 2: Choice is a gift that's always there. You can choose
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  Speaker 2: what you focus on, and what you focus on is
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  Speaker 2: what you're gonna experience. You can focus on things that
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  Speaker 2: make you suffer. You can focus on things that make
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  Speaker 2: you grateful. The mindset has to be destroy any limitation
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  Speaker 2: and move forward. Move forward, move forward, There is a way,
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  Speaker 2: move forward.
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  Speaker 3: You are where you are because of your feelings. You
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  Speaker 3: not old principles right now, that's not what dries you.
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  Speaker 2: You would be a millionaire. Right now, you stop going
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  Speaker 2: back to bed.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah you got the mentor yeah you got the books.
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  Speaker 3: So what the books can't make you get your butt up,
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  Speaker 3: But what can is your principles.
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  Speaker 2: Stress doesn't come from hard work. Stress primarily comes from
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  Speaker 2: not taking action over something that you can have some
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  Speaker 2: control over.
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  Speaker 4: You got to start walking because the perspective is not
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  Speaker 4: going to change. You have to start moving forward. You
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  Speaker 4: have to start taking steps in order to improve your vision,
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  Speaker 4: improve your perspective, change your perspective, make some kind of progress,
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  Speaker 4: and worst case scenario, you figure out that you walk
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  Speaker 4: the wrong direction. Okay, now you can walk in the
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  Speaker 4: other direction, and that's that's going to be fine. But
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  Speaker 4: standing there lost and not doing anything is just waiting
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  Speaker 4: to die, waiting to starve to death. Don't let that happen.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't get to where I am.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't get here being legs.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't get here.
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  Speaker 3: At man's watching TV. I didn't get here taken day
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  Speaker 3: days off. I personally know what it takes. One day,
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  Speaker 3: I made a decision that enough is enough. I'm tired
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  Speaker 3: of being average. I'm tired. I'm tired of being good.
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  Speaker 3: I'm tired.
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  Speaker 5: I made a v fissure.
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  Speaker 6: Enough is enough, it's show time.
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  Speaker 3: In order for you to go from one level to
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  Speaker 3: the next level, in order for any woman to transition,
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  Speaker 3: for any man to transition, the thing that they want
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  Speaker 3: must be greater than the thing they've curly act, you
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  Speaker 3: only transition from one level to the next when you
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  Speaker 3: tied on.
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  Speaker 2: The level you are.
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  Speaker 3: You don't belong at the bottom, and it's time for
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  Speaker 3: you to get your butt from down there. It's toping
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  Speaker 3: to stuff being comfortable at the bottom. Get your butt
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  Speaker 3: up and get your where you're supposed to be, Get
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  Speaker 3: you where you belong, Do what you're supposed to do,
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  Speaker 3: Live like you're supposed to live.
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  Speaker 7: I get happier about the harder it is because I
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  Speaker 7: know that no.
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  Speaker 1: One else will fall.
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  Speaker 3: It's a selection of fact.
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  Speaker 6: And I think if you can, if you can shift
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  Speaker 6: from miss hard to no one else will be able
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  Speaker 6: to do this. Then if it flips from being this
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  Speaker 6: thing that you're like, oh for me to oh poor,
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  Speaker 6: everyone else who's gonna have to try.
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  Speaker 8: Be the guy who embraces the ugly and miserable. Be
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  Speaker 8: the guy who embraces hard work to grind. Don't be
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  Speaker 8: afraid of being heard don't be a creative sacrifice of
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  Speaker 8: some blood.
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  Speaker 6: There was probably one hundred days where I didn't want
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  Speaker 6: to do anything. I wanted to stay in the poor
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  Speaker 6: or stay in my bed and not get out. But
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  Speaker 6: those were the days where you have to you have
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  Speaker 6: to get up and do something, because I think that's
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  Speaker 6: really what separates the good from the great. The great
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  Speaker 6: through things when they don't always want to do them.
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  Speaker 3: Pleasure consumes us, work strengthens us.
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  Speaker 2: Let us choose.
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  Speaker 5: Energy is everything when you're thinking about a lot of attraction,
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  Speaker 5: and you need to be coming from a positive, grateful,
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  Speaker 5: abundant feeling in order to start creating more of that.
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  Speaker 5: You can't come from a feeling of lack, of scarcity,
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  Speaker 5: of not enough. I don't love myself. If you don't
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  Speaker 5: love yourself, you're saying to the world, to the universe,
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  Speaker 5: to other people, why would I work with you? Why
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  Speaker 5: do want I connect with you? Why do I want
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  Speaker 5: want to be in love with you? If you don't
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  Speaker 5: love yourself. So you've got to start shifting that way
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  Speaker 5: of thinking, the way of feeling, the way of being
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  Speaker 5: in order to really show up energetically around other people.
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  Speaker 5: One of my early mentors told me. The world makes
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  Speaker 5: room for passionate people. Think about it. If you are
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  Speaker 5: slunched over every single day like this, lack of confidence, stressed, anxious, depressed,
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  Speaker 5: and you're unable to get out of your own way
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  Speaker 5: because you're constantly thinking about how much you don't love yourself.
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  Speaker 5: I've been there, I know this feeling if you were
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  Speaker 5: in that state. People aren't attracted to that. They are
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  Speaker 5: attracted as someone who is humble yet confident at the
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  Speaker 5: same time and their abilities, someone who cares and can
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  Speaker 5: look other people. That I someone who's got a big
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  Speaker 5: heart and opens up and is willing to receive information,
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  Speaker 5: not someone who's slouched over and has a middle finger
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  Speaker 5: up to the world. They want people who are open,
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  Speaker 5: who are willing, who are down to try things, who
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  Speaker 5: are passionate at least passionate about the thing they care about.
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  Speaker 5: And when you show you are passionate about something, people
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  Speaker 5: are attracted to energy that is passionate, that is grateful,
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  Speaker 5: that is fun, that is loving, that is expressive, that
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  Speaker 5: is creative, that is expansive. They're not attracted to people
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  Speaker 5: who are closed off and guarded. That is not attractive,
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  Speaker 5: that is not sexy in any part of life in
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  Speaker 5: a relationship health business, You're not going to attract people
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  Speaker 5: from that place. So we're working to reprogram your mind
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  Speaker 5: and break the patterns that have been leading your life.
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  Speaker 5: Because I've been there in so many different areas of
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  Speaker 5: my life for many different years that have held me back,
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  Speaker 5: and some I've been confidence cern areas, and others I've
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  Speaker 5: lacked confidence. And this is a process, and this is
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  Speaker 5: a journey, and it's not going to happen overnight.
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  Speaker 7: Everyone has two natures. One wants us to advance and
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  Speaker 7: the other wants to pull us back. The one that
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  Speaker 7: we cultivate and concentrate on decides what we are at
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  Speaker 7: the end. Both natures are trying to gain control. The
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  Speaker 7: will alone decides the issue. A man, by one supreme
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  Speaker 7: effort of the will may change his whole career and
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  Speaker 7: almost accomplish miracles. You may be that man you can
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  Speaker 7: be if you will to be. For will can find
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  Speaker 7: a way or make one. I could easily fill a
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  Speaker 7: book of cases where men plodding along in a matter
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  Speaker 7: of fact way, we're all at once aroused and as
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  Speaker 7: if awakening from a slumber, they develop the possibilities within them,
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  Speaker 7: and from that time on. We're different persons. You alone
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  Speaker 7: can decide when the turning point will come. It is
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  Speaker 7: a matter of choice whether we allow our divine herself
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  Speaker 7: to control us, or whether we will be controlled by
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  Speaker 7: the brute within us. No man has to do anything
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  Speaker 7: he does not want to do. He is therefore the
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  Speaker 7: director of his life if he wills to be. What
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  Speaker 7: we are to do is the result of our training.
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  Speaker 7: We are like putty and can be completely controlled by
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  Speaker 7: our willpower. Habit is a matter of acquirement. You hear
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  Speaker 7: people say he comes by this or that naturally a
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  Speaker 7: chip off the old block, meaning that he is only
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  Speaker 7: doing what his parents did. This is quite often the case,
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  Speaker 7: but there is no reason for it. For a person
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  Speaker 7: can break a habit just the moment he masters the
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  Speaker 7: I will. A man may have been a good for
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  Speaker 7: nothing all his life up to this very minute, but
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  Speaker 7: from this time on he begins to amount to something.
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  Speaker 7: Even old men have suddenly changed and accomplished wonders. I
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  Speaker 7: lost my opportunity, says one. That may be true, but
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  Speaker 7: by sheer force of will, we can find a way
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  Speaker 7: to bring us another opportunity. There is no truth in
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  Speaker 7: the saying that opportunity knocks at our door, but once
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  Speaker 7: in a lifetime. The fact is, opportunity never seeks us.
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  Speaker 7: We must seek it. What usually turns out to be
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  Speaker 7: one man's opportunity was another man's loss. In this day,
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  Speaker 7: one man's brain is matched against another's. It is often
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  Speaker 7: the quickness of brain action that determines the result. One
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  Speaker 7: man thinks I will do it, but while he procrastinates,
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  Speaker 7: the other goes ahead and does the work. They both
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  Speaker 7: have the same opportunity. The one will complain of his
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  Speaker 7: lost chance, but it should teach him a lesson, and
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  Speaker 7: it will if he is seeking the path that leads
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  Speaker 7: to success. Many persons read good books, but say they
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  Speaker 7: do not get much good out of them. They do
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  Speaker 7: not realize that all any book or any lesson course
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  Speaker 7: can do is to awaken them to their possibilities, to
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  Speaker 7: stimulate them to use their will power. You may teach
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  Speaker 7: a person from now until doom's day, but that person
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  Speaker 7: will only know what he learns himself. You can lead
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  Speaker 7: him to the fountain, but you can't make him drink.
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  Speaker 7: One of the most beneficial practices I know of is
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  Speaker 7: that of looking for the good in everyone and everything,
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  Speaker 7: For there is good in all things. We encourage a
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  Speaker 7: person by seeing his good qualities, and we also help
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  Speaker 7: ourselves by looking for them. We gain their good wishes,
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  Speaker 7: a most valuable asset. Sometimes we get back what we
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  Speaker 7: give out. The time comes when most all of us
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  Speaker 7: need encouragement, need buoying up. So form the habit of
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  Speaker 7: encouraging others, and you will find it a wonderful tonic
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  Speaker 7: for both those encouraged and yourself, For you will get
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  Speaker 7: back encouraging and uplifting thoughts. I can think of nothing
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  Speaker 7: but lack of health that should interfere with one becoming successful.
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  Speaker 7: There is no other handicap that you should not be
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  Speaker 7: able to overcome. To overcome a handicap, all that it
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  Speaker 7: is necessary to do is to use more determination and
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  Speaker 7: grit and will. The man with grit and will may
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  Speaker 7: be poor today and wealthy in a few years. Will
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  Speaker 7: Power is a better asset than money. Will will carry
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  Speaker 7: you over chasms of failure if you but give it
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  Speaker 7: the chance. The men that have risen to the highest
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  Speaker 7: positions have usually had to gain their victories against big odds.
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  Speaker 7: Think of the hardships many of our inventors have gone
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  Speaker 7: through before they became a success. Usually they have been
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  Speaker 7: very much misunderstood by relatives and friends. Very often they
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  Speaker 7: did not have the bare necessities of life. Yet by
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  Speaker 7: sheer determination and resolute courage, they managed to exist somehow
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  Speaker 7: well until they perfected their inventions, which afterwards greatly helped
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  Speaker 7: in bettering the condition of others. Everyone really wants to
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  Speaker 7: do something, but there are few that will put forward
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  Speaker 7: the needed effort to make the necessary sacrifice to secure it.
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  Speaker 7: There's only one way to accomplish anything, and that is
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  Speaker 7: to go ahead and do it. A man may accomplish
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  Speaker 7: almost anything today if he just sets his heart on
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  Speaker 7: doing it and lets nothing interfere with his progress. Obstacles
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  Speaker 7: are quickly overcome by the man that sets out to
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  Speaker 7: accomplish his heart's desire. The bigger the man, the smaller
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  Speaker 7: the obstacle appears. The smaller the man, the greater the
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  Speaker 7: obstacle appears. Always look at the advantage you gain by
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  Speaker 7: overcoming obstacles, and it will give you the needed courage
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  Speaker 7: for their conquest. Do not expect that you will always
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  Speaker 7: have easy sailing. Parts of your journey are likely to
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  Speaker 7: be rough. Don't let the rough places put you out
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  Speaker 7: of commission. Keep on with the journey. Just the way
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  Speaker 7: you weather the storm shows what material you are made of.
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  Speaker 7: Never sit down and complain of the rough places, but
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  Speaker 7: think how nice the pleasant stretches were, view with delight
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  Speaker 7: the smooth planes that are in front of you. Do
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  Speaker 7: not let us set back stop you think of it
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  Speaker 7: as a mere incident that has to be overcome before
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  Speaker 7: you can reach your goal.