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Happy Hour #133: Post Podcast Movement Update · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is any and samanthacome stuff I never told
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  Speaker 1: your production of by Hurt Radio.
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  Speaker 2: And we are back with another Happy Hour. And yes
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  Speaker 2: we are still pausing on the watching of Sex and
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  Speaker 2: the City because again, it's kind of busy month, busy
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  Speaker 2: two months. There's so many things happening these like August
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  Speaker 2: and September we're always in a whirlwind, and half of
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  Speaker 2: October as well, and then it comes like holiday seasons
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  Speaker 2: and then we're like, oh my god, what the end
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  Speaker 2: of the year already. Yeah, so the last about last
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  Speaker 2: five months, it gets hectic for us. Just a peek
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  Speaker 2: behind the curtains there. But with that, I did want
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  Speaker 2: to come back with kind of a follow up episode
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  Speaker 2: of my original Happy Hour, which I was distressed and
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  Speaker 2: unhappy and very sad. Apology that was a very unhappy
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  Speaker 2: hour that I had. With all of that, I didn't
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  Speaker 2: want to kind of follow up because I feel like
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  Speaker 2: what we went through recently was a success. So this
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  Speaker 2: is a Happy Hour update, happy happy happy Hour update.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't know if we need content warning, maybe
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  Speaker 2: just aging and uh probably again yeah, body issued body dysmorphia.
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  Speaker 2: Just just some content warning, not real, just mentioned brief
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  Speaker 2: mentions if there is any, but before we started, because
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  Speaker 2: it is a happy hour, Annie, are you partaking of anything? No,
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  Speaker 2: that sounded really ominous.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's been a whirlwind because I'm about to go
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  Speaker 1: to dragon Con. That's correct, So I'm doing a lot
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  Speaker 1: of stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Are you kind of like detoxing without anything so that
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  Speaker 2: you could jump in? Is that?
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  Speaker 1: I just we recorded or earlier than we normally do,
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  Speaker 1: so I've just been all over the place.
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  Speaker 2: If you're finding your boundaries with that right now, I.
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  Speaker 1: Just have to do anything because I stand to the
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  Speaker 1: late last night, so I've been kind of like running around.
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  Speaker 2: Trying to get it together. I understand. I understand because
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  Speaker 2: we were again whirlwind, and no matter how much you prepare,
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  Speaker 2: things happen. So I'm just drinking on water as well,
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  Speaker 2: because you know, again it has been earlier, and we've
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  Speaker 2: all talked about my intolerance as I am Asian and
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  Speaker 2: growing older. But with all of that, if you are
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  Speaker 2: taking partaking, please just do so responsibly. We care about you,
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  Speaker 2: care about yourself as well, And if we are mentioning
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  Speaker 2: anything specific, we are not necessarily being sponsored by them
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  Speaker 2: dynamic ads that happens and all of that, So at
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  Speaker 2: this point in time, we are not having any current
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  Speaker 2: sponsors of those natures that we speak on. But so
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  Speaker 2: we did attend podcast movement, did a whole panel. We
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  Speaker 2: did a lot of things, and I would market as
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  Speaker 2: a success. Annie, would you marked as a success?
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  Speaker 3: I would, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I think we did a great job. We had the
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  Speaker 2: fearless leader of ease, who is you know, a part
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  Speaker 2: of our family. She has been so for a long
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  Speaker 2: while and is now coming back on reoccurring segments with
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  Speaker 2: Female First, which we love and appreciate so much. That
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  Speaker 2: she's an amazing storyteller, she's a amazing historian. But like
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  Speaker 2: I initially going in, my anxiety was through the roof
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  Speaker 2: to the point that I told you I was getting
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  Speaker 2: ready to be medicated to certain degrees. That was like
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  Speaker 2: I need a doctor, worth my doctor, And we did
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  Speaker 2: get it all handled before on our way. It was
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  Speaker 2: really funny because I think I've just noticed the last
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  Speaker 2: three years how increasingly worse my anxiety has gotten. I'm functioning,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm making people uncomfortable. That's an obvious note. Did
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  Speaker 2: I get to the airport ridiculously early? Yes? I did.
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  Speaker 2: Did I give any step by step instructions of things
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  Speaker 2: to a certain degree with leaving some parts out in
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  Speaker 2: her misinterpreting some of my texts. Yes, I yes, did
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  Speaker 2: I have any issues about like my clothing and my makeup?
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  Speaker 2: So I told y'all, I was really struggling with that
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  Speaker 2: aging process and my face really started to like look
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  Speaker 2: like I'm aging. Turns out I had retin al burn. Y'all.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't know that was a thing, and it was
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  Speaker 2: legitimate because I was overdoing it. And I'll know, like
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  Speaker 2: I have a feeling many of my like older thirties, forties, fifties,
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  Speaker 2: y'all know, y'all know what I'm talking about, because you
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  Speaker 2: freak out and you do all of these things in
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  Speaker 2: preparation and you overdo it. And in that all of
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  Speaker 2: the puffiness that was happening to my face, not all
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  Speaker 2: the a chunk of the puffiness and like extra things
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  Speaker 2: that looked like I was like, oh no, what's happening
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  Speaker 2: to me? Was because I wrote like I like my
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  Speaker 2: face up. That's the best way I could put it,
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  Speaker 2: like just being very blund about it. And with that
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  Speaker 2: that realization really helped me. I was like, oh, my
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  Speaker 2: face is burning. I'm like, wait, that's not aging. Face
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  Speaker 2: burning is not an aging thing. When that moment happened,
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  Speaker 2: I realized what was happening. My niece, adorable niece, shout out.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't listen to the show, but shout out to
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  Speaker 2: her who is a part of the makeup artist and
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  Speaker 2: it's actually a social media manager for one of the
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  Speaker 2: big colleges in Georgia. She came and helped out with
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  Speaker 2: some pointers and we went shopping. We had a great
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  Speaker 2: day together because she helped me with this, and we
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  Speaker 2: sat and talked and had some good drinks. It was
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  Speaker 2: a wonderful day and she really helped me figure out, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's what's wrong with me, okay, and trying to find
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  Speaker 2: the confidence in that, and trying to figure out I
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  Speaker 2: need to calm down like this says I will say,
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  Speaker 2: because I did talk about perimenopause like that is the
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  Speaker 2: up and down, this emotional factor of this impending doom
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  Speaker 2: that you don't know what to do with, the anxiety
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  Speaker 2: that goes on top of the fact that you may
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  Speaker 2: already be prone to anxiety. Not helpful, not helpful, and
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  Speaker 2: sometimes you need help, legitimate help, whether it is through therapy,
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  Speaker 2: through medication, through legal channels. The things that I get
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  Speaker 2: are not like classified significantly. It has to be under
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  Speaker 2: lock and key type of things. It was just like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: this is nice. And to the point that, like the
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  Speaker 2: performance anxiety, which we were all kind of freaking out about,
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  Speaker 2: I think we did well. I think we did really well,
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  Speaker 2: to the point that people are still contacting us trying
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  Speaker 2: to find us on LinkedIn, like all these things, the
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  Speaker 2: pictures that were sent. I was like, oh, we look cute.
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  Speaker 2: I was actually really proud of those pictures. Look at that.
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  Speaker 2: I had a really cute outfit. I am leaning back
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  Speaker 2: into the world of wide legged pants.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Game changer for me. All of that today is like
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  Speaker 2: learning to figure out Okay, that and we've talked about
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  Speaker 2: this before, that was anxiety. That was anxiety that wasn't
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  Speaker 2: necessarily the world falling apart. And I think we talked
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  Speaker 2: about this with depression as well, like that is a moment,
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  Speaker 2: is a moment, and if you can if you can
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  Speaker 2: struggle through it or like get the help that you
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  Speaker 2: need during that time or just lets time pass, it
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  Speaker 2: oftentimes comes to that was a moment, not always please understand.
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  Speaker 2: We know that there's a bigger cases and there's some
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  Speaker 2: bigger conversations and that's not necessarily what I'm talking about,
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  Speaker 2: But like for me, it was the moment the anxiety
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  Speaker 2: was overwhelming. The depth of dread that I had was overwhelming.
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  Speaker 2: Being reintroduced to society, which is what it felt like. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: is a process. But with that again, knowing that my
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  Speaker 2: hormones and my mental health is different from where it
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  Speaker 2: was five years ago, my body is different from what
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  Speaker 2: it was five years ago. So though those are the
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  Speaker 2: facts that come along, but it wasn't as dire as
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  Speaker 2: it felt at that point. Did I truly believe it
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  Speaker 2: at that point? Yes, yes, it really like I was
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  Speaker 2: in a hurt place today coming out of it, kind
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  Speaker 2: of really prepping for what I knew I could help,
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  Speaker 2: what I knew I could control really helped as well.
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  Speaker 2: Having Annie be a sounding board of me to be like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: you can do this, but you want to that's necessary.
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  Speaker 2: I got you, like all of these things. Having that
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  Speaker 2: was a really nice sounding board. Eves, who I've learned
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  Speaker 2: as one of the most calming spirits ever in situations
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  Speaker 2: like that, was really an amazing sounding board. We actually
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  Speaker 2: connected with a server on our first day that really
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  Speaker 2: I really didn't think about. And then we met her
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  Speaker 2: again a few days later, and having her remember us
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  Speaker 2: so distinctly and welcoming us, I don't know, that really
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  Speaker 2: put a spot in my heart. Like I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why, but this is significant. I don't
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  Speaker 2: think you understand because we were there with thousands of people,
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  Speaker 2: hundreds of people, and she he was like, welcome back,
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  Speaker 2: you know, remembering our orders. Of course, I could be
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  Speaker 2: another implication to that, but the fact that she had
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  Speaker 2: only met us once and remembered us so vividly was
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  Speaker 2: really welcoming. Having connections with strangers who really were listening
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  Speaker 2: to our content and was welcoming to our advice and
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  Speaker 2: our information really helpful us being able to prepare together.
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  Speaker 2: I felt like it was really really helpful and just
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  Speaker 2: reconnecting on a professional level, but also like a friendship
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  Speaker 2: level with those people that we might not see. One
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  Speaker 2: of our old co workers who left before we could
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  Speaker 2: really say goodbye was there and so being able to
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  Speaker 2: connect with him again was so lovely, Like it was
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  Speaker 2: so genuinely see them happy. So genuinely see them happy
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  Speaker 2: was such a like amazing tone to our conversation, Like
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  Speaker 2: it really was a great like platform as we trying
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  Speaker 2: to reconnect and have a conversation about their next steps
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  Speaker 2: and what that's going on with them. It was lovely
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  Speaker 2: to have all those things. And then again like I
• 10:08
  Speaker 2: had a person who hopefully will have on this show, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: who is in the podcasting world now come up and say,
• 10:15
  Speaker 2: you know, I understood that episode like being validated, and
• 10:21
  Speaker 2: I think we all know that. It was like, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, good, good good. So I'm not over the
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  Speaker 2: top about this.
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  Speaker 3: It does feel this.
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  Speaker 2: Intense sometimes, and having validation and that all does help.
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  Speaker 2: But again, like having time to pass by it, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if it had gone to be a disaster,
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  Speaker 2: like if I had if we had frozen up and
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  Speaker 2: not had any answers and just mumbled through, that could
• 10:44
  Speaker 2: be a whole different story. I would be this would
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  Speaker 2: be a completely different episode where I'm like bowing out
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  Speaker 2: and resigning.
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  Speaker 3: Unfortunately no longer with us.
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  Speaker 2: She just walked out. But to have that was really
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  Speaker 2: really nice to know that we could do that, you
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  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, And not that I didn't think
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  Speaker 2: we could. I knew that the three of us all
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  Speaker 2: gave a good balance in this conversation. So that was
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  Speaker 2: nice to have as a as a as a group.
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  Speaker 2: Like this is where I think true family is versus
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  Speaker 2: just a workplace. And I'm not saying this as in
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  Speaker 2: like your family, our work family. It is a thing
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  Speaker 2: that's not a thing. That's not a thing we know
• 11:30
  Speaker 2: when it comes to higher ups using that language, this manipulation.
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  Speaker 2: What we're talking about is that correct connection between co
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  Speaker 2: workers who are in similar situations and instead of having
• 11:40
  Speaker 2: to compete with each other and instead of having to
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  Speaker 2: put others down, we actually help each other and balance
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  Speaker 2: each other out. That's that family that you know you're
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  Speaker 2: going into battle together and coming out together, surviving and thriving,
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  Speaker 2: And that's that level being able to be a part
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  Speaker 2: of a crew like that really does feel fulfilling, you know.
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  Speaker 2: So in all this bragging, I just want to let
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  Speaker 2: y'all know that I am okay first and foremost, because
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  Speaker 2: that was real. It was really intense, uh. But also secondly,
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  Speaker 2: like this is a growing, still growing experience, like I
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  Speaker 2: am again in my forties and growing into this learning
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  Speaker 2: about myself, learning about how I handle things, relearning myself
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  Speaker 2: in new or forgotten environments, and I think it's been
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  Speaker 2: amazing and really any thank you for putting up with
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  Speaker 2: all the anxiety in which I'm like, you need to
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  Speaker 2: get here, where are you type of conversations. Did I
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  Speaker 2: get to the airport four hours early?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: I did.
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  Speaker 2: Did we consider holding back so we could get a
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  Speaker 2: thousand dollars bouture? Yeah we did.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah we did.
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  Speaker 2: We would have both been like check, give me that money.
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  Speaker 2: But also like it was it was a good trip.
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  Speaker 2: Came back home. Did a COVID does because I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I feel kind of weird, said negative? Is that negative?
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  Speaker 2: But coming back getting back into like work realm, knowing
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  Speaker 2: that we're still in high gear, trying to prep forward
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  Speaker 2: things in the future.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So in the end, this updated happy happy hour, We're
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  Speaker 2: in a good space and all the patients in the
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  Speaker 2: world from you listeners and all the good advice I'll
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  Speaker 2: always get from the listeners as well as to the
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  Speaker 2: new listeners or to the new people who are a
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  Speaker 2: part of that panel. If you happen to have caught that,
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  Speaker 2: thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. Just seeing
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  Speaker 2: the faces and yeah, that was things our audience. They
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  Speaker 2: were so supportive. It was like we had one where
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  Speaker 2: we were talking about how you know, people kind of
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: wanted to control us this one. Everybody was just smiling
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  Speaker 2: and nodding and answering back. I was like, so, this
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  Speaker 2: is what it feels like when people are paying attention
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  Speaker 2: for real, for real, for real live audiences and being
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  Speaker 2: here on purpose because we have people accidentally show up
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  Speaker 2: in past panels are like, this is not what I wanted,
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  Speaker 2: and make sure we knew it. But having people who
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  Speaker 2: attended this, who were truly interested and who were truly
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  Speaker 2: engaged was another plus. Uh and an added reminder of like,
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  Speaker 2: this is a great community.
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  Speaker 1: And just a couple of things I want to touch
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  Speaker 1: on is one. I think, Samantha, you you've done well
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  Speaker 1: with like finding tools that help you. And so you
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  Speaker 1: had a you had a lot of anxiety, but you
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  Speaker 1: had plans. You had like plans, You had plans and
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  Speaker 1: it went well. We did practice before with Eves, and
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  Speaker 1: Eves is a very complex steady yeah, steady really because
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  Speaker 1: I was really nervous and I was shaking, which is
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  Speaker 1: just something that I do. But having the two of
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  Speaker 1: you was great. I also want to kind of paint
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  Speaker 1: the scene. So we got there before Eves and it
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  Speaker 1: was a huge like Exhibit Hall and it had just
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  Speaker 1: like a bunch of chairs in front of various stages,
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  Speaker 1: and then people would put on headphones. Yes, and so
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  Speaker 1: we were panics about that as well, because we're like,
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  Speaker 1: this is chaos behind us. It's an open hallway like
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  Speaker 1: open hall, and people were wearing headphones.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be able to hear. I don't know
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  Speaker 3: what it's going to go. I'll go on.
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  Speaker 1: But it turned out to be great, and then the
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  Speaker 1: audience was very supportive, and I wish we only have
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  Speaker 1: thirty minutes. Our topic was better banter. I wish we
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  Speaker 1: had had a little bit more time so we could
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  Speaker 1: have done more Q and A, which we didn't know
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  Speaker 1: if we were.
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  Speaker 3: Going to get any questions. So that's always right.
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  Speaker 1: People care, Yeah, exactly exactly. But it was cool and
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  Speaker 1: it did make me realize we both need to update
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  Speaker 1: or buy I've been doing this for a long time.
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  Speaker 3: Listeners, I've been here.
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  Speaker 2: This was hilarious, y'all because I would mention how long
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  Speaker 2: of an experienced she had, and everybody was like God,
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  Speaker 2: because everybody essentially was newer, Like I think the oldest
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  Speaker 2: outside of people we knew like podcasters or people in
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  Speaker 2: the industry, was like five years at most and eighty
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  Speaker 2: over here sitting at fourteen almost like.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. So it was just kind of eye opening.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why I've never sometimes when you get
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  Speaker 1: in your life, it's just like but anyway, that was cool.
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  Speaker 1: We need to update our bioso, because I was looking
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  Speaker 1: at other people's bios and I was like, oh, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: ours are like two sentences like oh she works here.
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  Speaker 2: Like what it feels like when you were updating an
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  Speaker 2: old resume, and like this is all unnecessary? Why is right? Right?
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  Speaker 3: So next time, next time we got this.
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  Speaker 1: But also the person Samantha mentioned earlier that came up
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  Speaker 1: to talk to to her afterwards was specifically mentioned the
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  Speaker 1: happy hour where you were freaking out right and was
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  Speaker 1: like I related so hard, right, I was like, thank god,
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  Speaker 1: yeah right. It was comforting and it was cool to
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  Speaker 1: we got to interact with people who were at the
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  Speaker 1: panel afterwards and answer some questions, hopefully give some good advice.
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  Speaker 2: But it was me.
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  Speaker 1: I guess a lot of times it's just me and
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  Speaker 1: Samantha laptops in her closet, and it was nice. It
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  Speaker 1: was a nice feeling for me to feel like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I actually do know about this. Yeah, I do know
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  Speaker 1: about this. I've got some experience with this, which.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I think I just don't think about it a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I just had to get my work done. And a
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: lot of our colleagues came to our panel and they
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  Speaker 1: were so support us.
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  Speaker 3: That was really appreciated.
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  Speaker 1: And if we were on if we were there for
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  Speaker 1: four days and we were on the second day, that
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  Speaker 1: was nice. We were towards the end of the second
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  Speaker 1: But I'm somebody I I call it my dark side
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  Speaker 1: of procrastinating. I can't do anything else if I'm worried
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  Speaker 1: about that thing. That's all I can do focused on.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So until that point, that's all I could think
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  Speaker 1: about was better banter. What are you gonna say? I
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  Speaker 1: was planning my banter too much? She had a whole
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  Speaker 1: section about where we talked about that. But yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: thought it was nice. I felt good after it. I
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  Speaker 1: felt like we did a good job and we did
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  Speaker 1: provide those different experiences. And I guess I hadn't realized
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  Speaker 1: how much I'd kind of been missing that feeling of like, oh, okay.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah I do know some stuff.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: This is I am good at my job.
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, there were There was somebody from Getty
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: who was taking pictures and she we ran into her later.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: She was super cool and so we found some pictures.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Of us and I, you looked amazing, and I was
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: just like, I rolled out of bed.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: I did that per I was trying sweat shirt.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: No, you look great.
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: Our personality yeah yeah, oh I'm not ashamed of it.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: It's just kind of funny because I was like, I'm
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: just gonna wear this old shirt here.
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: You know, you show slow key cosplaying. I was, yeah,
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: it's a spider Man here. That's what helps me. Yeah,
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: you know exactly.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: It gives me some confidence. But yeah, it was a
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: good It was a good experience and we did network some.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: We did We talked to people at the very lead.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: We got a few of free T shirts.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I got my couple of feets. I'm wearing one now.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: We talked to NASA.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: That was Yes, we're hoping to an episode with one
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: of the people from NASA. But yeah, so thank you
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: to anybody who was there. Thank you to the listeners
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: for standing with us during these odd times in our life,
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: during these different stages and giving good advice. Yeah, just listening.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, we really really appreciate it because again, it
• 20:04
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• 20:07
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• 20:10
  Speaker 3: It is so valued.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Thank you.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: We love you.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Oh and speaking of Samantha and I are going to Seattle,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Oh soonish soon, within a month's ish as this comes out.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: So if you have any recommendations food places we should go.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: I know some of you are from Seattle. Let us know.
• 20:35
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