272 | Fine Tuning Limit-Setting: Clarifying the "A" in the ACT Framework

Play Therapy Podcast: A Master-Class in Child-Centered Play Therapy · Feb 25, 2025 · 12m

In this episode, I clarify the difference between reflecting feelings as a standalone reflective response and reflecting feelings within limit-setting (ACT model). While both serve important functions in CCPT, they operate differently—one builds emotional vocabulary, while the other provides validation and structure within a limit.

I also address a common mistake: reflecting cognitions instead of emotions. Therapists often acknowledge what a child is thinking instead of what they are feeling, which can miss the deeper emotional experience. Understanding these distinctions ensures that our…