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The One About The Vanderpump Rules Season 11 Premiere Party · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Hello, cool, just welcome back to give them Lap podcast.
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  Speaker 1: How are we all doing today, Easton? Amazing?
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  Speaker 2: Jessica so good.
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  Speaker 1: Tell you I'm feeling really really great. We've had like
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  Speaker 1: a pretty fantastic week. It's been very eventful, very eventful,
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  Speaker 1: very eventful. Before we get into all the things, I
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  Speaker 1: want to let you guys know that we have officially
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  Speaker 1: dropped a bonus episode, and we will be dropping bonus
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  Speaker 1: episodes every single Monday. They will be out exactly where
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  Speaker 1: you find this regular podcast, and you will also find
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  Speaker 1: the videos on the YouTube channel, and the bonus episode
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  Speaker 1: audio and video drop the same day every Monday. You're
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  Speaker 1: welcome make a big deal about it, Easton, Like, do.
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  Speaker 2: You even care?
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  Speaker 3: It's kind of a big deal, exciting, and people have
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  Speaker 3: been asky, They're like, I want to listen to you
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  Speaker 3: twice a week.
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  Speaker 2: Well, your wish is our command.
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  Speaker 4: And we're here for it. Yeah. I enjoyed recording these.
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  Speaker 1: I do too. And the bonus is shorter, so you're
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  Speaker 1: not gonna get annoyed with us. You know, we're still
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  Speaker 1: leaving you with like missing right, wanting more, missing us
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  Speaker 1: a bit, and the bonus episodes are much more structured
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  Speaker 1: where I want to bring you guys in a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more. We're gonna have topics rather than just me
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  Speaker 1: and my friends rambling.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so fun though.
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  Speaker 3: The topics so far are so good, and you guys
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  Speaker 3: are all being so active writing it.
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  Speaker 2: So they are they Yes, I'm trying.
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  Speaker 3: To fix this arm, which you'll probably see on the video,
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  Speaker 3: and it keeps falling, so that's okay.
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  Speaker 2: I'll go like this, Yeah, better fix it.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's how you're supposed to do it anyway.
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  Speaker 1: I have been off social media. What's going on on
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  Speaker 1: the internet. We're on social media?
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  Speaker 2: First off? Can you tell us why.
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  Speaker 1: I am in a mode of protecting my energy right
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  Speaker 1: now and kind of incubating and creating a very positive
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  Speaker 1: environment for myself At this stage in my life, I
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  Speaker 1: don't feel that I need to really see what's going
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  Speaker 1: on in people's worlds that have nothing to do with
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  Speaker 1: my world. I want to live in reality and just
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  Speaker 1: protect my well being right now. And I'm not saying
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  Speaker 1: that I won't be on socials again soon, but I've
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  Speaker 1: been off since I want to say, Christmas, and it's
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  Speaker 1: been absolutely fabulous. So I've been out and about right,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I've been on Katie's socials. But I just
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel any desire to see what other people
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  Speaker 1: are doing, nor do I have a desire to show
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  Speaker 1: people what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 3: I love it, love this for you, and I do yes.
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  Speaker 3: I always encourage people. I encourage mister Bubbs all the time.
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  Speaker 3: Is it take a social media break even if it's
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  Speaker 3: a day? Yeah, I know you're doing longer, but that
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  Speaker 3: makes me happy.
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  Speaker 4: Buddy Jake, he put like restrictions on his apps.
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so he can only be on like Instagram for
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  Speaker 4: like twenty minutes of the day. Okay, so after that
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  Speaker 4: it just kicks him off. So I think that's like
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  Speaker 4: a really good thing to do. But I like go
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  Speaker 4: on cool Turkey too.
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  Speaker 1: I just feel I feel really happy, Like mentally, I
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  Speaker 1: feel pretty strong, and I think that's because social media
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  Speaker 1: has not been in my line of vision.
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  Speaker 2: Right for a while. Well, let me ask you something.
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  Speaker 3: So this is because you ask what's going on on
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  Speaker 3: socials and just so people are aware in case anything
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  Speaker 3: big happens before this comes out. We're recording this on
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  Speaker 3: January nineteenth, the premiere for vander Pump Rules that we've
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  Speaker 3: already seen because we saw it at the premiere party
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  Speaker 3: the other night. Is that comes out on the thirtieth
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  Speaker 3: Will you get back on socials for that or will
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  Speaker 3: you especially ignore socials for that?
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  Speaker 1: I will not be back on social media for the
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  Speaker 1: first episode. I don't. I don't see myself getting back
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  Speaker 1: on socials for a while. Maybe if I think something
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  Speaker 1: is worth posting, like the Emmy look. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: that needs to be posted. So I sent the photos
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  Speaker 1: that I wanted to Jessica, and Jessica has access to
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  Speaker 1: my Instagram. I said, make this the caption, and then like,
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  Speaker 1: We're good.
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  Speaker 2: It's really that was a stunning look. By the way.
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  Speaker 1: No, I definitely don't think I'm going to get back
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  Speaker 1: on especially for the first episode.
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  Speaker 3: Right well, for Socials as far as right now. There's
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  Speaker 3: some talk I saw this morning about Rachel episode two.
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  Speaker 3: Do you want to touch on that? Rachel's podcast episode two?
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  Speaker 3: Do you want to touch on that?
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  Speaker 4: Another one?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? And I listened to it this morning and I did, oh,
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  Speaker 2: did you listen to it?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so I have to say. Easton played me the
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  Speaker 1: tiniest little bit of the first episode after we recorded
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  Speaker 1: our podcast a couple of weeks ago, and I did not.
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  Speaker 1: I think it was unbearable to listen to. I did
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  Speaker 1: not find her voice to be shaky or annoying. I
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  Speaker 1: found it to actually be pretty interesting. Again, I only
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  Speaker 1: listened to the tiniest little bit, but I thought that
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  Speaker 1: she was I thought she was good. And it was
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  Speaker 1: only the first episode, and the Lord knows, you only
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  Speaker 1: get better unless you're me.
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  Speaker 2: Then it's all.
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  Speaker 1: Downhill from the first episode. You've become a little too COMFTB.
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  Speaker 3: But she well today when I listened to the episode,
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  Speaker 3: and you know, I won't spend too much time on it,
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  Speaker 3: but I agree with you. I thought she did bring
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  Speaker 3: up she said, you know, I know a lot of
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  Speaker 3: people are saying I'm laughing. I do laugh when I
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  Speaker 3: talk about things. It's not me being insensitive. That's what
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  Speaker 3: I do when I'm nervous from someone who does the.
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  Speaker 2: Exact same thing.
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  Speaker 4: Right, I can comfortable.
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  Speaker 2: It's very uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 4: Like I said that. I said that she was laughing,
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  Speaker 4: but it was an un comfortable I feel like I
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  Speaker 4: did touch on that when I was talking about it.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't think she was coming or laughing from a
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  Speaker 4: like a place of hate. It was almost like you.
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  Speaker 1: Like didn't care.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she was uncomfortable. That's what you do. I've done
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  Speaker 4: it as well. You either laugh or you cry.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she says something that.
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  Speaker 1: Well, she usually laughs and then starts crying. And it's
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  Speaker 1: actually really really sad. It happened on when we were
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  Speaker 1: driving to Lake have a SEO.
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  Speaker 4: I believe.
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  Speaker 1: She started laughing in the back of the car and
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  Speaker 1: then started sobbing, and it was heartbreaking.
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  Speaker 3: So she said something that you say, which I was like, oh, wow, common,
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  Speaker 3: this is a common belief they have. So basically Rachel
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  Speaker 3: said something that I've heard you say before, and she said,
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  Speaker 3: when someone dates so quick after a breakup, it's a
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  Speaker 3: red flag in my mind. But then she quickly follows
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  Speaker 3: it up with but who am I to judge, it's
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  Speaker 3: not my life.
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  Speaker 1: I agree, But we have a podcast, so this is
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  Speaker 1: a platform where we talk about other people and we
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't do what they do, you know, this is where
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  Speaker 1: we ride on our high horse. I think it's a
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  Speaker 1: huge red flag. Not only do I think it's extremely
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  Speaker 1: unhealthy for someone to get out of a relationship and
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  Speaker 1: jump into another one, but it's a red flag for
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  Speaker 1: me when there's a person who's willing to get into
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with someone who just got out of a relationship.
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  Speaker 3: Right right, I hear you. She also brings up so
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  Speaker 3: that point I thought.
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  Speaker 1: I say one other thing. Yeah, when someone or people
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  Speaker 1: say there's no timeline to moving on, people move at
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  Speaker 1: their own pace. I cringe. Do you you're right? It's
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  Speaker 1: the difference between people who are are unhealthy and who
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  Speaker 1: are healthy. Yes, you're right, there is no timeline. No
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  Speaker 1: one says when you should or shouldn't. But if we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna like really break it down, it's really the difference
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  Speaker 1: between being a healthy person and being an unhealthy person.
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  Speaker 2: I hear you.
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  Speaker 3: Can I bring this up. So Kyle was in a
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  Speaker 3: four year relationship before he met me. Uh, they broke up.
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  Speaker 3: We met I think two months later, and we were
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  Speaker 3: dating four months later. A lot of his friends said, dude,
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  Speaker 3: that is way too fast. Obviously, I mean seven years
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  Speaker 3: later and we're engaged. Maybe it wasn't too fast, but
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  Speaker 3: what I'm just curious, what are your thoughts if you're like, wow,
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  Speaker 3: that's fast.
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  Speaker 1: But I think we're coming from two different places here, Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: because when you're coming from a place of probably of normalcy, right,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes couples just break up. Yeah, right, And in that regard,
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  Speaker 1: maybe it is where you can you can move on quickly. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm coming from a place of traumatic breakups that God,
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  Speaker 1: does that make sense? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Traumatic breakup toxic?
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  Speaker 1: Right, or the relationship you were in was toxic and
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  Speaker 1: you realize it was toxic and then you move on.
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  Speaker 1: There are See, this is where I start learning and
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  Speaker 1: I eat my words. Some people call it flip flopping,
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  Speaker 1: but you just made an excellent point. If you're in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship and you two were just not right for
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  Speaker 1: each other, you wish each other the best, go move on.
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  Speaker 1: But I have personally only experienced and experienced other people
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  Speaker 1: around me have toxic relationships, and there's usually cheating involved,
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  Speaker 1: and it's a very traumatic breakup.
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  Speaker 4: I think that's what separates where Kyle is right, the
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  Speaker 4: other people are and that's the healthy person and unhealthy.
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  Speaker 4: Kyle is healthy. The relationship ended, right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no cheating it.
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  Speaker 4: He knew what he had, he knows what he wants.
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  Speaker 4: He's healthy. He found it in you. He doesn't need
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  Speaker 4: the time because he knew what he wanted with his
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  Speaker 4: ex and with you, and you were what he wanted,
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  Speaker 4: so he didn't need that time. When you start seeing
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  Speaker 4: what the cheating and the unhealthy person you need to
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  Speaker 4: be able to be healthy to find that next step.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a great And just to reiterate, we did
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  Speaker 3: not meet while he was in the relationship.
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  Speaker 2: We met two months later.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, A healthy person, normalcy, good people.
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  Speaker 4: You know what you want when you're like cheating on people,
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  Speaker 4: it's like you're wanting.
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  Speaker 1: This, but you're wanting you have a lot of self
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  Speaker 1: work to do, right. So, as you can tell, my
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  Speaker 1: trauma is still very deep rooted. And when I hear
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  Speaker 1: when someone they're like, we broke up, and I'm like,
• 10:34
  Speaker 1: what's seeing our sister city cheap? They're all assholes.
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  Speaker 3: Last point she made that I think you wouldn't agree
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  Speaker 3: with it. She does kind of one thing, big thing
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  Speaker 3: Tom Schwartz. She said he knew the whole time his
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  Speaker 3: apartment was their safe space.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we all knew that.
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  Speaker 1: I think we all knew that. Believe that, And you know,
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  Speaker 1: I just I want Raquel or Rachel I keep doing that,
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  Speaker 1: and I know that I don't want it to seem
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  Speaker 1: disrespectful when I call her Raquel. Here's the thing she
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  Speaker 1: wants to be well, she wants to be Rachel because
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  Speaker 1: she feels like who she was as Raquel and that
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  Speaker 1: could be deep rooted and she may have worked with
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  Speaker 1: an actual doctor. For me, I'm sorry the name Raquel slaps,
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  Speaker 1: it just does.
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  Speaker 3: It's funny now, it's wild now that people are going
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  Speaker 3: back to calling her Raquel because she wants to be
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  Speaker 3: called Rachel.
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  Speaker 1: It's a little fucked.
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  Speaker 2: Up, like everyone.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe the one thing you wouldn't like of the episode
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  Speaker 3: and then I'm done making points on her episode. She
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  Speaker 3: puts a lot on the producers as far as the
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  Speaker 3: scene with her making out with Schwartz, she said her
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  Speaker 3: date going on a date with Peter. She said they
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  Speaker 3: previously had a date, it didn't work out, and she
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  Speaker 3: claims like the producers really wanted that. Same with the
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  Speaker 3: Schwortz thing that she said, they set up a table,
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  Speaker 3: there was lighting.
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  Speaker 2: So she puts a lot on the producers as far
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  Speaker 2: as that.
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  Speaker 1: She said, you know, we were a producers set up
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  Speaker 1: lighting and cameras. You mean we're filming a television shiit?
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  Speaker 1: What the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: No shit sherlock right, So that was something.
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  Speaker 1: But I think overall, and by the way, had they
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  Speaker 1: not set up the lighting, it would have really been
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  Speaker 1: an ill makeout session because it was like watching an
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  Speaker 1: uncle make out with his Like at the premiere, it
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  Speaker 1: was disgusting, and they kept.
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  Speaker 3: Cutting to that scene and Laala sitting next to me,
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  Speaker 3: She's like, oh, I can't watch.
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  Speaker 2: What did you say? You're like, it's like a grandpat making.
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  Speaker 3: Out with his daughter or whatever, his grandchild or something.
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  Speaker 1: I said, it's like watching a dad make out with
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  Speaker 1: his daughter.
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  Speaker 4: That's what it was.
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  Speaker 1: And his glasses were all steamy. It was just really bad.
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  Speaker 1: And then Schwartzy was like holding his face at the
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: premiere because they did keep cutting away from that. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like when anybody blames anything on producers. I just don't. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I just don't. We all we all know the drill.
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  Speaker 1: We all know the drill, and then when the people
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  Speaker 1: have a tough time with it, we got to place
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  Speaker 1: the blame somewhere, you know, and let's not forget. Like
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  Speaker 1: I don't think people would have really cared that she
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  Speaker 1: made out with Schwartz, Like I think the audience would
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  Speaker 1: have been like, really team Raquel because she was coming
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  Speaker 1: into her own and she didn't really owe Katie much.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's where I think the audience would have.
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  Speaker 4: Been wasn't that scripted? Didn't? Was that brought up? What
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  Speaker 4: Raquel said that the makeout with Santoval was scripted.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's what she meant.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I meant when I said sorry, Yeah, when
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  Speaker 3: she said that producers were involved, she basically was like.
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  Speaker 1: That's literally what are you listening? That's literally what the
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  Speaker 1: whole conversation has been about.
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  Speaker 4: I was reading this thing, SOO goes. First of all,
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  Speaker 4: Raquel's parents bought her the dog Graham for her birthday.
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  Speaker 4: It was a gift. She didn't go and buy a
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  Speaker 4: dog herself. So Lola calling her the B word is inaccurate.
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  Speaker 1: I call everyone the bword.
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  Speaker 4: Bet she'd get over considering La La slept with her
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  Speaker 4: boyfriend being James.
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  Speaker 2: But it's like, it's not I your friend.
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  Speaker 4: This is where I was reading.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, please tell me.
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  Speaker 4: So this is what this girl do? I give her
• 14:11
  Speaker 4: what's her name?
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  Speaker 1: Give her a fucking shower.
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  Speaker 2: This is on Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: Make her famous for five seconds.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, her name is it's Jazz xx Ma Camaggie. Just
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  Speaker 4: if you.
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  Speaker 1: Want, you can show it.
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  Speaker 4: But first, all right, this was last night too. First
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  Speaker 4: of all, Raquel's parents bought her the dog Graham for
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  Speaker 4: her birthday. Well educating.
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  Speaker 1: So both she and her parents are dumb asses, all right, noted?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, perfect, thank you both of them a gift. Go
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  Speaker 4: get them a gift from the shelter. Ye all right, box,
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  Speaker 4: All right, So Lala calling her the B word is inaccurate,
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  Speaker 4: also pretty hypocritical, considering Laala slept with her boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: What does that have to do with adopting a dog? Me,
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  Speaker 1: fucking James, what does I have to do with going
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  Speaker 1: to a shelter and getting a dog?
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  Speaker 4: Then you have an issue with Raquel taking her pants off?
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  Speaker 1: Well yeah, well yeah, kind of when when my friend
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  Speaker 1: when my friend is sleeping upstairs in the bedroom, I
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  Speaker 1: got a little bit of a problem with some random
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  Speaker 1: hoe taking her pants off.
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  Speaker 4: And then she goes. She's not saying it wasn't wrong,
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  Speaker 4: she's explaining what happened. The person who kissed Raquel was
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  Speaker 4: was Sandoval, So you should be pissed at him. First
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  Speaker 4: of all, she like I said, she was the one
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  Speaker 4: who walked to a locked door and then walked behind
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  Speaker 4: into the backyard. You are telling Sandoval I can fuck you.
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  Speaker 1: Let's be very clear, you're okay. Number one, it was
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  Speaker 1: shitty of you to take your pants off. Yes, when
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  Speaker 1: your friend and his girlfriend are sleeping upstairs stairs, it
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  Speaker 1: is very shitty of Sandoval.
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  Speaker 4: No, it's shitty like to.
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  Speaker 1: Think with his wiener. No, but he also shouldn't have
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  Speaker 1: made the move exactly. But you shouldn't have taken your
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  Speaker 1: pants off, and he should not have said and he
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have taken the bait.
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  Speaker 2: I agree.
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  Speaker 3: I also have to say you take your pants off.
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  Speaker 3: That is not saying I couldn't.
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  Speaker 2: That is called That's.
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  Speaker 1: Called I don't want to swim in my jeans.
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  Speaker 2: You can fuck it. Yes, you can fuck me. I
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  Speaker 2: should be able to it be fucked up.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm just saying if I'm with a guy and
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  Speaker 3: he's got a girlfriend, I would never do this, and
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  Speaker 3: I take my pants off and my shirt fucked up.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm not saying you can fuck me. I'm saying
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  Speaker 3: you can fuck me. When I say, hey, you can
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  Speaker 3: fuck me, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: Let's be very clear, sand of aal I gave the
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  Speaker 1: wrath to the difference is Raquel disappeared. I was given
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  Speaker 1: no option to have a productive conversation with this person.
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  Speaker 1: So it's not that I'm still holding her feet to
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  Speaker 1: the fire and Sandoval gets off scott free. It's that
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  Speaker 1: Sandoval was in front of me for us to have
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: a productive conversation, which is exactly why I wanted Raquel
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: to come back, so that she could come into a
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: place where dust had settled. Time has passed, logic sinks in,
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: and you have a productive conversation. Okay, just because you
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: have a cookie doesn't mean I'm a huge fan of yours, right, Like,
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: I don't just like support women, but I do prefer
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: women over men. Okay, doesn't mean I like all women.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: In fact, women are usually the ones that come for
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: me usually like men are pretty cool to me. It's
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: usually the chicks who are fucking assholes and usually registered
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: nurses next Tuesday, I don't want you ever coming in
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: and making me feel better.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: We love our nurses here at the give them las. Okay,
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: we love our nurses.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: But I'm just saying when I click on their Instagram pages,
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: it always says I'm an RN, and I'm like, what
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: the fucks?
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: Not the rude ones.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: They're the ones that jam the needle into you. Rather
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: than say this is won't hurt a bet what you
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: do today, do you like Jello? They're the ones who
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: don't give a damn right and their names are Beatrice,
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: not Beatrice Beatrice. So although I appreciate, here's the thing,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I always say the bitch word, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: love a good bitch love it. I stand behind saying
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: that you should adopt, not shop for this girl Jazzy xx.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Bitch to say to the right doesn't matter me sleeping
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: with James. That seems out of complete left field? What
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: does that mean? Left field?
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: It's like a baseball term.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: I think it's right, came out of left field, but
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: you always wanted to come out of the right field produce.
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: Left field is usually that's yeah, I know where most
• 18:41
  Speaker 4: people don't hit in left field. It's like the statistically
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: you hid in right centerfield.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: All right, So yes, it was out of left field.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: And I have to say, I know this comes out
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: before the premiere, but I'm very this is I'm going
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: to say, I'm very interested for all you guys being.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: Like alaa dragging Riquel White, you got a bully.
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: There's not a lot of you, but I've just seen
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: a couple. I'm interested to hear your feedback. On what
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: you think about the premiere in the season.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Let's say I'm tough as it gets,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: but I'm also as soft as it gets, and I
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: will build a bitch up, but I will tear a
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: bitch down. All right, Just depends on how you step
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: to me. It is what it is. I don't know
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: how I'll be received this season, but you know what,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not really too worried about it because I'm off
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: social media, so I won't even know what y'all say.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about very quickly. The premiere party was absolutely fantastic.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: It was It was surreal to walk in and be like,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: this is for our show.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: It was incredible. The food, the ambiance, the florals.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: All of that.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: You did you notice that they changed the florals too?
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: What do you mean?
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: Do you mean you guys didn't notice that. No, So
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: when we got there there was flower the amount of
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: a certain amount, and then when they were starting the
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: show they brought one more. I don't know if.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: It was like this is meet and greet florals, this
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: is appetizer florals, dessert florals. I love it. That has
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Lisa vander Pumpertten all over it.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: It was. It was stunning. Thank you for taking the crew.
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Oh we took the whole crew. I loved it. Teresa
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Judai says the food in prison was so good. She
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: often cooked for her fellow inmates, her specialty dishes. She
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: cooked for two hundred people camp style, and she said
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: that her most favorite thing in prison was the banana
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: nut muffins. So elderly commissary, she said, I would have
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: a banana nut muffin every morning, and then they ended
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: up running out of them and I was so mad. Well, Teresa,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: you ate them all.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: They ate them all, girl, you were so mad. You
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: know what good to hear?
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: Because I've only ever heard the food in prison is
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: not great.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: I think that's for like murderers. She was in. She
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: was in prison with like doctors, lawyers, so she.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Was in like a bougie prison area.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like different kinds of.
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: I don't know if anybody knows Poushisty, but he's in prison, okay,
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: and like murder, I believe, going through the steps. But
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: he even like you see selling you live pretty nice
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: in prison. I don't know how they're getting it in there.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: People got phones, people prison talk. Oh my gosh, I
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: watch people like, Yeah, they're making like burritos under their bed.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: They're very resourceful.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: I will say, I have a tremendous amount of respect for.
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: I could see the food being money in there too.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: Oh, especially with tree full on Italian three time New
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: York New York Times bestsellers cookbooks and yeah.
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: I'm telling you she can get whatever she wants in there.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she's I'm gonna I'm gonna err on the
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: side that I don't want to try prison food, but
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: good for everyone.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: I want to try prison food out of side of prison.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I just for Teresa Judaice to have to
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: serve prison time for something her husband did. Your fucking gangster.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: And I have mad respect for you. You went in,
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: you had, you left four children behind, you held it together,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: you came out. Look what you got. I mean, I
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: love it. And she said she still communicates with some
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: of her cellmates or people who were in prison with her.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Oh that's cool.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's got to be a bonding experience. Yeah right,
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: they really know who you are. They know yeah, they do.
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: They know her better than anyone outside of prison. That's guaranteed.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they see you at your most vulnerable moment. Of course,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Madonna's being sued for starting her at New York City
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: concert I guess concerts late. Two fans of Madonna filed
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: a lawsuit against the singer on January seventeenth, accusing her
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: of false advertising, negligent misrepresentation, and unfair and deceptive trade practices.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: Fans to me late or for not showing No.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: She was late.
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: Honestly, ain't fans to me?
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: Have you never been at a concert where I've a
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: little lil Wayne never shown I've.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: Been to a concert where it's like twelve o'clock and
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: then it's like one thirty and you're like, all right,
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: two o' clock comes and you get them for thirty
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: minutes and you're.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Like, oh whatever, they're high.
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Even saying they're just walking around, it's.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Just plain Madonna. Fans seem like square, Yeah, they're not fans.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: It's Madonna. She can be late. Let her be late.
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: She could come up on stage, smack her ass, walk off,
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: and I'd be like, I got my Money's right.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: We're talking about the woman who does Vogue, The Vogue.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: I mean, don't don't Donna done.
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: A girl I mean, but Donna can do whatever she wants.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: She would literally be four hours late, come out to
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: get ship on stage.
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: And I'd be like standing ovation.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Kanye West got a new titanium grill dentures.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: Actually like it's AI on those.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: So over him. I've been over him for so.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: Long I cannot get anough.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: I'm sick of him.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: It's like it's like watching a semi truck crash over
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: and over again and like just hauling using us, taking
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: everyone up.
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: Why it's Gnar helping him recreate the semi after it crashes.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: These people I don't know.
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: Get off the semi. It's us that make him feel.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: We're saying the wort a lot on this episode.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Not you, Jess, you said it though I said, Hi, as.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: F it's because Ocean's been gone, and we save all
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: of our f words for what she's gone because we
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: can't say it when shoes here.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: I thought you were going to say it's because ocean'
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: has been saying it.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: But listen, they're fixed, so the rep says they are permanent.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: This goes way beyond veneers or grills, the source added,
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: and his particular implant is quite unlike anything that has
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: ever been done before, because it's extremely hideous. He didn't
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: say that. I added that it's experimental dentistry to say
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: the least.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: If I'm lovely, If I'm going to experiment with anything,
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: it's not going to be my teeth.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: And have you seen them? They they look like the
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: wooden grills that that people used to wear.
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: Back in the day. I can't they used to the day. Yeah,
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: they used to have donkey teeth and like horse teeth.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: It looks like that, except and guess what, you guys,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: they were designed entirely by Yay with the assistance assistance
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: of medical and dental experts. I'm sorry it should have
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: been he should have been assisting the medical dentistry.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Ors, Like, what do you amazing their assistance? It's all
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: of It's all of them.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: It's all them, It's all them, and it only costs
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: you eight hundred and fifty thousand dollars if you want
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: the Titan for real, eight and fifty g'soget change.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: I'm so.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: I have two viewpoints on Kanye. Number One, I'm over him.
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: He to me is like a walking baked potato. I'm like,
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: what are you doing? And then on the other side.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: I feel bad because I know Northwest, like is obsessed
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: with her dad and it's sometimes really sad to watch.
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: She loves him so much, and it's just like, you're
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: gonna have a lot to deal with and that's not
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: my business, but that's just what it is is.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: It's kind of our business. We have a podcast and
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: we have people to entertain, so you know what, the
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Kardashians are gonna have to take one for the team.
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: I don't know what his girlfriend's wearing out and about nowadays,
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: his wives.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: I love her giant tits flopping everywhere with the tiniest
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: little bit of nipple cover super.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: Tits, super tis.
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: I hate it.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: You know what, live your life. Beyonca is her name.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Right, Bianca? Yep, Sun Sorrier problems and they're real.
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Stop it.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: They look very real to me.
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: Good for her, Yeah, they're juicy. Yeah.
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: Every time I see movies like that, I'm like, I
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: I want.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: Fake tits and I'm going to get them. I don't
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: know if they're going to be fake, but I'm going
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: to get something. After I have my first.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: The thing is like a okay, because let me tell
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: you something, Jessica, you breastfeed and they become volumptuous and yummy,
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: and then all of the sudden they deflate like little
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: sad ballue.
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: No, they're like little wind sock titties.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: Like smaller than they were before the wind socks.
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: Haven't you seen wind socks?
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: No, like the the.
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: Like a wind sock flag, Just two little wind socks
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: floating in the air.
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: Oh, we love all titties here on giving past, making
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: that clear, even if they're no.
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: I love a boob with no titties, A good boob.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: There we go.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: How do you have a boob with no titty? You
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: mean nipple?
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, isn't that a titty? Nipple a titty?
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: Does everybody know boobs are titties? What are you talking about?
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: Nipple and a titty is the chitty.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: There's the ariola, there's the nipple, and then there's.
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: The breast, so there's the titty.
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: Speaking of areolas, do you guys watch is it called
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: Naked Dating on Netflix?
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: No?
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: But I want to because you've talked about this.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: I talk about it so much. I am enthralled with it.
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: I'm looking you see vagina, penis, titty, you see, you see.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: Every singler is afraid without yeah, but like no, but
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: you and you.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: They start at their feet and the penis, and the
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: host will go in and she'll be like, oh, that's weird,
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: that's a little that's quite an interesting willy.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: They have accents. Yes, Also it makes it so classy.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: This would never film here. This is a UK show
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: on Netflix. It's incredible. And I find myself commenting on
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: the penises, like too much foreskin, not like on the vaginas.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: I'm like, interesting, laby a choice or like whatever.
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: But she chose it.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Me talking to God, I can't.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: I'm so dead. Did you mean to make her laby
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: on this way?
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: I don't know?
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: So funny? I mean, you guys gotta watch it.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's start watching.
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: It's I don't know if I want to just kind
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: of like sit down with my sister and mother and
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: watch just naked people.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Well, I do it with Kyle, and it's well and
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: Kyle each other.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: That's true.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: It's like basically watching porn with your partner.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: That's true.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: I don't watch porn with my brother and my mother.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I'm sure people would not be shocked if we.
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: Did, but we don't. Locker.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: Good to know the Family Night does not consist of
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: that but Cards against Humanity, which Lisa is extremely inappropriate.
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: She wins every time, every time. We now know where
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: we get our minds from because.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: She's so funny.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: She's so funny. Did you guys watch American Nightmare the
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Kidnapping Hoax with Denise Huskin?
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: No, but can you tell us about this, because you know,
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: when you said kidnapping hoax, I thought you were talking
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: about the hoax where they remembered there was a flying
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: balloon and they said some child was inside of it
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: and there was a hoax. Yeah, there was a flying
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: giant balloon and like everyone was chasing it because a
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: family said, our child's inside of it.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: And then it finally lands, yeah.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: Something like not that it's like a weather balloon, but
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: like big enough. And then it finally lands in a
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: field and there's no kid and they're like, oh, it's
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: a hoax, And it was like, you know, there was
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: so many people involved and the family was just doing
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: it for fame. Anyway, keep hosting so good you can
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: remember this.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: No, producer, John, do you remember that? Are you for real?
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: Google it?
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: We'll put up a click here. No, I'm not kidding Okay,
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: go ahead.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: Okay, so it's on Netflix. I do remember it. Easton
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: told me last night watch Louder louder Milk, louder Milk,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: which I want to start watching louder Milk, louder.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: Milk, louder Milk. It's a very it's a dude who
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: it's like a recovery. So they're in AA and his
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: last name is just louder Milk.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, but it's like twenty two minutes sitcom
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: style or whatever. But he told me to watch that.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: But when I put Netflix on, you know, they do
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: the preview of like What's New and I and I
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: remember this hoax, and to be quite honest, I still
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: thought to this day that these people made this shit
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: up until I watched this three part series. Okay, okay,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: So there's this woman. It starts with the boyfriend first, Aaron,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: and Aarin calls the police in the morning and says,
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend was kidnapped last night, and he's like monotone,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: like it doesn't even seem like a big deal, and
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: they're so confused and they go, well, what do you
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: mean last night? People broke in last night and they
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: took my girlfriend. Well, why are you only calling right
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: now because I was tied up and they gave me
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: a sedative. So they come and get him. They bring
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: him in for questioning. He talks about how people broke
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: into his house at three am. They zip tied their hands,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: they put swim goggles on them with duct tape, and
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: he said he was cold, and the guy goes, oh,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, Aaron. I forget how cold it is
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: in here because I'm wearing a wetsuit. He's telling the
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: police this, and he goes and then they put me
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: on the couch. They took my girlfriend, Denise, and they
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: took my car and left. They kidnapped my girlfriend. And
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: the story seems so insane, right whatever. Cut to forty
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: eight hours later, a niece is found on a ring
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: camera walking up to her dad's house in Huntington Beach,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: which is four hundred miles away from where this took
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: place in Vallejo, California Bay Area. So now they're like,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I don't think he made it up. I think she
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: made this up. And she has the exact same story
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: and it is heartbreaking to the only thing I hated
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: about her episode was that they kept doing a close
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: up of this eyeball going like this, and it made
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: me because they were like I was in the trunk
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: and I had these goggles on, and so they were
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: doing but it was like so many close ups of
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: an eyeball, and I was like, this has got to end.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: You've got to stop doing a close up of an eyeball.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: I'm going to crawl out of my own skin.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Weird crea.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: I really really hated that part of it about her
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: visual It was discussed it kind of both. It was
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: just like, you shouldn't see an eyeball that close up
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: for an extended period of time. Yeah, she's it's like,
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: it's the entire screen this eyeballs, and.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: It's a reenactment. That's weird.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: It was such a weird creative choice. So then she
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: tells her story exact same as Aaron. They threw me
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: in a trunk. I was in there for a couple hours.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I was then taken into a house. He was very
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: kind to me, would take me to the bathroom. He
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: was not violent, but then he came in and told
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: me that his colleagues needed me to have sex with
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: one of them because if we release you, there's a
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: chance you could go to the police. So if you
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: go to the police, were releasing this sex tape. So
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: she said, I did not fight back. I knew that
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: it would be violent then, so I.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Just took it. Then come he got resulted, yes, yes, okay.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: He comes back in again the next day and says,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: we have to redo it because my colleagues said that
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: it doesn't look consensual. You need to look like you're
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend. You have to enjoy it. You have to
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: look like you enjoy it.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I'm sick to my stomach.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: It is heartbreaking watching her talk about this. So she
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: then says that. He then comes in and says it's
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: time to release you. I'm taking you home, and she's
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: shocked by it. She gets in the front seat, he
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: gives her more of the sedative. They drive from Lake Tahoe,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: we find out to Huntington Beach and then the police
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Lejo police start pinpointing it on her because it's so
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: far fetched, and she says that she was not sexually assaulted. Anyway.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Cut to the third episode and it happens again, okay
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: to a different to a different family.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: A family said she wasn't sexually assaulted.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: I just want because she was because because she's yes,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: because they were going to release the sex tape.
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: They also threatened her and her family. They said, we'll
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: take care of you if you go to the police,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: where we will always be watching you. So in the meantime,
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: in the meantime, the police are putting out that Denise
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: and her boyfriend this is a hoax. Okay. The kidnapper
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: is actively writing this like Bay Chronicle, right, this writer
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: who is keeping up on this story and putting out
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: the stories you know, daily with updates, and he's emailing
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: this writer saying it's not a hoax. The Vallejo police
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: have X amount of hours to acknowledge that this is
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: real or I will do this again. He says, I'm
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: in the military, I have PTSD, I went to this
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: college for this. Like he's giving details about himself. It's
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: like he wants people to know that what she's saying
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: is real. So anyway, they then show in the third
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: episode Doubling California, forty miles outside of Vallejo. This happens again. However,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: the kidnapper at this point in time runs away, but
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: he originally was going to kidnap this random daughter right
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: of this couple who calls the police. He left duc
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: tee behind something else and a cell phone. They use
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: the cell phone to call someone. It happens to be
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: his mother, right, She goes, Oh, yeah, that's my son.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: He's staying at my house in Tahoe. They roll up
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: to the house, they collect evidence. There's evidence of the sedative.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: There's evidence of this room that looks very sketchy, and
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: the police are thinking this is very scary. They find
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: a bag in the back of his car that has
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: the fucking goggles and a strand of hair that leads
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: back to this Denise Huskin, I am so utterly terrified
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: of the police.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and just the legal system, like to watch what
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: these people went through. She goes, it was so crazy
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: because I was so excited to be released and be
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: I thought that the kidnapping was the worst part, and
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: she was come to find out. What was waiting at
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: home was law enforcement thinking that I made this up,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: and they tried to paint her out as like a
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: whore and like a piece of trash. And even when
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: they would write Valey Hope police send the emails that
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: the guy from the chronicle was getting saying I didn't
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: make this up. No fucking response from them. Shame on
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: the fucking Valay Hope police and then twenty fifteen, So
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: then hold.
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: On, this was proven, yet it's not then blasted all
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: over the news like they were wrong.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: This wasn't a hoax.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: So even someone like you who was paying attention to
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: the story was like, wait, I thought it was a hoax.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well now it's everywhere obviously since this came out
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: and devastating.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: That is horrific. Oh my god, they asked.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: So Denise's lawyer asked for a rape test to be
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: conducted on her, and the Valejoll police said, We'll only
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: do that if she gives us a statement. It's like,
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: are you like, this needs this, No, this needs to
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: happen immediately, And come to find out, it did show
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: that she had had intercourse in the last forty eight hours.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: It's a wild like they don't care who did it.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: They just want to pin something on somebody so they
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: can say case closed. It's wild to me. So I
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: just want to put out there that anybody in law
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: enforcement or the legal system who's out in these streets
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: like really doing God's work and seeking justice and listening
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: and putting the pieces of the puzzle together and not
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: just to close the case, but to really find the truth.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Like those people deserve a lot of credit and they
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: deserve to be acknowledged.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: And thank you and also Bravo too.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Sorry that was a really long story.
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: No, that was like I'm going to watch it.
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: Bravo to these documentarians, these podcasters, all these creatives coming
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: out of the woodwork because we have platforms now making
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: stuff like this like this is the stuff crazy, Bravo
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: because like order podcast things are being solved because there's
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: like you know, Internet investigative people and just like Bravo
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: for the creative.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: Who make keyboard No, not warriors, that's about it.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: They're called it's called civility.
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: Civil No, I really do want to know the name
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: of it, because it is like the people that do
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: it have brought a lot of people to know. I know,
• 40:35
  Speaker 4: I'm like rebringing up cases that are like, hey, we
• 40:39
  Speaker 4: just saw this and we thought.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: It was civilian journalism or something.
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: It's incredible, all of it, all of it, all of it. Yeah.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: Anyway, let's move into House vives. So did you guys
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: watch the Reunions of Utah? Yes? Part two?
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: Like, how do we feel I felt.
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: I felt like Utah wild d did it feel like
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: you taugh to you? Like everything was like, it's just the.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: Same, A bunch of very bored people in a bubble.
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: Yes, talk on my business. I'm a staple and salt leg.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: It's like all rightuswives, though, I gotta say fresh in
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: my mind right now is and I am. I'm saying
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: this because my tune has changed little since we last
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: talked about it.
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: Is Monica's mom psychopath.
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: I horrified, and I said last time, I was like, oh,
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: they're both the same in Monica and I did say like, oh,
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: Monica had grow up with that.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: My sense now is like.
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: Have it.
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: That's trauma having your mother like that, having someone leave
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: like that and say bye bye.
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: I'm going to chase my dreams.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: And it's like and then live her dream through you.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm heart broken.
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: And then the prayer, the prayer saying for the housewives, Yeah,
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: crying on your mother's couch.
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: Monica's crying on her mom's couching. I don't think I
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: got it. Blah blah blah. Heartbroken.
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: The mom says, let's say a prayer, and she prays
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: that she that she the mom would become a housewife.
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, why the fuck would she become a housewife? Does
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: she know? I mean very like, Yeah, she's nothing. I
• 42:15
  Speaker 4: don't want to look at her and I don't think
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: she's pleasant to hear her speak.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: No, it's heartbreaking.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: But see this is but this is where I get
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: a little bit.
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: I don't even know her names.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Like, I don't really know how I feel. Right, because
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: let's take Rachel Raquel. We have no idea what her
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: home life was like, what she experienced in school, Monica,
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: She's now opened up about what a toxic mom she
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: grew up with. You sit there and you're like, yes,
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: we've all been dealt shitty hands, and it's all about
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: how you deal with it, right, But I couldn't help
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: but feel so heartbroken for her and be like, well, no,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: wonder you are the way you are. But you know,
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: at some point, like you, you can't blame your your
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: bad actions on your upbringing. But at the same time,
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: I come from a place of such privilege, and I
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: had such an incredible upbringing. And even though I may
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: not be trolling people on the internet, you know, I've
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: certainly done other things that I'm not proud of. So
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: it's like, at what point do you do you practice
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: compassion and sympathy and empathy for someone because of maybe
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: what they've been through, but also like keep your guard up.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: It's like a it's a really and it's kind of
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: what I struggled with this season, you know, and finding
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: a softer spot for a cal because I don't know
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: what she went through as a child, you know, like
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: sometimes we just fuck up because we're human. Other times,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: like we look at the world differently because we were
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: raised much different than maybe, you know, our friends were.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: No, I agree with you, and I don't think it's
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: such a clear cut line.
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: I think it is is like, no, I don't think
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: it can be an excuse for your actions.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: Let's just talk about Monica.
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: But at the same time, we also have to realize, like, oh, wow,
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: she went through something with that woman that a lot
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: of us didn't and we don't know or people who
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: haven't experienced that. I will never know what it's like
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: to be raised like that, and just the things that
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: are programmed into your mind and your brain that is
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: probably so difficult to unlearn.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: So it's like I think it's the same thing.
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: I think it's like we're not saying she's fine, she
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: made this mistake, let's give her an excuse because she
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: is a shit mom. But we're also realizing, like, damn,
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: you know, she's been delta shitty hand with that mom,
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: and she maybe made these mistakes because of it, you know.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, same with ray.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: I hear you with Rachel. You know, like we don't
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: know what she went through her upbringing. That's with all
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: of us.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: But that's what I mean. And so for me, maybe
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: a few years ago, even a few months ago, someone
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: could come and tell me their SOB story and I'd
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: be like, we've all dealt with shit, you know. But
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: I just don't know that I want to think that
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: way anymore. That's because I don't really appreciate when I'm
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: trying to explain where I'm coming from and someone tells
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: me we all have our shit, it's like everybody right,
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: so let's be a little let's be a little easier
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: on each other.
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the thing. Yeah, everybody comes. That's the one
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: thing I always say, emotional Like, emotions are personal. You
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: can't ever, you can't tell me that my emotions are
• 45:29
  Speaker 4: misplaced because they're personal exactly yours are the same. So
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: it's like, you got to come from that place of
• 45:33
  Speaker 4: understanding because everybody may not explain their emotions the way
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: you may explain the way their emotions are. Do you
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: get what I'm saying. Yeah, So it's like that. It's
• 45:42
  Speaker 4: just tough.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: It's very tough. I do think there's a chance that
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: Monica will come back next season.
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: I have a really good feeling if Monica can dismiss
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: her mom and maybe yes, a really good comeback. I
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: think she will make a very good season two for herself,
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: and even three, I think she'd have longevity in it. Yeah,
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: but she has to dismiss her mother. Yeah, I feel
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: like she's a puppet for her mom right now.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: That mom is that mom is a fucking beyond. We
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: got to stop saying the forties that's an abusive relationship.
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's all. Like she said, people are like,
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: why didn't you cut her? I forget who said it?
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: Why didn't you let her come on the show.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: After she talked like that? And mom, because like, yeah,
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: I'm used to it. That was my mom.
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: I loved when she said that. And Andy she goes.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: I think it's maybe because I'm so used to it.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: And he goes, yeah, you are, and what I can't remember.
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: I think it was Lisa and she goes, I kept asking,
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: why do you not want us to like your mom?
• 46:32
  Speaker 4: And you just kept saying you'll see it. And I
• 46:34
  Speaker 4: can understand that because when you when you're asked that,
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: and I'm just coming from that point, it's like she's
• 46:40
  Speaker 4: done so much shit. It's like I'm being asked and
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: in the moment, it's like I don't even know which
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: one to pinpoint so you'll see. And even Andy was like,
• 46:47
  Speaker 4: you've seen you see yeah, And I like that he
• 46:50
  Speaker 4: said that too, because it's just like, holy shit, you
• 46:52
  Speaker 4: can't even pinpoint one thing. She read so many things.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I ran into someone who's in the Housewives circle, like
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: production and for salt Lake, and just when I said,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: you cannot have her back and keep in mind right now,
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: you guys are gonna see, maybe even throughout this season,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: even on this podcast, that it seems like I'm a
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: bit of a flip flopper, like I'll go really heavy
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: in the paint and then I kind of ease up
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: a bit, and then I may go heavy in the
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: paint because I'm not quite sure how to navigate things.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling very torn on how to be soft and
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: let people in but also deal with the things that
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: I've dealt with and you know, kind of retrain myself
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: to not have a permanent wallop. So just roll with
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: me in this moment where I am practicing compassion, going
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: like I get it. When I met this guy, was like,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: you cannot have this woman back, and he just kind
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: of sat there and stiled, like, we'll see. Oh, interesting, Yeah,
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: I think she may be back. The only Oh what
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: is it?
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, Also, thank you for that journey.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: I love you.
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: I know you've been calling it flip flopping, but allowing
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: people to see that it's like we're all changing our
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: minds all the time, and it makes it just a
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: safer space for us to.
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: Be like, you know what, I don't feel that way anymore.
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: I know I said this yesterday.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: But today, well that's well, that's how people call it.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: I don't call it flip flopping. And here's the thing.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: I'm not a politician. I'm not like you know, out
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: in these streets being like I'm your new candidate for
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: the Democratic Party. Oh wait, guys, I think I were
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: a like I'm just out in these streets trying to
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: understand life and emotion. And I'm really tired because, like,
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: the human mind is a lot.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: It's a lot.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: It is a lot, and sometimes I want to hang
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: my mind, my personality, my face on the door and
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: be like, I don't want to see it. I don't
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: want to hear it. You're annoying walking away.
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: For a minute.
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: Welcome to my life.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: But unfortunately I have bills to pay, So here I am.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: Let's quickly touch on bh. So we're back at the
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: Homeless not Toothless event. Erica is hit on by her dentist.
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: I totally relate. Erica probably goes her dentist with giant
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: sunglasses on hair and a bun, no makeup. Here's my girl,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: now here she is at this event looking absolutely fabulous.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: The dentist doesn't recognize her. She's like, what's her name?
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: He's like doctor so and so, and she was you're
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: your patience. He was like you look beautiful. She's like,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: thank you, No, you really look beautiful. Thank you, thank you.
• 49:25
  Speaker 4: I totally relate.
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: It's like the people in the building but were like, ah.
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: Are you hold up?
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: Are you sure you live here?
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: With the dog.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, I learned. Anne Marie is very annoying, the
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: most annoying. She's very into talking about how she is
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: a nurse, that she's in the medical field. I need
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: it to end. Guess what, Bet, you are officially not
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: in the medical field. You're just a housewife. So all
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: we know, Yes, you're a housewife. Once you sign up
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: for any type of Bravo show, this is your identity, right,
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: so get used to it. If I hear her say
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: one more thing about being in the medical profession, I'm
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: gonna lose my mind, so much so that Crystal becomes
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: upset because you know, the esophagus thing with sudden this.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: Anne Marie keeps bringing it up, and she goes, I've
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: I looked it up for hours on end, and it
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: doesn't exist. And the only way that happens is if
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: you have an eating disorder, and of course Crystal has
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: been open about her eating disorder. So she goes, I
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: don't like this, goes toes with her, and Anne Marie
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: thinks that it's because she's jealous that she's in the
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: medical profession, and that's what Crystal always wanted, so there
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: she's that's why she thinks it's like you cannot get
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: out of this bubble of medical profession. It's actually because
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: you are labeling that someone has an eating disorder when
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Crystal clearly has had one, and like you don't just
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: like throw that out there also as someone who watched
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: their dad, Like we've talked about, it's very much a
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: real thing. And so Crystal looks it up and it
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: actually is a real thing and it's genetic, which is
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: all what Crystal or what Sutton had said. And Crystal goes,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: it's just crazy that this like woman in the medical
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: field took hours of research and I freaking googled it
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: and found it in five minutes. She goes, so it
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: seems like I'm also in the medical field, right, I wouldn't.
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: Say it just so she can be something else and
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: be smarter or looked at as brighter than the other house.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, probably you would leg.
• 51:33
  Speaker 4: Up because you're in the medical field, you better listen
• 51:35
  Speaker 4: to it. It's like what we talk about has nothing
• 51:37
  Speaker 4: to do with the medical field. So whatever, Well, who cares,
• 51:41
  Speaker 4: I guess.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: She also told Crystal when they first met that she
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: was like an anesthesiologist, and she's actually not, and she said,
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I'm a doctor, and she's actually not, She's a nurse.
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: They make like the most money in the medical field.
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: Well, she's she's married to like a professional an ex
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: professional football player. I think, yeah, it was very cute.
• 52:01
  Speaker 4: Anesthesiologists have to like go through the most medical field
• 52:05
  Speaker 4: because if you give too much, those are the people
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: who are coming in and giving you just the right amount.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Honey, I've had a boob job a couple of them.
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: You know, you can kill someone or someone could.
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: It's for your insurance.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: That's what I went to college for. That was my first.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Well, by the way she is, we talked about this.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: She's she's not over the housewives, but at the very
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: beginning she said she was, Well, yeah, so let's make
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: it clear. Crystal has outed her and said she that
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: is not what she is. Mauricio didn't go. So Kyle's
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: best friends since childhood ends up committing suicide. It is devastating.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: She has this beautiful event for her that's not only
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: a celebration of life but also uh for NAMI, which
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: is National Alliance of Mental Illness. And Morgan Wade performs
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: and her friend Loreene's mom is hugging Kyle they're obviously devastated.
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: Mauricio's not there, but Mauricio appears at this homeless not
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: toothless event, which you guys. I don't want to speak
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: too much on the homeless not toothless because it goes
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: back to the Kathy Hilton thing. But I just find
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: it weird that it's like, we'll leave you without a home,
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: but not a grill.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: I'd rather you house these people.
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: It's not toothless, that's true.
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: It's just those toothless not homeless for the longest time.
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, I guess that's fine. And then I'm like,
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: it's almost not toothless.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: They're like, you know what, I'm gonta give them a home.
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be living in this box while you're gonna
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: have white And maybe I need to do more research
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: before I'm clowning on it. But they got to change
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: the name.
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: It's not a good name.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: It is horrific. But anyway, mogoes to that, but was
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: working out of town for like this celebration of life
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: of his wife's best friend. He's just really not hidden
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: for me. I know, he used to be so hot
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: and now I look at him and I'm like, you're
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: a pathetic And I look at her like, damn bitch,
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: she's killing it.
• 54:17
  Speaker 4: She looks like I saw her. She was always pretty, but.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: Like she's no, she is on a Yeah, she's on
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: a different level.
• 54:28
  Speaker 4: I think it's the confidence it is.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: But also, she said, after my friend did, I realized
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: that life is too short for me to be around
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: people I don't want to be around, and to be
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: around people who do not appreciate me. She also goes
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: into I will always have a place in my heart
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: for Los Angeles, but I enjoy being outside. I enjoy
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: going on hikes, being in the outdoors. So when Portia
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: is done with school, I want to be somewhere where
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: I can enjoy that. I think she'll I think her
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: eyes have been opened. She does not care about the
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: fluff any longer. She just wants to be happy and
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: enjoy her life.
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: Tennessee, Is that what you think?
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: I just think, Tennessee, I just have like a feeling
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: or something in Nashville, like outside of Nashville, or like.
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe though she has a home and aspen. Anyway,
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: let's move on to the ache and relief of the week. Jessica,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: would you like to start us off? Sure?
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: My ache is friend guilt, which you know what I'm
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: not going to get into because tune in, you guys
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: to the next bonus episode that drops, because.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: That is going to be discussed.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, I love it.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: My relief was the premiere. It was so much fun.
• 55:46
  Speaker 3: I love that, love the episode. I know this comes
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: out a few days before. You guys are gonna love
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: the premiere episode. I encourage you to watch it with
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: an open mind. I I've never been more proud of you,
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: law Thank you.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I love you. Thirtieth right yep, January thirtieth, the premiere Easton,
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: what's your ache? And relief?
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: My relief is also the premiere seeing all of the
• 56:10
  Speaker 4: hard work that you put in, and you know, going
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: and watching you film and come home and talking about scenes.
• 56:16
  Speaker 4: We now got to see what it was, you know. Yeah,
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: So that is my relief of.
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: Like Liston's never lived here, so I just kind of
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: go out and do my thing. It's never really talked about.
• 56:25
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: He's like boots on the ground. Can you watch ocean?
• 56:28
  Speaker 4: I got a film, so I see like her coming
• 56:30
  Speaker 4: home and like it. I it takes a toll on
• 56:33
  Speaker 4: a lot of people, So I'm excited. The relief is
• 56:35
  Speaker 4: like that you're done with it and we get to
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: see everything about it. So I'm excited for that. That
• 56:39
  Speaker 4: is a relief of the week, the month, or anything.
• 56:42
  Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm excited to see you because every scene
• 56:45
  Speaker 4: I saw you in. I'm not going to spoil anything,
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: but I loved every scene and people will see why.
• 56:51
  Speaker 4: And then my ache is I was really thinking hard
• 56:54
  Speaker 4: about it, and I was like, you know what the
• 56:56
  Speaker 4: ache is, Like I'm going on more of like New
• 57:00
  Speaker 4: Year's resolution and like growth, okay, and when you grow
• 57:05
  Speaker 4: close people say it's change and you're changing on them.
• 57:08
  Speaker 4: So it's like maybe like the friendship guilt, It's it's
• 57:13
  Speaker 4: touching on that almost of like am I like I'm
• 57:16
  Speaker 4: trying to grow, but while I'm doing this, my friends
• 57:19
  Speaker 4: maybe think I'm changing and I'm trying to grow while
• 57:23
  Speaker 4: not putting that stress on friendship or FA totally get
• 57:27
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like I'm trying to take time for
• 57:29
  Speaker 4: me okay, without making other people feel like they're not important. Okay,
• 57:34
  Speaker 4: So like it's the guilt of that and me trying
• 57:36
  Speaker 4: to find that happy medium of taking care of me
• 57:41
  Speaker 4: and growing.
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: I want you to save a little bit of this
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: for the bonus episode.
• 57:45
  Speaker 4: Okay, I can't stop right tune in.
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, it's the next bonus one, the one on
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: the twenty nine.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: Wow, we're kind of all on the same page because
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: my ache was going to be one of my guilts,
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: but I think, what, we'll save that and I'll pick
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: a different one. My ache of the week is I
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: was watching the reunions of Southern Charm and as you
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: guys know, Shep sat behind me at Bravocon and he
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: was very drunk and it was intense. While the second
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: part of the reunion, he opens up to the group
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: about Bravocon, he says he was blacked out the entire time.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: Austin was really trying to make him presentable. Andy kind
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: of weighs in and says, like it was really, really bad.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: It scared Shep a lot, which makes me very sad
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: because I did see him at Bravocon and I know
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: that feeling of being so drunk that you cannot get
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: any drunker. It is not fun. It is not this
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: is Vegas. It's called this is my everyday. And I
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: don't want to label Shep, but I with what he
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: was saying. It really broke my heart. And so it
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: seems like he's leading up to telling the group that
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: he's sober. While he doesn't say that, he says, I
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: am not going to be drinking heart alcohol and shots anymore,
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: just beer, and the group is looks just like so
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: defeated by this. And Craig, who's been a dear friend
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: of Shep's for many years. Craig was a hot mess.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: He has his life together now he's killing it. But
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: he says to him, you are driving on a road
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: that ends with a cliff, and I have to get
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: out of the car. I cannot participate any longer. So
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: my ache is for Shep and really anyone who's struggling.
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: If you think that you have a problem, don't say
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give up hard alcohol and only drink beer,
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: because that is not a fix. My ache is my
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: heart breaks that he went through that at Bravocon. I
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: wish that ID could have been a support to him,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: and I really hope that he really gives up drinking,
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: because I think he's going to live a really beautiful
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: life when that happens, only drinking beer and wine is
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: not the answer. Giving it up is the answer. My
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: relief is that I have been off social media and
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: I feel just really happy about it. So, going back
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: to what we talked about the beginning, I'm mentally tough.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: I'm in a really great space. I again don't know
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: how you guys will receive this season, and I can't
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: really care. This is my real life. I have to
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: make sense of my life, and you guys will be
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: on a really intense journey with me this season. I
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: think the first episode is going to be very different
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: from how you last saw me on television at the reunion.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: I'm okay with that. I'm okay with being called a
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: flip flopper, X, Y and Z. Again, this is my
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: real life, and you guys see the entire journey of
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: me really coming to grips and finding peace in what
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: my reality is and accepting my reality and saying, bitch,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: this is what it is and it's not going to change,
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do? Anyway? Wow, that got
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: very intense to see your growth this season. We'll see
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: I go from very compassionate to fuck this bitch. I
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: said the effort again too. So we're just trying to
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: find some balance and do the whole thing. It's a lot,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: and I hope you participate in.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: The story with me.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 4: Sorry about it's.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: Really an up and down roller coaster anyway, Thank you
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: guys for listening to another episode of the Given La
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: Lap podcast. I will catch you guys next week and
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: remember the visual. The video of this episode will drop
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: on Friday on YouTube at nine am Pacific time. Again,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: bonus episodes drop every Monday. That's the audio and video.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: You're welcome. We will catch you next time.