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INTERVIEW: Da Brat & Jesseca “Judy” Harris-Dupart Opens up about love life, Motherhood, hiphop History · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Every day a week ago. Clicks up the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: You don't finished for y'all done warning, everybody's the j
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  Speaker 2: n V.
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  Speaker 3: Just hilarious, Charlamagne the gud. We are the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: We got some special guest joining us today.
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  Speaker 4: Indeed, you got the bread and Judy the Weight.
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  Speaker 3: Love Goes a guide to building a beautiful and everlasting relationship.
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  Speaker 1: They are here.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, guys, Good morning.
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  Speaker 5: It's called this ship out here. It's no dirty supposed
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  Speaker 5: to be.
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  Speaker 1: The first day?
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  Speaker 2: Is that birthday?
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  Speaker 5: Looking at us like that.
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  Speaker 3: Question and it's all plowing it and moving it around,
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  Speaker 3: and he gets a little dirty.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, how y'all New Orleans?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I love to.
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  Speaker 3: See y'all together, right, because some people have a relationship
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  Speaker 3: online and they just show the love online, right, But
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  Speaker 3: to see y'all behind the scenes and see how together
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  Speaker 3: when no cameras are they and how lovely.
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  Speaker 1: Double y'all still all with each other.
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  Speaker 3: So we were at Jingle Boll Atlanta and the Brat
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  Speaker 3: was performing and behind the stage, y'all just couldn't keet
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  Speaker 3: you keep your hands off each other, pumping dancing on
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  Speaker 3: each other.
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  Speaker 1: I said, I love this.
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  Speaker 3: How was the relationship still so fresh like that, y'all
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  Speaker 3: still feel like your newly weded era.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we just like to have fun.
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  Speaker 6: Man, life presents enough bullshit, you know what I'm saying
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  Speaker 6: in the world today, So we just like to have fun.
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  Speaker 6: She got me making videos and stuff.
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  Speaker 5: That she hated that.
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  Speaker 2: I'm getting into it. I'm getting better, but that engagement.
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  Speaker 7: Be high and nothing on social media. You got to
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  Speaker 7: give him a little tinkleed trick, you know.
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  Speaker 5: Give him a little.
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  Speaker 3: How did you crack the brat when it comes? And
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  Speaker 3: came to that because the brat is usually tough exterior.
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  Speaker 3: She ain't haffing around, she ain't with the social media,
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  Speaker 3: and you got her doing dances.
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  Speaker 7: So well, I tell how you to find need you tomorrow.
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  Speaker 7: I need you for like thirty minutes, and I don't
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  Speaker 7: tell her what we're doing or nothing. Right before it's
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  Speaker 7: time to shoot, I said, okay, this is an example,
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  Speaker 7: and she she be aggravated, but she she kind of
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  Speaker 7: do it. And as long as we can do it
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  Speaker 7: in one or two takes, she with it. But when
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  Speaker 7: it's two, three, four, she outed though.
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  Speaker 4: How did y'all protect the private parts of y'all relationship
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  Speaker 4: while writing this book.
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  Speaker 2: She what private part.
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  Speaker 5: We kind of just let it all out.
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  Speaker 6: Whatever we talked about, we went deep into it and
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  Speaker 6: just talked about it for real, for real, like whatever happened,
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  Speaker 6: that's what happened. You know, we protected the name of
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  Speaker 6: the people or whatever, but it's our lives and it's
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  Speaker 6: our situation. So everything that happened in those stories we
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  Speaker 6: told is what happened.
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  Speaker 5: Absolutely. Now.
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  Speaker 7: One thing that I was surprised about, though, I was
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  Speaker 7: she talked about our sex lives like so openly.
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  Speaker 1: And candidly.
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  Speaker 7: And because she does it, she's real timid, shy when
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  Speaker 7: it especially when it comes to stuff like that.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, so you're gonna tell them all of this?
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  Speaker 5: And she just.
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  Speaker 1: Said, Okay, how did y'all meet? Because we know.
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  Speaker 3: Duper entrepreneur from New Orleans, right, that's the first time
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  Speaker 3: we met you the brad of course Atlanta hip hop Legends, Shotown, Shottown,
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  Speaker 3: Shottown to Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: Now how did y'all meet?
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  Speaker 2: Well, she was doing this.
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  Speaker 6: I was doing promo for Miracle Drops for Kaleidoscope for
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  Speaker 6: the company, and that happened through like a makeup artist
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  Speaker 6: blah blah blah. But I had never met her, but
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  Speaker 6: the first time I initially saw her, she was on
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  Speaker 6: Instagram and I was going through some crazy shit and
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  Speaker 6: I saw this lady and she had this message, and
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  Speaker 6: the message just drew me in and I was like,
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  Speaker 6: oh my god, it like really helped my soul feel better.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, who is this lady?
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  Speaker 6: She had gray hair, and I was like okay, So
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  Speaker 6: I started following her fast forward. She was on a tour,
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  Speaker 6: Judy dropping knowledge tour or whatever. So I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 6: I was coming from somewhere and I landed in Atlanta
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  Speaker 6: and I was back in Atlanta. I was like, you
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  Speaker 6: know what, I'm gonna stop by there and check her out.
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  Speaker 6: Because I had never met her, so I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 6: I pull up.
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  Speaker 2: To this place.
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  Speaker 6: It's like five ten thousand people at the mother fucking conventions.
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  Speaker 6: I could cuss right at a convention center, and I'm like, uh, okay.
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  Speaker 6: I definitely didn't expect that because I was coming from
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  Speaker 6: the airport. I wasn't ready to see people have to
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  Speaker 6: sign autographs in pretty much work. But anyway, I got
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  Speaker 6: in there, so I asked her people, you know, could
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  Speaker 6: they get her. I'm standing there t twenty thirty forty
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  Speaker 6: five minutes waiting on this lady to come through the
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  Speaker 6: crowd because she's signing autographs.
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  Speaker 2: And taking pictures. I'm like, well, I'm the brad.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not finna be standing up here all monk if
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  Speaker 6: they waiting on this lady, right. So I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 6: so I'm being patient cause you know, I do work
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  Speaker 6: for her. I do do some promo and stuff for it.
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  Speaker 6: So I just really wanted to meet her. So she
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  Speaker 6: finally made it to me, and she was like, hey,
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  Speaker 6: how you doing. You know, we talked, we hugged for
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  Speaker 6: a second, and I was like, man, it's so crazy
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  Speaker 6: how I was like, let's link later, you know what
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  Speaker 6: I'm saying, because obviously we can't having no conversation right here.
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  Speaker 6: But when I meant by let's link later, it's let
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  Speaker 6: you some more promo videos. Let's you know, let's side whatever.
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  Speaker 2: I really did not what I heard, I don't even know.
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  Speaker 2: So I didn't even know she liked women. I didn't
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  Speaker 2: even know any of that. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't, Yeah, so go ahead us, so well, she.
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  Speaker 5: Let's clear it up.
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  Speaker 7: I didn't know that she was there, nor did I
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  Speaker 7: know she was coming, nor did I know she was waiting.
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  Speaker 5: She talked to my team. So when I finally got to.
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  Speaker 7: Her and I was like, oh, hey girl, because she
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  Speaker 7: had been in my comments, she had been on my
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  Speaker 7: life and I.
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  Speaker 5: Was like, oh she friendly.
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  Speaker 7: So then when she said less THNK later, I said,
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  Speaker 7: oh she friendly friend, you know. So she told me
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  Speaker 7: to meet her at Social Death later on, and I did.
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  Speaker 7: I went to the studio and it was just me
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  Speaker 7: by myself. She was like, where's your team?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, this luddy pulled up, hopped out the car by
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  Speaker 6: herself in his fly ass little tight out and I
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  Speaker 6: guess anything she we was gonna be tight because the
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  Speaker 6: way her body is made. But she had a long,
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  Speaker 6: draping ponytail. She had a jewelry on.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, where is you going?
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  Speaker 6: You could have been coming to a studio with a
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  Speaker 6: thousand niggas, you know Atlanta studios. It'd be all kind
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  Speaker 6: of people everywhere, and it'll be ten fifteen studios in
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  Speaker 6: one big studio. And I was like, you shouldn't be
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  Speaker 6: out here by itself. Where's your security, where's the team?
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  Speaker 6: What's the camera people? And she was like, I can't
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  Speaker 6: by myself and I was like, but I was not
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  Speaker 6: like coming on to her and I didn't wasn't flirting
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  Speaker 6: or saying come lets link link.
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  Speaker 2: Then she pulled up to the studio. I was like, oh, ship,
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  Speaker 2: this is But when we was in the.
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  Speaker 6: Studio we was just talking. I still had no idea.
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  Speaker 6: I'm still dumbfounded. I still had no idea. We was
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  Speaker 6: talking about all the ship we the ship we liked,
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  Speaker 6: and the things that.
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  Speaker 5: We were interested in. What I'm interested in you? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: So it fucked me up.
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  Speaker 6: I wasn't used to that. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: I just wasn't used to that, like out of the blue.
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  Speaker 6: I had no Usually I have some type of inkland
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  Speaker 6: or some type of idea. I didn't know ship. So
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  Speaker 6: when she said it fucked me up. I was like,
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  Speaker 6: what interested in?
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  Speaker 5: Who?
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  Speaker 4: Man?
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  Speaker 6: And she was like, I'm interested in you and it
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  Speaker 6: First of all my swag left. I was nauseous, I
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  Speaker 6: had butterflies. I felt like I was gonna be sick.
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  Speaker 6: Then I tried to light a blunt. I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 6: calm yourself, bitch, calm yourself, get you a blunt, roll
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  Speaker 6: your blunt Like that, I lit the blunt. Motherfucking cherry
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  Speaker 6: fell on the couch. Damn couldn't even smoke the blunt.
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  Speaker 5: I said, damn.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, So I'm gonna give me some Hennessy, got me
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  Speaker 6: some Henessy. You know, I'm like just trying to keep
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  Speaker 6: my cool.
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  Speaker 5: You know what.
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  Speaker 6: I was nervous as drink the Hennessy ship poured all
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  Speaker 6: down my mouth. That's my whole mouth, I know, like this,
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  Speaker 6: I thought it was cute.
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  Speaker 7: I thought that she you know, it was like it
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  Speaker 7: was cute that she was shy, and she was. But
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  Speaker 7: then let's get to the next part. When you had
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  Speaker 7: me come in to Atlanta two three times and you
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  Speaker 7: go see.
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  Speaker 2: Me, oh wow.
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  Speaker 7: First of all, she was the person you were able
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  Speaker 7: to talk to her become about three o'clockish she would
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  Speaker 7: go missing.
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  Speaker 2: And after three o'clockish something like that.
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  Speaker 6: Exaggerated, Oh my god. Actually, my phone staying on silent
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  Speaker 6: because I did a morning show and I did this nature,
• 8:04
  Speaker 6: so my phone did have to stay on silent. And
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  Speaker 6: Ricky smiling kind of like taught us to because I
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  Speaker 6: used to be hooked on my phone like worse than
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  Speaker 6: she is on hers. Just twenty four to seven, So
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  Speaker 6: he was like, y'all got to learn how to put
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  Speaker 6: y'all phones down. So I had finally trained myself to
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  Speaker 6: like put my phone down when I got home. So
• 8:21
  Speaker 6: when I got home, I put my phone down and
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  Speaker 6: didn't look at it again until I felt like looking
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  Speaker 6: at it, until I did all the things I needed
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  Speaker 6: to do at home, unwound and all that.
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  Speaker 2: But she was like, well, I can't to Atlanta, and
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  Speaker 2: you ghosted me. Out of maybe ten times that might
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  Speaker 2: have happened three out of it.
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  Speaker 7: Imagine you fly, you get your ass up from your house,
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  Speaker 7: you get in the car, you walk through the airport,
• 8:44
  Speaker 7: you check the bag, you boored the flight, you land
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  Speaker 7: where you're going, you.
• 8:48
  Speaker 2: Check in her air y'allag you put.
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  Speaker 7: The suitcase up, and then you text and say, hey,
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  Speaker 7: you know what time whatever, And that's nothing.
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  Speaker 5: Then she don't respond back until I'm back in New Orleans.
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  Speaker 5: And that happened.
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  Speaker 7: You heard her take three times the radio.
• 9:04
  Speaker 6: She did all that airplane and bagging, pack your bags
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  Speaker 6: and all that.
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  Speaker 2: She was flying back and forth to Atlanta anyway.
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  Speaker 5: No, but she was. I flew those times.
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  Speaker 2: For you because she was doing the celebrity thing with
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  Speaker 2: the with the promotion.
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  Speaker 3: She goes, why you said, you know, let me get
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  Speaker 3: this another shot, because.
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  Speaker 6: She acted like we never talked in between, and we
• 9:21
  Speaker 6: were talking in between that that did happen up time between.
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  Speaker 7: But then at some point I was like, I don't
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  Speaker 7: this is too unstable and if she, if she really
• 9:29
  Speaker 7: was interested, she would.
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  Speaker 5: She wouldn't just have me keep coming out here for
• 9:32
  Speaker 5: this bush.
• 9:34
  Speaker 8: But we linked up.
• 9:35
  Speaker 6: We met up a few times. We met up a
• 9:38
  Speaker 6: few times. You act like that happened every single.
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  Speaker 9: In Atlanta, out of town.
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: Get that to a New Orleans, she said, come to
• 9:46
  Speaker 1: New Orleans. You goes to ask.
• 9:47
  Speaker 4: Normans and ask the question, did you argue about this?
• 9:51
  Speaker 2: Because I have my I feel about it?
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  Speaker 7: And I say, still feels to this day that because
• 9:57
  Speaker 7: I moved on, So she still feels that I told
• 10:01
  Speaker 7: her and didn't tell me I'm moving on when she
• 10:03
  Speaker 7: was ghosting me.
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: I wasn't ghost to her.
• 10:06
  Speaker 6: I had some ship to clean up, you know what
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  Speaker 6: I'm saying. But I couldn't tell because I didn't want
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  Speaker 6: to lose She.
• 10:21
  Speaker 7: Still lost me though she still but that had had
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  Speaker 7: she been transparent, it wouldn't have been that thing.
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  Speaker 6: But how did I know that I didn't want to
• 10:30
  Speaker 6: take that chance on losing you and telling you. You
• 10:33
  Speaker 6: know what, I have a few situations, you know, clean up, in,
• 10:37
  Speaker 6: close out whatever. Before I come to you with all
• 10:39
  Speaker 6: this baggage, you'd probably been like, bitch bye. You probably
• 10:43
  Speaker 6: would have said it by sooner. I didn't know you
• 10:45
  Speaker 6: was gonna say what you said.
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  Speaker 8: So how did you get her back? How did you?
• 10:49
  Speaker 8: Because you left, you moved on? How you moved on?
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: So I'm I'm first of all, we still were talking. Okay.
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  Speaker 6: I'm looking at Instagram. I go to her page. It's
• 10:58
  Speaker 6: some nigga on her page. I see the back of
• 11:01
  Speaker 6: this nigga, head, hut, nails and stuff all on this
• 11:04
  Speaker 6: nigga nigga.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fuck is going on? A nigga nigga?
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  Speaker 2: You see like niggas and bitches. Oh I did too,
• 11:13
  Speaker 2: I did too.
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  Speaker 6: So anyway, so I'm looking at the page and I'm like, damn.
• 11:23
  Speaker 6: So at least for damn near a year I stalked
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  Speaker 6: this page. I'm like, this nigga gonna be gone soon.
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  Speaker 6: This nigga, I'm about praying this nigga. I'm like this
• 11:31
  Speaker 6: niggas gonna be gone soon. Every time I looked. I
• 11:34
  Speaker 6: had to stop looking every day and try to look
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  Speaker 6: like once a week, because he seemed to had not
• 11:38
  Speaker 6: been going nowhere.
• 11:39
  Speaker 5: I'm like, damn.
• 11:40
  Speaker 6: So finally, after maybe seven months, eight months, I don't
• 11:44
  Speaker 6: know how long, did I stalk the page and watched
• 11:46
  Speaker 6: to see if this nigga was gone, because a few
• 11:48
  Speaker 6: times I was.
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  Speaker 2: Like, oh, I'll see him, I'll see him. Damn there
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  Speaker 2: that nigga go.
• 11:53
  Speaker 6: He wasn't going there, he wasn't on there, and she
• 11:55
  Speaker 6: had erased all his pictures.
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: I'm like, yep, that nigga gone. Nigga, it's gone.
• 12:00
  Speaker 6: This time for me to shoot my shot. So I
• 12:02
  Speaker 6: DM the like, hey, how you doing? Like, oh my god,
• 12:06
  Speaker 6: how you doing?
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  Speaker 2: How you been? She had blocked me.
• 12:09
  Speaker 6: You hadn't blocked me because the nigga had seen our conversations,
• 12:13
  Speaker 6: so he you know, she had to do what he
• 12:15
  Speaker 6: said doing. She had to block Like thatshiptionship.
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  Speaker 4: You know you said love changed you. So what parts
• 12:29
  Speaker 4: of yourself did you finally allowed? I guess I guess
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  Speaker 4: the soften.
• 12:32
  Speaker 6: Oh my god, Like I'm way more vulnerable now, like
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  Speaker 6: I cry more, you know, growing up in Chicago, having
• 12:39
  Speaker 6: to defend myself and fight all the time.
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  Speaker 2: You you don't.
• 12:42
  Speaker 6: You don't cry, you don't show weak, you don't show vulnerability.
• 12:45
  Speaker 6: Because you show week, then people take advantage of you more.
• 12:47
  Speaker 6: They see you sweat, they go in harder. That's how
• 12:49
  Speaker 6: it is in Chicago. So my wife and the love
• 12:54
  Speaker 6: from her has made me open up more and know
• 12:58
  Speaker 6: that it's okay to cry and express yourself.
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: Like when we was.
• 13:01
  Speaker 6: Doing Brad Love's Judy, I really didn't want motherfuckers to
• 13:03
  Speaker 6: see me have an argument with her because I had
• 13:06
  Speaker 6: never did that like on TV, and I definitely didn't
• 13:08
  Speaker 6: want motherfuckers to see me cry. Like I'm a motherfucking rapper.
• 13:11
  Speaker 6: I talk about shooting people in my songs and talk
• 13:13
  Speaker 6: about you know, I'm a tough girl in Chicago.
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm never gonna be able to sell another record.
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  Speaker 6: But anyway, we had an argument and I was like, no,
• 13:21
  Speaker 6: make the cameras leave, put the motherfuckers out. She was like, no,
• 13:24
  Speaker 6: we had an argument for real. We're gonna resolve it
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  Speaker 6: for real right here on camera. And I'm like, oh
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  Speaker 6: my god. So when he was talking, I ended up
• 13:32
  Speaker 6: crying and shit, and I was like, oh my God,
• 13:34
  Speaker 6: this is Finna just ruin my whole life. But it
• 13:37
  Speaker 6: just taught me that it's okay to be vulnerable. It's
• 13:40
  Speaker 6: okay I'm human. It's okay to have feelings, it's okay
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  Speaker 6: to express yourself, you know, and it's okay to open
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  Speaker 6: up a little, you know.
• 13:47
  Speaker 4: Do either one of y'all think y'all were in love
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  Speaker 4: before each other, like real love now that y'all have
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  Speaker 4: each other in experience with you, that's.
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  Speaker 5: A good question.
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  Speaker 2: What's you about to say?
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  Speaker 6: Because when we were dating that had got back together,
• 13:57
  Speaker 6: she had moved to Atlanta. She had a condo in Atlanta,
• 14:00
  Speaker 6: and I was like, I had sat down next to her.
• 14:03
  Speaker 6: I was like, you know what, let me just tell her.
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: I was like, I think I think I'm in love
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  Speaker 2: with you, Like I think I'm like falling in love
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: with you. I think I like love you.
• 14:10
  Speaker 6: She and then she was like, I know I love you.
• 14:13
  Speaker 6: So she's trying to tell me she said it first.
• 14:15
  Speaker 6: I said it first, But.
• 14:17
  Speaker 8: You're saying you felt it first, but you didn't speak
• 14:19
  Speaker 8: on it.
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: She lied, I felt it. I felt it first.
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: I didn't even say that.
• 14:24
  Speaker 5: She just said, that's.
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: Can you think you felt it before me.
• 14:27
  Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know why you felt it.
• 14:29
  Speaker 5: But his question is, do you feel like you ever
• 14:31
  Speaker 5: had that you were in love prior to now, like
• 14:34
  Speaker 5: or do you feel like I did think.
• 14:36
  Speaker 6: So Before I thought I was in love. All the
• 14:38
  Speaker 6: little relationships you get in, you'd be like, oh, I'm
• 14:40
  Speaker 6: in love.
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: I loved him, I love him.
• 14:42
  Speaker 6: But until I got this right here, I ain't ever
• 14:46
  Speaker 6: know what love was for real in real life, like
• 14:49
  Speaker 6: the way that she loves me. I've never felt anything
• 14:52
  Speaker 6: like it in my whole life, in my whole relationship,
• 14:54
  Speaker 6: in any relationship. So I'm very grateful for that. That's
• 14:58
  Speaker 6: what made me be like, I want nobody else, this
• 15:01
  Speaker 6: is what I want.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: This is the real feeling right here. I had never
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: felt the real feeling.
• 15:06
  Speaker 8: That's amazing.
• 15:07
  Speaker 7: I don't I think I care for people deeply prior,
• 15:11
  Speaker 7: but I think this. I think our love taught me
• 15:13
  Speaker 7: how to take two steps back and try to learn
• 15:18
  Speaker 7: the person and learn their love language, and learn you know,
• 15:21
  Speaker 7: how to stick it out and how to do the
• 15:23
  Speaker 7: tough things, and and and to also know that it's
• 15:27
  Speaker 7: not always peaches and cream, you know, And I think
• 15:31
  Speaker 7: I was I'm happy that I didn't, you know, like
• 15:33
  Speaker 7: give up on it because you know, they had some
• 15:35
  Speaker 7: shitty shit that happens.
• 15:38
  Speaker 9: What did you both had to unlearn to be able
• 15:41
  Speaker 9: to be in this marriage or to be you know,
• 15:45
  Speaker 9: with each other.
• 15:46
  Speaker 7: I had to I'm a gift giver, right like, and
• 15:50
  Speaker 7: she likes acts of service, so I'm like, let me
• 15:52
  Speaker 7: do this big extravagant thing. I've checked the box, so
• 15:55
  Speaker 7: you know I've done it. But she she don't give
• 15:57
  Speaker 7: a fuck how much it costs. She don't care if
• 15:58
  Speaker 7: it costs a dollar, if it cast some she don't
• 16:00
  Speaker 7: give a funk about that.
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: She cares about time. She would prefer time.
• 16:04
  Speaker 7: Like the thing that we did recently, like it really
• 16:06
  Speaker 7: moved her was I set up the movie theater and
• 16:10
  Speaker 7: we put some paliss like, I put some pillows on
• 16:12
  Speaker 7: the floor, put some blankets on the floor, and it
• 16:14
  Speaker 7: was me, her and our.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: Baby, and she just absolutely loved that.
• 16:16
  Speaker 7: She don't give a fuck if I do all of
• 16:18
  Speaker 7: this extravagant ship and have all of the decoor and
• 16:21
  Speaker 7: have the private violinly, she don't give a ship about
• 16:24
  Speaker 7: none of that.
• 16:24
  Speaker 5: She just wanted to you care.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: She want the time, She.
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: Want my phone down she wants, you know.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: But I know why that.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: That's because she's an artist and she's been on the
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: road since she was young. So now it's like, you
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: just want the time. Even now, me and Schala Man
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: talk about all the time, I just want to be
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: home with.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: The family, do this all the time. I would say
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: that with the.
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: Family that means the most of anything else. Money doesn't matter,
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: just that time is everything.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if we.
• 16:59
  Speaker 9: Have a toxic in the previous relationships. What's something that
• 17:01
  Speaker 9: you notice that this relationship.
• 17:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah, like she tell me.
• 17:06
  Speaker 7: All the time, ooh you know, like I'm so much
• 17:09
  Speaker 7: better now, like like because that so sometimes I might
• 17:13
  Speaker 7: have an inappropriate tone.
• 17:15
  Speaker 6: Yeah, watch your tones. That tone, that tone when she
• 17:19
  Speaker 6: talks there, So I bring my tone down, and Lord knows,
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: it took a long time to be able to do
• 17:28
  Speaker 6: that because I'm a shytown bitch, and.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, motherfucker, what do the fuck you think
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: you're talking to?
• 17:32
  Speaker 5: Nigga?
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying orleans actions.
• 17:35
  Speaker 6: So when her voice goes up, I be like, babe,
• 17:38
  Speaker 6: can you please bring your voice down?
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: You're yelling.
• 17:40
  Speaker 6: If both of us start yelling it's gonna be a
• 17:42
  Speaker 6: problem in here, so let's not do that, you know
• 17:44
  Speaker 6: what I'm saying, And she'll bring it down a little bit,
• 17:46
  Speaker 6: then she'll go back up, and then she'd walk the
• 17:49
  Speaker 6: fuck out, So then this shit ain't resolved.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: Whatever is fussing.
• 17:52
  Speaker 6: About is not resolved. I hate that, and she can
• 17:54
  Speaker 6: go do some other ship and be all right. I
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: don't like that. I like to get a resolved because
• 17:59
  Speaker 6: I don't like to go to bed mad. I think
• 18:01
  Speaker 6: it's tomorrow. I was not promised, and I think we
• 18:03
  Speaker 6: need to fix it. But she will go walk off
• 18:06
  Speaker 6: and take some time and then go doing something, Go
• 18:08
  Speaker 6: start doing something for like colitis, Go but some other
• 18:10
  Speaker 6: ship and then put my little shit to the side
• 18:12
  Speaker 6: while I'm still sitting over here upset, you know what
• 18:14
  Speaker 6: I'm saying. But she doesn't start doing some other ship.
• 18:16
  Speaker 6: So that's something we're still working on.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Because she I.
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: Prefer to dieest. She I prefer to dieest.
• 18:23
  Speaker 7: And then not only that, I don't want to I
• 18:24
  Speaker 7: don't want to talk to somebody when I'm angry because
• 18:28
  Speaker 7: I know, I know I could say something that cuts
• 18:30
  Speaker 7: deep that I don't mean. My brain goes automatically to
• 18:33
  Speaker 7: you know how Carate said, go to hell, I.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: Go under hell.
• 18:36
  Speaker 7: So and I and I don't ever want to be
• 18:39
  Speaker 7: in that situation where I have. I've also been in
• 18:41
  Speaker 7: a relationship where I hit somebody first and MISS don't
• 18:44
  Speaker 7: know how to fight, so I don't even know why
• 18:45
  Speaker 7: he forgot a black eye everything.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: I'm serious.
• 18:50
  Speaker 7: I understand how to contain my anger and how to
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: contain stuff, so I just walk away from a situation.
• 18:57
  Speaker 7: And I've learned how to compartmentalize, like I put it
• 18:59
  Speaker 7: to the side, digest it, and try to talk.
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: About it later.
• 19:02
  Speaker 8: How has motherhood helped with that?
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: Though?
• 19:04
  Speaker 6: Oh my god, motherhood is everything. I love, love, love
• 19:08
  Speaker 6: love being a mother.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: It's my everything, Like, oh my goodness, it is the
• 19:13
  Speaker 6: best thing that's ever happened to me. And I'm so
• 19:14
  Speaker 6: blessed that God allowed me to have and carrie a
• 19:18
  Speaker 6: child at my age. I think motherhood has brought us
• 19:22
  Speaker 6: closer because she's a mother of three old grown children already,
• 19:26
  Speaker 6: say older children already, Like, she knows a lot of stuff,
• 19:30
  Speaker 6: but she lets me lead when it comes to our sons.
• 19:33
  Speaker 6: So I love it, Oh my god, And it's brought
• 19:36
  Speaker 6: us closer. It brings us closer, It makes our bond stronger.
• 19:39
  Speaker 9: Thing. You are so in love with your son. Yeah,
• 19:44
  Speaker 9: did you ever see kids for yourself?
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: No, I ain't see no kids. I ain't want to
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: be married.
• 19:49
  Speaker 6: I ain't see no kids because and you know, I
• 19:51
  Speaker 6: grew up in church, so two women wasn't getting married
• 19:54
  Speaker 6: growing up in church.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: That just wasn't happening.
• 19:56
  Speaker 6: So and it wasn't never no nigga that I was
• 19:59
  Speaker 6: so in love with that, I was like, oh, I'm
• 20:00
  Speaker 6: gonna marry him. So I just thought it wasn't in
• 20:02
  Speaker 6: the cards for me. I thought marriage or children was
• 20:05
  Speaker 6: not in.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: The cards for me. And I was cool with that.
• 20:07
  Speaker 6: I was just content with living life highway and I
• 20:12
  Speaker 6: wasn't looking for love like that. And that's when she
• 20:15
  Speaker 6: ended up talking about some i'm I'm interested or whatever,
• 20:18
  Speaker 6: and then it grew from there, don't do that.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: I was pregnancy for you.
• 20:22
  Speaker 8: It was good.
• 20:23
  Speaker 5: It was good.
• 20:23
  Speaker 6: I didn't have like, no pains, I didn't have no cravings.
• 20:27
  Speaker 6: I didn't have I didn't go into labor. I had
• 20:29
  Speaker 6: a c section. Uh, the only thing I had some
• 20:32
  Speaker 6: carpal tunnel. My ankle swelled up a little bit, and
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: I really didn't have a bad pregnancy at all.
• 20:39
  Speaker 8: You know, it wasn't fat enoughing.
• 20:41
  Speaker 6: Nothing that happened. I was like, what kind of because
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: I was older or something. I don't know, but I
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: didn't and I'm grateful.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: I saw you with the.
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: Custom jersey with the baby.
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: Was that you?
• 21:02
  Speaker 7: It was a idea And okay, I'll take two steps
• 21:05
  Speaker 7: back and say it might not have been the best choice.
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: I mean, it was all over everywhere.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: I thought it was.
• 21:11
  Speaker 6: Chicago Bulls, it was you know, Michael Georgia a couple. Yes,
• 21:16
  Speaker 6: absolutely so.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: That a lot of her clothes, a lot of.
• 21:22
  Speaker 6: That was my very last performance. Doctor Jackie was like,
• 21:25
  Speaker 6: you can't go nowhere else. This is your last performance
• 21:28
  Speaker 6: and you shouldn't do this one. So she wanted to
• 21:30
  Speaker 6: make it like super duper special because that was the
• 21:32
  Speaker 6: last time I could fly or perform before it had
• 21:34
  Speaker 6: the baby.
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: I want to go back to what y'all talking about
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: when y're talking about just having a little conflicts, like
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: how do you handle conflict.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Now versus when y'all first got together, like in.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: The beginning of We're still a work in progress.
• 21:46
  Speaker 6: She still will walk the funk away when we when
• 21:49
  Speaker 6: we have a disagreement and I still would be wanting
• 21:51
  Speaker 6: to fix it. Sometimes we fix it, and sometimes we
• 21:55
  Speaker 6: go to sleep and were sleeping on the edge of
• 21:57
  Speaker 6: the bed.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: So you know, it's we still a work in progress.
• 22:00
  Speaker 7: I think it's better than it was though, because before
• 22:02
  Speaker 7: it just would be the yucky feeling like it would
• 22:05
  Speaker 7: be yuky like we would talk about it, but then
• 22:07
  Speaker 7: talking that's another thing that happened. We talked about it,
• 22:09
  Speaker 7: but talking about it didn't get to resolve. I feel
• 22:12
  Speaker 7: like now that I've learned how you are, you've learned
• 22:15
  Speaker 7: how to how I am, I think we've been able to.
• 22:18
  Speaker 6: Yeah, we just don't be mad in the middle of
• 22:20
  Speaker 6: the day, like, but it's still be there until we
• 22:23
  Speaker 6: decide to talk about it. We just learned how to
• 22:26
  Speaker 6: keep doing stuff throughout the day.
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: Right, But even the disagreements, I think it's almost like
• 22:31
  Speaker 7: kind of how y'all listen. We was in our mommy
• 22:35
  Speaker 7: and me room and our son, I think he tripped
• 22:37
  Speaker 7: over something else.
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: She's in the bathroom right there.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: She's like, what you did to my son?
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: What did I do?
• 22:46
  Speaker 7: And I know, but in that moment, instead of choosing
• 22:49
  Speaker 7: to be like, bitch, you realize that our child. I
• 22:54
  Speaker 7: had to I had to take two steps back and like,
• 22:56
  Speaker 7: you know, she's the new mom this whatever. I was like,
• 22:59
  Speaker 7: that's beautiful. He tripped over that team right there. So
• 23:03
  Speaker 7: I think it's just you know, being intentional about considering
• 23:07
  Speaker 7: where the person is coming from at the time.
• 23:09
  Speaker 5: You know that you approach with hostility.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: I do that too bad.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: I'd be like, don't talk to my daughters like that.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: I was wondering, you say you let her lead with
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: the baby.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: Why because you've been you've done it before, you know
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: the mistakes, you know that.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Why why you let her leave? I want her.
• 23:25
  Speaker 7: To continue to have a great experience as a mom.
• 23:28
  Speaker 7: I don't want her to feel like she's making bad decisions.
• 23:31
  Speaker 7: I want her to make a decision based off of
• 23:33
  Speaker 7: her feelings, because your gut instink is always good. I
• 23:36
  Speaker 7: feel like oftentimes when you have the opinion first, like
• 23:39
  Speaker 7: the thing that she does in our relationship, whatever I.
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: Want you know we're doing.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: I hate when you say that ship because coming to what, I.
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: Don't care what it is.
• 23:51
  Speaker 7: I don't care if it's we buying a car, we're
• 23:54
  Speaker 7: buying a house where we go to eat. It's whatever
• 23:56
  Speaker 7: I want, and so I wanted to make sure that
• 23:59
  Speaker 7: in this that's specifically how she wants it. Now, if
• 24:03
  Speaker 7: it's something that I felt like, beautiful, he not supposed
• 24:07
  Speaker 7: to have this much juice during the day, I will
• 24:09
  Speaker 7: have a conversation with her that, hey, I think we
• 24:12
  Speaker 7: should probably look at how much juicy he's drinking. Maybe
• 24:14
  Speaker 7: maybe we should, you know, maybe you should look it
• 24:16
  Speaker 7: up and see what's the intake, or asks the doctor.
• 24:18
  Speaker 5: But I'm not going to be like, you.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: Know, gotcha, hold on?
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: What does marriage look like for you two? On the
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: days when love feels more like work than anything.
• 24:28
  Speaker 6: Else, shit, that's a lot of days it just looked
• 24:31
  Speaker 6: like work that day. You know, she's on the computer
• 24:34
  Speaker 6: and the phone twenty four to seven and well and
• 24:38
  Speaker 6: then sometimes you know, in between there we do we
• 24:41
  Speaker 6: get to spend time with our son, but then I
• 24:43
  Speaker 6: have to make calls and then I have to work,
• 24:45
  Speaker 6: So it just be work, you know. And at the
• 24:48
  Speaker 6: end of the day or nighttime, when we get to
• 24:50
  Speaker 6: you know, pillow talk and our son is sleep. You know,
• 24:53
  Speaker 6: we spend time with each other then, but other than that,
• 24:55
  Speaker 6: work is work. You gotta get the work done. You
• 24:57
  Speaker 6: got to pay the bills and get shit done.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, how does sexy time work? Right? So because
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: you got to keep it sex, you got to keep
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: it spicy.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: But we have we have yeah, we have.
• 25:08
  Speaker 6: Date nights and then we have the nighttime when he sleep,
• 25:10
  Speaker 6: and we have any time when he sleep.
• 25:12
  Speaker 7: Intentional stuff like it was one time I tried to
• 25:15
  Speaker 7: role play with her.
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: She was so fucking lost.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: She was, so I.
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: Text her I was a stripper and then I really liked.
• 25:25
  Speaker 7: Strippers anyway, that kind of probably was anyway. So I
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: text her and I said, I'm about to text you
• 25:29
  Speaker 7: as somebody else. She was like, and I was like,
• 25:31
  Speaker 7: I had a great time last night. Maybe we could
• 25:33
  Speaker 7: link up at a hotel later in the week.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: And she's like, what what.
• 25:38
  Speaker 5: Are you talking about? But eventually she got it right.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: So I set up.
• 25:41
  Speaker 7: I set up the hotel, Like there was this hotel
• 25:43
  Speaker 7: I used to go to all the time when I
• 25:45
  Speaker 7: used to come down here. So I set up something
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: at the hotel, had the you know, the roses and all.
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: The rest of that.
• 25:50
  Speaker 7: I prepare a little dance and she got in the
• 25:53
  Speaker 7: room and she didn't even let me do the dance.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: I had that thing.
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: I could have did the one two.
• 26:01
  Speaker 6: I didn't know it was supposed to be a dance,
• 26:04
  Speaker 6: And I poured me a little liquor.
• 26:10
  Speaker 7: Camera like so she could take pictures and do all
• 26:13
  Speaker 7: the things.
• 26:13
  Speaker 6: I saw that I didn't know there was supposed to
• 26:15
  Speaker 6: be like a schedule. No, but she had on some
• 26:20
  Speaker 6: fly ash it. I was like, dang, the heels, the
• 26:24
  Speaker 6: fish nets, the lingerada I had.
• 26:28
  Speaker 5: I had the stuff to feed her. Ain't none of that?
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: Boards and all kinds of ship. I grabbed some of
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: them grapes.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: And it was like, what do you think it's one
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: misconception about your relationship that the book finally, Oh.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: That's oh, that's a good question.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: What's any misconception.
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: Though they think I run ship, they do sound like.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: A little bit let her have her way. I like that,
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: you know. I like that.
• 27:02
  Speaker 6: In every relationship I've had, I've pretty much ran shit,
• 27:05
  Speaker 6: and I like for her to run shit. I think
• 27:07
  Speaker 6: it's absolutely cute. And I love the fact that she's
• 27:09
  Speaker 6: such a boss that she can run shit. Yeah, and
• 27:13
  Speaker 6: I ask her everything, like I need her advice forever.
• 27:16
  Speaker 6: She does run shit pretty much ask her. I ask
• 27:18
  Speaker 6: her advice for everything. She know how to handle money
• 27:22
  Speaker 6: better than me. So I asked, what should I do
• 27:24
  Speaker 6: with X y Z?
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: You know? So, yeah, that that is absolutely right.
• 27:28
  Speaker 6: She do run ship, but I let her run shit,
• 27:30
  Speaker 6: I you know, and I like that. I don't want
• 27:32
  Speaker 6: her to do anything in the fucking house. I don't
• 27:34
  Speaker 6: want her to wash her dish. I don't want her
• 27:36
  Speaker 6: to have to cook, but she loves to cook. I
• 27:38
  Speaker 6: don't want to have to her to wash clothes. I
• 27:40
  Speaker 6: don't want her to do ship.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: I do all that.
• 27:42
  Speaker 6: I love what you're doing that ship man. I love
• 27:45
  Speaker 6: a good turkey burger. I love I love Uh, what's
• 27:50
  Speaker 6: what's my ship? I love salmon Patty's. Oh, I love
• 27:53
  Speaker 6: salmon Patty's.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I make I make quite a few things, you
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.
• 27:57
  Speaker 6: My grandfather was a chef before passed away, and both
• 28:01
  Speaker 6: of my grandmothers could really cook a lot. But my
• 28:02
  Speaker 6: wife cooks too. But I don't be one her to
• 28:05
  Speaker 6: have to do nothing. She does so much work, and
• 28:07
  Speaker 6: she'd be so busy and consumed with the business and
• 28:10
  Speaker 6: having to run that. Like, I don't ever want a business.
• 28:13
  Speaker 6: I don't ever want to be the CEO of a business.
• 28:17
  Speaker 6: I see the things she has to go through, and
• 28:19
  Speaker 6: the ship is it's a lot. You know, when you
• 28:22
  Speaker 6: have a lot of different people working for you and
• 28:24
  Speaker 6: one thing falls, sure it falls on you and you
• 28:27
  Speaker 6: have to know how to do that thing as well.
• 28:28
  Speaker 6: So she got to know how to do a million things.
• 28:31
  Speaker 6: Make sure the money right, make sure the people doing
• 28:33
  Speaker 6: what they doing, make sure that the bottles are right.
• 28:36
  Speaker 6: She got to sniff the products and smell it and
• 28:38
  Speaker 6: make sure it is so much and it's a lot.
• 28:42
  Speaker 9: So I will say, I'm very proud of you, jack man,
• 28:48
  Speaker 9: like you have built your business from the ground up
• 28:51
  Speaker 9: and been doing this for years and years.
• 28:53
  Speaker 8: My niece was one of your what would you call.
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: It in.
• 28:58
  Speaker 6: For lot of school man. So I just and she
• 29:01
  Speaker 6: started that ship from her phone. That's why I can't
• 29:03
  Speaker 6: say shit about her phone, her phone on her computer,
• 29:06
  Speaker 6: like she has to be on those things to run
• 29:09
  Speaker 6: the business.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: So yeah, she she had getting the flowers.
• 29:13
  Speaker 6: Don't give it now.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: She hates it.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: She hates it. She don't know how to take it.
• 29:26
  Speaker 6: I tell her all the time, like when you sit
• 29:28
  Speaker 6: back and look at the things that you do, the
• 29:30
  Speaker 6: things that you've done, the things that you do.
• 29:33
  Speaker 8: People like, why are you like that? Though?
• 29:35
  Speaker 9: What about like why don't you like accepting your flowers?
• 29:39
  Speaker 9: Why don't you like when the spotlight is on you?
• 29:41
  Speaker 9: Obviously you know, giving you recognition.
• 29:46
  Speaker 7: I feel like a big part of my purpose here
• 29:50
  Speaker 7: on the world, it's like to give to other people.
• 29:52
  Speaker 7: So it's just hard to receive. So as a person
• 29:55
  Speaker 7: that's a natural giver and enjoys giving and not just
• 29:58
  Speaker 7: saying it like I enjoy giving, it's hard to receive
• 30:01
  Speaker 7: because that's I.
• 30:02
  Speaker 5: Enjoy the other side of it. I enjoy giving. Compliment.
• 30:06
  Speaker 9: Has that ever affected y'all marriage or your relationship prior
• 30:09
  Speaker 9: or getting married that she doesn't she's not open to receiving.
• 30:12
  Speaker 7: I had to learn how to with her. I had
• 30:14
  Speaker 7: to learn how to receive better with her.
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: But she had to do the same.
• 30:18
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 30:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 30:20
  Speaker 6: When we was first dating and whatever, I was at
• 30:23
  Speaker 6: the studio recording with JD and all of a sudden,
• 30:26
  Speaker 6: here comes her assistant with like fifteen Fendy.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Bags and I'm like, where are they going with that stuff?
• 30:33
  Speaker 6: And it was all for me and I made them
• 30:35
  Speaker 6: take it all back, like I was like, damn, I
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: don't all I want is you.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: I don't need a fendy bag, a backpack, a jacket,
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: a shoe. I don't need shit. All I want is you.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: And I think to make her happy, I kept a
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: pair of shades and that was it.
• 30:49
  Speaker 8: And then that made you fell more in love with her.
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, because every time she tried to get me something back,
• 30:53
  Speaker 5: I wanted to tend it. I wanted to up it.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: I wanted to Oh, you don't want that, and as
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: you know, she upset.
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: Why do you feel like everything you had to give
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: was material?
• 31:02
  Speaker 5: I don't just justarily feel like that.
• 31:04
  Speaker 7: But if I'm going doing something for myself, I'm gonna
• 31:06
  Speaker 7: make sure to do it for you as well. If
• 31:08
  Speaker 7: they if they were already out getting something for me,
• 31:11
  Speaker 7: grab ten things for her. So that's that's what it was.
• 31:14
  Speaker 7: And I wanted to surprise her with something. I wanted
• 31:16
  Speaker 7: her to feel special.
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: I want to you know. Yeah, So I don't think.
• 31:19
  Speaker 7: That everything gotta be material, But it's just if I'm
• 31:22
  Speaker 7: doing something, you.
• 31:24
  Speaker 9: Know, not to go back back because it's about y'all now,
• 31:28
  Speaker 9: But have you ever been in a relationship where somebody
• 31:31
  Speaker 9: has taken advantage of that?
• 31:32
  Speaker 5: She and I think that's why she's like that because
• 31:34
  Speaker 5: she knows that. Yeah, yes, but I don't.
• 31:39
  Speaker 7: But I'm not gonna say it's a trauma because I
• 31:41
  Speaker 7: feel like anything that I've ever getten God has blessed
• 31:43
  Speaker 7: me with one hundred times.
• 31:44
  Speaker 5: No, So whatever the person then.
• 31:46
  Speaker 6: Did, She's so sweet and people don't take advantage and
• 31:50
  Speaker 6: I hate it.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and even to this day, there's people to take advantage.
• 31:55
  Speaker 6: But I can't say shit because she runs a business
• 31:58
  Speaker 6: and I have to just that's what I had to
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: learn to fall back and just be quiet. But that
• 32:03
  Speaker 6: shit is hard when you see and you know somebody
• 32:06
  Speaker 6: fucking over your wife, or they taking advantage of it,
• 32:08
  Speaker 6: or they doing shit thing's supposed to do. Man, you
• 32:10
  Speaker 6: want to go bop their ass like you want to
• 32:12
  Speaker 6: be like I don't. I don't, I don't say anything.
• 32:18
  Speaker 6: I'm so much better with that. I smile at motherfucker's
• 32:22
  Speaker 6: faces that I know them fucked you over.
• 32:23
  Speaker 5: And that's very.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: Hard for me, very hard.
• 32:28
  Speaker 9: I got females. Somebody mean to ask you to b
• 32:30
  Speaker 9: they crazy. Do you consider yourself a humble stud? No,
• 32:36
  Speaker 9: I am not a stud.
• 32:39
  Speaker 6: I love fingernails, I love makeup, I love panty and
• 32:44
  Speaker 6: brasets lace pretty laperla like I. You know, I'm not
• 32:49
  Speaker 6: a stud, but I don't have a problem with studds.
• 32:51
  Speaker 6: I got a lot of stud friends and shout out
• 32:54
  Speaker 6: to the studs of America.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, but that is not who
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: I am. Okay, you know, don't I don't put a
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: label on myself here.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: You know, I wanted to ask one question. This has
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with a relationship me neither. I want
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: to talk hip up.
• 33:06
  Speaker 5: Okay, let's go.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: I have a question. JD was here and he talks
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: about the time you almost got him killed when you
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: kidnapped Mariah call.
• 33:20
  Speaker 5: No.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: He took us to her house.
• 33:23
  Speaker 6: I think we were filming a video and uh or
• 33:27
  Speaker 6: either we just went maybe.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: I think we were filming. I can't remember, but we
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: went there a few times.
• 33:33
  Speaker 6: When she came out, I think this was my first
• 33:35
  Speaker 6: time meeting her. We was hanging out. She was super cool.
• 33:38
  Speaker 6: We instantly had chemistry and jail and we was laughing
• 33:41
  Speaker 6: about ship, cracking jokes on people like it was just
• 33:44
  Speaker 6: like we had knew each other forever. So she was
• 33:46
  Speaker 6: showing me around the house and she was telling me
• 33:49
  Speaker 6: because in some rooms, like the closet. In certain places
• 33:52
  Speaker 6: they had microphones in the wall. So she would tell me,
• 33:54
  Speaker 6: you know, when it's a good time to talk about
• 33:56
  Speaker 6: shit and when it was not or whatever. So you know,
• 33:59
  Speaker 6: she showed me her car and it was like fifteen
• 34:02
  Speaker 6: cars in the garage. No mind you, I ain't never
• 34:04
  Speaker 6: seen this type of shit before. I just been to
• 34:06
  Speaker 6: JD House and seen his riches. I ain't seen shit else.
• 34:08
  Speaker 6: So I'm at Maria's house, who lived next door to
• 34:10
  Speaker 6: Ralph Lauren with Tommy Mottola.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
• 34:13
  Speaker 6: I'm like, so she had a fleet of fucking cars
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: in the garage and I'm like, whose cars is these?
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: She was like day mine. I said, well, bitch less good.
• 34:23
  Speaker 6: I said, what's sneer here? And she was like, there's
• 34:26
  Speaker 6: a burger king up. She was like, let's go get
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: some fries.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: So we get in the car.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: Car now I.
• 34:31
  Speaker 6: Think it was a cad like it was like a
• 34:32
  Speaker 6: pink old old school pink catlle. Everything was shined up
• 34:36
  Speaker 6: in brand new, no scratches, it was just clean. I
• 34:39
  Speaker 6: was like, oh my god, in heaven. So we get
• 34:42
  Speaker 6: to out. She ain't never told me she don't drive
• 34:45
  Speaker 6: or she never took the she never really drove the cars. Tommy,
• 34:48
  Speaker 6: I guess just bought him for So they just sit there.
• 34:51
  Speaker 6: So we in the car, we riding, she driving, I'm chilling.
• 34:54
  Speaker 6: I'm like, yes, I'm having a good time. We playing music,
• 34:56
  Speaker 6: and then all of a sudden, my phone started blowing up.
• 34:59
  Speaker 6: I think we had the Skytales or something back then,
• 35:01
  Speaker 6: and JD was like, get back here right now, Brad.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: I don't know what y'all doing, but you need to
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: get back here. They need you back right now.
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: I'm like, nigga, no, we're.
• 35:10
  Speaker 6: Going to Burkene on the street. What is wrong with you?
• 35:12
  Speaker 6: We're going a mile up the street to Burger King.
• 35:15
  Speaker 6: So I didn't want to see you, nigga. When I
• 35:16
  Speaker 6: get back, he kept blowing me up like Brett, No,
• 35:19
  Speaker 6: you don't understand.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: I need you to get back.
• 35:21
  Speaker 6: I didn't know they had the guns out where JD
• 35:24
  Speaker 6: was at making him tell me to get her back here.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: I'm like, it ain't mean it was gone. Mariah wanted
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: to go to She want that drove. So, yeah, that's
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: what happened. It's Tommy, Tommy Motola.
• 35:39
  Speaker 6: The thought they were kidnapping, right, So did y'all get
• 35:40
  Speaker 6: to bur kN Yeah, we got to Burke King and
• 35:42
  Speaker 6: got them fries. But when we came back, they took
• 35:45
  Speaker 6: her away and I was like, oh my god, I
• 35:46
  Speaker 6: feel like like she was in trouble like Tommy Mottola.
• 35:50
  Speaker 7: It was.
• 35:50
  Speaker 6: She was really like a princess in the castle, Like
• 35:52
  Speaker 6: it was like on Shrek when the prince at Fiona
• 35:55
  Speaker 6: was in the castle and could not you know. And honestly,
• 35:57
  Speaker 6: when we was in the house, anytime she would laugh,
• 36:01
  Speaker 6: anytime she would look like she was having fun.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: Security to come get her like it was.
• 36:05
  Speaker 5: It was.
• 36:06
  Speaker 6: It was a horrible but good experience for me. But
• 36:09
  Speaker 6: I hated seeing her like that. But I think in
• 36:13
  Speaker 6: a lot of ways when we talked and stuff, she
• 36:15
  Speaker 6: got to vent and express herself. We both are aries.
• 36:18
  Speaker 6: We both are eternally twelve, you know what I'm saying.
• 36:20
  Speaker 6: We started to go she started to send the helicopter
• 36:22
  Speaker 6: and stuff, and we to go to Disney World and
• 36:24
  Speaker 6: just fly one ride, one ride and come back. Just
• 36:26
  Speaker 6: took like relax and stuff. Like she was really like
• 36:30
  Speaker 6: trapped in that relationship and.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: It was horrible, Like I had Yeah, we ate the Yeah,
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: on the way back.
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: Now, when people say that Brat was the first female
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: rapper to gold platinum, what part of that achievement do
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: you feel still doesn't get fully respected.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: I think I stopped caring, Charlemagne. Uh, it is what
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: it is. That's what I did. That is who I am.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: It can't be changed.
• 36:57
  Speaker 6: Uh, nobody else can be the first female rapper to
• 37:00
  Speaker 6: ever sell a million records solo. Salton Pepper was the
• 37:02
  Speaker 6: first group. And I stopped caring about it a long
• 37:06
  Speaker 6: time ago, because, Yeah, but what I'm gonna do everywhere
• 37:10
  Speaker 6: I go ask for respect or ask that nobody forgets that.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: Motherfuckers forget and it is what it is.
• 37:16
  Speaker 6: And I'm not gonna, you know, wear it on a
• 37:18
  Speaker 6: T shirt every day, like I know what I did,
• 37:20
  Speaker 6: and if people know, they know, and if they don't,
• 37:23
  Speaker 6: they don't. Like, there's nothing I could do about people
• 37:25
  Speaker 6: not respecting that. People don't have respect these days anymore.
• 37:29
  Speaker 6: That's not a thing that happens like it used to.
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: That's a bother you at all, Because a lot of
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: times when they mentioned female MC's, I feel like they
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: don't mention a brad enough.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: They probably don't, but it don't bother me. It don't
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: bother me.
• 37:41
  Speaker 6: Like I'll see some stuff and I'd be like, oh,
• 37:43
  Speaker 6: they ain't put me in that, But I don't be
• 37:45
  Speaker 6: like mad or offended.
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: It is what it is.
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 37:49
  Speaker 6: People didn't know that and respect me and love and
• 37:51
  Speaker 6: appreciate what I did. They love respect me and appreciate
• 37:54
  Speaker 6: what I did. But those that don't fuck them, they
• 37:57
  Speaker 6: can look at it in the history books or find
• 37:58
  Speaker 6: out when they hear it, because it's there, It'll be
• 38:02
  Speaker 6: there forever.
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: You also helped make space for like women who didn't
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: fit the industry's idea I guess of feminine. Do you
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: feel acknowledged for that?
• 38:10
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Nope. I don't really feel acknowledged for anything.
• 38:13
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 38:15
  Speaker 6: When I came when I was coming out as a
• 38:18
  Speaker 6: as a rapper EMC Light, I looked up the MC
• 38:21
  Speaker 6: Light because I saw myself and her and you know
• 38:25
  Speaker 6: cha and all EMC Light songs. I just wanted to
• 38:28
  Speaker 6: be like EMC Light. And then Mony Love came along
• 38:30
  Speaker 6: and she rapped fast and we rapped fast in Chicago
• 38:33
  Speaker 6: because of Twister, like Twister was my Twister is my
• 38:36
  Speaker 6: number one goat in my opinion. I grew up wanting
• 38:39
  Speaker 6: to be twisted. He was in a Guinness Book of
• 38:41
  Speaker 6: World Records. He rapped fast, so I pattered my style
• 38:44
  Speaker 6: after Twister, and then when Snoop came out, I fell
• 38:46
  Speaker 6: in love with Snoop, and then it was the whole
• 38:48
  Speaker 6: Funkadelic thing. And then when me and JD got in
• 38:50
  Speaker 6: the studio we did funct the five.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: I always wanted to know I was working with big
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: Man Man.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: Biggie was everything he was.
• 38:58
  Speaker 6: He was a big old teddy bear, big old teddy bear,
• 39:01
  Speaker 6: smoked this back out, just was sweet to everybody. Had
• 39:04
  Speaker 6: plenty bitches they talking about. He talking about black, nasty motherfucker.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: Them bitches love some Biggie. Biggie had some holes. I'd
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: be like, damn, Biggy, how you get that one?
• 39:14
  Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. And when we was in
• 39:16
  Speaker 6: the studio, I had never seen somebody not write their
• 39:19
  Speaker 6: lyrics down. That was the first time I had saw that.
• 39:23
  Speaker 6: Cause we was doing the B side the song. I
• 39:25
  Speaker 6: got with Biggie and we said JD's and I was
• 39:27
  Speaker 6: writing my LIGs. I'm like, I'm finna beat this nigga.
• 39:29
  Speaker 6: I'm writing my licks. I'm almost done. He's sitting there smoking.
• 39:31
  Speaker 6: He ain't gonna be We're gonna be waiting on him.
• 39:33
  Speaker 6: So when I was almost finished, I was like, Big Yo,
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: what's up where your verse at?
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I'm done. I said, Nigga, you ain't
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: even write it down. You ain't got no penn in pages.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: Like no, I'm done.
• 39:42
  Speaker 6: I said, you ain't done. You just saying that you're
• 39:44
  Speaker 6: trying to put some pressure on me. He went in
• 39:46
  Speaker 6: the studio in the booth and laid his verse down,
• 39:48
  Speaker 6: and I was pissed, like, ah, nigga, you really how
• 39:51
  Speaker 6: you memorized that you smoked two pounds of weed just
• 39:54
  Speaker 6: now and you memorized that and went in the boof
• 39:57
  Speaker 6: and did it. So that was one of the amazing
• 39:58
  Speaker 6: things about him, besides his heart, Like Biggie was a
• 40:01
  Speaker 6: really really good dude and wanted to help everybody.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: How did y'all his people?
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: Because I even I even heard I think jay Z
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: a while ago was seeing how Big wanted everybody to
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: move there Atlanta. And it's like he used to play
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: you and JD real close y'all in each other's videos,
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: even when I were on songs together, Like how'd y'all
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: become such cool people through JD.
• 40:20
  Speaker 6: Through JD uh, I think when he was working on
• 40:24
  Speaker 6: the remix for uh was it? It was a remix
• 40:26
  Speaker 6: for Juicy, I think, and on the remix that's my
• 40:29
  Speaker 6: voice saying true because JD did the remix or whatever.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: So Ever, since then, me and Big just was just cool.
• 40:36
  Speaker 6: We instantly clicked him and JD instantly clicked and we
• 40:39
  Speaker 6: all just hung out and stay friends, checked on.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: Each other, visited each other, looked out for each.
• 40:44
  Speaker 6: Other, you know, smoked all the time, whether it was
• 40:47
  Speaker 6: in New York A La La or Atlanta.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: Like just cool people, good people.
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: The reason I think you should get more credit for,
• 40:54
  Speaker 4: you know, being the first solo rapper to go platinum
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: as a woman is because you were authentic in.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: An era that they would tell us wasn't ready for it.
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: Like everything that they said you, I guess shouldn't be
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: as a woman rapper, you were, and you got rewarded for.
• 41:09
  Speaker 6: Even JD told me, don't expect to you know, only
• 41:11
  Speaker 6: expect the go go because female rappers pretty much go go.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: So it shocked both of us.
• 41:15
  Speaker 6: When I went platinum, But you know, I was just grateful.
• 41:18
  Speaker 6: I didn't even really care about accolades. I just wanted
• 41:21
  Speaker 6: the world.
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: To know me. You know.
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: I wanted to do videos and be on TV and
• 41:25
  Speaker 6: be famous and be able to take care of my
• 41:27
  Speaker 6: grandmother's you know, which I got a chance to do
• 41:30
  Speaker 6: before they passed.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: So that's all I wanted.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: How when you were JD so tight?
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: Still?
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: Like you always see that type of business relationship always
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: mess up, but you're always still like big sister to
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: any of the artists on that label.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: How were y'all still tight?
• 41:42
  Speaker 8: Man?
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: JD?
• 41:43
  Speaker 6: Never He's always looked out for me and always genuinely
• 41:45
  Speaker 6: loved me. He ain't never tried to cross me. He
• 41:47
  Speaker 6: ain't never did no sneaky shit. He never had no
• 41:50
  Speaker 6: parties that got me in trouble or no shit like that.
• 41:56
  Speaker 6: Hedn't even let me go to the parties. He always
• 41:58
  Speaker 6: like looked out. Like when I first came around, he
• 42:01
  Speaker 6: didn't want me even going to the club or hanging
• 42:03
  Speaker 6: out or nothing. He just wanted me to work. And
• 42:05
  Speaker 6: he taught me a valuable lesson example the song give
• 42:08
  Speaker 6: It to You. I wanted to go out that night.
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: I wanted to go to Magic.
• 42:12
  Speaker 6: City I had from Chicago. I used to go to
• 42:14
  Speaker 6: go on the strip clubs. I wanted to see some
• 42:15
  Speaker 6: bitches and throw some money in the ass, some shrimp
• 42:18
  Speaker 6: and all that good shit. So I go out to
• 42:20
  Speaker 6: the club. I come back him and Chris Kelly rest
• 42:23
  Speaker 6: his soul from Criss Cross. They had wrote give It
• 42:26
  Speaker 6: to You, and I was so fucking mad because it
• 42:29
  Speaker 6: was such a hit and I could not I couldn't
• 42:32
  Speaker 6: change nothing. And that taught me stay your ass in
• 42:35
  Speaker 6: and work, do not go out. So JD has a
• 42:37
  Speaker 6: way of teaching you valuable lessons about the things that
• 42:41
  Speaker 6: he does, and I really appreciate that, and I'm grateful
• 42:43
  Speaker 6: for that. He's always looked out for me and been
• 42:46
  Speaker 6: like the best big brother I could ever have. And
• 42:48
  Speaker 6: still today, I don't make decisions in the industry or
• 42:51
  Speaker 6: anything that I do without asking him, without.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Running it past him.
• 42:54
  Speaker 6: We don't get to see each other that much because
• 42:56
  Speaker 6: I've been mommying and stuff and he been super busy.
• 42:59
  Speaker 6: But I love that, nigga. We text each other every
• 43:01
  Speaker 6: single day, We check on each other. We tell each
• 43:03
  Speaker 6: other I love you every single day. Same with Mariah.
• 43:06
  Speaker 6: Like I just think it's important to let your friends
• 43:09
  Speaker 6: know how you feel about them. Like I said, tomorrow's
• 43:11
  Speaker 6: and I promised, And you want to make sure that
• 43:13
  Speaker 6: you give love to those who love you and who
• 43:16
  Speaker 6: support you.
• 43:16
  Speaker 8: So that's why you don't like strip clubs.
• 43:18
  Speaker 9: Huh, that's why you don't like strip clubs because the
• 43:20
  Speaker 9: first time you went you missed.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, yeah, how you did with Bow? Seen you
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: yell at Bow wow a couple of times?
• 43:26
  Speaker 6: She like, you know, Bow, he be doing his own thing,
• 43:31
  Speaker 6: Like Bow is just a different type of character. I
• 43:34
  Speaker 6: love him to death, but when he fall by the wayside,
• 43:36
  Speaker 6: I gotta get in his ass. And that's just the
• 43:38
  Speaker 6: bottom line. Like if he do something crazy and I'd
• 43:40
  Speaker 6: be like, nigga, what the fuck is you doing?
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Like, we're not doing that. Don't do that.
• 43:44
  Speaker 6: When him and JD go at it, I don't like it.
• 43:46
  Speaker 6: I don't like it because without JD, none of us
• 43:48
  Speaker 6: would be where we are. If JD didn't sign us
• 43:51
  Speaker 6: and put us on so so death and put his
• 43:53
  Speaker 6: energy into us, we would not be here. So when
• 43:56
  Speaker 6: he gets into it with JD, I don't like it.
• 43:58
  Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck. If they like father and
• 44:00
  Speaker 6: son and all of that, that's all fine, but don't
• 44:02
  Speaker 6: disrespect him, like, don't do that.
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: Because he's the reason you are where you are now.
• 44:07
  Speaker 6: You might've got somewhere with Snoop, but Snoop brought you
• 44:10
  Speaker 6: to JD, which means he trusted JD with with you.
• 44:14
  Speaker 6: So I just feel like he should never disrespect him.
• 44:16
  Speaker 6: And when he crosses that line, it pisses me off
• 44:19
  Speaker 6: and I gotta tell him, or when he does something stupid,
• 44:21
  Speaker 6: I gotta tell him. I'm that girl that's gonna tell him.
• 44:24
  Speaker 6: I'm not the one that's gonna be like, it's okay
• 44:26
  Speaker 6: bout no, that's not me.
• 44:27
  Speaker 8: And I love that because it still comes from a
• 44:30
  Speaker 8: place of love.
• 44:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I love him.
• 44:31
  Speaker 9: The planet didn't turn around and let you know you
• 44:33
  Speaker 9: love him because even on the show, I think it
• 44:35
  Speaker 9: was growing up hip hop, always getting his ass when
• 44:38
  Speaker 9: hell have his little tempotantrums and everybody else around him
• 44:41
  Speaker 9: be no, it's okay, here go with the brat.
• 44:43
  Speaker 8: Look just shit together. Yeah, I love him, respect that.
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: It's this version of the brat with Judy, the version
• 44:49
  Speaker 4: of you that the world didn't get to see because
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: the times weren't ready.
• 44:52
  Speaker 6: Absolutely absolutely, you know, like I said, I wasn't trying
• 44:57
  Speaker 6: to be vulnerable back then. I was just gonna be
• 44:59
  Speaker 6: the person I rapped about, and that was like my
• 45:01
  Speaker 6: alter ego, the Chicago bitch that to fuck you up,
• 45:04
  Speaker 6: the Chicago bitch that grew up defending myself. That's who
• 45:08
  Speaker 6: I rapped about being. That's who the brat is, you
• 45:10
  Speaker 6: know what I'm saying. But with My Beautiful, it's just like,
• 45:13
  Speaker 6: you know, since I had my son, I just feel
• 45:15
  Speaker 6: like my heart is just cracked open, Like I just
• 45:17
  Speaker 6: you know, I can cry at the drop of a dime.
• 45:19
  Speaker 6: I'll watch a movie and fucking cry. Watch The Notebook
• 45:21
  Speaker 6: the other day, bitchtar Crime. Seen the movie ten times,
• 45:24
  Speaker 6: but I still cry, Like, yeah, so this is the
• 45:28
  Speaker 6: chante you know that the world does not know. And
• 45:32
  Speaker 6: I think that's awesome that I had that to save. Plus,
• 45:35
  Speaker 6: the bitch was in the closet for so long, you know,
• 45:37
  Speaker 6: I had a.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: Lot that was hidden anyway.
• 45:39
  Speaker 6: So when it comes to love and relationships and vulnerability,
• 45:44
  Speaker 6: I owe that all to My Beautiful for bringing that out.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: How difficult was it to do morning radio because you
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: probably one of the first artists that said, you know what,
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna put rapping to the side for a little
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: bit and start doing the media side.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: How difficult was that.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: It wasn't difficult at all. Like I really enjoy it.
• 45:58
  Speaker 6: I really enjoy it, Like I just get to talk,
• 46:01
  Speaker 6: Like we just sit here and fucking talk and make money.
• 46:05
  Speaker 6: And it's so natural. You know, some people can't do it,
• 46:08
  Speaker 6: but we can do it. We're blessed to, you know,
• 46:10
  Speaker 6: to have the talent to do it, and it's so
• 46:13
  Speaker 6: easy for us. So it was it was easy because
• 46:15
  Speaker 6: every time I used to go to Ricky Smiley and
• 46:18
  Speaker 6: do like drops and stuff and I would just knock
• 46:20
  Speaker 6: it out. They would be like, damn, have you ever
• 46:22
  Speaker 6: thought about doing radio? And I'm like, no, I haven't,
• 46:24
  Speaker 6: but you know, he was like, you should come in,
• 46:26
  Speaker 6: you know, and we gonna see it about you getting in.
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: So I was like, okay. So when I did it,
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: it was easy, and it's a blessing. I've been doing
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: it for like ten fifteen years now, and it's just
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: so easy, so easy.
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: I heard a frank that they try to do on you, right,
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: And the prank was it was Brad had a day off, right,
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: and Ricky Smiley and the crew will call her every
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: five minutes and ask her for something.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: And it got to the point at the third time,
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: it was like, yo, your mother fucking stopped. It was like,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: you tell it wasn't scripted. You would have to go
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: to HR after that. The way she cuts me out bad.
• 46:55
  Speaker 6: But I was trying not to the first few times
• 46:57
  Speaker 6: I was, you know, I tried to keep my cool
• 46:59
  Speaker 6: because I'm like, okay, maybe they need something that's worked.
• 47:02
  Speaker 6: Then after a while it's like, mother, why the fuck
• 47:04
  Speaker 6: do y'all keep calling me?
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: I'll be back.
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: Let mean the fuck alone. Today, it's my off day, yo.
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: Crazy.
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: I loved when when the Brad was hitting on Wendy.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: You already know well we did our interview.
• 47:27
  Speaker 6: She tried to say I hit on her, and I
• 47:29
  Speaker 6: had to be like, bitch, no, I love you. You're
• 47:33
  Speaker 6: a nice person, you cool, but you are not the
• 47:36
  Speaker 6: type of bitch I would holler at.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: I was trying to figure out the way to nicely
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: put her down, like I don't don't do that.
• 47:43
  Speaker 5: I never tried to.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: She's telling about she had receipts. I said, I got
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: the same phone, bitch that I've been had for years.
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: I got receipts too. I'll show you we can compare,
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: because I ain't you her ship like that for me.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: I never tried to holler.
• 47:54
  Speaker 9: Where was this like back in the day.
• 47:58
  Speaker 6: Yeah, she interviewed me talking abou I tried to holler
• 48:00
  Speaker 6: at I'm like, bitch, no, I didn't.
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: You was nothing to do that, christ.
• 48:07
  Speaker 4: If readers can take just one truth away from the
• 48:10
  Speaker 4: way love goes, what do you.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: Hope it is?
• 48:13
  Speaker 5: Go ahead, beautiful? Oh shit, I'm sorry that.
• 48:20
  Speaker 7: It's never too late for love and not to give
• 48:23
  Speaker 7: up on it, and it finds you when you stop
• 48:26
  Speaker 7: looking for it.
• 48:28
  Speaker 5: That's what I think.
• 48:29
  Speaker 9: Okay, h Judy is so cold from over here. That
• 48:35
  Speaker 9: girl was like, listen, it's cold as hell in here.
• 48:37
  Speaker 5: I said that when I know I don't understand how
• 48:40
  Speaker 5: y'all live in snow.
• 48:43
  Speaker 6: I think they should take away that communication is very important. Uh,
• 48:48
  Speaker 6: if you got situations in the beginning of the relationship,
• 48:51
  Speaker 6: tell them, motherfuckers, keep be transparent in the beginning. You
• 48:55
  Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Because that was a mistake that
• 48:56
  Speaker 6: I made that I could have lost what I have now.
• 48:59
  Speaker 6: So I don't want anybody to ever lose the opportunity
• 49:02
  Speaker 6: by lying or not coming clean in the beginning, and
• 49:05
  Speaker 6: give that person a choice to decide if they still
• 49:08
  Speaker 6: want to wait for you or not, because if they
• 49:09
  Speaker 6: really fucking with you and if it's meant to be,
• 49:11
  Speaker 6: they will so and what else.
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: Make your bitch come eleven times.
• 49:22
  Speaker 4: And one time hold on now eleven times win and
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: one session in one session?
• 49:28
  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, okay, make.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: It for ten years?
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: Ten years my wife when I was sixteen. Yeah, but
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: we met when we were sixteen, so she was my
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: number one. Right, So when we used to watch thing
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: about sex, I never had the birds and bees conversation.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Eleven times learn happened.
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: I would watch porn, right, and when you watch porn,
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: you see bang bang bang bang bang, right, And I
• 49:59
  Speaker 3: could not make cut reach orgasm from sex from the mouth. Yes,
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: So it took me a while until we started learning
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: our bodies and we started having a conversation. But that
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: was when I was sixteen, and it wasn't ten years.
• 50:09
  Speaker 8: That's fair.
• 50:12
  Speaker 7: The crazy part is she loves she's a giver, so
• 50:16
  Speaker 7: she loves to give. I'm talking she will, she will
• 50:19
  Speaker 7: because you can't just back to back.
• 50:21
  Speaker 5: You got to do it. Then give me some minutes, right,
• 50:25
  Speaker 5: and then we could start again.
• 50:27
  Speaker 7: Not that I'm thinking about this, did you want the
• 50:29
  Speaker 7: world to know how your skills or something.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: Like.
• 50:33
  Speaker 5: You put this in the.
• 50:34
  Speaker 6: Book because we were talking about it. We was talking
• 50:36
  Speaker 6: about sex, and that is like, well I only did
• 50:39
  Speaker 6: that once.
• 50:45
  Speaker 5: It was no toy.
• 50:48
  Speaker 7: I won't tell you be fucked up though, but at
• 50:50
  Speaker 7: the end of the day, you be fucked up because
• 50:51
  Speaker 7: that you don't want to.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: You don't walk right.
• 50:58
  Speaker 7: But I think it's unfair because she doesn't. She doesn't
• 51:01
  Speaker 7: give me the opportunity to do that to her, like
• 51:04
  Speaker 7: the one she's over with one good one, but she
• 51:08
  Speaker 7: makes me.
• 51:08
  Speaker 5: I'm talking, she will fall as good.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: That should have been your name.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen, The Way Love Goes a Guide to
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: building a beautiful and everlasting relationship. To Bratt and Judy,
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: thank you so much for joining us. Thank you for
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: having us at the Breakfast Club.
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: Good morning, woke Up, Wake you up, Wake Up, program
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  Speaker 4: your alarm The power one oh five point one on iHeartRadio.